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diff --git a/old/44791-8.txt b/old/44791-8.txt new file mode 100644 index 0000000..8ef337b --- /dev/null +++ b/old/44791-8.txt @@ -0,0 +1,11346 @@ +Project Gutenberg's Lady Byron Vindicated, by Harriet Beecher Stowe + +This eBook is for the use of anyone anywhere at no cost and with +almost no restrictions whatsoever. You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Lady Byron Vindicated + A History of The Byron Controversy + +Author: Harriet Beecher Stowe + +Release Date: January 29, 2014 [EBook #44791] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK LADY BYRON VINDICATED *** + + + + +Produced by David Edwards and the Online Distributed +Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net + + + + + + + + + + THE + + BYRON CONTROVERSY. + + + LONDON: PRINTED BY + SPOTTISWOODE AND CO., NEW-STREET SQUARE + AND PARLIAMENT STREET + + + + + LADY BYRON VINDICATED. + + A History + OF + THE BYRON CONTROVERSY + + FROM ITS BEGINNING IN 1816 TO THE PRESENT TIME. + + BY + HARRIET BEECHER STOWE. + + + LONDON: + SAMPSON LOW, SON, AND MARSTON + CROWN BUILDINGS, 188 FLEET STREET. + 1870. + + (_All rights reserved._) + + + + +NOTE + +BY + +THE PUBLISHERS. + + +The subject of this volume is of such painful notoriety that any +apology from the Publishers may seem unnecessary upon issuing the +Author's reply to the counter statements which her narrative in +_Macmillan's Magazine_ has called forth. Nevertheless they consider it +right to state that their strong regard for the Author, respect for her +motives, and assurance of her truthfulness, would, even in the absence +of all other considerations, be sufficient to induce them to place +their imprint on the title-page. + +The publication has been undertaken by them at the Author's request, +'as her friends,' and as the publishers of her former works, and from +a feeling that whatever difference of opinion may be entertained +respecting the Author's judiciousness in publishing 'The True Story,' +she is entitled to defend it, having been treated with grave injustice, +and often with much maliciousness, by her critics and opponents, and +been charged with motives from which no person living is more free. +An intense love of justice and hatred of oppression, with an utter +disregard of her own interests, characterise Mrs. STOWE'S +conduct and writings, as all who know her well will testify; and the +Publishers can unhesitatingly affirm their belief that neither fear +for loss of her literary fame, nor hope of gain, has for one moment +influenced her in the course she has taken. + + LONDON: _January 1870_. + + + + +CONTENTS. + + + PART I. + + + CHAPTER I. PAGE + + INTRODUCTION 1 + + + CHAPTER II. + + THE ATTACK ON LADY BYRON 6 + + + CHAPTER III. + + RÉSUMÉ OF THE CONSPIRACY 50 + + + CHAPTER IV. + + RESULTS AFTER LORD BYRON'S DEATH 57 + + + CHAPTER V. + + THE ATTACK ON LADY BYRON'S GRAVE 102 + + + PART II. + + + CHAPTER I. + + LADY BYRON AS I KNEW HER 132 + + + CHAPTER II. + + LADY BYRON'S STORY AS TOLD ME 153 + + + CHAPTER III. + + CHRONOLOGICAL SUMMARY OF EVENTS 171 + + CHAPTER IV. + + THE CHARACTER OF THE TWO WITNESSES COMPARED 199 + + CHAPTER V. + + THE DIRECT ARGUMENT TO PROVE THE CRIME 217 + + CHAPTER VI. + + PHYSIOLOGICAL ARGUMENT 247 + + CHAPTER VII. + + HOW COULD SHE LOVE HIM? 262 + + CHAPTER VIII. + + CONCLUSION 269 + + + PART III. + + MISCELLANEOUS DOCUMENTS. + + THE TRUE STORY OF LADY BYRON'S LIFE (AS ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED + IN 'THE ATLANTIC MONTHLY') 274 + + LORD LINDSAY'S LETTER TO 'THE LONDON TIMES' 304 + + DR. FORBES WINSLOW'S LETTER TO 'THE LONDON TIMES' 310 + + EXTRACT FROM LORD BYRON'S EXPUNGED LETTER TO MURRAY 312 + + EXTRACTS FROM 'BLACKWOOD'S MAGAZINE' 315 + + LETTERS OF LADY BYRON TO H. C. ROBINSON 318 + + DOMESTIC POEMS BY LORD BYRON 323 + + + + +PART I. + + + + +CHAPTER I. + +INTRODUCTION. + + +The interval since my publication of 'The True Story of Lady Byron's +Life' has been one of stormy discussion and of much invective. + +I have not thought it necessary to disturb my spirit and confuse my +sense of right by even an attempt at reading the many abusive articles +that both here and in England have followed that disclosure. Friends +have undertaken the task for me, giving me from time to time the +substance of anything really worthy of attention which came to view in +the tumult. + +It appeared to me essential that this first excitement should in a +measure spend itself before there would be a possibility of speaking +to any purpose. Now, when all would seem to have spoken who can speak, +and, it is to be hoped, have said the utmost they can say, there seems +a propriety in listening calmly, if that be possible, to what I have to +say in reply. + +And, first, why have I made this disclosure at all? + +_To this I answer briefly, Because I considered it my duty to make it._ + +I made it in defence of a beloved, revered friend, whose memory stood +forth in the eyes of the civilised world charged with most repulsive +crimes, of which I _certainly_ knew her innocent. + +I claim, and shall prove, that Lady Byron's reputation has been the +victim of a concerted attack, begun by her husband during her lifetime, +and coming to its climax over her grave. I claim, and shall prove, that +it was not I who stirred up this controversy in this year 1869. I shall +show _who did do it_, and who is responsible for bringing on me that +hard duty of making these disclosures, which it appears to me ought to +have been made by others. + +I claim that these facts were given to me unguarded by any promise or +seal of secrecy, expressed or implied; that they were lodged with me +as one sister rests her story with another for sympathy, for counsel, +for defence. _Never_ did I suppose the day would come that I should +be subjected to so cruel an anguish as this use of them has been to +me. Never did I suppose that,--when those kind hands, that had shed +nothing but blessings, were lying in the helplessness of death,--when +that gentle heart, so sorely tried and to the last so full of love, was +lying cold in the tomb,--a countryman in England could be found to cast +the foulest slanders on her grave, and not one in all England to raise +an effective voice in her defence. + +I admit the feebleness of my plea, in point of execution. It was +written in a state of exhausted health, when no labour of the kind was +safe for me,--when my hand had not strength to hold the pen, and I was +forced to dictate to another. + +I have been told that I have no reason to congratulate myself on it as +a literary effort. O my brothers and sisters! is there then nothing in +the world to think of but literary efforts? I ask any man with a heart +in his bosom, if he had been obliged to tell a story so cruel, because +his mother's grave gave no rest from slander,--I ask any woman who had +been forced to such a disclosure to free a dead sister's name from +grossest insults, whether she would have thought of making this work of +bitterness a literary success? + +Are the cries of the oppressed, the gasps of the dying, the last +prayers of mothers,--are _any_ words wrung like drops of blood from the +human heart to be judged as literary efforts? + +My fellow-countrymen of America, men of the press, I have done you one +act of justice,--of all your bitter articles, I have read not one. +I shall never be troubled in the future time by the remembrance of +any unkind word you have said of me, for at this moment I recollect +not one. I had such faith in you, such pride in my countrymen, as +men with whom, above all others, the cause of woman was safe and +sacred, that I was at first astonished and incredulous at what I +heard of the course of the American press, and was silent, not merely +from the impossibility of being heard, but from grief and shame. But +reflection convinces me that you were, in many cases, acting from a +misunderstanding of facts and through misguided honourable feeling; +and I still feel courage, therefore, to ask from you a fair hearing. +Now, as I have done you this justice, will you also do me the justice +to hear me seriously and candidly? + +What interest have you or I, my brother and my sister, in this short +life of ours, to utter anything but the truth? Is not truth between man +and man and between man and woman the foundation on which all things +rest? Have you not, every individual of you, who must hereafter give +an account yourself alone to God, an interest to know the exact truth +in this matter, and a duty to perform as respects that truth? Hear me, +then, while I tell you the position in which I stood, and what was my +course in relation to it. + +A shameless attack on my friend's memory had appeared in the +'Blackwood' of July 1869, branding Lady Byron as the vilest of +criminals, and recommending the Guiccioli book to a Christian public +as interesting from the very fact that it was the avowed production +of Lord Byron's mistress. No efficient protest was made against +this outrage in England, and Littell's 'Living Age' reprinted the +'Blackwood' article, and the Harpers, the largest publishing house in +America, perhaps in the world, re-published the book. + +Its statements--with those of the 'Blackwood,' 'Pall Mall Gazette,' and +other English periodicals--were being propagated through all the young +reading and writing world of America. I was meeting them advertised +in dailies, and made up into articles in magazines, and thus the +generation of to-day, who had no means of judging Lady Byron but by +these fables of her slanderers, were being foully deceived. The friends +who knew her personally were a small select circle in England, whom +death is every day reducing. They were few in number compared with the +great world, and were _silent_. I saw these foul slanders crystallising +into history uncontradicted by friends who knew her personally, who, +firm in their own knowledge of her virtues and limited in view as +aristocratic circles generally are, had no idea of the width of the +world they were living in, and the exigency of the crisis. When time +passed on and no voice was raised, I spoke. I gave at first a simple +story, for I knew instinctively that whoever put the first steel point +of truth into this dark cloud of slander must wait for the storm to +spend itself. I must say the storm exceeded my expectations, and has +raged loud and long. But now that there is a comparative stillness I +shall proceed, first, to prove what I have just been asserting, and, +second, to add to my true story such facts and incidents as I did not +think proper at first to state. + + + + +CHAPTER II. + +THE ATTACK ON LADY BYRON. + + +In proving what I asserted in the first chapter, I make four points: +1st. A concerted attack upon Lady Byron's reputation, begun by Lord +Byron in self-defence. 2nd. That he transmitted his story to friends to +be continued after his death. 3rd. That they did so continue it. 4th. +That the accusations reached their climax over Lady Byron's grave in +'Blackwood' of 1869, and the Guiccioli book, and that this re-opening +of the controversy was my reason for speaking. + +And first I shall adduce my proofs that Lady Byron's reputation +was, during the whole course of her husband's life, the subject of +a concentrated, artfully planned attack, commencing at the time of +the separation and continuing during his life. By various documents +carefully prepared, and used publicly or secretly as suited the case, +he made converts of many honest men, some of whom were writers and men +of letters, who put their talents at his service during his lifetime in +exciting sympathy for him, and who, by his own request, felt bound to +continue their defence of him after he was dead. + +In order to consider the force and significance of the documents I +shall cite, we are to bring to our view just the issues Lord Byron had +to meet, both at the time of the separation and for a long time after. + +In Byron's 'Memoirs,' Vol. IV. Letter 350, under date December 10, +1819, nearly four years after the separation, he writes to Murray in +a state of great excitement on account of an article in 'Blackwood,' +in which his conduct towards his wife had been sternly and justly +commented on, and which he supposed to have been written by Wilson, of +the 'Noctes Ambrosianæ.' He says in this letter: 'I like and admire +W----n, and he should not have indulged himself in such outrageous +license.... When he talks of Lady Byron's business he talks of what he +knows nothing about; and you may tell him _no man can desire a public +investigation of that affair more than I do_.'[1] + +[Footnote 1: The italics are mine.] + +He shortly after wrote and sent to Murray a pamphlet for publication, +which was printed, but not generally circulated till some time +afterwards. Though more than three years had elapsed since the +separation, the current against him at this time was so strong in +England that his friends thought it best, at first, to use this article +of Lord Byron's discreetly with influential persons rather than to give +it to the public. + +The writer in 'Blackwood' and the indignation of the English public, +of which that writer was the voice, were now particularly stirred up +by the appearance of the first two cantos of 'Don Juan,' in which the +indecent caricature of Lady Byron was placed in vicinity with other +indecencies, the publication of which was justly considered an insult +to a Christian community. + +It must here be mentioned, for the honour of Old England, that at +first she did her duty quite respectably in regard to 'Don Juan.' One +can still read, in Murray's standard edition of the poems, how every +respectable press thundered reprobations, which it would be well enough +to print and circulate as tracts for our days. + +Byron, it seems, had thought of returning to England, but he says, in +the letter we have quoted, that he has changed his mind, and shall not +go back, adding: 'I have finished the Third Canto of "Don Juan," but +the things I have heard and read discourage all future publication. +You may try the copy question, but you'll lose it; the cry is up, and +the cant is up. I should have no objection to return the price of the +copyright, and have written to Mr. Kinnaird on this subject.' + +One sentence quoted by Lord Byron from the 'Blackwood' article will +show the modern readers what the respectable world of that day were +thinking and saying of him:-- + + 'It appears, in short, as if this miserable man, having exhausted + _every species_ of sensual gratification--having drained the cup of + sin even to its bitterest dregs--were resolved to show us that he is + no longer a human being even in his frailties, but a cool, unconcerned + fiend, laughing with detestable glee over the whole of the better and + worse elements of which human life is composed.' + +The defence which Lord Byron makes, in his reply to that paper, is of a +man cornered and fighting for his life. He speaks thus of the state of +feeling at the time of his separation from his wife:-- + + 'I was accused of every monstrous vice by public rumour and private + rancour; my name, which had been a knightly or a noble one since my + fathers helped to conquer the kingdom for William the Norman, was + tainted. I felt that, if what was whispered and muttered and murmured + was true, I was unfit for England; if false, England was unfit for + me. I withdrew; but this was not enough. In other countries--in + Switzerland, in the shadow of the Alps, and by the blue depth of the + lakes--I was pursued and breathed upon by the same blight. I crossed + the mountains, but it was the same; so I went a little farther, and + settled myself by the waves of the Adriatic, like the stag at bay, who + betakes him to the waters. + + 'If I may judge by the statements of the few friends who gathered + round me, the outcry of the period to which I allude was beyond all + precedent, all parallel, even in those cases where political motives + have sharpened slander and doubled enmity. I was advised not to go to + the theatres lest I should be hissed, nor to my duty in parliament + lest I should be insulted by the way; even on the day of my departure + my most intimate friend told me afterwards that he was under the + apprehension of violence from the people who might be assembled at the + door of the carriage.' + +Now Lord Byron's charge against his wife was that SHE was +directly responsible for getting up and keeping up this persecution, +which drove him from England,--that she did it in a deceitful, +treacherous manner, which left him no chance of defending himself. + +He charged against her that, taking advantage of a time when his +affairs were in confusion, and an execution in the house, she left him +suddenly, with treacherous professions of kindness, which were repeated +by letters on the road, and that soon after her arrival at her home +her parents sent him word that she would never return to him, and she +confirmed the message; that when he asked the reason why, she refused +to state any; and that when this step gave rise to a host of slanders +against him she silently encouraged and confirmed the slanders. His +claim was that he was denied from that time forth even the justice of +any tangible accusation against himself which he might meet and refute. + +He observes, in the same article from which we have quoted:-- + + 'When one tells me that I cannot "in any way _justify_ my own + behaviour in that affair," I acquiesce, because no man can "_justify_" + himself until he knows of what he is accused; and I have never + had--and, God knows, my whole desire has ever been to obtain it--any + specific charge, in a tangible shape, submitted to me by the + adversary, nor by others, unless the atrocities of public rumour and + the mysterious silence of the lady's legal advisers may be deemed + such.' + +Lord Byron, his publishers, friends, and biographers, thus agree +in representing his wife as the secret author and abettor of that +persecution, which it is claimed broke up his life, and was the source +of all his subsequent crimes and excesses. + +Lord Byron wrote a poem in September 1816, in Switzerland, just after +the separation, in which he stated, in so many words, these accusations +against his wife. Shortly after the poet's death Murray published +this poem, together with the 'Fare thee well,' and the lines to his +sister, under the title of 'Domestic Pieces,' in his standard edition +of Byron's poetry. It is to be remarked, then, that this was for some +time a private document, shown to confidential friends, and made use of +judiciously, as readers or listeners to his story were able to bear it. +Lady Byron then had a strong party in England. Sir Samuel Romilly and +Dr. Lushington were her counsel. Lady Byron's parents were living, and +the appearance in the public prints of such a piece as this would have +brought down an aggravated storm of public indignation. + +For the general public such documents as the 'Fare thee well' were +circulating in England, and he frankly confessed his wife's virtues and +his own sins to Madame de Staël and others in Switzerland, declaring +himself in the wrong, sensible of his errors, and longing to cast +himself at the feet of that serene perfection, + + 'Which wanted one sweet weakness--to forgive.' + +But a little later he drew for his private partisans this bitter +poetical indictment against her, which, as we have said, was used +discreetly during his life, and published after his death. + +Before we proceed to lay that poem before the reader we will refresh +his memory with some particulars of the tragedy of Æschylus, which +Lord Byron selected as the exact parallel and proper illustration of +his wife's treatment of himself. In his letters and journals he often +alludes to her as Clytemnestra, and the allusion has run the round of +a thousand American papers lately, and been read by a thousand good +honest people, who had no very clear idea who Clytemnestra was, and +what she did which was like the proceedings of Lady Byron. According +to the tragedy, Clytemnestra secretly hates her husband Agamemnon, +whom she professes to love, and wishes to put him out of the way that +she may marry her lover, Ægistheus. When her husband returns from the +Trojan war she receives him with pretended kindness, and officiously +offers to serve him at the bath. Inducing him to put on a garment, of +which she had adroitly sewed up the sleeves and neck so as to hamper +the use of his arms, she gives the signal to a concealed band of +assassins, who rush upon him and stab him. Clytemnestra is represented +by Æschylus as grimly triumphing in her success, which leaves her free +to marry an adulterous paramour. + + 'I did it, too, in such a cunning wise, + That he could neither 'scape nor ward off doom. + I staked around his steps an endless net, + As for the fishes.' + +In the piece entitled 'Lines on hearing Lady Byron is ill,' Lord Byron +charges on his wife a similar treachery and cruelty. The whole poem +is in Murray's English edition, Vol. IV. p. 207. Of it we quote the +following. The reader will bear in mind that it is addressed to Lady +Byron on a sick-bed:-- + + 'I am too well avenged, but 'twas my right; + Whate'er my sins might be, _thou_ wert not sent + To be the Nemesis that should requite, + Nor did Heaven choose so near an instrument. + Mercy is for the merciful! If thou + Hast been of such, 't will be accorded now. + Thy nights are banished from the realms of sleep, + For thou art pillowed on a curse too deep; + Yes! they may flatter thee, but thou shalt feel + A hollow agony that will not heal. + Thou hast sown in my sorrow, and must reap + The bitter harvest in a woe as real. + _I have had many foes, but none like thee_; + For 'gainst the rest myself I could defend, + And be avenged, or turn them into friend; + But thou, in safe implacability, + Hast naught to dread,--in thy own weakness shielded, + And in my love, which hath but too much yielded, + And spared, for thy sake, some I should not spare. + And thus upon the world, trust in thy truth, + And the wild fame of my ungoverned youth,-- + On things that were not and on things that are,-- + Even upon such a basis thou hast built + A monument whose cement hath been guilt! + The moral Clytemnestra of thy lord, + And hewed down with an unsuspected sword + Fame, peace, and hope, and all that better life + Which, but for this cold treason of thy heart, + Might yet have risen from the grave of strife + And found a nobler duty than to part. + But of thy virtues thou didst make a vice, + Trafficking in them with a purpose cold, + And buying others' woes at any price, + For present anger and for future gold; + And thus, once entered into crooked ways, + The early truth, that was thy proper praise, + Did not still walk beside thee, but at times, + And with a breast unknowing its own crimes, + Deceits, averments incompatible, + Equivocations, and the thoughts that dwell + _In Janus spirits, the significant eye + That learns to lie with silence_,[2] the pretext + Of prudence with advantages annexed, + The acquiescence in all things that tend, + No matter how, to the desired end,-- + All found a place in thy philosophy. + The means were worthy and the end is won. + I would not do to thee as thou hast done.' + +[Footnote 2: The italics are mine.] + +Now, if this language means anything, it means, in plain terms, that, +whereas, in her early days, Lady Byron was peculiarly characterised by +truthfulness, she has in her recent dealings with him acted the part +of a liar,--that she is not only a liar, but that she lies for cruel +means and malignant purposes,--that she is a moral assassin, and her +treatment of her husband has been like that of the most detestable +murderess and adulteress of ancient history,--that she has learned to +lie skilfully and artfully, that she equivocates, says incompatible +things, and crosses her own tracks,--that she is double-faced, and +has the art to lie even by silence, and that she has become wholly +unscrupulous, and acquiesces in _any_thing, no matter what, that tends +to the desired end, and that end the destruction of her husband. This +is a brief summary of the story that Byron made it his life's business +to spread through society, to propagate and make converts to during +his life, and which has been in substance reasserted by 'Blackwood' in +a recent article this year. + +Now, the reader will please to notice that this poem is dated in +September 1816, and that on the 29th of March of that same year, he +had thought proper to tell quite another story. At that time the deed +of separation was not signed, and negotiations between Lady Byron, +acting by legal counsel, and himself were still pending. At that time, +therefore, he was standing in a community who knew all he had said +in former days of his wife's character, who were in an aroused and +excited state by the fact that so lovely and good and patient a woman +had actually been forced for some unexplained cause to leave him. His +policy at that time was to make large general confessions of sin, +and to praise and compliment her, with a view of enlisting sympathy. +Everybody feels for a handsome sinner, weeping on his knees, asking +pardon for his offences against his wife in the public newspapers. + +The celebrated 'Fare thee well', as we are told, was written on the +17th of March, and accidentally found its way into the newspapers at +this time 'through the imprudence of a friend whom he allowed to take a +copy.' These 'imprudent friends' have all along been such a marvellous +convenience to Lord Byron. + +But the question met him on all sides, What is the matter? This wife +you have declared the brightest, sweetest, most amiable of beings, and +against whose behaviour as a wife you actually never had nor can have +a complaint to make,--why is she _now_ all of a sudden so inflexibly +set against you? + +This question required an answer, and he answered by writing another +poem, which also _accidentally_ found its way into the public prints. +It is in his 'Domestic Pieces,' which the reader may refer to at the +end of this volume, and is called 'A Sketch.' + +There was a most excellent, respectable, well-behaved Englishwoman, a +Mrs. Clermont,[3] who had been Lady Byron's governess in her youth, +and was still, in mature life, revered as her confidential friend. It +appears that this person had been with Lady Byron during a part of her +married life, especially the bitter hours of her lonely child-bed, when +a young wife so much needs a sympathetic friend. This Mrs. Clermont was +the person selected by Lord Byron at this time to be the scapegoat to +bear away the difficulties of the case into the wilderness. + +[Footnote 3: In Lady Blessington's 'Memoirs' this name is given +Charlemont; in the late 'Temple Bar' article on the character of Lady +Byron it is given Clermont. I have followed the latter.] + +We are informed in Moore's Life what a noble pride of rank Lord Byron +possessed, and how when the headmaster of a school, against whom he had +a pique, invited him to dinner, he declined, saying, 'To tell you the +truth, Doctor, if you should come to Newstead, I shouldn't think of +inviting _you_ to dine with _me_, and so I don't care to dine with you +here.' Different countries, it appears, have different standards as to +good taste; Moore gives this as an amusing instance of a young lord's +spirit. + +Accordingly, his first attack against this 'lady,' as we Americans +should call her, consists in gross statements concerning her having +been born poor and in an inferior rank. He begins by stating that she +was + + 'Born in the garret, in the kitchen bred, + Promoted thence to deck her mistress' head; + Next--for some gracious service unexpressed + And from its wages only to be guessed-- + Raised from the toilet to the table, where + Her wondering betters wait behind her chair. + With eye unmoved and forehead unabashed. + She dines from off the plate she lately washed; + Quick with the tale, and ready with the lie, + The genial confidante and general spy,-- + Who could, ye gods! her next employment guess,-- + An _only infant's earliest governess_! + What had she made the pupil of her art + None knows; _but that high soul secured the heart, + And panted for the truth it could not hear + With longing soul and undeluded ear_!'[4] + +[Footnote 4: The italics are mine.] + +The poet here recognises as a singular trait in Lady Byron her peculiar +love of truth,--a trait which must have struck everyone that had any +knowledge of her through life. He goes on now to give what he certainly +knew to be the real character of Lady Byron:-- + + 'Foiled was perversion by that youthful mind, + Which flattery fooled not, baseness could not blind, + _Deceit infect_ not, nor contagion soil, + Indulgence weaken, or example spoil, + Nor mastered science tempt her to look down + On humbler talent with a pitying frown, + Nor genius swell, nor beauty render vain, + Nor envy ruffle to retaliate pain. + +We are now informed that Mrs. Clermont, whom he afterwards says in his +letters was a spy of Lady Byron's mother, set herself to make mischief +between them. He says:-- + + 'If early habits,--those strong links that bind + At times the loftiest to the meanest mind, + Have given her power too deeply to instil + The angry essence of her deadly will; + If like a snake she steal within your walls, + Till the black slime betray her as she crawls; + If like a viper to the heart she wind, + And leaves the venom there she did not find,-- + What marvel that this hag of hatred works + Eternal evil latent as she lurks.' + +The noble lord then proceeds to abuse this woman of inferior rank in +the language of the upper circles. He thus describes her person and +manner:-- + + 'Skilled by a touch to deepen scandal's tints + With all the kind mendacity of hints, + While mingling truth with falsehood, sneers with smiles, + A thread of candour with a web of wiles; + A plain blunt show of briefly-spoken seeming, + To hide her bloodless heart's soul-harden'd scheming; + A lip of lies; a face formed to conceal, + And without feeling mock at all who feel; + With a vile mask the Gorgon would disown,-- + A cheek of parchment and an eye of stone. + Mark how the channels of her yellow blood + Ooze to her skin and stagnate there to mud, + Cased like the centipede in saffron mail, + Or darker greenness of the scorpion's scale,-- + (For drawn from reptiles only may we trace + Congenial colours in that soul or face,) + Look on her features! and behold her mind + As in a mirror of itself defined: + Look on the picture! deem it not o'ercharged + There is no trait which might not be enlarged.' + +The poem thus ends:-- + + 'May the strong curse of crushed affections light + Back on thy bosom with reflected blight, + And make thee in thy leprosy of mind + As loathsome to thyself as to mankind! + Till all thy self-thoughts curdle into hate, + Black--as thy will for others would create; + Till thy hard heart be calcined into dust, + And thy soul welter in its hideous crust. + O, may thy grave be sleepless as the bed, + The widowed couch of fire, that thou hast spread + Then when thou fain wouldst weary Heaven with prayer, + Look on thy earthly victims--and despair! + Down to the dust! and as thou rott'st away, + Even worms shall perish on thy poisonous clay. + _But for the love I bore and still must bear_ + To her thy malice from all ties would tear, + Thy name,--thy human name,--to every eye + The climax of all scorn, should hang on high, + Exalted o'er thy less abhorred compeers, + And festering in the infamy of years.' + + March 16, 1816. + +Now, on the 29th of March 1816, this was Lord Byron's story. He states +that his wife had a truthfulness even from early girlhood that the most +artful and unscrupulous governess could not pollute,--that she always +_panted_ for truth,--that flattery could not fool nor baseness blind +her,--that though she was a genius and master of science, she was yet +gentle and tolerant, and one whom no envy could ruffle to retaliate +pain. + +In September of the same year she is a monster of unscrupulous deceit +and vindictive cruelty. Now, what had happened in the five months +between the dates of these poems to produce such a change of opinion? +Simply this:-- + +1st. The negotiation between him and his wife's lawyers had ended in +his signing a deed of separation in preference to standing a suit for +divorce. + +2nd. Madame de Staël, moved by his tears of anguish and professions of +repentance, had offered to negotiate with Lady Byron on his behalf, and +had failed. + +The failure of this application is the only apology given by Moore and +Murray for this poem, which gentle Thomas Moore admits was not in quite +as generous a strain as the 'Fare thee well'. + +But Lord Byron knew perfectly well, when he suffered that application +to be made, that Lady Byron had been entirely convinced that her +marriage relations with him could never be renewed, and that duty both +to man and God required her to separate from him. The allowing the +negotiation was, therefore, an artifice to place his wife before the +public in the attitude of a hard-hearted, inflexible woman; her refusal +was what he knew beforehand must inevitably be the result, and merely +gave him capital in the sympathy of his friends, by which they should +be brought to tolerate and accept the bitter accusations of this poem. + +We have recently heard it asserted that this last-named piece of poetry +was the sudden offspring of a fit of ill-temper, and was never intended +to be published at all. There were certainly excellent reasons why +his friends should have advised him not to publish it _at that time_. +But that it was read with sympathy by the circle of his intimate +friends, and believed by them, is evident from the frequency with which +allusions to it occur in his confidential letters to them.[5] + +[Footnote 5: In Lady Blessington's conversations with Lord Byron, just +before he went to Greece, she records that he gave her this poem in +manuscript. It was published in her 'Journal.'] + +About three months after, under date March 10, 1817, he writes to +Moore: 'I suppose now I shall never be able to shake off my sables in +public imagination, more particularly since my moral ---- clove down my +fame.' Again to Murray in 1819, three years after, he says: 'I never +hear anything of Ada, the little Electra of Mycenæ.' + +Electra was the daughter of Clytemnestra, in the Greek poem, who lived +to condemn her wicked mother, and to call on her brother to avenge the +father. There was in this mention of Electra more than meets the ear. +Many passages in Lord Byron's poetry show that he intended to make this +daughter a future partisan against her mother, and explain the awful +words he is stated in Lady Anne Barnard's diary to have used when +first he looked on his little girl,--'What an instrument of torture I +have gained in you!' + +In a letter to Lord Blessington, April 6, 1823, he says, speaking of +Dr. Parr:[6]-- + + 'He did me the honour once to be a patron of mine, though a great + friend of the _other branch of the house of Atreus_, and the Greek + teacher, I believe, of my _moral_ Clytemnestra. I say _moral_ because + it is true, and is so useful to the virtuous, that it enables them to + do anything without the aid of an Ægistheus.' + +[Footnote 6: Vol. vi. p. 22.] + +If Lord Byron wrote this poem merely in a momentary fit of spleen, why +were there so many persons evidently quite familiar with his allusions +to it? and why was it preserved in Murray's hands? and why published +after his death? That Byron was in the habit of reposing documents in +the hands of Murray, to be used as occasion offered, is evident from +a part of a note written by him to Murray respecting some verses so +intrusted: 'Pray let not these _versiculi_ go forth with my name except +_to the initiated_.'[7] + +[Footnote 7: 'Byron's Miscellany', vol. ii. p. 358. London, 1853.] + +Murray, in publishing this attack on his wife after Lord Byron's death, +showed that he believed in it, and, so believing, deemed Lady Byron a +woman whose widowed state deserved neither sympathy nor delicacy of +treatment. At a time when every sentiment in the heart of the most +deeply wronged woman would forbid her appearing to justify herself from +such cruel slander of a dead husband, an honest, kind-hearted, worthy +Englishman actually thought it right and proper to give these lines +to her eyes and the eyes of all the reading world. Nothing can show +more plainly what this poem was written for, and how thoroughly it did +its work! Considering Byron as a wronged man, Murray thought he was +contributing his mite towards doing him justice. His editor prefaced +the whole set of 'Domestic Pieces' with the following statements:-- + + 'They all refer to the unhappy separation, of which the precise causes + are still a mystery, and which he declared to the last were never + disclosed to himself. He admitted that pecuniary embarrassments, + disordered health, and dislike to family restraints had aggravated his + naturally violent temper, and driven him to excesses. He suspected + that his mother-in-law had fomented the discord,--which Lady Byron + denies,--and that more was due to the malignant offices of a female + dependant, who is the subject of the bitterly satirical sketch. + + * * * * * + + 'To these general statements can only be added the still vaguer + allegations of Lady Byron, that she conceived his conduct to be the + result of insanity,--that, the physician pronouncing him responsible + for his actions, she could submit to them no longer, and that + Dr. Lushington, her legal adviser, agreed that a reconciliation + was neither proper nor possible. _No weight can be attached to + the opinions of an opposing counsel upon accusations made by one + party behind the back of the other, who urgently demanded and was + pertinaciously refused the least opportunity of denial or defence._ He + rejected the proposal for an amicable separation, but _consented when + threatened with a suit in Doctors' Commons_.'[8] + +[Footnote 8: The italics are mine.] + +Neither John Murray nor any of Byron's partisans seem to have pondered +the admission in these last words. + +Here, as appears, was a woman, driven to the last despair, standing +with her child in her arms, asking from English laws protection for +herself and child against her husband. + +She had appealed to the first counsel in England, and was acting under +their direction. + +Two of the greatest lawyers in England have pronounced that there +has been such a cause of offence on his part that a return to him is +neither proper nor possible, and that no alternative remains to her but +separation or divorce. + +He asks her to state her charges against him. She, making answer +under advice of her counsel, says, 'That if he _insists_ on the +specifications, he must receive them in open court in a suit for +divorce.' + +What, now, ought to have been the conduct of any brave, honest man, +who believed that his wife was taking advantage of her reputation for +virtue to turn every one against him, who saw that she had turned on +her side even the lawyer he sought to retain on his;[9] that she was +an unscrupulous woman, who acquiesced in every and any thing to gain +her ends, while he stood before the public, as he says, 'accused of +every monstrous vice, by public rumour or private rancour'? When she, +under advice of her lawyers, made the alternative legal _separation_ or +open investigation in court for divorce, what did he do? + +[Footnote 9: Lord Byron says, in his observations on an article in +'Blackwood': 'I recollect being much hurt by Romilly's conduct: +he (having a general retainer for me) went over to the adversary, +alleging, on being reminded of his retainer, that he had forgotten it, +as his clerk had so many. I observed that some of those who were now so +eagerly laying the axe to my roof-tree might see their own shaken. His +fell and crushed him.' + +In the first edition of Moore's Life of Lord Byron there was printed a +letter on Sir Samuel Romilly, so brutal that it was suppressed in the +subsequent editions. (See Part III.)] + +HE SIGNED THE ACT OF SEPARATION AND LEFT ENGLAND. + +Now, let any man who knows the legal mind of England,--let any lawyer +who knows the character of Sir Samuel Romilly and Dr. Lushington, ask +whether _they_ were the men to take a case into court for a woman that +had no _evidence_ but her own statements and impressions? Were _they_ +men to go to trial without proofs? Did they not know that there were +artful, hysterical women in the world, and would _they_, of all people, +be the men to take a woman's story on her own side, and advise her in +the last issue to bring it into open court, without legal proof of +the strongest kind? Now, as long as Sir Samuel Romilly lived, this +statement of Byron's--that he was condemned unheard, and had no chance +of knowing whereof he _was accused--never appeared in public_. + +It, however, was most actively circulated _in private_. That Byron was +in the habit of intrusting to different confidants articles of various +kinds to be shown to different circles as they could bear them, we have +already shown. We have recently come upon another instance of this +kind. In the late eagerness to exculpate Byron, a new document has +turned up, of which Mr. Murray, it appears, had never heard when, after +Byron's death, he published in the preface to his 'Domestic Pieces' +the sentence: '_He rejected the proposal for an amicable separation, +but consented when threatened with a suit in Doctors' Commons_.' It +appears that, up to 1853, neither John Murray senior, nor the son who +now fills his place, had taken any notice of this newly found document, +which we are now informed 'was drawn up by Lord Byron in August 1817, +while Mr. Hobhouse was staying with him at La Mira, near Venice, +given to Mr. Matthew Gregory Lewis, _for circulation among friends in +England_, found in Mr. Lewis's papers after his death, and _now_ in the +possession of Mr. Murray.' Here it is:-- + + 'It has been intimated to me that the persons understood to be the + legal advisers of Lady Byron have declared "their lips to be sealed + up" on the cause of the separation between her and myself. If their + lips are sealed up, they are not sealed up by me, and the greatest + favour _they_ can confer upon me will be to open them. From the first + hour in which I was apprised of the intentions of the Noel family to + the last communication between Lady Byron and myself in the character + of wife and husband (a period of some months), I called repeatedly and + in vain for a statement of their or her charges, and it was chiefly + in consequence of Lady Byron's claiming (in a letter still existing) + a promise on my part to consent to a separation, if such was _really_ + her wish, that I consented at all; this claim, and the exasperating + and inexpiable manner in which their object was pursued, which + rendered it next to an impossibility that two persons so divided could + ever be reunited, induced me reluctantly then, and repentantly still, + to sign the deed, which I shall be happy--most happy--to cancel, and + go before any tribunal which may discuss the business in the most + public manner. + + 'Mr. Hobhouse made this proposition on my part, viz. to abrogate + all prior intentions--and go into court--the very day before the + separation was signed, and it was declined by the other party, as + also the publication of the correspondence during the previous + discussion. Those propositions I beg here to repeat, and to call + upon her and hers to say their worst, pledging myself to meet their + allegations,--whatever they may be,--and only too happy to be informed + at last of their real nature. + + 'BYRON.' + + 'August 9, 1817. + + 'P.S.--I have been, and am now, utterly ignorant of what description + her allegations, charges, or whatever name they may have assumed, + are; and am as little aware for what purpose they have been kept + back,--unless it was to sanction the most infamous calumnies by + silence. + + 'BYRON.' + + 'LA MIRA, near VENICE.' + +It appears the circulation of this document must have been _very +private_, since Moore, not _over_-delicate towards Lady Byron, did not +think fit to print it; since John Murray neglected it, and since it has +come out at this late hour for the first time. + +If Lord Byron really desired Lady Byron and her legal counsel to +understand the facts herein stated, and was willing at all hazards to +bring on an open examination, why was this _privately_ circulated? +Why not issued as a card in the London papers? Is it likely that +Mr. Matthew Gregory Lewis, and a chosen band of friends acting as a +committee, requested an audience with Lady Byron, Sir Samuel Romilly, +and Dr. Lushington, and formally presented this cartel of defiance? + +We incline to think not. We incline to think that this small serpent, +in company with many others of like kind, crawled secretly and +privately around, and when it found a good chance, bit an honest +Briton, whose blood was thenceforth poisoned by an undetected falsehood. + +The reader now may turn to the letters that Mr. Moore has thought fit +to give us of this stay at La Mira, beginning with Letter 286, dated +July 1, 1817,[10] where he says: 'I have been working up my impressions +into a _Fourth_ Canto of Childe Harold,' and also 'Mr. Lewis is in +Venice. I am going up to stay a week with him there.' + +[Footnote 10: Vol. iv. p. 40.] + +Next, under date La Mira, Venice, July 10,[11] he says, 'Monk Lewis is +here; how pleasant!' + +[Footnote 11: Ibid. p. 46.] + +Next, under date July 20, 1817, to Mr. Murray: 'I write to give you +notice that I have _completed the fourth and ultimate canto of Childe +Harold_.... It is yet to be copied and polished, and the notes are to +come.' + +Under date of La Mira, August 7, 1817, he records that the new canto is +one hundred and thirty stanzas in length, and talks about the price for +it. He is now ready to launch it on the world; and, as now appears, on +August 9, 1817, _two days after_, he wrote the document above cited, +and put it into the hands of Mr. Lewis, as we are informed, 'for +circulation among friends in England.' + +The reason of this may now be evident. Having prepared a suitable +number of those whom he calls in his notes to Murray 'the initiated,' +by private documents and statements, he is now prepared to publish his +accusations against his wife, and the story of his wrongs, in a great +immortal poem, which shall have a band of initiated interpreters, shall +be read through the civilised world, and stand to accuse her after his +death. + +In the Fourth Canto of 'Childe Harold,' with all his own overwhelming +power of language, he sets forth his cause as against the silent woman +who all this time had been making no party, and telling no story, +and whom the world would therefore conclude to be silent because she +had no answer to make. I remember well the time when this poetry, so +resounding in its music, so mournful, so apparently generous, filled +my heart with a vague anguish of sorrow for the sufferer, and of +indignation at the cold insensibility that had maddened him. Thousands +have felt the power of this great poem, which stands, and must stand to +all time, a monument of what sacred and solemn powers God gave to this +wicked man, and how vilely he abused this power as a weapon to slay the +innocent. + +It is among the ruins of ancient Rome that his voice breaks forth in +solemn imprecation:-- + + 'O Time, thou beautifier of the dead, + Adorner of the ruin, comforter, + And only healer when the heart hath bled!-- + Time, the corrector when our judgments err, + The test of truth, love,--sole philosopher, + For all besides are sophists,--from thy shrift + That never loses, though it doth defer!-- + Time, the avenger! unto thee I lift + My hands and heart and eyes, and claim of thee a gift. + + * * * * * + + 'If thou hast ever seen me too elate, + Hear me not; but if calmly I have borne + Good, and reserved my pride against the hate + Which shall not whelm me, _let me not have worn + This iron in my soul in vain,--shall THEY not mourn?_ + And thou who never yet of human wrong + Left the unbalanced scale, great Nemesis, + Here where the ancients paid their worship long, + Thou who didst call the Furies from the abyss, + And round Orestes bid them howl and hiss + _For that unnatural retribution,--just + Had it but come from hands less near_,--in this + Thy former realm I call thee from the dust. + Dost thou not hear, my heart? awake thou shalt and must! + It is not that I may not have incurred + For my ancestral faults and mine, the wound + Wherewith I bleed withal, and had it been conferred + With a just weapon it had flowed unbound, + But now my blood shall not sink in the ground. + + * * * * * + + 'But in this page a record will I seek; + Not in the air shall these my words disperse, + Though I be ashes,--a far hour shall wreak + The deep prophetic fulness of this verse, + And pile on human heads the mountain of my curse. + That curse shall be forgiveness. Have I not,-- + Hear me, my Mother Earth! behold it, Heaven,-- + Have I not had to wrestle with my lot? + Have I not suffered things to be forgiven? + Have I not had my brain seared, my heart riven, + Hopes sapped, name blighted, life's life lied away, + And only not to desperation driven, + Because not altogether of such clay + As rots into the soul of those whom I survey? + + * * * * * + + 'From mighty wrongs to petty perfidy, + Have I not seen what human things could do,-- + From the loud roar of foaming calumny, + To the small whispers of the paltry few, + And subtler venom of the reptile crew, + _The Janus glance of whose significant eye, + Learning to lie with silence, would seem true, + And without utterance, save the shrug or sigh, + Deal round to happy fools its speechless obloquy_?'[12] + +[Footnote 12: The italics are mine.] + +The reader will please notice that the lines in italics are almost, +word for word, a repetition of the lines in italics in the former poem +on his wife, where he speaks of a _significant eye_ that has _learned +to lie in silence_, and were evidently meant to apply to Lady Byron and +her small circle of confidential friends. + +Before this, in the Third Canto of 'Childe Harold,' he had claimed the +sympathy of the world, as a loving father, deprived by a severe fate of +the solace and society of his only child:-- + + 'My daughter,--with this name my song began,-- + My daughter,--with this name my song shall end,-- + I see thee not and hear thee not, but none + Can be so wrapped in thee; thou art the friend + To whom the shadows of far years extend. + + * * * * * + + 'To aid thy mind's developments, to watch + The dawn of little joys, to sit and see + Almost thy very growth, to view thee catch + Knowledge of objects,--wonders yet to thee,-- + And print on thy soft cheek a parent's kiss,-- + This it should seem was not reserved for me. + Yet this was in my nature,--as it is, + I know not what there is, yet something like to this. + + * * * * * + + '_Yet though dull hate as duty should be taught_, + I know that thou wilt love me; though my name + Should be shut out from thee as spell still fraught + With desolation and a broken claim, + Though the grave close between us,--'t were the same, + I know that thou wilt love me, though to drain + My blood from out thy being were an aim + And an attainment,--all will be in vain.' + +To all these charges against her, sent all over the world in verses +as eloquent as the English language is capable of, the wife replied +nothing. + + 'Assailed by slander and the tongue of strife, + Her only answer was,--a blameless life.' + +She had a few friends, a very few, with whom she sought solace and +sympathy. One letter from her, written at this time, preserved by +accident, is the only authentic record of how the matter stood with her. + +We regret to say that the publication of this document was not brought +forth to clear Lady Byron's name from her husband's slanders, but to +shield him from the worst accusation against him, by showing that this +crime was not included in the few private confidential revelations that +friendship wrung from the young wife at this period. + +Lady Anne Barnard, authoress of 'Auld Robin Grey', a friend whose +age and experience made her a proper confidante, sent for the +broken-hearted, perplexed wife, and offered her a woman's sympathy. + +To her Lady Byron wrote many letters, under seal of confidence, and +Lady Anne says: 'I will give you a few paragraphs transcribed from +one of Lady Byron's own letters to me. It is sorrowful to think that +in a very little time this young and amiable creature, wise, patient, +and feeling, will have her character mistaken by every one who reads +Byron's works. To rescue her from this I preserved her letters, and +when she afterwards expressed a fear that anything of her writing +should ever fall into hands to injure him (I suppose she meant by +publication), I safely assured her that it never should. But here this +letter shall be placed, a sacred record in her favour, unknown to +herself. + + 'I am a very incompetent judge of the impression which the last Canto + of "Childe Harold" may produce on the minds of indifferent readers. + + 'It contains the usual trace of a conscience restlessly awake, though + his object has been too long to aggravate its burden, as if it could + thus be oppressed into eternal stupor. I will hope, as you do, that it + survives for his ultimate good. + + 'It was the acuteness of his remorse, impenitent in its character, + which so long seemed to demand from my compassion to spare every + semblance of reproach, every look of grief, which might have said to + his conscience, "You have made me wretched." + + 'I am decidedly of opinion that he is responsible. He has wished to + be thought partially deranged, or on the brink of it, to perplex + observers and _prevent them from tracing effects to their real causes_ + through all the intricacies of his conduct. I was, as I told you, at + one time the dupe of his acted insanity, and clung to the former + delusions in regard to the motives that concerned me personally, till + the whole system was laid bare. + + 'He is the absolute monarch of words, and uses them, as Bonaparte did + lives, for conquest, without more regard to their intrinsic value, + considering them only as ciphers, which must derive all their import + from the situation in which he places them, and the ends to which he + adapts them, with such consummate skill. + + 'Why, then, you will say, does he not employ them to give a better + colour to his own character? Because he is too good an actor to + over-act, or to assume a moral garb, which it would be easy to strip + off. + + 'In regard to his poetry, egotism is the vital principle of his + imagination, which it is difficult for him to kindle on any subject + with which his own character and interests are not identified; but by + the introduction of fictitious incidents, by change of scene or time, + _he has enveloped his poetical disclosures in a system impenetrable + except to a very few_; and his constant desire of creating a sensation + makes him not averse to be the object of wonder and curiosity, even + though accompanied _by some dark and vague suspicions_. + + 'Nothing has contributed more to the misunderstanding of his real + character than the lonely grandeur in which he shrouds it, and his + affectation of being above mankind, when he exists almost in their + voice. The romance of his sentiments is another feature of this mask + of state. I know no one more habitually destitute of that enthusiasm + he so beautifully expresses, and to which he can work up his fancy + chiefly by contagion. + + '_I had heard he was the best of brothers, the most generous of + friends, and I thought such feelings only required to be warmed and + cherished into more diffusive benevolence. Though these opinions are + eradicated, and could never return but with the decay of my memory_, + you will not wonder if there are still moments when the association of + feelings which arose from them soften and sadden my thoughts. + + 'But I have not thanked you, dearest Lady Anne, for your kindness in + regard to a principal object,--that of rectifying false impressions. + I trust you understand my wishes, which never were to injure Lord + Byron in any way; for, _though he would not suffer me to remain his + wife, he cannot prevent me from continuing his friend; and it was from + considering myself as such that I silenced the accusations by which my + own conduct might have been more fully justified_. + + 'It is not necessary to speak ill of his heart in general; it is + sufficient that to me it was hard and impenetrable,--that my own must + have been broken before his could have been touched. I would rather + represent this as _my_ misfortune than as _his_ guilt; but, surely, + that misfortune is not to be made my crime! Such are my feelings; you + will judge how to act. + + 'His allusions to me in "Childe Harold" are cruel and cold, but + with such a semblance as to make _me_ appear so, and to attract all + sympathy to himself. It is said in this poem that hatred of him will + be taught as a lesson to his child. I might appeal to all who have + ever heard me speak of him, and still more to my own heart, to witness + that there has been no moment when I have remembered injury otherwise + than affectionately and sorrowfully. + + 'It is not my duty to give way to hopeless and wholly unrequited + affection; but, so long as I live, my chief struggle will probably + be not to remember him too kindly. I do not seek the sympathy of the + world, but I wish to be known by those whose opinion is valuable and + whose kindness is dear to me. Among such, my dear Lady Anne, you will + ever be remembered by your truly affectionate + + 'A. BYRON.' + +On this letter I observe Lord Lindsay remarks that it shows a noble +but rather severe character, and a recent author has remarked that it +seemed to be written rather in a 'cold spirit of criticism.' It seems +to strike these gentlemen as singular that Lady Byron did not enjoy the +poem! But there are two remarkable sentences in this letter which have +escaped the critics hitherto. Lord Byron, in this, the Third Canto +of 'Childe Harold,' expresses in most affecting words an enthusiasm +of love for his sister. So long as he lived he was her faithful +correspondent; he sent her his journals; and, dying, he left her and +her children everything he had in the world. This certainly seems like +an affectionate brother; but in what words does Lady Byron speak of +this affection? + +'I _had heard he was the best of brothers_, the most generous of +friends. I thought these feelings only required to be warmed and +cherished into more diffusive benevolence. THESE OPINIONS ARE +ERADICATED, AND COULD NEVER RETURN BUT WITH THE DECAY OF MEMORY.' +Let me ask those who give this letter as a proof that at this time no +idea such as I have stated was in Lady Byron's mind, to account for +these words. Let them please answer these questions: Why had Lady Byron +ceased to think him a good brother? Why does she use so strong a word +as that the opinion was eradicated, torn up by the roots, and could +never grow again in her except by decay of memory? + +And yet this is a document Lord Lindsay vouches for as authentic, and +which he brings forward _in defence_ of Lord Byron. + +Again she says,'Though he _would not suffer me to remain his wife_, he +cannot prevent me from continuing his friend.' Do these words not say +that in some past time, in some decided manner, Lord Byron had declared +to her his rejection of her as a wife? I shall yet have occasion to +explain these words. + +Again she says, 'I silenced accusations by which my conduct might have +been more fully justified.' + +The people in England who are so very busy in searching out evidence +against my true story have searched out and given to the world an +important confirmation of this assertion of Lady Byron's. + +It seems that the confidential waiting-maid who went with Lady Byron +on her wedding journey has been sought out and interrogated, and, as +appears by description, is a venerable, respectable old person, quite +in possession of all her senses in general, and of that sixth sense of +propriety in particular, which appears not to be a common virtue in our +days. + +As her testimony is important, we insert it just here, with a +description of her person in full. The ardent investigators thus +speak:-- + + 'Having gained admission, we were shown into a small but neatly + furnished and scrupulously clean apartment, where sat the object + of our visit. Mrs. Mimms is a venerable-looking old lady, of short + stature, slight and active appearance, with a singularly bright and + intelligent countenance. Although midway between eighty and ninety + years of age, she is in full possession of her faculties, discourses + freely and cheerfully, hears apparently as well as ever she did, + and her sight is so good that, aided by a pair of spectacles, she + reads the Chronicle every day with ease. Some idea of her competency + to contribute valuable evidence to the subject which now so much + engages public attention on three continents may be found from her + own narrative of her personal relations with Lady Byron. Mrs. Mimms + was born in the neighbourhood of Seaham, and knew Lady Byron from + childhood. During the long period of ten years she was Miss Milbanke's + lady's-maid, and in that capacity became the close confidante of her + mistress. There were circumstances which rendered their relationship + peculiarly intimate. Miss Milbanke had no sister or female friend + to whom she was bound by the ties of more than a common affection; + and her mother, whatever other excellent qualities she may have + possessed, was too high-spirited and too hasty in temper to attract + the sympathies of the young. Some months before Miss Milbanke was + married to Lord Byron, Mrs. Mimms had quitted her service on the + occasion of her own marriage with Mr. Mimms; but she continued to + reside in the neighbourhood of Seaham, and remained on the most + friendly terms with her former mistress. As the courtship proceeded, + Miss Milbanke concealed nothing from her faithful attendant; and + when the wedding-day was fixed, she begged Mrs. Mimms to return and + fulfil the duties of lady's-maid, at least during the honeymoon. Mrs. + Mimms at the time was nursing her first child, and it was no small + sacrifice to quit her own home at such a moment, but she could not + refuse her old mistress's request. Accordingly, she returned to Seaham + Hall some days before the wedding, was present at the ceremony, and + then preceded Lord and Lady Byron to Halnaby Hall, near Croft, in the + North Riding of Yorkshire, one of Sir Ralph Milbanke's seats, where + the newly married couple were to spend the honeymoon. Mrs. Mimms + remained with Lord and Lady Byron during the three weeks they spent at + Halnaby Hall, and then accompanied them to Seaham, where they spent + the next six weeks. It was during the latter period that she finally + quitted Lady Byron's service; but she remained in the most friendly + communication with her ladyship till the death of the latter, and for + some time was living in the neighbourhood of Lady Byron's residence + in Leicestershire, where she had frequent opportunities of seeing her + former mistress. It may be added that Lady Byron was not unmindful of + the faithful services of her friend and attendant in the instructions + to her executors contained in her will. Such was the position of Mrs. + Mimms towards Lady Byron; and we think no one will question that + it was of a nature to entitle all that Mrs. Mimms may say on the + subject of the relations of Lord and Lady Byron to the most respectful + consideration and credit.' + +Such is the chronicler's account of the faithful creature whom nothing +but intense indignation and disgust at Mrs. Beecher Stowe would lead +to speak on her mistress's affairs; but Mrs. Beecher Stowe feels none +the less sincere respect for her, and is none the less obliged to her +for having spoken. Much of Mrs. Mimms's testimony will be referred to +in another place; we only extract one passage, to show that while Lord +Byron spent his time in setting afloat slanders against his wife, she +spent hers in sealing the mouths of witnesses against him. + +Of the period of the honeymoon Mrs. Mimms says:-- + + 'The happiness of Lady Byron, however, was of brief duration; even + during the short three weeks they spent at Halnaby, the irregularities + of Lord Byron occasioned her the greatest distress, and she even + contemplated returning to her father. Mrs. Mimms was her constant + companion and confidante through this painful period, and she does not + believe that her ladyship concealed a thought from her. _With laudable + reticence, the old lady absolutely refuses to disclose the particulars + of Lord Byron's misconduct at this time; she gave Lady Byron a solemn + promise not to do so._ + + * * * * * + + 'So serious did Mrs. Mimms consider the conduct of Lord Byron, that + she recommended her mistress to confide all the circumstances to her + father, Sir Ralph Milbanke, a calm, kind, and most excellent parent, + and take his advice as to her future course. At one time Mrs. Mimms + thinks Lady Byron had resolved to follow her counsel and impart her + wrongs to Sir Ralph; but on arriving at Seaham Hall her ladyship + strictly enjoined Mrs. Mimms to preserve absolute silence on the + subject--a course which she followed herself;--so that when, six weeks + later, she and Lord Byron left Seaham for London, not a word had + escaped her to disturb her parents' tranquility as to their daughter's + domestic happiness. As might be expected, Mrs. Mimms bears the + warmest testimony to the noble and lovable qualities of her departed + mistress. She also declares that Lady Byron was by no means of a cold + temperament, but that the affectionate impulses of her nature were + checked by the unkind treatment she experienced from her husband.' + +We have already shown that Lord Byron had been, ever since his +separation, engaged in a systematic attempt to reverse the judgment of +the world against himself, by making converts of all his friends to a +most odious view of his wife's character, and inspiring them with the +zeal of propagandists to spread these views through society. We have +seen how he prepared partisans to interpret the Fourth Canto of 'Childe +Harold.' + +This plan of solemn and heroic accusation was the first public attack +on his wife. Next we see him commencing a scurrilous attempt to turn +her to ridicule in the First Canto of 'Don Juan.' + +It is to our point now to show how carefully and cautiously this Don +Juan campaign was planned. + +Vol. IV. p. 138, we find Letter 325 to Mr. Murray:-- + + 'VENICE: January 25, 1819. + + 'You will do me the favour to _print privately, for private + distribution, fifty copies of "Don Juan."_ The list of the men to whom + I wish it presented I will send hereafter.' + +The poem, as will be remembered, begins with the meanest and foulest +attack on his wife that ever ribald wrote, and puts it in close +neighbourhood with scenes which every pure man or woman must feel +to be the beastly utterances of a man who had lost all sense of +decency. Such a potion was too strong to be administered even in a +time when great license was allowed, and men were not over-nice. But +Byron chooses fifty armour-bearers of that class of men who would +find indecent ribaldry about a wife a good joke, and talk about the +'artistic merits' of things which we hope would make an honest boy +blush. + +At this time he acknowledges that his vices had brought him to a state +of great exhaustion, attended by such debility of the stomach that +nothing remained on it; and adds, 'I was obliged to reform my way of +life, which was conducting me from the yellow leaf to the ground with +all deliberate speed.'[13] But as his health is a little better he +employs it in making the way to death and hell elegantly easy for other +young men, by breaking down the remaining scruples of a society not +over-scrupulous. + +[Footnote 13: Vol. iv. p 143.] + +Society revolted, however, and fought stoutly against the nauseous +dose. His sister wrote to him that she heard such things said of it +that _she_ never would read it; and the outcry against it on the part +of all women of his acquaintance was such that for a time he was quite +overborne; and the Countess Guiccioli finally extorted a promise from +him to cease writing it. Nevertheless, there came a time when England +accepted 'Don Juan,'--when Wilson, in the 'Noctes Ambrosianæ,' praised +it as a classic, and took every opportunity to reprobate Lady Byron's +conduct. When first it appeared the 'Blackwood' came out with that +indignant denunciation of which we have spoken, and to which Byron +replied in the extracts we have already quoted. He did something more +than reply. He marked out Wilson as one of the strongest literary men +of the day, and set his 'initiated' with their documents to work upon +him. + +One of these documents to which he requested Wilson's attention was the +private autobiography, written expressly to give his own story of all +the facts of the marriage and separation. + +In the indignant letter he writes Murray on the 'Blackwood' article, +Vol. IV., Letter 350--under date December 10, 1819--he says:-- + + 'I sent home for Moore, and for Moore only (who has my journal also), + my memoir written up to 1816, and I gave him leave to show it to + whom he pleased, _but not to publish_ on any account. _You_ may read + it, and you may let Wilson read it if he likes--not for his public + opinion, but his private, for I like the man, and care very little + about the magazine. And I could wish Lady Byron herself to read + it, that she may have it in her power to mark anything mistaken or + misstated. As it will never appear till after my extinction, it would + be but fair she should see it; that is to say, herself willing. Your + "Blackwood" accuses me of treating women harshly; but I have been + their martyr; my whole life has been sacrificed to them and by them.' + +It was a part of Byron's policy to place Lady Byron in positions before +the world where she _could_ not speak, and where her silence would be +set down to her as haughty, stony indifference and obstinacy. Such was +the pretended negotiation through Madame de Staël, and such now this +apparently fair and generous offer to let Lady Byron see and mark this +manuscript. + +The little Ada is now in her fifth year--a child of singular +sensibility and remarkable mental powers--one of those exceptional +children who are so perilous a charge for a mother. + +Her husband proposes this artful snare to her,--that she shall mark +what is false in a statement which is all built on a damning lie, that +she cannot refute over that daughter's head,--and which would perhaps +be her ruin to discuss. + +Hence came an addition of two more documents, to be used 'privately +among friends,'[14] and which 'Blackwood' uses after Lady Byron is +safely out of the world to cast ignominy on her grave--the wife's +letter, that of a mother standing at bay for her daughter, knowing that +she is dealing with a desperate, powerful, unscrupulous enemy. + + 'KIRKBY MALLORY: March 10, 1820. + + [Footnote 14: Lord Byron took especial pains to point out to Murray + the importance of these two letters. Vol. V. Letter 443, he says: 'You + must also have from Mr. Moore the correspondence between me and Lady + B., to whom I offered a sight of all that concerns herself in these + papers. This is important. He has _her_ letter and my answer.'] + + 'I received your letter of January 1, offering to my perusal a + Memoir of part of your life. I decline to inspect it. I consider + the publication or circulation of such a composition at any time as + prejudicial to Ada's future happiness. For my own sake, I have no + reason to shrink from publication; but, notwithstanding the injuries + which I have suffered, I should lament some of the _consequences_. + + 'A. BYRON. + + 'To Lord Byron.' + +Lord Byron, writing for the public, as is his custom, makes reply:-- + + 'RAVENNA: April 3, 1820. + + 'I received yesterday your answer, dated March 10. My offer was an + honest one, and surely could only be construed as such even by the + most malignant casuistry. I could answer you, but it is too late, and + it is not worth while. To the mysterious menace of the last sentence, + whatever its import may be--and I cannot pretend to unriddle it--I + could hardly be very sensible even if I understood it, as, before it + can take place, I shall be where "nothing can touch him further".... I + advise you, however, to anticipate the period of your intention, for, + be assured, no power of figures can avail beyond the present; and if + it could, I would answer with the Florentine:-- + + '"Ed io, che posto son con loro in croce + ... e certo + La fiera moglie, più ch' altro, mi nuoce."[15] + + 'BYRON. + + 'To Lady Byron.' + +[Footnote 15: + + 'And I, who with them on the cross am placed, + ... truly + My savage wife, more than aught else, doth harm me.' + + _Inferno_, Canto, XVI., Longfellow's translation. +] + +Two things are very evident in this correspondence: Lady Byron +intimates that, if he publishes his story, some _consequences_ must +follow which she shall regret. + +Lord Byron receives this as a threat, and says he doesn't understand +it. But directly after he says, 'Before IT can take place, I shall be,' +&c. + +The intimation is quite clear. He _does_ understand what the +consequences alluded to are. They are evidently that Lady Byron will +speak out and tell her story. He says she cannot do this till _after +he is dead_, and then he shall not care. In allusion to her accuracy +as to dates and figures, he says: 'Be assured no power of figures can +avail beyond the present' (life); and then ironically _advises_ her to +_anticipate the period_,--i.e. to speak out while he is alive. + +In Vol. VI. Letter 518, which Lord Byron wrote to Lady Byron, but did +not send, he says: 'I burned your last note for two reasons,--firstly, +because it was written in a style not very agreeable; and, secondly, +because I wished to take your word without documents, which are the +resources of worldly and suspicious people.' + +It would appear from this that there _was_ a last letter of Lady Byron +to her husband, which he did not think proper to keep on hand, or show +to the 'initiated' with his usual unreserve; that this letter contained +some kind of _pledge_ for which he preferred to take her word, _without +documents_. + +Each reader can imagine for himself what that _pledge_ might have been; +but from the tenor of the three letters we should infer that it was a +promise of silence for his lifetime, on _certain conditions_, and that +the publication of the autobiography would violate those conditions, +and make it her duty to speak out. + +This celebrated autobiography forms so conspicuous a figure in the +whole history, that the reader must have a full idea of it, as given by +Byron himself, in Vol. IV. Letter 344, to Murray:-- + + 'I gave to Moore, who is gone to Rome, my life in MS.,--in + seventy-eight folio sheets, brought down to 1816 ... also a journal + kept in 1814. Neither are for publication during my life, but when I + am cold you may do what you please. In the mean time, if you like to + read them you may, and show them to anybody you like. I care not....' + +He tells him also:-- + + 'You will find in it a detailed account of my marriage and its + consequences, as true as a party concerned can make such an account.' + +Of the extent to which this autobiography was circulated we have the +following testimony of Shelton Mackenzie, in notes to 'The Noctes' of +June 1824. + +In 'The Noctes' Odoherty says:-- + + 'The fact is, the work had been copied for the private reading of a + great lady in Florence.' + +The note says:-- + + 'The great lady in Florence, for whose private reading Byron's + autobiography was copied, was the Countess of Westmoreland.... Lady + Blessington had the autobiography in her possession for weeks, and + confessed to having copied every line of it. Moore remonstrated, and + she committed her copy to the flames, but did not tell him that her + sister, Mrs. Home Purvis, now Viscountess of Canterbury, had also made + a copy!... From the quantity of copy I have seen,--and others were + more in the way of falling in with it than myself,--I surmise that at + least half a dozen copies were made, and of these _five_ are now in + existence. Some particular parts, such as the marriage and separation, + were copied separately; but I think there cannot be less than five + full copies yet to be found.' + +This was written _after the original autobiography was burned_. + +We may see the zeal and enthusiasm of the Byron party,--copying +seventy-eight folio sheets, as of old Christians copied the Gospels. +How widely, fully, and thoroughly, thus, by this secret process, was +society saturated with Byron's own versions of the story that related +to himself and wife! Against her there was only the complaint of an +absolute silence. She put forth no statements, no documents; had no +party, sealed the lips of her counsel, and even of her servants; yet +she could not but have known, from time to time, how thoroughly and +strongly this web of mingled truth and lies was being meshed around her +steps. + +From the time that Byron first saw the importance of securing Wilson on +his side, and wrote to have his partisans attend to him, we may date +an entire revolution in the 'Blackwood.' It became Byron's warmest +supporter,--is to this day the bitterest accuser of his wife. + +Why was this wonderful silence? It appears by Dr. Lushington's +statements, that, when Lady Byron did speak, she had a story to tell +that powerfully affected both him and Romilly,--a story supported by +evidence on which they were willing to have gone to public trial. +Supposing, now, she had imitated Lord Byron's example, and, avoiding +public trial, had put her story into private circulation; as he sent +'Don Juan' to fifty confidential friends, suppose she had sent a +written statement of her story to fifty judges as intelligent as the +two that had heard it; or suppose she had confronted his autobiography +with her own,--what would have been the result? + +The first result might have been Mrs. Leigh's utter ruin. The world may +finally forgive the man of genius anything; but for a woman there is no +mercy and no redemption. + +This ruin Lady Byron prevented by her utter silence and great +self-command. Mrs. Leigh never lost position. Lady Byron never so +varied in her manner towards her as to excite the suspicions even of +her confidential old servant. + +To protect Mrs. Leigh effectually, it must have been necessary to +continue to exclude even her own mother from the secret, as we are +assured she did at first; for, had she told Lady Milbanke, it is +not possible that so high-spirited a woman could have restrained +herself from such outward expressions as would at least have awakened +suspicion. There was no resource but this absolute silence. + +Lady Blessington, in her last conversation with Lord Byron, thus +describes the life Lady Byron was leading. She speaks of her as +'wearing away her youth in almost monastic seclusion, questioned by +some, appreciated by few, seeking consolation alone in the discharge of +her duties, and avoiding all external demonstrations of a grief that +her pale cheek and solitary existence alone were vouchers for.'[16] + +[Footnote 16: 'Conversations,' p. 108.] + +The main object of all this silence may be imagined, if we remember +that if Lord Byron had not died,--had he truly and deeply repented, +and become a thoroughly good man, and returned to England to pursue a +course worthy of his powers, there was on record neither word nor deed +from his wife to stand in his way. + +HIS PLACE WAS KEPT IN SOCIETY, ready for him to return to +whenever he came clothed and in his right mind. He might have had the +heart and confidence of his daughter unshadowed by a suspicion. He +might have won the reverence of the great and good in his own lands and +all lands. That hope, which was the strong support, the prayer of the +silent wife, it did not please God to fulfil. + +Lord Byron died a worn-out man at thirty-six. But the bitter seeds he +had sown came up, after his death, in a harvest of thorns over his +grave; and there were not wanting hands to use them as instruments of +torture on the heart of his widow. + + + + +CHAPTER III. + +RÉSUMÉ OF THE CONSPIRACY. + + +We have traced the conspiracy of Lord Byron against his wife up to its +latest device. That the reader's mind may be clear on the points of the +process, we shall now briefly recapitulate the documents in the order +of time. + +I. March 17, 1816.--While negotiations for separation were +pending,--'_Fare thee well, and if for ever_.' + +While writing these pages, we have received from England the testimony +of one who has seen the original draught of that 'Fare thee well.' This +original copy had evidently been subjected to the most careful and +acute revision. Scarcely two lines that were not interlined, scarcely +an adjective that was not exchanged for a better; showing that the +noble lord was not so far overcome by grief as to have forgotten his +reputation. (Found its way to the public prints through the imprudence +of _a friend_.) + +II. March 29, 1816.--An attack on Lady Byron's old governess for having +been born poor, for being homely, and for having unduly influenced his +wife against him; promising that her grave should be a fiery bed, +&c.; also praising his wife's perfect and remarkable truthfulness and +discernment, that made it impossible for flattery to fool, or baseness +blind her; but ascribing all his woes to her being fooled and blinded +by this same governess. (Found its way to the prints by the imprudence +of _a friend_.) + +III. September 1816.--Lines on hearing that Lady Byron is ill. Calls +her a Clytemnestra, who has secretly set assassins on her lord; says +she is a mean, treacherous, deceitful liar, and has entirely departed +from her early truth, and become the most unscrupulous and unprincipled +of women. (Never printed till after Lord Byron's death, but circulated +_privately_ among the '_initiated_.') + +IV. Aug. 9, 1817.--Gives to M. G. Lewis a paper for circulation +among friends in England, stating that what he most wants is _public +investigation_, which has always been denied him; and daring Lady Byron +and her counsel to come out publicly. (Found in M. G. Lewis's portfolio +after his death; never heard of before, except among the 'initiated.') + +Having given M. G. Lewis's document time to work,-- + +January 1818.--Gives the Fourth Canto of 'Childe Harold'[17] to the +public. + +[Footnote 17: Murray's edition of 'Byron's Works,' Vol. ii. p. 189; +date of dedication to Hobhouse, Jan. 2, 1818.] + +Jan. 25, 1819.--Sends to Murray to print for private circulation among +the 'initiated' the First Canto of 'Don Juan.' + +Is nobly and severely rebuked for this insult to his wife by the +'Blackwood,' August 1819. + +October 1819.--Gives Moore the manuscript 'Autobiography,' with leave +to show it to whom he pleases, and print it after his death. + +Oct. 29, 1819, Vol. IV. Letter 344.--Writes to Murray, that he may read +all this 'Autobiography,' and show it to anybody he likes. + +Dec. 10, 1819.--Writes to Murray on this article in 'Blackwood' +against 'Don Juan' and himself, which he supposes written by Wilson; +sends a complimentary message to Wilson, and asks him to read his +'Autobiography' sent by Moore. (Letter 350.) + +March 15, 1820.--Writes and dedicates to I. Disraeli, Esq., a +vindication of himself in reply to the 'Blackwood' on 'Don Juan,' +containing an indignant defence of his own conduct in relation to his +wife, and maintaining that he never yet has had an opportunity of +knowing whereof he has been accused; accusing Sir S. Romilly of taking +his retainer, and then going over to the adverse party, &c. (Printed +for _private circulation_; to be found in the standard English edition +of Murray, vol. ix. p. 57.) + +To this condensed account of Byron's strategy we must add the crowning +stroke of policy which transmitted this warfare to his friends, to be +continued after his death. + +During the last visit Moore made him in Italy, and just before Byron +presented to him his 'Autobiography,' the following scene occurred, as +narrated by Moore (vol. iv. p. 221):-- + + 'The chief subject of conversation, when alone, was his marriage, and + the load of obloquy which it had brought upon him. He was most anxious + to know _the worst_ that had been alleged of his conduct; and, as this + was our first opportunity of speaking together on the subject, I did + not hesitate to put his candour most searchingly to the proof, not + only by enumerating the various charges I had heard brought against + him by others, but by specifying such portions of these charges as I + had been inclined to think not incredible myself. + + 'To all this he listened with patience, and answered with the most + unhesitating frankness; laughing to scorn the tales of unmanly outrage + related of him, but at the same time acknowledging that there had + been in his conduct but too much to blame and regret, and stating one + or two occasions during his domestic life when he had been irritated + into letting the "breath of bitter words" escape him, ... which he now + evidently remembered with a degree of remorse and pain which might + well have entitled them to be forgotten by others. + + 'It was, at the same time, manifest, that, whatever admissions he + might be inclined to make respecting his own delinquencies, _the + inordinate measure of the punishment dealt out to him had sunk deeply + into his mind, and, with the usual effect of such injustice, drove him + also to be unjust himself; so much so, indeed, as to impute to the + quarter to which he now traced all his ill fate a feeling of fixed + hostility to himself, which would not rest, he thought, even at his + grave, but continue to persecute his memory as it was now embittering + his life_. So strong was this impression upon him, that, during one of + our few intervals of seriousness, he conjured me by our friendship, + if, as he both felt and hoped, I should survive him, not to let + unmerited censure settle upon his name.' + +In this same account, page 218, Moore testifies that + + 'Lord Byron disliked his countrymen, but only because he knew that his + morals were held in contempt by them. The English, themselves rigid + observers of family duties, could not pardon him the neglect of his, + nor his trampling on principles; therefore, neither did he like being + presented to them, nor did they, especially when they had wives with + them, like to cultivate his acquaintance. Still there was a strong + desire in all of them to see him; and the women in particular, who did + not dare to look at him but by stealth, said in an under-voice, "What + a pity it is!" If, however, any of his compatriots of exalted rank and + high reputation came forward to treat him with courtesy, he showed + himself obviously flattered by it. It seemed that, to the wound which + remained open in his ulcerated heart, such soothing attentions were as + drops of healing balm, which comforted him.' + +When in society, we are further informed by a lady quoted by Mr. +Moore, he was in the habit of speaking of his wife with much respect +and affection, as an illustrious lady, distinguished for her qualities +of heart and understanding; saying that all the fault of their +cruel separation lay with himself. Mr. Moore seems at times to be +somewhat puzzled by these contradictory statements of his idol, and +speculates not a little on what could be Lord Byron's object in using +such language in public; mentally comparing it, we suppose, with +the free handling which he gave to the same subject in his private +correspondence. + +The innocence with which Moore gives himself up to be manipulated by +Lord Byron, the _naïveté_ with which he shows all the process, let +us a little into the secret of the marvellous powers of charming and +blinding which this great actor possessed. + +Lord Byron had the beauty, the wit, the genius, the dramatic talent, +which have constituted the strength of some wonderfully fascinating +women. + +There have been women able to lead their leashes of blinded adorers; to +make them swear that black was white, or white black, at their word; +to smile away their senses, or weep away their reason. No matter what +these sirens may say, no matter what they may do, though caught in a +thousand transparent lies, and doing a thousand deeds which would have +ruined others, still men madly rave after them in life, and tear their +hair over their graves. Such an enchanter in man's shape was Lord Byron. + +He led captive Moore and Murray by being beautiful, a genius, and a +lord; calling them 'Dear Tom' and 'Dear Murray,' while they were only +commoners. He first insulted Sir Walter Scott, and then witched his +heart out of him by ingenuous confessions and poetical compliments; he +took Wilson's heart by flattering messages and a beautifully-written +letter; he corresponded familiarly with Hogg; and, before his death, +had made fast friends, in one way or another, of the whole 'Noctes +Ambrosianæ' Club. + +We thus have given the historical _résumé_ of Lord Byron's attacks +on his wife's reputation: we shall add, that they were based on +philosophic principles, showing a deep knowledge of mankind. An +analysis will show that they can be philosophically classified:-- + +1st. Those which addressed the sympathetic nature of man, representing +her as cold, methodical, severe, strict, unforgiving. + +2nd. Those addressed to the faculty of association, connecting her with +ludicrous and licentious images; taking from her the usual protection +of womanly delicacy and sacredness. + +3rd. Those addressed to the moral faculties, accusing her as artful, +treacherous, untruthful, malignant. + +All these various devices he held in his hand, shuffling and dealing +them as a careful gamester his pack of cards according to the +exigencies of the game. He played adroitly, skilfully, with blinding +flatteries and seductive wiles, that made his victims willing dupes. + +Nothing can more clearly show the power and perfectness of his +enchantments than the masterly way in which he turned back the moral +force of the whole English nation, which had risen at first in its +strength against him. The victory was complete. + + + + +CHAPTER IV. + +RESULTS AFTER LORD BYRON'S DEATH. + + +At the time of Lord Byron's death, the English public had been so +skilfully manipulated by the Byron propaganda, that the sympathy of +the whole world was with him. A tide of emotion was now aroused in +England by his early death--dying in the cause of Greece and liberty. +There arose a general wail for him, as for a lost pleiad, not only +in England, but over the whole world; a great rush of enthusiasm for +his memory, to which the greatest literary men of England freely gave +voice. By general consent, Lady Byron seems to have been looked upon as +the only cold-hearted unsympathetic person in this general mourning. + +From that time the literary world of England apparently regarded Lady +Byron as a woman to whom none of the decorums, nor courtesies of +ordinary womanhood, nor even the consideration belonging to common +humanity, were due. + +'She that is a widow indeed, and desolate,' has been regarded in all +Christian countries as an object made sacred by the touch of God's +afflicting hand, sacred in her very helplessness; and the old Hebrew +Scriptures give to the Supreme Father no dearer title than 'the widow's +God.' But, on Lord Byron's death, men not devoid of tenderness, men +otherwise generous and of fine feeling, acquiesced in insults to his +widow with an obtuseness that seems, on review, quite incredible. + +Lady Byron was not only a widow, but an orphan. She had no sister for +confidante; no father and mother to whom to go in her sorrows--sorrows +so much deeper and darker to her than they could be to any other human +being. She had neither son nor brother to uphold and protect her. On +all hands it was acknowledged that, so far, there was no fault to be +found in her but her utter silence. Her life was confessed to be pure, +useful, charitable; and yet, in this time of her sorrow, the writers +of England issued article upon article not only devoid of delicacy, +but apparently injurious and insulting towards her, with a blind +unconsciousness which seems astonishing. + +One of the greatest literary powers of that time was the 'Blackwood:' +the reigning monarch on that literary throne was Wilson, the +lion-hearted, the brave, generous, tender poet, and, with some sad +exceptions, the noble man. But Wilson had believed the story of Byron, +and, by his very generosity and tenderness and pity, was betrayed into +injustice. + +In 'The Noctes' of November 1824 there is a conversation of the Noctes +Club, in which North says, 'Byron and I knew each other pretty well; +and I suppose there's no harm in adding, that we appreciated each +other pretty tolerably. Did you ever see his letter to me?' + +The footnote to this says, '_This letter, which was PRINTED in Byron's +lifetime, was not published till_ 1830, when it appeared in Moore's +"Life of Byron." It is one of the most vigorous prose compositions in +the language. Byron had the highest opinion of Wilson's genius and +noble spirit.' + +In the first place, with our present ideas of propriety and good taste, +we should reckon it an indecorum to make the private affairs of a +pure and good woman, whose circumstances under any point of view were +trying, and who evidently shunned publicity, the subject of public +discussion in magazines which were read all over the world. + +Lady Byron, as they all knew, had on her hands a most delicate and +onerous task, in bringing up an only daughter, necessarily inheriting +peculiarities of genius and great sensitiveness; and the many +mortifications and embarrassments which such intermeddling with her +private matters must have given, certainly should have been considered +by men with any pretensions to refinement or good feeling. + +But the literati of England allowed her no consideration, no rest, no +privacy. + +In 'The Noctes' of November 1825 there is the record of a free +conversation upon Lord and Lady Byron's affairs, interlarded with +exhortations to push the bottle, and remarks on whisky-toddy. Medwin's +'Conversations with Lord Byron' is discussed, which, we are told in a +note, appeared a few months after the _noble_ poet's death. + +There is a rather bold and free discussion of Lord Byron's +character--his fondness for gin and water, on which stimulus he wrote +'Don Juan;' and James Hogg says pleasantly to Mullion, 'O Mullion! it's +a pity you and Byron could na ha' been acquaint. There would ha' been +brave sparring to see who could say the wildest and the dreadfullest +things; for he had neither fear of man or woman, and would ha' his joke +or jeer, cost what it might.' And then follows a specimen of one of +his jokes with an actress, that, in indecency, certainly justifies the +assertion. From the other stories which follow, and the parenthesis +that occurs frequently ('Mind your glass, James, a little more!'), it +seems evident that the party are progressing in their peculiar kind of +_civilisation_. + +It is in this same circle and paper that Lady Byron's private affairs +come up for discussion. The discussion is thus elegantly introduced:-- + + _Hogg._--'Reach me the black bottle. I say, Christopher, what, after + all, is your opinion o' Lord and Leddy Byron's quarrel? Do you + yoursel' take part with him, or with her? I wad like to hear your real + opinion.' + + _North._--'Oh, dear! Well, Hogg, since you will have it, I think + Douglas Kinnard and Hobhouse are bound to tell us whether there be any + truth, and how much, in this story about the _declaration_, signed by + Sir Ralph' [Milbanke]. + +The note here tells us that this refers to a statement that appeared +in 'Blackwood' immediately after Byron's death, to the effect that, +previous to the formal separation from his wife, Byron required and +obtained from Sir Ralph Milbanke, Lady Byron's father, a statement to +the effect that Lady Byron had no charge of moral delinquency to bring +against him.[18] + +[Footnote 18: Recently, Lord Lindsay has published another version of +this story, which makes it appear that he has conversed with a lady who +conversed with Hobhouse during his lifetime, in which this story is +differently reported. In the last version, it is made to appear that +Hobhouse had this declaration from Lady Byron herself.] + +North continues:-- + + 'And I think Lady Byron's letter--the "Dearest Duck" one I + mean--should really be forthcoming, if her ladyship's friends wish to + stand fair before the public. At present we have nothing but loose + talk of society to go upon; and certainly, _if the things that are + said be true, there must be thorough explanation from some quarter, + or the tide will continue, as it has assuredly begun, to flow in a + direction very opposite to what we were for years accustomed_. Sir, + they must _explain this business of the letter_. You have, of course, + heard about the invitation it contained, the warm, affectionate + invitation, to Kirkby Mallory'---- + +Hogg interposes,-- + + 'I dinna like to be interruptin' ye, Mr. North; but I must inquire, Is + the _jug_ to stand still while ye're going on at that rate?' + + _North._--'There, Porker! These things are part and parcel of + the chatter of every bookseller's shop; _à fortiori_, of every + drawing-room in May Fair. _Can_ the matter stop here? Can a great + man's memory be permitted to incur damnation while these saving + clauses are afloat anywhere uncontradicted?' + +And from this the conversation branches off into strong, emphatic +praise of Byron's conduct in Greece during the last part of his life. + +The silent widow is thus delicately and considerately reminded in the +'Blackwood' that she is the talk, not only over the whisky-jug of the +Noctes, but in every drawing-room in London; and that she _must_ speak +out and explain matters, or the whole world will set against her. + +But she does not speak yet. The public persecution, therefore, +proceeds. Medwin's book being insufficient, another biographer is to +be selected. Now, the person in the Noctes Club who was held to have +the most complete information of the Byron affairs, and was, on that +account, first thought of by Murray to execute this very delicate task +of writing a memoir which should include the most sacred domestic +affairs of a noble lady and her orphan daughter, was _Maginn_. Maginn, +the author of the pleasant joke, that 'man never reaches the apex of +civilisation till he is too drunk to pronounce the word,' was the first +person in whose hands the 'Autobiography,' Memoirs, and Journals of +Lord Byron were placed with this view. + +The following note from Shelton Mackenzie, in the June number of 'The +Noctes,' 1824, says,-- + + 'At that time, had he been so minded, Maginn (Odoherty) could have got + up a popular Life of Byron as well as most men in England. Immediately + on the account of Byron's death being received in London, John Murray + proposed that Maginn should bring out Memoirs, Journals, and Letters + of Lord Byron, and, with this intent, placed in his hand every line + that he (Murray) possessed in Byron's handwriting.... The strong + desire of _Byron's family and executors_ that the "Autobiography" + should be burned, to which desire Murray foolishly yielded, made such + an hiatus in the materials, that Murray and Maginn agreed it would not + answer to bring out the work then. Eventually Moore executed it.' + +The character of the times in which this work was to be undertaken will +appear from the following note of Mackenzie's to 'The Noctes' of August +1824, which we copy, with the _author's own Italics_:-- + + 'In the "Blackwood" of July 1824 was a poetical epistle by the + renowned Timothy Tickler to the editor of the "John Bull" magazine, + on an article in his first number. This article ... _professed_ to + be a portion of the veritable "Autobiography" of Byron which was + burned, and was called "My Wedding Night." It appeared to relate + in detail _everything_ that occurred in the twenty-four hours + immediately succeeding that in which Byron was married. It had plenty + of coarseness, and some to spare. It went into particulars such as + hitherto had been given only by Faublas; and it had, notwithstanding, + many phrases and some facts which evidently did not belong to a mere + fabricator. Some years after, I compared this "Wedding Night" with + what I had all assurance of having been transcribed from the actual + manuscripts of Byron, and was persuaded that the magazine-writer must + have had the _actual_ statement before him, or have had a perusal of + it. The writer in "Blackwood" declared his conviction that it really + was Byron's own writing.' + +The reader must remember that Lord Byron died April 1824; so that, +according to this, his 'Autobiography' was made the means of this gross +insult to his widow three months after his death. + +If some powerful cause had not paralysed all feelings of gentlemanly +honour, and of womanly delicacy, and of common humanity, towards Lady +Byron, throughout the whole British nation, no editor would have dared +to open a periodical with such an article; or, if he had, he would have +been overwhelmed with a storm of popular indignation, which, like the +fire upon Sodom, would have made a pillar of salt of him for a warning +to all future generations. + +'Blackwood' reproves the 'John Bull' in a poetical epistle, recognising +the article as coming from Byron, and says to the _author_,-- + + 'But that _you_, sir, a wit and a scholar like you, + Should not blush to produce what he blushed not to do,-- + Take your compliment, youngster; this doubles, almost, + The sorrow that rose when his honour was lost.' + +We may not wonder that the 'Autobiography' was burned, as Murray says +in a recent account, by a committee of Byron's _friends_, including +Hobhouse, his sister, and Murray himself. + +Now, the 'Blackwood' of July 1824 thus declares its conviction that +this outrage on every sentiment of human decency came from Lord Byron, +and that his honour was lost. Maginn does not undertake the memoir. No +memoir at all is undertaken; till finally Moore is selected, as, like +Demetrius of old, a well-skilled gilder and 'maker of silver shrines,' +though _not_ for Diana. To Moore is committed the task of doing his +best for this battered image, in which even the worshippers recognise +foul sulphurous cracks, but which they none the less stand ready to +worship as a genuine article that 'fell down from Jupiter.' + +Moore was a man of no particular nicety as to moralities, but in that +matter seems not very much below what this record shows his average +associates to be. He is so far superior to Maginn, that his vice is +rose-coloured and refined. He does not burst out with such heroic +stanzas as Maginn's frank invitation to Jeremy Bentham:-- + + 'Jeremy, throw your pen aside, + And come get drunk with me; + And we'll go where Bacchus sits astride, + Perched high on barrels three.' + +Moore's vice is cautious, soft, seductive, slippery, and covered at +times with a thin, tremulous veil of religious sentimentalism. + +In regard to Byron, he was an unscrupulous, committed partisan: he was +as much bewitched by him as ever man has been by woman; and therefore +to him, at last, the task of editing Byron's 'Memoirs' was given. + +This Byron, whom they all knew to be obscene beyond what even their +most drunken tolerance could at first endure; this man, whose foul +license _spoke out_ what most men conceal from mere respect to the +decent instincts of humanity; whose 'honour was lost,'--was submitted +to this careful manipulator, to be turned out a perfected idol for a +world longing for an idol, as the Israelites longed for the calf in +Horeb. + +The image was to be invested with deceitful glories and shifting +haloes,--admitted faults spoken of as peculiarities of sacred +origin,--and the world given to understand that no common rule or +measure could apply to such an undoubtedly divine production; and so +the hearts of men were to be wrung with pity for his sorrows as the +yearning pain of a god, and with anger at his injuries as sacrilege on +the sacredness of genius, till they were ready to cast themselves at +his feet, and adore. + +Then he was to be set up on a pedestal, like Nebuchadnezzar's image on +the plains of Dura; and what time the world heard the sound of cornet, +sackbut, and dulcimer, in his enchanting verse, they were to fall down +and worship. + +For Lady Byron, Moore had simply the respect that a commoner has for +a lady of rank, and a good deal of the feeling that seems to underlie +all English literature,--that it is no matter what becomes of the woman +when the man's story is to be told. But, with all his faults, Moore was +not a cruel man; and we cannot conceive such outrageous cruelty and +ungentlemanly indelicacy towards an unoffending woman, as he shows in +these 'Memoirs,' without referring them to Lord Byron's own influence +in making him an unscrupulous, committed partisan on his side. + +So little pity, so little sympathy, did he suppose Lady Byron to be +worthy of, that he laid before her, in the sight of all the world, +selections from her husband's letters and journals, in which the +privacies of her courtship and married life were jested upon with a +vulgar levity; letters filled, from the time of the act of separation, +with a constant succession of sarcasms, stabs, stings, epigrams, and +vindictive allusions to herself, bringing her into direct and insulting +comparison with his various mistresses, and implying their superiority +over her. There, too, were gross attacks on her father and mother, as +having been the instigators of the separation; and poor Lady Milbanke, +in particular, is sometimes mentioned with epithets so offensive, that +the editor prudently covers the terms with stars, as intending language +too gross to be printed. + +The last mistress of Lord Byron is uniformly brought forward in +terms of such respect and consideration, that one would suppose that +the usual moral laws that regulate English family life had been +specially repealed in his favour. Moore quotes with approval letters +from Shelley, stating that Lord Byron's connection with La Guiccioli +has been of inestimable benefit to him; and that he is now becoming +what he should be, 'a virtuous man.' Moore goes on to speak of the +connection as one, though somewhat reprehensible, yet as having all +those advantages of marriage and settled domestic ties that Byron's +affectionate spirit had long sighed for, but never before found; and in +his last _résumé_ of the poet's character, at the end of the volume, he +brings the mistress into direct comparison with the wife in a single +sentence: 'The woman to whom he gave the love of his maturer years +idolises his name; and, _with a single unhappy exception_, scarce an +instance is to be found of one brought ... into relations of amity with +him who did not retain a kind regard for him in life, and a fondness +for his memory.' + +Literature has never yet seen the instance of a person, of Lady Byron's +rank in life, placed before the world in a position more humiliating to +womanly dignity, or wounding to womanly delicacy. + +The direct implication is, that she has no feelings to be hurt, no +heart to be broken, and is not worthy even of the consideration which +in ordinary life is to be accorded to a widow who has received those +awful tidings which generally must awaken many emotions, and call for +some consideration, even in the most callous hearts. + +The woman who we are told walked the room, vainly striving to control +the sobs that shook her frame, while she sought to draw from the +servant that last message of her husband which she was never to hear, +was not thought worthy even of the rights of common humanity. + +The first volume of the 'Memoir' came out in 1830. Then for the first +time came one flash of lightning from the silent cloud; and she who +had never spoken before spoke out. The libels on the memory of her +dead parents drew from her what her own wrongs never did. During all +this time, while her husband had been keeping her effigy dangling +before the public as a mark for solemn curses, and filthy lampoons, +and _secretly_-circulated disclosures, that spared no sacredness +and violated every decorum, she had not uttered a word. She had +been subjected to nameless insults, discussed in the assemblies of +drunkards, and challenged to speak for herself. Like the chaste lady +in 'Comus,' whom the vile wizard had bound in the enchanted seat to +be 'grinned at and chattered at' by all the filthy rabble of his +dehumanised rout, she had remained pure, lofty, and undefiled; and the +stains of mud and mire thrown upon her had fallen from her spotless +garments. + +Now that she is dead, a recent writer in 'The London Quarterly' dares +give voice to an insinuation which even Byron gave only a _suggestion_ +of when he called his wife Clytemnestra; and hints that she tried the +power of youth and beauty to win to her the young solicitor Lushington, +and a handsome young officer of high rank. + +At this time, _such_ insinuations had not been thought of; and the only +and chief allegation against Lady Byron had been a cruel severity of +virtue. + +At all events, when Lady Byron spoke, the world listened with respect, +and believed what she said. + +Here let us, too, read her statement, and give it the careful attention +she solicits (Moore's 'Life of Byron,' vol. vi. p. 275):-- + + 'I have disregarded various publications in which facts within my + own knowledge have been grossly misrepresented; but I am called upon + to notice some of the erroneous statements proceeding from one who + claims to be considered as Lord Byron's confidential and authorised + friend. Domestic details ought not to be intruded on the public + attention: if, however, they _are_ so intruded, the persons affected + by them have a right to refute injurious charges. Mr. Moore has + promulgated his own impressions of private events in which I was most + nearly concerned, as if he possessed a competent knowledge of the + subject. Having survived Lord Byron, I feel increased reluctance to + advert to any circumstances connected with the period of my marriage; + nor is it now my intention to disclose them further than may be + indispensably requisite for the end I have in view. Self-vindication + is not the motive which actuates me to make this appeal, and the + spirit of accusation is unmingled with it; but when the conduct of + my parents is brought forward in a disgraceful light by the passages + selected from Lord Byron's letters, and by the remarks of his + biographer, I feel bound to justify their characters from imputations + which I _know_ to be false. The passages from Lord Byron's letters, to + which I refer, are,--the aspersion on my mother's character (p. 648, + l. 4):[19] "My child is very well and flourishing, I hear; but I must + see also. I feel no disposition to resign it to the _contagion of its + grandmother's society_." The assertion of her dishonourable conduct + in employing a spy (p. 645, l. 7, &c.): "A Mrs. C. (now a kind of + housekeeper and _spy of Lady N.'s_), who, in her better days, was a + washerwoman, is supposed to be--by the learned--very much the occult + cause of our domestic discrepancies." The seeming exculpation of + myself in the extract (p. 646), with the words immediately following + it, "Her nearest relations are a----;" where the blank clearly implies + something too offensive for publication. These passages tend to throw + suspicion on my parents, and give reason to ascribe the separation + either to their direct agency, or to that of "officious spies" + employed by them.[20] From the following part of the narrative (p. + 642), it must also be inferred that an undue influence was exercised + by them for the accomplishment of this purpose: "It was in a few + weeks after the latter communication between us (Lord Byron and Mr. + Moore) that Lady Byron adopted the determination of parting from him. + She had left London at the latter end of January, on a visit to her + father's house in Leicestershire; and Lord Byron was in a short time + to follow her. They had parted in the utmost kindness,--she wrote + him a letter, full of playfulness and affection, on the road; and, + immediately on her arrival at Kirkby Mallory, her father wrote to + acquaint Lord Byron that she would return to him no more." + + [Footnote 19: The references are to the first volume of the first + edition of Moore's Life', originally published by itself.] + + [Footnote 20: 'The officious spies of his privacy,' p. 650.] + + 'In my observations upon this statement, I shall, as far as possible, + avoid touching on any matters relating personally to Lord Byron + and myself. The facts are,--I left London for Kirkby Mallory, the + residence of my father and mother, on the 15th of January, 1816. + Lord Byron had signified to me in writing (Jan. 6) his absolute + desire that I should leave London on the earliest day that I could + conveniently fix. It was not safe for me to undertake the fatigue of a + journey sooner than the 15th. Previously to my departure, it had been + strongly impressed on my mind that Lord Byron was under the influence + of insanity. This opinion was derived in a great measure from the + communications made to me by his nearest relatives and personal + attendant, who had more opportunities than myself of observing him + during the latter part of my stay in town. It was even represented to + me that he was in danger of destroying himself. _With the concurrence + of his family_, I had consulted Dr. Baillie, as a friend (Jan. 8), + respecting this supposed malady. On acquainting him with the state of + the case, and with Lord Byron's desire that I should leave London, Dr. + Baillie thought that my absence might be advisable as an experiment, + _assuming_ the fact of mental derangement; for Dr. Baillie, not + having had access to Lord Byron, could not pronounce a positive + opinion on that point. He enjoined that, in correspondence with Lord + Byron, I should avoid all but light and soothing topics. Under these + impressions I left London, determined to follow the advice given by + Dr. Baillie. Whatever might have been the nature of Lord Byron's + conduct towards me from the time of my marriage, yet, supposing him + to be in a state of mental alienation, it was not for _me_, nor for + any person of common humanity, to manifest at that moment a sense + of injury. On the day of my departure, and again on my arrival at + Kirkby (Jan. 16), I wrote to Lord Byron in a kind and cheerful tone, + according to those medical directions. + + 'The last letter was circulated, and employed as a pretext for the + charge of my having been subsequently _influenced_ to "desert"[21] my + husband. It has been argued that I parted from Lord Byron in perfect + harmony; that feelings incompatible with any deep sense of injury had + dictated the letter which I addressed to him; and that my sentiments + must have been changed by persuasion and interference when I was + under the roof of my parents. These assertions and inferences are + wholly destitute of foundation. When I arrived at Kirkby Mallory, my + parents were unacquainted with the existence of any causes likely to + destroy my prospects of happiness; and, when I communicated to them + the opinion which had been formed concerning Lord Byron's state of + mind, they were most anxious to promote his restoration by every means + in their power. They assured those relations who were with him in + London, that "they would devote their whole care and attention to the + alleviation of his malady;" and hoped to make the best arrangements + for his comfort if he could be induced to visit them. + + [Footnote 21: 'The deserted husband,' p. 651.] + + 'With these intentions, my mother wrote on the 17th to Lord Byron, + inviting him to Kirkby Mallory. She had always treated him with an + affectionate consideration and indulgence, which extended to every + little peculiarity of his feelings. Never did an irritating word + escape her lips in her whole intercourse with him. The accounts given + me after I left Lord Byron, by the persons in constant intercourse + with him, added to those doubts which had before transiently occurred + to my mind as to the reality of the alleged disease; and the reports + of his medical attendant were far from establishing the existence of + anything like lunacy. Under this uncertainty, I deemed it right to + communicate to my parents, that, if I were to consider Lord Byron's + past conduct as that of a person of sound mind, nothing could induce + me to return to him. It therefore appeared expedient, both to them and + myself, to consult the ablest advisers. For that object, and also + to obtain still further information respecting the appearances which + seemed to indicate mental derangement, my mother determined to go to + London. She was empowered by me to take legal opinions on a written + statement of mine, though I had then reasons for reserving a part + of the case from the knowledge even of my father and mother. Being + convinced by the result of these inquiries, and by the tenor of Lord + Byron's proceedings, that the notion of insanity was an illusion, I no + longer hesitated to authorise such measures as were necessary in order + to secure me from being ever again placed in his power. Conformably + with this resolution, my father wrote to him on the 2nd of February + to propose an amicable separation. Lord Byron at first rejected this + proposal; but when it was distinctly notified to him that, if he + persisted in his refusal, recourse must be had to legal measures, he + agreed to sign a deed of separation. Upon applying to Dr. Lushington, + who was intimately acquainted with all the circumstances, to state in + writing what he recollected upon this subject, I received from him the + following letter, by which it will be manifest that my mother cannot + have been actuated by any hostile or ungenerous motives towards Lord + Byron:-- + + '"MY DEAR LADY BYRON,--I can rely upon the accuracy of + my memory for the following statement. I was originally consulted + by Lady Noel, on your behalf, whilst you were in the country. The + circumstances detailed by her were such as justified a separation; + but they were not of that aggravated description as to render such + a measure indispensable. On Lady Noel's representation, I deemed a + reconciliation with Lord Byron practicable, and felt most sincerely + a wish to aid in effecting it. There was not on Lady Noel's part + any exaggeration of the facts; nor, so far as I could perceive, any + determination to prevent a return to Lord Byron: certainly none was + expressed when I spoke of a reconciliation. When you came to town, + in about a fortnight, or perhaps more, after my first interview with + Lady Noel, I was for the first time informed by you of facts utterly + unknown, as I have no doubt, to Sir Ralph and Lady Noel. On receiving + this additional information, my opinion was entirely changed: I + considered a reconciliation impossible. I declared my opinion, and + added, that, if such an idea should be entertained, I could not, + either professionally or otherwise, take any part towards effecting it. + + '"Believe me, very faithfully yours, + + '"STEPH. LUSHINGTON. + + '"Great George Street, Jan. 31, 1830." + + 'I have only to observe, that, if the statements on which my legal + advisers (the late Sir Samuel Romilly and Dr. Lushington) formed + their opinions were false, the responsibility and the odium should + rest with _me only_. I trust that the facts which I have here briefly + recapitulated will absolve my father and mother from all accusations + with regard to the part they took in the separation between Lord Byron + and myself. + + 'They neither originated, instigated, nor advised that separation; + and they cannot be condemned for having afforded to their daughter + the assistance and protection which she claimed. There is no other + near relative to vindicate their memory from insult. I am therefore + compelled to break the silence which I had hoped always to observe, + and to solicit from the readers of Lord Byron's "Life" an impartial + consideration of the testimony extorted from me. + + 'A. I. NOEL BYRON. + + 'Hanger Hill, Feb. 19, 1830.' + +The effect of this statement on the literary world may be best judged +by the discussion of it by Christopher North (Wilson) in the succeeding +May number of 'The Noctes,' where the bravest and most generous of +literary men that then were--himself the husband of a gentle wife--thus +gives sentence: the conversation is between North and the Shepherd:-- + + _North._--'God forbid I should wound the feelings of Lady Byron, of + whose character, known to me but by the high estimation in which + it is held by all who have enjoyed her friendship, I have always + spoken with respect!... But may I, without harshness or indelicacy, + say, here among ourselves, James, that, by marrying Byron, she took + upon herself, with eyes wide open and conscience clearly convinced, + duties very different from those of which, even in common cases, the + presaging foresight shadows ... the light of the first nuptial moon?' + + _Shepherd._--'She did that, sir; by my troth, she did that.' + + _North._--'Miss Milbanke knew that he was reckoned a rake and a + _roué_; and although his genius wiped off, by impassioned eloquence + in love-letters that were felt to be irresistible, or hid the worst + stain of, that reproach, still Miss Milbanke must have believed it a + perilous thing to be the wife of Lord Byron.... But still, by joining + her life to his in marriage, she pledged her troth and her faith and + her love, under probabilities of severe, disturbing, perhaps fearful + trials, in the future.... + + 'But I think Lady Byron ought not to have printed that Narrative. + Death abrogates not the rights of a husband to his wife's silence + when speech is fatal ... to his character as a man. Has she not + flung suspicion over his bones interred, that they are the bones of + a--monster?... If Byron's sins or crimes--for we are driven to use + terrible terms--were unendurable and unforgivable as if against the + Holy Ghost, ought the wheel, the rack, or the stake to have extorted + that confession from his widow's breast.... But there was no such + pain here, James: the declaration was voluntary, and it was calm. + Self-collected, and gathering up all her faculties and feelings + into unshrinking strength, she denounced before all the world--and + throughout all space and all time--her husband, as excommunicated by + his vices from woman's bosom. + + * * * * * + + ''Twas to vindicate the character of her parents that Lady Byron + wrote,--a holy purpose and devout, nor do I doubt sincere. But filial + affection and reverence, sacred as they are, may be blamelessly, nay, + righteously, subordinate to conjugal duties, which die not with the + dead, are extinguished not even by the sins of the dead, were they as + foul as the grave's corruption.' + +Here is what John Stuart Mill calls the literature of slavery for +woman, in length and breadth; and, that all women may understand the +doctrine, the Shepherd now takes up his parable, and expounds the true +position of the wife. We render his Scotch into English:-- + + 'Not a few such widows do I know, whom brutal, profligate, and savage + husbands have brought to the brink of the grave,--as good, as bright, + as innocent as, and far more forgiving than, Lady Byron. There + they sit in their obscure, rarely-visited dwellings; for sympathy + instructed by suffering knows well that the deepest and most hopeless + misery is least given to complaint.' + +Then follows a pathetic picture of one such widow, trembling and +fainting for hunger, obliged, on her way to the well for a can of +water, her only drink, to sit down on a '_knowe_' and say a prayer. + + 'Yet she's decently, yea, tidily dressed, poor creature! in sair worn + widow's clothes, a single suit for Saturday and Sunday; her hair, + untimely gray, is neatly braided under her crape cap; and sometimes, + when all is still and solitary in the fields, and all labour has + disappeared into the house, you may see her stealing by herself, or + leading one wee orphan by the hand, with another at her breast, to the + kirkyard, where the love of her youth and the husband of her prime is + buried. + + 'Yet,' says the Shepherd, 'he was a brute, a ruffian, a monster. When + drunk, how he raged and cursed and swore! Often did she dread that, in + his fits of inhuman passion, he would have murdered the baby at her + breast; for she had seen him dash their only little boy, a child of + eight years old, on the floor, till the blood gushed from his ears; + and then the madman threw himself down on the body, and howled for + the gallows. Limmers haunted his door, and he theirs; and it was hers + to lie, not sleep, in a cold, forsaken bed, once the bed of peace, + affection, and perfect happiness. Often he struck her; and once when + she was pregnant with that very orphan now smiling on her breast, + reaching out his wee fingers to touch the flowers on his father's + grave.... + + 'But she tries to smile among the neighbours, and speaks of her boy's + likeness to its father; nor, when the conversation turns on bygone + times, does she fear to let his name escape her white lips, "My + Robert; the bairn's not ill-favoured, but he will never look like his + father,"--and such sayings, uttered in a calm, sweet voice. Nay, I + remember once how her pale countenance reddened with a sudden flush + of pride, when a gossiping crone alluded to their wedding; and the + widow's eye brightened through her tears to hear how the bridegroom, + sitting that sabbath in his front seat beside his bonny bride, had + not his equal for strength, stature, and all that is beauty in man, + in all the congregation. That, I say, sir, whether right or wrong, + _was--forgiveness_.' + +Here is a specimen of how even generous men had been so perverted by +the enchantment of Lord Byron's genius, as to turn all the pathos and +power of the strongest literature of that day against the persecuted, +pure woman, and for the strong, wicked man. These 'Blackwood' writers +knew, by Byron's own filthy, ghastly writings, which had gone sorely +against their own moral stomachs, that he was foul to the bone. They +could see, in Moore's 'Memoirs' right before them, how he had caught an +innocent girl's heart by sending a love-letter, and offer of marriage, +at the end of a long friendly correspondence,--a letter that had been +written to _show_ to his libertine set, and sent on the toss-up of a +copper, because he cared nothing for it one way or the other. + +They admit that, having won this poor girl, he had been savage, brutal, +drunken, cruel. They had read the filthy taunts in 'Don Juan,' and the +nameless abominations in the 'Autobiography.' They had admitted among +themselves that his honour was lost; but still this abused, desecrated +woman must _reverence_ her brutal master's memory, and not speak, even +to defend the grave of her own kind father and mother. + +That there was _no_ lover of her youth, that the marriage-vow had been +a hideous, shameless cheat, is on the face of Moore's account; yet +the 'Blackwood' does not see it nor feel it, and brings up against +Lady Byron this touching story of a poor widow, who really had had a +true lover once,--a lover maddened, imbruted, lost, through that very +drunkenness in which the Noctes Club were always glorying. + +It is because of such transgressors as Byron, such supporters as +Moore and the Noctes Club, that there are so many helpless, cowering, +broken-hearted, abject women, given over to the animal love which they +share alike with the poor dog,--the dog, who, beaten, kicked, starved, +and cuffed, still lies by his drunken master with great anxious eyes +of love and sorrow, and with sweet, brute forgiveness nestles upon his +bosom, as he lies in his filth in the snowy ditch, to keep the warmth +of life in him. Great is the mystery of this fidelity in the poor, +loving brute,--most mournful and most sacred! + +But, oh that a noble man should have no higher ideal of the love of a +high-souled, heroic woman! Oh that men should teach women that they +owe no higher duties, and are capable of no higher tenderness, than +this loving, unquestioning animal fidelity! The dog is ever-loving, +ever-forgiving, because God has given him no high range of moral +faculties, no sense of justice, no consequent horror at impurity and +vileness. + +Much of the beautiful patience and forgiveness of women is made +possible to them by that utter _deadness to the sense of justice_ which +the laws, literature, and misunderstood religion of England have sought +to induce in woman as a special grace and virtue. + +The lesson to woman in this pathetic piece of special pleading is, +that man may sink himself below the brute, may wallow in filth like +the swine, may turn his home into a hell, beat and torture his +children, forsake the marriage-bed for foul rivals; yet all this does +not dissolve the marriage-vow on her part, nor free his bounden serf +from her obligation to honour his memory,--nay, to sacrifice to it +the honour due to a kind father and mother, slandered in their silent +graves. + +Such was the sympathy, and such the advice, that the best literature +of England could give to a young widow, a peeress of England, whose +husband, as they verily believed and admitted, might have done +_worse_ than all this; whose crimes might have been 'foul, monstrous, +unforgivable as the sin against the Holy Ghost.' If these things be +done in the green tree, what shall be done in the dry? If the peeress +_as a wife_ has no rights, what is the state of the cotter's wife? + +But, in the same paper, North again blames Lady Byron for not +having come out with the whole story before the world at the time +she separated from her husband. He says of the time when she first +consulted counsel through her mother, keeping back one item,-- + + 'How weak, and worse than weak, at such a juncture, on which hung her + whole fate, to ask legal advice on an imperfect document! Give the + delicacy of a virtuous woman its due; but at such a crisis, when the + question was whether her conscience was to be free from the oath of + oaths, delicacy should have died, and nature was privileged to show + unashamed--if such there were--the records of uttermost pollution.' + + _Shepherd._--'And what think ye, sir, that a' this pollution could hae + been, that sae electrified Dr. Lushington?' + + _North._--'Bad--bad--bad, James. Nameless, it is horrible; named, + it might leave Byron's memory yet within the range of pity and + forgiveness; and, where they are, their sister affections will not be + far; though, like weeping seraphs, standing aloof, and veiling their + wings.' + + _Shepherd._--'She should indeed hae been silent--till the grave had + closed on her sorrows as on his sins.' + + _North._--'_Even now she should speak_,--or some one else for her,-- + ... and a few words will suffice. _Worse_ the condition of the dead + man's name cannot be--far, far better it might--I believe it would + be--were _all_ the truth somehow or other declared; and declared it + must be, not for Byron's sake only, but for the sake of humanity + itself; and then a mitigated sentence, or eternal silence.' + +We have another discussion of Lady Byron's duties in a further number +of 'Blackwood.' + +The 'Memoir' being out, it was proposed that there should be a complete +annotation of Byron's works gotten up, and adorned, for the further +glorification of his memory, with portraits of the various women whom +he had delighted to honour. + +Murray applied to Lady Byron for her portrait, and was met with a cold, +decided negative. After reading all the particulars of Byron's harem of +mistresses, and Moore's comparisons between herself and La Guiccioli, +one might _imagine_ reasons why a lady, with proper self-respect, +should object to appearing in this manner. One would suppose there +might have been gentlemen who could well appreciate the _motive_ of +that refusal; but it was only considered a new evidence that she was +indifferent to her conjugal duties, and wanting in that _respect_ which +Christopher North had told her she owed a husband's memory, though his +crimes were foul as the rottenness of the grave. + +Never, since Queen Vashti refused to come at the command of a drunken +husband to show herself to his drunken lords, was there a clearer case +of disrespect to the marital dignity on the part of a wife. It was a +plain act of insubordination, rebellion against law and order; and +how shocking in Lady Byron, who ought to feel herself but too much +flattered to be exhibited to the public as the head wife of a man of +genius! + +Means were at once adopted to subdue her contumacy, of which one may +read in a note to the 'Blackwood' (Noctes), September 1832. An artist +was sent down to Ealing to take her picture by stealth as she sat in +church. Two sittings were thus obtained without her knowledge. In the +third one, the artist placed himself boldly before her, and sketched, +so that she could not but observe him. We shall give the rest in +Mackenzie's own words, as a remarkable specimen of the obtuseness, +not to say indelicacy of feeling, which seemed to pervade the literary +circles of England at the time:-- + + 'After prayers, Wright and his friend (the artist) were visited by + an ambassador from her ladyship to inquire the meaning of what she + had seen. The reply was, that Mr. Murray _must_ have her portrait, + and was compelled to take what she refused to give. The result was, + Wright was requested to visit her, which he did; taking with him, + not _the_ sketch, which was very good, but another, in which there + was a strong touch of caricature. Rather than allow _that_ to appear + as her likeness (a very natural and womanly feeling by the way), she + consented to sit for the portrait to W. J. Newton, which was engraved, + and is here alluded to.' + +The artless barbarism of this note is too good to be lost; but it +is quite borne out by the conversation in the Noctes Club, which it +illustrates. + +It would appear from this conversation that these Byron beauties +appeared successively in pamphlet form; and the picture of Lady Byron +is thus discussed:-- + + _Mullion._--'I don't know if you have seen the last brochure. It has a + charming head of Lady Byron, who, it seems, sat on purpose: and that's + very agreeable to hear of; for it shows her ladyship has got over any + little soreness that Moore's "Life" occasioned, and is now willing + to contribute anything in her power to the real monument of Byron's + genius.' + + _North._--'I am delighted to hear of this: 'tis really very noble in + the unfortunate lady. I never saw her. Is the face a striking one?' + + _Mullion._--'Eminently so,--a most calm, pensive, melancholy style of + native beauty,--and a most touching contrast to the maids of Athens, + Annesley, and all the rest of them. I'm sure you'll have the proof + Finden has sent you framed for the Boudoir at the Lodge.' + + _North._--'By all means. I mean to do that for all the Byron Beauties.' + +But it may be asked, Was there not a man in all England with delicacy +enough to feel for Lady Byron, and chivalry enough to speak a bold word +for her? Yes: there was one. Thomas Campbell the poet, when he read +Lady Byron's statement, believed it, as did Christopher North; but it +affected him differently. It appears he did not believe it a wife's +duty to burn herself on her husband's funeral-pile, as did Christopher +North; and held the singular idea, that a wife had _some_ rights as a +human being as well as a husband. + +Lady Byron's own statement appeared in pamphlet form in 1830: at +least, such is the date at the foot of the document. Thomas Campbell, +in 'The New Monthly Magazine,' shortly after, printed a spirited, +gentlemanly defence of Lady Byron, and administered a pointed rebuke to +Moore for the rudeness and indelicacy he had shown in selecting from +Byron's letters the coarsest against herself, her parents, and her +old governess Mrs. Clermont, and by the indecent comparisons he had +instituted between Lady Byron and Lord Byron's last mistress. + +It is refreshing to hear, at last, from somebody who is not altogether +on his knees at the feet of the popular idol, and who has some chivalry +for woman, and some idea of common humanity. He says,-- + + 'I found my right to speak on this painful subject on its now + _irrevocable publicity_, brought up afresh as it has been by Mr. + Moore, to be the theme of discourse to millions, and, if I err not + much, the cause of misconception to innumerable minds. I claim to + speak of Lady Byron in the right of a man, and of a friend to the + rights of woman, and to liberty, and to natural religion. I claim a + right, more especially, as one of the many friends of Lady Byron, + who, one and all, feel aggrieved by this production. It has virtually + dragged her forward from the shade of retirement, where she had hid + her sorrows, and compelled her to defend the heads of her friends and + her parents from being crushed under the tombstone of Byron. Nay, in a + general view, it has forced her to defend _herself_; though, with her + true sense and her pure taste, she stands above all special pleading. + To plenary explanation she _ought_ not--she never _shall_ be driven. + Mr. Moore is too much a gentleman not to shudder at the thought of + that; but if other Byronists, of a far different stamp, were to force + the savage ordeal, it is her enemies, and not she, that would have to + dread the burning plough-shares. + + 'We, her friends, have no wish to prolong the discussion: but a few + words we _must_ add, even to her admirable statement; for hers is a + cause not only dear to her friends, but having become, from Mr. Moore + and her misfortunes, a publicly-agitated cause, it concerns morality, + and the most sacred rights of the sex, that she should (and that, + too, without more special explanations) be acquitted out and out, and + honourably acquitted, in this business, of all share in the blame, + which is one and indivisible. Mr. Moore, on further reflection, may + see this; and his return to candour will surprise us less than his + momentary deviation from its path. + + 'For the tact of Mr. Moore's conduct in this affair, I have not to + answer; but, if indelicacy be charged upon me, I scorn the charge. + Neither will I submit to be called Lord Byron's accuser; because a + word against him I wish not to say beyond what is painfully wrung + from me by the necessity of owning or illustrating Lady Byron's + unblamableness, and of repelling certain misconceptions respecting + her, which are now walking the fashionable world, and which have been + fostered (though Heaven knows where they were born) most delicately + and warily by the Christian godfathership of Mr. Moore. + + 'I write not at Lady Byron's bidding. I have never humiliated either + her or myself by asking _if_ I should write, or _what_ I should write; + that is to say, I never applied to her for information against Lord + Byron, though I was justified, as one intending to criticise Mr. + Moore, in inquiring into the truth of some of his statements. Neither + will I suffer myself to be called her champion, if by that word be + meant the advocate of her mere legal innocence; for that, I take it, + nobody questions. + + 'Still less is it from the sorry impulse of pity that I speak of + this noble woman; for I look with wonder and even envy at the proud + purity of her sense and conscience, that have carried her exquisite + sensibilities in triumph through such poignant tribulations. But + I am proud to be called her friend, the humble illustrator of her + cause, and the advocate of those principles which make it to me more + interesting than Lord Byron's. Lady Byron (if the subject must be + discussed) belongs to sentiment and morality (at least as much as Lord + Byron); nor is she to be suffered, when compelled to speak, to raise + her voice as in a desert, with no friendly voice to respond to her. + Lady Byron could not have outlived her sufferings if she had not wound + up her fortitude to the high point of trusting mainly for consolation, + not to the opinion of the world, but to her own inward peace; and, + having said what ought to convince the world, I verily believe that + she has less care about the fashionable opinion respecting her than + any of her friends can have. But we, her friends, mix with the world; + and we hear offensive absurdities about her, which we have a right to + put down. + + * * * * * + + 'I proceed to deal more generally with Mr. Moore's book. You speak, + Mr. Moore, against Lord Byron's censurers in a tone of indignation + which is perfectly lawful towards calumnious traducers, but which will + not terrify me, or any other man of courage who is no calumniator, + from uttering his mind freely with regard to this part of your hero's + conduct. I question your philosophy in assuming that all that is + noble in Byron's poetry was inconsistent with the possibility of his + being devoted to a pure and good woman; and I repudiate your morality + for canting too complacently about "the lava of his imagination," + and the unsettled fever of his passions, being any excuses for his + planting the _tic douloureux_ of domestic suffering in a meek woman's + bosom. + + 'These are hard words, Mr. Moore; but you have brought them on + yourself by your voluntary ignorance of facts known to me; for you + might and ought to have known both sides of the question; and, if the + subject was too delicate for you to consult Lady Byron's confidential + friends, you ought to have had nothing to do with the subject. But you + cannot have submitted your book even to Lord Byron's sister, otherwise + she would have set you right about the imaginary spy, Mrs. Clermont.' + +Campbell now goes on to print, at his own peril, he says, and without +time to ask leave, the following note from Lady Byron in reply to an +application he made to her, when he was about to review Moore's book, +for an 'estimate as to the correctness of Moore's statements.' + +The following is Lady Byron's reply:-- + + 'DEAR MR. CAMPBELL,--In taking up my pen to point out + for your private information[22] those passages in Mr. Moore's + representation of my part of the story which were open to + contradiction, I find them of still greater extent than I had + supposed; and to deny an assertion _here and there_ would virtually + admit the truth of the rest. If, on the contrary, I were to enter into + a full exposure of the falsehood of the views taken by Mr. Moore, I + must detail various matters, which, consistently with my principles + and feelings, I cannot under the existing circumstances disclose. I + may, perhaps, convince you better of the difficulty of the case by + an example: It is not true that pecuniary embarrassments were the + cause of the disturbed state of Lord Byron's mind, or formed the + chief reason for the arrangements made by him at that time. But is it + reasonable for me to expect that you or any one else should believe + this, unless I show you what were the causes in question? and this I + cannot do. 'I am, &c., + + 'A. I. NOEL BYRON.' + +[Footnote 22: 'I (Campbell) had not time to ask Lady Byron's permission +to print this private letter; but it seemed to me important, and I have +published it _meo periculo_.'] + +Campbell then goes on to reprove Moore for his injustice to Mrs. +Clermont, whom Lord Byron had denounced as a spy, but whose +respectability and innocence were vouched for by Lord Byron's own +family; and then he pointedly rebukes one false statement of great +indelicacy and cruelty concerning Lady Byron's courtship, as follows:-- + + 'It is a further mistake on Mr. Moore's part, and I can prove it to be + so, if proof be necessary, to represent Lady Byron, in the course of + their courtship, as one inviting her future husband to correspondence + by letters after she had at first refused him. She never proposed a + correspondence. On the contrary, he sent her a message after that + first refusal, stating that he meant to go abroad, and to travel for + some years in the East; that he should depart with a heart aching, + but not angry; and that he only begged a verbal assurance that she + had still some interest in his happiness. Could Miss Milbanke, as a + well-bred woman, refuse a courteous answer to such a message? She sent + him a verbal answer, which was merely kind and becoming, but which + signified no encouragement that he should renew his offer of marriage. + + 'After that message, he wrote to her a most interesting letter about + himself,--about his views, personal, moral, and religious,--to which + it would have been uncharitable not to have replied. The result was + an insensibly increasing correspondence, which ended in her being + devotedly attached to him. About that time, I occasionally saw Lord + Byron; and though I knew less of him than Mr. Moore, yet I suspect I + knew as much of him as Miss Milbanke then knew. At that time, he was + so pleasing, that, if I had had a daughter with ample fortune and + beauty, I should have trusted her in marriage with Lord Byron. + + 'Mr. Moore at that period evidently understood Lord Byron better than + either his future bride or myself; but this speaks more for Moore's + shrewdness than for Byron's ingenuousness of character. + + 'It is more for Lord Byron's sake than for his widow's that I resort + not to a more special examination of Mr. Moore's misconceptions. The + subject would lead me insensibly into hateful disclosures against poor + Lord Byron, who is more unfortunate in his rash defenders than in + his reluctant accusers. Happily, his own candour turns our hostility + from himself against his defenders. It was only in wayward and bitter + remarks that he misrepresented Lady Byron. He would have defended + himself irresistibly if Mr. Moore had left only his acknowledging + passages. But Mr. Moore has produced a "Life" of him which reflects + blame on Lady Byron so dexterously, that "more is meant than meets + the ear." The almost universal impression produced by his book is, + that Lady Byron must be a precise and a wan, unwarming spirit, a + blue-stocking of chilblained learning, a piece of insensitive goodness. + + 'Who that knows Lady Byron will not pronounce her to be everything the + reverse? Will it be believed that this person, so unsuitably matched + to her moody lord, has written verses that would do no discredit to + Byron himself; that her sensitiveness is surpassed and bounded only by + her good sense; and that she is + + '"Blest with a temper, whose unclouded ray + Can make to-morrow cheerful as to-day"? + + 'She brought to Lord Byron beauty, manners, fortune, meekness, + romantic affection, and everything that ought to have made her to + the most transcendent man of genius--_had he been what he should + have been_--his pride and his idol. I speak not of Lady Byron in the + commonplace manner of attesting character: I appeal to the gifted Mrs. + Siddons and Joanna Baillie, to Lady Charlemont, and to other ornaments + of their sex, whether I am exaggerating in the least when I say, that, + in their whole lives, they have seen few beings so intellectual and + well-tempered as Lady Byron. + + 'I wish to be as ingenuous as possible in speaking of her. Her manner, + I have no hesitation to say, is cool at the first interview, but is + modestly, and not insolently, cool: she contracted it, I believe, from + being exposed by her beauty and large fortune, in youth, to numbers + of suitors, whom she could not have otherwise kept at a distance. + But this manner could have had no influence with Lord Byron; for + it vanishes on nearer acquaintance, and has no origin in coldness. + All her friends like her frankness the better for being preceded by + this reserve. This manner, however, though not the slightest apology + for Lord Byron, has been inimical to Lady Byron in her misfortunes. + It endears her to her friends; but it piques the indifferent. Most + odiously unjust, therefore, is Mr. Moore's assertion, that she has had + the advantage of Lord Byron in public opinion. She is, comparatively + speaking, unknown to the world; for though she has many friends, that + is, a friend in everyone who knows her, yet her pride and purity and + misfortunes naturally contract the circle of her acquaintance. + + 'There is something exquisitely unjust in Mr. Moore comparing her + chance of popularity with Lord Byron's, the poet who can command + men of talents,--putting even Mr. Moore into the livery of his + service,--and who has suborned the favour of almost all women by the + beauty of his person and the voluptuousness of his verses. Lady Byron + has nothing to oppose to these fascinations but the truth and justice + of her cause. + + 'You said, Mr. Moore, that Lady Byron was unsuitable to her lord: the + word is cunningly insidious, and may mean as much or as little as may + suit your convenience. But, if she was unsuitable, I remark that it + tells all the worse against Lord Byron. I have not read it in your + book (for I hate to wade through it); but they tell me that you have + not only warily depreciated Lady Byron, but that you have described a + lady that would have suited him. If this be true, "it is the unkindest + cut of all,"--to hold up a florid description of a woman suitable to + Lord Byron, as if in mockery over the forlorn flower of virtue that + was drooping in the solitude of sorrow. + + 'But I trust there is no such passage in your book. Surely you must be + conscious of your woman, with her "_virtue loose about her, who would + have suited Lord Byron_," to be as imaginary a being as the woman + without a head. A woman to suit Lord Byron! Poo, poo! I could paint to + you the woman that could have _matched_ him, if I had not bargained to + say as little as possible against him. + + 'If Lady Byron was not suitable to Lord Byron, so much the worse + for his lordship; for let me tell you, Mr. Moore, that neither your + poetry, nor Lord Byron's, nor all our poetry put together, ever + delineated a more interesting being than the woman whom you have so + coldly treated. This was not kicking the dead lion, but wounding + the living lamb, who was already bleeding and shorn, even unto the + quick. I know, that, collectively speaking, the world is in Lady + Byron's favour; but it is coldly favourable, and you have not warmed + its breath. Time, however, cures everything; and even your book, + Mr. Moore, may be the means of Lady Byron's character being better + appreciated. + + 'THOMAS CAMPBELL.' + +Here is what seems to be a gentlemanly, high-spirited, chivalric man, +throwing down his glove in the lists for a pure woman. + +What was the consequence? Campbell was crowded back, thrust down, +overwhelmed, his eyes filled with dust, his mouth with ashes. + +There was a general confusion and outcry, which reacted both on him +and on Lady Byron. Her friends were angry with him for having caused +this re-action upon her; and he found himself at once attacked by +Lady Byron's enemies, and deserted by her friends. All the literary +authorities of his day took up against him with energy. Christopher +North, professor of moral philosophy in the Edinburgh University, +in a fatherly talk in 'The Noctes,' condemns Campbell, and justifies +Moore, and heartily recommends his 'Biography,' as containing nothing +materially objectionable on the score either of manners or morals. Thus +we have it in 'The Noctes' of May 1830:-- + + 'Mr. Moore's biographical book I admired; and I said so to my little + world, in two somewhat lengthy articles, which many approved, and + some, I am sorry to know, condemned.' + +On the point in question between Moore and Campbell, North goes on +to justify Moore altogether, only admitting that 'it would have been +better had he not printed any coarse expression of Byron's about the +old people;' and, finally, he closes by saying,-- + + 'I do not think that, under the circumstances, Mr. Campbell himself, + had he written Byron's "Life," could have spoken, with the sentiments + he then held, in a better, more manly, and more gentlemanly spirit, in + so far as regards Lady Byron, than Mr. Moore did: and I am sorry he + has been deterred from "swimming" through Mr. Moore's work by the fear + of "wading;" for the waters are clear and deep; nor is there any mud, + either at the bottom or round the margin.' + +Of the conduct of Lady Byron's so-called friends on this occasion it is +more difficult to speak. + +There has always been in England, as John Stuart Mill says, a class +of women who glory in the utter self-abnegation of the wife to the +husband, as the special crown of womanhood. Their patron saint is +the Griselda of Chaucer, who, when her husband humiliates her, and +treats her as a brute, still accepts all with meek, unquestioning, +uncomplaining devotion. He tears her from her children; he treats her +with personal abuse; he repudiates her,--sends her out to nakedness +and poverty; he installs another mistress in his house, and sends for +the first to be her handmaid and his own: and all this the meek saint +accepts in the words of Milton,-- + + 'My guide and head, + What thou hast said is just and right.' + +Accordingly, Miss Martineau tells us that when Campbell's defence came +out, coupled with a note from Lady Byron,-- + + 'The first obvious remark was, that there was no real disclosure; and + the whole affair had the appearance of a desire, on the part of Lady + Byron, to exculpate herself, while yet no adequate information was + given. Many, who had regarded her with favour till then, gave her up + so far as to believe that feminine weakness had prevailed at last.' + +The saint had fallen from her pedestal! She had shown a human frailty! +Quite evidently she is not a Griselda, but possessed with a shocking +desire to exculpate herself and her friends. + +Is it, then, only to slandered _men_ that the privilege belongs of +desiring to exculpate themselves and their families and their friends +from unjust censure? + +Lord Byron had made it a life-long object to vilify and defame his +wife. He had used for that one particular purpose every talent that +he possessed. He had left it as a last charge to Moore to pursue +the warfare after death, which Moore had done to some purpose; and +Christopher North had informed Lady Byron that her private affairs +were discussed, not only with the whisky-toddy of the Noctes Club, +but in every drawing-room in May Fair; and declared that the 'Dear +Duck' letter, and various other matters, must be explained, and urged +somebody to speak; and then, when Campbell does speak with all the +energy of a real gentleman, a general outcry and an indiscriminate +_mêlée_ is the result. + +The world, with its usual injustice, insisted on attributing Campbell's +defence to Lady Byron. + +The reasons for this seemed to be, first, that Campbell states that he +did _not_ ask Lady Byron's leave, and that she did _not_ authorise him +to defend her; and, second, that, having asked some explanations from +her, he prints a note in which she declines to give any. + +We know not how a lady could more gently yet firmly decline to make +a gentleman her confidant than in this published note of Lady Byron; +and yet, to this day, Campbell is spoken of by the world as having +been Lady Byron's confidant at this time. This simply shows how very +trustworthy are the general assertions about Lady Byron's confidants. + +The final result of the matter, so far as Campbell was concerned, is +given in Miss Martineau's sketch, in the following paragraph:-- + + 'The whole transaction was one of poor Campbell's freaks. He excused + himself by saying it was a mistake of his; that he did not know what + he was about when he published the paper.' + +It is the saddest of all sad things to see a man, who has spoken from +moral convictions, in advance of his day, and who has taken a stand for +which he ought to honour himself, thus forced down and humiliated, made +to doubt his own better nature and his own honourable feelings, by the +voice of a wicked world. + +Campbell had no steadiness to stand by the truth he saw. His whole +story is told incidentally in a note to 'The Noctes,' in which it is +stated, that in an article in 'Blackwood,' January 1825, on Scotch +poets, the palm was given to Hogg over Campbell; 'one ground being, +that _he_ could drink "eight and twenty tumblers of punch, while +Campbell is hazy upon seven."' + +There is evidence in 'The Noctes,' that in due time Campbell was +reconciled to Moore, and was always suitably ashamed of having tried to +be any more generous or just than the men of his generation. + +And so it was settled as a law to Jacob, and an ordinance in Israel, +that the Byron worship should proceed, and that all the earth should +keep silence before him. 'Don Juan,' that, years before, had been +printed by stealth, without Murray's name on the title-page, that had +been denounced as a book which no woman should read, and had been given +up as a desperate enterprise, now came forth in triumph, with banners +flying and drums beating. Every great periodical in England that had +fired moral volleys of artillery against it in its early days, now +humbly marched in the glorious procession of admirers to salute this +edifying work of genius. + +'Blackwood,' which in the beginning had been the most indignantly +virtuous of the whole, now grovelled and ate dust as the serpent in +the very abjectness of submission. Odoherty (Maginn) declares that he +would rather have written a page of 'Don Juan' than a ton of 'Childe +Harold.'[23] Timothy Tickler informs Christopher North that he means +to tender Murray, as Emperor of the North, an interleaved copy[24] of +'Don Juan,' with illustrations, as the _only_ work of Byron's he cares +much about; and Christopher North, professor of _moral_ philosophy in +Edinburgh, smiles approval! We are not, after this, surprised to see +the assertion, by a recent much-aggrieved writer in 'The London Era,' +that 'Lord Byron has been, more than any other man of the age, the +_teacher_ of the _youth_ of England;' and that he has 'seen his works +on the bookshelves of _bishops'_ palaces, no less than on the tables of +university undergraduates.' + +[Footnote 23: 'Noctes,' July 1822.] + +[Footnote 24: 'Noctes,' September 1832.] + +A note to 'The Noctes' of July 1822 informs us of another instance of +Lord Byron's triumph over English morals:-- + + 'The mention of this' (Byron's going to Greece) reminds me, by the by, + of what the Guiccioli said in her visit to London, where she was so + lionised as having been the lady-love of Byron. She was rather fond + of speaking on the subject, designating herself by some Venetian pet + phrase, which she interpreted as meaning "Love-Wife."' + +What was Lady Byron to do in such a world? She retired to the +deepest privacy, and devoted herself to works of charity, and the +education of her only child,--that brilliant daughter, to whose eager, +opening mind the whole course of current literature must bring so +many trying questions in regard to the position of her father and +mother,--questions that the mother might not answer. That the cruel +inconsiderateness of the literary world added thorns to the intricacies +of the path trodden by every mother who seeks to guide, restrain, and +educate a strong, acute, and precociously intelligent child, must +easily be seen. + +What remains to be said of Lady Byron's life shall be said in the words +of Miss Martineau, published in 'The Atlantic Monthly:'-- + + 'Her life, thenceforth, was one of unremitting bounty to society + administered with as much skill and prudence as benevolence. She lived + in retirement, changing her abode frequently; partly for the benefit + of her child's education and the promotion of her benevolent schemes, + and partly from a restlessness which was one of the few signs of + injury received from the spoiling of associations with _home_. + + 'She felt a satisfaction which her friends rejoiced in when her + daughter married Lord King, at present the Earl of Lovelace, in 1835 + and when grief upon grief followed, in the appearance of mortal + disease in her only child, her quiet patience stood her in good stead + as before. She even found strength to appropriate the blessings of the + occasion, and took comfort, as did her dying daughter, in the intimate + friendship, which grew closer as the time of parting drew nigh. + + 'Lady Lovelace died in 1852; and, for her few remaining years, Lady + Byron was devoted to her grandchildren. But nearer calls never + lessened her interest in remoter objects. Her mind was of the large + and clear quality which could comprehend remote interests in their + true proportions, and achieve each aim as perfectly as if it were the + only one. Her agents used to say that it was impossible to mistake her + directions; and thus her business was usually well done. There was no + room, in her case, for the ordinary doubts, censures, and sneers about + the misapplication of bounty. + + 'Her taste did not lie in the "Charity-Ball" direction; her funds + were not lavished in encouraging hypocrisy and improvidence among + the idle and worthless; and the quality of her charity was, in fact, + as admirable as its quantity. Her chief aim was the extension and + improvement of popular education; but there was no kind of misery that + she heard of that she did not palliate to the utmost, and no kind of + solace that her quick imagination and sympathy could devise that she + did not administer. + + 'In her methods, she united consideration and frankness with singular + success. For one instance among a thousand: A lady with whom she had + had friendly relations some time before, and who became impoverished + in a quiet way by hopeless sickness, preferred poverty with an easy + conscience to a competency attended by some uncertainty about the + perfect rectitude of the resource. Lady Byron wrote to an intermediate + person exactly what she thought of the case. Whether the judgment + of the sufferer was right or mistaken was nobody's business but her + own: this was the first point. Next, a voluntary poverty could never + be pitied by anybody: that was the second. But it was painful to + others to think of the mortification to benevolent feelings which + attends poverty; and there could be no objection to arresting that + pain. Therefore she, Lady Byron, had lodged in a neighbouring bank + the sum of one hundred pounds, to be used for benevolent purposes; + and, in order to preclude all outside speculation, she had made the + money payable to the order of the intermediate person, so that the + sufferer's name need not appear at all. + + 'Five and thirty years of unremitting secret bounty like this must + make up a great amount of human happiness; but this was only one of + a wide variety of methods of doing good. It was the unconcealable + magnitude of her beneficence, and its wise quality, which made her a + second time the theme of English conversation in all honest households + within the four seas. Years ago, it was said far and wide that Lady + Byron was doing more good than anybody else in England; and it was + difficult to imagine how anybody could do more. + + 'Lord Byron spent every shilling that the law allowed him out of + her property while he lived, and left away from her every shilling + that he could deprive her of by his will; yet she had, eventually, a + large income at her command. In the management of it, she showed the + same wise consideration that marked all her practical decisions. She + resolved to spend her whole income, seeing how much the world needed + help at the moment. Her care was for the existing generation, rather + than for a future one, which would have its own friends. She usually + declined trammelling herself with annual subscriptions to charities; + preferring to keep her freedom from year to year, and to achieve + definite objects by liberal bounty, rather than to extend partial help + over a large surface which she could not herself superintend. + + 'It was her first industrial school that awakened the admiration of + the public, which had never ceased to take an interest in her, while + sorely misjudging her character. We hear much now--and everybody hears + it with pleasure--of the spread of education in "common things;" but + long before Miss Coutts inherited her wealth, long before a name was + found for such a method of training, Lady Byron had instituted the + thing, and put it in the way of making its own name. + + 'She was living at Ealing, in Middlesex, in 1834; and there she + opened one of the first industrial schools in England, if not the + very first. She sent out a master to Switzerland, to be instructed + in De Fellenburgh's method. She took, on lease, five acres of land, + and spent several hundred pounds in rendering the buildings upon it + fit for the purposes of the school. A liberal education was afforded + to the children of artisans and labourers during the half of the day + when they were not employed in the field or garden. The allotments + were rented by the boys, who raised and sold produce, which afforded + them a considerable yearly profit if they were good workmen. Those who + worked in the field earned wages; their labour being paid by the hour, + according to the capability of the young labourer. They kept their + accounts of expenditure and receipts, and acquired good habits of + business while learning the occupation of their lives. Some mechanical + trades were taught, as well as the arts of agriculture. + + 'Part of the wisdom of the management lay in making the pupils pay. + Of one hundred pupils, half were boarders. They paid little more than + half the expenses of their maintenance, and the day-scholars paid + threepence per week. Of course, a large part of the expense was borne + by Lady Byron, besides the payments she made for children who could + not otherwise have entered the school. The establishment flourished + steadily till 1852, when the owner of the land required it back for + building purposes. During the eighteen years that the Ealing schools + were in action, they did a world of good in the way of incitement + and example. The poor-law commissioners pointed out their merits. + Land-owners and other wealthy persons visited them, and went home and + set up similar establishments. During those years, too, Lady Byron had + herself been at work in various directions to the same purpose. + + 'A more extensive industrial scheme was instituted on her + Leicestershire property, and not far off she opened a girls' school + and an infant school; and when a season of distress came, as such + seasons are apt to befall the poor Leicestershire stocking-weavers, + Lady Byron fed the children for months together, till they could + resume their payments. These schools were opened in 1840. The next + year, she built a schoolhouse on her Warwickshire property; and, five + years later, she set up an iron schoolhouse on another Leicestershire + estate. + + 'By this time, her educational efforts were costing her several + hundred pounds a year in the mere maintenance of existing + establishments; but this is the smallest consideration in the case. + She has sent out tribes of boys and girls into life fit to do their + part there with skill and credit and comfort. Perhaps it is a still + more important consideration, that scores of teachers and trainers + have been led into their vocation, and duly prepared for it, by what + they saw and learned in her schools. As for the best and the worst of + the Ealing boys, the best have, in a few cases, been received into the + Battersea Training School, whence they could enter on their career as + teachers to the greatest advantage; and the worst found their school + a true reformatory, before reformatory schools were heard of. At + Bristol, she bought a house for a reformatory for girls; and there her + friend, Miss Carpenter, faithfully and energetically carries out her + own and Lady Byron's aims, which were one and the same. + + 'There would be no end if I were to catalogue the schemes of which + these are a specimen. It is of more consequence to observe that her + mind was never narrowed by her own acts, as the minds of benevolent + people are so apt to be. To the last, her interest in great political + movements, at home and abroad, was as vivid as ever. She watched every + step won in philosophy, every discovery in science, every token of + social change and progress in every shape. Her mind was as liberal + as her heart and hand. No diversity of opinion troubled her: she + was respectful to every sort of individuality, and indulgent to all + constitutional peculiarities. It must have puzzled those who kept up + the notion of her being "strait-laced" to see how indulgent she was + even to Epicurean tendencies,--the remotest of all from her own. + + 'But I must stop; for I do not wish my honest memorial to degenerate + into panegyric. Among her latest known acts were her gifts to the + Sicilian cause, and her manifestations on behalf of the antislavery + cause in the United States. Her kindness to William and Ellen Craft + must be well known there; and it is also related in the newspapers, + that she bequeathed a legacy to a young American to assist him under + any disadvantages he might suffer as an abolitionist. + + 'All these deeds were done under a heavy burden of ill health. Before + she had passed middle life, her lungs were believed to be irreparably + injured by partial ossification. She was subject to attacks so + serious, that each one, for many years, was expected to be the last. + She arranged her affairs in correspondence with her liabilities: so + that the same order would have been found, whether she died suddenly + or after long warning. + + 'She was to receive one more accession of outward greatness before she + departed. She became Baroness Wentworth in November, 1856. This is one + of the facts of her history; but it is the least interesting to us, as + probably to her. We care more to know that her last days were bright + in honour, and cheered by the attachment of old friends worthy to pay + the duty she deserved. Above all, it is consoling to know that she who + so long outlived her only child was blessed with the unremitting and + tender care of her grand-daughter. She died on the 16th of May, 1860. + + 'The portrait of Lady Byron as she was at the time of her marriage + is probably remembered by some of my readers. It is very engaging. + Her countenance afterwards became much worn; but its expression of + thoughtfulness and composure was very interesting. Her handwriting + accorded well with the character of her mind. It was clear, elegant, + and womanly. Her manners differed with circumstances. Her shrinking + sensitiveness might embarrass one visitor; while another would be + charmed with her easy, significant, and vivacious conversation. It + depended much on whom she talked with. The abiding certainty was, that + she had strength for the hardest of human trials, and the composure + which belongs to strength. For the rest, it is enough to point to her + deeds, and to the mourning of her friends round the chasm which her + departure has made in their life, and in the society in which it is + spent. All that could be done in the way of personal love and honour + was done while she lived: it only remains now to see that her name and + fame are permitted to shine forth at last in their proper light.' + +We have simply to ask the reader whether a life like this was not the +best, the noblest answer that a woman could make to a doubting world. + + + + +CHAPTER V. + +THE ATTACK ON LADY BYRON'S GRAVE. + + +We have now brought the review of the antagonism against Lady Byron +down to the period of her death. During all this time, let the candid +reader ask himself which of these two parties seems to be plotting +against the other. + +_Which_ has been active, aggressive, unscrupulous? which has been +silent, quiet, unoffending? Which of the two has laboured to make a +party, and to make that party active, watchful, enthusiastic? + +Have we not proved that Lady Byron remained perfectly silent during +Lord Byron's life, patiently looking out from her retirement to see +the waves of popular sympathy, that once bore her up, day by day +retreating, while his accusations against her were resounding in his +poems over the whole earth? And after Lord Byron's death, when all +the world with one consent began to give their memorials of him, and +made it appear, by their various 'recollections of conversations,' how +incessantly he had obtruded his own version of the separation upon +every listener, did she manifest any similar eagerness? + +Lady Byron had seen the 'Blackwood' coming forward, on the first +appearance of 'Don Juan,' to rebuke the cowardly lampoon in words +eloquent with all the unperverted vigour of an honest Englishman. Under +the power of the great conspirator, she had seen _that_ 'Blackwood' +become the very eager recipient and chief reporter of the stories +against her, and the blind admirer of her adversary. + +All this time, she lost sympathy daily by being silent. The world +will embrace those who court it; it will patronise those who seek its +favour; it will make parties for those who seek to make parties: but +for the often accused who do not speak, who make no confidants and no +parties, the world soon loses sympathy. + +When at last she spoke, Christopher North says '_she astonished +the world_.' Calm, clear, courageous, exact as to time, date, and +circumstance, was that first testimony, backed by the equally clear +testimony of Dr. Lushington. + +It showed that her secret had been kept even from her parents. In words +precise, firm, and fearless, she says, 'If these statements on which +Dr. Lushington and Sir Samuel Romilly formed their opinion were false, +the responsibility and the odium should rest with me only.' Christopher +North did not pretend to disbelieve this statement. He breathed not a +doubt of Lady Byron's word. He spoke of the crime indicated, as one +which might have been foul as the grave's corruption, unforgivable as +the sin against the Holy Ghost. He rebuked the wife for bearing this +testimony, even to save the memory of her dead father and mother, and, +in the same breath, declared that she ought now to go farther, and +speak fully the one awful word, and then--'a mitigated sentence, or +eternal silence!' + +But Lady Byron took no counsel with the world, nor with the literary +men of her age. One knight, with some small remnant of England's old +chivalry, set lance in rest for her: she saw him beaten back unhorsed, +rolled in the dust, and ingloriously vanquished, and perceived that +henceforth nothing but injury could come to any one who attempted to +speak for her. + +She turned from the judgments of man and the fond and natural hopes of +human nature, to lose herself in sacred ministries to the downcast and +suffering. What nobler record for woman could there be than that which +Miss Martineau has given? + +Particularly to be noted in Lady Byron was her peculiar interest in +reclaiming fallen women. Among her letters to Mrs. Prof. Follen, of +Cambridge, was one addressed to a society of ladies who had undertaken +this difficult work. It was full of heavenly wisdom and of a large and +tolerant charity. Fénelon truly says, it is only perfection that can +tolerate imperfection; and the very purity of Lady Byron's nature made +her most forbearing and most tender towards the weak and the guilty. +This letter, with all the rest of Lady Byron's, was returned to the +hands of her executors after her death. Its publication would greatly +assist the world in understanding the peculiarities of its writer's +character. + +Lady Byron passed to a higher life in 1860.[25] After her death, I +looked for the publication of her Memoir and Letters as the event that +should give her the same opportunity of being known and judged by her +life and writings that had been so freely accorded to Lord Byron. + +[Footnote 25: Miss Martineau's Biographical Sketches.] + +She was, in her husband's estimation, a woman of genius. She was +the friend of many of the first men and women of her times, and +corresponded with them on topics of literature, morals, religion, +and, above all, on the benevolent and philanthropic movements of the +day, whose principles she had studied with acute observation, and in +connection with which she had acquired a large experience. + +The knowledge of her, necessarily diffused by such a series of letters, +would have created in America a comprehension of her character, of +itself sufficient to wither a thousand slanders. + +Such a Memoir was contemplated. Lady Byron's letters to Mrs. Follen +were asked for from Boston; and I was applied to by a person in +England, who I have recently learned is one of the existing trustees +of Lady Byron's papers, to furnish copies of her letters to me for the +purpose of a Memoir. Before I had time to have copies made, another +letter came, stating that the trustees had concluded that it was best +not to publish any Memoir of Lady Byron at all. + +This left the character of Lady Byron in our American world precisely +where the slanders of her husband, the literature of the Noctes Club, +and the unanimous verdict of May Fair as recorded by 'Blackwood,' had +placed it. + +True, Lady Byron had nobly and quietly lived down these slanders in +England by deeds that made her name revered as a saint among all those +who valued saintliness. + +But in France and Italy, and in these United States, I have had +abundant opportunity to know that Lady Byron stood judged and condemned +on the testimony of her brilliant husband, and that the feeling against +her had a vivacity and intensity not to be overcome by mere allusions +to a virtuous life in distant England. + +This is strikingly shown by one fact. In the American edition of +Moore's 'Life of Byron,' by Claxton, Remsen, and Haffelfinger, +Philadelphia, 1869, which I have been consulting, Lady Byron's +statement, which is found in the Appendix of Murray's standard edition, +_is entirely omitted_. Every other paper is carefully preserved. This +one incident showed how the tide of sympathy was setting in this New +World. Of course, there is no stronger power than a virtuous life; but, +for a virtuous life to bear testimony to the world, its details must be +_told_, so that the world may know them. + +Suppose the memoirs of Clarkson and Wilberforce had been suppressed +after their death, how soon might the coming tide have wiped out the +record of their bravery and philanthropy! Suppose the lives of Francis +Xavier and Henry Martyn had never been written, and we had lost the +remembrance of what holy men could do and dare in the divine enthusiasm +of Christian faith! Suppose we had no Fénelon, no Book of Martyrs! + +Would there not be an outcry through all the literary and artistic +world if a perfect statue were allowed to remain buried for ever +because some painful individual history was connected with its burial +and its recovery? But is not a noble life a greater treasure to mankind +than any work of art? + +We have heard much mourning over the burned Autobiography of Lord +Byron, and seen it treated of in a magazine as 'the lost chapter in +history.' The lost chapter in history is _Lady_ Byron's Autobiography +in her life and letters; and the suppression of them is the root of +this whole mischief. + +We do not in this intend to censure the parties who came to this +decision. + +The descendants of Lady Byron revere her memory, as they have every +reason to do. That it was _their_ desire to have a Memoir of her +published, I have been informed by an individual of the highest +character in England, who obtained the information directly from Lady +Byron's grandchildren. + +But the trustees in whose care the papers were placed drew back on +examination of them, and declared, that, as Lady Byron's papers could +not be fully published, they should regret anything that should call +public attention once more to the discussion of her history. + +Reviewing this long history of the way in which the literary world +had treated Lady Byron, we cannot wonder that her friends should have +doubted whether there was left on earth any justice, or sense that +anything is due to woman as a human being with human rights. Evidently +this lesson had taken from them all faith in the moral sense of the +world. Rather than re-awaken the discussion, so unsparing, so painful, +and so indelicate, which had been carried on so many years around +that loved form, now sanctified by death, they sacrificed the dear +pleasure of the memorials, and the interests of mankind, who have an +indefeasible right to all the help that can be got from the truth of +history as to the living power of virtue, and the reality of that great +victory that overcometh the world. + +There are thousands of poor victims suffering in sadness, +discouragement, and poverty; heart-broken wives of brutal, drunken +husbands; women enduring nameless wrongs and horrors which the delicacy +of their sex forbids them to utter,--to whom the lovely letters lying +hidden away under those seals might bring courage and hope from springs +not of this world. + +But though the friends of Lady Byron, perhaps from despair of their +kind, from weariness of the utter injustice done her, wished to cherish +her name in silence, and to confine the story of her virtues to that +circle who knew her too well to ask a proof, or utter a doubt, the +partisans of Lord Byron were embarrassed with no such scruple. + +Lord Byron had artfully contrived during his life to place his wife in +such an antagonistic position with regard to himself, that his intimate +friends were forced to believe that one of the two had deliberately +and wantonly injured the other. The published statement of Lady Byron +contradicted boldly and point-blank all the statement of her husband +concerning the separation; so that, unless _she_ was convicted as a +false witness, _he_ certainly was. + +The best evidence of this is Christopher North's own shocked, +astonished statement, and the words of the Noctes Club. + +The noble life that Lady Byron lived after this hushed every voice, +and silenced even the most desperate calumny, _while she was in the +world_. In the face of Lady Byron as the world saw her, of what use was +the talk of Clytemnestra, and the assertion that she had been a mean, +deceitful conspirator against her husband's honour in life, and stabbed +his memory after death? + +But when she was in her grave, when her voice and presence and good +deeds no more spoke for her, and a new generation was growing up that +knew her not, _then_ was the time selected to revive the assault on her +memory, and to say over her grave what none would ever have dared to +say of her while living. + +During these last two years, I have been gradually awakening to the +evidence of a new crusade against the memory of Lady Byron, which +respected no sanctity,--not even that last and most awful one of death. + +Nine years after her death, when it was fully understood that no +story on her side or that of her friends was to be forthcoming, then +her calumniators raked out from the ashes of her husband's sepulchre +all his bitter charges, to state them over in even stronger and more +indecent forms. + +There seems to be reason to think that the materials supplied by Lord +Byron for such a campaign yet exist in society. + +To 'The Noctes' of November 1824, there is the following note _apropos_ +to a discussion of the Byron question:-- + + 'Byron's Memoirs, given by him to Moore, were burned, as everybody + knows. But, before this, Moore had lent them to several persons. Mrs. + Home Purvis, afterwards Viscountess of Canterbury, is _known_ to have + sat up all one night, in which, aided by her daughter, she had a + copy made. I have the strongest reason for believing that one other + person made a copy; for the description of the first twenty-four hours + after the marriage ceremonial has been in my hands. _Not until after + the death of Lady Byron, and Hobhouse_, who was the poet's literary + executor, can the poet's Autobiography see the light; _but I am + certain it will be published_.' + +Thus speaks Mackenzie in a note to a volume of 'The Noctes,' published +in America in 1854. Lady Byron died in 1860. + +Nine years after Lady Byron's death, when it was ascertained that her +story was not to see the light, when there were no means of judging +her character by her own writings, commenced a well-planned set of +operations to turn the public attention once more to Lord Byron, and +to represent him as an injured man, whose testimony had been unjustly +suppressed. + +It was quite possible, supposing copies of the Autobiography to exist, +that this might occasion a call from the generation of to-day, in +answer to which the suppressed work might appear. This was a rather +delicate operation to commence; but the instrument was not wanting. +It was necessary that the subject should be first opened by some +irresponsible party, whom more powerful parties might, as by accident, +recognise and patronise, and on whose weakness they might build +something stronger. + +Just such an instrument was to be found in Paris. The mistress of Lord +Byron could easily be stirred up and flattered to come before the world +with a book which should re-open the whole controversy; and she proved +a facile tool. At first, the work appeared prudently in French, and was +called 'Lord Byron jugé par les Témoins de sa Vie,' and was rather a +failure. Then it was translated into English, and published by Bentley. + +The book was inartistic, and helplessly, childishly stupid as to any +literary merits,--a mere mass of gossip and twaddle; but after all, +when one remembers the taste of the thousands of circulating-library +readers, it must not be considered the less likely to be widely read +on that account. It is only once in a century that a writer of real +genius has the art to tell his story so as to take both the cultivated +few and the average many. De Foe and John Bunyan are almost the only +examples. But there is a certain class of reading that sells and +spreads, and exerts a vast influence, which the upper circles of +literature despise too much ever to fairly estimate its power. + +However, the Guiccioli book did not want for patrons in the high places +of literature. The 'Blackwood'--the old classic magazine of England; +the defender of conservatism and aristocracy; the paper of Lockhart, +Wilson, Hogg, Walter Scott, and a host of departed grandeurs--was +deputed to usher into the world this book, and to recommend it and its +author to the Christian public of the nineteenth century. + +The following is the manner in which 'Blackwood' calls attention to +it:-- + + 'One of the most beautiful of the songs of Béranger is that addressed + to his Lisette, in which he pictures her, in old age, narrating to a + younger generation the loves of their youth; decking his portrait with + flowers at each returning spring, and reciting the verses that had + been inspired by her vanished charms:-- + + 'Lorsque les yeux chercheront sous vos rides + Les traits charmants qui m'auront inspiré, + Des doux récits les jeunes gens avides, + Diront: Quel fut cet ami tant pleuré? + De mon amour peignez, s'il est possible, + L'ardeur, l'ivresse, et même les soupçons, + Et benne vieille, au coin d'un feu paisible + De votre ami répétez les chansons. + + "On vous dira: Savait-il être aimable? + Et sans rougir vous direz: Je l'aimais. + D'un trait méchant se montra-t-il capable? + Avec orgueil vous répondrez: Jamais!"' + + 'This charming picture,' 'Blackwood' goes on to say, 'has been + realised in the case of a poet greater than Béranger, and by a + mistress more famous than Lisette. The Countess Guiccioli has at + length given to the world her "Recollections of Lord Byron." The + book first appeared in France under the title of "Lord Byron jugé + par les Témoins de sa Vie," without the name of the countess. A + more unfortunate designation could hardly have been selected. The + "witnesses of his life" told us nothing but what had been told before + over and over again; and the uniform and exaggerated tone of eulogy + which pervaded the whole book was fatal to any claim on the part of + the writer to be considered an impartial judge of the wonderfully + mixed character of Byron. + + '_When, however, the book is regarded as the avowed production of + the Countess Guiccioli, it derives value and interest from its very + faults._[26] There is something inexpressibly touching in the picture + of the old lady calling up the phantoms of half a century ago; not + faded and stricken by the hand of time, but brilliant and gorgeous as + they were when Byron, in his manly prime of genius and beauty, first + flashed upon her enraptured sight, and she gave her whole soul up to + an absorbing passion, the embers of which still glow in her heart. + + [Footnote 26: The italics are mine.--H. B. S.] + + 'To her there has been no change, no decay. The god whom she + worshipped with all the ardour of her Italian nature at seventeen is + still the "Pythian of the age" to her at seventy. To try such a book + by the ordinary canons of criticism would be as absurd as to arraign + the authoress before a jury of British matrons, or to prefer a bill of + indictment against the Sultan for bigamy to a Middlesex grand jury.' + +This, then, is the introduction which one of the oldest and most +classical periodicals of Great Britain gives to a very stupid book, +simply because it was written by Lord Byron's mistress. _That fact_, we +are assured, lends grace even to its faults. + +Having brought the authoress upon the stage, the review now goes on to +define her position, and assure the Christian world that + + 'The Countess Guiccioli was the daughter of an impoverished noble. At + the age of sixteen, she was taken from a convent, and sold as third + wife to the Count Guiccioli, who was old, rich, and profligate. A + fouler prostitution never profaned the name of marriage. A short time + afterwards, she accidentally met Lord Byron. Outraged and rebellious + nature vindicated itself in the deep and devoted passion with which + he inspired her. With the full assent of husband, father, and + brother, and in compliance with the usages of Italian society, he was + shortly afterwards installed in the office, and invested with all the + privileges, of her "Cavalier Servente."' + +It has been asserted that the Marquis de Boissy, the late husband of +this Guiccioli lady, was in the habit of introducing her in fashionable +circles as 'the Marquise de Boissy, my wife, formerly mistress to Lord +Byron'! We do not give the story as a verity; yet, in the review of +this whole history, we may be pardoned for thinking it quite possible. + +The mistress, being thus vouched for and presented as worthy of +sympathy and attention by one of the oldest and most classic organs +of English literature, may now proceed in her work of glorifying the +popular idol, and casting abuse on the grave of the dead wife. + +Her attacks on Lady Byron are, to be sure, less skilful and adroit +than those of Lord Byron. They want his literary polish and tact; but +what of that? 'Blackwood' assures us that even the faults of manner +derive a peculiar grace from the fact that the narrator is Lord Byron's +mistress; and so we suppose the literary world must find grace in +things like this:-- + + 'She has been called, after his words, the moral Clytemnestra of + her husband. Such a surname is severe: but the repugnance we feel + to condemning a woman cannot prevent our listening to the voice of + justice, which tells us that the comparison is still in favour of + the guilty one of antiquity; for _she_, driven to crime by fierce + passion overpowering reason, at least only deprived her husband of + physical life, and, in committing the deed, exposed herself to all its + consequences; while Lady Byron left her husband at the very moment + that she saw him struggling amid a thousand shoals in the stormy sea + of embarrassments created by his marriage, and precisely when he more + than ever required a friendly, tender, and indulgent hand to save him. + + 'Besides, she shut herself up in silence a thousand times more cruel + than Clytemnestra's poniard: _that_ only killed the body; whereas + Lady Byron's silence was destined to kill the soul,--and such a + soul!--leaving the door open to calumny, and making it to be supposed + that her silence was magnanimity destined to cover over frightful + wrongs, perhaps even depravity. In vain did he, feeling his conscience + at ease, implore some inquiry and examination. She refused; and the + only favour she granted was to send him, one fine day, two persons to + see whether he were not mad. + + 'And, why, then, had she believed him mad? Because she, a methodical, + inflexible woman, with that unbendingness which a profound moralist + calls the worship rendered to pride by a feelingless soul,--because + she could not understand the possibility of tastes and habits + different to those of ordinary routine, or of her own starched life. + Not to be hungry when she was; not to sleep at night, but to write + while she was sleeping, and to sleep when she was up; in short, to + gratify the requirements of material and intellectual life at hours + different to hers,--all that was not merely annoying for her, but it + must be _madness_; or, if not, it betokened depravity that she could + neither submit to nor tolerate without perilling her own morality. + + 'Such was the grand secret of the cruel silence which exposed Lord + Byron to the most malignant interpretations, to all the calumny and + revenge of his enemies. + + 'She was, perhaps, the only woman in the world so strangely + organised,--the only one, perhaps, capable of not feeling happy and + proud at belonging to a man superior to the rest of humanity; and + fatally was it decreed that this woman _alone_ of her species should + be Lord Byron's wife!' + +In a note is added,-- + + 'If an imaginary fear, and even an unreasonable jealousy, may be her + excuse (just as one excuses a monomania), can one equally forgive her + silence? Such a silence is morally what are physically the poisons + which kill at once, and defy all remedies; thus insuring the culprit's + safety. This silence it is which will ever be her crime; for by it she + poisoned the life of her husband.' + +The book has several chapters devoted to Lord Byron's peculiar virtues; +and under the one devoted to magnanimity and heroism, his _forgiving_ +disposition receives special attention. The climax of all is stated to +be that he forgave Lady Byron. All the world knew that, since he had +declared this fact in a very noisy and impassioned manner in the fourth +canto of 'Childe Harold,' together with a statement of the wrongs which +he forgave; but the Guiccioli thinks his virtue, at this period, has +not been enough appreciated. In her view, it rose to the sublime. She +says of Lady Byron,-- + + 'An absolute moral monstrosity, an anomaly in the history of types + of female hideousness, had succeeded in showing itself in the light + of magnanimity. But false as was this high quality in Lady Byron, so + did it shine out in him true and admirable. The position in which + Lady Byron had placed him, and where she continued to keep him by + her harshness, silence, and strange refusals, was one of those which + cause such suffering, that the highest degree of self-control seldom + suffices to quiet the promptings of human weakness, and to cause + persons of even slight sensibility to preserve moderation. Yet, with + his sensibility and the knowledge of his worth, how did he act? what + did he say? I will not speak of his "farewell;" of the care he took + to shield her from blame by throwing it on others, by taking much too + large a share to himself.' + +With like vivacity and earnestness does the narrator now proceed to +make an incarnate angel of her subject by the simple process of denying +everything that he himself ever confessed,--everything that has ever +been confessed in regard to him by his best friends. He has been in +the world as an angel unawares from his cradle. His guardian did not +properly appreciate him, and is consequently mentioned as that _wicked_ +Lord Carlisle. Thomas Moore is never to be sufficiently condemned +for the facts told in his biography. Byron's own frank and lawless +admissions of evil are set down to a peculiar inability he had for +speaking the truth about himself,--sometimes about his near relations; +all which does not in the least discourage the authoress from giving a +separate chapter on 'Lord Byron's Love of Truth.' + +In the matter of his relations with women, she complacently repeats +(what sounds rather oddly as coming from her) Lord Byron's own +assurance, that he _never_ seduced a woman; and also the equally +convincing statement, that he had told _her_ (the Guiccioli) that his +married fidelity to his wife was perfect. She discusses Moore's account +of the mistress in boy's clothes who used to share Byron's apartments +in college, and ride with him to races, and whom he presented to +_ladies_ as his brother. + +She has her own view of this matter. The disguised boy was a lady +of rank and fashion, who sought Lord Byron's chambers, as, we are +informed, noble ladies everywhere, both in Italy and England, were +constantly in the habit of doing; throwing themselves at his feet, and +imploring permission to become his handmaids. + +In the authoress's own words, 'Feminine overtures still continued +to be made to Lord Byron; but the fumes of incense never hid from +his sight his IDEAL.' We are told that in the case of +these poor ladies, generally 'disenchantment took place on his side +without a corresponding result on the other: THENCE many +heart-breakings.' Nevertheless, we are informed that there followed the +indiscretions of these ladies 'none of those proceedings that the world +readily forgives, but which his feelings as a man of honour would have +condemned.' + +As to drunkenness, and all that, we are informed he was an anchorite. +Pages are given to an account of the biscuits and soda-water that on +this and that occasion were found to be the sole means of sustenance to +this ethereal creature. + +As to the story of using his wife's money, the lady gives, directly in +the face of his own Letters and Journal, the same account given before +by Medwin, and which caused such merriment when talked over in the +Noctes Club,--that he had with her only a marriage portion of £10,000; +and that, on the separation, he not only paid it back, but doubled +it.[27] + +[Footnote 27: In 'The Noctes' of November, 1824 Christopher North says, +'I don't call Medwin a liar.... Whether Byron bammed him, or he, by +virtue of his own stupidity, was the sole and sufficient bammifier of +himself, I know not.' A note says that Murray had been much shocked by +Byron's misstatements to Medwin as to money-matters with him. The note +goes on to say, 'Medwin could not have invented them, for they were +mixed up with acknowledged facts; and the presumption is that Byron +mystified his gallant acquaintance. He was fond of such tricks.'] + +So on the authoress goes, sowing right and left the most transparent +absurdities and misstatements with what Carlyle well calls 'a composed +stupidity, and a cheerful infinitude of ignorance.' Who _should_ know, +if not she, to be sure? Had not Byron told her all about it? and was +not his family motto _Crede Byron_? + +The 'Blackwood,' having a dim suspicion that this confused style of +attack and defence in reference to the two parties under consideration +may not have great weight, itself proceeds to make the book an occasion +for re-opening the controversy of Lord Byron with his wife. + +The rest of the review is devoted to a powerful attack on Lady Byron's +character,--the most fearful attack on the memory of a dead woman we +have ever seen made by living man. The author proceeds, like a lawyer, +to gather up, arrange, and restate, in a most workmanlike manner, the +confused accusations of the book. + +Anticipating the objection, that such a re-opening of the inquiry was +a violation of the privacy due to womanhood and to the feelings of a +surviving family, he says, that though marriage usually is a private +matter which the world has no right to intermeddle with or discuss, +yet-- + + 'Lord Byron's was an exceptional case. It is not too much to say, + that, had his marriage been a happy one, the course of events of the + present century might have been materially changed; that the genius + which poured itself forth in "Don Juan" and "Cain" might have flowed + in far different channels; that the ardent love of freedom which sent + him to perish at six and thirty at Missolonghi might have inspired + a long career at home; and that we might at this moment have been + appealing to the counsels of his experience and wisdom at an age + not exceeding that which was attained by Wellington, Lyndhurst, and + Brougham. + + 'Whether the world would have been a gainer or a loser by the exchange + is a question which every man must answer for himself, according to + his own tastes and opinions; but the possibility of such a change in + the course of events warrants us in treating what would otherwise be a + strictly private matter as one of public interest. + + 'More than half a century has elapsed, the actors have departed from + the stage, the curtain has fallen; and whether it will ever again be + raised so as to reveal the real facts of the drama, may, as we have + already observed, be well doubted. But the time has arrived when we + may fairly gather up the fragments of evidence, clear them as far as + possible from the incrustations of passion, prejudice, and malice, and + place them in such order, as, if possible, to enable us to arrive + at some probable conjecture as to what the skeleton of the drama + originally was.' + +Here the writer proceeds to put together all the facts of Lady Byron's +case, just as an adverse lawyer would put them as against her, and +for her husband. The plea is made vigorously and ably, and with an +air of indignant severity, as of an honest advocate who is thoroughly +convinced that he is pleading the cause of a wronged man who has been +ruined in name, ship-wrecked in life, and driven to an early grave, by +the arts of a bad woman,--a woman all the more horrible that her malice +was disguised under the cloak of religion. + +Having made an able statement of facts, adroitly leaving out +ONE,[28] of which he could not have been ignorant had he +studied the case carefully enough to know all the others, he proceeds +to sum up against the criminal thus:-- + +[Footnote 28: This one fact is, that Lord Byron might have had an open +examination in court, if he had only persisted in refusing the deed of +separation.] + + 'We would deal tenderly with the memory of Lady Byron. Few women have + been juster objects of compassion. It would seem as if Nature and + Fortune had vied with each other which should be most lavish of her + gifts, and yet that some malignant power had rendered all their bounty + of no effect. Rank, beauty, wealth, and mental powers of no common + order, were hers; yet they were of no avail to secure her happiness. + The spoilt child of seclusion, restraint, and parental idolatry, + a fate (alike evil for both) cast her into the arms of the spoilt + child of genius, passion, and the world. What real or fancied wrongs + she suffered, we may never know; but those which she inflicted are + sufficiently apparent. + + 'It is said that there are some poisons so subtle that they will + destroy life, and yet leave no trace of their action. The murderer + who uses them may escape the vengeance of the law; but he is not the + less guilty. So the slanderer who makes no charge; who deals in hints + and insinuations: who knows melancholy facts he would not willingly + divulge,--things too painful to state; who forbears, expresses pity, + sometimes even affection, for his victim, shrugs his shoulders, looks + with + + "The significant eye, + Which learns to lie with silence,--" + + is far more guilty than he who tells the bold falsehood which may be + met and answered, and who braves the punishment which must follow upon + detection. + + 'Lady Byron has been called + + "The moral Clytemnestra of her lord." + + The "moral Brinvilliers" would have been a truer designation. + + 'The conclusion at which we arrive is, that there is no proof whatever + that Lord Byron was guilty of any act that need have caused a + separation, or prevented a re-union, and that the imputations upon him + rest on the vaguest conjecture; that whatever real or fancied wrongs + Lady Byron may have endured are shrouded in an impenetrable mist of + her own creation,--a poisonous miasma in which she enveloped the + character of her husband, raised by her breath, and which her breath + only could have dispersed. + + "She dies and makes no sign. O God! forgive her."' + +As we have been obliged to review accusations on Lady Byron founded +on old Greek tragedy, so now we are forced to abridge a passage from +a modern conversations-lexicon, that we may understand what sort of +comparisons are deemed in good taste in a conservative English review, +when speaking of ladies of rank in their graves. + +Under the article 'Brinvilliers,' we find as follows:-- + + 'MARGUERITE D'AUBRAI, MARCHIONESS OF BRINVILLIERS.--The + singular atrocity of this woman gives her a sort of infamous claim to + notice. She was horn in Paris in 1651; being daughter of D'Aubrai, + lieutenant-civil of Paris, who married her to the Marquis of + Brinvilliers. Although possessed of attractions to captivate lovers, + she was for some time much attached to her husband, but at length + became madly in love with a Gascon officer. Her father imprisoned + the officer in the Bastille; and, while there, he learned the art of + compounding subtle and most mortal poisons; and, when he was released, + he taught it to the lady, who exercised it with such success, that, + in one year, her father, sister, and two brothers became her victims. + She professed the utmost tenderness for her victims, and nursed them + assiduously. On her father she is said to have made eight attempts + before she succeeded. She was _very religious_, and devoted to works + of charity; and visited the hospitals a great deal, where it is said + she tried her poisons on the sick.' + +People have made loud outcries lately, both in America and England, +about violating the repose of the dead. We should like to know what +they call this. Is this, then, what they mean by _respecting_ the dead? + +Let any man imagine a leading review coming out with language equally +brutal about his own mother, or any dear and revered friend. + +Men of America, men of England, what do you think of this? + +When Lady Byron was publicly branded with the names of the foulest +ancient and foulest modern assassins, and Lord Byron's mistress was +publicly taken by the hand, and encouraged to go on and prosper in her +slanders, by one of the oldest and most influential British reviews, +what was said and what was done in England? + +That is a question we should be glad to have answered. Nothing was done +that ever reached us across the water. + +And why was nothing done? Is this language of a kind to be passed over +in silence? + +Was it no offence to the house of Wentworth to attack the pure +character of its late venerable head, and to brand her in her sacred +grave with the name of one of the vilest of criminals? + +Might there not properly have been an indignant protest of family +solicitors against this insult to the person and character of the +Baroness Wentworth? + +If virtue went for nothing, benevolence for nothing, a long life of +service to humanity for nothing, one would at least have thought, that, +in aristocratic countries, rank might have had its rights to decent +consideration, and its guardians to rebuke the violation of those +rights. + +We Americans understand little of the advantages of rank; but we did +understand that it secured certain decorums to people, both while +living and when in their graves. From Lady Byron's whole history, in +life and in death, it would appear that we were mistaken. + +What a life was hers! Was ever a woman more evidently desirous of +the delicate and secluded privileges of womanhood, of the sacredness +of individual privacy? Was ever a woman so rudely dragged forth, +and exposed to the hardened, vulgar, and unfeeling gaze of mere +curiosity?--her maiden secrets of love thrown open to be handled by +_roués_; the sanctities of her marriage-chamber desecrated by leering +satyrs; her parents and best friends traduced and slandered, till one +indignant public protest was extorted from her, as by the rack,--a +protest which seems yet to quiver in every word with the indignation of +outraged womanly delicacy! + +Then followed coarse blame and coarser comment,--blame for speaking +at all, and blame for not speaking more. One manly voice, raised for +her in honourable protest, was silenced and overborne by the universal +roar of ridicule and reprobation; and henceforth what refuge? Only this +remained: 'Let them that suffer according to the will of God commit the +keeping of their souls to him as to a faithful Creator.' + +Lady Byron turned to this refuge in silence, and filled up her life +with a noble record of charities and humanities. So pure was she, so +childlike, so artless, so loving, that those who knew her best, feel, +to this day, that a memorial of her is like the relic of a saint. And +could not all this preserve her grave from insult? O England, England! + +I speak in sorrow of heart to those who must have known, loved, and +revered Lady Byron, and ask them, Of what were you thinking when you +allowed a paper of so established literary rank as the 'Blackwood,' to +present and earnestly recommend to our New World such a compendium of +lies as the Guiccioli book? + +Is the great English-speaking community, whose waves toss from Maine +to California, and whose literature is yet to come back in a thousand +voices to you, a thing to be so despised? + +If, as the solicitors of the Wentworth family observe, you might be +entitled to treat with silent contempt the slanders of a mistress +against a wife, was it safe to treat with equal contempt the +indorsement and recommendation of those slanders by one of your oldest +and most powerful literary authorities? + +No European magazine has ever had the weight and circulation in America +that the 'Blackwood' has held. In the days of my youth, when New +England was a comparatively secluded section of the earth, the wit +and genius of the 'Noctes Ambrosianæ' were in the mouths of men and +maidens, even in our most quiet mountain-towns. There, years ago, we +saw all Lady Byron's private affairs discussed, and felt the weight of +Christopher North's decisions against her. Shelton Mackenzie, in his +American edition, speaks of the American circulation of 'Blackwood' +being greater than that in England.[29] It was and is now reprinted +monthly; and, besides that, 'Littell's Magazine' reproduces all its +striking articles, and they come with the weight of long established +position. From the very fact that it has long been considered the Tory +organ, and the supporter of aristocratic orders, all its admissions +against the character of individuals in the privileged classes have a +double force. + +[Footnote 29: In the history of 'Blackwood's Magazine,' prefaced to +the American edition of 1854, Mackenzie says of the 'Noctes' papers, +'Great as was their popularity in England it was peculiarly in +America that their high merit and undoubted originality received the +heartiest recognition and appreciation. Nor is this wonderful when it +is considered that for one reader of "Blackwood's Magazine" in the old +country there cannot be less than fifty in the new.'] + +When 'Blackwood,' therefore, boldly denounces a lady of high rank as a +modern Brinvilliers, and no sensation is produced, and no remonstrance +follows, what can people in the New World suppose, but that Lady +Byron's character was a point entirely given up; that her depravity was +so well established and so fully conceded, that nothing was to be said, +and that even the defenders of aristocracy were forced to admit it? + +I have been blamed for speaking on this subject without consulting Lady +Byron's friends, trustees, and family. More than ten years had elapsed +since I had had any intercourse with England, and I knew none of them. +How was I to know that any of them were living? I was astonished to +learn, for the first time, by the solicitors' letters, that there were +trustees, who held in their hands all Lady Byron's carefully prepared +proofs and documents, by which this falsehood might immediately have +been refuted. + +If they had spoken, they might have saved all this confusion. Even +if bound by restrictions for a certain period of time, they still +might have called on a Christian public to frown down such a cruel +and indecent attack on the character of a noble lady who had been a +benefactress to so many in England. They might have stated that the +means of wholly refuting the slanders of the 'Blackwood' were in their +hands, and only delayed in coming forth from regard to the feelings +of some in this generation. Then might they not have announced her +Life and Letters, that the public might have the same opportunity as +themselves for knowing and judging Lady Byron by her own writings? + +Had this been done, I had been most happy to have remained silent. I +have been astonished that any one should have supposed this speaking +on my part to be anything less than it is,--the severest act of +self-sacrifice that one friend can perform for another, and the most +solemn and difficult tribute to justice that a human being can be +called upon to render. + +I have been informed that the course I have taken would be contrary to +the wishes of my friend. I think otherwise. I know her strong sense +of justice, and her reverence for truth. Nothing ever moved her to +speak to the public but an attack upon the honour of the dead. In her +statement, she says of her parents, 'There is no other near relative to +vindicate their memory from insult: I am therefore compelled to break +the silence I had hoped always to have observed.' + +If there was any near relative to vindicate Lady Byron's memory, I +had no evidence of the fact; and I considered the utter silence to +be strong evidence to the contrary. In all the storm of obloquy and +rebuke that has raged in consequence of my speaking, I have had two +unspeakable sources of joy; first, that they could not touch _her_; +and, second, that they could not blind the all-seeing God. It is worth +being in darkness to see the stars. + +It has been said that _I_ have drawn on Lady Byron's name greater +obloquy than ever before. I deny the charge. Nothing fouler has been +asserted of her than the charges in the 'Blackwood,' because nothing +fouler _could_ be asserted. No satyr's hoof has ever crushed this pearl +deeper in the mire than the hoof of the 'Blackwood,' but none of them +have defiled it or trodden it so deep that God cannot find it in the +day 'when he maketh up his jewels.' + +I have another word, as an American, to say about the contempt shown +to our great people in thus suffering the materials of history to be +falsified to subserve the temporary purposes of family feeling in +England. + +Lord Byron belongs not properly either to the Byrons or the Wentworths. +He is not one of their family jewels to be locked up in their cases. +He belongs to the world for which he wrote, to which he appealed, and +before which he dragged his reluctant, delicate wife to a publicity +equal with his own: the world has, therefore, a right to judge him. + +We Americans have been made accessories, after the fact, to every +insult and injury that Lord Byron and the literary men of his day have +heaped upon Lady Byron. We have been betrayed into injustice and a +complicity with villany. After Lady Byron had nobly lived down slanders +in England, and died full of years and honours, the 'Blackwood' takes +occasion to re-open the controversy by recommending a book full of +slanders to a rising generation who knew nothing of the past. What +was the consequence in America? My attention was first called to the +result, not by reading the 'Blackwood' article, but by finding in a +popular monthly magazine two long articles,--the one an enthusiastic +recommendation of the Guiccioli book, and the other a lamentation over +the burning of the Autobiography as a lost chapter in history. + +Both articles represented Lady Byron as a cold, malignant, mean, +persecuting woman, who had been her husband's ruin. They were so full +of falsehoods and misstatements as to astonish me. Not long after, a +literary friend wrote to me, '_Will_ you, _can_ you, reconcile it to +your conscience to sit still and allow that mistress so to slander that +wife,--you, perhaps, the only one knowing the real facts, and able to +set them forth?' + +Upon this, I immediately began collecting and reading the various +articles and the book, and perceived that the public of this generation +were in a way of having false history created, uncontradicted, under +their own eyes. + +I claim for my country, men and women, our right to _true_ history. +For years, the popular literature has held up publicly before our eyes +the facts as to this man and this woman, and called on us to praise or +condemn. Let us have _truth_ when we are called on to judge. It is our +_right_. + +There is no conceivable obligation on a human being greater than +that of _absolute justice_. It is the deepest personal injury to an +honourable mind to be made, through misrepresentation, an accomplice +in injustice. When a noble name is accused, any person who possesses +truth which might clear it, and withholds that truth, is guilty of a +sin against human nature and the inalienable rights of justice. I claim +that I have not only a right, but an obligation, to bring in my solemn +testimony upon this subject. + +For years and years, the silence-policy has been tried; and what has it +brought forth? As neither word nor deed could be proved against Lady +Byron, her silence has been spoken of as a monstrous, unnatural crime, +'a poisonous miasma,' in which she enveloped the name of her husband. + +Very well; since silence is the crime, I thought I would tell the world +that Lady Byron had spoken. + +Christopher North, years ago, when he condemned her for speaking, said +that she should speak further,-- + +'She should speak, or some one for her. One word would suffice.' + +That one word has been spoken. + + + + +PART II. + + + + +CHAPTER I. + +LADY BYRON AS I KNEW HER. + + +An editorial in 'The London Times' of Sept. 18 says:-- + + 'The perplexing feature in this "True Story" is, that it is impossible + to distinguish what part in it is the editress's, and what Lady + Byron's own. We are given the _impression_ made on Mrs. Stowe's mind + by Lady Byron's statements; but it would have been more satisfactory + if the statement itself had been reproduced as bare as possible, and + been left to make its own impression on the public.' + +In reply to this, I will say, that in my article I gave a brief +synopsis of the subject-matter of Lady Byron's communications; +and I think it must be quite evident to the world that the _main +fact_ on which the story turns was one which could not possibly be +misunderstood, and the remembrance of which no lapse of time could ever +weaken. + +Lady Byron's communications were made to me in language clear, precise, +terrible; and many of her phrases and sentences I could repeat at this +day, word for word. But if I had reproduced them at first, as 'The +Times' suggests, word for word, the public horror and incredulity would +have been doubled. It was necessary that the brutality of the story +should, in some degree, be veiled and softened. + +The publication, by Lord Lindsay, of Lady Anne Barnard's communication, +makes it now possible to tell fully, and in Lady Byron's own words, +certain incidents that yet remain untold. To me, who know the whole +history, the revelations in Lady Anne's account, and the story related +by Lady Byron, are like fragments of a dissected map: they fit +together, piece by piece, and form one connected whole. + +In confirmation of the general facts of this interview, I have the +testimony of a sister who accompanied me on this visit, and to whom, +immediately after it, I recounted the story. + +Her testimony on the subject is as follows:-- + + 'MY DEAR SISTER,--I have a perfect recollection of going + with you to visit Lady Byron at the time spoken of in your published + article. We arrived at her house in the morning; and, after lunch, + Lady Byron and yourself spent the whole time till evening alone + together. + + 'After we retired to our apartment that night, you related to me + the story given in your published account, though with many more + particulars than you have yet thought fit to give to the public. + + 'You stated to me that Lady Byron was strongly impressed with the idea + that it might be her duty to publish a statement during her lifetime, + and also the reasons which induced her to think so. You appeared at + that time quite disposed to think that justice required this step, and + asked my opinion. We passed most of the night in conversation on the + subject,--a conversation often resumed, from time to time, during + several weeks in which you were considering what opinion to give. + + 'I was strongly of opinion that justice required the publication of + the truth, but felt exceedingly averse to its being done by Lady Byron + herself during her own lifetime, when she personally would be subject + to the comments and misconceptions of motives which would certainly + follow such a communication. + + 'Your sister, + + 'M. F. PERKINS.' + +I am now about to complete the account of my conversation with Lady +Byron; but as the credibility of a history depends greatly on the +character of its narrator, and as especial pains have been taken +to destroy the belief in this story by representing it to be the +wanderings of a broken-down mind in a state of dotage and mental +hallucination, I shall preface the narrative with some account of +Lady Byron as she was during the time of our mutual acquaintance and +friendship. + +This account may, perhaps, be deemed superfluous in England, where so +many knew her; but in America, where, from Maine to California, her +character has been discussed and traduced, it is of importance to give +interested thousands an opportunity of learning what kind of a woman +Lady Byron was. + +Her character as given by Lord Byron in his Journal, after her first +refusal of him, is this:-- + + 'She is a very superior woman, and very little spoiled; which is + strange in an heiress, a girl of twenty, a peeress that is to be in + her own right, an only child, and a savante, who has always had her + own way. She is a poetess, a mathematician, a metaphysician; yet, + withal, very kind, generous, and gentle, with very little pretension. + Any other head would be turned with half her acquisitions and a tenth + of her advantages.' + +Such was Lady Byron at twenty. I formed her acquaintance in the year +1853, during my first visit in England. I met her at a lunch-party in +the house of one of her friends. + +The party had many notables; but, among them all, my attention was +fixed principally on Lady Byron. She was at this time sixty-one years +of age, but still had, to a remarkable degree, that personal attraction +which is commonly considered to belong only to youth and beauty. + +Her form was slight, giving an impression of fragility; her motions +were both graceful and decided; her eyes bright, and full of interest +and quick observation. Her silvery-white hair seemed to lend a grace +to the transparent purity of her complexion, and her small hands +had a pearly whiteness. I recollect she wore a plain widow's cap of +a transparent material; and was dressed in some delicate shade of +lavender, which harmonised well with her complexion. + +When I was introduced to her, I felt in a moment the words of her +husband:-- + + 'There was awe in the homage that she drew; + Her spirit seemed as seated on a throne.' + +Calm, self-poised, and thoughtful, she seemed to me rather to resemble +an interested spectator of the world's affairs, than an actor involved +in its trials; yet the sweetness of her smile, and a certain very +delicate sense of humour in her remarks, made the way of acquaintance +easy. + +Her first remarks were a little playful; but in a few moments we were +speaking on what every one in those days was talking to me about,--the +slavery question in America. + +It need not be remarked, that, when any one subject especially occupies +the public mind, those known to be interested in it are compelled to +listen to many weary platitudes. Lady Byron's remarks, however, caught +my ear and arrested my attention by their peculiar incisive quality, +their originality, and the evidence they gave that she was as well +informed on all our matters as the best American statesman could be. +I had no wearisome course to go over with her as to the difference +between the General Government and State Governments, nor explanations +of the United States Constitution; for she had the whole before her +mind with a perfect clearness. Her morality upon the slavery question, +too, impressed me as something far higher and deeper than the common +sentimentalism of the day. Many of her words surprised me greatly, and +gave me new material for thought. + +I found I was in company with a commanding mind, and hastened to +gain instruction from her on another point where my interest had +been aroused. I had recently been much excited by Kingsley's novels, +'Alton Locke' and 'Yeast,' on the position of religious thought in +England. From these works I had gathered, that under the apparent +placid uniformity of the Established Church of England, and of 'good +society' as founded on it, there was moving a secret current of +speculative enquiry, doubt, and dissent; but I had met, as yet, with +no person among my various acquaintances in England who seemed either +aware of this fact, or able to guide my mind respecting it. The moment +I mentioned the subject to Lady Byron, I received an answer which +showed me that the whole ground was familiar to her, and that she was +capable of giving me full information. She had studied with careful +thoughtfulness all the social and religious tendencies of England +during her generation. One of her remarks has often since occurred to +me. Speaking of the Oxford movement, she said the time had come when +the English Church could no longer remain as it was. It must either +_restore the past, or create a future_. The Oxford movement attempted +the former; and of the future she was beginning to speak, when our +conversation was interrupted by the presentation of other parties. + +Subsequently, in reply to a note from her on some benevolent business, +I alluded to that conversation, and expressed a wish that she would +finish giving me her views of the religious state of England. A portion +of the letter that she wrote me in reply I insert, as being very +characteristic in many respects:-- + + 'Various causes have been assigned for the decaying state of the + English Church; which seems the more strange, because the clergy have + improved, morally and intellectually, in the last twenty years. Then + why should their influence be diminished? I think it is owing to the + diffusion of a spirit of free enquiry. + + 'Doubts have arisen in the minds of many who are unhappily bound by + subscription _not_ to doubt; and, in consequence, they are habitually + _pretending_ either to believe or to disbelieve. The state of Denmark + cannot but be rotten, when _to seem_ is the first object of the + witnesses of truth. + + 'They may lead better lives, and bring forward abler arguments; but + their efforts are paralysed by that unsoundness. I see the High + Churchman professing to believe in the existence of a church, when the + most palpable facts must show him that no _such_ church exists; the + "Low" Churchman professing to believe in exceptional interpositions + which his philosophy secretly questions; the "Broad" Churchman + professing as absolute an attachment to the Established Church as the + narrowest could feel, while he is preaching such principles as will at + last pull it down. + + 'I ask you, my friend, whether there would not be more faith, as + well as earnestness, if _all_ would speak out. There would be more + unanimity too, because they would all agree in a certain basis. Would + not a wider love supersede the _creed-bound_ charity of sects? + + 'I am aware that I have touched on a point of difference between + us, and I will not regret it; for I think the differences of mind + are analogous to those differences of nature, which, in the most + comprehensive survey, are the very elements of harmony. + + 'I am not at all prone to put forth my own opinions; but the tone in + which you have written to me claims an unusual degree of openness + on my part. I look upon creeds of all kinds as chains,--far worse + chains than those you would break,--as the causes of much hypocrisy + and infidelity. I hold it to be a sin to _make_ a child say, "_I + believe_." Lead it to utter that belief spontaneously. I also consider + the institution of an exclusive priesthood, though having been of + service in some respects, as retarding the progress of Christianity at + present. I desire to see a _lay_ ministry. + + 'I will not give you more of my heterodoxy at present: perhaps I need + your pardon, connected as you are with the Church, for having said so + much. + + 'There are causes of decay known to be at work in my frame, which lead + me to believe I may not have time to grow wiser; and I must therefore + leave it to others to correct the conclusions I have now formed from + my life's experience. I should feel happy to discuss them personally + with you; for it would be _soul to soul_. In that confidence I am + yours most truly, + + 'A. I. NOEL BYRON.' + +It is not necessary to prove to the reader that this letter is not in +the style of a broken-down old woman subject to mental hallucinations. +It shows Lady Byron's habits of clear, searching analysis, her +thoughtfulness, and, above all, that peculiar reverence for _truth_ and +sincerity which was a leading characteristic of her moral nature.