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-The Intermediate Sex
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-_Works by Edward Carpenter_
-
-
- ANGELS’ WINGS
- ART OF CREATION
- CIVILIZATION: ITS CAUSE AND CURE
- DAYS WITH WALT WHITMAN
- DRAMA OF LOVE AND DEATH
- ENGLAND’S IDEAL
- FROM ADAM’S PEAK TO ELEPHANTA
- HEALING OF NATIONS
- INTERMEDIATE TYPES
- AMONG PRIMITIVE FOLK
- IOLÄUS: AN ANTHOLOGY OF FRIENDSHIP
- LOVE’S COMING OF AGE
- MY DAYS AND DREAMS
- PAGAN AND CHRISTIAN CREEDS
- PROMISED LAND
- TOWARDS DEMOCRACY
- TOWARDS INDUSTRIAL FREEDOM
- VISIT TO A GÑANI
- CHANTS OF LABOUR
-
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-
-
- The Intermediate
- Sex
-
- _A Study of Some Transitional Types
- of Men and Women_
-
- BY
-
- EDWARD CARPENTER
-
- [Illustration]
-
- LONDON: GEORGE ALLEN & UNWIN LTD.
- RUSKIN HOUSE, 40 MUSEUM STREET, W.C.1
-
- _First published_ _1908_
- _Reprinted_ _1909_
- ” _1912_
- ” _1916_
- ” _1918_
- ” _1921_
-
- [_All rights reserved._]
-
-
-“_There are transitional forms between the metals and non-metals; between
-chemical combinations and simple mixtures, between animals and plants,
-between phanerogams and cryptogams, and between mammals and birds.… The
-improbability may henceforth be taken for granted of finding in Nature a
-sharp cleavage between all that is masculine on the one side and all that
-is feminine on the other; or that any living being is so simple in this
-respect that it can be put wholly on one side, or wholly on the other, of
-the line._”
-
- O. WEININGER.
-
-
-
-
-Prefatory Note
-
-TO FIRST EDITION
-
-
-The following papers, now collected in book-form, have been written--and
-some of them published--on various occasions during the last twelve or
-fourteen years, and in the intervals of other work; and this must be my
-excuse for occasional repetitions or overlapping of matter, which may be
-observable among them. I have thought it best, however, to leave them as
-they stand, as in this way each is more complete in itself. The second
-essay, which gives its title to the book, has already appeared in my
-“Love’s Coming-of-Age” (edition 1906), but is reprinted here as belonging
-more properly to this volume.
-
-A collection of quotations from responsible writers, who touch on various
-sides of the subject, is added at the end, to form an Appendix--which the
-author thinks will prove helpful, though he does not necessarily endorse
-all the opinions presented.
-
- E. C.
-
-
-
-
-Contents
-
-
- _Page_
-
- PREFATORY NOTE 7
-
- I. INTRODUCTORY 9
-
- II. THE INTERMEDIATE SEX 16
-
- III. THE HOMOGENIC ATTACHMENT 39
-
- IV. AFFECTION IN EDUCATION 83
-
- V. THE PLACE OF THE URANIAN IN SOCIETY 107
-
- APPENDIX 131
-
-
-
-
-I
-
-Introductory
-
-
-The subject dealt with in this book is one of great, and one may say
-growing, importance. Whether it is that the present period is one of
-large increase in the numbers of men and women of an intermediate or
-mixed temperament, or whether it merely is that it is a period in which
-more than usual attention happens to be accorded to them, the fact
-certainly remains that the subject has great actuality and is pressing
-upon us from all sides. It is recognised that anyhow the number of
-persons occupying an intermediate position between the two sexes is
-very great, that they play a considerable part in general society, and
-that they necessarily present and embody many problems which, both for
-their own sakes and that of society, demand solution. The literature
-of the question has in consequence already grown to be very extensive,
-especially on the Continent, and includes a great quantity of scientific
-works, medical treatises, literary essays, romances, historical novels,
-poetry, etc. And it is now generally admitted that some knowledge and
-enlightened understanding of the subject is greatly needed for the use
-of certain classes--as, for instance, medical men, teachers, parents,
-magistrates, judges, and the like.
-
-That there are distinctions and gradations of Soul-material in relation
-to Sex--that the inner psychical affections and affinities shade off
-and graduate, in a vast number of instances, most subtly from male to
-female, and not always in obvious correspondence with the outer bodily
-sex--is a thing evident enough to anyone who considers the subject; nor
-could any good purpose well be served by ignoring this fact--even if it
-were possible to do so. It is easy of course (as some do) to classify
-all these mixed or intermediate types as _bad_. It is also easy (as some
-do) to argue that just because they combine opposite qualities they are
-likely to be _good_ and valuable. But the subtleties and complexities
-of Nature cannot be despatched in this off-hand manner. The great
-probability is that, as in any other class of human beings, there will be
-among these too, good and bad, high and low, worthy and unworthy--some
-perhaps exhibiting through their double temperament a rare and beautiful
-flower of humanity, others a perverse and tangled ruin.
-
-Before the facts of Nature we have to preserve a certain humility and
-reverence; nor rush in with our preconceived and obstinate assumptions.
-Though these gradations of human type have always, and among all peoples,
-been more or less known and recognised, yet their frequency to-day, or
-even the concentration of attention on them, may be the indication of
-some important change actually in progress. We do _not_ know, in fact,
-what possible evolutions are to come, or what new forms, of permanent
-place and value, are being already slowly differentiated from the
-surrounding mass of humanity. It may be that, as at some past period of
-evolution the worker-bee was without doubt differentiated from the two
-ordinary bee-sexes, so at the present time certain new types of human
-kind may be emerging, which will have an important part to play in the
-societies of the future--even though for the moment their appearance is
-attended by a good deal of confusion and misapprehension. It may be so;
-or it may not. We do not know; and the best attitude we can adopt is one
-of sincere and dispassionate observation of facts.
-
-Of course wherever this subject touches on the domain of love we may
-expect difficult queries to arise. Yet it is here probably that the
-noblest work of the intermediate sex or sexes will be accomplished,
-as well as the greatest errors committed. It seems almost a law of
-Nature that new and important movements should be misunderstood and
-vilified--even though afterwards they may be widely approved or admitted
-to honour. Such movements are always envisaged first from whatever aspect
-they may possibly present, of ludicrous or contemptible. The early
-Christians, in the eyes of Romans, were chiefly known as the perpetrators
-of obscure rites and crimes in the darkness of the catacombs. Modern
-Socialism was for a long time supposed to be an affair of daggers and
-dynamite; and even now there are thousands of good people ignorant enough
-to believe that it simply means “divide up all round, and each take his
-threepenny bit.” Vegetarians were supposed to be a feeble and brainless
-set of cabbage-eaters. The Women’s movement, so vast in its scope and
-importance, was nothing but an absurd attempt to make women “the apes
-of men.” And so on without end; the accusation in each case being some
-tag or last fag-end of fact, caught up by ignorance, and coloured by
-prejudice. So commonplace is it to misunderstand, so easy to misrepresent.
-
-That the Uranian temperament, especially in regard to its affectional
-side, is not without faults must naturally be allowed; but that it has
-been grossly and absurdly misunderstood is certain. With a good deal of
-experience in the matter, I think one may safely say that the defect
-of the male Uranian, or Urning,[1] is _not_ sensuality--but rather
-_sentimentality_. The lower, more ordinary types of Urning are often
-terribly sentimental; the superior types strangely, almost incredibly
-emotional; but neither _as a rule_ (though of course there must be
-exceptions) are so sensual as the average normal man.
-
-This immense capacity of emotional love represents of course a great
-driving force. Whether in the individual or in society, love is eminently
-creative. It is their great genius for attachment which gives to the best
-Uranian types their penetrating influence and activity, and which often
-makes them beloved and accepted far and wide even by those who know
-nothing of their inner mind. How many so-called philanthropists of the
-best kind (we need not mention names) have been inspired by the Uranian
-temperament, the world will probably never know. And in all walks of
-life the great number and influence of folk of this disposition, and the
-distinguished place they already occupy, is only realised by those who
-are more or less behind the scenes. It is probable also that it is this
-genius for emotional love which gives to the Uranians their remarkable
-_youthfulness_.
-
-Anyhow, with their extraordinary gift for, and experience in, affairs
-of the heart--from the double point of view, both of the man and of the
-woman--it is not difficult to see that these people have a special work
-to do as reconcilers and interpreters of the two sexes to each other.
-Of this I have spoken at more length below (chaps. ii. and v.). It is
-probable that the superior Urnings will become, in affairs of the heart,
-to a large extent the teachers of future society; and if so that their
-influence will tend to the realisation and expression of an attachment
-less exclusively sensual than the average of to-day, and to the diffusion
-of this in all directions.
-
-While at any rate not presuming to speak with authority on so difficult
-a subject, I plead for the necessity of a patient consideration of it,
-for the due recognition of the types of character concerned, and for some
-endeavour to give them their fitting place and sphere of usefulness in
-the general scheme of society.
-
-One thing more by way of introductory explanation. The word Love is
-commonly used in so general and almost indiscriminate a fashion as
-to denote sometimes physical instincts and acts, and sometimes the
-most intimate and profound feelings; and in this way a good deal of
-misunderstanding is caused. In this book (unless there be exceptions in
-the Appendix) the word is used to denote the inner devotion of one person
-to another; and when anything else is meant--as, for instance, sexual
-relations and actions--this is clearly stated and expressed.
-
-
-
-
-II
-
-The Intermediate Sex.
-
- “Urning men and women, on whose book of life Nature has written her
- new word which sounds so strange to us, bear such storm and stress
- within them, such ferment and fluctuation, so much complex material
- having its outlet only towards the future; their individualities
- are so rich and many-sided, and withal so little understood,
- that it is impossible to characterise them adequately in a few
- sentences.”--_Otto de Joux._
-
-
-In late years (and since the arrival of the New Woman amongst us) many
-things in the relation of men and women to each other have altered, or
-at any rate become clearer. The growing sense of equality in habits
-and customs--university studies, art, music, politics, the bicycle,
-etc.--all these things have brought about a _rapprochement_ between the
-sexes. If the modern woman is a little more masculine in some ways than
-her predecessor, the modern man (it is to be hoped), while by no means
-effeminate, is a little more sensitive in temperament and artistic in
-feeling than the original John Bull. It is beginning to be recognised
-that the sexes do not or should not normally form two groups hopelessly
-isolated in habit and feeling from each other, but that they rather
-represent the two poles of _one_ group--which is the human race; so
-that while certainly the extreme specimens at either pole are vastly
-divergent, there are great numbers in the middle region who (though
-differing corporeally as men and women) are by emotion and temperament
-very near to each other.[2] We all know women with a strong dash of
-the masculine temperament, and we all know men whose almost feminine
-sensibility and intuition seem to belie their bodily form. Nature, it
-might appear, in mixing the elements which go to compose each individual,
-does not always keep her two groups of ingredients--which represent
-the two sexes--properly apart, but often throws them crosswise in a
-somewhat baffling manner, now this way and now that; yet wisely, we must
-think--for if a severe distinction of elements were always maintained
-the two sexes would soon drift into far latitudes and absolutely cease
-to understand each other. As it is, there are some remarkable and (we
-think) indispensable types of character in whom there is such a union or
-balance of the feminine and masculine qualities that these people become
-to a great extent the interpreters of men and women to each other.