[30] +It also shows her views of the probable shortness of her stay on earth, +derived from the opinion of physicians about her disease, which was a +gradual ossification of the lungs. It has been asserted that pulmonary +diseases, while they slowly and surely sap the physical life, often +appear to give added vigour to the play of the moral and intellectual +powers. + +[Footnote 30: The reader is here referred to Lady Byron's other +letters, in Part III.; which also show the peculiarly active and +philosophical character of her mind, and the class of subjects on which +it habitually dwelt.] + +I parted from Lady Byron, feeling richer in that I had found one more +pearl of great price on the shore of life. + +Three years after this, I visited England to obtain a copyright for the +issue of my novel of 'Dred.' + +The hope of once more seeing Lady Byron was one of the brightest +anticipations held out to me in this journey. I found London quite +deserted; but, hearing that Lady Byron was still in town, I sent to +her, saying in my note, that, in case she was not well enough to call, +I would visit her. Her reply I give:-- + + 'MY DEAR FRIEND,--I _will_ be indebted to you for our + meeting, as I am barely able to leave my room. It is not a time for + small personalities, if they could ever exist with _you_; and, dressed + or undressed, I shall hope to see you after two o'clock. + + 'Yours very truly, + 'A. I. NOEL BYRON.' + +I found Lady Byron in her sick-room,--that place which she made so +different from the chamber of ordinary invalids. Her sick-room seemed +only a telegraphic station whence her vivid mind was flashing out all +over the world. + +By her bedside stood a table covered with books, pamphlets, and files +of letters, all arranged with exquisite order, and each expressing some +of her varied interests. From that sick-bed she still directed, with +systematic care, her various works of benevolence, and watched with +intelligent attention the course of science, literature, and religion; +and the versatility and activity of her mind, the flow of brilliant +and penetrating thought on all the topics of the day, gave to the +conversations of her retired room a peculiar charm. You forgot that +she was an invalid; for she rarely had a word of her own personalities, +and the charm of her conversation carried you invariably from herself +to the subjects of which she was thinking. All the new books, the +literature of the hour, were lighted up by her keen, searching, yet +always kindly criticism; and it was charming to get her fresh, genuine, +clear-cut modes of expression, so different from the world-worn phrases +of what is called good society. Her opinions were always perfectly +clear and positive, and given with the freedom of one who has long +stood in a position to judge the world and its ways from her own +standpoint. But it was not merely in general literature and science +that her heart lay; it was following always with eager interest the +progress of humanity over the whole world. + +This was the period of the great battle for liberty in Kansas. The +English papers were daily filled with the thrilling particulars of that +desperate struggle, and Lady Byron entered with heart and soul into it. + +Her first letter to me, at this time, is on this subject. It was while +'Dred' was going through the press. + + 'CAMBRIDGE TERRACE, Aug. 15. + + 'MY DEAR MRS. STOWE,--Messrs. Chambers liked the proposal to + publish the Kansas Letters. The more the public know of these matters, + the better prepared they will be for your book. The moment for its + publication seems well chosen. There is always in England a floating + fund of sympathy for what is above the everyday sordid cares of life; + and these better feelings, so nobly invested for the last two years in + Florence Nightingale's career, are just set free. To what will they + next be attached? If you can lay hold of them, they may bring about + a deeper abolition than any legislative one,--the abolition of the + heart-heresy that man's worth comes, not from God, but from man. + + 'I have been obliged to give up exertion again, but hope soon to be + able to call and make the acquaintance of your daughters. In case you + wish to consult H. Martineau's pamphlets, I send more copies. Do not + think of answering: I have occupied too much of your time in reading. + + 'Yours affectionately, + + 'A. I. NOEL BYRON.' + +As soon as a copy of 'Dred' was through the press, I sent it to +her, saying that I had been reproved by some excellent people for +representing too faithfully the profane language of some of the wicked +characters. To this she sent the following reply:-- + + 'Your book, dear Mrs. Stowe, is of the little leaven kind, and must + prove a great moral force; perhaps not manifestly so much as secretly. + And yet I can hardly conceive so much power without immediate and + sensible effects: only there will be a strong disposition to resist + on the part of all hollow-hearted professors of religion, whose + heathenisms you so unsparingly expose. They have a class feeling like + others. + + 'To the young, and to those who do not reflect much on what is offered + to their belief, you will do great good by showing how spiritual food + is often adulterated. The bread from heaven is in the same case as + bakers' bread. + + 'If there is truth in what I heard Lord Byron say, that works of + fiction live only by the amount _of truth_ which they contain, your + story is sure of a long life. Of the few critiques I have seen, the + best is in "The Examiner." I find an obtuseness as to the spirit and + aim of the book, as if you had designed to make the best novel of the + season, or to keep up the reputation of one. You are reproached, as + Walter Scott was, with too much scriptural quotation; not, that I + have heard, with phrases of an opposite character. + + 'The effects of such reading till a late hour one evening appeared to + influence me very singularly in a dream. The most horrible spectres + presented themselves, and I woke in an agony of fear; but a faith + still stronger arose, and I became courageous from trust in God, and + felt calm. Did you do this? It is very insignificant among the many + things you certainly will do unknown to yourself. I know more than + ever before how to value communion with you. I have sent Robertson's + Sermons for you; and, with kind regards to your family, am + + 'Yours affectionately, + + 'A. I. NOEL BYRON. + +I was struck in this note with the mention of Lord Byron, and, the next +time I saw her, alluded to it, and remarked upon the peculiar qualities +of his mind as shown in some of his more serious conversations with Dr. +Kennedy. + +She seemed pleased to continue the subject, and went on to say many +things of his singular character and genius, more penetrating and more +appreciative than is often met with among critics. + +I told her that I had been from childhood powerfully influenced by +him; and began to tell her how much, as a child, I had been affected +by the news of his death,--giving up all my plays, and going off to +a lonely hillside, where I spent the afternoon thinking of him. She +interrupted me before I had quite finished, with a quick, impulsive +movement. 'I know all that,' she said: 'I heard it all from Mrs. ----; +and it was one of the things that made me wish to _know_ you. I think +_you_ could understand him.' We talked for some time of him then; she, +with her pale face slightly flushed, speaking, as any other great +man's widow might, only of what was purest and best in his works, and +what were his undeniable virtues and good traits, especially in early +life. She told me many pleasant little speeches made by him to herself; +and, though there was running through all this a shade of melancholy, +one could never have conjectured that there were under all any deeper +recollections than the circumstances of an ordinary separation might +bring. + +Not many days after, with the unselfishness which was so marked a +trait with her, she chose a day when she could be out of her room, +and invited our family party, consisting of my husband, sister, and +children, to lunch with her. + +What showed itself especially in this interview was her tenderness +for all young people. She had often enquired after mine; asked about +their characters, habits, and tastes; and on this occasion she found an +opportunity to talk with each one separately, and to make them all feel +at ease, so that they were able to talk with her. She seemed interested +to point out to them what they should see and study in London; and +the charm of her conversation left on their minds an impression that +subsequent years have never effaced. I record this incident, because it +shows how little Lady Byron assumed the privileges or had the character +of an invalid absorbed in herself, and likely to brood over her own +woes and wrongs. + +Here was a family of strangers stranded in a dull season in London, and +there was no manner of obligation upon her to exert herself to show +them attention. Her state of health would have been an all-sufficient +reason why she should not do it; and her doing it was simply a specimen +of that unselfish care for others, even down to the least detail, of +which her life was full. + +A little while after, at her request, I went, with my husband and son, +to pass an evening at her house. + +There were a few persons present whom she thought I should be +interested to know,--a Miss Goldsmid, daughter of Baron Goldsmid, and +Lord Ockham, her grandson, eldest son and heir of the Earl of Lovelace, +to whom she introduced my son. + +I had heard much of the eccentricities of this young nobleman, and +was exceedingly struck with his personal appearance. His bodily frame +was of the order of the Farnese Hercules,--a wonderful development of +physical and muscular strength. His hands were those of a blacksmith. +He was broadly and squarely made, with a finely-shaped head, and dark +eyes of surpassing brilliancy. I have seldom seen a more interesting +combination than his whole appearance presented. + +When all were engaged in talking, Lady Byron came and sat down by +me, and glancing across to Lord Ockham and my son, who were talking +together, she looked at me, and smiled. I immediately expressed my +admiration of his fine eyes and the intellectual expression of his +countenance, and my wonder at the uncommon muscular development of his +frame. + +She said that _that_ of itself would account for many of Ockham's +eccentricities. He had a body that required a more vigorous animal life +than his station gave scope for, and this had often led him to seek +it in what the world calls low society; that he had been to sea as a +sailor, and was now working as a mechanic on the iron work of 'The +Great Eastern.' He had laid aside his title, and went in daily with the +other workmen, requesting them to call him simply Ockham. + +I said that there was something to my mind very fine about this, even +though it might show some want of proper balance. + +She said he had noble traits, and that she felt assured he would +yet accomplish something worthy of himself. 'The great difficulty +with our nobility is apt to be, that they do not _understand_ the +working-classes, so as to feel for them properly; and Ockham is now +going through an experience which may yet fit him to do great good when +he comes to the peerage. I am trying to influence him to do good among +the workmen, and to interest himself in schools for their children. I +think,' she added, 'I have great influence over Ockham,--the greater, +perhaps, that I never make any claim to authority.' + +This conversation is very characteristic of Lady Byron as showing her +benevolent analysis of character, and the peculiar hopefulness she +always had in regard to the future of every one brought in connection +with her. Her moral hopefulness was something very singular; and in +this respect she was so different from the rest of the world, that it +would be difficult to make her understood. Her tolerance of wrong-doing +would have seemed to many quite latitudinarian, and impressed them +as if she had lost all just horror of what was morally wrong in +transgression; but it seemed her fixed habit to see faults only as +diseases and immaturities, and to expect them to fall away with time. + +She saw the germs of good in what others regarded as only evil. She +expected valuable results to come from what the world looked on only +as eccentricities;[31] and she incessantly devoted herself to the task +of guarding those whom the world condemned, and guiding them to those +higher results of which she often thought that even their faults were +prophetic. + +[Footnote 31: See her character of Dr. King, Part III.] + +Before I quit this sketch of Lady Byron as I knew her, I will give one +more of her letters. My return from that visit in Europe was met by the +sudden death of the son mentioned in the foregoing account. At the time +of this sorrow, Lady Byron was too unwell to write to me. The letter +given alludes to this event, and speaks also of two coloured persons +of remarkable talent, in whose career in England she had taken a deep +interest. One of them is the 'friend' she speaks of. + + 'LONDON, Feb. 6, 1859. + + 'DEAR MRS. STOWE,--I seem to feel our friend as a bridge, + over which our broken _outward_ communication can be renewed without + effort. Why broken? The words I would have uttered _at one time_ were + like drops of blood from my heart. Now I sympathise with the calmness + you have gained, and can speak of your loss as I do of my own. Loss + and restoration are more and more linked in my mind, but "to the + _present_ live." As long as _they_ are in God's world they are in + ours. I ask no other consolation. + + 'Mrs. W----'s recovery has astonished me, and her husband's prospects + give me great satisfaction. They have achieved a benefit to their + coloured people. She had a mission which her burning soul has worked + out, almost in defiance of death. But who is "called" without being + "crucified," man or woman? I know of none. + + 'I fear that H. Martineau was too sanguine in her persuasion that the + slave power had received a serious check from the ruin of so many of + your Mammon-worshippers. With the return of commercial facilities, + _that_ article of commerce will again find purchasers enough to raise + its value. Not that way is the iniquity to be overthrown. A deeper + moral earthquake is needed.[32] We English had ours in India; and + though the cases are far from being alike, yet a consciousness of what + we ought to have been and ought to be toward the natives could not + have been awakened by less than the reddened waters of the Ganges. So + I fear you will have to look on a day of judgment worse than has been + painted. + + [Footnote 32: Alluding to the financial crisis in the United States in + 1857.] + + 'As to all the frauds and impositions which have been disclosed by + the failures, what a want of the sense of personal responsibility + they show. It seems to be thought that "association" will "cover a + multitude of sins;" as if "and Co." could enter heaven. A firm may be + described as a partnership for lowering the standard of morals. Even + ecclesiastical bodies are not free from the "and Co.;" very different + from "the goodly fellowship of the apostles." + + 'The better class of young gentlemen in England are seized with + a mediæval mania, to which Ruskin has contributed much. The + chief reason for regretting it is that taste is made to supersede + benevolence. The money that would save thousands from perishing or + suffering must be applied to raise the Gothic edifice where their last + prayer may be uttered. Charity may be dead, while Art has glorified + her. This is worse than Catholicism, which cultivates heart and eye + together. The first cathedral was Truth, at the beginning of the + fourth century, just as Christianity was exchanging a heavenly for an + earthly crown. True religion may have to cast away the symbol for the + spirit before "the kingdom" can come. + + 'While I am speculating to little purpose, perhaps you are + _doing_--what? Might not a biography from your pen bring forth again + some great, half-obscured soul to act on the world? Even Sir Philip + Sidney ought to be superseded by a still nobler type. + + 'This must go immediately, to be in time for the bearer, of whose + meeting with you I shall think as the friend of both. May it be happy! + + 'Your affectionate + A. I. N. B.' + +One letter more from Lady Byron I give,--the last I received from her:-- + + LONDON, May 3, 1859. + + 'DEAR FRIEND,--I have found, particularly as to yourself, + that, if I did not answer from the first impulse, all had evaporated. + Your letter came by 'The Niagara' which brought Fanny Kemble to learn + the loss of her best friend, the Miss F---- whom you saw at my house. + + 'Her death, after an illness in which she was to the last a minister + of good to others, is a soul-loss to me also; and your remarks are + most appropriate to my feelings. I have been taught, however, to + accept survivorship; even to feel it, in some cases, Heaven's best + blessing. + + 'I have an intense interest in your new novel.[33] More power in + these few numbers than in any of your former writings, relating, at + least, to my own mind. It would amuse you to hear my grand-daughter + and myself attempting to foresee the future of the love-story; being, + for the moment, quite persuaded that James is at sea, and the minister + about to ruin himself. We think that Mary will labour to be in love + with the self-devoted man, under her mother's influence, and from that + hyper-conscientiousness so common with good girls; but we don't wish + her to succeed. Then what is to become of her older lover? Time will + show. + + [Footnote 33: 'The Minister's Wooing.'] + + 'The lady you desired to introduce to me will be welcomed as of you. + She has been misled with respect to my having any house in Yorkshire + (New Leeds). I am in London now to be of a little use to A----; not + ostensibly, for I can neither go out, nor give parties: but I am the + confidential friend to whom she likes to bring her social gatherings, + as she can see something of the world with others. Age and infirmity + seem to be overlooked in what she calls the harmony between us,--not + perfect agreement of opinion (which I should regret, with almost fifty + years of difference), but the spirit-union: can you say what it is? + + 'I am interrupted by a note from Mrs. K----. She says that she cannot + write of our lost friend yet, though she is less sad than she will + be. Mrs. F---- may like to hear of her arrival, should you be in + communication with our friend. She is the type of youth in age. + + 'I often converse with Miss S----, a judicious friend of the W----s, + about what is likely to await them. She would not succeed here as well + as where she was a novelty. The character of our climate this year has + been injurious to the respiratory organs; but I hope still to serve + them. + + 'I have just missed Dale Owen, with whom I wished to have conversed on + spiritualism.[34] Harris is lecturing here on religion. I do not hear + him praised. + + [Footnote 34: See her letter on spiritualistic phenomena, Part III.] + + 'People are looking for helps to believe, everywhere but in life,--in + music, in architecture, in antiquity, in ceremony; and upon all + these is written, "Thou shalt _not_ believe." At least, if this be + faith, happier the unbeliever. I am willing to see _through_ that + materialism; but, if I am to rest there, I would rend the veil. + + * * * * * + + 'June 1. + + 'The day of the packet's sailing. I shall hope to be visited by you + here. The best flowers sent me have been placed in your little vases, + giving life to the remembrance of you, though not, like them, to pass + away. + + 'Ever yours, + 'A. I. NOEL BYRON.' + +Shortly after, I was in England again, and had one more opportunity of +resuming our personal intercourse. The first time that I called on Lady +Byron, I saw her in one of those periods of utter physical exhaustion +to which she was subject on account of the constant pressure of cares +beyond her strength. All who knew her will testify, that, in a state of +health which would lead most persons to become helpless absorbents of +service from others, she was assuming burdens, and making outlays of +her vital powers in acts of love and service, with a generosity that +often reduced her to utter exhaustion. But none who knew or loved her +ever misinterpreted the coldness of those seasons of exhaustion. We +knew that it was _not_ the spirit that was chilled, but only the frail +mortal tabernacle. When I called on her at this time, she could not see +me at first; and when, at last, she came, it was evident that she was +in a state of utter prostration. Her hands were like ice; her face was +deadly pale; and she conversed with a restraint and difficulty which +showed what exertion it was for her to keep up at all. I left as soon +as possible, with an appointment for another interview. That interview +was my last on earth with her, and is still beautiful in memory. It was +a long, still summer afternoon, spent alone with her in a garden, where +we walked together. She was enjoying one of those bright intervals +of freedom from pain and languor, in which her spirits always rose +so buoyant and youthful; and her eye brightened, and her step became +elastic. + +One last little incident is cherished as most expressive of her. When +it became time for me to leave, she took me in her carriage to the +station. As we were almost there, I missed my gloves, and said, 'I must +have left them; but there is not time to go back.' + +With one of those quick, impulsive motions which were so natural to her +in doing a kindness, she drew off her own and said, 'Take mine if they +will serve you.' + +I hesitated a moment; and then the thought, that I might never see +her again, came over me, and I said, 'Oh, yes! thanks.' That was the +last earthly word of love between us. But, thank God, those who love +worthily never meet for the _last_ time: there is always a future. + + + + +CHAPTER II. + +LADY BYRON'S STORY AS TOLD TO ME. + + +I now come to the particulars of that most painful interview which has +been the cause of all this controversy. My sister and myself were going +from London to Eversley to visit the Rev. C. Kingsley. On our way, we +stopped, by Lady Byron's invitation, to lunch with her at her summer +residence on Ham Common, near Richmond; and it was then arranged, that +on our return, we should make her a short visit, as she said she had a +subject of importance on which she wished to converse with me alone. + +On our return from Eversley, we arrived at her house in the morning. + +It appeared to be one of Lady Byron's _well_ days. She was up and +dressed, and moved about her house with her usual air of quiet +simplicity; as full of little acts of consideration for all about her +as if they were the habitual invalids, and she the well person. + +There were with her two ladies of her most intimate friends, by whom +she seemed to be regarded with a sort of worship. When she left the +room for a moment, they looked after her with a singular expression of +respect and affection, and expressed freely their admiration of her +character, and their fears that her unselfishness might be leading her +to over-exertion. + +After lunch, I retired with Lady Byron; and my sister remained with +her friends. I should here remark, that the chief subject of the +conversation which ensued was not entirely new to me. In the interval +between my first and second visits to England, a lady who for many +years had enjoyed Lady Byron's friendship and confidence, had, with her +consent, stated the case generally to me, giving some of the incidents: +so that I was in a manner prepared for what followed. + +Those who accuse Lady Byron of being a person fond of talking upon this +subject, and apt to make unconsidered confidences, can have known very +little of her, of her reserve, and of the apparent difficulty she had +in speaking on subjects nearest her heart. + +Her habitual calmness and composure of manner, her collected dignity +on all occasions, are often mentioned by her husband, sometimes with +bitterness, sometimes with admiration. He says, 'Though I accuse Lady +Byron of an excess of self-respect, I must in candour admit that, if +ever a person had excuse for an extraordinary portion of it, she has; +as, in all her thoughts, words, and deeds, she is the most decorous +woman that ever existed, and must appear, what few I fancy could, a +perfectly refined gentlewoman, even to her _femme de chambre_. + +This calmness and dignity were never more manifested than in this +interview. In recalling the conversation at this distance of time, I +cannot remember all the language used. Some particular words and forms +of expression I do remember, and those I give; and in other cases I +give my recollection of the substance of what was said. + +There was something awful to me in the intensity of repressed emotion +which she showed as she proceeded. The great fact upon which all turned +was stated in words that were unmistakable:-- + +'He was guilty of incest with his sister!' + +She here became so deathly pale, that I feared she would faint; and +hastened to say, 'My dear friend, I have heard that.' She asked +quickly, 'From whom? and I answered, 'From Mrs. ----;' when she +replied, 'Oh, yes!' as if recollecting herself. + +I then asked her some questions; in reply to which she said, 'I will +tell you.' + +She then spoke of her first acquaintance with Lord Byron; from which I +gathered that she, an only child, brought up in retirement, and living +much within herself, had been, as deep natures often were, intensely +stirred by his poetry; and had felt a deep interest in him personally, +as one that had the germs of all that is glorious and noble. + +When she was introduced to him, and perceived his admiration of +herself, and at last received his offer, although deeply moved, she +doubted her own power to be to him all that a wife should be. She +declined his offer, therefore, but desired to retain his friendship. +After this, as she said, a correspondence ensued, mostly on moral and +literary subjects; and, by this correspondence, her interest in him was +constantly increased. + +At last, she said, he sent her a very beautiful letter, offering +himself again. 'I thought,' she added, 'that it was sincere, and that I +might now show him all I felt. I wrote just what was in my heart. + +'Afterwards,' she said, 'I found in one of his journals this notice of +my letter: "A letter from Bell,--never rains but it pours."' + +There was through her habitual calm a shade of womanly indignation as +she spoke these words; but it was gone in a moment. I said, 'And did he +not love you, then?' She answered, 'No, my dear: he did not love me.' + +'Why, then, did he wish to marry you?' She laid her hand on mine, and +said in a low voice, 'You will see.' + +She then told me, that, shortly after the declared engagement, he came +to her father's house to visit her as an accepted suitor. The visit was +to her full of disappointment. His appearance was so strange, moody, +and unaccountable, and his treatment of her so peculiar, that she came +to the conclusion that he did not love her, and sought an opportunity +to converse with him alone. + +She told him that she saw from his manner that their engagement did not +give him pleasure; that she should never blame him if he wished to +dissolve it; that his nature was exceptional; and if, on a nearer view +of the situation, he shrank from it, she would release him, and remain +no less than ever his friend. + +Upon this, she said, he fainted entirely away. + +She stopped a moment, and then, as if speaking with great effort, +added, '_Then_ I was _sure_ he must love me.' + +'And did he not?' said I. 'What other cause could have led to this +emotion?' + +She looked at me very sadly, and said, '_Fear of detection_.' + +'What!' said I, 'did _that cause_ then exist?' + +'Yes,' she said, 'it did.' And she explained that she _now_ attributed +Lord Byron's great agitation to fear, that, in some way, suspicion of +the crime had been aroused in her mind, and that on this account she +was seeking to break the engagement. She said, that, from that moment, +her sympathies were aroused for him, to soothe the remorse and anguish +which seemed preying on his mind, and which she then regarded as the +sensibility of an unusually exacting moral nature, which judged itself +by higher standards, and condemned itself unsparingly for what most +young men of his times regarded as venial faults. She had every hope +for his future, and all the enthusiasm of belief that so many men and +women of those times and ours have had in his intrinsic nobleness. She +said the gloom, however, seemed to be even deeper when he came to the +marriage; but she looked at it as the suffering of a peculiar being, +to whom she was called to minister. I said to her, that, even in the +days of my childhood, I had heard of something very painful that had +passed as they were in the carriage, immediately after marriage. She +then said that it was so; that almost his first words, when they were +alone, were, that she _might_ once have saved him; that, if she had +accepted him when he first offered, she might have made him anything +she pleased; but that, as it was, she would find she had married a +devil. + +The conversation, as recorded in Lady Anne Barnard's Diary, seems only +a continuation of the foregoing, and just what might have followed upon +it. + +I then asked how she became certain of the true cause. + +She said, that, from the outset of their married life, his conduct +towards her was strange and unaccountable, even during the first +weeks after the wedding, while they were visiting her friends, and +outwardly on good terms. He seemed resolved to shake and combat both +her religious principles and her views of the family state. He tried +to undermine her faith in Christianity as a rule of life by argument +and by ridicule. He set before her the Continental idea of the liberty +of marriage; it being a simple partnership of friendship and property, +the parties to which were allowed by one another to pursue their own +separate individual tastes. He told her, that, as he could not be +expected to confine himself to her, neither should he expect or wish +that she should confine herself to him; that she was young and pretty, +and could have her lovers, and he should never object; and that she +must allow him the same freedom. + +She said that she did not comprehend to what this was tending till +after they came to London, and his sister came to stay with them. + +At what precise time the idea of an improper connection between her +husband and his sister was first forced upon her, she did not say; +but she told me _how_ it was done. She said that one night, in her +presence, he treated his sister with a liberty which both shocked and +astonished her. Seeing her amazement and alarm, he came up to her, and +said, in a sneering tone, 'I suppose you perceive _you_ are not wanted +here. Go to your own room, and leave us alone. We can amuse ourselves +better without you.' + +She said, 'I went to my room, trembling. I fell down on my knees, and +prayed to my heavenly Father to have mercy on them. I thought, "What +shall I do?"' + +I remember, after this, a pause in the conversation, during which she +seemed struggling with thoughts and emotions; and, for my part, I was +unable to utter a word, or ask a question. + +She did not tell me what followed immediately upon this, nor how soon +after she spoke on the subject with either of the parties. She first +began to speak of conversations afterwards held with Lord Byron, in +which he boldly avowed the connection as having existed in time past, +and as one that was to continue in time to come; and implied that she +must submit to it. She put it to his conscience as concerning his +sister's soul, and he said that it was no sin; that it was the way +the world was first peopled: the Scriptures taught that all the world +descended from one pair; and how could that be unless brothers married +their sisters? that, if not a sin then, it could not be a sin now. + +I immediately said, 'Why, Lady Byron, those are the very arguments +given in the drama of "Cain."' + +'The very same,' was her reply. 'He could reason very speciously on +this subject.' She went on to say, that, when she pressed him hard with +the universal sentiment of mankind as to the horror and the crime, he +took another turn, and said that the horror and crime were the very +attraction; that he had worn out all _ordinary_ forms of sin, and that +he '_longed for the stimulus of a new kind of vice_.' She set before +him the dread of detection; and then he became furious. _She_ should +never be the means of his detection, he said. She should leave him; +_that_ he was resolved upon: but she should always bear all the blame +of the separation. In the sneering tone which was common with him, +he said, 'The world will believe me, and it will _not_ believe you. +The world has made up its mind that "By" is a glorious boy; and the +world will go for "By," right or wrong. Besides, I shall make it my +life's object to discredit you: I shall use all my powers. Read "Caleb +Williams,"[35] and you will see that I shall do by you just as Falkland +did by Caleb.' + +[Footnote 35: This novel of Godwin's is a remarkably powerful story. It +is related in the first person by the supposed hero, Caleb Williams. He +represents himself as private secretary to a gentleman of high family +named Falkland. Caleb accidentally discovers that his patron has, in a +moment of passion, committed a murder. Falkland confesses the crime to +Caleb, and tells him that henceforth he shall always suspect him, and +keep watch over him. Caleb finds this watchfulness insupportable, and +tries to escape, but without success. He writes a touching letter to +his patron, imploring him to let him go, and promising never to betray +him. The scene where Falkland refuses this is the most highly wrought +in the book. He says to him, "Do not imagine that I am afraid of you; +I wear an armour against which all your weapons are impotent. I have +dug a pit for you: and whichever way you move, backward or forward, to +the right or the left, it is ready to swallow you. Be still! If once +you fall, call as loud as you will, no man on earth shall hear your +cries: prepare a tale however plausible or however true, the whole +world shall execrate you for an impostor. Your innocence shall be of no +service to you. I laugh at so feeble a defence. It is I that say it: +you may believe what I tell you. Do you know, miserable wretch!" added +he, stamping on the ground with fury, "that I have sworn to preserve +my reputation, whatever be the expense; that I love it more than the +whole world and its inhabitants taken together? and do you think that +you shall wound it?" The rest of the book shows how this threat was +executed.] + +I said that all this seemed to me like insanity. She said that she was +for a time led to think that it was insanity, and excused and pitied +him; that his treatment of her expressed such hatred and malignity, +that she knew not what else to think of it: that he seemed resolved to +drive her out of the house at all hazards, and threatened her, if she +should remain, in a way to alarm the heart of any woman: yet, thinking +him insane, she left him at last with the sorrow with which anyone +might leave a dear friend whose reason was wholly overthrown, and to +whom in this desolation she was no longer permitted to minister. + +I inquired in one of the pauses of the conversation whether Mrs. Leigh +was a peculiarly beautiful or attractive woman. + +'No, my dear: she was plain.' + +'Was she, then, distinguished for genius or talent of any kind?' + +'Oh, no! Poor woman! she was weak, relatively to him, and wholly under +his control.' + +'And what became of her?' I said. + +'She afterwards repented, and became a truly good woman.' I think it +was here she mentioned that she had frequently seen and conversed with +Mrs. Leigh in the latter part of her life; and she seemed to derive +comfort from the recollection. + +I asked, 'Was there a child?' I had been told by Mrs. ---- that there +was a daughter, who had lived some years. + +She said there was one, a daughter, who made her friends much trouble, +being of a very difficult nature to manage. I had understood that at +one time this daughter escaped from her friends to the Continent, and +that Lady Byron assisted in efforts to recover her. Of Lady Byron's +kindness both to Mrs. Leigh and the child, I had before heard from Mrs. +----, who gave me my first information. + +It is also strongly impressed on my mind, that Lady Byron, in answer +to some question of mine as to whether there was ever any meeting +between Lord Byron and his sister after he left England, answered, +that she had insisted upon it, or made it a condition, that Mrs. Leigh +should not go abroad to him. + +When the conversation as to events was over, as I stood musing, I said, +'Have you no evidence that he repented?' and alluded to the mystery of +his death, and the message he endeavoured to utter. + +She answered quickly, and with great decision, that whatever might have +been his meaning at that hour, she felt sure he had finally repented; +and added with great earnestness, 'I do not believe that _any_ child of +the heavenly Father is ever left to eternal sin.' + +I said that such a hope was most delightful to my feelings, but that I +had always regarded the indulgence of it as a dangerous one. + +Her look, voice, and manner, at that moment, are indelibly fixed in my +mind. She looked at me so sadly, so firmly, and said,-- + +'Danger, Mrs. Stowe! What danger can come from indulging that hope, +like the danger that comes from not having it?' + +I said in my turn, 'What danger comes from not having it?' + +'The danger of losing all faith in God,' she said, 'all hope for +others, all strength to try and save them. I once knew a lady,' she +added, 'who was in a state of scepticism and despair from belief in +that doctrine. I think I saved her by giving her my faith.' + +I was silent; and she continued: 'Lord Byron believed in eternal +punishment fully: for though he reasoned against Christianity as it is +commonly received, he could not reason himself out of it; and I think +it made him desperate. He used to say, "The worst of it is I _do_ +believe." Had he seen God as I see him, I am sure his heart would have +relented.' + +She went on to say, that his sins, great as they were, admitted of +much palliation and excuse; that he was the child of singular and +ill-matched parents; that he had an organisation originally fine, but +one capable equally of great good or great evil; that in his childhood +he had only the worst and most fatal influences; that he grew up into +manhood with no guide; that there was everything in the classical +course of the schools to develop an unhealthy growth of passion, and no +moral influence of any kind to restrain it; that the manners of his day +were corrupt; that what were now considered vices in society were then +spoken of as matters of course among young noblemen; that drinking, +gaming, and licentiousness everywhere abounded: and that, up to a +certain time, he was no worse than multitudes of other young men of his +day,--only that the vices of his day were worse for him. The excesses +of passion, the disregard of physical laws in eating, drinking, and +living, wrought effects on him that they did not on less sensitively +organised frames, and prepared him for the evil hour when he fell +into the sin which shaded his whole life. All the rest was a struggle +with its consequences,--sinning more and more to conceal the sin of +the past. But she believed he never outlived remorse; that he always +suffered; and that this showed that God had not utterly forsaken him. +Remorse, she said, always showed moral sensibility, and, while _that_ +remained, there was always hope. + +She now began to speak of her grounds for thinking it might be her duty +fully to publish this story before she left the world. + +First she said that, through the whole course of her life, she had +felt the eternal value of truth, and seen how dreadful a thing was +falsehood, and how fearful it was to be an accomplice in it, even by +silence. Lord Byron had demoralised the moral sense of England, and he +had done it in a great degree by the sympathy excited by falsehood. +This had been pleaded in extenuation of all his crimes and vices, and +led to a lowering of the standard of morals in the literary world. Now +it was proposed to print cheap editions of his works, and sell them +among the common people, and interest them in him by the circulation of +this same story. + +She then said in effect, that she believed in retribution and suffering +in the future life, and that the consequences of sins _here_ follow us +_there_; and it was strongly impressed upon her mind that Lord Byron +must suffer in looking on the evil consequences of what he had done in +this life, and in seeing the further extension of that evil. + +'It has sometimes strongly appeared to me,' she said, 'that he cannot +be at peace until this injustice has been righted. Such is the strong +feeling that I have when I think of going where he is.' + +These things, she said, had led her to inquire whether it might not be +her duty to make a full and clear disclosure before she left the world. + +Of course, I did not listen to this story as one who was investigating +its worth. I received it as truth. And the purpose for which it was +communicated was not to enable me to prove it to the world, but to ask +my opinion whether _she_ should show it to the world before leaving +it. The whole consultation was upon the assumption that she had at her +command such proofs as could not be questioned. + +Concerning what they were I did not minutely inquire: only, in answer +to a general question, she said that she had letters and documents +in proof of her story. Knowing Lady Byron's strength of mind, her +clear-headedness, her accurate habits, and her perfect knowledge of the +matter, I considered her judgment on this point decisive. + +I told her that I would take the subject into consideration, and give +my opinion in a few days. That night, after my sister and myself had +retired to our own apartment, I related to her the whole history, and +we spent the night in talking of it. I was powerfully impressed with +the justice and propriety of an immediate disclosure; while she, on the +contrary, represented the painful consequences that would probably come +upon Lady Byron from taking such a step. + +Before we parted the next day, I requested Lady Byron to give me some +memoranda of such dates and outlines of the general story as would +enable me better to keep it in its connection; which she did. + +On giving me the paper, Lady Byron requested me to return it to her +when it had ceased to be of use to me for the purpose indicated. + +Accordingly, a day or two after, I enclosed it to her in a hasty note, +as I was then leaving London for Paris, and had not yet had time fully +to consider the subject. + +On reviewing my note, I can recall that then the whole history appeared +to me like one of those singular cases where unnatural impulses to +vice are the result of a taint of constitutional insanity. This has +always seemed to me the only way of accounting for instances of +utterly motiveless and abnormal wickedness and cruelty. These my first +impressions were expressed in the hasty note written at the time:-- + + 'LONDON, Nov. 5, 1856. + + 'DEAREST FRIEND,--I return these. They have held mine eyes + waking! How strange! how unaccountable! Have you ever subjected the + facts to the judgment of a medical man learned in nervous pathology? + + '_Is_ it not insanity? + + "Great wits to madness nearly are allied, + And thin partitions do their bounds divide." + + 'But my purpose to-night is not to write you fully what I think of + this matter. I am going to write to you from Paris more at leisure.' + +The rest of the letter was taken up in the final details of a +charity in which Lady Byron had been engaged with me in assisting an +unfortunate artist. It concludes thus:-- + + 'I write now in all haste, _en route_ for Paris. As to America, all + is not lost yet.[36] Farewell! I love you, my dear friend, as never + before, with an intense feeling I cannot easily express. God bless you! + + 'H. B. S.' + +The next letter is as follows:-- + + 'PARIS, Dec. 17, 1856. + + [Footnote 36: Alluding to Buchanan's election.] + + 'DEAR LADY BYRON,--The Kansas Committee have written me a + letter desiring me to express to Miss ---- their gratitude for the + five pounds she sent them. I am not personally acquainted with her, + and must return these acknowledgments through you. + + 'I wrote you a day or two since, enclosing the reply of the Kansas + Committee to you. + + 'On _that subject_ on which you spoke to me the last time we were + together, I have thought often and deeply. + + 'I have changed my mind somewhat. Considering the peculiar + circumstances of the case, I could wish that the sacred veil of + silence, so bravely thrown over the past, should never be withdrawn + during the time that you remain with us. + + 'I would say, then, Leave all with some discreet friends, who, after + _both_ have passed from earth, shall say what was due to _justice_. + + 'I am led to think this by seeing how low, how unjust, how unworthy, + the judgments of this world are; and I would not that what I so much + respect, love, and revere should be placed within reach of its harpy + claw, which pollutes what it touches. + + 'The day will yet come which will bring to light every hidden thing. + "There is nothing covered that shall not be revealed, neither hid that + shall not be known;" and so _justice will not fail_. + + 'Such, my dear friend, are my thoughts; different from what they were + since first I heard that strange, sad history. Meanwhile, _I love you + ever_, whether we meet again on earth or not. + + 'Affectionately yours, + + 'H. B. S.' + +The following letter will here be inserted as confirming a part of Lady +Byron's story:-- + + + TO THE EDITOR OF 'MACMILLAN'S MAGAZINE.' + + 'SIR,--I trust that you will hold me excused from any desire + to be troublesome, or to rush into print. Both these things are far + from my wish. But the publication of a book having for its object the + vindication of Lord Byron's character, and the subsequent appearance + in your magazine of Mrs. Stowe's article in defence of Lady Byron, + having led to so much controversy in the various newspapers of the + day, I feel constrained to put in a few words among the rest. + + 'My father was intimately acquainted with Lady Byron's family for many + years, both before and after her marriage; being, in fact, steward to + Sir Ralph Milbanke at Seaham, where the marriage took place; and, from + all my recollections of what he told me of the affair (and he used + often to talk of it, up to the time of his death, eight years ago), I + fully agree with Mrs. Stowe's view of the case, and desire to add my + humble testimony to the truth of what she has stated. + + 'Whilst Byron was staying at Seaham, previous to his marriage, he + spent most of his time pistol-shooting in the plantations adjoining + the hall, often making use of his glove as a mark; his servant being + with him to load for him. + + 'When all was in readiness for the wedding-ceremony (which took place + in the drawing-room of the hall), Byron had to be sought for in the + grounds, where he was walking in his usual surly mood. + + 'After the marriage, they posted to Halnaby Lodge in Yorkshire, a + distance of about forty miles; to which place my father accompanied + them, and he always spoke strongly of Lady Byron's apparent distress + during and at the end of the journey. + + 'The insulting words mentioned by Mrs. Stowe were spoken by Byron + before leaving the park at Seaham; after which he appeared to sit + in moody silence, reading a book, for the rest of the journey. At + Halnaby, a number of persons, tenants and others, were met to cheer + them on their arrival. Of these he took not the slightest notice, but + jumped out of the carriage, and walked away, leaving his bride to + alight by herself. She shook hands with my father, and begged that he + would see that some refreshment was supplied to those who had thus + come to welcome them. + + 'I have in my possession several letters (which I should be glad to + show to anyone interested in the matter) both from Lady Byron, and her + mother, Lady Milbanke, to my father, all showing the deep and kind + interest which they took in the welfare of all connected with them, + and directing the distribution of various charities, &c. Pensions were + allowed both to the old servants of the Milbankes and to several poor + persons in the village and neighbourhood for the rest of their lives; + and Lady Byron never ceased to take a lively interest in all that + concerned them. + + 'I desire to tender my humble thanks to Mrs. Stowe for having + come forward in defence of one whose character has been much + misrepresented; and to you, sir, for having published the same in your + pages. + + 'I have the honour to be, sir, yours obediently, + + 'G. H. AIRD. + + 'DAOURTY, NORTHAMPTONSHIRE, Sept. 29, 1869.' + + + + +CHAPTER III. + +CHRONOLOGICAL SUMMARY OF EVENTS. + + +I have now fulfilled as conscientiously as possible the requests of +those who feel that they have a right to know exactly what was said in +this interview. + +It has been my object, in doing this, to place myself just where I +should stand were I giving evidence under oath before a legal tribunal. +In my first published account, there were given some smaller details of +the story, of no particular value to the main purpose of it, which I +received _not_ from Lady Byron, but from her confidential friend. One +of these was the account of her seeing Lord Byron's favourite spaniel +lying at his door, and the other was the scene of the parting. + +The first was communicated to me before I ever saw Lady Byron, and +under these circumstances:--I was invited to meet her, and had +expressed my desire to do so, because Lord Byron had been all my life +an object of great interest to me. I inquired what sort of a person +Lady Byron was. My friend spoke of her with enthusiasm. I then said, +'but of course she never _loved_ Lord Byron, or she would not have left +him.' The lady answered, 'I can show you with what feelings she left +him by relating this story;' and then followed the anecdote. + +Subsequently, she also related to me the other story of the +parting-scene between Lord and Lady Byron. In regard to these two +incidents, my recollection is clear. + +It will be observed by the reader that Lady Byron's conversation with +me was simply for consultation _on one point_, and that point whether +_she herself_ should publish the story before her death. It was not, +therefore, a complete history of all the events in their order, but +specimens of a few incidents and facts. Her object was, not to prove +her story to me, nor to put me in possession of it with a view to _my_ +proving it, but simply and briefly to show me _what it was_, that I +might judge as to the probable results of its publication at that time. + +It therefore comprised primarily these points:-- + +1. An exact statement, in so many words, of the crime. + +2. A statement of the manner in which it was first forced on her +attention by Lord Byron's words and actions, including: his admissions +and defences of it. + +3. The admission of a period when she had ascribed his whole conduct to +insanity. + +4. A reference to later positive evidences of guilt,--the existence of +a child, and Mrs. Leigh's subsequent repentance. + +And here I have a word to say in reference to the alleged inaccuracies +of my true story. + +The dates that Lady Byron gave me on the memoranda did not relate +either to the time of the first disclosure, or the period when her +doubts became certainties; nor did her conversation touch either of +these points: and, on a careful review of the latter, I see clearly +that it omitted dwelling upon anything which I might be supposed to +have learned from her already published statement. + +I re-enclosed that paper to her from London, and have never seen it +since. + +In writing my account, which I designed to do in the most general +terms, I took for my guide Miss Martineau's published Memoir of Lady +Byron, which has long stood uncontradicted before the public, of which +Macmillan's London edition is now before me. The reader is referred to +page 316, which reads thus:-- + +'She was born 1792; married in January 1814; returned to her father's +house in 1816; died on May 16, 1860.' This makes her married life two +years; but we need not say that the date is inaccurate, as Lady Byron +was married in 1815. + +Supposing Lady Byron's married life to have covered two years, I +could only reconcile its continuance for that length of time to her +uncertainty as to his sanity; to deceptions practised on her, making +her doubt at one time, and believe at another; and his keeping her in a +general state of turmoil and confusion, till at last he took the step +of banishing her. + +Various other points taken from Miss Martineau have also been attacked +as inaccuracies; for example, the number of executions in the house: +but these points, though of no importance, are substantially borne out +by Moore's statements. + +This controversy, unfortunately, cannot be managed with the accuracy of +a legal trial. Its course, hitherto, has rather resembled the course of +a drawing-room scandal, where everyone freely throws in an assertion, +with or without proof. In making out my narrative, however, I shall use +only certain authentic sources, some of which have for a long time been +before the public, and some of which have floated up from the waves of +the recent controversy. I consider as authentic sources,-- + +Moore's Life of Byron; + +Lady Byron's own account of the separation, published in 1830; + +Lady Byron's statements to me in 1856; + +Lord Lindsay's communication, giving an extract from Lady Anne +Barnard's diary, and a copy of a letter from Lady Byron dated 1818, +about three years after her marriage; + +Mrs. Mimms' testimony, as given in a daily paper published at +Newcastle, England; + +And Lady Byron's letters, as given recently in the late 'London +Quarterly.' + +All which documents appear to arrange themselves into a connected +series. + +From these, then, let us construct the story. + +According to Mrs. Mimms' account, which is likely to be accurate, the +time spent by Lord and Lady Byron in bridal-visiting was three weeks at +Halnaby Hall, and six weeks at Seaham, when Mrs. Mimms quitted their +service. + +During this first period of three weeks, Lord Byron's treatment of his +wife, as testified to by the servant, was such that she advised her +young mistress to return to her parents; and, at one time, Lady Byron +had almost resolved to do so. + +What the particulars of his conduct were, the servant refuses to state; +being bound by a promise of silence to her mistress. She, however, +testifies to a warm friendship existing between Lady Byron and Mrs. +Leigh, in a manner which would lead us to feel that Lady Byron received +and was received by Lord Byron's sister with the greatest affection. +Lady Byron herself says to Lady Anne Barnard, 'I had heard that he was +the best of brothers;' and the inference is, that she, at an early +period of her married life, felt the greatest confidence in his sister, +and wished to have her with them as much as possible. In Lady Anne's +account, this wish to have the sister with her was increased by Lady +Byron's distress at her husband's attempts to corrupt her principles +with regard to religion and marriage. + +In Moore's Life, vol. iii., letter 217, Lord Byron writes from Seaham +to Moore, under date of March 8, sending a copy of his verses in Lady +Byron's handwriting, and saying, 'We shall leave this place to-morrow, +and shall stop on our way to town, in the interval of taking a house +there, at Colonel Leigh's, near Newmarket, where any epistle of yours +will find its welcome way. I have been very comfortable here, listening +to that d----d monologue which elderly gentlemen call conversation, in +which my pious father-in-law repeats himself every evening, save one, +when he played upon the fiddle. However, they have been vastly kind and +hospitable, and I like them and the place vastly; and I hope they will +live many happy months. Bell is in health and unvaried good-humour and +behaviour; but we are in all the agonies of packing and parting.' + +Nine days after this, under date of March 17, Lord Byron says, 'We +mean to metropolize to-morrow, and you will address your next to +Piccadilly.' The inference is, that the days intermediate were spent +at Colonel Leigh's. The next letters, and all subsequent ones for six +months, are dated from Piccadilly. + +As we have shown, there is every reason to believe that a warm +friendship had thus arisen between Mrs. Leigh and Lady Byron, and that, +during all this time, Lady Byron desired as much of the society of her +sister-in-law as possible. She was a married woman and a mother, her +husband's nearest relative; and Lady Byron could with more propriety +ask, from her, counsel or aid in respect to his peculiarities than she +could from her own parents. If we consider the character of Lady Byron +as given by Mrs. Mimms,--that of a young person of warm but repressed +feeling, without sister or brother, longing for human sympathy, +and having so far found no relief but in talking with a faithful +dependant,--we may easily see that the acquisition of a sister through +Lord Byron might have been all in all to her, and that the feelings +which he checked and rejected for himself might have flowed out towards +his sister with enthusiasm. The date of Mrs. Leigh's visit does not +appear. + +The first domestic indication in Lord Byron's letters from London is +the announcement of the death of Lady Byron's uncle, Lord Wentworth, +from whom came large expectations of property. Lord Byron had mentioned +him before in his letters as so kind to Bell and himself that he +could not find it in his heart to wish him in heaven if he preferred +staying here. In his letter of April 23, he mentions going to the play +immediately after hearing this news, 'although,' as he says, 'he ought +to have stayed at home in sackcloth for "unc."' + +On June 12, he writes that Lady Byron is more than three months +advanced in her progress towards maternity; and that they have been out +very little, as he wishes to keep her quiet. We are informed by Moore +that Lord Byron was at this time a member of the Drury-Lane Theatre +Committee; and that, in this unlucky connection, one of the fatalities +of the first year of trial as a husband lay. From the strain of Byron's +letters, as given in Moore, it is apparent, that, while he thinks it +best for his wife to remain at home, he does not propose to share the +retirement, but prefers running his own separate career with such +persons as thronged the greenroom of the theatre in those days. + +In commenting on Lord Byron's course, we must not by any means be +supposed to indicate that he was doing any more or worse than most gay +young men of his time. The licence of the day as to getting drunk at +dinner-parties, and leading, generally, what would, in these days, be +called a disorderly life, was great. We should infer that none of the +literary men of Byron's time would have been ashamed of being drunk +occasionally. The Noctes Ambrosianæ Club of 'Blackwood' is full of +songs glorying, in the broadest terms, in out-and-out drunkenness, and +inviting to it as the highest condition of a civilised being.[37] + +[Footnote 37: Shelton Mackenzie, in a note to the 'Noctes' of July +1822, gives the following saying of Maginn, one of the principal lights +of the club: 'No man, however much he might tend to civilisation, +was to be regarded as having absolutely reached its apex until he +was drunk.' He also records it as a further joke of the club, that a +man's having reached this apex was to be tested by his inability to +pronounce the word 'civilisation,' which, he says, after ten o'clock at +night ought to be abridged to _civilation_, 'by syncope, or vigorously +speaking by hic-cup.'] + +But drunkenness upon Lord Byron had a peculiar and specific effect, +which he notices afterwards, in his Journal, at Venice: 'The effect +of all wines and spirits upon me is, however, strange. It settles, +but makes me gloomy--gloomy at the very moment of their effect: it +composes, however, though _sullenly_.'[38] And, again, in another +place, he says, 'Wine and spirits make me sullen, and savage to +ferocity.' + +[Footnote 38: Vol. v. pp. 61, 75.] + +It is well known that the effects of alcoholic excitement are various +as the natures of the subjects. But by far the worst effects, and the +most destructive to domestic peace, are those that occur in cases where +spirits, instead of acting on the nerves of motion, and depriving +the subject of power in that direction, stimulate the brain so as to +produce there the ferocity, the steadiness, the utter deadness to +compassion or conscience, which characterise a madman. How fearful +to a sensitive young mother in the period of pregnancy might be the +return of such a madman to the domestic roof! Nor can we account for +those scenes described in Lady Anne Barnard's letters, where Lord Byron +returned from his evening parties to try torturing experiments on his +wife, otherwise than by his own statement, that spirits, while they +_steadied_ him, made him 'gloomy, and savage to ferocity.' + +Take for example this:-- + + 'One night, coming home from one of his lawless parties, he saw me + (Lady B.) so indignantly collected, and bearing all with such a + determined calmness, that a rush of remorse seemed to come over him. + He called himself a monster, and, though his sister was present, threw + himself in agony at my feet. "I could not, no, I could not, forgive + him such injuries! He had lost me for ever!" Astonished at this return + to virtue, my tears, I believe, flowed over his face; and I said, + "Byron, all is forgotten; _never_, never shall you hear of it more." + + 'He started up, and folding his arms while he looked at me, burst + out into laughter. "What do you mean?" said I. "Only a philosophical + experiment; that's all," said he. "I wished to ascertain the value of + your resolutions."' + +To ascribe such deliberate cruelty as this to the effect of drink upon +Lord Byron, is the most charitable construction that can be put upon +his conduct. + +Yet the manners of the period were such, that Lord Byron must have +often come to this condition while only doing what many of his +acquaintances did freely, and without fear of consequences. + +Mr. Moore, with his usual artlessness, gives us an idea of a private +supper between himself and Lord Byron. We give it, with our own +italics, as a specimen of many others:-- + + 'Having taken upon me to order the repast, and knowing that Lord Byron + for the last two days had done nothing towards sustenance beyond + eating a few biscuits and (to appease appetite) chewing mastic, I + desired that we should have a good supply of at least two kinds of + fish. My companion, however, confined himself to lobsters; and of + these finished two or three, to his own share, interposing, sometimes, + a small liqueur-glass of strong white brandy, sometimes a tumbler of + very hot water, and then pure brandy again, to the amount of near half + a dozen small glasses of the latter, without which, alternately with + the hot water, he appeared to think the lobster could not be digested. + After this, we had claret, of which, having despatched two bottles + between us, at about four o'clock in the morning we parted. + + 'As Pope has thought his "delicious lobster-nights" worth + commemorating, these particulars of one in which Lord Byron was + concerned may also have some interest. + + 'Among _other nights of the same description which I had the happiness + of passing with him_, I remember once, in returning home from some + assembly at rather a late hour, we saw lights in the windows of his + old haunt, Stevens's in Bond Street, and agreed to stop there and + sup. On entering, we found an old friend of his, Sir G---- W----, who + joined our party; and, the _lobsters and brandy and water being put + in requisition, it was (as usual on such occasions) broad daylight + before we separated_.'--Vol. iii. p. 83. + +During the latter part of Lady Byron's pregnancy, it appears from Moore +that Byron was, night after night, engaged out at dinner parties, +in which getting drunk was considered as of course the _finale_, as +appears from the following letters:-- + + +(LETTER 228.) + +TO MR. MOORE. + + TERRACE, PICCADILLY, Oct. 31, 1815. + + 'I have not been able to ascertain precisely the time of duration of + the stock-market; but I believe it is a good time for selling out, and + I hope so. First, because I shall see you; and, next, because I shall + receive certain moneys on behalf of Lady B., the which will materially + conduce to my comfort; I wanting (as the duns say) "to make up a sum." + + 'Yesterday I dined out with a large-ish party, where were Sheridan + and Colman, Harry Harris, of C. G., and his brother, Sir Gilbert + Heathcote, Ds. Kinnaird, and others of note and notoriety. _Like + other parties of the kind, it was first silent, then talky, then + argumentative, then disputatious, then unintelligible,[39] then + altogethery, then inarticulate, and then drunk._ When we had reached + the last step of this glorious ladder, it was difficult to get down + again without stumbling; and, to crown all, Kinnaird and I had + to conduct Sheridan down a d----d corkscrew staircase, which had + certainly been constructed before the discovery of fermented liquors, + and to which no legs, however crooked, could possibly accommodate + themselves. We deposited him safe at home, where his man, _evidently + used to the business_,[40] waited to receive him in the hall. + + [Footnote 39: These italics are ours.] + + [Footnote 40: These italics are ours.] + + 'Both he and Colman were, as usual, very good; but I carried away much + wine, and the wine had previously carried away my memory: so that + all was hiccough and happiness for the last hour or so, and I am + not impregnated with any of the conversation. Perhaps you heard of a + late answer of Sheridan to the watchman who found him bereft of that + "divine particle of air" called reason.... He (the watchman) found + Sherry in the street fuddled and bewildered, and almost insensible. + "Who are _you_, sir?"--No answer. "What's your name?"--A hiccough. + "What's your name?"--Answer, in a slow, deliberate, and impassive + tone, "Wilberforce!" Is not that Sherry all over?--and, to my mind, + excellent. Poor fellow, _his_ very dregs are better than the "first + sprightly runnings" of others. + + 'My paper is full, and I have a grievous headache. + + 'P.S.--Lady B. is in full progress. Next month will bring to light + (with the aid of "Juno Lucina, _fer opem_," or rather _opes_, for the + last are most wanted) the tenth wonder of the world; Gil Blas being + the eighth, and he (my son's father) the ninth.' + +Here we have a picture of the whole story,--Lady Byron within a month +of her confinement; her money being used to settle debts; her husband +out at a dinner-party, going through the _usual course_ of such +parties, able to keep his legs and help Sheridan downstairs, and going +home 'gloomy, and savage to ferocity,' to his wife. + +Four days after this (letter 229), we find that this dinner-party is +not an exceptional one, but one of a series: for he says, 'To-day I +dine with Kinnaird,--we are to have Sheridan and Colman again; and +to-morrow, once more, at Sir Gilbert Heathcote's.' + +Afterward, in Venice, he reviews the state of his health, at this +period in London; and his account shows that his excesses in the +vices of his times had wrought effects on his sensitive, nervous +organisation, very different from what they might on the more +phlegmatic constitutions of ordinary Englishmen. In his journal, dated +Venice, Feb. 2, 1821, he says,-- + + 'I have been considering what can be the reason why I always wake at + a certain hour in the morning, and always in very bad spirits,--I may + say, in actual despair and despondency, in all respects, even of that + which pleased me over night. In about an hour or two this goes off, + and I compose either to sleep again, or at least to quiet. In England, + five years ago, I had the same kind of hypochondria, but accompanied + with so violent a thirst, that I have drunk as many as fifteen bottles + of soda-water in one night, after going to bed, and been still + thirsty,--calculating, however, some lost from the bursting-out and + effervescence and overflowing of the soda-water in drawing the corks, + or striking off the necks of the bottles from mere thirsty impatience. + At present, I have _not_ the thirst; but the depression of spirits is + no less violent.'--Vol. v. p. 96. + +These extracts go to show what _must_ have been the condition of the +man whom Lady Byron was called to receive at the intervals when he +came back from his various social excitements and pleasures. That his +nerves were exacerbated by violent extremes of abstinence and reckless +indulgence; that he was often day after day drunk, and that drunkenness +made him savage and ferocious,--such are the facts clearly shown by Mr. +Moore's narrative. Of the natural peculiarities of Lord Byron's temper, +he thus speaks to the Countess of Blessington:-- + + 'I often think that I inherit my violence and bad temper from my poor + mother,--not that my father, from all I could ever learn, had a much + better; so that it is no wonder I have such a very bad one. As long + as I can remember anything, I recollect being subject to violent + paroxysms of rage, so disproportioned to the cause as to surprise me + when they were over; and this still continues. I cannot coolly view + any thing which excites my feelings; and, once the lurking devil in + me is roused, I lose all command of myself. I do not recover a good + fit of rage for days after. Mind, I do not by this mean that the + ill humour continues, as, on the contrary, that quickly subsides, + exhausted by its own violence; but it shakes me terribly, and leaves + me low and nervous after.'--_Lady Blessington's Conversations_, p. 142. + +That during this time also his irritation and ill temper were increased +by the mortification of duns, debts, and executions, is on the face of +Moore's story. Moore himself relates one incident, which gives some +idea of the many which may have occurred at these times, in a note +on p. 215, vol. iv., where he speaks of Lord Byron's destroying a +favourite old watch that had been his companion from boyhood, and gone +with him to Greece. 'In a fit of vexation and rage, brought upon him by +some of these humiliating embarrassments, to which he was now almost +daily a prey, he furiously dashed this watch on the hearth, and ground +it to pieces with the poker among the ashes.' + +It is no wonder, that, with a man of this kind to manage, Lady Byron +should have clung to the only female companionship she could dare to +trust in the case, and earnestly desired to retain with her the sister, +who seemed, more than herself, to have influence over him. + +The first letter given by 'The Quarterly,' from Lady Byron to Mrs. +Leigh, without a date, evidently belongs to this period, when the +sister's society presented itself as a refuge in her approaching +confinement. Mrs. Leigh speaks of leaving. The young wife conscious +that the house presents no attractions, and that soon she herself shall +be laid by, cannot urge Mrs. Leigh's stay as likely to give her any +pleasure, but only as a comfort to herself. + + 'You will think me very foolish; but I have tried two or three times, + and cannot _talk_ to you of your departure with a decent visage: so + let me say one word in this way to spare my philosophy. With the + expectations which I have, I never will nor can ask you to stay one + moment longer than you are inclined to do. It would [be] the worst + return for all I ever received from you. But in this at least I _am_ + "truth itself," when I say, that whatever the situation may be, there + is no one whose society is dearer to me, or can contribute more to my + happiness. These feelings will not change under any circumstances, + and I should be grieved if you did not understand them. Should you + hereafter condemn me, I shall not love you less. I will say no more. + Judge for yourself about going or staying. I wish you to consider + _yourself_, if you could be wise enough to do that, for the first time + in your life. + + 'Thine, + + 'A. I. B.' + + Addressed on the cover, 'To The Hon. Mrs. Leigh.' + +This letter not being dated, we have no clue but what we obtain from +its own internal evidence. It certainly is not written in Lady Byron's +usual clear and elegant style; and is, in this respect, in striking +contrast to all her letters that I have ever seen. + +But the notes written by a young woman under such peculiar and +distressing circumstances must not be judged by the standard of calmer +hours. + +Subsequently to this letter, and during that stormy, irrational period +when Lord Byron's conduct became daily more and more unaccountable, may +have come that startling scene in which Lord Byron took every pains to +convince his wife of improper relations subsisting between himself and +his sister. + +What an _utter_ desolation this must have been to the wife, tearing +from her the last hold of friendship, and the last refuge to which she +had clung in her sorrows, may easily be conceived. + +In this crisis, it appears that the _sister_ convinced Lady Byron that +the whole was to be attributed to insanity. It would be a conviction +gladly accepted, and bringing infinite relief, although still +surrounding her path with fearful difficulties. + +That such was the case is plainly asserted by Lady Byron in her +statement published in 1830. Speaking of her separation, Lady Byron +says:-- + + 'The facts are, I left London for Kirkby Mallory, the residence of + my father and mother, on the 15th of January, 1816. Lord Byron had + signified to me in writing, Jan. 6, his _absolute desire_ that I + should leave London on the earliest day that I could conveniently fix. + It was not safe for me to encounter the fatigues of a journey sooner + than the 15th. _Previously to my departure, it had been strongly + impressed on my mind that Lord Byron was under the influence of + insanity._ + + 'This opinion was in a great measure derived from the communications + made to me by his _nearest relatives_ and personal attendant.' + +Now there was no nearer relative than Mrs. Leigh; and the personal +attendant was Fletcher. It was therefore presumably Mrs. Leigh who +convinced Lady Byron of her husband's insanity. + +Lady Byron says, 'It was even represented to me that he was in danger +of destroying himself. + +'_With the concurrence_ of his family, I had consulted with Dr. +Baillie, as a friend, on Jan. 8, as to his supposed malady.' Now, Lord +Byron's written order for her to leave came on Jan. 6. It appears, +then, that Lady Byron, acting in concurrence with Mrs. Leigh and +others of her husband's family, consulted Dr. Baillie, on Jan. 8, as +to what she should do; the symptoms presented to Dr. Baillie being, +evidently, insane hatred of his wife on the part of Lord Byron, and a +determination to get her out of the house. Lady Byron goes on:-- + + 'On acquainting him with the state of the case, and with Lord + Byron's desire that I should leave London, Dr. Baillie thought my + absence might be advisable as an experiment, _assuming_ the fact of + mental derangement; for Dr. Baillie, not having had access to Lord + Byron, could not pronounce an opinion on that point. He enjoined, + that, in correspondence with Lord Byron, I should avoid all but + light and soothing topics. Under these impressions, I left London, + determined to follow the advice given me by Dr. Baillie. Whatever + might have been the nature of Lord Byron's treatment of me from the + time of my marriage, yet, supposing him to have been in a state of + mental alienation, it was not for _me_, nor for any person of common + humanity, to manifest at that moment a sense of injury.' + +It appears, then, that the domestic situation in Byron's house at the +time of his wife's expulsion was one so grave as to call for family +counsel; for Lady Byron, generally accurate, speaks in the plural +number. 'His _nearest_ relatives' certainly includes Mrs. Leigh. 'His +family' includes more. That some of Lord Byron's own relatives were +cognisant of facts at this time, and that they took Lady Byron's side, +is shown by one of his own chance admissions. In vol. vi. p. 394, in a +letter on Bowles, he says, speaking of this time, '_All my relations_, +save one, fell from me like leaves from a tree in autumn.' And in +Medwin's Conversations he says, 'Even my cousin George Byron, who had +been brought up with me, and whom I loved as a brother, took my wife's +part.' The conduct must have been marked in the extreme that led to +this result. + +We cannot help stopping here to say that Lady Byron's situation at +this time has been discussed in our days with a want of ordinary human +feeling that is surprising. Let any father and mother, reading this, +look on their own daughter, and try to make the case their own. + +After a few short months of married life,--months full of patient +endurance of the strangest and most unaccountable treatment,--she comes +to them, expelled from her husband's house, an object of hatred and +aversion to him, and having to settle for herself the awful question, +whether he is a dangerous madman or a determined villain. + +Such was this young wife's situation. + +With a heart at times wrung with compassion for her husband as a +helpless maniac, and fearful that all may end in suicide, yet compelled +to leave him, she writes on the road the much-quoted letter, beginning +'Dear Duck.' This is an exaggerated and unnatural letter, it is +true, but of precisely the character that might be expected from an +inexperienced young wife when dealing with a husband supposed to be +insane. + +The next day, she addressed to Augusta this letter:-- + + 'MY DEAREST A.,--It is my great comfort that _you_ are still + in Piccadilly.' + +And again, on the 23rd:-- + + 'DEAREST A.,--I know you feel for me, as 1 do for you; and + perhaps I am better understood than I think. You have been, ever since + I knew you, my best comforter; and will so remain, unless you grow + tired of the office,--which may well be.' + +We can see here how self-denying and heroic appears to Lady Byron the +conduct of the sister, who patiently remains to soothe and guide and +restrain the moody madman, whose madness takes a form, at times, so +repulsive to every womanly feeling. She intimates that she should not +wonder should Augusta grow weary of the office. + +Lady Byron continues her statement thus:-- + + 'When I arrived at Kirkby Mallory, my parents were unacquainted + with the existence of any causes likely to destroy my prospects of + happiness; and, when I communicated to them the opinion that had been + formed concerning Lord Byron's state of mind, they were most anxious + to promote his restoration by every means in their power. They assured + those relations that were with him in London that "they would devote + their whole care and attention to the alleviation of his malady."' + +Here we have a _quotation_[41] from a letter written by Lady Milbanke +to the anxious 'relations' who are taking counsel about Lord Byron in +town. Lady Byron also adds, in justification of her mother from Lord +Byron's slanders, 'She had always treated him with an affectionate +consideration and indulgence, which extended to every little +peculiarity of his feelings. Never did an irritating word escape her +lips in her whole intercourse with him.' + +[Footnote 41: This little incident shows the characteristic carefulness +and accuracy of Lady Byron's habits. This statement was written +_fourteen_ years after the events spoken of; but Lady Byron carefully +quotes a passage from her mother's letter written at that time. This +shows that a copy of Lady Milbanke's letter had been preserved, and +makes it appear probable that copies of the whole correspondence of +that period were also kept. Great light could be thrown on the whole +transaction, could these documents be consulted.] + +Now comes a remarkable part of Lady Byron's statement:-- + + 'The accounts given me after I left Lord Byron, by those in constant + intercourse with him,[42] _added_ to those doubts which had before + transiently occurred to my mind as to the reality of the alleged + disease; and the reports of his medical attendants were far from + establishing anything like lunacy.' + +[Footnote 42: Here, again, Lady Byron's sealed papers might furnish +light. The letters addressed to her at this time by those in constant +intercourse with Lord Byron are doubtless preserved, and would show her +ground of action.] + +When these doubts arose in her mind, it is not natural to suppose +that they should, at first, involve Mrs. Leigh. She still appears to +Lady Byron as the devoted, believing sister, fully convinced of her +brother's insanity, and endeavouring to restrain and control him. + +But if Lord Byron were sane, if the purposes he had avowed to his wife +were real, he must have lied about his sister in the past, and perhaps +have the worst intentions for the future. + +The horrors of that state of vacillation between the conviction of +insanity and the commencing conviction of something worse can scarcely +be told. + +At all events, the wife's doubts extend so far that she speaks out to +her parents. 'UNDER THIS UNCERTAINTY,' says the statement, +'I deemed it right to communicate to my parents, that, if I were to +consider Lord Byron's past conduct as that of a person of sound mind, +_nothing could induce me to return to him_. It therefore appeared +expedient, both to them and to myself, to consult the ablest advisers. +For that object, and also to obtain still further information +respecting appearances which indicated mental derangement, my mother +determined to go to London. She was empowered by me to take legal +opinion on a written statement of mine; though I then had reasons for +reserving a _part of the case from the knowledge even of my father and +mother_.' + +It is during this time of uncertainty that the next letter to Mrs. +Leigh may be placed. It seems to be rather a fragment of a letter +than a whole one: perhaps it is an extract; in which case it would be +desirable, if possible, to view it in connection with the remaining +text:-- + + 'Jan. 25, 1816. + + 'MY DEAREST AUGUSTA,--Shall I still be your sister? I must + resign my right to be so considered; but I don't think that will make + any difference in the kindness I have so uniformly experienced from + you.' + +This fragment is not signed, nor finished in any way, but indicates +that the writer is about to take a decisive step. + +On the 17th, as we have seen, Lady Milbanke had written, inviting +Lord Byron. Subsequently she went to London to make more particular +inquiries into his state. This fragment seems part of a letter from +Lady Byron, called forth in view of some evidence resulting from her +mother's observations.[43] + +[Footnote 43: Probably Lady Milbanke's letters are among the sealed +papers, and would more fully explain the situation.] + +Lady Byron now adds:-- + + 'Being convinced by the result of these inquiries, and by the tenour + of Lord Byron's proceedings, that the notion of insanity was an + illusion, I no longer hesitated to authorize such measures as were + necessary in order to secure me from ever being again placed in his + power. + + 'Conformably with this resolution, my father wrote to him, on the 2nd + of February, to request an amicable separation.' + +The following letter to Mrs. Leigh is dated the day after this +application, and is in many respects a noticeable one:-- + + 'KIRKBY MALLORY, Feb. 3, 1816. + + 'MY DEAREST AUGUSTA,--You are desired by your brother to ask + if my father has acted with my concurrence in proposing a separation. + He has. It cannot be supposed, that, in my present distressing + situation, I am capable of stating in a detailed manner the reasons + which will not only justify this measure, but compel me to take it; + and it never can be my wish to remember _unnecessarily_ [_sic_] + those injuries for which, however deep, I feel no resentment. I will + now only recall to Lord Byron's mind his avowed and insurmountable + aversion to the married state, and the desire and determination + he has expressed ever since its commencement to free himself from + that bondage, as finding it quite insupportable, though candidly + acknowledging that no effort of duty or affection has been wanting on + my part. He has too painfully convinced me that all these attempts + to contribute towards his happiness were wholly useless, and most + unwelcome to him. I enclose this letter to my father, wishing it to + receive his sanction. + + 'Ever yours most affectionately, + + 'A. I. BYRON.' + +We observe in this letter that it is written to _be shown_ to Lady +Byron's father, and receive his sanction; and, as that father was +in ignorance of all the deeper causes of trouble in the case, it +will be seen that the letter must necessarily be a reserved one. +This sufficiently accounts for the guarded character of the language +when speaking of the causes of separation. One part of the letter +incidentally overthrows Lord Byron's statement, which he always +repeated during his life, and which is repeated for him now; namely, +that his wife _forsook_ him, instead of being, as she claims, +_expelled_ by him. + +She recalls to Lord Byron's mind the 'desire and _determination_ he has +expressed ever since his marriage to free himself from its bondage.' + +This is in perfect keeping with the '_absolute_ desire,' signified +by writing, that she should leave his house on the earliest day +possible; and she places the cause of the separation on his having 'too +painfully' convinced her that he does not want her--as a wife. + +It appears that Augusta hesitates to show this note to her brother. It +is bringing on a crisis which she, above all others, would most wish to +avoid. + +In the meantime, Lady Byron receives a letter from Lord Byron, which +makes her feel it more than ever essential to make the decision final. +I have reason to believe that this letter is preserved in Lady Byron's +papers:-- + + 'Feb. 4, 1816. + + 'I hope, my dear A., that you would on no account withhold from your + brother the letter which I sent yesterday in answer to yours written + by his desire, particularly as one which I have received from himself + to-day renders it still more important that he should know the + contents of that addressed to you, I am, in haste and not very well, + + 'Yours most affectionately, + + 'A. I. BYRON.' + +The last of this series of letters is less like the style of Lady Byron +than any of them. We cannot judge whether it is a whole consecutive +letter, or fragments from a letter, selected and united. There is a +great want of that clearness and precision which usually characterised +Lady Byron's style. It shows, however, that the decision is made,--a +decision which she regrets on account of the sister who has tried so +long to prevent it. + + 'KIRKBY MALLORY, Feb. 14, 1816. + + 'The present sufferings of all may yet be repaid in blessings. Do + not despair absolutely, dearest; and leave me but enough of your + interest to afford you any consolation by partaking of that sorrow + which I am most unhappy to cause thus unintentionally. _You will_ be + of my opinion hereafter; and at present your bitterest reproach would + be forgiven, though Heaven knows you have considered me more than a + thousand would have done,--more than anything but my affection for + B., one most dear to you, could deserve. I must not remember these + feelings. Farewell! God bless you from the bottom of my heart! + + 'A. I. B.' + +We are here to consider that Mrs. Leigh has stood to Lady Byron in +all this long agony as her only confidante and friend; that she has +denied the charges her brother has made, and referred them to insanity, +admitting insane _attempts_ upon herself which she has been obliged to +watch over and control. + +Lady Byron has come to the conclusion that Augusta is mistaken as to +insanity; that there is a real wicked _purpose_ and desire on the part +of the brother, not as yet believed in by the sister. She regards the +sister as one, who, though deceived and blinded, is still worthy of +confidence and consideration; and so says to her, '_You will be of my +opinion hereafter_.' + +She says, 'You have considered me more than a thousand would have +done.' Mrs. Leigh is, in Lady Byron's eyes, a most abused and innocent +woman, who, to spare her sister in her delicate situation, has taken on +herself the whole charge of a maniacal brother, although suffering from +him language and actions of the most injurious kind. That Mrs. Leigh +did not flee the house at once under such circumstances, and wholly +decline the management of the case, seems to Lady Byron consideration +and self-sacrifice greater than she can acknowledge. + +The knowledge of the _whole extent of the truth_ came to Lady Byron's +mind at a later period. + +We now take up the history from Lushington's letter to Lady Byron, +published at the close of her statement. + +The application to Lord Byron for an act of separation was positively +refused at first; it being an important part of his policy that all the +responsibility and insistance should come from his wife, and that he +should appear forced into it contrary to his will. + +Dr. Lushington, however, says to Lady Byron,-- + + 'I was originally consulted by Lady Noel on your behalf while you + were in the country. The circumstances detailed by her were such + as justified a separation; but they were not of that aggravated + description as to render such a measure indispensable. On Lady + Noel's representations, I deemed a reconciliation with Lord Byron + practicable, and felt most sincerely a wish to aid in effecting it. + There was not, on Lady Noel's part, any exaggeration of the facts, + nor, so far as I could perceive, any determination to prevent a + return to Lord Byron: certainly none was expressed when I spoke of a + reconciliation.' + +In this crisis, with Lord Byron refusing the separation, with +Lushington expressing a wish to aid in a reconciliation, and Lady Noel +not expressing any aversion to it, the whole strain of the dreadful +responsibility comes upon the wife. + +She resolves to ask counsel of her lawyer, in view of a statement of +the _whole_ case. + +Lady Byron is spoken of by Lord Byron (letter 233) as being in town +with her father on the 29th of February; viz., fifteen days after the +date of the last letter to Mrs. Leigh. It must have been about this +time, then, that she laid her whole case before Lushington; and he gave +it a thorough examination. + +The result was, that Lushington expressed in the most decided terms his +conviction that reconciliation was impossible. The language he uses is +very striking:-- + + 'When you came to town in about a fortnight, or perhaps more, after my + first interview with Lady Noel, I was, for the first time, informed + by you of facts utterly unknown, as I have no doubt, to Sir Ralph and + Lady Noel. On receiving this additional information, my opinion was + entirely changed. I considered a reconciliation impossible. I declared + my opinion, and added, that, if such an idea should be entertained, I + could not, either professionally or otherwise, take any part towards + effecting it.' + +It does not appear in this note what effect the lawyer's examination +of the case had on Lady Byron's mind. By the expressions he uses, we +should infer that she may still have been hesitating as to whether a +reconciliation might not be her duty. + +This hesitancy he does away with most decisively, saying, 'A +reconciliation is impossible;' and, supposing Lady Byron or her +friends desirous of one, he declares positively that he cannot, either +professionally as a lawyer or privately as a friend, have anything to +do with effecting it. + +The lawyer, it appears, has drawn, from the facts of the case, +inferences deeper and stronger than those which presented themselves to +the mind of the young woman; and he instructs her in the most absolute +terms. + +Fourteen years after, in 1830, for the first time the world was +astonished by this declaration from Dr. Lushington, in language so +pronounced and positive that there could be no mistake. + +Lady Byron had stood all these fourteen years slandered by her husband, +and misunderstood by his friends, when, had she so chosen, this opinion +of Dr. Lushington's could have been at once made public, which fully +justified her conduct. + +If, as the 'Blackwood' of July insinuates, the story told to Lushington +was a malignant slander, meant to injure Lord Byron, why did she +suppress the judgment of her counsel at a time when all the world +was on her side, and this decision would have been the decisive blow +against her husband? Why, by sealing the lips of counsel, and of all +whom she could influence, did she deprive herself finally of the very +advantage for which it has been assumed she fabricated the story? + + + + +CHAPTER IV. + +THE CHARACTER OF THE TWO WITNESSES COMPARED. + + +It will be observed, that, in this controversy, we are confronting two +opposing stories,--one of Lord and the other of Lady Byron; and the +statements from each are in point-blank contradiction. + +Lord Byron states that his wife deserted him. Lady Byron states that he +expelled her, and reminds him, in her letter to Augusta Leigh, that the +expulsion was a deliberate one, and that he had purposed it from the +beginning of their marriage. + +Lord Byron always stated that he was ignorant why his wife left him, +and was desirous of her return. Lady Byron states that he told her that +he would force her to leave him, and to leave him in such a way that +the whole blame of the separation should always rest on her, and not on +him. + +To say nothing of any deeper or darker accusations on either side, +here, in the very outworks of the story, the two meet point-blank. + +In considering two opposing stories, we always, as a matter of fact, +take into account the character of the witnesses. + +If a person be literal and exact in his usual modes of speech, +reserved, careful, conscientious, and in the habit of observing +minutely the minor details of time, place, and circumstances, we give +weight to his testimony from these considerations. But if a person +be proved to have singular and exceptional principles with regard to +truth; if he be universally held by society to be so in the habit of +mystification, that large allowances must be made for his statements; +if his assertions at one time contradict those made at another; and if +his statements, also, sometimes come in collision with those of his +best friends, so that, when his language is reported, difficulties +follow, and explanations are made necessary,--all this certainly +disqualifies him from being considered a trustworthy witness. + +All these disqualifications belong in a remarkable degree to Lord +Byron, on the oft-repeated testimony of his best friends. + +We shall first cite the following testimony, given in an article from +'Under the Crown,' which is written by an early friend and ardent +admirer of Lord Byron:-- + + 'Byron had one pre-eminent fault,--a fault which must be considered as + deeply criminal by everyone who does not, as I do, believe it to have + resulted from monomania. He had a morbid love of a bad reputation. + There was hardly an offence of which he would not, with perfect + indifference, accuse himself. An old schoolfellow who met him on the + Continent told me that he would continually write paragraphs against + himself in the foreign journals, and delight in their republication + by the English newspapers as in the success of a practical joke. + Whenever anybody has related anything discreditable of Byron, assuring + me that it must be true, for he heard it from himself, I always felt + that he could not have spoken upon worse authority; and that, in all + probability, the tale was a pure invention. If I could remember, + and were willing to repeat, the various misdoings which I have from + time to time heard him attribute to himself, I could fill a volume. + But I never believed them. I very soon became aware of this strange + idiosyncrasy: it puzzled me to account for it; but there it was, a + sort of diseased and distorted vanity. The same eccentric spirit + would induce him to report things which were false with regard to his + family, which anybody else would have concealed, though true. He told + me more than once that his father was insane, and killed himself. I + shall never forget the manner in which he first told me this. While + washing his hands, and singing a gay Neapolitan air, he stopped, + looked round at me, and said, "There always was madness in the + family." Then, after continuing his washing and his song, he added, as + if speaking of a matter of the slightest indifference, "My father cut + his throat." The contrast between the tenour of the subject and the + levity of the expression was fearfully painful: it was like a stanza + of "Don Juan." In this instance, I had no doubt that the fact was as + he related it; but in speaking of it, only a few years since, to an + old lady in whom I had perfect confidence, she assured me that it was + not so. Mr. Byron, who was her cousin, had been extremely wild, but + was quite sane, and had died very quietly in his bed. What Byron's + reason could have been for thus calumniating not only himself but + the blood which was flowing in his veins, who can divine? But, for + some reason or other, it seemed to be his determined purpose to keep + himself unknown to the great body of his fellow-creatures; to present + himself to their view in moral masquerade.' + +Certainly the character of Lord Byron here given by his friend is +not the kind to make him a trustworthy witness in any case: on the +contrary, it seems to show either a subtle delight in falsehood for +falsehood's sake, or else the wary artifices of a man who, having a +deadly secret to conceal, employs many turnings and windings to throw +the world off the scent. What intriguer, having a crime to cover, could +devise a more artful course than to send half a dozen absurd stories to +the press, which should, after a while, be traced back to himself, till +the public should gradually look on all it heard from him as the result +of this eccentric humour? + +The easy, trifling air with which Lord Byron made to this friend a +false statement in regard to his father would lead naturally to the +inquiry, on what _other_ subjects, equally important to the good name +of others, he might give false testimony with equal indifference. + +When Medwin's 'Conversations with Lord Byron' were first published, +they contained a number of declarations of the noble lord affecting the +honour and honesty of his friend and publisher Murray. These appear +to have been made in the same way as those about his father, and with +equal indifference. So serious were the charges, that Mr. Murray's +friends felt that he ought, in justice to himself, to come forward and +confront them with the facts as stated in Byron's letters to himself; +and in vol. x., p. 143, of Murray's standard edition, accordingly +these false statements are confronted with the letters of Lord Byron. +The statements, as reported, are of a most material and vital nature, +relating to Murray's financial honour and honesty, and to his general +truthfulness and sincerity. In reply, Murray opposes to them the +accounts of sums paid for different works, and letters from Byron +exactly contradicting his own statements as to Murray's character. + +The subject, as we have seen, was discussed in 'The Noctes.' No doubt +appears to be entertained that Byron made the statements to Medwin; and +the theory of accounting for them is, that 'Byron was "bamming" him.' + +It seems never to have occurred to any of these credulous gentlemen, +who laughed at others for being 'bammed,' that Byron might be doing the +very same thing by themselves. How many of his so-called packages sent +to Lady Byron were _real_ packages, and how many were mystifications? +We find, in two places at least in his Memoir, letters to Lady Byron, +written and shown to others, which, he says, were never sent by him. +He told Lady Blessington that he was in the habit of writing to her +_constantly_. Was this 'bamming'? Was he 'bamming,' also, when he told +the world that Lady Byron suddenly deserted him, quite to his surprise, +and that he never, to his dying day, could find out why? + +Lady Blessington relates, that, in one of his conversations with her, +he entertained her by repeating epigrams and lampoons, in which many +of his friends were treated with severity. She inquired of him, in +case he should die, and such proofs of his friendship come before the +public, what would be the feelings of these friends, who had supposed +themselves to stand so high in his good graces. She says, + + '"That," said Byron, "is precisely one of the ideas that most amuses + me. I often fancy the rage and humiliation of my quondam friends in + hearing the truth, at least from me, for the first time, and when I + am beyond the reach of their malice.... What grief," continued Byron, + laughing, "could resist the charges of ugliness, dulness, or any of + the thousand nameless defects, personal or mental, 'that flesh is heir + to,' when reprisal or recantation was impossible?... People are in + such daily habits of commenting on the defects of friends, that they + are unconscious of the unkindness of it.... Now, I write down as well + as speak my sentiments of those who think they have gulled me; and I + only wish, in case I die before them, that I might return to witness + the effects my posthumous opinions of them are likely to produce in + their minds. What good fun this would be!... You don't seem to value + this as you ought," said Byron with one of his sardonic smiles, seeing + I looked, as I really felt, surprised at his avowed insincerity. I + feel the same pleasure in anticipating the rage and mortification of + my _soi-disant_ friends at the discovery of my real sentiments of + them, that a miser may be supposed to feel while making a will that + will disappoint all the expectants that have been toadying him for + years. Then how amusing it will be to compare my posthumous with my + previously given opinions, the one throwing ridicule on the other!"' + +It is asserted, in a note to 'The Noctes,' that Byron, besides his +Autobiography, prepared a voluminous dictionary of all his friends and +acquaintances, in which brief notes of their persons and character +were given, with his opinion of them. It was not considered that the +publication of this would add to the noble lord's popularity; and it +has never appeared. + +In Hunt's Life of Byron, there is similar testimony. Speaking of +Byron's carelessness in exposing his friends' secrets, and showing or +giving away their letters, he says:-- + + 'If his five hundred confidants, by a reticence as remarkable as his + laxity, had not kept his secrets better than he did himself, the + very devil might have been played with I don't know how many people. + But there was always this saving reflection to be made, that the man + who could be guilty of such extravagances for the sake of making + an impression might be guilty of exaggeration, or inventing what + astonished you; and indeed, though he was a speaker of the truth on + ordinary occasions,--that is to say, he did not tell you he had seen + a dozen horses when he had seen only two,--yet, as he professed not + to value the truth when in the way of his advantage (and there was + nothing he thought more to his advantage than making you stare at + him), the persons who were liable to suffer from his inconsistency had + all the right in the world to the benefit of this consideration.'[44] + +[Footnote 44: Hunt's Byron, p. 77. Philadelphia, 1828.] + +With a person of such mental and moral habits as to truth, the inquiry +always must be, _Where_ does mystification end, and truth begin? + +If a man is careless about his father's reputation for sanity, and +reports him a crazy suicide; if he gaily accuses his publisher and +good friend of double-dealing, shuffling, and dishonesty; if he tells +stories about Mrs. Clermont,[45] to which his sister offers a public +refutation,--is it to be supposed that he will always tell the truth +about his wife, when the world is pressing him hard, and every instinct +of self-defence is on the alert? + +[Footnote 45: From the Temple Bar article, October 1869. 'Mrs. Leigh, +Lord Byron's sister, had other thoughts of Mrs. Clermont, and wrote +to her offering public testimony to her tenderness and forbearance +under circumstances which must have been trying to any friend of Lady +Byron.'--_Campbell, in the New Monthly Magazine_, 1830, p. 380.] + +And then the ingenuity that could write and publish false documents +about himself, that they might re-appear in London papers,--to what +other accounts might it not be turned? Might it not create documents, +invent statements, about his wife as well as himself? + +The document so ostentatiously given to M. G. Lewis 'for circulation +among friends in England' was a specimen of what the Noctes Club would +call 'bamming.' + +If Byron wanted a legal investigation, why did he not take it in the +first place, instead of signing the separation? If he wanted to cancel +it, as he said in this document, why did he not go to London, and enter +a suit for the restitution of conjugal rights, or a suit in chancery to +get possession of his daughter? That this was in his mind, passages in +Medwin's 'Conversations' show. He told Lady Blessington also that he +might claim his daughter in chancery at any time. + +Why did he not do it? Either of these two steps would have brought on +that public investigation he so longed for. Can it be possible that all +the friends who passed this private document from hand to hand never +suspected that they were being 'bammed' by it? + +But it has been universally assumed, that, though Byron was thus +remarkably given to mystification, yet _all_ his statements in regard +to this story are to be accepted, simply because he makes them. _Why_ +must we accept them, any more than his statements as to Murray or his +own father? + +So we constantly find Lord Byron's incidental statements coming in +collision with those of others: for example, in his account of his +marriage, he tells Medwin that Lady Byron's maid was put between his +bride and himself, on the same seat, in the wedding-journey. The lady's +maid herself, Mrs. Mimms, says she was sent before them to Halnaby, and +was there to receive them when they alighted. + +He said of Lady Byron's mother, 'She always detested me, and had not +the decency to conceal it in her own house. Dining with her one day, I +broke a tooth, and was in great pain; which I could not help showing. +"It will do you good," said Lady Noel; "I am glad of it!"' + +Lady Byron says, speaking of her mother, 'She always treated him with +an affectionate consideration and indulgence, which extended to every +little peculiarity of his feelings. Never did an irritating word escape +her.' + +Lord Byron states that the correspondence between him and Lady Byron, +after his refusal, was first opened by her. Lady Byron's friends deny +the statement, and assert that the direct contrary is the fact. + +Thus we see that Lord Byron's statements are directly opposed to +those of his family in relation to his father; directly against +Murray's accounts, and his own admission to Murray; directly against +the statement of the lady's maid as to her position in the journey; +directly against Mrs. Leigh's as to Mrs. Clermont, and against Lady +Byron as to her mother. + +We can see, also, that these misstatements were so fully perceived by +the men of his times, that Medwin's 'Conversations' were simply laughed +at as an amusing instance of how far a man might be made the victim of +a mystification. Christopher North thus sentences the book:-- + + 'I don't mean to call Medwin a liar.... The captain _lies_, sir, but + it is under a thousand mistakes. Whether Byron bammed him, or he, by + virtue of his own egregious stupidity, was the sole and sufficient + bammifier of himself, I know not; neither greatly do I care. This much + is certain, ... that the book throughout is full of things that were + not, and most resplendently deficient _quoad_ the things that were.' + +Yet it is on Medwin's 'Conversations' alone that many of the magazine +assertions in regard to Lady Byron are founded. + +It is on that authority that Lady Byron is accused of breaking open +her husband's writing-desk in his absence, and sending the letters +she found there to the husband of a lady compromised by them; and +likewise that Lord Byron is declared to have paid back his wife's +ten-thousand-pound wedding portion, and doubled it. Moore makes no such +statements; and his remarks about Lord Byron's use of his wife's money +are unmistakable evidence to the contrary. Moore, although Byron's +ardent partisan, was too well informed to make assertions with regard +to him, which, at that time, it would have been perfectly easy to +refute. + +All these facts go to show that Lord Byron's character for accuracy +or veracity was not such as to entitle him to ordinary confidence as a +witness, especially in a case where he had the strongest motives for +misstatement. + +And if we consider that the celebrated Autobiography was the finished, +careful work of such a practised 'mystifier,' who can wonder that it +presented a web of such intermingled truth and lies that there was no +such thing as disentangling it, and pointing out where falsehood ended +and truth began? + +But in regard to Lady Byron, what has been the universal impression +of the world? It has been alleged against her that she was a precise, +straight-forward woman, so accustomed to plain, literal dealings, that +she could not understand the various mystifications of her husband; and +from that cause arose her unhappiness. Byron speaks, in 'The Sketch,' +of her _peculiar_ truthfulness; and even in the 'Clytemnestra' poem, +when accusing her of lying, he speaks of her as departing from + + 'The _early_ truth that was her proper praise.' + +Lady Byron's careful accuracy as to dates, to time, place, and +circumstances, will probably be vouched for by all the very large +number of persons whom the management of her extended property and +her works of benevolence brought to act as co-operators or agents +with her. She was not a person in the habit of making exaggerated or +ill-considered statements. Her published statement of 1830 is clear, +exact, accurate, and perfectly intelligible. The dates are carefully +ascertained and stated, the expressions are moderate, and all the +assertions firm and perfectly definite. + +It therefore seems remarkable that the whole reasoning on this Byron +matter has generally been conducted by assuming all Lord Byron's +statements to be true, and requiring all Lady Byron's statements to be +sustained by other evidence. + +If Lord Byron asserts that his wife deserted him, the assertion is +accepted without proof; but, if Lady Byron asserts that he ordered +her to leave, that requires proof. Lady Byron asserts that she +took counsel, on this order of Lord Byron, with his family friends +and physician, under the idea that it originated in insanity. The +'Blackwood' asks, '_What_ family friends?' says it doesn't know of any; +and asks proof. + +If Lord Byron asserts that he always longed for a public investigation +of the charges against him, the 'Quarterly' and 'Blackwood' quote +the saying with ingenuous confidence. They are obliged to admit +that he refused to stand that public test; that he signed the deed +of separation rather than meet it. They know, also, that he could +have at any time instituted suits against Lady Byron that would have +brought the whole matter into court, and that he did not? Why did he +not? The 'Quarterly' simply intimates that such suits would have been +unpleasant. Why? On account of personal delicacy? The man that wrote +'Don Juan', and furnished the details of his wedding-night, held +back from clearing his name by delicacy! It is astonishing to what +extent this controversy has consisted in simply repeating Lord Byron's +assertions over and over again, and calling the result proof. + +Now, we propose a different course. As Lady Byron is not stated by +her warm admirers to have had _any_ monomania for speaking untruths +on any subject, we rank her value as a witness at a higher rate than +Lord Byron's. She never accused her parents of madness or suicide, +merely to make a sensation; never 'bammed' an acquaintance by false +statements concerning the commercial honour of anyone with whom she +was in business relations; never wrote and sent to the press as a +clever jest false statements about herself; and never, in any other +ingenious way, tampered with truth. We therefore hold it to be a mere +dictate of reason and common sense, that, in all cases where her +statements conflict with her husband's, hers are to be taken as the +more trustworthy. + +The 'London Quarterly,' in a late article, distinctly repudiates Lady +Byron's statements as sources of evidence, and throughout quotes +statements of Lord Byron as if they had the force of self-evident +propositions. We consider such a course contrary to common sense as +well as common good manners. + +The state of the case is just this: If Lord Byron did not make false +statements on this subject it was certainly an exception to his usual +course. He certainly did make such on a great variety of other +subjects. By his own showing, he had a peculiar pleasure in falsifying +language, and in misleading and betraying even his friends. + +But, if Lady Byron gave false witness upon this subject, it was an +exception to the whole course of her life. + +The habits of her mind, the government of her conduct, her life-long +reputation, all were those of a literal, exact truthfulness. + +The accusation of her being untruthful was first brought forward by +her husband in the 'Clytemnestra' poem, in the autumn of 1816; but it +never was publicly circulated till after his death, and it was first +formally made the basis of a published attack on Lady Byron in the +July 'Blackwood' of 1869. Up to that time, we look in vain through +current literature for any indications that the world regarded Lady +Byron otherwise than as a cold, careful, prudent woman, who made no +assertions, and had no confidants. When she spoke in 1830, it is +perfectly evident that Christopher North and his circle believed what +she said, though reproving her for saying it at all. + +The 'Quarterly' goes on to heap up a number of vague assertions,--that +Lady Byron, about the time of her separation, made a confidant of a +young officer; that she told the clergyman of Ham of some trials with +Lord Ockham; and that she told stories of different things at different +times. + +All this is not proof: it is mere assertion, and assertion made to +produce prejudice. It is like raising a whirlwind of sand to blind +the eyes that are looking for landmarks. It is quite probable Lady +Byron told different stories about Lord Byron at various times. No +woman could have a greater variety of stories to tell; and no woman +ever was so persecuted and pursued and harassed, both by public +literature and private friendship, to say _something_. She had plenty +of causes for a separation, without the fatal and final one. In her +conversations with Lady Anne Barnard, for example, she gives reasons +enough for a separation, though none of them are the chief one. It is +not _different_ stories, but _contradictory_ stories, that must be +relied on to disprove the credibility of a witness. The 'Quarterly' +has certainly told a great number of different stories,--stories which +may prove as irreconcilable with each other as any attributed to Lady +Byron; but its denial of all weight to her testimony is simply begging +the whole question under consideration. + +A man gives testimony about the causes of a railroad accident, being +the only eye-witness. + +The opposing counsel begs, whatever else you do, you will not admit +that man's testimony. You ask, 'Why? Has he ever been accused of want +of veracity on other subjects?'--'No: he has stood high as a man of +probity and honour for years.'--'Why, then, throw out his testimony?' + +'Because he lies in this instance,' says the adversary: 'his testimony +does not agree with this and that.'--'Pardon me, that is the very point +in question,' say you: 'we expect to prove that it does agree with this +and that.' + +Because certain letters of Lady Byron's do not agree with the +'Quarterly's' theory of the facts of the separation, it at once assumes +that she is an untruthful witness, and proposes to throw out her +evidence altogether. + +We propose, on the contrary, to regard Lady Byron's evidence with all +the attention due to the statement of a high-minded conscientious +person, never in any other case accused of violation of truth; +we also propose to show it to be in strict agreement with all +well-authenticated facts and documents; and we propose to treat +Lord Byron's evidence as that of a man of great subtlety, versed in +mystification and delighting in it, and who, on many other subjects, +not only deceived, but gloried in deception; and then we propose to +show that it contradicts well-established facts and received documents. + +One thing more we have to say concerning the laws of evidence in regard +to documents presented in this investigation. + +This is not a London West-End affair, but a grave historical inquiry, +in which the whole English-speaking world are interested to know the +truth. + +As it is now too late to have the securities of a legal trial, +certainly the rules of historical evidence should be strictly +observed. All important documents should be presented in an entire +state, with a plain and open account of their history,--who had them, +where they were found, and how preserved. + +There have been most excellent, credible, and authentic documents +produced in this case; and, as a specimen of them, we shall mention +Lord Lindsay's letter, and the journal and letter it authenticates. +Lord Lindsay at once comes forward, gives his name boldly, gives the +history of the papers he produces, shows how they came to be in his +hands, why never produced before, and why now. We feel confidence at +once. + +But in regard to the important series of letters presented as Lady +Byron's, this obviously proper course has not been pursued. Though +assumed to be of the most critical importance, no such distinct history +of them was given in the first instance. The want of such evidence +being noticed by other papers, the 'Quarterly' appears hurt that the +high character of the magazine has not been a sufficient guarantee; +and still deals in vague statements that the letters have been freely +circulated, and that two noblemen of the highest character would vouch +for them if necessary. + +In our view, _it is necessary_. These noblemen should imitate Lord +Lindsay's example,--give a fair account of these letters, under +their own names; and then, we would add, it is needful for complete +satisfaction to have the letters _entire_, and not in fragments. + +The 'Quarterly' gave these letters with the evident implication that +they are entirely destructive to Lady Byron's character as a witness. +Now, has that magazine much reason to be hurt at even an insinuation on +its own character when making such deadly assaults on that of another? +The individuals who bring forth documents that they suppose to be +deadly to the character of a noble person, always in her generation +held to be eminent for virtue, certainly should not murmur at being +called upon to substantiate these documents in the manner usually +expected in historical investigations. + +We have shown that these letters do not contradict, but that they +perfectly confirm the facts, and agree with the dates in Lady Byron's +published statements of 1830; and this is our reason for deeming them +authentic. + +These considerations with regard to the manner of conducting the +inquiry seem so obviously proper, that we cannot but believe that they +will command a serious attention. + + + + +CHAPTER V. + +THE DIRECT ARGUMENT TO PROVE THE CRIME. + + +We shall now proceed to state the argument against Lord Byron. + +1st, There is direct evidence that Lord Byron was guilty of some +unusual immorality. + +The evidence is not, as the 'Blackwood' says, that Lushington yielded +assent to the _ex parte_ statement of a client; nor, as the 'Quarterly' +intimates, that he was affected by the charms of an attractive young +woman. + +The first evidence of it is the fact that Lushington and Romilly +_offered to take the case into court, and make there a public +exhibition of the proofs_ on which their convictions were founded. + +2nd, It is very strong evidence of this fact, that Lord Byron, while +loudly declaring that he wished to know with what he was charged, +_declined_ this open investigation, and, rather than meet it, signed a +paper which he had before refused to sign. + +3rd, It is also strong evidence of this fact, that although secretly +declaring to all his intimate friends that he still wished open +investigation in a court of justice, and affirming his belief that his +character was being ruined for want of it, he never afterwards took +the means to get it. Instead of writing a private handbill, he might +have come to England and entered a suit; and he did not do it. + +That Lord Byron was conscious of a great crime is further made probable +by the peculiar malice he seemed to bear to his wife's legal counsel. + +If there had been nothing to fear in that legal investigation wherewith +they threatened him, why did he not only flee from it, but regard +with a peculiar bitterness those who advised and proposed it? To an +innocent man falsely accused, the certainties of law are a blessing +and a refuge. Female charms cannot mislead in a court of justice; and +the atrocities of rumour are there sifted, and deprived of power. A +trial is not a threat to an innocent man: it is an invitation, an +opportunity. Why, then, did he hate Sir Samuel Romilly, so that he +exulted like a fiend over his tragical death? The letter in which he +pours forth this malignity was so brutal, that Moore was obliged, by +the general outcry of society, to suppress it. Is this the language of +an innocent man who has been offered a fair trial under his country's +laws? or of a guilty man, to whom the very idea of public trial means +public exposure? + +4th, It is probable that the crime was the one now alleged, because +that was the most important crime charged against him by rumour at the +period. This appears by the following extract of a letter from Shelley, +furnished by the 'Quarterly,' dated Bath, Sept. 29, 1816:-- + + 'I saw Kinnaird, and had a long talk with him. He informed me that + Lady Byron was now in perfect health; that she was living with your + sister. I felt much pleasure from this intelligence. I consider the + latter part of it as affording a decisive contradiction to the only + important calumny that ever was advanced against you. On this ground, + at least, it will become the world hereafter to be silent.' + +It appears evident here that the charge of improper intimacy with his +sister was, in the mind of Shelley, the only important one that had yet +been made against Lord Byron. + +It is fairly inferable, from Lord Byron's own statements, that his +family friends believed this charge. Lady Byron speaks, in her +statement, of 'nearest relatives' and family friends who were cognizant +of Lord Byron's strange conduct at the time of the separation; and +Lord Byron, in the letter to Bowles, before quoted, says that every +one of his relations, except his sister, fell from him in this crisis +like leaves from a tree in autumn. There was, therefore, not only +this report, but such appearances in support of it as convinced those +nearest to the scene, and best apprised of the facts; so that they +fell from him entirely, notwithstanding the strong influence of family +feeling. The Guiccioli book also mentions this same allegation as +having arisen from peculiarities in Lord Byron's manner of treating his +sister:--- + + 'This deep, fraternal affection assumed at times, under the influence + of his powerful genius, and under exceptional circumstances, an + almost too passionate expression, which opened a fresh field to his + enemies.'[46] + +[Footnote 46: 'My Recollections,' p. 238.] + +It appears, then, that there was nothing in the character of Lord +Byron and of his sister, as they appeared before their generation, +that prevented such a report from arising: on the contrary, there was +something in their relations that made it seem probable. And it appears +that his own family friends were so affected by it, that they, with +one accord, deserted him. The 'Quarterly' presents the fact that Lady +Byron went to visit Mrs. Leigh at this time, as triumphant proof that +_she_ did not then believe it. Can the 'Quarterly' show just what Lady +Byron's state of mind was, or what her motives were, in making that +visit? + +The 'Quarterly' seems to assume, that no woman, without gross +hypocrisy, can stand by a sister proven to have been guilty. We can +appeal on this subject to all women. We fearlessly ask any wife, +'Supposing your husband and sister were involved together in an +infamous crime, and that you were the mother of a young daughter whose +life would be tainted by a knowledge of that crime, what would be +your wish? Would you wish to proclaim it forthwith? or would you wish +quietly to separate from your husband, and to cover the crime from the +eye of man?' + +It has been proved that Lady Byron did not reveal this even to her +nearest relatives. It is proved that she sealed the mouths of her +counsel, and even of servants, so effectually, that they remain sealed +even to this day. This is evidence that she did not wish the thing +known. It is proved also, that, in spite of her secrecy with her +parents and friends, the rumour got out, and was spoken of by Shelley +as the _only_ important one. + +Now, let us see how this note, cited by the 'Quarterly,' confirms one +of Lady Byron's own statements. She says to Lady Anne Barnard,-- + + 'I trust you understand my wishes, which never were to injure Lord + Byron in any way; for, _though he would not suffer me to remain his + wife, he cannot prevent me from continuing his friend; and it was from + considering myself as such that I silenced the accusations by which my + own conduct might have been more fully justified_.' + +How did Lady Byron _silence accusations_? First, by keeping silence +to her nearest relatives; second, by shutting the mouths of servants; +third, by imposing silence on her friends,--as Lady Anne Barnard; +fourth, by silencing her legal counsel; fifth, and most entirely, by +treating Mrs. Leigh, before the world, with unaltered kindness. In the +midst of the rumours, Lady Byron went to visit her; and Shelley says +that the movement was effectual. Can the 'Quarterly' prove that, at +this time, Mrs. Leigh had not confessed all, and thrown herself on Lady +Byron's mercy? + +It is not necessary to suppose great horror and indignation on the +part of Lady Byron. She may have regarded her sister as the victim +of a most singularly powerful tempter. Lord Byron, as she knew, had +tried to corrupt her own morals and faith. He had obtained a power +over some women, even in the highest circles in England, which had +led them to forego the usual decorums of their sex, and had given rise +to great scandals. He was a being of wonderful personal attractions. +He had not only strong poetical, but also strong logical power. He was +daring in speculation, and vigorous in sophistical argument; beautiful, +dazzling, and possessed of magnetic power of fascination. His sister +had been kind and considerate to Lady Byron when Lord Byron was brutal +and cruel. She had been overcome by him, as a weaker nature sometimes +sinks under the force of a stronger one; and Lady Byron may really have +considered her to be more sinned against than sinning. + +Lord Byron, if we look at it rightly, did not corrupt Mrs. Leigh +any more than he did the whole British public. They rebelled at the +immorality of his conduct and the obscenity of his writings; and he +resolved that they should accept both. And he made them do it. At +first, they execrated 'Don Juan.' Murray was afraid to publish it. +Women were determined not to read it. In 1819, Dr. William Maginn of +the Noctes wrote a song against it in the following virtuous strain: + + 'Be "Juan," then, unseen, unknown; + It must, or we shall rue it. + We may have virtue of our own: + Ah! why should we undo it? + The treasured faith of days long past + We still would prize o'er any, + And grieve to hear the ribald jeer + Of scamps like Don Giovanni.' + +Lord Byron determined to conquer the virtuous scruples of the Noctes +Club; and so we find this same Dr. William Maginn, who in 1819 wrote +so valiantly, in 1822 declaring that he would rather have written a +page of 'Don Juan' than a ton of 'Childe Harold.' All English morals +were, in like manner, formally surrendered to Lord Byron. Moore details +his adulteries in Venice with unabashed particularity: artists send +for pictures of his principal mistresses; the literary world call for +biographical sketches of their points; Moore compares his wife and his +last mistress in a neatly-turned sentence; and yet the professor of +morals in Edinburgh University recommends the biography as _pure_, and +having no mud in it. The mistress is lionized in London, and in 1869 is +introduced to the world of letters by 'Blackwood,' and bid, 'without a +blush, to say she loved'-- + +This much being done to all England, it is quite possible that a woman +like Lady Byron, standing silently aside and surveying the course of +things, may have thought that Mrs. Leigh was no more seduced than all +the rest of the world, and have said as we feel disposed to say of that +generation, and of a good many in this, 'Let him that is without sin +among you cast the first stone.' + +The peculiar bitterness of remorse expressed in his works by Lord +Byron is a further evidence that he had committed an unusual crime. +We are aware that evidence cannot be drawn in this manner from an +author's works merely, if unsupported by any external probability. +For example, the subject most frequently and powerfully treated by +Hawthorne is the influence of a secret, unconfessed crime on the soul: +nevertheless, as Hawthorne is well known to have always lived a pure +and regular life, nobody has ever suspected him of any greater sin +than a vigorous imagination. But here is a man believed guilty of an +uncommon immorality by the two best lawyers in England, and threatened +with an open exposure, which he does not dare to meet. The crime is +named in society; his own relations fall away from him on account of +it; it is only set at rest by the heroic conduct of his wife. Now, this +man is stated by many of his friends to have had all the appearance of +a man secretly labouring under the consciousness of crime. Moore speaks +of this propensity in the following language:-- + + 'I have known him more than once, as we sat together after dinner, + and he was a little under the influence of wine, to fall seriously + into this dark, self-accusing mood, and throw out hints of his past + life with an air of gloom and mystery designed evidently to awaken + curiosity and interest.' + +Moore says that it was his own custom to dispel these appearances by +ridicule, to which his friend was keenly alive. And he goes on to say,-- + + 'It has sometimes occurred to me, that the occult causes of his lady's + separation from him, round which herself and her legal advisers have + thrown such formidable mystery, may have been nothing more than some + imposture of this kind, some dimly-hinted confession of undefined + horror, which, though intended by the relater to mystify and surprise, + the hearer so little understood as to take in sober seriousness.'[47] + +[Footnote 47: Vol. vi. p. 212.] + +All we have to say is, that Lord Byron's conduct in this respect +is exactly what might have been expected if he had a crime on his +conscience. + +The energy of remorse and despair expressed in 'Manfred' were so +appalling and so vividly _personal_, that the belief was universal on +the Continent that the experience was wrought out of some actual crime. +Goethe expressed this idea, and had heard a murder imputed to Byron as +the cause. + +The allusion to the crime and consequences of incest is so plain in +'Manfred,' that it is astonishing that any one can pretend, as Galt +does, that it had any other application. + +The hero speaks of the love between himself and the imaginary being +whose spirit haunts him as having been the _deadliest sin_, and one +that has, perhaps, caused her eternal destruction. + + 'What is she now? A sufferer for my sins; + A thing I dare not think upon.' + +He speaks of her blood as haunting him, and as being + + '_My_ blood,--the pure, warm stream + That ran in the veins of _my_ fathers, and in _ours_ + When we were in our youth, and had one heart, + And loved each other as we should not love.' + +This work was conceived in the commotion of mind immediately following +his separation. The scenery of it was sketched in a journal sent to his +sister at the time. + +In letter 377, defending the originality of the conception, and showing +that it did not arise from reading 'Faust,' he says,-- + + 'It was the Steinbach and the Jungfrau, and something else, more than + Faustus, that made me write "Manfred."' + +In letter 288, speaking of the various accounts given by critics of the +origin of the story, he says,-- + + 'The conjecturer is out, and knows nothing of the matter. I had a + better origin than he could devise or divine for the soul of him.' + +In letter 299, he says:-- + + 'As to the germs of "Manfred," they may be found in the journal I sent + to Mrs. Leigh, part of which you saw.' + +It may be said, plausibly, that Lord Byron, if conscious of this crime, +would not have expressed it in his poetry. But his nature was such +that he could not help it. Whatever he wrote that had any real power +was generally wrought out of self; and, when in a tumult of emotion, +he could not help giving glimpses of the cause. It appears that he +did know that he had been accused of incest, and that Shelley thought +_that_ accusation the only really important one; and yet, sensitive as +he was to blame and reprobation, he ran upon this very subject most +likely to re-awaken scandal. + +But Lord Byron's strategy was always of the bold kind. It was the +plan of the fugitive, who, instead of running away, stations himself +so near to danger, that nobody would ever think of looking for him +there. He published passionate verses to his sister on this principle. +He imitated the security of an innocent man in every thing but the +unconscious energy of the agony which seized him when he gave vent to +his nature in poetry. The boldness of his strategy is evident through +all his life. He began by charging his wife with the very cruelty and +deception which he was himself practising. He had spread a net for her +feet, and he accused her of spreading a net for his. He had placed +her in a position where she could not speak, and then leisurely shot +arrows at her; and he represented her as having done the same by him. +When he attacked her in 'Don Juan,' and strove to take from her the +very protection[48] of womanly sacredness by putting her name into the +mouth of every ribald, he did a bold thing, and he knew it. He meant to +do a bold thing. There was a general outcry against it; and he fought +it down, and gained his point. By sheer boldness and perseverance, +he turned the public _from_ his wife, and _to_ himself, in the face +of their very groans and protests. His 'Manfred' and his 'Cain' were +parts of the same game. But the involuntary cry of remorse and despair +pierced even through his own artifices, in a manner that produced a +conviction of reality. + +[Footnote 48: The reader is here referred to the remarks of 'Blackwood' +on 'Don Juan' in Part III.] + +His evident fear and hatred of his wife were other symptoms of crime. +There was no apparent occasion for him to hate her. He admitted that +she had been bright, amiable, good, agreeable; that her marriage had +been a very uncomfortable one; and he said to Madame de Staël, that +he did not doubt she thought him deranged. Why, then, did he hate her +for wanting to live peaceably by herself? Why did he so fear her, that +not one year of his life passed without his concocting and circulating +some public or private accusation against her? She, by his own showing, +published none against him. It is remarkable, that, in all his zeal to +represent himself injured, he nowhere quotes a single remark from Lady +Byron, nor a story coming either directly or indirectly from her or her +family. He is in a fever in Venice, not from what she has spoken, but +because she has sealed the lips of her counsel, and because she and her +family do not speak: so that he professes himself utterly ignorant what +form her allegations against him may take. He had heard from Shelley +that his wife silenced the most important calumny by going to make Mrs. +Leigh a visit; and yet he is afraid of her,--so afraid, that he tells +Moore he expects she will attack him after death, and charges him to +defend his grave. + +Now, if Lord Byron knew that his wife had a deadly secret that she +could tell, all this conduct is explicable: it is in the ordinary +course of human nature. Men always distrust those who hold facts +by which they can be ruined. They fear them; they are antagonistic +to them; they cannot trust them. The feeling of Falkland to Caleb +Williams, as portrayed in Godwin's masterly sketch, is perfectly +natural, and it is exactly illustrative of what Byron felt for his +wife. He hated her for having his secret; and, so far as a human being +could do it, he tried to destroy her character before the world, that +she might not have the power to testify against him. If we admit this +solution, Byron's conduct is at least that of a man who is acting as +men ordinarily would act under such circumstances: if we do not, he +is acting like a fiend. Let us look at admitted facts. He married his +wife without love, in a gloomy, melancholy, morose state of mind. The +servants testify to strange, unaccountable treatment of her immediately +after marriage; such that her confidential maid advises her return to +her parents. In Lady Byron's letter to Mrs. Leigh, she reminds Lord +Byron that he always expressed a desire and determination to free +himself from the marriage. Lord Byron himself admits to Madame de +Staël that his behaviour was such, that his wife must have thought him +insane. Now we are asked to believe, that simply because, under these +circumstances, Lady Byron wished to live separate from her husband, he +hated and feared her so that he could never let her alone afterwards; +that he charged her with malice, slander, deceit, and deadly intentions +against himself, merely out of spite, because she preferred not to live +with him. This last view of the case certainly makes Lord Byron more +unaccountably wicked than the other. + +The first supposition shows him to us as a man in an agony of +self-preservation; the second as a fiend, delighting in gratuitous +deceit and cruelty. + +Again: a presumption of this crime appears in Lord Byron's admission, +in a letter to Moore, that he had an illegitimate child born before he +left England, and still living at the time. + +In letter 307, to Mr. Moore, under date Venice, Feb. 2, 1818, Byron +says, speaking of Moore's loss of a child,-- + + 'I know how to feel with you, because I am quite wrapped up in my own + children. Besides my little legitimate, I have made unto myself an + illegitimate since [since Ada's birth] _to say nothing of one before_; + and I look forward to one of these as the pillar of my old age, + supposing that I ever reach, as I hope I never shall, that desolating + period.' + +The illegitimate child that he had made to himself since Ada's birth +was Allegra, born about nine or ten months after the separation. The +other illegitimate alluded to was born before, and, as the reader sees, +was spoken of as still living. + +Moore appears to be puzzled to know who this child can be, and +conjectures that it may possibly be the child referred to in an early +poem, written, while a schoolboy of nineteen, at Harrow. + +On turning back to the note referred to, we find two things: first, +that the child there mentioned was not claimed by Lord Byron as his +own, but that he asked his mother to care for it as belonging to a +schoolmate now dead; second, that the infant died shortly after, and, +consequently, could not be the child mentioned in this letter. + +Now, besides this fact, that Lord Byron admitted a living illegitimate +child born before Ada, we place this other fact, that there was a +child in England which was believed to be his by those who had every +opportunity of knowing. + +On this subject we shall cite a passage from a letter recently received +by us from England, and written by a person who appears well informed +on the subject of his letter:-- + + 'The fact is, the incest was first committed, and the child of it born + _before_, shortly before, the Byron marriage. The child (a daughter) + must not be confounded with the natural daughter of Lord Byron, born + about a year after his separation. + + 'The history, more or less, of that child of incest, is known to many; + for in Lady Byron's attempts to watch over her, and rescue her from + ruin, she was compelled to employ various agents at different times.' + +This letter contains a full recognition, by an intelligent person in +England, of a child corresponding well with Lord Byron's declaration of +an illegitimate, born before he left England. + +Up to this point, we have, then, the circumstantial evidence against +Lord Byron as follows:-- + +A good and amiable woman, who had married him from love, determined to +separate from him. + +Two of the greatest lawyers of England confirmed her in this decision, +and threatened Lord Byron, that, unless he consented to this, they +would expose the evidence against him in a suit for divorce. He fled +from this exposure, and never afterwards sought public investigation. + +He was angry with and malicious towards the counsel who supported his +wife; he was angry at and afraid of a wife who did nothing to injure +him, and he made it a special object to defame and degrade her. He gave +such evidence of remorse and fear in his writings as to lead eminent +literary men to believe he had committed a great crime. The public +rumour of his day specified what the crime was. His relations, by his +own showing, joined against him. The report was silenced by his wife's +efforts only. Lord Byron subsequently declares the existence of an +illegitimate child, born before he left England. Corresponding to this, +there is the history, known in England, of a child believed to be his, +in whom his wife took an interest. + +All these presumptions exist independently of any direct testimony from +Lady Byron. They are to be admitted as true, whether she says a word +one way or the other. + +From this background of proof, I come forward, and testify to an +interview with Lady Byron, in which she gave me specific information +of the facts in the case. That I report the facts just as I received +them from her, not altered or misremembered, is shown by the testimony +of my sister, to whom I related them at the time. It cannot, then, be +denied that I had this interview, and that this communication was made. +I therefore testify that Lady Byron, for a proper purpose, and at a +proper time, stated to me the following things:-- + +1. That the crime which separated her from Lord Byron was incest. 2. +That she first discovered it by improper actions towards his sister, +which, he _meant_ to make her understand, indicated the guilty +relation. 3. That he admitted it, reasoned on it, defended it, tried to +make her an accomplice, and, failing in that, hated her and expelled +her. 4. That he threatened her that he would make it his life's object +to destroy her character. 5. That for a period she was led to regard +this conduct as insanity, and to consider him only as a diseased +person. 6. That she had subsequent proof that the facts were really as +she suspected; that there had been a child born of the crime, whose +history she knew; that Mrs. Leigh had repented. + +The purpose for which this was stated to me was to ask, Was it her duty +to make the truth fully known during her lifetime? + +Here, then, is a man believed guilty of an unusual crime by two +lawyers, the best in England, who have seen the evidence,--a man who +dares not meet legal investigation. The crime is named in society, and +deemed so far probable to the men of his generation as to be spoken +of by Shelley as the only important allegation against him. He acts +through life exactly like a man struggling with remorse, and afraid +of detection; he has all the restlessness and hatred and fear that a +man has who feels that there is evidence which might destroy him. He +admits an illegitimate child besides Allegra. A child believed to have +been his is known to many in England. Added to all this, his widow, +now advanced in years, and standing on the borders of eternity, being, +as appears by her writings and conversation, of perfectly sound mind +at the time, testifies to me the facts before named, which exactly +correspond to probabilities. + +I publish the statement; and the solicitors who hold Lady Byron's +private papers do not deny the truth of the story. They try to cast +discredit on me for speaking; but they do not say that I have spoken +falsely, or that the story is not true. The lawyer who knew Lady +Byron's story in 1816 does not now deny that this is the true one. +Several persons in England testify that, at various times, and for +various purposes, the same story has been told to them. Moreover, it +appears from my last letter addressed to Lady Byron on this subject, +that I recommended her to leave _all necessary papers_ in the hands +of some discreet persons, who, after _both_ had passed away, should +see that justice was done. The solicitors admit that Lady Byron _has_ +left sealed papers of great importance in the hands of trustees, with +discretionary power. I have been informed very directly that the nature +of these documents was such as to lead to the suppression of Lady +Byron's life and writings. This is all exactly as it would be, if the +story related by Lady Byron were the true one. + +The evidence under this point of view is so strong, that a great effort +has been made to throw out Lady Byron's testimony. + +This attempt has been made on two grounds. 1st, That she was under a +mental hallucination. This theory has been most ably refuted by the +very first authority in England upon the subject. He says,-- + + 'No person practically acquainted with the true characteristics of + insanity would affirm, that, had this idea of "incest" been an insane + hallucination, Lady Byron could, from the lengthened period which + intervened between her unhappy marriage and death, have refrained + from exhibiting it, not only to legal advisers and trustees (assuming + that she revealed to them the fact), but to others, exacting no + pledge of secrecy from them as to her mental impressions. Lunatics + do for a time, and for some special purpose, most cunningly conceal + their delusions; but they have not the capacity to struggle for + thirty-six years, as Lady Byron must have done, with so frightful an + hallucination, without the insane state of mind becoming obvious to + those with whom they are daily associating. Neither is it consistent + with experience to suppose, that, if Lady Byron had been a monomaniac, + her state of disordered understanding would have been restricted to + one hallucination. Her diseased brain, affecting the normal action of + thought, would, in all probability, have manifested other symptoms + besides those referred to of aberration of intellect. + + 'During the last thirty years, I have not met with a case of insanity + (assuming the hypothesis of hallucination) at all parallel with that + of Lady Byron. In my experience, it is unique. I never saw a patient + with such a delusion.' + +We refer our readers to a careful study of Dr. Forbes Winslow's +consideration of this subject given in Part III. Anyone who has been +familiar with the delicacy and acuteness of Dr. Winslow, as shown in +his work on obscure diseases of the brain and nerves, must feel that +his positive assertion on this ground is the best possible evidence. +We here gratefully acknowledge our obligations to Dr. Winslow for +the corrected proof of his valuable letter, which he has done us the +honour to send for this work. We shall consider that his argument, +in connection with what the reader may observe of Lady Byron's own +writings, closes that issue of the case completely. + +The other alternative is, that Lady Byron deliberately committed false +witness. This was the ground assumed by the 'Blackwood,' when in July, +1869, it took upon itself the responsibility of re-opening the Byron +controversy. It is also the ground assumed by 'The London Quarterly' of +to-day. + +Both say, in so many words, that no crime was imputed to Lord Byron; +that the representations made to Lushington in the beginning were false +ones; and that the story told to Lady Byron's confidential friends in +later days was also false. + +Let us examine this theory. In the first place, it requires us to +believe in the existence of a moral monster of whom Madame Brinvilliers +is cited as the type. The 'Blackwood,' let it be remembered, opens +the controversy with the statement that Lady Byron was a Madame +Brinvilliers. The 'Quarterly' does not shrink from the same assumption. + +Let us consider the probability of this question. + +If Lady Byron were such a woman, and wished to ruin her husband's +reputation in order to save her own, and, being perfectly unscrupulous, +had circulated against him a story of unnatural crime which had no +proofs, how came two of the first lawyers of England to assume the +responsibility of offering to present her case in open court? How +came her husband, if he knew himself guiltless, to shrink from that +public investigation which must have demonstrated his innocence? Most +astonishing of all, when he fled from trial, and the report got abroad +against him in England, and was believed even by his own relations, +why did not his wife avail herself of the moment to complete her +victory? If at that moment she had publicly broken with Mrs. Leigh, +she might have confirmed every rumour. Did she do it? and why not? +According to the 'Blackwood,' we have here a woman who has made up a +frightful story to ruin her husband's reputation, yet who takes every +pains afterwards to prevent its being ruined. She fails to do the very +thing she undertakes; and for years after, rather than injure him, she +loses public sympathy, and, by sealing the lips of her legal counsel, +deprives herself of the advantage of their testimony. + +Moreover, if a desire for revenge could have been excited in her, +it would have been provoked by the first publication of the fourth +canto of 'Childe Harold,' when she felt that Byron was attacking her +before the world. Yet we have Lady Anne Barnard's testimony, that, +at this time, she was so far from wishing to injure him, that all her +communications were guarded by cautious secrecy. At this time, also, +she had a strong party in England, to whom she could have appealed. +Again: when 'Don Juan' was first printed, it excited a violent +re-action against Lord Byron. Had his wife chosen _then_ to accuse +him, and display the evidence she had shown to her counsel, there is +little doubt that all the world would have stood with her; but she did +not. After his death, when she spoke at last, there seems little doubt +from the strength of Dr. Lushington's language, that Lady Byron had a +very strong case, and that, had she been willing, her counsel could +have told much more than he did. She might _then_ have told her whole +story, and been believed. Her word was believed by Christopher North, +and accepted as proof that Byron had been a great criminal. Had revenge +been her motive, she could have spoken the ONE WORD more that +North called for. + +The 'Quarterly' asks why she waited till everybody concerned was dead. +There is an obvious answer. Because, while there was anybody living +to whom the testimony would have been utterly destructive, there were +the best reasons for withholding it. When all were gone from earth, +and she herself was in constant expectation of passing away, there +_was_ a reason, and a proper one, why she should speak. By nature and +principle truthful, she had had the opportunity of silently watching +the operation of a permitted lie upon a whole generation. She had been +placed in a position in which it was necessary, by silence, to allow +the spread and propagation through society of a radical falsehood. Lord +Byron's life, fame, and genius had all struck their roots into this +lie, been nourished by it, and had derived thence a poisonous power. + +In reading this history, it will be remarked that he pleaded his +personal misfortunes in his marriage as excuses for every offence +against morality, and that the literary world of England accepted +the plea, and tolerated and justified the crimes. Never before, in +England, had adultery been spoken of in so respectful a manner, and +an adulteress openly praised and _fêted_, and obscene language and +licentious images publicly tolerated; and all on the plea of a man's +private misfortunes. + +There was, therefore, great force in the suggestion made to Lady +Byron, that she owed a testimony in this case to truth and justice, +irrespective of any personal considerations. There is no more real +reason for allowing the spread of a hurtful falsehood that affects +ourselves than for allowing one that affects our neighbour. This +falsehood had corrupted the literature and morals of both England and +America, and led to the public toleration, by respectable authorities, +of forms of vice at first indignantly rejected. The question was, +Was this falsehood to go on corrupting literature as long as history +lasted? Had the world no right to true history? Had she who possessed +the truth no responsibility to the world? Was not a final silence a +confirmation of a lie with all its consequences? + +This testimony of Lady Byron, so far from being thrown out altogether, +as the 'Quarterly' proposes, has a peculiar and specific value from the +great forbearance and reticence which characterised the greater part of +her life. + +The testimony of a person who has shown in every action perfect +friendliness to another comes with the more weight on that account. +Testimony extorted by conscience from a parent against a child, or a +wife against a husband, where all the other actions of the life prove +the existence of kind feeling, is held to be the strongest form of +evidence. + +The fact that Lady Byron, under the severest temptations and the +bitterest insults and injuries, withheld every word by which Lord +Byron could be criminated, so long as he and his sister were living, +is strong evidence, that, when she did speak, it was not under the +influence of ill-will, but of pure conscientious convictions; and the +fullest weight ought, therefore, to be given to her testimony. + +We are asked now why she ever spoke at all. The fact that her story +is known to several persons in England is brought up as if it were a +crime. To this we answer, Lady Byron had an undoubted moral right to +have exposed the whole story in a public court in 1816, and thus cut +herself loose from her husband by a divorce. For the sake of saving +her husband and sister from destruction, she waived this right to +self-justification, and stood for years a silent sufferer under calumny +and misrepresentation. She desired nothing but to retire from the +whole subject; to be permitted to enjoy with her child the peace and +seclusion that belong to her sex. Her husband made her, through his +life and after his death, a subject of such constant discussion, that +she must either abandon the current literature of her day, or run the +risk of reading more or less about herself in almost every magazine +of her time. Conversations with Lord Byron, notes of interviews with +Lord Byron, journals of time spent with Lord Byron, were constantly +spread before the public. Leigh Hunt, Galt, Medwin, Trelawney, Lady +Blessington, Dr. Kennedy, and Thomas Moore, all poured forth their +memorials; and in all she figured prominently. All these had their +tribes of reviewers and critics, who also discussed her. The profound +mystery of her silence seemed constantly to provoke inquiry. People +could not forgive her for not speaking. Her privacy, retirement, +and silence were set down as coldness, haughtiness, and contempt +of human sympathy. She was constantly challenged to say something: +as, for example, in the 'Noctes' of November 1825, six months after +Byron's death, Christopher North says, speaking of the burning of the +Autobiography,-- + + 'I think, since the Memoir was burned by these people, these people + are bound to put us in possession of the best evidence they still + have the power of producing, in order that we may come to a just + conclusion as to a subject upon which, by their act, at least, as much + as by any other people's act, we are compelled to consider it our duty + to make up our deliberate opinion,--deliberate and decisive. Woe be + to those who provoke this curiosity, and will not allay it! Woe be to + them! say I. Woe to them! says the world.' + +When Lady Byron published her statement, which certainly seemed called +for by this language, Christopher North blamed her for doing it, and +then again said that she ought to go on and tell the whole story. If +she was thus adjured to speak, blamed for speaking, and adjured to +speak further, all in one breath, by public prints, there is reason to +think that there could not have come less solicitation from private +sources,--from friends who had access to her at all hours, whom she +loved, by whom she was beloved, and to whom her refusal to explain +might seem a breach of friendship. Yet there is no evidence on record, +that we have seen, that she ever had other confidant than her legal +counsel, till after all the actors in the events were in their graves, +and the daughter, for whose sake largely the secret was guarded, had +followed them. + +Now, does anyone claim, that, because a woman has sacrificed for twenty +years all cravings for human sympathy, and all possibility of perfectly +free and unconstrained intercourse with her friends, that she is +obliged to go on bearing this same lonely burden to the end of her days? + +Let anyone imagine the frightful constraint and solitude implied in +this sentence. Let anyone, too, think of its painful complications in +life. The roots of a falsehood are far-reaching. Conduct that can only +be explained by criminating another must often seem unreasonable and +unaccountable; and the most truthful person, who feels bound to keep +silence regarding a radical lie of another, must often be placed in +positions most trying to conscientiousness. The great merit of 'Caleb +Williams' as a novel consists in its philosophical analysis of the +utter helplessness of an innocent person who agrees to keep the secret +of a guilty one. One sees there how that necessity of silence produces +all the effect of falsehood on his part, and deprives him of the +confidence and sympathy of those with whom he would take refuge. + +For years, this unnatural life was forced on Lady Byron, involving her +as in a network, even in her dearest family relations. + +That, when all the parties were dead, Lady Byron should allow herself +the sympathy of a circle of intimate friends, is something so perfectly +proper and natural, that we cannot but wonder that her conduct in this +respect has ever been called in question. If it was her right to have +had a public _exposé_ in 1816, it was certainly her right to show to +her own intimate circle the secret of her life when all the principal +actors were passed from earth. + +The 'Quarterly' speaks as if, by thus waiting, she deprived Lord Byron +of the testimony of living witnesses. But there were as many witnesses +and partisans dead on her side as on his. Lady Milbanke and Sir Ralph, +Sir Samuel Romilly and Lady Anne Barnard were as much dead as Hobhouse, +Moore, and others of Byron's partisans. + +The 'Quarterly' speaks of Lady Byron as 'running round, and repeating +her story to people mostly below her own rank in life.' + +To those who know the personal dignity of Lady Byron's manners, +represented and dwelt on by her husband in his conversations with Lady +Blessington, this coarse and vulgar attack only proves the poverty of a +cause which can defend itself by no better weapons. + +Lord Byron speaks of his wife as 'highly cultivated;' as having 'a +degree of self-control I never saw equalled.' + + 'I am certain,' he says, 'that Lady Byron's first idea is what is due + to herself: I mean that it is the undeviating rule of her conduct.... + Now, my besetting sin is a want of that self-respect which she + has in excess.... But, though I accuse Lady Byron of an excess of + self-respect, I must, in candour, admit, that, if any person ever had + excuse for an extraordinary portion of it, she has; as, in all her + thoughts, words, and actions, she is the most decorous woman that ever + existed.' + +This is the kind of woman who has lately been accused in the public +prints as a babbler of secrets and a gossip in regard to her private +difficulties with children, grandchildren, and servants. It is a fair +specimen of the justice that has generally been meted out to Lady Byron. + +In 1836, she was accused of having made a confidant of Campbell, on +the strength of having written him a note _declining_ to give him any +information, or answer any questions. In July, 1869, she was denounced +by 'Blackwood' as a Madame Brinvilliers for keeping such perfect +silence on the matter of her husband's character; and in the last +'Quarterly' she is spoken of as a gossip 'running round, and repeating +her story to people below her in rank.' + +While we are upon this subject, we have a suggestion to make. John +Stuart Mill says that utter self-abnegation has been preached to women +as a peculiarly feminine virtue. It is true; but there is a moral limit +to the value of self-abnegation. + +It is a fair question for the moralist, whether it is right and proper +wholly to ignore one's personal claims to justice. The teachings of +the Saviour give us warrant for submitting to personal injuries; but +both the Saviour and St. Paul manifested bravery in denying false +accusations, and asserting innocence. + +Lady Byron was falsely accused of having ruined _the_ man of his +generation, and caused all his vices and crimes, and all their evil +effects on society. She submitted to the accusation for a certain +number of years for reasons which commended themselves to her +conscience; but when all the personal considerations were removed, and +she was about passing from life, it was right, it was just, it was +strictly in accordance with the philosophical and ethical character +of her mind, and with her habit of considering all things in their +widest relations to the good of mankind, that she should give serious +attention and consideration to the last duty which she might owe to +abstract truth and justice in her generation. + +In her letter on the religious state of England, we find her advocating +an absolute frankness in all religious parties. She would have all +openly confess those doubts, which, from the best of motives, are +usually suppressed; and believed, that, as a result of such perfect +truthfulness, a wider love would prevail among Christians. This shows +the strength of her conviction of the power and the importance of +absolute truth; and shows, therefore, that her doubts and conscientious +inquiries respecting her duty on this subject are exactly what might +have been expected from a person of her character and principles. + +Having thus shown that Lady Byron's testimony is the testimony of a +woman of strong and sound mind, that it was not given from malice nor +ill-will, that it was given at a proper time and in a proper manner, +and for a purpose in accordance with the most elevated moral views, and +that it is coincident with all the established facts of this history, +and furnishes a perfect solution of every mystery of the case, we think +we shall carry the reader with us in saying that it is to be received +as absolute truth. + +This conviction we arrive at while as yet we are deprived of the +statement prepared by Lady Byron, and the proof by which she expected +to sustain it; both which, as we understand, are now in the hands of +her trustees. + + + + +CHAPTER VI. + +PHYSIOLOGICAL ARGUMENT. + + +The credibility of the accusation of the unnatural crime charged to +Lord Byron is greater than if charged to most men. He was born of +parents both of whom were remarkable for perfectly ungoverned passions. +There appears to be historical evidence that he was speaking literal +truth when he says to Medwin of his father,-- + + 'He would have made a bad hero for Hannah More. He ran out three + fortunes, and married or ran away with three women.... He seemed born + for his own ruin and that of the other sex. He began by seducing + Lady Carmarthen, and spent her four thousand pounds; and, not + content with one adventure of this kind, afterwards eloped with Miss + Gordon.'--_Medwin's Conversations_, p. 31. + +Lady Carmarthen here spoken of was the mother of Mrs. Leigh. Miss +Gordon became Lord Byron's mother. + +By his own account, and that of Moore, she was a passionate, +ungoverned, though affectionate woman. Lord Byron says to Medwin,-- + + 'I lost my father when I was only six years of age. My mother, when + she was in a passion with me (and I gave her cause enough), used to + say, "O you little dog! you are a Byron all over, you are as bad as + your father!"'--_Ibid._, p. 31. + +By all the accounts of his childhood and early youth, it is made +apparent that ancestral causes had sent him into the world with a most +perilous and exceptional sensitiveness of brain and nervous system, +which it would have required the most judicious course of education to +direct safely and happily. + +Lord Byron often speaks as if he deemed himself subject to tendencies +which might terminate in insanity. The idea is so often mentioned +and dwelt upon in his letters, journals, and conversations, that we +cannot but ascribe it to some very peculiar experience, and not to mere +affectation. + +But, in the history of his early childhood and youth, we see no +evidence of any original malformation of nature. We see only evidence +of one of those organisations, full of hope and full of peril, +which adverse influences might easily drive to insanity, but wise +physiological training and judicious moral culture might have guided +to the most splendid results. But of these he had neither. He was +alternately the pet and victim of his mother's tumultuous nature, +and equally injured both by her love and her anger. A Scotch maid of +religious character gave him early serious impressions of religion, and +thus added the element of an awakened conscience to the conflicting +ones of his character. + +Education, in the proper sense of the word, did not exist in England in +those days. Physiological considerations of the influence of the body +on the soul, of the power of brain and nerve over moral development, +had then not even entered the general thought of society. The school +and college education literally taught him nothing but the ancient +classics, of whose power in exciting and developing the animal passions +Byron often speaks. + +The morality of the times is strikingly exemplified even in its +literary criticism. + +For example: One of Byron's poems, written while a schoolboy at Harrow, +is addressed to 'My Son.' Mr. Moore, and the annotator of the standard +edition of Byron's poems, gravely give the public their speculations on +the point, whether Lord Byron first became a father while a schoolboy +at Harrow; and go into particulars in relation to a certain infant, the +claim to which lay between Lord Byron and another schoolfellow. It is +not the nature of the event itself, so much as the cool, unembarrassed +manner in which it is discussed, that gives the impression of the +state of public morals. There is no intimation of anything unusual, or +discreditable to the school, in the event, and no apparent suspicion +that it will be regarded as a serious imputation on Lord Byron's +character. + +Modern physiological developments would lead any person versed in +the study of the reciprocal influence of physical and moral laws to +anticipate the most serious danger to such an organisation as Lord +Byron's, from a precocious development of the passions. Alcoholic and +narcotic stimulants, in the case of such a person, would be regarded as +little less than suicidal, and an early course of combined drinking +and licentiousness as tending directly to establish those unsound +conditions which lead towards moral insanity. Yet not only Lord Byron's +testimony, but every probability from the licence of society, goes to +show that this was exactly what did take place. + +Neither restrained by education, nor warned by any correct +physiological knowledge, nor held in check by any public sentiment, he +drifted directly upon the fatal rock. + +Here we give Mr. Moore full credit for all his abatements in regard +to Lord Byron's excesses in his early days. Moore makes the point +very strongly that he was not, _de facto_, even so bad as many of his +associates; and we agree with him. Byron's physical organisation was +originally as fine and sensitive as that of the most delicate woman. +He possessed the faculty of moral ideality in a high degree; and +he had not, in the earlier part of his life, an attraction towards +mere brutal vice. His physical sensitiveness was so remarkable that +he says of himself, 'A dose of salts has the effect of a temporary +inebriation, like light champagne, upon me.' Yet this exceptionally +delicately-organised boy and youth was in a circle where not to conform +to the coarse drinking-customs of his day was to incur censure and +ridicule. That he early acquired the power of bearing large quantities +of liquor is manifested by the record in his Journal, that, on the day +when he read the severe 'Edinburgh' article upon his schoolboy poems, +he drank three bottles of claret at a sitting. + +Yet Byron was so far superior to his times, that some vague impulses to +physiological prudence seem to have suggested themselves to him, and +been acted upon with great vigour. He never could have lived so long +as he did, under the exhaustive process of every kind of excess, if he +had not re-enforced his physical nature by an assiduous care of his +muscular system. He took boxing-lessons, and distinguished himself in +all athletic exercises. + +He also had periods in which he seemed to try vaguely to retrieve +himself from dissipation, and to acquire self-mastery by what he called +temperance. + +But, ignorant and excessive in all his movements, his very efforts +at temperance were intemperate. From violent excesses in eating +and drinking, he would pass to no less unnatural periods of utter +abstinence. Thus the very conservative power which Nature has of +adapting herself to any _settled_ course was lost. The extreme +sensitiveness produced by long periods of utter abstinence made the +succeeding debauch more maddening and fatal. He was like a fine musical +instrument, whose strings were every day alternating between extreme +tension and perfect laxity. We have in his Journal many passages, of +which the following is a specimen:-- + + 'I have dined regularly to-day, for the first time since Sunday last; + this being Sabbath too,--all the rest, tea and dry biscuits, six _per + diem_. I wish to God I had not dined, now! It kills me with heaviness, + stupor, and horrible dreams; and yet it was but a pint of bucellas, + and fish. Meat I never touch, nor much vegetable diet. I wish I were + in the country, to take exercise, instead of being obliged to _cool_ + by abstinence, in lieu of it. I should not so much mind a little + accession of flesh: my bones can well bear it. But the worst is, the + Devil always came with it, till I starved him out; and I will _not_ + be the slave of _any_ appetite. If I do err, it shall be my heart, at + least, that heralds the way. O my head! how it aches! The horrors of + digestion! I wonder how Bonaparte's dinner agrees with him.'--_Moore's + Life_, vol. ii. p. 264. + +From all the contemporary history and literature of the times, +therefore, we have reason to believe that Lord Byron spoke the exact +truth when he said to Medwin,-- + + 'My own master at an age when I most required a guide, left to the + dominion of my passions when they were the strongest, with a fortune + anticipated before I came into possession of it, and a constitution + impaired by early excesses, I commenced my travels, in 1809, + with a joyless indifference to the world and all that was before + me.'--_Medwin's Conversations_, p. 42. + +Utter prostration of the whole physical man from intemperate excess, +the deadness to temptation which comes from utter exhaustion, was his +condition, according to himself and Moore, when he first left England, +at twenty-one years of age. + +In considering his subsequent history, we are to take into account +that it was upon the brain and nerve-power, thus exhausted by early +excess, that the draughts of sudden and rapid literary composition +began to be made. There was something unnatural and unhealthy in the +rapidity, clearness, and vigour with which his various works followed +each other. Subsequently to the first two cantos of 'Childe Harold,' +'The Bride of Abydos,' 'The Corsair,' 'The Giaour,' 'Lara,' 'Parisina,' +and 'The Siege of Corinth,' all followed close upon each other, in a +space of less than three years, and those the three most critical years +of his life. 'The Bride of Abydos' came out in the autumn of 1813, +and was written in a week; and 'The Corsair' was composed in thirteen +days. A few months more than a year before his marriage, and the brief +space of his married life, was the period in which all this literary +labour was performed, while yet he was running the wild career of +intrigue and fashionable folly. He speaks of 'Lara' as being tossed +off in the intervals between masquerades and balls, &c. It is with the +physical results of such unnatural efforts that we have now chiefly +to do. Every physiologist would say that the demands of such poems on +a healthy brain, in that given space, must have been exhausting; but +when we consider that they were cheques drawn on a bank broken by early +extravagance, and that the subject was prodigally spending vital forces +in every other direction at the same time, one can scarcely estimate +the physiological madness of such a course as Lord Byron's. + +It is evident from his Journal, and Moore's account, that any amount +of physical force which was for the time restored by his first foreign +travel was recklessly spent in this period, when he threw himself with +a mad recklessness into London society in the time just preceding +his marriage. The revelations made in Moore's Memoir of this period +are sad enough: those to Medwin are so appalling as to the state of +contemporary society in England, as to require, at least, the benefit +of the doubt for which Lord Byron's habitual carelessness of truth gave +scope. His adventures with ladies of the highest rank in England are +there paraded with a freedom of detail that respect for womanhood must +lead every woman to question. The only thing that is unquestionable +is, that Lord Byron made these assertions to Medwin, not as remorseful +confessions, but as relations of his _bonnes fortunes_, and that Medwin +published them in the very face of the society to which they related. + +When Lord Byron says, 'I have seen a great deal of Italian society, and +swum in a gondola; but nothing could equal the profligacy of high life +in England ... when I knew it,' he makes certainly strong assertions, +if we remember what Mr. Moore reveals of the harem kept in Venice. + +But when Lord Byron intimates that three married women in his own +rank in life, who had once held illicit relations with him, made +wedding-visits to his wife at one time, we must hope that he drew on +his active imagination, as he often did, in his statements in regard to +women. + +When he relates at large his amour with Lord Melbourne's wife, and +represents her as pursuing him with an insane passion, to which he with +difficulty responded; and when he says that she tracked a rival lady +to his lodgings, and came into them herself, disguised as a carman--one +_hopes_ that he exaggerates. And what are we to make of passages like +this?-- + + 'There was a lady at that time, double my own age, the mother of + several children who were perfect angels, with whom I formed a + _liaison_ that continued without interruption for eight months. She + told me she was never in love till she was thirty, and I thought + myself so with her when she was forty. I never felt a stronger + passion, which she returned with equal ardour.... + + 'Strange as it may seem, she gained, as all women do, an influence + over me so strong that I had great difficulty in breaking with her.' + +Unfortunately, these statements, though probably exaggerated, are, for +substance, borne out in the history of the times. With every possible +abatement for exaggeration in these statements, there remains still +undoubted evidence from other sources that Lord Byron exercised a most +peculiar and fatal power over the moral sense of the women with whom he +was brought in relation; and that love for him, in many women, became +a sort of insanity, depriving them of the just use of their faculties. +All this makes his fatal history both possible and probable. + +Even the article in 'Blackwood,' written in 1825 for the express +purpose of vindicating his character, admits that his name had been +coupled with those of three, four, or more women of rank, whom it +speaks of as 'licentious, unprincipled, characterless women.' + +That such a course, in connection with alternate extremes of excess +and abstinence in eating and drinking, and the immense draughts on +the brain-power of rapid and brilliant composition, should have ended +in that abnormal state in which cravings for unnatural vice give +indications of approaching brain-disease, seems only too probable. + +This symptom of exhausted vitality becomes often a frequent type in +periods of very corrupt society. The dregs of the old Greek and Roman +civilisation were foul with it; and the apostle speaks of the turning +of the use of the natural into that which is against nature, as the +last step in abandonment. + +The very literature of such periods marks their want of physical and +moral soundness. Having lost all sense of what is simple and natural +and pure, the mind delights to dwell on horrible ideas, which give a +shuddering sense of guilt and crime. All the writings of this fatal +period of Lord Byron's life are more or less intense histories of +unrepentant guilt and remorse or of unnatural crime. A recent writer +in 'Temple Bar' brings to light the fact, that 'The Bride of Abydos,' +the first of the brilliant and rapid series of poems which began in +the period immediately preceding his marriage, was, in its first +composition, an intense story of love between a brother and sister in +a Turkish harem; that Lord Byron declared, in a letter to Galt, that +it was drawn from _real life_; that, in compliance with the prejudices +of the age, he altered the relationship to that of cousins before +publication. + +This same writer goes on to show, by a series of extracts from Lord +Byron's published letters and journals, that his mind about this +time was in a fearfully unnatural state, and suffering singular and +inexplicable agonies of remorse; that, though he was accustomed +fearlessly to confide to his friends immoralities which would be looked +upon as damning, there was now a secret to which he could not help +alluding in his letters, but which he told Moore he could not tell now, +but 'some day or other when we are _veterans_.' He speaks of his heart +as eating itself out; of a mysterious _person_, whom he says, 'God +knows I love too well, and the Devil probably too.' He wrote a song, +and sent it to Moore, addressed to a partner in some awful guilt, whose +very name he dares not mention, because + + 'There is grief in the sound, there is guilt in the fame.' + +He speaks of struggles of remorse, of efforts at repentance, and +returns to guilt, with a sort of horror very different from the +well-pleased air with which he relates to Medwin his common intrigues +and adulteries. He speaks of himself generally as oppressed by a +frightful, unnatural gloom and horror, and, when occasionally happy, +'not in a way that _can_ or _ought_ to last.' + +'The Giaour,' 'The Corsair,' 'Lara,' 'Parisina,' 'The Siege of +Corinth,' and 'Manfred,' all written or conceived about this period +of his life, give one picture of a desperate, despairing, unrepentant +soul, whom suffering maddens, but cannot reclaim. + +In all these he paints only the one woman, of concentrated, +unconsidering passion, ready to sacrifice heaven and defy hell for a +guilty man, beloved in spite of religion or reason. In this unnatural +literature, the stimulus of crime is represented as intensifying love. +Medora, Gulnare, the Page in 'Lara,' Parisina, and the lost sister +of Manfred, love the more intensely because the object of the love +is a criminal, out-lawed by God and man. The next step beyond this +is--_madness_. + +The work of Dr. Forbes Winslow on 'Obscure Diseases of the Brain and +Nerves'[49] contains a passage so very descriptive of the case of +Lord Byron, that it might seem to have been written for it. The sixth +chapter of his work, on 'Anomalous and Masked Affections of the Mind,' +contains, in our view, the only clue that can unravel the sad tragedy +of Byron's life. He says, p. 87:-- + +[Footnote 49: The article in question is worth a careful reading. Its +industry and accuracy in amassing evidence are worthy attention.] + + 'These forms of unrecognised mental disorder are not always + accompanied by any well-marked disturbance of the bodily health + requiring medical attention, or any obvious departure from a normal + state of thought and conduct such as to justify legal interference; + neither do these affections always incapacitate the party from + engaging in the ordinary business of life.... The change may have + progressed insidiously and stealthily, having slowly and almost + imperceptibly induced important molecular modifications in the + delicate vesicular neurine of the brain, ultimately resulting in some + aberration of the ideas, alteration of the affections, or perversion + of the propensities or instincts.... + + 'Mental disorder of a dangerous character has been known for years + to be stealthily advancing, without exciting the slightest notion of + its presence, until some sad and terrible catastrophe, homicide, or + suicide, has painfully awakened attention to its existence. Persons + suffering from latent insanity often affect singularity of dress, + gait, conversation, and phraseology. The most trifling circumstances + stimulate their excitability. They are martyrs to ungovernable + paroxysms of passion, are inflamed to a state of demoniacal fury + by the most insignificant of causes, and occasionally lose all + sense of delicacy of feeling, sentiment, refinement of manners and + conversation. Such manifestations of undetected mental disorder may be + seen associated with intellectual and moral qualities of the highest + order.' + +In another place, Dr. Winslow again adverts to this latter symptom, +which was strikingly marked in the case of Lord Byron:-- + + 'All delicacy and decency of thought are occasionally banished from + the mind, so effectually does the principle of thought in these + attacks succumb to the animal instincts and passions.... + + 'Such cases will commonly be found associated with organic + predisposition to insanity or cerebral disease.... Modifications of + the malady are seen allied with genius. The biographies of Cowper, + Burns, Byron, Johnson, Pope, and Haydon establish that the most + exalted intellectual conditions do not escape unscathed. + + 'In early childhood, this form of mental disturbance may, in many + cases, be detected. To its existence is often to be traced the + _motiveless_ crimes of the young.' + +No one can compare this passage of Dr. Forbes Winslow with the +incidents we have already cited as occurring in that fatal period +before the separation of Lord and Lady Byron, and not feel that the +hapless young wife was indeed struggling with those inflexible natural +laws, which, at some stages of retribution, involve in their awful +sweep the guilty with the innocent. She longed to save; but he was gone +past redemption. Alcoholic stimulants and licentious excesses, without +doubt, had produced those unseen changes in the brain, of which Dr. +Forbes Winslow speaks; and the results were terrible in proportion to +the peculiar fineness and delicacy of the organism deranged. + +Alas! the history of Lady Byron is the history of too many women in +every rank of life who are called, in agonies of perplexity and fear, +to watch that gradual process by which physical excesses change the +organism of the brain, till slow, creeping, moral insanity comes on. +The woman who is the helpless victim of cruelties which only unnatural +states of the brain could invent, who is heart-sick to-day and dreads +to-morrow,--looks in hopeless horror on the fatal process by which a +lover and a protector changes under her eyes, from day to day, to a +brute and a fiend. + +Lady Byron's married life--alas! it is lived over in many a cottage and +tenement-house, with no understanding on either side of the cause of +the woful misery. + +Dr. Winslow truly says, 'The science of these brain-affections is yet +in its infancy in England.' At that time, it had not even begun to be. +Madness was a fixed point; and the inquiries into it had no nicety. +Its treatment, if established, had no redeeming power. Insanity simply +locked a man up as a dangerous being; and the very suggestion of it, +therefore, was resented as an injury. + +A most peculiar and affecting feature of that form of brain disease +which hurries its victim, as by an overpowering mania, into crime, is, +that often the moral faculties and the affections remain to a degree +unimpaired, and protest with all their strength against the outrage. +Hence come conflicts and agonies of remorse proportioned to the +strength of the moral nature. Byron, more than any other one writer, +may be called the poet of remorse. His passionate pictures of this +feeling seem to give new power to the English language:-- + + 'There is a war, a chaos of the mind, + When all its elements convulsed--combined, + Lie dark and jarring with perturbèd force, + And gnashing with impenitent remorse, + That juggling fiend, who never spake before, + But cries, "I warned thee!" when the deed is o'er.' + +It was this remorse that formed the only redeeming feature of the case. +Its eloquence, its agonies, won from all hearts the interest that we +give to a powerful nature in a state of danger and ruin; and it may +be hoped that this feeling, which tempers the stern justice of human +judgments, may prove only a faint image of the wider charity of Him +whose thoughts are as far above ours as the heaven is above the earth. + + + + +CHAPTER VII. + +HOW COULD SHE LOVE HIM? + + +It has seemed, to some, wholly inconsistent, that Lady Byron, if this +story were true, could retain any kindly feeling for Lord Byron, or +any tenderness for his memory; that the profession implied a certain +hypocrisy: but, in this sad review, we may see how the woman who once +had loved him, might, in spite of every wrong he had heaped upon her, +still have looked on this awful wreck and ruin chiefly with pity. While +she stood afar, and refused to justify or join in the polluted idolatry +which defended his vices, there is evidence in her writings that her +mind often went back mournfully, as a mother's would, to the early days +when he might have been saved. + +One of her letters in Robinson's Memoirs, in regard to his religious +opinions, shows with what intense earnestness she dwelt upon the +unhappy influences of his childhood and youth, and those early +theologies which led him to regard himself as one of the reprobate. She +says,-- + + 'Not merely from casual expressions, but from the whole tenor of Lord + Byron's feelings, I could not but conclude that he was a believer + in the inspiration of the Bible, and had the gloomiest Calvinistic + tenets. To that unhappy view of the relation of the creature to the + Creator I have always ascribed the misery of his life. + + 'It is enough for me to know that he who thinks his transgression + beyond forgiveness ... has righteousness beyond that of the + self-satisfied sinner. It is impossible for me to doubt, that, could + he once have been assured of pardon, his living faith in moral duty, + and love of virtue ("I love the virtues that I cannot claim"), would + have conquered every temptation. Judge, then, how I must hate the + creed that made him see God as an Avenger, and not as a Father! My own + impressions were just the reverse, but could have but little weight; + and it was in vain to seek to turn his thoughts from that fixed idea + with which he connected his personal peculiarity as a stamp. Instead + of being made happier by any apparent good, he felt convinced that + every blessing would be turned into a curse to him.... "The worst of + it is, I do believe," he said. _I_, like all connected with him, was + broken against the rock of predestination. I may be pardoned for my + frequent reference to the sentiment (expressed by him), that I was + only sent to show him the happiness he was forbidden to enjoy.' + +In this letter we have the heart, not of the wife, but of the +mother,--the love that searches everywhere for extenuations of the +guilt it is forced to confess. + +That Lady Byron was not alone in ascribing such results to the +doctrines of Calvinism, in certain cases, appears from the language of +the Thirty-nine Articles, which says:-- + + 'As the godly consideration of predestination, and our election in + Christ, is full of sweet, pleasant, and unspeakable comfort to godly + persons, and such as feel in themselves the workings of the spirit of + Christ; ... so, for curious and carnal persons, lacking the spirit of + Christ, to have continually before their eyes the sentence of God's + predestination, is a most dangerous downfall, whereby the Devil doth + thrust them either into desperation, or into recklessness of most + unclean living,--no less perilous than desperation.' + +Lord Byron's life is an exact commentary on these words, which passed +under the revision of Calvin himself. + +The whole tone of this letter shows not only that Lady Byron never lost +her deep interest in her husband, but that it was by this experience +that all her religious ideas were modified. There is another of +these letters in which she thus speaks of her husband's writings and +character:-- + + 'The author of the article on "Goethe" appears to me to have the + mind which could dispel the illusion about _another_ poet, without + depreciating his claims ... to the truest inspiration. + + 'Who has sought to distinguish between the holy and the unholy in that + spirit? to prove, by the very degradation of the one, how high the + other was. A character is never done justice to by extenuating its + faults: so I do not agree to _nisi bonum_. It is kinder to read the + blotted page.' + +These letters show that Lady Byron's idea was that, even were the +whole mournful truth about Lord Byron fully told, there was still a +foundation left for pity and mercy. She seems to have remembered, +that if his sins were peculiar, so also were his temptations; and to +have schooled herself for years to gather up, and set in order in her +memory, all that yet remained precious in this great ruin. Probably no +English writer that ever has made the attempt could have done this more +perfectly. Though Lady Byron was not a poet _par excellence_, yet she +belonged to an order of souls fully equal to Lord Byron. Hers was more +the analytical mind of the philosopher than the creative mind of the +poet; and it was, for that reason, the one mind in our day capable of +estimating him fully both with justice and mercy. No person in England +had a more intense sensibility to genius, in its loftier acceptation, +than Lady Byron; and none more completely sympathised with what was +pure and exalted in her husband's writings. + +There is this peculiarity in Lord Byron, that the pure and the impure +in his poetry often run side by side without mixing,--as one may see +at Geneva the muddy stream of the Arve and the blue waters of the +Rhone flowing together unmingled. What, for example, can be nobler, +and in a higher and tenderer moral strain than his lines on the dying +gladiator, in 'Childe Harold'? What is more like the vigour of the old +Hebrew Scriptures than his thunderstorm in the Alps? What can more +perfectly express moral ideality of the highest kind than the exquisite +descriptions of Aurora Raby,--pure and high in thought and language, +occurring, as they do, in a work full of the most utter vileness? + +Lady Byron's hopes for her husband fastened themselves on all the noble +fragments yet remaining in that shattered temple of his mind which lay +blackened and thunder-riven; and she looked forward to a sphere beyond +this earth, where infinite mercy should bring all again to symmetry and +order. If the strict theologian must regret this as an undue latitude +of charity, let it at least he remembered that it was a charity which +sprang from a Christian virtue, and which she extended to every human +being, however lost, however low. In her view, the mercy which took +_him_ was mercy that could restore all. + +In my recollections of the interview with Lady Byron, when this whole +history was presented, I can remember that it was with a softened and +saddened feeling that I contemplated the story, as one looks on some +awful, inexplicable ruin. + +The last letter which I addressed to Lady Byron upon this subject will +show that such was the impression of the whole interview. It was in +reply to the one written on the death of my son:-- + + 'Jan. 30, 1858. + + 'MY DEAR FRIEND,--I _did_ long to hear from you at a time + when few knew how to speak, because I knew that _you_ had known + everything that sorrow can teach,--you, whose whole life has been a + crucifixion, a long ordeal. + + 'But I believe that the Lamb, who stands for ever "in the midst of the + throne, as it had been slain," has everywhere His followers,--those + who seem sent into the world, as He was, to suffer for the redemption + of others; and, like Him, they must look to the joy set before + them,--of redeeming others. + + 'I often think that God called you to this beautiful and terrible + ministry when He suffered you to link your destiny with one so + strangely gifted and so fearfully tempted. Perhaps the reward that is + to meet you when you enter within the veil where you must so soon pass + will be to see _that_ spirit, once chained and defiled, set free and + purified; and to know that to you it has been given, by your life of + love and faith, to accomplish this glorious change. + + 'I think increasingly on the subject on which you conversed with me + once,--the future state of retribution. It is evident to me that the + spirit of Christianity has produced in the human spirit a tenderness + of love which wholly revolts from the old doctrine on this subject; + and I observe, that, the more Christ-like anyone becomes, the more + difficult it seems for them to accept it as hitherto presented. And + yet, on the contrary, it was _Christ_ who said, "Fear Him that is + able to destroy both soul and body in hell;" and the most appalling + language is that of Christ himself. + + 'Certain ideas, once prevalent, certainly must be thrown off. An + endless _infliction_ for past sins was once the doctrine: _that_ we + now generally reject. The doctrine now generally taught is, that an + eternal persistence in evil necessitates everlasting suffering, since + evil induces misery by the eternal nature of things; and this, I fear, + is inferable from the analogies of Nature, and confirmed by the whole + implication of the Bible. + + 'What attention have you given to this subject? and is there any fair + way of disposing of the current of assertion, and the still deeper + _under_-current of implication, on this subject, without admitting + one which loosens all faith in revelation, and throws us on pure + naturalism? But of one thing I always feel sure: probation does not + end with this present life; and the number of the saved may therefore + be infinitely greater than the world's history leads us to suppose. + + 'I think the Bible implies a great crisis, a struggle, an agony, in + which God and Christ and all the good are engaged in redeeming from + sin; and we are not to suppose that the little portion that is done + for souls as they pass between the two doors of birth and death is all. + + 'The Bible is certainly silent there. The primitive Church believed in + the mercies of an intermediate state; and it was only the abuse of it + by Romanism that drove the Church into its present position, which, + I think, is wholly indefensible, and wholly irreconcilable with the + spirit of Christ. For if it were the case, that probation in all cases + begins and ends here, God's example would surely be one that could not + be followed, and He would seem to be far less persevering than even + human beings in efforts to save. + + 'Nothing is plainer than that it would be wrong to give up any mind to + eternal sin till every possible thing had been done for its recovery; + and that is so clearly _not_ the case here, that I can see that, with + thoughtful minds, this belief would cut the very roots of religious + faith in God: for there is a difference between facts that we do not + understand, and facts which we _do_ understand, and perceive to be + wholly irreconcilable with a certain character professed by God. + + 'If God says He is love, and certain ways of explaining Scripture + make Him _less_ loving and patient than man, then we make Scripture + contradict itself. Now, as no passage of Scripture limits probation to + this life, and as one passage in Peter certainly unequivocally asserts + that Christ preached to the spirits in prison while His body lay in + the grave, I am clear upon this point. + + 'But it is also clear, that if there be those who persist in refusing + God's love, who choose to dash themselves for ever against the + inflexible laws of the universe, such souls must for ever suffer. + + 'There may be souls who hate purity because it reveals their vileness; + who refuse God's love, and prefer eternal conflict with it. For such + there can be no peace. Even in this life, we see those whom the purest + self-devoting love only inflames to madness; and we have only to + suppose an eternal persistence in this to suppose eternal misery. + + 'But on this subject we can only leave all reverently in the hands + of that Being whose almighty power is "declared chiefly in showing + mercy."' + + + + +CHAPTER VIII. + +CONCLUSION. + + +In leaving this subject, I have an appeal to make to the men, and more +especially to the women, who have been my readers. + +In justice to Lady Byron, it must be remembered that this publication +of her story is not her act, but mine. I trust you have already +conceded, that, in so severe and peculiar a trial, she had a right to +be understood fully by her immediate circle of friends, and to seek +of them counsel in view of the moral questions to which such very +exceptional circumstances must have given rise. Her communication to me +was not an address to the public: it was a statement of the case for +advice. True, by leaving the whole, unguarded by pledge or promise, it +left discretionary power with me to use it if needful. + +You, my sisters, are to judge whether the accusation laid against Lady +Byron by the 'Blackwood,' in 1869, was not of so barbarous a nature as +to justify my producing the truth I held in my hands in reply. + +The 'Blackwood' claimed a right to re-open the subject because it was +_not_ a private but a public matter. It claimed that Lord Byron's +unfortunate marriage might have changed not only his own destiny, but +that of all England. It suggested, that, but for this, instead of +wearing out his life in vice, and corrupting society by impure poetry, +he might, at this day, have been leading the counsels of the State, and +helping the onward movements of the world. Then it directly charged +Lady Byron with meanly forsaking her husband in a time of worldly +misfortune; with fabricating a destructive accusation of crime against +him, and confirming this accusation by years of persistent silence more +guilty than open assertion. + +It has been alleged, that, even admitting that Lady Byron's story were +true, it never ought to have been told. + +Is it true, then, that a woman has not the same right to individual +justice that a man has? If the cases were reversed, would it have been +thought just that Lord Byron should go down in history loaded with +accusations of crime because he could be only vindicated by exposing +the crime of his wife? + +It has been said that the crime charged on Lady Byron was comparatively +unimportant, and the one against Lord Byron was deadly. + +But the 'Blackwood,' in opening the controversy, called Lady Byron by +the name of an unnatural female criminal, whose singular atrocities +alone entitle her to infamous notoriety; and the crime charged upon her +was sufficient to warrant the comparison. + +Both crimes are foul, unnatural, horrible; and there is no middle +ground between the admission of the one or the other. + +You must either conclude that a woman, all whose other works, words, +and deeds were generous, just, and gentle, committed this one monstrous +exceptional crime, without a motive, and against all the analogies of +her character, and all the analogies of her treatment of others; or you +must suppose that a man known by all testimony to have been boundlessly +licentious, who took the very course which, by every physiological law, +would have led to unnatural results, did, at last, commit an unnatural +crime. + +The question, whether I did right, when Lady Byron was thus held up as +an abandoned criminal by the 'Blackwood,' to interpose my knowledge +of the real truth in her defence, is a serious one; but it is one for +which I must account to God alone, and in which, without any contempt +of the opinions of my fellow-creatures, I must say, that it is a small +thing to be judged of man's judgment. + +I had in the case a responsibility very different from that of many +others. I had been consulted in relation to the publication of this +story by Lady Byron, at a time when she had it in her power to have +exhibited it with all its proofs, and commanded an instant conviction. +I have reason to think that my advice had some weight in suppressing +that disclosure. I gave that advice under the impression that the Byron +controversy was a thing for ever passed, and never likely to return. + +It had never occurred to me, that, nine years after Lady Byron's death, +a standard English periodical would declare itself free to re-open this +controversy, when all the generation who were her witnesses had passed +from earth; and that it would re-open it in the most savage form of +accusation, and with the indorsement and commendation of a hook of the +vilest slanders, edited by Lord Byron's mistress. + +Let the reader mark the retributions of justice. The accusations of the +'Blackwood,' in 1869, were simply an intensified form of those first +concocted by Lord Byron in his 'Clytemnestra' poem of 1816. He forged +that weapon, and bequeathed it to his party. The 'Blackwood' took it +up, gave it a sharper edge, and drove it to the heart of Lady Byron's +fame. The result has been the disclosure of this history. It is, +then, Lord Byron himself, who, by his network of wiles, his ceaseless +persecutions of his wife, his efforts to extend his partisanship beyond +the grave, has brought on this tumultuous exposure. He, and he alone, +is the cause of this revelation. + +And now I have one word to say to those in England who, with all the +facts and documents in their hands which could at once have cleared +Lady Byron's fame, allowed the barbarous assault of the 'Blackwood' +to go over the civilised world without a reply. I speak to those who, +knowing that I am speaking the truth, stand silent; to those who have +now the ability to produce the facts and documents by which this cause +might be instantly settled, and who do not produce them. + +I do not judge them; but I remind them that a day is coming when they +and I must stand side by side at the great judgment-seat,--I to give an +account for my speaking, they for their silence. + +In that day, all earthly considerations will have vanished like morning +mists, and truth or falsehood, justice or injustice, will be the only +realities. + +In that day, God, who will judge the secrets of all men, will judge +between this man and this woman. Then, if never before, the full truth +shall be told both of the depraved and dissolute man who made it his +life's object to defame the innocent, and the silent, the self-denying +woman who made it her life's object to give space for repentance to the +guilty. + + + + +PART III. + +MISCELLANEOUS DOCUMENTS. + +THE TRUE STORY OF LADY BYRON'S LIFE, + +AS ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED IN 'THE ATLANTIC MONTHLY.' + + +The reading world of America has lately been presented with a book +which is said to sell rapidly, and which appears to meet with universal +favour. + +The subject of the book may be thus briefly stated: The mistress of +Lord Byron comes before the world for the sake of vindicating his fame +from slanders and aspersions cast on him by his wife. The story of the +mistress _versus_ wife may be summed up as follows:-- + +Lord Byron, the hero of the story, is represented as a human being +endowed with every natural charm, gift, and grace, who, by the one +false step of an unsuitable marriage, wrecked his whole life. A +narrow-minded, cold-hearted precisian, without sufficient intellect to +comprehend his genius, or heart to feel for his temptations, formed +with him one of those mere worldly marriages common in high life; and, +finding that she could not reduce him to the mathematical proprieties +and conventional rules of her own mode of life, suddenly, and without +warning, abandoned him in the most cruel and inexplicable manner. + +It is alleged that she parted from him in apparent affection and +good-humour, wrote him a playful, confiding letter upon the way, but, +after reaching her father's house, suddenly, and without explanation, +announced to him that she would never see him again; that this sudden +abandonment drew down upon him a perfect storm of scandalous stories, +which his wife never contradicted; that she never in any way or shape +stated what the exact reasons for her departure had been, and thus +silently gave scope to all the malice of thousands of enemies. The +sensitive victim was actually driven from England, his home broken up, +and be doomed to be a lonely wanderer on foreign shores. + +In Italy, under bluer skies, and among a gentler people, with more +tolerant modes of judgment, the authoress intimates that he found +peace and consolation. A lovely young Italian countess falls in love +with him, and, breaking her family ties for his sake, devotes herself +to him; and, in blissful retirement with her, he finds at last that +domestic life for which he was so fitted. + +Soothed, calmed, and refreshed, he writes 'Don Juan,' which the world +is at this late hour informed was a poem with a high moral purpose, +designed to be a practical illustration of the doctrine of total +depravity among young gentlemen in high life. + +Under the elevating influence of love, he rises at last to higher +realms of moral excellence, and resolves to devote the rest of his life +to some noble and heroic purpose; becomes the saviour of Greece; and +dies untimely, leaving a nation to mourn his loss. + +The authoress dwells with a peculiar bitterness on Lady Byron's entire +_silence_ during all these years, as the most aggravated form of +persecution and injury. She informs the world that Lord Byron wrote his +Autobiography with the purpose of giving a fair statement of the exact +truth in the whole matter; and that Lady Byron bought up the manuscript +of the publisher, and insisted on its being destroyed, unread; thus +inflexibly depriving her husband of his last chance of a hearing before +the tribunal of the public. + +As a result of this silent persistent cruelty on the part of a cold, +correct, narrow-minded woman, the character of Lord Byron has been +misunderstood, and his name transmitted to after-ages clouded with +aspersions and accusations which it is the object of this book to +remove. + + * * * * * + +Such is the story of Lord Byron's mistress,--a story which is going +the length of this American continent, and rousing up new sympathy +with the poet, and doing its best to bring the youth of America once +more under the power of that brilliant, seductive genius, from which +it was hoped they had escaped. Already we are seeing it revamped in +magazine-articles, which take up the slanders of the paramour and +enlarge on them, and wax eloquent in denunciation of the marble-hearted +insensible wife. + +All this while, it does not appear to occur to the thousands of +unreflecting readers that they are listening merely to the story of +Lord Byron's mistress, and of Lord Byron; and that, even by their own +showing, their heaviest accusation against Lady Byron is that _she has +not spoken at all_. Her story has never been told. + +For many years after the rupture between Lord Byron and his wife, that +poet's personality, fate, and happiness had an interest for the whole +civilized world, which, we will venture to say, was unparalleled. It +is within the writer's recollection, how, in the obscure mountain-town +where she spent her early days, Lord Byron's separation from his wife +was, for a season, the all-engrossing topic. + +She remembers hearing her father recount at the breakfast-table the +facts as they were given in the public papers, together with his own +suppositions and theories of the causes. + +Lord Byron's 'Fare thee well,' addressed to Lady Byron, was set to +music, and sung with tears by young school-girls, even in this distant +America. + +Madame de Staël said of this appeal, that she was sure it would have +drawn her at once to his heart and his arms; _she_ could have forgiven +everything: and so said all the young ladies all over the world, not +only in England but in France and Germany, wherever Byron's poetry +appeared in translation. + +Lady Byron's obdurate cold-heartedness in refusing even to listen to +his prayers, or to have any intercourse with him which might lead to +reconciliation, was the one point conceded on all sides. + +The stricter moralists defended her; but gentler hearts throughout all +the world regarded her as a marble-hearted monster of correctness and +morality, a personification of the law unmitigated by the gospel. + +Literature in its highest walks busied itself with Lady Byron. Hogg, +in the character of the Ettrick Shepherd, devotes several eloquent +passages to expatiating on the conjugal fidelity of a poor Highland +shepherd's wife, who, by patience and prayer and forgiveness, succeeds +in reclaiming her drunken husband, and making a good man of him; and +then points his moral by contrasting with this touching picture the +cold-hearted pharisaical correctness of Lady Byron. + +Moore, in his 'Life of Lord Byron,' when beginning the recital of the +series of disgraceful amours which formed the staple of his life in +Venice, has this passage:-- + +'Highly censurable in point of morality and decorum as was his course +of life while under the roof of Madame ----, it was (with pain I am +forced to confess) venial in comparison with the strange, headlong +career of licence to which, when weaned from that connection, he so +unrestrainedly, and, it may be added, defyingly abandoned himself. Of +the state of his mind on leaving England, I have already endeavoured +to convey some idea; and among the feelings that went to make up that +self-centred spirit of resistance which he then opposed to his fate was +an indignant scorn for his own countrymen for the wrongs he thought +they had done him. For a time, _the kindly sentiments which he still +harboured toward Lady Byron, and a sort of vague hope, perhaps, that +all would yet come right again_, kept his mind in a mood somewhat +more softened and docile, as well as sufficiently under the influence +of English opinions to prevent his breaking out into open rebellion +against it, as he unluckily did afterward. + +'_By the failure of the attempted mediation with Lady Byron_, his +last link with home was severed: while, notwithstanding the quiet and +unobtrusive life which he led at Geneva, there was as yet, he found, +no cessation of the slanderous warfare against his character; the same +busy and misrepresenting spirit which had tracked his every step at +home, having, with no less malicious watchfulness, dogged him into +exile.' + +We should like to know what the misrepresentations and slanders +must have been, when this sort of thing is admitted in Mr. Moore's +_justification_. It seems to us rather wonderful how anybody, unless it +were a person like the Countess Guiccioli, could misrepresent a life +such as even Byron's friend admits he was leading. + +During all these years, when he was setting at defiance every principle +of morality and decorum, the interest of the female mind all over +Europe in the conversion of this brilliant prodigal son was unceasing, +and reflects the greatest credit upon the faith of the sex. + +Madame de Staël commenced the first effort at evangelization +immediately after he left England, and found her catechumen in a most +edifying state of humility. He was, metaphorically, on his knees in +penitence, and confessed himself a miserable sinner in the loveliest +manner possible. Such sweetness and humility took all hearts. His +conversations with Madame de Staël were printed, and circulated all +over the world; making it to appear that only the inflexibility of Lady +Byron stood in the way of his entire conversion. + +Lady Blessington, among many others, took him in hand five or six years +afterwards, and was greatly delighted with his docility, and edified by +his frank and free confessions of his miserable offences. Nothing now +seemed wanting to bring the wanderer home to the fold but a kind word +from Lady Byron. But, when the fair countess offered to mediate, the +poet only shook his head in tragic despair; 'he had so many times tried +in vain; Lady Byron's course had been from the first that of obdurate +silence.' + +Any one who would wish to see a specimen of the skill of the +honourable poet in mystification will do well to read a letter to Lady +Byron, which Lord Byron, on parting from Lady Blessington, enclosed for +her to read just before he went to Greece. He says,-- + +'The letter which I enclose _I was prevented from sending by my despair +of its doing any good_. I was perfectly sincere when I wrote it, and +am so still. But it is difficult for me to withstand the thousand +provocations on that subject which both friends and foes have for seven +years been throwing in the way of a man whose feelings were once quick, +and whose temper was never patient.' + + 'TO LADY BYRON, CARE OF THE HON. MRS. LEIGH, LONDON + + 'PISA, _Nov._ 17, 1821. + + 'I have to acknowledge the receipt of "Ada's hair," which is very + soft and pretty, and nearly as dark already as mine was at twelve + years old, if I may judge from what I recollect of some in Augusta's + possession, taken at that age. But it didn't curl--perhaps from its + being let grow. + + 'I also thank you for the inscription of the date and name; and I will + tell you why: I believe that they are the only two or three words + of your handwriting in my possession. For your letters I returned; + and except the two words, or rather the one word, "Household," + written twice in an old account book, I have no other. I burnt your + last note, for two reasons: firstly, it was written in a style not + very agreeable; and, secondly, I wished to take your word without + documents, which are the worldly resources of suspicious people. + + 'I suppose that this note will reach you somewhere about Ada's + birthday--the 10th of December, I believe. She will then be six: + so that, in about twelve more, I shall have some chance of meeting + her; perhaps sooner, if I am obliged to go to England by business + or otherwise. Recollect, however, one thing, either in distance or + nearness--every day which keeps us asunder should, after so long a + period, rather soften our mutual feelings; which must always have one + rallying point as long as our child exists, which, I presume, we both + hope will be long after either of her parents. + + 'The time which has elapsed since the separation has been considerably + more than the whole brief period of our union, and the not much longer + one of our prior acquaintance. We both made a bitter mistake; but + now it is over, and irrevocably so. For at thirty-three on my part, + and few years less on yours, though it is no very extended period of + life, still it is one when the habits and thought are generally so + formed as to admit of no modification; and, as we could not agree when + younger, we should with difficulty do so now. + + 'I say all this, because I own to you, that notwithstanding + everything, I considered our reunion as not impossible for more than + a year after the separation; but then I gave up the hope entirely + and for ever. But this very impossibility of reunion seems to me + at least a reason why, on all the few points of discussion which + can arise between us, we should preserve the courtesies of life, + and as much of its kindness as people who are never to meet may + preserve,--perhaps more easily than nearer connections. For my own + part, I am violent, but not malignant; for only fresh provocations can + awaken my resentments. To you, who are colder and more concentrated, + I would just hint, that you may sometimes mistake the depth of a cold + anger for dignity, and a worse feeling for duty. I assure you that + I bear you _now_ (whatever I may have done) no resentment whatever. + Remember, that, _if you have injured me_ in aught, this forgiveness + is something; and that, if I have _injured you_, it is something more + still, if it be true, as the moralists say, that the most offending + are the least forgiving. + + 'Whether the offence has been solely on my side, or reciprocal, or on + yours chiefly, I have ceased to reflect upon any but two things; viz., + that you are the mother of my child, and that we shall never meet + again. I think, if you also consider the two corresponding points with + reference to myself, it will be better for all three. + + 'Yours ever, + + 'NOEL BYRON.' + + +The artless Thomas Moore introduces this letter in the 'Life,' with the +remark,-- + +'There are few, I should think, of my readers, who will not agree with +me in pronouncing, that, if the author of the following letter had not +_right_ on his side, he had at least most of those good feelings which +are found in general to accompany it.' + +The reader is requested to take notice of the important admission, that +_the letter was never sent to Lady Byron at all_. It was, in fact, +never _intended_ for her, but was a nice little dramatic performance, +composed simply with the view of acting on the sympathies of Lady +Blessington and Byron's numerous female admirers; and the reader will +agree with us, we think, that, in this point of view, it was very +neatly done, and deserves immortality as a work of high art. For six +years he had been plunged into every kind of vice and excess, pleading +his shattered domestic joys, and his wife's obdurate heart, as the +apology and the impelling cause; filling the air with his shrieks +and complaints concerning the slander which pursued him, while he +filled letters to his confidential correspondents with records of new +mistresses. During all these years, the silence of Lady Byron was +unbroken; though Lord Byron not only drew in private on the sympathies +of his female admirers, but employed his talents and position as an +author in holding her up to contempt and ridicule before thousands +of readers. We shall quote at length his side of the story, which he +published in the First Canto of 'Don Juan,' that the reader may see +how much reason he had for assuming the injured tone which he did in +the letter to Lady Byron quoted above. That letter never was sent to +her; and the unmanly and indecent caricature of her, and the indelicate +exposure of the whole story on his own side, which we are about to +quote, were the only communications that could have reached her +solitude. + +In the following verses, Lady Byron is represented as Donna Inez, and +Lord Byron as Don José; but the incidents and allusions were so very +pointed, that nobody for a moment doubted whose history the poet was +narrating. + + 'His mother was a learned lady, famed + For every branch of every science known + In every Christian language ever named, + With virtues equalled by her wit alone: + She made the cleverest people quite ashamed; + And even the good with inward envy groaned, + Finding themselves so very much exceeded + In their own way by all the things that she did. + + * * * * * + + Save that her duty both to man and God + Required this conduct; which seemed very odd. + + She kept a journal where his faults were noted, + And opened certain trunks of books and letters, + (All which might, if occasion served, be quoted); + And then she had all Seville for abettors, + Besides her good old grandmother (who doted): + The hearers of her case become repeaters, + Then advocates, inquisitors, and judges,-- + Some for amusement, others for old grudges. + + And then this best and meekest woman bore + With such serenity her husband's woes! + Just as the Spartan ladies did of yore, + Who saw their spouses killed, and nobly chose + Never to say a word about them more. + Calmly she heard each calumny that rose, + And saw _his_ agonies with such sublimity, + That all the world exclaimed, "What magnanimity!"' + +This is the longest and most elaborate version of his own story +that Byron ever published; but he busied himself with many others, +projecting at one time a Spanish romance, in which the same story is +related in the same transparent manner: but this he was dissuaded +from printing. The booksellers, however, made a good speculation in +publishing what they called his domestic poems; that is, poems bearing +more or less relation to this subject. + +Every person with whom he became acquainted with any degree of intimacy +was made familiar with his side of the story. Moore's Biography is +from first to last, in its representations, founded upon Byron's +communicativeness, and Lady Byron's silence; and the world at last +settled down to believing that the account so often repeated, and never +contradicted, must be substantially a true one. + +The true history of Lord and Lady Byron has long been perfectly +understood in many circles in England; but the facts were of a nature +that could not be made public. While there was a young daughter living +whose future might be prejudiced by its recital, and while there were +other persons on whom the disclosure of the real truth would have been +crushing as an avalanche, Lady Byron's only course was the perfect +silence in which she took refuge, and those sublime works of charity +and mercy to which she consecrated her blighted early life. + +But the time is now come when the truth may be told. All the actors +in the scene have disappeared from the stage of mortal existence, and +passed, let us have faith to hope, into a world where they would desire +to expiate their faults by a late publication of the truth. + +No person in England, we think, would as yet take the responsibility of +relating the true history which is to clear Lady Byron's memory; but, +by a singular concurrence of circumstances, all the facts of the case, +in the most undeniable and authentic form, were at one time placed in +the hands of the writer of this sketch, with authority to make such +use of them as she should judge best. Had this melancholy history been +allowed to sleep, no public use would have been made of them; but the +appearance of a popular attack on the character of Lady Byron calls for +a vindication, and the true story of her married life will therefore +now be related. + +Lord Byron has described in one of his letters the impression left +upon his mind by a young person whom he met one evening in society, +and who attracted his attention by the simplicity of her dress, and a +certain air of singular purity and calmness with which she surveyed the +scene around her. + +On inquiry, he was told that this young person was Miss Milbanke, an +only child, and one of the largest heiresses in England. + +Lord Byron was fond of idealising his experiences in poetry; and the +friends of Lady Byron had no difficulty in recognising the portrait of +Lady Byron, as she appeared at this time of her life, in his exquisite +description of Aurora Raby:-- + + 'There was + Indeed a certain fair and fairy one, + Of the best class, and better than her class,-- + Aurora Raby, a young star who shone + O'er life, too sweet an image for such glass; + A lovely being scarcely formed or moulded; + A rose with all its sweetest leaves yet folded. + + * * * * * + + Early in years, and yet more infantine + In figure, she had something of sublime + In eyes which sadly shone as seraphs' shine; + All youth, but with an aspect beyond time; + Radiant and grave, as pitying man's decline; + Mournful, but mournful of another's crime, + She looked as if she sat by Eden's door, + And grieved for those who could return no more. + + * * * * * + + She gazed upon a world she scarcely knew, + As seeking not to know it; silent, lone, + As grows a flower, thus quietly she grew, + And kept her heart serene within its zone. + There was awe in the homage which she drew; + Her spirit seemed as seated on a throne, + Apart from the surrounding world, and strong + In its own strength,--most strange in one so young!' + +Some idea of the course which their acquaintance took, and of the +manner in which he was piqued into thinking of her, is given in a +stanza or two:-- + + 'The dashing and proud air of Adeline + Imposed not upon her: she saw her blaze + Much as she would have seen a glowworm shine; + Then turned unto the stars for loftier rays. + Juan was something she could not divine, + Being no sibyl in the new world's ways; + Yet she was nothing dazzled by the meteor, + Because she did not pin her faith on feature. + + His fame too (for he had that kind of fame + Which sometimes plays the deuce with womankind,-- + A heterogeneous mass of glorious blame, + Half virtues and whole vices being combined; + Faults which attract because they are not tame; + Follies tricked out so brightly that they blind),-- + These seals upon her wax made no impression, + Such was her coldness or her self-possession. + + Aurora sat with that indifference + Which piques a _preux_ chevalier,--as it ought. + Of all offences, that's the worst offence + Which seems to hint you are not worth a thought. + + * * * * * + + To his gay nothings, nothing was replied, + Or something which was nothing, as urbanity + Required. Aurora scarcely looked aside, + Nor even smiled enough for any vanity. + The Devil was in the girl! Could it be pride, + Or modesty, or absence, or inanity? + + * * * * * + + Juan was drawn thus into some attentions, + Slight but select, and just enough to express, + To females of perspicuous comprehensions, + That he would rather make them more than less. + Aurora at the last (so history mentions, + Though probably much less a fact than guess) + So far relaxed her thoughts from their sweet prison + As once or twice to smile, if not to listen. + + * * * * * + + But Juan had a sort of winning way, + A proud humility, if such there be, + Which showed such deference to what females say, + As if each charming word were a decree. + His tact, too, tempered him from grave to gay, + And taught him when to be reserved or free. + He had the art of drawing people out, + Without their seeing what he was about. + + Aurora, who in her indifference, + Confounded him in common with the crowd + Of flatterers, though she deemed he had more sense + Than whispering foplings or than witlings loud, + Commenced (from such slight things will great commence) + To feel that flattery which attracts the proud, + Rather by deference than compliment, + And wins even by a delicate dissent. + + And then he had good looks: that point was carried + _Nem. con._ amongst the women. + + * * * * * + + Now, though we know of old that looks deceive, + And always have done, somehow these good looks, + Make more impression than the best of books. + + Aurora, who looked more on books than faces, + Was very young, although so very sage: + Admiring more Minerva than the Graces, + Especially upon a printed page. + But Virtue's self, with all her tightest laces, + Has not the natural stays of strict old age; + And Socrates, that model of all duty, + Owned to a penchant, though discreet for beauty.' + +The presence of this high-minded, thoughtful, unworldly woman is +described through two cantos of the wild, rattling 'Don Juan,' in a +manner that shows how deeply the poet was capable of being affected by +such an appeal to his higher nature. + +For instance, when Don Juan sits silent and thoughtful amid a circle of +persons who are talking scandal, the poet says,-- + + ''Tis true, he saw Aurora look as though + She approved his silence: she perhaps mistook + Its motive for that charity we owe, + But seldom pay, the absent. + + * * * * * + + He gained esteem where it was worth the most; + And certainly Aurora had renewed + In him some feelings he had lately lost + Or hardened,--feelings which, perhaps ideal, + Are so divine that I must deem them real:-- + + The love of higher things and better days; + The unbounded hope and heavenly ignorance + Of what is called the world and the world's ways; + The moments when we gather from a glance + + More joy than from all future pride or praise, + Which kindled manhood, but can ne'er entrance + The heart in an existence of its own + Of which another's bosom is the zone. + + And full of sentiments sublime as billows + Heaving between this world and worlds beyond, + Don Juan, when the midnight hour of pillows + Arrived, retired to his.'... + +In all these descriptions of a spiritual unworldly nature acting on +the spiritual and unworldly part of his own nature, every one who ever +knew Lady Byron intimately must have recognised the model from which +he drew, and the experience from which he spoke, even though nothing +was further from his mind than to pay this tribute to the woman he had +injured, and though before these lines, which showed how truly he knew +her real character, had come one stanza of ribald, vulgar caricature, +designed as a slight to her:-- + + 'There was Miss Millpond, smooth as summer's sea + That usual paragon, an only daughter, + Who seemed the cream of equanimity + 'Till skimmed; and then there was some milk and water; + With a slight shade of blue, too, it might be, + Beneath the surface: but what did it matter? + Love's riotous; but marriage should have quiet, + And, being consumptive, live on a milk diet.' + +The result of Byron's intimacy with Miss Milbanke and the enkindling +of his nobler feelings was an offer of marriage, which she, though +at the time deeply interested in him, declined with many expressions +of friendship and interest. In fact, she already loved him, but had +that doubt of her power to be to him all that a wife should be which +would be likely to arise in a mind so sensitively constituted and so +unworldly. They, however, continued a correspondence as friends; on her +part, the interest continually increased; on his, the transient rise of +better feelings was choked and overgrown by the thorns of base unworthy +passions. + +From the height at which he might have been happy as the husband of a +noble woman, he fell into the depths of a secret adulterous intrigue +with a blood relation, so near in consanguinity, that discovery must +have been utter ruin and expulsion from civilised society. + +From henceforth, this damning guilty secret became the ruling force in +his life; holding him with a morbid fascination, yet filling him with +remorse and anguish, and insane dread of detection. Two years after his +refusal by Miss Milbanke, his various friends, seeing that for some +cause he was wretched, pressed marriage upon him. + +Marriage has often been represented as the proper goal and terminus +of a wild and dissipated career; and it has been supposed to be the +appointed mission of good women to receive wandering prodigals, with +all the rags and disgraces of their old life upon them, and put rings +on their hands, and shoes on their feet, and introduce them, clothed +and in their right minds, to an honourable career in society. + +Marriage was, therefore, universally recommended to Lord Byron by his +numerous friends and well-wishers; and so he determined to marry, and, +in an hour of reckless desperation, sat down and wrote proposals to two +ladies. One was declined: the other, which was accepted, was to Miss +Milbanke. The world knows well that he had the gift of expression, and +will not be surprised that he wrote a very beautiful letter, and that +the woman who had already learned to love him fell at once into the +snare. + +Her answer was a frank, outspoken avowal of her love for him, giving +herself to him heart and hand. The good in Lord Byron was not so +utterly obliterated that he could receive such a letter without +emotion, or practise such unfairness on a loving, trusting heart +without pangs of remorse. He had sent the letter in mere recklessness; +he had not seriously expected to be accepted; and the discovery of the +treasure of affection which he had secured was like a vision of lost +heaven to a soul in hell. + +But, nevertheless, in his letters written about the engagement, +there are sufficient evidences that his self-love was flattered at +the preference accorded him by so superior a woman, and one who had +been so much sought. He mentions with an air of complacency that +she has employed the last two years in refusing five or six of his +acquaintance; that he had no idea she loved him, admitting that it was +an old attachment on his part. He dwells on her virtues with a sort +of pride of ownership. There is a sort of childish levity about the +frankness of these letters, very characteristic of the man who skimmed +over the deepest abysses with the lightest jests. Before the world, and +to his intimates, he was acting the part of the successful _fiancé_, +conscious all the while of the deadly secret that lay cold at the +bottom of his heart. + +When he went to visit Miss Milbanke's parents as her accepted lover +she was struck with his manner and appearance: she saw him moody and +gloomy, evidently wrestling with dark and desperate thoughts, and +anything but what a happy and accepted lover should be. She sought an +interview with him alone, and told him that she had observed that he +was not happy in the engagement; and magnanimously added, that, if on +review, he found he had been mistaken in the nature of his feelings, +she would immediately release him, and they should remain only friends. + +Overcome with the conflict of his feelings, Lord Byron fainted away. +Miss Milbanke was convinced that his heart must really be deeply +involved in an attachment with reference to which he showed such +strength of emotion, and she spoke no more of a dissolution of the +engagement. + +There is no reason to doubt that Byron was, as he relates in his +'Dream,' profoundly agonized and agitated when he stood before God's +altar with the trusting young creature whom he was leading to a fate so +awfully tragic; yet it was not the memory of Mary Chaworth, but another +guiltier and more damning memory, that overshadowed that hour. + +The moment the carriage-doors were shut upon the bridegroom and the +bride, the paroxysm of remorse and despair--unrepentant remorse and +angry despair--broke forth upon her gentle head:-- + +'You might have saved me from this, madam! You had all in your own +power when I offered myself to you first. Then you might have made +me what you pleased; but now you will find that you have married a +_devil_!' + +In Miss Martineau's Sketches, recently published, is an account of the +termination of this wedding-journey, which brought them to one of Lady +Byron's ancestral country seats, where they were to spend the honeymoon. + +Miss Martineau says,-- + +'At the altar she did not know that she was a sacrifice; but before +sunset of that winter day she knew it, if a judgment may be formed from +her face, and attitude of despair, when she alighted from the carriage +on the afternoon of her marriage-day. It was not the traces of tears +which won the sympathy of the old butler who stood at the open door. +The bridegroom jumped out of the carriage and walked away. The bride +alighted, and came up the steps alone, with a countenance and frame +agonized and listless with evident horror and despair. The old servant +longed to offer his arm to the young, lonely creature, as an assurance +of sympathy and protection. From this shock she certainly rallied, +and soon. The pecuniary difficulties of her new home were exactly +what a devoted spirit like hers was fitted to encounter. Her husband +bore testimony, after the catastrophe, that a brighter being, a more +sympathising and agreeable companion, never blessed any man's home. +When he afterwards called her cold and mathematical, and over-pious, +and so forth, it was when public opinion had gone against him, and +when he had discovered that her fidelity and mercy, her silence and +magnanimity, might be relied on, so that he was at full liberty to make +his part good, as far as she was concerned. + +'Silent she was even to her own parents, whose feelings she +magnanimously spared. She did not act rashly in leaving him, though she +had been most rash in marrying him.' + +Not all at once did the full knowledge of the dreadful reality into +which she had entered come upon the young wife. She knew vaguely, from +the wild avowals of the first hours of their marriage, that there was +a dreadful secret of guilt; that Byron's soul was torn with agonies of +remorse, and that he had no love to give to her in return for a love +which was ready to do and dare all for him. Yet bravely she addressed +herself to the task of soothing and pleasing and calming the man whom +she had taken 'for better or for worse.' + +Young and gifted; with a peculiar air of refined and spiritual beauty; +graceful in every movement; possessed of exquisite taste; a perfect +companion to his mind in all the higher walks of literary culture; and +with that infinite pliability to all his varying, capricious moods +which true love alone can give; bearing in her hand a princely fortune, +which, with a woman's uncalculating generosity, was thrown at his +feet,--there is no wonder that she might feel for a while as if she +could enter the lists with the very Devil himself, and fight with a +woman's weapons for the heart of her husband. + +There are indications scattered through the letters of Lord Byron, +which, though brief indeed, showed that his young wife was making every +effort to accommodate herself to him, and to give him a cheerful home. +One of the poems that he sends to his publisher about this time, he +speaks of as being copied by her. He had always the highest regard for +her literary judgments and opinions; and this little incident shows +that she was already associating herself in a wifely fashion with his +aims as an author. + +The poem copied by her, however, has a sad meaning, which she +afterwards learned to understand only too well:-- + + 'There's not a joy the world can give like that it takes away + When the glow of early thought declines in feeling's dull decay: + 'Tis not on youth's smooth cheek the blush alone that fades so fast; + But the tender bloom of heart is gone e'er youth itself be past. + Then the few whose spirits float above the wreck of happiness + Are driven o'er the shoals of guilt, or ocean of excess: + The magnet of their course is gone, or only points in vain + The shore to which their shivered sail shall never stretch again.' + +Only a few days before she left him for ever, Lord Byron sent Murray +manuscripts, in Lady Byron's handwriting, of the 'Siege of Corinth,' +and 'Parisina,' and wrote,-- + + +'I am very glad that the handwriting was a favourable omen of the +_morale_ of the piece: but you must not trust to that; for my copyist +would write out anything I desired, in all the ignorance of innocence.' + +There were lucid intervals in which Lord Byron felt the charm of his +wife's mind, and the strength of her powers. 'Bell, you could be a poet +too, if you only thought so,' he would say. There were summer-hours in +her stormy life, the memory of which never left her, when Byron was as +gentle and tender as he was beautiful; when he seemed to be possessed +by a good angel: and then for a little time all the ideal possibilities +of his nature stood revealed. + +The most dreadful men to live with are those who thus alternate between +angel and devil. The buds of hope and love called out by a day or two +of sunshine are frozen again and again, till the tree is killed. + +But there came an hour of revelation,--an hour when, in a manner +which left no kind of room for doubt, Lady Byron saw the full depth +of the abyss of infamy which her marriage was expected to cover, and +understood that she was expected to be the cloak and the accomplice of +this infamy. + +Many women would have been utterly crushed by such a disclosure; some +would have fled from him immediately, and exposed and denounced the +crime. Lady Byron did neither. When all the hope of womanhood died out +of her heart, there arose within her, stronger, purer, and brighter, +that immortal kind of love such as God feels for the sinner,--the love +of which Jesus spoke, and which holds the one wanderer of more account +than the ninety and nine that went not astray. She would neither leave +her husband nor betray him, nor yet would she for one moment justify +his sin; and hence came two years of convulsive struggle, in which +sometimes, for a while, the good angel seemed to gain ground, and then +the evil one returned with sevenfold vehemence. + +Lord Byron argued his case with himself and with her with all the +sophistries of his powerful mind. He repudiated Christianity as +authority; asserted the right of every human being to follow out what +he called 'the impulses of nature.' Subsequently he introduced into one +of his dramas the reasoning by which he justified himself in incest. + +In the drama of 'Cain,' Adah, the sister and the wife of Cain, thus +addresses him:-- + + 'Cain, walk not with this spirit. + Bear with what we have borne, and love me: I + Love thee. + + _Lucifer._ More than thy mother and thy sire? + + _Adah._ I do. Is that a sin, too? + + _Lucifer._ No, not yet: + It one day will be in your children. + + _Adah._ What! + Must not my daughter love her brother Enoch? + + _Lucifer._ Not as thou lovest Cain. + + _Adah._ O my God! + Shall they not love, and bring forth things that love + Out of their love? Have they not drawn their milk + Out of this bosom? Was not he, their father, + Born of the same sole womb, in the same hour + With me? Did we not love each other, and, + In multiplying our being, multiply + Things which will love each other as we love + Them? And as I love thee, my Cain, go not + Forth with this spirit: he is not of ours. + + _Lucifer._ The sin I speak of is not of my making + And cannot be a sin in you, whate'er + It seems in those who will replace ye in + Mortality. + + _Adah._ What is the sin which is not + Sin in itself? Can circumstance make sin + Of virtue? If it doth, we are the slaves + Of'-- + +Lady Byron, though slight and almost infantine in her bodily presence, +had the soul, not only of an angelic woman, but of a strong reasoning +man. It was the writer's lot to know her at a period when she formed +the personal acquaintance of many of the very first minds of England; +but, among all with whom this experience brought her in connection, +there was none who impressed her so strongly as Lady Byron. There was +an almost supernatural power of moral divination, a grasp of the very +highest and most comprehensive things, that made her lightest opinions +singularly impressive. No doubt, this result was wrought out in a great +degree from the anguish and conflict of these two years, when, with no +one to help or counsel her but Almighty God, she wrestled and struggled +with fiends of darkness for the redemption of her husband's soul. + +She followed him through all his sophistical reasonings with a keener +reason. She besought and implored, in the name of his better nature, +and by all the glorious things that he was capable of being and doing; +and she had just power enough to convulse and shake and agonise, but +not power enough to subdue. + +One of the first of living writers, in the novel of 'Romola,' has +given, in her masterly sketch of the character of Tito, the whole +history of the conflict of a woman like Lady Byron with a nature like +that of her husband. She has described a being full of fascinations +and sweetnesses, full of generosities and of good-natured impulses; a +nature that could not bear to give pain, or to see it in others, but +entirely destitute of any firm moral principle; she shows how such a +being, merely by yielding step by step to the impulses of passion, +and disregarding the claims of truth and right, becomes involved in a +fatality of evil, in which deceit, crime, and cruelty are a necessity, +forcing him to persist in the basest ingratitude to the father who has +done all for him, and hard-hearted treachery to the high-minded wife +who has given herself to him wholly. + +There are few scenes in literature more fearfully tragic than the one +between Romola and Tito, when he finally discovers that she knows him +fully, and can be deceived by him no more. Some such hour always must +come for strong decided natures irrevocably pledged--one to the service +of good, and the other to the slavery of evil. The demoniac cried out, +'What have I to do with thee, Jesus of Nazareth? Art thou come to +torment me before the time?' The presence of all-pitying purity and +love was a torture to the soul possessed by the demon of evil. + +These two years in which Lady Byron was with all her soul struggling to +bring her husband back to his better self were a series of passionate +convulsions. + +During this time, such was the disordered and desperate state of his +worldly affairs, that there were ten executions for debt levied on +their family establishment; and it was Lady Byron's fortune each time +which settled the account. + +Toward the last, she and her husband saw less and less of each other; +and he came more and more decidedly under evil influences, and seemed +to acquire a sort of hatred of her. + +Lady Byron once said significantly to a friend who spoke of some +causeless dislike in another, 'My dear, I have known people to be hated +for no other reason than because they impersonated conscience.' + +The biographers of Lord Byron, and all his apologists, are careful to +narrate how sweet and amiable and obliging he was to everybody who +approached him; and the saying of Fletcher, his man-servant, that +'_anybody_ could do anything with my Lord, except my Lady,' has often +been quoted. + +The reason of all this will now be evident. 'My Lady' was the only one, +fully understanding the deep and dreadful secrets of his life, who had +the courage resolutely and persistently and inflexibly to plant herself +in his way, and insist upon it, that, if he went to destruction, it +should be in spite of her best efforts. + +He had tried his strength with her fully. The first attempt had been +to make her an accomplice by sophistry; by destroying her faith in +Christianity, and confusing her sense of right and wrong, to bring her +into the ranks of those convenient women who regard the marriage-tie +only as a friendly alliance to cover licence on both sides. + +When her husband described to her the Continental latitude (the +good-humoured marriage, in which complaisant couples mutually agreed +to form the cloak for each other's infidelities), and gave her to +understand that in this way alone she could have a peaceful and +friendly life with him, she answered him simply, 'I am too truly your +friend to do this.' + +When Lord Byron found that he had to do with one who would not yield, +who knew him fully, who could not be blinded and could not be deceived, +he determined to rid himself of her altogether. + +It was when the state of affairs between herself and her husband seemed +darkest and most hopeless, that the only child of this union was +born. Lord Byron's treatment of his wife during the sensitive period +that preceded the birth of this child, and during her confinement, +was marked by paroxysms of unmanly brutality, for which the only +possible charity on her part was the supposition of insanity. Moore +sheds a significant light on this period, by telling us that, about +this time, Byron was often drunk, day after day, with Sheridan. There +had been insanity in the family; and this was the plea which Lady +Byron's love put in for him. She regarded him as, if not insane, at +least so nearly approaching the boundaries of insanity as to be a +subject of forbearance and tender pity; and she loved him with that +love resembling a mother's, which good wives often feel when they have +lost all faith in their husband's principles, and all hopes of their +affections. Still, she was in heart and soul his best friend; true to +him with a truth which he himself could not shake. + +In the verses addressed to his daughter, Lord Byron speaks of her as + + 'The child of love, though born in bitterness, + And nurtured in convulsion.' + +A day or two after the birth of this child, Lord Byron came suddenly +into Lady Byron's room, and told her that her mother was dead. It was +an utter falsehood; but it was only one of the many nameless injuries +and cruelties by which he expressed his hatred of her. A short time +after her confinement, she was informed by him, in a note, that, as +soon as she was able to travel, she must go; that he could not and +would not longer have her about him; and, when her child was only five +weeks old, he carried this threat of expulsion into effect. + +Here we will insert briefly Lady Byron's own account (the only one she +ever gave to the public) of this separation. The circumstances under +which this brief story was written are affecting. + +Lord Byron was dead. The whole account between him and her was closed +for ever in this world. Moore's life had been prepared, containing +simply and solely Lord Byron's own version of their story. Moore +sent this version to Lady Byron, and requested to know if she had +any remarks to make upon it. In reply, she sent a brief statement to +him,--the first and only one that had come from her during all the +years of the separation, and which appears to have mainly for its +object the exculpation of her father and mother from the charge, made +by the poet, of being the instigators of the separation. + +In this letter, she says, with regard to their separation,-- + +'The facts are, I left London for Kirkby Mallory, the residence of my +father and mother, on the 15th of January, 1816. LORD BYRON HAD +SIGNIFIED TO ME IN WRITING, JAN. 6, HIS ABSOLUTE DESIRE THAT I SHOULD +LEAVE LONDON ON THE EARLIEST DAY THAT I COULD CONVENIENTLY FIX. It +was not safe for me to undertake the fatigue of a journey sooner than +the 15th. Previously to my departure, it had been strongly impressed +upon my mind that Lord Byron was under the influence of insanity. +This opinion was derived, in a great measure, from the communications +made me by his nearest relatives and personal attendant, who had more +opportunity than myself for observing him during the latter part of my +stay in town. It was even represented to me that he was in danger of +destroying himself. + +'_With the concurrence of his family_, I had consulted Dr. Baillie as a +friend (Jan. 8) respecting the supposed malady. On acquainting him with +the state of the case, and with Lord Byron's desire that I should leave +London, Dr. Baillie thought that my absence might be advisable as an +experiment, assuming the fact of mental derangement; for Dr. Baillie, +not having had access to Lord Byron, could not pronounce a positive +opinion on that point. He enjoined that, in correspondence with Lord +Byron, I should avoid all but light and soothing topics. Under these +impressions, I left London, determined to follow the advice given by +Dr. Baillie. Whatever might have been the conduct of Lord Byron toward +me from the time of my marriage, yet, supposing him to be in a state of +mental alienation, it was not for _me_, nor for any person of common +humanity, to manifest at that moment a sense of injury.' + +Nothing more than this letter from Lady Byron is necessary to +substantiate the fact, that she did not _leave_ her husband, but _was +driven_ from him,--driven from him that he might give himself up to +the guilty infatuation that was consuming him, without being tortured +by her imploring face, and by the silent power of her presence and her +prayers. + +For a long time before this, she had seen little of him. On the day +of her departure, she passed by the door of his room, and stopped to +caress his favourite spaniel, which was lying there; and she confessed +to a friend the weakness of feeling a willingness even to be something +as humble as that poor little creature, might she only be allowed to +remain and watch over him. She went into the room where he and the +partner of his sins were sitting together, and said, 'Byron, I come to +say good-bye,' offering, at the same time, her hand. + +Lord Byron put his hands behind him, retreated to the mantel-piece, +and, looking on the two that stood there, with a sarcastic smile said, +'When shall we three meet again?' Lady Byron answered, 'In heaven, I +trust.' And those were her last words to him on earth. + +Now, if the reader wishes to understand the real talents of Lord Byron +for deception and dissimulation, let him read, with this story in his +mind, the 'Fare thee well,' which he addressed to Lady Byron through +the printer:-- + + 'Fare thee well; and if for ever, + Still for ever fare thee well! + Even though unforgiving, never + 'Gainst thee shall my heart rebel. + + Would that breast were bared before thee + Where thy head so oft hath lain, + While that placid sleep came o'er thee + Thou canst never know again! + + Though my many faults defaced me, + Could no other arm be found + Than the one which once embraced me + To inflict a careless wound?' + +The re-action of society against him at the time of the separation from +his wife was something which he had not expected, and for which, it +appears, he was entirely unprepared. It broke up the guilty intrigue +and drove him from England. He had not courage to meet or endure it. +The world, to be sure, was very far from suspecting what the truth was: +but the tide was setting against him with such vehemence as to make +him tremble every hour lest the whole should be known; and henceforth, +it became a warfare of desperation to make his story good, no matter at +whose expense. + +He had tact enough to perceive at first that the assumption of the +pathetic and the magnanimous, and general confessions of faults, +accompanied with admissions of his wife's goodness, would be the best +policy in his case. In this mood, he thus writes to Moore:-- + +'The fault was not in my choice (unless in choosing at all); for I do +not believe (and I must say it in the very dregs of all this bitter +business) that there ever was a better, or even a brighter, a kinder, +or a more amiable, agreeable being than Lady Byron. I never had, nor +can have, any reproach to make her while with me. Where there is blame, +it belongs to myself.' + +As there must be somewhere a scapegoat to bear the sin of the affair, +Lord Byron wrote a poem called 'A Sketch,' in which he lays the blame +of stirring up strife on a friend and former governess of Lady Byron's; +but in this sketch he introduces the following just eulogy on Lady +Byron:-- + + 'Foiled was perversion by that youthful mind + Which flattery fooled not, baseness could not blind, + Deceit infect not, near contagion soil, + Indulgence weaken, nor example spoil, + Nor mastered science tempt her to look down + On humbler talents with a pitying frown, + Nor genius swell, nor beauty render vain, + Nor envy ruffle to retaliate pain, + Nor fortune change, pride raise, nor passion bow, + Nor virtue teach austerity,--till now; + Serenely purest of her sex that live, + But wanting one sweet weakness,--to forgive; + Too shocked at faults her soul can never know, + She deemed that all could be like her below: + Foe to all vice, yet hardly Virtue's friend; + For Virtue pardons those she would amend.' + +In leaving England, Lord Byron first went to Switzerland, where he +conceived and in part wrote out the tragedy of 'Manfred.' Moore speaks +of his domestic misfortunes, and the sufferings which he underwent at +this time, as having influence in stimulating his genius, so that he +was enabled to write with a greater power. + +Anybody who reads the tragedy of 'Manfred' with this story in his mind +will see that it is true. + +The hero is represented as a gloomy misanthrope, dwelling with +impenitent remorse on the memory of an incestuous passion which has +been the destruction of his sister for this life and the life to come, +but which, to the very last gasp, he despairingly refuses to repent of, +even while he sees the fiends of darkness rising to take possession +of his departing soul. That Byron knew his own guilt well, and judged +himself severely, may be gathered from passages in this poem, which are +as powerful as human language can be made; for instance this part of +the 'incantation,' which Moore says was written at this time:-- + + 'Though thy slumber may be deep, + Yet thy spirit shall not sleep: + There are shades which will not vanish; + There are thoughts thou canst not banish. + By a power to thee unknown, + Thou canst never be alone: + Thou art wrapt as with a shroud; + Thou art gathered in a cloud; + And for ever shalt thou dwell + In the spirit of this spell. + + * * * * * + + From thy false tears I did distil + An essence which had strength to kill; + From thy own heart I then did wring + The black blood in its blackest spring; + From thy own smile I snatched the snake, + For there it coiled as in a brake; + From thy own lips I drew the charm + Which gave all these their chiefest harm + In proving every poison known, + I found the strongest was thine own. + + By thy cold breast and serpent smile, + By thy unfathomed gulfs of guile, + By that most seeming virtuous eye, + By thy shut soul's hypocrisy, + By the perfection of thine art + Which passed for human thine own heart, + By thy delight in other's pain, + And by thy brotherhood of Cain, + I call upon thee, and compel + Thyself to be thy proper hell!' + +Again: he represents Manfred as saying to the old abbot, who seeks to +bring him to repentance,-- + + Old man, there is no power in holy men, + Nor charm in prayer, nor purifying form + Of penitence, nor outward look, nor fast, + Nor agony, nor greater than all these, + The innate tortures of that deep despair, + Which is remorse without the fear of hell, + But, all in all sufficient to itself, + Would make a hell of heaven, can exorcise + From out the unbounded spirit the quick sense + Of its own sins, wrongs, sufferance, and revenge + Upon itself: there is no future pang + Can deal that justice on the self-condemned + He deals on his own soul.' + +And when the abbot tells him, + + 'All this is well; + For this will pass away, and be succeeded + By an auspicious hope, which shall look up + With calm assurance to that blessed place + Which all who seek may win, whatever be + Their earthly errors,' + +He answers, + + 'It is too late.' + +Then the old abbot soliloquises:-- + + 'This should have been a noble creature: he + Hath all the energy which would have made + A goodly frame of glorious elements, + Had they been wisely mingled; as it is, + It is an awful chaos,--light and darkness, + And mind and dust, and passions and pure thoughts, + Mixed, and contending without end or order.' + +The world can easily see, in Moore's Biography, what, after this, was +the course of Lord Byron's life; how he went from shame to shame, and +dishonour to dishonour, and used the fortune which his wife brought him +in the manner described in those private letters which his biographer +was left to print. Moore, indeed, says Byron had made the resolution +not to touch his lady's fortune; but adds, that it required more +self-command than he possessed to carry out so honourable a purpose. + +Lady Byron made but one condition with him. She had him in her power; +and she exacted that the unhappy partner of his sins should not follow +him out of England, and that the ruinous intrigue should be given +up. Her inflexibility on this point kept up that enmity which was +constantly expressing itself in some publication or other, and which +drew her and her private relations with him before the public. + +The story of what Lady Byron did with the portion of her fortune which +was reserved to her is a record of noble and skilfully administered +charities. Pitiful and wise and strong, there was no form of human +suffering or sorrow that did not find with her refuge and help. She +gave not only systematically, but also impulsively. + +Miss Martineau claims for her the honour of having first invented +practical schools, in which the children of the poor were turned +into agriculturists, artizans, seamstresses, and good wives for poor +men. While she managed with admirable skill and economy permanent +institutions of this sort, she was always ready to relieve suffering +in any form. The fugitive slaves William and Ellen Crafts, escaping to +England, were fostered by her protecting care. + +In many cases where there was distress or anxiety from poverty among +those too self-respecting to make their sufferings known, the delicate +hand of Lady Byron ministered to the want with a consideration which +spared the most refined feelings. + +As a mother, her course was embarrassed by peculiar trials. The +daughter inherited from the father not only brilliant talents, but a +restlessness and morbid sensibility which might be too surely traced +to the storms and agitations of the period in which she was born. It +was necessary to bring her up in ignorance of the true history of +her mother's life; and the consequence was that she could not fully +understand that mother. + +During her early girlhood, her career was a source of more anxiety than +of comfort. She married a man of fashion, ran a brilliant course as a +gay woman of fashion, and died early of a lingering and painful disease. + +In the silence and shaded retirement of the sick-room, the daughter +came wholly back to her mother's arms and heart; and it was on that +mother's bosom that she leaned as she went down into the dark valley. +It was that mother who placed her weak and dying hand in that of her +Almighty Saviour. + +To the children left by her daughter, she ministered with the +faithfulness of a guardian angel; and it is owing to her influence that +those who yet remain are among the best and noblest of mankind. + +The person whose relations with Byron had been so disastrous, also, in +the latter years of her life, felt Lady Byron's loving and ennobling +influences, and, in her last sickness and dying hours, looked to her +for consolation and help. + +There was an unfortunate child of sin, born with the curse upon +her, over whose wayward nature Lady Byron watched with a mother's +tenderness. She was the one who could have patience when the patience +of every one else failed; and though her task was a difficult one, from +the strange abnormal propensities to evil in the object of her cares, +yet Lady Byron never faltered, and never gave over, till death took +the responsibility from her hands. + +During all this trial, strange to say, her belief that the good in Lord +Byron would finally conquer was unshaken. + +To a friend who said to her, 'Oh! how could you love him?' she answered +briefly, 'My dear, there was the angel in him.' It is in us all. + +It was in this angel that she had faith. It was for the deliverance +of this angel from degradation and shame and sin that she unceasingly +prayed. She read every work that Byron wrote--read it with a deeper +knowledge than any human being but herself could possess. The ribaldry +and the obscenity and the insults with which he strove to make her +ridiculous in the world fell at her pitying feet unheeded. + +When he broke away from all this unworthy life to devote himself to a +manly enterprise for the redemption of Greece, she thought that she saw +the beginning of an answer to her prayers. Even although one of his +latest acts concerning her was to repeat to Lady Blessington the false +accusation which made Lady Byron the author of all his errors, she +still had hopes from the one step taken in the right direction. + +In the midst of these hopes came the news of his sudden death. On his +death-bed, it is well-known that he called his confidential English +servant to him, and said to him, 'Go to my sister; tell her--Go to Lady +Byron,--you will see her,--and say'-- + +Here followed twenty minutes of indistinct mutterings, in which the +names of his wife, daughter, and sister, frequently occurred. He then +said, 'Now I have told you all.' + +'My lord,' replied Fletcher, 'I have not understood a word your +lordship has been saying.' + +'Not understand me!' exclaimed Lord Byron with a look of the utmost +distress: 'what a pity! Then it is too late,--all is over!' He +afterwards, says Moore, tried to utter a few words, of which none were +intelligible except 'My sister--my child.' + +When Fletcher returned to London, Lady Byron sent for him, and walked +the room in convulsive struggles to repress her tears and sobs, while +she over and over again strove to elicit something from him which +should enlighten her upon what that last message had been; but in vain: +the gates of eternity were shut in her face, and not a word had passed +to tell her if he had repented. + +For all that, Lady Byron never doubted his salvation. Ever before her, +during the few remaining years of her widowhood, was the image of her +husband, purified and ennobled, with the shadows of earth for ever +dissipated, the stains of sin for ever removed; 'the angel in him,' as +she expressed it, 'made perfect, according to its divine ideal.' + +Never has more divine strength of faith and love existed in woman. +Out of the depths of her own loving and merciful nature, she gained +such views of the divine love and mercy as made all hopes possible. +There was no soul of whose future Lady Byron despaired,--such was her +boundless faith in the redeeming power of love. + +After Byron's death, the life of this delicate creature--so frail in +body that she seemed always hovering on the brink of the eternal world, +yet so strong in spirit, and so unceasing in her various ministries of +mercy--was a miracle of mingled weakness and strength. + +To talk with her seemed to the writer of this sketch the nearest +possible approach to talking with one of the spirits of the just made +perfect. + +She was gentle, artless; approachable as a little child; with ready, +outflowing sympathy for the cares and sorrows and interests of all who +approached her; with a _naïve_ and gentle playfulness, that adorned, +without hiding, the breadth and strength of her mind; and, above all, +with a clear, divining, moral discrimination; never mistaking wrong +for right in the slightest shade, yet with a mercifulness that made +allowance for every weakness, and pitied every sin. + +There was so much of Christ in her, that to have seen her seemed to be +to have drawn near to heaven. She was one of those few whom absence +cannot estrange from friends; whose mere presence in this world seems +always a help to every generous thought, a strength to every good +purpose, a comfort in every sorrow. + +Living so near the confines of the spiritual world, she seemed already +to see into it: hence the words of comfort which she addressed to a +friend who had lost a son:-- + +'Dear friend, remember, as long as our loved ones are in _God's_ world, +they are in _ours_.' + + * * * * * + +It has been thought by some friends who have read the proof-sheets +of the foregoing that the author should give more specifically her +authority for these statements. + +The circumstances which led the writer to England at a certain time +originated a friendship and correspondence with Lady Byron, which was +always regarded as one of the greatest acquisitions of that visit. + +On the occasion of a second visit to England, in 1856, the writer +received a note from Lady Byron, indicating that she wished to have +some private, confidential conversation upon important subjects, +and inviting her, for that purpose, to spend a day with her at her +country-seat near London. + +The writer went and spent a day with Lady Byron alone; and the object +of the invitation was explained to her. Lady Byron was in such a state +of health, that her physicians had warned her that she had very little +time to live. She was engaged in those duties and retrospections which +every thoughtful person finds necessary, when coming deliberately, and +with open eyes, to the boundaries of this mortal life. + +At that time, there was a cheap edition of Byron's works in +contemplation, intended to bring his writings into circulation among +the masses; and the pathos arising from the story of his domestic +misfortunes was one great means relied on for giving it currency. + +Under these circumstances, some of Lady Byron's friends had proposed +the question to her, _whether she had not a responsibility to society +for the truth_; whether _she did right_ to allow these writings to gain +influence over the popular mind by giving a silent consent to what she +knew to be utter falsehoods. + +Lady Byron's whole life had been passed in the most heroic +self-abnegation and self-sacrifice: and she had now to consider whether +one more act of self-denial was not required of her before leaving this +world; namely, to declare the absolute truth, no matter at what expense +to her own feelings. + +For this reason, it was her desire to recount the whole history to a +person of another country, and entirely out of the sphere of personal +and local feelings which might be supposed to influence those in the +country and station in life where the events really happened, in order +that she might be helped by such a person's views in making up an +opinion as to her own duty. + +The interview had almost the solemnity of a death-bed avowal. Lady +Byron stated the facts which have been embodied in this article, and +gave to the writer a paper containing a brief memorandum of the whole, +with the dates affixed. + +We have already spoken of that singular sense of the reality of the +spiritual world which seemed to encompass Lady Byron during the last +part of her life, and which made her words and actions seem more like +those of a blessed being detached from earth than of an ordinary +mortal. All her modes of looking at things, all her motives of action, +all her involuntary exhibitions of emotion, were so high above any +common level, and so entirely regulated by the most unworldly causes, +that it would seem difficult to make the ordinary world understand +exactly how the thing seemed to lie before her mind. What impressed +the writer more strongly than anything else was Lady Byron's perfect +conviction that her husband was now a redeemed spirit; that he looked +back with pain and shame and regret on all that was unworthy in his +past life; and that, if he could speak or could act in the case, he +would desire to prevent the further circulation of base falsehoods, +and of seductive poetry, which had been made the vehicle of morbid and +unworthy passions. + +Lady Byron's experience had led her to apply the powers of her strong +philosophical mind to the study of mental pathology: and she had become +satisfied that the solution of the painful problem which first occurred +to her as a young wife, was, after all, the true one; namely, that +Lord Byron had been one of those unfortunately constituted persons in +whom the balance of nature is so critically hung, that it is always in +danger of dipping towards insanity; and that, in certain periods of his +life, he was so far under the influence of mental disorder as not to be +fully responsible for his actions. + +She went over with a brief and clear analysis the history of his +whole life as she had thought it out during the lonely musings of her +widowhood. She dwelt on the ancestral causes that gave him a nature +of exceptional and dangerous susceptibility. She went through the +mismanagements of his childhood, the history of his school-days, the +influence of the ordinary school-course of classical reading on such +a mind as his. She sketched boldly and clearly the internal life of +the young men of the time, as she, with her purer eyes, had looked +through it; and showed how habits, which, with less susceptible fibre, +and coarser strength of nature, were tolerable for his companions, +were deadly to him, unhinging his nervous system, and intensifying the +dangers of ancestral proclivities. Lady Byron expressed the feeling +too, that the Calvinistic theology, as heard in Scotland, had proved +in his case, as it often does in certain minds, a subtle poison. He +never could either disbelieve or become reconciled to it; and the sore +problems it proposes embittered his spirit against Christianity. + +'The worst of it is, I _do believe_,' he would often say with violence, +when he had been employing all his powers of reason, wit, and ridicule +upon these subjects. + +Through all this sorrowful history was to be seen, not the care of a +slandered woman to make her story good, but the pathetic anxiety of +a mother, who treasures every particle of hope, every intimation of +good, in the son whom she cannot cease to love. With indescribable +resignation, she dwelt on those last hours, those words addressed to +her, never to be understood till repeated in eternity. + +But all this she looked upon as for ever past; believing, that, with +the dropping of the earthly life, these morbid impulses and influences +ceased, and that higher nature which he often so beautifully expressed +in his poems became the triumphant one. + +While speaking on this subject, her pale ethereal face became luminous +with a heavenly radiance; there was something so sublime in her belief +in the victory of love over evil, that faith with her seemed to have +become sight. She seemed so clearly to perceive the divine ideal of +the man she had loved, and for whose salvation she had been called to +suffer and labour and pray, that all memories of his past unworthiness +fell away, and were lost. + +Her love was never the doting fondness of weak women; it was the +appreciative and discriminating love by which a higher nature +recognised god-like capabilities under all the dust and defilement +of misuse and passion: and she never doubted that the love which in +her was so strong, that no injury or insult could shake it, was yet +stronger in the God who made her capable of such a devotion, and that +in him it was accompanied by power to subdue all things to itself. + +The writer was so impressed and excited by the whole scene and recital, +that she begged for two or three days to deliberate before forming any +opinion. She took the memorandum with her, returned to London, and gave +a day or two to the consideration of the subject. The decision which +she made was chiefly influenced by her reverence and affection for Lady +Byron. She seemed so frail, she had suffered so much, she stood at +such a height above the comprehension of the coarse and common world, +that the author had a feeling that it would almost be like violating a +shrine to ask her to come forth from the sanctuary of a silence where +she had so long abode, and plead her cause. She wrote to Lady Byron, +that while this act of justice did seem to be called for, and to be in +some respects most desirable, yet, as it would involve so much that was +painful to her, the writer considered that Lady Byron would be entirely +justifiable in leaving the truth to be disclosed after her death; and +recommended that all the facts necessary should be put in the hands of +some person, to be so published. + +Years passed on. Lady Byron lingered four years after this interview to +the wonder of her physicians and all her friends. + +After Lady Byron's death, the writer looked anxiously, hoping to see a +Memoir of the person whom she considered the most remarkable woman that +England has produced in the century. No such Memoir has appeared on the +part of her friends; and the mistress of Lord Byron has the ear of the +public, and is sowing far and wide unworthy slanders, which are eagerly +gathered up and read by an undiscriminating community. + +There may be family reasons in England which prevent Lady Byron's +friends from speaking. But Lady Byron has an American name and an +American existence; and reverence for pure womanhood is, we think, a +national characteristic of the American; and, so far as this country +is concerned, we feel that the public should have this refutation of +the slanders of the Countess Guiccioli's book. + + +LORD LINDSAY'S LETTER TO THE LONDON 'TIMES.' + +TO THE EDITOR OF 'THE TIMES.' + +Sir,--I have waited in expectation of a categorical denial of the +horrible charge brought by Mrs. Beecher Stowe against Lord Byron and +his sister on the alleged authority of the late Lady Byron. Such denial +has been only indirectly given by the letter of Messrs. Wharton and +Fords in your impression of yesterday. That letter is sufficient to +prove that Lady Byron never contemplated the use made of her name, and +that her descendants and representatives disclaim any countenance of +Mrs. B. Stowe's article; but it does not specifically meet Mrs. Stowe's +allegation, that Lady Byron, in conversing with her thirteen years ago, +affirmed the charge now before us. It remains open, therefore, to a +scandal-loving world, to credit the calumny through the advantage of +this flaw, involuntary, I believe, in the answer produced against it. +My object in addressing you is to supply that deficiency by proving +that what is now stated on Lady Byron's supposed authority is at +variance, in all respects, with what she stated immediately after the +separation, when everything was fresh in her memory in relation to +the time during which, according to Mrs. B. Stowe, she believed that +Byron and his sister were living together in guilt. I publish this +evidence with reluctance, but in obedience to that higher obligation +of justice to the voiceless and defenceless dead which bids me break +through a reserve that otherwise I should have held sacred. The Lady +Byron of 1818 would, I am certain, have sanctioned my doing so, had +she foreseen the present unparalleled occasion, and the bar that the +conditions of her will present (as I infer from Messrs. Wharton and +Fords' letter) against any fuller communication. Calumnies such as the +present sink deep and with rapidity into the public mind, and are not +easily eradicated. The fame of one of our greatest poets, and that +of the kindest and truest and most constant friend that Byron ever +had, is at stake; and it will not do to wait for revelations from the +fountain-head, which are not promised, and possibly may never reach us. + +The late Lady Anne Barnard, who died in 1825, a contemporary and friend +of Burke, Windham, Dundas, and a host of the wise and good of that +generation, and remembered in letters as the authoress of 'Auld Robin +Gray,' had known the late Lady Byron from infancy, and took a warm +interest in her; holding Lord Byron in corresponding repugnance, not +to say prejudice, in consequence of what she believed to be his harsh +and cruel treatment of her young friend. I transcribe the following +passages, and a letter from Lady Byron herself (written in 1818) from +_ricordi_, or private family memoirs, in Lady Anne's autograph, now +before me. I include the letter, because, although treating only in +general terms of the matter and causes of the separation, it affords +collateral evidence bearing strictly upon the point of the credibility +of the charge now in question:-- + + * * * * * + +'The separation of Lord and Lady Byron astonished the world, which +believed him a reformed man as to his habits, and a becalmed man as to +his remorses. He had written nothing that appeared after his marriage +till the famous "Fare thee well," which had the power of compelling +those to pity the writer who were not well aware that he was not the +unhappy person he affected to be. Lady Byron's misery was whispered +soon after her marriage and his ill usage, but no word transpired, +no sign escaped, from her. She gave birth, shortly, to a daughter; +and when she went, as soon as she was recovered, on a visit to her +father's, taking her little Ada with her, no one knew that it was to +return to her lord no more. At that period, a severe fit of illness had +confined me to bed for two months. I heard of Lady Byron's distress; +of the pains he took to give a harsh impression of her character +to the world. I wrote to her, and entreated her to come and let me +see and hear her, if she conceived my sympathy or counsel could be +any comfort to her. She came; but what a tale was unfolded by this +interesting young creature, who had so fondly hoped to have made a +young man of genius and romance (as she supposed) happy! They had not +been an hour in the carriage which conveyed them from the church, when, +breaking into a malignant sneer, "Oh! what a dupe you have been to your +imagination! How is it possible a woman of your sense could form the +wild hope of reforming _me_? Many are the tears you will have to shed +ere that plan is accomplished. It is enough for me that you are my wife +for me to hate you! If you were the wife of any other man, I own you +might have charms," &c. I who listened was astonished. "How could you +go on after this," said I, "my dear? Why did you not return to your +father's?" "Because I had not a conception he was in earnest; because I +reckoned it a bad jest, and told him so,--that my opinions of him were +very different from his of himself, otherwise he would not find me by +his side. He laughed it over when he saw me appear hurt: and I forgot +what had passed, till forced to remember it. I believe he was pleased +with me, too, for a little while. I suppose it had escaped his memory +that I was his wife." But she described the happiness they enjoyed to +have been unequal and perturbed. Her situation, in a short time, might +have entitled her to some tenderness; but she made no claim on him for +any. He sometimes reproached her for the motives that had induced her +to marry him: all was "vanity, the vanity of Miss Milbanke carrying the +point of reforming Lord Byron! He always knew _her_ inducements; her +pride shut her eyes to _his_: _he_ wished to build up his character +and his fortunes; both were somewhat deranged: she had a high name, +and would have a fortune worth his attention,--let her look to that +for his motives!"--"O Byron, Byron!" she said, "how you desolate me!" +He would then accuse himself of being mad, and throw himself on the +ground in a frenzy, which she believed was affected to conceal the +coldness and malignity of his heart,--an affectation which at that +time never failed to meet with the tenderest commiseration. I could +find by some implications, not followed up by me, lest she might have +condemned herself afterwards for her involuntary disclosures, that he +soon attempted to corrupt her principles, both with respect to her own +conduct and her latitude for his. She saw the precipice on which she +stood, and kept his sister with her as much as possible. He returned +in the evenings from the haunts of vice, where he made her understand +he had been, with manners so profligate! "O the wretch!" said I. "And +had he no moments of remorse?" "Sometimes he appeared to have them. +One night, coming home from one of his lawless parties, he saw me so +indignantly collected, and bearing all with such a determined calmness, +that a rush of remorse seemed to come over him. He called himself a +monster, though his sister was present, and threw himself in agony at +my feet. I could not--no--I could not forgive him such injuries. He +had lost me for ever! Astonished at the return of virtue, my tears, I +believe, flowed over his face, and I said, 'Byron, all is forgotten: +never, never shall you hear of it more!' He started up, and, folding +his arms while he looked at me, burst into laughter. 'What do you +mean?' said I. 'Only a philosophical experiment; that's all,' said +he. 'I wished to ascertain the value of your resolutions.'" I need +not say more of this prince of duplicity, except that varied were his +methods of rendering her wretched, even to the last. When her lovely +little child was born, and it was laid beside its mother on the bed, +and he was informed he might see his daughter, after gazing at it with +an exulting smile, this was the ejaculation that broke from him: "Oh, +what an implement of torture have I acquired in you!" Such he rendered +it by his eyes and manner, keeping her in a perpetual alarm for its +safety when in his presence. All this reads madder than I believe he +was: but she had not then made up her mind to disbelieve his pretended +insanity, and conceived it best to intrust her secret with the +excellent Dr. Baillie; telling him all that seemed to regard the state +of her husband's mind, and letting his advice regulate her conduct. +Baillie doubted of his derangement; but, as he did not reckon his own +opinion infallible, he wished her to take precautions as if her husband +were so. He recommended her going to the country, but to give him no +suspicion of her intentions of remaining there, and, for a short time, +to show no coldness in her letters, till she could better ascertain his +state. She went, regretting, as she told me, to wear any semblance but +the truth. A short time disclosed the story to the world. He acted the +part of a man driven to despair by her inflexible resentment and by the +arts of a governess (once a servant in the family) who hated him. "I +will give you," proceeds Lady Anne, "a few paragraphs transcribed from +one of Lady Byron's own letters to me. It is sorrowful to think, that, +in a very little time, this young and amiable creature, wise, patient, +and feeling, will have her character mistaken by every one who reads +Byron's works. To rescue her from this, I preserved her letters; and, +when she afterwards expressed a fear that any thing of her writings +should ever fall into hands to injure him (I suppose she meant by +publication), I safely assured her that it never should. But here this +letter shall be placed, a sacred record in her favour, unknown to +herself":-- + + '"I am a very incompetent judge of the impression which the last canto + of 'Childe Harold' may produce on the minds of indifferent readers. + It contains the usual trace of a conscience restlessly awake; though + his object has been too long to aggravate its burden, as if it could + thus be oppressed into eternal stupor. I will hope, as you do, that it + survives for his ultimate good. It was the acuteness of his remorse, + impenitent in its character, which so long seemed to demand from my + compassion to spare every resemblance of reproach, every look of + grief, which might have said to his conscience, 'You have made me + wretched.' I am decidedly of opinion that he is responsible. He has + wished to be thought partially deranged, or on the brink of it, to + perplex observers, and prevent them from tracing effects to their + real causes through all the intricacies of his conduct. I was, as + I told you, at one time the dupe of his acted insanity, and clung + to the former delusions in regard to the motives that concerned me + personally, till the whole system was laid bare. He is the absolute + monarch of words, and uses them, as Bonaparte did lives, for conquest, + without more regard to their intrinsic value; considering them only + as ciphers, which must derive all their import from the situation in + which he places them, and the ends to which he adapts them with such + consummate skill. Why, then, you will say, does he not employ them to + give a better colour to his own character? Because he is too good an + actor to over-act, or to assume a moral garb which it would be easy + to strip off. In regard to his poetry, egotism is the vital principle + of his imagination, which it is difficult for him to kindle on any + subject with which his own character and interests are not identified: + but by the introduction of fictitious incidents, by change of scene + or time, he has enveloped his poetical disclosures in a system + impenetrable except to a very few; and his constant desire of creating + a sensation makes him not averse to be the object of wonder and + curiosity, even though accompanied by some dark and vague suspicions. + Nothing has contributed more to the misunderstanding of his real + character than the lonely grandeur in which he shrouds it, and his + affectation of being above mankind, when he exists almost in their + voice. The romance of his sentiments is another feature of this mask + of state. I know no one more habitually destitute of that enthusiasm + he so beautifully expresses, and to which he can work up his fancy + chiefly by contagion. I had heard he was the best of brothers, the + most generous of friends; and I thought such feelings only required to + be warmed and cherished into more diffusive benevolence. Though these + opinions are eradicated, and could never return but with the decay + of my memory, you will not wonder if there are still moments when + the association of feelings which arose from them soften and sadden + my thoughts. But I have not thanked you, dearest Lady Anne, for your + kindness in regard to a principal object,--that of rectifying false + impressions. I trust you understand my wishes, which never were to + injure Lord Byron in any way: for, though he would not suffer me to + remain his wife, he cannot prevent me from continuing his friend; and + it was from considering myself as such that I silenced the accusations + by which my own conduct might have been more fully justified. It is + not necessary to speak ill of his heart in general: it is sufficient + that to me it was hard and impenetrable; that my own must have been + broken before his could have been touched. I would rather represent + this as _my_ misfortune than as _his_ guilt; but surely that + misfortune is not to be made my crime! Such are my feelings: you will + judge how to act. His allusions to me in 'Childe Harold' are cruel + and cold, but with such a semblance as to make _me_ appear so, and to + attract all sympathy to himself. It is said in this poem that hatred + of him will be taught as a lesson to his child. I might appeal to all + who have ever heard me speak of him, and still more to my own heart, + to witness that there has been no moment when I have remembered injury + otherwise than affectionately and sorrowfully. It is not my duty to + give way to hopeless and wholly unrequited affection; but, so long + as I live, my chief struggle will probably be not to remember him + too kindly. I do not seek the sympathy of the world; but I wish to be + known by those whoso opinion is valuable, and whose kindness is dear + to me. Among such, my dear Lady Anne, you will ever be remembered by + your truly affectionate, + + '"A. BYRON."' + +It is the province of your readers, and of the world at large, to +judge between the two testimonies now before them,--Lady Byron's in +1816 and 1818, and that put forward in 1869 by Mrs. B. Stowe, as +communicated by Lady Byron thirteen years ago. In the face of the +evidence now given, positive, negative, and circumstantial, there +can be but two alternatives in the case: either Mrs. B. Stowe must +have entirely misunderstood Lady Byron, and been thus led into error +and misstatement, or we must conclude that, under the pressure of a +lifelong and secret sorrow, Lady Byron's mind had become clouded with +an hallucination in respect of the particular point in question. + +Tho reader will admire the noble but severe character displayed +in Lady Byron's letter; but those who keep in view what her first +impressions were, as above recorded, may probably place a more lenient +interpretation than hers upon some of the incidents alleged to Byron's +discredit. I shall conclude with some remarks upon his character, +written shortly after his death by a wise, virtuous, and charitable +judge, the late Sir Walter Scott, likewise in a letter to Lady Anne +Barnard:-- + +'Fletcher's account of poor Byron is extremely interesting. I +had always a strong attachment to that unfortunate though most +richly-gifted man, because I thought I saw that his virtues (and he had +many) were his own; and his eccentricities the result of an irritable +temperament, which sometimes approached nearly to mental disease. Those +who are gifted with strong nerves, a regular temper, and habitual +self-command, are not, perhaps, aware how much of what they may think +virtue they owe to constitution; and such are but too severe judges of +men like Byron, whose mind, like a day of alternate storm and sunshine, +is all dark shades and stray gleams of light, instead of the twilight +gray which illuminates happier though less distinguished mortals. I +always thought, that, when a moral proposition was placed plainly +before Lord Byron, his mind yielded a pleased and willing assent to +it; but, if there was any side view given in the way of raillery or +otherwise, he was willing enough to evade conviction.... It augurs +ill for the cause of Greece that this master-spirit should have been +withdrawn from their assistance just as he was obtaining a complete +ascendency over their counsels. I have seen several letters from the +Ionian Islands, all of which unite in speaking in the highest praise of +the wisdom and temperance of his counsels, and the ascendency he was +obtaining over the turbulent and ferocious chiefs of the insurgents. I +have some verses written by him on his last birthday: they breathe a +spirit of affection towards his wife, and a desire of dying in battle, +which seems like an anticipation of his approaching fate.' + + I remain, sir, your obedient servant, + + LINDSAY, + + DUNECHT, Sept. 3. + + +DR. FORBES WINSLOW'S LETTER TO THE LONDON 'TIMES.' + +TO THE EDITOR. + +SIR,--Your paper of the 4th of September, containing an able +and deeply interesting 'Vindication of Lord Byron,' has followed me +to this place. With the general details of the 'True Story' (as it is +termed) of Lady Byron's separation from her husband, as recorded in +'Macmillan's Magazine,' I have no desire or intention to grapple. It +is only with the hypothesis of insanity, as suggested by the clever +writer of the 'Vindication' to account for Lady Byron's sad revelations +to Mrs. Beecher Stowe, with which I propose to deal. I do not believe +that the mooted theory of mental aberration can, in this case, be for a +moment maintained. If Lady Byron's statement of facts to Mrs. B. Stowe +is to be viewed as the creation of a distempered fancy, a delusion or +hallucination of an insane mind, what part of the narrative are we to +draw the boundary-line between fact and delusion, sanity and insanity? +Where are we to fix the _point d'appui_ of the lunacy? Again: is the +alleged 'hallucination' to be considered as strictly confined to the +idea that Lord Byron had committed the frightful sin of incest? or is +the whole of the 'True Story' of her married life, as reproduced with +such terrible minuteness by Mrs. Beecher Stowe, to be viewed as the +delusion of a disordered fancy? If Lady Byron was the subject of an +'hallucination' with regard to her husband, I think it not unreasonable +to conclude that the mental alienation existed on the day of her +marriage. If this proposition be accepted, the natural inference will +be, that the details of the conversation which Lady Byron represents to +have occurred between herself and Lord Byron as soon as they entered +the carriage never took place. Lord Byron is said to have remarked +to Lady Byron, 'You might have prevented this (or words to this +effect): you will now find that you have married a devil.' Is this +alleged conversation to be viewed as _fact_, or _fiction_? evidence of +_sanity_, or _insanity_? Is the revelation which Lord Byron is said to +have made to his wife of his 'incestuous passion' another delusion, +having no foundation except in his wife's disordered imagination? Are +his alleged attempts to justify to Lady Byron's mind the _morale_ of +the plea of 'Continental latitude--the good-humoured marriage, in which +complaisant couples mutually agree to form the cloak for each other's +infidelities,'--another morbid perversion of her imagination? Did this +conversation ever take place? It will be difficult to separate one +part of the 'True Story' from another, and maintain that this portion +indicates insanity, and that portion represents sanity. If we accept +the hypothesis of hallucination, we are bound to view the whole of Lady +Byron's conversations with Mrs. B. Stowe, and the written statement +laid before her, as the wild and incoherent representations of a +lunatic. On the day when Lady Byron parted from her husband, did she +enter his private room, and find him with the 'object of his guilty +passion?' and did he say, as they parted, 'When shall we three meet +again?' Is this to be considered as an actual occurrence, or as another +form of hallucination? It is quite inconsistent with the theory of Lady +Byron's insanity to imagine that her delusion was restricted to the +idea of his having committed 'incest.' In common fairness, we are bound +to view the aggregate mental phenomena which she exhibited from the +day of the marriage to their final separation and her death. No person +practically acquainted with the true characteristics of insanity would +affirm, that, had this idea of 'incest' been an insane hallucination, +Lady Byron could, from the lengthened period which intervened between +her unhappy marriage and death, have refrained from exhibiting her +mental alienation, not only to her legal advisers and trustees, but to +others, exacting no pledge of secrecy from them as to her disordered +impressions. Lunatics do for a time, and for some special purpose, most +cunningly conceal their delusions; but they have not the capacity to +struggle for thirty-six years with a frightful hallucination, similar +to the one Lady Byron is alleged to have had, without the insane state +of mind becoming obvious to those with whom they are daily associating. +Neither is it consistent with experience to suppose that, if Lady Byron +had been a monomaniac, her state of disordered understanding would have +been restricted to one hallucination. Her diseased brain, affecting the +normal action of thought, would, in all probability, have manifested +other symptoms besides those referred to of aberration of intellect. + +During the last thirty years, I have not met with a case of insanity +(assuming the hypothesis of hallucination) at all parallel with that +of Lady Byron's. In my experience, it is unique. I never saw a patient +with such a delusion. If it should be established, by the statements of +those who are the depositors of the secret (and they are now bound, in +vindication of Lord Byron's memory, to deny, if they have the power of +doing so, this most frightful accusation), that the idea of incest did +unhappily cross Lady Byron's mind prior to her finally leaving him, it +no doubt arose from a most inaccurate knowledge of facts and perfectly +unjustifiable data, and was not, in the right psychological acceptation +of the phrase, an insane hallucination. + + Sir, I remain your obedient servant, + + FORBES WINSLOW, M.D. + +ZARINGERHOF, FREIBURG-EN-BREISGAU, Sept. 8, 1869. + + +EXTRACT FROM LORD BYRON'S EXPUNGED LETTER. + +TO MR. MURRAY. + + 'BOLOGNA, June 7, 1819. + +... 'Before I left Venice, I had returned to you your late, and Mr. +Hobhouse's sheets of "Juan." Don't wait for further answers from +me, but address yours to Venice as usual. I know nothing of my own +movements. I may return there in a few days, or not for some time: +all this depends on circumstances. I left Mr. Hoppner very well. My +daughter Allegra is well too, and is growing pretty: her hair is +growing darker, and her eyes are blue. Her temper and her ways, Mr. +Hoppner says, are like mine, as well as her features: she will make, in +that case, a manageable young lady. + +'I have never seen anything of Ada, the little Electra of my Mycenæ.... +But there will come a day of reckoning, even if I should not live +to see it. I have at least seen ---- shivered, who was one of my +assassins. When that man was doing his worst to uproot my whole +family,--tree, branch, and blossoms; when, after taking my retainer, +he went over to them; when he was bringing desolation on my hearth, +and destruction on my household gods,--did he think that, in less +than three years, a natural event, a severe domestic, but an expected +and common calamity, would lay his carcass in a cross-road, or stamp +his name in a verdict of lunacy? Did he (who in his sexagenary ...) +reflect or consider what my feelings must have been when wife and child +and sister, and name and fame and country, were to be my sacrifice on +his legal altar?--and this at a moment when my health was declining, +my fortune embarrassed, and my mind had been shaken by many kinds of +disappointment? while I was yet young, and might have reformed what +might be wrong in my conduct, and retrieved what was perplexing in +my affairs? But he is in his grave, and--What a long letter I have +scribbled!'... + + * * * * * + +In order that the reader may measure the change of moral tone with +regard to Lord Byron, wrought by the constant efforts of himself and +his party, we give the two following extracts from 'Blackwood.' + +The first is 'Blackwood' in 1819, just after the publication of 'Don +Juan': the second is 'Blackwood' in 1825. + +'In the composition of this work, there is, unquestionably, a more +thorough and intense infusion of genius and vice, power and profligacy, +than in any poem which had ever before been written in the English, +or, indeed, in any other modern language. Had the wickedness been less +inextricably mingled with the beauty and the grace and the strength of +a most inimitable and incomprehensible Muse, our task would have been +easy. 'Don Juan' is by far the most admirable specimen of the mixture +of ease, strength, gaiety, and seriousness, extant in the whole body +of English poetry: the author has devoted his powers to the worst of +purposes and passions; and it increases his guilt and our sorrow that +he has devoted them entire. + +'The moral strain of the whole poem is pitched in the lowest key. Love, +honour, patriotism, religion, are mentioned only to be scoffed at, as +if their sole resting-place were, or ought to be, in the bosoms of +fools. It appears, in short, as if this miserable man, having exhausted +every species of sensual gratification, having drained the cup of sin +even to its bitterest dregs, were resolved to show us that he is no +longer a human being, even in his frailties, but a cool, unconcerned +fiend, laughing with a detestable glee over the whole of the better and +worse elements of which human life is composed; treating well-nigh with +equal derision the most pure of virtues, and the most odious of vices; +dead alike to the beauty of the one, and the deformity of the other; +a mere heartless despiser of that frail but noble humanity, whose +type was never exhibited in a shape of more deplorable degradation +than in his own contemptuously distinct delineation of himself. To +confess to his Maker, and weep over in secret agonies the wildest and +most fantastic transgressions of heart and mind, is the part of a +conscious sinner, in whom sin has not become the sole principle of life +and action; but to lay bare to the eye of man and of _woman_ all the +hidden convulsions of a wicked spirit, and to do all this without one +symptom of contrition, remorse, or hesitation, with a calm, careless +ferociousness of contented and satisfied depravity,--this was an insult +which no man of genius had ever before dared to put upon his Creator +or his species. Impiously railing against his God, madly and meanly +disloyal to his sovereign and his country, and brutally outraging all +the best feelings of female honor, affection, and confidence, how small +a part of chivalry is that which remains to the descendant of the +Byrons!--a gloomy visor and a deadly weapon! + +'Those who are acquainted (as who is not?) with the main incidents in +the private life of Lord Byron, and who have not seen this production, +will scarcely believe that malignity should have carried him so far as +to make him commence a filthy and impious poem with an elaborate satire +on the character and manners of his wife, from whom, even by his own +confession, he has been separated only in consequence of his own cruel +and heartless misconduct. It is in vain for Lord Byron to attempt in +any way to justify his own behaviour in that affair; and, now that he +has so openly and audaciously invited inquiry and reproach, we do not +see any good reason why he should not be plainly told so by the general +voice of his countrymen. It would not be an easy matter to persuade +any man who has any knowledge of the nature of woman, that a female +such as Lord Byron has himself described his wife to be would rashly or +hastily or lightly separate herself from the love with which she had +once been inspired for such a man as he is or was. Had he not heaped +insult upon insult, and scorn upon scorn, had he not forced the iron +of his contempt into her very soul, there is no woman of delicacy and +virtue, as he _admitted_ Lady Byron to be, who would not have hoped all +things, and suffered all things, from one, her love of whom must have +been inwoven with so many exalting elements of delicious pride, and +more delicious humility. To offend the love of such a woman was wrong, +but it might be forgiven; to desert her was unmanly, but he might have +returned, and wiped for ever from her eyes the tears of her desertion: +but to injure and to desert, and then to turn back and wound her +widowed privacy with unhallowed strains of cold-blooded mockery, was +brutally, fiendishly, inexpiably mean. For impurities there might be +some possibility of pardon, were they supposed to spring only from the +reckless buoyancy of young blood and fiery passions; for impiety there +might at least be pity, were it visible that the misery of the impious +soul equalled its darkness: but for offences such as this, which cannot +proceed either from the madness of sudden impulse or the bewildered +agonies of doubt, but which speak the wilful and determined spite of +an unrepenting, unsoftened, smiling, sarcastic, joyous sinner, there +can be neither pity nor pardon. Our knowledge that it is committed +by one of the most powerful intellects our island ever has produced +lends intensity a thousand-fold to the bitterness of our indignation. +Every high thought that was ever kindled in our breasts by the Muse of +Byron, every pure and lofty feeling that ever responded from within +us to the sweep of his majestic inspirations, every remembered moment +of admiration and enthusiasm, is up in arms against him. We look back +with a mixture of wrath and scorn to the delight with which we suffered +ourselves to be filled by one, who, all the while he was furnishing +us with delight, must, we cannot doubt it, have been mocking us with +a cruel mockery; less cruel only, because less peculiar, than that +with which he has now turned him from the lurking-place of his selfish +and polluted exile to pour the pitiful chalice of his contumely on +the surrendered devotion of a virgin bosom, and the holy hopes of the +mother of his child. It is indeed a sad and a humiliating thing to +know, that in the same year, there proceeded from the same pen two +productions in all things so different as the fourth canto of "Childe +Harold" and his loathsome "Don Juan." + +'We have mentioned one, and, all will admit, the worst instance of the +private malignity which has been embodied in so many passages of "Don +Juan;" and we are quite sure the lofty-minded and virtuous _men_ whom +Lord Byron has debased himself by insulting will close the volume which +contains their own injuries, with no feelings save those of pity for +him that has inflicted them, and for her who partakes so largely in the +same injuries.'--_August, 1819._ + + +'BLACKWOOD,'--_iterum_. + +'We shall, like all others who say anything about Lord Byron, begin, +_sans apologie_, with his personal character. This is the great object +of attack, the constant theme of open vituperation to one set, and the +established mark for all the petty but deadly artillery of sneers, +shrugs, groans, to another. Two widely different matters, however, +are generally, we might say universally, mixed up here,--the personal +character of the man, as proved by his course of life; and his personal +character, as revealed in or guessed from his books. Nothing can be +more unfair than the style in which this mixture is made use of. Is +there a noble sentiment, a lofty thought, a sublime conception, in +the book? "Ah, yes!" is the answer, "But what of that? It is only +the _roué_ Byron that speaks!" Is a kind, a generous action of the +man mentioned? "Yes, yes!" comments the sage; "but only remember the +atrocities of 'Don Juan:' depend on it, this, if it be true, must have +been a mere freak of caprice, or perhaps a bit of vile hypocrisy." +Salvation is thus shut out at either entrance: the poet damns the man, +and the man the poet. + +'Nobody will suspect us of being so absurd as to suppose that it is +possible for people to draw no inferences as to the character of an +author from his book, or to shut entirely out of view, in judging of +a book, that which they may happen to _know_ about the man who writes +it. The cant of the day supposes such things to be practicable; but +they are not. But what we complain of and scorn is the extent to which +they are carried in the case of this particular individual, as compared +with others; the impudence with which things are at once assumed to be +facts in regard to _his_ private history; and the absolute unfairness +of never arguing from _his_ writings to _him, but for evil_. + +'Take the man, in the first place, as unconnected, in so far as we +can thus consider him, with his works; and ask, What, after all, are +the bad things we know of him? Was he dishonest or dishonourable? +had he ever _done_ anything to forfeit, or even endanger, his rank +as a gentleman? Most assuredly, no such accusations have ever been +maintained against Lord Byron the private nobleman, although something +of the sort may have been insinuated against the author. "But he was +such a profligate in his morals, that his name cannot be mentioned with +anything like tolerance." Was he so, indeed? We should like extremely +to have the catechising of the individual _man_ who says so. That +he indulged in sensual vices, to some extent, is certain, and to be +regretted and condemned. But was he worse, as to such matters, than +the enormous majority of those who join in the cry of horror upon this +occasion? We most assuredly believe exactly the reverse; and we rest +our belief upon very plain and intelligible grounds. First, we hold it +impossible that the majority of mankind, or that anything beyond a very +small minority, are or can be entitled to talk of sensual profligacy as +having formed a part of the life and character of the man, who, dying +at six and thirty, bequeathed a collection of works such as Byron's to +the world. Secondly, we hold it impossible, that laying the extent of +his intellectual labours out of the question, and looking only to the +nature of the intellect which generated, and delighted in generating, +such beautiful and noble conceptions as are to be found in almost all +Lord Byron's works,--we hold it impossible that very many men can be +at once capable of comprehending these conceptions, and entitled to +consider sensual profligacy as having formed the principal, or even +a principal, trait in Lord Byron's character. Thirdly, and lastly, +we have never been able to hear any one fact established which could +prove Lord Byron to deserve anything like the degree or even kind +of odium which has, in regard to matters of this class, been heaped +upon his name. We have no story of base unmanly seduction, or false +and villainous intrigue, against him,--none whatever. It seems to us +quite clear, that, if he had been at all what is called in society +an unprincipled sensualist, there must have been many such stories, +authentic and authenticated. But there are none such,--absolutely none. +His name has been coupled with the names of three, four, or more women +of some rank: but what kind of women? Every one of them, in the first +place, about as old as himself in years, and therefore a great deal +older in character; every one of them utterly battered in reputation +long before he came into contact with them,--licentious, unprincipled, +characterless women. What father has ever reproached him with the ruin +of his daughter? What husband has denounced him as the destroyer of his +peace? + +'Let us not be mistaken. We are not defending the offences of which +Lord Byron unquestionably was guilty; neither are we finding fault +with those, who, after looking honestly within and around themselves, +condemn those offences, no matter how severely: but we are speaking +of society in general as it now exists; and we say that there is vile +hypocrisy in the tone in which Lord Byron is talked of _there_. We +say, that, although all offences against purity of life are miserable +things, and condemnable things, the degrees of guilt attached to +different offences of this class are as widely different as are the +degrees of guilt between an assault and a murder; and we confess our +belief, that no man of Byron's station or age could have run much risk +in gaining a very bad name in society, had a course of life similar +(in so far as we know any thing of that) to Lord Byron's been the only +thing chargeable against him. + +'The last poem he wrote was produced upon his birthday, not many weeks +before he died. We consider it as one of the finest and most touching +effusions of his noble genius. We think he who reads it, and can ever +after bring himself to regard even the worst transgressions that have +been charged against Lord Byron with any feelings but those of humble +sorrow and manly pity, is not deserving of the name of man. The deep +and passionate struggles with the inferior elements of his nature (and +ours) which it records; the lofty thirsting after purity; the heroic +devotion of a soul half weary of life, because unable to believe in +its own powers to live up to what it so intensely felt to be, and so +reverentially honoured as, the right; the whole picture of this mighty +spirit, often darkened, but never sunk,--often erring, but never +ceasing to see and to worship the beauty of virtue; the repentance of +it; the anguish; the aspiration, almost stilled in despair,--the whole +of this is such a whole, that we are sure no man can read these solemn +verses too often; and we recommend them for repetition, as the best and +most conclusive of all possible answers whenever the name of Byron is +insulted by those who permit themselves to forget nothing, either in +his life or in his writings, but the good.'--[1825.] + + * * * * * + +The following letters of Lady Byron's are reprinted from the Memoirs of +H. C. Robinson. They are given that the reader may form some judgment +of the strength and activity of her mind, and the elevated class of +subjects upon which it habitually dwelt. + + +LADY BYRON TO H. C. R. + + 'DEC. 31, 1853. + +'DEAR MR. CRABB ROBINSON,--I have an inclination, if I were +not afraid of trespassing on your time (but you can put my letter by +for any leisure moment), to enter upon the history of a character which +I think less appreciated than it ought to be. Men, I observe, do not +understand men in certain points, without a woman's interpretation. +Those points, of course, relate to feelings. + +'Here is a man taken by most of those who come in his way either for +Dry-as-Dust, Matter-of-fact, or for a "vain visionary." There are, +doubtless, some defective or excessive characteristics which give rise +to those impressions. + +'My acquaintance was made, oddly enough, with him twenty-seven years +ago. A pauper said to me of him, "He's the _poor man's_ doctor." Such +a recommendation seemed to me a good one: and I also knew that his +organizing head had formed the first district society in England (for +Mrs. Fry told me she could not have effected it without his aid); yet +he has always ignored his own share of it. I felt in him at once the +curious combination of the Christian and the cynic,--of reverence for +_man_, and contempt of _men_. It was then an internal war, but one in +which it was evident to me that the holier cause would be victorious, +because there was deep belief, and, as far as I could learn, a +blameless and benevolent life. He appeared only to want sunshine. It +was a plant which could not be brought to perfection in darkness. He +had begun life by the most painful conflict between filial duty and +conscience,--a large provision in the church secured for him by his +father; but he could not _sign_. There was discredit, as you know, +attached to such scruples. + +'He was also, when I first knew him, under other circumstances of +a nature to depress him, and to make him feel that he was unjustly +treated. The gradual removal of these called forth his better nature +in thankfulness to God. Still the old misanthropic modes of expressing +himself obtruded themselves at times. This passed in '48 between him +and Robertson. Robertson said to me, "I want to know something about +ragged schools." I replied, "You had better ask Dr. King: he knows +more about them."--"I?" said Dr. King. "I take care to know nothing of +ragged schools, lest they should make _me_ ragged." Robertson did not +see through it. Perhaps I had been taught to understand such suicidal +speeches by my cousin, Lord Melbourne. + +'The example of Christ, imperfectly as it may be understood by him, has +been ever before his eyes: he woke to the thought of following it, and +he went to rest consoled or rebuked by it. After nearly thirty years +of intimacy, I may, without presumption, form that opinion. There is +something pathetic to me in seeing any one _so_ unknown. Even the other +medical friends of Robertson, when I knew that Dr. King felt a woman's +tenderness, said on one occasion to him, "But we know that you, Dr. +King, are _above all feeling_." + +'If I have made the character more consistent to you by putting in +these bits of mosaic, my pen will not have been ill employed, nor +unpleasingly to you. + + 'Yours truly, + 'A. NOEL BYRON.' + + +LADY BYRON TO H. C. R. + + 'BRIGHTON, Nov. 15, 1854. + +'The thoughts of all this public and private suffering have taken +the life out of my pen when I tried to write on matters which would +otherwise have been most interesting to me: _these_ seemed the shadows, +_that_ the stern reality. It is good, however, to be drawn out of +scenes in which one is absorbed most unprofitably, and to have one's +natural interests revived by such a letter as I have to thank you for, +as well as its predecessor. You touch upon the very points which do +interest me the most, habitually. The change of form, and enlargement +of design, in "The Prospective" _had_ led me to express to one of the +promoters of that object my desire to contribute. The religious crisis +is instant; but the man for it? The next best thing, if, as I believe, +he is not to be found _in England_, is an association of such men as +are to edit the new periodical. An address delivered by Freeman Clarke +at Boston, last May, makes me think him better fitted for a leader than +any other of the religious "Free-thinkers." I wish I could send you +my one copy; but you do not _need_, it, and others do. His object is +the same as that of the "Alliance Universelle:" only he is still more +free from "partialism" (his own word) in his aspirations and practical +suggestions with respect to an ultimate "Christian synthesis." He +so far adopts Comte's theory as to speak of religion itself under +three successive aspects, historically,--1. Thesis; 2. Antithesis; +3. Synthesis. I made his acquaintance in England; and he inspired +confidence at once by his brave independence (_incomptis capillis_) and +self-_un_consciousness. J. J. Tayler's address of last month follows in +the same path,--all in favour of the "irenics," instead of polemics. + +'The answer which you gave me so fully and distinctly to the questions +I proposed for your consideration was of value in turning to my view +certain aspects of the case which I had not before observed. I had +begun a second attack on your patience, when all was forgotten in the +news of the day.' + + +Lady Byron to H. C. R. + + 'BRIGHTON, Dec. 25, 1854. + +'With J. J. Tayler, though almost a stranger to him, I have a peculiar +reason for sympathising. A book of his was a treasure to my daughter on +her death-bed.[50] + +[Footnote 50: Probably 'The Christian Aspects of Faith and Duty.' +Mr. Tayler has also written 'A Retrospect of the Religious Life of +England.'] + +'I must confess to intolerance of opinion as to these two +points,--_eternal_ evil in any form, and (involved in it) _eternal_ +suffering. To believe in these would take away my God, who is +all-loving. With a God with whom omnipotence and omniscience were all, +evil might be eternal; but why do I say to you what has been better +said elsewhere?' + + +LADY BYRON TO H. C. R. + + 'BRIGHTON, Jan. 31, 1855. + +... 'The great difficulty in respect to "The Review"[51] seems to be +to settle a basis, inclusive and exclusive; in short, a _boundary +question_. From what you said, I think you agreed with me, that +a latitudinarian Christianity ought to be the character of the +periodical; but the depth of the roots should correspond with the width +of the branches of that tree of knowledge. Of some of those minds one +might say, "They have no root;" and then, the richer the foliage, the +more danger that the trunk will fall. "Grounded in Christ" has to me +a most practical significance and value. I, too, have anxiety about +a friend (Miss Carpenter) whose life is of public importance: she, +more than any of the English reformers, unless Nash and Wright, has +found the art of drawing out the good of human nature, and proving its +existence. She makes these discoveries by the light of love. I hope +she may recover, from to-day's report. The object of a Reformatory +in Leicester has just been secured at a county meeting.... Now the +desideratum is well-qualified masters and mistresses. If you hear +of such by chance, pray let me know. The regular schoolmaster is an +extinguisher. Heart, and familiarity with the class to be educated, +are all important. At home and abroad, the evidence is conclusive on +that point; for I have for many years attended to such experiments +in various parts of Europe. "The Irish Quarterly" has taken up the +subject with rather more zeal than judgment. I had hoped that a sound +and temperate exposition of the facts might form an article in the +"Might-have-been Review."' + +[Footnote 51: 'The National Review.'] + + +LADY BYRON TO H. C. R. + + 'BRIGHTON, Feb. 12, 1855. + +'I have at last earned the pleasure of writing to you by having settled +troublesome matters of little moment, except locally; and I gladly take +a wider range by sympathizing in your interests. There is, besides, no +responsibility--for me at least--in canvassing the merits of Russell +or Palmerston, but much in deciding whether the "village politician" +Jackson or Thompson shall be leader in the school or public-house. + +'Has not the nation been brought to a conviction that the _system_ +should be broken up? and is Lord Palmerston, who has used it so long +and so cleverly, likely to promote that object? + +'But, whatever obstacles there may be in state affairs, that general +persuasion must modify other departments of action and knowledge. +"Unroasted coffee" will no longer be accepted under the official +seal,--another reason for a new literary combination for distinct +special objects, a review in which every separate article should be +_convergent_. If, instead of the problem to make a circle pass through +three given points, it were required to find the centre from which to +describe a circle through any three articles in the "Edinburgh" or +"Westminster Review," who would accomplish it? Much force is lost for +want of this one-mindedness amongst the contributors. It would not +exclude variety or freedom in the unlimited discussion of means towards +the ends unequivocally recognized. If St. Paul had edited a review, he +might have admitted Peter as well as Luke or Barnabas.... + +'Ross gave us an excellent sermon, yesterday, on "Hallowing the Name." +Though far from commonplace, it might have been delivered in any church. + +'We have had Fanny Kemble here last week. I only heard her "Romeo +and Juliet,"--not less instructive, as her readings always are, than +exciting; for in her glass Shakspeare is a philosopher. I know her, and +honour her, for her truthfulness amidst all trials.' + + +LADY BYRON TO H. C. R. + + 'BRIGHTON, March 5, 1855. + +'I recollect only those passages of Dr. Kennedy's book which bear +upon the opinions of Lord Byron. Strange as it may seem, Dr. Kennedy +is most faithful where you doubt his being so. Not merely from casual +expressions, but from the whole tenor of Lord Byron's feelings, I could +not but conclude he was a believer in the inspiration of the Bible, +and had the gloomiest Calvinistic tenets. To that unhappy view of the +relation of the creature to the Creator, I have always ascribed the +misery of his life.... It is enough for me to remember, that he who +thinks his transgressions beyond _forgiveness_ (and such was his own +deepest feeling) _has_ righteousness beyond that of the self-satisfied +sinner, or, perhaps, of the half-awakened. It was impossible for me to +doubt, that, could he have been at once assured of pardon, his living +faith in a moral duty, and love of virtue ("I love the virtues which +I cannot claim"), would have conquered every temptation. Judge, then, +how I must hate the creed which made him see God as an Avenger, not a +Father! My own impressions were just the reverse, but could have little +weight; and it was in vain to seek to turn his thoughts for long from +that _idée fixe_ with which he connected his physical peculiarity as +a stamp. Instead of being made happier by any apparent good, he felt +convinced that every blessing would be "turned into a curse" to him. +Who, possessed by such ideas, could lead a life of love and service to +God or man? They must, in a measure, realize themselves. "The worst +of it is, I _do_ believe," he said. I, like all connected with him, +was broken against the rock of predestination. I may be pardoned for +referring to his frequent expression of the sentiment that I was only +sent to show him the happiness he was forbidden to enjoy. You will now +better understand why "The Deformed Transformed" is too painful to me +for discussion. Since writing the above, I have read Dr. Granville's +letter on the Emperor of Russia, some passages of which seem applicable +to the prepossession I have described. I will not mix up less serious +matters with these, which forty years have not made less than present +still to me.' + + +LADY BYRON TO H. C. R. + + '_Brighton_, April 8, 1855. + +... 'The book which has interested me most, lately, is that on +"Mosaism," translated by Miss Goldsmid, and which I read, as you +will believe, without any Christian (unchristian?) prejudice. The +missionaries of the Unity were always, from my childhood, regarded by +me as in that sense _the_ people; and I believe they were true to that +mission, though blind, intellectually, in demanding the crucifixion. +The present aspect of Jewish opinions, as shown in that book, is +all but Christian. The author is under the error of taking, as the +representatives of Christianity, the Mystics, Ascetics, and Quietists; +and therefore he does not know how near he is to the true spirit of the +gospel. If you should happen to see Miss Goldsmid, pray tell her what +a great service I think she has rendered to us _soi-disant_ Christians +in translating a book which must make us sensible of the little we have +done, and the much we have to do, to justify our preference of the +later to the earlier dispensation.'... + + +LADY BYRON TO H. C. R. + + 'BRIGHTON, April 11, 1855. + +'You appear to have more definite information respecting "The Review" +than I have obtained.... It was also said that "The Review" would, in +fact, be "The Prospective" amplified,--not satisfactory to me, because +I have always thought that periodical too Unitarian, in the sense of +separating itself from other Christian churches, if not by a high wall, +at least by a wire-gauze fence. Now, separation is to me _the_ +[Greek: ha/iresis]. The revelation through Nature never separates: it +is the revelation through the Book which separates. Whewell and Brewster +would have been one, had they not, I think, equally dimmed their lamps +of science when reading their Bibles. As long as we think a truth +_better_ for being shut up in a text, we are not of the wide-world +religion, which is to include all in one fold: for that text will not +be accepted by the followers of other books, or students of the same; +and separation will ensue. The Christian Scripture should be dear to +us, not as the charter of a few, but of mankind; and to fashion it into +cages is to deny its ultimate objects. These thoughts hot, like the +roll at breakfast, where your letter was so welcome an addition.' + + * * * * * + +THREE DOMESTIC POEMS BY LORD BYRON. + + +FARE THEE WELL. + + Fare thee well! and if for ever, + Still for ever fare thee well! + Even though unforgiving, never + 'Gainst thee shall my heart rebel. + + Would that breast were bared before thee + Where thy head so oft hath lain, + While that placid sleep came o'er thee + Which thou ne'er canst know again! + + Would that breast, by thee glanced over, + Every inmost thought could show! + Then thou wouldst at last discover + 'Twas not well to spurn it so. + + Though the world for this commend thee, + Though it smile upon the blow, + Even its praises must offend thee, + Founded on another's woe. + + Though my many faults defaced me, + Could no other arm be found, + Than the one which once embraced me, + To inflict a cureless wound? + + Yet, oh! yet, thyself deceive not + Love may sink by slow decay; + But, by sudden wrench, believe not + Hearts can thus be torn away: + + Still thine own its life retaineth; + Still must mine, though bleeding, beat + And the undying thought which paineth + Is--that we no more may meet. + + These are words of deeper sorrow + Than the wail above the dead: + Both shall live, but every morrow + Wake us from a widowed bed. + + And when thou wouldst solace gather, + When our child's first accents flow, + Wilt thou teach her to say 'Father,' + Though his care she must forego? + + When her little hand shall press thee, + When her lip to thine is pressed, + Think of him whose prayer shall bless thee + Think of him thy love had blessed. + + Should her lineaments resemble + Those thou never more mayst see, + Then thy heart will softly tremble + With a pulse yet true to me. + + All my faults, perchance, thou knowest; + All my madness none can know: + All my hopes, where'er thou goest, + Wither; yet with thee they go. + + Every feeling hath been shaken: + Pride, which not a world could bow, + Bows to thee, by thee forsaken; + Even my soul forsakes me now. + + But 'tis done: all words are idle; + Words from me are vainer still; + But the thoughts we cannot bridle + Force their way without the will. + + Fare thee well!--thus disunited, + Torn from every nearer tie, + Seared in heart, and lone and blighted, + More than this I scarce can die. + + +A SKETCH. + + Born in the garret, in the kitchen bred; + Promoted thence to deck her mistress' head; + Next--for some gracious service unexpress'd, + And from its wages only to be guessed-- + Raised from the toilette to the table, where + Her wondering betters wait behind her chair, + With eye unmoved, and forehead unabashed, + She dines from off the plate she lately washed. + Quick with the tale, and ready with the lie, + The genial confidante and general spy, + Who could, ye gods! her next employment guess?-- + An only infant's earliest governess! + She taught the child to read, and taught so well, + That she herself, by teaching, learned to spell. + An adept next in penmanship she grows, + As many a nameless slander deftly shows: + What she had made the pupil of her art, + None know; but that high soul secured the heart, + And panted for the truth it could not hear, + With longing breast and undeluded ear. + Foiled was perversion by that youthful mind, + Which flattery fooled not, baseness could not blind, + Deceit infect not, near contagion soil, + Indulgence weaken, nor example spoil, + Nor mastered science tempt her to look down + On humbler talents with a pitying frown, + Nor genius swell, nor beauty render vain, + Nor envy ruffle to retaliate pain, + Nor fortune change, pride raise, nor passion bow, + Nor virtue teach austerity, till now. + Serenely purest of her sex that live; + But wanting one sweet weakness,--to forgive; + Too shocked at faults her soul can never know, + She deems that all could be like her below: + Foe to all vice, yet hardly Virtue's friend; + For Virtue pardons those she would amend. + But to the theme, now laid aside too long,-- + The baleful burthen of this honest song. + Though all her former functions are no more, + She rules the circle which she served before. + If mothers--none know why--before her quake; + If daughters dread her for the mothers' sake; + If early habits--those false links, which bind + At times the loftiest to the meanest mind-- + Have given her power too deeply to instil + The angry essence of her deadly will; + If like a snake she steal within your walls + Till the black slime betray her as she crawls; + If like a viper to the heart she wind, + And leave the venom there she did not find,-- + What marvel that this hag of hatred works + Eternal evil latent as she lurks, + To make a Pandemonium where she dwells, + And reign the Hecate of domestic hells? + Skilled by a touch to deepen scandal's tints + With all the kind mendacity of hints, + While mingling truth with falsehood, sneers with smiles, + A thread of candour with a web of wiles; + A plain blunt show of briefly-spoken seeming. + To hide her bloodless heart's soul-hardened scheming + A lip of lies; a face formed to conceal, + And, without feeling, mock at all who feel; + With a vile mask the Gorgon would disown; + A cheek of parchment, and an eye of stone. + Mark how the channels of her yellow blood + Ooze to her skin, and stagnate there to mud! + Cased like the centipede in saffron mail, + Or darker greenness of the scorpion's scale, + (For drawn from reptiles only may we trace + Congenial colours in that soul or face,)-- + Look on her features! and behold her mind + As in a mirror of itself defined. + Look on the picture! deem it not o'ercharged; + There is no trait which might not be enlarged: + Yet true to 'Nature's journeymen,' who made + This monster when their mistress left off trade, + This female dog-star of her little sky, + Where all beneath her influence droop or die. + + O wretch without a tear, without a thought, + Save joy above the ruin thou hast wrought! + The time shall come, nor long remote, when thou + Shalt feel far more than thou inflictest now,-- + Feel for thy vile self-loving self in vain, + And turn thee howling in unpitied pain. + May the strong curse of crushed affections light + Back on thy bosom with reflected blight, + And make thee, in thy leprosy of mind, + As loathsome to thyself as to mankind, + Till all thy self-thoughts curdle into hate + Black as thy will for others would create; + Till thy hard heart be calcined into dust, + And thy soul welter in its hideous crust! + Oh, may thy grave be sleepless as the bed, + The widowed couch of fire, that thou hast spread + Then, when thou fain wouldst weary Heaven with prayer, + Look on thine earthly victims, and despair! + Down to the dust! and, as thou rott'st away, + Even worms shall perish on thy poisonous clay. + But for the love I bore, and still must bear, + To her thy malice from all ties would tear, + Thy name, thy human name, to every eye + The climax of all scorn, should hang on high, + Exalted o'er thy less abhorred compeers, + And festering in the infamy of years. + + +LINES + +ON HEARING THAT LADY BYRON WAS ILL. + + And thou wert sad, yet I was not with thee! + And thou wert sick, and yet I was not near! + Methought that joy and health alone could be + Where I was _not_, and pain and sorrow here. + And is it thus? It is as I foretold, + And shall be more so; for the mind recoils + Upon itself, and the wrecked heart lies cold, + While heaviness collects the shattered spoils. + It is not in the storm nor in the strife + We feel benumbed, and wish to be no more, + But in the after-silence on the shore, + When all is lost except a little life. + I am too well avenged! But 'twas my right: + Whate'er my sins might be, _thou_ wert not sent + To be the Nemesis who should requite; + Nor did Heaven choose so near an instrument. + Mercy is for the merciful!--if thou + Hast been of such, 'twill be accorded now. + Thy nights are banished from the realms of sleep! + Yes! they may flatter thee; but thou shalt feel + A hollow agony which will not heal; + For thou art pillowed on a curse too deep: + Thou hast sown in my sorrow, and must reap + The bitter harvest in a woe as real! + I have had many foes, but none like thee; + For 'gainst the rest myself I could defend, + And be avenged, or turn them into friend; + But thou in safe implacability + Hadst nought to dread, in thy own weakness shielded + And in my love, which hath but too much yielded, + And spared, for thy sake, some I should not spare. + And thus upon the world,--trust in thy truth, + And the wild fame of my ungoverned youth, + On things that were not and on things that are,-- + Even upon such a basis hast thou built + A monument, whose cement hath been guilt; + The moral Clytemnestra of thy lord, + And hewed down, with an unsuspected sword, + Fame, peace, and hope, and all the better life, + Which, but for this cold treason of thy heart, + Might still have risen from out the grave of strife, + And found a nobler duty than to part. + But of thy virtues didst thou make a vice, + Trafficking with them in a purpose cold, + For present anger and for future gold, + And buying others' grief at any price. + And thus, once entered into crooked ways, + The early truth, which was thy proper praise, + Did not still walk beside thee, but at times, + And with a breast unknowing its own crimes, + Deceit, averments incompatible, + Equivocations, and the thoughts which dwell + In Janus-spirits; the significant eye + Which learns to lie with silence; the pretext + Of prudence, with advantages annexed; + The acquiescence in all things which tend, + No matter how, to the desired end,-- + All found a place in thy philosophy. + The means were worthy, and the end is won + I would not do by thee as thou hast done. + + +_Spottiswoode & Co., Printers, New-street Square, London._ + + + + + +End of Project Gutenberg's Lady Byron Vindicated, by Harriet Beecher Stowe + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK LADY BYRON VINDICATED *** + +***** This file should be named 44791-8.txt or 44791-8.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/4/4/7/9/44791/ + +Produced by David Edwards and the Online Distributed +Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Lady Byron Vindicated + A History of The Byron Controversy + +Author: Harriet Beecher Stowe + +Release Date: January 29, 2014 [EBook #44791] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK LADY BYRON VINDICATED *** + + + + +Produced by David Edwards and the Online Distributed +Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net + + + + + + +</pre> + +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_i" id="Page_i">[Pg i]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h1>THE<br /><br /> + +BYRON CONTROVERSY.</h1> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_ii" id="Page_ii">[Pg ii]</a></span></p> + + +<p class="center space-above">LONDON: PRINTED BY<br /> +SPOTTISWOODE AND CO., NEW-STREET SQUARE<br /> +AND PARLIAMENT STREET +</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_iii" id="Page_iii">[Pg iii]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2 class="space-above"> +LADY BYRON VINDICATED.</h2> + +<p class="ph4 space-above">A History</p> +<p class="ph4">OF</p> +<p class="ph2">THE BYRON CONTROVERSY</p> + +<p class="ph4">FROM ITS BEGINNING IN 1816 TO THE PRESENT TIME.</p> + +<p class="ph4">BY</p> +<p class="ph2">HARRIET BEECHER STOWE.<br /><br /></p> + + +<p class="center">LONDON:<br /> +SAMPSON LOW, SON, AND MARSTON<br /> +CROWN BUILDINGS, 188 FLEET STREET.<br /> +1870.<br /><br /> + +(<i>All rights reserved.</i>)</p> + + +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_iv" id="Page_iv">[Pg iv]</a><br /><a name="Page_v" id="Page_v">[Pg v]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2><a name="NOTE" id="NOTE">NOTE</a><br /><br /> + +<small>BY</small><br /><br /> + +THE PUBLISHERS.</h2> + + +<p>The subject of this volume is of such painful notoriety +that any apology from the Publishers may seem +unnecessary upon issuing the Author's reply to the +counter statements which her narrative in <i>Macmillan's +Magazine</i> has called forth. Nevertheless they consider +it right to state that their strong regard for the +Author, respect for her motives, and assurance of her +truthfulness, would, even in the absence of all other considerations, +be sufficient to induce them to place their +imprint on the title-page.</p> + +<p>The publication has been undertaken by them at the +Author's request, 'as her friends,' and as the publishers +of her former works, and from a feeling that whatever +difference of opinion may be entertained respecting the +Author's judiciousness in publishing 'The True Story,' +she is entitled to defend it, having been treated with +grave injustice, and often with much maliciousness,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_vi" id="Page_vi">[Pg vi]</a></span> +by her critics and opponents, and been charged with +motives from which no person living is more free. An +intense love of justice and hatred of oppression, with an +utter disregard of her own interests, characterise Mrs. +<span class="smcap">Stowe's</span> conduct and writings, as all who know her +well will testify; and the Publishers can unhesitatingly +affirm their belief that neither fear for loss +of her literary fame, nor hope of gain, has for one +moment influenced her in the course she has taken.</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="author"><span class="smcap">London</span>: <i>January 1870</i>.</p></div> + +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_vii" id="Page_vii">[Pg vii]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2><a name="CONTENTS" id="CONTENTS">CONTENTS.</a></h2> + + + +<div class="center"> +<table border="0" cellpadding="4" cellspacing="0" summary="CONTENTS"> +<tr><td align="center"><b>PART I</b>.</td></tr> +<tr><td align="center"> </td></tr> +<tr><td align="center">CHAPTER I.</td><td align="right">PAGE</td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">Introduction</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_1">1</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="center">CHAPTER II.</td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">The Attack on Lady Byron</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_6">6</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="center">CHAPTER III.</td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">Résumé of the Conspiracy</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_50">50</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="center">CHAPTER IV.</td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">Results after Lord Byron's Death</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_57">57</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="center">CHAPTER V.</td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">The Attack on Lady Byron's Grave</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_102">102</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="center"><b>PART II</b>.</td></tr> +<tr><td align="center"> </td></tr> +<tr><td align="center">CHAPTER I.</td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">Lady Byron as I knew Her</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_132">132</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="center">CHAPTER II.</td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_viii" id="Page_viii">[Pg viii]</a></span><span class="smcap">Lady Byron's Story as told Me</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_153">153</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="center">CHAPTER III.</td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">Chronological Summary of Events</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_171">171</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="center">CHAPTER IV.</td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">The Character of the Two Witnesses compared</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_199">199</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="center">CHAPTER V.</td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">The Direct Argument to prove the Crime</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_217">217</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="center">CHAPTER VI.</td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">Physiological Argument</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_247">247</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="center">CHAPTER VII.</td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">How could She love Him?</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_262">262</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="center">CHAPTER VIII.</td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">Conclusion</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_269">269</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="center"><b>PART III</b>.</td></tr> +<tr><td align="center"> </td></tr> +<tr><td align="center"><b>MISCELLANEOUS DOCUMENTS</b>.</td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">The True Story of Lady Byron's Life (as originally published in 'The Atlantic Monthly')</span></td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">Lord Lindsay's Letter to 'The London Times'</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_304">304</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">Dr. Forbes Winslow's Letter to 'The London Times'</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_310">310</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">Extract from Lord Byron's Expunged Letter to Murray</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_312">312</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">Extracts from 'Blackwood's Magazine'</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_315">315</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">Letters of Lady Byron to H. C. Robinson</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_318">318</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="left"><span class="smcap">Domestic Poems by Lord Byron</span></td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_323">323</a></td></tr> +</table></div> +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_1" id="Page_1">[Pg 1]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2><a name="PART_I" id="PART_I">PART I.</a></h2> + + + +<hr class="chap" /> +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_I" id="CHAPTER_I">CHAPTER I.</a></h2> + +<p class="ph4">INTRODUCTION.</p> + + +<p>The interval since my publication of 'The True Story of Lady Byron's +Life' has been one of stormy discussion and of much invective.</p> + +<p>I have not thought it necessary to disturb my spirit and confuse my +sense of right by even an attempt at reading the many abusive articles +that both here and in England have followed that disclosure. Friends +have undertaken the task for me, giving me from time to time the +substance of anything really worthy of attention which came to view in +the tumult.</p> + +<p>It appeared to me essential that this first excitement should in a +measure spend itself before there would be a possibility of speaking +to any purpose. Now, when all would seem to have spoken who can speak, +and, it is to be hoped, have said the utmost they can say, there seems +a propriety in listening calmly, if that be possible, to what I have to +say in reply.</p> + +<p>And, first, why have I made this disclosure at all?</p> + +<p><i>To this I answer briefly, Because I considered it my duty to make it.</i></p> + +<p>I made it in defence of a beloved, revered friend,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_2" id="Page_2">[Pg 2]</a></span> whose memory stood +forth in the eyes of the civilised world charged with most repulsive +crimes, of which I <i>certainly</i> knew her innocent.</p> + +<p>I claim, and shall prove, that Lady Byron's reputation has been the +victim of a concerted attack, begun by her husband during her lifetime, +and coming to its climax over her grave. I claim, and shall prove, that +it was not I who stirred up this controversy in this year 1869. I shall +show <i>who did do it</i>, and who is responsible for bringing on me that +hard duty of making these disclosures, which it appears to me ought to +have been made by others.</p> + +<p>I claim that these facts were given to me unguarded by any promise or +seal of secrecy, expressed or implied; that they were lodged with me +as one sister rests her story with another for sympathy, for counsel, +for defence. <i>Never</i> did I suppose the day would come that I should +be subjected to so cruel an anguish as this use of them has been to +me. Never did I suppose that,—when those kind hands, that had shed +nothing but blessings, were lying in the helplessness of death,—when +that gentle heart, so sorely tried and to the last so full of love, was +lying cold in the tomb,—a countryman in England could be found to cast +the foulest slanders on her grave, and not one in all England to raise +an effective voice in her defence.</p> + +<p>I admit the feebleness of my plea, in point of execution. It was +written in a state of exhausted health, when no labour of the kind was +safe for me,—when my<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_3" id="Page_3">[Pg 3]</a></span> hand had not strength to hold the pen, and I was +forced to dictate to another.</p> + +<p>I have been told that I have no reason to congratulate myself on it as +a literary effort. O my brothers and sisters! is there then nothing in +the world to think of but literary efforts? I ask any man with a heart +in his bosom, if he had been obliged to tell a story so cruel, because +his mother's grave gave no rest from slander,—I ask any woman who had +been forced to such a disclosure to free a dead sister's name from +grossest insults, whether she would have thought of making this work of +bitterness a literary success?</p> + +<p>Are the cries of the oppressed, the gasps of the dying, the last +prayers of mothers,—are <i>any</i> words wrung like drops of blood from the +human heart to be judged as literary efforts?</p> + +<p>My fellow-countrymen of America, men of the press, I have done you one +act of justice,—of all your bitter articles, I have read not one. +I shall never be troubled in the future time by the remembrance of +any unkind word you have said of me, for at this moment I recollect +not one. I had such faith in you, such pride in my countrymen, as +men with whom, above all others, the cause of woman was safe and +sacred, that I was at first astonished and incredulous at what I +heard of the course of the American press, and was silent, not merely +from the impossibility of being heard, but from grief and shame. But +reflection convinces me that you were, in many cases, acting from a +misunderstanding of facts<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_4" id="Page_4">[Pg 4]</a></span> and through misguided honourable feeling; +and I still feel courage, therefore, to ask from you a fair hearing. +Now, as I have done you this justice, will you also do me the justice +to hear me seriously and candidly?</p> + +<p>What interest have you or I, my brother and my sister, in this short +life of ours, to utter anything but the truth? Is not truth between man +and man and between man and woman the foundation on which all things +rest? Have you not, every individual of you, who must hereafter give +an account yourself alone to God, an interest to know the exact truth +in this matter, and a duty to perform as respects that truth? Hear me, +then, while I tell you the position in which I stood, and what was my +course in relation to it.</p> + +<p>A shameless attack on my friend's memory had appeared in the +'Blackwood' of July 1869, branding Lady Byron as the vilest of +criminals, and recommending the Guiccioli book to a Christian public +as interesting from the very fact that it was the avowed production +of Lord Byron's mistress. No efficient protest was made against +this outrage in England, and Littell's 'Living Age' reprinted the +'Blackwood' article, and the Harpers, the largest publishing house in +America, perhaps in the world, re-published the book.</p> + +<p>Its statements—with those of the 'Blackwood,' 'Pall Mall Gazette,' and +other English periodicals—were being propagated through all the young +reading and writing world of America. I was meeting them advertised +in dailies, and made up into articles in magazines, and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_5" id="Page_5">[Pg 5]</a></span> thus the +generation of to-day, who had no means of judging Lady Byron but by +these fables of her slanderers, were being foully deceived. The friends +who knew her personally were a small select circle in England, whom +death is every day reducing. They were few in number compared with the +great world, and were <i>silent</i>. I saw these foul slanders crystallising +into history uncontradicted by friends who knew her personally, who, +firm in their own knowledge of her virtues and limited in view as +aristocratic circles generally are, had no idea of the width of the +world they were living in, and the exigency of the crisis. When time +passed on and no voice was raised, I spoke. I gave at first a simple +story, for I knew instinctively that whoever put the first steel point +of truth into this dark cloud of slander must wait for the storm to +spend itself. I must say the storm exceeded my expectations, and has +raged loud and long. But now that there is a comparative stillness I +shall proceed, first, to prove what I have just been asserting, and, +second, to add to my true story such facts and incidents as I did not +think proper at first to state.</p> + +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_6" id="Page_6">[Pg 6]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_II" id="CHAPTER_II">CHAPTER II.</a></h2> + +<p class="ph4">THE ATTACK ON LADY BYRON.</p> + + +<p>In proving what I asserted in the first chapter, I make four points: +1st. A concerted attack upon Lady Byron's reputation, begun by Lord +Byron in self-defence. 2nd. That he transmitted his story to friends to +be continued after his death. 3rd. That they did so continue it. 4th. +That the accusations reached their climax over Lady Byron's grave in +'Blackwood' of 1869, and the Guiccioli book, and that this re-opening +of the controversy was my reason for speaking.</p> + +<p>And first I shall adduce my proofs that Lady Byron's reputation +was, during the whole course of her husband's life, the subject of +a concentrated, artfully planned attack, commencing at the time of +the separation and continuing during his life. By various documents +carefully prepared, and used publicly or secretly as suited the case, +he made converts of many honest men, some of whom were writers and men +of letters, who put their talents at his service during his lifetime in +exciting sympathy for him, and who, by his own request, felt bound to +continue their defence of him after he was dead.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_7" id="Page_7">[Pg 7]</a></span></p> + +<p>In order to consider the force and significance of the documents I +shall cite, we are to bring to our view just the issues Lord Byron had +to meet, both at the time of the separation and for a long time after.</p> + +<p>In Byron's 'Memoirs,' Vol. IV. Letter 350, under date December 10, +1819, nearly four years after the separation, he writes to Murray in +a state of great excitement on account of an article in 'Blackwood,' +in which his conduct towards his wife had been sternly and justly +commented on, and which he supposed to have been written by Wilson, of +the 'Noctes Ambrosianæ.' He says in this letter: 'I like and admire +W——n, and he should not have indulged himself in such outrageous +license.... When he talks of Lady Byron's business he talks of what he +knows nothing about; and you may tell him <i>no man can desire a public +investigation of that affair more than I do</i>.'<a name="FNanchor_1_1" id="FNanchor_1_1"></a><a href="#Footnote_1_1" class="fnanchor">[1]</a></p> + +<p>He shortly after wrote and sent to Murray a pamphlet for publication, +which was printed, but not generally circulated till some time +afterwards. Though more than three years had elapsed since the +separation, the current against him at this time was so strong in +England that his friends thought it best, at first, to use this article +of Lord Byron's discreetly with influential persons rather than to give +it to the public.</p> + +<p>The writer in 'Blackwood' and the indignation of the English public, +of which that writer was the voice, were now particularly stirred up +by the appearance of the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_8" id="Page_8">[Pg 8]</a></span> first two cantos of 'Don Juan,' in which the +indecent caricature of Lady Byron was placed in vicinity with other +indecencies, the publication of which was justly considered an insult +to a Christian community.</p> + +<p>It must here be mentioned, for the honour of Old England, that at +first she did her duty quite respectably in regard to 'Don Juan.' One +can still read, in Murray's standard edition of the poems, how every +respectable press thundered reprobations, which it would be well enough +to print and circulate as tracts for our days.</p> + +<p>Byron, it seems, had thought of returning to England, but he says, in +the letter we have quoted, that he has changed his mind, and shall not +go back, adding: 'I have finished the Third Canto of "Don Juan," but +the things I have heard and read discourage all future publication. +You may try the copy question, but you'll lose it; the cry is up, and +the cant is up. I should have no objection to return the price of the +copyright, and have written to Mr. Kinnaird on this subject.'</p> + +<p>One sentence quoted by Lord Byron from the 'Blackwood' article will +show the modern readers what the respectable world of that day were +thinking and saying of him:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'It appears, in short, as if this miserable man, having exhausted +<i>every species</i> of sensual gratification—having drained the cup of +sin even to its bitterest dregs—were resolved to show us that he is +no longer a human being even in his frailties, but a cool, unconcerned +fiend, laughing with detestable glee over the whole of the better and +worse elements of which human life is composed.'</p></div> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_9" id="Page_9">[Pg 9]</a></span></p> + +<p>The defence which Lord Byron makes, in his reply to that paper, is of a +man cornered and fighting for his life. He speaks thus of the state of +feeling at the time of his separation from his wife:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I was accused of every monstrous vice by public rumour and private +rancour; my name, which had been a knightly or a noble one since my +fathers helped to conquer the kingdom for William the Norman, was +tainted. I felt that, if what was whispered and muttered and murmured +was true, I was unfit for England; if false, England was unfit for +me. I withdrew; but this was not enough. In other countries—in +Switzerland, in the shadow of the Alps, and by the blue depth of the +lakes—I was pursued and breathed upon by the same blight. I crossed +the mountains, but it was the same; so I went a little farther, and +settled myself by the waves of the Adriatic, like the stag at bay, who +betakes him to the waters.</p> + +<p>'If I may judge by the statements of the few friends who gathered +round me, the outcry of the period to which I allude was beyond all +precedent, all parallel, even in those cases where political motives +have sharpened slander and doubled enmity. I was advised not to go to +the theatres lest I should be hissed, nor to my duty in parliament +lest I should be insulted by the way; even on the day of my departure +my most intimate friend told me afterwards that he was under the +apprehension of violence from the people who might be assembled at the +door of the carriage.'</p></div> + +<p>Now Lord Byron's charge against his wife was that <span class="smcap">SHE</span> was +directly responsible for getting up and keeping up this persecution, +which drove him from England,—that she did it in a deceitful, +treacherous manner, which left him no chance of defending himself.</p> + +<p>He charged against her that, taking advantage of a time when his +affairs were in confusion, and an execu<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_10" id="Page_10">[Pg 10]</a></span>tion in the house, she left him +suddenly, with treacherous professions of kindness, which were repeated +by letters on the road, and that soon after her arrival at her home +her parents sent him word that she would never return to him, and she +confirmed the message; that when he asked the reason why, she refused +to state any; and that when this step gave rise to a host of slanders +against him she silently encouraged and confirmed the slanders. His +claim was that he was denied from that time forth even the justice of +any tangible accusation against himself which he might meet and refute.</p> + +<p>He observes, in the same article from which we have quoted:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'When one tells me that I cannot "in any way <i>justify</i> my own +behaviour in that affair," I acquiesce, because no man can "<i>justify</i>" +himself until he knows of what he is accused; and I have never +had—and, God knows, my whole desire has ever been to obtain it—any +specific charge, in a tangible shape, submitted to me by the +adversary, nor by others, unless the atrocities of public rumour and +the mysterious silence of the lady's legal advisers may be deemed +such.'</p></div> + +<p>Lord Byron, his publishers, friends, and biographers, thus agree +in representing his wife as the secret author and abettor of that +persecution, which it is claimed broke up his life, and was the source +of all his subsequent crimes and excesses.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron wrote a poem in September 1816, in Switzerland, just after +the separation, in which he stated, in so many words, these accusations +against his wife.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_11" id="Page_11">[Pg 11]</a></span> Shortly after the poet's death Murray published +this poem, together with the 'Fare thee well,' and the lines to his +sister, under the title of 'Domestic Pieces,' in his standard edition +of Byron's poetry. It is to be remarked, then, that this was for some +time a private document, shown to confidential friends, and made use of +judiciously, as readers or listeners to his story were able to bear it. +Lady Byron then had a strong party in England. Sir Samuel Romilly and +Dr. Lushington were her counsel. Lady Byron's parents were living, and +the appearance in the public prints of such a piece as this would have +brought down an aggravated storm of public indignation.</p> + +<p>For the general public such documents as the 'Fare thee well' were +circulating in England, and he frankly confessed his wife's virtues and +his own sins to Madame de Staël and others in Switzerland, declaring +himself in the wrong, sensible of his errors, and longing to cast +himself at the feet of that serene perfection,</p> + +<p class="center"> +'Which wanted one sweet weakness—to forgive.' +</p> + +<p>But a little later he drew for his private partisans this bitter +poetical indictment against her, which, as we have said, was used +discreetly during his life, and published after his death.</p> + +<p>Before we proceed to lay that poem before the reader we will refresh +his memory with some particulars of the tragedy of Æschylus, which +Lord Byron selected as the exact parallel and proper illustration of +his wife's treat<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_12" id="Page_12">[Pg 12]</a></span>ment of himself. In his letters and journals he often +alludes to her as Clytemnestra, and the allusion has run the round of +a thousand American papers lately, and been read by a thousand good +honest people, who had no very clear idea who Clytemnestra was, and +what she did which was like the proceedings of Lady Byron. According +to the tragedy, Clytemnestra secretly hates her husband Agamemnon, +whom she professes to love, and wishes to put him out of the way that +she may marry her lover, Ægistheus. When her husband returns from the +Trojan war she receives him with pretended kindness, and officiously +offers to serve him at the bath. Inducing him to put on a garment, of +which she had adroitly sewed up the sleeves and neck so as to hamper +the use of his arms, she gives the signal to a concealed band of +assassins, who rush upon him and stab him. Clytemnestra is represented +by Æschylus as grimly triumphing in her success, which leaves her free +to marry an adulterous paramour.</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'I did it, too, in such a cunning wise,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">That he could neither 'scape nor ward off doom.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">I staked around his steps an endless net,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">As for the fishes.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>In the piece entitled 'Lines on hearing Lady Byron is ill,' Lord Byron +charges on his wife a similar treachery and cruelty. The whole poem +is in Murray's English edition, Vol. IV. p. 207. Of it we quote the +following. The reader will bear in mind that it is addressed to Lady +Byron on a sick-bed:—</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_13" id="Page_13">[Pg 13]</a></span></p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'I am too well avenged, but 'twas my right;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Whate'er my sins might be, <i>thou</i> wert not sent<br /></span> +<span class="i0">To be the Nemesis that should requite,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Nor did Heaven choose so near an instrument.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Mercy is for the merciful! If thou<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Hast been of such, 't will be accorded now.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Thy nights are banished from the realms of sleep,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">For thou art pillowed on a curse too deep;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Yes! they may flatter thee, but thou shalt feel<br /></span> +<span class="i0">A hollow agony that will not heal.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Thou hast sown in my sorrow, and must reap<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The bitter harvest in a woe as real.<br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>I have had many foes, but none like thee</i>;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">For 'gainst the rest myself I could defend,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And be avenged, or turn them into friend;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">But thou, in safe implacability,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Hast naught to dread,—in thy own weakness shielded,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And in my love, which hath but too much yielded,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And spared, for thy sake, some I should not spare.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And thus upon the world, trust in thy truth,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And the wild fame of my ungoverned youth,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">On things that were not and on things that are,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Even upon such a basis thou hast built<br /></span> +<span class="i0">A monument whose cement hath been guilt!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The moral Clytemnestra of thy lord,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And hewed down with an unsuspected sword<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Fame, peace, and hope, and all that better life<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Which, but for this cold treason of thy heart,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Might yet have risen from the grave of strife<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And found a nobler duty than to part.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">But of thy virtues thou didst make a vice,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Trafficking in them with a purpose cold,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And buying others' woes at any price,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">For present anger and for future gold;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And thus, once entered into crooked ways,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The early truth, that was thy proper praise,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Did not still walk beside thee, but at times,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And with a breast unknowing its own crimes,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Deceits, averments incompatible,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Equivocations, and the thoughts that dwell<br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>In Janus spirits, the significant eye</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>That learns to lie with silence</i><a name="FNanchor_2_2" id="FNanchor_2_2"></a><a href="#Footnote_2_2" class="fnanchor">[2]</a>, the pretext<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Of prudence with advantages annexed,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The acquiescence in all things that tend,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">No matter how, to the desired end,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">All found a place in thy philosophy.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The means were worthy and the end is won.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">I would not do to thee as thou hast done.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_14" id="Page_14">[Pg 14]</a></span></p> + +<p>Now, if this language means anything, it means, in plain terms, that, +whereas, in her early days, Lady Byron was peculiarly characterised by +truthfulness, she has in her recent dealings with him acted the part +of a liar,—that she is not only a liar, but that she lies for cruel +means and malignant purposes,—that she is a moral assassin, and her +treatment of her husband has been like that of the most detestable +murderess and adulteress of ancient history,—that she has learned to +lie skilfully and artfully, that she equivocates, says incompatible +things, and crosses her own tracks,—that she is double-faced, and +has the art to lie even by silence, and that she has become wholly +unscrupulous, and acquiesces in <i>any</i>thing, no matter what, that tends +to the desired end, and that end the destruction of her husband. This +is a brief summary of the story that Byron made it his life's business +to spread through society, to propagate and make converts to during +his<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_15" id="Page_15">[Pg 15]</a></span> life, and which has been in substance reasserted by 'Blackwood' in +a recent article this year.</p> + +<p>Now, the reader will please to notice that this poem is dated in +September 1816, and that on the 29th of March of that same year, he +had thought proper to tell quite another story. At that time the deed +of separation was not signed, and negotiations between Lady Byron, +acting by legal counsel, and himself were still pending. At that time, +therefore, he was standing in a community who knew all he had said +in former days of his wife's character, who were in an aroused and +excited state by the fact that so lovely and good and patient a woman +had actually been forced for some unexplained cause to leave him. His +policy at that time was to make large general confessions of sin, +and to praise and compliment her, with a view of enlisting sympathy. +Everybody feels for a handsome sinner, weeping on his knees, asking +pardon for his offences against his wife in the public newspapers.</p> + +<p>The celebrated 'Fare thee well', as we are told, was written on the +17th of March, and accidentally found its way into the newspapers at +this time 'through the imprudence of a friend whom he allowed to take a +copy.' These 'imprudent friends' have all along been such a marvellous +convenience to Lord Byron.</p> + +<p>But the question met him on all sides, What is the matter? This wife +you have declared the brightest, sweetest, most amiable of beings, and +against whose behaviour as a wife you actually never had nor can<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_16" id="Page_16">[Pg 16]</a></span> have +a complaint to make,—why is she <i>now</i> all of a sudden so inflexibly +set against you?</p> + +<p>This question required an answer, and he answered by writing another +poem, which also <i>accidentally</i> found its way into the public prints. +It is in his 'Domestic Pieces,' which the reader may refer to at the +end of this volume, and is called 'A Sketch.'</p> + +<p>There was a most excellent, respectable, well-behaved Englishwoman, a +Mrs. Clermont,<a name="FNanchor_3_3" id="FNanchor_3_3"></a><a href="#Footnote_3_3" class="fnanchor">[3]</a> who had been Lady Byron's governess in her youth, +and was still, in mature life, revered as her confidential friend. It +appears that this person had been with Lady Byron during a part of her +married life, especially the bitter hours of her lonely child-bed, when +a young wife so much needs a sympathetic friend. This Mrs. Clermont was +the person selected by Lord Byron at this time to be the scapegoat to +bear away the difficulties of the case into the wilderness.</p> + +<p>We are informed in Moore's Life what a noble pride of rank Lord Byron +possessed, and how when the headmaster of a school, against whom he had +a pique, invited him to dinner, he declined, saying, 'To tell you the +truth, Doctor, if you should come to Newstead, I shouldn't think of +inviting <i>you</i> to dine with <i>me</i>, and so I don't care to dine with you +here.' Different countries, it appears, have different standards as to +good taste;<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_17" id="Page_17">[Pg 17]</a></span> Moore gives this as an amusing instance of a young lord's +spirit.</p> + +<p>Accordingly, his first attack against this 'lady,' as we Americans +should call her, consists in gross statements concerning her having +been born poor and in an inferior rank. He begins by stating that she +was</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'Born in the garret, in the kitchen bred,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Promoted thence to deck her mistress' head;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Next—for some gracious service unexpressed<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And from its wages only to be guessed—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Raised from the toilet to the table, where<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Her wondering betters wait behind her chair.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">With eye unmoved and forehead unabashed.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">She dines from off the plate she lately washed;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Quick with the tale, and ready with the lie,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The genial confidante and general spy,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Who could, ye gods! her next employment guess,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">An <i>only infant's earliest governess</i>!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">What had she made the pupil of her art<br /></span> +<span class="i0">None knows; <i>but that high soul secured the heart,</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>And panted for the truth it could not hear</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>With longing soul and undeluded ear</i>!'<a name="FNanchor_4_4" id="FNanchor_4_4"></a><a href="#Footnote_4_4" class="fnanchor">[4]</a><br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>The poet here recognises as a singular trait in Lady Byron her peculiar +love of truth,—a trait which must have struck everyone that had any +knowledge of her through life. He goes on now to give what he certainly +knew to be the real character of Lady Byron:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'Foiled was perversion by that youthful mind,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Which flattery fooled not, baseness could not blind,<br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>Deceit infect</i> not, nor contagion soil,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Indulgence weaken, or example spoil,<br /></span><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_18" id="Page_18">[Pg 18]</a></span> +<span class="i0">Nor mastered science tempt her to look down<br /></span> +<span class="i0">On humbler talent with a pitying frown,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Nor genius swell, nor beauty render vain,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Nor envy ruffle to retaliate pain.<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>We are now informed that Mrs. Clermont, whom he afterwards says in his +letters was a spy of Lady Byron's mother, set herself to make mischief +between them. He says:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'If early habits,—those strong links that bind<br /></span> +<span class="i0">At times the loftiest to the meanest mind,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Have given her power too deeply to instil<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The angry essence of her deadly will;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">If like a snake she steal within your walls,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Till the black slime betray her as she crawls;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">If like a viper to the heart she wind,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And leaves the venom there she did not find,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">What marvel that this hag of hatred works<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Eternal evil latent as she lurks.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>The noble lord then proceeds to abuse this woman of inferior rank in +the language of the upper circles. He thus describes her person and +manner:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'Skilled by a touch to deepen scandal's tints<br /></span> +<span class="i0">With all the kind mendacity of hints,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">While mingling truth with falsehood, sneers with smiles,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">A thread of candour with a web of wiles;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">A plain blunt show of briefly-spoken seeming,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">To hide her bloodless heart's soul-harden'd scheming;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">A lip of lies; a face formed to conceal,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And without feeling mock at all who feel;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">With a vile mask the Gorgon would disown,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">A cheek of parchment and an eye of stone.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Mark how the channels of her yellow blood<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Ooze to her skin and stagnate there to mud,<br /></span><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_19" id="Page_19">[Pg 19]</a></span> +<span class="i0">Cased like the centipede in saffron mail,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Or darker greenness of the scorpion's scale,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">(For drawn from reptiles only may we trace<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Congenial colours in that soul or face,)<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Look on her features! and behold her mind<br /></span> +<span class="i0">As in a mirror of itself defined:<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Look on the picture! deem it not o'ercharged<br /></span> +<span class="i0">There is no trait which might not be enlarged.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>The poem thus ends:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'May the strong curse of crushed affections light<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Back on thy bosom with reflected blight,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And make thee in thy leprosy of mind<br /></span> +<span class="i0">As loathsome to thyself as to mankind!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Till all thy self-thoughts curdle into hate,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Black—as thy will for others would create;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Till thy hard heart be calcined into dust,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And thy soul welter in its hideous crust.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">O, may thy grave be sleepless as the bed,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The widowed couch of fire, that thou hast spread<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Then when thou fain wouldst weary Heaven with prayer,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Look on thy earthly victims—and despair!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Down to the dust! and as thou rott'st away,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Even worms shall perish on thy poisonous clay.<br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>But for the love I bore and still must bear</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0">To her thy malice from all ties would tear,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Thy name,—thy human name,—to every eye<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The climax of all scorn, should hang on high,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Exalted o'er thy less abhorred compeers,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And festering in the infamy of years.'<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i16">March 16, 1816.<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>Now, on the 29th of March 1816, this was Lord Byron's story. He states +that his wife had a truthfulness even from early girlhood that the most +artful and unscrupulous governess could not pollute,—that she<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_20" id="Page_20">[Pg 20]</a></span> always +<i>panted</i> for truth,—that flattery could not fool nor baseness blind +her,—that though she was a genius and master of science, she was yet +gentle and tolerant, and one whom no envy could ruffle to retaliate +pain.</p> + +<p>In September of the same year she is a monster of unscrupulous deceit +and vindictive cruelty. Now, what had happened in the five months +between the dates of these poems to produce such a change of opinion? +Simply this:—</p> + +<p>1st. The negotiation between him and his wife's lawyers had ended in +his signing a deed of separation in preference to standing a suit for +divorce.</p> + +<p>2nd. Madame de Staël, moved by his tears of anguish and professions of +repentance, had offered to negotiate with Lady Byron on his behalf, and +had failed.</p> + +<p>The failure of this application is the only apology given by Moore and +Murray for this poem, which gentle Thomas Moore admits was not in quite +as generous a strain as the 'Fare thee well'.</p> + +<p>But Lord Byron knew perfectly well, when he suffered that application +to be made, that Lady Byron had been entirely convinced that her +marriage relations with him could never be renewed, and that duty both +to man and God required her to separate from him. The allowing the +negotiation was, therefore, an artifice to place his wife before the +public in the attitude of a hard-hearted, inflexible woman; her refusal +was what he knew beforehand must inevitably be the result, and merely +gave<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_21" id="Page_21">[Pg 21]</a></span> him capital in the sympathy of his friends, by which they should +be brought to tolerate and accept the bitter accusations of this poem.</p> + +<p>We have recently heard it asserted that this last-named piece of poetry +was the sudden offspring of a fit of ill-temper, and was never intended +to be published at all. There were certainly excellent reasons why +his friends should have advised him not to publish it <i>at that time</i>. +But that it was read with sympathy by the circle of his intimate +friends, and believed by them, is evident from the frequency with which +allusions to it occur in his confidential letters to them.<a name="FNanchor_5_5" id="FNanchor_5_5"></a><a href="#Footnote_5_5" class="fnanchor">[5]</a></p> + +<p>About three months after, under date March 10, 1817, he writes to +Moore: 'I suppose now I shall never be able to shake off my sables in +public imagination, more particularly since my moral —— clove down my +fame.' Again to Murray in 1819, three years after, he says: 'I never +hear anything of Ada, the little Electra of Mycenæ.'</p> + +<p>Electra was the daughter of Clytemnestra, in the Greek poem, who lived +to condemn her wicked mother, and to call on her brother to avenge the +father. There was in this mention of Electra more than meets the ear. +Many passages in Lord Byron's poetry show that he intended to make this +daughter a future partisan against her mother, and explain the awful +words he is stated in<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_22" id="Page_22">[Pg 22]</a></span> Lady Anne Barnard's diary to have used when +first he looked on his little girl,—'What an instrument of torture I +have gained in you!'</p> + +<p>In a letter to Lord Blessington, April 6, 1823, he says, speaking of +Dr. Parr:<a name="FNanchor_6_6" id="FNanchor_6_6"></a><a href="#Footnote_6_6" class="fnanchor">[6]</a>—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'He did me the honour once to be a patron of mine, though a great +friend of the <i>other branch of the house of Atreus</i>, and the Greek +teacher, I believe, of my <i>moral</i> Clytemnestra. I say <i>moral</i> because +it is true, and is so useful to the virtuous, that it enables them to +do anything without the aid of an Ægistheus.'</p></div> + +<p>If Lord Byron wrote this poem merely in a momentary fit of spleen, why +were there so many persons evidently quite familiar with his allusions +to it? and why was it preserved in Murray's hands? and why published +after his death? That Byron was in the habit of reposing documents in +the hands of Murray, to be used as occasion offered, is evident from +a part of a note written by him to Murray respecting some verses so +intrusted: 'Pray let not these <i>versiculi</i> go forth with my name except +<i>to the initiated</i>.'<a name="FNanchor_7_7" id="FNanchor_7_7"></a><a href="#Footnote_7_7" class="fnanchor">[7]</a></p> + +<p>Murray, in publishing this attack on his wife after Lord Byron's death, +showed that he believed in it, and, so believing, deemed Lady Byron a +woman whose widowed state deserved neither sympathy nor delicacy of +treatment. At a time when every sentiment in the heart of the most +deeply wronged woman would forbid her appearing to justify herself from +such cruel slander<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_23" id="Page_23">[Pg 23]</a></span> of a dead husband, an honest, kind-hearted, worthy +Englishman actually thought it right and proper to give these lines +to her eyes and the eyes of all the reading world. Nothing can show +more plainly what this poem was written for, and how thoroughly it did +its work! Considering Byron as a wronged man, Murray thought he was +contributing his mite towards doing him justice. His editor prefaced +the whole set of 'Domestic Pieces' with the following statements:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'They all refer to the unhappy separation, of which the precise causes +are still a mystery, and which he declared to the last were never +disclosed to himself. He admitted that pecuniary embarrassments, +disordered health, and dislike to family restraints had aggravated his +naturally violent temper, and driven him to excesses. He suspected +that his mother-in-law had fomented the discord,—which Lady Byron +denies,—and that more was due to the malignant offices of a female +dependant, who is the subject of the bitterly satirical sketch.</p> + +<hr class="tb" /> + +<p>'To these general statements can only be added the still vaguer +allegations of Lady Byron, that she conceived his conduct to be the +result of insanity,—that, the physician pronouncing him responsible +for his actions, she could submit to them no longer, and that +Dr. Lushington, her legal adviser, agreed that a reconciliation +was neither proper nor possible. <i>No weight can be attached to +the opinions of an opposing counsel upon accusations made by one +party behind the back of the other, who urgently demanded and was +pertinaciously refused the least opportunity of denial or defence.</i> He +rejected the proposal for an amicable separation, but <i>consented when +threatened with a suit in Doctors' Commons</i>.'<a name="FNanchor_8_8" id="FNanchor_8_8"></a><a href="#Footnote_8_8" class="fnanchor">[8]</a></p></div> + +<p>Neither John Murray nor any of Byron's partisans<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_24" id="Page_24">[Pg 24]</a></span> seem to have pondered +the admission in these last words.</p> + +<p>Here, as appears, was a woman, driven to the last despair, standing +with her child in her arms, asking from English laws protection for +herself and child against her husband.</p> + +<p>She had appealed to the first counsel in England, and was acting under +their direction.</p> + +<p>Two of the greatest lawyers in England have pronounced that there +has been such a cause of offence on his part that a return to him is +neither proper nor possible, and that no alternative remains to her but +separation or divorce.</p> + +<p>He asks her to state her charges against him. She, making answer +under advice of her counsel, says, 'That if he <i>insists</i> on the +specifications, he must receive them in open court in a suit for +divorce.'</p> + +<p>What, now, ought to have been the conduct of any brave, honest man, +who believed that his wife was taking advantage of her reputation for +virtue to turn every one against him, who saw that she had turned on +her side even the lawyer he sought to retain on his;<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_25" id="Page_25">[Pg 25]</a></span><a name="FNanchor_9_9" id="FNanchor_9_9"></a><a href="#Footnote_9_9" class="fnanchor">[9]</a> that she was +an unscrupulous woman, who acquiesced in every and any thing to gain +her ends, while he stood before the public, as he says, 'accused of +every monstrous vice, by public rumour or private rancour'? When she, +under advice of her lawyers, made the alternative legal <i>separation</i> or +open investigation in court for divorce, what did he do?</p> + +<p class="center"><span class="smcap">He signed the act of separation and left England.</span></p> + +<p>Now, let any man who knows the legal mind of England,—let any lawyer +who knows the character of Sir Samuel Romilly and Dr. Lushington, ask +whether <i>they</i> were the men to take a case into court for a woman that +had no <i>evidence</i> but her own statements and impressions? Were <i>they</i> +men to go to trial without proofs? Did they not know that there were +artful, hysterical women in the world, and would <i>they</i>, of all people, +be the men to take a woman's story on her own side, and advise her in +the last issue to bring it into open court, without legal proof of +the strongest kind? Now, as long as Sir Samuel Romilly lived, this +statement of Byron's—that he was condemned unheard, and had no chance +of knowing whereof he <i>was accused—never appeared in public</i>.</p> + +<p>It, however, was most actively circulated <i>in private</i>. That Byron was +in the habit of intrusting to different confidants articles of various +kinds to be shown to different circles as they could bear them, we have +already shown. We have recently come upon another instance of this +kind. In the late eagerness to excul<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_26" id="Page_26">[Pg 26]</a></span>pate Byron, a new document has +turned up, of which Mr. Murray, it appears, had never heard when, after +Byron's death, he published in the preface to his 'Domestic Pieces' +the sentence: '<i>He rejected the proposal for an amicable separation, +but consented when threatened with a suit in Doctors' Commons</i>.' It +appears that, up to 1853, neither John Murray senior, nor the son who +now fills his place, had taken any notice of this newly found document, +which we are now informed 'was drawn up by Lord Byron in August 1817, +while Mr. Hobhouse was staying with him at La Mira, near Venice, +given to Mr. Matthew Gregory Lewis, <i>for circulation among friends in +England</i>, found in Mr. Lewis's papers after his death, and <i>now</i> in the +possession of Mr. Murray.' Here it is:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'It has been intimated to me that the persons understood to be the +legal advisers of Lady Byron have declared "their lips to be sealed +up" on the cause of the separation between her and myself. If their +lips are sealed up, they are not sealed up by me, and the greatest +favour <i>they</i> can confer upon me will be to open them. From the first +hour in which I was apprised of the intentions of the Noel family to +the last communication between Lady Byron and myself in the character +of wife and husband (a period of some months), I called repeatedly and +in vain for a statement of their or her charges, and it was chiefly +in consequence of Lady Byron's claiming (in a letter still existing) +a promise on my part to consent to a separation, if such was <i>really</i> +her wish, that I consented at all; this claim, and the exasperating +and inexpiable manner in which their object was pursued, which +rendered it next to an impossibility that two persons so divided could +ever be reunited, induced me reluctantly then, and repentantly still, +to sign the deed, which I shall be happy—most happy—to cancel, and +go before any tribunal which may discuss the business in the most +public manner.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_27" id="Page_27">[Pg 27]</a></span></p> + +<p>'Mr. Hobhouse made this proposition on my part, viz. to abrogate +all prior intentions—and go into court—the very day before the +separation was signed, and it was declined by the other party, as +also the publication of the correspondence during the previous +discussion. Those propositions I beg here to repeat, and to call +upon her and hers to say their worst, pledging myself to meet their +allegations,—whatever they may be,—and only too happy to be informed +at last of their real nature.</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">Byron.</span>'</p> + +<p class="author">'August 9, 1817.<br /> +</p> + +<p>'P.S.—I have been, and am now, utterly ignorant of what description +her allegations, charges, or whatever name they may have assumed, +are; and am as little aware for what purpose they have been kept +back,—unless it was to sanction the most infamous calumnies by +silence.</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">Byron.'</span></p> + +<p class="p3"> +'<span class="smcap">La Mira</span>, near <span class="smcap">Venice</span>.' +</p></div> + +<p>It appears the circulation of this document must have been <i>very +private</i>, since Moore, not <i>over</i>-delicate towards Lady Byron, did not +think fit to print it; since John Murray neglected it, and since it has +come out at this late hour for the first time.</p> + +<p>If Lord Byron really desired Lady Byron and her legal counsel to +understand the facts herein stated, and was willing at all hazards to +bring on an open examination, why was this <i>privately</i> circulated? +Why not issued as a card in the London papers? Is it likely that +Mr. Matthew Gregory Lewis, and a chosen band of friends acting as a +committee, requested an audience with Lady Byron, Sir Samuel Romilly, +and Dr. Lushington, and formally presented this cartel of defiance?</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_28" id="Page_28">[Pg 28]</a></span></p> + +<p>We incline to think not. We incline to think that this small serpent, +in company with many others of like kind, crawled secretly and +privately around, and when it found a good chance, bit an honest +Briton, whose blood was thenceforth poisoned by an undetected falsehood.</p> + +<p>The reader now may turn to the letters that Mr. Moore has thought fit +to give us of this stay at La Mira, beginning with Letter 286, dated +July 1, 1817,<a name="FNanchor_10_10" id="FNanchor_10_10"></a><a href="#Footnote_10_10" class="fnanchor">[10]</a> where he says: 'I have been working up my impressions +into a <i>Fourth</i> Canto of Childe Harold,' and also 'Mr. Lewis is in +Venice. I am going up to stay a week with him there.'</p> + +<p>Next, under date La Mira, Venice, July 10,<a name="FNanchor_11_11" id="FNanchor_11_11"></a><a href="#Footnote_11_11" class="fnanchor">[11]</a> he says, 'Monk Lewis is +here; how pleasant!'</p> + +<p>Next, under date July 20, 1817, to Mr. Murray: 'I write to give you +notice that I have <i>completed the fourth and ultimate canto of Childe +Harold</i>.... It is yet to be copied and polished, and the notes are to +come.'</p> + +<p>Under date of La Mira, August 7, 1817, he records that the new canto is +one hundred and thirty stanzas in length, and talks about the price for +it. He is now ready to launch it on the world; and, as now appears, on +August 9, 1817, <i>two days after</i>, he wrote the document above cited, +and put it into the hands of Mr. Lewis, as we are informed, 'for +circulation among friends in England.'</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_29" id="Page_29">[Pg 29]</a></span></p> + +<p>The reason of this may now be evident. Having prepared a suitable +number of those whom he calls in his notes to Murray 'the initiated,' +by private documents and statements, he is now prepared to publish his +accusations against his wife, and the story of his wrongs, in a great +immortal poem, which shall have a band of initiated interpreters, shall +be read through the civilised world, and stand to accuse her after his +death.</p> + +<p>In the Fourth Canto of 'Childe Harold,' with all his own overwhelming +power of language, he sets forth his cause as against the silent woman +who all this time had been making no party, and telling no story, +and whom the world would therefore conclude to be silent because she +had no answer to make. I remember well the time when this poetry, so +resounding in its music, so mournful, so apparently generous, filled +my heart with a vague anguish of sorrow for the sufferer, and of +indignation at the cold insensibility that had maddened him. Thousands +have felt the power of this great poem, which stands, and must stand to +all time, a monument of what sacred and solemn powers God gave to this +wicked man, and how vilely he abused this power as a weapon to slay the +innocent.</p> + +<p>It is among the ruins of ancient Rome that his voice breaks forth in +solemn imprecation:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'O Time, thou beautifier of the dead,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Adorner of the ruin, comforter,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And only healer when the heart hath bled!—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Time, the corrector when our judgments err,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The test of truth, love,—sole philosopher,<br /></span><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_30" id="Page_30">[Pg 30]</a></span> +<span class="i0">For all besides are sophists,—from thy shrift<br /></span> +<span class="i0">That never loses, though it doth defer!—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Time, the avenger! unto thee I lift<br /></span> +<span class="i0">My hands and heart and eyes, and claim of thee a gift.<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<hr class="r5"/> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'If thou hast ever seen me too elate,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Hear me not; but if calmly I have borne<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Good, and reserved my pride against the hate<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Which shall not whelm me, <i>let me not have worn</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>This iron in my soul in vain,—shall <span class="smcap">THEY</span> not mourn?</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0">And thou who never yet of human wrong<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Left the unbalanced scale, great Nemesis,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Here where the ancients paid their worship long,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Thou who didst call the Furies from the abyss,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And round Orestes bid them howl and hiss<br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>For that unnatural retribution,—just</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>Had it but come from hands less near</i>,—in this<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Thy former realm I call thee from the dust.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Dost thou not hear, my heart? awake thou shalt and must!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">It is not that I may not have incurred<br /></span> +<span class="i0">For my ancestral faults and mine, the wound<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Wherewith I bleed withal, and had it been conferred<br /></span> +<span class="i0">With a just weapon it had flowed unbound,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">But now my blood shall not sink in the ground.<br /></span> +</div></div> + + +<hr class="r5"/> + + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'But in this page a record will I seek;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Not in the air shall these my words disperse,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Though I be ashes,—a far hour shall wreak<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The deep prophetic fulness of this verse,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And pile on human heads the mountain of my curse.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">That curse shall be forgiveness. Have I not,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Hear me, my Mother Earth! behold it, Heaven,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Have I not had to wrestle with my lot?<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Have I not suffered things to be forgiven?<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Have I not had my brain seared, my heart riven,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Hopes sapped, name blighted, life's life lied away,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And only not to desperation driven,<br /></span><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_31" id="Page_31">[Pg 31]</a></span> +<span class="i0">Because not altogether of such clay<br /></span> +<span class="i0">As rots into the soul of those whom I survey?<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<hr class="r5"/> + + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'From mighty wrongs to petty perfidy,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Have I not seen what human things could do,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">From the loud roar of foaming calumny,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">To the small whispers of the paltry few,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And subtler venom of the reptile crew,<br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>The Janus glance of whose significant eye,</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>Learning to lie with silence, would seem true,</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>And without utterance, save the shrug or sigh,</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>Deal round to happy fools its speechless obloquy</i>?'<a name="FNanchor_12_12" id="FNanchor_12_12"></a><a href="#Footnote_12_12" class="fnanchor">[12]</a><br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>The reader will please notice that the lines in italics are almost, +word for word, a repetition of the lines in italics in the former poem +on his wife, where he speaks of a <i>significant eye</i> that has <i>learned +to lie in silence</i>, and were evidently meant to apply to Lady Byron and +her small circle of confidential friends.</p> + +<p>Before this, in the Third Canto of 'Childe Harold,' he had claimed the +sympathy of the world, as a loving father, deprived by a severe fate of +the solace and society of his only child:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'My daughter,—with this name my song began,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">My daughter,—with this name my song shall end,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">I see thee not and hear thee not, but none<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Can be so wrapped in thee; thou art the friend<br /></span> +<span class="i0">To whom the shadows of far years extend.<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<hr class="r5"/> +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'To aid thy mind's developments, to watch<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The dawn of little joys, to sit and see<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Almost thy very growth, to view thee catch<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Knowledge of objects,—wonders yet to thee,—<br /></span><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_32" id="Page_32">[Pg 32]</a></span> +<span class="i0">And print on thy soft cheek a parent's kiss,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">This it should seem was not reserved for me.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Yet this was in my nature,—as it is,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">I know not what there is, yet something like to this.<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<hr class="r5"/> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'<i>Yet though dull hate as duty should be taught</i>,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">I know that thou wilt love me; though my name<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Should be shut out from thee as spell still fraught<br /></span> +<span class="i0">With desolation and a broken claim,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Though the grave close between us,—'t were the same,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">I know that thou wilt love me, though to drain<br /></span> +<span class="i0">My blood from out thy being were an aim<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And an attainment,—all will be in vain.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>To all these charges against her, sent all over the world in verses +as eloquent as the English language is capable of, the wife replied +nothing.</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'Assailed by slander and the tongue of strife,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Her only answer was,—a blameless life.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>She had a few friends, a very few, with whom she sought solace and +sympathy. One letter from her, written at this time, preserved by +accident, is the only authentic record of how the matter stood with her.</p> + +<p>We regret to say that the publication of this document was not brought +forth to clear Lady Byron's name from her husband's slanders, but to +shield him from the worst accusation against him, by showing that this +crime was not included in the few private confidential revelations that +friendship wrung from the young wife at this period.</p> + +<p>Lady Anne Barnard, authoress of 'Auld Robin Grey',<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_33" id="Page_33">[Pg 33]</a></span> a friend whose +age and experience made her a proper confidante, sent for the +broken-hearted, perplexed wife, and offered her a woman's sympathy.</p> + +<p>To her Lady Byron wrote many letters, under seal of confidence, and +Lady Anne says: 'I will give you a few paragraphs transcribed from +one of Lady Byron's own letters to me. It is sorrowful to think that +in a very little time this young and amiable creature, wise, patient, +and feeling, will have her character mistaken by every one who reads +Byron's works. To rescue her from this I preserved her letters, and +when she afterwards expressed a fear that anything of her writing +should ever fall into hands to injure him (I suppose she meant by +publication), I safely assured her that it never should. But here this +letter shall be placed, a sacred record in her favour, unknown to +herself.</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I am a very incompetent judge of the impression which the last Canto +of "Childe Harold" may produce on the minds of indifferent readers.</p> + +<p>'It contains the usual trace of a conscience restlessly awake, though +his object has been too long to aggravate its burden, as if it could +thus be oppressed into eternal stupor. I will hope, as you do, that it +survives for his ultimate good.</p> + +<p>'It was the acuteness of his remorse, impenitent in its character, +which so long seemed to demand from my compassion to spare every +semblance of reproach, every look of grief, which might have said to +his conscience, "You have made me wretched."</p> + +<p>'I am decidedly of opinion that he is responsible. He has wished to +be thought partially deranged, or on the brink of it, to perplex +observers and <i>prevent them from tracing effects to their real causes</i> +through all the intricacies of his conduct. I was, as I told you, at +one time the dupe of his acted insanity, and clung to the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_34" id="Page_34">[Pg 34]</a></span> former +delusions in regard to the motives that concerned me personally, till +the whole system was laid bare.</p> + +<p>'He is the absolute monarch of words, and uses them, as Bonaparte did +lives, for conquest, without more regard to their intrinsic value, +considering them only as ciphers, which must derive all their import +from the situation in which he places them, and the ends to which he +adapts them, with such consummate skill.</p> + + +<p>'Why, then, you will say, does he not employ them to give a better +colour to his own character? Because he is too good an actor to +over-act, or to assume a moral garb, which it would be easy to strip +off.</p> + +<p>'In regard to his poetry, egotism is the vital principle of his +imagination, which it is difficult for him to kindle on any subject +with which his own character and interests are not identified; but by +the introduction of fictitious incidents, by change of scene or time, +<i>he has enveloped his poetical disclosures in a system impenetrable +except to a very few</i>; and his constant desire of creating a sensation +makes him not averse to be the object of wonder and curiosity, even +though accompanied <i>by some dark and vague suspicions</i>.</p> + +<p>'Nothing has contributed more to the misunderstanding of his real +character than the lonely grandeur in which he shrouds it, and his +affectation of being above mankind, when he exists almost in their +voice. The romance of his sentiments is another feature of this mask +of state. I know no one more habitually destitute of that enthusiasm +he so beautifully expresses, and to which he can work up his fancy +chiefly by contagion.</p> + +<p>'<i>I had heard he was the best of brothers, the most generous of +friends, and I thought such feelings only required to be warmed and +cherished into more diffusive benevolence. Though these opinions are +eradicated, and could never return but with the decay of my memory</i>, +you will not wonder if there are still moments when the association of +feelings which arose from them soften and sadden my thoughts.</p> + +<p>'But I have not thanked you, dearest Lady Anne, for your kindness in +regard to a principal object,—that of rectifying false<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_35" id="Page_35">[Pg 35]</a></span> impressions. +I trust you understand my wishes, which never were to injure Lord +Byron in any way; for, <i>though he would not suffer me to remain his +wife, he cannot prevent me from continuing his friend; and it was from +considering myself as such that I silenced the accusations by which my +own conduct might have been more fully justified</i>.</p> + +<p>'It is not necessary to speak ill of his heart in general; it is +sufficient that to me it was hard and impenetrable,—that my own must +have been broken before his could have been touched. I would rather +represent this as <i>my</i> misfortune than as <i>his</i> guilt; but, surely, +that misfortune is not to be made my crime! Such are my feelings; you +will judge how to act.</p> + +<p>'His allusions to me in "Childe Harold" are cruel and cold, but +with such a semblance as to make <i>me</i> appear so, and to attract all +sympathy to himself. It is said in this poem that hatred of him will +be taught as a lesson to his child. I might appeal to all who have +ever heard me speak of him, and still more to my own heart, to witness +that there has been no moment when I have remembered injury otherwise +than affectionately and sorrowfully.</p> + +<p>'It is not my duty to give way to hopeless and wholly unrequited +affection; but, so long as I live, my chief struggle will probably +be not to remember him too kindly. I do not seek the sympathy of the +world, but I wish to be known by those whose opinion is valuable and +whose kindness is dear to me. Among such, my dear Lady Anne, you will +ever be remembered by your truly affectionate</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">A. Byron</span>.' +</p></div> + +<p>On this letter I observe Lord Lindsay remarks that it shows a noble +but rather severe character, and a recent author has remarked that it +seemed to be written rather in a 'cold spirit of criticism.' It seems +to strike these gentlemen as singular that Lady Byron did not enjoy the +poem! But there are two remarkable sentences in this letter which have +escaped the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_36" id="Page_36">[Pg 36]</a></span> critics hitherto. Lord Byron, in this, the Third Canto +of 'Childe Harold,' expresses in most affecting words an enthusiasm +of love for his sister. So long as he lived he was her faithful +correspondent; he sent her his journals; and, dying, he left her and +her children everything he had in the world. This certainly seems like +an affectionate brother; but in what words does Lady Byron speak of +this affection?</p> + +<p>'I <i>had heard he was the best of brothers</i>, the most generous of +friends. I thought these feelings only required to be warmed and +cherished into more diffusive benevolence. <span class="smcap">These opinions are +eradicated, and could never return but with the decay of memory.</span>' +Let me ask those who give this letter as a proof that at this time no +idea such as I have stated was in Lady Byron's mind, to account for +these words. Let them please answer these questions: Why had Lady Byron +ceased to think him a good brother? Why does she use so strong a word +as that the opinion was eradicated, torn up by the roots, and could +never grow again in her except by decay of memory?</p> + +<p>And yet this is a document Lord Lindsay vouches for as authentic, and +which he brings forward <i>in defence</i> of Lord Byron.</p> + +<p>Again she says,'Though he <i>would not suffer me to remain his wife</i>, he +cannot prevent me from continuing his friend.' Do these words not say +that in some past time, in some decided manner, Lord Byron had declared +to her his rejection of her as a wife? I shall yet have occasion to +explain these words.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_37" id="Page_37">[Pg 37]</a></span></p> + +<p>Again she says, 'I silenced accusations by which my conduct might have +been more fully justified.'</p> + +<p>The people in England who are so very busy in searching out evidence +against my true story have searched out and given to the world an +important confirmation of this assertion of Lady Byron's.</p> + +<p>It seems that the confidential waiting-maid who went with Lady Byron +on her wedding journey has been sought out and interrogated, and, as +appears by description, is a venerable, respectable old person, quite +in possession of all her senses in general, and of that sixth sense of +propriety in particular, which appears not to be a common virtue in our +days.</p> + +<p>As her testimony is important, we insert it just here, with a +description of her person in full. The ardent investigators thus +speak:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'Having gained admission, we were shown into a small but neatly +furnished and scrupulously clean apartment, where sat the object +of our visit. Mrs. Mimms is a venerable-looking old lady, of short +stature, slight and active appearance, with a singularly bright and +intelligent countenance. Although midway between eighty and ninety +years of age, she is in full possession of her faculties, discourses +freely and cheerfully, hears apparently as well as ever she did, +and her sight is so good that, aided by a pair of spectacles, she +reads the Chronicle every day with ease. Some idea of her competency +to contribute valuable evidence to the subject which now so much +engages public attention on three continents may be found from her +own narrative of her personal relations with Lady Byron. Mrs. Mimms +was born in the neighbourhood of Seaham, and knew Lady Byron from +childhood. During the long period of ten years she was Miss Milbanke's +lady's-maid, and in that capacity became the close confidante of<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_38" id="Page_38">[Pg 38]</a></span> her +mistress. There were circumstances which rendered their relationship +peculiarly intimate. Miss Milbanke had no sister or female friend +to whom she was bound by the ties of more than a common affection; +and her mother, whatever other excellent qualities she may have +possessed, was too high-spirited and too hasty in temper to attract +the sympathies of the young. Some months before Miss Milbanke was +married to Lord Byron, Mrs. Mimms had quitted her service on the +occasion of her own marriage with Mr. Mimms; but she continued to +reside in the neighbourhood of Seaham, and remained on the most +friendly terms with her former mistress. As the courtship proceeded, +Miss Milbanke concealed nothing from her faithful attendant; and +when the wedding-day was fixed, she begged Mrs. Mimms to return and +fulfil the duties of lady's-maid, at least during the honeymoon. Mrs. +Mimms at the time was nursing her first child, and it was no small +sacrifice to quit her own home at such a moment, but she could not +refuse her old mistress's request. Accordingly, she returned to Seaham +Hall some days before the wedding, was present at the ceremony, and +then preceded Lord and Lady Byron to Halnaby Hall, near Croft, in the +North Riding of Yorkshire, one of Sir Ralph Milbanke's seats, where +the newly married couple were to spend the honeymoon. Mrs. Mimms +remained with Lord and Lady Byron during the three weeks they spent at +Halnaby Hall, and then accompanied them to Seaham, where they spent +the next six weeks. It was during the latter period that she finally +quitted Lady Byron's service; but she remained in the most friendly +communication with her ladyship till the death of the latter, and for +some time was living in the neighbourhood of Lady Byron's residence +in Leicestershire, where she had frequent opportunities of seeing her +former mistress. It may be added that Lady Byron was not unmindful of +the faithful services of her friend and attendant in the instructions +to her executors contained in her will. Such was the position of Mrs. +Mimms towards Lady Byron; and we think no one will question that +it was of a nature to entitle all that Mrs. Mimms may say on the +subject of the relations of Lord and Lady Byron to the most respectful +consideration and credit.'</p></div> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_39" id="Page_39">[Pg 39]</a></span></p> + +<p>Such is the chronicler's account of the faithful creature whom nothing +but intense indignation and disgust at Mrs. Beecher Stowe would lead +to speak on her mistress's affairs; but Mrs. Beecher Stowe feels none +the less sincere respect for her, and is none the less obliged to her +for having spoken. Much of Mrs. Mimms's testimony will be referred to +in another place; we only extract one passage, to show that while Lord +Byron spent his time in setting afloat slanders against his wife, she +spent hers in sealing the mouths of witnesses against him.</p> + +<p>Of the period of the honeymoon Mrs. Mimms says:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'The happiness of Lady Byron, however, was of brief duration; even +during the short three weeks they spent at Halnaby, the irregularities +of Lord Byron occasioned her the greatest distress, and she even +contemplated returning to her father. Mrs. Mimms was her constant +companion and confidante through this painful period, and she does not +believe that her ladyship concealed a thought from her. <i>With laudable +reticence, the old lady absolutely refuses to disclose the particulars +of Lord Byron's misconduct at this time; she gave Lady Byron a solemn +promise not to do so.</i></p> + +<hr class="tb" /> + +<p>'So serious did Mrs. Mimms consider the conduct of Lord Byron, that +she recommended her mistress to confide all the circumstances to her +father, Sir Ralph Milbanke, a calm, kind, and most excellent parent, +and take his advice as to her future course. At one time Mrs. Mimms +thinks Lady Byron had resolved to follow her counsel and impart her +wrongs to Sir Ralph; but on arriving at Seaham Hall her ladyship +strictly enjoined Mrs. Mimms to preserve absolute silence on the +subject—a course which she followed herself;—so that when, six weeks +later, she and Lord Byron left Seaham for London, not a word had +escaped her to disturb her parents' tranquility as to their daughter's +domestic happiness.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_40" id="Page_40">[Pg 40]</a></span> As might be expected, Mrs. Mimms bears the +warmest testimony to the noble and lovable qualities of her departed +mistress. She also declares that Lady Byron was by no means of a cold +temperament, but that the affectionate impulses of her nature were +checked by the unkind treatment she experienced from her husband.'</p></div> + +<p>We have already shown that Lord Byron had been, ever since his +separation, engaged in a systematic attempt to reverse the judgment of +the world against himself, by making converts of all his friends to a +most odious view of his wife's character, and inspiring them with the +zeal of propagandists to spread these views through society. We have +seen how he prepared partisans to interpret the Fourth Canto of 'Childe +Harold.'</p> + +<p>This plan of solemn and heroic accusation was the first public attack +on his wife. Next we see him commencing a scurrilous attempt to turn +her to ridicule in the First Canto of 'Don Juan.'</p> + +<p>It is to our point now to show how carefully and cautiously this Don +Juan campaign was planned.</p> + +<p>Vol. IV. p. 138, we find Letter 325 to Mr. Murray:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="author"> + +'<span class="smcap">Venice</span>: January 25, 1819. +</p> + +<p>'You will do me the favour to <i>print privately, for private +distribution, fifty copies of "Don Juan."</i> The list of the men to whom +I wish it presented I will send hereafter.'</p></div> + +<p>The poem, as will be remembered, begins with the meanest and foulest +attack on his wife that ever ribald wrote, and puts it in close +neighbourhood with scenes which every pure man or woman must feel +to be the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_41" id="Page_41">[Pg 41]</a></span> beastly utterances of a man who had lost all sense of +decency. Such a potion was too strong to be administered even in a +time when great license was allowed, and men were not over-nice. But +Byron chooses fifty armour-bearers of that class of men who would +find indecent ribaldry about a wife a good joke, and talk about the +'artistic merits' of things which we hope would make an honest boy +blush.</p> + +<p>At this time he acknowledges that his vices had brought him to a state +of great exhaustion, attended by such debility of the stomach that +nothing remained on it; and adds, 'I was obliged to reform my way of +life, which was conducting me from the yellow leaf to the ground with +all deliberate speed.'<a name="FNanchor_13_13" id="FNanchor_13_13"></a><a href="#Footnote_13_13" class="fnanchor">[13]</a> But as his health is a little better he +employs it in making the way to death and hell elegantly easy for other +young men, by breaking down the remaining scruples of a society not +over-scrupulous.</p> + +<p>Society revolted, however, and fought stoutly against the nauseous +dose. His sister wrote to him that she heard such things said of it +that <i>she</i> never would read it; and the outcry against it on the part +of all women of his acquaintance was such that for a time he was quite +overborne; and the Countess Guiccioli finally extorted a promise from +him to cease writing it. Nevertheless, there came a time when England +accepted 'Don Juan,'—when Wilson, in the 'Noctes Ambrosianæ,' praised +it as a classic, and took every oppor<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_42" id="Page_42">[Pg 42]</a></span>tunity to reprobate Lady Byron's +conduct. When first it appeared the 'Blackwood' came out with that +indignant denunciation of which we have spoken, and to which Byron +replied in the extracts we have already quoted. He did something more +than reply. He marked out Wilson as one of the strongest literary men +of the day, and set his 'initiated' with their documents to work upon +him.</p> + +<p>One of these documents to which he requested Wilson's attention was the +private autobiography, written expressly to give his own story of all +the facts of the marriage and separation.</p> + +<p>In the indignant letter he writes Murray on the 'Blackwood' article, +Vol. IV., Letter 350—under date December 10, 1819—he says:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I sent home for Moore, and for Moore only (who has my journal also), +my memoir written up to 1816, and I gave him leave to show it to +whom he pleased, <i>but not to publish</i> on any account. <i>You</i> may read +it, and you may let Wilson read it if he likes—not for his public +opinion, but his private, for I like the man, and care very little +about the magazine. And I could wish Lady Byron herself to read +it, that she may have it in her power to mark anything mistaken or +misstated. As it will never appear till after my extinction, it would +be but fair she should see it; that is to say, herself willing. Your +"Blackwood" accuses me of treating women harshly; but I have been +their martyr; my whole life has been sacrificed to them and by them.'</p></div> + +<p>It was a part of Byron's policy to place Lady Byron in positions before +the world where she <i>could</i> not speak, and where her silence would be +set down to her as<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_43" id="Page_43">[Pg 43]</a></span> haughty, stony indifference and obstinacy. Such was +the pretended negotiation through Madame de Staël, and such now this +apparently fair and generous offer to let Lady Byron see and mark this +manuscript.</p> + +<p>The little Ada is now in her fifth year—a child of singular +sensibility and remarkable mental powers—one of those exceptional +children who are so perilous a charge for a mother.</p> + +<p>Her husband proposes this artful snare to her,—that she shall mark +what is false in a statement which is all built on a damning lie, that +she cannot refute over that daughter's head,—and which would perhaps +be her ruin to discuss.</p> + +<p>Hence came an addition of two more documents, to be used 'privately +among friends,'<a name="FNanchor_14_14" id="FNanchor_14_14"></a><a href="#Footnote_14_14" class="fnanchor">[14]</a> and which 'Blackwood' uses after Lady Byron is +safely out of the world to cast ignominy on her grave—the wife's +letter, that of a mother standing at bay for her daughter, knowing that +she is dealing with a desperate, powerful, unscrupulous enemy.</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="author"> + +'<span class="smcap">Kirkby Mallory</span>: March 10, 1820. +</p> + +<p>'I received your letter of January 1, offering to my perusal a +Memoir of part of your life. I decline to inspect it. I consider +the publication or circulation of such a composition at any time as +prejudicial to Ada's future happiness. For my own sake, I have no +reason to shrink from publication; but, notwithstanding the injuries +which I have suffered, I should lament some of the <i>consequences</i>.</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">A. Byron.</span> +</p> + +<p class="p3">'To Lord Byron.'<br /> +</p></div> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_44" id="Page_44">[Pg 44]</a></span></p> + +<p>Lord Byron, writing for the public, as is his custom, makes reply:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="author"> + +'<span class="smcap">Ravenna</span>: April 3, 1820. +</p> + +<p>'I received yesterday your answer, dated March 10. My offer was an +honest one, and surely could only be construed as such even by the +most malignant casuistry. I could answer you, but it is too late, and +it is not worth while. To the mysterious menace of the last sentence, +whatever its import may be—and I cannot pretend to unriddle it—I +could hardly be very sensible even if I understood it, as, before it +can take place, I shall be where "nothing can touch him further".... I +advise you, however, to anticipate the period of your intention, for, +be assured, no power of figures can avail beyond the present; and if +it could, I would answer with the Florentine:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'"Ed io, che posto son con loro in croce</span><br /> +<span class="i0">... e certo</span><br /> +<span class="i0">La fiera moglie, più ch' altro, mi nuoce<a name="FNanchor_15_15" id="FNanchor_15_15"></a><a href="#Footnote_15_15" class="fnanchor">[15]</a>."</span><br /> +</div> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">Byron.</span></p> + +<p class="p3"> +'To Lady Byron.' +</p> +</div></div> + +<p>Two things are very evident in this correspondence: Lady Byron +intimates that, if he publishes his story, some <i>consequences</i> must +follow which she shall regret.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron receives this as a threat, and says he doesn't understand +it. But directly after he says, 'Before IT can take place, I shall be,' +&c.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_45" id="Page_45">[Pg 45]</a></span></p> + +<p>The intimation is quite clear. He <i>does</i> understand what the +consequences alluded to are. They are evidently that Lady Byron will +speak out and tell her story. He says she cannot do this till <i>after +he is dead</i>, and then he shall not care. In allusion to her accuracy +as to dates and figures, he says: 'Be assured no power of figures can +avail beyond the present' (life); and then ironically <i>advises</i> her to +<i>anticipate the period</i>,—i.e. to speak out while he is alive.</p> + +<p>In Vol. VI. Letter 518, which Lord Byron wrote to Lady Byron, but did +not send, he says: 'I burned your last note for two reasons,—firstly, +because it was written in a style not very agreeable; and, secondly, +because I wished to take your word without documents, which are the +resources of worldly and suspicious people.'</p> + +<p>It would appear from this that there <i>was</i> a last letter of Lady Byron +to her husband, which he did not think proper to keep on hand, or show +to the 'initiated' with his usual unreserve; that this letter contained +some kind of <i>pledge</i> for which he preferred to take her word, <i>without +documents</i>.</p> + +<p>Each reader can imagine for himself what that <i>pledge</i> might have been; +but from the tenor of the three letters we should infer that it was a +promise of silence for his lifetime, on <i>certain conditions</i>, and that +the publication of the autobiography would violate those conditions, +and make it her duty to speak out.</p> + +<p>This celebrated autobiography forms so conspicuous<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_46" id="Page_46">[Pg 46]</a></span> a figure in the +whole history, that the reader must have a full idea of it, as given by +Byron himself, in Vol. IV. Letter 344, to Murray:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I gave to Moore, who is gone to Rome, my life in MS.,—in +seventy-eight folio sheets, brought down to 1816 ... also a journal +kept in 1814. Neither are for publication during my life, but when I +am cold you may do what you please. In the mean time, if you like to +read them you may, and show them to anybody you like. I care not....'</p></div> + +<p>He tells him also:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'You will find in it a detailed account of my marriage and its +consequences, as true as a party concerned can make such an account.'</p></div> + +<p>Of the extent to which this autobiography was circulated we have the +following testimony of Shelton Mackenzie, in notes to 'The Noctes' of +June 1824.</p> + +<p>In 'The Noctes' Odoherty says:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'The fact is, the work had been copied for the private reading of a +great lady in Florence.'</p></div> + +<p>The note says:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'The great lady in Florence, for whose private reading Byron's +autobiography was copied, was the Countess of Westmoreland.... Lady +Blessington had the autobiography in her possession for weeks, and +confessed to having copied every line of it. Moore remonstrated, and +she committed her copy to the flames, but did not tell him that her +sister, Mrs. Home Purvis, now Viscountess of Canterbury, had also made +a copy!... From the quantity of copy I have seen,—and others were +more in the way of falling in with it than myself,—I surmise that at +least half a dozen copies were made, and of these <i>five</i> are now in<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_47" id="Page_47">[Pg 47]</a></span> +existence. Some particular parts, such as the marriage and separation, +were copied separately; but I think there cannot be less than five +full copies yet to be found.'</p></div> + +<p>This was written <i>after the original autobiography was burned</i>.</p> + +<p>We may see the zeal and enthusiasm of the Byron party,—copying +seventy-eight folio sheets, as of old Christians copied the Gospels. +How widely, fully, and thoroughly, thus, by this secret process, was +society saturated with Byron's own versions of the story that related +to himself and wife! Against her there was only the complaint of an +absolute silence. She put forth no statements, no documents; had no +party, sealed the lips of her counsel, and even of her servants; yet +she could not but have known, from time to time, how thoroughly and +strongly this web of mingled truth and lies was being meshed around her +steps.</p> + +<p>From the time that Byron first saw the importance of securing Wilson on +his side, and wrote to have his partisans attend to him, we may date +an entire revolution in the 'Blackwood.' It became Byron's warmest +supporter,—is to this day the bitterest accuser of his wife.</p> + +<p>Why was this wonderful silence? It appears by Dr. Lushington's +statements, that, when Lady Byron did speak, she had a story to tell +that powerfully affected both him and Romilly,—a story supported by +evidence on which they were willing to have gone to public trial. +Supposing, now, she had imitated Lord Byron's example, and, avoiding +public trial, had put her story<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_48" id="Page_48">[Pg 48]</a></span> into private circulation; as he sent +'Don Juan' to fifty confidential friends, suppose she had sent a +written statement of her story to fifty judges as intelligent as the +two that had heard it; or suppose she had confronted his autobiography +with her own,—what would have been the result?</p> + +<p>The first result might have been Mrs. Leigh's utter ruin. The world may +finally forgive the man of genius anything; but for a woman there is no +mercy and no redemption.</p> + +<p>This ruin Lady Byron prevented by her utter silence and great +self-command. Mrs. Leigh never lost position. Lady Byron never so +varied in her manner towards her as to excite the suspicions even of +her confidential old servant.</p> + +<p>To protect Mrs. Leigh effectually, it must have been necessary to +continue to exclude even her own mother from the secret, as we are +assured she did at first; for, had she told Lady Milbanke, it is +not possible that so high-spirited a woman could have restrained +herself from such outward expressions as would at least have awakened +suspicion. There was no resource but this absolute silence.</p> + +<p>Lady Blessington, in her last conversation with Lord Byron, thus +describes the life Lady Byron was leading. She speaks of her as +'wearing away her youth in almost monastic seclusion, questioned by +some, appreciated by few, seeking consolation alone in the discharge of +her duties, and avoiding all external demonstrations of a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_49" id="Page_49">[Pg 49]</a></span> grief that +her pale cheek and solitary existence alone were vouchers for.'<a name="FNanchor_16_16" id="FNanchor_16_16"></a><a href="#Footnote_16_16" class="fnanchor">[16]</a></p> + +<p>The main object of all this silence may be imagined, if we remember +that if Lord Byron had not died,—had he truly and deeply repented, +and become a thoroughly good man, and returned to England to pursue a +course worthy of his powers, there was on record neither word nor deed +from his wife to stand in his way.</p> + +<p><span class="smcap">His place was kept in society</span>, ready for him to return to +whenever he came clothed and in his right mind. He might have had the +heart and confidence of his daughter unshadowed by a suspicion. He +might have won the reverence of the great and good in his own lands and +all lands. That hope, which was the strong support, the prayer of the +silent wife, it did not please God to fulfil.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron died a worn-out man at thirty-six. But the bitter seeds he +had sown came up, after his death, in a harvest of thorns over his +grave; and there were not wanting hands to use them as instruments of +torture on the heart of his widow.</p> + +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_50" id="Page_50">[Pg 50]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_III" id="CHAPTER_III">CHAPTER III.</a></h2> + +<p class="ph4">RÉSUMÉ OF THE CONSPIRACY.</p> + + +<p>We have traced the conspiracy of Lord Byron against his wife up to its +latest device. That the reader's mind may be clear on the points of the +process, we shall now briefly recapitulate the documents in the order +of time.</p> + +<p>I. March 17, 1816.—While negotiations for separation were +pending,—'<i>Fare thee well, and if for ever</i>.'</p> + +<p>While writing these pages, we have received from England the testimony +of one who has seen the original draught of that 'Fare thee well.' This +original copy had evidently been subjected to the most careful and +acute revision. Scarcely two lines that were not interlined, scarcely +an adjective that was not exchanged for a better; showing that the +noble lord was not so far overcome by grief as to have forgotten his +reputation. (Found its way to the public prints through the imprudence +of <i>a friend</i>.)</p> + +<p>II. March 29, 1816.—An attack on Lady Byron's old governess for having +been born poor, for being homely, and for having unduly influenced his +wife against him; promising that her grave should be a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_51" id="Page_51">[Pg 51]</a></span> fiery bed, +&c.; also praising his wife's perfect and remarkable truthfulness and +discernment, that made it impossible for flattery to fool, or baseness +blind her; but ascribing all his woes to her being fooled and blinded +by this same governess. (Found its way to the prints by the imprudence +of <i>a friend</i>.)</p> + +<p>III. September 1816.—Lines on hearing that Lady Byron is ill. Calls +her a Clytemnestra, who has secretly set assassins on her lord; says +she is a mean, treacherous, deceitful liar, and has entirely departed +from her early truth, and become the most unscrupulous and unprincipled +of women. (Never printed till after Lord Byron's death, but circulated +<i>privately</i> among the '<i>initiated</i>.')</p> + +<p>IV. Aug. 9, 1817.—Gives to M. G. Lewis a paper for circulation +among friends in England, stating that what he most wants is <i>public +investigation</i>, which has always been denied him; and daring Lady Byron +and her counsel to come out publicly. (Found in M. G. Lewis's portfolio +after his death; never heard of before, except among the 'initiated.')</p> + +<p>Having given M. G. Lewis's document time to work,—</p> + +<p>January 1818.—Gives the Fourth Canto of 'Childe Harold'<a name="FNanchor_17_17" id="FNanchor_17_17"></a><a href="#Footnote_17_17" class="fnanchor">[17]</a> to the +public.</p> + +<p>Jan. 25, 1819.—Sends to Murray to print for private circulation among +the 'initiated' the First Canto of 'Don Juan.'</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_52" id="Page_52">[Pg 52]</a></span></p> + +<p>Is nobly and severely rebuked for this insult to his wife by the +'Blackwood,' August 1819.</p> + +<p>October 1819.—Gives Moore the manuscript 'Autobiography,' with leave +to show it to whom he pleases, and print it after his death.</p> + +<p>Oct. 29, 1819, Vol. IV. Letter 344.—Writes to Murray, that he may read +all this 'Autobiography,' and show it to anybody he likes.</p> + +<p>Dec. 10, 1819.—Writes to Murray on this article in 'Blackwood' +against 'Don Juan' and himself, which he supposes written by Wilson; +sends a complimentary message to Wilson, and asks him to read his +'Autobiography' sent by Moore. (Letter 350.)</p> + +<p>March 15, 1820.—Writes and dedicates to I. Disraeli, Esq., a +vindication of himself in reply to the 'Blackwood' on 'Don Juan,' +containing an indignant defence of his own conduct in relation to his +wife, and maintaining that he never yet has had an opportunity of +knowing whereof he has been accused; accusing Sir S. Romilly of taking +his retainer, and then going over to the adverse party, &c. (Printed +for <i>private circulation</i>; to be found in the standard English edition +of Murray, vol. ix. p. 57.)</p> + +<p>To this condensed account of Byron's strategy we must add the crowning +stroke of policy which transmitted this warfare to his friends, to be +continued after his death.</p> + +<p>During the last visit Moore made him in Italy, and just before Byron +presented to him his 'Autobiography,'<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_53" id="Page_53">[Pg 53]</a></span> the following scene occurred, as +narrated by Moore (vol. iv. p. 221):—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'The chief subject of conversation, when alone, was his marriage, and +the load of obloquy which it had brought upon him. He was most anxious +to know <i>the worst</i> that had been alleged of his conduct; and, as this +was our first opportunity of speaking together on the subject, I did +not hesitate to put his candour most searchingly to the proof, not +only by enumerating the various charges I had heard brought against +him by others, but by specifying such portions of these charges as I +had been inclined to think not incredible myself.</p> + +<p>'To all this he listened with patience, and answered with the most +unhesitating frankness; laughing to scorn the tales of unmanly outrage +related of him, but at the same time acknowledging that there had +been in his conduct but too much to blame and regret, and stating one +or two occasions during his domestic life when he had been irritated +into letting the "breath of bitter words" escape him, ... which he now +evidently remembered with a degree of remorse and pain which might +well have entitled them to be forgotten by others.</p> + +<p>'It was, at the same time, manifest, that, whatever admissions he +might be inclined to make respecting his own delinquencies, <i>the +inordinate measure of the punishment dealt out to him had sunk deeply +into his mind, and, with the usual effect of such injustice, drove him +also to be unjust himself; so much so, indeed, as to impute to the +quarter to which he now traced all his ill fate a feeling of fixed +hostility to himself, which would not rest, he thought, even at his +grave, but continue to persecute his memory as it was now embittering +his life</i>. So strong was this impression upon him, that, during one of +our few intervals of seriousness, he conjured me by our friendship, +if, as he both felt and hoped, I should survive him, not to let +unmerited censure settle upon his name.'</p></div> + +<p>In this same account, page 218, Moore testifies that</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_54" id="Page_54">[Pg 54]</a></span></p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'Lord Byron disliked his countrymen, but only because he knew that his +morals were held in contempt by them. The English, themselves rigid +observers of family duties, could not pardon him the neglect of his, +nor his trampling on principles; therefore, neither did he like being +presented to them, nor did they, especially when they had wives with +them, like to cultivate his acquaintance. Still there was a strong +desire in all of them to see him; and the women in particular, who did +not dare to look at him but by stealth, said in an under-voice, "What +a pity it is!" If, however, any of his compatriots of exalted rank and +high reputation came forward to treat him with courtesy, he showed +himself obviously flattered by it. It seemed that, to the wound which +remained open in his ulcerated heart, such soothing attentions were as +drops of healing balm, which comforted him.'</p></div> + +<p>When in society, we are further informed by a lady quoted by Mr. +Moore, he was in the habit of speaking of his wife with much respect +and affection, as an illustrious lady, distinguished for her qualities +of heart and understanding; saying that all the fault of their +cruel separation lay with himself. Mr. Moore seems at times to be +somewhat puzzled by these contradictory statements of his idol, and +speculates not a little on what could be Lord Byron's object in using +such language in public; mentally comparing it, we suppose, with +the free handling which he gave to the same subject in his private +correspondence.</p> + +<p>The innocence with which Moore gives himself up to be manipulated by +Lord Byron, the <i>naïveté</i> with which he shows all the process, let +us a little into the secret of the marvellous powers of charming and +blinding which this great actor possessed.