-
-There is another point which has become clearer of late. For as people
-are beginning to see that the sexes form in a certain sense a continuous
-group, so they are beginning to see that Love and Friendship--which
-have been so often set apart from each other as things distinct--are in
-reality closely related and shade imperceptibly into each other. Women
-are beginning to demand that Marriage shall mean Friendship as well as
-Passion; that a comrade-like Equality shall be included in the word Love;
-and it is recognised that from the one extreme of a ‘Platonic’ friendship
-(generally between persons of the same sex) up to the other extreme of
-passionate love (generally between persons of opposite sex) no hard and
-fast line can at any point be drawn effectively separating the different
-kinds of attachment. We know, in fact, of Friendships so romantic in
-sentiment that they verge into love; we know of Loves so intellectual and
-spiritual that they hardly dwell in the sphere of Passion.
-
-A moment’s thought will show that the general conceptions indicated
-above--if anywhere near the truth--point to an immense diversity of human
-temperament and character in matters relating to sex and love; but though
-such diversity has probably always existed, it has only in comparatively
-recent times become a subject of study.
-
-More than thirty years ago, however, an Austrian writer, K. H. Ulrichs,
-drew attention in a series of pamphlets (_Memnon_, _Ara Spei_, _Inclusa_,
-etc.) to the existence of a class of people who strongly illustrate
-the above remarks, and with whom specially this paper is concerned. He
-pointed out that there were people born in such a position--as it were on
-the dividing line between the sexes--that while belonging distinctly to
-one sex as far as their bodies are concerned they may be said to belong
-_mentally_ and _emotionally_ to the other; that there were men, for
-instance, who might be described as of feminine soul enclosed in a male
-body (_anima muliebris in corpore virili inclusa_), or in other cases,
-women whose definition would be just the reverse. And he maintained that
-this doubleness of nature was to a great extent proved by the special
-direction of their love-sentiment. For in such cases, as indeed might
-be expected, the (apparently) masculine person instead of forming a
-love-union with a female tended to contract romantic friendships with one
-of his own sex; while the apparently feminine would, instead of marrying
-in the usual way, devote herself to the love of another feminine.
-
-People of this kind (_i.e._, having this special variation of the
-love-sentiment) he called Urnings;[3] and though we are not obliged
-to accept his theory about the crosswise connexion between ‘soul’ and
-‘body,’ since at best these words are somewhat vague and indefinite;
-yet his work was important because it was one of the first attempts,
-in modern times, to recognise the existence of what might be called an
-Intermediate sex, and to give at any rate _some_ explanation of it.[4]
-
-Since that time the subject has been widely studied and written about
-by scientific men and others, especially on the Continent (though in
-England it is still comparatively unknown), and by means of an extended
-observation of present-day cases, as well as the indirect testimony
-of the history and literature of past times, quite a body of general
-conclusions has been arrived at--of which I propose in the following
-pages to give some slight account.
-
-Contrary to the general impression, one of the first points that emerges
-from this study is that ‘Urnings,’ or Uranians, are by no means so
-very rare; but that they form, beneath the surface of society, a large
-class. It remains difficult, however, to get an exact statement of their
-numbers; and this for more than one reason: partly because, owing to
-the want of any general understanding of their case, these folk tend to
-conceal their true feelings from all but their own kind, and indeed often
-deliberately act in such a manner as to lead the world astray--(whence it
-arises that a normal man living in a certain society will often refuse to
-believe that there is a single Urning in the circle of his acquaintance,
-while one of the latter, or one that understands the nature, living in
-the same society, can count perhaps a score or more)--and partly because
-it is indubitable that the numbers do vary very greatly, not only in
-different countries but even in different classes in the same country.
-The consequence of all this being that we have estimates differing very
-widely from each other. Dr. Grabowsky, a well-known writer in Germany,
-quotes figures (which we think must be exaggerated) as high as one man
-in every 22, while Dr. Albert Moll (_Die Conträre Sexualempfindung_,
-chap. 3) gives estimates varying from 1 in every 50 to as low as 1 in
-every 500.[5] These figures apply to such as are exclusively of the said
-nature, _i.e._, to those whose deepest feelings of love and friendship
-go out only to persons of their own sex. Of course, if in addition are
-included those double-natured people (of whom there is a great number)
-who experience the normal attachment, with the homogenic tendency in less
-or greater degree superadded, the estimates must be greatly higher.
-
-In the second place it emerges (also contrary to the general impression)
-that men and women of the exclusively Uranian type are by no means
-necessarily morbid in any way--unless, indeed, their peculiar temperament
-be pronounced in itself morbid. Formerly it was assumed as a matter of
-course, that the type was merely a result of disease and degeneration;
-but now with the examination of the actual facts it appears that, on the
-contrary, many are fine, healthy specimens of their sex, muscular and
-well-developed in body, of powerful brain, high standard of conduct, and
-with nothing abnormal or morbid of any kind observable in their physical
-structure or constitution. This is of course not true of all, and there
-still remain a certain number of cases of weakly type to support the
-neuropathic view. Yet it is very noticeable that this view is much less
-insisted on by the later writers than by the earlier. It is also worth
-noticing that it is now acknowledged that even in the most healthy cases
-the special affectional temperament of the ‘Intermediate’ is, as a rule,
-ineradicable; so much so that when (as in not a few instances) such men
-and women, from social or other considerations, have forced themselves to
-marry and even have children, they have still not been able to overcome
-their own bias, or the leaning after all of their life-attachment to some
-friend of their own sex.
-
-This subject, though obviously one of considerable interest and
-importance, has been hitherto, as I have pointed out, but little
-discussed in this country, partly owing to a certain amount of doubt
-and distrust which has, not unnaturally perhaps, surrounded it. And
-certainly if the men and women born with the tendency in question were
-only exceedingly rare, though it would not be fair on that account to
-ignore them, yet it would hardly be necessary to dwell at great length on
-their case. But as the class is really, on any computation, numerous, it
-becomes a duty for society not only to understand them but to help them
-to understand themselves.
-
-For there is no doubt that in many cases people of this kind suffer a
-great deal from their own temperament--and yet, after all, it is possible
-that they may have an important part to play in the evolution of the
-race. Anyone who realises what Love is, the dedication of the heart, so
-profound, so absorbing, so mysterious, so imperative, and always just
-in the noblest natures so strong, cannot fail to see how difficult, how
-tragic even, must often be the fate of those whose deepest feelings are
-destined from the earliest days to be a riddle and a stumbling-block,
-unexplained to themselves, passed over in silence by others.[6] To call
-people of such temperament ‘morbid,’ and so forth, is of no use. Such a
-term is, in fact, absurdly inapplicable to many, who are among the most
-active, the most amiable and accepted members of society; besides, it
-forms no solution of the problem in question, and only amounts to marking
-down for disparagement a fellow-creature who has already considerable
-difficulties to contend with. Says Dr. Moll, “Anyone who has seen many
-Urnings will probably admit that they form a by no means enervated
-human group; on the contrary, one finds powerful, healthy-looking folk
-among them;” but in the very next sentence he says that they “suffer
-severely” from the way they are regarded; and in the manifesto of a
-considerable community of such people in Germany occur these words, “The
-rays of sunshine in the night of our existence are so rare, that we are
-responsive and deeply grateful for the least movement, for every single
-voice that speaks in our favour in the forum of mankind.”[7]
-
-In dealing with this class of folk, then, while I do not deny that they
-present a difficult problem, I think that just for that very reason
-their case needs discussion. It would be a great mistake to suppose
-that their attachments are necessarily sexual, or connected with sexual
-acts. On the contrary (as abundant evidence shows), they are often purely
-emotional in their character; and to confuse Uranians (as is so often
-done) with libertines having no law but curiosity in self-indulgence is
-to do them a great wrong. At the same time, it is evident that their
-special temperament may sometimes cause them difficulty in regard to
-their sexual relations. Into this subject we need not just now enter. But
-we may point out how hard it is, especially for the young among them,
-that a veil of complete silence should be drawn over the subject, leading
-to the most painful misunderstandings, and perversions and confusions of
-mind; and that there should be no hint of guidance; nor any recognition
-of the solitary and really serious inner struggles they may have to face!
-If the problem is a difficult one--as it undoubtedly is--the fate of
-those people is already hard who have to meet it in their own persons,
-without their suffering in addition from the refusal of society to give
-them any help. It is partly for these reasons, and to throw a little
-light where it may be needed, that I have thought it might be advisable
-in this paper simply to give a few general characteristics of the
-Intermediate types.
-
-As indicated then already, in bodily structure there is, as a rule,
-nothing to distinguish the subjects of our discussion from ordinary
-men and women; but if we take the general mental characteristics it
-appears from almost universal testimony that the male tends to be of a
-rather gentle, emotional disposition--with defects, if such exist, in
-the direction of subtlety, evasiveness, timidity, vanity, etc.; while
-the female is just the opposite, fiery, active, bold and truthful, with
-defects running to brusqueness and coarseness. Moreover, the mind of the
-former is generally intuitive and instinctive in its perceptions, with
-more or less of artistic feeling; while the mind of the latter is more
-logical, scientific, and precise than usual with the normal woman. So
-marked indeed are these general characteristics that sometimes by means
-of them (though not an infallible guide) the nature of the boy or girl
-can be detected in childhood, before full development has taken place;
-and needless to say it may often be very important to be able to do this.
-
-It was no doubt in consequence of the observation of these signs that
-K. H. Ulrichs proposed his theory; and though the theory, as we have
-said, does not by any means meet _all_ the facts, still it is perhaps not
-without merit, and may be worth bearing in mind.