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_55" id="Page_55">[Pg 55]</a></span></p> + +<p>Lord Byron had the beauty, the wit, the genius, the dramatic talent, +which have constituted the strength of some wonderfully fascinating +women.</p> + +<p>There have been women able to lead their leashes of blinded adorers; to +make them swear that black was white, or white black, at their word; +to smile away their senses, or weep away their reason. No matter what +these sirens may say, no matter what they may do, though caught in a +thousand transparent lies, and doing a thousand deeds which would have +ruined others, still men madly rave after them in life, and tear their +hair over their graves. Such an enchanter in man's shape was Lord Byron.</p> + +<p>He led captive Moore and Murray by being beautiful, a genius, and a +lord; calling them 'Dear Tom' and 'Dear Murray,' while they were only +commoners. He first insulted Sir Walter Scott, and then witched his +heart out of him by ingenuous confessions and poetical compliments; he +took Wilson's heart by flattering messages and a beautifully-written +letter; he corresponded familiarly with Hogg; and, before his death, +had made fast friends, in one way or another, of the whole 'Noctes +Ambrosianæ' Club.</p> + +<p>We thus have given the historical <i>résumé</i> of Lord Byron's attacks +on his wife's reputation: we shall add, that they were based on +philosophic principles, showing a deep knowledge of mankind. An +analysis will show that they can be philosophically classified:—</p> + +<p>1st. Those which addressed the sympathetic nature<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_56" id="Page_56">[Pg 56]</a></span> of man, representing +her as cold, methodical, severe, strict, unforgiving.</p> + +<p>2nd. Those addressed to the faculty of association, connecting her with +ludicrous and licentious images; taking from her the usual protection +of womanly delicacy and sacredness.</p> + +<p>3rd. Those addressed to the moral faculties, accusing her as artful, +treacherous, untruthful, malignant.</p> + +<p>All these various devices he held in his hand, shuffling and dealing +them as a careful gamester his pack of cards according to the +exigencies of the game. He played adroitly, skilfully, with blinding +flatteries and seductive wiles, that made his victims willing dupes.</p> + +<p>Nothing can more clearly show the power and perfectness of his +enchantments than the masterly way in which he turned back the moral +force of the whole English nation, which had risen at first in its +strength against him. The victory was complete.</p> + +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_57" id="Page_57">[Pg 57]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_IV" id="CHAPTER_IV">CHAPTER IV.</a></h2> + +<p class="ph4">RESULTS AFTER LORD BYRON'S DEATH.</p> + + +<p>At the time of Lord Byron's death, the English public had been so +skilfully manipulated by the Byron propaganda, that the sympathy of +the whole world was with him. A tide of emotion was now aroused in +England by his early death—dying in the cause of Greece and liberty. +There arose a general wail for him, as for a lost pleiad, not only +in England, but over the whole world; a great rush of enthusiasm for +his memory, to which the greatest literary men of England freely gave +voice. By general consent, Lady Byron seems to have been looked upon as +the only cold-hearted unsympathetic person in this general mourning.</p> + +<p>From that time the literary world of England apparently regarded Lady +Byron as a woman to whom none of the decorums, nor courtesies of +ordinary womanhood, nor even the consideration belonging to common +humanity, were due.</p> + +<p>'She that is a widow indeed, and desolate,' has been regarded in all +Christian countries as an object made sacred by the touch of God's +afflicting hand, sacred in<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_58" id="Page_58">[Pg 58]</a></span> her very helplessness; and the old Hebrew +Scriptures give to the Supreme Father no dearer title than 'the widow's +God.' But, on Lord Byron's death, men not devoid of tenderness, men +otherwise generous and of fine feeling, acquiesced in insults to his +widow with an obtuseness that seems, on review, quite incredible.</p> + +<p>Lady Byron was not only a widow, but an orphan. She had no sister for +confidante; no father and mother to whom to go in her sorrows—sorrows +so much deeper and darker to her than they could be to any other human +being. She had neither son nor brother to uphold and protect her. On +all hands it was acknowledged that, so far, there was no fault to be +found in her but her utter silence. Her life was confessed to be pure, +useful, charitable; and yet, in this time of her sorrow, the writers +of England issued article upon article not only devoid of delicacy, +but apparently injurious and insulting towards her, with a blind +unconsciousness which seems astonishing.</p> + +<p>One of the greatest literary powers of that time was the 'Blackwood:' +the reigning monarch on that literary throne was Wilson, the +lion-hearted, the brave, generous, tender poet, and, with some sad +exceptions, the noble man. But Wilson had believed the story of Byron, +and, by his very generosity and tenderness and pity, was betrayed into +injustice.</p> + +<p>In 'The Noctes' of November 1824 there is a conversation of the Noctes +Club, in which North says, 'Byron and I knew each other pretty well; +and I suppose<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_59" id="Page_59">[Pg 59]</a></span> there's no harm in adding, that we appreciated each +other pretty tolerably. Did you ever see his letter to me?'</p> + +<p>The footnote to this says, '<i>This letter, which was PRINTED in Byron's +lifetime, was not published till</i> 1830, when it appeared in Moore's +"Life of Byron." It is one of the most vigorous prose compositions in +the language. Byron had the highest opinion of Wilson's genius and +noble spirit.'</p> + +<p>In the first place, with our present ideas of propriety and good taste, +we should reckon it an indecorum to make the private affairs of a +pure and good woman, whose circumstances under any point of view were +trying, and who evidently shunned publicity, the subject of public +discussion in magazines which were read all over the world.</p> + +<p>Lady Byron, as they all knew, had on her hands a most delicate and +onerous task, in bringing up an only daughter, necessarily inheriting +peculiarities of genius and great sensitiveness; and the many +mortifications and embarrassments which such intermeddling with her +private matters must have given, certainly should have been considered +by men with any pretensions to refinement or good feeling.</p> + +<p>But the literati of England allowed her no consideration, no rest, no +privacy.</p> + +<p>In 'The Noctes' of November 1825 there is the record of a free +conversation upon Lord and Lady Byron's affairs, interlarded with +exhortations to push the bottle, and remarks on whisky-toddy. Medwin's<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_60" id="Page_60">[Pg 60]</a></span> +'Conversations with Lord Byron' is discussed, which, we are told in a +note, appeared a few months after the <i>noble</i> poet's death.</p> + +<p>There is a rather bold and free discussion of Lord Byron's +character—his fondness for gin and water, on which stimulus he wrote +'Don Juan;' and James Hogg says pleasantly to Mullion, 'O Mullion! it's +a pity you and Byron could na ha' been acquaint. There would ha' been +brave sparring to see who could say the wildest and the dreadfullest +things; for he had neither fear of man or woman, and would ha' his joke +or jeer, cost what it might.' And then follows a specimen of one of +his jokes with an actress, that, in indecency, certainly justifies the +assertion. From the other stories which follow, and the parenthesis +that occurs frequently ('Mind your glass, James, a little more!'), it +seems evident that the party are progressing in their peculiar kind of +<i>civilisation</i>.</p> + +<p>It is in this same circle and paper that Lady Byron's private affairs +come up for discussion. The discussion is thus elegantly introduced:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p><i>Hogg.</i>—'Reach me the black bottle. I say, Christopher, what, after +all, is your opinion o' Lord and Leddy Byron's quarrel? Do you +yoursel' take part with him, or with her? I wad like to hear your real +opinion.'</p> + +<p><i>North.</i>—'Oh, dear! Well, Hogg, since you will have it, I think +Douglas Kinnard and Hobhouse are bound to tell us whether there be any +truth, and how much, in this story about the <i>declaration</i>, signed by +Sir Ralph' [Milbanke].</p></div> + +<p>The note here tells us that this refers to a statement<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_61" id="Page_61">[Pg 61]</a></span> that appeared +in 'Blackwood' immediately after Byron's death, to the effect that, +previous to the formal separation from his wife, Byron required and +obtained from Sir Ralph Milbanke, Lady Byron's father, a statement to +the effect that Lady Byron had no charge of moral delinquency to bring +against him.<a name="FNanchor_18_18" id="FNanchor_18_18"></a><a href="#Footnote_18_18" class="fnanchor">[18]</a></p> + +<p>North continues:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'And I think Lady Byron's letter—the "Dearest Duck" one I +mean—should really be forthcoming, if her ladyship's friends wish to +stand fair before the public. At present we have nothing but loose +talk of society to go upon; and certainly, <i>if the things that are +said be true, there must be thorough explanation from some quarter, +or the tide will continue, as it has assuredly begun, to flow in a +direction very opposite to what we were for years accustomed</i>. Sir, +they must <i>explain this business of the letter</i>. You have, of course, +heard about the invitation it contained, the warm, affectionate +invitation, to Kirkby Mallory'——</p></div> + +<p>Hogg interposes,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I dinna like to be interruptin' ye, Mr. North; but I must inquire, Is +the <i>jug</i> to stand still while ye're going on at that rate?'</p> + +<p><i>North.</i>—'There, Porker! These things are part and parcel of +the chatter of every bookseller's shop; <i>à fortiori</i>, of every +drawing-room in May Fair. <i>Can</i> the matter stop here? Can a great +man's memory be permitted to incur damnation while these saving +clauses are afloat anywhere uncontradicted?'</p></div> + +<p>And from this the conversation branches off into strong,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_62" id="Page_62">[Pg 62]</a></span> emphatic +praise of Byron's conduct in Greece during the last part of his life.</p> + +<p>The silent widow is thus delicately and considerately reminded in the +'Blackwood' that she is the talk, not only over the whisky-jug of the +Noctes, but in every drawing-room in London; and that she <i>must</i> speak +out and explain matters, or the whole world will set against her.</p> + +<p>But she does not speak yet. The public persecution, therefore, +proceeds. Medwin's book being insufficient, another biographer is to +be selected. Now, the person in the Noctes Club who was held to have +the most complete information of the Byron affairs, and was, on that +account, first thought of by Murray to execute this very delicate task +of writing a memoir which should include the most sacred domestic +affairs of a noble lady and her orphan daughter, was <i>Maginn</i>. Maginn, +the author of the pleasant joke, that 'man never reaches the apex of +civilisation till he is too drunk to pronounce the word,' was the first +person in whose hands the 'Autobiography,' Memoirs, and Journals of +Lord Byron were placed with this view.</p> + +<p>The following note from Shelton Mackenzie, in the June number of 'The +Noctes,' 1824, says,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'At that time, had he been so minded, Maginn (Odoherty) could have got +up a popular Life of Byron as well as most men in England. Immediately +on the account of Byron's death being received in London, John Murray +proposed that Maginn should bring out Memoirs, Journals, and Letters +of Lord Byron, and,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_63" id="Page_63">[Pg 63]</a></span> with this intent, placed in his hand every line +that he (Murray) possessed in Byron's handwriting.... The strong +desire of <i>Byron's family and executors</i> that the "Autobiography" +should be burned, to which desire Murray foolishly yielded, made such +an hiatus in the materials, that Murray and Maginn agreed it would not +answer to bring out the work then. Eventually Moore executed it.'</p></div> + +<p>The character of the times in which this work was to be undertaken will +appear from the following note of Mackenzie's to 'The Noctes' of August +1824, which we copy, with the <i>author's own Italics</i>:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'In the "Blackwood" of July 1824 was a poetical epistle by the +renowned Timothy Tickler to the editor of the "John Bull" magazine, +on an article in his first number. This article ... <i>professed</i> to +be a portion of the veritable "Autobiography" of Byron which was +burned, and was called "My Wedding Night." It appeared to relate +in detail <i>everything</i> that occurred in the twenty-four hours +immediately succeeding that in which Byron was married. It had plenty +of coarseness, and some to spare. It went into particulars such as +hitherto had been given only by Faublas; and it had, notwithstanding, +many phrases and some facts which evidently did not belong to a mere +fabricator. Some years after, I compared this "Wedding Night" with +what I had all assurance of having been transcribed from the actual +manuscripts of Byron, and was persuaded that the magazine-writer must +have had the <i>actual</i> statement before him, or have had a perusal of +it. The writer in "Blackwood" declared his conviction that it really +was Byron's own writing.'</p></div> + +<p>The reader must remember that Lord Byron died April 1824; so that, +according to this, his 'Autobiography' was made the means of this gross +insult to his widow three months after his death.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_64" id="Page_64">[Pg 64]</a></span></p> + +<p>If some powerful cause had not paralysed all feelings of gentlemanly +honour, and of womanly delicacy, and of common humanity, towards Lady +Byron, throughout the whole British nation, no editor would have dared +to open a periodical with such an article; or, if he had, he would have +been overwhelmed with a storm of popular indignation, which, like the +fire upon Sodom, would have made a pillar of salt of him for a warning +to all future generations.</p> + +<p>'Blackwood' reproves the 'John Bull' in a poetical epistle, recognising +the article as coming from Byron, and says to the <i>author</i>,—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'But that <i>you</i>, sir, a wit and a scholar like you,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Should not blush to produce what he blushed not to do,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Take your compliment, youngster; this doubles, almost,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The sorrow that rose when his honour was lost.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>We may not wonder that the 'Autobiography' was burned, as Murray says +in a recent account, by a committee of Byron's <i>friends</i>, including +Hobhouse, his sister, and Murray himself.</p> + +<p>Now, the 'Blackwood' of July 1824 thus declares its conviction that +this outrage on every sentiment of human decency came from Lord Byron, +and that his honour was lost. Maginn does not undertake the memoir. No +memoir at all is undertaken; till finally Moore is selected, as, like +Demetrius of old, a well-skilled gilder and 'maker of silver shrines,' +though <i>not</i> for Diana. To Moore is committed the task of doing<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_65" id="Page_65">[Pg 65]</a></span> his +best for this battered image, in which even the worshippers recognise +foul sulphurous cracks, but which they none the less stand ready to +worship as a genuine article that 'fell down from Jupiter.'</p> + +<p>Moore was a man of no particular nicety as to moralities, but in that +matter seems not very much below what this record shows his average +associates to be. He is so far superior to Maginn, that his vice is +rose-coloured and refined. He does not burst out with such heroic +stanzas as Maginn's frank invitation to Jeremy Bentham:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'Jeremy, throw your pen aside,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">And come get drunk with me;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And we'll go where Bacchus sits astride,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Perched high on barrels three.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>Moore's vice is cautious, soft, seductive, slippery, and covered at +times with a thin, tremulous veil of religious sentimentalism.</p> + +<p>In regard to Byron, he was an unscrupulous, committed partisan: he was +as much bewitched by him as ever man has been by woman; and therefore +to him, at last, the task of editing Byron's 'Memoirs' was given.</p> + +<p>This Byron, whom they all knew to be obscene beyond what even their +most drunken tolerance could at first endure; this man, whose foul +license <i>spoke out</i> what most men conceal from mere respect to the +decent instincts of humanity; whose 'honour was lost,'—was submitted +to this careful manipulator, to be turned out<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_66" id="Page_66">[Pg 66]</a></span> a perfected idol for a +world longing for an idol, as the Israelites longed for the calf in +Horeb.</p> + +<p>The image was to be invested with deceitful glories and shifting +haloes,—admitted faults spoken of as peculiarities of sacred +origin,—and the world given to understand that no common rule or +measure could apply to such an undoubtedly divine production; and so +the hearts of men were to be wrung with pity for his sorrows as the +yearning pain of a god, and with anger at his injuries as sacrilege on +the sacredness of genius, till they were ready to cast themselves at +his feet, and adore.</p> + +<p>Then he was to be set up on a pedestal, like Nebuchadnezzar's image on +the plains of Dura; and what time the world heard the sound of cornet, +sackbut, and dulcimer, in his enchanting verse, they were to fall down +and worship.</p> + +<p>For Lady Byron, Moore had simply the respect that a commoner has for +a lady of rank, and a good deal of the feeling that seems to underlie +all English literature,—that it is no matter what becomes of the woman +when the man's story is to be told. But, with all his faults, Moore was +not a cruel man; and we cannot conceive such outrageous cruelty and +ungentlemanly indelicacy towards an unoffending woman, as he shows in +these 'Memoirs,' without referring them to Lord Byron's own influence +in making him an unscrupulous, committed partisan on his side.</p> + +<p>So little pity, so little sympathy, did he suppose Lady<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_67" id="Page_67">[Pg 67]</a></span> Byron to be +worthy of, that he laid before her, in the sight of all the world, +selections from her husband's letters and journals, in which the +privacies of her courtship and married life were jested upon with a +vulgar levity; letters filled, from the time of the act of separation, +with a constant succession of sarcasms, stabs, stings, epigrams, and +vindictive allusions to herself, bringing her into direct and insulting +comparison with his various mistresses, and implying their superiority +over her. There, too, were gross attacks on her father and mother, as +having been the instigators of the separation; and poor Lady Milbanke, +in particular, is sometimes mentioned with epithets so offensive, that +the editor prudently covers the terms with stars, as intending language +too gross to be printed.</p> + +<p>The last mistress of Lord Byron is uniformly brought forward in +terms of such respect and consideration, that one would suppose that +the usual moral laws that regulate English family life had been +specially repealed in his favour. Moore quotes with approval letters +from Shelley, stating that Lord Byron's connection with La Guiccioli +has been of inestimable benefit to him; and that he is now becoming +what he should be, 'a virtuous man.' Moore goes on to speak of the +connection as one, though somewhat reprehensible, yet as having all +those advantages of marriage and settled domestic ties that Byron's +affectionate spirit had long sighed for, but never before found; and in +his last <i>résumé</i> of the poet's character, at the end of the volume, he +brings the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_68" id="Page_68">[Pg 68]</a></span> mistress into direct comparison with the wife in a single +sentence: 'The woman to whom he gave the love of his maturer years +idolises his name; and, <i>with a single unhappy exception</i>, scarce an +instance is to be found of one brought ... into relations of amity with +him who did not retain a kind regard for him in life, and a fondness +for his memory.'</p> + +<p>Literature has never yet seen the instance of a person, of Lady Byron's +rank in life, placed before the world in a position more humiliating to +womanly dignity, or wounding to womanly delicacy.</p> + +<p>The direct implication is, that she has no feelings to be hurt, no +heart to be broken, and is not worthy even of the consideration which +in ordinary life is to be accorded to a widow who has received those +awful tidings which generally must awaken many emotions, and call for +some consideration, even in the most callous hearts.</p> + +<p>The woman who we are told walked the room, vainly striving to control +the sobs that shook her frame, while she sought to draw from the +servant that last message of her husband which she was never to hear, +was not thought worthy even of the rights of common humanity.</p> + +<p>The first volume of the 'Memoir' came out in 1830. Then for the first +time came one flash of lightning from the silent cloud; and she who +had never spoken before spoke out. The libels on the memory of her +dead parents drew from her what her own wrongs never did. During all +this time, while her husband had been keep<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_69" id="Page_69">[Pg 69]</a></span>ing her effigy dangling +before the public as a mark for solemn curses, and filthy lampoons, +and <i>secretly</i>-circulated disclosures, that spared no sacredness +and violated every decorum, she had not uttered a word. She had +been subjected to nameless insults, discussed in the assemblies of +drunkards, and challenged to speak for herself. Like the chaste lady +in 'Comus,' whom the vile wizard had bound in the enchanted seat to +be 'grinned at and chattered at' by all the filthy rabble of his +dehumanised rout, she had remained pure, lofty, and undefiled; and the +stains of mud and mire thrown upon her had fallen from her spotless +garments.</p> + +<p>Now that she is dead, a recent writer in 'The London Quarterly' dares +give voice to an insinuation which even Byron gave only a <i>suggestion</i> +of when he called his wife Clytemnestra; and hints that she tried the +power of youth and beauty to win to her the young solicitor Lushington, +and a handsome young officer of high rank.</p> + +<p>At this time, <i>such</i> insinuations had not been thought of; and the only +and chief allegation against Lady Byron had been a cruel severity of +virtue.</p> + +<p>At all events, when Lady Byron spoke, the world listened with respect, +and believed what she said.</p> + +<p>Here let us, too, read her statement, and give it the careful attention +she solicits (Moore's 'Life of Byron,' vol. vi. p. 275):—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I have disregarded various publications in which facts within my +own knowledge have been grossly misrepresented; but I am called upon +to notice some of the erroneous statements proceeding<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_70" id="Page_70">[Pg 70]</a></span> from one who +claims to be considered as Lord Byron's confidential and authorised +friend. Domestic details ought not to be intruded on the public +attention: if, however, they <i>are</i> so intruded, the persons affected +by them have a right to refute injurious charges. Mr. Moore has +promulgated his own impressions of private events in which I was most +nearly concerned, as if he possessed a competent knowledge of the +subject. Having survived Lord Byron, I feel increased reluctance to +advert to any circumstances connected with the period of my marriage; +nor is it now my intention to disclose them further than may be +indispensably requisite for the end I have in view. Self-vindication +is not the motive which actuates me to make this appeal, and the +spirit of accusation is unmingled with it; but when the conduct of +my parents is brought forward in a disgraceful light by the passages +selected from Lord Byron's letters, and by the remarks of his +biographer, I feel bound to justify their characters from imputations +which I <i>know</i> to be false. The passages from Lord Byron's letters, to +which I refer, are,—the aspersion on my mother's character (p. 648, +l. 4):<a name="FNanchor_19_19" id="FNanchor_19_19"></a><a href="#Footnote_19_19" class="fnanchor">[19]</a> "My child is very well and flourishing, I hear; but I must +see also. I feel no disposition to resign it to the <i>contagion of its +grandmother's society</i>." The assertion of her dishonourable conduct +in employing a spy (p. 645, l. 7, &c.): "A Mrs. C. (now a kind of +housekeeper and <i>spy of Lady N.'s</i>), who, in her better days, was a +washerwoman, is supposed to be—by the learned—very much the occult +cause of our domestic discrepancies." The seeming exculpation of +myself in the extract (p. 646), with the words immediately following +it, "Her nearest relations are a——;" where the blank clearly implies +something too offensive for publication. These passages tend to throw +suspicion on my parents, and give reason to ascribe the separation +either to their direct agency, or to that of "officious spies" +employed by them.<a name="FNanchor_20_20" id="FNanchor_20_20"></a><a href="#Footnote_20_20" class="fnanchor">[20]</a> From the following part of the narrative (p. +642), it must also be inferred that an undue influence was exercised +by them for the accomplishment of this purpose: "It was<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_71" id="Page_71">[Pg 71]</a></span> in a few +weeks after the latter communication between us (Lord Byron and Mr. +Moore) that Lady Byron adopted the determination of parting from him. +She had left London at the latter end of January, on a visit to her +father's house in Leicestershire; and Lord Byron was in a short time +to follow her. They had parted in the utmost kindness,—she wrote +him a letter, full of playfulness and affection, on the road; and, +immediately on her arrival at Kirkby Mallory, her father wrote to +acquaint Lord Byron that she would return to him no more."</p> + +<p>'In my observations upon this statement, I shall, as far as possible, +avoid touching on any matters relating personally to Lord Byron +and myself. The facts are,—I left London for Kirkby Mallory, the +residence of my father and mother, on the 15th of January, 1816. +Lord Byron had signified to me in writing (Jan. 6) his absolute +desire that I should leave London on the earliest day that I could +conveniently fix. It was not safe for me to undertake the fatigue of a +journey sooner than the 15th. Previously to my departure, it had been +strongly impressed on my mind that Lord Byron was under the influence +of insanity. This opinion was derived in a great measure from the +communications made to me by his nearest relatives and personal +attendant, who had more opportunities than myself of observing him +during the latter part of my stay in town. It was even represented to +me that he was in danger of destroying himself. <i>With the concurrence +of his family</i>, I had consulted Dr. Baillie, as a friend (Jan. 8), +respecting this supposed malady. On acquainting him with the state of +the case, and with Lord Byron's desire that I should leave London, Dr. +Baillie thought that my absence might be advisable as an experiment, +<i>assuming</i> the fact of mental derangement; for Dr. Baillie, not +having had access to Lord Byron, could not pronounce a positive +opinion on that point. He enjoined that, in correspondence with Lord +Byron, I should avoid all but light and soothing topics. Under these +impressions I left London, determined to follow the advice given by +Dr. Baillie. Whatever might have been the nature of Lord Byron's +conduct towards me from the time of my marriage, yet, supposing him +to be in a state of mental alienation, it was not for <i>me</i>, nor for +any person of common<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_72" id="Page_72">[Pg 72]</a></span> humanity, to manifest at that moment a sense +of injury. On the day of my departure, and again on my arrival at +Kirkby (Jan. 16), I wrote to Lord Byron in a kind and cheerful tone, +according to those medical directions.</p> + +<p>'The last letter was circulated, and employed as a pretext for the +charge of my having been subsequently <i>influenced</i> to "desert"<a name="FNanchor_21_21" id="FNanchor_21_21"></a><a href="#Footnote_21_21" class="fnanchor">[21]</a> my +husband. It has been argued that I parted from Lord Byron in perfect +harmony; that feelings incompatible with any deep sense of injury had +dictated the letter which I addressed to him; and that my sentiments +must have been changed by persuasion and interference when I was +under the roof of my parents. These assertions and inferences are +wholly destitute of foundation. When I arrived at Kirkby Mallory, my +parents were unacquainted with the existence of any causes likely to +destroy my prospects of happiness; and, when I communicated to them +the opinion which had been formed concerning Lord Byron's state of +mind, they were most anxious to promote his restoration by every means +in their power. They assured those relations who were with him in +London, that "they would devote their whole care and attention to the +alleviation of his malady;" and hoped to make the best arrangements +for his comfort if he could be induced to visit them.</p> + +<p>'With these intentions, my mother wrote on the 17th to Lord Byron, +inviting him to Kirkby Mallory. She had always treated him with an +affectionate consideration and indulgence, which extended to every +little peculiarity of his feelings. Never did an irritating word +escape her lips in her whole intercourse with him. The accounts given +me after I left Lord Byron, by the persons in constant intercourse +with him, added to those doubts which had before transiently occurred +to my mind as to the reality of the alleged disease; and the reports +of his medical attendant were far from establishing the existence of +anything like lunacy. Under this uncertainty, I deemed it right to +communicate to my parents, that, if I were to consider Lord Byron's +past conduct as that of a person of sound mind, nothing could induce +me to return to him. It therefore appeared expedient, both to them and +myself, to<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_73" id="Page_73">[Pg 73]</a></span> consult the ablest advisers. For that object, and also +to obtain still further information respecting the appearances which +seemed to indicate mental derangement, my mother determined to go to +London. She was empowered by me to take legal opinions on a written +statement of mine, though I had then reasons for reserving a part +of the case from the knowledge even of my father and mother. Being +convinced by the result of these inquiries, and by the tenor of Lord +Byron's proceedings, that the notion of insanity was an illusion, I no +longer hesitated to authorise such measures as were necessary in order +to secure me from being ever again placed in his power. Conformably +with this resolution, my father wrote to him on the 2nd of February +to propose an amicable separation. Lord Byron at first rejected this +proposal; but when it was distinctly notified to him that, if he +persisted in his refusal, recourse must be had to legal measures, he +agreed to sign a deed of separation. Upon applying to Dr. Lushington, +who was intimately acquainted with all the circumstances, to state in +writing what he recollected upon this subject, I received from him the +following letter, by which it will be manifest that my mother cannot +have been actuated by any hostile or ungenerous motives towards Lord +Byron:—</p> + +<p>'"<span class="smcap">My dear Lady Byron</span>,—I can rely upon the accuracy of +my memory for the following statement. I was originally consulted +by Lady Noel, on your behalf, whilst you were in the country. The +circumstances detailed by her were such as justified a separation; +but they were not of that aggravated description as to render such +a measure indispensable. On Lady Noel's representation, I deemed a +reconciliation with Lord Byron practicable, and felt most sincerely +a wish to aid in effecting it. There was not on Lady Noel's part +any exaggeration of the facts; nor, so far as I could perceive, any +determination to prevent a return to Lord Byron: certainly none was +expressed when I spoke of a reconciliation. When you came to town, +in about a fortnight, or perhaps more, after my first interview with +Lady Noel, I was for the first time informed by you of facts utterly +unknown, as I have no doubt, to Sir Ralph and Lady Noel. On receiving +this additional information, my opinion was entirely changed: I +considered a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_74" id="Page_74">[Pg 74]</a></span> reconciliation impossible. I declared my opinion, and +added, that, if such an idea should be entertained, I could not, +either professionally or otherwise, take any part towards effecting it.</p> + +<p class="center"> +'"Believe me, very faithfully yours,</p> + +<p class="author">'"<span class="smcap">Steph. Lushington</span>.</p> + +<p class="p3"> +'"Great George Street, Jan. 31, 1830." +</p> + +<p>'I have only to observe, that, if the statements on which my legal +advisers (the late Sir Samuel Romilly and Dr. Lushington) formed +their opinions were false, the responsibility and the odium should +rest with <i>me only</i>. I trust that the facts which I have here briefly +recapitulated will absolve my father and mother from all accusations +with regard to the part they took in the separation between Lord Byron +and myself.</p> + +<p>'They neither originated, instigated, nor advised that separation; +and they cannot be condemned for having afforded to their daughter +the assistance and protection which she claimed. There is no other +near relative to vindicate their memory from insult. I am therefore +compelled to break the silence which I had hoped always to observe, +and to solicit from the readers of Lord Byron's "Life" an impartial +consideration of the testimony extorted from me.</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">A. I. Noel Byron.</span></p> +<p class="p3"> +'Hanger Hill, Feb. 19, 1830.' +</p></div> + +<p>The effect of this statement on the literary world may be best judged +by the discussion of it by Christopher North (Wilson) in the succeeding +May number of 'The Noctes,' where the bravest and most generous of +literary men that then were—himself the husband of a gentle wife—thus +gives sentence: the conversation is between North and the Shepherd:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p><i>North.</i>—'God forbid I should wound the feelings of Lady Byron, of +whose character, known to me but by the high estimation in which +it is held by all who have enjoyed her friendship, I have always +spoken with respect!... But may I, without harshness<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_75" id="Page_75">[Pg 75]</a></span> or indelicacy, +say, here among ourselves, James, that, by marrying Byron, she took +upon herself, with eyes wide open and conscience clearly convinced, +duties very different from those of which, even in common cases, the +presaging foresight shadows ... the light of the first nuptial moon?'</p> + +<p><i>Shepherd.</i>—'She did that, sir; by my troth, she did that.'</p> + +<p><i>North.</i>—'Miss Milbanke knew that he was reckoned a rake and a +<i>roué</i>; and although his genius wiped off, by impassioned eloquence +in love-letters that were felt to be irresistible, or hid the worst +stain of, that reproach, still Miss Milbanke must have believed it a +perilous thing to be the wife of Lord Byron.... But still, by joining +her life to his in marriage, she pledged her troth and her faith and +her love, under probabilities of severe, disturbing, perhaps fearful +trials, in the future....</p> + +<p>'But I think Lady Byron ought not to have printed that Narrative. +Death abrogates not the rights of a husband to his wife's silence +when speech is fatal ... to his character as a man. Has she not +flung suspicion over his bones interred, that they are the bones of +a—monster?... If Byron's sins or crimes—for we are driven to use +terrible terms—were unendurable and unforgivable as if against the +Holy Ghost, ought the wheel, the rack, or the stake to have extorted +that confession from his widow's breast.... But there was no such +pain here, James: the declaration was voluntary, and it was calm. +Self-collected, and gathering up all her faculties and feelings +into unshrinking strength, she denounced before all the world—and +throughout all space and all time—her husband, as excommunicated by +his vices from woman's bosom.</p> + +<hr class="tb" /> + +<p>''Twas to vindicate the character of her parents that Lady Byron +wrote,—a holy purpose and devout, nor do I doubt sincere. But filial +affection and reverence, sacred as they are, may be blamelessly, nay, +righteously, subordinate to conjugal duties, which die not with the +dead, are extinguished not even by the sins of the dead, were they as +foul as the grave's corruption.'</p></div> + +<p>Here is what John Stuart Mill calls the literature of<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_76" id="Page_76">[Pg 76]</a></span> slavery for +woman, in length and breadth; and, that all women may understand the +doctrine, the Shepherd now takes up his parable, and expounds the true +position of the wife. We render his Scotch into English:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'Not a few such widows do I know, whom brutal, profligate, and savage +husbands have brought to the brink of the grave,—as good, as bright, +as innocent as, and far more forgiving than, Lady Byron. There +they sit in their obscure, rarely-visited dwellings; for sympathy +instructed by suffering knows well that the deepest and most hopeless +misery is least given to complaint.'</p></div> + +<p>Then follows a pathetic picture of one such widow, trembling and +fainting for hunger, obliged, on her way to the well for a can of +water, her only drink, to sit down on a '<i>knowe</i>' and say a prayer.</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'Yet she's decently, yea, tidily dressed, poor creature! in sair worn +widow's clothes, a single suit for Saturday and Sunday; her hair, +untimely gray, is neatly braided under her crape cap; and sometimes, +when all is still and solitary in the fields, and all labour has +disappeared into the house, you may see her stealing by herself, or +leading one wee orphan by the hand, with another at her breast, to the +kirkyard, where the love of her youth and the husband of her prime is +buried.</p> + +<p>'Yet,' says the Shepherd, 'he was a brute, a ruffian, a monster. When +drunk, how he raged and cursed and swore! Often did she dread that, in +his fits of inhuman passion, he would have murdered the baby at her +breast; for she had seen him dash their only little boy, a child of +eight years old, on the floor, till the blood gushed from his ears; +and then the madman threw himself down on the body, and howled for +the gallows. Limmers haunted his door, and he theirs; and it was hers +to lie, not sleep, in a cold, forsaken bed, once the bed of peace, +affection, and perfect happiness. Often he struck her; and once when +she was pregnant<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_77" id="Page_77">[Pg 77]</a></span> with that very orphan now smiling on her breast, +reaching out his wee fingers to touch the flowers on his father's +grave....</p> + +<p>'But she tries to smile among the neighbours, and speaks of her boy's +likeness to its father; nor, when the conversation turns on bygone +times, does she fear to let his name escape her white lips, "My +Robert; the bairn's not ill-favoured, but he will never look like his +father,"—and such sayings, uttered in a calm, sweet voice. Nay, I +remember once how her pale countenance reddened with a sudden flush +of pride, when a gossiping crone alluded to their wedding; and the +widow's eye brightened through her tears to hear how the bridegroom, +sitting that sabbath in his front seat beside his bonny bride, had +not his equal for strength, stature, and all that is beauty in man, +in all the congregation. That, I say, sir, whether right or wrong, +<i>was—forgiveness</i>.'</p></div> + +<p>Here is a specimen of how even generous men had been so perverted by +the enchantment of Lord Byron's genius, as to turn all the pathos and +power of the strongest literature of that day against the persecuted, +pure woman, and for the strong, wicked man. These 'Blackwood' writers +knew, by Byron's own filthy, ghastly writings, which had gone sorely +against their own moral stomachs, that he was foul to the bone. They +could see, in Moore's 'Memoirs' right before them, how he had caught an +innocent girl's heart by sending a love-letter, and offer of marriage, +at the end of a long friendly correspondence,—a letter that had been +written to <i>show</i> to his libertine set, and sent on the toss-up of a +copper, because he cared nothing for it one way or the other.</p> + +<p>They admit that, having won this poor girl, he had been savage, brutal, +drunken, cruel. They had read<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_78" id="Page_78">[Pg 78]</a></span> the filthy taunts in 'Don Juan,' and the +nameless abominations in the 'Autobiography.' They had admitted among +themselves that his honour was lost; but still this abused, desecrated +woman must <i>reverence</i> her brutal master's memory, and not speak, even +to defend the grave of her own kind father and mother.</p> + +<p>That there was <i>no</i> lover of her youth, that the marriage-vow had been +a hideous, shameless cheat, is on the face of Moore's account; yet +the 'Blackwood' does not see it nor feel it, and brings up against +Lady Byron this touching story of a poor widow, who really had had a +true lover once,—a lover maddened, imbruted, lost, through that very +drunkenness in which the Noctes Club were always glorying.</p> + +<p>It is because of such transgressors as Byron, such supporters as +Moore and the Noctes Club, that there are so many helpless, cowering, +broken-hearted, abject women, given over to the animal love which they +share alike with the poor dog,—the dog, who, beaten, kicked, starved, +and cuffed, still lies by his drunken master with great anxious eyes +of love and sorrow, and with sweet, brute forgiveness nestles upon his +bosom, as he lies in his filth in the snowy ditch, to keep the warmth +of life in him. Great is the mystery of this fidelity in the poor, +loving brute,—most mournful and most sacred!</p> + +<p>But, oh that a noble man should have no higher ideal of the love of a +high-souled, heroic woman! Oh that men should teach women that they +owe no higher duties, and are capable of no higher tenderness, than<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_79" id="Page_79">[Pg 79]</a></span> +this loving, unquestioning animal fidelity! The dog is ever-loving, +ever-forgiving, because God has given him no high range of moral +faculties, no sense of justice, no consequent horror at impurity and +vileness.</p> + +<p>Much of the beautiful patience and forgiveness of women is made +possible to them by that utter <i>deadness to the sense of justice</i> which +the laws, literature, and misunderstood religion of England have sought +to induce in woman as a special grace and virtue.</p> + +<p>The lesson to woman in this pathetic piece of special pleading is, +that man may sink himself below the brute, may wallow in filth like +the swine, may turn his home into a hell, beat and torture his +children, forsake the marriage-bed for foul rivals; yet all this does +not dissolve the marriage-vow on her part, nor free his bounden serf +from her obligation to honour his memory,—nay, to sacrifice to it +the honour due to a kind father and mother, slandered in their silent +graves.</p> + +<p>Such was the sympathy, and such the advice, that the best literature +of England could give to a young widow, a peeress of England, whose +husband, as they verily believed and admitted, might have done +<i>worse</i> than all this; whose crimes might have been 'foul, monstrous, +unforgivable as the sin against the Holy Ghost.' If these things be +done in the green tree, what shall be done in the dry? If the peeress +<i>as a wife</i> has no rights, what is the state of the cotter's wife?</p> + +<p>But, in the same paper, North again blames Lady Byron for not +having come out with the whole story<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_80" id="Page_80">[Pg 80]</a></span> before the world at the time +she separated from her husband. He says of the time when she first +consulted counsel through her mother, keeping back one item,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'How weak, and worse than weak, at such a juncture, on which hung her +whole fate, to ask legal advice on an imperfect document! Give the +delicacy of a virtuous woman its due; but at such a crisis, when the +question was whether her conscience was to be free from the oath of +oaths, delicacy should have died, and nature was privileged to show +unashamed—if such there were—the records of uttermost pollution.'</p> + +<p><i>Shepherd.</i>—'And what think ye, sir, that a' this pollution could hae +been, that sae electrified Dr. Lushington?'</p> + +<p><i>North.</i>—'Bad—bad—bad, James. Nameless, it is horrible; named, +it might leave Byron's memory yet within the range of pity and +forgiveness; and, where they are, their sister affections will not be +far; though, like weeping seraphs, standing aloof, and veiling their +wings.'</p> + +<p><i>Shepherd.</i>—'She should indeed hae been silent—till the grave had +closed on her sorrows as on his sins.'</p> + +<p><i>North.</i>—'<i>Even now she should speak</i>,—or some one else for her,— +... and a few words will suffice. <i>Worse</i> the condition of the dead +man's name cannot be—far, far better it might—I believe it would +be—were <i>all</i> the truth somehow or other declared; and declared it +must be, not for Byron's sake only, but for the sake of humanity +itself; and then a mitigated sentence, or eternal silence.'</p></div> + +<p>We have another discussion of Lady Byron's duties in a further number +of 'Blackwood.'</p> + +<p>The 'Memoir' being out, it was proposed that there should be a complete +annotation of Byron's works gotten up, and adorned, for the further +glorification of his memory, with portraits of the various women whom +he had delighted to honour.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_81" id="Page_81">[Pg 81]</a></span></p> + +<p>Murray applied to Lady Byron for her portrait, and was met with a cold, +decided negative. After reading all the particulars of Byron's harem of +mistresses, and Moore's comparisons between herself and La Guiccioli, +one might <i>imagine</i> reasons why a lady, with proper self-respect, +should object to appearing in this manner. One would suppose there +might have been gentlemen who could well appreciate the <i>motive</i> of +that refusal; but it was only considered a new evidence that she was +indifferent to her conjugal duties, and wanting in that <i>respect</i> which +Christopher North had told her she owed a husband's memory, though his +crimes were foul as the rottenness of the grave.</p> + +<p>Never, since Queen Vashti refused to come at the command of a drunken +husband to show herself to his drunken lords, was there a clearer case +of disrespect to the marital dignity on the part of a wife. It was a +plain act of insubordination, rebellion against law and order; and +how shocking in Lady Byron, who ought to feel herself but too much +flattered to be exhibited to the public as the head wife of a man of +genius!</p> + +<p>Means were at once adopted to subdue her contumacy, of which one may +read in a note to the 'Blackwood' (Noctes), September 1832. An artist +was sent down to Ealing to take her picture by stealth as she sat in +church. Two sittings were thus obtained without her knowledge. In the +third one, the artist placed himself boldly before her, and sketched, +so that she could not but observe him. We shall give the rest in +Mackenzie's own<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_82" id="Page_82">[Pg 82]</a></span> words, as a remarkable specimen of the obtuseness, +not to say indelicacy of feeling, which seemed to pervade the literary +circles of England at the time:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'After prayers, Wright and his friend (the artist) were visited by +an ambassador from her ladyship to inquire the meaning of what she +had seen. The reply was, that Mr. Murray <i>must</i> have her portrait, +and was compelled to take what she refused to give. The result was, +Wright was requested to visit her, which he did; taking with him, +not <i>the</i> sketch, which was very good, but another, in which there +was a strong touch of caricature. Rather than allow <i>that</i> to appear +as her likeness (a very natural and womanly feeling by the way), she +consented to sit for the portrait to W. J. Newton, which was engraved, +and is here alluded to.'</p></div> + +<p>The artless barbarism of this note is too good to be lost; but it +is quite borne out by the conversation in the Noctes Club, which it +illustrates.</p> + +<p>It would appear from this conversation that these Byron beauties +appeared successively in pamphlet form; and the picture of Lady Byron +is thus discussed:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p><i>Mullion.</i>—'I don't know if you have seen the last brochure. It has a +charming head of Lady Byron, who, it seems, sat on purpose: and that's +very agreeable to hear of; for it shows her ladyship has got over any +little soreness that Moore's "Life" occasioned, and is now willing +to contribute anything in her power to the real monument of Byron's +genius.'</p> + +<p><i>North.</i>—'I am delighted to hear of this: 'tis really very noble in +the unfortunate lady. I never saw her. Is the face a striking one?'</p> + +<p><i>Mullion.</i>—'Eminently so,—a most calm, pensive, melancholy style of +native beauty,—and a most touching contrast to the maids of Athens, +Annesley, and all the rest of them. I'm sure<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_83" id="Page_83">[Pg 83]</a></span> you'll have the proof +Finden has sent you framed for the Boudoir at the Lodge.'</p> + +<p><i>North.</i>—'By all means. I mean to do that for all the Byron Beauties.'</p></div> + +<p>But it may be asked, Was there not a man in all England with delicacy +enough to feel for Lady Byron, and chivalry enough to speak a bold word +for her? Yes: there was one. Thomas Campbell the poet, when he read +Lady Byron's statement, believed it, as did Christopher North; but it +affected him differently. It appears he did not believe it a wife's +duty to burn herself on her husband's funeral-pile, as did Christopher +North; and held the singular idea, that a wife had <i>some</i> rights as a +human being as well as a husband.</p> + +<p>Lady Byron's own statement appeared in pamphlet form in 1830: at +least, such is the date at the foot of the document. Thomas Campbell, +in 'The New Monthly Magazine,' shortly after, printed a spirited, +gentlemanly defence of Lady Byron, and administered a pointed rebuke to +Moore for the rudeness and indelicacy he had shown in selecting from +Byron's letters the coarsest against herself, her parents, and her +old governess Mrs. Clermont, and by the indecent comparisons he had +instituted between Lady Byron and Lord Byron's last mistress.</p> + +<p>It is refreshing to hear, at last, from somebody who is not altogether +on his knees at the feet of the popular idol, and who has some chivalry +for woman, and some idea of common humanity. He says,—</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_84" id="Page_84">[Pg 84]</a></span></p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I found my right to speak on this painful subject on its now +<i>irrevocable publicity</i>, brought up afresh as it has been by Mr. +Moore, to be the theme of discourse to millions, and, if I err not +much, the cause of misconception to innumerable minds. I claim to +speak of Lady Byron in the right of a man, and of a friend to the +rights of woman, and to liberty, and to natural religion. I claim a +right, more especially, as one of the many friends of Lady Byron, +who, one and all, feel aggrieved by this production. It has virtually +dragged her forward from the shade of retirement, where she had hid +her sorrows, and compelled her to defend the heads of her friends and +her parents from being crushed under the tombstone of Byron. Nay, in a +general view, it has forced her to defend <i>herself</i>; though, with her +true sense and her pure taste, she stands above all special pleading. +To plenary explanation she <i>ought</i> not—she never <i>shall</i> be driven. +Mr. Moore is too much a gentleman not to shudder at the thought of +that; but if other Byronists, of a far different stamp, were to force +the savage ordeal, it is her enemies, and not she, that would have to +dread the burning plough-shares.</p> + +<p>'We, her friends, have no wish to prolong the discussion: but a few +words we <i>must</i> add, even to her admirable statement; for hers is a +cause not only dear to her friends, but having become, from Mr. Moore +and her misfortunes, a publicly-agitated cause, it concerns morality, +and the most sacred rights of the sex, that she should (and that, +too, without more special explanations) be acquitted out and out, and +honourably acquitted, in this business, of all share in the blame, +which is one and indivisible. Mr. Moore, on further reflection, may +see this; and his return to candour will surprise us less than his +momentary deviation from its path.</p> + +<p>'For the tact of Mr. Moore's conduct in this affair, I have not to +answer; but, if indelicacy be charged upon me, I scorn the charge. +Neither will I submit to be called Lord Byron's accuser; because a +word against him I wish not to say beyond what is painfully wrung +from me by the necessity of owning or illustrating Lady Byron's +unblamableness, and of repelling certain misconceptions respecting +her, which are now walking the fashionable world, and which have been +fostered (though Heaven knows where they<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_85" id="Page_85">[Pg 85]</a></span> were born) most delicately +and warily by the Christian godfathership of Mr. Moore.</p> + +<p>'I write not at Lady Byron's bidding. I have never humiliated either +her or myself by asking <i>if</i> I should write, or <i>what</i> I should write; +that is to say, I never applied to her for information against Lord +Byron, though I was justified, as one intending to criticise Mr. +Moore, in inquiring into the truth of some of his statements. Neither +will I suffer myself to be called her champion, if by that word be +meant the advocate of her mere legal innocence; for that, I take it, +nobody questions.</p> + +<p>'Still less is it from the sorry impulse of pity that I speak of +this noble woman; for I look with wonder and even envy at the proud +purity of her sense and conscience, that have carried her exquisite +sensibilities in triumph through such poignant tribulations. But +I am proud to be called her friend, the humble illustrator of her +cause, and the advocate of those principles which make it to me more +interesting than Lord Byron's. Lady Byron (if the subject must be +discussed) belongs to sentiment and morality (at least as much as Lord +Byron); nor is she to be suffered, when compelled to speak, to raise +her voice as in a desert, with no friendly voice to respond to her. +Lady Byron could not have outlived her sufferings if she had not wound +up her fortitude to the high point of trusting mainly for consolation, +not to the opinion of the world, but to her own inward peace; and, +having said what ought to convince the world, I verily believe that +she has less care about the fashionable opinion respecting her than +any of her friends can have. But we, her friends, mix with the world; +and we hear offensive absurdities about her, which we have a right to +put down.</p> + +<hr class="tb" /> + +<p>'I proceed to deal more generally with Mr. Moore's book. You speak, +Mr. Moore, against Lord Byron's censurers in a tone of indignation +which is perfectly lawful towards calumnious traducers, but which will +not terrify me, or any other man of courage who is no calumniator, +from uttering his mind freely with regard to this part of your hero's +conduct. I question your philosophy<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_86" id="Page_86">[Pg 86]</a></span> in assuming that all that is +noble in Byron's poetry was inconsistent with the possibility of his +being devoted to a pure and good woman; and I repudiate your morality +for canting too complacently about "the lava of his imagination," +and the unsettled fever of his passions, being any excuses for his +planting the <i>tic douloureux</i> of domestic suffering in a meek woman's +bosom.</p> + +<p>'These are hard words, Mr. Moore; but you have brought them on +yourself by your voluntary ignorance of facts known to me; for you +might and ought to have known both sides of the question; and, if the +subject was too delicate for you to consult Lady Byron's confidential +friends, you ought to have had nothing to do with the subject. But you +cannot have submitted your book even to Lord Byron's sister, otherwise +she would have set you right about the imaginary spy, Mrs. Clermont.'</p></div> + +<p>Campbell now goes on to print, at his own peril, he says, and without +time to ask leave, the following note from Lady Byron in reply to an +application he made to her, when he was about to review Moore's book, +for an 'estimate as to the correctness of Moore's statements.'</p> + +<p>The following is Lady Byron's reply:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'<span class="smcap">Dear Mr. Campbell</span>,—In taking up my pen to point out +for your private information<a name="FNanchor_22_22" id="FNanchor_22_22"></a><a href="#Footnote_22_22" class="fnanchor">[22]</a> those passages in Mr. Moore's +representation of my part of the story which were open to +contradiction, I find them of still greater extent than I had +supposed; and to deny an assertion <i>here and there</i> would virtually +admit the truth of the rest. If, on the contrary, I were to enter into +a full exposure of the falsehood of the views taken by Mr. Moore, I +must detail various matters, which, consistently with my principles +and feelings, I cannot under the existing circumstances disclose. I +may, perhaps, convince you better of the difficulty of the case by +an example: It is not true that pecuniary embarrassments were the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_87" id="Page_87">[Pg 87]</a></span> +cause of the disturbed state of Lord Byron's mind, or formed the +chief reason for the arrangements made by him at that time. But is it +reasonable for me to expect that you or any one else should believe +this, unless I show you what were the causes in question? and this I +cannot do. 'I am, &c.,</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">A. I. Noel Byron</span>.'</p> +</div> + +<p>Campbell then goes on to reprove Moore for his injustice to Mrs. +Clermont, whom Lord Byron had denounced as a spy, but whose +respectability and innocence were vouched for by Lord Byron's own +family; and then he pointedly rebukes one false statement of great +indelicacy and cruelty concerning Lady Byron's courtship, as follows:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'It is a further mistake on Mr. Moore's part, and I can prove it to be +so, if proof be necessary, to represent Lady Byron, in the course of +their courtship, as one inviting her future husband to correspondence +by letters after she had at first refused him. She never proposed a +correspondence. On the contrary, he sent her a message after that +first refusal, stating that he meant to go abroad, and to travel for +some years in the East; that he should depart with a heart aching, +but not angry; and that he only begged a verbal assurance that she +had still some interest in his happiness. Could Miss Milbanke, as a +well-bred woman, refuse a courteous answer to such a message? She sent +him a verbal answer, which was merely kind and becoming, but which +signified no encouragement that he should renew his offer of marriage.</p> + +<p>'After that message, he wrote to her a most interesting letter about +himself,—about his views, personal, moral, and religious,—to which +it would have been uncharitable not to have replied. The result was +an insensibly increasing correspondence, which ended in her being +devotedly attached to him. About that time, I occasionally saw Lord +Byron; and though I knew less of him than Mr. Moore, yet I suspect I +knew as much of him as Miss Milbanke then knew. At that time, he was +so pleasing, that, if I had had a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_88" id="Page_88">[Pg 88]</a></span> daughter with ample fortune and +beauty, I should have trusted her in marriage with Lord Byron.</p> + +<p>'Mr. Moore at that period evidently understood Lord Byron better than +either his future bride or myself; but this speaks more for Moore's +shrewdness than for Byron's ingenuousness of character.</p> + +<p>'It is more for Lord Byron's sake than for his widow's that I resort +not to a more special examination of Mr. Moore's misconceptions. The +subject would lead me insensibly into hateful disclosures against poor +Lord Byron, who is more unfortunate in his rash defenders than in +his reluctant accusers. Happily, his own candour turns our hostility +from himself against his defenders. It was only in wayward and bitter +remarks that he misrepresented Lady Byron. He would have defended +himself irresistibly if Mr. Moore had left only his acknowledging +passages. But Mr. Moore has produced a "Life" of him which reflects +blame on Lady Byron so dexterously, that "more is meant than meets +the ear." The almost universal impression produced by his book is, +that Lady Byron must be a precise and a wan, unwarming spirit, a +blue-stocking of chilblained learning, a piece of insensitive goodness.</p> + +<p>'Who that knows Lady Byron will not pronounce her to be everything the +reverse? Will it be believed that this person, so unsuitably matched +to her moody lord, has written verses that would do no discredit to +Byron himself; that her sensitiveness is surpassed and bounded only by +her good sense; and that she is</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'"Blest with a temper, whose unclouded ray<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Can make to-morrow cheerful as to-day"?<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>'She brought to Lord Byron beauty, manners, fortune, meekness, +romantic affection, and everything that ought to have made her to +the most transcendent man of genius—<i>had he been what he should +have been</i>—his pride and his idol. I speak not of Lady Byron in the +commonplace manner of attesting character: I appeal to the gifted Mrs. +Siddons and Joanna Baillie, to Lady Charlemont, and to other ornaments +of their sex, whether I am exaggerating in the least when I say, that, +in their whole lives, they<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_89" id="Page_89">[Pg 89]</a></span> have seen few beings so intellectual and +well-tempered as Lady Byron.</p> + +<p>'I wish to be as ingenuous as possible in speaking of her. Her manner, +I have no hesitation to say, is cool at the first interview, but is +modestly, and not insolently, cool: she contracted it, I believe, from +being exposed by her beauty and large fortune, in youth, to numbers +of suitors, whom she could not have otherwise kept at a distance. +But this manner could have had no influence with Lord Byron; for +it vanishes on nearer acquaintance, and has no origin in coldness. +All her friends like her frankness the better for being preceded by +this reserve. This manner, however, though not the slightest apology +for Lord Byron, has been inimical to Lady Byron in her misfortunes. +It endears her to her friends; but it piques the indifferent. Most +odiously unjust, therefore, is Mr. Moore's assertion, that she has had +the advantage of Lord Byron in public opinion. She is, comparatively +speaking, unknown to the world; for though she has many friends, that +is, a friend in everyone who knows her, yet her pride and purity and +misfortunes naturally contract the circle of her acquaintance.</p> + +<p>'There is something exquisitely unjust in Mr. Moore comparing her +chance of popularity with Lord Byron's, the poet who can command +men of talents,—putting even Mr. Moore into the livery of his +service,—and who has suborned the favour of almost all women by the +beauty of his person and the voluptuousness of his verses. Lady Byron +has nothing to oppose to these fascinations but the truth and justice +of her cause.</p> + +<p>'You said, Mr. Moore, that Lady Byron was unsuitable to her lord: the +word is cunningly insidious, and may mean as much or as little as may +suit your convenience. But, if she was unsuitable, I remark that it +tells all the worse against Lord Byron. I have not read it in your +book (for I hate to wade through it); but they tell me that you have +not only warily depreciated Lady Byron, but that you have described a +lady that would have suited him. If this be true, "it is the unkindest +cut of all,"—to hold up a florid description of a woman suitable to +Lord Byron, as if in mockery over the forlorn flower of virtue that +was drooping in the solitude of sorrow.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_90" id="Page_90">[Pg 90]</a></span></p> + +<p>'But I trust there is no such passage in your book. Surely you must be +conscious of your woman, with her "<i>virtue loose about her, who would +have suited Lord Byron</i>," to be as imaginary a being as the woman +without a head. A woman to suit Lord Byron! Poo, poo! I could paint to +you the woman that could have <i>matched</i> him, if I had not bargained to +say as little as possible against him.</p> + +<p>'If Lady Byron was not suitable to Lord Byron, so much the worse +for his lordship; for let me tell you, Mr. Moore, that neither your +poetry, nor Lord Byron's, nor all our poetry put together, ever +delineated a more interesting being than the woman whom you have so +coldly treated. This was not kicking the dead lion, but wounding +the living lamb, who was already bleeding and shorn, even unto the +quick. I know, that, collectively speaking, the world is in Lady +Byron's favour; but it is coldly favourable, and you have not warmed +its breath. Time, however, cures everything; and even your book, +Mr. Moore, may be the means of Lady Byron's character being better +appreciated.</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">Thomas Campbell.</span>' +</p></div> + +<p>Here is what seems to be a gentlemanly, high-spirited, chivalric man, +throwing down his glove in the lists for a pure woman.</p> + +<p>What was the consequence? Campbell was crowded back, thrust down, +overwhelmed, his eyes filled with dust, his mouth with ashes.</p> + +<p>There was a general confusion and outcry, which reacted both on him +and on Lady Byron. Her friends were angry with him for having caused +this re-action upon her; and he found himself at once attacked by +Lady Byron's enemies, and deserted by her friends. All the literary +authorities of his day took up against him with energy. Christopher +North, professor of moral<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_91" id="Page_91">[Pg 91]</a></span> philosophy in the Edinburgh University, +in a fatherly talk in 'The Noctes,' condemns Campbell, and justifies +Moore, and heartily recommends his 'Biography,' as containing nothing +materially objectionable on the score either of manners or morals. Thus +we have it in 'The Noctes' of May 1830:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'Mr. Moore's biographical book I admired; and I said so to my little +world, in two somewhat lengthy articles, which many approved, and +some, I am sorry to know, condemned.'</p></div> + +<p>On the point in question between Moore and Campbell, North goes on +to justify Moore altogether, only admitting that 'it would have been +better had he not printed any coarse expression of Byron's about the +old people;' and, finally, he closes by saying,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I do not think that, under the circumstances, Mr. Campbell himself, +had he written Byron's "Life," could have spoken, with the sentiments +he then held, in a better, more manly, and more gentlemanly spirit, in +so far as regards Lady Byron, than Mr. Moore did: and I am sorry he +has been deterred from "swimming" through Mr. Moore's work by the fear +of "wading;" for the waters are clear and deep; nor is there any mud, +either at the bottom or round the margin.'</p></div> + +<p>Of the conduct of Lady Byron's so-called friends on this occasion it is +more difficult to speak.</p> + +<p>There has always been in England, as John Stuart Mill says, a class +of women who glory in the utter self-abnegation of the wife to the +husband, as the special crown of womanhood. Their patron saint is +the Griselda of Chaucer, who, when her husband humiliates her, and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_92" id="Page_92">[Pg 92]</a></span> +treats her as a brute, still accepts all with meek, unquestioning, +uncomplaining devotion. He tears her from her children; he treats her +with personal abuse; he repudiates her,—sends her out to nakedness +and poverty; he installs another mistress in his house, and sends for +the first to be her handmaid and his own: and all this the meek saint +accepts in the words of Milton,—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i10">'My guide and head,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">What thou hast said is just and right.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>Accordingly, Miss Martineau tells us that when Campbell's defence came +out, coupled with a note from Lady Byron,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'The first obvious remark was, that there was no real disclosure; and +the whole affair had the appearance of a desire, on the part of Lady +Byron, to exculpate herself, while yet no adequate information was +given. Many, who had regarded her with favour till then, gave her up +so far as to believe that feminine weakness had prevailed at last.'</p></div> + +<p>The saint had fallen from her pedestal! She had shown a human frailty! +Quite evidently she is not a Griselda, but possessed with a shocking +desire to exculpate herself and her friends.</p> + +<p>Is it, then, only to slandered <i>men</i> that the privilege belongs of +desiring to exculpate themselves and their families and their friends +from unjust censure?</p> + +<p>Lord Byron had made it a life-long object to vilify and defame his +wife. He had used for that one particular purpose every talent that +he possessed. He had<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_93" id="Page_93">[Pg 93]</a></span> left it as a last charge to Moore to pursue +the warfare after death, which Moore had done to some purpose; and +Christopher North had informed Lady Byron that her private affairs +were discussed, not only with the whisky-toddy of the Noctes Club, +but in every drawing-room in May Fair; and declared that the 'Dear +Duck' letter, and various other matters, must be explained, and urged +somebody to speak; and then, when Campbell does speak with all the +energy of a real gentleman, a general outcry and an indiscriminate +<i>mêlée</i> is the result.</p> + +<p>The world, with its usual injustice, insisted on attributing Campbell's +defence to Lady Byron.</p> + +<p>The reasons for this seemed to be, first, that Campbell states that he +did <i>not</i> ask Lady Byron's leave, and that she did <i>not</i> authorise him +to defend her; and, second, that, having asked some explanations from +her, he prints a note in which she declines to give any.</p> + +<p>We know not how a lady could more gently yet firmly decline to make +a gentleman her confidant than in this published note of Lady Byron; +and yet, to this day, Campbell is spoken of by the world as having +been Lady Byron's confidant at this time. This simply shows how very +trustworthy are the general assertions about Lady Byron's confidants.</p> + +<p>The final result of the matter, so far as Campbell was concerned, is +given in Miss Martineau's sketch, in the following paragraph:—</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_94" id="Page_94">[Pg 94]</a></span></p><div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'The whole transaction was one of poor Campbell's freaks. He excused +himself by saying it was a mistake of his; that he did not know what +he was about when he published the paper.'</p></div> + +<p>It is the saddest of all sad things to see a man, who has spoken from +moral convictions, in advance of his day, and who has taken a stand for +which he ought to honour himself, thus forced down and humiliated, made +to doubt his own better nature and his own honourable feelings, by the +voice of a wicked world.</p> + +<p>Campbell had no steadiness to stand by the truth he saw. His whole +story is told incidentally in a note to 'The Noctes,' in which it is +stated, that in an article in 'Blackwood,' January 1825, on Scotch +poets, the palm was given to Hogg over Campbell; 'one ground being, +that <i>he</i> could drink "eight and twenty tumblers of punch, while +Campbell is hazy upon seven."'</p> + +<p>There is evidence in 'The Noctes,' that in due time Campbell was +reconciled to Moore, and was always suitably ashamed of having tried to +be any more generous or just than the men of his generation.</p> + +<p>And so it was settled as a law to Jacob, and an ordinance in Israel, +that the Byron worship should proceed, and that all the earth should +keep silence before him. 'Don Juan,' that, years before, had been +printed by stealth, without Murray's name on the title-page, that had +been denounced as a book which no woman should read, and had been given +up as a desperate enterprise, now came forth in triumph, with banners +flying and drums beating. Every great periodical in England that had +fired moral volleys of artillery against it in its<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_95" id="Page_95">[Pg 95]</a></span> early days, now +humbly marched in the glorious procession of admirers to salute this +edifying work of genius.</p> + +<p>'Blackwood,' which in the beginning had been the most indignantly +virtuous of the whole, now grovelled and ate dust as the serpent in +the very abjectness of submission. Odoherty (Maginn) declares that he +would rather have written a page of 'Don Juan' than a ton of 'Childe +Harold.'<a name="FNanchor_23_23" id="FNanchor_23_23"></a><a href="#Footnote_23_23" class="fnanchor">[23]</a> Timothy Tickler informs Christopher North that he means +to tender Murray, as Emperor of the North, an interleaved copy<a name="FNanchor_24_24" id="FNanchor_24_24"></a><a href="#Footnote_24_24" class="fnanchor">[24]</a> of +'Don Juan,' with illustrations, as the <i>only</i> work of Byron's he cares +much about; and Christopher North, professor of <i>moral</i> philosophy in +Edinburgh, smiles approval! We are not, after this, surprised to see +the assertion, by a recent much-aggrieved writer in 'The London Era,' +that 'Lord Byron has been, more than any other man of the age, the +<i>teacher</i> of the <i>youth</i> of England;' and that he has 'seen his works +on the bookshelves of <i>bishops'</i> palaces, no less than on the tables of +university undergraduates.'</p> + +<p>A note to 'The Noctes' of July 1822 informs us of another instance of +Lord Byron's triumph over English morals:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'The mention of this' (Byron's going to Greece) reminds me, by the by, +of what the Guiccioli said in her visit to London, where she was so +lionised as having been the lady-love of Byron. She was rather fond +of speaking on the subject, designating herself<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_96" id="Page_96">[Pg 96]</a></span> by some Venetian pet +phrase, which she interpreted as meaning "Love-Wife."'</p></div> + +<p>What was Lady Byron to do in such a world? She retired to the +deepest privacy, and devoted herself to works of charity, and the +education of her only child,—that brilliant daughter, to whose eager, +opening mind the whole course of current literature must bring so +many trying questions in regard to the position of her father and +mother,—questions that the mother might not answer. That the cruel +inconsiderateness of the literary world added thorns to the intricacies +of the path trodden by every mother who seeks to guide, restrain, and +educate a strong, acute, and precociously intelligent child, must +easily be seen.</p> + +<p>What remains to be said of Lady Byron's life shall be said in the words +of Miss Martineau, published in 'The Atlantic Monthly:'—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'Her life, thenceforth, was one of unremitting bounty to society +administered with as much skill and prudence as benevolence. She lived +in retirement, changing her abode frequently; partly for the benefit +of her child's education and the promotion of her benevolent schemes, +and partly from a restlessness which was one of the few signs of +injury received from the spoiling of associations with <i>home</i>.</p> + +<p>'She felt a satisfaction which her friends rejoiced in when her +daughter married Lord King, at present the Earl of Lovelace, in 1835 +and when grief upon grief followed, in the appearance of mortal +disease in her only child, her quiet patience stood her in good stead +as before. She even found strength to appropriate the blessings of the +occasion, and took comfort, as did her dying daughter, in the intimate +friendship, which grew closer as the time of parting drew nigh.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_97" id="Page_97">[Pg 97]</a></span></p> + +<p>'Lady Lovelace died in 1852; and, for her few remaining years, Lady +Byron was devoted to her grandchildren. But nearer calls never +lessened her interest in remoter objects. Her mind was of the large +and clear quality which could comprehend remote interests in their +true proportions, and achieve each aim as perfectly as if it were the +only one. Her agents used to say that it was impossible to mistake her +directions; and thus her business was usually well done. There was no +room, in her case, for the ordinary doubts, censures, and sneers about +the misapplication of bounty.</p> + +<p>'Her taste did not lie in the "Charity-Ball" direction; her funds +were not lavished in encouraging hypocrisy and improvidence among +the idle and worthless; and the quality of her charity was, in fact, +as admirable as its quantity. Her chief aim was the extension and +improvement of popular education; but there was no kind of misery that +she heard of that she did not palliate to the utmost, and no kind of +solace that her quick imagination and sympathy could devise that she +did not administer.</p> + +<p>'In her methods, she united consideration and frankness with singular +success. For one instance among a thousand: A lady with whom she had +had friendly relations some time before, and who became impoverished +in a quiet way by hopeless sickness, preferred poverty with an easy +conscience to a competency attended by some uncertainty about the +perfect rectitude of the resource. Lady Byron wrote to an intermediate +person exactly what she thought of the case. Whether the judgment +of the sufferer was right or mistaken was nobody's business but her +own: this was the first point. Next, a voluntary poverty could never +be pitied by anybody: that was the second. But it was painful to +others to think of the mortification to benevolent feelings which +attends poverty; and there could be no objection to arresting that +pain. Therefore she, Lady Byron, had lodged in a neighbouring bank +the sum of one hundred pounds, to be used for benevolent purposes; +and, in order to preclude all outside speculation, she had made the +money payable to the order of the intermediate person, so that the +sufferer's name need not appear at all.</p> + +<p>'Five and thirty years of unremitting secret bounty like this<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_98" id="Page_98">[Pg 98]</a></span> must +make up a great amount of human happiness; but this was only one of +a wide variety of methods of doing good. It was the unconcealable +magnitude of her beneficence, and its wise quality, which made her a +second time the theme of English conversation in all honest households +within the four seas. Years ago, it was said far and wide that Lady +Byron was doing more good than anybody else in England; and it was +difficult to imagine how anybody could do more.</p> + +<p>'Lord Byron spent every shilling that the law allowed him out of +her property while he lived, and left away from her every shilling +that he could deprive her of by his will; yet she had, eventually, a +large income at her command. In the management of it, she showed the +same wise consideration that marked all her practical decisions. She +resolved to spend her whole income, seeing how much the world needed +help at the moment. Her care was for the existing generation, rather +than for a future one, which would have its own friends. She usually +declined trammelling herself with annual subscriptions to charities; +preferring to keep her freedom from year to year, and to achieve +definite objects by liberal bounty, rather than to extend partial help +over a large surface which she could not herself superintend.</p> + +<p>'It was her first industrial school that awakened the admiration of +the public, which had never ceased to take an interest in her, while +sorely misjudging her character. We hear much now—and everybody hears +it with pleasure—of the spread of education in "common things;" but +long before Miss Coutts inherited her wealth, long before a name was +found for such a method of training, Lady Byron had instituted the +thing, and put it in the way of making its own name.</p> + +<p>'She was living at Ealing, in Middlesex, in 1834; and there she +opened one of the first industrial schools in England, if not the +very first. She sent out a master to Switzerland, to be instructed +in De Fellenburgh's method. She took, on lease, five acres of land, +and spent several hundred pounds in rendering the buildings upon it +fit for the purposes of the school. A liberal education was afforded +to the children of artisans and labourers during the half of the day +when they were not employed in the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_99" id="Page_99">[Pg 99]</a></span> field or garden. The allotments +were rented by the boys, who raised and sold produce, which afforded +them a considerable yearly profit if they were good workmen. Those who +worked in the field earned wages; their labour being paid by the hour, +according to the capability of the young labourer. They kept their +accounts of expenditure and receipts, and acquired good habits of +business while learning the occupation of their lives. Some mechanical +trades were taught, as well as the arts of agriculture.</p> + +<p>'Part of the wisdom of the management lay in making the pupils pay. +Of one hundred pupils, half were boarders. They paid little more than +half the expenses of their maintenance, and the day-scholars paid +threepence per week. Of course, a large part of the expense was borne +by Lady Byron, besides the payments she made for children who could +not otherwise have entered the school. The establishment flourished +steadily till 1852, when the owner of the land required it back for +building purposes. During the eighteen years that the Ealing schools +were in action, they did a world of good in the way of incitement +and example. The poor-law commissioners pointed out their merits. +Land-owners and other wealthy persons visited them, and went home and +set up similar establishments. During those years, too, Lady Byron had +herself been at work in various directions to the same purpose.</p> + +<p>'A more extensive industrial scheme was instituted on her +Leicestershire property, and not far off she opened a girls' school +and an infant school; and when a season of distress came, as such +seasons are apt to befall the poor Leicestershire stocking-weavers, +Lady Byron fed the children for months together, till they could +resume their payments. These schools were opened in 1840. The next +year, she built a schoolhouse on her Warwickshire property; and, five +years later, she set up an iron schoolhouse on another Leicestershire +estate.</p> + +<p>'By this time, her educational efforts were costing her several +hundred pounds a year in the mere maintenance of existing +establishments; but this is the smallest consideration in the case. +She has sent out tribes of boys and girls into life fit to do their +part there with skill and credit and comfort. Perhaps it is a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_100" id="Page_100">[Pg 100]</a></span> still +more important consideration, that scores of teachers and trainers +have been led into their vocation, and duly prepared for it, by what +they saw and learned in her schools. As for the best and the worst of +the Ealing boys, the best have, in a few cases, been received into the +Battersea Training School, whence they could enter on their career as +teachers to the greatest advantage; and the worst found their school +a true reformatory, before reformatory schools were heard of. At +Bristol, she bought a house for a reformatory for girls; and there her +friend, Miss Carpenter, faithfully and energetically carries out her +own and Lady Byron's aims, which were one and the same.</p> + +<p>'There would be no end if I were to catalogue the schemes of which +these are a specimen. It is of more consequence to observe that her +mind was never narrowed by her own acts, as the minds of benevolent +people are so apt to be. To the last, her interest in great political +movements, at home and abroad, was as vivid as ever. She watched every +step won in philosophy, every discovery in science, every token of +social change and progress in every shape. Her mind was as liberal +as her heart and hand. No diversity of opinion troubled her: she +was respectful to every sort of individuality, and indulgent to all +constitutional peculiarities. It must have puzzled those who kept up +the notion of her being "strait-laced" to see how indulgent she was +even to Epicurean tendencies,—the remotest of all from her own.</p> + +<p>'But I must stop; for I do not wish my honest memorial to degenerate +into panegyric. Among her latest known acts were her gifts to the +Sicilian cause, and her manifestations on behalf of the antislavery +cause in the United States. Her kindness to William and Ellen Craft +must be well known there; and it is also related in the newspapers, +that she bequeathed a legacy to a young American to assist him under +any disadvantages he might suffer as an abolitionist.</p> + +<p>'All these deeds were done under a heavy burden of ill health. Before +she had passed middle life, her lungs were believed to be irreparably +injured by partial ossification. She was subject to attacks so +serious, that each one, for many years, was expected to be the last. +She arranged her affairs in correspondence with her<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_101" id="Page_101">[Pg 101]</a></span> liabilities: so +that the same order would have been found, whether she died suddenly +or after long warning.</p> + +<p>'She was to receive one more accession of outward greatness before she +departed. She became Baroness Wentworth in November, 1856. This is one +of the facts of her history; but it is the least interesting to us, as +probably to her. We care more to know that her last days were bright +in honour, and cheered by the attachment of old friends worthy to pay +the duty she deserved. Above all, it is consoling to know that she who +so long outlived her only child was blessed with the unremitting and +tender care of her grand-daughter. She died on the 16th of May, 1860.</p> + +<p>'The portrait of Lady Byron as she was at the time of her marriage +is probably remembered by some of my readers. It is very engaging. +Her countenance afterwards became much worn; but its expression of +thoughtfulness and composure was very interesting. Her handwriting +accorded well with the character of her mind. It was clear, elegant, +and womanly. Her manners differed with circumstances. Her shrinking +sensitiveness might embarrass one visitor; while another would be +charmed with her easy, significant, and vivacious conversation. It +depended much on whom she talked with. The abiding certainty was, that +she had strength for the hardest of human trials, and the composure +which belongs to strength. For the rest, it is enough to point to her +deeds, and to the mourning of her friends round the chasm which her +departure has made in their life, and in the society in which it is +spent. All that could be done in the way of personal love and honour +was done while she lived: it only remains now to see that her name and +fame are permitted to shine forth at last in their proper light.'</p></div> + +<p>We have simply to ask the reader whether a life like this was not the +best, the noblest answer that a woman could make to a doubting world.</p> + +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_102" id="Page_102">[Pg 102]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_V" id="CHAPTER_V">CHAPTER V.</a></h2> + +<p class="ph4">THE ATTACK ON LADY BYRON'S GRAVE.</p> + + +<p>We have now brought the review of the antagonism against Lady Byron +down to the period of her death. During all this time, let the candid +reader ask himself which of these two parties seems to be plotting +against the other.</p> + +<p><i>Which</i> has been active, aggressive, unscrupulous? which has been +silent, quiet, unoffending? Which of the two has laboured to make a +party, and to make that party active, watchful, enthusiastic?</p> + +<p>Have we not proved that Lady Byron remained perfectly silent during +Lord Byron's life, patiently looking out from her retirement to see +the waves of popular sympathy, that once bore her up, day by day +retreating, while his accusations against her were resounding in his +poems over the whole earth? And after Lord Byron's death, when all +the world with one consent began to give their memorials of him, and +made it appear, by their various 'recollections of conversations,' how +incessantly he had obtruded his own version of the separation upon +every listener, did she manifest any similar eagerness?</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_103" id="Page_103">[Pg 103]</a></span></p> + +<p>Lady Byron had seen the 'Blackwood' coming forward, on the first +appearance of 'Don Juan,' to rebuke the cowardly lampoon in words +eloquent with all the unperverted vigour of an honest Englishman. Under +the power of the great conspirator, she had seen <i>that</i> 'Blackwood' +become the very eager recipient and chief reporter of the stories +against her, and the blind admirer of her adversary.</p> + +<p>All this time, she lost sympathy daily by being silent. The world +will embrace those who court it; it will patronise those who seek its +favour; it will make parties for those who seek to make parties: but +for the often accused who do not speak, who make no confidants and no +parties, the world soon loses sympathy.</p> + +<p>When at last she spoke, Christopher North says '<i>she astonished +the world</i>.' Calm, clear, courageous, exact as to time, date, and +circumstance, was that first testimony, backed by the equally clear +testimony of Dr. Lushington.</p> + +<p>It showed that her secret had been kept even from her parents. In words +precise, firm, and fearless, she says, 'If these statements on which +Dr. Lushington and Sir Samuel Romilly formed their opinion were false, +the responsibility and the odium should rest with me only.' Christopher +North did not pretend to disbelieve this statement. He breathed not a +doubt of Lady Byron's word. He spoke of the crime indicated, as one +which might have been foul as the grave's corruption, unforgivable as +the sin against the Holy Ghost. He rebuked the wife for bearing this +testimony, even to<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_104" id="Page_104">[Pg 104]</a></span> save the memory of her dead father and mother, and, +in the same breath, declared that she ought now to go farther, and +speak fully the one awful word, and then—'a mitigated sentence, or +eternal silence!'</p> + +<p>But Lady Byron took no counsel with the world, nor with the literary +men of her age. One knight, with some small remnant of England's old +chivalry, set lance in rest for her: she saw him beaten back unhorsed, +rolled in the dust, and ingloriously vanquished, and perceived that +henceforth nothing but injury could come to any one who attempted to +speak for her.</p> + +<p>She turned from the judgments of man and the fond and natural hopes of +human nature, to lose herself in sacred ministries to the downcast and +suffering. What nobler record for woman could there be than that which +Miss Martineau has given?</p> + +<p>Particularly to be noted in Lady Byron was her peculiar interest in +reclaiming fallen women. Among her letters to Mrs. Prof. Follen, of +Cambridge, was one addressed to a society of ladies who had undertaken +this difficult work. It was full of heavenly wisdom and of a large and +tolerant charity. Fénelon truly says, it is only perfection that can +tolerate imperfection; and the very purity of Lady Byron's nature made +her most forbearing and most tender towards the weak and the guilty. +This letter, with all the rest of Lady Byron's, was returned to the +hands of her executors after her death. Its publication would greatly +assist the world in understanding the peculiarities of its writer's +character.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_105" id="Page_105">[Pg 105]</a></span></p> + +<p>Lady Byron passed to a higher life in 1860.<a name="FNanchor_25_25" id="FNanchor_25_25"></a><a href="#Footnote_25_25" class="fnanchor">[25]</a> After her death, I +looked for the publication of her Memoir and Letters as the event that +should give her the same opportunity of being known and judged by her +life and writings that had been so freely accorded to Lord Byron.</p> + +<p>She was, in her husband's estimation, a woman of genius. She was +the friend of many of the first men and women of her times, and +corresponded with them on topics of literature, morals, religion, +and, above all, on the benevolent and philanthropic movements of the +day, whose principles she had studied with acute observation, and in +connection with which she had acquired a large experience.</p> + +<p>The knowledge of her, necessarily diffused by such a series of letters, +would have created in America a comprehension of her character, of +itself sufficient to wither a thousand slanders.</p> + +<p>Such a Memoir was contemplated. Lady Byron's letters to Mrs. Follen +were asked for from Boston; and I was applied to by a person in +England, who I have recently learned is one of the existing trustees +of Lady Byron's papers, to furnish copies of her letters to me for the +purpose of a Memoir. Before I had time to have copies made, another +letter came, stating that the trustees had concluded that it was best +not to publish any Memoir of Lady Byron at all.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_106" id="Page_106">[Pg 106]</a></span></p> + +<p>This left the character of Lady Byron in our American world precisely +where the slanders of her husband, the literature of the Noctes Club, +and the unanimous verdict of May Fair as recorded by 'Blackwood,' had +placed it.</p> + +<p>True, Lady Byron had nobly and quietly lived down these slanders in +England by deeds that made her name revered as a saint among all those +who valued saintliness.</p> + +<p>But in France and Italy, and in these United States, I have had +abundant opportunity to know that Lady Byron stood judged and condemned +on the testimony of her brilliant husband, and that the feeling against +her had a vivacity and intensity not to be overcome by mere allusions +to a virtuous life in distant England.</p> + +<p>This is strikingly shown by one fact. In the American edition of +Moore's 'Life of Byron,' by Claxton, Remsen, and Haffelfinger, +Philadelphia, 1869, which I have been consulting, Lady Byron's +statement, which is found in the Appendix of Murray's standard edition, +<i>is entirely omitted</i>. Every other paper is carefully preserved. This +one incident showed how the tide of sympathy was setting in this New +World. Of course, there is no stronger power than a virtuous life; but, +for a virtuous life to bear testimony to the world, its details must be +<i>told</i>, so that the world may know them.</p> + +<p>Suppose the memoirs of Clarkson and Wilberforce had been suppressed +after their death, how soon might<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_107" id="Page_107">[Pg 107]</a></span> the coming tide have wiped out the +record of their bravery and philanthropy! Suppose the lives of Francis +Xavier and Henry Martyn had never been written, and we had lost the +remembrance of what holy men could do and dare in the divine enthusiasm +of Christian faith! Suppose we had no Fénelon, no Book of Martyrs!</p> + +<p>Would there not be an outcry through all the literary and artistic +world if a perfect statue were allowed to remain buried for ever +because some painful individual history was connected with its burial +and its recovery? But is not a noble life a greater treasure to mankind +than any work of art?</p> + +<p>We have heard much mourning over the burned Autobiography of Lord +Byron, and seen it treated of in a magazine as 'the lost chapter in +history.' The lost chapter in history is <i>Lady</i> Byron's Autobiography +in her life and letters; and the suppression of them is the root of +this whole mischief.</p> + +<p>We do not in this intend to censure the parties who came to this +decision.</p> + +<p>The descendants of Lady Byron revere her memory, as they have every +reason to do. That it was <i>their</i> desire to have a Memoir of her +published, I have been informed by an individual of the highest +character in England, who obtained the information directly from Lady +Byron's grandchildren.</p> + +<p>But the trustees in whose care the papers were placed drew back on +examination of them, and declared, that, as Lady Byron's papers could +not be fully published,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_108" id="Page_108">[Pg 108]</a></span> they should regret anything that should call +public attention once more to the discussion of her history.</p> + +<p>Reviewing this long history of the way in which the literary world +had treated Lady Byron, we cannot wonder that her friends should have +doubted whether there was left on earth any justice, or sense that +anything is due to woman as a human being with human rights. Evidently +this lesson had taken from them all faith in the moral sense of the +world. Rather than re-awaken the discussion, so unsparing, so painful, +and so indelicate, which had been carried on so many years around +that loved form, now sanctified by death, they sacrificed the dear +pleasure of the memorials, and the interests of mankind, who have an +indefeasible right to all the help that can be got from the truth of +history as to the living power of virtue, and the reality of that great +victory that overcometh the world.</p> + +<p>There are thousands of poor victims suffering in sadness, +discouragement, and poverty; heart-broken wives of brutal, drunken +husbands; women enduring nameless wrongs and horrors which the delicacy +of their sex forbids them to utter,—to whom the lovely letters lying +hidden away under those seals might bring courage and hope from springs +not of this world.</p> + +<p>But though the friends of Lady Byron, perhaps from despair of their +kind, from weariness of the utter injustice done her, wished to cherish +her name in silence, and to confine the story of her virtues to that +circle who knew her too well to ask a proof, or utter a doubt, the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_109" id="Page_109">[Pg 109]</a></span> +partisans of Lord Byron were embarrassed with no such scruple.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron had artfully contrived during his life to place his wife in +such an antagonistic position with regard to himself, that his intimate +friends were forced to believe that one of the two had deliberately +and wantonly injured the other. The published statement of Lady Byron +contradicted boldly and point-blank all the statement of her husband +concerning the separation; so that, unless <i>she</i> was convicted as a +false witness, <i>he</i> certainly was.</p> + +<p>The best evidence of this is Christopher North's own shocked, +astonished statement, and the words of the Noctes Club.</p> + +<p>The noble life that Lady Byron lived after this hushed every voice, +and silenced even the most desperate calumny, <i>while she was in the +world</i>. In the face of Lady Byron as the world saw her, of what use was +the talk of Clytemnestra, and the assertion that she had been a mean, +deceitful conspirator against her husband's honour in life, and stabbed +his memory after death?</p> + +<p>But when she was in her grave, when her voice and presence and good +deeds no more spoke for her, and a new generation was growing up that +knew her not, <i>then</i> was the time selected to revive the assault on her +memory, and to say over her grave what none would ever have dared to +say of her while living.</p> + +<p>During these last two years, I have been gradually<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_110" id="Page_110">[Pg 110]</a></span> awakening to the +evidence of a new crusade against the memory of Lady Byron, which +respected no sanctity,—not even that last and most awful one of death.</p> + +<p>Nine years after her death, when it was fully understood that no +story on her side or that of her friends was to be forthcoming, then +her calumniators raked out from the ashes of her husband's sepulchre +all his bitter charges, to state them over in even stronger and more +indecent forms.</p> + +<p>There seems to be reason to think that the materials supplied by Lord +Byron for such a campaign yet exist in society.</p> + +<p>To 'The Noctes' of November 1824, there is the following note <i>apropos</i> +to a discussion of the Byron question:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'Byron's Memoirs, given by him to Moore, were burned, as everybody +knows. But, before this, Moore had lent them to several persons. Mrs. +Home Purvis, afterwards Viscountess of Canterbury, is <i>known</i> to have +sat up all one night, in which, aided by her daughter, she had a +copy made. I have the strongest reason for believing that one other +person made a copy; for the description of the first twenty-four hours +after the marriage ceremonial has been in my hands. <i>Not until after +the death of Lady Byron, and Hobhouse</i>, who was the poet's literary +executor, can the poet's Autobiography see the light; <i>but I am +certain it will be published</i>.'</p></div> + +<p>Thus speaks Mackenzie in a note to a volume of 'The Noctes,' published +in America in 1854. Lady Byron died in 1860.</p> + +<p>Nine years after Lady Byron's death, when it was<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_111" id="Page_111">[Pg 111]</a></span> ascertained that her +story was not to see the light, when there were no means of judging +her character by her own writings, commenced a well-planned set of +operations to turn the public attention once more to Lord Byron, and +to represent him as an injured man, whose testimony had been unjustly +suppressed.</p> + +<p>It was quite possible, supposing copies of the Autobiography to exist, +that this might occasion a call from the generation of to-day, in +answer to which the suppressed work might appear. This was a rather +delicate operation to commence; but the instrument was not wanting. +It was necessary that the subject should be first opened by some +irresponsible party, whom more powerful parties might, as by accident, +recognise and patronise, and on whose weakness they might build +something stronger.</p> + +<p>Just such an instrument was to be found in Paris. The mistress of Lord +Byron could easily be stirred up and flattered to come before the world +with a book which should re-open the whole controversy; and she proved +a facile tool. At first, the work appeared prudently in French, and was +called 'Lord Byron jugé par les Témoins de sa Vie,' and was rather a +failure. Then it was translated into English, and published by Bentley.</p> + +<p>The book was inartistic, and helplessly, childishly stupid as to any +literary merits,—a mere mass of gossip and twaddle; but after all, +when one remembers the taste of the thousands of circulating-library +readers, it must not be considered the less likely to be widely read<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_112" id="Page_112">[Pg 112]</a></span> +on that account. It is only once in a century that a writer of real +genius has the art to tell his story so as to take both the cultivated +few and the average many. De Foe and John Bunyan are almost the only +examples. But there is a certain class of reading that sells and +spreads, and exerts a vast influence, which the upper circles of +literature despise too much ever to fairly estimate its power.</p> + +<p>However, the Guiccioli book did not want for patrons in the high places +of literature. The 'Blackwood'—the old classic magazine of England; +the defender of conservatism and aristocracy; the paper of Lockhart, +Wilson, Hogg, Walter Scott, and a host of departed grandeurs—was +deputed to usher into the world this book, and to recommend it and its +author to the Christian public of the nineteenth century.</p> + +<p>The following is the manner in which 'Blackwood' calls attention to +it:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'One of the most beautiful of the songs of Béranger is that addressed +to his Lisette, in which he pictures her, in old age, narrating to a +younger generation the loves of their youth; decking his portrait with +flowers at each returning spring, and reciting the verses that had +been inspired by her vanished charms:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'Lorsque les yeux chercheront sous vos rides<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Les traits charmants qui m'auront inspiré,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Des doux récits les jeunes gens avides,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Diront: Quel fut cet ami tant pleuré?<br /></span> +<span class="i0">De mon amour peignez, s'il est possible,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">L'ardeur, l'ivresse, et même les soupçons,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Et benne vieille, au coin d'un feu paisible<br /></span> +<span class="i0">De votre ami répétez les chansons.<br /></span><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_113" id="Page_113">[Pg 113]</a></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">"On vous dira: Savait-il être aimable?<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Et sans rougir vous direz: Je l'aimais.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">D'un trait méchant se montra-t-il capable?<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Avec orgueil vous répondrez: Jamais!"'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>'This charming picture,' 'Blackwood' goes on to say, 'has been +realised in the case of a poet greater than Béranger, and by a +mistress more famous than Lisette. The Countess Guiccioli has at +length given to the world her "Recollections of Lord Byron." The +book first appeared in France under the title of "Lord Byron jugé +par les Témoins de sa Vie," without the name of the countess. A +more unfortunate designation could hardly have been selected. The +"witnesses of his life" told us nothing but what had been told before +over and over again; and the uniform and exaggerated tone of eulogy +which pervaded the whole book was fatal to any claim on the part of +the writer to be considered an impartial judge of the wonderfully +mixed character of Byron.</p> + +<p>'<i>When, however, the book is regarded as the avowed production of +the Countess Guiccioli, it derives value and interest from its very +faults.</i><a name="FNanchor_26_26" id="FNanchor_26_26"></a><a href="#Footnote_26_26" class="fnanchor">[26]</a> There is something inexpressibly touching in the picture +of the old lady calling up the phantoms of half a century ago; not +faded and stricken by the hand of time, but brilliant and gorgeous as +they were when Byron, in his manly prime of genius and beauty, first +flashed upon her enraptured sight, and she gave her whole soul up to +an absorbing passion, the embers of which still glow in her heart.</p> + +<p>'To her there has been no change, no decay. The god whom she +worshipped with all the ardour of her Italian nature at seventeen is +still the "Pythian of the age" to her at seventy. To try such a book +by the ordinary canons of criticism would be as absurd as to arraign +the authoress before a jury of British matrons, or to prefer a bill of +indictment against the Sultan for bigamy to a Middlesex grand jury.'</p></div> + +<p>This, then, is the introduction which one of the oldest and most +classical periodicals of Great Britain gives to<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_114" id="Page_114">[Pg 114]</a></span> a very stupid book, +simply because it was written by Lord Byron's mistress. <i>That fact</i>, we +are assured, lends grace even to its faults.</p> + +<p>Having brought the authoress upon the stage, the review now goes on to +define her position, and assure the Christian world that</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'The Countess Guiccioli was the daughter of an impoverished noble. At +the age of sixteen, she was taken from a convent, and sold as third +wife to the Count Guiccioli, who was old, rich, and profligate. A +fouler prostitution never profaned the name of marriage. A short time +afterwards, she accidentally met Lord Byron. Outraged and rebellious +nature vindicated itself in the deep and devoted passion with which +he inspired her. With the full assent of husband, father, and +brother, and in compliance with the usages of Italian society, he was +shortly afterwards installed in the office, and invested with all the +privileges, of her "Cavalier Servente."'</p></div> + +<p>It has been asserted that the Marquis de Boissy, the late husband of +this Guiccioli lady, was in the habit of introducing her in fashionable +circles as 'the Marquise de Boissy, my wife, formerly mistress to Lord +Byron'! We do not give the story as a verity; yet, in the review of +this whole history, we may be pardoned for thinking it quite possible.</p> + +<p>The mistress, being thus vouched for and presented as worthy of +sympathy and attention by one of the oldest and most classic organs +of English literature, may now proceed in her work of glorifying the +popular idol, and casting abuse on the grave of the dead wife.</p> + +<p>Her attacks on Lady Byron are, to be sure, less skilful and adroit +than those of Lord Byron. They want<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_115" id="Page_115">[Pg 115]</a></span> his literary polish and tact; but +what of that? 'Blackwood' assures us that even the faults of manner +derive a peculiar grace from the fact that the narrator is Lord Byron's +mistress; and so we suppose the literary world must find grace in +things like this:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'She has been called, after his words, the moral Clytemnestra of +her husband. Such a surname is severe: but the repugnance we feel +to condemning a woman cannot prevent our listening to the voice of +justice, which tells us that the comparison is still in favour of +the guilty one of antiquity; for <i>she</i>, driven to crime by fierce +passion overpowering reason, at least only deprived her husband of +physical life, and, in committing the deed, exposed herself to all its +consequences; while Lady Byron left her husband at the very moment +that she saw him struggling amid a thousand shoals in the stormy sea +of embarrassments created by his marriage, and precisely when he more +than ever required a friendly, tender, and indulgent hand to save him.</p> + +<p>'Besides, she shut herself up in silence a thousand times more cruel +than Clytemnestra's poniard: <i>that</i> only killed the body; whereas +Lady Byron's silence was destined to kill the soul,—and such a +soul!—leaving the door open to calumny, and making it to be supposed +that her silence was magnanimity destined to cover over frightful +wrongs, perhaps even depravity. In vain did he, feeling his conscience +at ease, implore some inquiry and examination. She refused; and the +only favour she granted was to send him, one fine day, two persons to +see whether he were not mad.</p> + +<p>'And, why, then, had she believed him mad? Because she, a methodical, +inflexible woman, with that unbendingness which a profound moralist +calls the worship rendered to pride by a feelingless soul,—because +she could not understand the possibility of tastes and habits +different to those of ordinary routine, or of her own starched life. +Not to be hungry when she was; not to sleep at night, but to write +while she was sleeping, and to sleep when she was up; in short, to +gratify the requirements of material and intellectual life at hours +different to hers,—all that was not merely<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_116" id="Page_116">[Pg 116]</a></span> annoying for her, but it +must be <i>madness</i>; or, if not, it betokened depravity that she could +neither submit to nor tolerate without perilling her own morality.</p> + +<p>'Such was the grand secret of the cruel silence which exposed Lord +Byron to the most malignant interpretations, to all the calumny and +revenge of his enemies.</p> + +<p>'She was, perhaps, the only woman in the world so strangely +organised,—the only one, perhaps, capable of not feeling happy and +proud at belonging to a man superior to the rest of humanity; and +fatally was it decreed that this woman <i>alone</i> of her species should +be Lord Byron's wife!'</p></div> + +<p>In a note is added,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'If an imaginary fear, and even an unreasonable jealousy, may be her +excuse (just as one excuses a monomania), can one equally forgive her +silence? Such a silence is morally what are physically the poisons +which kill at once, and defy all remedies; thus insuring the culprit's +safety. This silence it is which will ever be her crime; for by it she +poisoned the life of her husband.'</p></div> + +<p>The book has several chapters devoted to Lord Byron's peculiar virtues; +and under the one devoted to magnanimity and heroism, his <i>forgiving</i> +disposition receives special attention. The climax of all is stated to +be that he forgave Lady Byron. All the world knew that, since he had +declared this fact in a very noisy and impassioned manner in the fourth +canto of 'Childe Harold,' together with a statement of the wrongs which +he forgave; but the Guiccioli thinks his virtue, at this period, has +not been enough appreciated. In her view, it rose to the sublime. She +says of Lady Byron,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'An absolute moral monstrosity, an anomaly in the history of types +of female hideousness, had succeeded in showing itself in the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_117" id="Page_117">[Pg 117]</a></span> light +of magnanimity. But false as was this high quality in Lady Byron, so +did it shine out in him true and admirable. The position in which +Lady Byron had placed him, and where she continued to keep him by +her harshness, silence, and strange refusals, was one of those which +cause such suffering, that the highest degree of self-control seldom +suffices to quiet the promptings of human weakness, and to cause +persons of even slight sensibility to preserve moderation. Yet, with +his sensibility and the knowledge of his worth, how did he act? what +did he say? I will not speak of his "farewell;" of the care he took +to shield her from blame by throwing it on others, by taking much too +large a share to himself.'</p></div> + +<p>With like vivacity and earnestness does the narrator now proceed to +make an incarnate angel of her subject by the simple process of denying +everything that he himself ever confessed,—everything that has ever +been confessed in regard to him by his best friends. He has been in +the world as an angel unawares from his cradle. His guardian did not +properly appreciate him, and is consequently mentioned as that <i>wicked</i> +Lord Carlisle. Thomas Moore is never to be sufficiently condemned +for the facts told in his biography. Byron's own frank and lawless +admissions of evil are set down to a peculiar inability he had for +speaking the truth about himself,—sometimes about his near relations; +all which does not in the least discourage the authoress from giving a +separate chapter on 'Lord Byron's Love of Truth.'</p> + +<p>In the matter of his relations with women, she complacently repeats +(what sounds rather oddly as coming from her) Lord Byron's own +assurance, that he <i>never</i><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_118" id="Page_118">[Pg 118]</a></span> seduced a woman; and also the equally +convincing statement, that he had told <i>her</i> (the Guiccioli) that his +married fidelity to his wife was perfect. She discusses Moore's account +of the mistress in boy's clothes who used to share Byron's apartments +in college, and ride with him to races, and whom he presented to +<i>ladies</i> as his brother.</p> + +<p>She has her own view of this matter. The disguised boy was a lady +of rank and fashion, who sought Lord Byron's chambers, as, we are +informed, noble ladies everywhere, both in Italy and England, were +constantly in the habit of doing; throwing themselves at his feet, and +imploring permission to become his handmaids.</p> + +<p>In the authoress's own words, 'Feminine overtures still continued +to be made to Lord Byron; but the fumes of incense never hid from +his sight his <span class="smcap">IDEAL</span>.' We are told that in the case of +these poor ladies, generally 'disenchantment took place on his side +without a corresponding result on the other: <span class="smcap">THENCE</span> many +heart-breakings.' Nevertheless, we are informed that there followed the +indiscretions of these ladies 'none of those proceedings that the world +readily forgives, but which his feelings as a man of honour would have +condemned.'</p> + +<p>As to drunkenness, and all that, we are informed he was an anchorite. +Pages are given to an account of the biscuits and soda-water that on +this and that occasion were found to be the sole means of sustenance to +this ethereal creature.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_119" id="Page_119">[Pg 119]</a></span></p> + +<p>As to the story of using his wife's money, the lady gives, directly in +the face of his own Letters and Journal, the same account given before +by Medwin, and which caused such merriment when talked over in the +Noctes Club,—that he had with her only a marriage portion of £10,000; +and that, on the separation, he not only paid it back, but doubled +it.<a name="FNanchor_27_27" id="FNanchor_27_27"></a><a href="#Footnote_27_27" class="fnanchor">[27]</a></p> + +<p>So on the authoress goes, sowing right and left the most transparent +absurdities and misstatements with what Carlyle well calls 'a composed +stupidity, and a cheerful infinitude of ignorance.' Who <i>should</i> know, +if not she, to be sure? Had not Byron told her all about it? and was +not his family motto <i>Crede Byron</i>?</p> + +<p>The 'Blackwood,' having a dim suspicion that this confused style of +attack and defence in reference to the two parties under consideration +may not have great weight, itself proceeds to make the book an occasion +for re-opening the controversy of Lord Byron with his wife.</p> + +<p>The rest of the review is devoted to a powerful attack on Lady Byron's +character,—the most fearful attack on the memory of a dead woman we +have ever<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_120" id="Page_120">[Pg 120]</a></span> seen made by living man. The author proceeds, like a lawyer, +to gather up, arrange, and restate, in a most workmanlike manner, the +confused accusations of the book.</p> + +<p>Anticipating the objection, that such a re-opening of the inquiry was +a violation of the privacy due to womanhood and to the feelings of a +surviving family, he says, that though marriage usually is a private +matter which the world has no right to intermeddle with or discuss, +yet—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'Lord Byron's was an exceptional case. It is not too much to say, +that, had his marriage been a happy one, the course of events of the +present century might have been materially changed; that the genius +which poured itself forth in "Don Juan" and "Cain" might have flowed +in far different channels; that the ardent love of freedom which sent +him to perish at six and thirty at Missolonghi might have inspired +a long career at home; and that we might at this moment have been +appealing to the counsels of his experience and wisdom at an age +not exceeding that which was attained by Wellington, Lyndhurst, and +Brougham.</p> + +<p>'Whether the world would have been a gainer or a loser by the exchange +is a question which every man must answer for himself, according to +his own tastes and opinions; but the possibility of such a change in +the course of events warrants us in treating what would otherwise be a +strictly private matter as one of public interest.</p> + +<p>'More than half a century has elapsed, the actors have departed from +the stage, the curtain has fallen; and whether it will ever again be +raised so as to reveal the real facts of the drama, may, as we have +already observed, be well doubted. But the time has arrived when we +may fairly gather up the fragments of evidence, clear them as far as +possible from the incrustations of passion, prejudice, and malice, and +place them in such order, as, if<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_121" id="Page_121">[Pg 121]</a></span> possible, to enable us to arrive +at some probable conjecture as to what the skeleton of the drama +originally was.'</p></div> + +<p>Here the writer proceeds to put together all the facts of Lady Byron's +case, just as an adverse lawyer would put them as against her, and +for her husband. The plea is made vigorously and ably, and with an +air of indignant severity, as of an honest advocate who is thoroughly +convinced that he is pleading the cause of a wronged man who has been +ruined in name, ship-wrecked in life, and driven to an early grave, by +the arts of a bad woman,—a woman all the more horrible that her malice +was disguised under the cloak of religion.</p> + +<p>Having made an able statement of facts, adroitly leaving out +<span class="smcap">ONE</span>,<a name="FNanchor_28_28" id="FNanchor_28_28"></a><a href="#Footnote_28_28" class="fnanchor">[28]</a> of which he could not have been ignorant had he +studied the case carefully enough to know all the others, he proceeds +to sum up against the criminal thus:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'We would deal tenderly with the memory of Lady Byron. Few women have +been juster objects of compassion. It would seem as if Nature and +Fortune had vied with each other which should be most lavish of her +gifts, and yet that some malignant power had rendered all their bounty +of no effect. Rank, beauty, wealth, and mental powers of no common +order, were hers; yet they were of no avail to secure her happiness. +The spoilt child of seclusion, restraint, and parental idolatry, +a fate (alike evil for both) cast her into the arms of the spoilt +child of genius, passion, and the world. What real or fancied wrongs +she suffered,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_122" id="Page_122">[Pg 122]</a></span> we may never know; but those which she inflicted are +sufficiently apparent.</p> + +<p>'It is said that there are some poisons so subtle that they will +destroy life, and yet leave no trace of their action. The murderer +who uses them may escape the vengeance of the law; but he is not the +less guilty. So the slanderer who makes no charge; who deals in hints +and insinuations: who knows melancholy facts he would not willingly +divulge,—things too painful to state; who forbears, expresses pity, +sometimes even affection, for his victim, shrugs his shoulders, looks +with</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i6">"The significant eye,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Which learns to lie with silence,—"<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>is far more guilty than he who tells the bold falsehood which may be +met and answered, and who braves the punishment which must follow upon +detection.</p> + +<p>'Lady Byron has been called</p> + +<p> +"The moral Clytemnestra of her lord."<br /> +</p> + +<p>The "moral Brinvilliers" would have been a truer designation.</p> + +<p>'The conclusion at which we arrive is, that there is no proof whatever +that Lord Byron was guilty of any act that need have caused a +separation, or prevented a re-union, and that the imputations upon him +rest on the vaguest conjecture; that whatever real or fancied wrongs +Lady Byron may have endured are shrouded in an impenetrable mist of +her own creation,—a poisonous miasma in which she enveloped the +character of her husband, raised by her breath, and which her breath +only could have dispersed.</p> + +<p> +"She dies and makes no sign. O God! forgive her."'<br /> +</p></div> + +<p>As we have been obliged to review accusations on Lady Byron founded +on old Greek tragedy, so now we are forced to abridge a passage from +a modern conversations-lexicon, that we may understand what sort of +comparisons are deemed in good taste in a conservative<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_123" id="Page_123">[Pg 123]</a></span> English review, +when speaking of ladies of rank in their graves.</p> + +<p>Under the article 'Brinvilliers,' we find as follows:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'<span class="smcap">Marguerite D'Aubrai, Marchioness of Brinvilliers.</span>—The +singular atrocity of this woman gives her a sort of infamous claim to +notice. She was horn in Paris in 1651; being daughter of D'Aubrai, +lieutenant-civil of Paris, who married her to the Marquis of +Brinvilliers. Although possessed of attractions to captivate lovers, +she was for some time much attached to her husband, but at length +became madly in love with a Gascon officer. Her father imprisoned +the officer in the Bastille; and, while there, he learned the art of +compounding subtle and most mortal poisons; and, when he was released, +he taught it to the lady, who exercised it with such success, that, +in one year, her father, sister, and two brothers became her victims. +She professed the utmost tenderness for her victims, and nursed them +assiduously. On her father she is said to have made eight attempts +before she succeeded. She was <i>very religious</i>, and devoted to works +of charity; and visited the hospitals a great deal, where it is said +she tried her poisons on the sick.'</p></div> + +<p>People have made loud outcries lately, both in America and England, +about violating the repose of the dead. We should like to know what +they call this. Is this, then, what they mean by <i>respecting</i> the dead?</p> + +<p>Let any man imagine a leading review coming out with language equally +brutal about his own mother, or any dear and revered friend.</p> + +<p>Men of America, men of England, what do you think of this?</p> + +<p>When Lady Byron was publicly branded with the names of the foulest +ancient and foulest modern assassins, and Lord Byron's mistress was +publicly taken by<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_124" id="Page_124">[Pg 124]</a></span> the hand, and encouraged to go on and prosper in her +slanders, by one of the oldest and most influential British reviews, +what was said and what was done in England?</p> + +<p>That is a question we should be glad to have answered. Nothing was done +that ever reached us across the water.</p> + +<p>And why was nothing done? Is this language of a kind to be passed over +in silence?</p> + +<p>Was it no offence to the house of Wentworth to attack the pure +character of its late venerable head, and to brand her in her sacred +grave with the name of one of the vilest of criminals?</p> + +<p>Might there not properly have been an indignant protest of family +solicitors against this insult to the person and character of the +Baroness Wentworth?</p> + +<p>If virtue went for nothing, benevolence for nothing, a long life of +service to humanity for nothing, one would at least have thought, that, +in aristocratic countries, rank might have had its rights to decent +consideration, and its guardians to rebuke the violation of those +rights.</p> + +<p>We Americans understand little of the advantages of rank; but we did +understand that it secured certain decorums to people, both while +living and when in their graves. From Lady Byron's whole history, in +life and in death, it would appear that we were mistaken.</p> + +<p>What a life was hers! Was ever a woman more evidently desirous of +the delicate and secluded privileges of womanhood, of the sacredness +of individual<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_125" id="Page_125">[Pg 125]</a></span> privacy? Was ever a woman so rudely dragged forth, +and exposed to the hardened, vulgar, and unfeeling gaze of mere +curiosity?—her maiden secrets of love thrown open to be handled by +<i>roués</i>; the sanctities of her marriage-chamber desecrated by leering +satyrs; her parents and best friends traduced and slandered, till one +indignant public protest was extorted from her, as by the rack,—a +protest which seems yet to quiver in every word with the indignation of +outraged womanly delicacy!</p> + +<p>Then followed coarse blame and coarser comment,—blame for speaking +at all, and blame for not speaking more. One manly voice, raised for +her in honourable protest, was silenced and overborne by the universal +roar of ridicule and reprobation; and henceforth what refuge? Only this +remained: 'Let them that suffer according to the will of God commit the +keeping of their souls to him as to a faithful Creator.'</p> + +<p>Lady Byron turned to this refuge in silence, and filled up her life +with a noble record of charities and humanities. So pure was she, so +childlike, so artless, so loving, that those who knew her best, feel, +to this day, that a memorial of her is like the relic of a saint. And +could not all this preserve her grave from insult? O England, England!</p> + +<p>I speak in sorrow of heart to those who must have known, loved, and +revered Lady Byron, and ask them, Of what were you thinking when you +allowed a paper of so established literary rank as the 'Blackwood,' to +pre<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_126" id="Page_126">[Pg 126]</a></span>sent and earnestly recommend to our New World such a compendium of +lies as the Guiccioli book?</p> + +<p>Is the great English-speaking community, whose waves toss from Maine +to California, and whose literature is yet to come back in a thousand +voices to you, a thing to be so despised?</p> + +<p>If, as the solicitors of the Wentworth family observe, you might be +entitled to treat with silent contempt the slanders of a mistress +against a wife, was it safe to treat with equal contempt the +indorsement and recommendation of those slanders by one of your oldest +and most powerful literary authorities?</p> + +<p>No European magazine has ever had the weight and circulation in America +that the 'Blackwood' has held. In the days of my youth, when New +England was a comparatively secluded section of the earth, the wit +and genius of the 'Noctes Ambrosianæ' were in the mouths of men and +maidens, even in our most quiet mountain-towns. There, years ago, we +saw all Lady Byron's private affairs discussed, and felt the weight of +Christopher North's decisions against her. Shelton Mackenzie, in his +American edition, speaks of the American circulation of 'Blackwood' +being greater than that in England.<a name="FNanchor_29_29" id="FNanchor_29_29"></a><a href="#Footnote_29_29" class="fnanchor">[29]</a> It was and is now reprinted +monthly; and,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_127" id="Page_127">[Pg 127]</a></span> besides that, 'Littell's Magazine' reproduces all its +striking articles, and they come with the weight of long established +position. From the very fact that it has long been considered the Tory +organ, and the supporter of aristocratic orders, all its admissions +against the character of individuals in the privileged classes have a +double force.</p> + +<p>When 'Blackwood,' therefore, boldly denounces a lady of high rank as a +modern Brinvilliers, and no sensation is produced, and no remonstrance +follows, what can people in the New World suppose, but that Lady +Byron's character was a point entirely given up; that her depravity was +so well established and so fully conceded, that nothing was to be said, +and that even the defenders of aristocracy were forced to admit it?</p> + +<p>I have been blamed for speaking on this subject without consulting Lady +Byron's friends, trustees, and family. More than ten years had elapsed +since I had had any intercourse with England, and I knew none of them. +How was I to know that any of them were living? I was astonished to +learn, for the first time, by the solicitors' letters, that there were +trustees, who held in their hands all Lady Byron's carefully prepared +proofs and documents, by which this falsehood might immediately have +been refuted.</p> + +<p>If they had spoken, they might have saved all this confusion. Even +if bound by restrictions for a certain period of time, they still +might have called on a Christian public to frown down such a cruel +and inde<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_128" id="Page_128">[Pg 128]</a></span>cent attack on the character of a noble lady who had been a +benefactress to so many in England. They might have stated that the +means of wholly refuting the slanders of the 'Blackwood' were in their +hands, and only delayed in coming forth from regard to the feelings +of some in this generation. Then might they not have announced her +Life and Letters, that the public might have the same opportunity as +themselves for knowing and judging Lady Byron by her own writings?</p> + +<p>Had this been done, I had been most happy to have remained silent. I +have been astonished that any one should have supposed this speaking +on my part to be anything less than it is,—the severest act of +self-sacrifice that one friend can perform for another, and the most +solemn and difficult tribute to justice that a human being can be +called upon to render.</p> + +<p>I have been informed that the course I have taken would be contrary to +the wishes of my friend. I think otherwise. I know her strong sense +of justice, and her reverence for truth. Nothing ever moved her to +speak to the public but an attack upon the honour of the dead. In her +statement, she says of her parents, 'There is no other near relative to +vindicate their memory from insult: I am therefore compelled to break +the silence I had hoped always to have observed.'</p> + +<p>If there was any near relative to vindicate Lady Byron's memory, I +had no evidence of the fact; and I considered the utter silence to +be strong evidence to the contrary. In all the storm of obloquy and +rebuke<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_129" id="Page_129">[Pg 129]</a></span> that has raged in consequence of my speaking, I have had two +unspeakable sources of joy; first, that they could not touch <i>her</i>; +and, second, that they could not blind the all-seeing God. It is worth +being in darkness to see the stars.</p> + +<p>It has been said that <i>I</i> have drawn on Lady Byron's name greater +obloquy than ever before. I deny the charge. Nothing fouler has been +asserted of her than the charges in the 'Blackwood,' because nothing +fouler <i>could</i> be asserted. No satyr's hoof has ever crushed this pearl +deeper in the mire than the hoof of the 'Blackwood,' but none of them +have defiled it or trodden it so deep that God cannot find it in the +day 'when he maketh up his jewels.'</p> + +<p>I have another word, as an American, to say about the contempt shown +to our great people in thus suffering the materials of history to be +falsified to subserve the temporary purposes of family feeling in +England.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron belongs not properly either to the Byrons or the Wentworths. +He is not one of their family jewels to be locked up in their cases. +He belongs to the world for which he wrote, to which he appealed, and +before which he dragged his reluctant, delicate wife to a publicity +equal with his own: the world has, therefore, a right to judge him.</p> + +<p>We Americans have been made accessories, after the fact, to every +insult and injury that Lord Byron and the literary men of his day have +heaped upon Lady Byron. We have been betrayed into injustice<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_130" id="Page_130">[Pg 130]</a></span> and a +complicity with villany. After Lady Byron had nobly lived down slanders +in England, and died full of years and honours, the 'Blackwood' takes +occasion to re-open the controversy by recommending a book full of +slanders to a rising generation who knew nothing of the past. What +was the consequence in America? My attention was first called to the +result, not by reading the 'Blackwood' article, but by finding in a +popular monthly magazine two long articles,—the one an enthusiastic +recommendation of the Guiccioli book, and the other a lamentation over +the burning of the Autobiography as a lost chapter in history.</p> + +<p>Both articles represented Lady Byron as a cold, malignant, mean, +persecuting woman, who had been her husband's ruin. They were so full +of falsehoods and misstatements as to astonish me. Not long after, a +literary friend wrote to me, '<i>Will</i> you, <i>can</i> you, reconcile it to +your conscience to sit still and allow that mistress so to slander that +wife,—you, perhaps, the only one knowing the real facts, and able to +set them forth?'</p> + +<p>Upon this, I immediately began collecting and reading the various +articles and the book, and perceived that the public of this generation +were in a way of having false history created, uncontradicted, under +their own eyes.</p> + +<p>I claim for my country, men and women, our right to <i>true</i> history. +For years, the popular literature has held up publicly before our eyes +the facts as to this man and this woman, and called on us to praise or +condemn.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_131" id="Page_131">[Pg 131]</a></span> Let us have <i>truth</i> when we are called on to judge. It is our +<i>right</i>.</p> + +<p>There is no conceivable obligation on a human being greater than +that of <i>absolute justice</i>. It is the deepest personal injury to an +honourable mind to be made, through misrepresentation, an accomplice +in injustice. When a noble name is accused, any person who possesses +truth which might clear it, and withholds that truth, is guilty of a +sin against human nature and the inalienable rights of justice. I claim +that I have not only a right, but an obligation, to bring in my solemn +testimony upon this subject.</p> + +<p>For years and years, the silence-policy has been tried; and what has it +brought forth? As neither word nor deed could be proved against Lady +Byron, her silence has been spoken of as a monstrous, unnatural crime, +'a poisonous miasma,' in which she enveloped the name of her husband.</p> + +<p>Very well; since silence is the crime, I thought I would tell the world +that Lady Byron had spoken.</p> + +<p>Christopher North, years ago, when he condemned her for speaking, said +that she should speak further,—</p> + +<p>'She should speak, or some one for her. One word would suffice.'</p> + +<p>That one word has been spoken.</p> + +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_132" id="Page_132">[Pg 132]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2><a name="PART_II" id="PART_II">PART II.</a></h2> + + + +<hr class="chap" /> +<h2>CHAPTER I.</h2> + +<p class="ph4">LADY BYRON AS I KNEW HER.</p> + + +<p>An editorial in 'The London Times' of Sept. 18 says:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'The perplexing feature in this "True Story" is, that it is impossible +to distinguish what part in it is the editress's, and what Lady +Byron's own. We are given the <i>impression</i> made on Mrs. Stowe's mind +by Lady Byron's statements; but it would have been more satisfactory +if the statement itself had been reproduced as bare as possible, and +been left to make its own impression on the public.'</p></div> + +<p>In reply to this, I will say, that in my article I gave a brief +synopsis of the subject-matter of Lady Byron's communications; +and I think it must be quite evident to the world that the <i>main +fact</i> on which the story turns was one which could not possibly be +misunderstood, and the remembrance of which no lapse of time could ever +weaken.</p> + +<p>Lady Byron's communications were made to me in language clear, precise, +terrible; and many of her phrases and sentences I could repeat at this +day, word for word. But if I had reproduced them at first, as 'The<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_133" id="Page_133">[Pg 133]</a></span> +Times' suggests, word for word, the public horror and incredulity would +have been doubled. It was necessary that the brutality of the story +should, in some degree, be veiled and softened.</p> + +<p>The publication, by Lord Lindsay, of Lady Anne Barnard's communication, +makes it now possible to tell fully, and in Lady Byron's own words, +certain incidents that yet remain untold. To me, who know the whole +history, the revelations in Lady Anne's account, and the story related +by Lady Byron, are like fragments of a dissected map: they fit +together, piece by piece, and form one connected whole.</p> + +<p>In confirmation of the general facts of this interview, I have the +testimony of a sister who accompanied me on this visit, and to whom, +immediately after it, I recounted the story.</p> + +<p>Her testimony on the subject is as follows:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'<span class="smcap">My dear Sister</span>,—I have a perfect recollection of going +with you to visit Lady Byron at the time spoken of in your published +article. We arrived at her house in the morning; and, after lunch, +Lady Byron and yourself spent the whole time till evening alone +together.</p> + +<p>'After we retired to our apartment that night, you related to me +the story given in your published account, though with many more +particulars than you have yet thought fit to give to the public.</p> + +<p>'You stated to me that Lady Byron was strongly impressed with the idea +that it might be her duty to publish a statement during her lifetime, +and also the reasons which induced her to think so. You appeared at +that time quite disposed to think that justice required this step, and +asked my opinion. We passed most of the night in conversation on the +subject,—a conversation often<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_134" id="Page_134">[Pg 134]</a></span> resumed, from time to time, during +several weeks in which you were considering what opinion to give.</p> + +<p>'I was strongly of opinion that justice required the publication of +the truth, but felt exceedingly averse to its being done by Lady Byron +herself during her own lifetime, when she personally would be subject +to the comments and misconceptions of motives which would certainly +follow such a communication.</p> + +<p class="center"> +'Your sister,</p> +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">M. F. Perkins.</span>' +</p></div> + +<p>I am now about to complete the account of my conversation with Lady +Byron; but as the credibility of a history depends greatly on the +character of its narrator, and as especial pains have been taken +to destroy the belief in this story by representing it to be the +wanderings of a broken-down mind in a state of dotage and mental +hallucination, I shall preface the narrative with some account of +Lady Byron as she was during the time of our mutual acquaintance and +friendship.</p> + +<p>This account may, perhaps, be deemed superfluous in England, where so +many knew her; but in America, where, from Maine to California, her +character has been discussed and traduced, it is of importance to give +interested thousands an opportunity of learning what kind of a woman +Lady Byron was.</p> + +<p>Her character as given by Lord Byron in his Journal, after her first +refusal of him, is this:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'She is a very superior woman, and very little spoiled; which is +strange in an heiress, a girl of twenty, a peeress that is to be in +her own right, an only child, and a savante, who has always had her +own way. She is a poetess, a mathematician, a metaphysician; yet, +withal, very kind, generous, and gentle, with very little pre<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_135" id="Page_135">[Pg 135]</a></span>tension. +Any other head would be turned with half her acquisitions and a tenth +of her advantages.'</p></div> + +<p>Such was Lady Byron at twenty. I formed her acquaintance in the year +1853, during my first visit in England. I met her at a lunch-party in +the house of one of her friends.</p> + +<p>The party had many notables; but, among them all, my attention was +fixed principally on Lady Byron. She was at this time sixty-one years +of age, but still had, to a remarkable degree, that personal attraction +which is commonly considered to belong only to youth and beauty.</p> + +<p>Her form was slight, giving an impression of fragility; her motions +were both graceful and decided; her eyes bright, and full of interest +and quick observation. Her silvery-white hair seemed to lend a grace +to the transparent purity of her complexion, and her small hands +had a pearly whiteness. I recollect she wore a plain widow's cap of +a transparent material; and was dressed in some delicate shade of +lavender, which harmonised well with her complexion.</p> + +<p>When I was introduced to her, I felt in a moment the words of her +husband:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'There was awe in the homage that she drew;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Her spirit seemed as seated on a throne.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>Calm, self-poised, and thoughtful, she seemed to me rather to resemble +an interested spectator of the world's affairs, than an actor involved +in its trials; yet the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_136" id="Page_136">[Pg 136]</a></span> sweetness of her smile, and a certain very +delicate sense of humour in her remarks, made the way of acquaintance +easy.</p> + +<p>Her first remarks were a little playful; but in a few moments we were +speaking on what every one in those days was talking to me about,—the +slavery question in America.</p> + +<p>It need not be remarked, that, when any one subject especially occupies +the public mind, those known to be interested in it are compelled to +listen to many weary platitudes. Lady Byron's remarks, however, caught +my ear and arrested my attention by their peculiar incisive quality, +their originality, and the evidence they gave that she was as well +informed on all our matters as the best American statesman could be. +I had no wearisome course to go over with her as to the difference +between the General Government and State Governments, nor explanations +of the United States Constitution; for she had the whole before her +mind with a perfect clearness. Her morality upon the slavery question, +too, impressed me as something far higher and deeper than the common +sentimentalism of the day. Many of her words surprised me greatly, and +gave me new material for thought.</p> + +<p>I found I was in company with a commanding mind, and hastened to +gain instruction from her on another point where my interest had +been aroused. I had recently been much excited by Kingsley's novels, +'Alton Locke' and 'Yeast,' on the position of<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_137" id="Page_137">[Pg 137]</a></span> religious thought in +England. From these works I had gathered, that under the apparent +placid uniformity of the Established Church of England, and of 'good +society' as founded on it, there was moving a secret current of +speculative enquiry, doubt, and dissent; but I had met, as yet, with +no person among my various acquaintances in England who seemed either +aware of this fact, or able to guide my mind respecting it. The moment +I mentioned the subject to Lady Byron, I received an answer which +showed me that the whole ground was familiar to her, and that she was +capable of giving me full information. She had studied with careful +thoughtfulness all the social and religious tendencies of England +during her generation. One of her remarks has often since occurred to +me. Speaking of the Oxford movement, she said the time had come when +the English Church could no longer remain as it was. It must either +<i>restore the past, or create a future</i>. The Oxford movement attempted +the former; and of the future she was beginning to speak, when our +conversation was interrupted by the presentation of other parties.</p> + +<p>Subsequently, in reply to a note from her on some benevolent business, +I alluded to that conversation, and expressed a wish that she would +finish giving me her views of the religious state of England. A portion +of the letter that she wrote me in reply I insert, as being very +characteristic in many respects:—</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_138" id="Page_138">[Pg 138]</a></span></p><div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'Various causes have been assigned for the decaying state of the +English Church; which seems the more strange, because the clergy have +improved, morally and intellectually, in the last twenty years. Then +why should their influence be diminished? I think it is owing to the +diffusion of a spirit of free enquiry.</p> + +<p>'Doubts have arisen in the minds of many who are unhappily bound by +subscription <i>not</i> to doubt; and, in consequence, they are habitually +<i>pretending</i> either to believe or to disbelieve. The state of Denmark +cannot but be rotten, when <i>to seem</i> is the first object of the +witnesses of truth.</p> + +<p>'They may lead better lives, and bring forward abler arguments; but +their efforts are paralysed by that unsoundness. I see the High +Churchman professing to believe in the existence of a church, when the +most palpable facts must show him that no <i>such</i> church exists; the +"Low" Churchman professing to believe in exceptional interpositions +which his philosophy secretly questions; the "Broad" Churchman +professing as absolute an attachment to the Established Church as the +narrowest could feel, while he is preaching such principles as will at +last pull it down.</p> + +<p>'I ask you, my friend, whether there would not be more faith, as +well as earnestness, if <i>all</i> would speak out. There would be more +unanimity too, because they would all agree in a certain basis. Would +not a wider love supersede the <i>creed-bound</i> charity of sects?</p> + +<p>'I am aware that I have touched on a point of difference between +us, and I will not regret it; for I think the differences of mind +are analogous to those differences of nature, which, in the most +comprehensive survey, are the very elements of harmony.</p> + +<p>'I am not at all prone to put forth my own opinions; but the tone in +which you have written to me claims an unusual degree of openness +on my part. I look upon creeds of all kinds as chains,—far worse +chains than those you would break,—as the causes of much hypocrisy +and infidelity. I hold it to be a sin to <i>make</i> a child say, "<i>I +believe</i>." Lead it to utter that belief spontaneously. I also consider +the institution of an exclusive priesthood, though having been of +service in some respects, as retarding the progress of Christianity at +present. I desire to see a <i>lay</i> ministry.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_139" id="Page_139">[Pg 139]</a></span></p> + +<p>'I will not give you more of my heterodoxy at present: perhaps I need +your pardon, connected as you are with the Church, for having said so +much.</p> + +<p>'There are causes of decay known to be at work in my frame, which lead +me to believe I may not have time to grow wiser; and I must therefore +leave it to others to correct the conclusions I have now formed from +my life's experience. I should feel happy to discuss them personally +with you; for it would be <i>soul to soul</i>. In that confidence I am +yours most truly,</p> + +<p class="author">'<span class="smcap">A. I. Noel Byron.</span>'</p></div> + +<p>It is not necessary to prove to the reader that this letter is not in +the style of a broken-down old woman subject to mental hallucinations. +It shows Lady Byron's habits of clear, searching analysis, her +thoughtfulness, and, above all, that peculiar reverence for <i>truth</i> and +sincerity which was a leading characteristic of her moral nature.<a name="FNanchor_30_30" id="FNanchor_30_30"></a><a href="#Footnote_30_30" class="fnanchor">[30]</a> +It also shows her views of the probable shortness of her stay on earth, +derived from the opinion of physicians about her disease, which was a +gradual ossification of the lungs. It has been asserted that pulmonary +diseases, while they slowly and surely sap the physical life, often +appear to give added vigour to the play of the moral and intellectual +powers.</p> + +<p>I parted from Lady Byron, feeling richer in that I had found one more +pearl of great price on the shore of life.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_140" id="Page_140">[Pg 140]</a></span></p> + +<p>Three years after this, I visited England to obtain a copyright for the +issue of my novel of 'Dred.'</p> + +<p>The hope of once more seeing Lady Byron was one of the brightest +anticipations held out to me in this journey. I found London quite +deserted; but, hearing that Lady Byron was still in town, I sent to +her, saying in my note, that, in case she was not well enough to call, +I would visit her. Her reply I give:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'<span class="smcap">My dear Friend</span>,—I <i>will</i> be indebted to you for our +meeting, as I am barely able to leave my room. It is not a time for +small personalities, if they could ever exist with <i>you</i>; and, dressed +or undressed, I shall hope to see you after two o'clock.</p> + +<p class="center"> +'Yours very truly,</p> +<p class="author">'<span class="smcap">A. I. Noel Byron.</span>' +</p></div> + +<p>I found Lady Byron in her sick-room,—that place which she made so +different from the chamber of ordinary invalids. Her sick-room seemed +only a telegraphic station whence her vivid mind was flashing out all +over the world.</p> + +<p>By her bedside stood a table covered with books, pamphlets, and files +of letters, all arranged with exquisite order, and each expressing some +of her varied interests. From that sick-bed she still directed, with +systematic care, her various works of benevolence, and watched with +intelligent attention the course of science, literature, and religion; +and the versatility and activity of her mind, the flow of brilliant +and penetrating thought on all the topics of the day, gave to the +conversations of her retired room a peculiar charm. You forgot<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_141" id="Page_141">[Pg 141]</a></span> that +she was an invalid; for she rarely had a word of her own personalities, +and the charm of her conversation carried you invariably from herself +to the subjects of which she was thinking. All the new books, the +literature of the hour, were lighted up by her keen, searching, yet +always kindly criticism; and it was charming to get her fresh, genuine, +clear-cut modes of expression, so different from the world-worn phrases +of what is called good society. Her opinions were always perfectly +clear and positive, and given with the freedom of one who has long +stood in a position to judge the world and its ways from her own +standpoint. But it was not merely in general literature and science +that her heart lay; it was following always with eager interest the +progress of humanity over the whole world.</p> + +<p>This was the period of the great battle for liberty in Kansas. The +English papers were daily filled with the thrilling particulars of that +desperate struggle, and Lady Byron entered with heart and soul into it.</p> + +<p>Her first letter to me, at this time, is on this subject. It was while +'Dred' was going through the press.</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="author">'<span class="smcap">Cambridge Terrace</span>, Aug. 15.</p> + +<p>'<span class="smcap">My dear Mrs. Stowe</span>,—Messrs. Chambers liked the proposal to +publish the Kansas Letters. The more the public know of these matters, +the better prepared they will be for your book. The moment for its +publication seems well chosen. There is always in England a floating +fund of sympathy for what is above the everyday sordid cares of life; +and these better feelings, so nobly invested for the last two years in +Florence Nightingale's career,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_142" id="Page_142">[Pg 142]</a></span> are just set free. To what will they +next be attached? If you can lay hold of them, they may bring about +a deeper abolition than any legislative one,—the abolition of the +heart-heresy that man's worth comes, not from God, but from man.</p> + +<p>'I have been obliged to give up exertion again, but hope soon to be +able to call and make the acquaintance of your daughters. In case you +wish to consult H. Martineau's pamphlets, I send more copies. Do not +think of answering: I have occupied too much of your time in reading.</p> + +<p class="center"> +'Yours affectionately,</p> +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">A. I. Noel Byron.</span>' +</p></div> + +<p>As soon as a copy of 'Dred' was through the press, I sent it to +her, saying that I had been reproved by some excellent people for +representing too faithfully the profane language of some of the wicked +characters. To this she sent the following reply:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'Your book, dear Mrs. Stowe, is of the little leaven kind, and must +prove a great moral force; perhaps not manifestly so much as secretly. +And yet I can hardly conceive so much power without immediate and +sensible effects: only there will be a strong disposition to resist +on the part of all hollow-hearted professors of religion, whose +heathenisms you so unsparingly expose. They have a class feeling like +others.</p> + +<p>'To the young, and to those who do not reflect much on what is offered +to their belief, you will do great good by showing how spiritual food +is often adulterated. The bread from heaven is in the same case as +bakers' bread.</p> + +<p>'If there is truth in what I heard Lord Byron say, that works of +fiction live only by the amount <i>of truth</i> which they contain, your +story is sure of a long life. Of the few critiques I have seen, the +best is in "The Examiner." I find an obtuseness as to the spirit and +aim of the book, as if you had designed to make the best novel of the +season, or to keep up the reputation of one. You are reproached, as +Walter Scott was, with too much scrip<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_143" id="Page_143">[Pg 143]</a></span>tural quotation; not, that I +have heard, with phrases of an opposite character.</p> + +<p>'The effects of such reading till a late hour one evening appeared to +influence me very singularly in a dream. The most horrible spectres +presented themselves, and I woke in an agony of fear; but a faith +still stronger arose, and I became courageous from trust in God, and +felt calm. Did you do this? It is very insignificant among the many +things you certainly will do unknown to yourself. I know more than +ever before how to value communion with you. I have sent Robertson's +Sermons for you; and, with kind regards to your family, am</p> + +<p class="center"> +'Yours affectionately,</p> +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">A. I. Noel Byron.</span>' +</p></div> + + +<p>I was struck in this note with the mention of Lord Byron, and, the next +time I saw her, alluded to it, and remarked upon the peculiar qualities +of his mind as shown in some of his more serious conversations with Dr. +Kennedy.</p> + +<p>She seemed pleased to continue the subject, and went on to say many +things of his singular character and genius, more penetrating and more +appreciative than is often met with among critics.</p> + +<p>I told her that I had been from childhood powerfully influenced by +him; and began to tell her how much, as a child, I had been affected +by the news of his death,—giving up all my plays, and going off to +a lonely hillside, where I spent the afternoon thinking of him. She +interrupted me before I had quite finished, with a quick, impulsive +movement. 'I know all that,' she said: 'I heard it all from Mrs. ——; +and it was one of the things that made me wish to <i>know</i> you. I think<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_144" id="Page_144">[Pg 144]</a></span> +<i>you</i> could understand him.' We talked for some time of him then; she, +with her pale face slightly flushed, speaking, as any other great +man's widow might, only of what was purest and best in his works, and +what were his undeniable virtues and good traits, especially in early +life. She told me many pleasant little speeches made by him to herself; +and, though there was running through all this a shade of melancholy, +one could never have conjectured that there were under all any deeper +recollections than the circumstances of an ordinary separation might +bring.</p> + +<p>Not many days after, with the unselfishness which was so marked a +trait with her, she chose a day when she could be out of her room, +and invited our family party, consisting of my husband, sister, and +children, to lunch with her.</p> + +<p>What showed itself especially in this interview was her tenderness +for all young people. She had often enquired after mine; asked about +their characters, habits, and tastes; and on this occasion she found an +opportunity to talk with each one separately, and to make them all feel +at ease, so that they were able to talk with her. She seemed interested +to point out to them what they should see and study in London; and +the charm of her conversation left on their minds an impression that +subsequent years have never effaced. I record this incident, because it +shows how little Lady Byron assumed the privileges or had the character +of an invalid absorbed in herself, and likely to brood over her own +woes and wrongs.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_145" id="Page_145">[Pg 145]</a></span></p> + +<p>Here was a family of strangers stranded in a dull season in London, and +there was no manner of obligation upon her to exert herself to show +them attention. Her state of health would have been an all-sufficient +reason why she should not do it; and her doing it was simply a specimen +of that unselfish care for others, even down to the least detail, of +which her life was full.</p> + +<p>A little while after, at her request, I went, with my husband and son, +to pass an evening at her house.</p> + +<p>There were a few persons present whom she thought I should be +interested to know,—a Miss Goldsmid, daughter of Baron Goldsmid, and +Lord Ockham, her grandson, eldest son and heir of the Earl of Lovelace, +to whom she introduced my son.</p> + +<p>I had heard much of the eccentricities of this young nobleman, and +was exceedingly struck with his personal appearance. His bodily frame +was of the order of the Farnese Hercules,—a wonderful development of +physical and muscular strength. His hands were those of a blacksmith. +He was broadly and squarely made, with a finely-shaped head, and dark +eyes of surpassing brilliancy. I have seldom seen a more interesting +combination than his whole appearance presented.</p> + +<p>When all were engaged in talking, Lady Byron came and sat down by +me, and glancing across to Lord Ockham and my son, who were talking +together, she looked at me, and smiled. I immediately expressed<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_146" id="Page_146">[Pg 146]</a></span> my +admiration of his fine eyes and the intellectual expression of his +countenance, and my wonder at the uncommon muscular development of his +frame.</p> + +<p>She said that <i>that</i> of itself would account for many of Ockham's +eccentricities. He had a body that required a more vigorous animal life +than his station gave scope for, and this had often led him to seek +it in what the world calls low society; that he had been to sea as a +sailor, and was now working as a mechanic on the iron work of 'The +Great Eastern.' He had laid aside his title, and went in daily with the +other workmen, requesting them to call him simply Ockham.</p> + +<p>I said that there was something to my mind very fine about this, even +though it might show some want of proper balance.</p> + +<p>She said he had noble traits, and that she felt assured he would +yet accomplish something worthy of himself. 'The great difficulty +with our nobility is apt to be, that they do not <i>understand</i> the +working-classes, so as to feel for them properly; and Ockham is now +going through an experience which may yet fit him to do great good when +he comes to the peerage. I am trying to influence him to do good among +the workmen, and to interest himself in schools for their children. I +think,' she added, 'I have great influence over Ockham,—the greater, +perhaps, that I never make any claim to authority.'</p> + +<p>This conversation is very characteristic of Lady Byron as showing her +benevolent analysis of character, and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_147" id="Page_147">[Pg 147]</a></span> the peculiar hopefulness she +always had in regard to the future of every one brought in connection +with her. Her moral hopefulness was something very singular; and in +this respect she was so different from the rest of the world, that it +would be difficult to make her understood. Her tolerance of wrong-doing +would have seemed to many quite latitudinarian, and impressed them +as if she had lost all just horror of what was morally wrong in +transgression; but it seemed her fixed habit to see faults only as +diseases and immaturities, and to expect them to fall away with time.</p> + +<p>She saw the germs of good in what others regarded as only evil. She +expected valuable results to come from what the world looked on only +as eccentricities;<a name="FNanchor_31_31" id="FNanchor_31_31"></a><a href="#Footnote_31_31" class="fnanchor">[31]</a> and she incessantly devoted herself to the task +of guarding those whom the world condemned, and guiding them to those +higher results of which she often thought that even their faults were +prophetic.</p> + +<p>Before I quit this sketch of Lady Byron as I knew her, I will give one +more of her letters. My return from that visit in Europe was met by the +sudden death of the son mentioned in the foregoing account. At the time +of this sorrow, Lady Byron was too unwell to write to me. The letter +given alludes to this event, and speaks also of two coloured persons +of remarkable talent, in whose career in England she had taken a deep +interest. One of them is the 'friend' she speaks of.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_148" id="Page_148">[Pg 148]</a></span></p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="author"> + +'<span class="smcap">London</span>, Feb. 6, 1859. +</p> + +<p>'<span class="smcap">Dear Mrs. Stowe</span>,—I seem to feel our friend as a bridge, +over which our broken <i>outward</i> communication can be renewed without +effort. Why broken? The words I would have uttered <i>at one time</i> were +like drops of blood from my heart. Now I sympathise with the calmness +you have gained, and can speak of your loss as I do of my own. Loss +and restoration are more and more linked in my mind, but "to the +<i>present</i> live." As long as <i>they</i> are in God's world they are in +ours. I ask no other consolation.</p> + +<p>'Mrs. W——'s recovery has astonished me, and her husband's prospects +give me great satisfaction. They have achieved a benefit to their +coloured people. She had a mission which her burning soul has worked +out, almost in defiance of death. But who is "called" without being +"crucified," man or woman? I know of none.</p> + +<p>'I fear that H. Martineau was too sanguine in her persuasion that the +slave power had received a serious check from the ruin of so many of +your Mammon-worshippers. With the return of commercial facilities, +<i>that</i> article of commerce will again find purchasers enough to raise +its value. Not that way is the iniquity to be overthrown. A deeper +moral earthquake is needed.<a name="FNanchor_32_32" id="FNanchor_32_32"></a><a href="#Footnote_32_32" class="fnanchor">[32]</a> We English had ours in India; and +though the cases are far from being alike, yet a consciousness of what +we ought to have been and ought to be toward the natives could not +have been awakened by less than the reddened waters of the Ganges. So +I fear you will have to look on a day of judgment worse than has been +painted.</p> + +<p>'As to all the frauds and impositions which have been disclosed by +the failures, what a want of the sense of personal responsibility +they show. It seems to be thought that "association" will "cover a +multitude of sins;" as if "and Co." could enter heaven. A firm may be +described as a partnership for lowering the standard of morals. Even +ecclesiastical bodies are not free from the "and Co.;" very different +from "the goodly fellowship of the apostles."</p> + +<p>'The better class of young gentlemen in England are seized with +a mediæval mania, to which Ruskin has contributed much.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_149" id="Page_149">[Pg 149]</a></span> The +chief reason for regretting it is that taste is made to supersede +benevolence. The money that would save thousands from perishing or +suffering must be applied to raise the Gothic edifice where their last +prayer may be uttered. Charity may be dead, while Art has glorified +her. This is worse than Catholicism, which cultivates heart and eye +together. The first cathedral was Truth, at the beginning of the +fourth century, just as Christianity was exchanging a heavenly for an +earthly crown. True religion may have to cast away the symbol for the +spirit before "the kingdom" can come.</p> + +<p>'While I am speculating to little purpose, perhaps you are +<i>doing</i>—what? Might not a biography from your pen bring forth again +some great, half-obscured soul to act on the world? Even Sir Philip +Sidney ought to be superseded by a still nobler type.</p> + +<p>'This must go immediately, to be in time for the bearer, of whose +meeting with you I shall think as the friend of both. May it be happy!</p> + +<p class="center"> +'Your affectionate</p> +<p class="author">A. I. N. B.' +</p></div> + +<p>One letter more from Lady Byron I give,—the last I received from her:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="author"> + +<span class="smcap">London</span>, May 3, 1859.<br /> +</p> + +<p>'<span class="smcap">Dear Friend</span>,—I have found, particularly as to yourself, +that, if I did not answer from the first impulse, all had evaporated. +Your letter came by 'The Niagara' which brought Fanny Kemble to learn +the loss of her best friend, the Miss F—— whom you saw at my house.</p> + +<p>'Her death, after an illness in which she was to the last a minister +of good to others, is a soul-loss to me also; and your remarks are +most appropriate to my feelings. I have been taught, however, to +accept survivorship; even to feel it, in some cases, Heaven's best +blessing.</p> + +<p>'I have an intense interest in your new novel.<a name="FNanchor_33_33" id="FNanchor_33_33"></a><a href="#Footnote_33_33" class="fnanchor">[33]</a> More power in +these few numbers than in any of your former writings, relating,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_150" id="Page_150">[Pg 150]</a></span> at +least, to my own mind. It would amuse you to hear my grand-daughter +and myself attempting to foresee the future of the love-story; being, +for the moment, quite persuaded that James is at sea, and the minister +about to ruin himself. We think that Mary will labour to be in love +with the self-devoted man, under her mother's influence, and from that +hyper-conscientiousness so common with good girls; but we don't wish +her to succeed. Then what is to become of her older lover? Time will +show.</p> + +<p>'The lady you desired to introduce to me will be welcomed as of you. +She has been misled with respect to my having any house in Yorkshire +(New Leeds). I am in London now to be of a little use to A——; not +ostensibly, for I can neither go out, nor give parties: but I am the +confidential friend to whom she likes to bring her social gatherings, +as she can see something of the world with others. Age and infirmity +seem to be overlooked in what she calls the harmony between us,—not +perfect agreement of opinion (which I should regret, with almost fifty +years of difference), but the spirit-union: can you say what it is?</p> + +<p>'I am interrupted by a note from Mrs. K——. She says that she cannot +write of our lost friend yet, though she is less sad than she will +be. Mrs. F—— may like to hear of her arrival, should you be in +communication with our friend. She is the type of youth in age.</p> + +<p>'I often converse with Miss S——, a judicious friend of the W——s, +about what is likely to await them. She would not succeed here as well +as where she was a novelty. The character of our climate this year has +been injurious to the respiratory organs; but I hope still to serve +them.</p> + +<p>'I have just missed Dale Owen, with whom I wished to have conversed on +spiritualism.<a name="FNanchor_34_34" id="FNanchor_34_34"></a><a href="#Footnote_34_34" class="fnanchor">[34]</a> Harris is lecturing here on religion. I do not hear +him praised.</p> + +<p>'People are looking for helps to believe, everywhere but in life,—in +music, in architecture, in antiquity, in ceremony; and upon all +these is written, "Thou shalt <i>not</i> believe." At least, if this be +faith, happier the unbeliever. I am willing to see <i>through</i><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_151" id="Page_151">[Pg 151]</a></span> that +materialism; but, if I am to rest there, I would rend the veil.</p> + + + +<p class="author"> +'June 1.<br /> +</p> + +<p>'The day of the packet's sailing. I shall hope to be visited by you +here. The best flowers sent me have been placed in your little vases, +giving life to the remembrance of you, though not, like them, to pass +away.</p> + +<p class="center"> +'Ever yours,</p> +<p class="author"><span class="smcap">'A. I. Noel Byron</span>.' +</p></div> + +<p>Shortly after, I was in England again, and had one more opportunity of +resuming our personal intercourse. The first time that I called on Lady +Byron, I saw her in one of those periods of utter physical exhaustion +to which she was subject on account of the constant pressure of cares +beyond her strength. All who knew her will testify, that, in a state of +health which would lead most persons to become helpless absorbents of +service from others, she was assuming burdens, and making outlays of +her vital powers in acts of love and service, with a generosity that +often reduced her to utter exhaustion. But none who knew or loved her +ever misinterpreted the coldness of those seasons of exhaustion. We +knew that it was <i>not</i> the spirit that was chilled, but only the frail +mortal tabernacle. When I called on her at this time, she could not see +me at first; and when, at last, she came, it was evident that she was +in a state of utter prostration. Her hands were like ice; her face was +deadly pale; and she conversed with a restraint and difficulty which +showed what exertion it was for her to keep up at all. I left as soon +as possible, with an appointment<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_152" id="Page_152">[Pg 152]</a></span> for another interview. That interview +was my last on earth with her, and is still beautiful in memory. It was +a long, still summer afternoon, spent alone with her in a garden, where +we walked together. She was enjoying one of those bright intervals +of freedom from pain and languor, in which her spirits always rose +so buoyant and youthful; and her eye brightened, and her step became +elastic.</p> + +<p>One last little incident is cherished as most expressive of her. When +it became time for me to leave, she took me in her carriage to the +station. As we were almost there, I missed my gloves, and said, 'I must +have left them; but there is not time to go back.'</p> + +<p>With one of those quick, impulsive motions which were so natural to her +in doing a kindness, she drew off her own and said, 'Take mine if they +will serve you.'</p> + +<p>I hesitated a moment; and then the thought, that I might never see +her again, came over me, and I said, 'Oh, yes! thanks.' That was the +last earthly word of love between us. But, thank God, those who love +worthily never meet for the <i>last</i> time: there is always a future.</p> + +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_153" id="Page_153">[Pg 153]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2>CHAPTER II.</h2> + +<p class="ph4">LADY BYRON'S STORY AS TOLD TO ME.</p> + + +<p>I now come to the particulars of that most painful interview which has +been the cause of all this controversy. My sister and myself were going +from London to Eversley to visit the Rev. C. Kingsley. On our way, we +stopped, by Lady Byron's invitation, to lunch with her at her summer +residence on Ham Common, near Richmond; and it was then arranged, that +on our return, we should make her a short visit, as she said she had a +subject of importance on which she wished to converse with me alone.</p> + +<p>On our return from Eversley, we arrived at her house in the morning.</p> + +<p>It appeared to be one of Lady Byron's <i>well</i> days. She was up and +dressed, and moved about her house with her usual air of quiet +simplicity; as full of little acts of consideration for all about her +as if they were the habitual invalids, and she the well person.</p> + +<p>There were with her two ladies of her most intimate friends, by whom +she seemed to be regarded with a sort of worship. When she left the +room for a moment, they looked after her with a singular expression of +respect<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_154" id="Page_154">[Pg 154]</a></span> and affection, and expressed freely their admiration of her +character, and their fears that her unselfishness might be leading her +to over-exertion.</p> + +<p>After lunch, I retired with Lady Byron; and my sister remained with +her friends. I should here remark, that the chief subject of the +conversation which ensued was not entirely new to me. In the interval +between my first and second visits to England, a lady who for many +years had enjoyed Lady Byron's friendship and confidence, had, with her +consent, stated the case generally to me, giving some of the incidents: +so that I was in a manner prepared for what followed.</p> + +<p>Those who accuse Lady Byron of being a person fond of talking upon this +subject, and apt to make unconsidered confidences, can have known very +little of her, of her reserve, and of the apparent difficulty she had +in speaking on subjects nearest her heart.</p> + +<p>Her habitual calmness and composure of manner, her collected dignity +on all occasions, are often mentioned by her husband, sometimes with +bitterness, sometimes with admiration. He says, 'Though I accuse Lady +Byron of an excess of self-respect, I must in candour admit that, if +ever a person had excuse for an extraordinary portion of it, she has; +as, in all her thoughts, words, and deeds, she is the most decorous +woman that ever existed, and must appear, what few I fancy could, a +perfectly refined gentlewoman, even to her <i>femme de chambre</i>.</p> + +<p>This calmness and dignity were never more mani<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_155" id="Page_155">[Pg 155]</a></span>fested than in this +interview. In recalling the conversation at this distance of time, I +cannot remember all the language used. Some particular words and forms +of expression I do remember, and those I give; and in other cases I +give my recollection of the substance of what was said.</p> + +<p>There was something awful to me in the intensity of repressed emotion +which she showed as she proceeded. The great fact upon which all turned +was stated in words that were unmistakable:—</p> + +<p>'He was guilty of incest with his sister!'</p> + +<p>She here became so deathly pale, that I feared she would faint; and +hastened to say, 'My dear friend, I have heard that.' She asked +quickly, 'From whom? and I answered, 'From Mrs. ——;' when she +replied, 'Oh, yes!' as if recollecting herself.</p> + +<p>I then asked her some questions; in reply to which she said, 'I will +tell you.'</p> + +<p>She then spoke of her first acquaintance with Lord Byron; from which I +gathered that she, an only child, brought up in retirement, and living +much within herself, had been, as deep natures often were, intensely +stirred by his poetry; and had felt a deep interest in him personally, +as one that had the germs of all that is glorious and noble.</p> + +<p>When she was introduced to him, and perceived his admiration of +herself, and at last received his offer, although deeply moved, she +doubted her own power to be to him all that a wife should be. She +declined his offer,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_156" id="Page_156">[Pg 156]</a></span> therefore, but desired to retain his friendship. +After this, as she said, a correspondence ensued, mostly on moral and +literary subjects; and, by this correspondence, her interest in him was +constantly increased.</p> + +<p>At last, she said, he sent her a very beautiful letter, offering +himself again. 'I thought,' she added, 'that it was sincere, and that I +might now show him all I felt. I wrote just what was in my heart.</p> + +<p>'Afterwards,' she said, 'I found in one of his journals this notice of +my letter: "A letter from Bell,—never rains but it pours."'</p> + +<p>There was through her habitual calm a shade of womanly indignation as +she spoke these words; but it was gone in a moment. I said, 'And did he +not love you, then?' She answered, 'No, my dear: he did not love me.'</p> + +<p>'Why, then, did he wish to marry you?' She laid her hand on mine, and +said in a low voice, 'You will see.'</p> + +<p>She then told me, that, shortly after the declared engagement, he came +to her father's house to visit her as an accepted suitor. The visit was +to her full of disappointment. His appearance was so strange, moody, +and unaccountable, and his treatment of her so peculiar, that she came +to the conclusion that he did not love her, and sought an opportunity +to converse with him alone.</p> + +<p>She told him that she saw from his manner that their engagement did not +give him pleasure; that she<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_157" id="Page_157">[Pg 157]</a></span> should never blame him if he wished to +dissolve it; that his nature was exceptional; and if, on a nearer view +of the situation, he shrank from it, she would release him, and remain +no less than ever his friend.</p> + +<p>Upon this, she said, he fainted entirely away.</p> + +<p>She stopped a moment, and then, as if speaking with great effort, +added, '<i>Then</i> I was <i>sure</i> he must love me.'</p> + +<p>'And did he not?' said I. 'What other cause could have led to this +emotion?'</p> + +<p>She looked at me very sadly, and said, '<i>Fear of detection</i>.'</p> + +<p>'What!' said I, 'did <i>that cause</i> then exist?'</p> + +<p>'Yes,' she said, 'it did.' And she explained that she <i>now</i> attributed +Lord Byron's great agitation to fear, that, in some way, suspicion of +the crime had been aroused in her mind, and that on this account she +was seeking to break the engagement. She said, that, from that moment, +her sympathies were aroused for him, to soothe the remorse and anguish +which seemed preying on his mind, and which she then regarded as the +sensibility of an unusually exacting moral nature, which judged itself +by higher standards, and condemned itself unsparingly for what most +young men of his times regarded as venial faults. She had every hope +for his future, and all the enthusiasm of belief that so many men and +women of those times and ours have had in his intrinsic nobleness. She +said the gloom, however, seemed to be even deeper when he came to the +marriage; but she looked at it as the suffering of a peculiar<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_158" id="Page_158">[Pg 158]</a></span> being, +to whom she was called to minister. I said to her, that, even in the +days of my childhood, I had heard of something very painful that had +passed as they were in the carriage, immediately after marriage. She +then said that it was so; that almost his first words, when they were +alone, were, that she <i>might</i> once have saved him; that, if she had +accepted him when he first offered, she might have made him anything +she pleased; but that, as it was, she would find she had married a +devil.</p> + +<p>The conversation, as recorded in Lady Anne Barnard's Diary, seems only +a continuation of the foregoing, and just what might have followed upon +it.</p> + +<p>I then asked how she became certain of the true cause.</p> + +<p>She said, that, from the outset of their married life, his conduct +towards her was strange and unaccountable, even during the first +weeks after the wedding, while they were visiting her friends, and +outwardly on good terms. He seemed resolved to shake and combat both +her religious principles and her views of the family state. He tried +to undermine her faith in Christianity as a rule of life by argument +and by ridicule. He set before her the Continental idea of the liberty +of marriage; it being a simple partnership of friendship and property, +the parties to which were allowed by one another to pursue their own +separate individual tastes. He told her, that, as he could not be +expected to confine himself to her, neither should he expect or wish +that<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_159" id="Page_159">[Pg 159]</a></span> she should confine herself to him; that she was young and pretty, +and could have her lovers, and he should never object; and that she +must allow him the same freedom.</p> + +<p>She said that she did not comprehend to what this was tending till +after they came to London, and his sister came to stay with them.</p> + +<p>At what precise time the idea of an improper connection between her +husband and his sister was first forced upon her, she did not say; +but she told me <i>how</i> it was done. She said that one night, in her +presence, he treated his sister with a liberty which both shocked and +astonished her. Seeing her amazement and alarm, he came up to her, and +said, in a sneering tone, 'I suppose you perceive <i>you</i> are not wanted +here. Go to your own room, and leave us alone. We can amuse ourselves +better without you.'</p> + +<p>She said, 'I went to my room, trembling. I fell down on my knees, and +prayed to my heavenly Father to have mercy on them. I thought, "What +shall I do?"'</p> + +<p>I remember, after this, a pause in the conversation, during which she +seemed struggling with thoughts and emotions; and, for my part, I was +unable to utter a word, or ask a question.</p> + +<p>She did not tell me what followed immediately upon this, nor how soon +after she spoke on the subject with either of the parties. She first +began to speak of conversations afterwards held with Lord Byron, in +which<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_160" id="Page_160">[Pg 160]</a></span> he boldly avowed the connection as having existed in time past, +and as one that was to continue in time to come; and implied that she +must submit to it. She put it to his conscience as concerning his +sister's soul, and he said that it was no sin; that it was the way +the world was first peopled: the Scriptures taught that all the world +descended from one pair; and how could that be unless brothers married +their sisters? that, if not a sin then, it could not be a sin now.</p> + +<p>I immediately said, 'Why, Lady Byron, those are the very arguments +given in the drama of "Cain."'</p> + +<p>'The very same,' was her reply. 'He could reason very speciously on +this subject.' She went on to say, that, when she pressed him hard with +the universal sentiment of mankind as to the horror and the crime, he +took another turn, and said that the horror and crime were the very +attraction; that he had worn out all <i>ordinary</i> forms of sin, and that +he '<i>longed for the stimulus of a new kind of vice</i>.' She set before +him the dread of detection; and then he became furious. <i>She</i> should +never be the means of his detection, he said. She should leave him; +<i>that</i> he was resolved upon: but she should always bear all the blame +of the separation. In the sneering tone which was common with him, +he said, 'The world will believe me, and it will <i>not</i> believe you. +The world has made up its mind that "By" is a glorious boy; and the +world will go for "By," right or wrong. Besides, I shall make it my +life's object to discredit you: I shall use all my powers.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_161" id="Page_161">[Pg 161]</a></span> Read "Caleb +Williams,"<a name="FNanchor_35_35" id="FNanchor_35_35"></a><a href="#Footnote_35_35" class="fnanchor">[35]</a> and you will see that I shall do by you just as Falkland +did by Caleb.'</p> + +<p>I said that all this seemed to me like insanity. She said that she was +for a time led to think that it was insanity, and excused and pitied +him; that his treatment of her expressed such hatred and malignity, +that she knew not what else to think of it: that he seemed resolved to +drive her out of the house at all hazards, and threatened her, if she +should remain, in a way to alarm the heart of any woman: yet, thinking +him insane, she left him at last with the sorrow with which anyone<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_162" id="Page_162">[Pg 162]</a></span> +might leave a dear friend whose reason was wholly overthrown, and to +whom in this desolation she was no longer permitted to minister.</p> + +<p>I inquired in one of the pauses of the conversation whether Mrs. Leigh +was a peculiarly beautiful or attractive woman.</p> + +<p>'No, my dear: she was plain.'</p> + +<p>'Was she, then, distinguished for genius or talent of any kind?'</p> + +<p>'Oh, no! Poor woman! she was weak, relatively to him, and wholly under +his control.'</p> + +<p>'And what became of her?' I said.</p> + +<p>'She afterwards repented, and became a truly good woman.' I think it +was here she mentioned that she had frequently seen and conversed with +Mrs. Leigh in the latter part of her life; and she seemed to derive +comfort from the recollection.</p> + +<p>I asked, 'Was there a child?' I had been told by Mrs. —— that there +was a daughter, who had lived some years.</p> + +<p>She said there was one, a daughter, who made her friends much trouble, +being of a very difficult nature to manage. I had understood that at +one time this daughter escaped from her friends to the Continent, and +that Lady Byron assisted in efforts to recover her. Of Lady Byron's +kindness both to Mrs. Leigh and the child, I had before heard from Mrs. +——, who gave me my first information.</p> + +<p>It is also strongly impressed on my mind, that Lady<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_163" id="Page_163">[Pg 163]</a></span> Byron, in answer +to some question of mine as to whether there was ever any meeting +between Lord Byron and his sister after he left England, answered, +that she had insisted upon it, or made it a condition, that Mrs. Leigh +should not go abroad to him.</p> + +<p>When the conversation as to events was over, as I stood musing, I said, +'Have you no evidence that he repented?' and alluded to the mystery of +his death, and the message he endeavoured to utter.</p> + +<p>She answered quickly, and with great decision, that whatever might have +been his meaning at that hour, she felt sure he had finally repented; +and added with great earnestness, 'I do not believe that <i>any</i> child of +the heavenly Father is ever left to eternal sin.'</p> + +<p>I said that such a hope was most delightful to my feelings, but that I +had always regarded the indulgence of it as a dangerous one.</p> + +<p>Her look, voice, and manner, at that moment, are indelibly fixed in my +mind. She looked at me so sadly, so firmly, and said,—</p> + +<p>'Danger, Mrs. Stowe! What danger can come from indulging that hope, +like the danger that comes from not having it?'</p> + +<p>I said in my turn, 'What danger comes from not having it?'</p> + +<p>'The danger of losing all faith in God,' she said, 'all hope for +others, all strength to try and save them. I once knew a lady,' she +added, 'who was in a state of<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_164" id="Page_164">[Pg 164]</a></span> scepticism and despair from belief in +that doctrine. I think I saved her by giving her my faith.'</p> + +<p>I was silent; and she continued: 'Lord Byron believed in eternal +punishment fully: for though he reasoned against Christianity as it is +commonly received, he could not reason himself out of it; and I think +it made him desperate. He used to say, "The worst of it is I <i>do</i> +believe." Had he seen God as I see him, I am sure his heart would have +relented.'</p> + +<p>She went on to say, that his sins, great as they were, admitted of +much palliation and excuse; that he was the child of singular and +ill-matched parents; that he had an organisation originally fine, but +one capable equally of great good or great evil; that in his childhood +he had only the worst and most fatal influences; that he grew up into +manhood with no guide; that there was everything in the classical +course of the schools to develop an unhealthy growth of passion, and no +moral influence of any kind to restrain it; that the manners of his day +were corrupt; that what were now considered vices in society were then +spoken of as matters of course among young noblemen; that drinking, +gaming, and licentiousness everywhere abounded: and that, up to a +certain time, he was no worse than multitudes of other young men of his +day,—only that the vices of his day were worse for him. The excesses +of passion, the disregard of physical laws in eating, drinking, and +living, wrought effects on him that they did not on less sensitively +organised frames, and pre<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_165" id="Page_165">[Pg 165]</a></span>pared him for the evil hour when he fell +into the sin which shaded his whole life. All the rest was a struggle +with its consequences,—sinning more and more to conceal the sin of +the past. But she believed he never outlived remorse; that he always +suffered; and that this showed that God had not utterly forsaken him. +Remorse, she said, always showed moral sensibility, and, while <i>that</i> +remained, there was always hope.</p> + +<p>She now began to speak of her grounds for thinking it might be her duty +fully to publish this story before she left the world.</p> + +<p>First she said that, through the whole course of her life, she had +felt the eternal value of truth, and seen how dreadful a thing was +falsehood, and how fearful it was to be an accomplice in it, even by +silence. Lord Byron had demoralised the moral sense of England, and he +had done it in a great degree by the sympathy excited by falsehood. +This had been pleaded in extenuation of all his crimes and vices, and +led to a lowering of the standard of morals in the literary world. Now +it was proposed to print cheap editions of his works, and sell them +among the common people, and interest them in him by the circulation of +this same story.</p> + +<p>She then said in effect, that she believed in retribution and suffering +in the future life, and that the consequences of sins <i>here</i> follow us +<i>there</i>; and it was strongly impressed upon her mind that Lord Byron +must suffer in looking on the evil consequences of what<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_166" id="Page_166">[Pg 166]</a></span> he had done in +this life, and in seeing the further extension of that evil.</p> + +<p>'It has sometimes strongly appeared to me,' she said, 'that he cannot +be at peace until this injustice has been righted. Such is the strong +feeling that I have when I think of going where he is.'</p> + +<p>These things, she said, had led her to inquire whether it might not be +her duty to make a full and clear disclosure before she left the world.</p> + +<p>Of course, I did not listen to this story as one who was investigating +its worth. I received it as truth. And the purpose for which it was +communicated was not to enable me to prove it to the world, but to ask +my opinion whether <i>she</i> should show it to the world before leaving +it. The whole consultation was upon the assumption that she had at her +command such proofs as could not be questioned.</p> + +<p>Concerning what they were I did not minutely inquire: only, in answer +to a general question, she said that she had letters and documents +in proof of her story. Knowing Lady Byron's strength of mind, her +clear-headedness, her accurate habits, and her perfect knowledge of the +matter, I considered her judgment on this point decisive.</p> + +<p>I told her that I would take the subject into consideration, and give +my opinion in a few days. That night, after my sister and myself had +retired to our own apartment, I related to her the whole history, and +we spent the night in talking of it. I was powerfully im<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_167" id="Page_167">[Pg 167]</a></span>pressed with +the justice and propriety of an immediate disclosure; while she, on the +contrary, represented the painful consequences that would probably come +upon Lady Byron from taking such a step.</p> + +<p>Before we parted the next day, I requested Lady Byron to give me some +memoranda of such dates and outlines of the general story as would +enable me better to keep it in its connection; which she did.</p> + +<p>On giving me the paper, Lady Byron requested me to return it to her +when it had ceased to be of use to me for the purpose indicated.</p> + +<p>Accordingly, a day or two after, I enclosed it to her in a hasty note, +as I was then leaving London for Paris, and had not yet had time fully +to consider the subject.</p> + +<p>On reviewing my note, I can recall that then the whole history appeared +to me like one of those singular cases where unnatural impulses to +vice are the result of a taint of constitutional insanity. This has +always seemed to me the only way of accounting for instances of +utterly motiveless and abnormal wickedness and cruelty. These my first +impressions were expressed in the hasty note written at the time:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="author"> + +'<span class="smcap">London</span>, Nov. 5, 1856. +</p> + +<p>'<span class="smcap">Dearest Friend</span>,—I return these. They have held mine eyes +waking! How strange! how unaccountable! Have you ever subjected the +facts to the judgment of a medical man learned in nervous pathology?</p> + +<p>'<i>Is</i> it not insanity?</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">"Great wits to madness nearly are allied,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And thin partitions do their bounds divide."<br /></span> +</div></div></div> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_168" id="Page_168">[Pg 168]</a></span></p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'But my purpose to-night is not to write you fully what I think of +this matter. I am going to write to you from Paris more at leisure.'</p></div> + +<p>The rest of the letter was taken up in the final details of a +charity in which Lady Byron had been engaged with me in assisting an +unfortunate artist. It concludes thus:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I write now in all haste, <i>en route</i> for Paris. As to America, all +is not lost yet.<a name="FNanchor_36_36" id="FNanchor_36_36"></a><a href="#Footnote_36_36" class="fnanchor">[36]</a> Farewell! I love you, my dear friend, as never +before, with an intense feeling I cannot easily express. God bless you!</p> + +<p class="author"> +'H. B. S.' +</p></div> + +<p>The next letter is as follows:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="author"> + +'<span class="smcap">Paris</span>, Dec. 17, 1856. +</p> + +<p>'<span class="smcap">Dear Lady Byron</span>,—The Kansas Committee have written me a +letter desiring me to express to Miss —— their gratitude for the +five pounds she sent them. I am not personally acquainted with her, +and must return these acknowledgments through you.</p> + +<p>'I wrote you a day or two since, enclosing the reply of the Kansas +Committee to you.</p> + +<p>'On <i>that subject</i> on which you spoke to me the last time we were +together, I have thought often and deeply.</p> + +<p>'I have changed my mind somewhat. Considering the peculiar +circumstances of the case, I could wish that the sacred veil of +silence, so bravely thrown over the past, should never be withdrawn +during the time that you remain with us.</p> + +<p>'I would say, then, Leave all with some discreet friends, who, after +<i>both</i> have passed from earth, shall say what was due to <i>justice</i>.</p> + +<p>'I am led to think this by seeing how low, how unjust, how unworthy, +the judgments of this world are; and I would not that<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_169" id="Page_169">[Pg 169]</a></span> what I so much +respect, love, and revere should be placed within reach of its harpy +claw, which pollutes what it touches.</p> + +<p>'The day will yet come which will bring to light every hidden thing. +"There is nothing covered that shall not be revealed, neither hid that +shall not be known;" and so <i>justice will not fail</i>.</p> + +<p>'Such, my dear friend, are my thoughts; different from what they were +since first I heard that strange, sad history. Meanwhile, <i>I love you +ever</i>, whether we meet again on earth or not.</p> + +<p class="center"> +'Affectionately yours,</p> + +<p class="author">'H. B. S.' +</p></div> + +<p>The following letter will here be inserted as confirming a part of Lady +Byron's story:—</p> + + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="center"><span class="smcap">To the Editor of 'Macmillan's Magazine.'</span></p> + +<p>'<span class="smcap">Sir</span>,—I trust that you will hold me excused from any desire +to be troublesome, or to rush into print. Both these things are far +from my wish. But the publication of a book having for its object the +vindication of Lord Byron's character, and the subsequent appearance +in your magazine of Mrs. Stowe's article in defence of Lady Byron, +having led to so much controversy in the various newspapers of the +day, I feel constrained to put in a few words among the rest.</p> + +<p>'My father was intimately acquainted with Lady Byron's family for many +years, both before and after her marriage; being, in fact, steward to +Sir Ralph Milbanke at Seaham, where the marriage took place; and, from +all my recollections of what he told me of the affair (and he used +often to talk of it, up to the time of his death, eight years ago), I +fully agree with Mrs. Stowe's view of the case, and desire to add my +humble testimony to the truth of what she has stated.</p> + +<p>'Whilst Byron was staying at Seaham, previous to his marriage, he +spent most of his time pistol-shooting in the plantations adjoining +the hall, often making use of his glove as a mark; his servant being +with him to load for him.</p> + +<p>'When all was in readiness for the wedding-ceremony (which took place +in the drawing-room of the hall), Byron had to be<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_170" id="Page_170">[Pg 170]</a></span> sought for in the +grounds, where he was walking in his usual surly mood.</p> + +<p>'After the marriage, they posted to Halnaby Lodge in Yorkshire, a +distance of about forty miles; to which place my father accompanied +them, and he always spoke strongly of Lady Byron's apparent distress +during and at the end of the journey.</p> + +<p>'The insulting words mentioned by Mrs. Stowe were spoken by Byron +before leaving the park at Seaham; after which he appeared to sit +in moody silence, reading a book, for the rest of the journey. At +Halnaby, a number of persons, tenants and others, were met to cheer +them on their arrival. Of these he took not the slightest notice, but +jumped out of the carriage, and walked away, leaving his bride to +alight by herself. She shook hands with my father, and begged that he +would see that some refreshment was supplied to those who had thus +come to welcome them.</p> + +<p>'I have in my possession several letters (which I should be glad to +show to anyone interested in the matter) both from Lady Byron, and her +mother, Lady Milbanke, to my father, all showing the deep and kind +interest which they took in the welfare of all connected with them, +and directing the distribution of various charities, &c. Pensions were +allowed both to the old servants of the Milbankes and to several poor +persons in the village and neighbourhood for the rest of their lives; +and Lady Byron never ceased to take a lively interest in all that +concerned them.</p> + +<p>'I desire to tender my humble thanks to Mrs. Stowe for having +come forward in defence of one whose character has been much +misrepresented; and to you, sir, for having published the same in your +pages.</p> + +<p class="center"> +'I have the honour to be, sir, yours obediently,</p> +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">G. H. Aird</span>.</p> +<p class="p3"> +'<span class="smcap">Daourty, Northamptonshire</span>, Sept. 29, 1869.' +</p></div> + +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_171" id="Page_171">[Pg 171]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2>CHAPTER III.</h2> + +<p class="ph4">CHRONOLOGICAL SUMMARY OF EVENTS.</p> + + +<p>I have now fulfilled as conscientiously as possible the requests of +those who feel that they have a right to know exactly what was said in +this interview.</p> + +<p>It has been my object, in doing this, to place myself just where I +should stand were I giving evidence under oath before a legal tribunal. +In my first published account, there were given some smaller details of +the story, of no particular value to the main purpose of it, which I +received <i>not</i> from Lady Byron, but from her confidential friend. One +of these was the account of her seeing Lord Byron's favourite spaniel +lying at his door, and the other was the scene of the parting.</p> + +<p>The first was communicated to me before I ever saw Lady Byron, and +under these circumstances:—I was invited to meet her, and had +expressed my desire to do so, because Lord Byron had been all my life +an object of great interest to me. I inquired what sort of a person +Lady Byron was. My friend spoke of her with enthusiasm. I then said, +'but of course she never <i>loved</i> Lord Byron, or she would not have left +him.' The lady answered, 'I can show you with what feelings she<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_172" id="Page_172">[Pg 172]</a></span> left +him by relating this story;' and then followed the anecdote.</p> + +<p>Subsequently, she also related to me the other story of the +parting-scene between Lord and Lady Byron. In regard to these two +incidents, my recollection is clear.</p> + +<p>It will be observed by the reader that Lady Byron's conversation with +me was simply for consultation <i>on one point</i>, and that point whether +<i>she herself</i> should publish the story before her death. It was not, +therefore, a complete history of all the events in their order, but +specimens of a few incidents and facts. Her object was, not to prove +her story to me, nor to put me in possession of it with a view to <i>my</i> +proving it, but simply and briefly to show me <i>what it was</i>, that I +might judge as to the probable results of its publication at that time.</p> + +<p>It therefore comprised primarily these points:—</p> + +<p>1. An exact statement, in so many words, of the crime.</p> + +<p>2. A statement of the manner in which it was first forced on her +attention by Lord Byron's words and actions, including: his admissions +and defences of it.</p> + +<p>3. The admission of a period when she had ascribed his whole conduct to +insanity.</p> + +<p>4. A reference to later positive evidences of guilt,—the existence of +a child, and Mrs. Leigh's subsequent repentance.</p> + +<p>And here I have a word to say in reference to the alleged inaccuracies +of my true story.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_173" id="Page_173">[Pg 173]</a></span></p> + +<p>The dates that Lady Byron gave me on the memoranda did not relate +either to the time of the first disclosure, or the period when her +doubts became certainties; nor did her conversation touch either of +these points: and, on a careful review of the latter, I see clearly +that it omitted dwelling upon anything which I might be supposed to +have learned from her already published statement.</p> + +<p>I re-enclosed that paper to her from London, and have never seen it +since.</p> + +<p>In writing my account, which I designed to do in the most general +terms, I took for my guide Miss Martineau's published Memoir of Lady +Byron, which has long stood uncontradicted before the public, of which +Macmillan's London edition is now before me. The reader is referred to +page 316, which reads thus:—</p> + +<p>'She was born 1792; married in January 1814; returned to her father's +house in 1816; died on May 16, 1860.' This makes her married life two +years; but we need not say that the date is inaccurate, as Lady Byron +was married in 1815.</p> + +<p>Supposing Lady Byron's married life to have covered two years, I +could only reconcile its continuance for that length of time to her +uncertainty as to his sanity; to deceptions practised on her, making +her doubt at one time, and believe at another; and his keeping her in a +general state of turmoil and confusion, till at last he took the step +of banishing her.</p> + +<p>Various other points taken from Miss Martineau have<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_174" id="Page_174">[Pg 174]</a></span> also been attacked +as inaccuracies; for example, the number of executions in the house: +but these points, though of no importance, are substantially borne out +by Moore's statements.</p> + +<p>This controversy, unfortunately, cannot be managed with the accuracy of +a legal trial. Its course, hitherto, has rather resembled the course of +a drawing-room scandal, where everyone freely throws in an assertion, +with or without proof. In making out my narrative, however, I shall use +only certain authentic sources, some of which have for a long time been +before the public, and some of which have floated up from the waves of +the recent controversy. I consider as authentic sources,—</p> + +<p>Moore's Life of Byron;</p> + +<p>Lady Byron's own account of the separation, published in 1830;</p> + +<p>Lady Byron's statements to me in 1856;</p> + +<p>Lord Lindsay's communication, giving an extract from Lady Anne +Barnard's diary, and a copy of a letter from Lady Byron dated 1818, +about three years after her marriage;</p> + +<p>Mrs. Mimms' testimony, as given in a daily paper published at +Newcastle, England;</p> + +<p>And Lady Byron's letters, as given recently in the late 'London +Quarterly.'</p> + +<p>All which documents appear to arrange themselves into a connected +series.</p> + +<p>From these, then, let us construct the story.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_175" id="Page_175">[Pg 175]</a></span></p> + +<p>According to Mrs. Mimms' account, which is likely to be accurate, the +time spent by Lord and Lady Byron in bridal-visiting was three weeks at +Halnaby Hall, and six weeks at Seaham, when Mrs. Mimms quitted their +service.</p> + +<p>During this first period of three weeks, Lord Byron's treatment of his +wife, as testified to by the servant, was such that she advised her +young mistress to return to her parents; and, at one time, Lady Byron +had almost resolved to do so.</p> + +<p>What the particulars of his conduct were, the servant refuses to state; +being bound by a promise of silence to her mistress. She, however, +testifies to a warm friendship existing between Lady Byron and Mrs. +Leigh, in a manner which would lead us to feel that Lady Byron received +and was received by Lord Byron's sister with the greatest affection. +Lady Byron herself says to Lady Anne Barnard, 'I had heard that he was +the best of brothers;' and the inference is, that she, at an early +period of her married life, felt the greatest confidence in his sister, +and wished to have her with them as much as possible. In Lady Anne's +account, this wish to have the sister with her was increased by Lady +Byron's distress at her husband's attempts to corrupt her principles +with regard to religion and marriage.</p> + +<p>In Moore's Life, vol. iii., letter 217, Lord Byron writes from Seaham +to Moore, under date of March 8, sending a copy of his verses in Lady +Byron's handwriting, and saying, 'We shall leave this place to-mor<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_176" id="Page_176">[Pg 176]</a></span>row, +and shall stop on our way to town, in the interval of taking a house +there, at Colonel Leigh's, near Newmarket, where any epistle of yours +will find its welcome way. I have been very comfortable here, listening +to that d——d monologue which elderly gentlemen call conversation, in +which my pious father-in-law repeats himself every evening, save one, +when he played upon the fiddle. However, they have been vastly kind and +hospitable, and I like them and the place vastly; and I hope they will +live many happy months. Bell is in health and unvaried good-humour and +behaviour; but we are in all the agonies of packing and parting.'</p> + +<p>Nine days after this, under date of March 17, Lord Byron says, 'We +mean to metropolize to-morrow, and you will address your next to +Piccadilly.' The inference is, that the days intermediate were spent +at Colonel Leigh's. The next letters, and all subsequent ones for six +months, are dated from Piccadilly.</p> + +<p>As we have shown, there is every reason to believe that a warm +friendship had thus arisen between Mrs. Leigh and Lady Byron, and that, +during all this time, Lady Byron desired as much of the society of her +sister-in-law as possible. She was a married woman and a mother, her +husband's nearest relative; and Lady Byron could with more propriety +ask, from her, counsel or aid in respect to his peculiarities than she +could from her own parents. If we consider the character of Lady Byron +as given by Mrs. Mimms,—that of a young person of warm but repressed +feeling, without sister or brother,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_177" id="Page_177">[Pg 177]</a></span> longing for human sympathy, +and having so far found no relief but in talking with a faithful +dependant,—we may easily see that the acquisition of a sister through +Lord Byron might have been all in all to her, and that the feelings +which he checked and rejected for himself might have flowed out towards +his sister with enthusiasm. The date of Mrs. Leigh's visit does not +appear.</p> + +<p>The first domestic indication in Lord Byron's letters from London is +the announcement of the death of Lady Byron's uncle, Lord Wentworth, +from whom came large expectations of property. Lord Byron had mentioned +him before in his letters as so kind to Bell and himself that he +could not find it in his heart to wish him in heaven if he preferred +staying here. In his letter of April 23, he mentions going to the play +immediately after hearing this news, 'although,' as he says, 'he ought +to have stayed at home in sackcloth for "unc."'</p> + +<p>On June 12, he writes that Lady Byron is more than three months +advanced in her progress towards maternity; and that they have been out +very little, as he wishes to keep her quiet. We are informed by Moore +that Lord Byron was at this time a member of the Drury-Lane Theatre +Committee; and that, in this unlucky connection, one of the fatalities +of the first year of trial as a husband lay. From the strain of Byron's +letters, as given in Moore, it is apparent, that, while he thinks it +best for his wife to remain at home, he does not propose to share the +retirement, but prefers running his<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_178" id="Page_178">[Pg 178]</a></span> own separate career with such +persons as thronged the greenroom of the theatre in those days.</p> + +<p>In commenting on Lord Byron's course, we must not by any means be +supposed to indicate that he was doing any more or worse than most gay +young men of his time. The licence of the day as to getting drunk at +dinner-parties, and leading, generally, what would, in these days, be +called a disorderly life, was great. We should infer that none of the +literary men of Byron's time would have been ashamed of being drunk +occasionally. The Noctes Ambrosianæ Club of 'Blackwood' is full of +songs glorying, in the broadest terms, in out-and-out drunkenness, and +inviting to it as the highest condition of a civilised being.<a name="FNanchor_37_37" id="FNanchor_37_37"></a><a href="#Footnote_37_37" class="fnanchor">[37]</a></p> + +<p>But drunkenness upon Lord Byron had a peculiar and specific effect, +which he notices afterwards, in his Journal, at Venice: 'The effect +of all wines and spirits upon me is, however, strange. It settles, +but makes me gloomy—gloomy at the very moment of their effect: it +composes, however, though <i>sullenly</i>.'<a name="FNanchor_38_38" id="FNanchor_38_38"></a><a href="#Footnote_38_38" class="fnanchor">[38]</a> And, again, in another +place, he says, 'Wine and spirits make me sullen, and savage to +ferocity.' </p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_179" id="Page_179">[Pg 179]</a></span></p> + +<p>It is well known that the effects of alcoholic excitement are various +as the natures of the subjects. But by far the worst effects, and the +most destructive to domestic peace, are those that occur in cases where +spirits, instead of acting on the nerves of motion, and depriving +the subject of power in that direction, stimulate the brain so as to +produce there the ferocity, the steadiness, the utter deadness to +compassion or conscience, which characterise a madman. How fearful +to a sensitive young mother in the period of pregnancy might be the +return of such a madman to the domestic roof! Nor can we account for +those scenes described in Lady Anne Barnard's letters, where Lord Byron +returned from his evening parties to try torturing experiments on his +wife, otherwise than by his own statement, that spirits, while they +<i>steadied</i> him, made him 'gloomy, and savage to ferocity.'</p> + +<p>Take for example this:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'One night, coming home from one of his lawless parties, he saw me +(Lady B.) so indignantly collected, and bearing all with such a +determined calmness, that a rush of remorse seemed to come over him. +He called himself a monster, and, though his sister was present, threw +himself in agony at my feet. "I could not, no, I could not, forgive +him such injuries! He had lost me for ever!" Astonished at this return +to virtue, my tears, I believe, flowed over his face; and I said, +"Byron, all is forgotten; <i>never</i>, never shall you hear of it more."</p> + +<p>'He started up, and folding his arms while he looked at me, burst +out into laughter. "What do you mean?" said I. "Only a philosophical +experiment; that's all," said he. "I wished to ascertain the value of +your resolutions."'</p></div> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_180" id="Page_180">[Pg 180]</a></span></p> + +<p>To ascribe such deliberate cruelty as this to the effect of drink upon +Lord Byron, is the most charitable construction that can be put upon +his conduct.</p> + +<p>Yet the manners of the period were such, that Lord Byron must have +often come to this condition while only doing what many of his +acquaintances did freely, and without fear of consequences.</p> + +<p>Mr. Moore, with his usual artlessness, gives us an idea of a private +supper between himself and Lord Byron. We give it, with our own +italics, as a specimen of many others:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'Having taken upon me to order the repast, and knowing that Lord Byron +for the last two days had done nothing towards sustenance beyond +eating a few biscuits and (to appease appetite) chewing mastic, I +desired that we should have a good supply of at least two kinds of +fish. My companion, however, confined himself to lobsters; and of +these finished two or three, to his own share, interposing, sometimes, +a small liqueur-glass of strong white brandy, sometimes a tumbler of +very hot water, and then pure brandy again, to the amount of near half +a dozen small glasses of the latter, without which, alternately with +the hot water, he appeared to think the lobster could not be digested. +After this, we had claret, of which, having despatched two bottles +between us, at about four o'clock in the morning we parted.</p> + +<p>'As Pope has thought his "delicious lobster-nights" worth +commemorating, these particulars of one in which Lord Byron was +concerned may also have some interest.</p> + +<p>'Among <i>other nights of the same description which I had the happiness +of passing with him</i>, I remember once, in returning home from some +assembly at rather a late hour, we saw lights in the windows of his +old haunt, Stevens's in Bond Street, and agreed to stop there and +sup. On entering, we found an old friend of his, Sir G—— W——, who +joined our party; and, the <i>lobsters and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_181" id="Page_181">[Pg 181]</a></span> brandy and water being put +in requisition, it was (as usual on such occasions) broad daylight +before we separated</i>.'—Vol. iii. p. 83.</p></div> + +<p>During the latter part of Lady Byron's pregnancy, it appears from Moore +that Byron was, night after night, engaged out at dinner parties, +in which getting drunk was considered as of course the <i>finale</i>, as +appears from the following letters:—</p> + + +<p class="center">(<span class="smcap">Letter 228.</span>)</p> + +<p class="ph3">TO MR. MOORE.</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="author"> + +<span class="smcap">Terrace, Piccadilly</span>, Oct. 31, 1815. +</p> + +<p>'I have not been able to ascertain precisely the time of duration of +the stock-market; but I believe it is a good time for selling out, and +I hope so. First, because I shall see you; and, next, because I shall +receive certain moneys on behalf of Lady B., the which will materially +conduce to my comfort; I wanting (as the duns say) "to make up a sum."</p> + +<p>'Yesterday I dined out with a large-ish party, where were Sheridan +and Colman, Harry Harris, of C. G., and his brother, Sir Gilbert +Heathcote, Ds. Kinnaird, and others of note and notoriety. <i>Like +other parties of the kind, it was first silent, then talky, then +argumentative, then disputatious, then unintelligible,<a name="FNanchor_39_39" id="FNanchor_39_39"></a><a href="#Footnote_39_39" class="fnanchor">[39]</a> then +altogethery, then inarticulate, and then drunk.</i> When we had reached +the last step of this glorious ladder, it was difficult to get down +again without stumbling; and, to crown all, Kinnaird and I had +to conduct Sheridan down a d——d corkscrew staircase, which had +certainly been constructed before the discovery of fermented liquors, +and to which no legs, however crooked, could possibly accommodate +themselves. We deposited him safe at home, where his man, <i>evidently +used to the business</i>,<a name="FNanchor_40_40" id="FNanchor_40_40"></a><a href="#Footnote_40_40" class="fnanchor">[40]</a> waited to receive him in the hall.</p> + +<p>'Both he and Colman were, as usual, very good; but I carried away much +wine, and the wine had previously carried away my memory: so that +all was hiccough and happiness for the last hour<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_182" id="Page_182">[Pg 182]</a></span> or so, and I am +not impregnated with any of the conversation. Perhaps you heard of a +late answer of Sheridan to the watchman who found him bereft of that +"divine particle of air" called reason.... He (the watchman) found +Sherry in the street fuddled and bewildered, and almost insensible. +"Who are <i>you</i>, sir?"—No answer. "What's your name?"—A hiccough. +"What's your name?"