-
-In the case, for instance, of a woman of this temperament (defined
-we suppose as “a male soul in a female body”) the theory helps us to
-understand how it might be possible for her to fall _bonâ fide_ in love
-with another woman. Krafft-Ebing gives[8] the case of a lady (A.), 28
-years of age, who fell deeply in love with a younger one (B.). “I loved
-her divinely,” she said. They lived together, and the union lasted
-four years, but was then broken by the marriage of B. A. suffered in
-consequence from frightful depression; but in the end--though without
-real love--got married herself. Her depression however only increased and
-deepened into illness. The doctors, when consulted, said that all would
-be well if she could only have a child. The husband, who loved his wife
-sincerely, could not understand her enigmatic behaviour. She was friendly
-to him, suffered his caresses, but for days afterwards remained “dull,
-exhausted, plagued with irritation of the spine, and nervous.” Presently
-a journey of the married pair led to another meeting with the female
-friend--who had now been wedded (but also unhappily) for three years.
-
-“Both ladies trembled with joy and excitement as they fell into each
-other’s arms, and were thenceforth inseparable. The man found that this
-friendship relation was a singular one, and hastened the departure. When
-the opportunity occurred, he convinced himself from the correspondence
-between his wife and her ‘friend’ that their letters were exactly like
-those of two lovers.”
-
-It appears that the loves of such women are often very intense, and
-(as also in the case of male Urnings) life-long.[9] Both classes feel
-themselves blessed when they love happily. Nevertheless, to many of
-them it is a painful fact that--in consequence of their peculiar
-temperament--they are, though fond of children, not in the position to
-found a family.
-
-We have so far limited ourselves to some very general characteristics
-of the Intermediate race. It may help to clear and fix our ideas if we
-now describe more in detail, first, what may be called the extreme and
-exaggerated types of the race, and then the more normal and perfect
-types. By doing so we shall get a more definite and concrete view of our
-subject.
-
-In the first place, then, the extreme specimens--as in most cases
-of extremes--are not particularly attractive, sometimes quite the
-reverse. In the male of this kind we have a distinctly effeminate type,
-sentimental, lackadaisical, mincing in gait and manners, something of a
-chatterbox, skilful at the needle and in woman’s work, sometimes taking
-pleasure in dressing in woman’s clothes; his figure not unfrequently
-betraying a tendency towards the feminine, large at the hips, supple,
-not muscular, the face wanting in hair, the voice inclining to be
-high-pitched, etc.; while his dwelling-room is orderly in the extreme,
-even natty, and choice of decoration and perfume. His affection, too, is
-often feminine in character, clinging, dependent and jealous, as of one
-desiring to be loved almost more than to love.[10]
-
-On the other hand, as the extreme type of the homogenic female, we have a
-rather markedly aggressive person, of strong passions, masculine manners
-and movements, practical in the conduct of life, sensuous rather than
-sentimental in love, often untidy, and _outré_ in attire;[11] her figure
-muscular, her voice rather low in pitch; her dwelling-room decorated
-with sporting-scenes, pistols, etc., and not without a suspicion of the
-fragrant weed in the atmosphere; while her love (generally to rather soft
-and feminine specimens of her own sex) is often a sort of furor, similar
-to the ordinary masculine love, and at times almost uncontrollable.
-
-These are types which, on account of their salience, everyone will
-recognise more or less. Naturally, when they occur they excite a good
-deal of attention, and it is not an uncommon impression that most persons
-of the homogenic nature belong to either one or other of these classes.
-But in reality, of course, these extreme developments are rare, and for
-the most part the temperament in question is embodied in men and women
-of quite normal and unsensational exterior. Speaking of this subject
-and the connection between effeminateness and the homogenic nature in
-men, Dr. Moll says: “It is, however, as well to point out at the outset
-that effeminacy does not by any means show itself in all Urnings. Though
-one may find this or that indication in a great number of cases, yet
-it cannot be denied that a very large percentage, perhaps by far the
-majority of them, do _not_ exhibit pronounced Effeminacy.” And it may be
-supposed that we may draw the same conclusion with regard to women of
-this class--namely, that the majority of them do not exhibit pronounced
-masculine habits. In fact, while these extreme cases are of the greatest
-value from a scientific point of view as marking tendencies and limits of
-development in certain directions, it would be a serious mistake to look
-upon them as representative cases of the whole phases of human evolution
-concerned.
-
-If now we come to what may be called the more normal type of the
-Uranian man, we find a man who, while possessing thoroughly masculine
-powers of mind and body, combines with them the tenderer and more
-emotional soul-nature of the woman--and sometimes to a remarkable
-degree. Such men, as said, are often muscular and well-built, and not
-distinguishable in exterior structure and the carriage of body from
-others of their own sex; but emotionally they are extremely complex,
-tender, sensitive, pitiful and loving, “full of storm and stress, of
-ferment and fluctuation” of the heart; the logical faculty may or may
-not, in their case, be well-developed, but intuition is always strong;
-like women they read characters at a glance, and know, without knowing
-how, what is passing in the minds of others; for nursing and waiting on
-the needs of others they have often a peculiar gift; at the bottom lies
-the artist-nature, with the artist’s sensibility and perception. Such an
-one is often a dreamer, of brooding, reserved habits, often a musician,
-or a man of culture, courted in society, which nevertheless does not
-understand him--though sometimes a child of the people, without any
-culture, but almost always with a peculiar inborn refinement. De Joux,
-who speaks on the whole favourably of Uranian men and women, says of the
-former: “They are enthusiastic for poetry and music, are often eminently
-skilful in the fine arts, and are overcome with emotion and sympathy at
-the least sad occurrence. Their sensitiveness, their endless tenderness
-for children, their love of flowers, their great pity for beggars and
-crippled folk are truly womanly.” And in another passage he indicates the
-artist-nature, when he says: “The nerve-system of many an Urning is the
-finest and the most complicated musical instrument in the service of the
-interior personality that can be imagined.”
-
-It would seem probable that the attachment of such an one is of a tender
-and profound character; indeed, it is possible that in this class of men
-we have the love sentiment in one of its most perfect forms--a form in
-which from the necessities of the situation the sensuous element, though
-present, is exquisitely subordinated to the spiritual. Says one writer
-on this subject, a Swiss, “Happy indeed is that man who has won a real
-Urning for his friend--he walks on roses, without ever having to fear the
-thorns”; and he adds, “Can there ever be a more perfect sick-nurse than
-an Urning?” And though these are _ex parte_ utterances, we may believe
-that there is an appreciable grain of truth in them. Another writer,
-quoted by De Joux, speaks to somewhat the same effect, and may perhaps be
-received in a similar spirit. “We form,” he says, “a peculiar aristocracy
-of modest spirits, of good and refined habit, and in many masculine
-circles are the representatives of the higher mental and artistic
-element. In us dreamers and enthusiasts lies the continual counterpoise
-to the sheer masculine portion of society--inclining, as it always does,
-to mere restless greed of gain and material sensual pleasures.”
-
-That men of this kind despise women, though a not uncommon belief, is
-one which hardly appears to be justified. Indeed, though naturally not
-inclined to “fall in love” in this direction, such men are by their
-nature drawn rather near to women, and it would seem that they often feel
-a singular appreciation and understanding of the emotional needs and
-destinies of the other sex, leading in many cases to a genuine though
-what is called ‘Platonic’ friendship. There is little doubt that they
-are often instinctively sought after by women, who, without suspecting
-the real cause, are conscious of a sympathetic chord in the homogenic
-which they miss in the normal man. To quote De Joux once more: “It would
-be a mistake to suppose that all Urnings must be woman-haters. Quite the
-contrary. They are not seldom the faithfulest friends, the truest allies,
-and most convinced defenders of women.”
-
-To come now to the more normal and perfect specimens of the homogenic
-_woman_, we find a type in which the body is thoroughly feminine and
-gracious, with the rondure and fulness of the female form, and the
-continence and aptness of its movements, but in which the inner nature is
-to a great extent masculine; a temperament active, brave, originative,
-somewhat decisive, not too emotional; fond of out-door life, of games and
-sports, of science, politics, or even business; good at organisation, and
-well-pleased with positions of responsibility, sometimes indeed making an
-excellent and generous leader. Such a woman, it is easily seen, from her
-special combination of qualities, is often fitted for remarkable work, in
-professional life, or as manageress of institutions, or even as ruler of
-a country. Her love goes out to younger and more feminine natures than
-her own; it is a powerful passion, almost of heroic type, and capable
-of inspiring to great deeds; and when held duly in leash may sometimes
-become an invaluable force in the teaching and training of girlhood, or
-in the creation of a school of thought or action among women. Many a
-Santa Clara, or abbess-founder of religious houses, has probably been a
-woman of this type; and in all times such women--not being bound to men
-by the ordinary ties--have been able to work the more freely for the
-interests of their sex, a cause to which their own temperament impels
-them to devote themselves _con amore_.
-
-I have now sketched--very briefly and inadequately it is true--both the
-extreme types and the more healthy types of the ‘Intermediate’ man and
-woman: types which can be verified from history and literature, though
-more certainly and satisfactorily perhaps from actual life around us.
-And unfamiliar though the subject is, it begins to appear that it is
-one which modern thought and science will have to face. Of the latter
-and more normal types it may be said that they exist, and have always
-existed, in considerable abundance, and from that circumstance alone
-there is a strong probability that they have their place and purpose. As
-pointed out there is no particular indication of morbidity about them,
-unless the special nature of their love-sentiment be itself accounted
-morbid; and in the alienation of the sexes from each other, of which
-complaint is so often made to-day, it must be admitted that they do much
-to fill the gap.
-
-The instinctive artistic nature of the male of this class, his sensitive
-spirit, his wavelike emotional temperament, combined with hardihood
-of intellect and body; and the frank, free nature of the female, her
-masculine independence and strength wedded to thoroughly feminine grace
-of form and manner; may be said to give them both, through their double
-nature, command of life in all its phases, and a certain freemasonry of
-the secrets of the two sexes which may well favour their function as
-reconcilers and interpreters. Certainly it is remarkable that some of the
-world’s greatest leaders and artists have been dowered either wholly or
-in part with the Uranian temperament--as in the cases of Michel Angelo,
-Shakespeare, Marlowe, Alexander the Great, Julius Cæsar, or, among women,
-Christine of Sweden, Sappho the poetess, and others.
-
-
-
-
-III
-
-The Homogenic Attachment
-
-
-In its various forms, so far as we know them, Love seems always to have a
-deep significance and a most practical importance to us little mortals.