—Answer, in a slow, deliberate, and impassive +tone, "Wilberforce!" Is not that Sherry all over?—and, to my mind, +excellent. Poor fellow, <i>his</i> very dregs are better than the "first +sprightly runnings" of others.</p> + +<p>'My paper is full, and I have a grievous headache.</p> + +<p>'P.S.—Lady B. is in full progress. Next month will bring to light +(with the aid of "Juno Lucina, <i>fer opem</i>," or rather <i>opes</i>, for the +last are most wanted) the tenth wonder of the world; Gil Blas being +the eighth, and he (my son's father) the ninth.'</p></div> + +<p>Here we have a picture of the whole story,—Lady Byron within a month +of her confinement; her money being used to settle debts; her husband +out at a dinner-party, going through the <i>usual course</i> of such +parties, able to keep his legs and help Sheridan downstairs, and going +home 'gloomy, and savage to ferocity,' to his wife.</p> + +<p>Four days after this (letter 229), we find that this dinner-party is +not an exceptional one, but one of a series: for he says, 'To-day I +dine with Kinnaird,—we are to have Sheridan and Colman again; and +to-morrow, once more, at Sir Gilbert Heathcote's.'</p> + +<p>Afterward, in Venice, he reviews the state of his health, at this +period in London; and his account shows that his excesses in the +vices of his times had wrought effects on his sensitive, nervous +organisation, very dif<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_183" id="Page_183">[Pg 183]</a></span>ferent from what they might on the more +phlegmatic constitutions of ordinary Englishmen. In his journal, dated +Venice, Feb. 2, 1821, he says,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I have been considering what can be the reason why I always wake at +a certain hour in the morning, and always in very bad spirits,—I may +say, in actual despair and despondency, in all respects, even of that +which pleased me over night. In about an hour or two this goes off, +and I compose either to sleep again, or at least to quiet. In England, +five years ago, I had the same kind of hypochondria, but accompanied +with so violent a thirst, that I have drunk as many as fifteen bottles +of soda-water in one night, after going to bed, and been still +thirsty,—calculating, however, some lost from the bursting-out and +effervescence and overflowing of the soda-water in drawing the corks, +or striking off the necks of the bottles from mere thirsty impatience. +At present, I have <i>not</i> the thirst; but the depression of spirits is +no less violent.'—Vol. v. p. 96.</p></div> + +<p>These extracts go to show what <i>must</i> have been the condition of the +man whom Lady Byron was called to receive at the intervals when he +came back from his various social excitements and pleasures. That his +nerves were exacerbated by violent extremes of abstinence and reckless +indulgence; that he was often day after day drunk, and that drunkenness +made him savage and ferocious,—such are the facts clearly shown by Mr. +Moore's narrative. Of the natural peculiarities of Lord Byron's temper, +he thus speaks to the Countess of Blessington:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I often think that I inherit my violence and bad temper from my poor +mother,—not that my father, from all I could ever learn, had a much +better; so that it is no wonder I have such a very bad one. As long +as I can remember anything, I recollect being<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_184" id="Page_184">[Pg 184]</a></span> subject to violent +paroxysms of rage, so disproportioned to the cause as to surprise me +when they were over; and this still continues. I cannot coolly view +any thing which excites my feelings; and, once the lurking devil in +me is roused, I lose all command of myself. I do not recover a good +fit of rage for days after. Mind, I do not by this mean that the +ill humour continues, as, on the contrary, that quickly subsides, +exhausted by its own violence; but it shakes me terribly, and leaves +me low and nervous after.'—<i>Lady Blessington's Conversations</i>, p. 142.</p></div> + +<p>That during this time also his irritation and ill temper were increased +by the mortification of duns, debts, and executions, is on the face of +Moore's story. Moore himself relates one incident, which gives some +idea of the many which may have occurred at these times, in a note +on p. 215, vol. iv., where he speaks of Lord Byron's destroying a +favourite old watch that had been his companion from boyhood, and gone +with him to Greece. 'In a fit of vexation and rage, brought upon him by +some of these humiliating embarrassments, to which he was now almost +daily a prey, he furiously dashed this watch on the hearth, and ground +it to pieces with the poker among the ashes.'</p> + +<p>It is no wonder, that, with a man of this kind to manage, Lady Byron +should have clung to the only female companionship she could dare to +trust in the case, and earnestly desired to retain with her the sister, +who seemed, more than herself, to have influence over him.</p> + +<p>The first letter given by 'The Quarterly,' from Lady Byron to Mrs. +Leigh, without a date, evidently belongs to this period, when the +sister's society presented itself<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_185" id="Page_185">[Pg 185]</a></span> as a refuge in her approaching +confinement. Mrs. Leigh speaks of leaving. The young wife conscious +that the house presents no attractions, and that soon she herself shall +be laid by, cannot urge Mrs. Leigh's stay as likely to give her any +pleasure, but only as a comfort to herself.</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'You will think me very foolish; but I have tried two or three times, +and cannot <i>talk</i> to you of your departure with a decent visage: so +let me say one word in this way to spare my philosophy. With the +expectations which I have, I never will nor can ask you to stay one +moment longer than you are inclined to do. It would [be] the worst +return for all I ever received from you. But in this at least I <i>am</i> +"truth itself," when I say, that whatever the situation may be, there +is no one whose society is dearer to me, or can contribute more to my +happiness. These feelings will not change under any circumstances, +and I should be grieved if you did not understand them. Should you +hereafter condemn me, I shall not love you less. I will say no more. +Judge for yourself about going or staying. I wish you to consider +<i>yourself</i>, if you could be wise enough to do that, for the first time +in your life.</p> + +<p class="center"> +'Thine,</p> + +<p class="author"> +'A. I. B.'</p> + +<p class="p3"> +Addressed on the cover, 'To The Hon. Mrs. Leigh.' +</p></div> + +<p>This letter not being dated, we have no clue but what we obtain from +its own internal evidence. It certainly is not written in Lady Byron's +usual clear and elegant style; and is, in this respect, in striking +contrast to all her letters that I have ever seen.</p> + +<p>But the notes written by a young woman under such peculiar and +distressing circumstances must not be judged by the standard of calmer +hours.</p> + +<p>Subsequently to this letter, and during that stormy,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_186" id="Page_186">[Pg 186]</a></span> irrational period +when Lord Byron's conduct became daily more and more unaccountable, may +have come that startling scene in which Lord Byron took every pains to +convince his wife of improper relations subsisting between himself and +his sister.</p> + +<p>What an <i>utter</i> desolation this must have been to the wife, tearing +from her the last hold of friendship, and the last refuge to which she +had clung in her sorrows, may easily be conceived.</p> + +<p>In this crisis, it appears that the <i>sister</i> convinced Lady Byron that +the whole was to be attributed to insanity. It would be a conviction +gladly accepted, and bringing infinite relief, although still +surrounding her path with fearful difficulties.</p> + +<p>That such was the case is plainly asserted by Lady Byron in her +statement published in 1830. Speaking of her separation, Lady Byron +says:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'The facts are, I left London for Kirkby Mallory, the residence of +my father and mother, on the 15th of January, 1816. Lord Byron had +signified to me in writing, Jan. 6, his <i>absolute desire</i> that I +should leave London on the earliest day that I could conveniently fix. +It was not safe for me to encounter the fatigues of a journey sooner +than the 15th. <i>Previously to my departure, it had been strongly +impressed on my mind that Lord Byron was under the influence of +insanity.</i></p> + +<p>'This opinion was in a great measure derived from the communications +made to me by his <i>nearest relatives</i> and personal attendant.'</p></div> + +<p>Now there was no nearer relative than Mrs. Leigh; and the personal +attendant was Fletcher. It was there<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_187" id="Page_187">[Pg 187]</a></span>fore presumably Mrs. Leigh who +convinced Lady Byron of her husband's insanity.</p> + +<p>Lady Byron says, 'It was even represented to me that he was in danger +of destroying himself.</p> + +<p>'<i>With the concurrence</i> of his family, I had consulted with Dr. +Baillie, as a friend, on Jan. 8, as to his supposed malady.' Now, Lord +Byron's written order for her to leave came on Jan. 6. It appears, +then, that Lady Byron, acting in concurrence with Mrs. Leigh and +others of her husband's family, consulted Dr. Baillie, on Jan. 8, as +to what she should do; the symptoms presented to Dr. Baillie being, +evidently, insane hatred of his wife on the part of Lord Byron, and a +determination to get her out of the house. Lady Byron goes on:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'On acquainting him with the state of the case, and with Lord +Byron's desire that I should leave London, Dr. Baillie thought my +absence might be advisable as an experiment, <i>assuming</i> the fact of +mental derangement; for Dr. Baillie, not having had access to Lord +Byron, could not pronounce an opinion on that point. He enjoined, +that, in correspondence with Lord Byron, I should avoid all but +light and soothing topics. Under these impressions, I left London, +determined to follow the advice given me by Dr. Baillie. Whatever +might have been the nature of Lord Byron's treatment of me from the +time of my marriage, yet, supposing him to have been in a state of +mental alienation, it was not for <i>me</i>, nor for any person of common +humanity, to manifest at that moment a sense of injury.'</p></div> + +<p>It appears, then, that the domestic situation in Byron's house at the +time of his wife's expulsion was one so grave as to call for family +counsel; for Lady<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_188" id="Page_188">[Pg 188]</a></span> Byron, generally accurate, speaks in the plural +number. 'His <i>nearest</i> relatives' certainly includes Mrs. Leigh. 'His +family' includes more. That some of Lord Byron's own relatives were +cognisant of facts at this time, and that they took Lady Byron's side, +is shown by one of his own chance admissions. In vol. vi. p. 394, in a +letter on Bowles, he says, speaking of this time, '<i>All my relations</i>, +save one, fell from me like leaves from a tree in autumn.' And in +Medwin's Conversations he says, 'Even my cousin George Byron, who had +been brought up with me, and whom I loved as a brother, took my wife's +part.' The conduct must have been marked in the extreme that led to +this result.</p> + +<p>We cannot help stopping here to say that Lady Byron's situation at +this time has been discussed in our days with a want of ordinary human +feeling that is surprising. Let any father and mother, reading this, +look on their own daughter, and try to make the case their own.</p> + +<p>After a few short months of married life,—months full of patient +endurance of the strangest and most unaccountable treatment,—she comes +to them, expelled from her husband's house, an object of hatred and +aversion to him, and having to settle for herself the awful question, +whether he is a dangerous madman or a determined villain.</p> + +<p>Such was this young wife's situation.</p> + +<p>With a heart at times wrung with compassion for her<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_189" id="Page_189">[Pg 189]</a></span> husband as a +helpless maniac, and fearful that all may end in suicide, yet compelled +to leave him, she writes on the road the much-quoted letter, beginning +'Dear Duck.' This is an exaggerated and unnatural letter, it is +true, but of precisely the character that might be expected from an +inexperienced young wife when dealing with a husband supposed to be +insane.</p> + +<p>The next day, she addressed to Augusta this letter:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p><span class="smcap">'My dearest A.</span>,—It is my great comfort that <i>you</i> are still +in Piccadilly.'</p></div> + +<p>And again, on the 23rd:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'<span class="smcap">Dearest A.</span>,—I know you feel for me, as 1 do for you; and +perhaps I am better understood than I think. You have been, ever since +I knew you, my best comforter; and will so remain, unless you grow +tired of the office,—which may well be.'</p></div> + +<p>We can see here how self-denying and heroic appears to Lady Byron the +conduct of the sister, who patiently remains to soothe and guide and +restrain the moody madman, whose madness takes a form, at times, so +repulsive to every womanly feeling. She intimates that she should not +wonder should Augusta grow weary of the office.</p> + +<p>Lady Byron continues her statement thus:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'When I arrived at Kirkby Mallory, my parents were unacquainted +with the existence of any causes likely to destroy my prospects of +happiness; and, when I communicated to them the opinion that had been +formed concerning Lord Byron's state of mind, they were most anxious +to promote his restoration by every means in their power. They assured +those relations that were with him in London that "they would devote +their whole care and attention to the alleviation of his malady."'</p></div> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_190" id="Page_190">[Pg 190]</a></span></p> + +<p>Here we have a <i>quotation</i><a name="FNanchor_41_41" id="FNanchor_41_41"></a><a href="#Footnote_41_41" class="fnanchor">[41]</a> from a letter written by Lady Milbanke +to the anxious 'relations' who are taking counsel about Lord Byron in +town. Lady Byron also adds, in justification of her mother from Lord +Byron's slanders, 'She had always treated him with an affectionate +consideration and indulgence, which extended to every little +peculiarity of his feelings. Never did an irritating word escape her +lips in her whole intercourse with him.'</p> + +<p>Now comes a remarkable part of Lady Byron's statement:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'The accounts given me after I left Lord Byron, by those in constant +intercourse with him,<a name="FNanchor_42_42" id="FNanchor_42_42"></a><a href="#Footnote_42_42" class="fnanchor">[42]</a> <i>added</i> to those doubts which had before +transiently occurred to my mind as to the reality of the alleged +disease; and the reports of his medical attendants were far from +establishing anything like lunacy.'</p></div> + +<p>When these doubts arose in her mind, it is not natural to suppose +that they should, at first, involve Mrs. Leigh. She still appears to +Lady Byron as the devoted, believ<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_191" id="Page_191">[Pg 191]</a></span>ing sister, fully convinced of her +brother's insanity, and endeavouring to restrain and control him.</p> + +<p>But if Lord Byron were sane, if the purposes he had avowed to his wife +were real, he must have lied about his sister in the past, and perhaps +have the worst intentions for the future.</p> + +<p>The horrors of that state of vacillation between the conviction of +insanity and the commencing conviction of something worse can scarcely +be told.</p> + +<p>At all events, the wife's doubts extend so far that she speaks out to +her parents. '<span class="smcap">Under this uncertainty</span>,' says the statement, +'I deemed it right to communicate to my parents, that, if I were to +consider Lord Byron's past conduct as that of a person of sound mind, +<i>nothing could induce me to return to him</i>. It therefore appeared +expedient, both to them and to myself, to consult the ablest advisers. +For that object, and also to obtain still further information +respecting appearances which indicated mental derangement, my mother +determined to go to London. She was empowered by me to take legal +opinion on a written statement of mine; though I then had reasons for +reserving a <i>part of the case from the knowledge even of my father and +mother</i>.'</p> + +<p>It is during this time of uncertainty that the next letter to Mrs. +Leigh may be placed. It seems to be rather a fragment of a letter +than a whole one: perhaps it is an extract; in which case it would be +desirable, if possible, to view it in connection with the remaining +text:—</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_192" id="Page_192">[Pg 192]</a></span></p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="author"> + +'Jan. 25, 1816. +</p> + +<p>'<span class="smcap">My dearest Augusta</span>,—Shall I still be your sister? I must +resign my right to be so considered; but I don't think that will make +any difference in the kindness I have so uniformly experienced from +you.'</p></div> + +<p>This fragment is not signed, nor finished in any way, but indicates +that the writer is about to take a decisive step.</p> + +<p>On the 17th, as we have seen, Lady Milbanke had written, inviting +Lord Byron. Subsequently she went to London to make more particular +inquiries into his state. This fragment seems part of a letter from +Lady Byron, called forth in view of some evidence resulting from her +mother's observations.<a name="FNanchor_43_43" id="FNanchor_43_43"></a><a href="#Footnote_43_43" class="fnanchor">[43]</a></p> + +<p>Lady Byron now adds:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'Being convinced by the result of these inquiries, and by the tenour +of Lord Byron's proceedings, that the notion of insanity was an +illusion, I no longer hesitated to authorize such measures as were +necessary in order to secure me from ever being again placed in his +power.</p> + +<p>'Conformably with this resolution, my father wrote to him, on the 2nd +of February, to request an amicable separation.'</p></div> + +<p>The following letter to Mrs. Leigh is dated the day after this +application, and is in many respects a noticeable one:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="author"> + +'<span class="smcap">Kirkby Mallory</span>, Feb. 3, 1816.<br /> +</p> + +<p>'<span class="smcap">My dearest Augusta</span>,—You are desired by your brother to ask +if my father has acted with my concurrence in proposing a separation. +He has. It cannot be supposed, that, in my present<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_193" id="Page_193">[Pg 193]</a></span> distressing +situation, I am capable of stating in a detailed manner the reasons +which will not only justify this measure, but compel me to take it; +and it never can be my wish to remember <i>unnecessarily</i> [<i>sic</i>] +those injuries for which, however deep, I feel no resentment. I will +now only recall to Lord Byron's mind his avowed and insurmountable +aversion to the married state, and the desire and determination +he has expressed ever since its commencement to free himself from +that bondage, as finding it quite insupportable, though candidly +acknowledging that no effort of duty or affection has been wanting on +my part. He has too painfully convinced me that all these attempts +to contribute towards his happiness were wholly useless, and most +unwelcome to him. I enclose this letter to my father, wishing it to +receive his sanction.</p> + +<p class="center"> +'Ever yours most affectionately,</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">A. I. Byron</span>.' +</p></div> + +<p>We observe in this letter that it is written to <i>be shown</i> to Lady +Byron's father, and receive his sanction; and, as that father was +in ignorance of all the deeper causes of trouble in the case, it +will be seen that the letter must necessarily be a reserved one. +This sufficiently accounts for the guarded character of the language +when speaking of the causes of separation. One part of the letter +incidentally overthrows Lord Byron's statement, which he always +repeated during his life, and which is repeated for him now; namely, +that his wife <i>forsook</i> him, instead of being, as she claims, +<i>expelled</i> by him.</p> + +<p>She recalls to Lord Byron's mind the 'desire and <i>determination</i> he has +expressed ever since his marriage to free himself from its bondage.'</p> + +<p>This is in perfect keeping with the '<i>absolute</i> desire,' signified +by writing, that she should leave his house on<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_194" id="Page_194">[Pg 194]</a></span> the earliest day +possible; and she places the cause of the separation on his having 'too +painfully' convinced her that he does not want her—as a wife.</p> + +<p>It appears that Augusta hesitates to show this note to her brother. It +is bringing on a crisis which she, above all others, would most wish to +avoid.</p> + +<p>In the meantime, Lady Byron receives a letter from Lord Byron, which +makes her feel it more than ever essential to make the decision final. +I have reason to believe that this letter is preserved in Lady Byron's +papers:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="author"> + +'Feb. 4, 1816. +</p> + +<p>'I hope, my dear A., that you would on no account withhold from your +brother the letter which I sent yesterday in answer to yours written +by his desire, particularly as one which I have received from himself +to-day renders it still more important that he should know the +contents of that addressed to you, I am, in haste and not very well,</p> + +<p class="center"> +'Yours most affectionately,</p> +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">A. I. Byron</span>.' +</p></div> + +<p>The last of this series of letters is less like the style of Lady Byron +than any of them. We cannot judge whether it is a whole consecutive +letter, or fragments from a letter, selected and united. There is a +great want of that clearness and precision which usually characterised +Lady Byron's style. It shows, however, that the decision is made,—a +decision which she regrets on account of the sister who has tried so +long to prevent it.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_195" id="Page_195">[Pg 195]</a></span></p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="author"> + +'<span class="smcap">Kirkby Mallory</span>, Feb. 14, 1816. +</p> + +<p>'The present sufferings of all may yet be repaid in blessings. Do +not despair absolutely, dearest; and leave me but enough of your +interest to afford you any consolation by partaking of that sorrow +which I am most unhappy to cause thus unintentionally. <i>You will</i> be +of my opinion hereafter; and at present your bitterest reproach would +be forgiven, though Heaven knows you have considered me more than a +thousand would have done,—more than anything but my affection for +B., one most dear to you, could deserve. I must not remember these +feelings. Farewell! God bless you from the bottom of my heart!</p> + +<p class="author"> +'A. I. B.' +</p></div> + +<p>We are here to consider that Mrs. Leigh has stood to Lady Byron in +all this long agony as her only confidante and friend; that she has +denied the charges her brother has made, and referred them to insanity, +admitting insane <i>attempts</i> upon herself which she has been obliged to +watch over and control.</p> + +<p>Lady Byron has come to the conclusion that Augusta is mistaken as to +insanity; that there is a real wicked <i>purpose</i> and desire on the part +of the brother, not as yet believed in by the sister. She regards the +sister as one, who, though deceived and blinded, is still worthy of +confidence and consideration; and so says to her, '<i>You will be of my +opinion hereafter</i>.'</p> + +<p>She says, 'You have considered me more than a thousand would have +done.' Mrs. Leigh is, in Lady Byron's eyes, a most abused and innocent +woman, who, to spare her sister in her delicate situation, has taken on +herself the whole charge of a maniacal brother, although suffering from +him language and actions of the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_196" id="Page_196">[Pg 196]</a></span> most injurious kind. That Mrs. Leigh +did not flee the house at once under such circumstances, and wholly +decline the management of the case, seems to Lady Byron consideration +and self-sacrifice greater than she can acknowledge.</p> + +<p>The knowledge of the <i>whole extent of the truth</i> came to Lady Byron's +mind at a later period.</p> + +<p>We now take up the history from Lushington's letter to Lady Byron, +published at the close of her statement.</p> + +<p>The application to Lord Byron for an act of separation was positively +refused at first; it being an important part of his policy that all the +responsibility and insistance should come from his wife, and that he +should appear forced into it contrary to his will.</p> + +<p>Dr. Lushington, however, says to Lady Byron,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I was originally consulted by Lady Noel on your behalf while you +were in the country. The circumstances detailed by her were such +as justified a separation; but they were not of that aggravated +description as to render such a measure indispensable. On Lady +Noel's representations, I deemed a reconciliation with Lord Byron +practicable, and felt most sincerely a wish to aid in effecting it. +There was not, on Lady Noel's part, any exaggeration of the facts, +nor, so far as I could perceive, any determination to prevent a +return to Lord Byron: certainly none was expressed when I spoke of a +reconciliation.'</p></div> + +<p>In this crisis, with Lord Byron refusing the separation, with +Lushington expressing a wish to aid in a reconciliation, and Lady Noel +not expressing any aversion to it, the whole strain of the dreadful +responsibility comes upon the wife.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_197" id="Page_197">[Pg 197]</a></span></p> + +<p>She resolves to ask counsel of her lawyer, in view of a statement of +the <i>whole</i> case.</p> + +<p>Lady Byron is spoken of by Lord Byron (letter 233) as being in town +with her father on the 29th of February; viz., fifteen days after the +date of the last letter to Mrs. Leigh. It must have been about this +time, then, that she laid her whole case before Lushington; and he gave +it a thorough examination.</p> + +<p>The result was, that Lushington expressed in the most decided terms his +conviction that reconciliation was impossible. The language he uses is +very striking:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'When you came to town in about a fortnight, or perhaps more, after my +first interview with Lady Noel, I was, for the first time, informed +by you of facts utterly unknown, as I have no doubt, to Sir Ralph and +Lady Noel. On receiving this additional information, my opinion was +entirely changed. I considered a reconciliation impossible. I declared +my opinion, and added, that, if such an idea should be entertained, I +could not, either professionally or otherwise, take any part towards +effecting it.'</p></div> + +<p>It does not appear in this note what effect the lawyer's examination +of the case had on Lady Byron's mind. By the expressions he uses, we +should infer that she may still have been hesitating as to whether a +reconciliation might not be her duty.</p> + +<p>This hesitancy he does away with most decisively, saying, 'A +reconciliation is impossible;' and, supposing Lady Byron or her +friends desirous of one, he declares positively that he cannot, either +professionally as a lawyer or privately as a friend, have anything to +do with effecting it.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_198" id="Page_198">[Pg 198]</a></span></p> + +<p>The lawyer, it appears, has drawn, from the facts of the case, +inferences deeper and stronger than those which presented themselves to +the mind of the young woman; and he instructs her in the most absolute +terms.</p> + +<p>Fourteen years after, in 1830, for the first time the world was +astonished by this declaration from Dr. Lushington, in language so +pronounced and positive that there could be no mistake.</p> + +<p>Lady Byron had stood all these fourteen years slandered by her husband, +and misunderstood by his friends, when, had she so chosen, this opinion +of Dr. Lushington's could have been at once made public, which fully +justified her conduct.</p> + +<p>If, as the 'Blackwood' of July insinuates, the story told to Lushington +was a malignant slander, meant to injure Lord Byron, why did she +suppress the judgment of her counsel at a time when all the world +was on her side, and this decision would have been the decisive blow +against her husband? Why, by sealing the lips of counsel, and of all +whom she could influence, did she deprive herself finally of the very +advantage for which it has been assumed she fabricated the story?</p> + +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_199" id="Page_199">[Pg 199]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2>CHAPTER IV.</h2> + +<p class="ph4">THE CHARACTER OF THE TWO WITNESSES COMPARED.</p> + + +<p>It will be observed, that, in this controversy, we are confronting two +opposing stories,—one of Lord and the other of Lady Byron; and the +statements from each are in point-blank contradiction.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron states that his wife deserted him. Lady Byron states that he +expelled her, and reminds him, in her letter to Augusta Leigh, that the +expulsion was a deliberate one, and that he had purposed it from the +beginning of their marriage.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron always stated that he was ignorant why his wife left him, +and was desirous of her return. Lady Byron states that he told her that +he would force her to leave him, and to leave him in such a way that +the whole blame of the separation should always rest on her, and not on +him.</p> + +<p>To say nothing of any deeper or darker accusations on either side, +here, in the very outworks of the story, the two meet point-blank.</p> + +<p>In considering two opposing stories, we always, as a matter of fact, +take into account the character of the witnesses.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_200" id="Page_200">[Pg 200]</a></span></p> + +<p>If a person be literal and exact in his usual modes of speech, +reserved, careful, conscientious, and in the habit of observing +minutely the minor details of time, place, and circumstances, we give +weight to his testimony from these considerations. But if a person +be proved to have singular and exceptional principles with regard to +truth; if he be universally held by society to be so in the habit of +mystification, that large allowances must be made for his statements; +if his assertions at one time contradict those made at another; and if +his statements, also, sometimes come in collision with those of his +best friends, so that, when his language is reported, difficulties +follow, and explanations are made necessary,—all this certainly +disqualifies him from being considered a trustworthy witness.</p> + +<p>All these disqualifications belong in a remarkable degree to Lord +Byron, on the oft-repeated testimony of his best friends.</p> + +<p>We shall first cite the following testimony, given in an article from +'Under the Crown,' which is written by an early friend and ardent +admirer of Lord Byron:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'Byron had one pre-eminent fault,—a fault which must be considered as +deeply criminal by everyone who does not, as I do, believe it to have +resulted from monomania. He had a morbid love of a bad reputation. +There was hardly an offence of which he would not, with perfect +indifference, accuse himself. An old schoolfellow who met him on the +Continent told me that he would continually write paragraphs against +himself in the foreign journals, and delight in their republication +by the English newspapers as in the success of a practical joke. +Whenever anybody has related anything discreditable of Byron, assuring +me that it must<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_201" id="Page_201">[Pg 201]</a></span> be true, for he heard it from himself, I always felt +that he could not have spoken upon worse authority; and that, in all +probability, the tale was a pure invention. If I could remember, +and were willing to repeat, the various misdoings which I have from +time to time heard him attribute to himself, I could fill a volume. +But I never believed them. I very soon became aware of this strange +idiosyncrasy: it puzzled me to account for it; but there it was, a +sort of diseased and distorted vanity. The same eccentric spirit +would induce him to report things which were false with regard to his +family, which anybody else would have concealed, though true. He told +me more than once that his father was insane, and killed himself. I +shall never forget the manner in which he first told me this. While +washing his hands, and singing a gay Neapolitan air, he stopped, +looked round at me, and said, "There always was madness in the +family." Then, after continuing his washing and his song, he added, as +if speaking of a matter of the slightest indifference, "My father cut +his throat." The contrast between the tenour of the subject and the +levity of the expression was fearfully painful: it was like a stanza +of "Don Juan." In this instance, I had no doubt that the fact was as +he related it; but in speaking of it, only a few years since, to an +old lady in whom I had perfect confidence, she assured me that it was +not so. Mr. Byron, who was her cousin, had been extremely wild, but +was quite sane, and had died very quietly in his bed. What Byron's +reason could have been for thus calumniating not only himself but +the blood which was flowing in his veins, who can divine? But, for +some reason or other, it seemed to be his determined purpose to keep +himself unknown to the great body of his fellow-creatures; to present +himself to their view in moral masquerade.'</p></div> + +<p>Certainly the character of Lord Byron here given by his friend is +not the kind to make him a trustworthy witness in any case: on the +contrary, it seems to show either a subtle delight in falsehood for +falsehood's sake, or else the wary artifices of a man who, having a +deadly<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_202" id="Page_202">[Pg 202]</a></span> secret to conceal, employs many turnings and windings to throw +the world off the scent. What intriguer, having a crime to cover, could +devise a more artful course than to send half a dozen absurd stories to +the press, which should, after a while, be traced back to himself, till +the public should gradually look on all it heard from him as the result +of this eccentric humour?</p> + +<p>The easy, trifling air with which Lord Byron made to this friend a +false statement in regard to his father would lead naturally to the +inquiry, on what <i>other</i> subjects, equally important to the good name +of others, he might give false testimony with equal indifference.</p> + +<p>When Medwin's 'Conversations with Lord Byron' were first published, +they contained a number of declarations of the noble lord affecting the +honour and honesty of his friend and publisher Murray. These appear +to have been made in the same way as those about his father, and with +equal indifference. So serious were the charges, that Mr. Murray's +friends felt that he ought, in justice to himself, to come forward and +confront them with the facts as stated in Byron's letters to himself; +and in vol. x., p. 143, of Murray's standard edition, accordingly +these false statements are confronted with the letters of Lord Byron. +The statements, as reported, are of a most material and vital nature, +relating to Murray's financial honour and honesty, and to his general +truthfulness and sincerity. In reply, Murray opposes to them the +accounts of sums paid for different works, and letters from Byron<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_203" id="Page_203">[Pg 203]</a></span> +exactly contradicting his own statements as to Murray's character.</p> + +<p>The subject, as we have seen, was discussed in 'The Noctes.' No doubt +appears to be entertained that Byron made the statements to Medwin; and +the theory of accounting for them is, that 'Byron was "bamming" him.'</p> + +<p>It seems never to have occurred to any of these credulous gentlemen, +who laughed at others for being 'bammed,' that Byron might be doing the +very same thing by themselves. How many of his so-called packages sent +to Lady Byron were <i>real</i> packages, and how many were mystifications? +We find, in two places at least in his Memoir, letters to Lady Byron, +written and shown to others, which, he says, were never sent by him. +He told Lady Blessington that he was in the habit of writing to her +<i>constantly</i>. Was this 'bamming'? Was he 'bamming,' also, when he told +the world that Lady Byron suddenly deserted him, quite to his surprise, +and that he never, to his dying day, could find out why?</p> + +<p>Lady Blessington relates, that, in one of his conversations with her, +he entertained her by repeating epigrams and lampoons, in which many +of his friends were treated with severity. She inquired of him, in +case he should die, and such proofs of his friendship come before the +public, what would be the feelings of these friends, who had supposed +themselves to stand so high in his good graces. She says,</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_204" id="Page_204">[Pg 204]</a></span></p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'"That," said Byron, "is precisely one of the ideas that most amuses +me. I often fancy the rage and humiliation of my quondam friends in +hearing the truth, at least from me, for the first time, and when I +am beyond the reach of their malice.... What grief," continued Byron, +laughing, "could resist the charges of ugliness, dulness, or any of +the thousand nameless defects, personal or mental, 'that flesh is heir +to,' when reprisal or recantation was impossible?... People are in +such daily habits of commenting on the defects of friends, that they +are unconscious of the unkindness of it.... Now, I write down as well +as speak my sentiments of those who think they have gulled me; and I +only wish, in case I die before them, that I might return to witness +the effects my posthumous opinions of them are likely to produce in +their minds. What good fun this would be!... You don't seem to value +this as you ought," said Byron with one of his sardonic smiles, seeing +I looked, as I really felt, surprised at his avowed insincerity. I +feel the same pleasure in anticipating the rage and mortification of +my <i>soi-disant</i> friends at the discovery of my real sentiments of +them, that a miser may be supposed to feel while making a will that +will disappoint all the expectants that have been toadying him for +years. Then how amusing it will be to compare my posthumous with my +previously given opinions, the one throwing ridicule on the other!"'</p></div> + +<p>It is asserted, in a note to 'The Noctes,' that Byron, besides his +Autobiography, prepared a voluminous dictionary of all his friends and +acquaintances, in which brief notes of their persons and character +were given, with his opinion of them. It was not considered that the +publication of this would add to the noble lord's popularity; and it +has never appeared.</p> + +<p>In Hunt's Life of Byron, there is similar testimony. Speaking of +Byron's carelessness in exposing his friends' secrets, and showing or +giving away their letters, he says:—</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_205" id="Page_205">[Pg 205]</a></span></p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'If his five hundred confidants, by a reticence as remarkable as his +laxity, had not kept his secrets better than he did himself, the +very devil might have been played with I don't know how many people. +But there was always this saving reflection to be made, that the man +who could be guilty of such extravagances for the sake of making +an impression might be guilty of exaggeration, or inventing what +astonished you; and indeed, though he was a speaker of the truth on +ordinary occasions,—that is to say, he did not tell you he had seen +a dozen horses when he had seen only two,—yet, as he professed not +to value the truth when in the way of his advantage (and there was +nothing he thought more to his advantage than making you stare at +him), the persons who were liable to suffer from his inconsistency had +all the right in the world to the benefit of this consideration.'<a name="FNanchor_44_44" id="FNanchor_44_44"></a><a href="#Footnote_44_44" class="fnanchor">[44]</a></p></div> + +<p>With a person of such mental and moral habits as to truth, the inquiry +always must be, <i>Where</i> does mystification end, and truth begin?</p> + +<p>If a man is careless about his father's reputation for sanity, and +reports him a crazy suicide; if he gaily accuses his publisher and +good friend of double-dealing, shuffling, and dishonesty; if he tells +stories about Mrs. Clermont,<a name="FNanchor_45_45" id="FNanchor_45_45"></a><a href="#Footnote_45_45" class="fnanchor">[45]</a> to which his sister offers a public +refutation,—is it to be supposed that he will always tell the truth +about his wife, when the world is pressing him hard, and every instinct +of self-defence is on the alert?</p> + +<p>And then the ingenuity that could write and publish<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_206" id="Page_206">[Pg 206]</a></span> false documents +about himself, that they might re-appear in London papers,—to what +other accounts might it not be turned? Might it not create documents, +invent statements, about his wife as well as himself?</p> + +<p>The document so ostentatiously given to M. G. Lewis 'for circulation +among friends in England' was a specimen of what the Noctes Club would +call 'bamming.'</p> + +<p>If Byron wanted a legal investigation, why did he not take it in the +first place, instead of signing the separation? If he wanted to cancel +it, as he said in this document, why did he not go to London, and enter +a suit for the restitution of conjugal rights, or a suit in chancery to +get possession of his daughter? That this was in his mind, passages in +Medwin's 'Conversations' show. He told Lady Blessington also that he +might claim his daughter in chancery at any time.</p> + +<p>Why did he not do it? Either of these two steps would have brought on +that public investigation he so longed for. Can it be possible that all +the friends who passed this private document from hand to hand never +suspected that they were being 'bammed' by it?</p> + +<p>But it has been universally assumed, that, though Byron was thus +remarkably given to mystification, yet <i>all</i> his statements in regard +to this story are to be accepted, simply because he makes them. <i>Why</i> +must we accept them, any more than his statements as to Murray or his +own father?</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_207" id="Page_207">[Pg 207]</a></span></p> + +<p>So we constantly find Lord Byron's incidental statements coming in +collision with those of others: for example, in his account of his +marriage, he tells Medwin that Lady Byron's maid was put between his +bride and himself, on the same seat, in the wedding-journey. The lady's +maid herself, Mrs. Mimms, says she was sent before them to Halnaby, and +was there to receive them when they alighted.</p> + +<p>He said of Lady Byron's mother, 'She always detested me, and had not +the decency to conceal it in her own house. Dining with her one day, I +broke a tooth, and was in great pain; which I could not help showing. +"It will do you good," said Lady Noel; "I am glad of it!"'</p> + +<p>Lady Byron says, speaking of her mother, 'She always treated him with +an affectionate consideration and indulgence, which extended to every +little peculiarity of his feelings. Never did an irritating word escape +her.'</p> + +<p>Lord Byron states that the correspondence between him and Lady Byron, +after his refusal, was first opened by her. Lady Byron's friends deny +the statement, and assert that the direct contrary is the fact.</p> + +<p>Thus we see that Lord Byron's statements are directly opposed to +those of his family in relation to his father; directly against +Murray's accounts, and his own admission to Murray; directly against +the statement of the lady's maid as to her position in the journey; +directly against Mrs. Leigh's as to Mrs. Clermont, and against Lady +Byron as to her mother.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_208" id="Page_208">[Pg 208]</a></span></p> + +<p>We can see, also, that these misstatements were so fully perceived by +the men of his times, that Medwin's 'Conversations' were simply laughed +at as an amusing instance of how far a man might be made the victim of +a mystification. Christopher North thus sentences the book:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I don't mean to call Medwin a liar.... The captain <i>lies</i>, sir, but +it is under a thousand mistakes. Whether Byron bammed him, or he, by +virtue of his own egregious stupidity, was the sole and sufficient +bammifier of himself, I know not; neither greatly do I care. This much +is certain, ... that the book throughout is full of things that were +not, and most resplendently deficient <i>quoad</i> the things that were.'</p></div> + +<p>Yet it is on Medwin's 'Conversations' alone that many of the magazine +assertions in regard to Lady Byron are founded.</p> + +<p>It is on that authority that Lady Byron is accused of breaking open +her husband's writing-desk in his absence, and sending the letters +she found there to the husband of a lady compromised by them; and +likewise that Lord Byron is declared to have paid back his wife's +ten-thousand-pound wedding portion, and doubled it. Moore makes no such +statements; and his remarks about Lord Byron's use of his wife's money +are unmistakable evidence to the contrary. Moore, although Byron's +ardent partisan, was too well informed to make assertions with regard +to him, which, at that time, it would have been perfectly easy to +refute.</p> + +<p>All these facts go to show that Lord Byron's cha<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_209" id="Page_209">[Pg 209]</a></span>racter for accuracy +or veracity was not such as to entitle him to ordinary confidence as a +witness, especially in a case where he had the strongest motives for +misstatement.</p> + +<p>And if we consider that the celebrated Autobiography was the finished, +careful work of such a practised 'mystifier,' who can wonder that it +presented a web of such intermingled truth and lies that there was no +such thing as disentangling it, and pointing out where falsehood ended +and truth began?</p> + +<p>But in regard to Lady Byron, what has been the universal impression +of the world? It has been alleged against her that she was a precise, +straight-forward woman, so accustomed to plain, literal dealings, that +she could not understand the various mystifications of her husband; and +from that cause arose her unhappiness. Byron speaks, in 'The Sketch,' +of her <i>peculiar</i> truthfulness; and even in the 'Clytemnestra' poem, +when accusing her of lying, he speaks of her as departing from</p> + +<p class="center"> +'The <i>early</i> truth that was her proper praise.' +</p> + +<p>Lady Byron's careful accuracy as to dates, to time, place, and +circumstances, will probably be vouched for by all the very large +number of persons whom the management of her extended property and +her works of benevolence brought to act as co-operators or agents +with her. She was not a person in the habit of making exaggerated or +ill-considered statements. Her<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_210" id="Page_210">[Pg 210]</a></span> published statement of 1830 is clear, +exact, accurate, and perfectly intelligible. The dates are carefully +ascertained and stated, the expressions are moderate, and all the +assertions firm and perfectly definite.</p> + +<p>It therefore seems remarkable that the whole reasoning on this Byron +matter has generally been conducted by assuming all Lord Byron's +statements to be true, and requiring all Lady Byron's statements to be +sustained by other evidence.</p> + +<p>If Lord Byron asserts that his wife deserted him, the assertion is +accepted without proof; but, if Lady Byron asserts that he ordered +her to leave, that requires proof. Lady Byron asserts that she +took counsel, on this order of Lord Byron, with his family friends +and physician, under the idea that it originated in insanity. The +'Blackwood' asks, '<i>What</i> family friends?' says it doesn't know of any; +and asks proof.</p> + +<p>If Lord Byron asserts that he always longed for a public investigation +of the charges against him, the 'Quarterly' and 'Blackwood' quote +the saying with ingenuous confidence. They are obliged to admit +that he refused to stand that public test; that he signed the deed +of separation rather than meet it. They know, also, that he could +have at any time instituted suits against Lady Byron that would have +brought the whole matter into court, and that he did not? Why did he +not? The 'Quarterly' simply intimates that such suits would have been +unpleasant. Why? On account of personal delicacy? The man that wrote +'Don Juan',<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_211" id="Page_211">[Pg 211]</a></span> and furnished the details of his wedding-night, held +back from clearing his name by delicacy! It is astonishing to what +extent this controversy has consisted in simply repeating Lord Byron's +assertions over and over again, and calling the result proof.</p> + +<p>Now, we propose a different course. As Lady Byron is not stated by +her warm admirers to have had <i>any</i> monomania for speaking untruths +on any subject, we rank her value as a witness at a higher rate than +Lord Byron's. She never accused her parents of madness or suicide, +merely to make a sensation; never 'bammed' an acquaintance by false +statements concerning the commercial honour of anyone with whom she +was in business relations; never wrote and sent to the press as a +clever jest false statements about herself; and never, in any other +ingenious way, tampered with truth. We therefore hold it to be a mere +dictate of reason and common sense, that, in all cases where her +statements conflict with her husband's, hers are to be taken as the +more trustworthy.</p> + +<p>The 'London Quarterly,' in a late article, distinctly repudiates Lady +Byron's statements as sources of evidence, and throughout quotes +statements of Lord Byron as if they had the force of self-evident +propositions. We consider such a course contrary to common sense as +well as common good manners.</p> + +<p>The state of the case is just this: If Lord Byron did not make false +statements on this subject it was certainly an exception to his usual +course. He certainly<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_212" id="Page_212">[Pg 212]</a></span> did make such on a great variety of other +subjects. By his own showing, he had a peculiar pleasure in falsifying +language, and in misleading and betraying even his friends.</p> + +<p>But, if Lady Byron gave false witness upon this subject, it was an +exception to the whole course of her life.</p> + +<p>The habits of her mind, the government of her conduct, her life-long +reputation, all were those of a literal, exact truthfulness.</p> + +<p>The accusation of her being untruthful was first brought forward by +her husband in the 'Clytemnestra' poem, in the autumn of 1816; but it +never was publicly circulated till after his death, and it was first +formally made the basis of a published attack on Lady Byron in the +July 'Blackwood' of 1869. Up to that time, we look in vain through +current literature for any indications that the world regarded Lady +Byron otherwise than as a cold, careful, prudent woman, who made no +assertions, and had no confidants. When she spoke in 1830, it is +perfectly evident that Christopher North and his circle believed what +she said, though reproving her for saying it at all.</p> + +<p>The 'Quarterly' goes on to heap up a number of vague assertions,—that +Lady Byron, about the time of her separation, made a confidant of a +young officer; that she told the clergyman of Ham of some trials with +Lord Ockham; and that she told stories of different things at different +times.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_213" id="Page_213">[Pg 213]</a></span></p> + +<p>All this is not proof: it is mere assertion, and assertion made to +produce prejudice. It is like raising a whirlwind of sand to blind +the eyes that are looking for landmarks. It is quite probable Lady +Byron told different stories about Lord Byron at various times. No +woman could have a greater variety of stories to tell; and no woman +ever was so persecuted and pursued and harassed, both by public +literature and private friendship, to say <i>something</i>. She had plenty +of causes for a separation, without the fatal and final one. In her +conversations with Lady Anne Barnard, for example, she gives reasons +enough for a separation, though none of them are the chief one. It is +not <i>different</i> stories, but <i>contradictory</i> stories, that must be +relied on to disprove the credibility of a witness. The 'Quarterly' +has certainly told a great number of different stories,—stories which +may prove as irreconcilable with each other as any attributed to Lady +Byron; but its denial of all weight to her testimony is simply begging +the whole question under consideration.</p> + +<p>A man gives testimony about the causes of a railroad accident, being +the only eye-witness.</p> + +<p>The opposing counsel begs, whatever else you do, you will not admit +that man's testimony. You ask, 'Why? Has he ever been accused of want +of veracity on other subjects?'—'No: he has stood high as a man of +probity and honour for years.'—'Why, then, throw out his testimony?'</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_214" id="Page_214">[Pg 214]</a></span></p> + +<p>'Because he lies in this instance,' says the adversary: 'his testimony +does not agree with this and that.'—'Pardon me, that is the very point +in question,' say you: 'we expect to prove that it does agree with this +and that.'</p> + +<p>Because certain letters of Lady Byron's do not agree with the +'Quarterly's' theory of the facts of the separation, it at once assumes +that she is an untruthful witness, and proposes to throw out her +evidence altogether.</p> + +<p>We propose, on the contrary, to regard Lady Byron's evidence with all +the attention due to the statement of a high-minded conscientious +person, never in any other case accused of violation of truth; +we also propose to show it to be in strict agreement with all +well-authenticated facts and documents; and we propose to treat +Lord Byron's evidence as that of a man of great subtlety, versed in +mystification and delighting in it, and who, on many other subjects, +not only deceived, but gloried in deception; and then we propose to +show that it contradicts well-established facts and received documents.</p> + +<p>One thing more we have to say concerning the laws of evidence in regard +to documents presented in this investigation.</p> + +<p>This is not a London West-End affair, but a grave historical inquiry, +in which the whole English-speaking world are interested to know the +truth.</p> + +<p>As it is now too late to have the securities of a legal trial, +certainly the rules of historical evidence should be<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_215" id="Page_215">[Pg 215]</a></span> strictly +observed. All important documents should be presented in an entire +state, with a plain and open account of their history,—who had them, +where they were found, and how preserved.</p> + +<p>There have been most excellent, credible, and authentic documents +produced in this case; and, as a specimen of them, we shall mention +Lord Lindsay's letter, and the journal and letter it authenticates. +Lord Lindsay at once comes forward, gives his name boldly, gives the +history of the papers he produces, shows how they came to be in his +hands, why never produced before, and why now. We feel confidence at +once.</p> + +<p>But in regard to the important series of letters presented as Lady +Byron's, this obviously proper course has not been pursued. Though +assumed to be of the most critical importance, no such distinct history +of them was given in the first instance. The want of such evidence +being noticed by other papers, the 'Quarterly' appears hurt that the +high character of the magazine has not been a sufficient guarantee; +and still deals in vague statements that the letters have been freely +circulated, and that two noblemen of the highest character would vouch +for them if necessary.</p> + +<p>In our view, <i>it is necessary</i>. These noblemen should imitate Lord +Lindsay's example,—give a fair account of these letters, under +their own names; and then, we would add, it is needful for complete +satisfaction to have the letters <i>entire</i>, and not in fragments.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_216" id="Page_216">[Pg 216]</a></span></p> + +<p>The 'Quarterly' gave these letters with the evident implication that +they are entirely destructive to Lady Byron's character as a witness. +Now, has that magazine much reason to be hurt at even an insinuation on +its own character when making such deadly assaults on that of another? +The individuals who bring forth documents that they suppose to be +deadly to the character of a noble person, always in her generation +held to be eminent for virtue, certainly should not murmur at being +called upon to substantiate these documents in the manner usually +expected in historical investigations.</p> + +<p>We have shown that these letters do not contradict, but that they +perfectly confirm the facts, and agree with the dates in Lady Byron's +published statements of 1830; and this is our reason for deeming them +authentic.</p> + +<p>These considerations with regard to the manner of conducting the +inquiry seem so obviously proper, that we cannot but believe that they +will command a serious attention.</p> + +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_217" id="Page_217">[Pg 217]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2>CHAPTER V.</h2> + +<p class="ph4">THE DIRECT ARGUMENT TO PROVE THE CRIME.</p> + + +<p>We shall now proceed to state the argument against Lord Byron.</p> + +<p>1st, There is direct evidence that Lord Byron was guilty of some +unusual immorality.</p> + +<p>The evidence is not, as the 'Blackwood' says, that Lushington yielded +assent to the <i>ex parte</i> statement of a client; nor, as the 'Quarterly' +intimates, that he was affected by the charms of an attractive young +woman.</p> + +<p>The first evidence of it is the fact that Lushington and Romilly +<i>offered to take the case into court, and make there a public +exhibition of the proofs</i> on which their convictions were founded.</p> + +<p>2nd, It is very strong evidence of this fact, that Lord Byron, while +loudly declaring that he wished to know with what he was charged, +<i>declined</i> this open investigation, and, rather than meet it, signed a +paper which he had before refused to sign.</p> + +<p>3rd, It is also strong evidence of this fact, that although secretly +declaring to all his intimate friends that he still wished open +investigation in a court of justice, and affirming his belief that his +character was being<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_218" id="Page_218">[Pg 218]</a></span> ruined for want of it, he never afterwards took +the means to get it. Instead of writing a private handbill, he might +have come to England and entered a suit; and he did not do it.</p> + +<p>That Lord Byron was conscious of a great crime is further made probable +by the peculiar malice he seemed to bear to his wife's legal counsel.</p> + +<p>If there had been nothing to fear in that legal investigation wherewith +they threatened him, why did he not only flee from it, but regard +with a peculiar bitterness those who advised and proposed it? To an +innocent man falsely accused, the certainties of law are a blessing +and a refuge. Female charms cannot mislead in a court of justice; and +the atrocities of rumour are there sifted, and deprived of power. A +trial is not a threat to an innocent man: it is an invitation, an +opportunity. Why, then, did he hate Sir Samuel Romilly, so that he +exulted like a fiend over his tragical death? The letter in which he +pours forth this malignity was so brutal, that Moore was obliged, by +the general outcry of society, to suppress it. Is this the language of +an innocent man who has been offered a fair trial under his country's +laws? or of a guilty man, to whom the very idea of public trial means +public exposure?</p> + +<p>4th, It is probable that the crime was the one now alleged, because +that was the most important crime charged against him by rumour at the +period. This appears by the following extract of a letter from Shelley, +furnished by the 'Quarterly,' dated Bath, Sept. 29, 1816:—</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_219" id="Page_219">[Pg 219]</a></span></p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I saw Kinnaird, and had a long talk with him. He informed me that +Lady Byron was now in perfect health; that she was living with your +sister. I felt much pleasure from this intelligence. I consider the +latter part of it as affording a decisive contradiction to the only +important calumny that ever was advanced against you. On this ground, +at least, it will become the world hereafter to be silent.'</p></div> + +<p>It appears evident here that the charge of improper intimacy with his +sister was, in the mind of Shelley, the only important one that had yet +been made against Lord Byron.</p> + +<p>It is fairly inferable, from Lord Byron's own statements, that his +family friends believed this charge. Lady Byron speaks, in her +statement, of 'nearest relatives' and family friends who were cognizant +of Lord Byron's strange conduct at the time of the separation; and +Lord Byron, in the letter to Bowles, before quoted, says that every +one of his relations, except his sister, fell from him in this crisis +like leaves from a tree in autumn. There was, therefore, not only +this report, but such appearances in support of it as convinced those +nearest to the scene, and best apprised of the facts; so that they +fell from him entirely, notwithstanding the strong influence of family +feeling. The Guiccioli book also mentions this same allegation as +having arisen from peculiarities in Lord Byron's manner of treating his +sister:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'This deep, fraternal affection assumed at times, under the influence +of his powerful genius, and under exceptional circumstances, an +almost too passionate expression, which opened a fresh field to his +enemies.'<a name="FNanchor_46_46" id="FNanchor_46_46"></a><a href="#Footnote_46_46" class="fnanchor">[46]</a> +</p> +</div> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_220" id="Page_220">[Pg 220]</a></span></p> + +<p>It appears, then, that there was nothing in the character of Lord +Byron and of his sister, as they appeared before their generation, +that prevented such a report from arising: on the contrary, there was +something in their relations that made it seem probable. And it appears +that his own family friends were so affected by it, that they, with +one accord, deserted him. The 'Quarterly' presents the fact that Lady +Byron went to visit Mrs. Leigh at this time, as triumphant proof that +<i>she</i> did not then believe it. Can the 'Quarterly' show just what Lady +Byron's state of mind was, or what her motives were, in making that +visit?</p> + +<p>The 'Quarterly' seems to assume, that no woman, without gross +hypocrisy, can stand by a sister proven to have been guilty. We can +appeal on this subject to all women. We fearlessly ask any wife, +'Supposing your husband and sister were involved together in an +infamous crime, and that you were the mother of a young daughter whose +life would be tainted by a knowledge of that crime, what would be +your wish? Would you wish to proclaim it forthwith? or would you wish +quietly to separate from your husband, and to cover the crime from the +eye of man?'</p> + +<p>It has been proved that Lady Byron did not reveal this even to her +nearest relatives. It is proved that she sealed the mouths of her +counsel, and even of servants, so effectually, that they remain sealed +even to this day. This is evidence that she did not wish the thing +known. It is proved also, that, in spite of her secrecy<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_221" id="Page_221">[Pg 221]</a></span> with her +parents and friends, the rumour got out, and was spoken of by Shelley +as the <i>only</i> important one.</p> + +<p>Now, let us see how this note, cited by the 'Quarterly,' confirms one +of Lady Byron's own statements. She says to Lady Anne Barnard,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I trust you understand my wishes, which never were to injure Lord +Byron in any way; for, <i>though he would not suffer me to remain his +wife, he cannot prevent me from continuing his friend; and it was from +considering myself as such that I silenced the accusations by which my +own conduct might have been more fully justified</i>.'</p></div> + +<p>How did Lady Byron <i>silence accusations</i>? First, by keeping silence +to her nearest relatives; second, by shutting the mouths of servants; +third, by imposing silence on her friends,—as Lady Anne Barnard; +fourth, by silencing her legal counsel; fifth, and most entirely, by +treating Mrs. Leigh, before the world, with unaltered kindness. In the +midst of the rumours, Lady Byron went to visit her; and Shelley says +that the movement was effectual. Can the 'Quarterly' prove that, at +this time, Mrs. Leigh had not confessed all, and thrown herself on Lady +Byron's mercy?</p> + +<p>It is not necessary to suppose great horror and indignation on the +part of Lady Byron. She may have regarded her sister as the victim +of a most singularly powerful tempter. Lord Byron, as she knew, had +tried to corrupt her own morals and faith. He had obtained a power +over some women, even in the highest circles<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_222" id="Page_222">[Pg 222]</a></span> in England, which had +led them to forego the usual decorums of their sex, and had given rise +to great scandals. He was a being of wonderful personal attractions. +He had not only strong poetical, but also strong logical power. He was +daring in speculation, and vigorous in sophistical argument; beautiful, +dazzling, and possessed of magnetic power of fascination. His sister +had been kind and considerate to Lady Byron when Lord Byron was brutal +and cruel. She had been overcome by him, as a weaker nature sometimes +sinks under the force of a stronger one; and Lady Byron may really have +considered her to be more sinned against than sinning.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron, if we look at it rightly, did not corrupt Mrs. Leigh +any more than he did the whole British public. They rebelled at the +immorality of his conduct and the obscenity of his writings; and he +resolved that they should accept both. And he made them do it. At +first, they execrated 'Don Juan.' Murray was afraid to publish it. +Women were determined not to read it. In 1819, Dr. William Maginn of +the Noctes wrote a song against it in the following virtuous strain:</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'Be "Juan," then, unseen, unknown;<br /></span> +<span class="i2">It must, or we shall rue it.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">We may have virtue of our own:<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Ah! why should we undo it?<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The treasured faith of days long past<br /></span> +<span class="i2">We still would prize o'er any,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And grieve to hear the ribald jeer<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Of scamps like Don Giovanni.'<br /></span> +</div></div> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_223" id="Page_223">[Pg 223]</a></span></p> +<p>Lord Byron determined to conquer the virtuous scruples of the Noctes +Club; and so we find this same Dr. William Maginn, who in 1819 wrote +so valiantly, in 1822 declaring that he would rather have written a +page of 'Don Juan' than a ton of 'Childe Harold.' All English morals +were, in like manner, formally surrendered to Lord Byron. Moore details +his adulteries in Venice with unabashed particularity: artists send +for pictures of his principal mistresses; the literary world call for +biographical sketches of their points; Moore compares his wife and his +last mistress in a neatly-turned sentence; and yet the professor of +morals in Edinburgh University recommends the biography as <i>pure</i>, and +having no mud in it. The mistress is lionized in London, and in 1869 is +introduced to the world of letters by 'Blackwood,' and bid, 'without a +blush, to say she loved'—</p> + +<p>This much being done to all England, it is quite possible that a woman +like Lady Byron, standing silently aside and surveying the course of +things, may have thought that Mrs. Leigh was no more seduced than all +the rest of the world, and have said as we feel disposed to say of that +generation, and of a good many in this, 'Let him that is without sin +among you cast the first stone.'</p> + +<p>The peculiar bitterness of remorse expressed in his works by Lord +Byron is a further evidence that he had committed an unusual crime. +We are aware that evidence cannot be drawn in this manner from an +author's<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_224" id="Page_224">[Pg 224]</a></span> works merely, if unsupported by any external probability. +For example, the subject most frequently and powerfully treated by +Hawthorne is the influence of a secret, unconfessed crime on the soul: +nevertheless, as Hawthorne is well known to have always lived a pure +and regular life, nobody has ever suspected him of any greater sin +than a vigorous imagination. But here is a man believed guilty of an +uncommon immorality by the two best lawyers in England, and threatened +with an open exposure, which he does not dare to meet. The crime is +named in society; his own relations fall away from him on account of +it; it is only set at rest by the heroic conduct of his wife. Now, this +man is stated by many of his friends to have had all the appearance of +a man secretly labouring under the consciousness of crime. Moore speaks +of this propensity in the following language:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I have known him more than once, as we sat together after dinner, +and he was a little under the influence of wine, to fall seriously +into this dark, self-accusing mood, and throw out hints of his past +life with an air of gloom and mystery designed evidently to awaken +curiosity and interest.'</p></div> + +<p>Moore says that it was his own custom to dispel these appearances by +ridicule, to which his friend was keenly alive. And he goes on to say,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'It has sometimes occurred to me, that the occult causes of his lady's +separation from him, round which herself and her legal advisers have +thrown such formidable mystery, may have been nothing more than some +imposture of this kind, some dimly-hinted<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_225" id="Page_225">[Pg 225]</a></span> confession of undefined +horror, which, though intended by the relater to mystify and surprise, +the hearer so little understood as to take in sober seriousness.'<a name="FNanchor_47_47" id="FNanchor_47_47"></a><a href="#Footnote_47_47" class="fnanchor">[47]</a></p></div> + +<p>All we have to say is, that Lord Byron's conduct in this respect +is exactly what might have been expected if he had a crime on his +conscience.</p> + +<p>The energy of remorse and despair expressed in 'Manfred' were so +appalling and so vividly <i>personal</i>, that the belief was universal on +the Continent that the experience was wrought out of some actual crime. +Goethe expressed this idea, and had heard a murder imputed to Byron as +the cause.</p> + +<p>The allusion to the crime and consequences of incest is so plain in +'Manfred,' that it is astonishing that any one can pretend, as Galt +does, that it had any other application.</p> + +<p>The hero speaks of the love between himself and the imaginary being +whose spirit haunts him as having been the <i>deadliest sin</i>, and one +that has, perhaps, caused her eternal destruction.</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'What is she now? A sufferer for my sins;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">A thing I dare not think upon.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>He speaks of her blood as haunting him, and as being</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i10">'<i>My</i> blood,—the pure, warm stream<br /></span> +<span class="i0">That ran in the veins of <i>my</i> fathers, and in <i>ours</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0">When we were in our youth, and had one heart,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And loved each other as we should not love.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>This work was conceived in the commotion of mind<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_226" id="Page_226">[Pg 226]</a></span> immediately following +his separation. The scenery of it was sketched in a journal sent to his +sister at the time.</p> + +<p>In letter 377, defending the originality of the conception, and showing +that it did not arise from reading 'Faust,' he says,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'It was the Steinbach and the Jungfrau, and something else, more than +Faustus, that made me write "Manfred."'</p></div> + +<p>In letter 288, speaking of the various accounts given by critics of the +origin of the story, he says,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'The conjecturer is out, and knows nothing of the matter. I had a +better origin than he could devise or divine for the soul of him.'</p></div> + +<p>In letter 299, he says:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'As to the germs of "Manfred," they may be found in the journal I sent +to Mrs. Leigh, part of which you saw.'</p></div> + +<p>It may be said, plausibly, that Lord Byron, if conscious of this crime, +would not have expressed it in his poetry. But his nature was such +that he could not help it. Whatever he wrote that had any real power +was generally wrought out of self; and, when in a tumult of emotion, +he could not help giving glimpses of the cause. It appears that he +did know that he had been accused of incest, and that Shelley thought +<i>that</i> accusation the only really important one; and yet, sensitive as +he was to blame and reprobation, he ran upon this very subject most +likely to re-awaken scandal.</p> + +<p>But Lord Byron's strategy was always of the bold<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_227" id="Page_227">[Pg 227]</a></span> kind. It was the +plan of the fugitive, who, instead of running away, stations himself +so near to danger, that nobody would ever think of looking for him +there. He published passionate verses to his sister on this principle. +He imitated the security of an innocent man in every thing but the +unconscious energy of the agony which seized him when he gave vent to +his nature in poetry. The boldness of his strategy is evident through +all his life. He began by charging his wife with the very cruelty and +deception which he was himself practising. He had spread a net for her +feet, and he accused her of spreading a net for his. He had placed +her in a position where she could not speak, and then leisurely shot +arrows at her; and he represented her as having done the same by him. +When he attacked her in 'Don Juan,' and strove to take from her the +very protection<a name="FNanchor_48_48" id="FNanchor_48_48"></a><a href="#Footnote_48_48" class="fnanchor">[48]</a> of womanly sacredness by putting her name into the +mouth of every ribald, he did a bold thing, and he knew it. He meant to +do a bold thing. There was a general outcry against it; and he fought +it down, and gained his point. By sheer boldness and perseverance, +he turned the public <i>from</i> his wife, and <i>to</i> himself, in the face +of their very groans and protests. His 'Manfred' and his 'Cain' were +parts of the same game. But the involuntary cry of remorse and despair +pierced even through his own artifices, in a manner that produced a +conviction of reality. </p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_228" id="Page_228">[Pg 228]</a></span></p> + +<p>His evident fear and hatred of his wife were other symptoms of crime. +There was no apparent occasion for him to hate her. He admitted that +she had been bright, amiable, good, agreeable; that her marriage had +been a very uncomfortable one; and he said to Madame de Staël, that +he did not doubt she thought him deranged. Why, then, did he hate her +for wanting to live peaceably by herself? Why did he so fear her, that +not one year of his life passed without his concocting and circulating +some public or private accusation against her? She, by his own showing, +published none against him. It is remarkable, that, in all his zeal to +represent himself injured, he nowhere quotes a single remark from Lady +Byron, nor a story coming either directly or indirectly from her or her +family. He is in a fever in Venice, not from what she has spoken, but +because she has sealed the lips of her counsel, and because she and her +family do not speak: so that he professes himself utterly ignorant what +form her allegations against him may take. He had heard from Shelley +that his wife silenced the most important calumny by going to make Mrs. +Leigh a visit; and yet he is afraid of her,—so afraid, that he tells +Moore he expects she will attack him after death, and charges him to +defend his grave.</p> + +<p>Now, if Lord Byron knew that his wife had a deadly secret that she +could tell, all this conduct is explicable: it is in the ordinary +course of human nature. Men always distrust those who hold facts +by which they can be ruined. They fear them; they are antagonistic +to<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_229" id="Page_229">[Pg 229]</a></span> them; they cannot trust them. The feeling of Falkland to Caleb +Williams, as portrayed in Godwin's masterly sketch, is perfectly +natural, and it is exactly illustrative of what Byron felt for his +wife. He hated her for having his secret; and, so far as a human being +could do it, he tried to destroy her character before the world, that +she might not have the power to testify against him. If we admit this +solution, Byron's conduct is at least that of a man who is acting as +men ordinarily would act under such circumstances: if we do not, he +is acting like a fiend. Let us look at admitted facts. He married his +wife without love, in a gloomy, melancholy, morose state of mind. The +servants testify to strange, unaccountable treatment of her immediately +after marriage; such that her confidential maid advises her return to +her parents. In Lady Byron's letter to Mrs. Leigh, she reminds Lord +Byron that he always expressed a desire and determination to free +himself from the marriage. Lord Byron himself admits to Madame de +Staël that his behaviour was such, that his wife must have thought him +insane. Now we are asked to believe, that simply because, under these +circumstances, Lady Byron wished to live separate from her husband, he +hated and feared her so that he could never let her alone afterwards; +that he charged her with malice, slander, deceit, and deadly intentions +against himself, merely out of spite, because she preferred not to live +with him. This last view of the case certainly makes Lord Byron more +unaccountably wicked than the other.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_230" id="Page_230">[Pg 230]</a></span></p> + +<p>The first supposition shows him to us as a man in an agony of +self-preservation; the second as a fiend, delighting in gratuitous +deceit and cruelty.</p> + +<p>Again: a presumption of this crime appears in Lord Byron's admission, +in a letter to Moore, that he had an illegitimate child born before he +left England, and still living at the time.</p> + +<p>In letter 307, to Mr. Moore, under date Venice, Feb. 2, 1818, Byron +says, speaking of Moore's loss of a child,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I know how to feel with you, because I am quite wrapped up in my own +children. Besides my little legitimate, I have made unto myself an +illegitimate since [since Ada's birth] <i>to say nothing of one before</i>; +and I look forward to one of these as the pillar of my old age, +supposing that I ever reach, as I hope I never shall, that desolating +period.'</p></div> + +<p>The illegitimate child that he had made to himself since Ada's birth +was Allegra, born about nine or ten months after the separation. The +other illegitimate alluded to was born before, and, as the reader sees, +was spoken of as still living.</p> + +<p>Moore appears to be puzzled to know who this child can be, and +conjectures that it may possibly be the child referred to in an early +poem, written, while a schoolboy of nineteen, at Harrow.</p> + +<p>On turning back to the note referred to, we find two things: first, +that the child there mentioned was not claimed by Lord Byron as his +own, but that he asked his mother to care for it as belonging to a +schoolmate<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_231" id="Page_231">[Pg 231]</a></span> now dead; second, that the infant died shortly after, and, +consequently, could not be the child mentioned in this letter.</p> + +<p>Now, besides this fact, that Lord Byron admitted a living illegitimate +child born before Ada, we place this other fact, that there was a +child in England which was believed to be his by those who had every +opportunity of knowing.</p> + +<p>On this subject we shall cite a passage from a letter recently received +by us from England, and written by a person who appears well informed +on the subject of his letter:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'The fact is, the incest was first committed, and the child of it born +<i>before</i>, shortly before, the Byron marriage. The child (a daughter) +must not be confounded with the natural daughter of Lord Byron, born +about a year after his separation.</p> + +<p>'The history, more or less, of that child of incest, is known to many; +for in Lady Byron's attempts to watch over her, and rescue her from +ruin, she was compelled to employ various agents at different times.'</p></div> + +<p>This letter contains a full recognition, by an intelligent person in +England, of a child corresponding well with Lord Byron's declaration of +an illegitimate, born before he left England.</p> + +<p>Up to this point, we have, then, the circumstantial evidence against +Lord Byron as follows:—</p> + +<p>A good and amiable woman, who had married him from love, determined to +separate from him.</p> + +<p>Two of the greatest lawyers of England confirmed<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_232" id="Page_232">[Pg 232]</a></span> her in this decision, +and threatened Lord Byron, that, unless he consented to this, they +would expose the evidence against him in a suit for divorce. He fled +from this exposure, and never afterwards sought public investigation.</p> + +<p>He was angry with and malicious towards the counsel who supported his +wife; he was angry at and afraid of a wife who did nothing to injure +him, and he made it a special object to defame and degrade her. He gave +such evidence of remorse and fear in his writings as to lead eminent +literary men to believe he had committed a great crime. The public +rumour of his day specified what the crime was. His relations, by his +own showing, joined against him. The report was silenced by his wife's +efforts only. Lord Byron subsequently declares the existence of an +illegitimate child, born before he left England. Corresponding to this, +there is the history, known in England, of a child believed to be his, +in whom his wife took an interest.</p> + +<p>All these presumptions exist independently of any direct testimony from +Lady Byron. They are to be admitted as true, whether she says a word +one way or the other.</p> + +<p>From this background of proof, I come forward, and testify to an +interview with Lady Byron, in which she gave me specific information +of the facts in the case. That I report the facts just as I received +them from her, not altered or misremembered, is shown by the testimony +of my sister, to whom I related them at the time. It<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_233" id="Page_233">[Pg 233]</a></span> cannot, then, be +denied that I had this interview, and that this communication was made. +I therefore testify that Lady Byron, for a proper purpose, and at a +proper time, stated to me the following things:—</p> + +<p>1. That the crime which separated her from Lord Byron was incest. 2. +That she first discovered it by improper actions towards his sister, +which, he <i>meant</i> to make her understand, indicated the guilty +relation. 3. That he admitted it, reasoned on it, defended it, tried to +make her an accomplice, and, failing in that, hated her and expelled +her. 4. That he threatened her that he would make it his life's object +to destroy her character. 5. That for a period she was led to regard +this conduct as insanity, and to consider him only as a diseased +person. 6. That she had subsequent proof that the facts were really as +she suspected; that there had been a child born of the crime, whose +history she knew; that Mrs. Leigh had repented.</p> + +<p>The purpose for which this was stated to me was to ask, Was it her duty +to make the truth fully known during her lifetime?</p> + +<p>Here, then, is a man believed guilty of an unusual crime by two +lawyers, the best in England, who have seen the evidence,—a man who +dares not meet legal investigation. The crime is named in society, and +deemed so far probable to the men of his generation as to be spoken +of by Shelley as the only important allegation against him. He acts +through life exactly like a man struggling with remorse, and afraid +of detection;<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_234" id="Page_234">[Pg 234]</a></span> he has all the restlessness and hatred and fear that a +man has who feels that there is evidence which might destroy him. He +admits an illegitimate child besides Allegra. A child believed to have +been his is known to many in England. Added to all this, his widow, +now advanced in years, and standing on the borders of eternity, being, +as appears by her writings and conversation, of perfectly sound mind +at the time, testifies to me the facts before named, which exactly +correspond to probabilities.</p> + +<p>I publish the statement; and the solicitors who hold Lady Byron's +private papers do not deny the truth of the story. They try to cast +discredit on me for speaking; but they do not say that I have spoken +falsely, or that the story is not true. The lawyer who knew Lady +Byron's story in 1816 does not now deny that this is the true one. +Several persons in England testify that, at various times, and for +various purposes, the same story has been told to them. Moreover, it +appears from my last letter addressed to Lady Byron on this subject, +that I recommended her to leave <i>all necessary papers</i> in the hands +of some discreet persons, who, after <i>both</i> had passed away, should +see that justice was done. The solicitors admit that Lady Byron <i>has</i> +left sealed papers of great importance in the hands of trustees, with +discretionary power. I have been informed very directly that the nature +of these documents was such as to lead to the suppression of Lady +Byron's life and writings. This is all exactly as it would<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_235" id="Page_235">[Pg 235]</a></span> be, if the +story related by Lady Byron were the true one.</p> + +<p>The evidence under this point of view is so strong, that a great effort +has been made to throw out Lady Byron's testimony.</p> + +<p>This attempt has been made on two grounds. 1st, That she was under a +mental hallucination. This theory has been most ably refuted by the +very first authority in England upon the subject. He says,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'No person practically acquainted with the true characteristics of +insanity would affirm, that, had this idea of "incest" been an insane +hallucination, Lady Byron could, from the lengthened period which +intervened between her unhappy marriage and death, have refrained +from exhibiting it, not only to legal advisers and trustees (assuming +that she revealed to them the fact), but to others, exacting no +pledge of secrecy from them as to her mental impressions. Lunatics +do for a time, and for some special purpose, most cunningly conceal +their delusions; but they have not the capacity to struggle for +thirty-six years, as Lady Byron must have done, with so frightful an +hallucination, without the insane state of mind becoming obvious to +those with whom they are daily associating. Neither is it consistent +with experience to suppose, that, if Lady Byron had been a monomaniac, +her state of disordered understanding would have been restricted to +one hallucination. Her diseased brain, affecting the normal action of +thought, would, in all probability, have manifested other symptoms +besides those referred to of aberration of intellect.</p> + +<p>'During the last thirty years, I have not met with a case of insanity +(assuming the hypothesis of hallucination) at all parallel with that +of Lady Byron. In my experience, it is unique. I never saw a patient +with such a delusion.'</p></div> + +<p>We refer our readers to a careful study of Dr. Forbes Winslow's +consideration of this subject given in Part III.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_236" id="Page_236">[Pg 236]</a></span> Anyone who has been +familiar with the delicacy and acuteness of Dr. Winslow, as shown in +his work on obscure diseases of the brain and nerves, must feel that +his positive assertion on this ground is the best possible evidence. +We here gratefully acknowledge our obligations to Dr. Winslow for +the corrected proof of his valuable letter, which he has done us the +honour to send for this work. We shall consider that his argument, +in connection with what the reader may observe of Lady Byron's own +writings, closes that issue of the case completely.</p> + +<p>The other alternative is, that Lady Byron deliberately committed false +witness. This was the ground assumed by the 'Blackwood,' when in July, +1869, it took upon itself the responsibility of re-opening the Byron +controversy. It is also the ground assumed by 'The London Quarterly' of +to-day.</p> + +<p>Both say, in so many words, that no crime was imputed to Lord Byron; +that the representations made to Lushington in the beginning were false +ones; and that the story told to Lady Byron's confidential friends in +later days was also false.</p> + +<p>Let us examine this theory. In the first place, it requires us to +believe in the existence of a moral monster of whom Madame Brinvilliers +is cited as the type. The 'Blackwood,' let it be remembered, opens +the controversy with the statement that Lady Byron was a Madame +Brinvilliers. The 'Quarterly' does not shrink from the same assumption.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_237" id="Page_237">[Pg 237]</a></span></p> + +<p>Let us consider the probability of this question.</p> + +<p>If Lady Byron were such a woman, and wished to ruin her husband's +reputation in order to save her own, and, being perfectly unscrupulous, +had circulated against him a story of unnatural crime which had no +proofs, how came two of the first lawyers of England to assume the +responsibility of offering to present her case in open court? How +came her husband, if he knew himself guiltless, to shrink from that +public investigation which must have demonstrated his innocence? Most +astonishing of all, when he fled from trial, and the report got abroad +against him in England, and was believed even by his own relations, +why did not his wife avail herself of the moment to complete her +victory? If at that moment she had publicly broken with Mrs. Leigh, +she might have confirmed every rumour. Did she do it? and why not? +According to the 'Blackwood,' we have here a woman who has made up a +frightful story to ruin her husband's reputation, yet who takes every +pains afterwards to prevent its being ruined. She fails to do the very +thing she undertakes; and for years after, rather than injure him, she +loses public sympathy, and, by sealing the lips of her legal counsel, +deprives herself of the advantage of their testimony.</p> + +<p>Moreover, if a desire for revenge could have been excited in her, +it would have been provoked by the first publication of the fourth +canto of 'Childe Harold,' when she felt that Byron was attacking her +before the world. Yet we have Lady Anne Barnard's testimony,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_238" id="Page_238">[Pg 238]</a></span> that, +at this time, she was so far from wishing to injure him, that all her +communications were guarded by cautious secrecy. At this time, also, +she had a strong party in England, to whom she could have appealed. +Again: when 'Don Juan' was first printed, it excited a violent +re-action against Lord Byron. Had his wife chosen <i>then</i> to accuse +him, and display the evidence she had shown to her counsel, there is +little doubt that all the world would have stood with her; but she did +not. After his death, when she spoke at last, there seems little doubt +from the strength of Dr. Lushington's language, that Lady Byron had a +very strong case, and that, had she been willing, her counsel could +have told much more than he did. She might <i>then</i> have told her whole +story, and been believed. Her word was believed by Christopher North, +and accepted as proof that Byron had been a great criminal. Had revenge +been her motive, she could have spoken the <span class="smcap">ONE WORD</span> more that +North called for.</p> + +<p>The 'Quarterly' asks why she waited till everybody concerned was dead. +There is an obvious answer. Because, while there was anybody living +to whom the testimony would have been utterly destructive, there were +the best reasons for withholding it. When all were gone from earth, +and she herself was in constant expectation of passing away, there +<i>was</i> a reason, and a proper one, why she should speak. By nature and +principle truthful, she had had the opportunity of silently watching +the operation of a permitted lie upon a whole gene<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_239" id="Page_239">[Pg 239]</a></span>ration. She had been +placed in a position in which it was necessary, by silence, to allow +the spread and propagation through society of a radical falsehood. Lord +Byron's life, fame, and genius had all struck their roots into this +lie, been nourished by it, and had derived thence a poisonous power.</p> + +<p>In reading this history, it will be remarked that he pleaded his +personal misfortunes in his marriage as excuses for every offence +against morality, and that the literary world of England accepted +the plea, and tolerated and justified the crimes. Never before, in +England, had adultery been spoken of in so respectful a manner, and +an adulteress openly praised and <i>fêted</i>, and obscene language and +licentious images publicly tolerated; and all on the plea of a man's +private misfortunes.</p> + +<p>There was, therefore, great force in the suggestion made to Lady +Byron, that she owed a testimony in this case to truth and justice, +irrespective of any personal considerations. There is no more real +reason for allowing the spread of a hurtful falsehood that affects +ourselves than for allowing one that affects our neighbour. This +falsehood had corrupted the literature and morals of both England and +America, and led to the public toleration, by respectable authorities, +of forms of vice at first indignantly rejected. The question was, +Was this falsehood to go on corrupting literature as long as history +lasted? Had the world no right to true history? Had she who possessed +the truth no<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_240" id="Page_240">[Pg 240]</a></span> responsibility to the world? Was not a final silence a +confirmation of a lie with all its consequences?</p> + +<p>This testimony of Lady Byron, so far from being thrown out altogether, +as the 'Quarterly' proposes, has a peculiar and specific value from the +great forbearance and reticence which characterised the greater part of +her life.</p> + +<p>The testimony of a person who has shown in every action perfect +friendliness to another comes with the more weight on that account. +Testimony extorted by conscience from a parent against a child, or a +wife against a husband, where all the other actions of the life prove +the existence of kind feeling, is held to be the strongest form of +evidence.</p> + +<p>The fact that Lady Byron, under the severest temptations and the +bitterest insults and injuries, withheld every word by which Lord +Byron could be criminated, so long as he and his sister were living, +is strong evidence, that, when she did speak, it was not under the +influence of ill-will, but of pure conscientious convictions; and the +fullest weight ought, therefore, to be given to her testimony.</p> + +<p>We are asked now why she ever spoke at all. The fact that her story +is known to several persons in England is brought up as if it were a +crime. To this we answer, Lady Byron had an undoubted moral right to +have exposed the whole story in a public court in 1816, and thus cut +herself loose from her husband by a divorce. For the sake of saving +her husband and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_241" id="Page_241">[Pg 241]</a></span> sister from destruction, she waived this right to +self-justification, and stood for years a silent sufferer under calumny +and misrepresentation. She desired nothing but to retire from the +whole subject; to be permitted to enjoy with her child the peace and +seclusion that belong to her sex. Her husband made her, through his +life and after his death, a subject of such constant discussion, that +she must either abandon the current literature of her day, or run the +risk of reading more or less about herself in almost every magazine +of her time. Conversations with Lord Byron, notes of interviews with +Lord Byron, journals of time spent with Lord Byron, were constantly +spread before the public. Leigh Hunt, Galt, Medwin, Trelawney, Lady +Blessington, Dr. Kennedy, and Thomas Moore, all poured forth their +memorials; and in all she figured prominently. All these had their +tribes of reviewers and critics, who also discussed her. The profound +mystery of her silence seemed constantly to provoke inquiry. People +could not forgive her for not speaking. Her privacy, retirement, +and silence were set down as coldness, haughtiness, and contempt +of human sympathy. She was constantly challenged to say something: +as, for example, in the 'Noctes' of November 1825, six months after +Byron's death, Christopher North says, speaking of the burning of the +Autobiography,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I think, since the Memoir was burned by these people, these people +are bound to put us in possession of the best evidence they still +have the power of producing, in order that we may come to a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_242" id="Page_242">[Pg 242]</a></span> just +conclusion as to a subject upon which, by their act, at least, as much +as by any other people's act, we are compelled to consider it our duty +to make up our deliberate opinion,—deliberate and decisive. Woe be +to those who provoke this curiosity, and will not allay it! Woe be to +them! say I. Woe to them! says the world.'</p></div> + +<p>When Lady Byron published her statement, which certainly seemed called +for by this language, Christopher North blamed her for doing it, and +then again said that she ought to go on and tell the whole story. If +she was thus adjured to speak, blamed for speaking, and adjured to +speak further, all in one breath, by public prints, there is reason to +think that there could not have come less solicitation from private +sources,—from friends who had access to her at all hours, whom she +loved, by whom she was beloved, and to whom her refusal to explain +might seem a breach of friendship. Yet there is no evidence on record, +that we have seen, that she ever had other confidant than her legal +counsel, till after all the actors in the events were in their graves, +and the daughter, for whose sake largely the secret was guarded, had +followed them.</p> + +<p>Now, does anyone claim, that, because a woman has sacrificed for twenty +years all cravings for human sympathy, and all possibility of perfectly +free and unconstrained intercourse with her friends, that she is +obliged to go on bearing this same lonely burden to the end of her days?</p> + +<p>Let anyone imagine the frightful constraint and solitude implied in +this sentence. Let anyone, too,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_243" id="Page_243">[Pg 243]</a></span> think of its painful complications in +life. The roots of a falsehood are far-reaching. Conduct that can only +be explained by criminating another must often seem unreasonable and +unaccountable; and the most truthful person, who feels bound to keep +silence regarding a radical lie of another, must often be placed in +positions most trying to conscientiousness. The great merit of 'Caleb +Williams' as a novel consists in its philosophical analysis of the +utter helplessness of an innocent person who agrees to keep the secret +of a guilty one. One sees there how that necessity of silence produces +all the effect of falsehood on his part, and deprives him of the +confidence and sympathy of those with whom he would take refuge.</p> + +<p>For years, this unnatural life was forced on Lady Byron, involving her +as in a network, even in her dearest family relations.</p> + +<p>That, when all the parties were dead, Lady Byron should allow herself +the sympathy of a circle of intimate friends, is something so perfectly +proper and natural, that we cannot but wonder that her conduct in this +respect has ever been called in question. If it was her right to have +had a public <i>exposé</i> in 1816, it was certainly her right to show to +her own intimate circle the secret of her life when all the principal +actors were passed from earth.</p> + +<p>The 'Quarterly' speaks as if, by thus waiting, she deprived Lord Byron +of the testimony of living witnesses. But there were as many witnesses +and partisans<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_244" id="Page_244">[Pg 244]</a></span> dead on her side as on his. Lady Milbanke and Sir Ralph, +Sir Samuel Romilly and Lady Anne Barnard were as much dead as Hobhouse, +Moore, and others of Byron's partisans.</p> + +<p>The 'Quarterly' speaks of Lady Byron as 'running round, and repeating +her story to people mostly below her own rank in life.'</p> + +<p>To those who know the personal dignity of Lady Byron's manners, +represented and dwelt on by her husband in his conversations with Lady +Blessington, this coarse and vulgar attack only proves the poverty of a +cause which can defend itself by no better weapons.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron speaks of his wife as 'highly cultivated;' as having 'a +degree of self-control I never saw equalled.'</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I am certain,' he says, 'that Lady Byron's first idea is what is due +to herself: I mean that it is the undeviating rule of her conduct.... +Now, my besetting sin is a want of that self-respect which she +has in excess.... But, though I accuse Lady Byron of an excess of +self-respect, I must, in candour, admit, that, if any person ever had +excuse for an extraordinary portion of it, she has; as, in all her +thoughts, words, and actions, she is the most decorous woman that ever +existed.'</p></div> + +<p>This is the kind of woman who has lately been accused in the public +prints as a babbler of secrets and a gossip in regard to her private +difficulties with children, grandchildren, and servants. It is a fair +specimen of the justice that has generally been meted out to Lady Byron.</p> + +<p>In 1836, she was accused of having made a confidant of Campbell, on +the strength of having written him a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_245" id="Page_245">[Pg 245]</a></span> note <i>declining</i> to give him any +information, or answer any questions. In July, 1869, she was denounced +by 'Blackwood' as a Madame Brinvilliers for keeping such perfect +silence on the matter of her husband's character; and in the last +'Quarterly' she is spoken of as a gossip 'running round, and repeating +her story to people below her in rank.'</p> + +<p>While we are upon this subject, we have a suggestion to make. John +Stuart Mill says that utter self-abnegation has been preached to women +as a peculiarly feminine virtue. It is true; but there is a moral limit +to the value of self-abnegation.</p> + +<p>It is a fair question for the moralist, whether it is right and proper +wholly to ignore one's personal claims to justice. The teachings of +the Saviour give us warrant for submitting to personal injuries; but +both the Saviour and St. Paul manifested bravery in denying false +accusations, and asserting innocence.</p> + +<p>Lady Byron was falsely accused of having ruined <i>the</i> man of his +generation, and caused all his vices and crimes, and all their evil +effects on society. She submitted to the accusation for a certain +number of years for reasons which commended themselves to her +conscience; but when all the personal considerations were removed, and +she was about passing from life, it was right, it was just, it was +strictly in accordance with the philosophical and ethical character +of her mind, and with her habit of considering all things in their +widest relations to the good of mankind, that she should give<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_246" id="Page_246">[Pg 246]</a></span> serious +attention and consideration to the last duty which she might owe to +abstract truth and justice in her generation.</p> + +<p>In her letter on the religious state of England, we find her advocating +an absolute frankness in all religious parties. She would have all +openly confess those doubts, which, from the best of motives, are +usually suppressed; and believed, that, as a result of such perfect +truthfulness, a wider love would prevail among Christians. This shows +the strength of her conviction of the power and the importance of +absolute truth; and shows, therefore, that her doubts and conscientious +inquiries respecting her duty on this subject are exactly what might +have been expected from a person of her character and principles.</p> + +<p>Having thus shown that Lady Byron's testimony is the testimony of a +woman of strong and sound mind, that it was not given from malice nor +ill-will, that it was given at a proper time and in a proper manner, +and for a purpose in accordance with the most elevated moral views, and +that it is coincident with all the established facts of this history, +and furnishes a perfect solution of every mystery of the case, we think +we shall carry the reader with us in saying that it is to be received +as absolute truth.</p> + +<p>This conviction we arrive at while as yet we are deprived of the +statement prepared by Lady Byron, and the proof by which she expected +to sustain it; both which, as we understand, are now in the hands of +her trustees.</p> + +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_247" id="Page_247">[Pg 247]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_VI" id="CHAPTER_VI">CHAPTER VI.</a></h2> + +<p class="ph4">PHYSIOLOGICAL ARGUMENT.</p> + + +<p>The credibility of the accusation of the unnatural crime charged to +Lord Byron is greater than if charged to most men. He was born of +parents both of whom were remarkable for perfectly ungoverned passions. +There appears to be historical evidence that he was speaking literal +truth when he says to Medwin of his father,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'He would have made a bad hero for Hannah More. He ran out three +fortunes, and married or ran away with three women.... He seemed born +for his own ruin and that of the other sex. He began by seducing +Lady Carmarthen, and spent her four thousand pounds; and, not +content with one adventure of this kind, afterwards eloped with Miss +Gordon.'—<i>Medwin's Conversations</i>, p. 31.</p></div> + +<p>Lady Carmarthen here spoken of was the mother of Mrs. Leigh. Miss +Gordon became Lord Byron's mother.</p> + +<p>By his own account, and that of Moore, she was a passionate, +ungoverned, though affectionate woman. Lord Byron says to Medwin,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I lost my father when I was only six years of age. My mother, when +she was in a passion with me (and I gave her cause enough), used to +say, "O you little dog! you are a Byron all over, you are as bad as +your father!"'—<i>Ibid.</i>, p. 31.</p></div> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_248" id="Page_248">[Pg 248]</a></span></p> + +<p>By all the accounts of his childhood and early youth, it is made +apparent that ancestral causes had sent him into the world with a most +perilous and exceptional sensitiveness of brain and nervous system, +which it would have required the most judicious course of education to +direct safely and happily.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron often speaks as if he deemed himself subject to tendencies +which might terminate in insanity. The idea is so often mentioned +and dwelt upon in his letters, journals, and conversations, that we +cannot but ascribe it to some very peculiar experience, and not to mere +affectation.</p> + +<p>But, in the history of his early childhood and youth, we see no +evidence of any original malformation of nature. We see only evidence +of one of those organisations, full of hope and full of peril, +which adverse influences might easily drive to insanity, but wise +physiological training and judicious moral culture might have guided +to the most splendid results. But of these he had neither. He was +alternately the pet and victim of his mother's tumultuous nature, +and equally injured both by her love and her anger. A Scotch maid of +religious character gave him early serious impressions of religion, and +thus added the element of an awakened conscience to the conflicting +ones of his character.</p> + +<p>Education, in the proper sense of the word, did not exist in England in +those days. Physiological considerations of the influence of the body +on the soul, of the power of brain and nerve over moral development,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_249" id="Page_249">[Pg 249]</a></span> +had then not even entered the general thought of society. The school +and college education literally taught him nothing but the ancient +classics, of whose power in exciting and developing the animal passions +Byron often speaks.</p> + +<p>The morality of the times is strikingly exemplified even in its +literary criticism.</p> + +<p>For example: One of Byron's poems, written while a schoolboy at Harrow, +is addressed to 'My Son.' Mr. Moore, and the annotator of the standard +edition of Byron's poems, gravely give the public their speculations on +the point, whether Lord Byron first became a father while a schoolboy +at Harrow; and go into particulars in relation to a certain infant, the +claim to which lay between Lord Byron and another schoolfellow. It is +not the nature of the event itself, so much as the cool, unembarrassed +manner in which it is discussed, that gives the impression of the +state of public morals. There is no intimation of anything unusual, or +discreditable to the school, in the event, and no apparent suspicion +that it will be regarded as a serious imputation on Lord Byron's +character.</p> + +<p>Modern physiological developments would lead any person versed in +the study of the reciprocal influence of physical and moral laws to +anticipate the most serious danger to such an organisation as Lord +Byron's, from a precocious development of the passions. Alcoholic and +narcotic stimulants, in the case of such a person, would be regarded as +little less than suicidal, and an early<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_250" id="Page_250">[Pg 250]</a></span> course of combined drinking +and licentiousness as tending directly to establish those unsound +conditions which lead towards moral insanity. Yet not only Lord Byron's +testimony, but every probability from the licence of society, goes to +show that this was exactly what did take place.</p> + +<p>Neither restrained by education, nor warned by any correct +physiological knowledge, nor held in check by any public sentiment, he +drifted directly upon the fatal rock.</p> + +<p>Here we give Mr. Moore full credit for all his abatements in regard +to Lord Byron's excesses in his early days. Moore makes the point +very strongly that he was not, <i>de facto</i>, even so bad as many of his +associates; and we agree with him. Byron's physical organisation was +originally as fine and sensitive as that of the most delicate woman. +He possessed the faculty of moral ideality in a high degree; and +he had not, in the earlier part of his life, an attraction towards +mere brutal vice. His physical sensitiveness was so remarkable that +he says of himself, 'A dose of salts has the effect of a temporary +inebriation, like light champagne, upon me.' Yet this exceptionally +delicately-organised boy and youth was in a circle where not to conform +to the coarse drinking-customs of his day was to incur censure and +ridicule. That he early acquired the power of bearing large quantities +of liquor is manifested by the record in his Journal, that, on the day +when he read the severe 'Edinburgh' article upon his schoolboy poems, +he drank three bottles of claret at a sitting.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_251" id="Page_251">[Pg 251]</a></span></p> + +<p>Yet Byron was so far superior to his times, that some vague impulses to +physiological prudence seem to have suggested themselves to him, and +been acted upon with great vigour. He never could have lived so long +as he did, under the exhaustive process of every kind of excess, if he +had not re-enforced his physical nature by an assiduous care of his +muscular system. He took boxing-lessons, and distinguished himself in +all athletic exercises.</p> + +<p>He also had periods in which he seemed to try vaguely to retrieve +himself from dissipation, and to acquire self-mastery by what he called +temperance.</p> + +<p>But, ignorant and excessive in all his movements, his very efforts +at temperance were intemperate. From violent excesses in eating +and drinking, he would pass to no less unnatural periods of utter +abstinence. Thus the very conservative power which Nature has of +adapting herself to any <i>settled</i> course was lost. The extreme +sensitiveness produced by long periods of utter abstinence made the +succeeding debauch more maddening and fatal. He was like a fine musical +instrument, whose strings were every day alternating between extreme +tension and perfect laxity. We have in his Journal many passages, of +which the following is a specimen:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'I have dined regularly to-day, for the first time since Sunday last; +this being Sabbath too,—all the rest, tea and dry biscuits, six <i>per +diem</i>. I wish to God I had not dined, now! It kills me with heaviness, +stupor, and horrible dreams; and yet it was but a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_252" id="Page_252">[Pg 252]</a></span> pint of bucellas, +and fish. Meat I never touch, nor much vegetable diet. I wish I were +in the country, to take exercise, instead of being obliged to <i>cool</i> +by abstinence, in lieu of it. I should not so much mind a little +accession of flesh: my bones can well bear it. But the worst is, the +Devil always came with it, till I starved him out; and I will <i>not</i> +be the slave of <i>any</i> appetite. If I do err, it shall be my heart, at +least, that heralds the way. O my head! how it aches! The horrors of +digestion! I wonder how Bonaparte's dinner agrees with him.'—<i>Moore's +Life</i>, vol. ii. p. 264.</p></div> + +<p>From all the contemporary history and literature of the times, +therefore, we have reason to believe that Lord Byron spoke the exact +truth when he said to Medwin,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'My own master at an age when I most required a guide, left to the +dominion of my passions when they were the strongest, with a fortune +anticipated before I came into possession of it, and a constitution +impaired by early excesses, I commenced my travels, in 1809, +with a joyless indifference to the world and all that was before +me.'—<i>Medwin's Conversations</i>, p. 42.</p></div> + +<p>Utter prostration of the whole physical man from intemperate excess, +the deadness to temptation which comes from utter exhaustion, was his +condition, according to himself and Moore, when he first left England, +at twenty-one years of age.</p> + +<p>In considering his subsequent history, we are to take into account +that it was upon the brain and nerve-power, thus exhausted by early +excess, that the draughts of sudden and rapid literary composition +began to be made. There was something unnatural and unhealthy in the +rapidity, clearness, and vigour with which his<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_253" id="Page_253">[Pg 253]</a></span> various works followed +each other. Subsequently to the first two cantos of 'Childe Harold,' +'The Bride of Abydos,' 'The Corsair,' 'The Giaour,' 'Lara,' 'Parisina,' +and 'The Siege of Corinth,' all followed close upon each other, in a +space of less than three years, and those the three most critical years +of his life. 'The Bride of Abydos' came out in the autumn of 1813, +and was written in a week; and 'The Corsair' was composed in thirteen +days. A few months more than a year before his marriage, and the brief +space of his married life, was the period in which all this literary +labour was performed, while yet he was running the wild career of +intrigue and fashionable folly. He speaks of 'Lara' as being tossed +off in the intervals between masquerades and balls, &c. It is with the +physical results of such unnatural efforts that we have now chiefly +to do. Every physiologist would say that the demands of such poems on +a healthy brain, in that given space, must have been exhausting; but +when we consider that they were cheques drawn on a bank broken by early +extravagance, and that the subject was prodigally spending vital forces +in every other direction at the same time, one can scarcely estimate +the physiological madness of such a course as Lord Byron's.</p> + +<p>It is evident from his Journal, and Moore's account, that any amount +of physical force which was for the time restored by his first foreign +travel was recklessly spent in this period, when he threw himself with +a mad recklessness into London society in the time just pre<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_254" id="Page_254">[Pg 254]</a></span>ceding +his marriage. The revelations made in Moore's Memoir of this period +are sad enough: those to Medwin are so appalling as to the state of +contemporary society in England, as to require, at least, the benefit +of the doubt for which Lord Byron's habitual carelessness of truth gave +scope. His adventures with ladies of the highest rank in England are +there paraded with a freedom of detail that respect for womanhood must +lead every woman to question. The only thing that is unquestionable +is, that Lord Byron made these assertions to Medwin, not as remorseful +confessions, but as relations of his <i>bonnes fortunes</i>, and that Medwin +published them in the very face of the society to which they related.</p> + +<p>When Lord Byron says, 'I have seen a great deal of Italian society, and +swum in a gondola; but nothing could equal the profligacy of high life +in England ... when I knew it,' he makes certainly strong assertions, +if we remember what Mr. Moore reveals of the harem kept in Venice.</p> + +<p>But when Lord Byron intimates that three married women in his own +rank in life, who had once held illicit relations with him, made +wedding-visits to his wife at one time, we must hope that he drew on +his active imagination, as he often did, in his statements in regard to +women.</p> + +<p>When he relates at large his amour with Lord Melbourne's wife, and +represents her as pursuing him with an insane passion, to which he with +difficulty responded;<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_255" id="Page_255">[Pg 255]</a></span> and when he says that she tracked a rival lady +to his lodgings, and came into them herself, disguised as a carman—one +<i>hopes</i> that he exaggerates. And what are we to make of passages like +this?—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'There was a lady at that time, double my own age, the mother of +several children who were perfect angels, with whom I formed a +<i>liaison</i> that continued without interruption for eight months. She +told me she was never in love till she was thirty, and I thought +myself so with her when she was forty. I never felt a stronger +passion, which she returned with equal ardour....</p> + +<p>'Strange as it may seem, she gained, as all women do, an influence +over me so strong that I had great difficulty in breaking with her.'</p></div> + +<p>Unfortunately, these statements, though probably exaggerated, are, for +substance, borne out in the history of the times. With every possible +abatement for exaggeration in these statements, there remains still +undoubted evidence from other sources that Lord Byron exercised a most +peculiar and fatal power over the moral sense of the women with whom he +was brought in relation; and that love for him, in many women, became +a sort of insanity, depriving them of the just use of their faculties. +All this makes his fatal history both possible and probable.</p> + +<p>Even the article in 'Blackwood,' written in 1825 for the express +purpose of vindicating his character, admits that his name had been +coupled with those of three, four, or more women of rank, whom it +speaks of as 'licentious, unprincipled, characterless women.'</p> + +<p>That such a course, in connection with alternate<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_256" id="Page_256">[Pg 256]</a></span> extremes of excess +and abstinence in eating and drinking, and the immense draughts on +the brain-power of rapid and brilliant composition, should have ended +in that abnormal state in which cravings for unnatural vice give +indications of approaching brain-disease, seems only too probable.</p> + +<p>This symptom of exhausted vitality becomes often a frequent type in +periods of very corrupt society. The dregs of the old Greek and Roman +civilisation were foul with it; and the apostle speaks of the turning +of the use of the natural into that which is against nature, as the +last step in abandonment.</p> + +<p>The very literature of such periods marks their want of physical and +moral soundness. Having lost all sense of what is simple and natural +and pure, the mind delights to dwell on horrible ideas, which give a +shuddering sense of guilt and crime. All the writings of this fatal +period of Lord Byron's life are more or less intense histories of +unrepentant guilt and remorse or of unnatural crime. A recent writer +in 'Temple Bar' brings to light the fact, that 'The Bride of Abydos,' +the first of the brilliant and rapid series of poems which began in +the period immediately preceding his marriage, was, in its first +composition, an intense story of love between a brother and sister in +a Turkish harem; that Lord Byron declared, in a letter to Galt, that +it was drawn from <i>real life</i>; that, in compliance with the prejudices +of the age, he altered the relationship to that of cousins before +publication.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_257" id="Page_257">[Pg 257]</a></span></p> + +<p>This same writer goes on to show, by a series of extracts from Lord +Byron's published letters and journals, that his mind about this +time was in a fearfully unnatural state, and suffering singular and +inexplicable agonies of remorse; that, though he was accustomed +fearlessly to confide to his friends immoralities which would be looked +upon as damning, there was now a secret to which he could not help +alluding in his letters, but which he told Moore he could not tell now, +but 'some day or other when we are <i>veterans</i>.' He speaks of his heart +as eating itself out; of a mysterious <i>person</i>, whom he says, 'God +knows I love too well, and the Devil probably too.' He wrote a song, +and sent it to Moore, addressed to a partner in some awful guilt, whose +very name he dares not mention, because</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'There is grief in the sound, there is guilt in the fame.'</p></div> + +<p>He speaks of struggles of remorse, of efforts at repentance, and +returns to guilt, with a sort of horror very different from the +well-pleased air with which he relates to Medwin his common intrigues +and adulteries. He speaks of himself generally as oppressed by a +frightful, unnatural gloom and horror, and, when occasionally happy, +'not in a way that <i>can</i> or <i>ought</i> to last.'</p> + +<p>'The Giaour,' 'The Corsair,' 'Lara,' 'Parisina,' 'The Siege of +Corinth,' and 'Manfred,' all written or conceived about this period +of his life, give one picture of a desperate, despairing, unrepentant +soul, whom suffering maddens, but cannot reclaim.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_258" id="Page_258">[Pg 258]</a></span></p> + +<p>In all these he paints only the one woman, of concentrated, +unconsidering passion, ready to sacrifice heaven and defy hell for a +guilty man, beloved in spite of religion or reason. In this unnatural +literature, the stimulus of crime is represented as intensifying love. +Medora, Gulnare, the Page in 'Lara,' Parisina, and the lost sister +of Manfred, love the more intensely because the object of the love +is a criminal, out-lawed by God and man. The next step beyond this +is—<i>madness</i>.</p> + +<p>The work of Dr. Forbes Winslow on 'Obscure Diseases of the Brain and +Nerves'<a name="FNanchor_49_49" id="FNanchor_49_49"></a><a href="#Footnote_49_49" class="fnanchor">[49]</a> contains a passage so very descriptive of the case of +Lord Byron, that it might seem to have been written for it. The sixth +chapter of his work, on 'Anomalous and Masked Affections of the Mind,' +contains, in our view, the only clue that can unravel the sad tragedy +of Byron's life. He says, p. 87:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'These forms of unrecognised mental disorder are not always +accompanied by any well-marked disturbance of the bodily health +requiring medical attention, or any obvious departure from a normal +state of thought and conduct such as to justify legal interference; +neither do these affections always incapacitate the party from +engaging in the ordinary business of life.... The change may have +progressed insidiously and stealthily, having slowly and almost +imperceptibly induced important molecular modifications in the +delicate vesicular neurine of the brain, ultimately resulting in some +aberration of the ideas, alteration of the affections, or perversion +of the propensities or instincts....</p> + +<p>'Mental disorder of a dangerous character has been known for<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_259" id="Page_259">[Pg 259]</a></span> years +to be stealthily advancing, without exciting the slightest notion of +its presence, until some sad and terrible catastrophe, homicide, or +suicide, has painfully awakened attention to its existence. Persons +suffering from latent insanity often affect singularity of dress, +gait, conversation, and phraseology. The most trifling circumstances +stimulate their excitability. They are martyrs to ungovernable +paroxysms of passion, are inflamed to a state of demoniacal fury +by the most insignificant of causes, and occasionally lose all +sense of delicacy of feeling, sentiment, refinement of manners and +conversation. Such manifestations of undetected mental disorder may be +seen associated with intellectual and moral qualities of the highest +order.'</p></div> + +<p>In another place, Dr. Winslow again adverts to this latter symptom, +which was strikingly marked in the case of Lord Byron:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'All delicacy and decency of thought are occasionally banished from +the mind, so effectually does the principle of thought in these +attacks succumb to the animal instincts and passions....</p> + +<p>'Such cases will commonly be found associated with organic +predisposition to insanity or cerebral disease.... Modifications of +the malady are seen allied with genius. The biographies of Cowper, +Burns, Byron, Johnson, Pope, and Haydon establish that the most +exalted intellectual conditions do not escape unscathed.</p> + +<p>'In early childhood, this form of mental disturbance may, in many +cases, be detected. To its existence is often to be traced the +<i>motiveless</i> crimes of the young.'</p></div> + +<p>No one can compare this passage of Dr. Forbes Winslow with the +incidents we have already cited as occurring in that fatal period +before the separation of Lord and Lady Byron, and not feel that the +hapless young wife was indeed struggling with those inflexible natural +laws, which, at some stages of retribution, in<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_260" id="Page_260">[Pg 260]</a></span>volve in their awful +sweep the guilty with the innocent. She longed to save; but he was gone +past redemption. Alcoholic stimulants and licentious excesses, without +doubt, had produced those unseen changes in the brain, of which Dr. +Forbes Winslow speaks; and the results were terrible in proportion to +the peculiar fineness and delicacy of the organism deranged.</p> + +<p>Alas! the history of Lady Byron is the history of too many women in +every rank of life who are called, in agonies of perplexity and fear, +to watch that gradual process by which physical excesses change the +organism of the brain, till slow, creeping, moral insanity comes on. +The woman who is the helpless victim of cruelties which only unnatural +states of the brain could invent, who is heart-sick to-day and dreads +to-morrow,—looks in hopeless horror on the fatal process by which a +lover and a protector changes under her eyes, from day to day, to a +brute and a fiend.</p> + +<p>Lady Byron's married life—alas! it is lived over in many a cottage and +tenement-house, with no understanding on either side of the cause of +the woful misery.</p> + +<p>Dr. Winslow truly says, 'The science of these brain-affections is yet +in its infancy in England.' At that time, it had not even begun to be. +Madness was a fixed point; and the inquiries into it had no nicety. +Its treatment, if established, had no redeeming power. Insanity simply +locked a man up as a dangerous being; and the very suggestion of it, +therefore, was resented as an injury.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_261" id="Page_261">[Pg 261]</a></span></p> + +<p>A most peculiar and affecting feature of that form of brain disease +which hurries its victim, as by an overpowering mania, into crime, is, +that often the moral faculties and the affections remain to a degree +unimpaired, and protest with all their strength against the outrage. +Hence come conflicts and agonies of remorse proportioned to the +strength of the moral nature. Byron, more than any other one writer, +may be called the poet of remorse. His passionate pictures of this +feeling seem to give new power to the English language:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'There is a war, a chaos of the mind,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">When all its elements convulsed—combined,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Lie dark and jarring with perturbèd force,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And gnashing with impenitent remorse,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">That juggling fiend, who never spake before,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">But cries, "I warned thee!" when the deed is o'er.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>It was this remorse that formed the only redeeming feature of the case. +Its eloquence, its agonies, won from all hearts the interest that we +give to a powerful nature in a state of danger and ruin; and it may +be hoped that this feeling, which tempers the stern justice of human +judgments, may prove only a faint image of the wider charity of Him +whose thoughts are as far above ours as the heaven is above the earth.</p> + +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_262" id="Page_262">[Pg 262]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_VII" id="CHAPTER_VII">CHAPTER VII.</a></h2> + +<p class="ph4">HOW COULD SHE LOVE HIM?</p> + + +<p>It has seemed, to some, wholly inconsistent, that Lady Byron, if this +story were true, could retain any kindly feeling for Lord Byron, or +any tenderness for his memory; that the profession implied a certain +hypocrisy: but, in this sad review, we may see how the woman who once +had loved him, might, in spite of every wrong he had heaped upon her, +still have looked on this awful wreck and ruin chiefly with pity. While +she stood afar, and refused to justify or join in the polluted idolatry +which defended his vices, there is evidence in her writings that her +mind often went back mournfully, as a mother's would, to the early days +when he might have been saved.</p> + +<p>One of her letters in Robinson's Memoirs, in regard to his religious +opinions, shows with what intense earnestness she dwelt upon the +unhappy influences of his childhood and youth, and those early +theologies which led him to regard himself as one of the reprobate. She +says,—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'Not merely from casual expressions, but from the whole tenor of Lord +Byron's feelings, I could not but conclude that he was a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_263" id="Page_263">[Pg 263]</a></span> believer +in the inspiration of the Bible, and had the gloomiest Calvinistic +tenets. To that unhappy view of the relation of the creature to the +Creator I have always ascribed the misery of his life.</p> + +<p>'It is enough for me to know that he who thinks his transgression +beyond forgiveness ... has righteousness beyond that of the +self-satisfied sinner. It is impossible for me to doubt, that, could +he once have been assured of pardon, his living faith in moral duty, +and love of virtue ("I love the virtues that I cannot claim"), would +have conquered every temptation. Judge, then, how I must hate the +creed that made him see God as an Avenger, and not as a Father! My own +impressions were just the reverse, but could have but little weight; +and it was in vain to seek to turn his thoughts from that fixed idea +with which he connected his personal peculiarity as a stamp. Instead +of being made happier by any apparent good, he felt convinced that +every blessing would be turned into a curse to him.... "The worst of +it is, I do believe," he said. <i>I</i>, like all connected with him, was +broken against the rock of predestination. I may be pardoned for my +frequent reference to the sentiment (expressed by him), that I was +only sent to show him the happiness he was forbidden to enjoy.'</p></div> + +<p>In this letter we have the heart, not of the wife, but of the +mother,—the love that searches everywhere for extenuations of the +guilt it is forced to confess.</p> + +<p>That Lady Byron was not alone in ascribing such results to the +doctrines of Calvinism, in certain cases, appears from the language of +the Thirty-nine Articles, which says:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'As the godly consideration of predestination, and our election in +Christ, is full of sweet, pleasant, and unspeakable comfort to godly +persons, and such as feel in themselves the workings of the spirit of +Christ; ... so, for curious and carnal persons, lacking the spirit of +Christ, to have continually before their eyes the sentence of God's +predestination, is a most dangerous downfall, whereby<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_264" id="Page_264">[Pg 264]</a></span> the Devil doth +thrust them either into desperation, or into recklessness of most +unclean living,—no less perilous than desperation.'</p></div> + +<p>Lord Byron's life is an exact commentary on these words, which passed +under the revision of Calvin himself.</p> + +<p>The whole tone of this letter shows not only that Lady Byron never lost +her deep interest in her husband, but that it was by this experience +that all her religious ideas were modified. There is another of +these letters in which she thus speaks of her husband's writings and +character:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'The author of the article on "Goethe" appears to me to have the +mind which could dispel the illusion about <i>another</i> poet, without +depreciating his claims ... to the truest inspiration.</p> + +<p>'Who has sought to distinguish between the holy and the unholy in that +spirit? to prove, by the very degradation of the one, how high the +other was. A character is never done justice to by extenuating its +faults: so I do not agree to <i>nisi bonum</i>. It is kinder to read the +blotted page.'</p></div> + +<p>These letters show that Lady Byron's idea was that, even were the +whole mournful truth about Lord Byron fully told, there was still a +foundation left for pity and mercy. She seems to have remembered, +that if his sins were peculiar, so also were his temptations; and to +have schooled herself for years to gather up, and set in order in her +memory, all that yet remained precious in this great ruin. Probably no +English writer that ever has made the attempt could have done this more +perfectly. Though Lady Byron was not a poet <i>par<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_265" id="Page_265">[Pg 265]</a></span> excellence</i>, yet she +belonged to an order of souls fully equal to Lord Byron. Hers was more +the analytical mind of the philosopher than the creative mind of the +poet; and it was, for that reason, the one mind in our day capable of +estimating him fully both with justice and mercy. No person in England +had a more intense sensibility to genius, in its loftier acceptation, +than Lady Byron; and none more completely sympathised with what was +pure and exalted in her husband's writings.</p> + +<p>There is this peculiarity in Lord Byron, that the pure and the impure +in his poetry often run side by side without mixing,—as one may see +at Geneva the muddy stream of the Arve and the blue waters of the +Rhone flowing together unmingled. What, for example, can be nobler, +and in a higher and tenderer moral strain than his lines on the dying +gladiator, in 'Childe Harold'? What is more like the vigour of the old +Hebrew Scriptures than his thunderstorm in the Alps? What can more +perfectly express moral ideality of the highest kind than the exquisite +descriptions of Aurora Raby,—pure and high in thought and language, +occurring, as they do, in a work full of the most utter vileness?</p> + +<p>Lady Byron's hopes for her husband fastened themselves on all the noble +fragments yet remaining in that shattered temple of his mind which lay +blackened and thunder-riven; and she looked forward to a sphere beyond +this earth, where infinite mercy should bring all again to symmetry and +order. If the strict theo<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_266" id="Page_266">[Pg 266]</a></span>logian must regret this as an undue latitude +of charity, let it at least he remembered that it was a charity which +sprang from a Christian virtue, and which she extended to every human +being, however lost, however low. In her view, the mercy which took +<i>him</i> was mercy that could restore all.</p> + +<p>In my recollections of the interview with Lady Byron, when this whole +history was presented, I can remember that it was with a softened and +saddened feeling that I contemplated the story, as one looks on some +awful, inexplicable ruin.</p> + +<p>The last letter which I addressed to Lady Byron upon this subject will +show that such was the impression of the whole interview. It was in +reply to the one written on the death of my son:—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="author"> + +'Jan. 30, 1858. +</p> + +<p>'<span class="smcap">My dear Friend</span>,—I <i>did</i> long to hear from you at a time +when few knew how to speak, because I knew that <i>you</i> had known +everything that sorrow can teach,—you, whose whole life has been a +crucifixion, a long ordeal.</p> + +<p>'But I believe that the Lamb, who stands for ever "in the midst of the +throne, as it had been slain," has everywhere His followers,—those +who seem sent into the world, as He was, to suffer for the redemption +of others; and, like Him, they must look to the joy set before +them,—of redeeming others.</p> + +<p>'I often think that God called you to this beautiful and terrible +ministry when He suffered you to link your destiny with one so +strangely gifted and so fearfully tempted. Perhaps the reward that is +to meet you when you enter within the veil where you must so soon pass +will be to see <i>that</i> spirit, once chained and defiled, set free and +purified; and to know that to you it has been given, by your life of +love and faith, to accomplish this glorious change.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_267" id="Page_267">[Pg 267]</a></span></p> + +<p>'I think increasingly on the subject on which you conversed with me +once,—the future state of retribution. It is evident to me that the +spirit of Christianity has produced in the human spirit a tenderness +of love which wholly revolts from the old doctrine on this subject; +and I observe, that, the more Christ-like anyone becomes, the more +difficult it seems for them to accept it as hitherto presented. And +yet, on the contrary, it was <i>Christ</i> who said, "Fear Him that is +able to destroy both soul and body in hell;" and the most appalling +language is that of Christ himself.</p> + +<p>'Certain ideas, once prevalent, certainly must be thrown off. An +endless <i>infliction</i> for past sins was once the doctrine: <i>that</i> we +now generally reject. The doctrine now generally taught is, that an +eternal persistence in evil necessitates everlasting suffering, since +evil induces misery by the eternal nature of things; and this, I fear, +is inferable from the analogies of Nature, and confirmed by the whole +implication of the Bible.</p> + +<p>'What attention have you given to this subject? and is there any fair +way of disposing of the current of assertion, and the still deeper +<i>under</i>-current of implication, on this subject, without admitting +one which loosens all faith in revelation, and throws us on pure +naturalism? But of one thing I always feel sure: probation does not +end with this present life; and the number of the saved may therefore +be infinitely greater than the world's history leads us to suppose.</p> + +<p>'I think the Bible implies a great crisis, a struggle, an agony, in +which God and Christ and all the good are engaged in redeeming from +sin; and we are not to suppose that the little portion that is done +for souls as they pass between the two doors of birth and death is all.</p> + +<p>'The Bible is certainly silent there. The primitive Church believed in +the mercies of an intermediate state; and it was only the abuse of it +by Romanism that drove the Church into its present position, which, +I think, is wholly indefensible, and wholly irreconcilable with the +spirit of Christ. For if it were the case, that probation in all cases +begins and ends here, God's example would surely be one that could not +be followed, and He would<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_268" id="Page_268">[Pg 268]</a></span> seem to be far less persevering than even +human beings in efforts to save.</p> + +<p>'Nothing is plainer than that it would be wrong to give up any mind to +eternal sin till every possible thing had been done for its recovery; +and that is so clearly <i>not</i> the case here, that I can see that, with +thoughtful minds, this belief would cut the very roots of religious +faith in God: for there is a difference between facts that we do not +understand, and facts which we <i>do</i> understand, and perceive to be +wholly irreconcilable with a certain character professed by God.</p> + +<p>'If God says He is love, and certain ways of explaining Scripture +make Him <i>less</i> loving and patient than man, then we make Scripture +contradict itself. Now, as no passage of Scripture limits probation to +this life, and as one passage in Peter certainly unequivocally asserts +that Christ preached to the spirits in prison while His body lay in +the grave, I am clear upon this point.</p> + +<p>'But it is also clear, that if there be those who persist in refusing +God's love, who choose to dash themselves for ever against the +inflexible laws of the universe, such souls must for ever suffer.</p> + +<p>'There may be souls who hate purity because it reveals their vileness; +who refuse God's love, and prefer eternal conflict with it. For such +there can be no peace. Even in this life, we see those whom the purest +self-devoting love only inflames to madness; and we have only to +suppose an eternal persistence in this to suppose eternal misery.</p> + +<p>'But on this subject we can only leave all reverently in the hands +of that Being whose almighty power is "declared chiefly in showing +mercy."'</p></div> + +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_269" id="Page_269">[Pg 269]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_VIII" id="CHAPTER_VIII">CHAPTER VIII.</a></h2> + +<p class="ph4">CONCLUSION.</p> + + +<p>In leaving this subject, I have an appeal to make to the men, and more +especially to the women, who have been my readers.</p> + +<p>In justice to Lady Byron, it must be remembered that this publication +of her story is not her act, but mine. I trust you have already +conceded, that, in so severe and peculiar a trial, she had a right to +be understood fully by her immediate circle of friends, and to seek +of them counsel in view of the moral questions to which such very +exceptional circumstances must have given rise. Her communication to me +was not an address to the public: it was a statement of the case for +advice. True, by leaving the whole, unguarded by pledge or promise, it +left discretionary power with me to use it if needful.</p> + +<p>You, my sisters, are to judge whether the accusation laid against Lady +Byron by the 'Blackwood,' in 1869, was not of so barbarous a nature as +to justify my producing the truth I held in my hands in reply.</p> + +<p>The 'Blackwood' claimed a right to re-open the subject because it was +<i>not</i> a private but a public matter.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_270" id="Page_270">[Pg 270]</a></span> It claimed that Lord Byron's +unfortunate marriage might have changed not only his own destiny, but +that of all England. It suggested, that, but for this, instead of +wearing out his life in vice, and corrupting society by impure poetry, +he might, at this day, have been leading the counsels of the State, and +helping the onward movements of the world. Then it directly charged +Lady Byron with meanly forsaking her husband in a time of worldly +misfortune; with fabricating a destructive accusation of crime against +him, and confirming this accusation by years of persistent silence more +guilty than open assertion.</p> + +<p>It has been alleged, that, even admitting that Lady Byron's story were +true, it never ought to have been told.</p> + +<p>Is it true, then, that a woman has not the same right to individual +justice that a man has? If the cases were reversed, would it have been +thought just that Lord Byron should go down in history loaded with +accusations of crime because he could be only vindicated by exposing +the crime of his wife?</p> + +<p>It has been said that the crime charged on Lady Byron was comparatively +unimportant, and the one against Lord Byron was deadly.</p> + +<p>But the 'Blackwood,' in opening the controversy, called Lady Byron by +the name of an unnatural female criminal, whose singular atrocities +alone entitle her to infamous notoriety; and the crime charged upon her +was sufficient to warrant the comparison.</p> + +<p>Both crimes are foul, unnatural, horrible; and there<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_271" id="Page_271">[Pg 271]</a></span> is no middle +ground between the admission of the one or the other.</p> + +<p>You must either conclude that a woman, all whose other works, words, +and deeds were generous, just, and gentle, committed this one monstrous +exceptional crime, without a motive, and against all the analogies of +her character, and all the analogies of her treatment of others; or you +must suppose that a man known by all testimony to have been boundlessly +licentious, who took the very course which, by every physiological law, +would have led to unnatural results, did, at last, commit an unnatural +crime.</p> + +<p>The question, whether I did right, when Lady Byron was thus held up as +an abandoned criminal by the 'Blackwood,' to interpose my knowledge +of the real truth in her defence, is a serious one; but it is one for +which I must account to God alone, and in which, without any contempt +of the opinions of my fellow-creatures, I must say, that it is a small +thing to be judged of man's judgment.</p> + +<p>I had in the case a responsibility very different from that of many +others. I had been consulted in relation to the publication of this +story by Lady Byron, at a time when she had it in her power to have +exhibited it with all its proofs, and commanded an instant conviction. +I have reason to think that my advice had some weight in suppressing +that disclosure. I gave that advice under the impression that the Byron +controversy was a thing for ever passed, and never likely to return.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_272" id="Page_272">[Pg 272]</a></span></p> + +<p>It had never occurred to me, that, nine years after Lady Byron's death, +a standard English periodical would declare itself free to re-open this +controversy, when all the generation who were her witnesses had passed +from earth; and that it would re-open it in the most savage form of +accusation, and with the indorsement and commendation of a hook of the +vilest slanders, edited by Lord Byron's mistress.</p> + +<p>Let the reader mark the retributions of justice. The accusations of the +'Blackwood,' in 1869, were simply an intensified form of those first +concocted by Lord Byron in his 'Clytemnestra' poem of 1816. He forged +that weapon, and bequeathed it to his party. The 'Blackwood' took it +up, gave it a sharper edge, and drove it to the heart of Lady Byron's +fame. The result has been the disclosure of this history. It is, +then, Lord Byron himself, who, by his network of wiles, his ceaseless +persecutions of his wife, his efforts to extend his partisanship beyond +the grave, has brought on this tumultuous exposure. He, and he alone, +is the cause of this revelation.</p> + +<p>And now I have one word to say to those in England who, with all the +facts and documents in their hands which could at once have cleared +Lady Byron's fame, allowed the barbarous assault of the 'Blackwood' +to go over the civilised world without a reply. I speak to those who, +knowing that I am speaking the truth, stand silent; to those who have +now the ability to produce the facts and documents by which this cause +might be instantly settled, and who do not produce them.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_273" id="Page_273">[Pg 273]</a></span></p> + +<p>I do not judge them; but I remind them that a day is coming when they +and I must stand side by side at the great judgment-seat,—I to give an +account for my speaking, they for their silence.</p> + +<p>In that day, all earthly considerations will have vanished like morning +mists, and truth or falsehood, justice or injustice, will be the only +realities.</p> + +<p>In that day, God, who will judge the secrets of all men, will judge +between this man and this woman. Then, if never before, the full truth +shall be told both of the depraved and dissolute man who made it his +life's object to defame the innocent, and the silent, the self-denying +woman who made it her life's object to give space for repentance to the +guilty.</p> + +<hr class="chap" /> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_274" id="Page_274">[Pg 274]</a></span></p> + + + + +<h2><a name="PART_III" id="PART_III">PART III.</a></h2> + +<p class="ph3">MISCELLANEOUS DOCUMENTS.</p> + +<p class="ph4">THE TRUE STORY OF LADY BYRON'S LIFE,</p> + +<p class="ph4">AS ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED IN 'THE ATLANTIC MONTHLY.'</p> + + +<p>The reading world of America has lately been presented with a book +which is said to sell rapidly, and which appears to meet with universal +favour.</p> + +<p>The subject of the book may be thus briefly stated: The mistress of +Lord Byron comes before the world for the sake of vindicating his fame +from slanders and aspersions cast on him by his wife. The story of the +mistress <i>versus</i> wife may be summed up as follows:—</p> + +<p>Lord Byron, the hero of the story, is represented as a human being +endowed with every natural charm, gift, and grace, who, by the one +false step of an unsuitable marriage, wrecked his whole life. A +narrow-minded, cold-hearted precisian, without sufficient intellect to +comprehend his genius, or heart to feel for his temptations, formed +with him one of those mere worldly marriages common in high life; and, +finding that she could not reduce him to the mathematical proprieties +and conventional rules of her own mode of life, suddenly, and without +warning, abandoned him in the most cruel and inexplicable manner.</p> + +<p>It is alleged that she parted from him in apparent affection and +good-humour, wrote him a playful, confiding letter upon the way, but, +after reaching her father's house, suddenly, and without explanation, +announced to him that she would never see him again; that this sudden +abandonment drew down upon him a perfect storm of scandalous stories, +which his wife never contradicted; that she never in any way or shape +stated what the exact reasons for her departure had been, and thus<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_275" id="Page_275">[Pg 275]</a></span> +silently gave scope to all the malice of thousands of enemies. The +sensitive victim was actually driven from England, his home broken up, +and be doomed to be a lonely wanderer on foreign shores.</p> + +<p>In Italy, under bluer skies, and among a gentler people, with more +tolerant modes of judgment, the authoress intimates that he found +peace and consolation. A lovely young Italian countess falls in love +with him, and, breaking her family ties for his sake, devotes herself +to him; and, in blissful retirement with her, he finds at last that +domestic life for which he was so fitted.</p> + +<p>Soothed, calmed, and refreshed, he writes 'Don Juan,' which the world +is at this late hour informed was a poem with a high moral purpose, +designed to be a practical illustration of the doctrine of total +depravity among young gentlemen in high life.</p> + +<p>Under the elevating influence of love, he rises at last to higher +realms of moral excellence, and resolves to devote the rest of his life +to some noble and heroic purpose; becomes the saviour of Greece; and +dies untimely, leaving a nation to mourn his loss.</p> + +<p>The authoress dwells with a peculiar bitterness on Lady Byron's entire +<i>silence</i> during all these years, as the most aggravated form of +persecution and injury. She informs the world that Lord Byron wrote his +Autobiography with the purpose of giving a fair statement of the exact +truth in the whole matter; and that Lady Byron bought up the manuscript +of the publisher, and insisted on its being destroyed, unread; thus +inflexibly depriving her husband of his last chance of a hearing before +the tribunal of the public.</p> + +<p>As a result of this silent persistent cruelty on the part of a cold, +correct, narrow-minded woman, the character of Lord Byron has been +misunderstood, and his name transmitted to after-ages clouded with +aspersions and accusations which it is the object of this book to +remove.</p> + +<hr class="tb" /> + +<p>Such is the story of Lord Byron's mistress,—a story which is going +the length of this American continent, and rousing up new sympathy +with the poet, and doing its best to bring the youth of America once +more under the power of that brilliant, seductive genius, from which +it was hoped they had escaped. Already we are seeing it revamped in +magazine-articles, which take up the slanders of the paramour and +enlarge on them, and wax eloquent in denunciation of the marble-hearted +insensible wife.</p> + +<p>All this while, it does not appear to occur to the thousands of +unreflecting readers that they are listening merely to the story of +Lord Byron's mistress, and of Lord Byron; and that, even by their own<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_276" id="Page_276">[Pg 276]</a></span> +showing, their heaviest accusation against Lady Byron is that <i>she has +not spoken at all</i>. Her story has never been told.</p> + +<p>For many years after the rupture between Lord Byron and his wife, that +poet's personality, fate, and happiness had an interest for the whole +civilized world, which, we will venture to say, was unparalleled. It +is within the writer's recollection, how, in the obscure mountain-town +where she spent her early days, Lord Byron's separation from his wife +was, for a season, the all-engrossing topic.</p> + +<p>She remembers hearing her father recount at the breakfast-table the +facts as they were given in the public papers, together with his own +suppositions and theories of the causes.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron's 'Fare thee well,' addressed to Lady Byron, was set to +music, and sung with tears by young school-girls, even in this distant +America.</p> + +<p>Madame de Staël said of this appeal, that she was sure it would have +drawn her at once to his heart and his arms; <i>she</i> could have forgiven +everything: and so said all the young ladies all over the world, not +only in England but in France and Germany, wherever Byron's poetry +appeared in translation.</p> + +<p>Lady Byron's obdurate cold-heartedness in refusing even to listen to +his prayers, or to have any intercourse with him which might lead to +reconciliation, was the one point conceded on all sides.</p> + +<p>The stricter moralists defended her; but gentler hearts throughout all +the world regarded her as a marble-hearted monster of correctness and +morality, a personification of the law unmitigated by the gospel.</p> + +<p>Literature in its highest walks busied itself with Lady Byron. Hogg, +in the character of the Ettrick Shepherd, devotes several eloquent +passages to expatiating on the conjugal fidelity of a poor Highland +shepherd's wife, who, by patience and prayer and forgiveness, succeeds +in reclaiming her drunken husband, and making a good man of him; and +then points his moral by contrasting with this touching picture the +cold-hearted pharisaical correctness of Lady Byron.</p> + +<p>Moore, in his 'Life of Lord Byron,' when beginning the recital of the +series of disgraceful amours which formed the staple of his life in +Venice, has this passage:—</p> + +<p>'Highly censurable in point of morality and decorum as was his course +of life while under the roof of Madame ——, it was (with pain I am +forced to confess) venial in comparison with the strange, headlong +career of licence to which, when weaned from that connection, he so +unrestrainedly, and, it may be added, defyingly abandoned himself. Of +the state of his mind on leaving England, I have already endeavoured<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_277" id="Page_277">[Pg 277]</a></span> +to convey some idea; and among the feelings that went to make up that +self-centred spirit of resistance which he then opposed to his fate was +an indignant scorn for his own countrymen for the wrongs he thought +they had done him. For a time, <i>the kindly sentiments which he still +harboured toward Lady Byron, and a sort of vague hope, perhaps, that +all would yet come right again</i>, kept his mind in a mood somewhat +more softened and docile, as well as sufficiently under the influence +of English opinions to prevent his breaking out into open rebellion +against it, as he unluckily did afterward.</p> + +<p>'<i>By the failure of the attempted mediation with Lady Byron</i>, his +last link with home was severed: while, notwithstanding the quiet and +unobtrusive life which he led at Geneva, there was as yet, he found, +no cessation of the slanderous warfare against his character; the same +busy and misrepresenting spirit which had tracked his every step at +home, having, with no less malicious watchfulness, dogged him into +exile.'</p> + +<p>We should like to know what the misrepresentations and slanders +must have been, when this sort of thing is admitted in Mr. Moore's +<i>justification</i>. It seems to us rather wonderful how anybody, unless it +were a person like the Countess Guiccioli, could misrepresent a life +such as even Byron's friend admits he was leading.</p> + +<p>During all these years, when he was setting at defiance every principle +of morality and decorum, the interest of the female mind all over +Europe in the conversion of this brilliant prodigal son was unceasing, +and reflects the greatest credit upon the faith of the sex.</p> + +<p>Madame de Staël commenced the first effort at evangelization +immediately after he left England, and found her catechumen in a most +edifying state of humility. He was, metaphorically, on his knees in +penitence, and confessed himself a miserable sinner in the loveliest +manner possible. Such sweetness and humility took all hearts. His +conversations with Madame de Staël were printed, and circulated all +over the world; making it to appear that only the inflexibility of Lady +Byron stood in the way of his entire conversion.</p> + +<p>Lady Blessington, among many others, took him in hand five or six years +afterwards, and was greatly delighted with his docility, and edified by +his frank and free confessions of his miserable offences. Nothing now +seemed wanting to bring the wanderer home to the fold but a kind word +from Lady Byron. But, when the fair countess offered to mediate, the +poet only shook his head in tragic despair; 'he had so many times tried +in vain; Lady Byron's course had been from the first that of obdurate +silence.'</p> + +<p>Any one who would wish to see a specimen of the skill of the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_278" id="Page_278">[Pg 278]</a></span> +honourable poet in mystification will do well to read a letter to Lady +Byron, which Lord Byron, on parting from Lady Blessington, enclosed for +her to read just before he went to Greece. He says,—</p> + +<p>'The letter which I enclose <i>I was prevented from sending by my despair +of its doing any good</i>. I was perfectly sincere when I wrote it, and +am so still. But it is difficult for me to withstand the thousand +provocations on that subject which both friends and foes have for seven +years been throwing in the way of a man whose feelings were once quick, +and whose temper was never patient.'</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p class="center">'<span class="smcap">TO LADY BYRON, CARE OF THE HON. MRS. LEIGH, LONDON</span></p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">Pisa</span>, <i>Nov.</i> 17, 1821. +</p> + +<p>'I have to acknowledge the receipt of "Ada's hair," which is very +soft and pretty, and nearly as dark already as mine was at twelve +years old, if I may judge from what I recollect of some in Augusta's +possession, taken at that age. But it didn't curl—perhaps from its +being let grow.</p> + +<p>'I also thank you for the inscription of the date and name; and I will +tell you why: I believe that they are the only two or three words +of your handwriting in my possession. For your letters I returned; +and except the two words, or rather the one word, "Household," +written twice in an old account book, I have no other. I burnt your +last note, for two reasons: firstly, it was written in a style not +very agreeable; and, secondly, I wished to take your word without +documents, which are the worldly resources of suspicious people.</p> + +<p>'I suppose that this note will reach you somewhere about Ada's +birthday—the 10th of December, I believe. She will then be six: +so that, in about twelve more, I shall have some chance of meeting +her; perhaps sooner, if I am obliged to go to England by business +or otherwise. Recollect, however, one thing, either in distance or +nearness—every day which keeps us asunder should, after so long a +period, rather soften our mutual feelings; which must always have one +rallying point as long as our child exists, which, I presume, we both +hope will be long after either of her parents.</p> + +<p>'The time which has elapsed since the separation has been considerably +more than the whole brief period of our union, and the not much longer +one of our prior acquaintance. We both made a bitter mistake; but +now it is over, and irrevocably so. For at thirty-three on my part, +and few years less on yours, though it is no very extended period of +life, still it is one when the habits and thought are<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_279" id="Page_279">[Pg 279]</a></span> generally so +formed as to admit of no modification; and, as we could not agree when +younger, we should with difficulty do so now.</p> + +<p>'I say all this, because I own to you, that notwithstanding +everything, I considered our reunion as not impossible for more than +a year after the separation; but then I gave up the hope entirely +and for ever. But this very impossibility of reunion seems to me +at least a reason why, on all the few points of discussion which +can arise between us, we should preserve the courtesies of life, +and as much of its kindness as people who are never to meet may +preserve,—perhaps more easily than nearer connections. For my own +part, I am violent, but not malignant; for only fresh provocations can +awaken my resentments. To you, who are colder and more concentrated, +I would just hint, that you may sometimes mistake the depth of a cold +anger for dignity, and a worse feeling for duty. I assure you that +I bear you <i>now</i> (whatever I may have done) no resentment whatever. +Remember, that, <i>if you have injured me</i> in aught, this forgiveness +is something; and that, if I have <i>injured you</i>, it is something more +still, if it be true, as the moralists say, that the most offending +are the least forgiving.</p> + +<p>'Whether the offence has been solely on my side, or reciprocal, or on +yours chiefly, I have ceased to reflect upon any but two things; viz., +that you are the mother of my child, and that we shall never meet +again. I think, if you also consider the two corresponding points with +reference to myself, it will be better for all three.</p> + +<p class="center"> +'Yours ever,</p> +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">Noel Byron</span>.' +</p></div> + + +<p>The artless Thomas Moore introduces this letter in the 'Life,' with the +remark,—</p> + +<p>'There are few, I should think, of my readers, who will not agree with +me in pronouncing, that, if the author of the following letter had not +<i>right</i> on his side, he had at least most of those good feelings which +are found in general to accompany it.'</p> + +<p>The reader is requested to take notice of the important admission, that +<i>the letter was never sent to Lady Byron at all</i>. It was, in fact, +never <i>intended</i> for her, but was a nice little dramatic performance, +composed simply with the view of acting on the sympathies of Lady +Blessington and Byron's numerous female admirers; and the reader will +agree with us, we think, that, in this point of view, it was very +neatly done, and deserves immortality as a work of high art. For six +years he had been plunged into every kind of vice and excess, pleading +his shattered domestic joys, and his wife's obdurate heart, as the +apology and the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_280" id="Page_280">[Pg 280]</a></span> impelling cause; filling the air with his shrieks +and complaints concerning the slander which pursued him, while he +filled letters to his confidential correspondents with records of new +mistresses. During all these years, the silence of Lady Byron was +unbroken; though Lord Byron not only drew in private on the sympathies +of his female admirers, but employed his talents and position as an +author in holding her up to contempt and ridicule before thousands +of readers. We shall quote at length his side of the story, which he +published in the First Canto of 'Don Juan,' that the reader may see +how much reason he had for assuming the injured tone which he did in +the letter to Lady Byron quoted above. That letter never was sent to +her; and the unmanly and indecent caricature of her, and the indelicate +exposure of the whole story on his own side, which we are about to +quote, were the only communications that could have reached her +solitude.</p> + +<p>In the following verses, Lady Byron is represented as Donna Inez, and +Lord Byron as Don José; but the incidents and allusions were so very +pointed, that nobody for a moment doubted whose history the poet was +narrating.</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'His mother was a learned lady, famed<br /></span> +<span class="i2">For every branch of every science known<br /></span> +<span class="i0">In every Christian language ever named,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">With virtues equalled by her wit alone:<br /></span> +<span class="i0">She made the cleverest people quite ashamed;<br /></span> +<span class="i2">And even the good with inward envy groaned,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Finding themselves so very much exceeded<br /></span> +<span class="i0">In their own way by all the things that she did.<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<hr class="r5" /> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Save that her duty both to man and God<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Required this conduct; which seemed very odd.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">She kept a journal where his faults were noted,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">And opened certain trunks of books and letters,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">(All which might, if occasion served, be quoted);<br /></span> +<span class="i2">And then she had all Seville for abettors,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Besides her good old grandmother (who doted):<br /></span> +<span class="i2">The hearers of her case become repeaters,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Then advocates, inquisitors, and judges,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Some for amusement, others for old grudges.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">And then this best and meekest woman bore<br /></span> +<span class="i2">With such serenity her husband's woes!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Just as the Spartan ladies did of yore,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Who saw their spouses killed, and nobly chose<br /></span><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_281" id="Page_281">[Pg 281]</a></span> +<span class="i0">Never to say a word about them more.<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Calmly she heard each calumny that rose,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And saw <i>his</i> agonies with such sublimity,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">That all the world exclaimed, "What magnanimity!"'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>This is the longest and most elaborate version of his own story +that Byron ever published; but he busied himself with many others, +projecting at one time a Spanish romance, in which the same story is +related in the same transparent manner: but this he was dissuaded +from printing. The booksellers, however, made a good speculation in +publishing what they called his domestic poems; that is, poems bearing +more or less relation to this subject.</p> + +<p>Every person with whom he became acquainted with any degree of intimacy +was made familiar with his side of the story. Moore's Biography is +from first to last, in its representations, founded upon Byron's +communicativeness, and Lady Byron's silence; and the world at last +settled down to believing that the account so often repeated, and never +contradicted, must be substantially a true one.</p> + +<p>The true history of Lord and Lady Byron has long been perfectly +understood in many circles in England; but the facts were of a nature +that could not be made public. While there was a young daughter living +whose future might be prejudiced by its recital, and while there were +other persons on whom the disclosure of the real truth would have been +crushing as an avalanche, Lady Byron's only course was the perfect +silence in which she took refuge, and those sublime works of charity +and mercy to which she consecrated her blighted early life.</p> + +<p>But the time is now come when the truth may be told. All the actors +in the scene have disappeared from the stage of mortal existence, and +passed, let us have faith to hope, into a world where they would desire +to expiate their faults by a late publication of the truth.</p> + +<p>No person in England, we think, would as yet take the responsibility of +relating the true history which is to clear Lady Byron's memory; but, +by a singular concurrence of circumstances, all the facts of the case, +in the most undeniable and authentic form, were at one time placed in +the hands of the writer of this sketch, with authority to make such +use of them as she should judge best. Had this melancholy history been +allowed to sleep, no public use would have been made of them; but the +appearance of a popular attack on the character of Lady Byron calls for +a vindication, and the true story of her married life will therefore +now be related.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron has described in one of his letters the impression left<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_282" id="Page_282">[Pg 282]</a></span> +upon his mind by a young person whom he met one evening in society, +and who attracted his attention by the simplicity of her dress, and a +certain air of singular purity and calmness with which she surveyed the +scene around her.</p> + +<p>On inquiry, he was told that this young person was Miss Milbanke, an +only child, and one of the largest heiresses in England.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron was fond of idealising his experiences in poetry; and the +friends of Lady Byron had no difficulty in recognising the portrait of +Lady Byron, as she appeared at this time of her life, in his exquisite +description of Aurora Raby:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i16">'There was<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Indeed a certain fair and fairy one,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Of the best class, and better than her class,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Aurora Raby, a young star who shone<br /></span> +<span class="i2">O'er life, too sweet an image for such glass;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">A lovely being scarcely formed or moulded;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">A rose with all its sweetest leaves yet folded.<br /></span> +</div></div> + + +<hr class="r5" /> +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Early in years, and yet more infantine<br /></span> +<span class="i2">In figure, she had something of sublime<br /></span> +<span class="i0">In eyes which sadly shone as seraphs' shine;<br /></span> +<span class="i2">All youth, but with an aspect beyond time;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Radiant and grave, as pitying man's decline;<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Mournful, but mournful of another's crime,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">She looked as if she sat by Eden's door,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And grieved for those who could return no more.<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<hr class="r5" /> +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">She gazed upon a world she scarcely knew,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">As seeking not to know it; silent, lone,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">As grows a flower, thus quietly she grew,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">And kept her heart serene within its zone.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">There was awe in the homage which she drew;<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Her spirit seemed as seated on a throne,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Apart from the surrounding world, and strong<br /></span> +<span class="i0">In its own strength,—most strange in one so young!'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>Some idea of the course which their acquaintance took, and of the +manner in which he was piqued into thinking of her, is given in a +stanza or two:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'The dashing and proud air of Adeline<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Imposed not upon her: she saw her blaze<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Much as she would have seen a glowworm shine;<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Then turned unto the stars for loftier rays.<br /></span><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_283" id="Page_283">[Pg 283]</a></span> +<span class="i0">Juan was something she could not divine,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Being no sibyl in the new world's ways;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Yet she was nothing dazzled by the meteor,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Because she did not pin her faith on feature.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">His fame too (for he had that kind of fame<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Which sometimes plays the deuce with womankind,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">A heterogeneous mass of glorious blame,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Half virtues and whole vices being combined;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Faults which attract because they are not tame;<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Follies tricked out so brightly that they blind),—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">These seals upon her wax made no impression,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Such was her coldness or her self-possession.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Aurora sat with that indifference<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Which piques a <i>preux</i> chevalier,—as it ought.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Of all offences, that's the worst offence<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Which seems to hint you are not worth a thought.<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<hr class="r5" /> +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">To his gay nothings, nothing was replied,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Or something which was nothing, as urbanity<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Required. Aurora scarcely looked aside,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Nor even smiled enough for any vanity.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The Devil was in the girl! Could it be pride,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Or modesty, or absence, or inanity?<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<hr class="r5" /> +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Juan was drawn thus into some attentions,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Slight but select, and just enough to express,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">To females of perspicuous comprehensions,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">That he would rather make them more than less.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Aurora at the last (so history mentions,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Though probably much less a fact than guess)<br /></span> +<span class="i0">So far relaxed her thoughts from their sweet prison<br /></span> +<span class="i0">As once or twice to smile, if not to listen.<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<hr class="r5" /> +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">But Juan had a sort of winning way,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">A proud humility, if such there be,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Which showed such deference to what females say,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">As if each charming word were a decree.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">His tact, too, tempered him from grave to gay,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">And taught him when to be reserved or free.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">He had the art of drawing people out,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Without their seeing what he was about.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Aurora, who in her indifference,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Confounded him in common with the crowd<br /></span><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_284" id="Page_284">[Pg 284]</a></span> +<span class="i0">Of flatterers, though she deemed he had more sense<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Than whispering foplings or than witlings loud,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Commenced (from such slight things will great commence)<br /></span> +<span class="i2">To feel that flattery which attracts the proud,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Rather by deference than compliment,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And wins even by a delicate dissent.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">And then he had good looks: that point was carried<br /></span> +<span class="i2"><i>Nem. con.</i> amongst the women.<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<hr class="r5" /> +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i2">Now, though we know of old that looks deceive,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And always have done, somehow these good looks,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Make more impression than the best of books.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Aurora, who looked more on books than faces,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Was very young, although so very sage:<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Admiring more Minerva than the Graces,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Especially upon a printed page.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">But Virtue's self, with all her tightest laces,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Has not the natural stays of strict old age;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And Socrates, that model of all duty,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Owned to a penchant, though discreet for beauty.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>The presence of this high-minded, thoughtful, unworldly woman is +described through two cantos of the wild, rattling 'Don Juan,' in a +manner that shows how deeply the poet was capable of being affected by +such an appeal to his higher nature.</p> + +<p>For instance, when Don Juan sits silent and thoughtful amid a circle of +persons who are talking scandal, the poet says,—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">''Tis true, he saw Aurora look as though<br /></span> +<span class="i2">She approved his silence: she perhaps mistook<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Its motive for that charity we owe,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">But seldom pay, the absent.<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<hr class="r5" /> +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">He gained esteem where it was worth the most;<br /></span> +<span class="i2">And certainly Aurora had renewed<br /></span> +<span class="i0">In him some feelings he had lately lost<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Or hardened,—feelings which, perhaps ideal,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Are so divine that I must deem them real:—<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">The love of higher things and better days;<br /></span> +<span class="i2">The unbounded hope and heavenly ignorance<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Of what is called the world and the world's ways;<br /></span> +<span class="i2">The moments when we gather from a glance<br /></span><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_285" id="Page_285">[Pg 285]</a></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">More joy than from all future pride or praise,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Which kindled manhood, but can ne'er entrance<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The heart in an existence of its own<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Of which another's bosom is the zone.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">And full of sentiments sublime as billows<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Heaving between this world and worlds beyond,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Don Juan, when the midnight hour of pillows<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Arrived, retired to his.'...<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>In all these descriptions of a spiritual unworldly nature acting on +the spiritual and unworldly part of his own nature, every one who ever +knew Lady Byron intimately must have recognised the model from which +he drew, and the experience from which he spoke, even though nothing +was further from his mind than to pay this tribute to the woman he had +injured, and though before these lines, which showed how truly he knew +her real character, had come one stanza of ribald, vulgar caricature, +designed as a slight to her:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'There was Miss Millpond, smooth as summer's sea<br /></span> +<span class="i2">That usual paragon, an only daughter,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Who seemed the cream of equanimity<br /></span> +<span class="i2">'Till skimmed; and then there was some milk and water;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">With a slight shade of blue, too, it might be,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Beneath the surface: but what did it matter?<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Love's riotous; but marriage should have quiet,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And, being consumptive, live on a milk diet.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>The result of Byron's intimacy with Miss Milbanke and the enkindling +of his nobler feelings was an offer of marriage, which she, though +at the time deeply interested in him, declined with many expressions +of friendship and interest. In fact, she already loved him, but had +that doubt of her power to be to him all that a wife should be which +would be likely to arise in a mind so sensitively constituted and so +unworldly. They, however, continued a correspondence as friends; on her +part, the interest continually increased; on his, the transient rise of +better feelings was choked and overgrown by the thorns of base unworthy +passions.</p> + +<p>From the height at which he might have been happy as the husband of a +noble woman, he fell into the depths of a secret adulterous intrigue +with a blood relation, so near in consanguinity, that discovery must +have been utter ruin and expulsion from civilised society.</p> + +<p>From henceforth, this damning guilty secret became the ruling force<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_286" id="Page_286">[Pg 286]</a></span> in +his life; holding him with a morbid fascination, yet filling him with +remorse and anguish, and insane dread of detection. Two years after his +refusal by Miss Milbanke, his various friends, seeing that for some +cause he was wretched, pressed marriage upon him.</p> + +<p>Marriage has often been represented as the proper goal and terminus +of a wild and dissipated career; and it has been supposed to be the +appointed mission of good women to receive wandering prodigals, with +all the rags and disgraces of their old life upon them, and put rings +on their hands, and shoes on their feet, and introduce them, clothed +and in their right minds, to an honourable career in society.</p> + +<p>Marriage was, therefore, universally recommended to Lord Byron by his +numerous friends and well-wishers; and so he determined to marry, and, +in an hour of reckless desperation, sat down and wrote proposals to two +ladies. One was declined: the other, which was accepted, was to Miss +Milbanke. The world knows well that he had the gift of expression, and +will not be surprised that he wrote a very beautiful letter, and that +the woman who had already learned to love him fell at once into the +snare.</p> + +<p>Her answer was a frank, outspoken avowal of her love for him, giving +herself to him heart and hand. The good in Lord Byron was not so +utterly obliterated that he could receive such a letter without +emotion, or practise such unfairness on a loving, trusting heart +without pangs of remorse. He had sent the letter in mere recklessness; +he had not seriously expected to be accepted; and the discovery of the +treasure of affection which he had secured was like a vision of lost +heaven to a soul in hell.</p> + +<p>But, nevertheless, in his letters written about the engagement, +there are sufficient evidences that his self-love was flattered at +the preference accorded him by so superior a woman, and one who had +been so much sought. He mentions with an air of complacency that +she has employed the last two years in refusing five or six of his +acquaintance; that he had no idea she loved him, admitting that it was +an old attachment on his part. He dwells on her virtues with a sort +of pride of ownership. There is a sort of childish levity about the +frankness of these letters, very characteristic of the man who skimmed +over the deepest abysses with the lightest jests. Before the world, and +to his intimates, he was acting the part of the successful <i>fiancé</i>, +conscious all the while of the deadly secret that lay cold at the +bottom of his heart.</p> + +<p>When he went to visit Miss Milbanke's parents as her accepted lover +she was struck with his manner and appearance: she saw him moody and +gloomy, evidently wrestling with dark and desperate thoughts, and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_287" id="Page_287">[Pg 287]</a></span> +anything but what a happy and accepted lover should be. She sought an +interview with him alone, and told him that she had observed that he +was not happy in the engagement; and magnanimously added, that, if on +review, he found he had been mistaken in the nature of his feelings, +she would immediately release him, and they should remain only friends.</p> + +<p>Overcome with the conflict of his feelings, Lord Byron fainted away. +Miss Milbanke was convinced that his heart must really be deeply +involved in an attachment with reference to which he showed such +strength of emotion, and she spoke no more of a dissolution of the +engagement.</p> + +<p>There is no reason to doubt that Byron was, as he relates in his +'Dream,' profoundly agonized and agitated when he stood before God's +altar with the trusting young creature whom he was leading to a fate so +awfully tragic; yet it was not the memory of Mary Chaworth, but another +guiltier and more damning memory, that overshadowed that hour.</p> + +<p>The moment the carriage-doors were shut upon the bridegroom and the +bride, the paroxysm of remorse and despair—unrepentant remorse and +angry despair—broke forth upon her gentle head:—</p> + +<p>'You might have saved me from this, madam! You had all in your own +power when I offered myself to you first. Then you might have made +me what you pleased; but now you will find that you have married a +<i>devil</i>!'</p> + +<p>In Miss Martineau's Sketches, recently published, is an account of the +termination of this wedding-journey, which brought them to one of Lady +Byron's ancestral country seats, where they were to spend the honeymoon.</p> + +<p>Miss Martineau says,—</p> + +<p>'At the altar she did not know that she was a sacrifice; but before +sunset of that winter day she knew it, if a judgment may be formed from +her face, and attitude of despair, when she alighted from the carriage +on the afternoon of her marriage-day. It was not the traces of tears +which won the sympathy of the old butler who stood at the open door. +The bridegroom jumped out of the carriage and walked away. The bride +alighted, and came up the steps alone, with a countenance and frame +agonized and listless with evident horror and despair. The old servant +longed to offer his arm to the young, lonely creature, as an assurance +of sympathy and protection. From this shock she certainly rallied, +and soon. The pecuniary difficulties of her new home were exactly +what a devoted spirit like hers was fitted to encounter. Her husband +bore testimony, after the catastrophe, that a brighter<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_288" id="Page_288">[Pg 288]</a></span> being, a more +sympathising and agreeable companion, never blessed any man's home. +When he afterwards called her cold and mathematical, and over-pious, +and so forth, it was when public opinion had gone against him, and +when he had discovered that her fidelity and mercy, her silence and +magnanimity, might be relied on, so that he was at full liberty to make +his part good, as far as she was concerned.</p> + +<p>'Silent she was even to her own parents, whose feelings she +magnanimously spared. She did not act rashly in leaving him, though she +had been most rash in marrying him.'</p> + +<p>Not all at once did the full knowledge of the dreadful reality into +which she had entered come upon the young wife. She knew vaguely, from +the wild avowals of the first hours of their marriage, that there was +a dreadful secret of guilt; that Byron's soul was torn with agonies of +remorse, and that he had no love to give to her in return for a love +which was ready to do and dare all for him. Yet bravely she addressed +herself to the task of soothing and pleasing and calming the man whom +she had taken 'for better or for worse.'</p> + +<p>Young and gifted; with a peculiar air of refined and spiritual beauty; +graceful in every movement; possessed of exquisite taste; a perfect +companion to his mind in all the higher walks of literary culture; and +with that infinite pliability to all his varying, capricious moods +which true love alone can give; bearing in her hand a princely fortune, +which, with a woman's uncalculating generosity, was thrown at his +feet,—there is no wonder that she might feel for a while as if she +could enter the lists with the very Devil himself, and fight with a +woman's weapons for the heart of her husband.</p> + +<p>There are indications scattered through the letters of Lord Byron, +which, though brief indeed, showed that his young wife was making every +effort to accommodate herself to him, and to give him a cheerful home. +One of the poems that he sends to his publisher about this time, he +speaks of as being copied by her. He had always the highest regard for +her literary judgments and opinions; and this little incident shows +that she was already associating herself in a wifely fashion with his +aims as an author.</p> + +<p>The poem copied by her, however, has a sad meaning, which she +afterwards learned to understand only too well:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'There's not a joy the world can give like that it takes away<br /></span> +<span class="i0">When the glow of early thought declines in feeling's dull decay:<br /></span> +<span class="i0">'Tis not on youth's smooth cheek the blush alone that fades so fast;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">But the tender bloom of heart is gone e'er youth itself be past.<br /></span><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_289" id="Page_289">[Pg 289]</a></span> +<span class="i0">Then the few whose spirits float above the wreck of happiness<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Are driven o'er the shoals of guilt, or ocean of excess:<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The magnet of their course is gone, or only points in vain<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The shore to which their shivered sail shall never stretch again.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>Only a few days before she left him for ever, Lord Byron sent Murray +manuscripts, in Lady Byron's handwriting, of the 'Siege of Corinth,' +and 'Parisina,' and wrote,—</p> + + +<p>'I am very glad that the handwriting was a favourable omen of the +<i>morale</i> of the piece: but you must not trust to that; for my copyist +would write out anything I desired, in all the ignorance of innocence.'</p> + +<p>There were lucid intervals in which Lord Byron felt the charm of his +wife's mind, and the strength of her powers. 'Bell, you could be a poet +too, if you only thought so,' he would say. There were summer-hours in +her stormy life, the memory of which never left her, when Byron was as +gentle and tender as he was beautiful; when he seemed to be possessed +by a good angel: and then for a little time all the ideal possibilities +of his nature stood revealed.</p> + +<p>The most dreadful men to live with are those who thus alternate between +angel and devil. The buds of hope and love called out by a day or two +of sunshine are frozen again and again, till the tree is killed.</p> + +<p>But there came an hour of revelation,—an hour when, in a manner +which left no kind of room for doubt, Lady Byron saw the full depth +of the abyss of infamy which her marriage was expected to cover, and +understood that she was expected to be the cloak and the accomplice of +this infamy.</p> + +<p>Many women would have been utterly crushed by such a disclosure; some +would have fled from him immediately, and exposed and denounced the +crime. Lady Byron did neither. When all the hope of womanhood died out +of her heart, there arose within her, stronger, purer, and brighter, +that immortal kind of love such as God feels for the sinner,—the love +of which Jesus spoke, and which holds the one wanderer of more account +than the ninety and nine that went not astray. She would neither leave +her husband nor betray him, nor yet would she for one moment justify +his sin; and hence came two years of convulsive struggle, in which +sometimes, for a while, the good angel seemed to gain ground, and then +the evil one returned with sevenfold vehemence.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron argued his case with himself and with her with all the +sophistries of his powerful mind. He repudiated Christianity as +authority; asserted the right of every human being to follow out what +he called 'the impulses of nature.' Subsequently he introduced into one +of his dramas the reasoning by which he justified himself in incest.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_290" id="Page_290">[Pg 290]</a></span></p> + +<p>In the drama of 'Cain,' Adah, the sister and the wife of Cain, thus +addresses him:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i10">'Cain, walk not with this spirit.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Bear with what we have borne, and love me: I<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Love thee.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0"><i>Lucifer.</i> More than thy mother and thy sire?<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0"><i>Adah.</i> I do. Is that a sin, too?<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0"><i>Lucifer.</i> No, not yet:<br /></span> +<span class="i0">It one day will be in your children.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0"><i>Adah.</i> What!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Must not my daughter love her brother Enoch?<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0"><i>Lucifer.</i> Not as thou lovest Cain.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0"><i>Adah.</i> O my God!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Shall they not love, and bring forth things that love<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Out of their love? Have they not drawn their milk<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Out of this bosom? Was not he, their father,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Born of the same sole womb, in the same hour<br /></span> +<span class="i0">With me? Did we not love each other, and,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">In multiplying our being, multiply<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Things which will love each other as we love<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Them? And as I love thee, my Cain, go not<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Forth with this spirit: he is not of ours.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0"><i>Lucifer.</i> The sin I speak of is not of my making<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And cannot be a sin in you, whate'er<br /></span> +<span class="i0">It seems in those who will replace ye in<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Mortality.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0"><i>Adah.</i> What is the sin which is not<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Sin in itself? Can circumstance make sin<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Of virtue? If it doth, we are the slaves<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Of'—<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>Lady Byron, though slight and almost infantine in her bodily presence, +had the soul, not only of an angelic woman, but of a strong reasoning +man. It was the writer's lot to know her at a period when she formed +the personal acquaintance of many of the very first minds of England; +but, among all with whom this experience brought her in connection, +there was none who impressed her so strongly as Lady Byron. There was +an almost supernatural power of moral divination, a grasp of the very +highest and most comprehensive things, that made her lightest opinions +singularly impressive. No doubt, this result was wrought out in a great +degree from the anguish and conflict of these two years, when, with no +one to help or counsel her but Almighty God, she wrestled and struggled +with fiends of darkness for the redemption of her husband's soul.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_291" id="Page_291">[Pg 291]</a></span></p> + +<p>She followed him through all his sophistical reasonings with a keener +reason. She besought and implored, in the name of his better nature, +and by all the glorious things that he was capable of being and doing; +and she had just power enough to convulse and shake and agonise, but +not power enough to subdue.</p> + +<p>One of the first of living writers, in the novel of 'Romola,' has +given, in her masterly sketch of the character of Tito, the whole +history of the conflict of a woman like Lady Byron with a nature like +that of her husband. She has described a being full of fascinations +and sweetnesses, full of generosities and of good-natured impulses; a +nature that could not bear to give pain, or to see it in others, but +entirely destitute of any firm moral principle; she shows how such a +being, merely by yielding step by step to the impulses of passion, +and disregarding the claims of truth and right, becomes involved in a +fatality of evil, in which deceit, crime, and cruelty are a necessity, +forcing him to persist in the basest ingratitude to the father who has +done all for him, and hard-hearted treachery to the high-minded wife +who has given herself to him wholly.</p> + +<p>There are few scenes in literature more fearfully tragic than the one +between Romola and Tito, when he finally discovers that she knows him +fully, and can be deceived by him no more. Some such hour always must +come for strong decided natures irrevocably pledged—one to the service +of good, and the other to the slavery of evil. The demoniac cried out, +'What have I to do with thee, Jesus of Nazareth? Art thou come to +torment me before the time?' The presence of all-pitying purity and +love was a torture to the soul possessed by the demon of evil.</p> + +<p>These two years in which Lady Byron was with all her soul struggling to +bring her husband back to his better self were a series of passionate +convulsions.</p> + +<p>During this time, such was the disordered and desperate state of his +worldly affairs, that there were ten executions for debt levied on +their family establishment; and it was Lady Byron's fortune each time +which settled the account.</p> + +<p>Toward the last, she and her husband saw less and less of each other; +and he came more and more decidedly under evil influences, and seemed +to acquire a sort of hatred of her.</p> + +<p>Lady Byron once said significantly to a friend who spoke of some +causeless dislike in another, 'My dear, I have known people to be hated +for no other reason than because they impersonated conscience.'</p> + +<p>The biographers of Lord Byron, and all his apologists, are careful to +narrate how sweet and amiable and obliging he was to everybody who<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_292" id="Page_292">[Pg 292]</a></span> +approached him; and the saying of Fletcher, his man-servant, that +'<i>anybody</i> could do anything with my Lord, except my Lady,' has often +been quoted.</p> + +<p>The reason of all this will now be evident. 'My Lady' was the only one, +fully understanding the deep and dreadful secrets of his life, who had +the courage resolutely and persistently and inflexibly to plant herself +in his way, and insist upon it, that, if he went to destruction, it +should be in spite of her best efforts.</p> + +<p>He had tried his strength with her fully. The first attempt had been +to make her an accomplice by sophistry; by destroying her faith in +Christianity, and confusing her sense of right and wrong, to bring her +into the ranks of those convenient women who regard the marriage-tie +only as a friendly alliance to cover licence on both sides.</p> + +<p>When her husband described to her the Continental latitude (the +good-humoured marriage, in which complaisant couples mutually agreed +to form the cloak for each other's infidelities), and gave her to +understand that in this way alone she could have a peaceful and +friendly life with him, she answered him simply, 'I am too truly your +friend to do this.'</p> + +<p>When Lord Byron found that he had to do with one who would not yield, +who knew him fully, who could not be blinded and could not be deceived, +he determined to rid himself of her altogether.</p> + +<p>It was when the state of affairs between herself and her husband seemed +darkest and most hopeless, that the only child of this union was +born. Lord Byron's treatment of his wife during the sensitive period +that preceded the birth of this child, and during her confinement, +was marked by paroxysms of unmanly brutality, for which the only +possible charity on her part was the supposition of insanity. Moore +sheds a significant light on this period, by telling us that, about +this time, Byron was often drunk, day after day, with Sheridan. There +had been insanity in the family; and this was the plea which Lady +Byron's love put in for him. She regarded him as, if not insane, at +least so nearly approaching the boundaries of insanity as to be a +subject of forbearance and tender pity; and she loved him with that +love resembling a mother's, which good wives often feel when they have +lost all faith in their husband's principles, and all hopes of their +affections. Still, she was in heart and soul his best friend; true to +him with a truth which he himself could not shake.</p> + +<p>In the verses addressed to his daughter, Lord Byron speaks of her as</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'The child of love, though born in bitterness,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And nurtured in convulsion.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>A day or two after the birth of this child, Lord Byron came sud<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_293" id="Page_293">[Pg 293]</a></span>denly +into Lady Byron's room, and told her that her mother was dead. It was +an utter falsehood; but it was only one of the many nameless injuries +and cruelties by which he expressed his hatred of her. A short time +after her confinement, she was informed by him, in a note, that, as +soon as she was able to travel, she must go; that he could not and +would not longer have her about him; and, when her child was only five +weeks old, he carried this threat of expulsion into effect.</p> + +<p>Here we will insert briefly Lady Byron's own account (the only one she +ever gave to the public) of this separation. The circumstances under +which this brief story was written are affecting.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron was dead. The whole account between him and her was closed +for ever in this world. Moore's life had been prepared, containing +simply and solely Lord Byron's own version of their story. Moore +sent this version to Lady Byron, and requested to know if she had +any remarks to make upon it. In reply, she sent a brief statement to +him,—the first and only one that had come from her during all the +years of the separation, and which appears to have mainly for its +object the exculpation of her father and mother from the charge, made +by the poet, of being the instigators of the separation.</p> + +<p>In this letter, she says, with regard to their separation,—</p> + +<p>'The facts are, I left London for Kirkby Mallory, the residence of my +father and mother, on the 15th of January, 1816. <span class="smcap">Lord Byron had +signified to me in writing, Jan. 6, his absolute desire that I should +leave London on the earliest day that I could conveniently fix.</span> It +was not safe for me to undertake the fatigue of a journey sooner than +the 15th. Previously to my departure, it had been strongly impressed +upon my mind that Lord Byron was under the influence of insanity. +This opinion was derived, in a great measure, from the communications +made me by his nearest relatives and personal attendant, who had more +opportunity than myself for observing him during the latter part of my +stay in town. It was even represented to me that he was in danger of +destroying himself.</p> + +<p>'<i>With the concurrence of his family</i>, I had consulted Dr. Baillie as a +friend (Jan. 8) respecting the supposed malady. On acquainting him with +the state of the case, and with Lord Byron's desire that I should leave +London, Dr. Baillie thought that my absence might be advisable as an +experiment, assuming the fact of mental derangement; for Dr. Baillie, +not having had access to Lord Byron, could not pronounce a positive +opinion on that point. He enjoined that, in correspondence with Lord +Byron, I should avoid all but light and soothing topics. Under these +impressions, I left London, determined to follow the advice given by +Dr. Baillie. Whatever might have been the conduct of Lord<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_294" id="Page_294">[Pg 294]</a></span> Byron toward +me from the time of my marriage, yet, supposing him to be in a state of +mental alienation, it was not for <i>me</i>, nor for any person of common +humanity, to manifest at that moment a sense of injury.'</p> + +<p>Nothing more than this letter from Lady Byron is necessary to +substantiate the fact, that she did not <i>leave</i> her husband, but <i>was +driven</i> from him,—driven from him that he might give himself up to +the guilty infatuation that was consuming him, without being tortured +by her imploring face, and by the silent power of her presence and her +prayers.</p> + +<p>For a long time before this, she had seen little of him. On the day +of her departure, she passed by the door of his room, and stopped to +caress his favourite spaniel, which was lying there; and she confessed +to a friend the weakness of feeling a willingness even to be something +as humble as that poor little creature, might she only be allowed to +remain and watch over him. She went into the room where he and the +partner of his sins were sitting together, and said, 'Byron, I come to +say good-bye,' offering, at the same time, her hand.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron put his hands behind him, retreated to the mantel-piece, +and, looking on the two that stood there, with a sarcastic smile said, +'When shall we three meet again?' Lady Byron answered, 'In heaven, I +trust.' And those were her last words to him on earth.</p> + +<p>Now, if the reader wishes to understand the real talents of Lord Byron +for deception and dissimulation, let him read, with this story in his +mind, the 'Fare thee well,' which he addressed to Lady Byron through +the printer:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'Fare thee well; and if for ever,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Still for ever fare thee well!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Even though unforgiving, never<br /></span> +<span class="i2">'Gainst thee shall my heart rebel.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Would that breast were bared before thee<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Where thy head so oft hath lain,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">While that placid sleep came o'er thee<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Thou canst never know again!<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Though my many faults defaced me,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Could no other arm be found<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Than the one which once embraced me<br /></span> +<span class="i2">To inflict a careless wound?'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>The re-action of society against him at the time of the separation from +his wife was something which he had not expected, and for which, it +appears, he was entirely unprepared. It broke up the guilty intrigue +and drove him from England. He had not courage to meet or endure it. +The world, to be sure, was very far from suspecting what the truth was: +but the tide was setting against him with such vehemence<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_295" id="Page_295">[Pg 295]</a></span> as to make +him tremble every hour lest the whole should be known; and henceforth, +it became a warfare of desperation to make his story good, no matter at +whose expense.</p> + +<p>He had tact enough to perceive at first that the assumption of the +pathetic and the magnanimous, and general confessions of faults, +accompanied with admissions of his wife's goodness, would be the best +policy in his case. In this mood, he thus writes to Moore:—</p> + +<p>'The fault was not in my choice (unless in choosing at all); for I do +not believe (and I must say it in the very dregs of all this bitter +business) that there ever was a better, or even a brighter, a kinder, +or a more amiable, agreeable being than Lady Byron. I never had, nor +can have, any reproach to make her while with me. Where there is blame, +it belongs to myself.'</p> + +<p>As there must be somewhere a scapegoat to bear the sin of the affair, +Lord Byron wrote a poem called 'A Sketch,' in which he lays the blame +of stirring up strife on a friend and former governess of Lady Byron's; +but in this sketch he introduces the following just eulogy on Lady +Byron:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i2">'Foiled was perversion by that youthful mind<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Which flattery fooled not, baseness could not blind,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Deceit infect not, near contagion soil,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Indulgence weaken, nor example spoil,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Nor mastered science tempt her to look down<br /></span> +<span class="i0">On humbler talents with a pitying frown,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Nor genius swell, nor beauty render vain,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Nor envy ruffle to retaliate pain,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Nor fortune change, pride raise, nor passion bow,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Nor virtue teach austerity,—till now;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Serenely purest of her sex that live,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">But wanting one sweet weakness,—to forgive;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Too shocked at faults her soul can never know,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">She deemed that all could be like her below:<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Foe to all vice, yet hardly Virtue's friend;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">For Virtue pardons those she would amend.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>In leaving England, Lord Byron first went to Switzerland, where he +conceived and in part wrote out the tragedy of 'Manfred.' Moore speaks +of his domestic misfortunes, and the sufferings which he underwent at +this time, as having influence in stimulating his genius, so that he +was enabled to write with a greater power.</p> + +<p>Anybody who reads the tragedy of 'Manfred' with this story in his mind +will see that it is true.</p> + +<p>The hero is represented as a gloomy misanthrope, dwelling with +im<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_296" id="Page_296">[Pg 296]</a></span>penitent remorse on the memory of an incestuous passion which has +been the destruction of his sister for this life and the life to come, +but which, to the very last gasp, he despairingly refuses to repent of, +even while he sees the fiends of darkness rising to take possession +of his departing soul. That Byron knew his own guilt well, and judged +himself severely, may be gathered from passages in this poem, which are +as powerful as human language can be made; for instance this part of +the 'incantation,' which Moore says was written at this time:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'Though thy slumber may be deep,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Yet thy spirit shall not sleep:<br /></span> +<span class="i0">There are shades which will not vanish;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">There are thoughts thou canst not banish.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">By a power to thee unknown,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Thou canst never be alone:<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Thou art wrapt as with a shroud;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Thou art gathered in a cloud;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And for ever shalt thou dwell<br /></span> +<span class="i0">In the spirit of this spell.<br /></span> +</div></div> + + + +<hr class="r5" /> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">From thy false tears I did distil<br /></span> +<span class="i0">An essence which had strength to kill;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">From thy own heart I then did wring<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The black blood in its blackest spring;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">From thy own smile I snatched the snake,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">For there it coiled as in a brake;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">From thy own lips I drew the charm<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Which gave all these their chiefest harm<br /></span> +<span class="i0">In proving every poison known,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">I found the strongest was thine own.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">By thy cold breast and serpent smile,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">By thy unfathomed gulfs of guile,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">By that most seeming virtuous eye,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">By thy shut soul's hypocrisy,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">By the perfection of thine art<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Which passed for human thine own heart,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">By thy delight in other's pain,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And by thy brotherhood of Cain,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">I call upon thee, and compel<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Thyself to be thy proper hell!'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>Again: he represents Manfred as saying to the old abbot, who seeks to +bring him to repentance,—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Old man, there is no power in holy men,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Nor charm in prayer, nor purifying form<br /></span><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_297" id="Page_297">[Pg 297]</a></span> +<span class="i0">Of penitence, nor outward look, nor fast,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Nor agony, nor greater than all these,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The innate tortures of that deep despair,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Which is remorse without the fear of hell,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">But, all in all sufficient to itself,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Would make a hell of heaven, can exorcise<br /></span> +<span class="i0">From out the unbounded spirit the quick sense<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Of its own sins, wrongs, sufferance, and revenge<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Upon itself: there is no future pang<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Can deal that justice on the self-condemned<br /></span> +<span class="i0">He deals on his own soul.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>And when the abbot tells him,</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i16">'All this is well;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">For this will pass away, and be succeeded<br /></span> +<span class="i0">By an auspicious hope, which shall look up<br /></span> +<span class="i0">With calm assurance to that blessed place<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Which all who seek may win, whatever be<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Their earthly errors,'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>He answers,</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i16">'It is too late.'</span></div></div> + +<p>Then the old abbot soliloquises:—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'This should have been a noble creature: he<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Hath all the energy which would have made<br /></span> +<span class="i0">A goodly frame of glorious elements,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Had they been wisely mingled; as it is,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">It is an awful chaos,—light and darkness,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And mind and dust, and passions and pure thoughts,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Mixed, and contending without end or order.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + + +<p>The world can easily see, in Moore's Biography, what, after this, was +the course of Lord Byron's life; how he went from shame to shame, and +dishonour to dishonour, and used the fortune which his wife brought him +in the manner described in those private letters which his biographer +was left to print. Moore, indeed, says Byron had made the resolution +not to touch his lady's fortune; but adds, that it required more +self-command than he possessed to carry out so honourable a purpose.</p> + +<p>Lady Byron made but one condition with him. She had him in her power; +and she exacted that the unhappy partner of his sins should not follow +him out of England, and that the ruinous intrigue should be given +up. Her inflexibility on this point kept up that enmity which was +constantly expressing itself in some publication or other, and which +drew her and her private relations with him before the public.</p> + +<p>The story of what Lady Byron did with the portion of her fortune which +was reserved to her is a record of noble and skilfully administered +charities.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_298" id="Page_298">[Pg 298]</a></span> Pitiful and wise and strong, there was no form of human +suffering or sorrow that did not find with her refuge and help. She +gave not only systematically, but also impulsively.</p> + +<p>Miss Martineau claims for her the honour of having first invented +practical schools, in which the children of the poor were turned +into agriculturists, artizans, seamstresses, and good wives for poor +men. While she managed with admirable skill and economy permanent +institutions of this sort, she was always ready to relieve suffering +in any form. The fugitive slaves William and Ellen Crafts, escaping to +England, were fostered by her protecting care.</p> + +<p>In many cases where there was distress or anxiety from poverty among +those too self-respecting to make their sufferings known, the delicate +hand of Lady Byron ministered to the want with a consideration which +spared the most refined feelings.</p> + +<p>As a mother, her course was embarrassed by peculiar trials. The +daughter inherited from the father not only brilliant talents, but a +restlessness and morbid sensibility which might be too surely traced +to the storms and agitations of the period in which she was born. It +was necessary to bring her up in ignorance of the true history of +her mother's life; and the consequence was that she could not fully +understand that mother.</p> + +<p>During her early girlhood, her career was a source of more anxiety than +of comfort. She married a man of fashion, ran a brilliant course as a +gay woman of fashion, and died early of a lingering and painful disease.</p> + +<p>In the silence and shaded retirement of the sick-room, the daughter +came wholly back to her mother's arms and heart; and it was on that +mother's bosom that she leaned as she went down into the dark valley. +It was that mother who placed her weak and dying hand in that of her +Almighty Saviour.</p> + +<p>To the children left by her daughter, she ministered with the +faithfulness of a guardian angel; and it is owing to her influence that +those who yet remain are among the best and noblest of mankind.</p> + +<p>The person whose relations with Byron had been so disastrous, also, in +the latter years of her life, felt Lady Byron's loving and ennobling +influences, and, in her last sickness and dying hours, looked to her +for consolation and help.</p> + +<p>There was an unfortunate child of sin, born with the curse upon +her, over whose wayward nature Lady Byron watched with a mother's +tenderness. She was the one who could have patience when the patience +of every one else failed; and though her task was a difficult one, from +the strange abnormal propensities to evil in the object of her cares, +yet Lady Byron never faltered, and never gave over, till death took the +responsibility from her hands.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_299" id="Page_299">[Pg 299]</a></span></p> + +<p>During all this trial, strange to say, her belief that the good in Lord +Byron would finally conquer was unshaken.</p> + +<p>To a friend who said to her, 'Oh! how could you love him?' she answered +briefly, 'My dear, there was the angel in him.' It is in us all.</p> + +<p>It was in this angel that she had faith. It was for the deliverance +of this angel from degradation and shame and sin that she unceasingly +prayed. She read every work that Byron wrote—read it with a deeper +knowledge than any human being but herself could possess. The ribaldry +and the obscenity and the insults with which he strove to make her +ridiculous in the world fell at her pitying feet unheeded.</p> + +<p>When he broke away from all this unworthy life to devote himself to a +manly enterprise for the redemption of Greece, she thought that she saw +the beginning of an answer to her prayers. Even although one of his +latest acts concerning her was to repeat to Lady Blessington the false +accusation which made Lady Byron the author of all his errors, she +still had hopes from the one step taken in the right direction.</p> + +<p>In the midst of these hopes came the news of his sudden death. On his +death-bed, it is well-known that he called his confidential English +servant to him, and said to him, 'Go to my sister; tell her—Go to Lady +Byron,—you will see her,—and say'—</p> + +<p>Here followed twenty minutes of indistinct mutterings, in which the +names of his wife, daughter, and sister, frequently occurred. He then +said, 'Now I have told you all.'</p> + +<p>'My lord,' replied Fletcher, 'I have not understood a word your +lordship has been saying.'</p> + +<p>'Not understand me!' exclaimed Lord Byron with a look of the utmost +distress: 'what a pity! Then it is too late,—all is over!' He +afterwards, says Moore, tried to utter a few words, of which none were +intelligible except 'My sister—my child.'</p> + +<p>When Fletcher returned to London, Lady Byron sent for him, and walked +the room in convulsive struggles to repress her tears and sobs, while +she over and over again strove to elicit something from him which +should enlighten her upon what that last message had been; but in vain: +the gates of eternity were shut in her face, and not a word had passed +to tell her if he had repented.</p> + +<p>For all that, Lady Byron never doubted his salvation. Ever before her, +during the few remaining years of her widowhood, was the image of her +husband, purified and ennobled, with the shadows of earth for ever +dissipated, the stains of sin for ever removed; 'the angel in him,' as +she expressed it, 'made perfect, according to its divine ideal.'</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_300" id="Page_300">[Pg 300]</a></span></p> +<p>Never has more divine strength of faith and love existed in woman. +Out of the depths of her own loving and merciful nature, she gained +such views of the divine love and mercy as made all hopes possible. +There was no soul of whose future Lady Byron despaired,—such was her +boundless faith in the redeeming power of love.</p> + +<p>After Byron's death, the life of this delicate creature—so frail in +body that she seemed always hovering on the brink of the eternal world, +yet so strong in spirit, and so unceasing in her various ministries of +mercy—was a miracle of mingled weakness and strength.</p> + +<p>To talk with her seemed to the writer of this sketch the nearest +possible approach to talking with one of the spirits of the just made +perfect.</p> + +<p>She was gentle, artless; approachable as a little child; with ready, +outflowing sympathy for the cares and sorrows and interests of all who +approached her; with a <i>naïve</i> and gentle playfulness, that adorned, +without hiding, the breadth and strength of her mind; and, above all, +with a clear, divining, moral discrimination; never mistaking wrong +for right in the slightest shade, yet with a mercifulness that made +allowance for every weakness, and pitied every sin.</p> + +<p>There was so much of Christ in her, that to have seen her seemed to be +to have drawn near to heaven. She was one of those few whom absence +cannot estrange from friends; whose mere presence in this world seems +always a help to every generous thought, a strength to every good +purpose, a comfort in every sorrow.</p> + +<p>Living so near the confines of the spiritual world, she seemed already +to see into it: hence the words of comfort which she addressed to a +friend who had lost a son:—</p> + +<p>'Dear friend, remember, as long as our loved ones are in <i>God's</i> world, +they are in <i>ours</i>.'</p> + +<hr class="tb" /> + +<p>It has been thought by some friends who have read the proof-sheets +of the foregoing that the author should give more specifically her +authority for these statements.</p> + +<p>The circumstances which led the writer to England at a certain time +originated a friendship and correspondence with Lady Byron, which was +always regarded as one of the greatest acquisitions of that visit.</p> + +<p>On the occasion of a second visit to England, in 1856, the writer +received a note from Lady Byron, indicating that she wished to have +some private, confidential conversation upon important subjects, +and inviting her, for that purpose, to spend a day with her at her +country-seat near London.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_301" id="Page_301">[Pg 301]</a></span></p> +<p>The writer went and spent a day with Lady Byron alone; and the object +of the invitation was explained to her. Lady Byron was in such a state +of health, that her physicians had warned her that she had very little +time to live. She was engaged in those duties and retrospections which +every thoughtful person finds necessary, when coming deliberately, and +with open eyes, to the boundaries of this mortal life.</p> + +<p>At that time, there was a cheap edition of Byron's works in +contemplation, intended to bring his writings into circulation among +the masses; and the pathos arising from the story of his domestic +misfortunes was one great means relied on for giving it currency.</p> + +<p>Under these circumstances, some of Lady Byron's friends had proposed +the question to her, <i>whether she had not a responsibility to society +for the truth</i>; whether <i>she did right</i> to allow these writings to gain +influence over the popular mind by giving a silent consent to what she +knew to be utter falsehoods.</p> + +<p>Lady Byron's whole life had been passed in the most heroic +self-abnegation and self-sacrifice: and she had now to consider whether +one more act of self-denial was not required of her before leaving this +world; namely, to declare the absolute truth, no matter at what expense +to her own feelings.</p> + +<p>For this reason, it was her desire to recount the whole history to a +person of another country, and entirely out of the sphere of personal +and local feelings which might be supposed to influence those in the +country and station in life where the events really happened, in order +that she might be helped by such a person's views in making up an +opinion as to her own duty.</p> + +<p>The interview had almost the solemnity of a death-bed avowal. Lady +Byron stated the facts which have been embodied in this article, and +gave to the writer a paper containing a brief memorandum of the whole, +with the dates affixed.</p> + +<p>We have already spoken of that singular sense of the reality of the +spiritual world which seemed to encompass Lady Byron during the last +part of her life, and which made her words and actions seem more like +those of a blessed being detached from earth than of an ordinary +mortal. All her modes of looking at things, all her motives of action, +all her involuntary exhibitions of emotion, were so high above any +common level, and so entirely regulated by the most unworldly causes, +that it would seem difficult to make the ordinary world understand +exactly how the thing seemed to lie before her mind. What impressed +the writer more strongly than anything else was Lady Byron's perfect +conviction that her husband was now a redeemed spirit; that he looked +back with pain and shame and regret on all that was unworthy in his +past life; and that, if he could speak or could act in the case,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_302" id="Page_302">[Pg 302]</a></span> he +would desire to prevent the further circulation of base falsehoods, +and of seductive poetry, which had been made the vehicle of morbid and +unworthy passions.</p> + +<p>Lady Byron's experience had led her to apply the powers of her strong +philosophical mind to the study of mental pathology: and she had become +satisfied that the solution of the painful problem which first occurred +to her as a young wife, was, after all, the true one; namely, that +Lord Byron had been one of those unfortunately constituted persons in +whom the balance of nature is so critically hung, that it is always in +danger of dipping towards insanity; and that, in certain periods of his +life, he was so far under the influence of mental disorder as not to be +fully responsible for his actions.</p> + +<p>She went over with a brief and clear analysis the history of his +whole life as she had thought it out during the lonely musings of her +widowhood. She dwelt on the ancestral causes that gave him a nature +of exceptional and dangerous susceptibility. She went through the +mismanagements of his childhood, the history of his school-days, the +influence of the ordinary school-course of classical reading on such +a mind as his. She sketched boldly and clearly the internal life of +the young men of the time, as she, with her purer eyes, had looked +through it; and showed how habits, which, with less susceptible fibre, +and coarser strength of nature, were tolerable for his companions, +were deadly to him, unhinging his nervous system, and intensifying the +dangers of ancestral proclivities. Lady Byron expressed the feeling +too, that the Calvinistic theology, as heard in Scotland, had proved +in his case, as it often does in certain minds, a subtle poison. He +never could either disbelieve or become reconciled to it; and the sore +problems it proposes embittered his spirit against Christianity.</p> + +<p>'The worst of it is, I <i>do believe</i>,' he would often say with violence, +when he had been employing all his powers of reason, wit, and ridicule +upon these subjects.</p> + +<p>Through all this sorrowful history was to be seen, not the care of a +slandered woman to make her story good, but the pathetic anxiety of +a mother, who treasures every particle of hope, every intimation of +good, in the son whom she cannot cease to love. With indescribable +resignation, she dwelt on those last hours, those words addressed to +her, never to be understood till repeated in eternity.</p> + +<p>But all this she looked upon as for ever past; believing, that, with +the dropping of the earthly life, these morbid impulses and influences +ceased, and that higher nature which he often so beautifully expressed +in his poems became the triumphant one.</p> + +<p>While speaking on this subject, her pale ethereal face became luminous +with a heavenly radiance; there was something so sublime in her belief +in the victory of love over evil, that faith with her seemed to have +become sight. She seemed so clearly to perceive the divine ideal of<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_303" id="Page_303">[Pg 303]</a></span> +the man she had loved, and for whose salvation she had been called to +suffer and labour and pray, that all memories of his past unworthiness +fell away, and were lost.</p> + +<p>Her love was never the doting fondness of weak women; it was the +appreciative and discriminating love by which a higher nature +recognised god-like capabilities under all the dust and defilement +of misuse and passion: and she never doubted that the love which in +her was so strong, that no injury or insult could shake it, was yet +stronger in the God who made her capable of such a devotion, and that +in him it was accompanied by power to subdue all things to itself.</p> + +<p>The writer was so impressed and excited by the whole scene and recital, +that she begged for two or three days to deliberate before forming any +opinion. She took the memorandum with her, returned to London, and gave +a day or two to the consideration of the subject. The decision which +she made was chiefly influenced by her reverence and affection for Lady +Byron. She seemed so frail, she had suffered so much, she stood at +such a height above the comprehension of the coarse and common world, +that the author had a feeling that it would almost be like violating a +shrine to ask her to come forth from the sanctuary of a silence where +she had so long abode, and plead her cause. She wrote to Lady Byron, +that while this act of justice did seem to be called for, and to be in +some respects most desirable, yet, as it would involve so much that was +painful to her, the writer considered that Lady Byron would be entirely +justifiable in leaving the truth to be disclosed after her death; and +recommended that all the facts necessary should be put in the hands of +some person, to be so published.</p> + +<p>Years passed on. Lady Byron lingered four years after this interview to +the wonder of her physicians and all her friends.</p> + +<p>After Lady Byron's death, the writer looked anxiously, hoping to see a +Memoir of the person whom she considered the most remarkable woman that +England has produced in the century. No such Memoir has appeared on the +part of her friends; and the mistress of Lord Byron has the ear of the +public, and is sowing far and wide unworthy slanders, which are eagerly +gathered up and read by an undiscriminating community.</p> + +<p>There may be family reasons in England which prevent Lady Byron's +friends from speaking. But Lady Byron has an American name and an +American existence; and reverence for pure womanhood is, we think, a +national characteristic of the American; and, so far as this country is +concerned, we feel that the public should have this refutation of the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_304" id="Page_304">[Pg 304]</a></span> +slanders of the Countess Guiccioli's book.</p> + + +<p class="ph4">LORD LINDSAY'S LETTER TO THE LONDON 'TIMES.'</p> + +<p class="center">TO THE EDITOR OF 'THE TIMES.'</p> + +<p>Sir,—I have waited in expectation of a categorical denial of the +horrible charge brought by Mrs. Beecher Stowe against Lord Byron and +his sister on the alleged authority of the late Lady Byron. Such denial +has been only indirectly given by the letter of Messrs. Wharton and +Fords in your impression of yesterday. That letter is sufficient to +prove that Lady Byron never contemplated the use made of her name, and +that her descendants and representatives disclaim any countenance of +Mrs. B. Stowe's article; but it does not specifically meet Mrs. Stowe's +allegation, that Lady Byron, in conversing with her thirteen years ago, +affirmed the charge now before us. It remains open, therefore, to a +scandal-loving world, to credit the calumny through the advantage of +this flaw, involuntary, I believe, in the answer produced against it. +My object in addressing you is to supply that deficiency by proving +that what is now stated on Lady Byron's supposed authority is at +variance, in all respects, with what she stated immediately after the +separation, when everything was fresh in her memory in relation to +the time during which, according to Mrs. B. Stowe, she believed that +Byron and his sister were living together in guilt. I publish this +evidence with reluctance, but in obedience to that higher obligation +of justice to the voiceless and defenceless dead which bids me break +through a reserve that otherwise I should have held sacred. The Lady +Byron of 1818 would, I am certain, have sanctioned my doing so, had +she foreseen the present unparalleled occasion, and the bar that the +conditions of her will present (as I infer from Messrs. Wharton and +Fords' letter) against any fuller communication. Calumnies such as the +present sink deep and with rapidity into the public mind, and are not +easily eradicated. The fame of one of our greatest poets, and that +of the kindest and truest and most constant friend that Byron ever +had, is at stake; and it will not do to wait for revelations from the +fountain-head, which are not promised, and possibly may never reach us.</p> + +<p>The late Lady Anne Barnard, who died in 1825, a contemporary and friend +of Burke, Windham, Dundas, and a host of the wise and good of that +generation, and remembered in letters as the authoress of 'Auld Robin +Gray,' had known the late Lady Byron from infancy, and took a warm +interest in her; holding Lord Byron in corresponding repugnance, not +to say prejudice, in consequence of what she believed to be his harsh +and cruel treatment of her young friend. I transcribe the following +passages, and a letter from Lady Byron herself (written in 1818) from<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_305" id="Page_305">[Pg 305]</a></span> +<i>ricordi</i>, or private family memoirs, in Lady Anne's autograph, now +before me. I include the letter, because, although treating only in +general terms of the matter and causes of the separation, it affords +collateral evidence bearing strictly upon the point of the credibility +of the charge now in question:—</p> + +<hr class="tb" /> + +<p>'The separation of Lord and Lady Byron astonished the world, which +believed him a reformed man as to his habits, and a becalmed man as to +his remorses. He had written nothing that appeared after his marriage +till the famous "Fare thee well," which had the power of compelling +those to pity the writer who were not well aware that he was not the +unhappy person he affected to be. Lady Byron's misery was whispered +soon after her marriage and his ill usage, but no word transpired, +no sign escaped, from her. She gave birth, shortly, to a daughter; +and when she went, as soon as she was recovered, on a visit to her +father's, taking her little Ada with her, no one knew that it was to +return to her lord no more. At that period, a severe fit of illness had +confined me to bed for two months. I heard of Lady Byron's distress; +of the pains he took to give a harsh impression of her character +to the world. I wrote to her, and entreated her to come and let me +see and hear her, if she conceived my sympathy or counsel could be +any comfort to her. She came; but what a tale was unfolded by this +interesting young creature, who had so fondly hoped to have made a +young man of genius and romance (as she supposed) happy! They had not +been an hour in the carriage which conveyed them from the church, when, +breaking into a malignant sneer, "Oh! what a dupe you have been to your +imagination! How is it possible a woman of your sense could form the +wild hope of reforming <i>me</i>? Many are the tears you will have to shed +ere that plan is accomplished. It is enough for me that you are my wife +for me to hate you! If you were the wife of any other man, I own you +might have charms," &c. I who listened was astonished. "How could you +go on after this," said I, "my dear? Why did you not return to your +father's?" "Because I had not a conception he was in earnest; because I +reckoned it a bad jest, and told him so,—that my opinions of him were +very different from his of himself, otherwise he would not find me by +his side. He laughed it over when he saw me appear hurt: and I forgot +what had passed, till forced to remember it. I believe he was pleased +with me, too, for a little while. I suppose it had escaped his memory +that I was his wife." But she described the happiness they enjoyed to +have been unequal and perturbed.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_306" id="Page_306">[Pg 306]</a></span> Her situation, in a short time, might +have entitled her to some tenderness; but she made no claim on him for +any. He sometimes reproached her for the motives that had induced her +to marry him: all was "vanity, the vanity of Miss Milbanke carrying the +point of reforming Lord Byron! He always knew <i>her</i> inducements; her +pride shut her eyes to <i>his</i>: <i>he</i> wished to build up his character +and his fortunes; both were somewhat deranged: she had a high name, +and would have a fortune worth his attention,—let her look to that +for his motives!"—"O Byron, Byron!" she said, "how you desolate me!" +He would then accuse himself of being mad, and throw himself on the +ground in a frenzy, which she believed was affected to conceal the +coldness and malignity of his heart,—an affectation which at that +time never failed to meet with the tenderest commiseration. I could +find by some implications, not followed up by me, lest she might have +condemned herself afterwards for her involuntary disclosures, that he +soon attempted to corrupt her principles, both with respect to her own +conduct and her latitude for his. She saw the precipice on which she +stood, and kept his sister with her as much as possible. He returned +in the evenings from the haunts of vice, where he made her understand +he had been, with manners so profligate! "O the wretch!" said I. "And +had he no moments of remorse?" "Sometimes he appeared to have them. +One night, coming home from one of his lawless parties, he saw me so +indignantly collected, and bearing all with such a determined calmness, +that a rush of remorse seemed to come over him. He called himself a +monster, though his sister was present, and threw himself in agony at +my feet. I could not—no—I could not forgive him such injuries. He +had lost me for ever! Astonished at the return of virtue, my tears, I +believe, flowed over his face, and I said, 'Byron, all is forgotten: +never, never shall you hear of it more!' He started up, and, folding +his arms while he looked at me, burst into laughter. 'What do you +mean?' said I. 'Only a philosophical experiment; that's all,' said +he. 'I wished to ascertain the value of your resolutions.'" I need +not say more of this prince of duplicity, except that varied were his +methods of rendering her wretched, even to the last. When her lovely +little child was born, and it was laid beside its mother on the bed, +and he was informed he might see his daughter, after gazing at it with +an exulting smile, this was the ejaculation that broke from him: "Oh, +what an implement of torture have I acquired in you!" Such he rendered +it by his eyes and manner, keeping her in a perpetual alarm for its +safety when in his presence. All this reads madder than I believe he +was: but she had not then made up her mind to disbelieve his pretended +insanity, and conceived it best to intrust her secret with the +excellent Dr. Baillie; telling him all that seemed to regard the state +of her husband's mind, and letting his advice regulate her conduct.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_307" id="Page_307">[Pg 307]</a></span> +Baillie doubted of his derangement; but, as he did not reckon his own +opinion infallible, he wished her to take precautions as if her husband +were so. He recommended her going to the country, but to give him no +suspicion of her intentions of remaining there, and, for a short time, +to show no coldness in her letters, till she could better ascertain his +state. She went, regretting, as she told me, to wear any semblance but +the truth. A short time disclosed the story to the world. He acted the +part of a man driven to despair by her inflexible resentment and by the +arts of a governess (once a servant in the family) who hated him. "I +will give you," proceeds Lady Anne, "a few paragraphs transcribed from +one of Lady Byron's own letters to me. It is sorrowful to think, that, +in a very little time, this young and amiable creature, wise, patient, +and feeling, will have her character mistaken by every one who reads +Byron's works. To rescue her from this, I preserved her letters; and, +when she afterwards expressed a fear that any thing of her writings +should ever fall into hands to injure him (I suppose she meant by +publication), I safely assured her that it never should. But here this +letter shall be placed, a sacred record in her favour, unknown to +herself":—</p> + +<div class="blockquote"> + +<p>'"I am a very incompetent judge of the impression which the last canto +of 'Childe Harold' may produce on the minds of indifferent readers. +It contains the usual trace of a conscience restlessly awake; though +his object has been too long to aggravate its burden, as if it could +thus be oppressed into eternal stupor. I will hope, as you do, that it +survives for his ultimate good. It was the acuteness of his remorse, +impenitent in its character, which so long seemed to demand from my +compassion to spare every resemblance of reproach, every look of +grief, which might have said to his conscience, 'You have made me<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_308" id="Page_308">[Pg 308]</a></span> + +wretched.' I am decidedly of opinion that he is responsible. He has +wished to be thought partially deranged, or on the brink of it, to +perplex observers, and prevent them from tracing effects to their +real causes through all the intricacies of his conduct. I was, as +I told you, at one time the dupe of his acted insanity, and clung +to the former delusions in regard to the motives that concerned me +personally, till the whole system was laid bare. He is the absolute +monarch of words, and uses them, as Bonaparte did lives, for conquest, +without more regard to their intrinsic value; considering them only +as ciphers, which must derive all their import from the situation in +which he places them, and the ends to which he adapts them with such +consummate skill. Why, then, you will say, does he not employ them to +give a better colour to his own character? Because he is too good an +actor to over-act, or to assume a moral garb which it would be easy +to strip off. In regard to his poetry, egotism is the vital principle +of his imagination, which it is difficult for him to kindle on any +subject with which his own character and interests are not identified: +but by the introduction of fictitious incidents, by change of scene +or time, he has enveloped his poetical disclosures in a system +impenetrable except to a very few; and his constant desire of creating +a sensation makes him not averse to be the object of wonder and +curiosity, even though accompanied by some dark and vague suspicions. +Nothing has contributed more to the misunderstanding of his real +character than the lonely grandeur in which he shrouds it, and his +affectation of being above mankind, when he exists almost in their +voice. The romance of his sentiments is another feature of this mask +of state. I know no one more habitually destitute of that enthusiasm +he so beautifully expresses, and to which he can work up his fancy +chiefly by contagion. I had heard he was the best of brothers, the +most generous of friends; and I thought such feelings only required to +be warmed and cherished into more diffusive benevolence. Though these +opinions are eradicated, and could never return but with the decay +of my memory, you will not wonder if there are still moments when +the association of feelings which arose from them soften and sadden +my thoughts. But I have not thanked you, dearest Lady Anne, for your +kindness in regard to a principal object,—that of rectifying false +impressions. I trust you understand my wishes, which never were to +injure Lord Byron in any way: for, though he would not suffer me to +remain his wife, he cannot prevent me from continuing his friend; and +it was from considering myself as such that I silenced the accusations +by which my own conduct might have been more fully justified. It is +not necessary to speak ill of his heart in general: it is sufficient +that to me it was hard and impenetrable; that my own must have been +broken before his could have been touched. I would rather represent +this as <i>my</i> misfortune than as <i>his</i> guilt; but surely that +misfortune is not to be made my crime! Such are my feelings: you will +judge how to act. His allusions to me in 'Childe Harold' are cruel +and cold, but with such a semblance as to make <i>me</i> appear so, and to +attract all sympathy to himself. It is said in this poem that hatred +of him will be taught as a lesson to his child. I might appeal to all +who have ever heard me speak of him, and still more to my own heart, +to witness that there has been no moment when I have remembered injury +otherwise than affectionately and sorrowfully. It is not my duty to +give way to hopeless and wholly unrequited affection; but, so long as +I live, my chief struggle will probably be not to remember him too +kindly. I do not seek the sympathy of the world; but I wish to be +known by those whose opinion is valuable, and whose kindness is dear +to me. Among such, my dear Lady Anne, you will ever be remembered by +your truly affectionate,</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_309" id="Page_309">[Pg 309]</a></span></p> + +<p class="author">'"<span class="smcap">A. Byron.</span>"'</p> +</div> + +<p>It is the province of your readers, and of the world at large, to +judge between the two testimonies now before them,—Lady Byron's in +1816 and 1818, and that put forward in 1869 by Mrs. B. Stowe, as +communicated by Lady Byron thirteen years ago. In the face of the +evidence now given, positive, negative, and circumstantial, there +can be but two alternatives in the case: either Mrs. B. Stowe must +have entirely misunderstood Lady Byron, and been thus led into error +and misstatement, or we must conclude that, under the pressure of a +lifelong and secret sorrow, Lady Byron's mind had become clouded with +an hallucination in respect of the particular point in question.</p> + +<p>Tho reader will admire the noble but severe character displayed +in Lady Byron's letter; but those who keep in view what her first +impressions were, as above recorded, may probably place a more lenient +interpretation than hers upon some of the incidents alleged to Byron's +discredit. I shall conclude with some remarks upon his character, +written shortly after his death by a wise, virtuous, and charitable +judge, the late Sir Walter Scott, likewise in a letter to Lady Anne +Barnard:—</p> + +<p>'Fletcher's account of poor Byron is extremely interesting. I +had always a strong attachment to that unfortunate though most +richly-gifted man, because I thought I saw that his virtues (and he had +many) were his own; and his eccentricities the result of an irritable +temperament, which sometimes approached nearly to mental disease. Those +who are gifted with strong nerves, a regular temper, and habitual +self-command, are not, perhaps, aware how much of what they may think +virtue they owe to constitution; and such are but too severe judges of +men like Byron, whose mind, like a day of alternate storm and sunshine, +is all dark shades and stray gleams of light, instead of the twilight +gray which illuminates happier though less distinguished mortals. I +always thought, that, when a moral proposition was placed plainly +before Lord Byron, his mind yielded a pleased and willing assent to +it; but, if there was any side view given in the way of raillery or +otherwise, he was willing enough to evade conviction.... It augurs +ill for the cause of Greece that this master-spirit should have been +withdrawn from their assistance just as he was obtaining a complete +ascendency over their counsels. I have seen several letters from the +Ionian Islands, all of which unite in speaking in the highest praise of +the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_310" id="Page_310">[Pg 310]</a></span> wisdom and temperance of his counsels, and the ascendency he was +obtaining over the turbulent and ferocious chiefs of the insurgents. I +have some verses written by him on his last birthday: they breathe a +spirit of affection towards his wife, and a desire of dying in battle, +which seems like an anticipation of his approaching fate.'</p> + +<p class="center"> +I remain, sir, your obedient servant, +</p> + +<p class="author"><span class="smcap">Lindsay</span>,</p> + + +<p class="p3"><span class="smcap">Dunecht</span>, Sept. 3. +</p> + + +<p class="ph4">DR. FORBES WINSLOW'S LETTER TO THE LONDON 'TIMES.'</p> + +<p class="center">TO THE EDITOR.</p> + +<p><span class="smcap">Sir</span>,—Your paper of the 4th of September, containing an able +and deeply interesting 'Vindication of Lord Byron,' has followed me +to this place. With the general details of the 'True Story' (as it is +termed) of Lady Byron's separation from her husband, as recorded in +'Macmillan's Magazine,' I have no desire or intention to grapple. It +is only with the hypothesis of insanity, as suggested by the clever +writer of the 'Vindication' to account for Lady Byron's sad revelations +to Mrs. Beecher Stowe, with which I propose to deal. I do not believe +that the mooted theory of mental aberration can, in this case, be for a +moment maintained. If Lady Byron's statement of facts to Mrs. B. Stowe +is to be viewed as the creation of a distempered fancy, a delusion or +hallucination of an insane mind, what part of the narrative are we to +draw the boundary-line between fact and delusion, sanity and insanity? +Where are we to fix the <i>point d'appui</i> of the lunacy? Again: is the +alleged 'hallucination' to be considered as strictly confined to the +idea that Lord Byron had committed the frightful sin of incest? or is +the whole of the 'True Story' of her married life, as reproduced with +such terrible minuteness by Mrs. Beecher Stowe, to be viewed as the +delusion of a disordered fancy? If Lady Byron was the subject of an +'hallucination' with regard to her husband, I think it not unreasonable +to conclude that the mental alienation existed on the day of her +marriage. If this proposition be accepted, the natural inference will +be, that the details of the conversation which Lady Byron represents to +have occurred between herself and Lord Byron as soon as they entered +the carriage never took place. Lord Byron is said to have remarked +to Lady Byron, 'You might have prevented this (or words to this +effect): you will now find that you have married a devil.' Is this +alleged conversation to be viewed as <i>fact</i>, or <i>fiction</i>? evidence of +<i>sanity</i>, or <i>insanity</i>? Is the revelation which Lord Byron is said to +have made to his wife of his 'incestuous passion' another delusion, +having no foundation except in his wife's<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_311" id="Page_311">[Pg 311]</a></span> disordered imagination? Are +his alleged attempts to justify to Lady Byron's mind the <i>morale</i> of +the plea of 'Continental latitude—the good-humoured marriage, in which +complaisant couples mutually agree to form the cloak for each other's +infidelities,'—another morbid perversion of her imagination? Did this +conversation ever take place? It will be difficult to separate one +part of the 'True Story' from another, and maintain that this portion +indicates insanity, and that portion represents sanity. If we accept +the hypothesis of hallucination, we are bound to view the whole of Lady +Byron's conversations with Mrs. B. Stowe, and the written statement +laid before her, as the wild and incoherent representations of a +lunatic. On the day when Lady Byron parted from her husband, did she +enter his private room, and find him with the 'object of his guilty +passion?' and did he say, as they parted, 'When shall we three meet +again?' Is this to be considered as an actual occurrence, or as another +form of hallucination? It is quite inconsistent with the theory of Lady +Byron's insanity to imagine that her delusion was restricted to the +idea of his having committed 'incest.' In common fairness, we are bound +to view the aggregate mental phenomena which she exhibited from the +day of the marriage to their final separation and her death. No person +practically acquainted with the true characteristics of insanity would +affirm, that, had this idea of 'incest' been an insane hallucination, +Lady Byron could, from the lengthened period which intervened between +her unhappy marriage and death, have refrained from exhibiting her +mental alienation, not only to her legal advisers and trustees, but to +others, exacting no pledge of secrecy from them as to her disordered +impressions. Lunatics do for a time, and for some special purpose, most +cunningly conceal their delusions; but they have not the capacity to +struggle for thirty-six years with a frightful hallucination, similar +to the one Lady Byron is alleged to have had, without the insane state +of mind becoming obvious to those with whom they are daily associating. +Neither is it consistent with experience to suppose that, if Lady Byron +had been a monomaniac, her state of disordered understanding would have +been restricted to one hallucination. Her diseased brain, affecting the +normal action of thought, would, in all probability, have manifested +other symptoms besides those referred to of aberration of intellect.</p> + +<p>During the last thirty years, I have not met with a case of insanity +(assuming the hypothesis of hallucination) at all parallel with that +of Lady Byron's. In my experience, it is unique. I never saw a patient +with such a delusion. If it should be established, by the statements of +those who are the depositors of the secret (and they are now bound, in +vindication of Lord Byron's memory, to deny, if they have the power of +doing so, this most frightful accusation), that the idea of incest did +un<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_312" id="Page_312">[Pg 312]</a></span>happily cross Lady Byron's mind prior to her finally leaving him, it +no doubt arose from a most inaccurate knowledge of facts and perfectly +unjustifiable data, and was not, in the right psychological acceptation +of the phrase, an insane hallucination.</p> + +<p class="center"> +Sir, I remain your obedient servant,</p> + +<p class="author"> +<span class="smcap">Forbes Winslow</span>, M.D. +</p> + +<p class="p3"><span class="smcap">Zaringerhof, Freiburg-en-Breisgau</span>, Sept. 8, 1869.</p> + + +<p class="ph4">EXTRACT FROM LORD BYRON'S EXPUNGED LETTER.</p> + +<p class="center">TO MR. MURRAY.</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">Bologna</span>, June 7, 1819. +</p> + +<p>... 'Before I left Venice, I had returned to you your late, and Mr. +Hobhouse's sheets of "Juan." Don't wait for further answers from +me, but address yours to Venice as usual. I know nothing of my own +movements. I may return there in a few days, or not for some time: +all this depends on circumstances. I left Mr. Hoppner very well. My +daughter Allegra is well too, and is growing pretty: her hair is +growing darker, and her eyes are blue. Her temper and her ways, Mr. +Hoppner says, are like mine, as well as her features: she will make, in +that case, a manageable young lady.</p> + +<p>'I have never seen anything of Ada, the little Electra of my Mycenæ.... +But there will come a day of reckoning, even if I should not live +to see it. I have at least seen —— shivered, who was one of my +assassins. When that man was doing his worst to uproot my whole +family,—tree, branch, and blossoms; when, after taking my retainer, +he went over to them; when he was bringing desolation on my hearth, +and destruction on my household gods,—did he think that, in less +than three years, a natural event, a severe domestic, but an expected +and common calamity, would lay his carcass in a cross-road, or stamp +his name in a verdict of lunacy? Did he (who in his sexagenary ...) +reflect or consider what my feelings must have been when wife and child +and sister, and name and fame and country, were to be my sacrifice on +his legal altar?—and this at a moment when my health was declining, +my fortune embarrassed, and my mind had been shaken by many kinds of +disappointment? while I was yet young, and might have reformed what +might be wrong in my conduct, and retrieved what was perplexing in +my affairs? But he is in his grave, and—What a long letter I have +scribbled!'...</p> + +<hr class="tb" /> + +<p>In order that the reader may measure the change of moral tone with +regard to Lord Byron, wrought by the constant efforts of himself and +his party, we give the two following extracts from 'Blackwood.'</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_313" id="Page_313">[Pg 313]</a></span></p> + +<p>The first is 'Blackwood' in 1819, just after the publication of 'Don +Juan': the second is 'Blackwood' in 1825.</p> + +<p>'In the composition of this work, there is, unquestionably, a more +thorough and intense infusion of genius and vice, power and profligacy, +than in any poem which had ever before been written in the English, +or, indeed, in any other modern language. Had the wickedness been less +inextricably mingled with the beauty and the grace and the strength of +a most inimitable and incomprehensible Muse, our task would have been +easy. 'Don Juan' is by far the most admirable specimen of the mixture +of ease, strength, gaiety, and seriousness, extant in the whole body +of English poetry: the author has devoted his powers to the worst of +purposes and passions; and it increases his guilt and our sorrow that +he has devoted them entire.</p> + +<p>'The moral strain of the whole poem is pitched in the lowest key. Love, +honour, patriotism, religion, are mentioned only to be scoffed at, as +if their sole resting-place were, or ought to be, in the bosoms of +fools. It appears, in short, as if this miserable man, having exhausted +every species of sensual gratification, having drained the cup of sin +even to its bitterest dregs, were resolved to show us that he is no +longer a human being, even in his frailties, but a cool, unconcerned +fiend, laughing with a detestable glee over the whole of the better and +worse elements of which human life is composed; treating well-nigh with +equal derision the most pure of virtues, and the most odious of vices; +dead alike to the beauty of the one, and the deformity of the other; +a mere heartless despiser of that frail but noble humanity, whose +type was never exhibited in a shape of more deplorable degradation +than in his own contemptuously distinct delineation of himself. To +confess to his Maker, and weep over in secret agonies the wildest and +most fantastic transgressions of heart and mind, is the part of a +conscious sinner, in whom sin has not become the sole principle of life +and action; but to lay bare to the eye of man and of <i>woman</i> all the +hidden convulsions of a wicked spirit, and to do all this without one +symptom of contrition, remorse, or hesitation, with a calm, careless +ferociousness of contented and satisfied depravity,—this was an insult +which no man of genius had ever before dared to put upon his Creator +or his species. Impiously railing against his God, madly and meanly +disloyal to his sovereign and his country, and brutally outraging all +the best feelings of female honor, affection, and confidence, how small +a part of chivalry is that which remains to the descendant of the +Byrons!—a gloomy visor and a deadly weapon!</p> + +<p>'Those who are acquainted (as who is not?) with the main incidents in +the private life of Lord Byron, and who have not seen this produc<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_314" id="Page_314">[Pg 314]</a></span>tion, +will scarcely believe that malignity should have carried him so far as +to make him commence a filthy and impious poem with an elaborate satire +on the character and manners of his wife, from whom, even by his own +confession, he has been separated only in consequence of his own cruel +and heartless misconduct. It is in vain for Lord Byron to attempt in +any way to justify his own behaviour in that affair; and, now that he +has so openly and audaciously invited inquiry and reproach, we do not +see any good reason why he should not be plainly told so by the general +voice of his countrymen. It would not be an easy matter to persuade +any man who has any knowledge of the nature of woman, that a female +such as Lord Byron has himself described his wife to be would rashly or +hastily or lightly separate herself from the love with which she had +once been inspired for such a man as he is or was. Had he not heaped +insult upon insult, and scorn upon scorn, had he not forced the iron +of his contempt into her very soul, there is no woman of delicacy and +virtue, as he <i>admitted</i> Lady Byron to be, who would not have hoped all +things, and suffered all things, from one, her love of whom must have +been inwoven with so many exalting elements of delicious pride, and +more delicious humility. To offend the love of such a woman was wrong, +but it might be forgiven; to desert her was unmanly, but he might have +returned, and wiped for ever from her eyes the tears of her desertion: +but to injure and to desert, and then to turn back and wound her +widowed privacy with unhallowed strains of cold-blooded mockery, was +brutally, fiendishly, inexpiably mean. For impurities there might be +some possibility of pardon, were they supposed to spring only from the +reckless buoyancy of young blood and fiery passions; for impiety there +might at least be pity, were it visible that the misery of the impious +soul equalled its darkness: but for offences such as this, which cannot +proceed either from the madness of sudden impulse or the bewildered +agonies of doubt, but which speak the wilful and determined spite of +an unrepenting, unsoftened, smiling, sarcastic, joyous sinner, there +can be neither pity nor pardon. Our knowledge that it is committed +by one of the most powerful intellects our island ever has produced +lends intensity a thousand-fold to the bitterness of our indignation. +Every high thought that was ever kindled in our breasts by the Muse of +Byron, every pure and lofty feeling that ever responded from within +us to the sweep of his majestic inspirations, every remembered moment +of admiration and enthusiasm, is up in arms against him. We look back +with a mixture of wrath and scorn to the delight with which we suffered +ourselves to be filled by one, who, all the while he was furnishing +us with delight, must, we cannot doubt it, have been mocking us with +a cruel mockery; less cruel only, because less peculiar,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_315" id="Page_315">[Pg 315]</a></span> than that +with which he has now turned him from the lurking-place of his selfish +and polluted exile to pour the pitiful chalice of his contumely on +the surrendered devotion of a virgin bosom, and the holy hopes of the +mother of his child. It is indeed a sad and a humiliating thing to +know, that in the same year, there proceeded from the same pen two +productions in all things so different as the fourth canto of "Childe +Harold" and his loathsome "Don Juan."</p> + +<p>'We have mentioned one, and, all will admit, the worst instance of the +private malignity which has been embodied in so many passages of "Don +Juan;" and we are quite sure the lofty-minded and virtuous <i>men</i> whom +Lord Byron has debased himself by insulting will close the volume which +contains their own injuries, with no feelings save those of pity for +him that has inflicted them, and for her who partakes so largely in the +same injuries.'—<i>August, 1819.</i></p> + + +<p class="ph4">'BLACKWOOD,'—<i>iterum</i>.</p> + +<p>'We shall, like all others who say anything about Lord Byron, begin, +<i>sans apologie</i>, with his personal character. This is the great object +of attack, the constant theme of open vituperation to one set, and the +established mark for all the petty but deadly artillery of sneers, +shrugs, groans, to another. Two widely different matters, however, +are generally, we might say universally, mixed up here,—the personal +character of the man, as proved by his course of life; and his personal +character, as revealed in or guessed from his books. Nothing can be +more unfair than the style in which this mixture is made use of. Is +there a noble sentiment, a lofty thought, a sublime conception, in +the book? "Ah, yes!" is the answer, "But what of that? It is only +the <i>roué</i> Byron that speaks!" Is a kind, a generous action of the +man mentioned? "Yes, yes!" comments the sage; "but only remember the +atrocities of 'Don Juan:' depend on it, this, if it be true, must have +been a mere freak of caprice, or perhaps a bit of vile hypocrisy." +Salvation is thus shut out at either entrance: the poet damns the man, +and the man the poet.</p> + +<p>'Nobody will suspect us of being so absurd as to suppose that it is +possible for people to draw no inferences as to the character of an +author from his book, or to shut entirely out of view, in judging of +a book, that which they may happen to <i>know</i> about the man who writes +it. The cant of the day supposes such things to be practicable; but +they are not. But what we complain of and scorn is the extent to which +they are carried in the case of this particular individual, as compared +with others; the impudence with which things are at once assumed to<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_316" id="Page_316">[Pg 316]</a></span> be +facts in regard to <i>his</i> private history; and the absolute unfairness +of never arguing from <i>his</i> writings to <i>him, but for evil</i>.</p> + +<p>'Take the man, in the first place, as unconnected, in so far as we +can thus consider him, with his works; and ask, What, after all, are +the bad things we know of him? Was he dishonest or dishonourable? +had he ever <i>done</i> anything to forfeit, or even endanger, his rank +as a gentleman? Most assuredly, no such accusations have ever been +maintained against Lord Byron the private nobleman, although something +of the sort may have been insinuated against the author. "But he was +such a profligate in his morals, that his name cannot be mentioned with +anything like tolerance." Was he so, indeed? We should like extremely +to have the catechising of the individual <i>man</i> who says so. That +he indulged in sensual vices, to some extent, is certain, and to be +regretted and condemned. But was he worse, as to such matters, than +the enormous majority of those who join in the cry of horror upon this +occasion? We most assuredly believe exactly the reverse; and we rest +our belief upon very plain and intelligible grounds. First, we hold it +impossible that the majority of mankind, or that anything beyond a very +small minority, are or can be entitled to talk of sensual profligacy as +having formed a part of the life and character of the man, who, dying +at six and thirty, bequeathed a collection of works such as Byron's to +the world. Secondly, we hold it impossible, that laying the extent of +his intellectual labours out of the question, and looking only to the +nature of the intellect which generated, and delighted in generating, +such beautiful and noble conceptions as are to be found in almost all +Lord Byron's works,—we hold it impossible that very many men can be +at once capable of comprehending these conceptions, and entitled to +consider sensual profligacy as having formed the principal, or even +a principal, trait in Lord Byron's character. Thirdly, and lastly, +we have never been able to hear any one fact established which could +prove Lord Byron to deserve anything like the degree or even kind +of odium which has, in regard to matters of this class, been heaped +upon his name. We have no story of base unmanly seduction, or false +and villainous intrigue, against him,—none whatever. It seems to us +quite clear, that, if he had been at all what is called in society +an unprincipled sensualist, there must have been many such stories, +authentic and authenticated. But there are none such,—absolutely none. +His name has been coupled with the names of three, four, or more women +of some rank: but what kind of women? Every one of them, in the first +place, about as old as himself in years, and therefore a great deal +older in character; every one of them utterly battered in reputation +long before he came into contact with them,—licentious, unprincipled, +cha<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_317" id="Page_317">[Pg 317]</a></span>racterless women. What father has ever reproached him with the ruin +of his daughter? What husband has denounced him as the destroyer of his +peace?</p> + +<p>'Let us not be mistaken. We are not defending the offences of which +Lord Byron unquestionably was guilty; neither are we finding fault +with those, who, after looking honestly within and around themselves, +condemn those offences, no matter how severely: but we are speaking +of society in general as it now exists; and we say that there is vile +hypocrisy in the tone in which Lord Byron is talked of <i>there</i>. We +say, that, although all offences against purity of life are miserable +things, and condemnable things, the degrees of guilt attached to +different offences of this class are as widely different as are the +degrees of guilt between an assault and a murder; and we confess our +belief, that no man of Byron's station or age could have run much risk +in gaining a very bad name in society, had a course of life similar +(in so far as we know any thing of that) to Lord Byron's been the only +thing chargeable against him.</p> + +<p>'The last poem he wrote was produced upon his birthday, not many weeks +before he died. We consider it as one of the finest and most touching +effusions of his noble genius. We think he who reads it, and can ever +after bring himself to regard even the worst transgressions that have +been charged against Lord Byron with any feelings but those of humble +sorrow and manly pity, is not deserving of the name of man. The deep +and passionate struggles with the inferior elements of his nature (and +ours) which it records; the lofty thirsting after purity; the heroic +devotion of a soul half weary of life, because unable to believe in +its own powers to live up to what it so intensely felt to be, and so +reverentially honoured as, the right; the whole picture of this mighty +spirit, often darkened, but never sunk,—often erring, but never +ceasing to see and to worship the beauty of virtue; the repentance of +it; the anguish; the aspiration, almost stilled in despair,—the whole +of this is such a whole, that we are sure no man can read these solemn +verses too often; and we recommend them for repetition, as the best and +most conclusive of all possible answers whenever the name of Byron is +insulted by those who permit themselves to forget nothing, either in +his life or in his writings, but the good.'—[1825.]</p> + +<hr class="tb" /> + +<p>The following letters of Lady Byron's are reprinted from the Memoirs of +H. C. Robinson. They are given that the reader may form some judgment +of the strength and activity of her mind, and the elevated class of +subjects upon which it habitually dwelt.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_318" id="Page_318">[Pg 318]</a></span></p> + + +<p class="center">LADY BYRON TO H. C. R.</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">Dec.</span> 31, 1853. +</p> + +<p>'<span class="smcap">Dear Mr. Crabb Robinson</span>,—I have an inclination, if I were +not afraid of trespassing on your time (but you can put my letter by +for any leisure moment), to enter upon the history of a character which +I think less appreciated than it ought to be. Men, I observe, do not +understand men in certain points, without a woman's interpretation. +Those points, of course, relate to feelings.</p> + +<p>'Here is a man taken by most of those who come in his way either for +Dry-as-Dust, Matter-of-fact, or for a "vain visionary." There are, +doubtless, some defective or excessive characteristics which give rise +to those impressions.</p> + +<p>'My acquaintance was made, oddly enough, with him twenty-seven years +ago. A pauper said to me of him, "He's the <i>poor man's</i> doctor." Such +a recommendation seemed to me a good one: and I also knew that his +organizing head had formed the first district society in England (for +Mrs. Fry told me she could not have effected it without his aid); yet +he has always ignored his own share of it. I felt in him at once the +curious combination of the Christian and the cynic,—of reverence for +<i>man</i>, and contempt of <i>men</i>. It was then an internal war, but one in +which it was evident to me that the holier cause would be victorious, +because there was deep belief, and, as far as I could learn, a +blameless and benevolent life. He appeared only to want sunshine. It +was a plant which could not be brought to perfection in darkness. He +had begun life by the most painful conflict between filial duty and +conscience,—a large provision in the church secured for him by his +father; but he could not <i>sign</i>. There was discredit, as you know, +attached to such scruples.</p> + +<p>'He was also, when I first knew him, under other circumstances of +a nature to depress him, and to make him feel that he was unjustly +treated. The gradual removal of these called forth his better nature +in thankfulness to God. Still the old misanthropic modes of expressing +himself obtruded themselves at times. This passed in '48 between him +and Robertson. Robertson said to me, "I want to know something about +ragged schools." I replied, "You had better ask Dr. King: he knows +more about them."—"I?" said Dr. King. "I take care to know nothing of +ragged schools, lest they should make <i>me</i> ragged." Robertson did not +see through it. Perhaps I had been taught to understand such suicidal +speeches by my cousin, Lord Melbourne.</p> + +<p>'The example of Christ, imperfectly as it may be understood by him, has +been ever before his eyes: he woke to the thought of following it, and +he went to rest consoled or rebuked by it. After nearly thirty<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_319" id="Page_319">[Pg 319]</a></span> years +of intimacy, I may, without presumption, form that opinion. There is +something pathetic to me in seeing any one <i>so</i> unknown. Even the other +medical friends of Robertson, when I knew that Dr. King felt a woman's +tenderness, said on one occasion to him, "But we know that you, Dr. +King, are <i>above all feeling</i>."</p> + +<p>'If I have made the character more consistent to you by putting in +these bits of mosaic, my pen will not have been ill employed, nor +unpleasingly to you.</p> + +<p class="center"> +'Yours truly,</p> + +<p class="author">'<span class="smcap">A. Noel Byron</span>.' +</p> + + +<p class="center">LADY BYRON TO H. C. R.</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">Brighton</span>, Nov. 15, 1854. +</p> + +<p>'The thoughts of all this public and private suffering have taken +the life out of my pen when I tried to write on matters which would +otherwise have been most interesting to me: <i>these</i> seemed the shadows, +<i>that</i> the stern reality. It is good, however, to be drawn out of +scenes in which one is absorbed most unprofitably, and to have one's +natural interests revived by such a letter as I have to thank you for, +as well as its predecessor. You touch upon the very points which do +interest me the most, habitually. The change of form, and enlargement +of design, in "The Prospective" <i>had</i> led me to express to one of the +promoters of that object my desire to contribute. The religious crisis +is instant; but the man for it? The next best thing, if, as I believe, +he is not to be found <i>in England</i>, is an association of such men as +are to edit the new periodical. An address delivered by Freeman Clarke +at Boston, last May, makes me think him better fitted for a leader than +any other of the religious "Free-thinkers." I wish I could send you +my one copy; but you do not <i>need</i>, it, and others do. His object is +the same as that of the "Alliance Universelle:" only he is still more +free from "partialism" (his own word) in his aspirations and practical +suggestions with respect to an ultimate "Christian synthesis." He +so far adopts Comte's theory as to speak of religion itself under +three successive aspects, historically,—1. Thesis; 2. Antithesis; +3. Synthesis. I made his acquaintance in England; and he inspired +confidence at once by his brave independence (<i>incomptis capillis</i>) and +self-<i>un</i>consciousness. J. J. Tayler's address of last month follows in +the same path,—all in favour of the "irenics," instead of polemics.</p> + +<p>'The answer which you gave me so fully and distinctly to the questions +I proposed for your consideration was of value in turning to my view +certain aspects of the case which I had not before observed. I had +begun a second attack on your patience, when all was forgotten in the +news of the day.'</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_320" id="Page_320">[Pg 320]</a></span></p> + + +<p class="center">Lady Byron to H. C. R.</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">Brighton</span>, Dec. 25, 1854. +</p> + +<p>'With J. J. Tayler, though almost a stranger to him, I have a peculiar +reason for sympathising. A book of his was a treasure to my daughter on +her death-bed.<a name="FNanchor_50_50" id="FNanchor_50_50"></a><a href="#Footnote_50_50" class="fnanchor">[50]</a></p> + +<p>'I must confess to intolerance of opinion as to these two +points,—<i>eternal</i> evil in any form, and (involved in it) <i>eternal</i> +suffering. To believe in these would take away my God, who is +all-loving. With a God with whom omnipotence and omniscience were all, +evil might be eternal; but why do I say to you what has been better +said elsewhere?'</p> + + +<p class="center">LADY BYRON TO H. C. R.</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">Brighton</span>, Jan. 31, 1855. +</p> + +<p>... 'The great difficulty in respect to "The Review"<a name="FNanchor_51_51" id="FNanchor_51_51"></a><a href="#Footnote_51_51" class="fnanchor">[51]</a> seems to be +to settle a basis, inclusive and exclusive; in short, a <i>boundary +question</i>. From what you said, I think you agreed with me, that +a latitudinarian Christianity ought to be the character of the +periodical; but the depth of the roots should correspond with the width +of the branches of that tree of knowledge. Of some of those minds one +might say, "They have no root;" and then, the richer the foliage, the +more danger that the trunk will fall. "Grounded in Christ" has to me +a most practical significance and value. I, too, have anxiety about +a friend (Miss Carpenter) whose life is of public importance: she, +more than any of the English reformers, unless Nash and Wright, has +found the art of drawing out the good of human nature, and proving its +existence. She makes these discoveries by the light of love. I hope +she may recover, from to-day's report. The object of a Reformatory +in Leicester has just been secured at a county meeting.... Now the +desideratum is well-qualified masters and mistresses. If you hear +of such by chance, pray let me know. The regular schoolmaster is an +extinguisher. Heart, and familiarity with the class to be educated, +are all important. At home and abroad, the evidence is conclusive on +that point; for I have for many years attended to such experiments +in various parts of Europe. "The Irish Quarterly" has taken up the +subject with rather more zeal than judgment. I had hoped that a sound +and temperate exposition of the facts might form an article in the +"Might-have-been Review."' </p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_321" id="Page_321">[Pg 321]</a></span></p> + + +<p class="center">LADY BYRON TO H. C. R.</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">Brighton</span>, Feb. 12, 1855. +</p> + +<p>'I have at last earned the pleasure of writing to you by having settled +troublesome matters of little moment, except locally; and I gladly take +a wider range by sympathizing in your interests. There is, besides, no +responsibility—for me at least—in canvassing the merits of Russell +or Palmerston, but much in deciding whether the "village politician" +Jackson or Thompson shall be leader in the school or public-house.</p> + +<p>'Has not the nation been brought to a conviction that the <i>system</i> +should be broken up? and is Lord Palmerston, who has used it so long +and so cleverly, likely to promote that object?</p> + +<p>'But, whatever obstacles there may be in state affairs, that general +persuasion must modify other departments of action and knowledge. +"Unroasted coffee" will no longer be accepted under the official +seal,—another reason for a new literary combination for distinct +special objects, a review in which every separate article should be +<i>convergent</i>. If, instead of the problem to make a circle pass through +three given points, it were required to find the centre from which to +describe a circle through any three articles in the "Edinburgh" or +"Westminster Review," who would accomplish it? Much force is lost for +want of this one-mindedness amongst the contributors. It would not +exclude variety or freedom in the unlimited discussion of means towards +the ends unequivocally recognized. If St. Paul had edited a review, he +might have admitted Peter as well as Luke or Barnabas....</p> + +<p>'Ross gave us an excellent sermon, yesterday, on "Hallowing the Name." +Though far from commonplace, it might have been delivered in any church.</p> + +<p>'We have had Fanny Kemble here last week. I only heard her "Romeo +and Juliet,"—not less instructive, as her readings always are, than +exciting; for in her glass Shakspeare is a philosopher. I know her, and +honour her, for her truthfulness amidst all trials.'</p> + + +<p class="center">LADY BYRON TO H. C. R.</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">Brighton</span>, March 5, 1855. +</p> + +<p>'I recollect only those passages of Dr. Kennedy's book which bear +upon the opinions of Lord Byron. Strange as it may seem, Dr. Kennedy +is most faithful where you doubt his being so. Not merely from casual +expressions, but from the whole tenor of Lord Byron's feelings, I could +not but conclude he was a believer in the inspiration of the Bible, +and had the gloomiest Calvinistic tenets. To that unhappy view of the +relation of the creature to the Creator, I have always ascribed the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_322" id="Page_322">[Pg 322]</a></span> +misery of his life.... It is enough for me to remember, that he who +thinks his transgressions beyond <i>forgiveness</i> (and such was his own +deepest feeling) <i>has</i> righteousness beyond that of the self-satisfied +sinner, or, perhaps, of the half-awakened. It was impossible for me to +doubt, that, could he have been at once assured of pardon, his living +faith in a moral duty, and love of virtue ("I love the virtues which +I cannot claim"), would have conquered every temptation. Judge, then, +how I must hate the creed which made him see God as an Avenger, not a +Father! My own impressions were just the reverse, but could have little +weight; and it was in vain to seek to turn his thoughts for long from +that <i>idée fixe</i> with which he connected his physical peculiarity as +a stamp. Instead of being made happier by any apparent good, he felt +convinced that every blessing would be "turned into a curse" to him. +Who, possessed by such ideas, could lead a life of love and service to +God or man? They must, in a measure, realize themselves. "The worst +of it is, I <i>do</i> believe," he said. I, like all connected with him, +was broken against the rock of predestination. I may be pardoned for +referring to his frequent expression of the sentiment that I was only +sent to show him the happiness he was forbidden to enjoy. You will now +better understand why "The Deformed Transformed" is too painful to me +for discussion. Since writing the above, I have read Dr. Granville's +letter on the Emperor of Russia, some passages of which seem applicable +to the prepossession I have described. I will not mix up less serious +matters with these, which forty years have not made less than present +still to me.'</p> + + +<p class="center">LADY BYRON TO H. C. R.</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">Brighton</span>, April 8, 1855. +</p> + +<p>... 'The book which has interested me most, lately, is that on +"Mosaism," translated by Miss Goldsmid, and which I read, as you +will believe, without any Christian (unchristian?) prejudice. The +missionaries of the Unity were always, from my childhood, regarded by +me as in that sense <i>the</i> people; and I believe they were true to that +mission, though blind, intellectually, in demanding the crucifixion. +The present aspect of Jewish opinions, as shown in that book, is +all but Christian. The author is under the error of taking, as the +representatives of Christianity, the Mystics, Ascetics, and Quietists; +and therefore he does not know how near he is to the true spirit of the +gospel. If you should happen to see Miss Goldsmid, pray tell her what +a great service I think she has rendered to us <i>soi-disant</i> Christians +in translating a book which must make us sensible of the little we have +done, and the much we have to do, to justify our preference of the +later to the earlier dispensation.'...</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_323" id="Page_323">[Pg 323]</a></span></p> + + +<p class="center">LADY BYRON TO H. C. R.</p> + +<p class="author"> +'<span class="smcap">Brighton</span>, April 11, 1855. +</p> + +<p>'You appear to have more definite information respecting "The Review" +than I have obtained.... It was also said that "The Review" would, in +fact, be "The Prospective" amplified,—not satisfactory to me, because +I have always thought that periodical too Unitarian, in the sense of +separating itself from other Christian churches, if not by a high wall, +at least by a wire-gauze fence. Now, separation is to me <i>the</i> +αλρεσις. The revelation through Nature never separates: it is the +revelation through the Book which separates. Whewell and Brewster +would have been one, had they not, I think, equally dimmed their lamps +of science when reading their Bibles. As long as we think a truth +<i>better</i> for being shut up in a text, we are not of the wide-world +religion, which is to include all in one fold: for that text will not +be accepted by the followers of other books, or students of the same; +and separation will ensue. The Christian Scripture should be dear to +us, not as the charter of a few, but of mankind; and to fashion it into +cages is to deny its ultimate objects. These thoughts hot, like the +roll at breakfast, where your letter was so welcome an addition.'</p> + +<hr class="tb" /> + +<p class="ph4">THREE DOMESTIC POEMS BY LORD BYRON.</p> + + +<p class="center">FARE THEE WELL.</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Fare thee well! and if for ever,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Still for ever fare thee well!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Even though unforgiving, never<br /></span> +<span class="i2">'Gainst thee shall my heart rebel.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Would that breast were bared before thee<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Where thy head so oft hath lain,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">While that placid sleep came o'er thee<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Which thou ne'er canst know again!<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Would that breast, by thee glanced over,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Every inmost thought could show!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Then thou wouldst at last discover<br /></span> +<span class="i2">'Twas not well to spurn it so.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Though the world for this commend thee,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Though it smile upon the blow,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Even its praises must offend thee,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Founded on another's woe.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Though my many faults defaced me,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Could no other arm be found,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Than the one which once embraced me,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">To inflict a cureless wound?<br /></span><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_324" id="Page_324">[Pg 324]</a></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Yet, oh! yet, thyself deceive not<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Love may sink by slow decay;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">But, by sudden wrench, believe not<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Hearts can thus be torn away:<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Still thine own its life retaineth;<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Still must mine, though bleeding, beat<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And the undying thought which paineth<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Is—that we no more may meet.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">These are words of deeper sorrow<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Than the wail above the dead:<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Both shall live, but every morrow<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Wake us from a widowed bed.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">And when thou wouldst solace gather,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">When our child's first accents flow,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Wilt thou teach her to say 'Father,'<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Though his care she must forego?<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">When her little hand shall press thee,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">When her lip to thine is pressed,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Think of him whose prayer shall bless thee<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Think of him thy love had blessed.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Should her lineaments resemble<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Those thou never more mayst see,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Then thy heart will softly tremble<br /></span> +<span class="i2">With a pulse yet true to me.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">All my faults, perchance, thou knowest;<br /></span> +<span class="i2">All my madness none can know:<br /></span> +<span class="i0">All my hopes, where'er thou goest,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Wither; yet with thee they go.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Every feeling hath been shaken:<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Pride, which not a world could bow,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Bows to thee, by thee forsaken;<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Even my soul forsakes me now.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">But 'tis done: all words are idle;<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Words from me are vainer still;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">But the thoughts we cannot bridle<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Force their way without the will.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Fare thee well!—thus disunited,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Torn from every nearer tie,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Seared in heart, and lone and blighted,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">More than this I scarce can die.<br /></span> +</div></div> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_325" id="Page_325">[Pg 325]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">A SKETCH.</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">Born in the garret, in the kitchen bred;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Promoted thence to deck her mistress' head;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Next—for some gracious service unexpress'd,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And from its wages only to be guessed—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Raised from the toilette to the table, where<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Her wondering betters wait behind her chair,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">With eye unmoved, and forehead unabashed,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">She dines from off the plate she lately washed.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Quick with the tale, and ready with the lie,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The genial confidante and general spy,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Who could, ye gods! her next employment guess?—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">An only infant's earliest governess!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">She taught the child to read, and taught so well,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">That she herself, by teaching, learned to spell.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">An adept next in penmanship she grows,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">As many a nameless slander deftly shows:<br /></span> +<span class="i0">What she had made the pupil of her art,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">None know; but that high soul secured the heart,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And panted for the truth it could not hear,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">With longing breast and undeluded ear.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Foiled was perversion by that youthful mind,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Which flattery fooled not, baseness could not blind,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Deceit infect not, near contagion soil,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Indulgence weaken, nor example spoil,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Nor mastered science tempt her to look down<br /></span> +<span class="i0">On humbler talents with a pitying frown,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Nor genius swell, nor beauty render vain,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Nor envy ruffle to retaliate pain,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Nor fortune change, pride raise, nor passion bow,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Nor virtue teach austerity, till now.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Serenely purest of her sex that live;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">But wanting one sweet weakness,—to forgive;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Too shocked at faults her soul can never know,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">She deems that all could be like her below:<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Foe to all vice, yet hardly Virtue's friend;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">For Virtue pardons those she would amend.<br /></span> +<span class="i2">But to the theme, now laid aside too long,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The baleful burthen of this honest song.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Though all her former functions are no more,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">She rules the circle which she served before.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">If mothers—none know why—before her quake;<br /></span><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_326" id="Page_326">[Pg 326]</a></span> +<span class="i0">If daughters dread her for the mothers' sake;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">If early habits—those false links, which bind<br /></span> +<span class="i0">At times the loftiest to the meanest mind—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Have given her power too deeply to instil<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The angry essence of her deadly will;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">If like a snake she steal within your walls<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Till the black slime betray her as she crawls;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">If like a viper to the heart she wind,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And leave the venom there she did not find,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">What marvel that this hag of hatred works<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Eternal evil latent as she lurks,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">To make a Pandemonium where she dwells,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And reign the Hecate of domestic hells?<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Skilled by a touch to deepen scandal's tints<br /></span> +<span class="i0">With all the kind mendacity of hints,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">While mingling truth with falsehood, sneers with smiles,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">A thread of candour with a web of wiles;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">A plain blunt show of briefly-spoken seeming.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">To hide her bloodless heart's soul-hardened scheming<br /></span> +<span class="i0">A lip of lies; a face formed to conceal,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And, without feeling, mock at all who feel;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">With a vile mask the Gorgon would disown;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">A cheek of parchment, and an eye of stone.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Mark how the channels of her yellow blood<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Ooze to her skin, and stagnate there to mud!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Cased like the centipede in saffron mail,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Or darker greenness of the scorpion's scale,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">(For drawn from reptiles only may we trace<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Congenial colours in that soul or face,)—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Look on her features! and behold her mind<br /></span> +<span class="i0">As in a mirror of itself defined.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Look on the picture! deem it not o'ercharged;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">There is no trait which might not be enlarged:<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Yet true to 'Nature's journeymen,' who made<br /></span> +<span class="i0">This monster when their mistress left off trade,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">This female dog-star of her little sky,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Where all beneath her influence droop or die.<br /></span> +</div><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i2">O wretch without a tear, without a thought,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Save joy above the ruin thou hast wrought!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The time shall come, nor long remote, when thou<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Shalt feel far more than thou inflictest now,—<br /></span><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_327" id="Page_327">[Pg 327]</a></span> +<span class="i0">Feel for thy vile self-loving self in vain,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And turn thee howling in unpitied pain.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">May the strong curse of crushed affections light<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Back on thy bosom with reflected blight,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And make thee, in thy leprosy of mind,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">As loathsome to thyself as to mankind,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Till all thy self-thoughts curdle into hate<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Black as thy will for others would create;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Till thy hard heart be calcined into dust,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And thy soul welter in its hideous crust!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Oh, may thy grave be sleepless as the bed,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The widowed couch of fire, that thou hast spread<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Then, when thou fain wouldst weary Heaven with prayer,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Look on thine earthly victims, and despair!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Down to the dust! and, as thou rott'st away,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Even worms shall perish on thy poisonous clay.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">But for the love I bore, and still must bear,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">To her thy malice from all ties would tear,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Thy name, thy human name, to every eye<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The climax of all scorn, should hang on high,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Exalted o'er thy less abhorred compeers,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And festering in the infamy of years.<br /></span> +</div></div> + + +<p class="ph4">LINES</p> + +<p class="center">ON HEARING THAT LADY BYRON WAS ILL.</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">And thou wert sad, yet I was not with thee!<br /></span> +<span class="i2">And thou wert sick, and yet I was not near!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Methought that joy and health alone could be<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Where I was <i>not</i>, and pain and sorrow here.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And is it thus? It is as I foretold,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">And shall be more so; for the mind recoils<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Upon itself, and the wrecked heart lies cold,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">While heaviness collects the shattered spoils.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">It is not in the storm nor in the strife<br /></span> +<span class="i2">We feel benumbed, and wish to be no more,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">But in the after-silence on the shore,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">When all is lost except a little life.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">I am too well avenged! But 'twas my right:<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Whate'er my sins might be, <i>thou</i> wert not sent<br /></span> +<span class="i0">To be the Nemesis who should requite;<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Nor did Heaven choose so near an instrument.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Mercy is for the merciful!—if thou<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Hast been of such, 'twill be accorded now.<br /></span><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_328" id="Page_328">[Pg 328]</a></span> +<span class="i0">Thy nights are banished from the realms of sleep!<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Yes! they may flatter thee; but thou shalt feel<br /></span> +<span class="i2">A hollow agony which will not heal;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">For thou art pillowed on a curse too deep:<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Thou hast sown in my sorrow, and must reap<br /></span> +<span class="i2">The bitter harvest in a woe as real!<br /></span> +<span class="i0">I have had many foes, but none like thee;<br /></span> +<span class="i2">For 'gainst the rest myself I could defend,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">And be avenged, or turn them into friend;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">But thou in safe implacability<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Hadst nought to dread, in thy own weakness shielded<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And in my love, which hath but too much yielded,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">And spared, for thy sake, some I should not spare.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And thus upon the world,—trust in thy truth,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And the wild fame of my ungoverned youth,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">On things that were not and on things that are,—<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Even upon such a basis hast thou built<br /></span> +<span class="i0">A monument, whose cement hath been guilt;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The moral Clytemnestra of thy lord,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And hewed down, with an unsuspected sword,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Fame, peace, and hope, and all the better life,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Which, but for this cold treason of thy heart,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Might still have risen from out the grave of strife,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">And found a nobler duty than to part.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">But of thy virtues didst thou make a vice,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">Trafficking with them in a purpose cold,<br /></span> +<span class="i2">For present anger and for future gold,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And buying others' grief at any price.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And thus, once entered into crooked ways,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The early truth, which was thy proper praise,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Did not still walk beside thee, but at times,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">And with a breast unknowing its own crimes,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Deceit, averments incompatible,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Equivocations, and the thoughts which dwell<br /></span> +<span class="i2">In Janus-spirits; the significant eye<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Which learns to lie with silence; the pretext<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Of prudence, with advantages annexed;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The acquiescence in all things which tend,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">No matter how, to the desired end,—<br /></span> +<span class="i2">All found a place in thy philosophy.<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The means were worthy, and the end is won<br /></span> +<span class="i0">I would not do by thee as thou hast done.<br /></span> +</div></div> + + +<p class="center"><i>Spottiswoode & Co., Printers, New-street Square, London.</i> FOOTNOTES:</p> + +<hr class="tb" /> + +<p class="ph3">FOOTNOTES</p> +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_1_1" id="Footnote_1_1"></a><a href="#FNanchor_1_1"><span class="label">[1]</span></a> The italics are mine.</p></div> + + +<div class="footnote"> +<p><a name="Footnote_2_2" id="Footnote_2_2"></a><a href="#FNanchor_2_2"><span class="label">[2]</span></a> The italics are mine.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_3_3" id="Footnote_3_3"></a><a href="#FNanchor_3_3"><span class="label">[3]</span></a> In Lady Blessington's 'Memoirs' this name is given +Charlemont; in the late 'Temple Bar' article on the character of Lady +Byron it is given Clermont. I have followed the latter.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_4_4" id="Footnote_4_4"></a><a href="#FNanchor_4_4"><span class="label">[4]</span></a> The italics are mine.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_5_5" id="Footnote_5_5"></a><a href="#FNanchor_5_5"><span class="label">[5]</span></a> In Lady Blessington's conversations with Lord Byron, just +before he went to Greece, she records that he gave her this poem in +manuscript. It was published in her 'Journal.'</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_6_6" id="Footnote_6_6"></a><a href="#FNanchor_6_6"><span class="label">[6]</span></a> Vol. vi. p. 22.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_7_7" id="Footnote_7_7"></a><a href="#FNanchor_7_7"><span class="label">[7]</span></a> 'Byron's Miscellany', vol. ii. p. 358. London, 1853.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_8_8" id="Footnote_8_8"></a><a href="#FNanchor_8_8"><span class="label">[8]</span></a> The italics are mine.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_9_9" id="Footnote_9_9"></a><a href="#FNanchor_9_9"><span class="label">[9]</span></a> Lord Byron says, in his observations on an article in +'Blackwood': 'I recollect being much hurt by Romilly's conduct: +he (having a general retainer for me) went over to the adversary, +alleging, on being reminded of his retainer, that he had forgotten it, +as his clerk had so many. I observed that some of those who were now so +eagerly laying the axe to my roof-tree might see their own shaken. His +fell and crushed him.' +</p> +<p> +In the first edition of Moore's Life of Lord Byron there was printed a +letter on Sir Samuel Romilly, so brutal that it was suppressed in the +subsequent editions. (See Part III.)</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_10_10" id="Footnote_10_10"></a><a href="#FNanchor_10_10"><span class="label">[10]</span></a> Vol. iv. p. 40.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_11_11" id="Footnote_11_11"></a><a href="#FNanchor_11_11"><span class="label">[11]</span></a> Ibid. p. 46.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_12_12" id="Footnote_12_12"></a><a href="#FNanchor_12_12"><span class="label">[12]</span></a> The italics are mine.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_13_13" id="Footnote_13_13"></a><a href="#FNanchor_13_13"><span class="label">[13]</span></a> Vol. iv. p 143.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_14_14" id="Footnote_14_14"></a><a href="#FNanchor_14_14"><span class="label">[14]</span></a> Lord Byron took especial pains to point out to Murray the +importance of these two letters. Vol. V. Letter 443, he says: 'You must +also have from Mr. Moore the correspondence between me and Lady B., to +whom I offered a sight of all that concerns herself in these papers. +This is important. He has <i>her</i> letter and my answer.'</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_15_15" id="Footnote_15_15"></a><a href="#FNanchor_15_15"><span class="label">[15]</span></a> +</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">'And I, who with them on the cross am placed,<br /></span> +<span class="i34">... truly<br /></span> +<span class="i0">My savage wife, more than aught else, doth harm me.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + + +<p><br /> +<span style="margin-left: 3em;"><i>Inferno</i>, Canto, XVI., Longfellow's translation.</span><br /> +</p> +</div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_16_16" id="Footnote_16_16"></a><a href="#FNanchor_16_16"><span class="label">[16]</span></a> 'Conversations,' p. 108.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_17_17" id="Footnote_17_17"></a><a href="#FNanchor_17_17"><span class="label">[17]</span></a> Murray's edition of 'Byron's Works,' Vol. ii. p. 189; +date of dedication to Hobhouse, Jan. 2, 1818.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_18_18" id="Footnote_18_18"></a><a href="#FNanchor_18_18"><span class="label">[18]</span></a> Recently, Lord Lindsay has published another version of +this story, which makes it appear that he has conversed with a lady who +conversed with Hobhouse during his lifetime, in which this story is +differently reported. In the last version, it is made to appear that +Hobhouse had this declaration from Lady Byron herself.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_19_19" id="Footnote_19_19"></a><a href="#FNanchor_19_19"><span class="label">[19]</span></a> The references are to the first volume of the first +edition of Moore's Life', originally published by itself.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_20_20" id="Footnote_20_20"></a><a href="#FNanchor_20_20"><span class="label">[20]</span></a> 'The officious spies of his privacy,' p. 650.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_21_21" id="Footnote_21_21"></a><a href="#FNanchor_21_21"><span class="label">[21]</span></a> 'The deserted husband,' p. 651.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_22_22" id="Footnote_22_22"></a><a href="#FNanchor_22_22"><span class="label">[22]</span></a> 'I (Campbell) had not time to ask Lady Byron's permission +to print this private letter; but it seemed to me important, and I have +published it <i>meo periculo</i>.'</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_23_23" id="Footnote_23_23"></a><a href="#FNanchor_23_23"><span class="label">[23]</span></a> 'Noctes,' July 1822.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_24_24" id="Footnote_24_24"></a><a href="#FNanchor_24_24"><span class="label">[24]</span></a> 'Noctes,' September 1832.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_25_25" id="Footnote_25_25"></a><a href="#FNanchor_25_25"><span class="label">[25]</span></a> Miss Martineau's Biographical Sketches.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_26_26" id="Footnote_26_26"></a><a href="#FNanchor_26_26"><span class="label">[26]</span></a> The italics are mine.—H. B. S.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_27_27" id="Footnote_27_27"></a><a href="#FNanchor_27_27"><span class="label">[27]</span></a> In 'The Noctes' of November, 1824 Christopher North says, +'I don't call Medwin a liar.... Whether Byron bammed him, or he, by +virtue of his own stupidity, was the sole and sufficient bammifier of +himself, I know not.' A note says that Murray had been much shocked by +Byron's misstatements to Medwin as to money-matters with him. The note +goes on to say, 'Medwin could not have invented them, for they were +mixed up with acknowledged facts; and the presumption is that Byron +mystified his gallant acquaintance. He was fond of such tricks.'</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_28_28" id="Footnote_28_28"></a><a href="#FNanchor_28_28"><span class="label">[28]</span></a> This one fact is, that Lord Byron might have had an open +examination in court, if he had only persisted in refusing the deed of +separation.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_29_29" id="Footnote_29_29"></a><a href="#FNanchor_29_29"><span class="label">[29]</span></a> In the history of 'Blackwood's Magazine,' prefaced to +the American edition of 1854, Mackenzie says of the 'Noctes' papers, +'Great as was their popularity in England it was peculiarly in +America that their high merit and undoubted originality received the +heartiest recognition and appreciation. Nor is this wonderful when it +is considered that for one reader of "Blackwood's Magazine" in the old +country there cannot be less than fifty in the new.'</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_30_30" id="Footnote_30_30"></a><a href="#FNanchor_30_30"><span class="label">[30]</span></a> The reader is here referred to Lady Byron's other +letters, in Part III.; which also show the peculiarly active and +philosophical character of her mind, and the class of subjects on which +it habitually dwelt.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_31_31" id="Footnote_31_31"></a><a href="#FNanchor_31_31"><span class="label">[31]</span></a> See her character of Dr. King, Part III.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_32_32" id="Footnote_32_32"></a><a href="#FNanchor_32_32"><span class="label">[32]</span></a> Alluding to the financial crisis in the United States in +1857.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_33_33" id="Footnote_33_33"></a><a href="#FNanchor_33_33"><span class="label">[33]</span></a> 'The Minister's Wooing.'</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_34_34" id="Footnote_34_34"></a><a href="#FNanchor_34_34"><span class="label">[34]</span></a> See her letter on spiritualistic phenomena, Part III.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_35_35" id="Footnote_35_35"></a><a href="#FNanchor_35_35"><span class="label">[35]</span></a> This novel of Godwin's is a remarkably powerful story. It +is related in the first person by the supposed hero, Caleb Williams. He +represents himself as private secretary to a gentleman of high family +named Falkland. Caleb accidentally discovers that his patron has, in a +moment of passion, committed a murder. Falkland confesses the crime to +Caleb, and tells him that henceforth he shall always suspect him, and +keep watch over him. Caleb finds this watchfulness insupportable, and +tries to escape, but without success. He writes a touching letter to +his patron, imploring him to let him go, and promising never to betray +him. The scene where Falkland refuses this is the most highly wrought +in the book. He says to him, "Do not imagine that I am afraid of you; +I wear an armour against which all your weapons are impotent. I have +dug a pit for you: and whichever way you move, backward or forward, to +the right or the left, it is ready to swallow you. Be still! If once +you fall, call as loud as you will, no man on earth shall hear your +cries: prepare a tale however plausible or however true, the whole +world shall execrate you for an impostor. Your innocence shall be of no +service to you. I laugh at so feeble a defence. It is I that say it: +you may believe what I tell you. Do you know, miserable wretch!" added +he, stamping on the ground with fury, "that I have sworn to preserve +my reputation, whatever be the expense; that I love it more than the +whole world and its inhabitants taken together? and do you think that +you shall wound it?" The rest of the book shows how this threat was +executed.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_36_36" id="Footnote_36_36"></a><a href="#FNanchor_36_36"><span class="label">[36]</span></a> Alluding to Buchanan's election.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_37_37" id="Footnote_37_37"></a><a href="#FNanchor_37_37"><span class="label">[37]</span></a> Shelton Mackenzie, in a note to the 'Noctes' of July +1822, gives the following saying of Maginn, one of the principal lights +of the club: 'No man, however much he might tend to civilisation, +was to be regarded as having absolutely reached its apex until he +was drunk.' He also records it as a further joke of the club, that a +man's having reached this apex was to be tested by his inability to +pronounce the word 'civilisation,' which, he says, after ten o'clock at +night ought to be abridged to <i>civilation</i>, 'by syncope, or vigorously +speaking by hic-cup.'</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_38_38" id="Footnote_38_38"></a><a href="#FNanchor_38_38"><span class="label">[38]</span></a> Vol. v. pp. 61, 75.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_39_39" id="Footnote_39_39"></a><a href="#FNanchor_39_39"><span class="label">[39]</span></a> These italics are ours.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_40_40" id="Footnote_40_40"></a><a href="#FNanchor_40_40"><span class="label">[40]</span></a> These italics are ours.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_41_41" id="Footnote_41_41"></a><a href="#FNanchor_41_41"><span class="label">[41]</span></a> This little incident shows the characteristic carefulness +and accuracy of Lady Byron's habits. This statement was written +<i>fourteen</i> years after the events spoken of; but Lady Byron carefully +quotes a passage from her mother's letter written at that time. This +shows that a copy of Lady Milbanke's letter had been preserved, and +makes it appear probable that copies of the whole correspondence of +that period were also kept. Great light could be thrown on the whole +transaction, could these documents be consulted.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_42_42" id="Footnote_42_42"></a><a href="#FNanchor_42_42"><span class="label">[42]</span></a> Here, again, Lady Byron's sealed papers might furnish +light. The letters addressed to her at this time by those in constant +intercourse with Lord Byron are doubtless preserved, and would show her +ground of action.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_43_43" id="Footnote_43_43"></a><a href="#FNanchor_43_43"><span class="label">[43]</span></a> Probably Lady Milbanke's letters are among the sealed +papers, and would more fully explain the situation.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_44_44" id="Footnote_44_44"></a><a href="#FNanchor_44_44"><span class="label">[44]</span></a> Hunt's Byron, p. 77. Philadelphia, 1828.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_45_45" id="Footnote_45_45"></a><a href="#FNanchor_45_45"><span class="label">[45]</span></a> From the Temple Bar article, October 1869. 'Mrs. Leigh, +Lord Byron's sister, had other thoughts of Mrs. Clermont, and wrote +to her offering public testimony to her tenderness and forbearance +under circumstances which must have been trying to any friend of Lady +Byron.'—<i>Campbell, in the New Monthly Magazine</i>, 1830, p. 380.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_46_46" id="Footnote_46_46"></a><a href="#FNanchor_46_46"><span class="label">[46]</span></a> 'My Recollections,' p. 238.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_47_47" id="Footnote_47_47"></a><a href="#FNanchor_47_47"><span class="label">[47]</span></a> Vol. vi. p. 212.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_48_48" id="Footnote_48_48"></a><a href="#FNanchor_48_48"><span class="label">[48]</span></a> The reader is here referred to the remarks of 'Blackwood' +on 'Don Juan' in Part III.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_49_49" id="Footnote_49_49"></a><a href="#FNanchor_49_49"><span class="label">[49]</span></a> The article in question is worth a careful reading. Its +industry and accuracy in amassing evidence are worthy attention.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_50_50" id="Footnote_50_50"></a><a href="#FNanchor_50_50"><span class="label">[50]</span></a> Probably 'The Christian Aspects of Faith and Duty.' +Mr. Tayler has also written 'A Retrospect of the Religious Life of +England.'</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"> + +<p><a name="Footnote_51_51" id="Footnote_51_51"></a><a href="#FNanchor_51_51"><span class="label">[51]</span></a> 'The National Review.'</p></div> + + + + + + + + + +<pre> + + + + + +End of Project Gutenberg's Lady Byron Vindicated, by Harriet Beecher Stowe + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK LADY BYRON VINDICATED *** + +***** This file should be named 44791-h.htm or 44791-h.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/4/4/7/9/44791/ + +Produced by David Edwards and the Online Distributed +Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Lady Byron Vindicated + A History of The Byron Controversy + +Author: Harriet Beecher Stowe + +Release Date: January 29, 2014 [EBook #44791] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ASCII + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK LADY BYRON VINDICATED *** + + + + +Produced by David Edwards and the Online Distributed +Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net + + + + + + + + + + THE + + BYRON CONTROVERSY. + + + LONDON: PRINTED BY + SPOTTISWOODE AND CO., NEW-STREET SQUARE + AND PARLIAMENT STREET + + + + + LADY BYRON VINDICATED. + + A History + OF + THE BYRON CONTROVERSY + + FROM ITS BEGINNING IN 1816 TO THE PRESENT TIME. + + BY + HARRIET BEECHER STOWE. + + + LONDON: + SAMPSON LOW, SON, AND MARSTON + CROWN BUILDINGS, 188 FLEET STREET. + 1870. + + (_All rights reserved._) + + + + +NOTE + +BY + +THE PUBLISHERS. + + +The subject of this volume is of such painful notoriety that any +apology from the Publishers may seem unnecessary upon issuing the +Author's reply to the counter statements which her narrative in +_Macmillan's Magazine_ has called forth. Nevertheless they consider it +right to state that their strong regard for the Author, respect for her +motives, and assurance of her truthfulness, would, even in the absence +of all other considerations, be sufficient to induce them to place +their imprint on the title-page. + +The publication has been undertaken by them at the Author's request, +'as her friends,' and as the publishers of her former works, and from +a feeling that whatever difference of opinion may be entertained +respecting the Author's judiciousness in publishing 'The True Story,' +she is entitled to defend it, having been treated with grave injustice, +and often with much maliciousness, by her critics and opponents, and +been charged with motives from which no person living is more free. +An intense love of justice and hatred of oppression, with an utter +disregard of her own interests, characterise Mrs. STOWE'S +conduct and writings, as all who know her well will testify; and the +Publishers can unhesitatingly affirm their belief that neither fear +for loss of her literary fame, nor hope of gain, has for one moment +influenced her in the course she has taken. + + LONDON: _January 1870_. + + + + +CONTENTS. + + + PART I. + + + CHAPTER I. PAGE + + INTRODUCTION 1 + + + CHAPTER II. + + THE ATTACK ON LADY BYRON 6 + + + CHAPTER III. + + RESUME OF THE CONSPIRACY 50 + + + CHAPTER IV. + + RESULTS AFTER LORD BYRON'S DEATH 57 + + + CHAPTER V. + + THE ATTACK ON LADY BYRON'S GRAVE 102 + + + PART II. + + + CHAPTER I. + + LADY BYRON AS I KNEW HER 132 + + + CHAPTER II. + + LADY BYRON'S STORY AS TOLD ME 153 + + + CHAPTER III. + + CHRONOLOGICAL SUMMARY OF EVENTS 171 + + CHAPTER IV. + + THE CHARACTER OF THE TWO WITNESSES COMPARED 199 + + CHAPTER V. + + THE DIRECT ARGUMENT TO PROVE THE CRIME 217 + + CHAPTER VI. + + PHYSIOLOGICAL ARGUMENT 247 + + CHAPTER VII. + + HOW COULD SHE LOVE HIM? 262 + + CHAPTER VIII. + + CONCLUSION 269 + + + PART III. + + MISCELLANEOUS DOCUMENTS. + + THE TRUE STORY OF LADY BYRON'S LIFE (AS ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED + IN 'THE ATLANTIC MONTHLY') 274 + + LORD LINDSAY'S LETTER TO 'THE LONDON TIMES' 304 + + DR. FORBES WINSLOW'S LETTER TO 'THE LONDON TIMES' 310 + + EXTRACT FROM LORD BYRON'S EXPUNGED LETTER TO MURRAY 312 + + EXTRACTS FROM 'BLACKWOOD'S MAGAZINE' 315 + + LETTERS OF LADY BYRON TO H. C. ROBINSON 318 + + DOMESTIC POEMS BY LORD BYRON 323 + + + + +PART I. + + + + +CHAPTER I. + +INTRODUCTION. + + +The interval since my publication of 'The True Story of Lady Byron's +Life' has been one of stormy discussion and of much invective. + +I have not thought it necessary to disturb my spirit and confuse my +sense of right by even an attempt at reading the many abusive articles +that both here and in England have followed that disclosure. Friends +have undertaken the task for me, giving me from time to time the +substance of anything really worthy of attention which came to view in +the tumult. + +It appeared to me essential that this first excitement should in a +measure spend itself before there would be a possibility of speaking +to any purpose. Now, when all would seem to have spoken who can speak, +and, it is to be hoped, have said the utmost they can say, there seems +a propriety in listening calmly, if that be possible, to what I have to +say in reply. + +And, first, why have I made this disclosure at all? + +_To this I answer briefly, Because I considered it my duty to make it._ + +I made it in defence of a beloved, revered friend, whose memory stood +forth in the eyes of the civilised world charged with most repulsive +crimes, of which I _certainly_ knew her innocent. + +I claim, and shall prove, that Lady Byron's reputation has been the +victim of a concerted attack, begun by her husband during her lifetime, +and coming to its climax over her grave. I claim, and shall prove, that +it was not I who stirred up this controversy in this year 1869. I shall +show _who did do it_, and who is responsible for bringing on me that +hard duty of making these disclosures, which it appears to me ought to +have been made by others. + +I claim that these facts were given to me unguarded by any promise or +seal of secrecy, expressed or implied; that they were lodged with me +as one sister rests her story with another for sympathy, for counsel, +for defence. _Never_ did I suppose the day would come that I should +be subjected to so cruel an anguish as this use of them has been to +me. Never did I suppose that,--when those kind hands, that had shed +nothing but blessings, were lying in the helplessness of death,--when +that gentle heart, so sorely tried and to the last so full of love, was +lying cold in the tomb,--a countryman in England could be found to cast +the foulest slanders on her grave, and not one in all England to raise +an effective voice in her defence. + +I admit the feebleness of my plea, in point of execution. It was +written in a state of exhausted health, when no labour of the kind was +safe for me,--when my hand had not strength to hold the pen, and I was +forced to dictate to another. + +I have been told that I have no reason to congratulate myself on it as +a literary effort. O my brothers and sisters! is there then nothing in +the world to think of but literary efforts? I ask any man with a heart +in his bosom, if he had been obliged to tell a story so cruel, because +his mother's grave gave no rest from slander,--I ask any woman who had +been forced to such a disclosure to free a dead sister's name from +grossest insults, whether she would have thought of making this work of +bitterness a literary success? + +Are the cries of the oppressed, the gasps of the dying, the last +prayers of mothers,--are _any_ words wrung like drops of blood from the +human heart to be judged as literary efforts? + +My fellow-countrymen of America, men of the press, I have done you one +act of justice,--of all your bitter articles, I have read not one. +I shall never be troubled in the future time by the remembrance of +any unkind word you have said of me, for at this moment I recollect +not one. I had such faith in you, such pride in my countrymen, as +men with whom, above all others, the cause of woman was safe and +sacred, that I was at first astonished and incredulous at what I +heard of the course of the American press, and was silent, not merely +from the impossibility of being heard, but from grief and shame. But +reflection convinces me that you were, in many cases, acting from a +misunderstanding of facts and through misguided honourable feeling; +and I still feel courage, therefore, to ask from you a fair hearing. +Now, as I have done you this justice, will you also do me the justice +to hear me seriously and candidly? + +What interest have you or I, my brother and my sister, in this short +life of ours, to utter anything but the truth? Is not truth between man +and man and between man and woman the foundation on which all things +rest? Have you not, every individual of you, who must hereafter give +an account yourself alone to God, an interest to know the exact truth +in this matter, and a duty to perform as respects that truth? Hear me, +then, while I tell you the position in which I stood, and what was my +course in relation to it. + +A shameless attack on my friend's memory had appeared in the +'Blackwood' of July 1869, branding Lady Byron as the vilest of +criminals, and recommending the Guiccioli book to a Christian public +as interesting from the very fact that it was the avowed production +of Lord Byron's mistress. No efficient protest was made against +this outrage in England, and Littell's 'Living Age' reprinted the +'Blackwood' article, and the Harpers, the largest publishing house in +America, perhaps in the world, re-published the book. + +Its statements--with those of the 'Blackwood,' 'Pall Mall Gazette,' and +other English periodicals--were being propagated through all the young +reading and writing world of America. I was meeting them advertised +in dailies, and made up into articles in magazines, and thus the +generation of to-day, who had no means of judging Lady Byron but by +these fables of her slanderers, were being foully deceived. The friends +who knew her personally were a small select circle in England, whom +death is every day reducing. They were few in number compared with the +great world, and were _silent_. I saw these foul slanders crystallising +into history uncontradicted by friends who knew her personally, who, +firm in their own knowledge of her virtues and limited in view as +aristocratic circles generally are, had no idea of the width of the +world they were living in, and the exigency of the crisis. When time +passed on and no voice was raised, I spoke. I gave at first a simple +story, for I knew instinctively that whoever put the first steel point +of truth into this dark cloud of slander must wait for the storm to +spend itself. I must say the storm exceeded my expectations, and has +raged loud and long. But now that there is a comparative stillness I +shall proceed, first, to prove what I have just been asserting, and, +second, to add to my true story such facts and incidents as I did not +think proper at first to state. + + + + +CHAPTER II. + +THE ATTACK ON LADY BYRON. + + +In proving what I asserted in the first chapter, I make four points: +1st. A concerted attack upon Lady Byron's reputation, begun by Lord +Byron in self-defence. 2nd. That he transmitted his story to friends to +be continued after his death. 3rd. That they did so continue it. 4th. +That the accusations reached their climax over Lady Byron's grave in +'Blackwood' of 1869, and the Guiccioli book, and that this re-opening +of the controversy was my reason for speaking. + +And first I shall adduce my proofs that Lady Byron's reputation +was, during the whole course of her husband's life, the subject of +a concentrated, artfully planned attack, commencing at the time of +the separation and continuing during his life. By various documents +carefully prepared, and used publicly or secretly as suited the case, +he made converts of many honest men, some of whom were writers and men +of letters, who put their talents at his service during his lifetime in +exciting sympathy for him, and who, by his own request, felt bound to +continue their defence of him after he was dead. + +In order to consider the force and significance of the documents I +shall cite, we are to bring to our view just the issues Lord Byron had +to meet, both at the time of the separation and for a long time after. + +In Byron's 'Memoirs,' Vol. IV. Letter 350, under date December 10, +1819, nearly four years after the separation, he writes to Murray in +a state of great excitement on account of an article in 'Blackwood,' +in which his conduct towards his wife had been sternly and justly +commented on, and which he supposed to have been written by Wilson, of +the 'Noctes Ambrosianae.' He says in this letter: 'I like and admire +W----n, and he should not have indulged himself in such outrageous +license.... When he talks of Lady Byron's business he talks of what he +knows nothing about; and you may tell him _no man can desire a public +investigation of that affair more than I do_.'[1] + +[Footnote 1: The italics are mine.] + +He shortly after wrote and sent to Murray a pamphlet for publication, +which was printed, but not generally circulated till some time +afterwards. Though more than three years had elapsed since the +separation, the current against him at this time was so strong in +England that his friends thought it best, at first, to use this article +of Lord Byron's discreetly with influential persons rather than to give +it to the public. + +The writer in 'Blackwood' and the indignation of the English public, +of which that writer was the voice, were now particularly stirred up +by the appearance of the first two cantos of 'Don Juan,' in which the +indecent caricature of Lady Byron was placed in vicinity with other +indecencies, the publication of which was justly considered an insult +to a Christian community. + +It must here be mentioned, for the honour of Old England, that at +first she did her duty quite respectably in regard to 'Don Juan.' One +can still read, in Murray's standard edition of the poems, how every +respectable press thundered reprobations, which it would be well enough +to print and circulate as tracts for our days. + +Byron, it seems, had thought of returning to England, but he says, in +the letter we have quoted, that he has changed his mind, and shall not +go back, adding: 'I have finished the Third Canto of "Don Juan," but +the things I have heard and read discourage all future publication. +You may try the copy question, but you'll lose it; the cry is up, and +the cant is up. I should have no objection to return the price of the +copyright, and have written to Mr. Kinnaird on this subject.' + +One sentence quoted by Lord Byron from the 'Blackwood' article will +show the modern readers what the respectable world of that day were +thinking and saying of him:-- + + 'It appears, in short, as if this miserable man, having exhausted + _every species_ of sensual gratification--having drained the cup of + sin even to its bitterest dregs--were resolved to show us that he is + no longer a human being even in his frailties, but a cool, unconcerned + fiend, laughing with detestable glee over the whole of the better and + worse elements of which human life is composed.' + +The defence which Lord Byron makes, in his reply to that paper, is of a +man cornered and fighting for his life. He speaks thus of the state of +feeling at the time of his separation from his wife:-- + + 'I was accused of every monstrous vice by public rumour and private + rancour; my name, which had been a knightly or a noble one since my + fathers helped to conquer the kingdom for William the Norman, was + tainted. I felt that, if what was whispered and muttered and murmured + was true, I was unfit for England; if false, England was unfit for + me. I withdrew; but this was not enough. In other countries--in + Switzerland, in the shadow of the Alps, and by the blue depth of the + lakes--I was pursued and breathed upon by the same blight. I crossed + the mountains, but it was the same; so I went a little farther, and + settled myself by the waves of the Adriatic, like the stag at bay, who + betakes him to the waters. + + 'If I may judge by the statements of the few friends who gathered + round me, the outcry of the period to which I allude was beyond all + precedent, all parallel, even in those cases where political motives + have sharpened slander and doubled enmity. I was advised not to go to + the theatres lest I should be hissed, nor to my duty in parliament + lest I should be insulted by the way; even on the day of my departure + my most intimate friend told me afterwards that he was under the + apprehension of violence from the people who might be assembled at the + door of the carriage.' + +Now Lord Byron's charge against his wife was that SHE was +directly responsible for getting up and keeping up this persecution, +which drove him from England,--that she did it in a deceitful, +treacherous manner, which left him no chance of defending himself. + +He charged against her that, taking advantage of a time when his +affairs were in confusion, and an execution in the house, she left him +suddenly, with treacherous professions of kindness, which were repeated +by letters on the road, and that soon after her arrival at her home +her parents sent him word that she would never return to him, and she +confirmed the message; that when he asked the reason why, she refused +to state any; and that when this step gave rise to a host of slanders +against him she silently encouraged and confirmed the slanders. His +claim was that he was denied from that time forth even the justice of +any tangible accusation against himself which he might meet and refute. + +He observes, in the same article from which we have quoted:-- + + 'When one tells me that I cannot "in any way _justify_ my own + behaviour in that affair," I acquiesce, because no man can "_justify_" + himself until he knows of what he is accused; and I have never + had--and, God knows, my whole desire has ever been to obtain it--any + specific charge, in a tangible shape, submitted to me by the + adversary, nor by others, unless the atrocities of public rumour and + the mysterious silence of the lady's legal advisers may be deemed + such.' + +Lord Byron, his publishers, friends, and biographers, thus agree +in representing his wife as the secret author and abettor of that +persecution, which it is claimed broke up his life, and was the source +of all his subsequent crimes and excesses. + +Lord Byron wrote a poem in September 1816, in Switzerland, just after +the separation, in which he stated, in so many words, these accusations +against his wife. Shortly after the poet's death Murray published +this poem, together with the 'Fare thee well,' and the lines to his +sister, under the title of 'Domestic Pieces,' in his standard edition +of Byron's poetry. It is to be remarked, then, that this was for some +time a private document, shown to confidential friends, and made use of +judiciously, as readers or listeners to his story were able to bear it. +Lady Byron then had a strong party in England. Sir Samuel Romilly and +Dr. Lushington were her counsel. Lady Byron's parents were living, and +the appearance in the public prints of such a piece as this would have +brought down an aggravated storm of public indignation. + +For the general public such documents as the 'Fare thee well' were +circulating in England, and he frankly confessed his wife's virtues and +his own sins to Madame de Stael and others in Switzerland, declaring +himself in the wrong, sensible of his errors, and longing to cast +himself at the feet of that serene perfection, + + 'Which wanted one sweet weakness--to forgive.' + +But a little later he drew for his private partisans this bitter +poetical indictment against her, which, as we have said, was used +discreetly during his life, and published after his death. + +Before we proceed to lay that poem before the reader we will refresh +his memory with some particulars of the tragedy of AEschylus, which +Lord Byron selected as the exact parallel and proper illustration of +his wife's treatment of himself. In his letters and journals he often +alludes to her as Clytemnestra, and the allusion has run the round of +a thousand American papers lately, and been read by a thousand good +honest people, who had no very clear idea who Clytemnestra was, and +what she did which was like the proceedings of Lady Byron. According +to the tragedy, Clytemnestra secretly hates her husband Agamemnon, +whom she professes to love, and wishes to put him out of the way that +she may marry her lover, AEgistheus. When her husband returns from the +Trojan war she receives him with pretended kindness, and officiously +offers to serve him at the bath. Inducing him to put on a garment, of +which she had adroitly sewed up the sleeves and neck so as to hamper +the use of his arms, she gives the signal to a concealed band of +assassins, who rush upon him and stab him. Clytemnestra is represented +by AEschylus as grimly triumphing in her success, which leaves her free +to marry an adulterous paramour. + + 'I did it, too, in such a cunning wise, + That he could neither 'scape nor ward off doom. + I staked around his steps an endless net, + As for the fishes.' + +In the piece entitled 'Lines on hearing Lady Byron is ill,' Lord Byron +charges on his wife a similar treachery and cruelty. The whole poem +is in Murray's English edition, Vol. IV. p. 207. Of it we quote the +following. The reader will bear in mind that it is addressed to Lady +Byron on a sick-bed:-- + + 'I am too well avenged, but 'twas my right; + Whate'er my sins might be, _thou_ wert not sent + To be the Nemesis that should requite, + Nor did Heaven choose so near an instrument. + Mercy is for the merciful! If thou + Hast been of such, 't will be accorded now. + Thy nights are banished from the realms of sleep, + For thou art pillowed on a curse too deep; + Yes! they may flatter thee, but thou shalt feel + A hollow agony that will not heal. + Thou hast sown in my sorrow, and must reap + The bitter harvest in a woe as real. + _I have had many foes, but none like thee_; + For 'gainst the rest myself I could defend, + And be avenged, or turn them into friend; + But thou, in safe implacability, + Hast naught to dread,--in thy own weakness shielded, + And in my love, which hath but too much yielded, + And spared, for thy sake, some I should not spare. + And thus upon the world, trust in thy truth, + And the wild fame of my ungoverned youth,-- + On things that were not and on things that are,-- + Even upon such a basis thou hast built + A monument whose cement hath been guilt! + The moral Clytemnestra of thy lord, + And hewed down with an unsuspected sword + Fame, peace, and hope, and all that better life + Which, but for this cold treason of thy heart, + Might yet have risen from the grave of strife + And found a nobler duty than to part. + But of thy virtues thou didst make a vice, + Trafficking in them with a purpose cold, + And buying others' woes at any price, + For present anger and for future gold; + And thus, once entered into crooked ways, + The early truth, that was thy proper praise, + Did not still walk beside thee, but at times, + And with a breast unknowing its own crimes, + Deceits, averments incompatible, + Equivocations, and the thoughts that dwell + _In Janus spirits, the significant eye + That learns to lie with silence_,[2] the pretext + Of prudence with advantages annexed, + The acquiescence in all things that tend, + No matter how, to the desired end,-- + All found a place in thy philosophy. + The means were worthy and the end is won. + I would not do to thee as thou hast done.' + +[Footnote 2: The italics are mine.] + +Now, if this language means anything, it means, in plain terms, that, +whereas, in her early days, Lady Byron was peculiarly characterised by +truthfulness, she has in her recent dealings with him acted the part +of a liar,--that she is not only a liar, but that she lies for cruel +means and malignant purposes,--that she is a moral assassin, and her +treatment of her husband has been like that of the most detestable +murderess and adulteress of ancient history,--that she has learned to +lie skilfully and artfully, that she equivocates, says incompatible +things, and crosses her own tracks,--that she is double-faced, and +has the art to lie even by silence, and that she has become wholly +unscrupulous, and acquiesces in _any_thing, no matter what, that tends +to the desired end, and that end the destruction of her husband. This +is a brief summary of the story that Byron made it his life's business +to spread through society, to propagate and make converts to during +his life, and which has been in substance reasserted by 'Blackwood' in +a recent article this year. + +Now, the reader will please to notice that this poem is dated in +September 1816, and that on the 29th of March of that same year, he +had thought proper to tell quite another story. At that time the deed +of separation was not signed, and negotiations between Lady Byron, +acting by legal counsel, and himself were still pending. At that time, +therefore, he was standing in a community who knew all he had said +in former days of his wife's character, who were in an aroused and +excited state by the fact that so lovely and good and patient a woman +had actually been forced for some unexplained cause to leave him. His +policy at that time was to make large general confessions of sin, +and to praise and compliment her, with a view of enlisting sympathy. +Everybody feels for a handsome sinner, weeping on his knees, asking +pardon for his offences against his wife in the public newspapers. + +The celebrated 'Fare thee well', as we are told, was written on the +17th of March, and accidentally found its way into the newspapers at +this time 'through the imprudence of a friend whom he allowed to take a +copy.' These 'imprudent friends' have all along been such a marvellous +convenience to Lord Byron. + +But the question met him on all sides, What is the matter? This wife +you have declared the brightest, sweetest, most amiable of beings, and +against whose behaviour as a wife you actually never had nor can have +a complaint to make,--why is she _now_ all of a sudden so inflexibly +set against you? + +This question required an answer, and he answered by writing another +poem, which also _accidentally_ found its way into the public prints. +It is in his 'Domestic Pieces,' which the reader may refer to at the +end of this volume, and is called 'A Sketch.' + +There was a most excellent, respectable, well-behaved Englishwoman, a +Mrs. Clermont,[3] who had been Lady Byron's governess in her youth, +and was still, in mature life, revered as her confidential friend. It +appears that this person had been with Lady Byron during a part of her +married life, especially the bitter hours of her lonely child-bed, when +a young wife so much needs a sympathetic friend. This Mrs. Clermont was +the person selected by Lord Byron at this time to be the scapegoat to +bear away the difficulties of the case into the wilderness. + +[Footnote 3: In Lady Blessington's 'Memoirs' this name is given +Charlemont; in the late 'Temple Bar' article on the character of Lady +Byron it is given Clermont. I have followed the latter.] + +We are informed in Moore's Life what a noble pride of rank Lord Byron +possessed, and how when the headmaster of a school, against whom he had +a pique, invited him to dinner, he declined, saying, 'To tell you the +truth, Doctor, if you should come to Newstead, I shouldn't think of +inviting _you_ to dine with _me_, and so I don't care to dine with you +here.' Different countries, it appears, have different standards as to +good taste; Moore gives this as an amusing instance of a young lord's +spirit. + +Accordingly, his first attack against this 'lady,' as we Americans +should call her, consists in gross statements concerning her having +been born poor and in an inferior rank. He begins by stating that she +was + + 'Born in the garret, in the kitchen bred, + Promoted thence to deck her mistress' head; + Next--for some gracious service unexpressed + And from its wages only to be guessed-- + Raised from the toilet to the table, where + Her wondering betters wait behind her chair. + With eye unmoved and forehead unabashed. + She dines from off the plate she lately washed; + Quick with the tale, and ready with the lie, + The genial confidante and general spy,-- + Who could, ye gods! her next employment guess,-- + An _only infant's earliest governess_! + What had she made the pupil of her art + None knows; _but that high soul secured the heart, + And panted for the truth it could not hear + With longing soul and undeluded ear_!'[4] + +[Footnote 4: The italics are mine.] + +The poet here recognises as a singular trait in Lady Byron her peculiar +love of truth,--a trait which must have struck everyone that had any +knowledge of her through life. He goes on now to give what he certainly +knew to be the real character of Lady Byron:-- + + 'Foiled was perversion by that youthful mind, + Which flattery fooled not, baseness could not blind, + _Deceit infect_ not, nor contagion soil, + Indulgence weaken, or example spoil, + Nor mastered science tempt her to look down + On humbler talent with a pitying frown, + Nor genius swell, nor beauty render vain, + Nor envy ruffle to retaliate pain. + +We are now informed that Mrs. Clermont, whom he afterwards says in his +letters was a spy of Lady Byron's mother, set herself to make mischief +between them. He says:-- + + 'If early habits,--those strong links that bind + At times the loftiest to the meanest mind, + Have given her power too deeply to instil + The angry essence of her deadly will; + If like a snake she steal within your walls, + Till the black slime betray her as she crawls; + If like a viper to the heart she wind, + And leaves the venom there she did not find,-- + What marvel that this hag of hatred works + Eternal evil latent as she lurks.' + +The noble lord then proceeds to abuse this woman of inferior rank in +the language of the upper circles. He thus describes her person and +manner:-- + + 'Skilled by a touch to deepen scandal's tints + With all the kind mendacity of hints, + While mingling truth with falsehood, sneers with smiles, + A thread of candour with a web of wiles; + A plain blunt show of briefly-spoken seeming, + To hide her bloodless heart's soul-harden'd scheming; + A lip of lies; a face formed to conceal, + And without feeling mock at all who feel; + With a vile mask the Gorgon would disown,-- + A cheek of parchment and an eye of stone. + Mark how the channels of her yellow blood + Ooze to her skin and stagnate there to mud, + Cased like the centipede in saffron mail, + Or darker greenness of the scorpion's scale,-- + (For drawn from reptiles only may we trace + Congenial colours in that soul or face,) + Look on her features! and behold her mind + As in a mirror of itself defined: + Look on the picture! deem it not o'ercharged + There is no trait which might not be enlarged.' + +The poem thus ends:-- + + 'May the strong curse of crushed affections light + Back on thy bosom with reflected blight, + And make thee in thy leprosy of mind + As loathsome to thyself as to mankind! + Till all thy self-thoughts curdle into hate, + Black--as thy will for others would create; + Till thy hard heart be calcined into dust, + And thy soul welter in its hideous crust. + O, may thy grave be sleepless as the bed, + The widowed couch of fire, that thou hast spread + Then when thou fain wouldst weary Heaven with prayer, + Look on thy earthly victims--and despair! + Down to the dust! and as thou rott'st away, + Even worms shall perish on thy poisonous clay. + _But for the love I bore and still must bear_ + To her thy malice from all ties would tear, + Thy name,--thy human name,--to every eye + The climax of all scorn, should hang on high, + Exalted o'er thy less abhorred compeers, + And festering in the infamy of years.' + + March 16, 1816. + +Now, on the 29th of March 1816, this was Lord Byron's story. He states +that his wife had a truthfulness even from early girlhood that the most +artful and unscrupulous governess could not pollute,--that she always +_panted_ for truth,--that flattery could not fool nor baseness blind +her,--that though she was a genius and master of science, she was yet +gentle and tolerant, and one whom no envy could ruffle to retaliate +pain. + +In September of the same year she is a monster of unscrupulous deceit +and vindictive cruelty. Now, what had happened in the five months +between the dates of these poems to produce such a change of opinion? +Simply this:-- + +1st. The negotiation between him and his wife's lawyers had ended in +his signing a deed of separation in preference to standing a suit for +divorce. + +2nd. Madame de Stael, moved by his tears of anguish and professions of +repentance, had offered to negotiate with Lady Byron on his behalf, and +had failed. + +The failure of this application is the only apology given by Moore and +Murray for this poem, which gentle Thomas Moore admits was not in quite +as generous a strain as the 'Fare thee well'. + +But Lord Byron knew perfectly well, when he suffered that application +to be made, that Lady Byron had been entirely convinced that her +marriage relations with him could never be renewed, and that duty both +to man and God required her to separate from him. The allowing the +negotiation was, therefore, an artifice to place his wife before the +public in the attitude of a hard-hearted, inflexible woman; her refusal +was what he knew beforehand must inevitably be the result, and merely +gave him capital in the sympathy of his friends, by which they should +be brought to tolerate and accept the bitter accusations of this poem. + +We have recently heard it asserted that this last-named piece of poetry +was the sudden offspring of a fit of ill-temper, and was never intended +to be published at all. There were certainly excellent reasons why +his friends should have advised him not to publish it _at that time_. +But that it was read with sympathy by the circle of his intimate +friends, and believed by them, is evident from the frequency with which +allusions to it occur in his confidential letters to them.[5] + +[Footnote 5: In Lady Blessington's conversations with Lord Byron, just +before he went to Greece, she records that he gave her this poem in +manuscript. It was published in her 'Journal.'] + +About three months after, under date March 10, 1817, he writes to +Moore: 'I suppose now I shall never be able to shake off my sables in +public imagination, more particularly since my moral ---- clove down my +fame.' Again to Murray in 1819, three years after, he says: 'I never +hear anything of Ada, the little Electra of Mycenae.' + +Electra was the daughter of Clytemnestra, in the Greek poem, who lived +to condemn her wicked mother, and to call on her brother to avenge the +father. There was in this mention of Electra more than meets the ear. +Many passages in Lord Byron's poetry show that he intended to make this +daughter a future partisan against her mother, and explain the awful +words he is stated in Lady Anne Barnard's diary to have used when +first he looked on his little girl,--'What an instrument of torture I +have gained in you!' + +In a letter to Lord Blessington, April 6, 1823, he says, speaking of +Dr. Parr:[6]-- + + 'He did me the honour once to be a patron of mine, though a great + friend of the _other branch of the house of Atreus_, and the Greek + teacher, I believe, of my _moral_ Clytemnestra. I say _moral_ because + it is true, and is so useful to the virtuous, that it enables them to + do anything without the aid of an AEgistheus.' + +[Footnote 6: Vol. vi. p. 22.] + +If Lord Byron wrote this poem merely in a momentary fit of spleen, why +were there so many persons evidently quite familiar with his allusions +to it? and why was it preserved in Murray's hands? and why published +after his death? That Byron was in the habit of reposing documents in +the hands of Murray, to be used as occasion offered, is evident from +a part of a note written by him to Murray respecting some verses so +intrusted: 'Pray let not these _versiculi_ go forth with my name except +_to the initiated_.'[7] + +[Footnote 7: 'Byron's Miscellany', vol. ii. p. 358. London, 1853.] + +Murray, in publishing this attack on his wife after Lord Byron's death, +showed that he believed in it, and, so believing, deemed Lady Byron a +woman whose widowed state deserved neither sympathy nor delicacy of +treatment. At a time when every sentiment in the heart of the most +deeply wronged woman would forbid her appearing to justify herself from +such cruel slander of a dead husband, an honest, kind-hearted, worthy +Englishman actually thought it right and proper to give these lines +to her eyes and the eyes of all the reading world. Nothing can show +more plainly what this poem was written for, and how thoroughly it did +its work! Considering Byron as a wronged man, Murray thought he was +contributing his mite towards doing him justice. His editor prefaced +the whole set of 'Domestic Pieces' with the following statements:-- + + 'They all refer to the unhappy separation, of which the precise causes + are still a mystery, and which he declared to the last were never + disclosed to himself. He admitted that pecuniary embarrassments, + disordered health, and dislike to family restraints had aggravated his + naturally violent temper, and driven him to excesses. He suspected + that his mother-in-law had fomented the discord,--which Lady Byron + denies,--and that more was due to the malignant offices of a female + dependant, who is the subject of the bitterly satirical sketch. + + * * * * * + + 'To these general statements can only be added the still vaguer + allegations of Lady Byron, that she conceived his conduct to be the + result of insanity,--that, the physician pronouncing him responsible + for his actions, she could submit to them no longer, and that + Dr. Lushington, her legal adviser, agreed that a reconciliation + was neither proper nor possible. _No weight can be attached to + the opinions of an opposing counsel upon accusations made by one + party behind the back of the other, who urgently demanded and was + pertinaciously refused the least opportunity of denial or defence._ He + rejected the proposal for an amicable separation, but _consented when + threatened with a suit in Doctors' Commons_.'[8] + +[Footnote 8: The italics are mine.] + +Neither John Murray nor any of Byron's partisans seem to have pondered +the admission in these last words. + +Here, as appears, was a woman, driven to the last despair, standing +with her child in her arms, asking from English laws protection for +herself and child against her husband. + +She had appealed to the first counsel in England, and was acting under +their direction. + +Two of the greatest lawyers in England have pronounced that there +has been such a cause of offence on his part that a return to him is +neither proper nor possible, and that no alternative remains to her but +separation or divorce. + +He asks her to state her charges against him. She, making answer +under advice of her counsel, says, 'That if he _insists_ on the +specifications, he must receive them in open court in a suit for +divorce.' + +What, now, ought to have been the conduct of any brave, honest man, +who believed that his wife was taking advantage of her reputation for +virtue to turn every one against him, who saw that she had turned on +her side even the lawyer he sought to retain on his;[9] that she was +an unscrupulous woman, who acquiesced in every and any thing to gain +her ends, while he stood before the public, as he says, 'accused of +every monstrous vice, by public rumour or private rancour'? When she, +under advice of her lawyers, made the alternative legal _separation_ or +open investigation in court for divorce, what did he do? + +[Footnote 9: Lord Byron says, in his observations on an article in +'Blackwood': 'I recollect being much hurt by Romilly's conduct: +he (having a general retainer for me) went over to the adversary, +alleging, on being reminded of his retainer, that he had forgotten it, +as his clerk had so many. I observed that some of those who were now so +eagerly laying the axe to my roof-tree might see their own shaken. His +fell and crushed him.' + +In the first edition of Moore's Life of Lord Byron there was printed a +letter on Sir Samuel Romilly, so brutal that it was suppressed in the +subsequent editions. (See Part III.)] + +HE SIGNED THE ACT OF SEPARATION AND LEFT ENGLAND. + +Now, let any man who knows the legal mind of England,--let any lawyer +who knows the character of Sir Samuel Romilly and Dr. Lushington, ask +whether _they_ were the men to take a case into court for a woman that +had no _evidence_ but her own statements and impressions? Were _they_ +men to go to trial without proofs? Did they not know that there were +artful, hysterical women in the world, and would _they_, of all people, +be the men to take a woman's story on her own side, and advise her in +the last issue to bring it into open court, without legal proof of +the strongest kind? Now, as long as Sir Samuel Romilly lived, this +statement of Byron's--that he was condemned unheard, and had no chance +of knowing whereof he _was accused--never appeared in public_. + +It, however, was most actively circulated _in private_. That Byron was +in the habit of intrusting to different confidants articles of various +kinds to be shown to different circles as they could bear them, we have +already shown. We have recently come upon another instance of this +kind. In the late eagerness to exculpate Byron, a new document has +turned up, of which Mr. Murray, it appears, had never heard when, after +Byron's death, he published in the preface to his 'Domestic Pieces' +the sentence: '_He rejected the proposal for an amicable separation, +but consented when threatened with a suit in Doctors' Commons_.' It +appears that, up to 1853, neither John Murray senior, nor the son who +now fills his place, had taken any notice of this newly found document, +which we are now informed 'was drawn up by Lord Byron in August 1817, +while Mr. Hobhouse was staying with him at La Mira, near Venice, +given to Mr. Matthew Gregory Lewis, _for circulation among friends in +England_, found in Mr. Lewis's papers after his death, and _now_ in the +possession of Mr. Murray.' Here it is:-- + + 'It has been intimated to me that the persons understood to be the + legal advisers of Lady Byron have declared "their lips to be sealed + up" on the cause of the separation between her and myself. If their + lips are sealed up, they are not sealed up by me, and the greatest + favour _they_ can confer upon me will be to open them. From the first + hour in which I was apprised of the intentions of the Noel family to + the last communication between Lady Byron and myself in the character + of wife and husband (a period of some months), I called repeatedly and + in vain for a statement of their or her charges, and it was chiefly + in consequence of Lady Byron's claiming (in a letter still existing) + a promise on my part to consent to a separation, if such was _really_ + her wish, that I consented at all; this claim, and the exasperating + and inexpiable manner in which their object was pursued, which + rendered it next to an impossibility that two persons so divided could + ever be reunited, induced me reluctantly then, and repentantly still, + to sign the deed, which I shall be happy--most happy--to cancel, and + go before any tribunal which may discuss the business in the most + public manner. + + 'Mr. Hobhouse made this proposition on my part, viz. to abrogate + all prior intentions--and go into court--the very day before the + separation was signed, and it was declined by the other party, as + also the publication of the correspondence during the previous + discussion. Those propositions I beg here to repeat, and to call + upon her and hers to say their worst, pledging myself to meet their + allegations,--whatever they may be,--and only too happy to be informed + at last of their real nature. + + 'BYRON.' + + 'August 9, 1817. + + 'P.S.--I have been, and am now, utterly ignorant of what description + her allegations, charges, or whatever name they may have assumed, + are; and am as little aware for what purpose they have been kept + back,--unless it was to sanction the most infamous calumnies by + silence. + + 'BYRON.' + + 'LA MIRA, near VENICE.' + +It appears the circulation of this document must have been _very +private_, since Moore, not _over_-delicate towards Lady Byron, did not +think fit to print it; since John Murray neglected it, and since it has +come out at this late hour for the first time. + +If Lord Byron really desired Lady Byron and her legal counsel to +understand the facts herein stated, and was willing at all hazards to +bring on an open examination, why was this _privately_ circulated? +Why not issued as a card in the London papers? Is it likely that +Mr. Matthew Gregory Lewis, and a chosen band of friends acting as a +committee, requested an audience with Lady Byron, Sir Samuel Romilly, +and Dr. Lushington, and formally presented this cartel of defiance? + +We incline to think not. We incline to think that this small serpent, +in company with many others of like kind, crawled secretly and +privately around, and when it found a good chance, bit an honest +Briton, whose blood was thenceforth poisoned by an undetected falsehood. + +The reader now may turn to the letters that Mr. Moore has thought fit +to give us of this stay at La Mira, beginning with Letter 286, dated +July 1, 1817,[10] where he says: 'I have been working up my impressions +into a _Fourth_ Canto of Childe Harold,' and also 'Mr. Lewis is in +Venice. I am going up to stay a week with him there.' + +[Footnote 10: Vol. iv. p. 40.] + +Next, under date La Mira, Venice, July 10,[11] he says, 'Monk Lewis is +here; how pleasant!' + +[Footnote 11: Ibid. p. 46.] + +Next, under date July 20, 1817, to Mr. Murray: 'I write to give you +notice that I have _completed the fourth and ultimate canto of Childe +Harold_.... It is yet to be copied and polished, and the notes are to +come.' + +Under date of La Mira, August 7, 1817, he records that the new canto is +one hundred and thirty stanzas in length, and talks about the price for +it. He is now ready to launch it on the world; and, as now appears, on +August 9, 1817, _two days after_, he wrote the document above cited, +and put it into the hands of Mr. Lewis, as we are informed, 'for +circulation among friends in England.' + +The reason of this may now be evident. Having prepared a suitable +number of those whom he calls in his notes to Murray 'the initiated,' +by private documents and statements, he is now prepared to publish his +accusations against his wife, and the story of his wrongs, in a great +immortal poem, which shall have a band of initiated interpreters, shall +be read through the civilised world, and stand to accuse her after his +death. + +In the Fourth Canto of 'Childe Harold,' with all his own overwhelming +power of language, he sets forth his cause as against the silent woman +who all this time had been making no party, and telling no story, +and whom the world would therefore conclude to be silent because she +had no answer to make. I remember well the time when this poetry, so +resounding in its music, so mournful, so apparently generous, filled +my heart with a vague anguish of sorrow for the sufferer, and of +indignation at the cold insensibility that had maddened him. Thousands +have felt the power of this great poem, which stands, and must stand to +all time, a monument of what sacred and solemn powers God gave to this +wicked man, and how vilely he abused this power as a weapon to slay the +innocent. + +It is among the ruins of ancient Rome that his voice breaks forth in +solemn imprecation:-- + + 'O Time, thou beautifier of the dead, + Adorner of the ruin, comforter, + And only healer when the heart hath bled!-- + Time, the corrector when our judgments err, + The test of truth, love,--sole philosopher, + For all besides are sophists,--from thy shrift + That never loses, though it doth defer!-- + Time, the avenger! unto thee I lift + My hands and heart and eyes, and claim of thee a gift. + + * * * * * + + 'If thou hast ever seen me too elate, + Hear me not; but if calmly I have borne + Good, and reserved my pride against the hate + Which shall not whelm me, _let me not have worn + This iron in my soul in vain,--shall THEY not mourn?_ + And thou who never yet of human wrong + Left the unbalanced scale, great Nemesis, + Here where the ancients paid their worship long, + Thou who didst call the Furies from the abyss, + And round Orestes bid them howl and hiss + _For that unnatural retribution,--just + Had it but come from hands less near_,--in this + Thy former realm I call thee from the dust. + Dost thou not hear, my heart? awake thou shalt and must! + It is not that I may not have incurred + For my ancestral faults and mine, the wound + Wherewith I bleed withal, and had it been conferred + With a just weapon it had flowed unbound, + But now my blood shall not sink in the ground. + + * * * * * + + 'But in this page a record will I seek; + Not in the air shall these my words disperse, + Though I be ashes,--a far hour shall wreak + The deep prophetic fulness of this verse, + And pile on human heads the mountain of my curse. + That curse shall be forgiveness. Have I not,-- + Hear me, my Mother Earth! behold it, Heaven,-- + Have I not had to wrestle with my lot? + Have I not suffered things to be forgiven? + Have I not had my brain seared, my heart riven, + Hopes sapped, name blighted, life's life lied away, + And only not to desperation driven, + Because not altogether of such clay + As rots into the soul of those whom I survey? + + * * * * * + + 'From mighty wrongs to petty perfidy, + Have I not seen what human things could do,-- + From the loud roar of foaming calumny, + To the small whispers of the paltry few, + And subtler venom of the reptile crew, + _The Janus glance of whose significant eye, + Learning to lie with silence, would seem true, + And without utterance, save the shrug or sigh, + Deal round to happy fools its speechless obloquy_?'[12] + +[Footnote 12: The italics are mine.] + +The reader will please notice that the lines in italics are almost, +word for word, a repetition of the lines in italics in the former poem +on his wife, where he speaks of a _significant eye_ that has _learned +to lie in silence_, and were evidently meant to apply to Lady Byron and +her small circle of confidential friends. + +Before this, in the Third Canto of 'Childe Harold,' he had claimed the +sympathy of the world, as a loving father, deprived by a severe fate of +the solace and society of his only child:-- + + 'My daughter,--with this name my song began,-- + My daughter,--with this name my song shall end,-- + I see thee not and hear thee not, but none + Can be so wrapped in thee; thou art the friend + To whom the shadows of far years extend. + + * * * * * + + 'To aid thy mind's developments, to watch + The dawn of little joys, to sit and see + Almost thy very growth, to view thee catch + Knowledge of objects,--wonders yet to thee,-- + And print on thy soft cheek a parent's kiss,-- + This it should seem was not reserved for me. + Yet this was in my nature,--as it is, + I know not what there is, yet something like to this. + + * * * * * + + '_Yet though dull hate as duty should be taught_, + I know that thou wilt love me; though my name + Should be shut out from thee as spell still fraught + With desolation and a broken claim, + Though the grave close between us,--'t were the same, + I know that thou wilt love me, though to drain + My blood from out thy being were an aim + And an attainment,--all will be in vain.' + +To all these charges against her, sent all over the world in verses +as eloquent as the English language is capable of, the wife replied +nothing. + + 'Assailed by slander and the tongue of strife, + Her only answer was,--a blameless life.' + +She had a few friends, a very few, with whom she sought solace and +sympathy. One letter from her, written at this time, preserved by +accident, is the only authentic record of how the matter stood with her. + +We regret to say that the publication of this document was not brought +forth to clear Lady Byron's name from her husband's slanders, but to +shield him from the worst accusation against him, by showing that this +crime was not included in the few private confidential revelations that +friendship wrung from the young wife at this period. + +Lady Anne Barnard, authoress of 'Auld Robin Grey', a friend whose +age and experience made her a proper confidante, sent for the +broken-hearted, perplexed wife, and offered her a woman's sympathy. + +To her Lady Byron wrote many letters, under seal of confidence, and +Lady Anne says: 'I will give you a few paragraphs transcribed from +one of Lady Byron's own letters to me. It is sorrowful to think that +in a very little time this young and amiable creature, wise, patient, +and feeling, will have her character mistaken by every one who reads +Byron's works. To rescue her from this I preserved her letters, and +when she afterwards expressed a fear that anything of her writing +should ever fall into hands to injure him (I suppose she meant by +publication), I safely assured her that it never should. But here this +letter shall be placed, a sacred record in her favour, unknown to +herself. + + 'I am a very incompetent judge of the impression which the last Canto + of "Childe Harold" may produce on the minds of indifferent readers. + + 'It contains the usual trace of a conscience restlessly awake, though + his object has been too long to aggravate its burden, as if it could + thus be oppressed into eternal stupor. I will hope, as you do, that it + survives for his ultimate good. + + 'It was the acuteness of his remorse, impenitent in its character, + which so long seemed to demand from my compassion to spare every + semblance of reproach, every look of grief, which might have said to + his conscience, "You have made me wretched." + + 'I am decidedly of opinion that he is responsible. He has wished to + be thought partially deranged, or on the brink of it, to perplex + observers and _prevent them from tracing effects to their real causes_ + through all the intricacies of his conduct. I was, as I told you, at + one time the dupe of his acted insanity, and clung to the former + delusions in regard to the motives that concerned me personally, till + the whole system was laid bare. + + 'He is the absolute monarch of words, and uses them, as Bonaparte did + lives, for conquest, without more regard to their intrinsic value, + considering them only as ciphers, which must derive all their import + from the situation in which he places them, and the ends to which he + adapts them, with such consummate skill. + + 'Why, then, you will say, does he not employ them to give a better + colour to his own character? Because he is too good an actor to + over-act, or to assume a moral garb, which it would be easy to strip + off. + + 'In regard to his poetry, egotism is the vital principle of his + imagination, which it is difficult for him to kindle on any subject + with which his own character and interests are not identified; but by + the introduction of fictitious incidents, by change of scene or time, + _he has enveloped his poetical disclosures in a system impenetrable + except to a very few_; and his constant desire of creating a sensation + makes him not averse to be the object of wonder and curiosity, even + though accompanied _by some dark and vague suspicions_. + + 'Nothing has contributed more to the misunderstanding of his real + character than the lonely grandeur in which he shrouds it, and his + affectation of being above mankind, when he exists almost in their + voice. The romance of his sentiments is another feature of this mask + of state. I know no one more habitually destitute of that enthusiasm + he so beautifully expresses, and to which he can work up his fancy + chiefly by contagion. + + '_I had heard he was the best of brothers, the most generous of + friends, and I thought such feelings only required to be warmed and + cherished into more diffusive benevolence. Though these opinions are + eradicated, and could never return but with the decay of my memory_, + you will not wonder if there are still moments when the association of + feelings which arose from them soften and sadden my thoughts. + + 'But I have not thanked you, dearest Lady Anne, for your kindness in + regard to a principal object,--that of rectifying false impressions. + I trust you understand my wishes, which never were to injure Lord + Byron in any way; for, _though he would not suffer me to remain his + wife, he cannot prevent me from continuing his friend; and it was from + considering myself as such that I silenced the accusations by which my + own conduct might have been more fully justified_. + + 'It is not necessary to speak ill of his heart in general; it is + sufficient that to me it was hard and impenetrable,--that my own must + have been broken before his could have been touched. I would rather + represent this as _my_ misfortune than as _his_ guilt; but, surely, + that misfortune is not to be made my crime! Such are my feelings; you + will judge how to act. + + 'His allusions to me in "Childe Harold" are cruel and cold, but + with such a semblance as to make _me_ appear so, and to attract all + sympathy to himself. It is said in this poem that hatred of him will + be taught as a lesson to his child. I might appeal to all who have + ever heard me speak of him, and still more to my own heart, to witness + that there has been no moment when I have remembered injury otherwise + than affectionately and sorrowfully. + + 'It is not my duty to give way to hopeless and wholly unrequited + affection; but, so long as I live, my chief struggle will probably + be not to remember him too kindly. I do not seek the sympathy of the + world, but I wish to be known by those whose opinion is valuable and + whose kindness is dear to me. Among such, my dear Lady Anne, you will + ever be remembered by your truly affectionate + + 'A. BYRON.' + +On this letter I observe Lord Lindsay remarks that it shows a noble +but rather severe character, and a recent author has remarked that it +seemed to be written rather in a 'cold spirit of criticism.' It seems +to strike these gentlemen as singular that Lady Byron did not enjoy the +poem! But there are two remarkable sentences in this letter which have +escaped the critics hitherto. Lord Byron, in this, the Third Canto +of 'Childe Harold,' expresses in most affecting words an enthusiasm +of love for his sister. So long as he lived he was her faithful +correspondent; he sent her his journals; and, dying, he left her and +her children everything he had in the world. This certainly seems like +an affectionate brother; but in what words does Lady Byron speak of +this affection? + +'I _had heard he was the best of brothers_, the most generous of +friends. I thought these feelings only required to be warmed and +cherished into more diffusive benevolence. THESE OPINIONS ARE +ERADICATED, AND COULD NEVER RETURN BUT WITH THE DECAY OF MEMORY.' +Let me ask those who give this letter as a proof that at this time no +idea such as I have stated was in Lady Byron's mind, to account for +these words. Let them please answer these questions: Why had Lady Byron +ceased to think him a good brother? Why does she use so strong a word +as that the opinion was eradicated, torn up by the roots, and could +never grow again in her except by decay of memory? + +And yet this is a document Lord Lindsay vouches for as authentic, and +which he brings forward _in defence_ of Lord Byron. + +Again she says,'Though he _would not suffer me to remain his wife_, he +cannot prevent me from continuing his friend.' Do these words not say +that in some past time, in some decided manner, Lord Byron had declared +to her his rejection of her as a wife? I shall yet have occasion to +explain these words. + +Again she says, 'I silenced accusations by which my conduct might have +been more fully justified.' + +The people in England who are so very busy in searching out evidence +against my true story have searched out and given to the world an +important confirmation of this assertion of Lady Byron's. + +It seems that the confidential waiting-maid who went with Lady Byron +on her wedding journey has been sought out and interrogated, and, as +appears by description, is a venerable, respectable old person, quite +in possession of all her senses in general, and of that sixth sense of +propriety in particular, which appears not to be a common virtue in our +days. + +As her testimony is important, we insert it just here, with a +description of her person in full. The ardent investigators thus +speak:-- + + 'Having gained admission, we were shown into a small but neatly + furnished and scrupulously clean apartment, where sat the object + of our visit. Mrs. Mimms is a venerable-looking old lady, of short + stature, slight and active appearance, with a singularly bright and + intelligent countenance. Although midway between eighty and ninety + years of age, she is in full possession of her faculties, discourses + freely and cheerfully, hears apparently as well as ever she did, + and her sight is so good that, aided by a pair of spectacles, she + reads the Chronicle every day with ease. Some idea of her competency + to contribute valuable evidence to the subject which now so much + engages public attention on three continents may be found from her + own narrative of her personal relations with Lady Byron. Mrs. Mimms + was born in the neighbourhood of Seaham, and knew Lady Byron from + childhood. During the long period of ten years she was Miss Milbanke's + lady's-maid, and in that capacity became the close confidante of her + mistress. There were circumstances which rendered their relationship + peculiarly intimate. Miss Milbanke had no sister or female friend + to whom she was bound by the ties of more than a common affection; + and her mother, whatever other excellent qualities she may have + possessed, was too high-spirited and too hasty in temper to attract + the sympathies of the young. Some months before Miss Milbanke was + married to Lord Byron, Mrs. Mimms had quitted her service on the + occasion of her own marriage with Mr. Mimms; but she continued to + reside in the neighbourhood of Seaham, and remained on the most + friendly terms with her former mistress. As the courtship proceeded, + Miss Milbanke concealed nothing from her faithful attendant; and + when the wedding-day was fixed, she begged Mrs. Mimms to return and + fulfil the duties of lady's-maid, at least during the honeymoon. Mrs. + Mimms at the time was nursing her first child, and it was no small + sacrifice to quit her own home at such a moment, but she could not + refuse her old mistress's request. Accordingly, she returned to Seaham + Hall some days before the wedding, was present at the ceremony, and + then preceded Lord and Lady Byron to Halnaby Hall, near Croft, in the + North Riding of Yorkshire, one of Sir Ralph Milbanke's seats, where + the newly married couple were to spend the honeymoon. Mrs. Mimms + remained with Lord and Lady Byron during the three weeks they spent at + Halnaby Hall, and then accompanied them to Seaham, where they spent + the next six weeks. It was during the latter period that she finally + quitted Lady Byron's service; but she remained in the most friendly + communication with her ladyship till the death of the latter, and for + some time was living in the neighbourhood of Lady Byron's residence + in Leicestershire, where she had frequent opportunities of seeing her + former mistress. It may be added that Lady Byron was not unmindful of + the faithful services of her friend and attendant in the instructions + to her executors contained in her will. Such was the position of Mrs. + Mimms towards Lady Byron; and we think no one will question that + it was of a nature to entitle all that Mrs. Mimms may say on the + subject of the relations of Lord and Lady Byron to the most respectful + consideration and credit.' + +Such is the chronicler's account of the faithful creature whom nothing +but intense indignation and disgust at Mrs. Beecher Stowe would lead +to speak on her mistress's affairs; but Mrs. Beecher Stowe feels none +the less sincere respect for her, and is none the less obliged to her +for having spoken. Much of Mrs. Mimms's testimony will be referred to +in another place; we only extract one passage, to show that while Lord +Byron spent his time in setting afloat slanders against his wife, she +spent hers in sealing the mouths of witnesses against him. + +Of the period of the honeymoon Mrs. Mimms says:-- + + 'The happiness of Lady Byron, however, was of brief duration; even + during the short three weeks they spent at Halnaby, the irregularities + of Lord Byron occasioned her the greatest distress, and she even + contemplated returning to her father. Mrs. Mimms was her constant + companion and confidante through this painful period, and she does not + believe that her ladyship concealed a thought from her. _With laudable + reticence, the old lady absolutely refuses to disclose the particulars + of Lord Byron's misconduct at this time; she gave Lady Byron a solemn + promise not to do so._ + + * * * * * + + 'So serious did Mrs. Mimms consider the conduct of Lord Byron, that + she recommended her mistress to confide all the circumstances to her + father, Sir Ralph Milbanke, a calm, kind, and most excellent parent, + and take his advice as to her future course. At one time Mrs. Mimms + thinks Lady Byron had resolved to follow her counsel and impart her + wrongs to Sir Ralph; but on arriving at Seaham Hall her ladyship + strictly enjoined Mrs. Mimms to preserve absolute silence on the + subject--a course which she followed herself;--so that when, six weeks + later, she and Lord Byron left Seaham for London, not a word had + escaped her to disturb her parents' tranquility as to their daughter's + domestic happiness. As might be expected, Mrs. Mimms bears the + warmest testimony to the noble and lovable qualities of her departed + mistress. She also declares that Lady Byron was by no means of a cold + temperament, but that the affectionate impulses of her nature were + checked by the unkind treatment she experienced from her husband.' + +We have already shown that Lord Byron had been, ever since his +separation, engaged in a systematic attempt to reverse the judgment of +the world against himself, by making converts of all his friends to a +most odious view of his wife's character, and inspiring them with the +zeal of propagandists to spread these views through society. We have +seen how he prepared partisans to interpret the Fourth Canto of 'Childe +Harold.' + +This plan of solemn and heroic accusation was the first public attack +on his wife. Next we see him commencing a scurrilous attempt to turn +her to ridicule in the First Canto of 'Don Juan.' + +It is to our point now to show how carefully and cautiously this Don +Juan campaign was planned. + +Vol. IV. p. 138, we find Letter 325 to Mr. Murray:-- + + 'VENICE: January 25, 1819. + + 'You will do me the favour to _print privately, for private + distribution, fifty copies of "Don Juan."_ The list of the men to whom + I wish it presented I will send hereafter.' + +The poem, as will be remembered, begins with the meanest and foulest +attack on his wife that ever ribald wrote, and puts it in close +neighbourhood with scenes which every pure man or woman must feel +to be the beastly utterances of a man who had lost all sense of +decency. Such a potion was too strong to be administered even in a +time when great license was allowed, and men were not over-nice. But +Byron chooses fifty armour-bearers of that class of men who would +find indecent ribaldry about a wife a good joke, and talk about the +'artistic merits' of things which we hope would make an honest boy +blush. + +At this time he acknowledges that his vices had brought him to a state +of great exhaustion, attended by such debility of the stomach that +nothing remained on it; and adds, 'I was obliged to reform my way of +life, which was conducting me from the yellow leaf to the ground with +all deliberate speed.'[13] But as his health is a little better he +employs it in making the way to death and hell elegantly easy for other +young men, by breaking down the remaining scruples of a society not +over-scrupulous. + +[Footnote 13: Vol. iv. p 143.] + +Society revolted, however, and fought stoutly against the nauseous +dose. His sister wrote to him that she heard such things said of it +that _she_ never would read it; and the outcry against it on the part +of all women of his acquaintance was such that for a time he was quite +overborne; and the Countess Guiccioli finally extorted a promise from +him to cease writing it. Nevertheless, there came a time when England +accepted 'Don Juan,'--when Wilson, in the 'Noctes Ambrosianae,' praised +it as a classic, and took every opportunity to reprobate Lady Byron's +conduct. When first it appeared the 'Blackwood' came out with that +indignant denunciation of which we have spoken, and to which Byron +replied in the extracts we have already quoted. He did something more +than reply. He marked out Wilson as one of the strongest literary men +of the day, and set his 'initiated' with their documents to work upon +him. + +One of these documents to which he requested Wilson's attention was the +private autobiography, written expressly to give his own story of all +the facts of the marriage and separation. + +In the indignant letter he writes Murray on the 'Blackwood' article, +Vol. IV., Letter 350--under date December 10, 1819--he says:-- + + 'I sent home for Moore, and for Moore only (who has my journal also), + my memoir written up to 1816, and I gave him leave to show it to + whom he pleased, _but not to publish_ on any account. _You_ may read + it, and you may let Wilson read it if he likes--not for his public + opinion, but his private, for I like the man, and care very little + about the magazine. And I could wish Lady Byron herself to read + it, that she may have it in her power to mark anything mistaken or + misstated. As it will never appear till after my extinction, it would + be but fair she should see it; that is to say, herself willing. Your + "Blackwood" accuses me of treating women harshly; but I have been + their martyr; my whole life has been sacrificed to them and by them.' + +It was a part of Byron's policy to place Lady Byron in positions before +the world where she _could_ not speak, and where her silence would be +set down to her as haughty, stony indifference and obstinacy. Such was +the pretended negotiation through Madame de Stael, and such now this +apparently fair and generous offer to let Lady Byron see and mark this +manuscript. + +The little Ada is now in her fifth year--a child of singular +sensibility and remarkable mental powers--one of those exceptional +children who are so perilous a charge for a mother. + +Her husband proposes this artful snare to her,--that she shall mark +what is false in a statement which is all built on a damning lie, that +she cannot refute over that daughter's head,--and which would perhaps +be her ruin to discuss. + +Hence came an addition of two more documents, to be used 'privately +among friends,'[14] and which 'Blackwood' uses after Lady Byron is +safely out of the world to cast ignominy on her grave--the wife's +letter, that of a mother standing at bay for her daughter, knowing that +she is dealing with a desperate, powerful, unscrupulous enemy. + + 'KIRKBY MALLORY: March 10, 1820. + + [Footnote 14: Lord Byron took especial pains to point out to Murray + the importance of these two letters. Vol. V. Letter 443, he says: 'You + must also have from Mr. Moore the correspondence between me and Lady + B., to whom I offered a sight of all that concerns herself in these + papers. This is important. He has _her_ letter and my answer.'] + + 'I received your letter of January 1, offering to my perusal a + Memoir of part of your life. I decline to inspect it. I consider + the publication or circulation of such a composition at any time as + prejudicial to Ada's future happiness. For my own sake, I have no + reason to shrink from publication; but, notwithstanding the injuries + which I have suffered, I should lament some of the _consequences_. + + 'A. BYRON. + + 'To Lord Byron.' + +Lord Byron, writing for the public, as is his custom, makes reply:-- + + 'RAVENNA: April 3, 1820. + + 'I received yesterday your answer, dated March 10. My offer was an + honest one, and surely could only be construed as such even by the + most malignant casuistry. I could answer you, but it is too late, and + it is not worth while. To the mysterious menace of the last sentence, + whatever its import may be--and I cannot pretend to unriddle it--I + could hardly be very sensible even if I understood it, as, before it + can take place, I shall be where "nothing can touch him further".... I + advise you, however, to anticipate the period of your intention, for, + be assured, no power of figures can avail beyond the present; and if + it could, I would answer with the Florentine:-- + + '"Ed io, che posto son con loro in croce + ... e certo + La fiera moglie, piu ch' altro, mi nuoce."[15] + + 'BYRON. + + 'To Lady Byron.' + +[Footnote 15: + + 'And I, who with them on the cross am placed, + ... truly + My savage wife, more than aught else, doth harm me.' + + _Inferno_, Canto, XVI., Longfellow's translation. +] + +Two things are very evident in this correspondence: Lady Byron +intimates that, if he publishes his story, some _consequences_ must +follow which she shall regret. + +Lord Byron receives this as a threat, and says he doesn't understand +it. But directly after he says, 'Before IT can take place, I shall be,' +&c. + +The intimation is quite clear. He _does_ understand what the +consequences alluded to are. They are evidently that Lady Byron will +speak out and tell her story. He says she cannot do this till _after +he is dead_, and then he shall not care. In allusion to her accuracy +as to dates and figures, he says: 'Be assured no power of figures can +avail beyond the present' (life); and then ironically _advises_ her to +_anticipate the period_,--i.e. to speak out while he is alive. + +In Vol. VI. Letter 518, which Lord Byron wrote to Lady Byron, but did +not send, he says: 'I burned your last note for two reasons,--firstly, +because it was written in a style not very agreeable; and, secondly, +because I wished to take your word without documents, which are the +resources of worldly and suspicious people.' + +It would appear from this that there _was_ a last letter of Lady Byron +to her husband, which he did not think proper to keep on hand, or show +to the 'initiated' with his usual unreserve; that this letter contained +some kind of _pledge_ for which he preferred to take her word, _without +documents_. + +Each reader can imagine for himself what that _pledge_ might have been; +but from the tenor of the three letters we should infer that it was a +promise of silence for his lifetime, on _certain conditions_, and that +the publication of the autobiography would violate those conditions, +and make it her duty to speak out. + +This celebrated autobiography forms so conspicuous a figure in the +whole history, that the reader must have a full idea of it, as given by +Byron himself, in Vol. IV. Letter 344, to Murray:-- + + 'I gave to Moore, who is gone to Rome, my life in MS.,--in + seventy-eight folio sheets, brought down to 1816 ... also a journal + kept in 1814. Neither are for publication during my life, but when I + am cold you may do what you please. In the mean time, if you like to + read them you may, and show them to anybody you like. I care not....' + +He tells him also:-- + + 'You will find in it a detailed account of my marriage and its + consequences, as true as a party concerned can make such an account.' + +Of the extent to which this autobiography was circulated we have the +following testimony of Shelton Mackenzie, in notes to 'The Noctes' of +June 1824. + +In 'The Noctes' Odoherty says:-- + + 'The fact is, the work had been copied for the private reading of a + great lady in Florence.' + +The note says:-- + + 'The great lady in Florence, for whose private reading Byron's + autobiography was copied, was the Countess of Westmoreland.... Lady + Blessington had the autobiography in her possession for weeks, and + confessed to having copied every line of it. Moore remonstrated, and + she committed her copy to the flames, but did not tell him that her + sister, Mrs. Home Purvis, now Viscountess of Canterbury, had also made + a copy!... From the quantity of copy I have seen,--and others were + more in the way of falling in with it than myself,--I surmise that at + least half a dozen copies were made, and of these _five_ are now in + existence. Some particular parts, such as the marriage and separation, + were copied separately; but I think there cannot be less than five + full copies yet to be found.' + +This was written _after the original autobiography was burned_. + +We may see the zeal and enthusiasm of the Byron party,--copying +seventy-eight folio sheets, as of old Christians copied the Gospels. +How widely, fully, and thoroughly, thus, by this secret process, was +society saturated with Byron's own versions of the story that related +to himself and wife! Against her there was only the complaint of an +absolute silence. She put forth no statements, no documents; had no +party, sealed the lips of her counsel, and even of her servants; yet +she could not but have known, from time to time, how thoroughly and +strongly this web of mingled truth and lies was being meshed around her +steps. + +From the time that Byron first saw the importance of securing Wilson on +his side, and wrote to have his partisans attend to him, we may date +an entire revolution in the 'Blackwood.' It became Byron's warmest +supporter,--is to this day the bitterest accuser of his wife. + +Why was this wonderful silence? It appears by Dr. Lushington's +statements, that, when Lady Byron did speak, she had a story to tell +that powerfully affected both him and Romilly,--a story supported by +evidence on which they were willing to have gone to public trial. +Supposing, now, she had imitated Lord Byron's example, and, avoiding +public trial, had put her story into private circulation; as he sent +'Don Juan' to fifty confidential friends, suppose she had sent a +written statement of her story to fifty judges as intelligent as the +two that had heard it; or suppose she had confronted his autobiography +with her own,--what would have been the result? + +The first result might have been Mrs. Leigh's utter ruin. The world may +finally forgive the man of genius anything; but for a woman there is no +mercy and no redemption. + +This ruin Lady Byron prevented by her utter silence and great +self-command. Mrs. Leigh never lost position. Lady Byron never so +varied in her manner towards her as to excite the suspicions even of +her confidential old servant. + +To protect Mrs. Leigh effectually, it must have been necessary to +continue to exclude even her own mother from the secret, as we are +assured she did at first; for, had she told Lady Milbanke, it is +not possible that so high-spirited a woman could have restrained +herself from such outward expressions as would at least have awakened +suspicion. There was no resource but this absolute silence. + +Lady Blessington, in her last conversation with Lord Byron, thus +describes the life Lady Byron was leading. She speaks of her as +'wearing away her youth in almost monastic seclusion, questioned by +some, appreciated by few, seeking consolation alone in the discharge of +her duties, and avoiding all external demonstrations of a grief that +her pale cheek and solitary existence alone were vouchers for.'[16] + +[Footnote 16: 'Conversations,' p. 108.] + +The main object of all this silence may be imagined, if we remember +that if Lord Byron had not died,--had he truly and deeply repented, +and become a thoroughly good man, and returned to England to pursue a +course worthy of his powers, there was on record neither word nor deed +from his wife to stand in his way. + +HIS PLACE WAS KEPT IN SOCIETY, ready for him to return to +whenever he came clothed and in his right mind. He might have had the +heart and confidence of his daughter unshadowed by a suspicion. He +might have won the reverence of the great and good in his own lands and +all lands. That hope, which was the strong support, the prayer of the +silent wife, it did not please God to fulfil. + +Lord Byron died a worn-out man at thirty-six. But the bitter seeds he +had sown came up, after his death, in a harvest of thorns over his +grave; and there were not wanting hands to use them as instruments of +torture on the heart of his widow. + + + + +CHAPTER III. + +RESUME OF THE CONSPIRACY. + + +We have traced the conspiracy of Lord Byron against his wife up to its +latest device. That the reader's mind may be clear on the points of the +process, we shall now briefly recapitulate the documents in the order +of time. + +I. March 17, 1816.--While negotiations for separation were +pending,--'_Fare thee well, and if for ever_.' + +While writing these pages, we have received from England the testimony +of one who has seen the original draught of that 'Fare thee well.' This +original copy had evidently been subjected to the most careful and +acute revision. Scarcely two lines that were not interlined, scarcely +an adjective that was not exchanged for a better; showing that the +noble lord was not so far overcome by grief as to have forgotten his +reputation. (Found its way to the public prints through the imprudence +of _a friend_.) + +II. March 29, 1816.--An attack on Lady Byron's old governess for having +been born poor, for being homely, and for having unduly influenced his +wife against him; promising that her grave should be a fiery bed, +&c.; also praising his wife's perfect and remarkable truthfulness and +discernment, that made it impossible for flattery to fool, or baseness +blind her; but ascribing all his woes to her being fooled and blinded +by this same governess. (Found its way to the prints by the imprudence +of _a friend_.) + +III. September 1816.--Lines on hearing that Lady Byron is ill. Calls +her a Clytemnestra, who has secretly set assassins on her lord; says +she is a mean, treacherous, deceitful liar, and has entirely departed +from her early truth, and become the most unscrupulous and unprincipled +of women. (Never printed till after Lord Byron's death, but circulated +_privately_ among the '_initiated_.') + +IV. Aug. 9, 1817.--Gives to M. G. Lewis a paper for circulation +among friends in England, stating that what he most wants is _public +investigation_, which has always been denied him; and daring Lady Byron +and her counsel to come out publicly. (Found in M. G. Lewis's portfolio +after his death; never heard of before, except among the 'initiated.') + +Having given M. G. Lewis's document time to work,-- + +January 1818.--Gives the Fourth Canto of 'Childe Harold'[17] to the +public. + +[Footnote 17: Murray's edition of 'Byron's Works,' Vol. ii. p. 189; +date of dedication to Hobhouse, Jan. 2, 1818.] + +Jan. 25, 1819.--Sends to Murray to print for private circulation among +the 'initiated' the First Canto of 'Don Juan.' + +Is nobly and severely rebuked for this insult to his wife by the +'Blackwood,' August 1819. + +October 1819.--Gives Moore the manuscript 'Autobiography,' with leave +to show it to whom he pleases, and print it after his death. + +Oct. 29, 1819, Vol. IV. Letter 344.--Writes to Murray, that he may read +all this 'Autobiography,' and show it to anybody he likes. + +Dec. 10, 1819.--Writes to Murray on this article in 'Blackwood' +against 'Don Juan' and himself, which he supposes written by Wilson; +sends a complimentary message to Wilson, and asks him to read his +'Autobiography' sent by Moore. (Letter 350.) + +March 15, 1820.--Writes and dedicates to I. Disraeli, Esq., a +vindication of himself in reply to the 'Blackwood' on 'Don Juan,' +containing an indignant defence of his own conduct in relation to his +wife, and maintaining that he never yet has had an opportunity of +knowing whereof he has been accused; accusing Sir S. Romilly of taking +his retainer, and then going over to the adverse party, &c. (Printed +for _private circulation_; to be found in the standard English edition +of Murray, vol. ix. p. 57.) + +To this condensed account of Byron's strategy we must add the crowning +stroke of policy which transmitted this warfare to his friends, to be +continued after his death. + +During the last visit Moore made him in Italy, and just before Byron +presented to him his 'Autobiography,' the following scene occurred, as +narrated by Moore (vol. iv. p. 221):-- + + 'The chief subject of conversation, when alone, was his marriage, and + the load of obloquy which it had brought upon him. He was most anxious + to know _the worst_ that had been alleged of his conduct; and, as this + was our first opportunity of speaking together on the subject, I did + not hesitate to put his candour most searchingly to the proof, not + only by enumerating the various charges I had heard brought against + him by others, but by specifying such portions of these charges as I + had been inclined to think not incredible myself. + + 'To all this he listened with patience, and answered with the most + unhesitating frankness; laughing to scorn the tales of unmanly outrage + related of him, but at the same time acknowledging that there had + been in his conduct but too much to blame and regret, and stating one + or two occasions during his domestic life when he had been irritated + into letting the "breath of bitter words" escape him, ... which he now + evidently remembered with a degree of remorse and pain which might + well have entitled them to be forgotten by others. + + 'It was, at the same time, manifest, that, whatever admissions he + might be inclined to make respecting his own delinquencies, _the + inordinate measure of the punishment dealt out to him had sunk deeply + into his mind, and, with the usual effect of such injustice, drove him + also to be unjust himself; so much so, indeed, as to impute to the + quarter to which he now traced all his ill fate a feeling of fixed + hostility to himself, which would not rest, he thought, even at his + grave, but continue to persecute his memory as it was now embittering + his life_. So strong was this impression upon him, that, during one of + our few intervals of seriousness, he conjured me by our friendship, + if, as he both felt and hoped, I should survive him, not to let + unmerited censure settle upon his name.' + +In this same account, page 218, Moore testifies that + + 'Lord Byron disliked his countrymen, but only because he knew that his + morals were held in contempt by them. The English, themselves rigid + observers of family duties, could not pardon him the neglect of his, + nor his trampling on principles; therefore, neither did he like being + presented to them, nor did they, especially when they had wives with + them, like to cultivate his acquaintance. Still there was a strong + desire in all of them to see him; and the women in particular, who did + not dare to look at him but by stealth, said in an under-voice, "What + a pity it is!" If, however, any of his compatriots of exalted rank and + high reputation came forward to treat him with courtesy, he showed + himself obviously flattered by it. It seemed that, to the wound which + remained open in his ulcerated heart, such soothing attentions were as + drops of healing balm, which comforted him.' + +When in society, we are further informed by a lady quoted by Mr. +Moore, he was in the habit of speaking of his wife with much respect +and affection, as an illustrious lady, distinguished for her qualities +of heart and understanding; saying that all the fault of their +cruel separation lay with himself. Mr. Moore seems at times to be +somewhat puzzled by these contradictory statements of his idol, and +speculates not a little on what could be Lord Byron's object in using +such language in public; mentally comparing it, we suppose, with +the free handling which he gave to the same subject in his private +correspondence. + +The innocence with which Moore gives himself up to be manipulated by +Lord Byron, the _naivete_ with which he shows all the process, let +us a little into the secret of the marvellous powers of charming and +blinding which this great actor possessed. + +Lord Byron had the beauty, the wit, the genius, the dramatic talent, +which have constituted the strength of some wonderfully fascinating +women. + +There have been women able to lead their leashes of blinded adorers; to +make them swear that black was white, or white black, at their word; +to smile away their senses, or weep away their reason. No matter what +these sirens may say, no matter what they may do, though caught in a +thousand transparent lies, and doing a thousand deeds which would have +ruined others, still men madly rave after them in life, and tear their +hair over their graves. Such an enchanter in man's shape was Lord Byron. + +He led captive Moore and Murray by being beautiful, a genius, and a +lord; calling them 'Dear Tom' and 'Dear Murray,' while they were only +commoners. He first insulted Sir Walter Scott, and then witched his +heart out of him by ingenuous confessions and poetical compliments; he +took Wilson's heart by flattering messages and a beautifully-written +letter; he corresponded familiarly with Hogg; and, before his death, +had made fast friends, in one way or another, of the whole 'Noctes +Ambrosianae' Club. + +We thus have given the historical _resume_ of Lord Byron's attacks +on his wife's reputation: we shall add, that they were based on +philosophic principles, showing a deep knowledge of mankind. An +analysis will show that they can be philosophically classified:-- + +1st. Those which addressed the sympathetic nature of man, representing +her as cold, methodical, severe, strict, unforgiving. + +2nd. Those addressed to the faculty of association, connecting her with +ludicrous and licentious images; taking from her the usual protection +of womanly delicacy and sacredness. + +3rd. Those addressed to the moral faculties, accusing her as artful, +treacherous, untruthful, malignant. + +All these various devices he held in his hand, shuffling and dealing +them as a careful gamester his pack of cards according to the +exigencies of the game. He played adroitly, skilfully, with blinding +flatteries and seductive wiles, that made his victims willing dupes. + +Nothing can more clearly show the power and perfectness of his +enchantments than the masterly way in which he turned back the moral +force of the whole English nation, which had risen at first in its +strength against him. The victory was complete. + + + + +CHAPTER IV. + +RESULTS AFTER LORD BYRON'S DEATH. + + +At the time of Lord Byron's death, the English public had been so +skilfully manipulated by the Byron propaganda, that the sympathy of +the whole world was with him. A tide of emotion was now aroused in +England by his early death--dying in the cause of Greece and liberty. +There arose a general wail for him, as for a lost pleiad, not only +in England, but over the whole world; a great rush of enthusiasm for +his memory, to which the greatest literary men of England freely gave +voice. By general consent, Lady Byron seems to have been looked upon as +the only cold-hearted unsympathetic person in this general mourning. + +From that time the literary world of England apparently regarded Lady +Byron as a woman to whom none of the decorums, nor courtesies of +ordinary womanhood, nor even the consideration belonging to common +humanity, were due. + +'She that is a widow indeed, and desolate,' has been regarded in all +Christian countries as an object made sacred by the touch of God's +afflicting hand, sacred in her very helplessness; and the old Hebrew +Scriptures give to the Supreme Father no dearer title than 'the widow's +God.' But, on Lord Byron's death, men not devoid of tenderness, men +otherwise generous and of fine feeling, acquiesced in insults to his +widow with an obtuseness that seems, on review, quite incredible. + +Lady Byron was not only a widow, but an orphan. She had no sister for +confidante; no father and mother to whom to go in her sorrows--sorrows +so much deeper and darker to her than they could be to any other human +being. She had neither son nor brother to uphold and protect her. On +all hands it was acknowledged that, so far, there was no fault to be +found in her but her utter silence. Her life was confessed to be pure, +useful, charitable; and yet, in this time of her sorrow, the writers +of England issued article upon article not only devoid of delicacy, +but apparently injurious and insulting towards her, with a blind +unconsciousness which seems astonishing. + +One of the greatest literary powers of that time was the 'Blackwood:' +the reigning monarch on that literary throne was Wilson, the +lion-hearted, the brave, generous, tender poet, and, with some sad +exceptions, the noble man. But Wilson had believed the story of Byron, +and, by his very generosity and tenderness and pity, was betrayed into +injustice. + +In 'The Noctes' of November 1824 there is a conversation of the Noctes +Club, in which North says, 'Byron and I knew each other pretty well; +and I suppose there's no harm in adding, that we appreciated each +other pretty tolerably. Did you ever see his letter to me?' + +The footnote to this says, '_This letter, which was PRINTED in Byron's +lifetime, was not published till_ 1830, when it appeared in Moore's +"Life of Byron." It is one of the most vigorous prose compositions in +the language. Byron had the highest opinion of Wilson's genius and +noble spirit.' + +In the first place, with our present ideas of propriety and good taste, +we should reckon it an indecorum to make the private affairs of a +pure and good woman, whose circumstances under any point of view were +trying, and who evidently shunned publicity, the subject of public +discussion in magazines which were read all over the world. + +Lady Byron, as they all knew, had on her hands a most delicate and +onerous task, in bringing up an only daughter, necessarily inheriting +peculiarities of genius and great sensitiveness; and the many +mortifications and embarrassments which such intermeddling with her +private matters must have given, certainly should have been considered +by men with any pretensions to refinement or good feeling. + +But the literati of England allowed her no consideration, no rest, no +privacy. + +In 'The Noctes' of November 1825 there is the record of a free +conversation upon Lord and Lady Byron's affairs, interlarded with +exhortations to push the bottle, and remarks on whisky-toddy. Medwin's +'Conversations with Lord Byron' is discussed, which, we are told in a +note, appeared a few months after the _noble_ poet's death. + +There is a rather bold and free discussion of Lord Byron's +character--his fondness for gin and water, on which stimulus he wrote +'Don Juan;' and James Hogg says pleasantly to Mullion, 'O Mullion! it's +a pity you and Byron could na ha' been acquaint. There would ha' been +brave sparring to see who could say the wildest and the dreadfullest +things; for he had neither fear of man or woman, and would ha' his joke +or jeer, cost what it might.' And then follows a specimen of one of +his jokes with an actress, that, in indecency, certainly justifies the +assertion. From the other stories which follow, and the parenthesis +that occurs frequently ('Mind your glass, James, a little more!'), it +seems evident that the party are progressing in their peculiar kind of +_civilisation_. + +It is in this same circle and paper that Lady Byron's private affairs +come up for discussion. The discussion is thus elegantly introduced:-- + + _Hogg._--'Reach me the black bottle. I say, Christopher, what, after + all, is your opinion o' Lord and Leddy Byron's quarrel? Do you + yoursel' take part with him, or with her? I wad like to hear your real + opinion.' + + _North._--'Oh, dear! Well, Hogg, since you will have it, I think + Douglas Kinnard and Hobhouse are bound to tell us whether there be any + truth, and how much, in this story about the _declaration_, signed by + Sir Ralph' [Milbanke]. + +The note here tells us that this refers to a statement that appeared +in 'Blackwood' immediately after Byron's death, to the effect that, +previous to the formal separation from his wife, Byron required and +obtained from Sir Ralph Milbanke, Lady Byron's father, a statement to +the effect that Lady Byron had no charge of moral delinquency to bring +against him.[18] + +[Footnote 18: Recently, Lord Lindsay has published another version of +this story, which makes it appear that he has conversed with a lady who +conversed with Hobhouse during his lifetime, in which this story is +differently reported. In the last version, it is made to appear that +Hobhouse had this declaration from Lady Byron herself.] + +North continues:-- + + 'And I think Lady Byron's letter--the "Dearest Duck" one I + mean--should really be forthcoming, if her ladyship's friends wish to + stand fair before the public. At present we have nothing but loose + talk of society to go upon; and certainly, _if the things that are + said be true, there must be thorough explanation from some quarter, + or the tide will continue, as it has assuredly begun, to flow in a + direction very opposite to what we were for years accustomed_. Sir, + they must _explain this business of the letter_. You have, of course, + heard about the invitation it contained, the warm, affectionate + invitation, to Kirkby Mallory'---- + +Hogg interposes,-- + + 'I dinna like to be interruptin' ye, Mr. North; but I must inquire, Is + the _jug_ to stand still while ye're going on at that rate?' + + _North._--'There, Porker! These things are part and parcel of + the chatter of every bookseller's shop; _a fortiori_, of every + drawing-room in May Fair. _Can_ the matter stop here? Can a great + man's memory be permitted to incur damnation while these saving + clauses are afloat anywhere uncontradicted?' + +And from this the conversation branches off into strong, emphatic +praise of Byron's conduct in Greece during the last part of his life. + +The silent widow is thus delicately and considerately reminded in the +'Blackwood' that she is the talk, not only over the whisky-jug of the +Noctes, but in every drawing-room in London; and that she _must_ speak +out and explain matters, or the whole world will set against her. + +But she does not speak yet. The public persecution, therefore, +proceeds. Medwin's book being insufficient, another biographer is to +be selected. Now, the person in the Noctes Club who was held to have +the most complete information of the Byron affairs, and was, on that +account, first thought of by Murray to execute this very delicate task +of writing a memoir which should include the most sacred domestic +affairs of a noble lady and her orphan daughter, was _Maginn_. Maginn, +the author of the pleasant joke, that 'man never reaches the apex of +civilisation till he is too drunk to pronounce the word,' was the first +person in whose hands the 'Autobiography,' Memoirs, and Journals of +Lord Byron were placed with this view. + +The following note from Shelton Mackenzie, in the June number of 'The +Noctes,' 1824, says,-- + + 'At that time, had he been so minded, Maginn (Odoherty) could have got + up a popular Life of Byron as well as most men in England. Immediately + on the account of Byron's death being received in London, John Murray + proposed that Maginn should bring out Memoirs, Journals, and Letters + of Lord Byron, and, with this intent, placed in his hand every line + that he (Murray) possessed in Byron's handwriting.... The strong + desire of _Byron's family and executors_ that the "Autobiography" + should be burned, to which desire Murray foolishly yielded, made such + an hiatus in the materials, that Murray and Maginn agreed it would not + answer to bring out the work then. Eventually Moore executed it.' + +The character of the times in which this work was to be undertaken will +appear from the following note of Mackenzie's to 'The Noctes' of August +1824, which we copy, with the _author's own Italics_:-- + + 'In the "Blackwood" of July 1824 was a poetical epistle by the + renowned Timothy Tickler to the editor of the "John Bull" magazine, + on an article in his first number. This article ... _professed_ to + be a portion of the veritable "Autobiography" of Byron which was + burned, and was called "My Wedding Night." It appeared to relate + in detail _everything_ that occurred in the twenty-four hours + immediately succeeding that in which Byron was married. It had plenty + of coarseness, and some to spare. It went into particulars such as + hitherto had been given only by Faublas; and it had, notwithstanding, + many phrases and some facts which evidently did not belong to a mere + fabricator. Some years after, I compared this "Wedding Night" with + what I had all assurance of having been transcribed from the actual + manuscripts of Byron, and was persuaded that the magazine-writer must + have had the _actual_ statement before him, or have had a perusal of + it. The writer in "Blackwood" declared his conviction that it really + was Byron's own writing.' + +The reader must remember that Lord Byron died April 1824; so that, +according to this, his 'Autobiography' was made the means of this gross +insult to his widow three months after his death. + +If some powerful cause had not paralysed all feelings of gentlemanly +honour, and of womanly delicacy, and of common humanity, towards Lady +Byron, throughout the whole British nation, no editor would have dared +to open a periodical with such an article; or, if he had, he would have +been overwhelmed with a storm of popular indignation, which, like the +fire upon Sodom, would have made a pillar of salt of him for a warning +to all future generations. + +'Blackwood' reproves the 'John Bull' in a poetical epistle, recognising +the article as coming from Byron, and says to the _author_,-- + + 'But that _you_, sir, a wit and a scholar like you, + Should not blush to produce what he blushed not to do,-- + Take your compliment, youngster; this doubles, almost, + The sorrow that rose when his honour was lost.' + +We may not wonder that the 'Autobiography' was burned, as Murray says +in a recent account, by a committee of Byron's _friends_, including +Hobhouse, his sister, and Murray himself. + +Now, the 'Blackwood' of July 1824 thus declares its conviction that +this outrage on every sentiment of human decency came from Lord Byron, +and that his honour was lost. Maginn does not undertake the memoir. No +memoir at all is undertaken; till finally Moore is selected, as, like +Demetrius of old, a well-skilled gilder and 'maker of silver shrines,' +though _not_ for Diana. To Moore is committed the task of doing his +best for this battered image, in which even the worshippers recognise +foul sulphurous cracks, but which they none the less stand ready to +worship as a genuine article that 'fell down from Jupiter.' + +Moore was a man of no particular nicety as to moralities, but in that +matter seems not very much below what this record shows his average +associates to be. He is so far superior to Maginn, that his vice is +rose-coloured and refined. He does not burst out with such heroic +stanzas as Maginn's frank invitation to Jeremy Bentham:-- + + 'Jeremy, throw your pen aside, + And come get drunk with me; + And we'll go where Bacchus sits astride, + Perched high on barrels three.' + +Moore's vice is cautious, soft, seductive, slippery, and covered at +times with a thin, tremulous veil of religious sentimentalism. + +In regard to Byron, he was an unscrupulous, committed partisan: he was +as much bewitched by him as ever man has been by woman; and therefore +to him, at last, the task of editing Byron's 'Memoirs' was given. + +This Byron, whom they all knew to be obscene beyond what even their +most drunken tolerance could at first endure; this man, whose foul +license _spoke out_ what most men conceal from mere respect to the +decent instincts of humanity; whose 'honour was lost,'--was submitted +to this careful manipulator, to be turned out a perfected idol for a +world longing for an idol, as the Israelites longed for the calf in +Horeb. + +The image was to be invested with deceitful glories and shifting +haloes,--admitted faults spoken of as peculiarities of sacred +origin,--and the world given to understand that no common rule or +measure could apply to such an undoubtedly divine production; and so +the hearts of men were to be wrung with pity for his sorrows as the +yearning pain of a god, and with anger at his injuries as sacrilege on +the sacredness of genius, till they were ready to cast themselves at +his feet, and adore. + +Then he was to be set up on a pedestal, like Nebuchadnezzar's image on +the plains of Dura; and what time the world heard the sound of cornet, +sackbut, and dulcimer, in his enchanting verse, they were to fall down +and worship. + +For Lady Byron, Moore had simply the respect that a commoner has for +a lady of rank, and a good deal of the feeling that seems to underlie +all English literature,--that it is no matter what becomes of the woman +when the man's story is to be told. But, with all his faults, Moore was +not a cruel man; and we cannot conceive such outrageous cruelty and +ungentlemanly indelicacy towards an unoffending woman, as he shows in +these 'Memoirs,' without referring them to Lord Byron's own influence +in making him an unscrupulous, committed partisan on his side. + +So little pity, so little sympathy, did he suppose Lady Byron to be +worthy of, that he laid before her, in the sight of all the world, +selections from her husband's letters and journals, in which the +privacies of her courtship and married life were jested upon with a +vulgar levity; letters filled, from the time of the act of separation, +with a constant succession of sarcasms, stabs, stings, epigrams, and +vindictive allusions to herself, bringing her into direct and insulting +comparison with his various mistresses, and implying their superiority +over her. There, too, were gross attacks on her father and mother, as +having been the instigators of the separation; and poor Lady Milbanke, +in particular, is sometimes mentioned with epithets so offensive, that +the editor prudently covers the terms with stars, as intending language +too gross to be printed. + +The last mistress of Lord Byron is uniformly brought forward in +terms of such respect and consideration, that one would suppose that +the usual moral laws that regulate English family life had been +specially repealed in his favour. Moore quotes with approval letters +from Shelley, stating that Lord Byron's connection with La Guiccioli +has been of inestimable benefit to him; and that he is now becoming +what he should be, 'a virtuous man.' Moore goes on to speak of the +connection as one, though somewhat reprehensible, yet as having all +those advantages of marriage and settled domestic ties that Byron's +affectionate spirit had long sighed for, but never before found; and in +his last _resume_ of the poet's character, at the end of the volume, he +brings the mistress into direct comparison with the wife in a single +sentence: 'The woman to whom he gave the love of his maturer years +idolises his name; and, _with a single unhappy exception_, scarce an +instance is to be found of one brought ... into relations of amity with +him who did not retain a kind regard for him in life, and a fondness +for his memory.' + +Literature has never yet seen the instance of a person, of Lady Byron's +rank in life, placed before the world in a position more humiliating to +womanly dignity, or wounding to womanly delicacy. + +The direct implication is, that she has no feelings to be hurt, no +heart to be broken, and is not worthy even of the consideration which +in ordinary life is to be accorded to a widow who has received those +awful tidings which generally must awaken many emotions, and call for +some consideration, even in the most callous hearts. + +The woman who we are told walked the room, vainly striving to control +the sobs that shook her frame, while she sought to draw from the +servant that last message of her husband which she was never to hear, +was not thought worthy even of the rights of common humanity. + +The first volume of the 'Memoir' came out in 1830. Then for the first +time came one flash of lightning from the silent cloud; and she who +had never spoken before spoke out. The libels on the memory of her +dead parents drew from her what her own wrongs never did. During all +this time, while her husband had been keeping her effigy dangling +before the public as a mark for solemn curses, and filthy lampoons, +and _secretly_-circulated disclosures, that spared no sacredness +and violated every decorum, she had not uttered a word. She had +been subjected to nameless insults, discussed in the assemblies of +drunkards, and challenged to speak for herself. Like the chaste lady +in 'Comus,' whom the vile wizard had bound in the enchanted seat to +be 'grinned at and chattered at' by all the filthy rabble of his +dehumanised rout, she had remained pure, lofty, and undefiled; and the +stains of mud and mire thrown upon her had fallen from her spotless +garments. + +Now that she is dead, a recent writer in 'The London Quarterly' dares +give voice to an insinuation which even Byron gave only a _suggestion_ +of when he called his wife Clytemnestra; and hints that she tried the +power of youth and beauty to win to her the young solicitor Lushington, +and a handsome young officer of high rank. + +At this time, _such_ insinuations had not been thought of; and the only +and chief allegation against Lady Byron had been a cruel severity of +virtue. + +At all events, when Lady Byron spoke, the world listened with respect, +and believed what she said. + +Here let us, too, read her statement, and give it the careful attention +she solicits (Moore's 'Life of Byron,' vol. vi. p. 275):-- + + 'I have disregarded various publications in which facts within my + own knowledge have been grossly misrepresented; but I am called upon + to notice some of the erroneous statements proceeding from one who + claims to be considered as Lord Byron's confidential and authorised + friend. Domestic details ought not to be intruded on the public + attention: if, however, they _are_ so intruded, the persons affected + by them have a right to refute injurious charges. Mr. Moore has + promulgated his own impressions of private events in which I was most + nearly concerned, as if he possessed a competent knowledge of the + subject. Having survived Lord Byron, I feel increased reluctance to + advert to any circumstances connected with the period of my marriage; + nor is it now my intention to disclose them further than may be + indispensably requisite for the end I have in view. Self-vindication + is not the motive which actuates me to make this appeal, and the + spirit of accusation is unmingled with it; but when the conduct of + my parents is brought forward in a disgraceful light by the passages + selected from Lord Byron's letters, and by the remarks of his + biographer, I feel bound to justify their characters from imputations + which I _know_ to be false. The passages from Lord Byron's letters, to + which I refer, are,--the aspersion on my mother's character (p. 648, + l. 4):[19] "My child is very well and flourishing, I hear; but I must + see also. I feel no disposition to resign it to the _contagion of its + grandmother's society_." The assertion of her dishonourable conduct + in employing a spy (p. 645, l. 7, &c.): "A Mrs. C. (now a kind of + housekeeper and _spy of Lady N.'s_), who, in her better days, was a + washerwoman, is supposed to be--by the learned--very much the occult + cause of our domestic discrepancies." The seeming exculpation of + myself in the extract (p. 646), with the words immediately following + it, "Her nearest relations are a----;" where the blank clearly implies + something too offensive for publication. These passages tend to throw + suspicion on my parents, and give reason to ascribe the separation + either to their direct agency, or to that of "officious spies" + employed by them.