-In one form, as the mere semi-conscious Sex-love, which runs through
-creation and is common to the lowest animals and plants, it appears as
-a kind of organic basis for the unity of all creatures; in another, as
-the love of the mother for her offspring--which may also be termed a
-passion--it seems to pledge itself to the care and guardianship of the
-future race; in another, as the marriage of man and woman, it becomes
-the very foundation of human society. And so we can hardly believe that
-in its homogenic form, with which we are here concerned, it has not also
-a deep significance, and social uses and functions which will become
-clearer to us, the more we study it.
-
-To some perhaps it may appear a little strained to place this
-last-mentioned form of attachment on a level of importance with the
-others, and such persons may be inclined to deny to the homogenic[12]
-or homosexual love that intense, that penetrating, and at times
-overmastering character which would entitle it to rank as a great human
-passion. But in truth this view, when entertained, arises from a want of
-acquaintance with the actual facts; and it may not be amiss here, in the
-briefest possible way, to indicate what the world’s History, Literature,
-and Art has to say to us on this aspect of the subject, before going
-on to further considerations. Certainly, if the confronting of danger
-and the endurance of pain and distress for the sake of the loved one,
-if sacrifice, unswerving devotion and life-long union, constitute
-proofs of the reality and intensity (and let us say healthiness) of an
-affection, then these proofs have been given in numberless cases of such
-attachment, not only as existing between men, but as between women, since
-the world began. The records of chivalric love, the feats of enamoured
-knights for their ladies’ sakes, the stories of Hero and Leander,
-etc., are easily paralleled, if not surpassed, by the stories of the
-Greek comrades-in-arms and tyrannicides--of Cratinus and Aristodemus,
-who offered themselves together as a voluntary sacrifice for the
-purification of Athens; of Chariton and Melanippus,[13] who attempted
-to assassinate Phalaris, the tyrant of Agrigentum; or of Cleomachus
-who in like manner, in a battle between the Chalkidians and Eretrians,
-being entreated to charge the latter, “asked the youth he loved, who was
-standing by, whether he would be a spectator of the fight; and when he
-said he would, and affectionately kissed Cleomachus and put his helmet
-on his head, Cleomachus with a proud joy placed himself in the front of
-the bravest of the Thessalians and charged the enemy’s cavalry with such
-impetuosity that he threw them into disorder and routed them; and the
-Eretrian cavalry fleeing in consequence, the Chalkidians won a splendid
-victory.”[14]
-
-The annals of all nations contain similar records--though probably among
-none has the ideal of this love been quite so enthusiastic and heroic
-as among the post-Homeric Greeks. It is well known that among the
-Polynesian Islanders--for the most part a very gentle and affectionate
-people, probably inheriting the traditions of a higher culture than
-they now possess--the most romantic male friendships are (or were) in
-vogue. Says Herman Melville in “Omoo” (chap. 39), “The really curious
-way in which all Polynesians are in the habit of making bosom friends
-is deserving of remark.… In the annals of the island (Tahiti) are
-examples of extravagant friendships, unsurpassed by the story of Damon
-and Pythias--in truth much more wonderful; for notwithstanding the
-devotion--even of life in some cases--to which they led, they were
-frequently entertained at first sight for some stranger from another
-island.” So thoroughly recognised indeed were these unions that Melville
-explains (in “Typee,” chap. 18) that if two men of hostile tribes or
-islands became thus pledged to each other, then each could pass through
-the enemy’s territory without fear of molestation or injury; and the
-passionate nature of these attachments is indicated by the following
-passage from “Omoo” (another book of Melville’s):--“Though little
-inclined to jealousy in ordinary love-matters, the Tahitian will hear of
-no rivals in his _friendship_.”
-
-Even among savage races lower down than these in the scale of evolution,
-and who are generally accused of being governed in their love-relations
-only by the most animal desires, we find a genuine sentiment of
-comradeship beginning to assert itself--as among the Balonda[15] and
-other African tribes, where regular ceremonies of the betrothal of
-comrades take place, by the transfusion of a few drops of blood into each
-other’s drinking-bowls, by the exchange of names,[16] and the mutual
-gift of their most precious possessions; but unfortunately, owing to the
-obtuseness of current European opinion on this subject, these and other
-such customs have been but little investigated and have by no means
-received the attention that they ought.
-
-When we turn to the poetic and literary utterances of the more civilised
-nations on this subject we cannot but be struck by the range and
-intensity of the emotions expressed--from the beautiful threnody of David
-over his friend whose love was passing the love of women, through the
-vast panorama of the Homeric Iliad, of which the heroic friendship of
-Achilles and his dear Patroclus forms really the basic theme, down to
-the works of the great Greek age--the splendid odes of Pindar burning
-with clear fire of passion, the lofty elegies of Theognis, full of wise
-precepts to his beloved Kurnus, the sweet pastorals of Theocritus, the
-passionate lyrics of Sappho, or the more sensual raptures of Anacreon.
-Some of the dramas of Æschylus and Sophocles--as the “Myrmidones” of the
-former and the “Lovers of Achilles” of the latter--appear to have had
-this subject for their motive[17]; and many of the prose-poem dialogues
-of Plato were certainly inspired by it.
-
-Then coming to the literature of the Roman age, whose materialistic
-spirit could only with difficulty seize the finer inspiration of the
-homogenic love, and which in such writers as Catullus and Martial could
-only for the most part give expression to its grosser side, we still find
-in Vergil, a noble and notable instance. His second Eclogue bears the
-marks of a genuine passion; and, according to some,[18] he there under
-the name of Alexis immortalises his own love for the youthful Alexander.
-Nor is it possible to pass over in this connection the great mass of
-Persian literature, and the poets Sadi, Hafiz, Jami, and many others,
-whose names and works are for all time, and whose marvellous love-songs
-(“Bitter and sweet is the parting kiss on the lips of a friend”) are to a
-large extent, if not mostly, addressed to those of their own sex.[19]
-
-Of the mediæval period in Europe we have of course but few literary
-monuments. Towards its close we come upon the interesting story of Amis
-and Amile (thirteenth century), unearthed by Mr. W. Pater from the
-Bibliotheca Elzeviriana.[20] Though there is historic evidence of the
-prevalence of the passion we may say of this period that its _ideal_ was
-undoubtedly rather the chivalric love than the love of comrades. But
-with the Renaissance in Italy and the Elizabethan period in England the
-latter once more comes to evidence in a burst of poetic utterance,[21]
-which culminates perhaps in the magnificent sonnets of Michel Angelo
-and of Shakespeare; of Michel Angelo whose pure beauty of expression
-lifts the enthusiasm into the highest region as the direct perception
-of the divine in mortal form;[22] and of Shakespeare--whose passionate
-words and amorous spirituality of friendship have for long enough been
-a perplexity to hide-bound commentators. Thence through minor writers
-(not overlooking Winckelmann[23] in Germany) we pass to quite modern
-times--in which, notwithstanding the fact that the passion has been
-much misunderstood and misinterpreted, two names stand conspicuously
-forth--those of Tennyson, whose “In Memoriam” is perhaps his finest work,
-and of Walt Whitman, the enthusiasm of whose poems on Comradeship is only
-paralleled by the devotedness of his labors for his wounded brothers in
-the American Civil War.
-
-It will be noticed that here we have some of the very greatest names in
-all literature concerned; and that their utterances on this subject equal
-if they do not surpass, in beauty, intensity and humanity of sentiment,
-whatever has been written in praise of the other more ordinarily
-recognised love.
-
-And when again we turn to the records of Art, and compare the way
-in which man’s sense of Love and Beauty has expressed itself in the
-portrayal of the male form and the female form respectively we find
-exactly the same thing. The whole vista of Greek statuary shows the
-male passion of beauty in high degree. Yet though the statues of men and
-youths (by men sculptors) preponderate probably considerably, both in
-actual number and in devotedness of execution, over the statues of female
-figures, it is, as J. A. Symonds says in his “Life of Michel Angelo,”
-remarkable that in all the range of the former there are hardly two or
-three that show a base or licentious expression, such as is not so very
-uncommon in the female statues. Knowing as we do the strength of the
-male physical passion in the life of the Greeks, this one fact speaks
-strongly for the sense of proportion which must have characterised this
-passion--at any rate in the most productive age of their Art.
-
-In the case of Michel Angelo we have an artist who with brush and chisel
-portrayed literally thousands of human forms; but with this peculiarity,
-that while scores and scores of his male figures are obviously suffused
-and inspired by a romantic sentiment, there is hardly one of his female
-figures that is so,--the latter being mostly representative of woman in
-her part as mother, or sufferer, or prophetess or poetess, or in old age,
-or in any aspect of strength or tenderness, except that which associates
-itself especially with romantic love. Yet the cleanliness and dignity of
-Michel Angelo’s male figures are incontestable, and bear striking witness
-to that nobility of the sentiment in him, which we have already seen
-illustrated in his sonnets.[24]
-
-This brief sketch may suffice to give the reader some idea of the place
-and position in the world of the particular sentiment which we are
-discussing; nor can it fail to impress him--if any reference is made to
-the authorities quoted--with a sense of the dignity and solidity of the
-sentiment, at any rate as handled by some of the world’s greatest men.
-At the same time it would be affectation to ignore the fact that side
-by side with this view of the subject there has been another current of
-opinion leading people--especially in quite modern times in Europe--to
-look upon attachments of the kind in question with much suspicion and
-disfavour.[25] And it may be necessary here to say a few words on this
-latter view.
-
-The origin of it is not far to seek. Those who have no great gift
-themselves for this kind of friendship--who are not in the inner circle
-of it, so to speak, and do not understand or appreciate its deep
-emotional and romantic character, have nevertheless heard of certain
-corruptions and excesses; for these latter leap to publicity. They have
-heard of the debaucheries of a Nero or a Tiberius; they have noted the
-scandals of the Police Courts; they have had some experience perhaps of
-abuses which may be found in Public Schools or Barracks; and they (not
-unnaturally) infer that these things, these excesses and sensualities,
-are the motive of comrade-attachments, and the object for which they
-exist; nor do they easily recognise any more profound and intimate bond.
-To such people physical intimacies of _any_ kind (at any rate between
-males) seem inexcusable. There is no distinction in their minds between
-the simplest or most naive expression of feeling and the gravest abuse
-of human rights and decency; there is no distinction between a genuine
-heart-attachment and a mere carnal curiosity. They see certain evils
-that occur or have occurred, and they think, perfectly candidly, that any
-measures are justifiable to prevent such things recurring. But they do
-not see the interior love-feeling which when it exists does legitimately
-demand _some_ expression. Such folk, in fact, not having the key in
-themselves to the real situation hastily assume that the homogenic
-attachment has no other motive than, or is simply a veil and a cover for,
-sensuality--and suspect or condemn it accordingly.
-
-Thus arises the curious discrepancy of people’s views on this important
-subject--a discrepancy depending on the side from which they approach it.
-
-On the one hand we have anathemas and execrations, on the other we have
-the lofty enthusiasm of a man like Plato--one of the leaders of the
-world’s thought for all time--who puts, for example, into the mouth of
-Phædrus (in the “Symposium”) such a passage as this[26]: “I know not any
-greater blessing to a young man beginning life than a virtuous lover, or
-to the lover than a beloved youth. For the principle which ought to be
-the guide of men who would nobly live--that principle, I say, neither
-kindred, nor honour, nor wealth, nor any other motive is able to implant
-so well as love. Of what am I speaking? Of the sense of honour and
-dishonour, without which neither states nor individuals ever do any good
-or great work.… For what lover would not choose rather to be seen of all
-mankind than by his beloved, either when abandoning his post or throwing
-away his arms? He would be ready to die a thousand deaths rather than
-endure this. Or who would desert his beloved or fail him in the hour of
-danger? The veriest coward would become an inspired hero, equal to the
-bravest, at such a time; love would inspire him. That courage which, as
-Homer says, the god breathes into the soul of heroes, love of his own
-nature inspires into the lover.” Or again in the “Phædrus” Plato makes
-Socrates say[27]: “In like manner the followers of Apollo and of every
-other god, walking in the ways of their god, seek a love who is to be
-like their god, and when they have found him, they themselves imitate
-their god, and persuade their love to do the same, and bring him into
-harmony with the form and ways of the god as far as they can; for they
-have no feelings of envy or jealousy towards their beloved, but they do
-their utmost to create in him the greatest likeness of themselves and the
-god whom they honour. Thus fair and blissful to the beloved when he is
-taken, is the desire of the inspired lover, and the initiation of which I
-speak into the mysteries of true love, if their purpose is effected.”
-
- * * * * *
-
-With these few preliminary remarks we may pass on to consider some recent
-scientific investigations of the matter in hand. In late times--that is,
-during the last thirty years or so--a group of scientific and capable men
-chiefly in Germany, France, and Italy, have made a special and more or
-less impartial study of it. Among these may be mentioned Dr. Albert Moll
-of Berlin; R. von Krafft-Ebing, one of the leading medical authorities
-of Vienna, whose book on “Sexual Psychopathy” has passed into its
-tenth edition; Dr. Paul Moreau (“Des Aberrations du sens génésique”);
-Cesare Lombroso, the author of various works on Anthropology; M. A.
-Raffalovich (“Uranisme et unisexualité”); Auguste Forel (“Die Sexuelle
-Frage”); Mantegazza; K. H. Ulrichs; and last but not least, Dr. Havelock
-Ellis, of whose great work on the Psychology of Sex the second volume
-is dedicated to the subject of “Sexual Inversion.”[28] The result of
-these investigations has been that a very altered complexion has been
-given to the subject. For whereas at first it was easily assumed that
-the phenomena were of morbid character, and that the leaning of the
-love-sentiment towards one of the same sex was always associated with
-degeneracy or disease, it is very noticeable that step by step with the
-accumulation of reliable information this assumption has been abandoned.
-The point of view has changed; and the change has been most marked in the
-latest authors, such as A. Moll and Havelock Ellis.
-
-It is not possible here to go into anything like a detailed account of
-the works of these various authors, their theories, and the immense
-number of interesting cases and observations which they have contributed;
-but some of the general conclusions which flow from their researches may
-be pointed out. In the first place their labors have established the
-fact, known hitherto only to individuals, that _sexual inversion_--that
-is the leaning of desire to one of the same sex--is in a vast number of
-cases quite instinctive and congenital, mentally and physically, and
-therefore twined in the very roots of individual life and practically
-ineradicable. To Men or Women thus affected with an innate homosexual
-bias, Ulrichs gave the name of Urning,[29] since pretty widely accepted
-by scientists. Some details with regard to “Urnings,” I have given in
-the preceding paper, but it should be said here that too much emphasis
-cannot be laid on the distinction between these born lovers of their own
-kind, and that class of persons, with whom they are so often confused,
-who out of mere carnal curiosity or extravagance of desire, or from the
-dearth of opportunities for a more normal satisfaction (as in schools,
-barracks, etc.) adopt some homosexual practices. It is the latter class
-who become chiefly prominent in the public eye, and who excite, naturally
-enough, public reprobation. In their case the attraction is felt, by
-themselves and all concerned, to be merely sensual and morbid. In the
-case of the others, however, the feeling is, as said, so deeply rooted
-and twined with the mental and emotional life that the person concerned
-has difficulty in imagining himself affected otherwise than he is; and to
-him at least his love appears healthy and natural, and indeed a necessary
-part of his individuality.
-
-In the second place it has become clear that the number of individuals
-affected with ‘sexual inversion’ in some degree or other is very
-great--much greater than is generally supposed to be the case. It is
-however very difficult or perhaps impossible to arrive at satisfactory
-figures on the subject,[30] for the simple reasons that the proportions
-vary so greatly among different peoples and even in different sections
-of society and in different localities, and because of course there are
-all possible grades of sexual inversion to deal with, from that in which
-the instinct is _quite exclusively_ directed towards the same sex, to
-the other extreme in which it is normally towards the opposite sex but
-capable, occasionally and under exceptional attractions, of inversion
-towards its own--this last condition being probably among some peoples
-very widespread, if not universal.
-
-In the third place, by the tabulation and comparison of a great number
-of cases and “confessions,” it has become pretty well established that
-the individuals affected with inversion in marked degree do not after all
-differ from the rest of mankind, or womankind, in any other physical or
-mental particular which can be distinctly indicated.[31] No congenital
-association with any particular physical conformation or malformation
-has yet been discovered; nor with any distinct disease of body or mind.
-Nor does it appear that persons of this class are usually of a gross or
-specially low type, but if anything rather the opposite--being mostly
-of refined, sensitive nature and including, as Krafft-Ebing points out
-(“Psychopathia Sexualis,” seventh ed., p. 227) a great number “highly
-gifted in the fine arts, especially music and poetry”; and, as Mantegazza
-says,[32] many persons of high literary and social distinction. It is
-true that Krafft-Ebing insists on the generally strong sexual equipment
-of this class of persons (among men), but he hastens to say that their
-emotional love is also “enthusiastic and exalted,”[33] and that, while
-bodily congress is desired, the special act with which they are vulgarly
-credited is in most cases repugnant to them.[34]
-
-The only distinct characteristic which the scientific writers claim to
-have established is a marked tendency to nervous development in the
-subject, not infrequently associated with nervous maladies; but--as I
-shall presently have occasion to show--there is reason to think that the
-validity even of this characteristic has been exaggerated.
-
-Taking the general case of men with a marked exclusive preference for
-persons of their own sex, Krafft-Ebing says (“P.S.” p. 256): “The sexual
-life of these Homosexuals is _mutatis mutandis_ just the same as in the
-case of normal sex-love.… The Urning loves, deifies his male beloved
-one, exactly as the woman-wooing man does _his_ beloved. For him, he is
-capable of the greatest sacrifice, experiences the torments of unhappy,
-often unrequited, love, of faithlessness on his beloved’s part, of
-jealousy, and so forth. His attention is enchained only by the male form
-… The sight of feminine charms is indifferent to him, if not repugnant.”
-Then he goes on to say that many such men, notwithstanding their actual
-aversion to intercourse with the female, do ultimately marry--either
-from ethical, as sometimes happens, or from social considerations. But
-very remarkable--as illustrating the depth and tenacity of the homogenic
-instinct[35]--and pathetic too, are the records that he gives of these
-cases; for in many of them a real friendship and regard between the
-married pair was still of no avail to overcome the distaste on the part
-of one to sexual intercourse with the other, or to prevent the experience
-of actual physical distress after such intercourse, or to check the
-continual flow of affection to some third person of the same sex; and
-thus unwillingly, so to speak, this bias remained a cause of suffering to
-the end.
-
-I have said that at the outset it was assumed that the Homogenic
-emotion was morbid in itself, and probably always associated with
-distinct disease, either physical or mental, but that the progress of
-the inquiry has served more and more to dissipate this view; and that
-it is noticeable that the latest of the purely scientific authorities
-are the least disposed to insist upon the theory of morbidity. It is
-true that Krafft-Ebing clings to the opinion that there is generally
-some _neurosis_, or degeneration of a nerve-centre, or _inherited
-tendency in that direction_, associated with the instinct; see p. 190
-(seventh ed.), also p. 227, where he speaks, rather vaguely, of “an
-hereditary neuropathic or psychopathic tendency”--_neuro(psycho)pathische
-Belastung_. But it is an obvious criticism on this that there are few
-people in modern life, perhaps none, who could be pronounced absolutely
-free from such a _Belastung_! And whether the Dorian Greeks or the
-Polynesian Islanders or the Albanian mountaineers, or any of the other
-notably hardy races among whom this affection has been developed, were
-particularly troubled by nervous degeneration we may well doubt!
-
-As to Moll, though he speaks[36] of the instinct as morbid (feeling
-perhaps in duty bound to do so), it is very noticeable that he abandons
-the ground of its association with other morbid symptoms--as this
-association, he says, is by no means always to be observed; and is fain
-to rest his judgment on the _dictum_ that the mere failure of the sexual
-instinct to propagate the species is itself pathological--a _dictum_
-which in its turn obviously springs from that pre-judgment of scientists
-that generation is the sole object of love,[37] and which if pressed
-would involve the good doctor in awkward dilemmas, as for instance that
-every worker-bee is a pathological specimen.
-
-Finally we find that Havelock Ellis, one of the latest writers of weight
-on this subject, in chapter vi. of his “Sexual Inversion,” combats the
-idea that this temperament is necessarily morbid; and suggests that the
-tendency should rather be called an anomaly than a disease. He says (2nd
-edition, p. 186)[38] “Thus in sexual inversion we have what may fairly be
-called a ‘sport’ or variation, one of those organic aberrations which we
-see throughout living nature in plants and in animals.”[39]
-
-With regard to the nerve-degeneration theory, while it may be allowed
-that sexual inversion is not uncommonly found in connection with the
-specially nervous temperament, it must be remembered that its occasional
-association with nervous troubles or disease is quite another matter;
-since such troubles ought perhaps to be looked upon as the results rather
-than the causes of the inversion. It is difficult of course for outsiders
-not personally experienced in the matter to realise the great strain
-and tension of nerves under which those persons grow up from boyhood to
-manhood--or from girl to womanhood--who find their deepest and strongest
-instincts under the ban of the society around them; who before they
-clearly understand the drift of their own natures discover that they are
-somehow cut off from the sympathy and understanding of those nearest to
-them; and who know that they can never give expression to their tenderest
-yearnings of affection without exposing themselves to the possible charge
-of actions stigmatised as odious crimes.[40] That such a strain, acting
-on one who is perhaps already of a nervous temperament, should tend
-to cause nervous prostration or even mental disturbance is of course
-obvious; and if such disturbances are really found to be commoner among
-homogenic lovers than among ordinary folk we have in these social causes
-probably a sufficient explanation of the fact.