[20] From the following part of the narrative (p. + 642), it must also be inferred that an undue influence was exercised + by them for the accomplishment of this purpose: "It was in a few + weeks after the latter communication between us (Lord Byron and Mr. + Moore) that Lady Byron adopted the determination of parting from him. + She had left London at the latter end of January, on a visit to her + father's house in Leicestershire; and Lord Byron was in a short time + to follow her. They had parted in the utmost kindness,--she wrote + him a letter, full of playfulness and affection, on the road; and, + immediately on her arrival at Kirkby Mallory, her father wrote to + acquaint Lord Byron that she would return to him no more." + + [Footnote 19: The references are to the first volume of the first + edition of Moore's Life', originally published by itself.] + + [Footnote 20: 'The officious spies of his privacy,' p. 650.] + + 'In my observations upon this statement, I shall, as far as possible, + avoid touching on any matters relating personally to Lord Byron + and myself. The facts are,--I left London for Kirkby Mallory, the + residence of my father and mother, on the 15th of January, 1816. + Lord Byron had signified to me in writing (Jan. 6) his absolute + desire that I should leave London on the earliest day that I could + conveniently fix. It was not safe for me to undertake the fatigue of a + journey sooner than the 15th. Previously to my departure, it had been + strongly impressed on my mind that Lord Byron was under the influence + of insanity. This opinion was derived in a great measure from the + communications made to me by his nearest relatives and personal + attendant, who had more opportunities than myself of observing him + during the latter part of my stay in town. It was even represented to + me that he was in danger of destroying himself. _With the concurrence + of his family_, I had consulted Dr. Baillie, as a friend (Jan. 8), + respecting this supposed malady. On acquainting him with the state of + the case, and with Lord Byron's desire that I should leave London, Dr. + Baillie thought that my absence might be advisable as an experiment, + _assuming_ the fact of mental derangement; for Dr. Baillie, not + having had access to Lord Byron, could not pronounce a positive + opinion on that point. He enjoined that, in correspondence with Lord + Byron, I should avoid all but light and soothing topics. Under these + impressions I left London, determined to follow the advice given by + Dr. Baillie. Whatever might have been the nature of Lord Byron's + conduct towards me from the time of my marriage, yet, supposing him + to be in a state of mental alienation, it was not for _me_, nor for + any person of common humanity, to manifest at that moment a sense + of injury. On the day of my departure, and again on my arrival at + Kirkby (Jan. 16), I wrote to Lord Byron in a kind and cheerful tone, + according to those medical directions. + + 'The last letter was circulated, and employed as a pretext for the + charge of my having been subsequently _influenced_ to "desert"[21] my + husband. It has been argued that I parted from Lord Byron in perfect + harmony; that feelings incompatible with any deep sense of injury had + dictated the letter which I addressed to him; and that my sentiments + must have been changed by persuasion and interference when I was + under the roof of my parents. These assertions and inferences are + wholly destitute of foundation. When I arrived at Kirkby Mallory, my + parents were unacquainted with the existence of any causes likely to + destroy my prospects of happiness; and, when I communicated to them + the opinion which had been formed concerning Lord Byron's state of + mind, they were most anxious to promote his restoration by every means + in their power. They assured those relations who were with him in + London, that "they would devote their whole care and attention to the + alleviation of his malady;" and hoped to make the best arrangements + for his comfort if he could be induced to visit them. + + [Footnote 21: 'The deserted husband,' p. 651.] + + 'With these intentions, my mother wrote on the 17th to Lord Byron, + inviting him to Kirkby Mallory. She had always treated him with an + affectionate consideration and indulgence, which extended to every + little peculiarity of his feelings. Never did an irritating word + escape her lips in her whole intercourse with him. The accounts given + me after I left Lord Byron, by the persons in constant intercourse + with him, added to those doubts which had before transiently occurred + to my mind as to the reality of the alleged disease; and the reports + of his medical attendant were far from establishing the existence of + anything like lunacy. Under this uncertainty, I deemed it right to + communicate to my parents, that, if I were to consider Lord Byron's + past conduct as that of a person of sound mind, nothing could induce + me to return to him. It therefore appeared expedient, both to them and + myself, to consult the ablest advisers. For that object, and also + to obtain still further information respecting the appearances which + seemed to indicate mental derangement, my mother determined to go to + London. She was empowered by me to take legal opinions on a written + statement of mine, though I had then reasons for reserving a part + of the case from the knowledge even of my father and mother. Being + convinced by the result of these inquiries, and by the tenor of Lord + Byron's proceedings, that the notion of insanity was an illusion, I no + longer hesitated to authorise such measures as were necessary in order + to secure me from being ever again placed in his power. Conformably + with this resolution, my father wrote to him on the 2nd of February + to propose an amicable separation. Lord Byron at first rejected this + proposal; but when it was distinctly notified to him that, if he + persisted in his refusal, recourse must be had to legal measures, he + agreed to sign a deed of separation. Upon applying to Dr. Lushington, + who was intimately acquainted with all the circumstances, to state in + writing what he recollected upon this subject, I received from him the + following letter, by which it will be manifest that my mother cannot + have been actuated by any hostile or ungenerous motives towards Lord + Byron:-- + + '"MY DEAR LADY BYRON,--I can rely upon the accuracy of + my memory for the following statement. I was originally consulted + by Lady Noel, on your behalf, whilst you were in the country. The + circumstances detailed by her were such as justified a separation; + but they were not of that aggravated description as to render such + a measure indispensable. On Lady Noel's representation, I deemed a + reconciliation with Lord Byron practicable, and felt most sincerely + a wish to aid in effecting it. There was not on Lady Noel's part + any exaggeration of the facts; nor, so far as I could perceive, any + determination to prevent a return to Lord Byron: certainly none was + expressed when I spoke of a reconciliation. When you came to town, + in about a fortnight, or perhaps more, after my first interview with + Lady Noel, I was for the first time informed by you of facts utterly + unknown, as I have no doubt, to Sir Ralph and Lady Noel. On receiving + this additional information, my opinion was entirely changed: I + considered a reconciliation impossible. I declared my opinion, and + added, that, if such an idea should be entertained, I could not, + either professionally or otherwise, take any part towards effecting it. + + '"Believe me, very faithfully yours, + + '"STEPH. LUSHINGTON. + + '"Great George Street, Jan. 31, 1830." + + 'I have only to observe, that, if the statements on which my legal + advisers (the late Sir Samuel Romilly and Dr. Lushington) formed + their opinions were false, the responsibility and the odium should + rest with _me only_. I trust that the facts which I have here briefly + recapitulated will absolve my father and mother from all accusations + with regard to the part they took in the separation between Lord Byron + and myself. + + 'They neither originated, instigated, nor advised that separation; + and they cannot be condemned for having afforded to their daughter + the assistance and protection which she claimed. There is no other + near relative to vindicate their memory from insult. I am therefore + compelled to break the silence which I had hoped always to observe, + and to solicit from the readers of Lord Byron's "Life" an impartial + consideration of the testimony extorted from me. + + 'A. I. NOEL BYRON. + + 'Hanger Hill, Feb. 19, 1830.' + +The effect of this statement on the literary world may be best judged +by the discussion of it by Christopher North (Wilson) in the succeeding +May number of 'The Noctes,' where the bravest and most generous of +literary men that then were--himself the husband of a gentle wife--thus +gives sentence: the conversation is between North and the Shepherd:-- + + _North._--'God forbid I should wound the feelings of Lady Byron, of + whose character, known to me but by the high estimation in which + it is held by all who have enjoyed her friendship, I have always + spoken with respect!... But may I, without harshness or indelicacy, + say, here among ourselves, James, that, by marrying Byron, she took + upon herself, with eyes wide open and conscience clearly convinced, + duties very different from those of which, even in common cases, the + presaging foresight shadows ... the light of the first nuptial moon?' + + _Shepherd._--'She did that, sir; by my troth, she did that.' + + _North._--'Miss Milbanke knew that he was reckoned a rake and a + _roue_; and although his genius wiped off, by impassioned eloquence + in love-letters that were felt to be irresistible, or hid the worst + stain of, that reproach, still Miss Milbanke must have believed it a + perilous thing to be the wife of Lord Byron.... But still, by joining + her life to his in marriage, she pledged her troth and her faith and + her love, under probabilities of severe, disturbing, perhaps fearful + trials, in the future.... + + 'But I think Lady Byron ought not to have printed that Narrative. + Death abrogates not the rights of a husband to his wife's silence + when speech is fatal ... to his character as a man. Has she not + flung suspicion over his bones interred, that they are the bones of + a--monster?... If Byron's sins or crimes--for we are driven to use + terrible terms--were unendurable and unforgivable as if against the + Holy Ghost, ought the wheel, the rack, or the stake to have extorted + that confession from his widow's breast.... But there was no such + pain here, James: the declaration was voluntary, and it was calm. + Self-collected, and gathering up all her faculties and feelings + into unshrinking strength, she denounced before all the world--and + throughout all space and all time--her husband, as excommunicated by + his vices from woman's bosom. + + * * * * * + + ''Twas to vindicate the character of her parents that Lady Byron + wrote,--a holy purpose and devout, nor do I doubt sincere. But filial + affection and reverence, sacred as they are, may be blamelessly, nay, + righteously, subordinate to conjugal duties, which die not with the + dead, are extinguished not even by the sins of the dead, were they as + foul as the grave's corruption.' + +Here is what John Stuart Mill calls the literature of slavery for +woman, in length and breadth; and, that all women may understand the +doctrine, the Shepherd now takes up his parable, and expounds the true +position of the wife. We render his Scotch into English:-- + + 'Not a few such widows do I know, whom brutal, profligate, and savage + husbands have brought to the brink of the grave,--as good, as bright, + as innocent as, and far more forgiving than, Lady Byron. There + they sit in their obscure, rarely-visited dwellings; for sympathy + instructed by suffering knows well that the deepest and most hopeless + misery is least given to complaint.' + +Then follows a pathetic picture of one such widow, trembling and +fainting for hunger, obliged, on her way to the well for a can of +water, her only drink, to sit down on a '_knowe_' and say a prayer. + + 'Yet she's decently, yea, tidily dressed, poor creature! in sair worn + widow's clothes, a single suit for Saturday and Sunday; her hair, + untimely gray, is neatly braided under her crape cap; and sometimes, + when all is still and solitary in the fields, and all labour has + disappeared into the house, you may see her stealing by herself, or + leading one wee orphan by the hand, with another at her breast, to the + kirkyard, where the love of her youth and the husband of her prime is + buried. + + 'Yet,' says the Shepherd, 'he was a brute, a ruffian, a monster. When + drunk, how he raged and cursed and swore! Often did she dread that, in + his fits of inhuman passion, he would have murdered the baby at her + breast; for she had seen him dash their only little boy, a child of + eight years old, on the floor, till the blood gushed from his ears; + and then the madman threw himself down on the body, and howled for + the gallows. Limmers haunted his door, and he theirs; and it was hers + to lie, not sleep, in a cold, forsaken bed, once the bed of peace, + affection, and perfect happiness. Often he struck her; and once when + she was pregnant with that very orphan now smiling on her breast, + reaching out his wee fingers to touch the flowers on his father's + grave.... + + 'But she tries to smile among the neighbours, and speaks of her boy's + likeness to its father; nor, when the conversation turns on bygone + times, does she fear to let his name escape her white lips, "My + Robert; the bairn's not ill-favoured, but he will never look like his + father,"--and such sayings, uttered in a calm, sweet voice. Nay, I + remember once how her pale countenance reddened with a sudden flush + of pride, when a gossiping crone alluded to their wedding; and the + widow's eye brightened through her tears to hear how the bridegroom, + sitting that sabbath in his front seat beside his bonny bride, had + not his equal for strength, stature, and all that is beauty in man, + in all the congregation. That, I say, sir, whether right or wrong, + _was--forgiveness_.' + +Here is a specimen of how even generous men had been so perverted by +the enchantment of Lord Byron's genius, as to turn all the pathos and +power of the strongest literature of that day against the persecuted, +pure woman, and for the strong, wicked man. These 'Blackwood' writers +knew, by Byron's own filthy, ghastly writings, which had gone sorely +against their own moral stomachs, that he was foul to the bone. They +could see, in Moore's 'Memoirs' right before them, how he had caught an +innocent girl's heart by sending a love-letter, and offer of marriage, +at the end of a long friendly correspondence,--a letter that had been +written to _show_ to his libertine set, and sent on the toss-up of a +copper, because he cared nothing for it one way or the other. + +They admit that, having won this poor girl, he had been savage, brutal, +drunken, cruel. They had read the filthy taunts in 'Don Juan,' and the +nameless abominations in the 'Autobiography.' They had admitted among +themselves that his honour was lost; but still this abused, desecrated +woman must _reverence_ her brutal master's memory, and not speak, even +to defend the grave of her own kind father and mother. + +That there was _no_ lover of her youth, that the marriage-vow had been +a hideous, shameless cheat, is on the face of Moore's account; yet +the 'Blackwood' does not see it nor feel it, and brings up against +Lady Byron this touching story of a poor widow, who really had had a +true lover once,--a lover maddened, imbruted, lost, through that very +drunkenness in which the Noctes Club were always glorying. + +It is because of such transgressors as Byron, such supporters as +Moore and the Noctes Club, that there are so many helpless, cowering, +broken-hearted, abject women, given over to the animal love which they +share alike with the poor dog,--the dog, who, beaten, kicked, starved, +and cuffed, still lies by his drunken master with great anxious eyes +of love and sorrow, and with sweet, brute forgiveness nestles upon his +bosom, as he lies in his filth in the snowy ditch, to keep the warmth +of life in him. Great is the mystery of this fidelity in the poor, +loving brute,--most mournful and most sacred! + +But, oh that a noble man should have no higher ideal of the love of a +high-souled, heroic woman! Oh that men should teach women that they +owe no higher duties, and are capable of no higher tenderness, than +this loving, unquestioning animal fidelity! The dog is ever-loving, +ever-forgiving, because God has given him no high range of moral +faculties, no sense of justice, no consequent horror at impurity and +vileness. + +Much of the beautiful patience and forgiveness of women is made +possible to them by that utter _deadness to the sense of justice_ which +the laws, literature, and misunderstood religion of England have sought +to induce in woman as a special grace and virtue. + +The lesson to woman in this pathetic piece of special pleading is, +that man may sink himself below the brute, may wallow in filth like +the swine, may turn his home into a hell, beat and torture his +children, forsake the marriage-bed for foul rivals; yet all this does +not dissolve the marriage-vow on her part, nor free his bounden serf +from her obligation to honour his memory,--nay, to sacrifice to it +the honour due to a kind father and mother, slandered in their silent +graves. + +Such was the sympathy, and such the advice, that the best literature +of England could give to a young widow, a peeress of England, whose +husband, as they verily believed and admitted, might have done +_worse_ than all this; whose crimes might have been 'foul, monstrous, +unforgivable as the sin against the Holy Ghost.' If these things be +done in the green tree, what shall be done in the dry? If the peeress +_as a wife_ has no rights, what is the state of the cotter's wife? + +But, in the same paper, North again blames Lady Byron for not +having come out with the whole story before the world at the time +she separated from her husband. He says of the time when she first +consulted counsel through her mother, keeping back one item,-- + + 'How weak, and worse than weak, at such a juncture, on which hung her + whole fate, to ask legal advice on an imperfect document! Give the + delicacy of a virtuous woman its due; but at such a crisis, when the + question was whether her conscience was to be free from the oath of + oaths, delicacy should have died, and nature was privileged to show + unashamed--if such there were--the records of uttermost pollution.' + + _Shepherd._--'And what think ye, sir, that a' this pollution could hae + been, that sae electrified Dr. Lushington?' + + _North._--'Bad--bad--bad, James. Nameless, it is horrible; named, + it might leave Byron's memory yet within the range of pity and + forgiveness; and, where they are, their sister affections will not be + far; though, like weeping seraphs, standing aloof, and veiling their + wings.' + + _Shepherd._--'She should indeed hae been silent--till the grave had + closed on her sorrows as on his sins.' + + _North._--'_Even now she should speak_,--or some one else for her,-- + ... and a few words will suffice. _Worse_ the condition of the dead + man's name cannot be--far, far better it might--I believe it would + be--were _all_ the truth somehow or other declared; and declared it + must be, not for Byron's sake only, but for the sake of humanity + itself; and then a mitigated sentence, or eternal silence.' + +We have another discussion of Lady Byron's duties in a further number +of 'Blackwood.' + +The 'Memoir' being out, it was proposed that there should be a complete +annotation of Byron's works gotten up, and adorned, for the further +glorification of his memory, with portraits of the various women whom +he had delighted to honour. + +Murray applied to Lady Byron for her portrait, and was met with a cold, +decided negative. After reading all the particulars of Byron's harem of +mistresses, and Moore's comparisons between herself and La Guiccioli, +one might _imagine_ reasons why a lady, with proper self-respect, +should object to appearing in this manner. One would suppose there +might have been gentlemen who could well appreciate the _motive_ of +that refusal; but it was only considered a new evidence that she was +indifferent to her conjugal duties, and wanting in that _respect_ which +Christopher North had told her she owed a husband's memory, though his +crimes were foul as the rottenness of the grave. + +Never, since Queen Vashti refused to come at the command of a drunken +husband to show herself to his drunken lords, was there a clearer case +of disrespect to the marital dignity on the part of a wife. It was a +plain act of insubordination, rebellion against law and order; and +how shocking in Lady Byron, who ought to feel herself but too much +flattered to be exhibited to the public as the head wife of a man of +genius! + +Means were at once adopted to subdue her contumacy, of which one may +read in a note to the 'Blackwood' (Noctes), September 1832. An artist +was sent down to Ealing to take her picture by stealth as she sat in +church. Two sittings were thus obtained without her knowledge. In the +third one, the artist placed himself boldly before her, and sketched, +so that she could not but observe him. We shall give the rest in +Mackenzie's own words, as a remarkable specimen of the obtuseness, +not to say indelicacy of feeling, which seemed to pervade the literary +circles of England at the time:-- + + 'After prayers, Wright and his friend (the artist) were visited by + an ambassador from her ladyship to inquire the meaning of what she + had seen. The reply was, that Mr. Murray _must_ have her portrait, + and was compelled to take what she refused to give. The result was, + Wright was requested to visit her, which he did; taking with him, + not _the_ sketch, which was very good, but another, in which there + was a strong touch of caricature. Rather than allow _that_ to appear + as her likeness (a very natural and womanly feeling by the way), she + consented to sit for the portrait to W. J. Newton, which was engraved, + and is here alluded to.' + +The artless barbarism of this note is too good to be lost; but it +is quite borne out by the conversation in the Noctes Club, which it +illustrates. + +It would appear from this conversation that these Byron beauties +appeared successively in pamphlet form; and the picture of Lady Byron +is thus discussed:-- + + _Mullion._--'I don't know if you have seen the last brochure. It has a + charming head of Lady Byron, who, it seems, sat on purpose: and that's + very agreeable to hear of; for it shows her ladyship has got over any + little soreness that Moore's "Life" occasioned, and is now willing + to contribute anything in her power to the real monument of Byron's + genius.' + + _North._--'I am delighted to hear of this: 'tis really very noble in + the unfortunate lady. I never saw her. Is the face a striking one?' + + _Mullion._--'Eminently so,--a most calm, pensive, melancholy style of + native beauty,--and a most touching contrast to the maids of Athens, + Annesley, and all the rest of them. I'm sure you'll have the proof + Finden has sent you framed for the Boudoir at the Lodge.' + + _North._--'By all means. I mean to do that for all the Byron Beauties.' + +But it may be asked, Was there not a man in all England with delicacy +enough to feel for Lady Byron, and chivalry enough to speak a bold word +for her? Yes: there was one. Thomas Campbell the poet, when he read +Lady Byron's statement, believed it, as did Christopher North; but it +affected him differently. It appears he did not believe it a wife's +duty to burn herself on her husband's funeral-pile, as did Christopher +North; and held the singular idea, that a wife had _some_ rights as a +human being as well as a husband. + +Lady Byron's own statement appeared in pamphlet form in 1830: at +least, such is the date at the foot of the document. Thomas Campbell, +in 'The New Monthly Magazine,' shortly after, printed a spirited, +gentlemanly defence of Lady Byron, and administered a pointed rebuke to +Moore for the rudeness and indelicacy he had shown in selecting from +Byron's letters the coarsest against herself, her parents, and her +old governess Mrs. Clermont, and by the indecent comparisons he had +instituted between Lady Byron and Lord Byron's last mistress. + +It is refreshing to hear, at last, from somebody who is not altogether +on his knees at the feet of the popular idol, and who has some chivalry +for woman, and some idea of common humanity. He says,-- + + 'I found my right to speak on this painful subject on its now + _irrevocable publicity_, brought up afresh as it has been by Mr. + Moore, to be the theme of discourse to millions, and, if I err not + much, the cause of misconception to innumerable minds. I claim to + speak of Lady Byron in the right of a man, and of a friend to the + rights of woman, and to liberty, and to natural religion. I claim a + right, more especially, as one of the many friends of Lady Byron, + who, one and all, feel aggrieved by this production. It has virtually + dragged her forward from the shade of retirement, where she had hid + her sorrows, and compelled her to defend the heads of her friends and + her parents from being crushed under the tombstone of Byron. Nay, in a + general view, it has forced her to defend _herself_; though, with her + true sense and her pure taste, she stands above all special pleading. + To plenary explanation she _ought_ not--she never _shall_ be driven. + Mr. Moore is too much a gentleman not to shudder at the thought of + that; but if other Byronists, of a far different stamp, were to force + the savage ordeal, it is her enemies, and not she, that would have to + dread the burning plough-shares. + + 'We, her friends, have no wish to prolong the discussion: but a few + words we _must_ add, even to her admirable statement; for hers is a + cause not only dear to her friends, but having become, from Mr. Moore + and her misfortunes, a publicly-agitated cause, it concerns morality, + and the most sacred rights of the sex, that she should (and that, + too, without more special explanations) be acquitted out and out, and + honourably acquitted, in this business, of all share in the blame, + which is one and indivisible. Mr. Moore, on further reflection, may + see this; and his return to candour will surprise us less than his + momentary deviation from its path. + + 'For the tact of Mr. Moore's conduct in this affair, I have not to + answer; but, if indelicacy be charged upon me, I scorn the charge. + Neither will I submit to be called Lord Byron's accuser; because a + word against him I wish not to say beyond what is painfully wrung + from me by the necessity of owning or illustrating Lady Byron's + unblamableness, and of repelling certain misconceptions respecting + her, which are now walking the fashionable world, and which have been + fostered (though Heaven knows where they were born) most delicately + and warily by the Christian godfathership of Mr. Moore. + + 'I write not at Lady Byron's bidding. I have never humiliated either + her or myself by asking _if_ I should write, or _what_ I should write; + that is to say, I never applied to her for information against Lord + Byron, though I was justified, as one intending to criticise Mr. + Moore, in inquiring into the truth of some of his statements. Neither + will I suffer myself to be called her champion, if by that word be + meant the advocate of her mere legal innocence; for that, I take it, + nobody questions. + + 'Still less is it from the sorry impulse of pity that I speak of + this noble woman; for I look with wonder and even envy at the proud + purity of her sense and conscience, that have carried her exquisite + sensibilities in triumph through such poignant tribulations. But + I am proud to be called her friend, the humble illustrator of her + cause, and the advocate of those principles which make it to me more + interesting than Lord Byron's. Lady Byron (if the subject must be + discussed) belongs to sentiment and morality (at least as much as Lord + Byron); nor is she to be suffered, when compelled to speak, to raise + her voice as in a desert, with no friendly voice to respond to her. + Lady Byron could not have outlived her sufferings if she had not wound + up her fortitude to the high point of trusting mainly for consolation, + not to the opinion of the world, but to her own inward peace; and, + having said what ought to convince the world, I verily believe that + she has less care about the fashionable opinion respecting her than + any of her friends can have. But we, her friends, mix with the world; + and we hear offensive absurdities about her, which we have a right to + put down. + + * * * * * + + 'I proceed to deal more generally with Mr. Moore's book. You speak, + Mr. Moore, against Lord Byron's censurers in a tone of indignation + which is perfectly lawful towards calumnious traducers, but which will + not terrify me, or any other man of courage who is no calumniator, + from uttering his mind freely with regard to this part of your hero's + conduct. I question your philosophy in assuming that all that is + noble in Byron's poetry was inconsistent with the possibility of his + being devoted to a pure and good woman; and I repudiate your morality + for canting too complacently about "the lava of his imagination," + and the unsettled fever of his passions, being any excuses for his + planting the _tic douloureux_ of domestic suffering in a meek woman's + bosom. + + 'These are hard words, Mr. Moore; but you have brought them on + yourself by your voluntary ignorance of facts known to me; for you + might and ought to have known both sides of the question; and, if the + subject was too delicate for you to consult Lady Byron's confidential + friends, you ought to have had nothing to do with the subject. But you + cannot have submitted your book even to Lord Byron's sister, otherwise + she would have set you right about the imaginary spy, Mrs. Clermont.' + +Campbell now goes on to print, at his own peril, he says, and without +time to ask leave, the following note from Lady Byron in reply to an +application he made to her, when he was about to review Moore's book, +for an 'estimate as to the correctness of Moore's statements.' + +The following is Lady Byron's reply:-- + + 'DEAR MR. CAMPBELL,--In taking up my pen to point out + for your private information[22] those passages in Mr. Moore's + representation of my part of the story which were open to + contradiction, I find them of still greater extent than I had + supposed; and to deny an assertion _here and there_ would virtually + admit the truth of the rest. If, on the contrary, I were to enter into + a full exposure of the falsehood of the views taken by Mr. Moore, I + must detail various matters, which, consistently with my principles + and feelings, I cannot under the existing circumstances disclose. I + may, perhaps, convince you better of the difficulty of the case by + an example: It is not true that pecuniary embarrassments were the + cause of the disturbed state of Lord Byron's mind, or formed the + chief reason for the arrangements made by him at that time. But is it + reasonable for me to expect that you or any one else should believe + this, unless I show you what were the causes in question? and this I + cannot do. 'I am, &c., + + 'A. I. NOEL BYRON.' + +[Footnote 22: 'I (Campbell) had not time to ask Lady Byron's permission +to print this private letter; but it seemed to me important, and I have +published it _meo periculo_.'] + +Campbell then goes on to reprove Moore for his injustice to Mrs. +Clermont, whom Lord Byron had denounced as a spy, but whose +respectability and innocence were vouched for by Lord Byron's own +family; and then he pointedly rebukes one false statement of great +indelicacy and cruelty concerning Lady Byron's courtship, as follows:-- + + 'It is a further mistake on Mr. Moore's part, and I can prove it to be + so, if proof be necessary, to represent Lady Byron, in the course of + their courtship, as one inviting her future husband to correspondence + by letters after she had at first refused him. She never proposed a + correspondence. On the contrary, he sent her a message after that + first refusal, stating that he meant to go abroad, and to travel for + some years in the East; that he should depart with a heart aching, + but not angry; and that he only begged a verbal assurance that she + had still some interest in his happiness. Could Miss Milbanke, as a + well-bred woman, refuse a courteous answer to such a message? She sent + him a verbal answer, which was merely kind and becoming, but which + signified no encouragement that he should renew his offer of marriage. + + 'After that message, he wrote to her a most interesting letter about + himself,--about his views, personal, moral, and religious,--to which + it would have been uncharitable not to have replied. The result was + an insensibly increasing correspondence, which ended in her being + devotedly attached to him. About that time, I occasionally saw Lord + Byron; and though I knew less of him than Mr. Moore, yet I suspect I + knew as much of him as Miss Milbanke then knew. At that time, he was + so pleasing, that, if I had had a daughter with ample fortune and + beauty, I should have trusted her in marriage with Lord Byron. + + 'Mr. Moore at that period evidently understood Lord Byron better than + either his future bride or myself; but this speaks more for Moore's + shrewdness than for Byron's ingenuousness of character. + + 'It is more for Lord Byron's sake than for his widow's that I resort + not to a more special examination of Mr. Moore's misconceptions. The + subject would lead me insensibly into hateful disclosures against poor + Lord Byron, who is more unfortunate in his rash defenders than in + his reluctant accusers. Happily, his own candour turns our hostility + from himself against his defenders. It was only in wayward and bitter + remarks that he misrepresented Lady Byron. He would have defended + himself irresistibly if Mr. Moore had left only his acknowledging + passages. But Mr. Moore has produced a "Life" of him which reflects + blame on Lady Byron so dexterously, that "more is meant than meets + the ear." The almost universal impression produced by his book is, + that Lady Byron must be a precise and a wan, unwarming spirit, a + blue-stocking of chilblained learning, a piece of insensitive goodness. + + 'Who that knows Lady Byron will not pronounce her to be everything the + reverse? Will it be believed that this person, so unsuitably matched + to her moody lord, has written verses that would do no discredit to + Byron himself; that her sensitiveness is surpassed and bounded only by + her good sense; and that she is + + '"Blest with a temper, whose unclouded ray + Can make to-morrow cheerful as to-day"? + + 'She brought to Lord Byron beauty, manners, fortune, meekness, + romantic affection, and everything that ought to have made her to + the most transcendent man of genius--_had he been what he should + have been_--his pride and his idol. I speak not of Lady Byron in the + commonplace manner of attesting character: I appeal to the gifted Mrs. + Siddons and Joanna Baillie, to Lady Charlemont, and to other ornaments + of their sex, whether I am exaggerating in the least when I say, that, + in their whole lives, they have seen few beings so intellectual and + well-tempered as Lady Byron. + + 'I wish to be as ingenuous as possible in speaking of her. Her manner, + I have no hesitation to say, is cool at the first interview, but is + modestly, and not insolently, cool: she contracted it, I believe, from + being exposed by her beauty and large fortune, in youth, to numbers + of suitors, whom she could not have otherwise kept at a distance. + But this manner could have had no influence with Lord Byron; for + it vanishes on nearer acquaintance, and has no origin in coldness. + All her friends like her frankness the better for being preceded by + this reserve. This manner, however, though not the slightest apology + for Lord Byron, has been inimical to Lady Byron in her misfortunes. + It endears her to her friends; but it piques the indifferent. Most + odiously unjust, therefore, is Mr. Moore's assertion, that she has had + the advantage of Lord Byron in public opinion. She is, comparatively + speaking, unknown to the world; for though she has many friends, that + is, a friend in everyone who knows her, yet her pride and purity and + misfortunes naturally contract the circle of her acquaintance. + + 'There is something exquisitely unjust in Mr. Moore comparing her + chance of popularity with Lord Byron's, the poet who can command + men of talents,--putting even Mr. Moore into the livery of his + service,--and who has suborned the favour of almost all women by the + beauty of his person and the voluptuousness of his verses. Lady Byron + has nothing to oppose to these fascinations but the truth and justice + of her cause. + + 'You said, Mr. Moore, that Lady Byron was unsuitable to her lord: the + word is cunningly insidious, and may mean as much or as little as may + suit your convenience. But, if she was unsuitable, I remark that it + tells all the worse against Lord Byron. I have not read it in your + book (for I hate to wade through it); but they tell me that you have + not only warily depreciated Lady Byron, but that you have described a + lady that would have suited him. If this be true, "it is the unkindest + cut of all,"--to hold up a florid description of a woman suitable to + Lord Byron, as if in mockery over the forlorn flower of virtue that + was drooping in the solitude of sorrow. + + 'But I trust there is no such passage in your book. Surely you must be + conscious of your woman, with her "_virtue loose about her, who would + have suited Lord Byron_," to be as imaginary a being as the woman + without a head. A woman to suit Lord Byron! Poo, poo! I could paint to + you the woman that could have _matched_ him, if I had not bargained to + say as little as possible against him. + + 'If Lady Byron was not suitable to Lord Byron, so much the worse + for his lordship; for let me tell you, Mr. Moore, that neither your + poetry, nor Lord Byron's, nor all our poetry put together, ever + delineated a more interesting being than the woman whom you have so + coldly treated. This was not kicking the dead lion, but wounding + the living lamb, who was already bleeding and shorn, even unto the + quick. I know, that, collectively speaking, the world is in Lady + Byron's favour; but it is coldly favourable, and you have not warmed + its breath. Time, however, cures everything; and even your book, + Mr. Moore, may be the means of Lady Byron's character being better + appreciated. + + 'THOMAS CAMPBELL.' + +Here is what seems to be a gentlemanly, high-spirited, chivalric man, +throwing down his glove in the lists for a pure woman. + +What was the consequence? Campbell was crowded back, thrust down, +overwhelmed, his eyes filled with dust, his mouth with ashes. + +There was a general confusion and outcry, which reacted both on him +and on Lady Byron. Her friends were angry with him for having caused +this re-action upon her; and he found himself at once attacked by +Lady Byron's enemies, and deserted by her friends. All the literary +authorities of his day took up against him with energy. Christopher +North, professor of moral philosophy in the Edinburgh University, +in a fatherly talk in 'The Noctes,' condemns Campbell, and justifies +Moore, and heartily recommends his 'Biography,' as containing nothing +materially objectionable on the score either of manners or morals. Thus +we have it in 'The Noctes' of May 1830:-- + + 'Mr. Moore's biographical book I admired; and I said so to my little + world, in two somewhat lengthy articles, which many approved, and + some, I am sorry to know, condemned.' + +On the point in question between Moore and Campbell, North goes on +to justify Moore altogether, only admitting that 'it would have been +better had he not printed any coarse expression of Byron's about the +old people;' and, finally, he closes by saying,-- + + 'I do not think that, under the circumstances, Mr. Campbell himself, + had he written Byron's "Life," could have spoken, with the sentiments + he then held, in a better, more manly, and more gentlemanly spirit, in + so far as regards Lady Byron, than Mr. Moore did: and I am sorry he + has been deterred from "swimming" through Mr. Moore's work by the fear + of "wading;" for the waters are clear and deep; nor is there any mud, + either at the bottom or round the margin.' + +Of the conduct of Lady Byron's so-called friends on this occasion it is +more difficult to speak. + +There has always been in England, as John Stuart Mill says, a class +of women who glory in the utter self-abnegation of the wife to the +husband, as the special crown of womanhood. Their patron saint is +the Griselda of Chaucer, who, when her husband humiliates her, and +treats her as a brute, still accepts all with meek, unquestioning, +uncomplaining devotion. He tears her from her children; he treats her +with personal abuse; he repudiates her,--sends her out to nakedness +and poverty; he installs another mistress in his house, and sends for +the first to be her handmaid and his own: and all this the meek saint +accepts in the words of Milton,-- + + 'My guide and head, + What thou hast said is just and right.' + +Accordingly, Miss Martineau tells us that when Campbell's defence came +out, coupled with a note from Lady Byron,-- + + 'The first obvious remark was, that there was no real disclosure; and + the whole affair had the appearance of a desire, on the part of Lady + Byron, to exculpate herself, while yet no adequate information was + given. Many, who had regarded her with favour till then, gave her up + so far as to believe that feminine weakness had prevailed at last.' + +The saint had fallen from her pedestal! She had shown a human frailty! +Quite evidently she is not a Griselda, but possessed with a shocking +desire to exculpate herself and her friends. + +Is it, then, only to slandered _men_ that the privilege belongs of +desiring to exculpate themselves and their families and their friends +from unjust censure? + +Lord Byron had made it a life-long object to vilify and defame his +wife. He had used for that one particular purpose every talent that +he possessed. He had left it as a last charge to Moore to pursue +the warfare after death, which Moore had done to some purpose; and +Christopher North had informed Lady Byron that her private affairs +were discussed, not only with the whisky-toddy of the Noctes Club, +but in every drawing-room in May Fair; and declared that the 'Dear +Duck' letter, and various other matters, must be explained, and urged +somebody to speak; and then, when Campbell does speak with all the +energy of a real gentleman, a general outcry and an indiscriminate +_melee_ is the result. + +The world, with its usual injustice, insisted on attributing Campbell's +defence to Lady Byron. + +The reasons for this seemed to be, first, that Campbell states that he +did _not_ ask Lady Byron's leave, and that she did _not_ authorise him +to defend her; and, second, that, having asked some explanations from +her, he prints a note in which she declines to give any. + +We know not how a lady could more gently yet firmly decline to make +a gentleman her confidant than in this published note of Lady Byron; +and yet, to this day, Campbell is spoken of by the world as having +been Lady Byron's confidant at this time. This simply shows how very +trustworthy are the general assertions about Lady Byron's confidants. + +The final result of the matter, so far as Campbell was concerned, is +given in Miss Martineau's sketch, in the following paragraph:-- + + 'The whole transaction was one of poor Campbell's freaks. He excused + himself by saying it was a mistake of his; that he did not know what + he was about when he published the paper.' + +It is the saddest of all sad things to see a man, who has spoken from +moral convictions, in advance of his day, and who has taken a stand for +which he ought to honour himself, thus forced down and humiliated, made +to doubt his own better nature and his own honourable feelings, by the +voice of a wicked world. + +Campbell had no steadiness to stand by the truth he saw. His whole +story is told incidentally in a note to 'The Noctes,' in which it is +stated, that in an article in 'Blackwood,' January 1825, on Scotch +poets, the palm was given to Hogg over Campbell; 'one ground being, +that _he_ could drink "eight and twenty tumblers of punch, while +Campbell is hazy upon seven."' + +There is evidence in 'The Noctes,' that in due time Campbell was +reconciled to Moore, and was always suitably ashamed of having tried to +be any more generous or just than the men of his generation. + +And so it was settled as a law to Jacob, and an ordinance in Israel, +that the Byron worship should proceed, and that all the earth should +keep silence before him. 'Don Juan,' that, years before, had been +printed by stealth, without Murray's name on the title-page, that had +been denounced as a book which no woman should read, and had been given +up as a desperate enterprise, now came forth in triumph, with banners +flying and drums beating. Every great periodical in England that had +fired moral volleys of artillery against it in its early days, now +humbly marched in the glorious procession of admirers to salute this +edifying work of genius. + +'Blackwood,' which in the beginning had been the most indignantly +virtuous of the whole, now grovelled and ate dust as the serpent in +the very abjectness of submission. Odoherty (Maginn) declares that he +would rather have written a page of 'Don Juan' than a ton of 'Childe +Harold.'[23] Timothy Tickler informs Christopher North that he means +to tender Murray, as Emperor of the North, an interleaved copy[24] of +'Don Juan,' with illustrations, as the _only_ work of Byron's he cares +much about; and Christopher North, professor of _moral_ philosophy in +Edinburgh, smiles approval! We are not, after this, surprised to see +the assertion, by a recent much-aggrieved writer in 'The London Era,' +that 'Lord Byron has been, more than any other man of the age, the +_teacher_ of the _youth_ of England;' and that he has 'seen his works +on the bookshelves of _bishops'_ palaces, no less than on the tables of +university undergraduates.' + +[Footnote 23: 'Noctes,' July 1822.] + +[Footnote 24: 'Noctes,' September 1832.] + +A note to 'The Noctes' of July 1822 informs us of another instance of +Lord Byron's triumph over English morals:-- + + 'The mention of this' (Byron's going to Greece) reminds me, by the by, + of what the Guiccioli said in her visit to London, where she was so + lionised as having been the lady-love of Byron. She was rather fond + of speaking on the subject, designating herself by some Venetian pet + phrase, which she interpreted as meaning "Love-Wife."' + +What was Lady Byron to do in such a world? She retired to the +deepest privacy, and devoted herself to works of charity, and the +education of her only child,--that brilliant daughter, to whose eager, +opening mind the whole course of current literature must bring so +many trying questions in regard to the position of her father and +mother,--questions that the mother might not answer. That the cruel +inconsiderateness of the literary world added thorns to the intricacies +of the path trodden by every mother who seeks to guide, restrain, and +educate a strong, acute, and precociously intelligent child, must +easily be seen. + +What remains to be said of Lady Byron's life shall be said in the words +of Miss Martineau, published in 'The Atlantic Monthly:'-- + + 'Her life, thenceforth, was one of unremitting bounty to society + administered with as much skill and prudence as benevolence. She lived + in retirement, changing her abode frequently; partly for the benefit + of her child's education and the promotion of her benevolent schemes, + and partly from a restlessness which was one of the few signs of + injury received from the spoiling of associations with _home_. + + 'She felt a satisfaction which her friends rejoiced in when her + daughter married Lord King, at present the Earl of Lovelace, in 1835 + and when grief upon grief followed, in the appearance of mortal + disease in her only child, her quiet patience stood her in good stead + as before. She even found strength to appropriate the blessings of the + occasion, and took comfort, as did her dying daughter, in the intimate + friendship, which grew closer as the time of parting drew nigh. + + 'Lady Lovelace died in 1852; and, for her few remaining years, Lady + Byron was devoted to her grandchildren. But nearer calls never + lessened her interest in remoter objects. Her mind was of the large + and clear quality which could comprehend remote interests in their + true proportions, and achieve each aim as perfectly as if it were the + only one. Her agents used to say that it was impossible to mistake her + directions; and thus her business was usually well done. There was no + room, in her case, for the ordinary doubts, censures, and sneers about + the misapplication of bounty. + + 'Her taste did not lie in the "Charity-Ball" direction; her funds + were not lavished in encouraging hypocrisy and improvidence among + the idle and worthless; and the quality of her charity was, in fact, + as admirable as its quantity. Her chief aim was the extension and + improvement of popular education; but there was no kind of misery that + she heard of that she did not palliate to the utmost, and no kind of + solace that her quick imagination and sympathy could devise that she + did not administer. + + 'In her methods, she united consideration and frankness with singular + success. For one instance among a thousand: A lady with whom she had + had friendly relations some time before, and who became impoverished + in a quiet way by hopeless sickness, preferred poverty with an easy + conscience to a competency attended by some uncertainty about the + perfect rectitude of the resource. Lady Byron wrote to an intermediate + person exactly what she thought of the case. Whether the judgment + of the sufferer was right or mistaken was nobody's business but her + own: this was the first point. Next, a voluntary poverty could never + be pitied by anybody: that was the second. But it was painful to + others to think of the mortification to benevolent feelings which + attends poverty; and there could be no objection to arresting that + pain. Therefore she, Lady Byron, had lodged in a neighbouring bank + the sum of one hundred pounds, to be used for benevolent purposes; + and, in order to preclude all outside speculation, she had made the + money payable to the order of the intermediate person, so that the + sufferer's name need not appear at all. + + 'Five and thirty years of unremitting secret bounty like this must + make up a great amount of human happiness; but this was only one of + a wide variety of methods of doing good. It was the unconcealable + magnitude of her beneficence, and its wise quality, which made her a + second time the theme of English conversation in all honest households + within the four seas. Years ago, it was said far and wide that Lady + Byron was doing more good than anybody else in England; and it was + difficult to imagine how anybody could do more. + + 'Lord Byron spent every shilling that the law allowed him out of + her property while he lived, and left away from her every shilling + that he could deprive her of by his will; yet she had, eventually, a + large income at her command. In the management of it, she showed the + same wise consideration that marked all her practical decisions. She + resolved to spend her whole income, seeing how much the world needed + help at the moment. Her care was for the existing generation, rather + than for a future one, which would have its own friends. She usually + declined trammelling herself with annual subscriptions to charities; + preferring to keep her freedom from year to year, and to achieve + definite objects by liberal bounty, rather than to extend partial help + over a large surface which she could not herself superintend. + + 'It was her first industrial school that awakened the admiration of + the public, which had never ceased to take an interest in her, while + sorely misjudging her character. We hear much now--and everybody hears + it with pleasure--of the spread of education in "common things;" but + long before Miss Coutts inherited her wealth, long before a name was + found for such a method of training, Lady Byron had instituted the + thing, and put it in the way of making its own name. + + 'She was living at Ealing, in Middlesex, in 1834; and there she + opened one of the first industrial schools in England, if not the + very first. She sent out a master to Switzerland, to be instructed + in De Fellenburgh's method. She took, on lease, five acres of land, + and spent several hundred pounds in rendering the buildings upon it + fit for the purposes of the school. A liberal education was afforded + to the children of artisans and labourers during the half of the day + when they were not employed in the field or garden. The allotments + were rented by the boys, who raised and sold produce, which afforded + them a considerable yearly profit if they were good workmen. Those who + worked in the field earned wages; their labour being paid by the hour, + according to the capability of the young labourer. They kept their + accounts of expenditure and receipts, and acquired good habits of + business while learning the occupation of their lives. Some mechanical + trades were taught, as well as the arts of agriculture. + + 'Part of the wisdom of the management lay in making the pupils pay. + Of one hundred pupils, half were boarders. They paid little more than + half the expenses of their maintenance, and the day-scholars paid + threepence per week. Of course, a large part of the expense was borne + by Lady Byron, besides the payments she made for children who could + not otherwise have entered the school. The establishment flourished + steadily till 1852, when the owner of the land required it back for + building purposes. During the eighteen years that the Ealing schools + were in action, they did a world of good in the way of incitement + and example. The poor-law commissioners pointed out their merits. + Land-owners and other wealthy persons visited them, and went home and + set up similar establishments. During those years, too, Lady Byron had + herself been at work in various directions to the same purpose. + + 'A more extensive industrial scheme was instituted on her + Leicestershire property, and not far off she opened a girls' school + and an infant school; and when a season of distress came, as such + seasons are apt to befall the poor Leicestershire stocking-weavers, + Lady Byron fed the children for months together, till they could + resume their payments. These schools were opened in 1840. The next + year, she built a schoolhouse on her Warwickshire property; and, five + years later, she set up an iron schoolhouse on another Leicestershire + estate. + + 'By this time, her educational efforts were costing her several + hundred pounds a year in the mere maintenance of existing + establishments; but this is the smallest consideration in the case. + She has sent out tribes of boys and girls into life fit to do their + part there with skill and credit and comfort. Perhaps it is a still + more important consideration, that scores of teachers and trainers + have been led into their vocation, and duly prepared for it, by what + they saw and learned in her schools. As for the best and the worst of + the Ealing boys, the best have, in a few cases, been received into the + Battersea Training School, whence they could enter on their career as + teachers to the greatest advantage; and the worst found their school + a true reformatory, before reformatory schools were heard of. At + Bristol, she bought a house for a reformatory for girls; and there her + friend, Miss Carpenter, faithfully and energetically carries out her + own and Lady Byron's aims, which were one and the same. + + 'There would be no end if I were to catalogue the schemes of which + these are a specimen. It is of more consequence to observe that her + mind was never narrowed by her own acts, as the minds of benevolent + people are so apt to be. To the last, her interest in great political + movements, at home and abroad, was as vivid as ever. She watched every + step won in philosophy, every discovery in science, every token of + social change and progress in every shape. Her mind was as liberal + as her heart and hand. No diversity of opinion troubled her: she + was respectful to every sort of individuality, and indulgent to all + constitutional peculiarities. It must have puzzled those who kept up + the notion of her being "strait-laced" to see how indulgent she was + even to Epicurean tendencies,--the remotest of all from her own. + + 'But I must stop; for I do not wish my honest memorial to degenerate + into panegyric. Among her latest known acts were her gifts to the + Sicilian cause, and her manifestations on behalf of the antislavery + cause in the United States. Her kindness to William and Ellen Craft + must be well known there; and it is also related in the newspapers, + that she bequeathed a legacy to a young American to assist him under + any disadvantages he might suffer as an abolitionist. + + 'All these deeds were done under a heavy burden of ill health. Before + she had passed middle life, her lungs were believed to be irreparably + injured by partial ossification. She was subject to attacks so + serious, that each one, for many years, was expected to be the last. + She arranged her affairs in correspondence with her liabilities: so + that the same order would have been found, whether she died suddenly + or after long warning. + + 'She was to receive one more accession of outward greatness before she + departed. She became Baroness Wentworth in November, 1856. This is one + of the facts of her history; but it is the least interesting to us, as + probably to her. We care more to know that her last days were bright + in honour, and cheered by the attachment of old friends worthy to pay + the duty she deserved. Above all, it is consoling to know that she who + so long outlived her only child was blessed with the unremitting and + tender care of her grand-daughter. She died on the 16th of May, 1860. + + 'The portrait of Lady Byron as she was at the time of her marriage + is probably remembered by some of my readers. It is very engaging. + Her countenance afterwards became much worn; but its expression of + thoughtfulness and composure was very interesting. Her handwriting + accorded well with the character of her mind. It was clear, elegant, + and womanly. Her manners differed with circumstances. Her shrinking + sensitiveness might embarrass one visitor; while another would be + charmed with her easy, significant, and vivacious conversation. It + depended much on whom she talked with. The abiding certainty was, that + she had strength for the hardest of human trials, and the composure + which belongs to strength. For the rest, it is enough to point to her + deeds, and to the mourning of her friends round the chasm which her + departure has made in their life, and in the society in which it is + spent. All that could be done in the way of personal love and honour + was done while she lived: it only remains now to see that her name and + fame are permitted to shine forth at last in their proper light.' + +We have simply to ask the reader whether a life like this was not the +best, the noblest answer that a woman could make to a doubting world. + + + + +CHAPTER V. + +THE ATTACK ON LADY BYRON'S GRAVE. + + +We have now brought the review of the antagonism against Lady Byron +down to the period of her death. During all this time, let the candid +reader ask himself which of these two parties seems to be plotting +against the other. + +_Which_ has been active, aggressive, unscrupulous? which has been +silent, quiet, unoffending? Which of the two has laboured to make a +party, and to make that party active, watchful, enthusiastic? + +Have we not proved that Lady Byron remained perfectly silent during +Lord Byron's life, patiently looking out from her retirement to see +the waves of popular sympathy, that once bore her up, day by day +retreating, while his accusations against her were resounding in his +poems over the whole earth? And after Lord Byron's death, when all +the world with one consent began to give their memorials of him, and +made it appear, by their various 'recollections of conversations,' how +incessantly he had obtruded his own version of the separation upon +every listener, did she manifest any similar eagerness? + +Lady Byron had seen the 'Blackwood' coming forward, on the first +appearance of 'Don Juan,' to rebuke the cowardly lampoon in words +eloquent with all the unperverted vigour of an honest Englishman. Under +the power of the great conspirator, she had seen _that_ 'Blackwood' +become the very eager recipient and chief reporter of the stories +against her, and the blind admirer of her adversary. + +All this time, she lost sympathy daily by being silent. The world +will embrace those who court it; it will patronise those who seek its +favour; it will make parties for those who seek to make parties: but +for the often accused who do not speak, who make no confidants and no +parties, the world soon loses sympathy. + +When at last she spoke, Christopher North says '_she astonished +the world_.' Calm, clear, courageous, exact as to time, date, and +circumstance, was that first testimony, backed by the equally clear +testimony of Dr. Lushington. + +It showed that her secret had been kept even from her parents. In words +precise, firm, and fearless, she says, 'If these statements on which +Dr. Lushington and Sir Samuel Romilly formed their opinion were false, +the responsibility and the odium should rest with me only.' Christopher +North did not pretend to disbelieve this statement. He breathed not a +doubt of Lady Byron's word. He spoke of the crime indicated, as one +which might have been foul as the grave's corruption, unforgivable as +the sin against the Holy Ghost. He rebuked the wife for bearing this +testimony, even to save the memory of her dead father and mother, and, +in the same breath, declared that she ought now to go farther, and +speak fully the one awful word, and then--'a mitigated sentence, or +eternal silence!' + +But Lady Byron took no counsel with the world, nor with the literary +men of her age. One knight, with some small remnant of England's old +chivalry, set lance in rest for her: she saw him beaten back unhorsed, +rolled in the dust, and ingloriously vanquished, and perceived that +henceforth nothing but injury could come to any one who attempted to +speak for her. + +She turned from the judgments of man and the fond and natural hopes of +human nature, to lose herself in sacred ministries to the downcast and +suffering. What nobler record for woman could there be than that which +Miss Martineau has given? + +Particularly to be noted in Lady Byron was her peculiar interest in +reclaiming fallen women. Among her letters to Mrs. Prof. Follen, of +Cambridge, was one addressed to a society of ladies who had undertaken +this difficult work. It was full of heavenly wisdom and of a large and +tolerant charity. Fenelon truly says, it is only perfection that can +tolerate imperfection; and the very purity of Lady Byron's nature made +her most forbearing and most tender towards the weak and the guilty. +This letter, with all the rest of Lady Byron's, was returned to the +hands of her executors after her death. Its publication would greatly +assist the world in understanding the peculiarities of its writer's +character. + +Lady Byron passed to a higher life in 1860.[25] After her death, I +looked for the publication of her Memoir and Letters as the event that +should give her the same opportunity of being known and judged by her +life and writings that had been so freely accorded to Lord Byron. + +[Footnote 25: Miss Martineau's Biographical Sketches.] + +She was, in her husband's estimation, a woman of genius. She was +the friend of many of the first men and women of her times, and +corresponded with them on topics of literature, morals, religion, +and, above all, on the benevolent and philanthropic movements of the +day, whose principles she had studied with acute observation, and in +connection with which she had acquired a large experience. + +The knowledge of her, necessarily diffused by such a series of letters, +would have created in America a comprehension of her character, of +itself sufficient to wither a thousand slanders. + +Such a Memoir was contemplated. Lady Byron's letters to Mrs. Follen +were asked for from Boston; and I was applied to by a person in +England, who I have recently learned is one of the existing trustees +of Lady Byron's papers, to furnish copies of her letters to me for the +purpose of a Memoir. Before I had time to have copies made, another +letter came, stating that the trustees had concluded that it was best +not to publish any Memoir of Lady Byron at all. + +This left the character of Lady Byron in our American world precisely +where the slanders of her husband, the literature of the Noctes Club, +and the unanimous verdict of May Fair as recorded by 'Blackwood,' had +placed it. + +True, Lady Byron had nobly and quietly lived down these slanders in +England by deeds that made her name revered as a saint among all those +who valued saintliness. + +But in France and Italy, and in these United States, I have had +abundant opportunity to know that Lady Byron stood judged and condemned +on the testimony of her brilliant husband, and that the feeling against +her had a vivacity and intensity not to be overcome by mere allusions +to a virtuous life in distant England. + +This is strikingly shown by one fact. In the American edition of +Moore's 'Life of Byron,' by Claxton, Remsen, and Haffelfinger, +Philadelphia, 1869, which I have been consulting, Lady Byron's +statement, which is found in the Appendix of Murray's standard edition, +_is entirely omitted_. Every other paper is carefully preserved. This +one incident showed how the tide of sympathy was setting in this New +World. Of course, there is no stronger power than a virtuous life; but, +for a virtuous life to bear testimony to the world, its details must be +_told_, so that the world may know them. + +Suppose the memoirs of Clarkson and Wilberforce had been suppressed +after their death, how soon might the coming tide have wiped out the +record of their bravery and philanthropy! Suppose the lives of Francis +Xavier and Henry Martyn had never been written, and we had lost the +remembrance of what holy men could do and dare in the divine enthusiasm +of Christian faith! Suppose we had no Fenelon, no Book of Martyrs! + +Would there not be an outcry through all the literary and artistic +world if a perfect statue were allowed to remain buried for ever +because some painful individual history was connected with its burial +and its recovery? But is not a noble life a greater treasure to mankind +than any work of art? + +We have heard much mourning over the burned Autobiography of Lord +Byron, and seen it treated of in a magazine as 'the lost chapter in +history.' The lost chapter in history is _Lady_ Byron's Autobiography +in her life and letters; and the suppression of them is the root of +this whole mischief. + +We do not in this intend to censure the parties who came to this +decision. + +The descendants of Lady Byron revere her memory, as they have every +reason to do. That it was _their_ desire to have a Memoir of her +published, I have been informed by an individual of the highest +character in England, who obtained the information directly from Lady +Byron's grandchildren. + +But the trustees in whose care the papers were placed drew back on +examination of them, and declared, that, as Lady Byron's papers could +not be fully published, they should regret anything that should call +public attention once more to the discussion of her history. + +Reviewing this long history of the way in which the literary world +had treated Lady Byron, we cannot wonder that her friends should have +doubted whether there was left on earth any justice, or sense that +anything is due to woman as a human being with human rights. Evidently +this lesson had taken from them all faith in the moral sense of the +world. Rather than re-awaken the discussion, so unsparing, so painful, +and so indelicate, which had been carried on so many years around +that loved form, now sanctified by death, they sacrificed the dear +pleasure of the memorials, and the interests of mankind, who have an +indefeasible right to all the help that can be got from the truth of +history as to the living power of virtue, and the reality of that great +victory that overcometh the world. + +There are thousands of poor victims suffering in sadness, +discouragement, and poverty; heart-broken wives of brutal, drunken +husbands; women enduring nameless wrongs and horrors which the delicacy +of their sex forbids them to utter,--to whom the lovely letters lying +hidden away under those seals might bring courage and hope from springs +not of this world. + +But though the friends of Lady Byron, perhaps from despair of their +kind, from weariness of the utter injustice done her, wished to cherish +her name in silence, and to confine the story of her virtues to that +circle who knew her too well to ask a proof, or utter a doubt, the +partisans of Lord Byron were embarrassed with no such scruple. + +Lord Byron had artfully contrived during his life to place his wife in +such an antagonistic position with regard to himself, that his intimate +friends were forced to believe that one of the two had deliberately +and wantonly injured the other. The published statement of Lady Byron +contradicted boldly and point-blank all the statement of her husband +concerning the separation; so that, unless _she_ was convicted as a +false witness, _he_ certainly was. + +The best evidence of this is Christopher North's own shocked, +astonished statement, and the words of the Noctes Club. + +The noble life that Lady Byron lived after this hushed every voice, +and silenced even the most desperate calumny, _while she was in the +world_. In the face of Lady Byron as the world saw her, of what use was +the talk of Clytemnestra, and the assertion that she had been a mean, +deceitful conspirator against her husband's honour in life, and stabbed +his memory after death? + +But when she was in her grave, when her voice and presence and good +deeds no more spoke for her, and a new generation was growing up that +knew her not, _then_ was the time selected to revive the assault on her +memory, and to say over her grave what none would ever have dared to +say of her while living. + +During these last two years, I have been gradually awakening to the +evidence of a new crusade against the memory of Lady Byron, which +respected no sanctity,--not even that last and most awful one of death. + +Nine years after her death, when it was fully understood that no +story on her side or that of her friends was to be forthcoming, then +her calumniators raked out from the ashes of her husband's sepulchre +all his bitter charges, to state them over in even stronger and more +indecent forms. + +There seems to be reason to think that the materials supplied by Lord +Byron for such a campaign yet exist in society. + +To 'The Noctes' of November 1824, there is the following note _apropos_ +to a discussion of the Byron question:-- + + 'Byron's Memoirs, given by him to Moore, were burned, as everybody + knows. But, before this, Moore had lent them to several persons. Mrs. + Home Purvis, afterwards Viscountess of Canterbury, is _known_ to have + sat up all one night, in which, aided by her daughter, she had a + copy made. I have the strongest reason for believing that one other + person made a copy; for the description of the first twenty-four hours + after the marriage ceremonial has been in my hands. _Not until after + the death of Lady Byron, and Hobhouse_, who was the poet's literary + executor, can the poet's Autobiography see the light; _but I am + certain it will be published_.' + +Thus speaks Mackenzie in a note to a volume of 'The Noctes,' published +in America in 1854. Lady Byron died in 1860. + +Nine years after Lady Byron's death, when it was ascertained that her +story was not to see the light, when there were no means of judging +her character by her own writings, commenced a well-planned set of +operations to turn the public attention once more to Lord Byron, and +to represent him as an injured man, whose testimony had been unjustly +suppressed. + +It was quite possible, supposing copies of the Autobiography to exist, +that this might occasion a call from the generation of to-day, in +answer to which the suppressed work might appear. This was a rather +delicate operation to commence; but the instrument was not wanting. +It was necessary that the subject should be first opened by some +irresponsible party, whom more powerful parties might, as by accident, +recognise and patronise, and on whose weakness they might build +something stronger. + +Just such an instrument was to be found in Paris. The mistress of Lord +Byron could easily be stirred up and flattered to come before the world +with a book which should re-open the whole controversy; and she proved +a facile tool. At first, the work appeared prudently in French, and was +called 'Lord Byron juge par les Temoins de sa Vie,' and was rather a +failure. Then it was translated into English, and published by Bentley. + +The book was inartistic, and helplessly, childishly stupid as to any +literary merits,--a mere mass of gossip and twaddle; but after all, +when one remembers the taste of the thousands of circulating-library +readers, it must not be considered the less likely to be widely read +on that account. It is only once in a century that a writer of real +genius has the art to tell his story so as to take both the cultivated +few and the average many. De Foe and John Bunyan are almost the only +examples. But there is a certain class of reading that sells and +spreads, and exerts a vast influence, which the upper circles of +literature despise too much ever to fairly estimate its power. + +However, the Guiccioli book did not want for patrons in the high places +of literature. The 'Blackwood'--the old classic magazine of England; +the defender of conservatism and aristocracy; the paper of Lockhart, +Wilson, Hogg, Walter Scott, and a host of departed grandeurs--was +deputed to usher into the world this book, and to recommend it and its +author to the Christian public of the nineteenth century. + +The following is the manner in which 'Blackwood' calls attention to +it:-- + + 'One of the most beautiful of the songs of Beranger is that addressed + to his Lisette, in which he pictures her, in old age, narrating to a + younger generation the loves of their youth; decking his portrait with + flowers at each returning spring, and reciting the verses that had + been inspired by her vanished charms:-- + + 'Lorsque les yeux chercheront sous vos rides + Les traits charmants qui m'auront inspire, + Des doux recits les jeunes gens avides, + Diront: Quel fut cet ami tant pleure? + De mon amour peignez, s'il est possible, + L'ardeur, l'ivresse, et meme les soupcons, + Et benne vieille, au coin d'un feu paisible + De votre ami repetez les chansons. + + "On vous dira: Savait-il etre aimable? + Et sans rougir vous direz: Je l'aimais. + D'un trait mechant se montra-t-il capable? + Avec orgueil vous repondrez: Jamais!"' + + 'This charming picture,' 'Blackwood' goes on to say, 'has been + realised in the case of a poet greater than Beranger, and by a + mistress more famous than Lisette. The Countess Guiccioli has at + length given to the world her "Recollections of Lord Byron." The + book first appeared in France under the title of "Lord Byron juge + par les Temoins de sa Vie," without the name of the countess. A + more unfortunate designation could hardly have been selected. The + "witnesses of his life" told us nothing but what had been told before + over and over again; and the uniform and exaggerated tone of eulogy + which pervaded the whole book was fatal to any claim on the part of + the writer to be considered an impartial judge of the wonderfully + mixed character of Byron. + + '_When, however, the book is regarded as the avowed production of + the Countess Guiccioli, it derives value and interest from its very + faults._[26] There is something inexpressibly touching in the picture + of the old lady calling up the phantoms of half a century ago; not + faded and stricken by the hand of time, but brilliant and gorgeous as + they were when Byron, in his manly prime of genius and beauty, first + flashed upon her enraptured sight, and she gave her whole soul up to + an absorbing passion, the embers of which still glow in her heart. + + [Footnote 26: The italics are mine.--H. B. S.] + + 'To her there has been no change, no decay. The god whom she + worshipped with all the ardour of her Italian nature at seventeen is + still the "Pythian of the age" to her at seventy. To try such a book + by the ordinary canons of criticism would be as absurd as to arraign + the authoress before a jury of British matrons, or to prefer a bill of + indictment against the Sultan for bigamy to a Middlesex grand jury.' + +This, then, is the introduction which one of the oldest and most +classical periodicals of Great Britain gives to a very stupid book, +simply because it was written by Lord Byron's mistress. _That fact_, we +are assured, lends grace even to its faults. + +Having brought the authoress upon the stage, the review now goes on to +define her position, and assure the Christian world that + + 'The Countess Guiccioli was the daughter of an impoverished noble. At + the age of sixteen, she was taken from a convent, and sold as third + wife to the Count Guiccioli, who was old, rich, and profligate. A + fouler prostitution never profaned the name of marriage. A short time + afterwards, she accidentally met Lord Byron. Outraged and rebellious + nature vindicated itself in the deep and devoted passion with which + he inspired her. With the full assent of husband, father, and + brother, and in compliance with the usages of Italian society, he was + shortly afterwards installed in the office, and invested with all the + privileges, of her "Cavalier Servente."' + +It has been asserted that the Marquis de Boissy, the late husband of +this Guiccioli lady, was in the habit of introducing her in fashionable +circles as 'the Marquise de Boissy, my wife, formerly mistress to Lord +Byron'! We do not give the story as a verity; yet, in the review of +this whole history, we may be pardoned for thinking it quite possible. + +The mistress, being thus vouched for and presented as worthy of +sympathy and attention by one of the oldest and most classic organs +of English literature, may now proceed in her work of glorifying the +popular idol, and casting abuse on the grave of the dead wife. + +Her attacks on Lady Byron are, to be sure, less skilful and adroit +than those of Lord Byron. They want his literary polish and tact; but +what of that? 'Blackwood' assures us that even the faults of manner +derive a peculiar grace from the fact that the narrator is Lord Byron's +mistress; and so we suppose the literary world must find grace in +things like this:-- + + 'She has been called, after his words, the moral Clytemnestra of + her husband. Such a surname is severe: but the repugnance we feel + to condemning a woman cannot prevent our listening to the voice of + justice, which tells us that the comparison is still in favour of + the guilty one of antiquity; for _she_, driven to crime by fierce + passion overpowering reason, at least only deprived her husband of + physical life, and, in committing the deed, exposed herself to all its + consequences; while Lady Byron left her husband at the very moment + that she saw him struggling amid a thousand shoals in the stormy sea + of embarrassments created by his marriage, and precisely when he more + than ever required a friendly, tender, and indulgent hand to save him. + + 'Besides, she shut herself up in silence a thousand times more cruel + than Clytemnestra's poniard: _that_ only killed the body; whereas + Lady Byron's silence was destined to kill the soul,--and such a + soul!--leaving the door open to calumny, and making it to be supposed + that her silence was magnanimity destined to cover over frightful + wrongs, perhaps even depravity. In vain did he, feeling his conscience + at ease, implore some inquiry and examination. She refused; and the + only favour she granted was to send him, one fine day, two persons to + see whether he were not mad. + + 'And, why, then, had she believed him mad? Because she, a methodical, + inflexible woman, with that unbendingness which a profound moralist + calls the worship rendered to pride by a feelingless soul,--because + she could not understand the possibility of tastes and habits + different to those of ordinary routine, or of her own starched life. + Not to be hungry when she was; not to sleep at night, but to write + while she was sleeping, and to sleep when she was up; in short, to + gratify the requirements of material and intellectual life at hours + different to hers,--all that was not merely annoying for her, but it + must be _madness_; or, if not, it betokened depravity that she could + neither submit to nor tolerate without perilling her own morality. + + 'Such was the grand secret of the cruel silence which exposed Lord + Byron to the most malignant interpretations, to all the calumny and + revenge of his enemies. + + 'She was, perhaps, the only woman in the world so strangely + organised,--the only one, perhaps, capable of not feeling happy and + proud at belonging to a man superior to the rest of humanity; and + fatally was it decreed that this woman _alone_ of her species should + be Lord Byron's wife!' + +In a note is added,-- + + 'If an imaginary fear, and even an unreasonable jealousy, may be her + excuse (just as one excuses a monomania), can one equally forgive her + silence? Such a silence is morally what are physically the poisons + which kill at once, and defy all remedies; thus insuring the culprit's + safety. This silence it is which will ever be her crime; for by it she + poisoned the life of her husband.' + +The book has several chapters devoted to Lord Byron's peculiar virtues; +and under the one devoted to magnanimity and heroism, his _forgiving_ +disposition receives special attention. The climax of all is stated to +be that he forgave Lady Byron. All the world knew that, since he had +declared this fact in a very noisy and impassioned manner in the fourth +canto of 'Childe Harold,' together with a statement of the wrongs which +he forgave; but the Guiccioli thinks his virtue, at this period, has +not been enough appreciated. In her view, it rose to the sublime. She +says of Lady Byron,-- + + 'An absolute moral monstrosity, an anomaly in the history of types + of female hideousness, had succeeded in showing itself in the light + of magnanimity. But false as was this high quality in Lady Byron, so + did it shine out in him true and admirable. The position in which + Lady Byron had placed him, and where she continued to keep him by + her harshness, silence, and strange refusals, was one of those which + cause such suffering, that the highest degree of self-control seldom + suffices to quiet the promptings of human weakness, and to cause + persons of even slight sensibility to preserve moderation. Yet, with + his sensibility and the knowledge of his worth, how did he act? what + did he say? I will not speak of his "farewell;" of the care he took + to shield her from blame by throwing it on others, by taking much too + large a share to himself.' + +With like vivacity and earnestness does the narrator now proceed to +make an incarnate angel of her subject by the simple process of denying +everything that he himself ever confessed,--everything that has ever +been confessed in regard to him by his best friends. He has been in +the world as an angel unawares from his cradle. His guardian did not +properly appreciate him, and is consequently mentioned as that _wicked_ +Lord Carlisle. Thomas Moore is never to be sufficiently condemned +for the facts told in his biography. Byron's own frank and lawless +admissions of evil are set down to a peculiar inability he had for +speaking the truth about himself,--sometimes about his near relations; +all which does not in the least discourage the authoress from giving a +separate chapter on 'Lord Byron's Love of Truth.' + +In the matter of his relations with women, she complacently repeats +(what sounds rather oddly as coming from her) Lord Byron's own +assurance, that he _never_ seduced a woman; and also the equally +convincing statement, that he had told _her_ (the Guiccioli) that his +married fidelity to his wife was perfect. She discusses Moore's account +of the mistress in boy's clothes who used to share Byron's apartments +in college, and ride with him to races, and whom he presented to +_ladies_ as his brother. + +She has her own view of this matter. The disguised boy was a lady +of rank and fashion, who sought Lord Byron's chambers, as, we are +informed, noble ladies everywhere, both in Italy and England, were +constantly in the habit of doing; throwing themselves at his feet, and +imploring permission to become his handmaids. + +In the authoress's own words, 'Feminine overtures still continued +to be made to Lord Byron; but the fumes of incense never hid from +his sight his IDEAL.' We are told that in the case of +these poor ladies, generally 'disenchantment took place on his side +without a corresponding result on the other: THENCE many +heart-breakings.' Nevertheless, we are informed that there followed the +indiscretions of these ladies 'none of those proceedings that the world +readily forgives, but which his feelings as a man of honour would have +condemned.' + +As to drunkenness, and all that, we are informed he was an anchorite. +Pages are given to an account of the biscuits and soda-water that on +this and that occasion were found to be the sole means of sustenance to +this ethereal creature. + +As to the story of using his wife's money, the lady gives, directly in +the face of his own Letters and Journal, the same account given before +by Medwin, and which caused such merriment when talked over in the +Noctes Club,--that he had with her only a marriage portion of L10,000; +and that, on the separation, he not only paid it back, but doubled +it.[27] + +[Footnote 27: In 'The Noctes' of November, 1824 Christopher North says, +'I don't call Medwin a liar.... Whether Byron bammed him, or he, by +virtue of his own stupidity, was the sole and sufficient bammifier of +himself, I know not.' A note says that Murray had been much shocked by +Byron's misstatements to Medwin as to money-matters with him. The note +goes on to say, 'Medwin could not have invented them, for they were +mixed up with acknowledged facts; and the presumption is that Byron +mystified his gallant acquaintance. He was fond of such tricks.'] + +So on the authoress goes, sowing right and left the most transparent +absurdities and misstatements with what Carlyle well calls 'a composed +stupidity, and a cheerful infinitude of ignorance.' Who _should_ know, +if not she, to be sure? Had not Byron told her all about it? and was +not his family motto _Crede Byron_? + +The 'Blackwood,' having a dim suspicion that this confused style of +attack and defence in reference to the two parties under consideration +may not have great weight, itself proceeds to make the book an occasion +for re-opening the controversy of Lord Byron with his wife. + +The rest of the review is devoted to a powerful attack on Lady Byron's +character,--the most fearful attack on the memory of a dead woman we +have ever seen made by living man. The author proceeds, like a lawyer, +to gather up, arrange, and restate, in a most workmanlike manner, the +confused accusations of the book. + +Anticipating the objection, that such a re-opening of the inquiry was +a violation of the privacy due to womanhood and to the feelings of a +surviving family, he says, that though marriage usually is a private +matter which the world has no right to intermeddle with or discuss, +yet-- + + 'Lord Byron's was an exceptional case. It is not too much to say, + that, had his marriage been a happy one, the course of events of the + present century might have been materially changed; that the genius + which poured itself forth in "Don Juan" and "Cain" might have flowed + in far different channels; that the ardent love of freedom which sent + him to perish at six and thirty at Missolonghi might have inspired + a long career at home; and that we might at this moment have been + appealing to the counsels of his experience and wisdom at an age + not exceeding that which was attained by Wellington, Lyndhurst, and + Brougham. + + 'Whether the world would have been a gainer or a loser by the exchange + is a question which every man must answer for himself, according to + his own tastes and opinions; but the possibility of such a change in + the course of events warrants us in treating what would otherwise be a + strictly private matter as one of public interest. + + 'More than half a century has elapsed, the actors have departed from + the stage, the curtain has fallen; and whether it will ever again be + raised so as to reveal the real facts of the drama, may, as we have + already observed, be well doubted. But the time has arrived when we + may fairly gather up the fragments of evidence, clear them as far as + possible from the incrustations of passion, prejudice, and malice, and + place them in such order, as, if possible, to enable us to arrive + at some probable conjecture as to what the skeleton of the drama + originally was.' + +Here the writer proceeds to put together all the facts of Lady Byron's +case, just as an adverse lawyer would put them as against her, and +for her husband. The plea is made vigorously and ably, and with an +air of indignant severity, as of an honest advocate who is thoroughly +convinced that he is pleading the cause of a wronged man who has been +ruined in name, ship-wrecked in life, and driven to an early grave, by +the arts of a bad woman,--a woman all the more horrible that her malice +was disguised under the cloak of religion. + +Having made an able statement of facts, adroitly leaving out +ONE,[28] of which he could not have been ignorant had he +studied the case carefully enough to know all the others, he proceeds +to sum up against the criminal thus:-- + +[Footnote 28: This one fact is, that Lord Byron might have had an open +examination in court, if he had only persisted in refusing the deed of +separation.] + + 'We would deal tenderly with the memory of Lady Byron. Few women have + been juster objects of compassion. It would seem as if Nature and + Fortune had vied with each other which should be most lavish of her + gifts, and yet that some malignant power had rendered all their bounty + of no effect. Rank, beauty, wealth, and mental powers of no common + order, were hers; yet they were of no avail to secure her happiness. + The spoilt child of seclusion, restraint, and parental idolatry, + a fate (alike evil for both) cast her into the arms of the spoilt + child of genius, passion, and the world. What real or fancied wrongs + she suffered, we may never know; but those which she inflicted are + sufficiently apparent. + + 'It is said that there are some poisons so subtle that they will + destroy life, and yet leave no trace of their action. The murderer + who uses them may escape the vengeance of the law; but he is not the + less guilty. So the slanderer who makes no charge; who deals in hints + and insinuations: who knows melancholy facts he would not willingly + divulge,--things too painful to state; who forbears, expresses pity, + sometimes even affection, for his victim, shrugs his shoulders, looks + with + + "The significant eye, + Which learns to lie with silence,--" + + is far more guilty than he who tells the bold falsehood which may be + met and answered, and who braves the punishment which must follow upon + detection. + + 'Lady Byron has been called + + "The moral Clytemnestra of her lord." + + The "moral Brinvilliers" would have been a truer designation. + + 'The conclusion at which we arrive is, that there is no proof whatever + that Lord Byron was guilty of any act that need have caused a + separation, or prevented a re-union, and that the imputations upon him + rest on the vaguest conjecture; that whatever real or fancied wrongs + Lady Byron may have endured are shrouded in an impenetrable mist of + her own creation,--a poisonous miasma in which she enveloped the + character of her husband, raised by her breath, and which her breath + only could have dispersed. + + "She dies and makes no sign. O God! forgive her."' + +As we have been obliged to review accusations on Lady Byron founded +on old Greek tragedy, so now we are forced to abridge a passage from +a modern conversations-lexicon, that we may understand what sort of +comparisons are deemed in good taste in a conservative English review, +when speaking of ladies of rank in their graves. + +Under the article 'Brinvilliers,' we find as follows:-- + + 'MARGUERITE D'AUBRAI, MARCHIONESS OF BRINVILLIERS.--The + singular atrocity of this woman gives her a sort of infamous claim to + notice. She was horn in Paris in 1651; being daughter of D'Aubrai, + lieutenant-civil of Paris, who married her to the Marquis of + Brinvilliers. Although possessed of attractions to captivate lovers, + she was for some time much attached to her husband, but at length + became madly in love with a Gascon officer. Her father imprisoned + the officer in the Bastille; and, while there, he learned the art of + compounding subtle and most mortal poisons; and, when he was released, + he taught it to the lady, who exercised it with such success, that, + in one year, her father, sister, and two brothers became her victims. + She professed the utmost tenderness for her victims, and nursed them + assiduously. On her father she is said to have made eight attempts + before she succeeded. She was _very religious_, and devoted to works + of charity; and visited the hospitals a great deal, where it is said + she tried her poisons on the sick.' + +People have made loud outcries lately, both in America and England, +about violating the repose of the dead. We should like to know what +they call this. Is this, then, what they mean by _respecting_ the dead? + +Let any man imagine a leading review coming out with language equally +brutal about his own mother, or any dear and revered friend. + +Men of America, men of England, what do you think of this? + +When Lady Byron was publicly branded with the names of the foulest +ancient and foulest modern assassins, and Lord Byron's mistress was +publicly taken by the hand, and encouraged to go on and prosper in her +slanders, by one of the oldest and most influential British reviews, +what was said and what was done in England? + +That is a question we should be glad to have answered. Nothing was done +that ever reached us across the water. + +And why was nothing done? Is this language of a kind to be passed over +in silence? + +Was it no offence to the house of Wentworth to attack the pure +character of its late venerable head, and to brand her in her sacred +grave with the name of one of the vilest of criminals? + +Might there not properly have been an indignant protest of family +solicitors against this insult to the person and character of the +Baroness Wentworth? + +If virtue went for nothing, benevolence for nothing, a long life of +service to humanity for nothing, one would at least have thought, that, +in aristocratic countries, rank might have had its rights to decent +consideration, and its guardians to rebuke the violation of those +rights. + +We Americans understand little of the advantages of rank; but we did +understand that it secured certain decorums to people, both while +living and when in their graves. From Lady Byron's whole history, in +life and in death, it would appear that we were mistaken. + +What a life was hers! Was ever a woman more evidently desirous of +the delicate and secluded privileges of womanhood, of the sacredness +of individual privacy? Was ever a woman so rudely dragged forth, +and exposed to the hardened, vulgar, and unfeeling gaze of mere +curiosity?--her maiden secrets of love thrown open to be handled by +_roues_; the sanctities of her marriage-chamber desecrated by leering +satyrs; her parents and best friends traduced and slandered, till one +indignant public protest was extorted from her, as by the rack,--a +protest which seems yet to quiver in every word with the indignation of +outraged womanly delicacy! + +Then followed coarse blame and coarser comment,--blame for speaking +at all, and blame for not speaking more. One manly voice, raised for +her in honourable protest, was silenced and overborne by the universal +roar of ridicule and reprobation; and henceforth what refuge? Only this +remained: 'Let them that suffer according to the will of God commit the +keeping of their souls to him as to a faithful Creator.' + +Lady Byron turned to this refuge in silence, and filled up her life +with a noble record of charities and humanities. So pure was she, so +childlike, so artless, so loving, that those who knew her best, feel, +to this day, that a memorial of her is like the relic of a saint. And +could not all this preserve her grave from insult? O England, England! + +I speak in sorrow of heart to those who must have known, loved, and +revered Lady Byron, and ask them, Of what were you thinking when you +allowed a paper of so established literary rank as the 'Blackwood,' to +present and earnestly recommend to our New World such a compendium of +lies as the Guiccioli book? + +Is the great English-speaking community, whose waves toss from Maine +to California, and whose literature is yet to come back in a thousand +voices to you, a thing to be so despised? + +If, as the solicitors of the Wentworth family observe, you might be +entitled to treat with silent contempt the slanders of a mistress +against a wife, was it safe to treat with equal contempt the +indorsement and recommendation of those slanders by one of your oldest +and most powerful literary authorities? + +No European magazine has ever had the weight and circulation in America +that the 'Blackwood' has held. In the days of my youth, when New +England was a comparatively secluded section of the earth, the wit +and genius of the 'Noctes Ambrosianae' were in the mouths of men and +maidens, even in our most quiet mountain-towns. There, years ago, we +saw all Lady Byron's private affairs discussed, and felt the weight of +Christopher North's decisions against her. Shelton Mackenzie, in his +American edition, speaks of the American circulation of 'Blackwood' +being greater than that in England.[29] It was and is now reprinted +monthly; and, besides that, 'Littell's Magazine' reproduces all its +striking articles, and they come with the weight of long established +position. From the very fact that it has long been considered the Tory +organ, and the supporter of aristocratic orders, all its admissions +against the character of individuals in the privileged classes have a +double force. + +[Footnote 29: In the history of 'Blackwood's Magazine,' prefaced to +the American edition of 1854, Mackenzie says of the 'Noctes' papers, +'Great as was their popularity in England it was peculiarly in +America that their high merit and undoubted originality received the +heartiest recognition and appreciation. Nor is this wonderful when it +is considered that for one reader of "Blackwood's Magazine" in the old +country there cannot be less than fifty in the new.'] + +When 'Blackwood,' therefore, boldly denounces a lady of high rank as a +modern Brinvilliers, and no sensation is produced, and no remonstrance +follows, what can people in the New World suppose, but that Lady +Byron's character was a point entirely given up; that her depravity was +so well established and so fully conceded, that nothing was to be said, +and that even the defenders of aristocracy were forced to admit it? + +I have been blamed for speaking on this subject without consulting Lady +Byron's friends, trustees, and family. More than ten years had elapsed +since I had had any intercourse with England, and I knew none of them. +How was I to know that any of them were living? I was astonished to +learn, for the first time, by the solicitors' letters, that there were +trustees, who held in their hands all Lady Byron's carefully prepared +proofs and documents, by which this falsehood might immediately have +been refuted. + +If they had spoken, they might have saved all this confusion. Even +if bound by restrictions for a certain period of time, they still +might have called on a Christian public to frown down such a cruel +and indecent attack on the character of a noble lady who had been a +benefactress to so many in England. They might have stated that the +means of wholly refuting the slanders of the 'Blackwood' were in their +hands, and only delayed in coming forth from regard to the feelings +of some in this generation. Then might they not have announced her +Life and Letters, that the public might have the same opportunity as +themselves for knowing and judging Lady Byron by her own writings? + +Had this been done, I had been most happy to have remained silent. I +have been astonished that any one should have supposed this speaking +on my part to be anything less than it is,--the severest act of +self-sacrifice that one friend can perform for another, and the most +solemn and difficult tribute to justice that a human being can be +called upon to render. + +I have been informed that the course I have taken would be contrary to +the wishes of my friend. I think otherwise. I know her strong sense +of justice, and her reverence for truth. Nothing ever moved her to +speak to the public but an attack upon the honour of the dead. In her +statement, she says of her parents, 'There is no other near relative to +vindicate their memory from insult: I am therefore compelled to break +the silence I had hoped always to have observed.' + +If there was any near relative to vindicate Lady Byron's memory, I +had no evidence of the fact; and I considered the utter silence to +be strong evidence to the contrary. In all the storm of obloquy and +rebuke that has raged in consequence of my speaking, I have had two +unspeakable sources of joy; first, that they could not touch _her_; +and, second, that they could not blind the all-seeing God. It is worth +being in darkness to see the stars. + +It has been said that _I_ have drawn on Lady Byron's name greater +obloquy than ever before. I deny the charge. Nothing fouler has been +asserted of her than the charges in the 'Blackwood,' because nothing +fouler _could_ be asserted. No satyr's hoof has ever crushed this pearl +deeper in the mire than the hoof of the 'Blackwood,' but none of them +have defiled it or trodden it so deep that God cannot find it in the +day 'when he maketh up his jewels.' + +I have another word, as an American, to say about the contempt shown +to our great people in thus suffering the materials of history to be +falsified to subserve the temporary purposes of family feeling in +England. + +Lord Byron belongs not properly either to the Byrons or the Wentworths. +He is not one of their family jewels to be locked up in their cases. +He belongs to the world for which he wrote, to which he appealed, and +before which he dragged his reluctant, delicate wife to a publicity +equal with his own: the world has, therefore, a right to judge him. + +We Americans have been made accessories, after the fact, to every +insult and injury that Lord Byron and the literary men of his day have +heaped upon Lady Byron. We have been betrayed into injustice and a +complicity with villany. After Lady Byron had nobly lived down slanders +in England, and died full of years and honours, the 'Blackwood' takes +occasion to re-open the controversy by recommending a book full of +slanders to a rising generation who knew nothing of the past. What +was the consequence in America? My attention was first called to the +result, not by reading the 'Blackwood' article, but by finding in a +popular monthly magazine two long articles,--the one an enthusiastic +recommendation of the Guiccioli book, and the other a lamentation over +the burning of the Autobiography as a lost chapter in history. + +Both articles represented Lady Byron as a cold, malignant, mean, +persecuting woman, who had been her husband's ruin. They were so full +of falsehoods and misstatements as to astonish me. Not long after, a +literary friend wrote to me, '_Will_ you, _can_ you, reconcile it to +your conscience to sit still and allow that mistress so to slander that +wife,--you, perhaps, the only one knowing the real facts, and able to +set them forth?' + +Upon this, I immediately began collecting and reading the various +articles and the book, and perceived that the public of this generation +were in a way of having false history created, uncontradicted, under +their own eyes. + +I claim for my country, men and women, our right to _true_ history. +For years, the popular literature has held up publicly before our eyes +the facts as to this man and this woman, and called on us to praise or +condemn. Let us have _truth_ when we are called on to judge. It is our +_right_. + +There is no conceivable obligation on a human being greater than +that of _absolute justice_. It is the deepest personal injury to an +honourable mind to be made, through misrepresentation, an accomplice +in injustice. When a noble name is accused, any person who possesses +truth which might clear it, and withholds that truth, is guilty of a +sin against human nature and the inalienable rights of justice. I claim +that I have not only a right, but an obligation, to bring in my solemn +testimony upon this subject. + +For years and years, the silence-policy has been tried; and what has it +brought forth? As neither word nor deed could be proved against Lady +Byron, her silence has been spoken of as a monstrous, unnatural crime, +'a poisonous miasma,' in which she enveloped the name of her husband. + +Very well; since silence is the crime, I thought I would tell the world +that Lady Byron had spoken. + +Christopher North, years ago, when he condemned her for speaking, said +that she should speak further,-- + +'She should speak, or some one for her. One word would suffice.' + +That one word has been spoken. + + + + +PART II. + + + + +CHAPTER I. + +LADY BYRON AS I KNEW HER. + + +An editorial in 'The London Times' of Sept. 18 says:-- + + 'The perplexing feature in this "True Story" is, that it is impossible + to distinguish what part in it is the editress's, and what Lady + Byron's own. We are given the _impression_ made on Mrs. Stowe's mind + by Lady Byron's statements; but it would have been more satisfactory + if the statement itself had been reproduced as bare as possible, and + been left to make its own impression on the public.' + +In reply to this, I will say, that in my article I gave a brief +synopsis of the subject-matter of Lady Byron's communications; +and I think it must be quite evident to the world that the _main +fact_ on which the story turns was one which could not possibly be +misunderstood, and the remembrance of which no lapse of time could ever +weaken. + +Lady Byron's communications were made to me in language clear, precise, +terrible; and many of her phrases and sentences I could repeat at this +day, word for word. But if I had reproduced them at first, as 'The +Times' suggests, word for word, the public horror and incredulity would +have been doubled. It was necessary that the brutality of the story +should, in some degree, be veiled and softened. + +The publication, by Lord Lindsay, of Lady Anne Barnard's communication, +makes it now possible to tell fully, and in Lady Byron's own words, +certain incidents that yet remain untold. To me, who know the whole +history, the revelations in Lady Anne's account, and the story related +by Lady Byron, are like fragments of a dissected map: they fit +together, piece by piece, and form one connected whole. + +In confirmation of the general facts of this interview, I have the +testimony of a sister who accompanied me on this visit, and to whom, +immediately after it, I recounted the story. + +Her testimony on the subject is as follows:-- + + 'MY DEAR SISTER,--I have a perfect recollection of going + with you to visit Lady Byron at the time spoken of in your published + article. We arrived at her house in the morning; and, after lunch, + Lady Byron and yourself spent the whole time till evening alone + together. + + 'After we retired to our apartment that night, you related to me + the story given in your published account, though with many more + particulars than you have yet thought fit to give to the public. + + 'You stated to me that Lady Byron was strongly impressed with the idea + that it might be her duty to publish a statement during her lifetime, + and also the reasons which induced her to think so. You appeared at + that time quite disposed to think that justice required this step, and + asked my opinion. We passed most of the night in conversation on the + subject,--a conversation often resumed, from time to time, during + several weeks in which you were considering what opinion to give. + + 'I was strongly of opinion that justice required the publication of + the truth, but felt exceedingly averse to its being done by Lady Byron + herself during her own lifetime, when she personally would be subject + to the comments and misconceptions of motives which would certainly + follow such a communication. + + 'Your sister, + + 'M. F. PERKINS.' + +I am now about to complete the account of my conversation with Lady +Byron; but as the credibility of a history depends greatly on the +character of its narrator, and as especial pains have been taken +to destroy the belief in this story by representing it to be the +wanderings of a broken-down mind in a state of dotage and mental +hallucination, I shall preface the narrative with some account of +Lady Byron as she was during the time of our mutual acquaintance and +friendship. + +This account may, perhaps, be deemed superfluous in England, where so +many knew her; but in America, where, from Maine to California, her +character has been discussed and traduced, it is of importance to give +interested thousands an opportunity of learning what kind of a woman +Lady Byron was. + +Her character as given by Lord Byron in his Journal, after her first +refusal of him, is this:-- + + 'She is a very superior woman, and very little spoiled; which is + strange in an heiress, a girl of twenty, a peeress that is to be in + her own right, an only child, and a savante, who has always had her + own way. She is a poetess, a mathematician, a metaphysician; yet, + withal, very kind, generous, and gentle, with very little pretension. + Any other head would be turned with half her acquisitions and a tenth + of her advantages.' + +Such was Lady Byron at twenty. I formed her acquaintance in the year +1853, during my first visit in England. I met her at a lunch-party in +the house of one of her friends. + +The party had many notables; but, among them all, my attention was +fixed principally on Lady Byron. She was at this time sixty-one years +of age, but still had, to a remarkable degree, that personal attraction +which is commonly considered to belong only to youth and beauty. + +Her form was slight, giving an impression of fragility; her motions +were both graceful and decided; her eyes bright, and full of interest +and quick observation. Her silvery-white hair seemed to lend a grace +to the transparent purity of her complexion, and her small hands +had a pearly whiteness. I recollect she wore a plain widow's cap of +a transparent material; and was dressed in some delicate shade of +lavender, which harmonised well with her complexion. + +When I was introduced to her, I felt in a moment the words of her +husband:-- + + 'There was awe in the homage that she drew; + Her spirit seemed as seated on a throne.' + +Calm, self-poised, and thoughtful, she seemed to me rather to resemble +an interested spectator of the world's affairs, than an actor involved +in its trials; yet the sweetness of her smile, and a certain very +delicate sense of humour in her remarks, made the way of acquaintance +easy. + +Her first remarks were a little playful; but in a few moments we were +speaking on what every one in those days was talking to me about,--the +slavery question in America. + +It need not be remarked, that, when any one subject especially occupies +the public mind, those known to be interested in it are compelled to +listen to many weary platitudes. Lady Byron's remarks, however, caught +my ear and arrested my attention by their peculiar incisive quality, +their originality, and the evidence they gave that she was as well +informed on all our matters as the best American statesman could be. +I had no wearisome course to go over with her as to the difference +between the General Government and State Governments, nor explanations +of the United States Constitution; for she had the whole before her +mind with a perfect clearness. Her morality upon the slavery question, +too, impressed me as something far higher and deeper than the common +sentimentalism of the day. Many of her words surprised me greatly, and +gave me new material for thought. + +I found I was in company with a commanding mind, and hastened to +gain instruction from her on another point where my interest had +been aroused. I had recently been much excited by Kingsley's novels, +'Alton Locke' and 'Yeast,' on the position of religious thought in +England. From these works I had gathered, that under the apparent +placid uniformity of the Established Church of England, and of 'good +society' as founded on it, there was moving a secret current of +speculative enquiry, doubt, and dissent; but I had met, as yet, with +no person among my various acquaintances in England who seemed either +aware of this fact, or able to guide my mind respecting it. The moment +I mentioned the subject to Lady Byron, I received an answer which +showed me that the whole ground was familiar to her, and that she was +capable of giving me full information. She had studied with careful +thoughtfulness all the social and religious tendencies of England +during her generation. One of her remarks has often since occurred to +me. Speaking of the Oxford movement, she said the time had come when +the English Church could no longer remain as it was. It must either +_restore the past, or create a future_. The Oxford movement attempted +the former; and of the future she was beginning to speak, when our +conversation was interrupted by the presentation of other parties. + +Subsequently, in reply to a note from her on some benevolent business, +I alluded to that conversation, and expressed a wish that she would +finish giving me her views of the religious state of England. A portion +of the letter that she wrote me in reply I insert, as being very +characteristic in many respects:-- + + 'Various causes have been assigned for the decaying state of the + English Church; which seems the more strange, because the clergy have + improved, morally and intellectually, in the last twenty years. Then + why should their influence be diminished? I think it is owing to the + diffusion of a spirit of free enquiry. + + 'Doubts have arisen in the minds of many who are unhappily bound by + subscription _not_ to doubt; and, in consequence, they are habitually + _pretending_ either to believe or to disbelieve. The state of Denmark + cannot but be rotten, when _to seem_ is the first object of the + witnesses of truth. + + 'They may lead better lives, and bring forward abler arguments; but + their efforts are paralysed by that unsoundness. I see the High + Churchman professing to believe in the existence of a church, when the + most palpable facts must show him that no _such_ church exists; the + "Low" Churchman professing to believe in exceptional interpositions + which his philosophy secretly questions; the "Broad" Churchman + professing as absolute an attachment to the Established Church as the + narrowest could feel, while he is preaching such principles as will at + last pull it down. + + 'I ask you, my friend, whether there would not be more faith, as + well as earnestness, if _all_ would speak out. There would be more + unanimity too, because they would all agree in a certain basis. Would + not a wider love supersede the _creed-bound_ charity of sects? + + 'I am aware that I have touched on a point of difference between + us, and I will not regret it; for I think the differences of mind + are analogous to those differences of nature, which, in the most + comprehensive survey, are the very elements of harmony. + + 'I am not at all prone to put forth my own opinions; but the tone in + which you have written to me claims an unusual degree of openness + on my part. I look upon creeds of all kinds as chains,--far worse + chains than those you would break,--as the causes of much hypocrisy + and infidelity. I hold it to be a sin to _make_ a child say, "_I + believe_." Lead it to utter that belief spontaneously. I also consider + the institution of an exclusive priesthood, though having been of + service in some respects, as retarding the progress of Christianity at + present. I desire to see a _lay_ ministry. + + 'I will not give you more of my heterodoxy at present: perhaps I need + your pardon, connected as you are with the Church, for having said so + much. + + 'There are causes of decay known to be at work in my frame, which lead + me to believe I may not have time to grow wiser; and I must therefore + leave it to others to correct the conclusions I have now formed from + my life's experience. I should feel happy to discuss them personally + with you; for it would be _soul to soul_. In that confidence I am + yours most truly, + + 'A. I. NOEL BYRON.' + +It is not necessary to prove to the reader that this letter is not in +the style of a broken-down old woman subject to mental hallucinations. +It shows Lady Byron's habits of clear, searching analysis, her +thoughtfulness, and, above all, that peculiar reverence for _truth_ and +sincerity which was a leading characteristic of her moral nature.[30] +It also shows her views of the probable shortness of her stay on earth, +derived from the opinion of physicians about her disease, which was a +gradual ossification of the lungs. It has been asserted that pulmonary +diseases, while they slowly and surely sap the physical life, often +appear to give added vigour to the play of the moral and intellectual +powers. + +[Footnote 30: The reader is here referred to Lady Byron's other +letters, in Part III.; which also show the peculiarly active and +philosophical character of her mind, and the class of subjects on which +it habitually dwelt.] + +I parted from Lady Byron, feeling richer in that I had found one more +pearl of great price on the shore of life. + +Three years after this, I visited England to obtain a copyright for the +issue of my novel of 'Dred.' + +The hope of once more seeing Lady Byron was one of the brightest +anticipations held out to me in this journey. I found London quite +deserted; but, hearing that Lady Byron was still in town, I sent to +her, saying in my note, that, in case she was not well enough to call, +I would visit her. Her reply I give:-- + + 'MY DEAR FRIEND,--I _will_ be indebted to you for our + meeting, as I am barely able to leave my room. It is not a time for + small personalities, if they could ever exist with _you_; and, dressed + or undressed, I shall hope to see you after two o'clock. + + 'Yours very truly, + 'A. I. NOEL BYRON.' + +I found Lady Byron in her sick-room,--that place which she made so +different from the chamber of ordinary invalids. Her sick-room seemed +only a telegraphic station whence her vivid mind was flashing out all +over the world. + +By her bedside stood a table covered with books, pamphlets, and files +of letters, all arranged with exquisite order, and each expressing some +of her varied interests. From that sick-bed she still directed, with +systematic care, her various works of benevolence, and watched with +intelligent attention the course of science, literature, and religion; +and the versatility and activity of her mind, the flow of brilliant +and penetrating thought on all the topics of the day, gave to the +conversations of her retired room a peculiar charm. You forgot that +she was an invalid; for she rarely had a word of her own personalities, +and the charm of her conversation carried you invariably from herself +to the subjects of which she was thinking. All the new books, the +literature of the hour, were lighted up by her keen, searching, yet +always kindly criticism; and it was charming to get her fresh, genuine, +clear-cut modes of expression, so different from the world-worn phrases +of what is called good society. Her opinions were always perfectly +clear and positive, and given with the freedom of one who has long +stood in a position to judge the world and its ways from her own +standpoint. But it was not merely in general literature and science +that her heart lay; it was following always with eager interest the +progress of humanity over the whole world. + +This was the period of the great battle for liberty in Kansas. The +English papers were daily filled with the thrilling particulars of that +desperate struggle, and Lady Byron entered with heart and soul into it. + +Her first letter to me, at this time, is on this subject. It was while +'Dred' was going through the press. + + 'CAMBRIDGE TERRACE, Aug. 15. + + 'MY DEAR MRS. STOWE,--Messrs. Chambers liked the proposal to + publish the Kansas Letters. The more the public know of these matters, + the better prepared they will be for your book. The moment for its + publication seems well chosen. There is always in England a floating + fund of sympathy for what is above the everyday sordid cares of life; + and these better feelings, so nobly invested for the last two years in + Florence Nightingale's career, are just set free. To what will they + next be attached? If you can lay hold of them, they may bring about + a deeper abolition than any legislative one,--the abolition of the + heart-heresy that man's worth comes, not from God, but from man. + + 'I have been obliged to give up exertion again, but hope soon to be + able to call and make the acquaintance of your daughters. In case you + wish to consult H. Martineau's pamphlets, I send more copies. Do not + think of answering: I have occupied too much of your time in reading. + + 'Yours affectionately, + + 'A. I. NOEL BYRON.' + +As soon as a copy of 'Dred' was through the press, I sent it to +her, saying that I had been reproved by some excellent people for +representing too faithfully the profane language of some of the wicked +characters. To this she sent the following reply:-- + + 'Your book, dear Mrs. Stowe, is of the little leaven kind, and must + prove a great moral force; perhaps not manifestly so much as secretly. + And yet I can hardly conceive so much power without immediate and + sensible effects: only there will be a strong disposition to resist + on the part of all hollow-hearted professors of religion, whose + heathenisms you so unsparingly expose. They have a class feeling like + others. + + 'To the young, and to those who do not reflect much on what is offered + to their belief, you will do great good by showing how spiritual food + is often adulterated. The bread from heaven is in the same case as + bakers' bread. + + 'If there is truth in what I heard Lord Byron say, that works of + fiction live only by the amount _of truth_ which they contain, your + story is sure of a long life. Of the few critiques I have seen, the + best is in "The Examiner." I find an obtuseness as to the spirit and + aim of the book, as if you had designed to make the best novel of the + season, or to keep up the reputation of one. You are reproached, as + Walter Scott was, with too much scriptural quotation; not, that I + have heard, with phrases of an opposite character. + + 'The effects of such reading till a late hour one evening appeared to + influence me very singularly in a dream. The most horrible spectres + presented themselves, and I woke in an agony of fear; but a faith + still stronger arose, and I became courageous from trust in God, and + felt calm. Did you do this? It is very insignificant among the many + things you certainly will do unknown to yourself. I know more than + ever before how to value communion with you. I have sent Robertson's + Sermons for you; and, with kind regards to your family, am + + 'Yours affectionately, + + 'A. I. NOEL BYRON. + +I was struck in this note with the mention of Lord Byron, and, the next +time I saw her, alluded to it, and remarked upon the peculiar qualities +of his mind as shown in some of his more serious conversations with Dr. +Kennedy. + +She seemed pleased to continue the subject, and went on to say many +things of his singular character and genius, more penetrating and more +appreciative than is often met with among critics. + +I told her that I had been from childhood powerfully influenced by +him; and began to tell her how much, as a child, I had been affected +by the news of his death,--giving up all my plays, and going off to +a lonely hillside, where I spent the afternoon thinking of him. She +interrupted me before I had quite finished, with a quick, impulsive +movement. 'I know all that,' she said: 'I heard it all from Mrs. ----; +and it was one of the things that made me wish to _know_ you. I think +_you_ could understand him.' We talked for some time of him then; she, +with her pale face slightly flushed, speaking, as any other great +man's widow might, only of what was purest and best in his works, and +what were his undeniable virtues and good traits, especially in early +life. She told me many pleasant little speeches made by him to herself; +and, though there was running through all this a shade of melancholy, +one could never have conjectured that there were under all any deeper +recollections than the circumstances of an ordinary separation might +bring. + +Not many days after, with the unselfishness which was so marked a +trait with her, she chose a day when she could be out of her room, +and invited our family party, consisting of my husband, sister, and +children, to lunch with her. + +What showed itself especially in this interview was her tenderness +for all young people. She had often enquired after mine; asked about +their characters, habits, and tastes; and on this occasion she found an +opportunity to talk with each one separately, and to make them all feel +at ease, so that they were able to talk with her. She seemed interested +to point out to them what they should see and study in London; and +the charm of her conversation left on their minds an impression that +subsequent years have never effaced. I record this incident, because it +shows how little Lady Byron assumed the privileges or had the character +of an invalid absorbed in herself, and likely to brood over her own +woes and wrongs. + +Here was a family of strangers stranded in a dull season in London, and +there was no manner of obligation upon her to exert herself to show +them attention. Her state of health would have been an all-sufficient +reason why she should not do it; and her doing it was simply a specimen +of that unselfish care for others, even down to the least detail, of +which her life was full. + +A little while after, at her request, I went, with my husband and son, +to pass an evening at her house. + +There were a few persons present whom she thought I should be +interested to know,--a Miss Goldsmid, daughter of Baron Goldsmid, and +Lord Ockham, her grandson, eldest son and heir of the Earl of Lovelace, +to whom she introduced my son. + +I had heard much of the eccentricities of this young nobleman, and +was exceedingly struck with his personal appearance. His bodily frame +was of the order of the Farnese Hercules,--a wonderful development of +physical and muscular strength. His hands were those of a blacksmith. +He was broadly and squarely made, with a finely-shaped head, and dark +eyes of surpassing brilliancy. I have seldom seen a more interesting +combination than his whole appearance presented. + +When all were engaged in talking, Lady Byron came and sat down by +me, and glancing across to Lord Ockham and my son, who were talking +together, she looked at me, and smiled. I immediately expressed my +admiration of his fine eyes and the intellectual expression of his +countenance, and my wonder at the uncommon muscular development of his +frame. + +She said that _that_ of itself would account for many of Ockham's +eccentricities. He had a body that required a more vigorous animal life +than his station gave scope for, and this had often led him to seek +it in what the world calls low society; that he had been to sea as a +sailor, and was now working as a mechanic on the iron work of 'The +Great Eastern.' He had laid aside his title, and went in daily with the +other workmen, requesting them to call him simply Ockham. + +I said that there was something to my mind very fine about this, even +though it might show some want of proper balance. + +She said he had noble traits, and that she felt assured he would +yet accomplish something worthy of himself. 'The great difficulty +with our nobility is apt to be, that they do not _understand_ the +working-classes, so as to feel for them properly; and Ockham is now +going through an experience which may yet fit him to do great good when +he comes to the peerage. I am trying to influence him to do good among +the workmen, and to interest himself in schools for their children. I +think,' she added, 'I have great influence over Ockham,--the greater, +perhaps, that I never make any claim to authority.' + +This conversation is very characteristic of Lady Byron as showing her +benevolent analysis of character, and the peculiar hopefulness she +always had in regard to the future of every one brought in connection +with her. Her moral hopefulness was something very singular; and in +this respect she was so different from the rest of the world, that it +would be difficult to make her understood. Her tolerance of wrong-doing +would have seemed to many quite latitudinarian, and impressed them +as if she had lost all just horror of what was morally wrong in +transgression; but it seemed her fixed habit to see faults only as +diseases and immaturities, and to expect them to fall away with time. + +She saw the germs of good in what others regarded as only evil. She +expected valuable results to come from what the world looked on only +as eccentricities;[31] and she incessantly devoted herself to the task +of guarding those whom the world condemned, and guiding them to those +higher results of which she often thought that even their faults were +prophetic. + +[Footnote 31: See her character of Dr. King, Part III.] + +Before I quit this sketch of Lady Byron as I knew her, I will give one +more of her letters. My return from that visit in Europe was met by the +sudden death of the son mentioned in the foregoing account. At the time +of this sorrow, Lady Byron was too unwell to write to me. The letter +given alludes to this event, and speaks also of two coloured persons +of remarkable talent, in whose career in England she had taken a deep +interest. One of them is the 'friend' she speaks of. + + 'LONDON, Feb. 6, 1859. + + 'DEAR MRS. STOWE,--I seem to feel our friend as a bridge, + over which our broken _outward_ communication can be renewed without + effort. Why broken? The words I would have uttered _at one time_ were + like drops of blood from my heart. Now I sympathise with the calmness + you have gained, and can speak of your loss as I do of my own. Loss + and restoration are more and more linked in my mind, but "to the + _present_ live." As long as _they_ are in God's world they are in + ours. I ask no other consolation. + + 'Mrs. W----'s recovery has astonished me, and her husband's prospects + give me great satisfaction. They have achieved a benefit to their + coloured people. She had a mission which her burning soul has worked + out, almost in defiance of death. But who is "called" without being + "crucified," man or woman? I know of none. + + 'I fear that H. Martineau was too sanguine in her persuasion that the + slave power had received a serious check from the ruin of so many of + your Mammon-worshippers. With the return of commercial facilities, + _that_ article of commerce will again find purchasers enough to raise + its value. Not that way is the iniquity to be overthrown. A deeper + moral earthquake is needed.[32] We English had ours in India; and + though the cases are far from being alike, yet a consciousness of what + we ought to have been and ought to be toward the natives could not + have been awakened by less than the reddened waters of the Ganges. So + I fear you will have to look on a day of judgment worse than has been + painted. + + [Footnote 32: Alluding to the financial crisis in the United States in + 1857.] + + 'As to all the frauds and impositions which have been disclosed by + the failures, what a want of the sense of personal responsibility + they show. It seems to be thought that "association" will "cover a + multitude of sins;" as if "and Co." could enter heaven. A firm may be + described as a partnership for lowering the standard of morals. Even + ecclesiastical bodies are not free from the "and Co.;" very different + from "the goodly fellowship of the apostles." + + 'The better class of young gentlemen in England are seized with + a mediaeval mania, to which Ruskin has contributed much. The + chief reason for regretting it is that taste is made to supersede + benevolence. The money that would save thousands from perishing or + suffering must be applied to raise the Gothic edifice where their last + prayer may be uttered. Charity may be dead, while Art has glorified + her. This is worse than Catholicism, which cultivates heart and eye + together. The first cathedral was Truth, at the beginning of the + fourth century, just as Christianity was exchanging a heavenly for an + earthly crown. True religion may have to cast away the symbol for the + spirit before "the kingdom" can come. + + 'While I am speculating to little purpose, perhaps you are + _doing_--what? Might not a biography from your pen bring forth again + some great, half-obscured soul to act on the world? Even Sir Philip + Sidney ought to be superseded by a still nobler type. + + 'This must go immediately, to be in time for the bearer, of whose + meeting with you I shall think as the friend of both. May it be happy! + + 'Your affectionate + A. I. N. B.' + +One letter more from Lady Byron I give,--the last I received from her:-- + + LONDON, May 3, 1859. + + 'DEAR FRIEND,--I have found, particularly as to yourself, + that, if I did not answer from the first impulse, all had evaporated. + Your letter came by 'The Niagara' which brought Fanny Kemble to learn + the loss of her best friend, the Miss F---- whom you saw at my house. + + 'Her death, after an illness in which she was to the last a minister + of good to others, is a soul-loss to me also; and your remarks are + most appropriate to my feelings. I have been taught, however, to + accept survivorship; even to feel it, in some cases, Heaven's best + blessing. + + 'I have an intense interest in your new novel.[33] More power in + these few numbers than in any of your former writings, relating, at + least, to my own mind. It would amuse you to hear my grand-daughter + and myself attempting to foresee the future of the love-story; being, + for the moment, quite persuaded that James is at sea, and the minister + about to ruin himself. We think that Mary will labour to be in love + with the self-devoted man, under her mother's influence, and from that + hyper-conscientiousness so common with good girls; but we don't wish + her to succeed. Then what is to become of her older lover? Time will + show. + + [Footnote 33: 'The Minister's Wooing.'] + + 'The lady you desired to introduce to me will be welcomed as of you. + She has been misled with respect to my having any house in Yorkshire + (New Leeds). I am in London now to be of a little use to A----; not + ostensibly, for I can neither go out, nor give parties: but I am the + confidential friend to whom she likes to bring her social gatherings, + as she can see something of the world with others. Age and infirmity + seem to be overlooked in what she calls the harmony between us,--not + perfect agreement of opinion (which I should regret, with almost fifty + years of difference), but the spirit-union: can you say what it is? + + 'I am interrupted by a note from Mrs. K----. She says that she cannot + write of our lost friend yet, though she is less sad than she will + be. Mrs. F---- may like to hear of her arrival, should you be in + communication with our friend. She is the type of youth in age. + + 'I often converse with Miss S----, a judicious friend of the W----s, + about what is likely to await them. She would not succeed here as well + as where she was a novelty. The character of our climate this year has + been injurious to the respiratory organs; but I hope still to serve + them. + + 'I have just missed Dale Owen, with whom I wished to have conversed on + spiritualism.[34] Harris is lecturing here on religion. I do not hear + him praised. + + [Footnote 34: See her letter on spiritualistic phenomena, Part III.] + + 'People are looking for helps to believe, everywhere but in life,--in + music, in architecture, in antiquity, in ceremony; and upon all + these is written, "Thou shalt _not_ believe." At least, if this be + faith, happier the unbeliever. I am willing to see _through_ that + materialism; but, if I am to rest there, I would rend the veil. + + * * * * * + + 'June 1. + + 'The day of the packet's sailing. I shall hope to be visited by you + here. The best flowers sent me have been placed in your little vases, + giving life to the remembrance of you, though not, like them, to pass + away. + + 'Ever yours, + 'A. I. NOEL BYRON.' + +Shortly after, I was in England again, and had one more opportunity of +resuming our personal intercourse. The first time that I called on Lady +Byron, I saw her in one of those periods of utter physical exhaustion +to which she was subject on account of the constant pressure of cares +beyond her strength. All who knew her will testify, that, in a state of +health which would lead most persons to become helpless absorbents of +service from others, she was assuming burdens, and making outlays of +her vital powers in acts of love and service, with a generosity that +often reduced her to utter exhaustion. But none who knew or loved her +ever misinterpreted the coldness of those seasons of exhaustion. We +knew that it was _not_ the spirit that was chilled, but only the frail +mortal tabernacle. When I called on her at this time, she could not see +me at first; and when, at last, she came, it was evident that she was +in a state of utter prostration. Her hands were like ice; her face was +deadly pale; and she conversed with a restraint and difficulty which +showed what exertion it was for her to keep up at all. I left as soon +as possible, with an appointment for another interview. That interview +was my last on earth with her, and is still beautiful in memory. It was +a long, still summer afternoon, spent alone with her in a garden, where +we walked together. She was enjoying one of those bright intervals +of freedom from pain and languor, in which her spirits always rose +so buoyant and youthful; and her eye brightened, and her step became +elastic. + +One last little incident is cherished as most expressive of her. When +it became time for me to leave, she took me in her carriage to the +station. As we were almost there, I missed my gloves, and said, 'I must +have left them; but there is not time to go back.' + +With one of those quick, impulsive motions which were so natural to her +in doing a kindness, she drew off her own and said, 'Take mine if they +will serve you.' + +I hesitated a moment; and then the thought, that I might never see +her again, came over me, and I said, 'Oh, yes! thanks.' That was the +last earthly word of love between us. But, thank God, those who love +worthily never meet for the _last_ time: there is always a future. + + + + +CHAPTER II. + +LADY BYRON'S STORY AS TOLD TO ME. + + +I now come to the particulars of that most painful interview which has +been the cause of all this controversy. My sister and myself were going +from London to Eversley to visit the Rev. C. Kingsley. On our way, we +stopped, by Lady Byron's invitation, to lunch with her at her summer +residence on Ham Common, near Richmond; and it was then arranged, that +on our return, we should make her a short visit, as she said she had a +subject of importance on which she wished to converse with me alone. + +On our return from Eversley, we arrived at her house in the morning. + +It appeared to be one of Lady Byron's _well_ days. She was up and +dressed, and moved about her house with her usual air of quiet +simplicity; as full of little acts of consideration for all about her +as if they were the habitual invalids, and she the well person. + +There were with her two ladies of her most intimate friends, by whom +she seemed to be regarded with a sort of worship. When she left the +room for a moment, they looked after her with a singular expression of +respect and affection, and expressed freely their admiration of her +character, and their fears that her unselfishness might be leading her +to over-exertion. + +After lunch, I retired with Lady Byron; and my sister remained with +her friends. I should here remark, that the chief subject of the +conversation which ensued was not entirely new to me. In the interval +between my first and second visits to England, a lady who for many +years had enjoyed Lady Byron's friendship and confidence, had, with her +consent, stated the case generally to me, giving some of the incidents: +so that I was in a manner prepared for what followed. + +Those who accuse Lady Byron of being a person fond of talking upon this +subject, and apt to make unconsidered confidences, can have known very +little of her, of her reserve, and of the apparent difficulty she had +in speaking on subjects nearest her heart. + +Her habitual calmness and composure of manner, her collected dignity +on all occasions, are often mentioned by her husband, sometimes with +bitterness, sometimes with admiration. He says, 'Though I accuse Lady +Byron of an excess of self-respect, I must in candour admit that, if +ever a person had excuse for an extraordinary portion of it, she has; +as, in all her thoughts, words, and deeds, she is the most decorous +woman that ever existed, and must appear, what few I fancy could, a +perfectly refined gentlewoman, even to her _femme de chambre_. + +This calmness and dignity were never more manifested than in this +interview. In recalling the conversation at this distance of time, I +cannot remember all the language used. Some particular words and forms +of expression I do remember, and those I give; and in other cases I +give my recollection of the substance of what was said. + +There was something awful to me in the intensity of repressed emotion +which she showed as she proceeded. The great fact upon which all turned +was stated in words that were unmistakable:-- + +'He was guilty of incest with his sister!' + +She here became so deathly pale, that I feared she would faint; and +hastened to say, 'My dear friend, I have heard that.' She asked +quickly, 'From whom? and I answered, 'From Mrs. ----;' when she +replied, 'Oh, yes!' as if recollecting herself. + +I then asked her some questions; in reply to which she said, 'I will +tell you.' + +She then spoke of her first acquaintance with Lord Byron; from which I +gathered that she, an only child, brought up in retirement, and living +much within herself, had been, as deep natures often were, intensely +stirred by his poetry; and had felt a deep interest in him personally, +as one that had the germs of all that is glorious and noble. + +When she was introduced to him, and perceived his admiration of +herself, and at last received his offer, although deeply moved, she +doubted her own power to be to him all that a wife should be. She +declined his offer, therefore, but desired to retain his friendship. +After this, as she said, a correspondence ensued, mostly on moral and +literary subjects; and, by this correspondence, her interest in him was +constantly increased. + +At last, she said, he sent her a very beautiful letter, offering +himself again. 'I thought,' she added, 'that it was sincere, and that I +might now show him all I felt. I wrote just what was in my heart. + +'Afterwards,' she said, 'I found in one of his journals this notice of +my letter: "A letter from Bell,--never rains but it pours."' + +There was through her habitual calm a shade of womanly indignation as +she spoke these words; but it was gone in a moment. I said, 'And did he +not love you, then?' She answered, 'No, my dear: he did not love me.' + +'Why, then, did he wish to marry you?' She laid her hand on mine, and +said in a low voice, 'You will see.' + +She then told me, that, shortly after the declared engagement, he came +to her father's house to visit her as an accepted suitor. The visit was +to her full of disappointment. His appearance was so strange, moody, +and unaccountable, and his treatment of her so peculiar, that she came +to the conclusion that he did not love her, and sought an opportunity +to converse with him alone. + +She told him that she saw from his manner that their engagement did not +give him pleasure; that she should never blame him if he wished to +dissolve it; that his nature was exceptional; and if, on a nearer view +of the situation, he shrank from it, she would release him, and remain +no less than ever his friend. + +Upon this, she said, he fainted entirely away. + +She stopped a moment, and then, as if speaking with great effort, +added, '_Then_ I was _sure_ he must love me.' + +'And did he not?' said I. 'What other cause could have led to this +emotion?' + +She looked at me very sadly, and said, '_Fear of detection_.' + +'What!' said I, 'did _that cause_ then exist?' + +'Yes,' she said, 'it did.' And she explained that she _now_ attributed +Lord Byron's great agitation to fear, that, in some way, suspicion of +the crime had been aroused in her mind, and that on this account she +was seeking to break the engagement. She said, that, from that moment, +her sympathies were aroused for him, to soothe the remorse and anguish +which seemed preying on his mind, and which she then regarded as the +sensibility of an unusually exacting moral nature, which judged itself +by higher standards, and condemned itself unsparingly for what most +young men of his times regarded as venial faults. She had every hope +for his future, and all the enthusiasm of belief that so many men and +women of those times and ours have had in his intrinsic nobleness. She +said the gloom, however, seemed to be even deeper when he came to the +marriage; but she looked at it as the suffering of a peculiar being, +to whom she was called to minister. I said to her, that, even in the +days of my childhood, I had heard of something very painful that had +passed as they were in the carriage, immediately after marriage. She +then said that it was so; that almost his first words, when they were +alone, were, that she _might_ once have saved him; that, if she had +accepted him when he first offered, she might have made him anything +she pleased; but that, as it was, she would find she had married a +devil. + +The conversation, as recorded in Lady Anne Barnard's Diary, seems only +a continuation of the foregoing, and just what might have followed upon +it. + +I then asked how she became certain of the true cause. + +She said, that, from the outset of their married life, his conduct +towards her was strange and unaccountable, even during the first +weeks after the wedding, while they were visiting her friends, and +outwardly on good terms. He seemed resolved to shake and combat both +her religious principles and her views of the family state. He tried +to undermine her faith in Christianity as a rule of life by argument +and by ridicule. He set before her the Continental idea of the liberty +of marriage; it being a simple partnership of friendship and property, +the parties to which were allowed by one another to pursue their own +separate individual tastes. He told her, that, as he could not be +expected to confine himself to her, neither should he expect or wish +that she should confine herself to him; that she was young and pretty, +and could have her lovers, and he should never object; and that she +must allow him the same freedom. + +She said that she did not comprehend to what this was tending till +after they came to London, and his sister came to stay with them. + +At what precise time the idea of an improper connection between her +husband and his sister was first forced upon her, she did not say; +but she told me _how_ it was done. She said that one night, in her +presence, he treated his sister with a liberty which both shocked and +astonished her. Seeing her amazement and alarm, he came up to her, and +said, in a sneering tone, 'I suppose you perceive _you_ are not wanted +here. Go to your own room, and leave us alone. We can amuse ourselves +better without you.' + +She said, 'I went to my room, trembling. I fell down on my knees, and +prayed to my heavenly Father to have mercy on them. I thought, "What +shall I do?"' + +I remember, after this, a pause in the conversation, during which she +seemed struggling with thoughts and emotions; and, for my part, I was +unable to utter a word, or ask a question. + +She did not tell me what followed immediately upon this, nor how soon +after she spoke on the subject with either of the parties. She first +began to speak of conversations afterwards held with Lord Byron, in +which he boldly avowed the connection as having existed in time past, +and as one that was to continue in time to come; and implied that she +must submit to it. She put it to his conscience as concerning his +sister's soul, and he said that it was no sin; that it was the way +the world was first peopled: the Scriptures taught that all the world +descended from one pair; and how could that be unless brothers married +their sisters? that, if not a sin then, it could not be a sin now. + +I immediately said, 'Why, Lady Byron, those are the very arguments +given in the drama of "Cain."' + +'The very same,' was her reply. 'He could reason very speciously on +this subject.' She went on to say, that, when she pressed him hard with +the universal sentiment of mankind as to the horror and the crime, he +took another turn, and said that the horror and crime were the very +attraction; that he had worn out all _ordinary_ forms of sin, and that +he '_longed for the stimulus of a new kind of vice_.' She set before +him the dread of detection; and then he became furious. _She_ should +never be the means of his detection, he said. She should leave him; +_that_ he was resolved upon: but she should always bear all the blame +of the separation. In the sneering tone which was common with him, +he said, 'The world will believe me, and it will _not_ believe you. +The world has made up its mind that "By" is a glorious boy; and the +world will go for "By," right or wrong. Besides, I shall make it my +life's object to discredit you: I shall use all my powers. Read "Caleb +Williams,"[35] and you will see that I shall do by you just as Falkland +did by Caleb.' + +[Footnote 35: This novel of Godwin's is a remarkably powerful story. It +is related in the first person by the supposed hero, Caleb Williams. He +represents himself as private secretary to a gentleman of high family +named Falkland. Caleb accidentally discovers that his patron has, in a +moment of passion, committed a murder. Falkland confesses the crime to +Caleb, and tells him that henceforth he shall always suspect him, and +keep watch over him. Caleb finds this watchfulness insupportable, and +tries to escape, but without success. He writes a touching letter to +his patron, imploring him to let him go, and promising never to betray +him. The scene where Falkland refuses this is the most highly wrought +in the book. He says to him, "Do not imagine that I am afraid of you; +I wear an armour against which all your weapons are impotent. I have +dug a pit for you: and whichever way you move, backward or forward, to +the right or the left, it is ready to swallow you. Be still! If once +you fall, call as loud as you will, no man on earth shall hear your +cries: prepare a tale however plausible or however true, the whole +world shall execrate you for an impostor. Your innocence shall be of no +service to you. I laugh at so feeble a defence. It is I that say it: +you may believe what I tell you. Do you know, miserable wretch!" added +he, stamping on the ground with fury, "that I have sworn to preserve +my reputation, whatever be the expense; that I love it more than the +whole world and its inhabitants taken together? and do you think that +you shall wound it?" The rest of the book shows how this threat was +executed.] + +I said that all this seemed to me like insanity. She said that she was +for a time led to think that it was insanity, and excused and pitied +him; that his treatment of her expressed such hatred and malignity, +that she knew not what else to think of it: that he seemed resolved to +drive her out of the house at all hazards, and threatened her, if she +should remain, in a way to alarm the heart of any woman: yet, thinking +him insane, she left him at last with the sorrow with which anyone +might leave a dear friend whose reason was wholly overthrown, and to +whom in this desolation she was no longer permitted to minister. + +I inquired in one of the pauses of the conversation whether Mrs. Leigh +was a peculiarly beautiful or attractive woman. + +'No, my dear: she was plain.' + +'Was she, then, distinguished for genius or talent of any kind?' + +'Oh, no! Poor woman! she was weak, relatively to him, and wholly under +his control.' + +'And what became of her?' I said. + +'She afterwards repented, and became a truly good woman.' I think it +was here she mentioned that she had frequently seen and conversed with +Mrs. Leigh in the latter part of her life; and she seemed to derive +comfort from the recollection. + +I asked, 'Was there a child?' I had been told by Mrs. ---- that there +was a daughter, who had lived some years. + +She said there was one, a daughter, who made her friends much trouble, +being of a very difficult nature to manage. I had understood that at +one time this daughter escaped from her friends to the Continent, and +that Lady Byron assisted in efforts to recover her. Of Lady Byron's +kindness both to Mrs. Leigh and the child, I had before heard from Mrs. +----, who gave me my first information. + +It is also strongly impressed on my mind, that Lady Byron, in answer +to some question of mine as to whether there was ever any meeting +between Lord Byron and his sister after he left England, answered, +that she had insisted upon it, or made it a condition, that Mrs. Leigh +should not go abroad to him. + +When the conversation as to events was over, as I stood musing, I said, +'Have you no evidence that he repented?' and alluded to the mystery of +his death, and the message he endeavoured to utter. + +She answered quickly, and with great decision, that whatever might have +been his meaning at that hour, she felt sure he had finally repented; +and added with great earnestness, 'I do not believe that _any_ child of +the heavenly Father is ever left to eternal sin.' + +I said that such a hope was most delightful to my feelings, but that I +had always regarded the indulgence of it as a dangerous one. + +Her look, voice, and manner, at that moment, are indelibly fixed in my +mind. She looked at me so sadly, so firmly, and said,-- + +'Danger, Mrs. Stowe! What danger can come from indulging that hope, +like the danger that comes from not having it?' + +I said in my turn, 'What danger comes from not having it?' + +'The danger of losing all faith in God,' she said, 'all hope for +others, all strength to try and save them. I once knew a lady,' she +added, 'who was in a state of scepticism and despair from belief in +that doctrine. I think I saved her by giving her my faith.' + +I was silent; and she continued: 'Lord Byron believed in eternal +punishment fully: for though he reasoned against Christianity as it is +commonly received, he could not reason himself out of it; and I think +it made him desperate. He used to say, "The worst of it is I _do_ +believe." Had he seen God as I see him, I am sure his heart would have +relented.' + +She went on to say, that his sins, great as they were, admitted of +much palliation and excuse; that he was the child of singular and +ill-matched parents; that he had an organisation originally fine, but +one capable equally of great good or great evil; that in his childhood +he had only the worst and most fatal influences; that he grew up into +manhood with no guide; that there was everything in the classical +course of the schools to develop an unhealthy growth of passion, and no +moral influence of any kind to restrain it; that the manners of his day +were corrupt; that what were now considered vices in society were then +spoken of as matters of course among young noblemen; that drinking, +gaming, and licentiousness everywhere abounded: and that, up to a +certain time, he was no worse than multitudes of other young men of his +day,--only that the vices of his day were worse for him. The excesses +of passion, the disregard of physical laws in eating, drinking, and +living, wrought effects on him that they did not on less sensitively +organised frames, and prepared him for the evil hour when he fell +into the sin which shaded his whole life. All the rest was a struggle +with its consequences,--sinning more and more to conceal the sin of +the past. But she believed he never outlived remorse; that he always +suffered; and that this showed that God had not utterly forsaken him. +Remorse, she said, always showed moral sensibility, and, while _that_ +remained, there was always hope. + +She now began to speak of her grounds for thinking it might be her duty +fully to publish this story before she left the world. + +First she said that, through the whole course of her life, she had +felt the eternal value of truth, and seen how dreadful a thing was +falsehood, and how fearful it was to be an accomplice in it, even by +silence. Lord Byron had demoralised the moral sense of England, and he +had done it in a great degree by the sympathy excited by falsehood. +This had been pleaded in extenuation of all his crimes and vices, and +led to a lowering of the standard of morals in the literary world. Now +it was proposed to print cheap editions of his works, and sell them +among the common people, and interest them in him by the circulation of +this same story. + +She then said in effect, that she believed in retribution and suffering +in the future life, and that the consequences of sins _here_ follow us +_there_; and it was strongly impressed upon her mind that Lord Byron +must suffer in looking on the evil consequences of what he had done in +this life, and in seeing the further extension of that evil. + +'It has sometimes strongly appeared to me,' she said, 'that he cannot +be at peace until this injustice has been righted. Such is the strong +feeling that I have when I think of going where he is.' + +These things, she said, had led her to inquire whether it might not be +her duty to make a full and clear disclosure before she left the world. + +Of course, I did not listen to this story as one who was investigating +its worth. I received it as truth. And the purpose for which it was +communicated was not to enable me to prove it to the world, but to ask +my opinion whether _she_ should show it to the world before leaving +it. The whole consultation was upon the assumption that she had at her +command such proofs as could not be questioned. + +Concerning what they were I did not minutely inquire: only, in answer +to a general question, she said that she had letters and documents +in proof of her story. Knowing Lady Byron's strength of mind, her +clear-headedness, her accurate habits, and her perfect knowledge of the +matter, I considered her judgment on this point decisive. + +I told her that I would take the subject into consideration, and give +my opinion in a few days. That night, after my sister and myself had +retired to our own apartment, I related to her the whole history, and +we spent the night in talking of it. I was powerfully impressed with +the justice and propriety of an immediate disclosure; while she, on the +contrary, represented the painful consequences that would probably come +upon Lady Byron from taking such a step. + +Before we parted the next day, I requested Lady Byron to give me some +memoranda of such dates and outlines of the general story as would +enable me better to keep it in its connection; which she did. + +On giving me the paper, Lady Byron requested me to return it to her +when it had ceased to be of use to me for the purpose indicated. + +Accordingly, a day or two after, I enclosed it to her in a hasty note, +as I was then leaving London for Paris, and had not yet had time fully +to consider the subject. + +On reviewing my note, I can recall that then the whole history appeared +to me like one of those singular cases where unnatural impulses to +vice are the result of a taint of constitutional insanity. This has +always seemed to me the only way of accounting for instances of +utterly motiveless and abnormal wickedness and cruelty. These my first +impressions were expressed in the hasty note written at the time:-- + + 'LONDON, Nov. 5, 1856. + + 'DEAREST FRIEND,--I return these. They have held mine eyes + waking! How strange! how unaccountable! Have you ever subjected the + facts to the judgment of a medical man learned in nervous pathology? + + '_Is_ it not insanity? + + "Great wits to madness nearly are allied, + And thin partitions do their bounds divide." + + 'But my purpose to-night is not to write you fully what I think of + this matter. I am going to write to you from Paris more at leisure.' + +The rest of the letter was taken up in the final details of a +charity in which Lady Byron had been engaged with me in assisting an +unfortunate artist. It concludes thus:-- + + 'I write now in all haste, _en route_ for Paris. As to America, all + is not lost yet.[36] Farewell! I love you, my dear friend, as never + before, with an intense feeling I cannot easily express. God bless you! + + 'H. B. S.' + +The next letter is as follows:-- + + 'PARIS, Dec. 17, 1856. + + [Footnote 36: Alluding to Buchanan's election.] + + 'DEAR LADY BYRON,--The Kansas Committee have written me a + letter desiring me to express to Miss ---- their gratitude for the + five pounds she sent them. I am not personally acquainted with her, + and must return these acknowledgments through you. + + 'I wrote you a day or two since, enclosing the reply of the Kansas + Committee to you. + + 'On _that subject_ on which you spoke to me the last time we were + together, I have thought often and deeply. + + 'I have changed my mind somewhat. Considering the peculiar + circumstances of the case, I could wish that the sacred veil of + silence, so bravely thrown over the past, should never be withdrawn + during the time that you remain with us. + + 'I would say, then, Leave all with some discreet friends, who, after + _both_ have passed from earth, shall say what was due to _justice_. + + 'I am led to think this by seeing how low, how unjust, how unworthy, + the judgments of this world are; and I would not that what I so much + respect, love, and revere should be placed within reach of its harpy + claw, which pollutes what it touches. + + 'The day will yet come which will bring to light every hidden thing. + "There is nothing covered that shall not be revealed, neither hid that + shall not be known;" and so _justice will not fail_. + + 'Such, my dear friend, are my thoughts; different from what they were + since first I heard that strange, sad history. Meanwhile, _I love you + ever_, whether we meet again on earth or not. + + 'Affectionately yours, + + 'H. B. S.' + +The following letter will here be inserted as confirming a part of Lady +Byron's story:-- + + + TO THE EDITOR OF 'MACMILLAN'S MAGAZINE.' + + 'SIR,--I trust that you will hold me excused from any desire + to be troublesome, or to rush into print. Both these things are far + from my wish. But the publication of a book having for its object the + vindication of Lord Byron's character, and the subsequent appearance + in your magazine of Mrs. Stowe's article in defence of Lady Byron, + having led to so much controversy in the various newspapers of the + day, I feel constrained to put in a few words among the rest. + + 'My father was intimately acquainted with Lady Byron's family for many + years, both before and after her marriage; being, in fact, steward to + Sir Ralph Milbanke at Seaham, where the marriage took place; and, from + all my recollections of what he told me of the affair (and he used + often to talk of it, up to the time of his death, eight years ago), I + fully agree with Mrs. Stowe's view of the case, and desire to add my + humble testimony to the truth of what she has stated. + + 'Whilst Byron was staying at Seaham, previous to his marriage, he + spent most of his time pistol-shooting in the plantations adjoining + the hall, often making use of his glove as a mark; his servant being + with him to load for him. + + 'When all was in readiness for the wedding-ceremony (which took place + in the drawing-room of the hall), Byron had to be sought for in the + grounds, where he was walking in his usual surly mood. + + 'After the marriage, they posted to Halnaby Lodge in Yorkshire, a + distance of about forty miles; to which place my father accompanied + them, and he always spoke strongly of Lady Byron's apparent distress + during and at the end of the journey. + + 'The insulting words mentioned by Mrs. Stowe were spoken by Byron + before leaving the park at Seaham; after which he appeared to sit + in moody silence, reading a book, for the rest of the journey. At + Halnaby, a number of persons, tenants and others, were met to cheer + them on their arrival. Of these he took not the slightest notice, but + jumped out of the carriage, and walked away, leaving his bride to + alight by herself. She shook hands with my father, and begged that he + would see that some refreshment was supplied to those who had thus + come to welcome them. + + 'I have in my possession several letters (which I should be glad to + show to anyone interested in the matter) both from Lady Byron, and her + mother, Lady Milbanke, to my father, all showing the deep and kind + interest which they took in the welfare of all connected with them, + and directing the distribution of various charities, &c. Pensions were + allowed both to the old servants of the Milbankes and to several poor + persons in the village and neighbourhood for the rest of their lives; + and Lady Byron never ceased to take a lively interest in all that + concerned them. + + 'I desire to tender my humble thanks to Mrs. Stowe for having + come forward in defence of one whose character has been much + misrepresented; and to you, sir, for having published the same in your + pages. + + 'I have the honour to be, sir, yours obediently, + + 'G. H. AIRD. + + 'DAOURTY, NORTHAMPTONSHIRE, Sept. 29, 1869.' + + + + +CHAPTER III. + +CHRONOLOGICAL SUMMARY OF EVENTS. + + +I have now fulfilled as conscientiously as possible the requests of +those who feel that they have a right to know exactly what was said in +this interview. + +It has been my object, in doing this, to place myself just where I +should stand were I giving evidence under oath before a legal tribunal. +In my first published account, there were given some smaller details of +the story, of no particular value to the main purpose of it, which I +received _not_ from Lady Byron, but from her confidential friend. One +of these was the account of her seeing Lord Byron's favourite spaniel +lying at his door, and the other was the scene of the parting. + +The first was communicated to me before I ever saw Lady Byron, and +under these circumstances:--I was invited to meet her, and had +expressed my desire to do so, because Lord Byron had been all my life +an object of great interest to me. I inquired what sort of a person +Lady Byron was. My friend spoke of her with enthusiasm. I then said, +'but of course she never _loved_ Lord Byron, or she would not have left +him.' The lady answered, 'I can show you with what feelings she left +him by relating this story;' and then followed the anecdote. + +Subsequently, she also related to me the other story of the +parting-scene between Lord and Lady Byron. In regard to these two +incidents, my recollection is clear. + +It will be observed by the reader that Lady Byron's conversation with +me was simply for consultation _on one point_, and that point whether +_she herself_ should publish the story before her death. It was not, +therefore, a complete history of all the events in their order, but +specimens of a few incidents and facts. Her object was, not to prove +her story to me, nor to put me in possession of it with a view to _my_ +proving it, but simply and briefly to show me _what it was_, that I +might judge as to the probable results of its publication at that time. + +It therefore comprised primarily these points:-- + +1. An exact statement, in so many words, of the crime. + +2. A statement of the manner in which it was first forced on her +attention by Lord Byron's words and actions, including: his admissions +and defences of it. + +3. The admission of a period when she had ascribed his whole conduct to +insanity. + +4. A reference to later positive evidences of guilt,--the existence of +a child, and Mrs. Leigh's subsequent repentance. + +And here I have a word to say in reference to the alleged inaccuracies +of my true story. + +The dates that Lady Byron gave me on the memoranda did not relate +either to the time of the first disclosure, or the period when her +doubts became certainties; nor did her conversation touch either of +these points: and, on a careful review of the latter, I see clearly +that it omitted dwelling upon anything which I might be supposed to +have learned from her already published statement. + +I re-enclosed that paper to her from London, and have never seen it +since. + +In writing my account, which I designed to do in the most general +terms, I took for my guide Miss Martineau's published Memoir of Lady +Byron, which has long stood uncontradicted before the public, of which +Macmillan's London edition is now before me. The reader is referred to +page 316, which reads thus:-- + +'She was born 1792; married in January 1814; returned to her father's +house in 1816; died on May 16, 1860.' This makes her married life two +years; but we need not say that the date is inaccurate, as Lady Byron +was married in 1815. + +Supposing Lady Byron's married life to have covered two years, I +could only reconcile its continuance for that length of time to her +uncertainty as to his sanity; to deceptions practised on her, making +her doubt at one time, and believe at another; and his keeping her in a +general state of turmoil and confusion, till at last he took the step +of banishing her. + +Various other points taken from Miss Martineau have also been attacked +as inaccuracies; for example, the number of executions in the house: +but these points, though of no importance, are substantially borne out +by Moore's statements. + +This controversy, unfortunately, cannot be managed with the accuracy of +a legal trial. Its course, hitherto, has rather resembled the course of +a drawing-room scandal, where everyone freely throws in an assertion, +with or without proof. In making out my narrative, however, I shall use +only certain authentic sources, some of which have for a long time been +before the public, and some of which have floated up from the waves of +the recent controversy. I consider as authentic sources,-- + +Moore's Life of Byron; + +Lady Byron's own account of the separation, published in 1830; + +Lady Byron's statements to me in 1856; + +Lord Lindsay's communication, giving an extract from Lady Anne +Barnard's diary, and a copy of a letter from Lady Byron dated 1818, +about three years after her marriage; + +Mrs. Mimms' testimony, as given in a daily paper published at +Newcastle, England; + +And Lady Byron's letters, as given recently in the late 'London +Quarterly.' + +All which documents appear to arrange themselves into a connected +series. + +From these, then, let us construct the story. + +According to Mrs. Mimms' account, which is likely to be accurate, the +time spent by Lord and Lady Byron in bridal-visiting was three weeks at +Halnaby Hall, and six weeks at Seaham, when Mrs. Mimms quitted their +service. + +During this first period of three weeks, Lord Byron's treatment of his +wife, as testified to by the servant, was such that she advised her +young mistress to return to her parents; and, at one time, Lady Byron +had almost resolved to do so. + +What the particulars of his conduct were, the servant refuses to state; +being bound by a promise of silence to her mistress. She, however, +testifies to a warm friendship existing between Lady Byron and Mrs. +Leigh, in a manner which would lead us to feel that Lady Byron received +and was received by Lord Byron's sister with the greatest affection. +Lady Byron herself says to Lady Anne Barnard, 'I had heard that he was +the best of brothers;' and the inference is, that she, at an early +period of her married life, felt the greatest confidence in his sister, +and wished to have her with them as much as possible. In Lady Anne's +account, this wish to have the sister with her was increased by Lady +Byron's distress at her husband's attempts to corrupt her principles +with regard to religion and marriage. + +In Moore's Life, vol. iii., letter 217, Lord Byron writes from Seaham +to Moore, under date of March 8, sending a copy of his verses in Lady +Byron's handwriting, and saying, 'We shall leave this place to-morrow, +and shall stop on our way to town, in the interval of taking a house +there, at Colonel Leigh's, near Newmarket, where any epistle of yours +will find its welcome way. I have been very comfortable here, listening +to that d----d monologue which elderly gentlemen call conversation, in +which my pious father-in-law repeats himself every evening, save one, +when he played upon the fiddle. However, they have been vastly kind and +hospitable, and I like them and the place vastly; and I hope they will +live many happy months. Bell is in health and unvaried good-humour and +behaviour; but we are in all the agonies of packing and parting.' + +Nine days after this, under date of March 17, Lord Byron says, 'We +mean to metropolize to-morrow, and you will address your next to +Piccadilly.' The inference is, that the days intermediate were spent +at Colonel Leigh's. The next letters, and all subsequent ones for six +months, are dated from Piccadilly. + +As we have shown, there is every reason to believe that a warm +friendship had thus arisen between Mrs. Leigh and Lady Byron, and that, +during all this time, Lady Byron desired as much of the society of her +sister-in-law as possible. She was a married woman and a mother, her +husband's nearest relative; and Lady Byron could with more propriety +ask, from her, counsel or aid in respect to his peculiarities than she +could from her own parents. If we consider the character of Lady Byron +as given by Mrs. Mimms,--that of a young person of warm but repressed +feeling, without sister or brother, longing for human sympathy, +and having so far found no relief but in talking with a faithful +dependant,--we may easily see that the acquisition of a sister through +Lord Byron might have been all in all to her, and that the feelings +which he checked and rejected for himself might have flowed out towards +his sister with enthusiasm. The date of Mrs. Leigh's visit does not +appear. + +The first domestic indication in Lord Byron's letters from London is +the announcement of the death of Lady Byron's uncle, Lord Wentworth, +from whom came large expectations of property. Lord Byron had mentioned +him before in his letters as so kind to Bell and himself that he +could not find it in his heart to wish him in heaven if he preferred +staying here. In his letter of April 23, he mentions going to the play +immediately after hearing this news, 'although,' as he says, 'he ought +to have stayed at home in sackcloth for "unc."' + +On June 12, he writes that Lady Byron is more than three months +advanced in her progress towards maternity; and that they have been out +very little, as he wishes to keep her quiet. We are informed by Moore +that Lord Byron was at this time a member of the Drury-Lane Theatre +Committee; and that, in this unlucky connection, one of the fatalities +of the first year of trial as a husband lay. From the strain of Byron's +letters, as given in Moore, it is apparent, that, while he thinks it +best for his wife to remain at home, he does not propose to share the +retirement, but prefers running his own separate career with such +persons as thronged the greenroom of the theatre in those days. + +In commenting on Lord Byron's course, we must not by any means be +supposed to indicate that he was doing any more or worse than most gay +young men of his time. The licence of the day as to getting drunk at +dinner-parties, and leading, generally, what would, in these days, be +called a disorderly life, was great. We should infer that none of the +literary men of Byron's time would have been ashamed of being drunk +occasionally. The Noctes Ambrosianae Club of 'Blackwood' is full of +songs glorying, in the broadest terms, in out-and-out drunkenness, and +inviting to it as the highest condition of a civilised being.[37] + +[Footnote 37: Shelton Mackenzie, in a note to the 'Noctes' of July +1822, gives the following saying of Maginn, one of the principal lights +of the club: 'No man, however much he might tend to civilisation, +was to be regarded as having absolutely reached its apex until he +was drunk.' He also records it as a further joke of the club, that a +man's having reached this apex was to be tested by his inability to +pronounce the word 'civilisation,' which, he says, after ten o'clock at +night ought to be abridged to _civilation_, 'by syncope, or vigorously +speaking by hic-cup.'] + +But drunkenness upon Lord Byron had a peculiar and specific effect, +which he notices afterwards, in his Journal, at Venice: 'The effect +of all wines and spirits upon me is, however, strange. It settles, +but makes me gloomy--gloomy at the very moment of their effect: it +composes, however, though _sullenly_.'[38] And, again, in another +place, he says, 'Wine and spirits make me sullen, and savage to +ferocity.' + +[Footnote 38: Vol. v. pp. 61, 75.] + +It is well known that the effects of alcoholic excitement are various +as the natures of the subjects. But by far the worst effects, and the +most destructive to domestic peace, are those that occur in cases where +spirits, instead of acting on the nerves of motion, and depriving +the subject of power in that direction, stimulate the brain so as to +produce there the ferocity, the steadiness, the utter deadness to +compassion or conscience, which characterise a madman. How fearful +to a sensitive young mother in the period of pregnancy might be the +return of such a madman to the domestic roof! Nor can we account for +those scenes described in Lady Anne Barnard's letters, where Lord Byron +returned from his evening parties to try torturing experiments on his +wife, otherwise than by his own statement, that spirits, while they +_steadied_ him, made him 'gloomy, and savage to ferocity.' + +Take for example this:-- + + 'One night, coming home from one of his lawless parties, he saw me + (Lady B.) so indignantly collected, and bearing all with such a + determined calmness, that a rush of remorse seemed to come over him. + He called himself a monster, and, though his sister was present, threw + himself in agony at my feet. "I could not, no, I could not, forgive + him such injuries! He had lost me for ever!" Astonished at this return + to virtue, my tears, I believe, flowed over his face; and I said, + "Byron, all is forgotten; _never_, never shall you hear of it more." + + 'He started up, and folding his arms while he looked at me, burst + out into laughter. "What do you mean?" said I. "Only a philosophical + experiment; that's all," said he. "I wished to ascertain the value of + your resolutions."' + +To ascribe such deliberate cruelty as this to the effect of drink upon +Lord Byron, is the most charitable construction that can be put upon +his conduct. + +Yet the manners of the period were such, that Lord Byron must have +often come to this condition while only doing what many of his +acquaintances did freely, and without fear of consequences. + +Mr. Moore, with his usual artlessness, gives us an idea of a private +supper between himself and Lord Byron. We give it, with our own +italics, as a specimen of many others:-- + + 'Having taken upon me to order the repast, and knowing that Lord Byron + for the last two days had done nothing towards sustenance beyond + eating a few biscuits and (to appease appetite) chewing mastic, I + desired that we should have a good supply of at least two kinds of + fish. My companion, however, confined himself to lobsters; and of + these finished two or three, to his own share, interposing, sometimes, + a small liqueur-glass of strong white brandy, sometimes a tumbler of + very hot water, and then pure brandy again, to the amount of near half + a dozen small glasses of the latter, without which, alternately with + the hot water, he appeared to think the lobster could not be digested. + After this, we had claret, of which, having despatched two bottles + between us, at about four o'clock in the morning we parted. + + 'As Pope has thought his "delicious lobster-nights" worth + commemorating, these particulars of one in which Lord Byron was + concerned may also have some interest. + + 'Among _other nights of the same description which I had the happiness + of passing with him_, I remember once, in returning home from some + assembly at rather a late hour, we saw lights in the windows of his + old haunt, Stevens's in Bond Street, and agreed to stop there and + sup. On entering, we found an old friend of his, Sir G---- W----, who + joined our party; and, the _lobsters and brandy and water being put + in requisition, it was (as usual on such occasions) broad daylight + before we separated_.'--Vol. iii. p. 83. + +During the latter part of Lady Byron's pregnancy, it appears from Moore +that Byron was, night after night, engaged out at dinner parties, +in which getting drunk was considered as of course the _finale_, as +appears from the following letters:-- + + +(LETTER 228.) + +TO MR. MOORE. + + TERRACE, PICCADILLY, Oct. 31, 1815. + + 'I have not been able to ascertain precisely the time of duration of + the stock-market; but I believe it is a good time for selling out, and + I hope so. First, because I shall see you; and, next, because I shall + receive certain moneys on behalf of Lady B., the which will materially + conduce to my comfort; I wanting (as the duns say) "to make up a sum." + + 'Yesterday I dined out with a large-ish party, where were Sheridan + and Colman, Harry Harris, of C. G., and his brother, Sir Gilbert + Heathcote, Ds. Kinnaird, and others of note and notoriety. _Like + other parties of the kind, it was first silent, then talky, then + argumentative, then disputatious, then unintelligible,[39] then + altogethery, then inarticulate, and then drunk._ When we had reached + the last step of this glorious ladder, it was difficult to get down + again without stumbling; and, to crown all, Kinnaird and I had + to conduct Sheridan down a d----d corkscrew staircase, which had + certainly been constructed before the discovery of fermented liquors, + and to which no legs, however crooked, could possibly accommodate + themselves. We deposited him safe at home, where his man, _evidently + used to the business_,[40] waited to receive him in the hall. + + [Footnote 39: These italics are ours.] + + [Footnote 40: These italics are ours.] + + 'Both he and Colman were, as usual, very good; but I carried away much + wine, and the wine had previously carried away my memory: so that + all was hiccough and happiness for the last hour or so, and I am + not impregnated with any of the conversation. Perhaps you heard of a + late answer of Sheridan to the watchman who found him bereft of that + "divine particle of air" called reason.... He (the watchman) found + Sherry in the street fuddled and bewildered, and almost insensible. + "Who are _you_, sir?"--No answer. "What's your name?"--A hiccough. + "What's your name?"--Answer, in a slow, deliberate, and impassive + tone, "Wilberforce!" Is not that Sherry all over?--and, to my mind, + excellent. Poor fellow, _his_ very dregs are better than the "first + sprightly runnings" of others. + + 'My paper is full, and I have a grievous headache. + + 'P.S.--Lady B. is in full progress. Next month will bring to light + (with the aid of "Juno Lucina, _fer opem_," or rather _opes_, for the + last are most wanted) the tenth wonder of the world; Gil Blas being + the eighth, and he (my son's father) the ninth.' + +Here we have a picture of the whole story,--Lady Byron within a month +of her confinement; her money being used to settle debts; her husband +out at a dinner-party, going through the _usual course_ of such +parties, able to keep his legs and help Sheridan downstairs, and going +home 'gloomy, and savage to ferocity,' to his wife. + +Four days after this (letter 229), we find that this dinner-party is +not an exceptional one, but one of a series: for he says, 'To-day I +dine with Kinnaird,--we are to have Sheridan and Colman again; and +to-morrow, once more, at Sir Gilbert Heathcote's.' + +Afterward, in Venice, he reviews the state of his health, at this +period in London; and his account shows that his excesses in the +vices of his times had wrought effects on his sensitive, nervous +organisation, very different from what they might on the more +phlegmatic constitutions of ordinary Englishmen. In his journal, dated +Venice, Feb. 2, 1821, he says,-- + + 'I have been considering what can be the reason why I always wake at + a certain hour in the morning, and always in very bad spirits,--I may + say, in actual despair and despondency, in all respects, even of that + which pleased me over night. In about an hour or two this goes off, + and I compose either to sleep again, or at least to quiet. In England, + five years ago, I had the same kind of hypochondria, but accompanied + with so violent a thirst, that I have drunk as many as fifteen bottles + of soda-water in one night, after going to bed, and been still + thirsty,--calculating, however, some lost from the bursting-out and + effervescence and overflowing of the soda-water in drawing the corks, + or striking off the necks of the bottles from mere thirsty impatience. + At present, I have _not_ the thirst; but the depression of spirits is + no less violent.'--Vol. v. p. 96. + +These extracts go to show what _must_ have been the condition of the +man whom Lady Byron was called to receive at the intervals when he +came back from his various social excitements and pleasures. That his +nerves were exacerbated by violent extremes of abstinence and reckless +indulgence; that he was often day after day drunk, and that drunkenness +made him savage and ferocious,--such are the facts clearly shown by Mr. +Moore's narrative. Of the natural peculiarities of Lord Byron's temper, +he thus speaks to the Countess of Blessington:-- + + 'I often think that I inherit my violence and bad temper from my poor + mother,--not that my father, from all I could ever learn, had a much + better; so that it is no wonder I have such a very bad one. As long + as I can remember anything, I recollect being subject to violent + paroxysms of rage, so disproportioned to the cause as to surprise me + when they were over; and this still continues. I cannot coolly view + any thing which excites my feelings; and, once the lurking devil in + me is roused, I lose all command of myself. I do not recover a good + fit of rage for days after. Mind, I do not by this mean that the + ill humour continues, as, on the contrary, that quickly subsides, + exhausted by its own violence; but it shakes me terribly, and leaves + me low and nervous after.'--_Lady Blessington's Conversations_, p. 142. + +That during this time also his irritation and ill temper were increased +by the mortification of duns, debts, and executions, is on the face of +Moore's story. Moore himself relates one incident, which gives some +idea of the many which may have occurred at these times, in a note +on p. 215, vol. iv., where he speaks of Lord Byron's destroying a +favourite old watch that had been his companion from boyhood, and gone +with him to Greece. 'In a fit of vexation and rage, brought upon him by +some of these humiliating embarrassments, to which he was now almost +daily a prey, he furiously dashed this watch on the hearth, and ground +it to pieces with the poker among the ashes.' + +It is no wonder, that, with a man of this kind to manage, Lady Byron +should have clung to the only female companionship she could dare to +trust in the case, and earnestly desired to retain with her the sister, +who seemed, more than herself, to have influence over him. + +The first letter given by 'The Quarterly,' from Lady Byron to Mrs. +Leigh, without a date, evidently belongs to this period, when the +sister's society presented itself as a refuge in her approaching +confinement. Mrs. Leigh speaks of leaving. The young wife conscious +that the house presents no attractions, and that soon she herself shall +be laid by, cannot urge Mrs. Leigh's stay as likely to give her any +pleasure, but only as a comfort to herself. + + 'You will think me very foolish; but I have tried two or three times, + and cannot _talk_ to you of your departure with a decent visage: so + let me say one word in this way to spare my philosophy. With the + expectations which I have, I never will nor can ask you to stay one + moment longer than you are inclined to do. It would [be] the worst + return for all I ever received from you. But in this at least I _am_ + "truth itself," when I say, that whatever the situation may be, there + is no one whose society is dearer to me, or can contribute more to my + happiness. These feelings will not change under any circumstances, + and I should be grieved if you did not understand them. Should you + hereafter condemn me, I shall not love you less. I will say no more. + Judge for yourself about going or staying. I wish you to consider + _yourself_, if you could be wise enough to do that, for the first time + in your life. + + 'Thine, + + 'A. I. B.' + + Addressed on the cover, 'To The Hon. Mrs. Leigh.' + +This letter not being dated, we have no clue but what we obtain from +its own internal evidence. It certainly is not written in Lady Byron's +usual clear and elegant style; and is, in this respect, in striking +contrast to all her letters that I have ever seen. + +But the notes written by a young woman under such peculiar and +distressing circumstances must not be judged by the standard of calmer +hours. + +Subsequently to this letter, and during that stormy, irrational period +when Lord Byron's conduct became daily more and more unaccountable, may +have come that startling scene in which Lord Byron took every pains to +convince his wife of improper relations subsisting between himself and +his sister. + +What an _utter_ desolation this must have been to the wife, tearing +from her the last hold of friendship, and the last refuge to which she +had clung in her sorrows, may easily be conceived. + +In this crisis, it appears that the _sister_ convinced Lady Byron that +the whole was to be attributed to insanity. It would be a conviction +gladly accepted, and bringing infinite relief, although still +surrounding her path with fearful difficulties. + +That such was the case is plainly asserted by Lady Byron in her +statement published in 1830. Speaking of her separation, Lady Byron +says:-- + + 'The facts are, I left London for Kirkby Mallory, the residence of + my father and mother, on the 15th of January, 1816. Lord Byron had + signified to me in writing, Jan. 6, his _absolute desire_ that I + should leave London on the earliest day that I could conveniently fix. + It was not safe for me to encounter the fatigues of a journey sooner + than the 15th. _Previously to my departure, it had been strongly + impressed on my mind that Lord Byron was under the influence of + insanity._ + + 'This opinion was in a great measure derived from the communications + made to me by his _nearest relatives_ and personal attendant.' + +Now there was no nearer relative than Mrs. Leigh; and the personal +attendant was Fletcher. It was therefore presumably Mrs. Leigh who +convinced Lady Byron of her husband's insanity. + +Lady Byron says, 'It was even represented to me that he was in danger +of destroying himself. + +'_With the concurrence_ of his family, I had consulted with Dr. +Baillie, as a friend, on Jan. 8, as to his supposed malady.' Now, Lord +Byron's written order for her to leave came on Jan. 6. It appears, +then, that Lady Byron, acting in concurrence with Mrs. Leigh and +others of her husband's family, consulted Dr. Baillie, on Jan. 8, as +to what she should do; the symptoms presented to Dr. Baillie being, +evidently, insane hatred of his wife on the part of Lord Byron, and a +determination to get her out of the house. Lady Byron goes on:-- + + 'On acquainting him with the state of the case, and with Lord + Byron's desire that I should leave London, Dr. Baillie thought my + absence might be advisable as an experiment, _assuming_ the fact of + mental derangement; for Dr. Baillie, not having had access to Lord + Byron, could not pronounce an opinion on that point. He enjoined, + that, in correspondence with Lord Byron, I should avoid all but + light and soothing topics. Under these impressions, I left London, + determined to follow the advice given me by Dr. Baillie. Whatever + might have been the nature of Lord Byron's treatment of me from the + time of my marriage, yet, supposing him to have been in a state of + mental alienation, it was not for _me_, nor for any person of common + humanity, to manifest at that moment a sense of injury.' + +It appears, then, that the domestic situation in Byron's house at the +time of his wife's expulsion was one so grave as to call for family +counsel; for Lady Byron, generally accurate, speaks in the plural +number. 'His _nearest_ relatives' certainly includes Mrs. Leigh. 'His +family' includes more. That some of Lord Byron's own relatives were +cognisant of facts at this time, and that they took Lady Byron's side, +is shown by one of his own chance admissions. In vol. vi. p. 394, in a +letter on Bowles, he says, speaking of this time, '_All my relations_, +save one, fell from me like leaves from a tree in autumn.' And in +Medwin's Conversations he says, 'Even my cousin George Byron, who had +been brought up with me, and whom I loved as a brother, took my wife's +part.' The conduct must have been marked in the extreme that led to +this result. + +We cannot help stopping here to say that Lady Byron's situation at +this time has been discussed in our days with a want of ordinary human +feeling that is surprising. Let any father and mother, reading this, +look on their own daughter, and try to make the case their own. + +After a few short months of married life,--months full of patient +endurance of the strangest and most unaccountable treatment,--she comes +to them, expelled from her husband's house, an object of hatred and +aversion to him, and having to settle for herself the awful question, +whether he is a dangerous madman or a determined villain. + +Such was this young wife's situation. + +With a heart at times wrung with compassion for her husband as a +helpless maniac, and fearful that all may end in suicide, yet compelled +to leave him, she writes on the road the much-quoted letter, beginning +'Dear Duck.' This is an exaggerated and unnatural letter, it is +true, but of precisely the character that might be expected from an +inexperienced young wife when dealing with a husband supposed to be +insane. + +The next day, she addressed to Augusta this letter:-- + + 'MY DEAREST A.,--It is my great comfort that _you_ are still + in Piccadilly.' + +And again, on the 23rd:-- + + 'DEAREST A.,--I know you feel for me, as 1 do for you; and + perhaps I am better understood than I think. You have been, ever since + I knew you, my best comforter; and will so remain, unless you grow + tired of the office,--which may well be.' + +We can see here how self-denying and heroic appears to Lady Byron the +conduct of the sister, who patiently remains to soothe and guide and +restrain the moody madman, whose madness takes a form, at times, so +repulsive to every womanly feeling. She intimates that she should not +wonder should Augusta grow weary of the office. + +Lady Byron continues her statement thus:-- + + 'When I arrived at Kirkby Mallory, my parents were unacquainted + with the existence of any causes likely to destroy my prospects of + happiness; and, when I communicated to them the opinion that had been + formed concerning Lord Byron's state of mind, they were most anxious + to promote his restoration by every means in their power. They assured + those relations that were with him in London that "they would devote + their whole care and attention to the alleviation of his malady."' + +Here we have a _quotation_[41] from a letter written by Lady Milbanke +to the anxious 'relations' who are taking counsel about Lord Byron in +town. Lady Byron also adds, in justification of her mother from Lord +Byron's slanders, 'She had always treated him with an affectionate +consideration and indulgence, which extended to every little +peculiarity of his feelings. Never did an irritating word escape her +lips in her whole intercourse with him.' + +[Footnote 41: This little incident shows the characteristic carefulness +and accuracy of Lady Byron's habits. This statement was written +_fourteen_ years after the events spoken of; but Lady Byron carefully +quotes a passage from her mother's letter written at that time. This +shows that a copy of Lady Milbanke's letter had been preserved, and +makes it appear probable that copies of the whole correspondence of +that period were also kept. Great light could be thrown on the whole +transaction, could these documents be consulted.] + +Now comes a remarkable part of Lady Byron's statement:-- + + 'The accounts given me after I left Lord Byron, by those in constant + intercourse with him,[42] _added_ to those doubts which had before + transiently occurred to my mind as to the reality of the alleged + disease; and the reports of his medical attendants were far from + establishing anything like lunacy.' + +[Footnote 42: Here, again, Lady Byron's sealed papers might furnish +light. The letters addressed to her at this time by those in constant +intercourse with Lord Byron are doubtless preserved, and would show her +ground of action.] + +When these doubts arose in her mind, it is not natural to suppose +that they should, at first, involve Mrs. Leigh. She still appears to +Lady Byron as the devoted, believing sister, fully convinced of her +brother's insanity, and endeavouring to restrain and control him. + +But if Lord Byron were sane, if the purposes he had avowed to his wife +were real, he must have lied about his sister in the past, and perhaps +have the worst intentions for the future. + +The horrors of that state of vacillation between the conviction of +insanity and the commencing conviction of something worse can scarcely +be told. + +At all events, the wife's doubts extend so far that she speaks out to +her parents. 'UNDER THIS UNCERTAINTY,' says the statement, +'I deemed it right to communicate to my parents, that, if I were to +consider Lord Byron's past conduct as that of a person of sound mind, +_nothing could induce me to return to him_. It therefore appeared +expedient, both to them and to myself, to consult the ablest advisers. +For that object, and also to obtain still further information +respecting appearances which indicated mental derangement, my mother +determined to go to London. She was empowered by me to take legal +opinion on a written statement of mine; though I then had reasons for +reserving a _part of the case from the knowledge even of my father and +mother_.' + +It is during this time of uncertainty that the next letter to Mrs. +Leigh may be placed. It seems to be rather a fragment of a letter +than a whole one: perhaps it is an extract; in which case it would be +desirable, if possible, to view it in connection with the remaining +text:-- + + 'Jan. 25, 1816. + + 'MY DEAREST AUGUSTA,--Shall I still be your sister? I must + resign my right to be so considered; but I don't think that will make + any difference in the kindness I have so uniformly experienced from + you.' + +This fragment is not signed, nor finished in any way, but indicates +that the writer is about to take a decisive step. + +On the 17th, as we have seen, Lady Milbanke had written, inviting +Lord Byron. Subsequently she went to London to make more particular +inquiries into his state. This fragment seems part of a letter from +Lady Byron, called forth in view of some evidence resulting from her +mother's observations.[43] + +[Footnote 43: Probably Lady Milbanke's letters are among the sealed +papers, and would more fully explain the situation.] + +Lady Byron now adds:-- + + 'Being convinced by the result of these inquiries, and by the tenour + of Lord Byron's proceedings, that the notion of insanity was an + illusion, I no longer hesitated to authorize such measures as were + necessary in order to secure me from ever being again placed in his + power. + + 'Conformably with this resolution, my father wrote to him, on the 2nd + of February, to request an amicable separation.' + +The following letter to Mrs. Leigh is dated the day after this +application, and is in many respects a noticeable one:-- + + 'KIRKBY MALLORY, Feb. 3, 1816. + + 'MY DEAREST AUGUSTA,--You are desired by your brother to ask + if my father has acted with my concurrence in proposing a separation. + He has. It cannot be supposed, that, in my present distressing + situation, I am capable of stating in a detailed manner the reasons + which will not only justify this measure, but compel me to take it; + and it never can be my wish to remember _unnecessarily_ [_sic_] + those injuries for which, however deep, I feel no resentment. I will + now only recall to Lord Byron's mind his avowed and insurmountable + aversion to the married state, and the desire and determination + he has expressed ever since its commencement to free himself from + that bondage, as finding it quite insupportable, though candidly + acknowledging that no effort of duty or affection has been wanting on + my part. He has too painfully convinced me that all these attempts + to contribute towards his happiness were wholly useless, and most + unwelcome to him. I enclose this letter to my father, wishing it to + receive his sanction. + + 'Ever yours most affectionately, + + 'A. I. BYRON.' + +We observe in this letter that it is written to _be shown_ to Lady +Byron's father, and receive his sanction; and, as that father was +in ignorance of all the deeper causes of trouble in the case, it +will be seen that the letter must necessarily be a reserved one. +This sufficiently accounts for the guarded character of the language +when speaking of the causes of separation. One part of the letter +incidentally overthrows Lord Byron's statement, which he always +repeated during his life, and which is repeated for him now; namely, +that his wife _forsook_ him, instead of being, as she claims, +_expelled_ by him. + +She recalls to Lord Byron's mind the 'desire and _determination_ he has +expressed ever since his marriage to free himself from its bondage.' + +This is in perfect keeping with the '_absolute_ desire,' signified +by writing, that she should leave his house on the earliest day +possible; and she places the cause of the separation on his having 'too +painfully' convinced her that he does not want her--as a wife. + +It appears that Augusta hesitates to show this note to her brother. It +is bringing on a crisis which she, above all others, would most wish to +avoid. + +In the meantime, Lady Byron receives a letter from Lord Byron, which +makes her feel it more than ever essential to make the decision final. +I have reason to believe that this letter is preserved in Lady Byron's +papers:-- + + 'Feb. 4, 1816. + + 'I hope, my dear A., that you would on no account withhold from your + brother the letter which I sent yesterday in answer to yours written + by his desire, particularly as one which I have received from himself + to-day renders it still more important that he should know the + contents of that addressed to you, I am, in haste and not very well, + + 'Yours most affectionately, + + 'A. I. BYRON.' + +The last of this series of letters is less like the style of Lady Byron +than any of them. We cannot judge whether it is a whole consecutive +letter, or fragments from a letter, selected and united. There is a +great want of that clearness and precision which usually characterised +Lady Byron's style. It shows, however, that the decision is made,--a +decision which she regrets on account of the sister who has tried so +long to prevent it. + + 'KIRKBY MALLORY, Feb. 14, 1816. + + 'The present sufferings of all may yet be repaid in blessings. Do + not despair absolutely, dearest; and leave me but enough of your + interest to afford you any consolation by partaking of that sorrow + which I am most unhappy to cause thus unintentionally. _You will_ be + of my opinion hereafter; and at present your bitterest reproach would + be forgiven, though Heaven knows you have considered me more than a + thousand would have done,--more than anything but my affection for + B., one most dear to you, could deserve. I must not remember these + feelings. Farewell! God bless you from the bottom of my heart! + + 'A. I. B.' + +We are here to consider that Mrs. Leigh has stood to Lady Byron in +all this long agony as her only confidante and friend; that she has +denied the charges her brother has made, and referred them to insanity, +admitting insane _attempts_ upon herself which she has been obliged to +watch over and control. + +Lady Byron has come to the conclusion that Augusta is mistaken as to +insanity; that there is a real wicked _purpose_ and desire on the part +of the brother, not as yet believed in by the sister. She regards the +sister as one, who, though deceived and blinded, is still worthy of +confidence and consideration; and so says to her, '_You will be of my +opinion hereafter_.' + +She says, 'You have considered me more than a thousand would have +done.' Mrs. Leigh is, in Lady Byron's eyes, a most abused and innocent +woman, who, to spare her sister in her delicate situation, has taken on +herself the whole charge of a maniacal brother, although suffering from +him language and actions of the most injurious kind. That Mrs. Leigh +did not flee the house at once under such circumstances, and wholly +decline the management of the case, seems to Lady Byron consideration +and self-sacrifice greater than she can acknowledge. + +The knowledge of the _whole extent of the truth_ came to Lady Byron's +mind at a later period. + +We now take up the history from Lushington's letter to Lady Byron, +published at the close of her statement. + +The application to Lord Byron for an act of separation was positively +refused at first; it being an important part of his policy that all the +responsibility and insistance should come from his wife, and that he +should appear forced into it contrary to his will. + +Dr. Lushington, however, says to Lady Byron,-- + + 'I was originally consulted by Lady Noel on your behalf while you + were in the country. The circumstances detailed by her were such + as justified a separation; but they were not of that aggravated + description as to render such a measure indispensable. On Lady + Noel's representations, I deemed a reconciliation with Lord Byron + practicable, and felt most sincerely a wish to aid in effecting it. + There was not, on Lady Noel's part, any exaggeration of the facts, + nor, so far as I could perceive, any determination to prevent a + return to Lord Byron: certainly none was expressed when I spoke of a + reconciliation.' + +In this crisis, with Lord Byron refusing the separation, with +Lushington expressing a wish to aid in a reconciliation, and Lady Noel +not expressing any aversion to it, the whole strain of the dreadful +responsibility comes upon the wife. + +She resolves to ask counsel of her lawyer, in view of a statement of +the _whole_ case. + +Lady Byron is spoken of by Lord Byron (letter 233) as being in town +with her father on the 29th of February; viz., fifteen days after the +date of the last letter to Mrs. Leigh. It must have been about this +time, then, that she laid her whole case before Lushington; and he gave +it a thorough examination. + +The result was, that Lushington expressed in the most decided terms his +conviction that reconciliation was impossible. The language he uses is +very striking:-- + + 'When you came to town in about a fortnight, or perhaps more, after my + first interview with Lady Noel, I was, for the first time, informed + by you of facts utterly unknown, as I have no doubt, to Sir Ralph and + Lady Noel. On receiving this additional information, my opinion was + entirely changed. I considered a reconciliation impossible. I declared + my opinion, and added, that, if such an idea should be entertained, I + could not, either professionally or otherwise, take any part towards + effecting it.' + +It does not appear in this note what effect the lawyer's examination +of the case had on Lady Byron's mind. By the expressions he uses, we +should infer that she may still have been hesitating as to whether a +reconciliation might not be her duty. + +This hesitancy he does away with most decisively, saying, 'A +reconciliation is impossible;' and, supposing Lady Byron or her +friends desirous of one, he declares positively that he cannot, either +professionally as a lawyer or privately as a friend, have anything to +do with effecting it. + +The lawyer, it appears, has drawn, from the facts of the case, +inferences deeper and stronger than those which presented themselves to +the mind of the young woman; and he instructs her in the most absolute +terms. + +Fourteen years after, in 1830, for the first time the world was +astonished by this declaration from Dr. Lushington, in language so +pronounced and positive that there could be no mistake. + +Lady Byron had stood all these fourteen years slandered by her husband, +and misunderstood by his friends, when, had she so chosen, this opinion +of Dr. Lushington's could have been at once made public, which fully +justified her conduct. + +If, as the 'Blackwood' of July insinuates, the story told to Lushington +was a malignant slander, meant to injure Lord Byron, why did she +suppress the judgment of her counsel at a time when all the world +was on her side, and this decision would have been the decisive blow +against her husband? Why, by sealing the lips of counsel, and of all +whom she could influence, did she deprive herself finally of the very +advantage for which it has been assumed she fabricated the story? + + + + +CHAPTER IV. + +THE CHARACTER OF THE TWO WITNESSES COMPARED. + + +It will be observed, that, in this controversy, we are confronting two +opposing stories,--one of Lord and the other of Lady Byron; and the +statements from each are in point-blank contradiction. + +Lord Byron states that his wife deserted him. Lady Byron states that he +expelled her, and reminds him, in her letter to Augusta Leigh, that the +expulsion was a deliberate one, and that he had purposed it from the +beginning of their marriage. + +Lord Byron always stated that he was ignorant why his wife left him, +and was desirous of her return. Lady Byron states that he told her that +he would force her to leave him, and to leave him in such a way that +the whole blame of the separation should always rest on her, and not on +him. + +To say nothing of any deeper or darker accusations on either side, +here, in the very outworks of the story, the two meet point-blank. + +In considering two opposing stories, we always, as a matter of fact, +take into account the character of the witnesses. + +If a person be literal and exact in his usual modes of speech, +reserved, careful, conscientious, and in the habit of observing +minutely the minor details of time, place, and circumstances, we give +weight to his testimony from these considerations. But if a person +be proved to have singular and exceptional principles with regard to +truth; if he be universally held by society to be so in the habit of +mystification, that large allowances must be made for his statements; +if his assertions at one time contradict those made at another; and if +his statements, also, sometimes come in collision with those of his +best friends, so that, when his language is reported, difficulties +follow, and explanations are made necessary,--all this certainly +disqualifies him from being considered a trustworthy witness. + +All these disqualifications belong in a remarkable degree to Lord +Byron, on the oft-repeated testimony of his best friends. + +We shall first cite the following testimony, given in an article from +'Under the Crown,' which is written by an early friend and ardent +admirer of Lord Byron:-- + + 'Byron had one pre-eminent fault,--a fault which must be considered as + deeply criminal by everyone who does not, as I do, believe it to have + resulted from monomania. He had a morbid love of a bad reputation. + There was hardly an offence of which he would not, with perfect + indifference, accuse himself. An old schoolfellow who met him on the + Continent told me that he would continually write paragraphs against + himself in the foreign journals, and delight in their republication + by the English newspapers as in the success of a practical joke. + Whenever anybody has related anything discreditable of Byron, assuring + me that it must be true, for he heard it from himself, I always felt + that he could not have spoken upon worse authority; and that, in all + probability, the tale was a pure invention. If I could remember, + and were willing to repeat, the various misdoings which I have from + time to time heard him attribute to himself, I could fill a volume. + But I never believed them. I very soon became aware of this strange + idiosyncrasy: it puzzled me to account for it; but there it was, a + sort of diseased and distorted vanity. The same eccentric spirit + would induce him to report things which were false with regard to his + family, which anybody else would have concealed, though true. He told + me more than once that his father was insane, and killed himself. I + shall never forget the manner in which he first told me this. While + washing his hands, and singing a gay Neapolitan air, he stopped, + looked round at me, and said, "There always was madness in the + family." Then, after continuing his washing and his song, he added, as + if speaking of a matter of the slightest indifference, "My father cut + his throat." The contrast between the tenour of the subject and the + levity of the expression was fearfully painful: it was like a stanza + of "Don Juan." In this instance, I had no doubt that the fact was as + he related it; but in speaking of it, only a few years since, to an + old lady in whom I had perfect confidence, she assured me that it was + not so. Mr. Byron, who was her cousin, had been extremely wild, but + was quite sane, and had died very quietly in his bed. What Byron's + reason could have been for thus calumniating not only himself but + the blood which was flowing in his veins, who can divine? But, for + some reason or other, it seemed to be his determined purpose to keep + himself unknown to the great body of his fellow-creatures; to present + himself to their view in moral masquerade.' + +Certainly the character of Lord Byron here given by his friend is +not the kind to make him a trustworthy witness in any case: on the +contrary, it seems to show either a subtle delight in falsehood for +falsehood's sake, or else the wary artifices of a man who, having a +deadly secret to conceal, employs many turnings and windings to throw +the world off the scent. What intriguer, having a crime to cover, could +devise a more artful course than to send half a dozen absurd stories to +the press, which should, after a while, be traced back to himself, till +the public should gradually look on all it heard from him as the result +of this eccentric humour? + +The easy, trifling air with which Lord Byron made to this friend a +false statement in regard to his father would lead naturally to the +inquiry, on what _other_ subjects, equally important to the good name +of others, he might give false testimony with equal indifference. + +When Medwin's 'Conversations with Lord Byron' were first published, +they contained a number of declarations of the noble lord affecting the +honour and honesty of his friend and publisher Murray. These appear +to have been made in the same way as those about his father, and with +equal indifference. So serious were the charges, that Mr. Murray's +friends felt that he ought, in justice to himself, to come forward and +confront them with the facts as stated in Byron's letters to himself; +and in vol. x., p. 143, of Murray's standard edition, accordingly +these false statements are confronted with the letters of Lord Byron. +The statements, as reported, are of a most material and vital nature, +relating to Murray's financial honour and honesty, and to his general +truthfulness and sincerity. In reply, Murray opposes to them the +accounts of sums paid for different works, and letters from Byron +exactly contradicting his own statements as to Murray's character. + +The subject, as we have seen, was discussed in 'The Noctes.' No doubt +appears to be entertained that Byron made the statements to Medwin; and +the theory of accounting for them is, that 'Byron was "bamming" him.' + +It seems never to have occurred to any of these credulous gentlemen, +who laughed at others for being 'bammed,' that Byron might be doing the +very same thing by themselves. How many of his so-called packages sent +to Lady Byron were _real_ packages, and how many were mystifications? +We find, in two places at least in his Memoir, letters to Lady Byron, +written and shown to others, which, he says, were never sent by him. +He told Lady Blessington that he was in the habit of writing to her +_constantly_. Was this 'bamming'? Was he 'bamming,' also, when he told +the world that Lady Byron suddenly deserted him, quite to his surprise, +and that he never, to his dying day, could find out why? + +Lady Blessington relates, that, in one of his conversations with her, +he entertained her by repeating epigrams and lampoons, in which many +of his friends were treated with severity. She inquired of him, in +case he should die, and such proofs of his friendship come before the +public, what would be the feelings of these friends, who had supposed +themselves to stand so high in his good graces. She says, + + '"That," said Byron, "is precisely one of the ideas that most amuses + me. I often fancy the rage and humiliation of my quondam friends in + hearing the truth, at least from me, for the first time, and when I + am beyond the reach of their malice.... What grief," continued Byron, + laughing, "could resist the charges of ugliness, dulness, or any of + the thousand nameless defects, personal or mental, 'that flesh is heir + to,' when reprisal or recantation was impossible?... People are in + such daily habits of commenting on the defects of friends, that they + are unconscious of the unkindness of it.... Now, I write down as well + as speak my sentiments of those who think they have gulled me; and I + only wish, in case I die before them, that I might return to witness + the effects my posthumous opinions of them are likely to produce in + their minds. What good fun this would be!... You don't seem to value + this as you ought," said Byron with one of his sardonic smiles, seeing + I looked, as I really felt, surprised at his avowed insincerity. I + feel the same pleasure in anticipating the rage and mortification of + my _soi-disant_ friends at the discovery of my real sentiments of + them, that a miser may be supposed to feel while making a will that + will disappoint all the expectants that have been toadying him for + years. Then how amusing it will be to compare my posthumous with my + previously given opinions, the one throwing ridicule on the other!"' + +It is asserted, in a note to 'The Noctes,' that Byron, besides his +Autobiography, prepared a voluminous dictionary of all his friends and +acquaintances, in which brief notes of their persons and character +were given, with his opinion of them. It was not considered that the +publication of this would add to the noble lord's popularity; and it +has never appeared. + +In Hunt's Life of Byron, there is similar testimony. Speaking of +Byron's carelessness in exposing his friends' secrets, and showing or +giving away their letters, he says:-- + + 'If his five hundred confidants, by a reticence as remarkable as his + laxity, had not kept his secrets better than he did himself, the + very devil might have been played with I don't know how many people. + But there was always this saving reflection to be made, that the man + who could be guilty of such extravagances for the sake of making + an impression might be guilty of exaggeration, or inventing what + astonished you; and indeed, though he was a speaker of the truth on + ordinary occasions,--that is to say, he did not tell you he had seen + a dozen horses when he had seen only two,--yet, as he professed not + to value the truth when in the way of his advantage (and there was + nothing he thought more to his advantage than making you stare at + him), the persons who were liable to suffer from his inconsistency had + all the right in the world to the benefit of this consideration.'[44] + +[Footnote 44: Hunt's Byron, p. 77. Philadelphia, 1828.] + +With a person of such mental and moral habits as to truth, the inquiry +always must be, _Where_ does mystification end, and truth begin? + +If a man is careless about his father's reputation for sanity, and +reports him a crazy suicide; if he gaily accuses his publisher and +good friend of double-dealing, shuffling, and dishonesty; if he tells +stories about Mrs. Clermont,[45] to which his sister offers a public +refutation,--is it to be supposed that he will always tell the truth +about his wife, when the world is pressing him hard, and every instinct +of self-defence is on the alert? + +[Footnote 45: From the Temple Bar article, October 1869. 'Mrs. Leigh, +Lord Byron's sister, had other thoughts of Mrs. Clermont, and wrote +to her offering public testimony to her tenderness and forbearance +under circumstances which must have been trying to any friend of Lady +Byron.'--_Campbell, in the New Monthly Magazine_, 1830, p. 380.] + +And then the ingenuity that could write and publish false documents +about himself, that they might re-appear in London papers,--to what +other accounts might it not be turned? Might it not create documents, +invent statements, about his wife as well as himself? + +The document so ostentatiously given to M. G. Lewis 'for circulation +among friends in England' was a specimen of what the Noctes Club would +call 'bamming.' + +If Byron wanted a legal investigation, why did he not take it in the +first place, instead of signing the separation? If he wanted to cancel +it, as he said in this document, why did he not go to London, and enter +a suit for the restitution of conjugal rights, or a suit in chancery to +get possession of his daughter? That this was in his mind, passages in +Medwin's 'Conversations' show. He told Lady Blessington also that he +might claim his daughter in chancery at any time. + +Why did he not do it? Either of these two steps would have brought on +that public investigation he so longed for. Can it be possible that all +the friends who passed this private document from hand to hand never +suspected that they were being 'bammed' by it? + +But it has been universally assumed, that, though Byron was thus +remarkably given to mystification, yet _all_ his statements in regard +to this story are to be accepted, simply because he makes them. _Why_ +must we accept them, any more than his statements as to Murray or his +own father? + +So we constantly find Lord Byron's incidental statements coming in +collision with those of others: for example, in his account of his +marriage, he tells Medwin that Lady Byron's maid was put between his +bride and himself, on the same seat, in the wedding-journey. The lady's +maid herself, Mrs. Mimms, says she was sent before them to Halnaby, and +was there to receive them when they alighted. + +He said of Lady Byron's mother, 'She always detested me, and had not +the decency to conceal it in her own house. Dining with her one day, I +broke a tooth, and was in great pain; which I could not help showing. +"It will do you good," said Lady Noel; "I am glad of it!"' + +Lady Byron says, speaking of her mother, 'She always treated him with +an affectionate consideration and indulgence, which extended to every +little peculiarity of his feelings. Never did an irritating word escape +her.' + +Lord Byron states that the correspondence between him and Lady Byron, +after his refusal, was first opened by her. Lady Byron's friends deny +the statement, and assert that the direct contrary is the fact. + +Thus we see that Lord Byron's statements are directly opposed to +those of his family in relation to his father; directly against +Murray's accounts, and his own admission to Murray; directly against +the statement of the lady's maid as to her position in the journey; +directly against Mrs. Leigh's as to Mrs. Clermont, and against Lady +Byron as to her mother. + +We can see, also, that these misstatements were so fully perceived by +the men of his times, that Medwin's 'Conversations' were simply laughed +at as an amusing instance of how far a man might be made the victim of +a mystification. Christopher North thus sentences the book:-- + + 'I don't mean to call Medwin a liar.... The captain _lies_, sir, but + it is under a thousand mistakes. Whether Byron bammed him, or he, by + virtue of his own egregious stupidity, was the sole and sufficient + bammifier of himself, I know not; neither greatly do I care. This much + is certain, ... that the book throughout is full of things that were + not, and most resplendently deficient _quoad_ the things that were.' + +Yet it is on Medwin's 'Conversations' alone that many of the magazine +assertions in regard to Lady Byron are founded. + +It is on that authority that Lady Byron is accused of breaking open +her husband's writing-desk in his absence, and sending the letters +she found there to the husband of a lady compromised by them; and +likewise that Lord Byron is declared to have paid back his wife's +ten-thousand-pound wedding portion, and doubled it. Moore makes no such +statements; and his remarks about Lord Byron's use of his wife's money +are unmistakable evidence to the contrary. Moore, although Byron's +ardent partisan, was too well informed to make assertions with regard +to him, which, at that time, it would have been perfectly easy to +refute. + +All these facts go to show that Lord Byron's character for accuracy +or veracity was not such as to entitle him to ordinary confidence as a +witness, especially in a case where he had the strongest motives for +misstatement. + +And if we consider that the celebrated Autobiography was the finished, +careful work of such a practised 'mystifier,' who can wonder that it +presented a web of such intermingled truth and lies that there was no +such thing as disentangling it, and pointing out where falsehood ended +and truth began? + +But in regard to Lady Byron, what has been the universal impression +of the world? It has been alleged against her that she was a precise, +straight-forward woman, so accustomed to plain, literal dealings, that +she could not understand the various mystifications of her husband; and +from that cause arose her unhappiness. Byron speaks, in 'The Sketch,' +of her _peculiar_ truthfulness; and even in the 'Clytemnestra' poem, +when accusing her of lying, he speaks of her as departing from + + 'The _early_ truth that was her proper praise.' + +Lady Byron's careful accuracy as to dates, to time, place, and +circumstances, will probably be vouched for by all the very large +number of persons whom the management of her extended property and +her works of benevolence brought to act as co-operators or agents +with her. She was not a person in the habit of making exaggerated or +ill-considered statements. Her published statement of 1830 is clear, +exact, accurate, and perfectly intelligible. The dates are carefully +ascertained and stated, the expressions are moderate, and all the +assertions firm and perfectly definite. + +It therefore seems remarkable that the whole reasoning on this Byron +matter has generally been conducted by assuming all Lord Byron's +statements to be true, and requiring all Lady Byron's statements to be +sustained by other evidence. + +If Lord Byron asserts that his wife deserted him, the assertion is +accepted without proof; but, if Lady Byron asserts that he ordered +her to leave, that requires proof. Lady Byron asserts that she +took counsel, on this order of Lord Byron, with his family friends +and physician, under the idea that it originated in insanity. The +'Blackwood' asks, '_What_ family friends?' says it doesn't know of any; +and asks proof. + +If Lord Byron asserts that he always longed for a public investigation +of the charges against him, the 'Quarterly' and 'Blackwood' quote +the saying with ingenuous confidence. They are obliged to admit +that he refused to stand that public test; that he signed the deed +of separation rather than meet it. They know, also, that he could +have at any time instituted suits against Lady Byron that would have +brought the whole matter into court, and that he did not? Why did he +not? The 'Quarterly' simply intimates that such suits would have been +unpleasant. Why? On account of personal delicacy? The man that wrote +'Don Juan', and furnished the details of his wedding-night, held +back from clearing his name by delicacy! It is astonishing to what +extent this controversy has consisted in simply repeating Lord Byron's +assertions over and over again, and calling the result proof. + +Now, we propose a different course. As Lady Byron is not stated by +her warm admirers to have had _any_ monomania for speaking untruths +on any subject, we rank her value as a witness at a higher rate than +Lord Byron's. She never accused her parents of madness or suicide, +merely to make a sensation; never 'bammed' an acquaintance by false +statements concerning the commercial honour of anyone with whom she +was in business relations; never wrote and sent to the press as a +clever jest false statements about herself; and never, in any other +ingenious way, tampered with truth. We therefore hold it to be a mere +dictate of reason and common sense, that, in all cases where her +statements conflict with her husband's, hers are to be taken as the +more trustworthy. + +The 'London Quarterly,' in a late article, distinctly repudiates Lady +Byron's statements as sources of evidence, and throughout quotes +statements of Lord Byron as if they had the force of self-evident +propositions. We consider such a course contrary to common sense as +well as common good manners. + +The state of the case is just this: If Lord Byron did not make false +statements on this subject it was certainly an exception to his usual +course. He certainly did make such on a great variety of other +subjects. By his own showing, he had a peculiar pleasure in falsifying +language, and in misleading and betraying even his friends. + +But, if Lady Byron gave false witness upon this subject, it was an +exception to the whole course of her life. + +The habits of her mind, the government of her conduct, her life-long +reputation, all were those of a literal, exact truthfulness. + +The accusation of her being untruthful was first brought forward by +her husband in the 'Clytemnestra' poem, in the autumn of 1816; but it +never was publicly circulated till after his death, and it was first +formally made the basis of a published attack on Lady Byron in the +July 'Blackwood' of 1869. Up to that time, we look in vain through +current literature for any indications that the world regarded Lady +Byron otherwise than as a cold, careful, prudent woman, who made no +assertions, and had no confidants. When she spoke in 1830, it is +perfectly evident that Christopher North and his circle believed what +she said, though reproving her for saying it at all. + +The 'Quarterly' goes on to heap up a number of vague assertions,--that +Lady Byron, about the time of her separation, made a confidant of a +young officer; that she told the clergyman of Ham of some trials with +Lord Ockham; and that she told stories of different things at different +times. + +All this is not proof: it is mere assertion, and assertion made to +produce prejudice. It is like raising a whirlwind of sand to blind +the eyes that are looking for landmarks. It is quite probable Lady +Byron told different stories about Lord Byron at various times. No +woman could have a greater variety of stories to tell; and no woman +ever was so persecuted and pursued and harassed, both by public +literature and private friendship, to say _something_. She had plenty +of causes for a separation, without the fatal and final one. In her +conversations with Lady Anne Barnard, for example, she gives reasons +enough for a separation, though none of them are the chief one. It is +not _different_ stories, but _contradictory_ stories, that must be +relied on to disprove the credibility of a witness. The 'Quarterly' +has certainly told a great number of different stories,--stories which +may prove as irreconcilable with each other as any attributed to Lady +Byron; but its denial of all weight to her testimony is simply begging +the whole question under consideration. + +A man gives testimony about the causes of a railroad accident, being +the only eye-witness. + +The opposing counsel begs, whatever else you do, you will not admit +that man's testimony. You ask, 'Why? Has he ever been accused of want +of veracity on other subjects?'