-
-Then again in this connexion it must never be forgotten that the
-medico-scientific enquirer is bound on the whole to meet with those cases
-that _are_ of a morbid character, rather than with those that are healthy
-in their manifestation, since indeed it is the former that he lays
-himself out for. And since the field of his research is usually a great
-modern city, there is little wonder if disease colours his conclusions.
-In the case of Dr. Moll, who carried out his researches largely under the
-guidance of the Berlin police (whose acquaintance with the subject would
-naturally be limited to its least satisfactory sides), the only marvel
-is that his verdict is so markedly favorable as it is. As Krafft-Ebing
-says in his own preface, “It is the sad privilege of Medicine, and
-especially of Psychiatry, to look always on the reverse side of life, on
-the weakness and wretchedness of man.”
-
-Having regard then to the direction in which science has been steadily
-moving in this matter, it is not difficult to see that the epithet
-“morbid” will probably before long be abandoned as descriptive of the
-homogenic bias--that is, of the general sentiment of love towards a
-person of the same sex. That there are excesses of the passion--cases,
-as in ordinary sex-love, where mere physical desire becomes a mania--we
-may freely admit; but as it would be unfair to judge of the purity of
-marriage by the evidence of the Divorce courts, so it would be monstrous
-to measure the truth and beauty of the attachment in question by those
-instances which stand most prominently perhaps in the eye of the modern
-public; and after all deductions there remains, we contend, the vast
-body of cases in which the manifestation of the instinct has on the
-whole the character of normality and healthfulness--sufficiently so in
-fact to constitute this _a distinct variety of the sexual passion_. The
-question, of course, not being whether the instinct is _capable_ of
-morbid and extravagant manifestation--for that can easily be proved of
-any instinct--but whether it is capable of a healthy and sane expression.
-And this, we think, it has abundantly shown itself to be.
-
-Anyhow the work that Science has practically done has been to destroy
-the dogmatic attitude of the former current opinion from which itself
-started, and to leave the whole subject freed from a great deal of
-misunderstanding, and much more open than before. If on the one hand its
-results have been chiefly of a negative character, and it admits that it
-does not understand the exact place and foundation of this attachment; on
-the other hand since it recognises the deeply beneficial influences of
-an intimate love-relation of the usual kind on those concerned, it also
-allows that there are some persons for whom these necessary reactions can
-only come from one of the same sex as themselves.
-
-“Successful love,” says Moll (p. 125) “exercises a helpful influence on
-the Urning. His mental and bodily condition improves, and capacity of
-work increases--just as it happens in the case of a normal youth with
-_his_ love.” And further on (p. 173) in a letter from a man of this kind
-occur these words:--“The passion is I suppose so powerful, just because
-one looks for everything in the loved man--Love, Friendship, Ideal, and
-Sense-satisfaction.… As it is at present I suffer the agonies of a deep
-unresponded passion, which wake me like a nightmare from sleep. And I am
-conscious of physical pain in the region of the heart.” In such cases the
-love, in some degree physically expressed, of another person of the same
-sex, is allowed to be as much a necessity and a condition of healthy life
-and activity, as in more ordinary cases is the love of a person of the
-opposite sex.
-
-If then the physical element which is sometimes present in the love of
-which we are speaking is a difficulty and a stumbling-block, it must
-be allowed that it is a difficulty that Nature confronts us with, and
-which cannot be disposed of by mere anathema and execration. The only
-theory--from K. H. Ulrichs to Havelock Ellis--which has at all held its
-ground in this matter, is that in congenital cases of sex-inversion
-there is a mixture of male and female elements in the same person; so
-that for instance in the same embryo the emotional and nervous regions
-may develop along feminine lines while the outer body and functions
-may determine themselves as distinctly masculine, or _vice versa_.
-Such cross-development may take place obviously in a great variety of
-ways, and thus possibly explain the remarkable varieties of the Uranian
-temperament; but in all such cases, strange as may be the problems thus
-arising, these problems are of Nature’s own producing and can hardly
-be laid to the door of the individual who has literally to bear their
-cross. For such individuals expressions of feeling become natural, which
-to others seem out of place and uncalled for; and not only natural,
-but needful and inevitable. To deny to such people _all_ expression of
-their emotion, is probably in the end to cause it to burst forth with
-the greater violence; and it may be suggested that our British code of
-manners, by forbidding the lighter marks of affection between youths and
-men, acts just contrary to its own purpose, and drives intimacies down
-into less open and unexceptionable channels.
-
-With regard to this physical element it must also be remembered that
-since the homogenic love--whether between man and man, or between woman
-and woman--can from the nature of the case never find expression on
-the physical side so freely and completely as is the case with the
-ordinary love, it must tend rather more than the latter to run along
-_emotional_ channels, and to find its vent in sympathies of social life
-and companionship. If one studies carefully the expression of the Greek
-statues (see p. 9, supra) and the lesson of the Greek literature, one
-sees clearly that the _ideal_ of Greek life was a very continent one: the
-trained male, the athlete, the man temperate and restrained, even chaste,
-for the sake of bettering his powers. It was round this conception that
-the Greeks kindled their finer emotions. And so of their love: a base and
-licentious indulgence was not in line with it. They may not have always
-kept to their ideal, but there it was. And I am inclined to think that
-the homogenic instinct (for the reasons given above) would in the long
-run tend to work itself out in this direction. And consonant with this is
-the fact that this passion in the past (as pointed out by J. Addington
-Symonds in his paper on “Dantesque and Platonic Ideals of Love”[41])
-has, as a matter of fact, inspired such a vast amount of heroism and
-romance--only paralleled indeed by the loves of Chivalry, which of
-course, owing to their special character, were subject to a similar
-Transmutation.
-
-In all these matters the popular opinion has probably been largely
-influenced by the arbitrary notion that the function of love is limited
-to child-breeding; and that any love not concerned in the propagation
-of the race must necessarily be of dubious character. And in enforcing
-this view, no doubt the Hebraic and Christian tradition has exercised a
-powerful influence--dating, as it almost certainly does, from far-back
-times when the multiplication of the tribe was one of the first duties
-of its members, and one of the first necessities of corporate life.[42]
-But nowadays when the need has swung round all the other way it is not
-unreasonable to suppose that a similar revolution will take place in
-people’s views of the place and purpose of the non-child-bearing love.[43]
-
- * * * * *
-
-I have now said enough I think to show that though much in relation to
-the homogenic attachment is obscure, and though it may have its special
-pitfalls and temptations--making it quite necessary to guard against a
-too great latitude on the physical side; yet on its ethical and social
-sides it is pregnant with meaning and has received at various times in
-history abundant justification. It certainly does not seem impossible
-to suppose that as the ordinary love has a special function in the
-propagation of the race, so the other has its special function in social
-and heroic work, and in the generation--not of bodily children--but of
-those children of the mind, the philosophical conceptions and ideals
-which transform our lives and those of society. J. Addington Symonds,
-in his privately printed pamphlet, “A Problem in Greek Ethics” (now
-published in a German translation),[44] endeavours to reconstruct as
-it were the genesis of comrade-love among the Dorians in early Greek
-times. Thus:--“Without sufficiency of women, without the sanctities of
-established domestic life, inspired by the memories of Achilles and
-venerating their ancestor Herakles, the Dorian warriors had special
-opportunity for elevating comradeship to the rank of an enthusiasm.
-The incidents of emigration into a foreign country--perils of the sea,
-passages of rivers and mountains, assaults of fortresses and cities,
-landings on a hostile shore, night-vigils by the side of blazing
-beacons, foragings for food, picquet service in the front of watchful
-foes--involved adventures capable of shedding the lustre of romance on
-friendship. These circumstances, by bringing the virtues of sympathy
-with the weak, tenderness for the beautiful, protection for the young,
-together with corresponding qualities of gratitude, self-devotion, and
-admiring attachment into play, may have tended to cement unions between
-man and man no less firm than that of marriage. On such connections a
-wise captain would have relied for giving strength to his battalions, and
-for keeping alive the flames of enterprise and daring.” The author then
-goes on to suggest that though in such relations as those indicated the
-physical probably had some share, yet it did not at that time overbalance
-the emotional and spiritual elements, or lead to the corruption and
-effeminacy of a later age.
-
-At Sparta the lover was called _Eispnêlos_, the inspirer, and the younger
-beloved _Aïtes_, the hearer. This alone would show the partly educational
-aspects in which comradeship was conceived; and a hundred passages from
-classic literature might be quoted to prove how deeply it had entered
-into the Greek mind that this love was the cradle of social chivalry and
-heroic life. Finally it seems to have been Plato’s favorite doctrine
-that the relation if properly conducted led up to the disclosure of
-true philosophy in the mind, to the divine vision or mania, and to the
-remembrance or rekindling within the soul of all the forms of celestial
-beauty. He speaks of this kind of love as causing a “generation in the
-beautiful”[45] within the souls of the lovers. The image of the beloved
-one passing into the mind of the lover and upward through its deepest
-recesses reaches and unites itself to the essential forms of divine
-beauty there long hidden--the originals as it were of all creation--and
-stirring them to life excites a kind of generative descent of noble
-thoughts and impulses, which henceforward modify the whole cast of
-thought and life of the one so affected.
-
-If there is any truth--even only a grain or two--in these speculations,
-it is easy to see that the love with which we are specially dealing
-is a very important factor in society, and that its neglect, or its
-repression, or its vulgar misapprehension, may be matters of considerable
-danger or damage to the common-weal. It is easy to see that while
-on the one hand marriage is of indispensable importance to the State
-as providing the workshop as it were for the breeding and rearing of
-children, another form of union is almost equally indispensable to
-supply the basis for social activities of other kinds. Every one is
-conscious that without a close affectional tie of some kind his life is
-not complete, his powers are crippled, and his energies are inadequately
-spent. Yet it is not to be expected (though it may of course happen)
-that the man or woman who have dedicated themselves to each other and
-to family life should leave the care of their children and the work
-they have to do at home in order to perform social duties of a remote
-and less obvious, though may be more arduous, character. Nor is it to
-be expected that a man or woman single-handed, without the counsel of a
-helpmate in the hour of difficulty, or his or her love in the hour of
-need, should feel equal to these wider activities. If--to refer once more
-to classic story--the love of Harmodius had been for a wife and children
-at home, he would probably not have cared, and it would hardly have been
-his business, to slay the tyrant. And unless on the other hand each of
-the friends had had the love of his comrade to support him, the two
-could hardly have nerved themselves to this audacious and ever-memorable
-exploit. So it is difficult to believe that anything can supply the force
-and liberate the energies required for social and mental activities of
-the most necessary kind so well as a comrade-union which yet leaves the
-two lovers free from the responsibilities and impedimenta of family life.
-
-For if the slaughter of tyrants is not the chief social duty nowadays,
-we have with us hydra-headed monsters at least as numerous as the
-tyrants of old, and more difficult to deal with, and requiring no little
-courage to encounter. And beyond the extirpation of evils we have solid
-work waiting to be done in the patient and life-long building up of new
-forms of society, new orders of thought, and new institutions of human
-solidarity--all of which in their genesis must meet with opposition,
-ridicule, hatred, and even violence. Such campaigns as these--though
-different in kind from those of the Dorian mountaineers described
-above--will call for equal hardihood and courage, and will stand in
-need of a comradeship as true and valiant. And it may indeed be doubted
-whether the higher heroic and spiritual life of a nation is ever quite
-possible without the sanction of this attachment in its institutions,
-adding a new range and scope to the possibilities of love.[46]
-
-Walt Whitman, the inaugurator, it may almost be said, of a new world
-of democratic ideals and literature, and--as one of the best of our
-critics has remarked--the most Greek in spirit and in performance of
-modern writers, insists continually on this social function of “intense
-and loving comradeship, the personal and passionate attachment of man
-to man.” “I will make,” he says, “the most splendid race the sun ever
-shone upon, I will make divine magnetic lands.… I will make inseparable
-cities with their arms about each others’ necks, by the love of
-comrades.” And again, in “Democratic Vistas,” “It is to the development,
-identification, and general prevalence of that fervid comradeship (the
-adhesive love at least rivaling the amative love hitherto possessing
-imaginative literature, if not going beyond it), that I look for the
-counterbalance and offset of materialistic and vulgar American Democracy,
-and for the spiritualisation thereof.… I say Democracy infers such loving
-comradeship, as its most inevitable twin or counterpart, without which it
-will be incomplete, in vain, and incapable of perpetuating itself.”
-
-Yet Whitman could not have spoken, as he did, with a kind of authority
-on this subject, if he had not been fully aware that through the masses
-of the people this attachment was already alive and working--though
-doubtless in a somewhat suppressed and un-self-conscious form--and if
-he had not had ample knowledge of its effects and influence in himself
-and others around him. Like all great artists he could but give form
-and light to that which already existed dim and inchoate in the heart
-of the people. To those who have dived at all below the surface in this
-direction it will be familiar enough that the homogenic passion ramifies
-widely through all modern society, and that among the masses of the
-people as among the classes, even below the stolid surface and reserve
-of British manners, letters pass and enduring attachments are formed,
-differing in no very obvious respect from those correspondences which
-persons of opposite sex knit with each other under similar circumstances;
-but that hitherto while this relation has occasionally, in its grosser
-forms and abuses, come into public notice through the police reports,
-etc., its more sane and spiritual manifestations--though really a moving
-force in the body politic--have remained unrecognised.
-
-It is hardly needful in these days when social questions loom so
-large upon us to emphasise the importance of a bond which by the most
-passionate and lasting compulsion may draw members of the different
-classes together, and (as it often seems to do) none the less strongly
-because they are members of different classes. A moment’s consideration
-must convince us that such a comradeship may, as Whitman says, have
-“deepest relations to general politics.” It is noticeable, too, in this
-deepest relation to politics that the movement among women towards
-their own liberation and emancipation, which is taking place all over
-the civilised world, has been accompanied by a marked development of
-the homogenic passion among the female sex. It may be said that a
-certain strain in the relations between the opposite sexes which has
-come about owing to a growing consciousness among women that they have
-been oppressed and unfairly treated by men, and a growing unwillingness
-to ally themselves unequally in marriage--that this strain has caused
-the womenkind to draw more closely together and to cement alliances of
-their own. But whatever the cause may be it is pretty certain that such
-comrade-alliances--and of quite devoted kind--are becoming increasingly
-common, and especially perhaps among the more cultured classes of women,
-who are working out the great cause of their sex’s liberation; nor is it
-difficult to see the importance of such alliances in such a campaign. In
-the United States where the battle of women’s independence is also being
-fought, the tendency mentioned is as strongly marked.
-
-A few words may here be said about the legal aspect of this important
-question. It has to be remarked that the present state of the Law,
-both in Germany and Britain--arising as it does partly out of some of
-the misapprehensions above alluded to, and partly out of the sheer
-unwillingness of legislators to discuss the question--is really
-impracticable. While the Law rightly seeks to prevent acts of violence
-or public scandal, it may be argued that it is going beyond its province
-when it attempts to regulate the private and voluntary relations of
-adult persons to each other. The homogenic affection is a valuable
-social force, and in some cases a necessary element of noble human
-character--yet the Act of 1885 makes almost any familiarity in such
-cases the possible basis of a criminal charge. The Law has no doubt had
-substantial ground for previous statutes on this subject--dealing with a
-certain gross act; but in so severely condemning the least familiarity
-between male persons[47] we think it has gone too far. It has undertaken
-a censorship over private morals (entirely apart from social results)
-which is beyond its province, and which--even if it were its province--it
-could not possibly fulfil;[48] it has opened wider than ever before the
-door to a real, most serious social evil and crime--that of blackmailing;
-and it has thrown a shadow over even the simplest and most ordinary
-expressions of an attachment which may, as we have seen, be of great
-value in the national life.
-
-That the homosexual feeling, like the heterosexual, may lead to public
-abuses of liberty and decency; that it needs a strict self-control;
-and that much teaching and instruction on the subject is needed; we of
-course do not deny. But as, in the case of persons of opposite sex, the
-law limits itself on the whole to a maintenance of public order, the
-protection of the weak from violence and insult,[49] and of the young
-from their inexperience; so we think it should be here. The much-needed
-teaching and the true morality on the subject must be given--as it can
-only be given--by the spread of proper education and ideas, and not by
-the clumsy bludgeon of the statute-book.[50]
-
-Having thus shown the importance of the homogenic or comrade-attachment,
-in some form, in national life, it would seem high time now that the
-modern peoples should recognise this in their institutions, and endeavour
-at least in their public opinion and systems of education to understand
-this factor and give it its proper place. The undoubted evils which exist
-in relation to it, for instance in our public schools as well as in our
-public life, owe their existence largely to the fact that the whole
-subject is left in the gutter so to speak--in darkness and concealment.
-No one offers a clue of better things, nor to point a way out of the
-wilderness; and by this very non-recognition the passion is perverted
-into its least satisfactory channels. All love, one would say, must have
-its responsibilities, else it is liable to degenerate, and to dissipate
-itself in mere sentiment or sensuality. The normal marriage between man
-and woman leads up to the foundation of the household and the family;
-the love between parents and children implies duties and cares on both
-sides. The homogenic attachment left unrecognised, easily loses some
-of its best quality and becomes an ephemeral or corrupt thing. Yet,
-as we have seen, and as I am pointing out in the following chapter,
-it may, when occurring between an elder and younger, prove to be an
-immense educational force; while, as between equals, it may be turned
-to social and heroic uses, such as can hardly be demanded or expected
-from the ordinary marriage. It would seem high time, I say, that public
-opinion should recognise these facts; and so give to this attachment the
-sanction and dignity which arise from public recognition, as well as
-the definite form and outline which would flow from the existence of an
-accepted ideal or standard in the matter. It is often said how necessary
-for the morality of the ordinary marriage is some public recognition of
-the relation, and some accepted standard of conduct in it. May not, to
-a lesser degree, something of the same kind (as suggested in the next
-chapter) be true of the homogenic attachment? It has had its place as
-a recognised and guarded institution in the elder and more primitive
-societies; and it seems quite probable that a similar place will be
-accorded to it in the societies of the future.
-
-
-
-
-IV
-
-Affection in Education
-
-
-The place of Affection, and the need of it, as an educative force in
-school-life, is a subject which is beginning to attract a good deal of
-attention. Hitherto Education has been concentred on intellectual (and
-physical) development; but the affections have been left to take care of
-themselves. Now it is beginning to be seen that the affections have an
-immense deal to say in the building up of the brain and the body. Their
-evolution and organisation in some degree is probably going to become an
-important part of school management.
-
-School friendships of course exist; and almost every one remembers that
-they filled a large place in the outlook of his early years; but he
-remembers, too, that they were not recognised in any way, and that in
-consequence the main part of their force and value was wasted. Yet it is
-evident that the first unfolding of a strong attachment in boyhood or
-girlhood must have a profound influence; while if it occurs between an
-elder and a younger school-mate, or--as sometimes happens--between the
-young thing and its teacher, its importance in the educational sense can
-hardly be overrated.
-
-That such feelings sometimes take quite intense and romantic forms few
-will deny. I have before me a letter, in which the author, speaking of
-an attachment he experienced when a boy of sixteen for a youth somewhat
-older than himself, says:--
-
- “I would have died for him ten times over. My devices and plannings
- to meet him (to come across him casually, as it were) were those
- of a lad for his sweetheart, and when I saw him my heart beat so
- violently that it caught my breath, and I could not speak. We met
- in----, and for the weeks that he stayed there I thought of nothing
- else--thought of him night and day--and when he returned to London
- I used to write him weekly letters, veritable love-letters of many
- sheets in length. Yet I never felt one particle of jealousy, though
- our friendship lasted for some years. The passion, violent and
- extravagant as it was, I believe to have been perfectly free from
- sex-feeling and perfectly wholesome and good for me. It distinctly
- contributed to my growth. Looking back upon it and analysing it as
- well as I can, I seem to see as the chief element in it an escape
- from the extremely narrow Puritanism in which I was reared, into
- a large sunny ingenuous nature which knew nothing at all of the
- bondage of which I was beginning to be acutely conscious.”