--'No: he has stood high as a man of +probity and honour for years.'--'Why, then, throw out his testimony?' + +'Because he lies in this instance,' says the adversary: 'his testimony +does not agree with this and that.'--'Pardon me, that is the very point +in question,' say you: 'we expect to prove that it does agree with this +and that.' + +Because certain letters of Lady Byron's do not agree with the +'Quarterly's' theory of the facts of the separation, it at once assumes +that she is an untruthful witness, and proposes to throw out her +evidence altogether. + +We propose, on the contrary, to regard Lady Byron's evidence with all +the attention due to the statement of a high-minded conscientious +person, never in any other case accused of violation of truth; +we also propose to show it to be in strict agreement with all +well-authenticated facts and documents; and we propose to treat +Lord Byron's evidence as that of a man of great subtlety, versed in +mystification and delighting in it, and who, on many other subjects, +not only deceived, but gloried in deception; and then we propose to +show that it contradicts well-established facts and received documents. + +One thing more we have to say concerning the laws of evidence in regard +to documents presented in this investigation. + +This is not a London West-End affair, but a grave historical inquiry, +in which the whole English-speaking world are interested to know the +truth. + +As it is now too late to have the securities of a legal trial, +certainly the rules of historical evidence should be strictly +observed. All important documents should be presented in an entire +state, with a plain and open account of their history,--who had them, +where they were found, and how preserved. + +There have been most excellent, credible, and authentic documents +produced in this case; and, as a specimen of them, we shall mention +Lord Lindsay's letter, and the journal and letter it authenticates. +Lord Lindsay at once comes forward, gives his name boldly, gives the +history of the papers he produces, shows how they came to be in his +hands, why never produced before, and why now. We feel confidence at +once. + +But in regard to the important series of letters presented as Lady +Byron's, this obviously proper course has not been pursued. Though +assumed to be of the most critical importance, no such distinct history +of them was given in the first instance. The want of such evidence +being noticed by other papers, the 'Quarterly' appears hurt that the +high character of the magazine has not been a sufficient guarantee; +and still deals in vague statements that the letters have been freely +circulated, and that two noblemen of the highest character would vouch +for them if necessary. + +In our view, _it is necessary_. These noblemen should imitate Lord +Lindsay's example,--give a fair account of these letters, under +their own names; and then, we would add, it is needful for complete +satisfaction to have the letters _entire_, and not in fragments. + +The 'Quarterly' gave these letters with the evident implication that +they are entirely destructive to Lady Byron's character as a witness. +Now, has that magazine much reason to be hurt at even an insinuation on +its own character when making such deadly assaults on that of another? +The individuals who bring forth documents that they suppose to be +deadly to the character of a noble person, always in her generation +held to be eminent for virtue, certainly should not murmur at being +called upon to substantiate these documents in the manner usually +expected in historical investigations. + +We have shown that these letters do not contradict, but that they +perfectly confirm the facts, and agree with the dates in Lady Byron's +published statements of 1830; and this is our reason for deeming them +authentic. + +These considerations with regard to the manner of conducting the +inquiry seem so obviously proper, that we cannot but believe that they +will command a serious attention. + + + + +CHAPTER V. + +THE DIRECT ARGUMENT TO PROVE THE CRIME. + + +We shall now proceed to state the argument against Lord Byron. + +1st, There is direct evidence that Lord Byron was guilty of some +unusual immorality. + +The evidence is not, as the 'Blackwood' says, that Lushington yielded +assent to the _ex parte_ statement of a client; nor, as the 'Quarterly' +intimates, that he was affected by the charms of an attractive young +woman. + +The first evidence of it is the fact that Lushington and Romilly +_offered to take the case into court, and make there a public +exhibition of the proofs_ on which their convictions were founded. + +2nd, It is very strong evidence of this fact, that Lord Byron, while +loudly declaring that he wished to know with what he was charged, +_declined_ this open investigation, and, rather than meet it, signed a +paper which he had before refused to sign. + +3rd, It is also strong evidence of this fact, that although secretly +declaring to all his intimate friends that he still wished open +investigation in a court of justice, and affirming his belief that his +character was being ruined for want of it, he never afterwards took +the means to get it. Instead of writing a private handbill, he might +have come to England and entered a suit; and he did not do it. + +That Lord Byron was conscious of a great crime is further made probable +by the peculiar malice he seemed to bear to his wife's legal counsel. + +If there had been nothing to fear in that legal investigation wherewith +they threatened him, why did he not only flee from it, but regard +with a peculiar bitterness those who advised and proposed it? To an +innocent man falsely accused, the certainties of law are a blessing +and a refuge. Female charms cannot mislead in a court of justice; and +the atrocities of rumour are there sifted, and deprived of power. A +trial is not a threat to an innocent man: it is an invitation, an +opportunity. Why, then, did he hate Sir Samuel Romilly, so that he +exulted like a fiend over his tragical death? The letter in which he +pours forth this malignity was so brutal, that Moore was obliged, by +the general outcry of society, to suppress it. Is this the language of +an innocent man who has been offered a fair trial under his country's +laws? or of a guilty man, to whom the very idea of public trial means +public exposure? + +4th, It is probable that the crime was the one now alleged, because +that was the most important crime charged against him by rumour at the +period. This appears by the following extract of a letter from Shelley, +furnished by the 'Quarterly,' dated Bath, Sept. 29, 1816:-- + + 'I saw Kinnaird, and had a long talk with him. He informed me that + Lady Byron was now in perfect health; that she was living with your + sister. I felt much pleasure from this intelligence. I consider the + latter part of it as affording a decisive contradiction to the only + important calumny that ever was advanced against you. On this ground, + at least, it will become the world hereafter to be silent.' + +It appears evident here that the charge of improper intimacy with his +sister was, in the mind of Shelley, the only important one that had yet +been made against Lord Byron. + +It is fairly inferable, from Lord Byron's own statements, that his +family friends believed this charge. Lady Byron speaks, in her +statement, of 'nearest relatives' and family friends who were cognizant +of Lord Byron's strange conduct at the time of the separation; and +Lord Byron, in the letter to Bowles, before quoted, says that every +one of his relations, except his sister, fell from him in this crisis +like leaves from a tree in autumn. There was, therefore, not only +this report, but such appearances in support of it as convinced those +nearest to the scene, and best apprised of the facts; so that they +fell from him entirely, notwithstanding the strong influence of family +feeling. The Guiccioli book also mentions this same allegation as +having arisen from peculiarities in Lord Byron's manner of treating his +sister:--- + + 'This deep, fraternal affection assumed at times, under the influence + of his powerful genius, and under exceptional circumstances, an + almost too passionate expression, which opened a fresh field to his + enemies.'[46] + +[Footnote 46: 'My Recollections,' p. 238.] + +It appears, then, that there was nothing in the character of Lord +Byron and of his sister, as they appeared before their generation, +that prevented such a report from arising: on the contrary, there was +something in their relations that made it seem probable. And it appears +that his own family friends were so affected by it, that they, with +one accord, deserted him. The 'Quarterly' presents the fact that Lady +Byron went to visit Mrs. Leigh at this time, as triumphant proof that +_she_ did not then believe it. Can the 'Quarterly' show just what Lady +Byron's state of mind was, or what her motives were, in making that +visit? + +The 'Quarterly' seems to assume, that no woman, without gross +hypocrisy, can stand by a sister proven to have been guilty. We can +appeal on this subject to all women. We fearlessly ask any wife, +'Supposing your husband and sister were involved together in an +infamous crime, and that you were the mother of a young daughter whose +life would be tainted by a knowledge of that crime, what would be +your wish? Would you wish to proclaim it forthwith? or would you wish +quietly to separate from your husband, and to cover the crime from the +eye of man?' + +It has been proved that Lady Byron did not reveal this even to her +nearest relatives. It is proved that she sealed the mouths of her +counsel, and even of servants, so effectually, that they remain sealed +even to this day. This is evidence that she did not wish the thing +known. It is proved also, that, in spite of her secrecy with her +parents and friends, the rumour got out, and was spoken of by Shelley +as the _only_ important one. + +Now, let us see how this note, cited by the 'Quarterly,' confirms one +of Lady Byron's own statements. She says to Lady Anne Barnard,-- + + 'I trust you understand my wishes, which never were to injure Lord + Byron in any way; for, _though he would not suffer me to remain his + wife, he cannot prevent me from continuing his friend; and it was from + considering myself as such that I silenced the accusations by which my + own conduct might have been more fully justified_.' + +How did Lady Byron _silence accusations_? First, by keeping silence +to her nearest relatives; second, by shutting the mouths of servants; +third, by imposing silence on her friends,--as Lady Anne Barnard; +fourth, by silencing her legal counsel; fifth, and most entirely, by +treating Mrs. Leigh, before the world, with unaltered kindness. In the +midst of the rumours, Lady Byron went to visit her; and Shelley says +that the movement was effectual. Can the 'Quarterly' prove that, at +this time, Mrs. Leigh had not confessed all, and thrown herself on Lady +Byron's mercy? + +It is not necessary to suppose great horror and indignation on the +part of Lady Byron. She may have regarded her sister as the victim +of a most singularly powerful tempter. Lord Byron, as she knew, had +tried to corrupt her own morals and faith. He had obtained a power +over some women, even in the highest circles in England, which had +led them to forego the usual decorums of their sex, and had given rise +to great scandals. He was a being of wonderful personal attractions. +He had not only strong poetical, but also strong logical power. He was +daring in speculation, and vigorous in sophistical argument; beautiful, +dazzling, and possessed of magnetic power of fascination. His sister +had been kind and considerate to Lady Byron when Lord Byron was brutal +and cruel. She had been overcome by him, as a weaker nature sometimes +sinks under the force of a stronger one; and Lady Byron may really have +considered her to be more sinned against than sinning. + +Lord Byron, if we look at it rightly, did not corrupt Mrs. Leigh +any more than he did the whole British public. They rebelled at the +immorality of his conduct and the obscenity of his writings; and he +resolved that they should accept both. And he made them do it. At +first, they execrated 'Don Juan.' Murray was afraid to publish it. +Women were determined not to read it. In 1819, Dr. William Maginn of +the Noctes wrote a song against it in the following virtuous strain: + + 'Be "Juan," then, unseen, unknown; + It must, or we shall rue it. + We may have virtue of our own: + Ah! why should we undo it? + The treasured faith of days long past + We still would prize o'er any, + And grieve to hear the ribald jeer + Of scamps like Don Giovanni.' + +Lord Byron determined to conquer the virtuous scruples of the Noctes +Club; and so we find this same Dr. William Maginn, who in 1819 wrote +so valiantly, in 1822 declaring that he would rather have written a +page of 'Don Juan' than a ton of 'Childe Harold.' All English morals +were, in like manner, formally surrendered to Lord Byron. Moore details +his adulteries in Venice with unabashed particularity: artists send +for pictures of his principal mistresses; the literary world call for +biographical sketches of their points; Moore compares his wife and his +last mistress in a neatly-turned sentence; and yet the professor of +morals in Edinburgh University recommends the biography as _pure_, and +having no mud in it. The mistress is lionized in London, and in 1869 is +introduced to the world of letters by 'Blackwood,' and bid, 'without a +blush, to say she loved'-- + +This much being done to all England, it is quite possible that a woman +like Lady Byron, standing silently aside and surveying the course of +things, may have thought that Mrs. Leigh was no more seduced than all +the rest of the world, and have said as we feel disposed to say of that +generation, and of a good many in this, 'Let him that is without sin +among you cast the first stone.' + +The peculiar bitterness of remorse expressed in his works by Lord +Byron is a further evidence that he had committed an unusual crime. +We are aware that evidence cannot be drawn in this manner from an +author's works merely, if unsupported by any external probability. +For example, the subject most frequently and powerfully treated by +Hawthorne is the influence of a secret, unconfessed crime on the soul: +nevertheless, as Hawthorne is well known to have always lived a pure +and regular life, nobody has ever suspected him of any greater sin +than a vigorous imagination. But here is a man believed guilty of an +uncommon immorality by the two best lawyers in England, and threatened +with an open exposure, which he does not dare to meet. The crime is +named in society; his own relations fall away from him on account of +it; it is only set at rest by the heroic conduct of his wife. Now, this +man is stated by many of his friends to have had all the appearance of +a man secretly labouring under the consciousness of crime. Moore speaks +of this propensity in the following language:-- + + 'I have known him more than once, as we sat together after dinner, + and he was a little under the influence of wine, to fall seriously + into this dark, self-accusing mood, and throw out hints of his past + life with an air of gloom and mystery designed evidently to awaken + curiosity and interest.' + +Moore says that it was his own custom to dispel these appearances by +ridicule, to which his friend was keenly alive. And he goes on to say,-- + + 'It has sometimes occurred to me, that the occult causes of his lady's + separation from him, round which herself and her legal advisers have + thrown such formidable mystery, may have been nothing more than some + imposture of this kind, some dimly-hinted confession of undefined + horror, which, though intended by the relater to mystify and surprise, + the hearer so little understood as to take in sober seriousness.'[47] + +[Footnote 47: Vol. vi. p. 212.] + +All we have to say is, that Lord Byron's conduct in this respect +is exactly what might have been expected if he had a crime on his +conscience. + +The energy of remorse and despair expressed in 'Manfred' were so +appalling and so vividly _personal_, that the belief was universal on +the Continent that the experience was wrought out of some actual crime. +Goethe expressed this idea, and had heard a murder imputed to Byron as +the cause. + +The allusion to the crime and consequences of incest is so plain in +'Manfred,' that it is astonishing that any one can pretend, as Galt +does, that it had any other application. + +The hero speaks of the love between himself and the imaginary being +whose spirit haunts him as having been the _deadliest sin_, and one +that has, perhaps, caused her eternal destruction. + + 'What is she now? A sufferer for my sins; + A thing I dare not think upon.' + +He speaks of her blood as haunting him, and as being + + '_My_ blood,--the pure, warm stream + That ran in the veins of _my_ fathers, and in _ours_ + When we were in our youth, and had one heart, + And loved each other as we should not love.' + +This work was conceived in the commotion of mind immediately following +his separation. The scenery of it was sketched in a journal sent to his +sister at the time. + +In letter 377, defending the originality of the conception, and showing +that it did not arise from reading 'Faust,' he says,-- + + 'It was the Steinbach and the Jungfrau, and something else, more than + Faustus, that made me write "Manfred."' + +In letter 288, speaking of the various accounts given by critics of the +origin of the story, he says,-- + + 'The conjecturer is out, and knows nothing of the matter. I had a + better origin than he could devise or divine for the soul of him.' + +In letter 299, he says:-- + + 'As to the germs of "Manfred," they may be found in the journal I sent + to Mrs. Leigh, part of which you saw.' + +It may be said, plausibly, that Lord Byron, if conscious of this crime, +would not have expressed it in his poetry. But his nature was such +that he could not help it. Whatever he wrote that had any real power +was generally wrought out of self; and, when in a tumult of emotion, +he could not help giving glimpses of the cause. It appears that he +did know that he had been accused of incest, and that Shelley thought +_that_ accusation the only really important one; and yet, sensitive as +he was to blame and reprobation, he ran upon this very subject most +likely to re-awaken scandal. + +But Lord Byron's strategy was always of the bold kind. It was the +plan of the fugitive, who, instead of running away, stations himself +so near to danger, that nobody would ever think of looking for him +there. He published passionate verses to his sister on this principle. +He imitated the security of an innocent man in every thing but the +unconscious energy of the agony which seized him when he gave vent to +his nature in poetry. The boldness of his strategy is evident through +all his life. He began by charging his wife with the very cruelty and +deception which he was himself practising. He had spread a net for her +feet, and he accused her of spreading a net for his. He had placed +her in a position where she could not speak, and then leisurely shot +arrows at her; and he represented her as having done the same by him. +When he attacked her in 'Don Juan,' and strove to take from her the +very protection[48] of womanly sacredness by putting her name into the +mouth of every ribald, he did a bold thing, and he knew it. He meant to +do a bold thing. There was a general outcry against it; and he fought +it down, and gained his point. By sheer boldness and perseverance, +he turned the public _from_ his wife, and _to_ himself, in the face +of their very groans and protests. His 'Manfred' and his 'Cain' were +parts of the same game. But the involuntary cry of remorse and despair +pierced even through his own artifices, in a manner that produced a +conviction of reality. + +[Footnote 48: The reader is here referred to the remarks of 'Blackwood' +on 'Don Juan' in Part III.] + +His evident fear and hatred of his wife were other symptoms of crime. +There was no apparent occasion for him to hate her. He admitted that +she had been bright, amiable, good, agreeable; that her marriage had +been a very uncomfortable one; and he said to Madame de Stael, that +he did not doubt she thought him deranged. Why, then, did he hate her +for wanting to live peaceably by herself? Why did he so fear her, that +not one year of his life passed without his concocting and circulating +some public or private accusation against her? She, by his own showing, +published none against him. It is remarkable, that, in all his zeal to +represent himself injured, he nowhere quotes a single remark from Lady +Byron, nor a story coming either directly or indirectly from her or her +family. He is in a fever in Venice, not from what she has spoken, but +because she has sealed the lips of her counsel, and because she and her +family do not speak: so that he professes himself utterly ignorant what +form her allegations against him may take. He had heard from Shelley +that his wife silenced the most important calumny by going to make Mrs. +Leigh a visit; and yet he is afraid of her,--so afraid, that he tells +Moore he expects she will attack him after death, and charges him to +defend his grave. + +Now, if Lord Byron knew that his wife had a deadly secret that she +could tell, all this conduct is explicable: it is in the ordinary +course of human nature. Men always distrust those who hold facts +by which they can be ruined. They fear them; they are antagonistic +to them; they cannot trust them. The feeling of Falkland to Caleb +Williams, as portrayed in Godwin's masterly sketch, is perfectly +natural, and it is exactly illustrative of what Byron felt for his +wife. He hated her for having his secret; and, so far as a human being +could do it, he tried to destroy her character before the world, that +she might not have the power to testify against him. If we admit this +solution, Byron's conduct is at least that of a man who is acting as +men ordinarily would act under such circumstances: if we do not, he +is acting like a fiend. Let us look at admitted facts. He married his +wife without love, in a gloomy, melancholy, morose state of mind. The +servants testify to strange, unaccountable treatment of her immediately +after marriage; such that her confidential maid advises her return to +her parents. In Lady Byron's letter to Mrs. Leigh, she reminds Lord +Byron that he always expressed a desire and determination to free +himself from the marriage. Lord Byron himself admits to Madame de +Stael that his behaviour was such, that his wife must have thought him +insane. Now we are asked to believe, that simply because, under these +circumstances, Lady Byron wished to live separate from her husband, he +hated and feared her so that he could never let her alone afterwards; +that he charged her with malice, slander, deceit, and deadly intentions +against himself, merely out of spite, because she preferred not to live +with him. This last view of the case certainly makes Lord Byron more +unaccountably wicked than the other. + +The first supposition shows him to us as a man in an agony of +self-preservation; the second as a fiend, delighting in gratuitous +deceit and cruelty. + +Again: a presumption of this crime appears in Lord Byron's admission, +in a letter to Moore, that he had an illegitimate child born before he +left England, and still living at the time. + +In letter 307, to Mr. Moore, under date Venice, Feb. 2, 1818, Byron +says, speaking of Moore's loss of a child,-- + + 'I know how to feel with you, because I am quite wrapped up in my own + children. Besides my little legitimate, I have made unto myself an + illegitimate since [since Ada's birth] _to say nothing of one before_; + and I look forward to one of these as the pillar of my old age, + supposing that I ever reach, as I hope I never shall, that desolating + period.' + +The illegitimate child that he had made to himself since Ada's birth +was Allegra, born about nine or ten months after the separation. The +other illegitimate alluded to was born before, and, as the reader sees, +was spoken of as still living. + +Moore appears to be puzzled to know who this child can be, and +conjectures that it may possibly be the child referred to in an early +poem, written, while a schoolboy of nineteen, at Harrow. + +On turning back to the note referred to, we find two things: first, +that the child there mentioned was not claimed by Lord Byron as his +own, but that he asked his mother to care for it as belonging to a +schoolmate now dead; second, that the infant died shortly after, and, +consequently, could not be the child mentioned in this letter. + +Now, besides this fact, that Lord Byron admitted a living illegitimate +child born before Ada, we place this other fact, that there was a +child in England which was believed to be his by those who had every +opportunity of knowing. + +On this subject we shall cite a passage from a letter recently received +by us from England, and written by a person who appears well informed +on the subject of his letter:-- + + 'The fact is, the incest was first committed, and the child of it born + _before_, shortly before, the Byron marriage. The child (a daughter) + must not be confounded with the natural daughter of Lord Byron, born + about a year after his separation. + + 'The history, more or less, of that child of incest, is known to many; + for in Lady Byron's attempts to watch over her, and rescue her from + ruin, she was compelled to employ various agents at different times.' + +This letter contains a full recognition, by an intelligent person in +England, of a child corresponding well with Lord Byron's declaration of +an illegitimate, born before he left England. + +Up to this point, we have, then, the circumstantial evidence against +Lord Byron as follows:-- + +A good and amiable woman, who had married him from love, determined to +separate from him. + +Two of the greatest lawyers of England confirmed her in this decision, +and threatened Lord Byron, that, unless he consented to this, they +would expose the evidence against him in a suit for divorce. He fled +from this exposure, and never afterwards sought public investigation. + +He was angry with and malicious towards the counsel who supported his +wife; he was angry at and afraid of a wife who did nothing to injure +him, and he made it a special object to defame and degrade her. He gave +such evidence of remorse and fear in his writings as to lead eminent +literary men to believe he had committed a great crime. The public +rumour of his day specified what the crime was. His relations, by his +own showing, joined against him. The report was silenced by his wife's +efforts only. Lord Byron subsequently declares the existence of an +illegitimate child, born before he left England. Corresponding to this, +there is the history, known in England, of a child believed to be his, +in whom his wife took an interest. + +All these presumptions exist independently of any direct testimony from +Lady Byron. They are to be admitted as true, whether she says a word +one way or the other. + +From this background of proof, I come forward, and testify to an +interview with Lady Byron, in which she gave me specific information +of the facts in the case. That I report the facts just as I received +them from her, not altered or misremembered, is shown by the testimony +of my sister, to whom I related them at the time. It cannot, then, be +denied that I had this interview, and that this communication was made. +I therefore testify that Lady Byron, for a proper purpose, and at a +proper time, stated to me the following things:-- + +1. That the crime which separated her from Lord Byron was incest. 2. +That she first discovered it by improper actions towards his sister, +which, he _meant_ to make her understand, indicated the guilty +relation. 3. That he admitted it, reasoned on it, defended it, tried to +make her an accomplice, and, failing in that, hated her and expelled +her. 4. That he threatened her that he would make it his life's object +to destroy her character. 5. That for a period she was led to regard +this conduct as insanity, and to consider him only as a diseased +person. 6. That she had subsequent proof that the facts were really as +she suspected; that there had been a child born of the crime, whose +history she knew; that Mrs. Leigh had repented. + +The purpose for which this was stated to me was to ask, Was it her duty +to make the truth fully known during her lifetime? + +Here, then, is a man believed guilty of an unusual crime by two +lawyers, the best in England, who have seen the evidence,--a man who +dares not meet legal investigation. The crime is named in society, and +deemed so far probable to the men of his generation as to be spoken +of by Shelley as the only important allegation against him. He acts +through life exactly like a man struggling with remorse, and afraid +of detection; he has all the restlessness and hatred and fear that a +man has who feels that there is evidence which might destroy him. He +admits an illegitimate child besides Allegra. A child believed to have +been his is known to many in England. Added to all this, his widow, +now advanced in years, and standing on the borders of eternity, being, +as appears by her writings and conversation, of perfectly sound mind +at the time, testifies to me the facts before named, which exactly +correspond to probabilities. + +I publish the statement; and the solicitors who hold Lady Byron's +private papers do not deny the truth of the story. They try to cast +discredit on me for speaking; but they do not say that I have spoken +falsely, or that the story is not true. The lawyer who knew Lady +Byron's story in 1816 does not now deny that this is the true one. +Several persons in England testify that, at various times, and for +various purposes, the same story has been told to them. Moreover, it +appears from my last letter addressed to Lady Byron on this subject, +that I recommended her to leave _all necessary papers_ in the hands +of some discreet persons, who, after _both_ had passed away, should +see that justice was done. The solicitors admit that Lady Byron _has_ +left sealed papers of great importance in the hands of trustees, with +discretionary power. I have been informed very directly that the nature +of these documents was such as to lead to the suppression of Lady +Byron's life and writings. This is all exactly as it would be, if the +story related by Lady Byron were the true one. + +The evidence under this point of view is so strong, that a great effort +has been made to throw out Lady Byron's testimony. + +This attempt has been made on two grounds. 1st, That she was under a +mental hallucination. This theory has been most ably refuted by the +very first authority in England upon the subject. He says,-- + + 'No person practically acquainted with the true characteristics of + insanity would affirm, that, had this idea of "incest" been an insane + hallucination, Lady Byron could, from the lengthened period which + intervened between her unhappy marriage and death, have refrained + from exhibiting it, not only to legal advisers and trustees (assuming + that she revealed to them the fact), but to others, exacting no + pledge of secrecy from them as to her mental impressions. Lunatics + do for a time, and for some special purpose, most cunningly conceal + their delusions; but they have not the capacity to struggle for + thirty-six years, as Lady Byron must have done, with so frightful an + hallucination, without the insane state of mind becoming obvious to + those with whom they are daily associating. Neither is it consistent + with experience to suppose, that, if Lady Byron had been a monomaniac, + her state of disordered understanding would have been restricted to + one hallucination. Her diseased brain, affecting the normal action of + thought, would, in all probability, have manifested other symptoms + besides those referred to of aberration of intellect. + + 'During the last thirty years, I have not met with a case of insanity + (assuming the hypothesis of hallucination) at all parallel with that + of Lady Byron. In my experience, it is unique. I never saw a patient + with such a delusion.' + +We refer our readers to a careful study of Dr. Forbes Winslow's +consideration of this subject given in Part III. Anyone who has been +familiar with the delicacy and acuteness of Dr. Winslow, as shown in +his work on obscure diseases of the brain and nerves, must feel that +his positive assertion on this ground is the best possible evidence. +We here gratefully acknowledge our obligations to Dr. Winslow for +the corrected proof of his valuable letter, which he has done us the +honour to send for this work. We shall consider that his argument, +in connection with what the reader may observe of Lady Byron's own +writings, closes that issue of the case completely. + +The other alternative is, that Lady Byron deliberately committed false +witness. This was the ground assumed by the 'Blackwood,' when in July, +1869, it took upon itself the responsibility of re-opening the Byron +controversy. It is also the ground assumed by 'The London Quarterly' of +to-day. + +Both say, in so many words, that no crime was imputed to Lord Byron; +that the representations made to Lushington in the beginning were false +ones; and that the story told to Lady Byron's confidential friends in +later days was also false. + +Let us examine this theory. In the first place, it requires us to +believe in the existence of a moral monster of whom Madame Brinvilliers +is cited as the type. The 'Blackwood,' let it be remembered, opens +the controversy with the statement that Lady Byron was a Madame +Brinvilliers. The 'Quarterly' does not shrink from the same assumption. + +Let us consider the probability of this question. + +If Lady Byron were such a woman, and wished to ruin her husband's +reputation in order to save her own, and, being perfectly unscrupulous, +had circulated against him a story of unnatural crime which had no +proofs, how came two of the first lawyers of England to assume the +responsibility of offering to present her case in open court? How +came her husband, if he knew himself guiltless, to shrink from that +public investigation which must have demonstrated his innocence? Most +astonishing of all, when he fled from trial, and the report got abroad +against him in England, and was believed even by his own relations, +why did not his wife avail herself of the moment to complete her +victory? If at that moment she had publicly broken with Mrs. Leigh, +she might have confirmed every rumour. Did she do it? and why not? +According to the 'Blackwood,' we have here a woman who has made up a +frightful story to ruin her husband's reputation, yet who takes every +pains afterwards to prevent its being ruined. She fails to do the very +thing she undertakes; and for years after, rather than injure him, she +loses public sympathy, and, by sealing the lips of her legal counsel, +deprives herself of the advantage of their testimony. + +Moreover, if a desire for revenge could have been excited in her, +it would have been provoked by the first publication of the fourth +canto of 'Childe Harold,' when she felt that Byron was attacking her +before the world. Yet we have Lady Anne Barnard's testimony, that, +at this time, she was so far from wishing to injure him, that all her +communications were guarded by cautious secrecy. At this time, also, +she had a strong party in England, to whom she could have appealed. +Again: when 'Don Juan' was first printed, it excited a violent +re-action against Lord Byron. Had his wife chosen _then_ to accuse +him, and display the evidence she had shown to her counsel, there is +little doubt that all the world would have stood with her; but she did +not. After his death, when she spoke at last, there seems little doubt +from the strength of Dr. Lushington's language, that Lady Byron had a +very strong case, and that, had she been willing, her counsel could +have told much more than he did. She might _then_ have told her whole +story, and been believed. Her word was believed by Christopher North, +and accepted as proof that Byron had been a great criminal. Had revenge +been her motive, she could have spoken the ONE WORD more that +North called for. + +The 'Quarterly' asks why she waited till everybody concerned was dead. +There is an obvious answer. Because, while there was anybody living +to whom the testimony would have been utterly destructive, there were +the best reasons for withholding it. When all were gone from earth, +and she herself was in constant expectation of passing away, there +_was_ a reason, and a proper one, why she should speak. By nature and +principle truthful, she had had the opportunity of silently watching +the operation of a permitted lie upon a whole generation. She had been +placed in a position in which it was necessary, by silence, to allow +the spread and propagation through society of a radical falsehood. Lord +Byron's life, fame, and genius had all struck their roots into this +lie, been nourished by it, and had derived thence a poisonous power. + +In reading this history, it will be remarked that he pleaded his +personal misfortunes in his marriage as excuses for every offence +against morality, and that the literary world of England accepted +the plea, and tolerated and justified the crimes. Never before, in +England, had adultery been spoken of in so respectful a manner, and +an adulteress openly praised and _feted_, and obscene language and +licentious images publicly tolerated; and all on the plea of a man's +private misfortunes. + +There was, therefore, great force in the suggestion made to Lady +Byron, that she owed a testimony in this case to truth and justice, +irrespective of any personal considerations. There is no more real +reason for allowing the spread of a hurtful falsehood that affects +ourselves than for allowing one that affects our neighbour. This +falsehood had corrupted the literature and morals of both England and +America, and led to the public toleration, by respectable authorities, +of forms of vice at first indignantly rejected. The question was, +Was this falsehood to go on corrupting literature as long as history +lasted? Had the world no right to true history? Had she who possessed +the truth no responsibility to the world? Was not a final silence a +confirmation of a lie with all its consequences? + +This testimony of Lady Byron, so far from being thrown out altogether, +as the 'Quarterly' proposes, has a peculiar and specific value from the +great forbearance and reticence which characterised the greater part of +her life. + +The testimony of a person who has shown in every action perfect +friendliness to another comes with the more weight on that account. +Testimony extorted by conscience from a parent against a child, or a +wife against a husband, where all the other actions of the life prove +the existence of kind feeling, is held to be the strongest form of +evidence. + +The fact that Lady Byron, under the severest temptations and the +bitterest insults and injuries, withheld every word by which Lord +Byron could be criminated, so long as he and his sister were living, +is strong evidence, that, when she did speak, it was not under the +influence of ill-will, but of pure conscientious convictions; and the +fullest weight ought, therefore, to be given to her testimony. + +We are asked now why she ever spoke at all. The fact that her story +is known to several persons in England is brought up as if it were a +crime. To this we answer, Lady Byron had an undoubted moral right to +have exposed the whole story in a public court in 1816, and thus cut +herself loose from her husband by a divorce. For the sake of saving +her husband and sister from destruction, she waived this right to +self-justification, and stood for years a silent sufferer under calumny +and misrepresentation. She desired nothing but to retire from the +whole subject; to be permitted to enjoy with her child the peace and +seclusion that belong to her sex. Her husband made her, through his +life and after his death, a subject of such constant discussion, that +she must either abandon the current literature of her day, or run the +risk of reading more or less about herself in almost every magazine +of her time. Conversations with Lord Byron, notes of interviews with +Lord Byron, journals of time spent with Lord Byron, were constantly +spread before the public. Leigh Hunt, Galt, Medwin, Trelawney, Lady +Blessington, Dr. Kennedy, and Thomas Moore, all poured forth their +memorials; and in all she figured prominently. All these had their +tribes of reviewers and critics, who also discussed her. The profound +mystery of her silence seemed constantly to provoke inquiry. People +could not forgive her for not speaking. Her privacy, retirement, +and silence were set down as coldness, haughtiness, and contempt +of human sympathy. She was constantly challenged to say something: +as, for example, in the 'Noctes' of November 1825, six months after +Byron's death, Christopher North says, speaking of the burning of the +Autobiography,-- + + 'I think, since the Memoir was burned by these people, these people + are bound to put us in possession of the best evidence they still + have the power of producing, in order that we may come to a just + conclusion as to a subject upon which, by their act, at least, as much + as by any other people's act, we are compelled to consider it our duty + to make up our deliberate opinion,--deliberate and decisive. Woe be + to those who provoke this curiosity, and will not allay it! Woe be to + them! say I. Woe to them! says the world.' + +When Lady Byron published her statement, which certainly seemed called +for by this language, Christopher North blamed her for doing it, and +then again said that she ought to go on and tell the whole story. If +she was thus adjured to speak, blamed for speaking, and adjured to +speak further, all in one breath, by public prints, there is reason to +think that there could not have come less solicitation from private +sources,--from friends who had access to her at all hours, whom she +loved, by whom she was beloved, and to whom her refusal to explain +might seem a breach of friendship. Yet there is no evidence on record, +that we have seen, that she ever had other confidant than her legal +counsel, till after all the actors in the events were in their graves, +and the daughter, for whose sake largely the secret was guarded, had +followed them. + +Now, does anyone claim, that, because a woman has sacrificed for twenty +years all cravings for human sympathy, and all possibility of perfectly +free and unconstrained intercourse with her friends, that she is +obliged to go on bearing this same lonely burden to the end of her days? + +Let anyone imagine the frightful constraint and solitude implied in +this sentence. Let anyone, too, think of its painful complications in +life. The roots of a falsehood are far-reaching. Conduct that can only +be explained by criminating another must often seem unreasonable and +unaccountable; and the most truthful person, who feels bound to keep +silence regarding a radical lie of another, must often be placed in +positions most trying to conscientiousness. The great merit of 'Caleb +Williams' as a novel consists in its philosophical analysis of the +utter helplessness of an innocent person who agrees to keep the secret +of a guilty one. One sees there how that necessity of silence produces +all the effect of falsehood on his part, and deprives him of the +confidence and sympathy of those with whom he would take refuge. + +For years, this unnatural life was forced on Lady Byron, involving her +as in a network, even in her dearest family relations. + +That, when all the parties were dead, Lady Byron should allow herself +the sympathy of a circle of intimate friends, is something so perfectly +proper and natural, that we cannot but wonder that her conduct in this +respect has ever been called in question. If it was her right to have +had a public _expose_ in 1816, it was certainly her right to show to +her own intimate circle the secret of her life when all the principal +actors were passed from earth. + +The 'Quarterly' speaks as if, by thus waiting, she deprived Lord Byron +of the testimony of living witnesses. But there were as many witnesses +and partisans dead on her side as on his. Lady Milbanke and Sir Ralph, +Sir Samuel Romilly and Lady Anne Barnard were as much dead as Hobhouse, +Moore, and others of Byron's partisans. + +The 'Quarterly' speaks of Lady Byron as 'running round, and repeating +her story to people mostly below her own rank in life.' + +To those who know the personal dignity of Lady Byron's manners, +represented and dwelt on by her husband in his conversations with Lady +Blessington, this coarse and vulgar attack only proves the poverty of a +cause which can defend itself by no better weapons. + +Lord Byron speaks of his wife as 'highly cultivated;' as having 'a +degree of self-control I never saw equalled.' + + 'I am certain,' he says, 'that Lady Byron's first idea is what is due + to herself: I mean that it is the undeviating rule of her conduct.... + Now, my besetting sin is a want of that self-respect which she + has in excess.... But, though I accuse Lady Byron of an excess of + self-respect, I must, in candour, admit, that, if any person ever had + excuse for an extraordinary portion of it, she has; as, in all her + thoughts, words, and actions, she is the most decorous woman that ever + existed.' + +This is the kind of woman who has lately been accused in the public +prints as a babbler of secrets and a gossip in regard to her private +difficulties with children, grandchildren, and servants. It is a fair +specimen of the justice that has generally been meted out to Lady Byron. + +In 1836, she was accused of having made a confidant of Campbell, on +the strength of having written him a note _declining_ to give him any +information, or answer any questions. In July, 1869, she was denounced +by 'Blackwood' as a Madame Brinvilliers for keeping such perfect +silence on the matter of her husband's character; and in the last +'Quarterly' she is spoken of as a gossip 'running round, and repeating +her story to people below her in rank.' + +While we are upon this subject, we have a suggestion to make. John +Stuart Mill says that utter self-abnegation has been preached to women +as a peculiarly feminine virtue. It is true; but there is a moral limit +to the value of self-abnegation. + +It is a fair question for the moralist, whether it is right and proper +wholly to ignore one's personal claims to justice. The teachings of +the Saviour give us warrant for submitting to personal injuries; but +both the Saviour and St. Paul manifested bravery in denying false +accusations, and asserting innocence. + +Lady Byron was falsely accused of having ruined _the_ man of his +generation, and caused all his vices and crimes, and all their evil +effects on society. She submitted to the accusation for a certain +number of years for reasons which commended themselves to her +conscience; but when all the personal considerations were removed, and +she was about passing from life, it was right, it was just, it was +strictly in accordance with the philosophical and ethical character +of her mind, and with her habit of considering all things in their +widest relations to the good of mankind, that she should give serious +attention and consideration to the last duty which she might owe to +abstract truth and justice in her generation. + +In her letter on the religious state of England, we find her advocating +an absolute frankness in all religious parties. She would have all +openly confess those doubts, which, from the best of motives, are +usually suppressed; and believed, that, as a result of such perfect +truthfulness, a wider love would prevail among Christians. This shows +the strength of her conviction of the power and the importance of +absolute truth; and shows, therefore, that her doubts and conscientious +inquiries respecting her duty on this subject are exactly what might +have been expected from a person of her character and principles. + +Having thus shown that Lady Byron's testimony is the testimony of a +woman of strong and sound mind, that it was not given from malice nor +ill-will, that it was given at a proper time and in a proper manner, +and for a purpose in accordance with the most elevated moral views, and +that it is coincident with all the established facts of this history, +and furnishes a perfect solution of every mystery of the case, we think +we shall carry the reader with us in saying that it is to be received +as absolute truth. + +This conviction we arrive at while as yet we are deprived of the +statement prepared by Lady Byron, and the proof by which she expected +to sustain it; both which, as we understand, are now in the hands of +her trustees. + + + + +CHAPTER VI. + +PHYSIOLOGICAL ARGUMENT. + + +The credibility of the accusation of the unnatural crime charged to +Lord Byron is greater than if charged to most men. He was born of +parents both of whom were remarkable for perfectly ungoverned passions. +There appears to be historical evidence that he was speaking literal +truth when he says to Medwin of his father,-- + + 'He would have made a bad hero for Hannah More. He ran out three + fortunes, and married or ran away with three women.... He seemed born + for his own ruin and that of the other sex. He began by seducing + Lady Carmarthen, and spent her four thousand pounds; and, not + content with one adventure of this kind, afterwards eloped with Miss + Gordon.'--_Medwin's Conversations_, p. 31. + +Lady Carmarthen here spoken of was the mother of Mrs. Leigh. Miss +Gordon became Lord Byron's mother. + +By his own account, and that of Moore, she was a passionate, +ungoverned, though affectionate woman. Lord Byron says to Medwin,-- + + 'I lost my father when I was only six years of age. My mother, when + she was in a passion with me (and I gave her cause enough), used to + say, "O you little dog! you are a Byron all over, you are as bad as + your father!"'--_Ibid._, p. 31. + +By all the accounts of his childhood and early youth, it is made +apparent that ancestral causes had sent him into the world with a most +perilous and exceptional sensitiveness of brain and nervous system, +which it would have required the most judicious course of education to +direct safely and happily. + +Lord Byron often speaks as if he deemed himself subject to tendencies +which might terminate in insanity. The idea is so often mentioned +and dwelt upon in his letters, journals, and conversations, that we +cannot but ascribe it to some very peculiar experience, and not to mere +affectation. + +But, in the history of his early childhood and youth, we see no +evidence of any original malformation of nature. We see only evidence +of one of those organisations, full of hope and full of peril, +which adverse influences might easily drive to insanity, but wise +physiological training and judicious moral culture might have guided +to the most splendid results. But of these he had neither. He was +alternately the pet and victim of his mother's tumultuous nature, +and equally injured both by her love and her anger. A Scotch maid of +religious character gave him early serious impressions of religion, and +thus added the element of an awakened conscience to the conflicting +ones of his character. + +Education, in the proper sense of the word, did not exist in England in +those days. Physiological considerations of the influence of the body +on the soul, of the power of brain and nerve over moral development, +had then not even entered the general thought of society. The school +and college education literally taught him nothing but the ancient +classics, of whose power in exciting and developing the animal passions +Byron often speaks. + +The morality of the times is strikingly exemplified even in its +literary criticism. + +For example: One of Byron's poems, written while a schoolboy at Harrow, +is addressed to 'My Son.' Mr. Moore, and the annotator of the standard +edition of Byron's poems, gravely give the public their speculations on +the point, whether Lord Byron first became a father while a schoolboy +at Harrow; and go into particulars in relation to a certain infant, the +claim to which lay between Lord Byron and another schoolfellow. It is +not the nature of the event itself, so much as the cool, unembarrassed +manner in which it is discussed, that gives the impression of the +state of public morals. There is no intimation of anything unusual, or +discreditable to the school, in the event, and no apparent suspicion +that it will be regarded as a serious imputation on Lord Byron's +character. + +Modern physiological developments would lead any person versed in +the study of the reciprocal influence of physical and moral laws to +anticipate the most serious danger to such an organisation as Lord +Byron's, from a precocious development of the passions. Alcoholic and +narcotic stimulants, in the case of such a person, would be regarded as +little less than suicidal, and an early course of combined drinking +and licentiousness as tending directly to establish those unsound +conditions which lead towards moral insanity. Yet not only Lord Byron's +testimony, but every probability from the licence of society, goes to +show that this was exactly what did take place. + +Neither restrained by education, nor warned by any correct +physiological knowledge, nor held in check by any public sentiment, he +drifted directly upon the fatal rock. + +Here we give Mr. Moore full credit for all his abatements in regard +to Lord Byron's excesses in his early days. Moore makes the point +very strongly that he was not, _de facto_, even so bad as many of his +associates; and we agree with him. Byron's physical organisation was +originally as fine and sensitive as that of the most delicate woman. +He possessed the faculty of moral ideality in a high degree; and +he had not, in the earlier part of his life, an attraction towards +mere brutal vice. His physical sensitiveness was so remarkable that +he says of himself, 'A dose of salts has the effect of a temporary +inebriation, like light champagne, upon me.' Yet this exceptionally +delicately-organised boy and youth was in a circle where not to conform +to the coarse drinking-customs of his day was to incur censure and +ridicule. That he early acquired the power of bearing large quantities +of liquor is manifested by the record in his Journal, that, on the day +when he read the severe 'Edinburgh' article upon his schoolboy poems, +he drank three bottles of claret at a sitting. + +Yet Byron was so far superior to his times, that some vague impulses to +physiological prudence seem to have suggested themselves to him, and +been acted upon with great vigour. He never could have lived so long +as he did, under the exhaustive process of every kind of excess, if he +had not re-enforced his physical nature by an assiduous care of his +muscular system. He took boxing-lessons, and distinguished himself in +all athletic exercises. + +He also had periods in which he seemed to try vaguely to retrieve +himself from dissipation, and to acquire self-mastery by what he called +temperance. + +But, ignorant and excessive in all his movements, his very efforts +at temperance were intemperate. From violent excesses in eating +and drinking, he would pass to no less unnatural periods of utter +abstinence. Thus the very conservative power which Nature has of +adapting herself to any _settled_ course was lost. The extreme +sensitiveness produced by long periods of utter abstinence made the +succeeding debauch more maddening and fatal. He was like a fine musical +instrument, whose strings were every day alternating between extreme +tension and perfect laxity. We have in his Journal many passages, of +which the following is a specimen:-- + + 'I have dined regularly to-day, for the first time since Sunday last; + this being Sabbath too,--all the rest, tea and dry biscuits, six _per + diem_. I wish to God I had not dined, now! It kills me with heaviness, + stupor, and horrible dreams; and yet it was but a pint of bucellas, + and fish. Meat I never touch, nor much vegetable diet. I wish I were + in the country, to take exercise, instead of being obliged to _cool_ + by abstinence, in lieu of it. I should not so much mind a little + accession of flesh: my bones can well bear it. But the worst is, the + Devil always came with it, till I starved him out; and I will _not_ + be the slave of _any_ appetite. If I do err, it shall be my heart, at + least, that heralds the way. O my head! how it aches! The horrors of + digestion! I wonder how Bonaparte's dinner agrees with him.'--_Moore's + Life_, vol. ii. p. 264. + +From all the contemporary history and literature of the times, +therefore, we have reason to believe that Lord Byron spoke the exact +truth when he said to Medwin,-- + + 'My own master at an age when I most required a guide, left to the + dominion of my passions when they were the strongest, with a fortune + anticipated before I came into possession of it, and a constitution + impaired by early excesses, I commenced my travels, in 1809, + with a joyless indifference to the world and all that was before + me.'--_Medwin's Conversations_, p. 42. + +Utter prostration of the whole physical man from intemperate excess, +the deadness to temptation which comes from utter exhaustion, was his +condition, according to himself and Moore, when he first left England, +at twenty-one years of age. + +In considering his subsequent history, we are to take into account +that it was upon the brain and nerve-power, thus exhausted by early +excess, that the draughts of sudden and rapid literary composition +began to be made. There was something unnatural and unhealthy in the +rapidity, clearness, and vigour with which his various works followed +each other. Subsequently to the first two cantos of 'Childe Harold,' +'The Bride of Abydos,' 'The Corsair,' 'The Giaour,' 'Lara,' 'Parisina,' +and 'The Siege of Corinth,' all followed close upon each other, in a +space of less than three years, and those the three most critical years +of his life. 'The Bride of Abydos' came out in the autumn of 1813, +and was written in a week; and 'The Corsair' was composed in thirteen +days. A few months more than a year before his marriage, and the brief +space of his married life, was the period in which all this literary +labour was performed, while yet he was running the wild career of +intrigue and fashionable folly. He speaks of 'Lara' as being tossed +off in the intervals between masquerades and balls, &c. It is with the +physical results of such unnatural efforts that we have now chiefly +to do. Every physiologist would say that the demands of such poems on +a healthy brain, in that given space, must have been exhausting; but +when we consider that they were cheques drawn on a bank broken by early +extravagance, and that the subject was prodigally spending vital forces +in every other direction at the same time, one can scarcely estimate +the physiological madness of such a course as Lord Byron's. + +It is evident from his Journal, and Moore's account, that any amount +of physical force which was for the time restored by his first foreign +travel was recklessly spent in this period, when he threw himself with +a mad recklessness into London society in the time just preceding +his marriage. The revelations made in Moore's Memoir of this period +are sad enough: those to Medwin are so appalling as to the state of +contemporary society in England, as to require, at least, the benefit +of the doubt for which Lord Byron's habitual carelessness of truth gave +scope. His adventures with ladies of the highest rank in England are +there paraded with a freedom of detail that respect for womanhood must +lead every woman to question. The only thing that is unquestionable +is, that Lord Byron made these assertions to Medwin, not as remorseful +confessions, but as relations of his _bonnes fortunes_, and that Medwin +published them in the very face of the society to which they related. + +When Lord Byron says, 'I have seen a great deal of Italian society, and +swum in a gondola; but nothing could equal the profligacy of high life +in England ... when I knew it,' he makes certainly strong assertions, +if we remember what Mr. Moore reveals of the harem kept in Venice. + +But when Lord Byron intimates that three married women in his own +rank in life, who had once held illicit relations with him, made +wedding-visits to his wife at one time, we must hope that he drew on +his active imagination, as he often did, in his statements in regard to +women. + +When he relates at large his amour with Lord Melbourne's wife, and +represents her as pursuing him with an insane passion, to which he with +difficulty responded; and when he says that she tracked a rival lady +to his lodgings, and came into them herself, disguised as a carman--one +_hopes_ that he exaggerates. And what are we to make of passages like +this?-- + + 'There was a lady at that time, double my own age, the mother of + several children who were perfect angels, with whom I formed a + _liaison_ that continued without interruption for eight months. She + told me she was never in love till she was thirty, and I thought + myself so with her when she was forty. I never felt a stronger + passion, which she returned with equal ardour.... + + 'Strange as it may seem, she gained, as all women do, an influence + over me so strong that I had great difficulty in breaking with her.' + +Unfortunately, these statements, though probably exaggerated, are, for +substance, borne out in the history of the times. With every possible +abatement for exaggeration in these statements, there remains still +undoubted evidence from other sources that Lord Byron exercised a most +peculiar and fatal power over the moral sense of the women with whom he +was brought in relation; and that love for him, in many women, became +a sort of insanity, depriving them of the just use of their faculties. +All this makes his fatal history both possible and probable. + +Even the article in 'Blackwood,' written in 1825 for the express +purpose of vindicating his character, admits that his name had been +coupled with those of three, four, or more women of rank, whom it +speaks of as 'licentious, unprincipled, characterless women.' + +That such a course, in connection with alternate extremes of excess +and abstinence in eating and drinking, and the immense draughts on +the brain-power of rapid and brilliant composition, should have ended +in that abnormal state in which cravings for unnatural vice give +indications of approaching brain-disease, seems only too probable. + +This symptom of exhausted vitality becomes often a frequent type in +periods of very corrupt society. The dregs of the old Greek and Roman +civilisation were foul with it; and the apostle speaks of the turning +of the use of the natural into that which is against nature, as the +last step in abandonment. + +The very literature of such periods marks their want of physical and +moral soundness. Having lost all sense of what is simple and natural +and pure, the mind delights to dwell on horrible ideas, which give a +shuddering sense of guilt and crime. All the writings of this fatal +period of Lord Byron's life are more or less intense histories of +unrepentant guilt and remorse or of unnatural crime. A recent writer +in 'Temple Bar' brings to light the fact, that 'The Bride of Abydos,' +the first of the brilliant and rapid series of poems which began in +the period immediately preceding his marriage, was, in its first +composition, an intense story of love between a brother and sister in +a Turkish harem; that Lord Byron declared, in a letter to Galt, that +it was drawn from _real life_; that, in compliance with the prejudices +of the age, he altered the relationship to that of cousins before +publication. + +This same writer goes on to show, by a series of extracts from Lord +Byron's published letters and journals, that his mind about this +time was in a fearfully unnatural state, and suffering singular and +inexplicable agonies of remorse; that, though he was accustomed +fearlessly to confide to his friends immoralities which would be looked +upon as damning, there was now a secret to which he could not help +alluding in his letters, but which he told Moore he could not tell now, +but 'some day or other when we are _veterans_.' He speaks of his heart +as eating itself out; of a mysterious _person_, whom he says, 'God +knows I love too well, and the Devil probably too.' He wrote a song, +and sent it to Moore, addressed to a partner in some awful guilt, whose +very name he dares not mention, because + + 'There is grief in the sound, there is guilt in the fame.' + +He speaks of struggles of remorse, of efforts at repentance, and +returns to guilt, with a sort of horror very different from the +well-pleased air with which he relates to Medwin his common intrigues +and adulteries. He speaks of himself generally as oppressed by a +frightful, unnatural gloom and horror, and, when occasionally happy, +'not in a way that _can_ or _ought_ to last.' + +'The Giaour,' 'The Corsair,' 'Lara,' 'Parisina,' 'The Siege of +Corinth,' and 'Manfred,' all written or conceived about this period +of his life, give one picture of a desperate, despairing, unrepentant +soul, whom suffering maddens, but cannot reclaim. + +In all these he paints only the one woman, of concentrated, +unconsidering passion, ready to sacrifice heaven and defy hell for a +guilty man, beloved in spite of religion or reason. In this unnatural +literature, the stimulus of crime is represented as intensifying love. +Medora, Gulnare, the Page in 'Lara,' Parisina, and the lost sister +of Manfred, love the more intensely because the object of the love +is a criminal, out-lawed by God and man. The next step beyond this +is--_madness_. + +The work of Dr. Forbes Winslow on 'Obscure Diseases of the Brain and +Nerves'[49] contains a passage so very descriptive of the case of +Lord Byron, that it might seem to have been written for it. The sixth +chapter of his work, on 'Anomalous and Masked Affections of the Mind,' +contains, in our view, the only clue that can unravel the sad tragedy +of Byron's life. He says, p. 87:-- + +[Footnote 49: The article in question is worth a careful reading. Its +industry and accuracy in amassing evidence are worthy attention.] + + 'These forms of unrecognised mental disorder are not always + accompanied by any well-marked disturbance of the bodily health + requiring medical attention, or any obvious departure from a normal + state of thought and conduct such as to justify legal interference; + neither do these affections always incapacitate the party from + engaging in the ordinary business of life.... The change may have + progressed insidiously and stealthily, having slowly and almost + imperceptibly induced important molecular modifications in the + delicate vesicular neurine of the brain, ultimately resulting in some + aberration of the ideas, alteration of the affections, or perversion + of the propensities or instincts.... + + 'Mental disorder of a dangerous character has been known for years + to be stealthily advancing, without exciting the slightest notion of + its presence, until some sad and terrible catastrophe, homicide, or + suicide, has painfully awakened attention to its existence. Persons + suffering from latent insanity often affect singularity of dress, + gait, conversation, and phraseology. The most trifling circumstances + stimulate their excitability. They are martyrs to ungovernable + paroxysms of passion, are inflamed to a state of demoniacal fury + by the most insignificant of causes, and occasionally lose all + sense of delicacy of feeling, sentiment, refinement of manners and + conversation. Such manifestations of undetected mental disorder may be + seen associated with intellectual and moral qualities of the highest + order.' + +In another place, Dr. Winslow again adverts to this latter symptom, +which was strikingly marked in the case of Lord Byron:-- + + 'All delicacy and decency of thought are occasionally banished from + the mind, so effectually does the principle of thought in these + attacks succumb to the animal instincts and passions.... + + 'Such cases will commonly be found associated with organic + predisposition to insanity or cerebral disease.... Modifications of + the malady are seen allied with genius. The biographies of Cowper, + Burns, Byron, Johnson, Pope, and Haydon establish that the most + exalted intellectual conditions do not escape unscathed. + + 'In early childhood, this form of mental disturbance may, in many + cases, be detected. To its existence is often to be traced the + _motiveless_ crimes of the young.' + +No one can compare this passage of Dr. Forbes Winslow with the +incidents we have already cited as occurring in that fatal period +before the separation of Lord and Lady Byron, and not feel that the +hapless young wife was indeed struggling with those inflexible natural +laws, which, at some stages of retribution, involve in their awful +sweep the guilty with the innocent. She longed to save; but he was gone +past redemption. Alcoholic stimulants and licentious excesses, without +doubt, had produced those unseen changes in the brain, of which Dr. +Forbes Winslow speaks; and the results were terrible in proportion to +the peculiar fineness and delicacy of the organism deranged. + +Alas! the history of Lady Byron is the history of too many women in +every rank of life who are called, in agonies of perplexity and fear, +to watch that gradual process by which physical excesses change the +organism of the brain, till slow, creeping, moral insanity comes on. +The woman who is the helpless victim of cruelties which only unnatural +states of the brain could invent, who is heart-sick to-day and dreads +to-morrow,--looks in hopeless horror on the fatal process by which a +lover and a protector changes under her eyes, from day to day, to a +brute and a fiend. + +Lady Byron's married life--alas! it is lived over in many a cottage and +tenement-house, with no understanding on either side of the cause of +the woful misery. + +Dr. Winslow truly says, 'The science of these brain-affections is yet +in its infancy in England.' At that time, it had not even begun to be. +Madness was a fixed point; and the inquiries into it had no nicety. +Its treatment, if established, had no redeeming power. Insanity simply +locked a man up as a dangerous being; and the very suggestion of it, +therefore, was resented as an injury. + +A most peculiar and affecting feature of that form of brain disease +which hurries its victim, as by an overpowering mania, into crime, is, +that often the moral faculties and the affections remain to a degree +unimpaired, and protest with all their strength against the outrage. +Hence come conflicts and agonies of remorse proportioned to the +strength of the moral nature. Byron, more than any other one writer, +may be called the poet of remorse. His passionate pictures of this +feeling seem to give new power to the English language:-- + + 'There is a war, a chaos of the mind, + When all its elements convulsed--combined, + Lie dark and jarring with perturbed force, + And gnashing with impenitent remorse, + That juggling fiend, who never spake before, + But cries, "I warned thee!" when the deed is o'er.' + +It was this remorse that formed the only redeeming feature of the case. +Its eloquence, its agonies, won from all hearts the interest that we +give to a powerful nature in a state of danger and ruin; and it may +be hoped that this feeling, which tempers the stern justice of human +judgments, may prove only a faint image of the wider charity of Him +whose thoughts are as far above ours as the heaven is above the earth. + + + + +CHAPTER VII. + +HOW COULD SHE LOVE HIM? + + +It has seemed, to some, wholly inconsistent, that Lady Byron, if this +story were true, could retain any kindly feeling for Lord Byron, or +any tenderness for his memory; that the profession implied a certain +hypocrisy: but, in this sad review, we may see how the woman who once +had loved him, might, in spite of every wrong he had heaped upon her, +still have looked on this awful wreck and ruin chiefly with pity. While +she stood afar, and refused to justify or join in the polluted idolatry +which defended his vices, there is evidence in her writings that her +mind often went back mournfully, as a mother's would, to the early days +when he might have been saved. + +One of her letters in Robinson's Memoirs, in regard to his religious +opinions, shows with what intense earnestness she dwelt upon the +unhappy influences of his childhood and youth, and those early +theologies which led him to regard himself as one of the reprobate. She +says,-- + + 'Not merely from casual expressions, but from the whole tenor of Lord + Byron's feelings, I could not but conclude that he was a believer + in the inspiration of the Bible, and had the gloomiest Calvinistic + tenets. To that unhappy view of the relation of the creature to the + Creator I have always ascribed the misery of his life. + + 'It is enough for me to know that he who thinks his transgression + beyond forgiveness ... has righteousness beyond that of the + self-satisfied sinner. It is impossible for me to doubt, that, could + he once have been assured of pardon, his living faith in moral duty, + and love of virtue ("I love the virtues that I cannot claim"), would + have conquered every temptation. Judge, then, how I must hate the + creed that made him see God as an Avenger, and not as a Father! My own + impressions were just the reverse, but could have but little weight; + and it was in vain to seek to turn his thoughts from that fixed idea + with which he connected his personal peculiarity as a stamp. Instead + of being made happier by any apparent good, he felt convinced that + every blessing would be turned into a curse to him.... "The worst of + it is, I do believe," he said. _I_, like all connected with him, was + broken against the rock of predestination. I may be pardoned for my + frequent reference to the sentiment (expressed by him), that I was + only sent to show him the happiness he was forbidden to enjoy.' + +In this letter we have the heart, not of the wife, but of the +mother,--the love that searches everywhere for extenuations of the +guilt it is forced to confess. + +That Lady Byron was not alone in ascribing such results to the +doctrines of Calvinism, in certain cases, appears from the language of +the Thirty-nine Articles, which says:-- + + 'As the godly consideration of predestination, and our election in + Christ, is full of sweet, pleasant, and unspeakable comfort to godly + persons, and such as feel in themselves the workings of the spirit of + Christ; ... so, for curious and carnal persons, lacking the spirit of + Christ, to have continually before their eyes the sentence of God's + predestination, is a most dangerous downfall, whereby the Devil doth + thrust them either into desperation, or into recklessness of most + unclean living,--no less perilous than desperation.' + +Lord Byron's life is an exact commentary on these words, which passed +under the revision of Calvin himself. + +The whole tone of this letter shows not only that Lady Byron never lost +her deep interest in her husband, but that it was by this experience +that all her religious ideas were modified. There is another of +these letters in which she thus speaks of her husband's writings and +character:-- + + 'The author of the article on "Goethe" appears to me to have the + mind which could dispel the illusion about _another_ poet, without + depreciating his claims ... to the truest inspiration. + + 'Who has sought to distinguish between the holy and the unholy in that + spirit? to prove, by the very degradation of the one, how high the + other was. A character is never done justice to by extenuating its + faults: so I do not agree to _nisi bonum_. It is kinder to read the + blotted page.' + +These letters show that Lady Byron's idea was that, even were the +whole mournful truth about Lord Byron fully told, there was still a +foundation left for pity and mercy. She seems to have remembered, +that if his sins were peculiar, so also were his temptations; and to +have schooled herself for years to gather up, and set in order in her +memory, all that yet remained precious in this great ruin. Probably no +English writer that ever has made the attempt could have done this more +perfectly. Though Lady Byron was not a poet _par excellence_, yet she +belonged to an order of souls fully equal to Lord Byron. Hers was more +the analytical mind of the philosopher than the creative mind of the +poet; and it was, for that reason, the one mind in our day capable of +estimating him fully both with justice and mercy. No person in England +had a more intense sensibility to genius, in its loftier acceptation, +than Lady Byron; and none more completely sympathised with what was +pure and exalted in her husband's writings. + +There is this peculiarity in Lord Byron, that the pure and the impure +in his poetry often run side by side without mixing,--as one may see +at Geneva the muddy stream of the Arve and the blue waters of the +Rhone flowing together unmingled. What, for example, can be nobler, +and in a higher and tenderer moral strain than his lines on the dying +gladiator, in 'Childe Harold'? What is more like the vigour of the old +Hebrew Scriptures than his thunderstorm in the Alps? What can more +perfectly express moral ideality of the highest kind than the exquisite +descriptions of Aurora Raby,--pure and high in thought and language, +occurring, as they do, in a work full of the most utter vileness? + +Lady Byron's hopes for her husband fastened themselves on all the noble +fragments yet remaining in that shattered temple of his mind which lay +blackened and thunder-riven; and she looked forward to a sphere beyond +this earth, where infinite mercy should bring all again to symmetry and +order. If the strict theologian must regret this as an undue latitude +of charity, let it at least he remembered that it was a charity which +sprang from a Christian virtue, and which she extended to every human +being, however lost, however low. In her view, the mercy which took +_him_ was mercy that could restore all. + +In my recollections of the interview with Lady Byron, when this whole +history was presented, I can remember that it was with a softened and +saddened feeling that I contemplated the story, as one looks on some +awful, inexplicable ruin. + +The last letter which I addressed to Lady Byron upon this subject will +show that such was the impression of the whole interview. It was in +reply to the one written on the death of my son:-- + + 'Jan. 30, 1858. + + 'MY DEAR FRIEND,--I _did_ long to hear from you at a time + when few knew how to speak, because I knew that _you_ had known + everything that sorrow can teach,--you, whose whole life has been a + crucifixion, a long ordeal. + + 'But I believe that the Lamb, who stands for ever "in the midst of the + throne, as it had been slain," has everywhere His followers,--those + who seem sent into the world, as He was, to suffer for the redemption + of others; and, like Him, they must look to the joy set before + them,--of redeeming others. + + 'I often think that God called you to this beautiful and terrible + ministry when He suffered you to link your destiny with one so + strangely gifted and so fearfully tempted. Perhaps the reward that is + to meet you when you enter within the veil where you must so soon pass + will be to see _that_ spirit, once chained and defiled, set free and + purified; and to know that to you it has been given, by your life of + love and faith, to accomplish this glorious change. + + 'I think increasingly on the subject on which you conversed with me + once,--the future state of retribution. It is evident to me that the + spirit of Christianity has produced in the human spirit a tenderness + of love which wholly revolts from the old doctrine on this subject; + and I observe, that, the more Christ-like anyone becomes, the more + difficult it seems for them to accept it as hitherto presented. And + yet, on the contrary, it was _Christ_ who said, "Fear Him that is + able to destroy both soul and body in hell;" and the most appalling + language is that of Christ himself. + + 'Certain ideas, once prevalent, certainly must be thrown off. An + endless _infliction_ for past sins was once the doctrine: _that_ we + now generally reject. The doctrine now generally taught is, that an + eternal persistence in evil necessitates everlasting suffering, since + evil induces misery by the eternal nature of things; and this, I fear, + is inferable from the analogies of Nature, and confirmed by the whole + implication of the Bible. + + 'What attention have you given to this subject? and is there any fair + way of disposing of the current of assertion, and the still deeper + _under_-current of implication, on this subject, without admitting + one which loosens all faith in revelation, and throws us on pure + naturalism? But of one thing I always feel sure: probation does not + end with this present life; and the number of the saved may therefore + be infinitely greater than the world's history leads us to suppose. + + 'I think the Bible implies a great crisis, a struggle, an agony, in + which God and Christ and all the good are engaged in redeeming from + sin; and we are not to suppose that the little portion that is done + for souls as they pass between the two doors of birth and death is all. + + 'The Bible is certainly silent there. The primitive Church believed in + the mercies of an intermediate state; and it was only the abuse of it + by Romanism that drove the Church into its present position, which, + I think, is wholly indefensible, and wholly irreconcilable with the + spirit of Christ. For if it were the case, that probation in all cases + begins and ends here, God's example would surely be one that could not + be followed, and He would seem to be far less persevering than even + human beings in efforts to save. + + 'Nothing is plainer than that it would be wrong to give up any mind to + eternal sin till every possible thing had been done for its recovery; + and that is so clearly _not_ the case here, that I can see that, with + thoughtful minds, this belief would cut the very roots of religious + faith in God: for there is a difference between facts that we do not + understand, and facts which we _do_ understand, and perceive to be + wholly irreconcilable with a certain character professed by God. + + 'If God says He is love, and certain ways of explaining Scripture + make Him _less_ loving and patient than man, then we make Scripture + contradict itself. Now, as no passage of Scripture limits probation to + this life, and as one passage in Peter certainly unequivocally asserts + that Christ preached to the spirits in prison while His body lay in + the grave, I am clear upon this point. + + 'But it is also clear, that if there be those who persist in refusing + God's love, who choose to dash themselves for ever against the + inflexible laws of the universe, such souls must for ever suffer. + + 'There may be souls who hate purity because it reveals their vileness; + who refuse God's love, and prefer eternal conflict with it. For such + there can be no peace. Even in this life, we see those whom the purest + self-devoting love only inflames to madness; and we have only to + suppose an eternal persistence in this to suppose eternal misery. + + 'But on this subject we can only leave all reverently in the hands + of that Being whose almighty power is "declared chiefly in showing + mercy."' + + + + +CHAPTER VIII. + +CONCLUSION. + + +In leaving this subject, I have an appeal to make to the men, and more +especially to the women, who have been my readers. + +In justice to Lady Byron, it must be remembered that this publication +of her story is not her act, but mine. I trust you have already +conceded, that, in so severe and peculiar a trial, she had a right to +be understood fully by her immediate circle of friends, and to seek +of them counsel in view of the moral questions to which such very +exceptional circumstances must have given rise. Her communication to me +was not an address to the public: it was a statement of the case for +advice. True, by leaving the whole, unguarded by pledge or promise, it +left discretionary power with me to use it if needful. + +You, my sisters, are to judge whether the accusation laid against Lady +Byron by the 'Blackwood,' in 1869, was not of so barbarous a nature as +to justify my producing the truth I held in my hands in reply. + +The 'Blackwood' claimed a right to re-open the subject because it was +_not_ a private but a public matter. It claimed that Lord Byron's +unfortunate marriage might have changed not only his own destiny, but +that of all England. It suggested, that, but for this, instead of +wearing out his life in vice, and corrupting society by impure poetry, +he might, at this day, have been leading the counsels of the State, and +helping the onward movements of the world. Then it directly charged +Lady Byron with meanly forsaking her husband in a time of worldly +misfortune; with fabricating a destructive accusation of crime against +him, and confirming this accusation by years of persistent silence more +guilty than open assertion. + +It has been alleged, that, even admitting that Lady Byron's story were +true, it never ought to have been told. + +Is it true, then, that a woman has not the same right to individual +justice that a man has? If the cases were reversed, would it have been +thought just that Lord Byron should go down in history loaded with +accusations of crime because he could be only vindicated by exposing +the crime of his wife? + +It has been said that the crime charged on Lady Byron was comparatively +unimportant, and the one against Lord Byron was deadly. + +But the 'Blackwood,' in opening the controversy, called Lady Byron by +the name of an unnatural female criminal, whose singular atrocities +alone entitle her to infamous notoriety; and the crime charged upon her +was sufficient to warrant the comparison. + +Both crimes are foul, unnatural, horrible; and there is no middle +ground between the admission of the one or the other. + +You must either conclude that a woman, all whose other works, words, +and deeds were generous, just, and gentle, committed this one monstrous +exceptional crime, without a motive, and against all the analogies of +her character, and all the analogies of her treatment of others; or you +must suppose that a man known by all testimony to have been boundlessly +licentious, who took the very course which, by every physiological law, +would have led to unnatural results, did, at last, commit an unnatural +crime. + +The question, whether I did right, when Lady Byron was thus held up as +an abandoned criminal by the 'Blackwood,' to interpose my knowledge +of the real truth in her defence, is a serious one; but it is one for +which I must account to God alone, and in which, without any contempt +of the opinions of my fellow-creatures, I must say, that it is a small +thing to be judged of man's judgment. + +I had in the case a responsibility very different from that of many +others. I had been consulted in relation to the publication of this +story by Lady Byron, at a time when she had it in her power to have +exhibited it with all its proofs, and commanded an instant conviction. +I have reason to think that my advice had some weight in suppressing +that disclosure. I gave that advice under the impression that the Byron +controversy was a thing for ever passed, and never likely to return. + +It had never occurred to me, that, nine years after Lady Byron's death, +a standard English periodical would declare itself free to re-open this +controversy, when all the generation who were her witnesses had passed +from earth; and that it would re-open it in the most savage form of +accusation, and with the indorsement and commendation of a hook of the +vilest slanders, edited by Lord Byron's mistress. + +Let the reader mark the retributions of justice. The accusations of the +'Blackwood,' in 1869, were simply an intensified form of those first +concocted by Lord Byron in his 'Clytemnestra' poem of 1816. He forged +that weapon, and bequeathed it to his party. The 'Blackwood' took it +up, gave it a sharper edge, and drove it to the heart of Lady Byron's +fame. The result has been the disclosure of this history. It is, +then, Lord Byron himself, who, by his network of wiles, his ceaseless +persecutions of his wife, his efforts to extend his partisanship beyond +the grave, has brought on this tumultuous exposure. He, and he alone, +is the cause of this revelation. + +And now I have one word to say to those in England who, with all the +facts and documents in their hands which could at once have cleared +Lady Byron's fame, allowed the barbarous assault of the 'Blackwood' +to go over the civilised world without a reply. I speak to those who, +knowing that I am speaking the truth, stand silent; to those who have +now the ability to produce the facts and documents by which this cause +might be instantly settled, and who do not produce them. + +I do not judge them; but I remind them that a day is coming when they +and I must stand side by side at the great judgment-seat,--I to give an +account for my speaking, they for their silence. + +In that day, all earthly considerations will have vanished like morning +mists, and truth or falsehood, justice or injustice, will be the only +realities. + +In that day, God, who will judge the secrets of all men, will judge +between this man and this woman. Then, if never before, the full truth +shall be told both of the depraved and dissolute man who made it his +life's object to defame the innocent, and the silent, the self-denying +woman who made it her life's object to give space for repentance to the +guilty. + + + + +PART III. + +MISCELLANEOUS DOCUMENTS. + +THE TRUE STORY OF LADY BYRON'S LIFE, + +AS ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED IN 'THE ATLANTIC MONTHLY.' + + +The reading world of America has lately been presented with a book +which is said to sell rapidly, and which appears to meet with universal +favour. + +The subject of the book may be thus briefly stated: The mistress of +Lord Byron comes before the world for the sake of vindicating his fame +from slanders and aspersions cast on him by his wife. The story of the +mistress _versus_ wife may be summed up as follows:-- + +Lord Byron, the hero of the story, is represented as a human being +endowed with every natural charm, gift, and grace, who, by the one +false step of an unsuitable marriage, wrecked his whole life. A +narrow-minded, cold-hearted precisian, without sufficient intellect to +comprehend his genius, or heart to feel for his temptations, formed +with him one of those mere worldly marriages common in high life; and, +finding that she could not reduce him to the mathematical proprieties +and conventional rules of her own mode of life, suddenly, and without +warning, abandoned him in the most cruel and inexplicable manner. + +It is alleged that she parted from him in apparent affection and +good-humour, wrote him a playful, confiding letter upon the way, but, +after reaching her father's house, suddenly, and without explanation, +announced to him that she would never see him again; that this sudden +abandonment drew down upon him a perfect storm of scandalous stories, +which his wife never contradicted; that she never in any way or shape +stated what the exact reasons for her departure had been, and thus +silently gave scope to all the malice of thousands of enemies. The +sensitive victim was actually driven from England, his home broken up, +and be doomed to be a lonely wanderer on foreign shores. + +In Italy, under bluer skies, and among a gentler people, with more +tolerant modes of judgment, the authoress intimates that he found +peace and consolation. A lovely young Italian countess falls in love +with him, and, breaking her family ties for his sake, devotes herself +to him; and, in blissful retirement with her, he finds at last that +domestic life for which he was so fitted. + +Soothed, calmed, and refreshed, he writes 'Don Juan,' which the world +is at this late hour informed was a poem with a high moral purpose, +designed to be a practical illustration of the doctrine of total +depravity among young gentlemen in high life. + +Under the elevating influence of love, he rises at last to higher +realms of moral excellence, and resolves to devote the rest of his life +to some noble and heroic purpose; becomes the saviour of Greece; and +dies untimely, leaving a nation to mourn his loss. + +The authoress dwells with a peculiar bitterness on Lady Byron's entire +_silence_ during all these years, as the most aggravated form of +persecution and injury. She informs the world that Lord Byron wrote his +Autobiography with the purpose of giving a fair statement of the exact +truth in the whole matter; and that Lady Byron bought up the manuscript +of the publisher, and insisted on its being destroyed, unread; thus +inflexibly depriving her husband of his last chance of a hearing before +the tribunal of the public. + +As a result of this silent persistent cruelty on the part of a cold, +correct, narrow-minded woman, the character of Lord Byron has been +misunderstood, and his name transmitted to after-ages clouded with +aspersions and accusations which it is the object of this book to +remove. + + * * * * * + +Such is the story of Lord Byron's mistress,--a story which is going +the length of this American continent, and rousing up new sympathy +with the poet, and doing its best to bring the youth of America once +more under the power of that brilliant, seductive genius, from which +it was hoped they had escaped. Already we are seeing it revamped in +magazine-articles, which take up the slanders of the paramour and +enlarge on them, and wax eloquent in denunciation of the marble-hearted +insensible wife. + +All this while, it does not appear to occur to the thousands of +unreflecting readers that they are listening merely to the story of +Lord Byron's mistress, and of Lord Byron; and that, even by their own +showing, their heaviest accusation against Lady Byron is that _she has +not spoken at all_. Her story has never been told. + +For many years after the rupture between Lord Byron and his wife, that +poet's personality, fate, and happiness had an interest for the whole +civilized world, which, we will venture to say, was unparalleled. It +is within the writer's recollection, how, in the obscure mountain-town +where she spent her early days, Lord Byron's separation from his wife +was, for a season, the all-engrossing topic. + +She remembers hearing her father recount at the breakfast-table the +facts as they were given in the public papers, together with his own +suppositions and theories of the causes. + +Lord Byron's 'Fare thee well,' addressed to Lady Byron, was set to +music, and sung with tears by young school-girls, even in this distant +America. + +Madame de Stael said of this appeal, that she was sure it would have +drawn her at once to his heart and his arms; _she_ could have forgiven +everything: and so said all the young ladies all over the world, not +only in England but in France and Germany, wherever Byron's poetry +appeared in translation. + +Lady Byron's obdurate cold-heartedness in refusing even to listen to +his prayers, or to have any intercourse with him which might lead to +reconciliation, was the one point conceded on all sides. + +The stricter moralists defended her; but gentler hearts throughout all +the world regarded her as a marble-hearted monster of correctness and +morality, a personification of the law unmitigated by the gospel. + +Literature in its highest walks busied itself with Lady Byron. Hogg, +in the character of the Ettrick Shepherd, devotes several eloquent +passages to expatiating on the conjugal fidelity of a poor Highland +shepherd's wife, who, by patience and prayer and forgiveness, succeeds +in reclaiming her drunken husband, and making a good man of him; and +then points his moral by contrasting with this touching picture the +cold-hearted pharisaical correctness of Lady Byron. + +Moore, in his 'Life of Lord Byron,' when beginning the recital of the +series of disgraceful amours which formed the staple of his life in +Venice, has this passage:-- + +'Highly censurable in point of morality and decorum as was his course +of life while under the roof of Madame ----, it was (with pain I am +forced to confess) venial in comparison with the strange, headlong +career of licence to which, when weaned from that connection, he so +unrestrainedly, and, it may be added, defyingly abandoned himself. Of +the state of his mind on leaving England, I have already endeavoured +to convey some idea; and among the feelings that went to make up that +self-centred spirit of resistance which he then opposed to his fate was +an indignant scorn for his own countrymen for the wrongs he thought +they had done him. For a time, _the kindly sentiments which he still +harboured toward Lady Byron, and a sort of vague hope, perhaps, that +all would yet come right again_, kept his mind in a mood somewhat +more softened and docile, as well as sufficiently under the influence +of English opinions to prevent his breaking out into open rebellion +against it, as he unluckily did afterward. + +'_By the failure of the attempted mediation with Lady Byron_, his +last link with home was severed: while, notwithstanding the quiet and +unobtrusive life which he led at Geneva, there was as yet, he found, +no cessation of the slanderous warfare against his character; the same +busy and misrepresenting spirit which had tracked his every step at +home, having, with no less malicious watchfulness, dogged him into +exile.' + +We should like to know what the misrepresentations and slanders +must have been, when this sort of thing is admitted in Mr. Moore's +_justification_. It seems to us rather wonderful how anybody, unless it +were a person like the Countess Guiccioli, could misrepresent a life +such as even Byron's friend admits he was leading. + +During all these years, when he was setting at defiance every principle +of morality and decorum, the interest of the female mind all over +Europe in the conversion of this brilliant prodigal son was unceasing, +and reflects the greatest credit upon the faith of the sex. + +Madame de Stael commenced the first effort at evangelization +immediately after he left England, and found her catechumen in a most +edifying state of humility. He was, metaphorically, on his knees in +penitence, and confessed himself a miserable sinner in the loveliest +manner possible. Such sweetness and humility took all hearts. His +conversations with Madame de Stael were printed, and circulated all +over the world; making it to appear that only the inflexibility of Lady +Byron stood in the way of his entire conversion. + +Lady Blessington, among many others, took him in hand five or six years +afterwards, and was greatly delighted with his docility, and edified by +his frank and free confessions of his miserable offences. Nothing now +seemed wanting to bring the wanderer home to the fold but a kind word +from Lady Byron. But, when the fair countess offered to mediate, the +poet only shook his head in tragic despair; 'he had so many times tried +in vain; Lady Byron's course had been from the first that of obdurate +silence.' + +Any one who would wish to see a specimen of the skill of the +honourable poet in mystification will do well to read a letter to Lady +Byron, which Lord Byron, on parting from Lady Blessington, enclosed for +her to read just before he went to Greece. He says,-- + +'The letter which I enclose _I was prevented from sending by my despair +of its doing any good_. I was perfectly sincere when I wrote it, and +am so still. But it is difficult for me to withstand the thousand +provocations on that subject which both friends and foes have for seven +years been throwing in the way of a man whose feelings were once quick, +and whose temper was never patient.' + + 'TO LADY BYRON, CARE OF THE HON. MRS. LEIGH, LONDON + + 'PISA, _Nov._ 17, 1821. + + 'I have to acknowledge the receipt of "Ada's hair," which is very + soft and pretty, and nearly as dark already as mine was at twelve + years old, if I may judge from what I recollect of some in Augusta's + possession, taken at that age. But it didn't curl--perhaps from its + being let grow. + + 'I also thank you for the inscription of the date and name; and I will + tell you why: I believe that they are the only two or three words + of your handwriting in my possession. For your letters I returned; + and except the two words, or rather the one word, "Household," + written twice in an old account book, I have no other. I burnt your + last note, for two reasons: firstly, it was written in a style not + very agreeable; and, secondly, I wished to take your word without + documents, which are the worldly resources of suspicious people. + + 'I suppose that this note will reach you somewhere about Ada's + birthday--the 10th of December, I believe. She will then be six: + so that, in about twelve more, I shall have some chance of meeting + her; perhaps sooner, if I am obliged to go to England by business + or otherwise. Recollect, however, one thing, either in distance or + nearness--every day which keeps us asunder should, after so long a + period, rather soften our mutual feelings; which must always have one + rallying point as long as our child exists, which, I presume, we both + hope will be long after either of her parents. + + 'The time which has elapsed since the separation has been considerably + more than the whole brief period of our union, and the not much longer + one of our prior acquaintance. We both made a bitter mistake; but + now it is over, and irrevocably so. For at thirty-three on my part, + and few years less on yours, though it is no very extended period of + life, still it is one when the habits and thought are generally so + formed as to admit of no modification; and, as we could not agree when + younger, we should with difficulty do so now. + + 'I say all this, because I own to you, that notwithstanding + everything, I considered our reunion as not impossible for more than + a year after the separation; but then I gave up the hope entirely + and for ever. But this very impossibility of reunion seems to me + at least a reason why, on all the few points of discussion which + can arise between us, we should preserve the courtesies of life, + and as much of its kindness as people who are never to meet may + preserve,--perhaps more easily than nearer connections. For my own + part, I am violent, but not malignant; for only fresh provocations can + awaken my resentments. To you, who are colder and more concentrated, + I would just hint, that you may sometimes mistake the depth of a cold + anger for dignity, and a worse feeling for duty. I assure you that + I bear you _now_ (whatever I may have done) no resentment whatever. + Remember, that, _if you have injured me_ in aught, this forgiveness + is something; and that, if I have _injured you_, it is something more + still, if it be true, as the moralists say, that the most offending + are the least forgiving. + + 'Whether the offence has been solely on my side, or reciprocal, or on + yours chiefly, I have ceased to reflect upon any but two things; viz., + that you are the mother of my child, and that we shall never meet + again. I think, if you also consider the two corresponding points with + reference to myself, it will be better for all three. + + 'Yours ever, + + 'NOEL BYRON.' + + +The artless Thomas Moore introduces this letter in the 'Life,' with the +remark,-- + +'There are few, I should think, of my readers, who will not agree with +me in pronouncing, that, if the author of the following letter had not +_right_ on his side, he had at least most of those good feelings which +are found in general to accompany it.' + +The reader is requested to take notice of the important admission, that +_the letter was never sent to Lady Byron at all_. It was, in fact, +never _intended_ for her, but was a nice little dramatic performance, +composed simply with the view of acting on the sympathies of Lady +Blessington and Byron's numerous female admirers; and the reader will +agree with us, we think, that, in this point of view, it was very +neatly done, and deserves immortality as a work of high art. For six +years he had been plunged into every kind of vice and excess, pleading +his shattered domestic joys, and his wife's obdurate heart, as the +apology and the impelling cause; filling the air with his shrieks +and complaints concerning the slander which pursued him, while he +filled letters to his confidential correspondents with records of new +mistresses. During all these years, the silence of Lady Byron was +unbroken; though Lord Byron not only drew in private on the sympathies +of his female admirers, but employed his talents and position as an +author in holding her up to contempt and ridicule before thousands +of readers. We shall quote at length his side of the story, which he +published in the First Canto of 'Don Juan,' that the reader may see +how much reason he had for assuming the injured tone which he did in +the letter to Lady Byron quoted above. That letter never was sent to +her; and the unmanly and indecent caricature of her, and the indelicate +exposure of the whole story on his own side, which we are about to +quote, were the only communications that could have reached her +solitude. + +In the following verses, Lady Byron is represented as Donna Inez, and +Lord Byron as Don Jose; but the incidents and allusions were so very +pointed, that nobody for a moment doubted whose history the poet was +narrating. + + 'His mother was a learned lady, famed + For every branch of every science known + In every Christian language ever named, + With virtues equalled by her wit alone: + She made the cleverest people quite ashamed; + And even the good with inward envy groaned, + Finding themselves so very much exceeded + In their own way by all the things that she did. + + * * * * * + + Save that her duty both to man and God + Required this conduct; which seemed very odd. + + She kept a journal where his faults were noted, + And opened certain trunks of books and letters, + (All which might, if occasion served, be quoted); + And then she had all Seville for abettors, + Besides her good old grandmother (who doted): + The hearers of her case become repeaters, + Then advocates, inquisitors, and judges,-- + Some for amusement, others for old grudges. + + And then this best and meekest woman bore + With such serenity her husband's woes! + Just as the Spartan ladies did of yore, + Who saw their spouses killed, and nobly chose + Never to say a word about them more. + Calmly she heard each calumny that rose, + And saw _his_ agonies with such sublimity, + That all the world exclaimed, "What magnanimity!"' + +This is the longest and most elaborate version of his own story +that Byron ever published; but he busied himself with many others, +projecting at one time a Spanish romance, in which the same story is +related in the same transparent manner: but this he was dissuaded +from printing. The booksellers, however, made a good speculation in +publishing what they called his domestic poems; that is, poems bearing +more or less relation to this subject. + +Every person with whom he became acquainted with any degree of intimacy +was made familiar with his side of the story. Moore's Biography is +from first to last, in its representations, founded upon Byron's +communicativeness, and Lady Byron's silence; and the world at last +settled down to believing that the account so often repeated, and never +contradicted, must be substantially a true one. + +The true history of Lord and Lady Byron has long been perfectly +understood in many circles in England; but the facts were of a nature +that could not be made public. While there was a young daughter living +whose future might be prejudiced by its recital, and while there were +other persons on whom the disclosure of the real truth would have been +crushing as an avalanche, Lady Byron's only course was the perfect +silence in which she took refuge, and those sublime works of charity +and mercy to which she consecrated her blighted early life. + +But the time is now come when the truth may be told. All the actors +in the scene have disappeared from the stage of mortal existence, and +passed, let us have faith to hope, into a world where they would desire +to expiate their faults by a late publication of the truth. + +No person in England, we think, would as yet take the responsibility of +relating the true history which is to clear Lady Byron's memory; but, +by a singular concurrence of circumstances, all the facts of the case, +in the most undeniable and authentic form, were at one time placed in +the hands of the writer of this sketch, with authority to make such +use of them as she should judge best. Had this melancholy history been +allowed to sleep, no public use would have been made of them; but the +appearance of a popular attack on the character of Lady Byron calls for +a vindication, and the true story of her married life will therefore +now be related. + +Lord Byron has described in one of his letters the impression left +upon his mind by a young person whom he met one evening in society, +and who attracted his attention by the simplicity of her dress, and a +certain air of singular purity and calmness with which she surveyed the +scene around her. + +On inquiry, he was told that this young person was Miss Milbanke, an +only child, and one of the largest heiresses in England. + +Lord Byron was fond of idealising his experiences in poetry; and the +friends of Lady Byron had no difficulty in recognising the portrait of +Lady Byron, as she appeared at this time of her life, in his exquisite +description of Aurora Raby:-- + + 'There was + Indeed a certain fair and fairy one, + Of the best class, and better than her class,-- + Aurora Raby, a young star who shone + O'er life, too sweet an image for such glass; + A lovely being scarcely formed or moulded; + A rose with all its sweetest leaves yet folded. + + * * * * * + + Early in years, and yet more infantine + In figure, she had something of sublime + In eyes which sadly shone as seraphs' shine; + All youth, but with an aspect beyond time; + Radiant and grave, as pitying man's decline; + Mournful, but mournful of another's crime, + She looked as if she sat by Eden's door, + And grieved for those who could return no more. + + * * * * * + + She gazed upon a world she scarcely knew, + As seeking not to know it; silent, lone, + As grows a flower, thus quietly she grew, + And kept her heart serene within its zone. + There was awe in the homage which she drew; + Her spirit seemed as seated on a throne, + Apart from the surrounding world, and strong + In its own strength,--most strange in one so young!' + +Some idea of the course which their acquaintance took, and of the +manner in which he was piqued into thinking of her, is given in a +stanza or two:-- + + 'The dashing and proud air of Adeline + Imposed not upon her: she saw her blaze + Much as she would have seen a glowworm shine; + Then turned unto the stars for loftier rays. + Juan was something she could not divine, + Being no sibyl in the new world's ways; + Yet she was nothing dazzled by the meteor, + Because she did not pin her faith on feature. + + His fame too (for he had that kind of fame + Which sometimes plays the deuce with womankind,-- + A heterogeneous mass of glorious blame, + Half virtues and whole vices being combined; + Faults which attract because they are not tame; + Follies tricked out so brightly that they blind),-- + These seals upon her wax made no impression, + Such was her coldness or her self-possession. + + Aurora sat with that indifference + Which piques a _preux_ chevalier,--as it ought. + Of all offences, that's the worst offence + Which seems to hint you are not worth a thought. + + * * * * * + + To his gay nothings, nothing was replied, + Or something which was nothing, as urbanity + Required. Aurora scarcely looked aside, + Nor even smiled enough for any vanity. + The Devil was in the girl! Could it be pride, + Or modesty, or absence, or inanity? + + * * * * * + + Juan was drawn thus into some attentions, + Slight but select, and just enough to express, + To females of perspicuous comprehensions, + That he would rather make them more than less. + Aurora at the last (so history mentions, + Though probably much less a fact than guess) + So far relaxed her thoughts from their sweet prison + As once or twice to smile, if not to listen. + + * * * * * + + But Juan had a sort of winning way, + A proud humility, if such there be, + Which showed such deference to what females say, + As if each charming word were a decree. + His tact, too, tempered him from grave to gay, + And taught him when to be reserved or free. + He had the art of drawing people out, + Without their seeing what he was about. + + Aurora, who in her indifference, + Confounded him in common with the crowd + Of flatterers, though she deemed he had more sense + Than whispering foplings or than witlings loud, + Commenced (from such slight things will great commence) + To feel that flattery which attracts the proud, + Rather by deference than compliment, + And wins even by a delicate dissent. + + And then he had good looks: that point was carried + _Nem. con._ amongst the women. + + * * * * * + + Now, though we know of old that looks deceive, + And always have done, somehow these good looks, + Make more impression than the best of books. + + Aurora, who looked more on books than faces, + Was very young, although so very sage: + Admiring more Minerva than the Graces, + Especially upon a printed page. + But Virtue's self, with all her tightest laces, + Has not the natural stays of strict old age; + And Socrates, that model of all duty, + Owned to a penchant, though discreet for beauty.' + +The presence of this high-minded, thoughtful, unworldly woman is +described through two cantos of the wild, rattling 'Don Juan,' in a +manner that shows how deeply the poet was capable of being affected by +such an appeal to his higher nature. + +For instance, when Don Juan sits silent and thoughtful amid a circle of +persons who are talking scandal, the poet says,-- + + ''Tis true, he saw Aurora look as though + She approved his silence: she perhaps mistook + Its motive for that charity we owe, + But seldom pay, the absent. + + * * * * * + + He gained esteem where it was worth the most; + And certainly Aurora had renewed + In him some feelings he had lately lost + Or hardened,--feelings which, perhaps ideal, + Are so divine that I must deem them real:-- + + The love of higher things and better days; + The unbounded hope and heavenly ignorance + Of what is called the world and the world's ways; + The moments when we gather from a glance + + More joy than from all future pride or praise, + Which kindled manhood, but can ne'er entrance + The heart in an existence of its own + Of which another's bosom is the zone. + + And full of sentiments sublime as billows + Heaving between this world and worlds beyond, + Don Juan, when the midnight hour of pillows + Arrived, retired to his.'... + +In all these descriptions of a spiritual unworldly nature acting on +the spiritual and unworldly part of his own nature, every one who ever +knew Lady Byron intimately must have recognised the model from which +he drew, and the experience from which he spoke, even though nothing +was further from his mind than to pay this tribute to the woman he had +injured, and though before these lines, which showed how truly he knew +her real character, had come one stanza of ribald, vulgar caricature, +designed as a slight to her:-- + + 'There was Miss Millpond, smooth as summer's sea + That usual paragon, an only daughter, + Who seemed the cream of equanimity + 'Till skimmed; and then there was some milk and water; + With a slight shade of blue, too, it might be, + Beneath the surface: but what did it matter? + Love's riotous; but marriage should have quiet, + And, being consumptive, live on a milk diet.' + +The result of Byron's intimacy with Miss Milbanke and the enkindling +of his nobler feelings was an offer of marriage, which she, though +at the time deeply interested in him, declined with many expressions +of friendship and interest. In fact, she already loved him, but had +that doubt of her power to be to him all that a wife should be which +would be likely to arise in a mind so sensitively constituted and so +unworldly. They, however, continued a correspondence as friends; on her +part, the interest continually increased; on his, the transient rise of +better feelings was choked and overgrown by the thorns of base unworthy +passions. + +From the height at which he might have been happy as the husband of a +noble woman, he fell into the depths of a secret adulterous intrigue +with a blood relation, so near in consanguinity, that discovery must +have been utter ruin and expulsion from civilised society. + +From henceforth, this damning guilty secret became the ruling force in +his life; holding him with a morbid fascination, yet filling him with +remorse and anguish, and insane dread of detection. Two years after his +refusal by Miss Milbanke, his various friends, seeing that for some +cause he was wretched, pressed marriage upon him. + +Marriage has often been represented as the proper goal and terminus +of a wild and dissipated career; and it has been supposed to be the +appointed mission of good women to receive wandering prodigals, with +all the rags and disgraces of their old life upon them, and put rings +on their hands, and shoes on their feet, and introduce them, clothed +and in their right minds, to an honourable career in society. + +Marriage was, therefore, universally recommended to Lord Byron by his +numerous friends and well-wishers; and so he determined to marry, and, +in an hour of reckless desperation, sat down and wrote proposals to two +ladies. One was declined: the other, which was accepted, was to Miss +Milbanke. The world knows well that he had the gift of expression, and +will not be surprised that he wrote a very beautiful letter, and that +the woman who had already learned to love him fell at once into the +snare. + +Her answer was a frank, outspoken avowal of her love for him, giving +herself to him heart and hand. The good in Lord Byron was not so +utterly obliterated that he could receive such a letter without +emotion, or practise such unfairness on a loving, trusting heart +without pangs of remorse. He had sent the letter in mere recklessness; +he had not seriously expected to be accepted; and the discovery of the +treasure of affection which he had secured was like a vision of lost +heaven to a soul in hell. + +But, nevertheless, in his letters written about the engagement, +there are sufficient evidences that his self-love was flattered at +the preference accorded him by so superior a woman, and one who had +been so much sought. He mentions with an air of complacency that +she has employed the last two years in refusing five or six of his +acquaintance; that he had no idea she loved him, admitting that it was +an old attachment on his part. He dwells on her virtues with a sort +of pride of ownership. There is a sort of childish levity about the +frankness of these letters, very characteristic of the man who skimmed +over the deepest abysses with the lightest jests. Before the world, and +to his intimates, he was acting the part of the successful _fiance_, +conscious all the while of the deadly secret that lay cold at the +bottom of his heart. + +When he went to visit Miss Milbanke's parents as her accepted lover +she was struck with his manner and appearance: she saw him moody and +gloomy, evidently wrestling with dark and desperate thoughts, and +anything but what a happy and accepted lover should be. She sought an +interview with him alone, and told him that she had observed that he +was not happy in the engagement; and magnanimously added, that, if on +review, he found he had been mistaken in the nature of his feelings, +she would immediately release him, and they should remain only friends. + +Overcome with the conflict of his feelings, Lord Byron fainted away. +Miss Milbanke was convinced that his heart must really be deeply +involved in an attachment with reference to which he showed such +strength of emotion, and she spoke no more of a dissolution of the +engagement. + +There is no reason to doubt that Byron was, as he relates in his +'Dream,' profoundly agonized and agitated when he stood before God's +altar with the trusting young creature whom he was leading to a fate so +awfully tragic; yet it was not the memory of Mary Chaworth, but another +guiltier and more damning memory, that overshadowed that hour. + +The moment the carriage-doors were shut upon the bridegroom and the +bride, the paroxysm of remorse and despair--unrepentant remorse and +angry despair--broke forth upon her gentle head:-- + +'You might have saved me from this, madam! You had all in your own +power when I offered myself to you first. Then you might have made +me what you pleased; but now you will find that you have married a +_devil_!' + +In Miss Martineau's Sketches, recently published, is an account of the +termination of this wedding-journey, which brought them to one of Lady +Byron's ancestral country seats, where they were to spend the honeymoon. + +Miss Martineau says,-- + +'At the altar she did not know that she was a sacrifice; but before +sunset of that winter day she knew it, if a judgment may be formed from +her face, and attitude of despair, when she alighted from the carriage +on the afternoon of her marriage-day. It was not the traces of tears +which won the sympathy of the old butler who stood at the open door. +The bridegroom jumped out of the carriage and walked away. The bride +alighted, and came up the steps alone, with a countenance and frame +agonized and listless with evident horror and despair. The old servant +longed to offer his arm to the young, lonely creature, as an assurance +of sympathy and protection. From this shock she certainly rallied, +and soon. The pecuniary difficulties of her new home were exactly +what a devoted spirit like hers was fitted to encounter. Her husband +bore testimony, after the catastrophe, that a brighter being, a more +sympathising and agreeable companion, never blessed any man's home. +When he afterwards called her cold and mathematical, and over-pious, +and so forth, it was when public opinion had gone against him, and +when he had discovered that her fidelity and mercy, her silence and +magnanimity, might be relied on, so that he was at full liberty to make +his part good, as far as she was concerned. + +'Silent she was even to her own parents, whose feelings she +magnanimously spared. She did not act rashly in leaving him, though she +had been most rash in marrying him.' + +Not all at once did the full knowledge of the dreadful reality into +which she had entered come upon the young wife. She knew vaguely, from +the wild avowals of the first hours of their marriage, that there was +a dreadful secret of guilt; that Byron's soul was torn with agonies of +remorse, and that he had no love to give to her in return for a love +which was ready to do and dare all for him. Yet bravely she addressed +herself to the task of soothing and pleasing and calming the man whom +she had taken 'for better or for worse.' + +Young and gifted; with a peculiar air of refined and spiritual beauty; +graceful in every movement; possessed of exquisite taste; a perfect +companion to his mind in all the higher walks of literary culture; and +with that infinite pliability to all his varying, capricious moods +which true love alone can give; bearing in her hand a princely fortune, +which, with a woman's uncalculating generosity, was thrown at his +feet,--there is no wonder that she might feel for a while as if she +could enter the lists with the very Devil himself, and fight with a +woman's weapons for the heart of her husband. + +There are indications scattered through the letters of Lord Byron, +which, though brief indeed, showed that his young wife was making every +effort to accommodate herself to him, and to give him a cheerful home. +One of the poems that he sends to his publisher about this time, he +speaks of as being copied by her. He had always the highest regard for +her literary judgments and opinions; and this little incident shows +that she was already associating herself in a wifely fashion with his +aims as an author. + +The poem copied by her, however, has a sad meaning, which she +afterwards learned to understand only too well:-- + + 'There's not a joy the world can give like that it takes away + When the glow of early thought declines in feeling's dull decay: + 'Tis not on youth's smooth cheek the blush alone that fades so fast; + But the tender bloom of heart is gone e'er youth itself be past. + Then the few whose spirits float above the wreck of happiness + Are driven o'er the shoals of guilt, or ocean of excess: + The magnet of their course is gone, or only points in vain + The shore to which their shivered sail shall never stretch again.' + +Only a few days before she left him for ever, Lord Byron sent Murray +manuscripts, in Lady Byron's handwriting, of the 'Siege of Corinth,' +and 'Parisina,' and wrote,-- + + +'I am very glad that the handwriting was a favourable omen of the +_morale_ of the piece: but you must not trust to that; for my copyist +would write out anything I desired, in all the ignorance of innocence.' + +There were lucid intervals in which Lord Byron felt the charm of his +wife's mind, and the strength of her powers. 'Bell, you could be a poet +too, if you only thought so,' he would say. There were summer-hours in +her stormy life, the memory of which never left her, when Byron was as +gentle and tender as he was beautiful; when he seemed to be possessed +by a good angel: and then for a little time all the ideal possibilities +of his nature stood revealed. + +The most dreadful men to live with are those who thus alternate between +angel and devil. The buds of hope and love called out by a day or two +of sunshine are frozen again and again, till the tree is killed. + +But there came an hour of revelation,--an hour when, in a manner +which left no kind of room for doubt, Lady Byron saw the full depth +of the abyss of infamy which her marriage was expected to cover, and +understood that she was expected to be the cloak and the accomplice of +this infamy. + +Many women would have been utterly crushed by such a disclosure; some +would have fled from him immediately, and exposed and denounced the +crime. Lady Byron did neither. When all the hope of womanhood died out +of her heart, there arose within her, stronger, purer, and brighter, +that immortal kind of love such as God feels for the sinner,--the love +of which Jesus spoke, and which holds the one wanderer of more account +than the ninety and nine that went not astray. She would neither leave +her husband nor betray him, nor yet would she for one moment justify +his sin; and hence came two years of convulsive struggle, in which +sometimes, for a while, the good angel seemed to gain ground, and then +the evil one returned with sevenfold vehemence. + +Lord Byron argued his case with himself and with her with all the +sophistries of his powerful mind. He repudiated Christianity as +authority; asserted the right of every human being to follow out what +he called 'the impulses of nature.' Subsequently he introduced into one +of his dramas the reasoning by which he justified himself in incest. + +In the drama of 'Cain,' Adah, the sister and the wife of Cain, thus +addresses him:-- + + 'Cain, walk not with this spirit. + Bear with what we have borne, and love me: I + Love thee. + + _Lucifer._ More than thy mother and thy sire? + + _Adah._ I do. Is that a sin, too? + + _Lucifer._ No, not yet: + It one day will be in your children. + + _Adah._ What! + Must not my daughter love her brother Enoch? + + _Lucifer._ Not as thou lovest Cain. + + _Adah._ O my God! + Shall they not love, and bring forth things that love + Out of their love? Have they not drawn their milk + Out of this bosom? Was not he, their father, + Born of the same sole womb, in the same hour + With me? Did we not love each other, and, + In multiplying our being, multiply + Things which will love each other as we love + Them? And as I love thee, my Cain, go not + Forth with this spirit: he is not of ours. + + _Lucifer._ The sin I speak of is not of my making + And cannot be a sin in you, whate'er + It seems in those who will replace ye in + Mortality. + + _Adah._ What is the sin which is not + Sin in itself? Can circumstance make sin + Of virtue? If it doth, we are the slaves + Of'-- + +Lady Byron, though slight and almost infantine in her bodily presence, +had the soul, not only of an angelic woman, but of a strong reasoning +man. It was the writer's lot to know her at a period when she formed +the personal acquaintance of many of the very first minds of England; +but, among all with whom this experience brought her in connection, +there was none who impressed her so strongly as Lady Byron. There was +an almost supernatural power of moral divination, a grasp of the very +highest and most comprehensive things, that made her lightest opinions +singularly impressive. No doubt, this result was wrought out in a great +degree from the anguish and conflict of these two years, when, with no +one to help or counsel her but Almighty God, she wrestled and struggled +with fiends of darkness for the redemption of her husband's soul. + +She followed him through all his sophistical reasonings with a keener +reason. She besought and implored, in the name of his better nature, +and by all the glorious things that he was capable of being and doing; +and she had just power enough to convulse and shake and agonise, but +not power enough to subdue. + +One of the first of living writers, in the novel of 'Romola,' has +given, in her masterly sketch of the character of Tito, the whole +history of the conflict of a woman like Lady Byron with a nature like +that of her husband. She has described a being full of fascinations +and sweetnesses, full of generosities and of good-natured impulses; a +nature that could not bear to give pain, or to see it in others, but +entirely destitute of any firm moral principle; she shows how such a +being, merely by yielding step by step to the impulses of passion, +and disregarding the claims of truth and right, becomes involved in a +fatality of evil, in which deceit, crime, and cruelty are a necessity, +forcing him to persist in the basest ingratitude to the father who has +done all for him, and hard-hearted treachery to the high-minded wife +who has given herself to him wholly. + +There are few scenes in literature more fearfully tragic than the one +between Romola and Tito, when he finally discovers that she knows him +fully, and can be deceived by him no more. Some such hour always must +come for strong decided natures irrevocably pledged--one to the service +of good, and the other to the slavery of evil. The demoniac cried out, +'What have I to do with thee, Jesus of Nazareth? Art thou come to +torment me before the time?' The presence of all-pitying purity and +love was a torture to the soul possessed by the demon of evil. + +These two years in which Lady Byron was with all her soul struggling to +bring her husband back to his better self were a series of passionate +convulsions. + +During this time, such was the disordered and desperate state of his +worldly affairs, that there were ten executions for debt levied on +their family establishment; and it was Lady Byron's fortune each time +which settled the account. + +Toward the last, she and her husband saw less and less of each other; +and he came more and more decidedly under evil influences, and seemed +to acquire a sort of hatred of her. + +Lady Byron once said significantly to a friend who spoke of some +causeless dislike in another, 'My dear, I have known people to be hated +for no other reason than because they impersonated conscience.' + +The biographers of Lord Byron, and all his apologists, are careful to +narrate how sweet and amiable and obliging he was to everybody who +approached him; and the saying of Fletcher, his man-servant, that +'_anybody_ could do anything with my Lord, except my Lady,' has often +been quoted. + +The reason of all this will now be evident. 'My Lady' was the only one, +fully understanding the deep and dreadful secrets of his life, who had +the courage resolutely and persistently and inflexibly to plant herself +in his way, and insist upon it, that, if he went to destruction, it +should be in spite of her best efforts. + +He had tried his strength with her fully. The first attempt had been +to make her an accomplice by sophistry; by destroying her faith in +Christianity, and confusing her sense of right and wrong, to bring her +into the ranks of those convenient women who regard the marriage-tie +only as a friendly alliance to cover licence on both sides. + +When her husband described to her the Continental latitude (the +good-humoured marriage, in which complaisant couples mutually agreed +to form the cloak for each other's infidelities), and gave her to +understand that in this way alone she could have a peaceful and +friendly life with him, she answered him simply, 'I am too truly your +friend to do this.' + +When Lord Byron found that he had to do with one who would not yield, +who knew him fully, who could not be blinded and could not be deceived, +he determined to rid himself of her altogether. + +It was when the state of affairs between herself and her husband seemed +darkest and most hopeless, that the only child of this union was +born. Lord Byron's treatment of his wife during the sensitive period +that preceded the birth of this child, and during her confinement, +was marked by paroxysms of unmanly brutality, for which the only +possible charity on her part was the supposition of insanity. Moore +sheds a significant light on this period, by telling us that, about +this time, Byron was often drunk, day after day, with Sheridan. There +had been insanity in the family; and this was the plea which Lady +Byron's love put in for him. She regarded him as, if not insane, at +least so nearly approaching the boundaries of insanity as to be a +subject of forbearance and tender pity; and she loved him with that +love resembling a mother's, which good wives often feel when they have +lost all faith in their husband's principles, and all hopes of their +affections. Still, she was in heart and soul his best friend; true to +him with a truth which he himself could not shake. + +In the verses addressed to his daughter, Lord Byron speaks of her as + + 'The child of love, though born in bitterness, + And nurtured in convulsion.' + +A day or two after the birth of this child, Lord Byron came suddenly +into Lady Byron's room, and told her that her mother was dead. It was +an utter falsehood; but it was only one of the many nameless injuries +and cruelties by which he expressed his hatred of her. A short time +after her confinement, she was informed by him, in a note, that, as +soon as she was able to travel, she must go; that he could not and +would not longer have her about him; and, when her child was only five +weeks old, he carried this threat of expulsion into effect. + +Here we will insert briefly Lady Byron's own account (the only one she +ever gave to the public) of this separation. The circumstances under +which this brief story was written are affecting. + +Lord Byron was dead. The whole account between him and her was closed +for ever in this world. Moore's life had been prepared, containing +simply and solely Lord Byron's own version of their story. Moore +sent this version to Lady Byron, and requested to know if she had +any remarks to make upon it. In reply, she sent a brief statement to +him,--the first and only one that had come from her during all the +years of the separation, and which appears to have mainly for its +object the exculpation of her father and mother from the charge, made +by the poet, of being the instigators of the separation. + +In this letter, she says, with regard to their separation,-- + +'The facts are, I left London for Kirkby Mallory, the residence of my +father and mother, on the 15th of January, 1816. LORD BYRON HAD +SIGNIFIED TO ME IN WRITING, JAN. 6, HIS ABSOLUTE DESIRE THAT I SHOULD +LEAVE LONDON ON THE EARLIEST DAY THAT I COULD CONVENIENTLY FIX. It +was not safe for me to undertake the fatigue of a journey sooner than +the 15th. Previously to my departure, it had been strongly impressed +upon my mind that Lord Byron was under the influence of insanity. +This opinion was derived, in a great measure, from the communications +made me by his nearest relatives and personal attendant, who had more +opportunity than myself for observing him during the latter part of my +stay in town. It was even represented to me that he was in danger of +destroying himself. + +'_With the concurrence of his family_, I had consulted Dr. Baillie as a +friend (Jan. 8) respecting the supposed malady. On acquainting him with +the state of the case, and with Lord Byron's desire that I should leave +London, Dr. Baillie thought that my absence might be advisable as an +experiment, assuming the fact of mental derangement; for Dr. Baillie, +not having had access to Lord Byron, could not pronounce a positive +opinion on that point. He enjoined that, in correspondence with Lord +Byron, I should avoid all but light and soothing topics. Under these +impressions, I left London, determined to follow the advice given by +Dr. Baillie. Whatever might have been the conduct of Lord Byron toward +me from the time of my marriage, yet, supposing him to be in a state of +mental alienation, it was not for _me_, nor for any person of common +humanity, to manifest at that moment a sense of injury.' + +Nothing more than this letter from Lady Byron is necessary to +substantiate the fact, that she did not _leave_ her husband, but _was +driven_ from him,--driven from him that he might give himself up to +the guilty infatuation that was consuming him, without being tortured +by her imploring face, and by the silent power of her presence and her +prayers. + +For a long time before this, she had seen little of him. On the day +of her departure, she passed by the door of his room, and stopped to +caress his favourite spaniel, which was lying there; and she confessed +to a friend the weakness of feeling a willingness even to be something +as humble as that poor little creature, might she only be allowed to +remain and watch over him. She went into the room where he and the +partner of his sins were sitting together, and said, 'Byron, I come to +say good-bye,' offering, at the same time, her hand. + +Lord Byron put his hands behind him, retreated to the mantel-piece, +and, looking on the two that stood there, with a sarcastic smile said, +'When shall we three meet again?' Lady Byron answered, 'In heaven, I +trust.' And those were her last words to him on earth. + +Now, if the reader wishes to understand the real talents of Lord Byron +for deception and dissimulation, let him read, with this story in his +mind, the 'Fare thee well,' which he addressed to Lady Byron through +the printer:-- + + 'Fare thee well; and if for ever, + Still for ever fare thee well! + Even though unforgiving, never + 'Gainst thee shall my heart rebel. + + Would that breast were bared before thee + Where thy head so oft hath lain, + While that placid sleep came o'er thee + Thou canst never know again! + + Though my many faults defaced me, + Could no other arm be found + Than the one which once embraced me + To inflict a careless wound?' + +The re-action of society against him at the time of the separation from +his wife was something which he had not expected, and for which, it +appears, he was entirely unprepared. It broke up the guilty intrigue +and drove him from England. He had not courage to meet or endure it. +The world, to be sure, was very far from suspecting what the truth was: +but the tide was setting against him with such vehemence as to make +him tremble every hour lest the whole should be known; and henceforth, +it became a warfare of desperation to make his story good, no matter at +whose expense. + +He had tact enough to perceive at first that the assumption of the +pathetic and the magnanimous, and general confessions of faults, +accompanied with admissions of his wife's goodness, would be the best +policy in his case. In this mood, he thus writes to Moore:-- + +'The fault was not in my choice (unless in choosing at all); for I do +not believe (and I must say it in the very dregs of all this bitter +business) that there ever was a better, or even a brighter, a kinder, +or a more amiable, agreeable being than Lady Byron. I never had, nor +can have, any reproach to make her while with me. Where there is blame, +it belongs to myself.' + +As there must be somewhere a scapegoat to bear the sin of the affair, +Lord Byron wrote a poem called 'A Sketch,' in which he lays the blame +of stirring up strife on a friend and former governess of Lady Byron's; +but in this sketch he introduces the following just eulogy on Lady +Byron:-- + + 'Foiled was perversion by that youthful mind + Which flattery fooled not, baseness could not blind, + Deceit infect not, near contagion soil, + Indulgence weaken, nor example spoil, + Nor mastered science tempt her to look down + On humbler talents with a pitying frown, + Nor genius swell, nor beauty render vain, + Nor envy ruffle to retaliate pain, + Nor fortune change, pride raise, nor passion bow, + Nor virtue teach austerity,--till now; + Serenely purest of her sex that live, + But wanting one sweet weakness,--to forgive; + Too shocked at faults her soul can never know, + She deemed that all could be like her below: + Foe to all vice, yet hardly Virtue's friend; + For Virtue pardons those she would amend.' + +In leaving England, Lord Byron first went to Switzerland, where he +conceived and in part wrote out the tragedy of 'Manfred.' Moore speaks +of his domestic misfortunes, and the sufferings which he underwent at +this time, as having influence in stimulating his genius, so that he +was enabled to write with a greater power. + +Anybody who reads the tragedy of 'Manfred' with this story in his mind +will see that it is true. + +The hero is represented as a gloomy misanthrope, dwelling with +impenitent remorse on the memory of an incestuous passion which has +been the destruction of his sister for this life and the life to come, +but which, to the very last gasp, he despairingly refuses to repent of, +even while he sees the fiends of darkness rising to take possession +of his departing soul. That Byron knew his own guilt well, and judged +himself severely, may be gathered from passages in this poem, which are +as powerful as human language can be made; for instance this part of +the 'incantation,' which Moore says was written at this time:-- + + 'Though thy slumber may be deep, + Yet thy spirit shall not sleep: + There are shades which will not vanish; + There are thoughts thou canst not banish. + By a power to thee unknown, + Thou canst never be alone: + Thou art wrapt as with a shroud; + Thou art gathered in a cloud; + And for ever shalt thou dwell + In the spirit of this spell. + + * * * * * + + From thy false tears I did distil + An essence which had strength to kill; + From thy own heart I then did wring + The black blood in its blackest spring; + From thy own smile I snatched the snake, + For there it coiled as in a brake; + From thy own lips I drew the charm + Which gave all these their chiefest harm + In proving every poison known, + I found the strongest was thine own. + + By thy cold breast and serpent smile, + By thy unfathomed gulfs of guile, + By that most seeming virtuous eye, + By thy shut soul's hypocrisy, + By the perfection of thine art + Which passed for human thine own heart, + By thy delight in other's pain, + And by thy brotherhood of Cain, + I call upon thee, and compel + Thyself to be thy proper hell!' + +Again: he represents Manfred as saying to the old abbot, who seeks to +bring him to repentance,-- + + Old man, there is no power in holy men, + Nor charm in prayer, nor purifying form + Of penitence, nor outward look, nor fast, + Nor agony, nor greater than all these, + The innate tortures of that deep despair, + Which is remorse without the fear of hell, + But, all in all sufficient to itself, + Would make a hell of heaven, can exorcise + From out the unbounded spirit the quick sense + Of its own sins, wrongs, sufferance, and revenge + Upon itself: there is no future pang + Can deal that justice on the self-condemned + He deals on his own soul.' + +And when the abbot tells him, + + 'All this is well; + For this will pass away, and be succeeded + By an auspicious hope, which shall look up + With calm assurance to that blessed place + Which all who seek may win, whatever be + Their earthly errors,' + +He answers, + + 'It is too late.' + +Then the old abbot soliloquises:-- + + 'This should have been a noble creature: he + Hath all the energy which would have made + A goodly frame of glorious elements, + Had they been wisely mingled; as it is, + It is an awful chaos,--light and darkness, + And mind and dust, and passions and pure thoughts, + Mixed, and contending without end or order.' + +The world can easily see, in Moore's Biography, what, after this, was +the course of Lord Byron's life; how he went from shame to shame, and +dishonour to dishonour, and used the fortune which his wife brought him +in the manner described in those private letters which his biographer +was left to print. Moore, indeed, says Byron had made the resolution +not to touch his lady's fortune; but adds, that it required more +self-command than he possessed to carry out so honourable a purpose. + +Lady Byron made but one condition with him. She had him in her power; +and she exacted that the unhappy partner of his sins should not follow +him out of England, and that the ruinous intrigue should be given +up. Her inflexibility on this point kept up that enmity which was +constantly expressing itself in some publication or other, and which +drew her and her private relations with him before the public. + +The story of what Lady Byron did with the portion of her fortune which +was reserved to her is a record of noble and skilfully administered +charities. Pitiful and wise and strong, there was no form of human +suffering or sorrow that did not find with her refuge and help. She +gave not only systematically, but also impulsively. + +Miss Martineau claims for her the honour of having first invented +practical schools, in which the children of the poor were turned +into agriculturists, artizans, seamstresses, and good wives for poor +men. While she managed with admirable skill and economy permanent +institutions of this sort, she was always ready to relieve suffering +in any form. The fugitive slaves William and Ellen Crafts, escaping to +England, were fostered by her protecting care. + +In many cases where there was distress or anxiety from poverty among +those too self-respecting to make their sufferings known, the delicate +hand of Lady Byron ministered to the want with a consideration which +spared the most refined feelings. + +As a mother, her course was embarrassed by peculiar trials. The +daughter inherited from the father not only brilliant talents, but a +restlessness and morbid sensibility which might be too surely traced +to the storms and agitations of the period in which she was born. It +was necessary to bring her up in ignorance of the true history of +her mother's life; and the consequence was that she could not fully +understand that mother. + +During her early girlhood, her career was a source of more anxiety than +of comfort. She married a man of fashion, ran a brilliant course as a +gay woman of fashion, and died early of a lingering and painful disease. + +In the silence and shaded retirement of the sick-room, the daughter +came wholly back to her mother's arms and heart; and it was on that +mother's bosom that she leaned as she went down into the dark valley. +It was that mother who placed her weak and dying hand in that of her +Almighty Saviour. + +To the children left by her daughter, she ministered with the +faithfulness of a guardian angel; and it is owing to her influence that +those who yet remain are among the best and noblest of mankind. + +The person whose relations with Byron had been so disastrous, also, in +the latter years of her life, felt Lady Byron's loving and ennobling +influences, and, in her last sickness and dying hours, looked to her +for consolation and help. + +There was an unfortunate child of sin, born with the curse upon +her, over whose wayward nature Lady Byron watched with a mother's +tenderness. She was the one who could have patience when the patience +of every one else failed; and though her task was a difficult one, from +the strange abnormal propensities to evil in the object of her cares, +yet Lady Byron never faltered, and never gave over, till death took +the responsibility from her hands. + +During all this trial, strange to say, her belief that the good in Lord +Byron would finally conquer was unshaken. + +To a friend who said to her, 'Oh! how could you love him?' she answered +briefly, 'My dear, there was the angel in him.' It is in us all. + +It was in this angel that she had faith. It was for the deliverance +of this angel from degradation and shame and sin that she unceasingly +prayed. She read every work that Byron wrote--read it with a deeper +knowledge than any human being but herself could possess. The ribaldry +and the obscenity and the insults with which he strove to make her +ridiculous in the world fell at her pitying feet unheeded. + +When he broke away from all this unworthy life to devote himself to a +manly enterprise for the redemption of Greece, she thought that she saw +the beginning of an answer to her prayers. Even although one of his +latest acts concerning her was to repeat to Lady Blessington the false +accusation which made Lady Byron the author of all his errors, she +still had hopes from the one step taken in the right direction. + +In the midst of these hopes came the news of his sudden death. On his +death-bed, it is well-known that he called his confidential English +servant to him, and said to him, 'Go to my sister; tell her--Go to Lady +Byron,--you will see her,--and say'-- + +Here followed twenty minutes of indistinct mutterings, in which the +names of his wife, daughter, and sister, frequently occurred. He then +said, 'Now I have told you all.' + +'My lord,' replied Fletcher, 'I have not understood a word your +lordship has been saying.' + +'Not understand me!' exclaimed Lord Byron with a look of the utmost +distress: 'what a pity! Then it is too late,--all is over!' He +afterwards, says Moore, tried to utter a few words, of which none were +intelligible except 'My sister--my child.' + +When Fletcher returned to London, Lady Byron sent for him, and walked +the room in convulsive struggles to repress her tears and sobs, while +she over and over again strove to elicit something from him which +should enlighten her upon what that last message had been; but in vain: +the gates of eternity were shut in her face, and not a word had passed +to tell her if he had repented. + +For all that, Lady Byron never doubted his salvation. Ever before her, +during the few remaining years of her widowhood, was the image of her +husband, purified and ennobled, with the shadows of earth for ever +dissipated, the stains of sin for ever removed; 'the angel in him,' as +she expressed it, 'made perfect, according to its divine ideal.' + +Never has more divine strength of faith and love existed in woman. +Out of the depths of her own loving and merciful nature, she gained +such views of the divine love and mercy as made all hopes possible. +There was no soul of whose future Lady Byron despaired,--such was her +boundless faith in the redeeming power of love. + +After Byron's death, the life of this delicate creature--so frail in +body that she seemed always hovering on the brink of the eternal world, +yet so strong in spirit, and so unceasing in her various ministries of +mercy--was a miracle of mingled weakness and strength. + +To talk with her seemed to the writer of this sketch the nearest +possible approach to talking with one of the spirits of the just made +perfect. + +She was gentle, artless; approachable as a little child; with ready, +outflowing sympathy for the cares and sorrows and interests of all who +approached her; with a _naive_ and gentle playfulness, that adorned, +without hiding, the breadth and strength of her mind; and, above all, +with a clear, divining, moral discrimination; never mistaking wrong +for right in the slightest shade, yet with a mercifulness that made +allowance for every weakness, and pitied every sin. + +There was so much of Christ in her, that to have seen her seemed to be +to have drawn near to heaven. She was one of those few whom absence +cannot estrange from friends; whose mere presence in this world seems +always a help to every generous thought, a strength to every good +purpose, a comfort in every sorrow. + +Living so near the confines of the spiritual world, she seemed already +to see into it: hence the words of comfort which she addressed to a +friend who had lost a son:-- + +'Dear friend, remember, as long as our loved ones are in _God's_ world, +they are in _ours_.' + + * * * * * + +It has been thought by some friends who have read the proof-sheets +of the foregoing that the author should give more specifically her +authority for these statements. + +The circumstances which led the writer to England at a certain time +originated a friendship and correspondence with Lady Byron, which was +always regarded as one of the greatest acquisitions of that visit. + +On the occasion of a second visit to England, in 1856, the writer +received a note from Lady Byron, indicating that she wished to have +some private, confidential conversation upon important subjects, +and inviting her, for that purpose, to spend a day with her at her +country-seat near London. + +The writer went and spent a day with Lady Byron alone; and the object +of the invitation was explained to her. Lady Byron was in such a state +of health, that her physicians had warned her that she had very little +time to live. She was engaged in those duties and retrospections which +every thoughtful person finds necessary, when coming deliberately, and +with open eyes, to the boundaries of this mortal life. + +At that time, there was a cheap edition of Byron's works in +contemplation, intended to bring his writings into circulation among +the masses; and the pathos arising from the story of his domestic +misfortunes was one great means relied on for giving it currency. + +Under these circumstances, some of Lady Byron's friends had proposed +the question to her, _whether she had not a responsibility to society +for the truth_; whether _she did right_ to allow these writings to gain +influence over the popular mind by giving a silent consent to what she +knew to be utter falsehoods. + +Lady Byron's whole life had been passed in the most heroic +self-abnegation and self-sacrifice: and she had now to consider whether +one more act of self-denial was not required of her before leaving this +world; namely, to declare the absolute truth, no matter at what expense +to her own feelings. + +For this reason, it was her desire to recount the whole history to a +person of another country, and entirely out of the sphere of personal +and local feelings which might be supposed to influence those in the +country and station in life where the events really happened, in order +that she might be helped by such a person's views in making up an +opinion as to her own duty. + +The interview had almost the solemnity of a death-bed avowal. Lady +Byron stated the facts which have been embodied in this article, and +gave to the writer a paper containing a brief memorandum of the whole, +with the dates affixed. + +We have already spoken of that singular sense of the reality of the +spiritual world which seemed to encompass Lady Byron during the last +part of her life, and which made her words and actions seem more like +those of a blessed being detached from earth than of an ordinary +mortal. All her modes of looking at things, all her motives of action, +all her involuntary exhibitions of emotion, were so high above any +common level, and so entirely regulated by the most unworldly causes, +that it would seem difficult to make the ordinary world understand +exactly how the thing seemed to lie before her mind. What impressed +the writer more strongly than anything else was Lady Byron's perfect +conviction that her husband was now a redeemed spirit; that he looked +back with pain and shame and regret on all that was unworthy in his +past life; and that, if he could speak or could act in the case, he +would desire to prevent the further circulation of base falsehoods, +and of seductive poetry, which had been made the vehicle of morbid and +unworthy passions. + +Lady Byron's experience had led her to apply the powers of her strong +philosophical mind to the study of mental pathology: and she had become +satisfied that the solution of the painful problem which first occurred +to her as a young wife, was, after all, the true one; namely, that +Lord Byron had been one of those unfortunately constituted persons in +whom the balance of nature is so critically hung, that it is always in +danger of dipping towards insanity; and that, in certain periods of his +life, he was so far under the influence of mental disorder as not to be +fully responsible for his actions. + +She went over with a brief and clear analysis the history of his +whole life as she had thought it out during the lonely musings of her +widowhood. She dwelt on the ancestral causes that gave him a nature +of exceptional and dangerous susceptibility. She went through the +mismanagements of his childhood, the history of his school-days, the +influence of the ordinary school-course of classical reading on such +a mind as his. She sketched boldly and clearly the internal life of +the young men of the time, as she, with her purer eyes, had looked +through it; and showed how habits, which, with less susceptible fibre, +and coarser strength of nature, were tolerable for his companions, +were deadly to him, unhinging his nervous system, and intensifying the +dangers of ancestral proclivities. Lady Byron expressed the feeling +too, that the Calvinistic theology, as heard in Scotland, had proved +in his case, as it often does in certain minds, a subtle poison. He +never could either disbelieve or become reconciled to it; and the sore +problems it proposes embittered his spirit against Christianity. + +'The worst of it is, I _do believe_,' he would often say with violence, +when he had been employing all his powers of reason, wit, and ridicule +upon these subjects. + +Through all this sorrowful history was to be seen, not the care of a +slandered woman to make her story good, but the pathetic anxiety of +a mother, who treasures every particle of hope, every intimation of +good, in the son whom she cannot cease to love. With indescribable +resignation, she dwelt on those last hours, those words addressed to +her, never to be understood till repeated in eternity. + +But all this she looked upon as for ever past; believing, that, with +the dropping of the earthly life, these morbid impulses and influences +ceased, and that higher nature which he often so beautifully expressed +in his poems became the triumphant one. + +While speaking on this subject, her pale ethereal face became luminous +with a heavenly radiance; there was something so sublime in her belief +in the victory of love over evil, that faith with her seemed to have +become sight. She seemed so clearly to perceive the divine ideal of +the man she had loved, and for whose salvation she had been called to +suffer and labour and pray, that all memories of his past unworthiness +fell away, and were lost. + +Her love was never the doting fondness of weak women; it was the +appreciative and discriminating love by which a higher nature +recognised god-like capabilities under all the dust and defilement +of misuse and passion: and she never doubted that the love which in +her was so strong, that no injury or insult could shake it, was yet +stronger in the God who made her capable of such a devotion, and that +in him it was accompanied by power to subdue all things to itself. + +The writer was so impressed and excited by the whole scene and recital, +that she begged for two or three days to deliberate before forming any +opinion. She took the memorandum with her, returned to London, and gave +a day or two to the consideration of the subject. The decision which +she made was chiefly influenced by her reverence and affection for Lady +Byron. She seemed so frail, she had suffered so much, she stood at +such a height above the comprehension of the coarse and common world, +that the author had a feeling that it would almost be like violating a +shrine to ask her to come forth from the sanctuary of a silence where +she had so long abode, and plead her cause. She wrote to Lady Byron, +that while this act of justice did seem to be called for, and to be in +some respects most desirable, yet, as it would involve so much that was +painful to her, the writer considered that Lady Byron would be entirely +justifiable in leaving the truth to be disclosed after her death; and +recommended that all the facts necessary should be put in the hands of +some person, to be so published. + +Years passed on. Lady Byron lingered four years after this interview to +the wonder of her physicians and all her friends. + +After Lady Byron's death, the writer looked anxiously, hoping to see a +Memoir of the person whom she considered the most remarkable woman that +England has produced in the century. No such Memoir has appeared on the +part of her friends; and the mistress of Lord Byron has the ear of the +public, and is sowing far and wide unworthy slanders, which are eagerly +gathered up and read by an undiscriminating community. + +There may be family reasons in England which prevent Lady Byron's +friends from speaking. But Lady Byron has an American name and an +American existence; and reverence for pure womanhood is, we think, a +national characteristic of the American; and, so far as this country +is concerned, we feel that the public should have this refutation of +the slanders of the Countess Guiccioli's book. + + +LORD LINDSAY'S LETTER TO THE LONDON 'TIMES.' + +TO THE EDITOR OF 'THE TIMES.' + +Sir,--I have waited in expectation of a categorical denial of the +horrible charge brought by Mrs. Beecher Stowe against Lord Byron and +his sister on the alleged authority of the late Lady Byron. Such denial +has been only indirectly given by the letter of Messrs. Wharton and +Fords in your impression of yesterday. That letter is sufficient to +prove that Lady Byron never contemplated the use made of her name, and +that her descendants and representatives disclaim any countenance of +Mrs. B. Stowe's article; but it does not specifically meet Mrs. Stowe's +allegation, that Lady Byron, in conversing with her thirteen years ago, +affirmed the charge now before us. It remains open, therefore, to a +scandal-loving world, to credit the calumny through the advantage of +this flaw, involuntary, I believe, in the answer produced against it. +My object in addressing you is to supply that deficiency by proving +that what is now stated on Lady Byron's supposed authority is at +variance, in all respects, with what she stated immediately after the +separation, when everything was fresh in her memory in relation to +the time during which, according to Mrs. B. Stowe, she believed that +Byron and his sister were living together in guilt. I publish this +evidence with reluctance, but in obedience to that higher obligation +of justice to the voiceless and defenceless dead which bids me break +through a reserve that otherwise I should have held sacred. The Lady +Byron of 1818 would, I am certain, have sanctioned my doing so, had +she foreseen the present unparalleled occasion, and the bar that the +conditions of her will present (as I infer from Messrs. Wharton and +Fords' letter) against any fuller communication. Calumnies such as the +present sink deep and with rapidity into the public mind, and are not +easily eradicated. The fame of one of our greatest poets, and that +of the kindest and truest and most constant friend that Byron ever +had, is at stake; and it will not do to wait for revelations from the +fountain-head, which are not promised, and possibly may never reach us. + +The late Lady Anne Barnard, who died in 1825, a contemporary and friend +of Burke, Windham, Dundas, and a host of the wise and good of that +generation, and remembered in letters as the authoress of 'Auld Robin +Gray,' had known the late Lady Byron from infancy, and took a warm +interest in her; holding Lord Byron in corresponding repugnance, not +to say prejudice, in consequence of what she believed to be his harsh +and cruel treatment of her young friend. I transcribe the following +passages, and a letter from Lady Byron herself (written in 1818) from +_ricordi_, or private family memoirs, in Lady Anne's autograph, now +before me. I include the letter, because, although treating only in +general terms of the matter and causes of the separation, it affords +collateral evidence bearing strictly upon the point of the credibility +of the charge now in question:-- + + * * * * * + +'The separation of Lord and Lady Byron astonished the world, which +believed him a reformed man as to his habits, and a becalmed man as to +his remorses. He had written nothing that appeared after his marriage +till the famous "Fare thee well," which had the power of compelling +those to pity the writer who were not well aware that he was not the +unhappy person he affected to be. Lady Byron's misery was whispered +soon after her marriage and his ill usage, but no word transpired, +no sign escaped, from her. She gave birth, shortly, to a daughter; +and when she went, as soon as she was recovered, on a visit to her +father's, taking her little Ada with her, no one knew that it was to +return to her lord no more. At that period, a severe fit of illness had +confined me to bed for two months. I heard of Lady Byron's distress; +of the pains he took to give a harsh impression of her character +to the world. I wrote to her, and entreated her to come and let me +see and hear her, if she conceived my sympathy or counsel could be +any comfort to her. She came; but what a tale was unfolded by this +interesting young creature, who had so fondly hoped to have made a +young man of genius and romance (as she supposed) happy! They had not +been an hour in the carriage which conveyed them from the church, when, +breaking into a malignant sneer, "Oh! what a dupe you have been to your +imagination! How is it possible a woman of your sense could form the +wild hope of reforming _me_? Many are the tears you will have to shed +ere that plan is accomplished. It is enough for me that you are my wife +for me to hate you! If you were the wife of any other man, I own you +might have charms," &c. I who listened was astonished. "How could you +go on after this," said I, "my dear? Why did you not return to your +father's?" "Because I had not a conception he was in earnest; because I +reckoned it a bad jest, and told him so,--that my opinions of him were +very different from his of himself, otherwise he would not find me by +his side. He laughed it over when he saw me appear hurt: and I forgot +what had passed, till forced to remember it. I believe he was pleased +with me, too, for a little while. I suppose it had escaped his memory +that I was his wife." But she described the happiness they enjoyed to +have been unequal and perturbed. Her situation, in a short time, might +have entitled her to some tenderness; but she made no claim on him for +any. He sometimes reproached her for the motives that had induced her +to marry him: all was "vanity, the vanity of Miss Milbanke carrying the +point of reforming Lord Byron! He always knew _her_ inducements; her +pride shut her eyes to _his_: _he_ wished to build up his character +and his fortunes; both were somewhat deranged: she had a high name, +and would have a fortune worth his attention,--let her look to that +for his motives!"--"O Byron, Byron!" she said, "how you desolate me!" +He would then accuse himself of being mad, and throw himself on the +ground in a frenzy, which she believed was affected to conceal the +coldness and malignity of his heart,--an affectation which at that +time never failed to meet with the tenderest commiseration. I could +find by some implications, not followed up by me, lest she might have +condemned herself afterwards for her involuntary disclosures, that he +soon attempted to corrupt her principles, both with respect to her own +conduct and her latitude for his. She saw the precipice on which she +stood, and kept his sister with her as much as possible. He returned +in the evenings from the haunts of vice, where he made her understand +he had been, with manners so profligate! "O the wretch!" said I. "And +had he no moments of remorse?" "Sometimes he appeared to have them. +One night, coming home from one of his lawless parties, he saw me so +indignantly collected, and bearing all with such a determined calmness, +that a rush of remorse seemed to come over him. He called himself a +monster, though his sister was present, and threw himself in agony at +my feet. I could not--no--I could not forgive him such injuries. He +had lost me for ever! Astonished at the return of virtue, my tears, I +believe, flowed over his face, and I said, 'Byron, all is forgotten: +never, never shall you hear of it more!' He started up, and, folding +his arms while he looked at me, burst into laughter. 'What do you +mean?' said I. 'Only a philosophical experiment; that's all,' said +he. 'I wished to ascertain the value of your resolutions.'" I need +not say more of this prince of duplicity, except that varied were his +methods of rendering her wretched, even to the last. When her lovely +little child was born, and it was laid beside its mother on the bed, +and he was informed he might see his daughter, after gazing at it with +an exulting smile, this was the ejaculation that broke from him: "Oh, +what an implement of torture have I acquired in you!" Such he rendered +it by his eyes and manner, keeping her in a perpetual alarm for its +safety when in his presence. All this reads madder than I believe he +was: but she had not then made up her mind to disbelieve his pretended +insanity, and conceived it best to intrust her secret with the +excellent Dr. Baillie; telling him all that seemed to regard the state +of her husband's mind, and letting his advice regulate her conduct. +Baillie doubted of his derangement; but, as he did not reckon his own +opinion infallible, he wished her to take precautions as if her husband +were so. He recommended her going to the country, but to give him no +suspicion of her intentions of remaining there, and, for a short time, +to show no coldness in her letters, till she could better ascertain his +state. She went, regretting, as she told me, to wear any semblance but +the truth. A short time disclosed the story to the world. He acted the +part of a man driven to despair by her inflexible resentment and by the +arts of a governess (once a servant in the family) who hated him. "I +will give you," proceeds Lady Anne, "a few paragraphs transcribed from +one of Lady Byron's own letters to me. It is sorrowful to think, that, +in a very little time, this young and amiable creature, wise, patient, +and feeling, will have her character mistaken by every one who reads +Byron's works. To rescue her from this, I preserved her letters; and, +when she afterwards expressed a fear that any thing of her writings +should ever fall into hands to injure him (I suppose she meant by +publication), I safely assured her that it never should. But here this +letter shall be placed, a sacred record in her favour, unknown to +herself":-- + + '"I am a very incompetent judge of the impression which the last canto + of 'Childe Harold' may produce on the minds of indifferent readers. + It contains the usual trace of a conscience restlessly awake; though + his object has been too long to aggravate its burden, as if it could + thus be oppressed into eternal stupor. I will hope, as you do, that it + survives for his ultimate good. It was the acuteness of his remorse, + impenitent in its character, which so long seemed to demand from my + compassion to spare every resemblance of reproach, every look of + grief, which might have said to his conscience, 'You have made me + wretched.' I am decidedly of opinion that he is responsible. He has + wished to be thought partially deranged, or on the brink of it, to + perplex observers, and prevent them from tracing effects to their + real causes through all the intricacies of his conduct. I was, as + I told you, at one time the dupe of his acted insanity, and clung + to the former delusions in regard to the motives that concerned me + personally, till the whole system was laid bare. He is the absolute + monarch of words, and uses them, as Bonaparte did lives, for conquest, + without more regard to their intrinsic value; considering them only + as ciphers, which must derive all their import from the situation in + which he places them, and the ends to which he adapts them with such + consummate skill. Why, then, you will say, does he not employ them to + give a better colour to his own character? Because he is too good an + actor to over-act, or to assume a moral garb which it would be easy + to strip off. In regard to his poetry, egotism is the vital principle + of his imagination, which it is difficult for him to kindle on any + subject with which his own character and interests are not identified: + but by the introduction of fictitious incidents, by change of scene + or time, he has enveloped his poetical disclosures in a system + impenetrable except to a very few; and his constant desire of creating + a sensation makes him not averse to be the object of wonder and + curiosity, even though accompanied by some dark and vague suspicions. + Nothing has contributed more to the misunderstanding of his real + character than the lonely grandeur in which he shrouds it, and his + affectation of being above mankind, when he exists almost in their + voice. The romance of his sentiments is another feature of this mask + of state. I know no one more habitually destitute of that enthusiasm + he so beautifully expresses, and to which he can work up his fancy + chiefly by contagion. I had heard he was the best of brothers, the + most generous of friends; and I thought such feelings only required to + be warmed and cherished into more diffusive benevolence. Though these + opinions are eradicated, and could never return but with the decay + of my memory, you will not wonder if there are still moments when + the association of feelings which arose from them soften and sadden + my thoughts. But I have not thanked you, dearest Lady Anne, for your + kindness in regard to a principal object,--that of rectifying false + impressions. I trust you understand my wishes, which never were to + injure Lord Byron in any way: for, though he would not suffer me to + remain his wife, he cannot prevent me from continuing his friend; and + it was from considering myself as such that I silenced the accusations + by which my own conduct might have been more fully justified. It is + not necessary to speak ill of his heart in general: it is sufficient + that to me it was hard and impenetrable; that my own must have been + broken before his could have been touched. I would rather represent + this as _my_ misfortune than as _his_ guilt; but surely that + misfortune is not to be made my crime! Such are my feelings: you will + judge how to act. His allusions to me in 'Childe Harold' are cruel + and cold, but with such a semblance as to make _me_ appear so, and to + attract all sympathy to himself. It is said in this poem that hatred + of him will be taught as a lesson to his child. I might appeal to all + who have ever heard me speak of him, and still more to my own heart, + to witness that there has been no moment when I have remembered injury + otherwise than affectionately and sorrowfully. It is not my duty to + give way to hopeless and wholly unrequited affection; but, so long + as I live, my chief struggle will probably be not to remember him + too kindly. I do not seek the sympathy of the world; but I wish to be + known by those whoso opinion is valuable, and whose kindness is dear + to me. Among such, my dear Lady Anne, you will ever be remembered by + your truly affectionate, + + '"A. BYRON."' + +It is the province of your readers, and of the world at large, to +judge between the two testimonies now before them,--Lady Byron's in +1816 and 1818, and that put forward in 1869 by Mrs. B. Stowe, as +communicated by Lady Byron thirteen years ago. In the face of the +evidence now given, positive, negative, and circumstantial, there +can be but two alternatives in the case: either Mrs. B. Stowe must +have entirely misunderstood Lady Byron, and been thus led into error +and misstatement, or we must conclude that, under the pressure of a +lifelong and secret sorrow, Lady Byron's mind had become clouded with +an hallucination in respect of the particular point in question. + +Tho reader will admire the noble but severe character displayed +in Lady Byron's letter; but those who keep in view what her first +impressions were, as above recorded, may probably place a more lenient +interpretation than hers upon some of the incidents alleged to Byron's +discredit. I shall conclude with some remarks upon his character, +written shortly after his death by a wise, virtuous, and charitable +judge, the late Sir Walter Scott, likewise in a letter to Lady Anne +Barnard:-- + +'Fletcher's account of poor Byron is extremely interesting. I +had always a strong attachment to that unfortunate though most +richly-gifted man, because I thought I saw that his virtues (and he had +many) were his own; and his eccentricities the result of an irritable +temperament, which sometimes approached nearly to mental disease. Those +who are gifted with strong nerves, a regular temper, and habitual +self-command, are not, perhaps, aware how much of what they may think +virtue they owe to constitution; and such are but too severe judges of +men like Byron, whose mind, like a day of alternate storm and sunshine, +is all dark shades and stray gleams of light, instead of the twilight +gray which illuminates happier though less distinguished mortals. I +always thought, that, when a moral proposition was placed plainly +before Lord Byron, his mind yielded a pleased and willing assent to +it; but, if there was any side view given in the way of raillery or +otherwise, he was willing enough to evade conviction.... It augurs +ill for the cause of Greece that this master-spirit should have been +withdrawn from their assistance just as he was obtaining a complete +ascendency over their counsels. I have seen several letters from the +Ionian Islands, all of which unite in speaking in the highest praise of +the wisdom and temperance of his counsels, and the ascendency he was +obtaining over the turbulent and ferocious chiefs of the insurgents. I +have some verses written by him on his last birthday: they breathe a +spirit of affection towards his wife, and a desire of dying in battle, +which seems like an anticipation of his approaching fate.' + + I remain, sir, your obedient servant, + + LINDSAY, + + DUNECHT, Sept. 3. + + +DR. FORBES WINSLOW'S LETTER TO THE LONDON 'TIMES.' + +TO THE EDITOR. + +SIR,--Your paper of the 4th of September, containing an able +and deeply interesting 'Vindication of Lord Byron,' has followed me +to this place. With the general details of the 'True Story' (as it is +termed) of Lady Byron's separation from her husband, as recorded in +'Macmillan's Magazine,' I have no desire or intention to grapple. It +is only with the hypothesis of insanity, as suggested by the clever +writer of the 'Vindication' to account for Lady Byron's sad revelations +to Mrs. Beecher Stowe, with which I propose to deal. I do not believe +that the mooted theory of mental aberration can, in this case, be for a +moment maintained. If Lady Byron's statement of facts to Mrs. B. Stowe +is to be viewed as the creation of a distempered fancy, a delusion or +hallucination of an insane mind, what part of the narrative are we to +draw the boundary-line between fact and delusion, sanity and insanity? +Where are we to fix the _point d'appui_ of the lunacy? Again: is the +alleged 'hallucination' to be considered as strictly confined to the +idea that Lord Byron had committed the frightful sin of incest? or is +the whole of the 'True Story' of her married life, as reproduced with +such terrible minuteness by Mrs. Beecher Stowe, to be viewed as the +delusion of a disordered fancy? If Lady Byron was the subject of an +'hallucination' with regard to her husband, I think it not unreasonable +to conclude that the mental alienation existed on the day of her +marriage. If this proposition be accepted, the natural inference will +be, that the details of the conversation which Lady Byron represents to +have occurred between herself and Lord Byron as soon as they entered +the carriage never took place. Lord Byron is said to have remarked +to Lady Byron, 'You might have prevented this (or words to this +effect): you will now find that you have married a devil.' Is this +alleged conversation to be viewed as _fact_, or _fiction_? evidence of +_sanity_, or _insanity_? Is the revelation which Lord Byron is said to +have made to his wife of his 'incestuous passion' another delusion, +having no foundation except in his wife's disordered imagination? Are +his alleged attempts to justify to Lady Byron's mind the _morale_ of +the plea of 'Continental latitude--the good-humoured marriage, in which +complaisant couples mutually agree to form the cloak for each other's +infidelities,'--another morbid perversion of her imagination? Did this +conversation ever take place? It will be difficult to separate one +part of the 'True Story' from another, and maintain that this portion +indicates insanity, and that portion represents sanity. If we accept +the hypothesis of hallucination, we are bound to view the whole of Lady +Byron's conversations with Mrs. B. Stowe, and the written statement +laid before her, as the wild and incoherent representations of a +lunatic. On the day when Lady Byron parted from her husband, did she +enter his private room, and find him with the 'object of his guilty +passion?' and did he say, as they parted, 'When shall we three meet +again?' Is this to be considered as an actual occurrence, or as another +form of hallucination? It is quite inconsistent with the theory of Lady +Byron's insanity to imagine that her delusion was restricted to the +idea of his having committed 'incest.' In common fairness, we are bound +to view the aggregate mental phenomena which she exhibited from the +day of the marriage to their final separation and her death. No person +practically acquainted with the true characteristics of insanity would +affirm, that, had this idea of 'incest' been an insane hallucination, +Lady Byron could, from the lengthened period which intervened between +her unhappy marriage and death, have refrained from exhibiting her +mental alienation, not only to her legal advisers and trustees, but to +others, exacting no pledge of secrecy from them as to her disordered +impressions. Lunatics do for a time, and for some special purpose, most +cunningly conceal their delusions; but they have not the capacity to +struggle for thirty-six years with a frightful hallucination, similar +to the one Lady Byron is alleged to have had, without the insane state +of mind becoming obvious to those with whom they are daily associating. +Neither is it consistent with experience to suppose that, if Lady Byron +had been a monomaniac, her state of disordered understanding would have +been restricted to one hallucination. Her diseased brain, affecting the +normal action of thought, would, in all probability, have manifested +other symptoms besides those referred to of aberration of intellect. + +During the last thirty years, I have not met with a case of insanity +(assuming the hypothesis of hallucination) at all parallel with that +of Lady Byron's. In my experience, it is unique. I never saw a patient +with such a delusion. If it should be established, by the statements of +those who are the depositors of the secret (and they are now bound, in +vindication of Lord Byron's memory, to deny, if they have the power of +doing so, this most frightful accusation), that the idea of incest did +unhappily cross Lady Byron's mind prior to her finally leaving him, it +no doubt arose from a most inaccurate knowledge of facts and perfectly +unjustifiable data, and was not, in the right psychological acceptation +of the phrase, an insane hallucination. + + Sir, I remain your obedient servant, + + FORBES WINSLOW, M.D. + +ZARINGERHOF, FREIBURG-EN-BREISGAU, Sept. 8, 1869. + + +EXTRACT FROM LORD BYRON'S EXPUNGED LETTER. + +TO MR. MURRAY. + + 'BOLOGNA, June 7, 1819. + +... 'Before I left Venice, I had returned to you your late, and Mr. +Hobhouse's sheets of "Juan." Don't wait for further answers from +me, but address yours to Venice as usual. I know nothing of my own +movements. I may return there in a few days, or not for some time: +all this depends on circumstances. I left Mr. Hoppner very well. My +daughter Allegra is well too, and is growing pretty: her hair is +growing darker, and her eyes are blue. Her temper and her ways, Mr. +Hoppner says, are like mine, as well as her features: she will make, in +that case, a manageable young lady. + +'I have never seen anything of Ada, the little Electra of my Mycenae.... +But there will come a day of reckoning, even if I should not live +to see it. I have at least seen ---- shivered, who was one of my +assassins. When that man was doing his worst to uproot my whole +family,--tree, branch, and blossoms; when, after taking my retainer, +he went over to them; when he was bringing desolation on my hearth, +and destruction on my household gods,--did he think that, in less +than three years, a natural event, a severe domestic, but an expected +and common calamity, would lay his carcass in a cross-road, or stamp +his name in a verdict of lunacy? Did he (who in his sexagenary ...) +reflect or consider what my feelings must have been when wife and child +and sister, and name and fame and country, were to be my sacrifice on +his legal altar?--and this at a moment when my health was declining, +my fortune embarrassed, and my mind had been shaken by many kinds of +disappointment? while I was yet young, and might have reformed what +might be wrong in my conduct, and retrieved what was perplexing in +my affairs? But he is in his grave, and--What a long letter I have +scribbled!'... + + * * * * * + +In order that the reader may measure the change of moral tone with +regard to Lord Byron, wrought by the constant efforts of himself and +his party, we give the two following extracts from 'Blackwood.' + +The first is 'Blackwood' in 1819, just after the publication of 'Don +Juan': the second is 'Blackwood' in 1825. + +'In the composition of this work, there is, unquestionably, a more +thorough and intense infusion of genius and vice, power and profligacy, +than in any poem which had ever before been written in the English, +or, indeed, in any other modern language. Had the wickedness been less +inextricably mingled with the beauty and the grace and the strength of +a most inimitable and incomprehensible Muse, our task would have been +easy. 'Don Juan' is by far the most admirable specimen of the mixture +of ease, strength, gaiety, and seriousness, extant in the whole body +of English poetry: the author has devoted his powers to the worst of +purposes and passions; and it increases his guilt and our sorrow that +he has devoted them entire. + +'The moral strain of the whole poem is pitched in the lowest key. Love, +honour, patriotism, religion, are mentioned only to be scoffed at, as +if their sole resting-place were, or ought to be, in the bosoms of +fools. It appears, in short, as if this miserable man, having exhausted +every species of sensual gratification, having drained the cup of sin +even to its bitterest dregs, were resolved to show us that he is no +longer a human being, even in his frailties, but a cool, unconcerned +fiend, laughing with a detestable glee over the whole of the better and +worse elements of which human life is composed; treating well-nigh with +equal derision the most pure of virtues, and the most odious of vices; +dead alike to the beauty of the one, and the deformity of the other; +a mere heartless despiser of that frail but noble humanity, whose +type was never exhibited in a shape of more deplorable degradation +than in his own contemptuously distinct delineation of himself. To +confess to his Maker, and weep over in secret agonies the wildest and +most fantastic transgressions of heart and mind, is the part of a +conscious sinner, in whom sin has not become the sole principle of life +and action; but to lay bare to the eye of man and of _woman_ all the +hidden convulsions of a wicked spirit, and to do all this without one +symptom of contrition, remorse, or hesitation, with a calm, careless +ferociousness of contented and satisfied depravity,--this was an insult +which no man of genius had ever before dared to put upon his Creator +or his species. Impiously railing against his God, madly and meanly +disloyal to his sovereign and his country, and brutally outraging all +the best feelings of female honor, affection, and confidence, how small +a part of chivalry is that which remains to the descendant of the +Byrons!--a gloomy visor and a deadly weapon! + +'Those who are acquainted (as who is not?) with the main incidents in +the private life of Lord Byron, and who have not seen this production, +will scarcely believe that malignity should have carried him so far as +to make him commence a filthy and impious poem with an elaborate satire +on the character and manners of his wife, from whom, even by his own +confession, he has been separated only in consequence of his own cruel +and heartless misconduct. It is in vain for Lord Byron to attempt in +any way to justify his own behaviour in that affair; and, now that he +has so openly and audaciously invited inquiry and reproach, we do not +see any good reason why he should not be plainly told so by the general +voice of his countrymen. It would not be an easy matter to persuade +any man who has any knowledge of the nature of woman, that a female +such as Lord Byron has himself described his wife to be would rashly or +hastily or lightly separate herself from the love with which she had +once been inspired for such a man as he is or was. Had he not heaped +insult upon insult, and scorn upon scorn, had he not forced the iron +of his contempt into her very soul, there is no woman of delicacy and +virtue, as he _admitted_ Lady Byron to be, who would not have hoped all +things, and suffered all things, from one, her love of whom must have +been inwoven with so many exalting elements of delicious pride, and +more delicious humility. To offend the love of such a woman was wrong, +but it might be forgiven; to desert her was unmanly, but he might have +returned, and wiped for ever from her eyes the tears of her desertion: +but to injure and to desert, and then to turn back and wound her +widowed privacy with unhallowed strains of cold-blooded mockery, was +brutally, fiendishly, inexpiably mean. For impurities there might be +some possibility of pardon, were they supposed to spring only from the +reckless buoyancy of young blood and fiery passions; for impiety there +might at least be pity, were it visible that the misery of the impious +soul equalled its darkness: but for offences such as this, which cannot +proceed either from the madness of sudden impulse or the bewildered +agonies of doubt, but which speak the wilful and determined spite of +an unrepenting, unsoftened, smiling, sarcastic, joyous sinner, there +can be neither pity nor pardon. Our knowledge that it is committed +by one of the most powerful intellects our island ever has produced +lends intensity a thousand-fold to the bitterness of our indignation. +Every high thought that was ever kindled in our breasts by the Muse of +Byron, every pure and lofty feeling that ever responded from within +us to the sweep of his majestic inspirations, every remembered moment +of admiration and enthusiasm, is up in arms against him. We look back +with a mixture of wrath and scorn to the delight with which we suffered +ourselves to be filled by one, who, all the while he was furnishing +us with delight, must, we cannot doubt it, have been mocking us with +a cruel mockery; less cruel only, because less peculiar, than that +with which he has now turned him from the lurking-place of his selfish +and polluted exile to pour the pitiful chalice of his contumely on +the surrendered devotion of a virgin bosom, and the holy hopes of the +mother of his child. It is indeed a sad and a humiliating thing to +know, that in the same year, there proceeded from the same pen two +productions in all things so different as the fourth canto of "Childe +Harold" and his loathsome "Don Juan." + +'We have mentioned one, and, all will admit, the worst instance of the +private malignity which has been embodied in so many passages of "Don +Juan;" and we are quite sure the lofty-minded and virtuous _men_ whom +Lord Byron has debased himself by insulting will close the volume which +contains their own injuries, with no feelings save those of pity for +him that has inflicted them, and for her who partakes so largely in the +same injuries.'--_August, 1819._ + + +'BLACKWOOD,'--_iterum_. + +'We shall, like all others who say anything about Lord Byron, begin, +_sans apologie_, with his personal character. This is the great object +of attack, the constant theme of open vituperation to one set, and the +established mark for all the petty but deadly artillery of sneers, +shrugs, groans, to another. Two widely different matters, however, +are generally, we might say universally, mixed up here,--the personal +character of the man, as proved by his course of life; and his personal +character, as revealed in or guessed from his books. Nothing can be +more unfair than the style in which this mixture is made use of. Is +there a noble sentiment, a lofty thought, a sublime conception, in +the book? "Ah, yes!" is the answer, "But what of that? It is only +the _roue_ Byron that speaks!" Is a kind, a generous action of the +man mentioned? "Yes, yes!" comments the sage; "but only remember the +atrocities of 'Don Juan:' depend on it, this, if it be true, must have +been a mere freak of caprice, or perhaps a bit of vile hypocrisy." +Salvation is thus shut out at either entrance: the poet damns the man, +and the man the poet. + +'Nobody will suspect us of being so absurd as to suppose that it is +possible for people to draw no inferences as to the character of an +author from his book, or to shut entirely out of view, in judging of +a book, that which they may happen to _know_ about the man who writes +it. The cant of the day supposes such things to be practicable; but +they are not. But what we complain of and scorn is the extent to which +they are carried in the case of this particular individual, as compared +with others; the impudence with which things are at once assumed to be +facts in regard to _his_ private history; and the absolute unfairness +of never arguing from _his_ writings to _him, but for evil_. + +'Take the man, in the first place, as unconnected, in so far as we +can thus consider him, with his works; and ask, What, after all, are +the bad things we know of him? Was he dishonest or dishonourable? +had he ever _done_ anything to forfeit, or even endanger, his rank +as a gentleman? Most assuredly, no such accusations have ever been +maintained against Lord Byron the private nobleman, although something +of the sort may have been insinuated against the author. "But he was +such a profligate in his morals, that his name cannot be mentioned with +anything like tolerance." Was he so, indeed? We should like extremely +to have the catechising of the individual _man_ who says so. That +he indulged in sensual vices, to some extent, is certain, and to be +regretted and condemned. But was he worse, as to such matters, than +the enormous majority of those who join in the cry of horror upon this +occasion? We most assuredly believe exactly the reverse; and we rest +our belief upon very plain and intelligible grounds. First, we hold it +impossible that the majority of mankind, or that anything beyond a very +small minority, are or can be entitled to talk of sensual profligacy as +having formed a part of the life and character of the man, who, dying +at six and thirty, bequeathed a collection of works such as Byron's to +the world. Secondly, we hold it impossible, that laying the extent of +his intellectual labours out of the question, and looking only to the +nature of the intellect which generated, and delighted in generating, +such beautiful and noble conceptions as are to be found in almost all +Lord Byron's works,--we hold it impossible that very many men can be +at once capable of comprehending these conceptions, and entitled to +consider sensual profligacy as having formed the principal, or even +a principal, trait in Lord Byron's character. Thirdly, and lastly, +we have never been able to hear any one fact established which could +prove Lord Byron to deserve anything like the degree or even kind +of odium which has, in regard to matters of this class, been heaped +upon his name. We have no story of base unmanly seduction, or false +and villainous intrigue, against him,--none whatever. It seems to us +quite clear, that, if he had been at all what is called in society +an unprincipled sensualist, there must have been many such stories, +authentic and authenticated. But there are none such,--absolutely none. +His name has been coupled with the names of three, four, or more women +of some rank: but what kind of women? Every one of them, in the first +place, about as old as himself in years, and therefore a great deal +older in character; every one of them utterly battered in reputation +long before he came into contact with them,--licentious, unprincipled, +characterless women. What father has ever reproached him with the ruin +of his daughter? What husband has denounced him as the destroyer of his +peace? + +'Let us not be mistaken. We are not defending the offences of which +Lord Byron unquestionably was guilty; neither are we finding fault +with those, who, after looking honestly within and around themselves, +condemn those offences, no matter how severely: but we are speaking +of society in general as it now exists; and we say that there is vile +hypocrisy in the tone in which Lord Byron is talked of _there_. We +say, that, although all offences against purity of life are miserable +things, and condemnable things, the degrees of guilt attached to +different offences of this class are as widely different as are the +degrees of guilt between an assault and a murder; and we confess our +belief, that no man of Byron's station or age could have run much risk +in gaining a very bad name in society, had a course of life similar +(in so far as we know any thing of that) to Lord Byron's been the only +thing chargeable against him. + +'The last poem he wrote was produced upon his birthday, not many weeks +before he died. We consider it as one of the finest and most touching +effusions of his noble genius. We think he who reads it, and can ever +after bring himself to regard even the worst transgressions that have +been charged against Lord Byron with any feelings but those of humble +sorrow and manly pity, is not deserving of the name of man. The deep +and passionate struggles with the inferior elements of his nature (and +ours) which it records; the lofty thirsting after purity; the heroic +devotion of a soul half weary of life, because unable to believe in +its own powers to live up to what it so intensely felt to be, and so +reverentially honoured as, the right; the whole picture of this mighty +spirit, often darkened, but never sunk,--often erring, but never +ceasing to see and to worship the beauty of virtue; the repentance of +it; the anguish; the aspiration, almost stilled in despair,--the whole +of this is such a whole, that we are sure no man can read these solemn +verses too often; and we recommend them for repetition, as the best and +most conclusive of all possible answers whenever the name of Byron is +insulted by those who permit themselves to forget nothing, either in +his life or in his writings, but the good.'--[1825.] + + * * * * * + +The following letters of Lady Byron's are reprinted from the Memoirs of +H. C. Robinson. They are given that the reader may form some judgment +of the strength and activity of her mind, and the elevated class of +subjects upon which it habitually dwelt. + + +LADY BYRON TO H. C. R. + + 'DEC. 31, 1853. + +'DEAR MR. CRABB ROBINSON,--I have an inclination, if I were +not afraid of trespassing on your time (but you can put my letter by +for any leisure moment), to enter upon the history of a character which +I think less appreciated than it ought to be. Men, I observe, do not +understand men in certain points, without a woman's interpretation. +Those points, of course, relate to feelings. + +'Here is a man taken by most of those who come in his way either for +Dry-as-Dust, Matter-of-fact, or for a "vain visionary." There are, +doubtless, some defective or excessive characteristics which give rise +to those impressions. + +'My acquaintance was made, oddly enough, with him twenty-seven years +ago. A pauper said to me of him, "He's the _poor man's_ doctor." Such +a recommendation seemed to me a good one: and I also knew that his +organizing head had formed the first district society in England (for +Mrs. Fry told me she could not have effected it without his aid); yet +he has always ignored his own share of it. I felt in him at once the +curious combination of the Christian and the cynic,--of reverence for +_man_, and contempt of _men_. It was then an internal war, but one in +which it was evident to me that the holier cause would be victorious, +because there was deep belief, and, as far as I could learn, a +blameless and benevolent life. He appeared only to want sunshine. It +was a plant which could not be brought to perfection in darkness. He +had begun life by the most painful conflict between filial duty and +conscience,--a large provision in the church secured for him by his +father; but he could not _sign_. There was discredit, as you know, +attached to such scruples. + +'He was also, when I first knew him, under other circumstances of +a nature to depress him, and to make him feel that he was unjustly +treated. The gradual removal of these called forth his better nature +in thankfulness to God. Still the old misanthropic modes of expressing +himself obtruded themselves at times. This passed in '48 between him +and Robertson. Robertson said to me, "I want to know something about +ragged schools." I replied, "You had better ask Dr. King: he knows +more about them."--"I?" said Dr. King. "I take care to know nothing of +ragged schools, lest they should make _me_ ragged." Robertson did not +see through it. Perhaps I had been taught to understand such suicidal +speeches by my cousin, Lord Melbourne. + +'The example of Christ, imperfectly as it may be understood by him, has +been ever before his eyes: he woke to the thought of following it, and +he went to rest consoled or rebuked by it. After nearly thirty years +of intimacy, I may, without presumption, form that opinion. There is +something pathetic to me in seeing any one _so_ unknown. Even the other +medical friends of Robertson, when I knew that Dr. King felt a woman's +tenderness, said on one occasion to him, "But we know that you, Dr. +King, are _above all feeling_." + +'If I have made the character more consistent to you by putting in +these bits of mosaic, my pen will not have been ill employed, nor +unpleasingly to you. + + 'Yours truly, + 'A. NOEL BYRON.' + + +LADY BYRON TO H. C. R. + + 'BRIGHTON, Nov. 15, 1854. + +'The thoughts of all this public and private suffering have taken +the life out of my pen when I tried to write on matters which would +otherwise have been most interesting to me: _these_ seemed the shadows, +_that_ the stern reality. It is good, however, to be drawn out of +scenes in which one is absorbed most unprofitably, and to have one's +natural interests revived by such a letter as I have to thank you for, +as well as its predecessor. You touch upon the very points which do +interest me the most, habitually. The change of form, and enlargement +of design, in "The Prospective" _had_ led me to express to one of the +promoters of that object my desire to contribute. The religious crisis +is instant; but the man for it? The next best thing, if, as I believe, +he is not to be found _in England_, is an association of such men as +are to edit the new periodical. An address delivered by Freeman Clarke +at Boston, last May, makes me think him better fitted for a leader than +any other of the religious "Free-thinkers." I wish I could send you +my one copy; but you do not _need_, it, and others do. His object is +the same as that of the "Alliance Universelle:" only he is still more +free from "partialism" (his own word) in his aspirations and practical +suggestions with respect to an ultimate "Christian synthesis." He +so far adopts Comte's theory as to speak of religion itself under +three successive aspects, historically,--1. Thesis; 2. Antithesis; +3. Synthesis. I made his acquaintance in England; and he inspired +confidence at once by his brave independence (_incomptis capillis_) and +self-_un_consciousness. J. J. Tayler's address of last month follows in +the same path,--all in favour of the "irenics," instead of polemics. + +'The answer which you gave me so fully and distinctly to the questions +I proposed for your consideration was of value in turning to my view +certain aspects of the case which I had not before observed. I had +begun a second attack on your patience, when all was forgotten in the +news of the day.' + + +Lady Byron to H. C. R. + + 'BRIGHTON, Dec. 25, 1854. + +'With J. J. Tayler, though almost a stranger to him, I have a peculiar +reason for sympathising. A book of his was a treasure to my daughter on +her death-bed.[50] + +[Footnote 50: Probably 'The Christian Aspects of Faith and Duty.' +Mr. Tayler has also written 'A Retrospect of the Religious Life of +England.'] + +'I must confess to intolerance of opinion as to these two +points,--_eternal_ evil in any form, and (involved in it) _eternal_ +suffering. To believe in these would take away my God, who is +all-loving. With a God with whom omnipotence and omniscience were all, +evil might be eternal; but why do I say to you what has been better +said elsewhere?' + + +LADY BYRON TO H. C. R. + + 'BRIGHTON, Jan. 31, 1855. + +... 'The great difficulty in respect to "The Review"[51] seems to be +to settle a basis, inclusive and exclusive; in short, a _boundary +question_. From what you said, I think you agreed with me, that +a latitudinarian Christianity ought to be the character of the +periodical; but the depth of the roots should correspond with the width +of the branches of that tree of knowledge. Of some of those minds one +might say, "They have no root;" and then, the richer the foliage, the +more danger that the trunk will fall. "Grounded in Christ" has to me +a most practical significance and value. I, too, have anxiety about +a friend (Miss Carpenter) whose life is of public importance: she, +more than any of the English reformers, unless Nash and Wright, has +found the art of drawing out the good of human nature, and proving its +existence. She makes these discoveries by the light of love. I hope +she may recover, from to-day's report. The object of a Reformatory +in Leicester has just been secured at a county meeting.... Now the +desideratum is well-qualified masters and mistresses. If you hear +of such by chance, pray let me know. The regular schoolmaster is an +extinguisher. Heart, and familiarity with the class to be educated, +are all important. At home and abroad, the evidence is conclusive on +that point; for I have for many years attended to such experiments +in various parts of Europe. "The Irish Quarterly" has taken up the +subject with rather more zeal than judgment. I had hoped that a sound +and temperate exposition of the facts might form an article in the +"Might-have-been Review."' + +[Footnote 51: 'The National Review.'] + + +LADY BYRON TO H. C. R. + + 'BRIGHTON, Feb. 12, 1855. + +'I have at last earned the pleasure of writing to you by having settled +troublesome matters of little moment, except locally; and I gladly take +a wider range by sympathizing in your interests. There is, besides, no +responsibility--for me at least--in canvassing the merits of Russell +or Palmerston, but much in deciding whether the "village politician" +Jackson or Thompson shall be leader in the school or public-house. + +'Has not the nation been brought to a conviction that the _system_ +should be broken up? and is Lord Palmerston, who has used it so long +and so cleverly, likely to promote that object? + +'But, whatever obstacles there may be in state affairs, that general +persuasion must modify other departments of action and knowledge. +"Unroasted coffee" will no longer be accepted under the official +seal,--another reason for a new literary combination for distinct +special objects, a review in which every separate article should be +_convergent_. If, instead of the problem to make a circle pass through +three given points, it were required to find the centre from which to +describe a circle through any three articles in the "Edinburgh" or +"Westminster Review," who would accomplish it? Much force is lost for +want of this one-mindedness amongst the contributors. It would not +exclude variety or freedom in the unlimited discussion of means towards +the ends unequivocally recognized. If St. Paul had edited a review, he +might have admitted Peter as well as Luke or Barnabas.... + +'Ross gave us an excellent sermon, yesterday, on "Hallowing the Name." +Though far from commonplace, it might have been delivered in any church. + +'We have had Fanny Kemble here last week. I only heard her "Romeo +and Juliet,"--not less instructive, as her readings always are, than +exciting; for in her glass Shakspeare is a philosopher. I know her, and +honour her, for her truthfulness amidst all trials.' + + +LADY BYRON TO H. C. R. + + 'BRIGHTON, March 5, 1855. + +'I recollect only those passages of Dr. Kennedy's book which bear +upon the opinions of Lord Byron. Strange as it may seem, Dr. Kennedy +is most faithful where you doubt his being so. Not merely from casual +expressions, but from the whole tenor of Lord Byron's feelings, I could +not but conclude he was a believer in the inspiration of the Bible, +and had the gloomiest Calvinistic tenets. To that unhappy view of the +relation of the creature to the Creator, I have always ascribed the +misery of his life.... It is enough for me to remember, that he who +thinks his transgressions beyond _forgiveness_ (and such was his own +deepest feeling) _has_ righteousness beyond that of the self-satisfied +sinner, or, perhaps, of the half-awakened. It was impossible for me to +doubt, that, could he have been at once assured of pardon, his living +faith in a moral duty, and love of virtue ("I love the virtues which +I cannot claim"), would have conquered every temptation. Judge, then, +how I must hate the creed which made him see God as an Avenger, not a +Father! My own impressions were just the reverse, but could have little +weight; and it was in vain to seek to turn his thoughts for long from +that _idee fixe_ with which he connected his physical peculiarity as +a stamp. Instead of being made happier by any apparent good, he felt +convinced that every blessing would be "turned into a curse" to him. +Who, possessed by such ideas, could lead a life of love and service to +God or man? They must, in a measure, realize themselves. "The worst +of it is, I _do_ believe," he said. I, like all connected with him, +was broken against the rock of predestination. I may be pardoned for +referring to his frequent expression of the sentiment that I was only +sent to show him the happiness he was forbidden to enjoy. You will now +better understand why "The Deformed Transformed" is too painful to me +for discussion. Since writing the above, I have read Dr. Granville's +letter on the Emperor of Russia, some passages of which seem applicable +to the prepossession I have described. I will not mix up less serious +matters with these, which forty years have not made less than present +still to me.' + + +LADY BYRON TO H. C. R. + + '_Brighton_, April 8, 1855. + +... 'The book which has interested me most, lately, is that on +"Mosaism," translated by Miss Goldsmid, and which I read, as you +will believe, without any Christian (unchristian?) prejudice. The +missionaries of the Unity were always, from my childhood, regarded by +me as in that sense _the_ people; and I believe they were true to that +mission, though blind, intellectually, in demanding the crucifixion. +The present aspect of Jewish opinions, as shown in that book, is +all but Christian. The author is under the error of taking, as the +representatives of Christianity, the Mystics, Ascetics, and Quietists; +and therefore he does not know how near he is to the true spirit of the +gospel. If you should happen to see Miss Goldsmid, pray tell her what +a great service I think she has rendered to us _soi-disant_ Christians +in translating a book which must make us sensible of the little we have +done, and the much we have to do, to justify our preference of the +later to the earlier dispensation.'... + + +LADY BYRON TO H. C. R. + + 'BRIGHTON, April 11, 1855. + +'You appear to have more definite information respecting "The Review" +than I have obtained.... It was also said that "The Review" would, in +fact, be "The Prospective" amplified,--not satisfactory to me, because +I have always thought that periodical too Unitarian, in the sense of +separating itself from other Christian churches, if not by a high wall, +at least by a wire-gauze fence. Now, separation is to me _the_ +[Greek: ha/iresis]. The revelation through Nature never separates: it +is the revelation through the Book which separates. Whewell and Brewster +would have been one, had they not, I think, equally dimmed their lamps +of science when reading their Bibles. As long as we think a truth +_better_ for being shut up in a text, we are not of the wide-world +religion, which is to include all in one fold: for that text will not +be accepted by the followers of other books, or students of the same; +and separation will ensue. The Christian Scripture should be dear to +us, not as the charter of a few, but of mankind; and to fashion it into +cages is to deny its ultimate objects. These thoughts hot, like the +roll at breakfast, where your letter was so welcome an addition.' + + * * * * * + +THREE DOMESTIC POEMS BY LORD BYRON. + + +FARE THEE WELL. + + Fare thee well! and if for ever, + Still for ever fare thee well! + Even though unforgiving, never + 'Gainst thee shall my heart rebel. + + Would that breast were bared before thee + Where thy head so oft hath lain, + While that placid sleep came o'er thee + Which thou ne'er canst know again! + + Would that breast, by thee glanced over, + Every inmost thought could show! + Then thou wouldst at last discover + 'Twas not well to spurn it so. + + Though the world for this commend thee, + Though it smile upon the blow, + Even its praises must offend thee, + Founded on another's woe. + + Though my many faults defaced me, + Could no other arm be found, + Than the one which once embraced me, + To inflict a cureless wound? + + Yet, oh! yet, thyself deceive not + Love may sink by slow decay; + But, by sudden wrench, believe not + Hearts can thus be torn away: + + Still thine own its life retaineth; + Still must mine, though bleeding, beat + And the undying thought which paineth + Is--that we no more may meet. + + These are words of deeper sorrow + Than the wail above the dead: + Both shall live, but every morrow + Wake us from a widowed bed. + + And when thou wouldst solace gather, + When our child's first accents flow, + Wilt thou teach her to say 'Father,' + Though his care she must forego? + + When her little hand shall press thee, + When her lip to thine is pressed, + Think of him whose prayer shall bless thee + Think of him thy love had blessed. + + Should her lineaments resemble + Those thou never more mayst see, + Then thy heart will softly tremble + With a pulse yet true to me. + + All my faults, perchance, thou knowest; + All my madness none can know: + All my hopes, where'er thou goest, + Wither; yet with thee they go. + + Every feeling hath been shaken: + Pride, which not a world could bow, + Bows to thee, by thee forsaken; + Even my soul forsakes me now. + + But 'tis done: all words are idle; + Words from me are vainer still; + But the thoughts we cannot bridle + Force their way without the will. + + Fare thee well!--thus disunited, + Torn from every nearer tie, + Seared in heart, and lone and blighted, + More than this I scarce can die. + + +A SKETCH. + + Born in the garret, in the kitchen bred; + Promoted thence to deck her mistress' head; + Next--for some gracious service unexpress'd, + And from its wages only to be guessed-- + Raised from the toilette to the table, where + Her wondering betters wait behind her chair, + With eye unmoved, and forehead unabashed, + She dines from off the plate she lately washed. + Quick with the tale, and ready with the lie, + The genial confidante and general spy, + Who could, ye gods! her next employment guess?-- + An only infant's earliest governess! + She taught the child to read, and taught so well, + That she herself, by teaching, learned to spell. + An adept next in penmanship she grows, + As many a nameless slander deftly shows: + What she had made the pupil of her art, + None know; but that high soul secured the heart, + And panted for the truth it could not hear, + With longing breast and undeluded ear. + Foiled was perversion by that youthful mind, + Which flattery fooled not, baseness could not blind, + Deceit infect not, near contagion soil, + Indulgence weaken, nor example spoil, + Nor mastered science tempt her to look down + On humbler talents with a pitying frown, + Nor genius swell, nor beauty render vain, + Nor envy ruffle to retaliate pain, + Nor fortune change, pride raise, nor passion bow, + Nor virtue teach austerity, till now. + Serenely purest of her sex that live; + But wanting one sweet weakness,--to forgive; + Too shocked at faults her soul can never know, + She deems that all could be like her below: + Foe to all vice, yet hardly Virtue's friend; + For Virtue pardons those she would amend. + But to the theme, now laid aside too long,-- + The baleful burthen of this honest song. + Though all her former functions are no more, + She rules the circle which she served before. + If mothers--none know why--before her quake; + If daughters dread her for the mothers' sake; + If early habits--those false links, which bind + At times the loftiest to the meanest mind-- + Have given her power too deeply to instil + The angry essence of her deadly will; + If like a snake she steal within your walls + Till the black slime betray her as she crawls; + If like a viper to the heart she wind, + And leave the venom there she did not find,-- + What marvel that this hag of hatred works + Eternal evil latent as she lurks, + To make a Pandemonium where she dwells, + And reign the Hecate of domestic hells? + Skilled by a touch to deepen scandal's tints + With all the kind mendacity of hints, + While mingling truth with falsehood, sneers with smiles, + A thread of candour with a web of wiles; + A plain blunt show of briefly-spoken seeming. + To hide her bloodless heart's soul-hardened scheming + A lip of lies; a face formed to conceal, + And, without feeling, mock at all who feel; + With a vile mask the Gorgon would disown; + A cheek of parchment, and an eye of stone. + Mark how the channels of her yellow blood + Ooze to her skin, and stagnate there to mud! + Cased like the centipede in saffron mail, + Or darker greenness of the scorpion's scale, + (For drawn from reptiles only may we trace + Congenial colours in that soul or face,)-- + Look on her features! and behold her mind + As in a mirror of itself defined. + Look on the picture! deem it not o'ercharged; + There is no trait which might not be enlarged: + Yet true to 'Nature's journeymen,' who made + This monster when their mistress left off trade, + This female dog-star of her little sky, + Where all beneath her influence droop or die. + + O wretch without a tear, without a thought, + Save joy above the ruin thou hast wrought! + The time shall come, nor long remote, when thou + Shalt feel far more than thou inflictest now,-- + Feel for thy vile self-loving self in vain, + And turn thee howling in unpitied pain. + May the strong curse of crushed affections light + Back on thy bosom with reflected blight, + And make thee, in thy leprosy of mind, + As loathsome to thyself as to mankind, + Till all thy self-thoughts curdle into hate + Black as thy will for others would create; + Till thy hard heart be calcined into dust, + And thy soul welter in its hideous crust! + Oh, may thy grave be sleepless as the bed, + The widowed couch of fire, that thou hast spread + Then, when thou fain wouldst weary Heaven with prayer, + Look on thine earthly victims, and despair! + Down to the dust! and, as thou rott'st away, + Even worms shall perish on thy poisonous clay. + But for the love I bore, and still must bear, + To her thy malice from all ties would tear, + Thy name, thy human name, to every eye + The climax of all scorn, should hang on high, + Exalted o'er thy less abhorred compeers, + And festering in the infamy of years. + + +LINES + +ON HEARING THAT LADY BYRON WAS ILL. + + And thou wert sad, yet I was not with thee! + And thou wert sick, and yet I was not near! + Methought that joy and health alone could be + Where I was _not_, and pain and sorrow here. + And is it thus? It is as I foretold, + And shall be more so; for the mind recoils + Upon itself, and the wrecked heart lies cold, + While heaviness collects the shattered spoils. + It is not in the storm nor in the strife + We feel benumbed, and wish to be no more, + But in the after-silence on the shore, + When all is lost except a little life. + I am too well avenged! But 'twas my right: + Whate'er my sins might be, _thou_ wert not sent + To be the Nemesis who should requite; + Nor did Heaven choose so near an instrument. + Mercy is for the merciful!--if thou + Hast been of such, 'twill be accorded now. + Thy nights are banished from the realms of sleep! + Yes! they may flatter thee; but thou shalt feel + A hollow agony which will not heal; + For thou art pillowed on a curse too deep: + Thou hast sown in my sorrow, and must reap + The bitter harvest in a woe as real! + I have had many foes, but none like thee; + For 'gainst the rest myself I could defend, + And be avenged, or turn them into friend; + But thou in safe implacability + Hadst nought to dread, in thy own weakness shielded + And in my love, which hath but too much yielded, + And spared, for thy sake, some I should not spare. + And thus upon the world,--trust in thy truth, + And the wild fame of my ungoverned youth, + On things that were not and on things that are,-- + Even upon such a basis hast thou built + A monument, whose cement hath been guilt; + The moral Clytemnestra of thy lord, + And hewed down, with an unsuspected sword, + Fame, peace, and hope, and all the better life, + Which, but for this cold treason of thy heart, + Might still have risen from out the grave of strife, + And found a nobler duty than to part. + But of thy virtues didst thou make a vice, + Trafficking with them in a purpose cold, + For present anger and for future gold, + And buying others' grief at any price. + And thus, once entered into crooked ways, + The early truth, which was thy proper praise, + Did not still walk beside thee, but at times, + And with a breast unknowing its own crimes, + Deceit, averments incompatible, + Equivocations, and the thoughts which dwell + In Janus-spirits; the significant eye + Which learns to lie with silence; the pretext + Of prudence, with advantages annexed; + The acquiescence in all things which tend, + No matter how, to the desired end,-- + All found a place in thy philosophy. + The means were worthy, and the end is won + I would not do by thee as thou hast done. + + +_Spottiswoode & Co., Printers, New-street Square, London._ + + + + + +End of Project Gutenberg's Lady Byron Vindicated, by Harriet Beecher Stowe + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK LADY BYRON VINDICATED *** + +***** This file should be named 44791.txt or 44791.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/4/4/7/9/44791/ + +Produced by David Edwards and the Online Distributed +Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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