-
-Shelley in his fragmentary “Essay on Friendship” speaks in the most
-glowing terms of an attachment he formed at school, and so does Leigh
-Hunt in his “Autobiography.” Says the latter:--
-
- “If I had reaped no other benefit from Christ Hospital, the school
- would be ever dear to me from the recollection of the friendships
- I formed in it, and of the first heavenly taste it gave me of
- that most spiritual of the affections.… I shall never forget the
- impression it made on me. I loved my friend for his gentleness, his
- candour, his truth, his good repute, his freedom even from my own
- livelier manner, his calm and reasonable kindness.… I doubt whether
- he ever had a conception of a tithe of the regard and respect
- I entertained for him, and I smile to think of the perplexity
- (though he never showed it) which he probably felt sometimes at my
- enthusiastic expressions; for I thought him a kind of angel.”
-
-It is not necessary, however, to quote authorities on such a subject as
-this.[51] Any one who has had experience of schoolboys knows well enough
-that they are capable of forming these romantic and devoted attachments,
-and that their alliances are often of the kind especially referred to as
-having a bearing on education--_i.e._, between an elder and a younger.
-They are genuine attractions, free as a rule, and at their inception,
-from secondary motives. They are not formed by the elder one for any
-personal ends. More often, indeed, I think they are begun by the younger,
-who naively allows his admiration of the elder one to become visible. But
-they are absorbing and intense, and on either side their influence is
-deeply felt and long remembered.
-
-That such attachments _may_ be of the very greatest value is
-self-evident. The younger boy looks on the other as a hero, loves to
-be with him, thrills with pleasure at his words of praise or kindness,
-imitates, and makes him his pattern and standard, learns exercises and
-games, contracts habits, or picks up information from him. The elder one,
-touched, becomes protector and helper; the unselfish side of his nature
-is drawn out, and he develops a real affection and tenderness towards
-the younger. He takes all sorts of trouble to initiate his _protégé_ in
-field sports or studies; is proud of the latter’s success; and leads him
-on perhaps later to share his own ideals of life and thought and work.
-
-Sometimes the alliance will begin, in a corresponding way, from the side
-of the elder boy. Sometimes, as said, between a boy and a master such an
-attachment, or the germ of it, is found; and indeed it is difficult to
-say what gulf, or difference of age, or culture, or class in society, is
-so great that affection of this kind will not on occasion overpass it.
-I have by me a letter which was written by a boy of eleven or twelve to
-a young man of twenty-four or twenty-five. The boy was rather a wild,
-“naughty” boy, and had given his parents (working-class folk) a good deal
-of trouble. He attended, however, some sort of night-school or evening
-class and there conceived the strongest affection (evidenced by this
-letter) for his teacher, the young man in question, quite spontaneously,
-and without any attempt on the part of the latter to elicit it; and
-(which was equally important) without any attempt on his part to _deny_
-it. The result was most favorable; the one force which could really reach
-the boy had, as it were, been found; and he developed rapidly and well.
-
-The following extract is from a letter written by an elderly man who has
-had large experience as a teacher. He says--
-
- “It has always seemed to me that the _rapport_ that exists between
- two human beings, whether of the same or of different sexes, is
- a force not sufficiently recognised, and capable of producing
- great results. Plato fully understood its importance, and aimed
- at giving what to his countrymen was more or less sensual, a
- noble and exalted direction.… As one who has had much to do in
- instructing boys and starting them in life, I am convinced that the
- great secret of being a good teacher consists in the possibility
- of that _rapport_; not only of a merely intellectual nature, but
- involving a certain physical element, a personal affection, almost
- indescribable, that grows up between pupil and teacher, and through
- which thoughts are shared and an influence created that could exist
- in no other way.”
-
-And it must be evident to every one that to the expanding mind of a small
-boy to have a relation of real affection with some sensible and helpful
-elder of his own sex must be a priceless boon. At that age love to the
-other sex has hardly declared itself, and indeed is not exactly what
-is wanted. The unformed mind requires an ideal of itself, as it were,
-to which it can cling or towards which it can grow. Yet it is equally
-evident that the relation and the success of it, will depend immensely on
-the character of the elder one, on the self-restraint and tenderness of
-which he is capable, and on the ideal of life which he has in his mind.
-That, possibly, is the reason why Greek custom, at least in the early
-days of Hellas, not only recognised friendships between elder and younger
-youths as a national institution of great importance, but laid down very
-distinct laws or rules concerning the conduct of them, so as to be a
-guide and a help to the elder in what was acknowledged to be a position
-of responsibility.
-
-In Crete, for instance,[52] the friendship was entered into in quite a
-formal and public way, with the understanding and consent of relatives;
-the position of the elder was clearly defined, and it became his business
-to train and exercise the younger in skill of arms, the chase, etc.;
-while the latter could obtain redress at law if the elder subjected
-him to insult or injury of any kind. At the end of a certain period
-of probation, if the younger desired it he could leave his comrade; if
-not, he became his squire or henchman--the elder being bound to furnish
-his military equipments--and they fought thenceforward side by side in
-battle, “inspired with double valor, according to the notions of the
-Cretans, by the gods of war and love.”[53] Similar customs prevailed in
-Sparta, and, in a less defined way, in other Greek states; as, indeed,
-they have prevailed among many semi-barbaric races on the threshold of
-civilisation.
-
-When, however, we turn to modern life and the actual situation, as for
-instance in the public schools of to-day, it may well be objected that
-we find very little of the suggested ideal, but rather an appalling
-descent into the most uninspiring conditions. So far from friendship
-being an institution whose value is recognised and understood, it is at
-best scantily acknowledged, and is often actually discountenanced and
-misunderstood. And though attachments such as we have portrayed exist,
-they exist underground, as it were, at their peril, and half-stifled in
-an atmosphere which can only be described as that of the gutter. Somehow
-the disease of premature sexuality seems to have got possession of our
-centres of education; wretched practices and habits abound, and (what is
-perhaps their worst feature) cloud and degrade the boys’ conception of
-what true love or friendship may be.
-
-To those who are familiar with large public schools the state of affairs
-does not need describing. A friend (who has placed some notes at my
-disposal) says that in his time a certain well-known public school was a
-mass of uncleanness, incontinence, and dirty conversation, while at the
-same time a great deal of genuine affection, even to heroism, was shown
-among the boys in their relations with one another. But “all these things
-were treated by masters and boys alike as more or less unholy, with
-the result that they were either sought after or flung aside according
-to the sexual or emotional instinct of the boy. No attempt was made
-at discrimination. A kiss was by comparison as unclean as the act of
-_fellatio_, and no one had any gauge or principle whatever on which to
-guide the cravings of boyhood.” The writer then goes into details which
-it is not necessary to reproduce here. He (and others) were initiated
-in the mysteries of sex by the dormitory servant; and the boys thus
-corrupted mishandled each other.
-
-Naturally in any such atmosphere as this the chances _against_ the
-formation of a decent and healthy attachment are very large. If the elder
-youth happen to be given to sensuality he has here his opportunity; if on
-the other hand he is _not_ given to it, the ideas current around probably
-have the effect of making him suspect his own affection, and he ends by
-smothering and disowning the best part of his nature. In both ways harm
-is done. The big boys in such places become either coarse and licentious
-or hard and self-righteous; the small boys, instead of being educated and
-strengthened by the elder ones, become effeminate little wretches, the
-favorites, the petted boys, and the “spoons” of the school. As time goes
-on the public opinion of the school ceases to believe in the possibility
-of a healthy friendship; the masters begin to presume (and not without
-reason) that all affection means sensual practices, and end by doing
-their best to discourage it.
-
-Now this state of affairs is really desperate. There is no need to be
-puritanical, or to look upon the lapses of boyhood as unpardonable sins;
-indeed, it may be allowed, as far as that goes, that a little frivolity
-is better than hardness and self-righteousness; yet every one feels, and
-must feel, who knows anything about the matter, that the state of our
-schools is bad.
-
-And it is so because, after all, purity (in the sense of continence) _is_
-of the first importance to boyhood. To prolong the period of continence
-in a boy’s life is to prolong the period of _growth_. This is a simple
-physiological law, and a very obvious one; and whatever other things
-may be said in favour of purity, it remains perhaps the most weighty.
-To introduce sensual and sexual habits--and one of the worst of these
-is self-abuse--at an early age, is to arrest growth, both physical and
-mental.
-
-And what is even more, it means to arrest the capacity for affection.
-I believe affection, attachment--whether to the one sex or the
-other--springs up normally in the youthful mind in a quite diffused,
-ideal, emotional form--a kind of longing and amazement as at something
-divine--with no definite thought or distinct consciousness of sex in it.
-The sentiment expands and fills, as it were like a rising tide, every
-cranny of the emotional and moral nature; and the longer (of course
-within reasonable limits) its definite outlet towards sex is deferred,
-the longer does this period of emotional growth and development continue,
-and the greater is the refinement and breadth and strength of character
-resulting. All experience shows that a too early outlet towards sex
-cheapens and weakens affectional capacity.
-
-Yet this early outlet it is which is the great trouble of our public
-schools. And it really does not seem unlikely that the peculiar character
-of the middle-class man of to-day, his undeveloped affectional nature and
-something of brutishness and woodenness, is largely due to the prevalent
-condition of the places of his education. The Greeks, with their
-wonderful instinct of fitness, seem to have perceived the right path in
-all this matter; and, while encouraging friendship, as we have seen,
-made a great point of modesty in early life--the guardians and teachers
-of every well-born boy being especially called upon to watch over the
-sobriety of his habits and manners.[54]
-
-We have then in education generally, it seems to me (and whether of boys
-or of girls), two great currents to deal with, which cannot be ignored,
-and which certainly ought to be candidly recognized and given their right
-direction. One of these currents is that of friendship. The other is
-that of the young thing’s natural curiosity about sex. The latter is of
-course, or should be, a perfectly legitimate interest. A boy at puberty
-naturally wants to know--and ought to know--what is taking place, and
-what the uses and functions of his body are. He does not go very deep
-into things; a small amount of information will probably satisfy him; but
-the curiosity is there, and it is pretty certain that the boy, if he is
-a boy of any sense or character, _will_ in some shape or another get to
-satisfy it.
-
-The process is really a _mental_ one. Desire--except in some abnormal
-cases--has not manifested itself strongly; and there is often perhaps
-generally, an actual repugnance at first to anything like sexual
-practices; but the wish for information exists and is, I say, legitimate
-enough.[55] In almost all human societies except, curiously, the modern
-nations, there have been institutions for the initiation of the youth of
-either sex into these matters, and these initiations have generally been
-associated, in the opening blossom of the young mind, with inculcation of
-the ideals of manhood and womanhood, courage, hardihood, and the duties
-of the citizen or the soldier.[56]
-
-But what does the modern school do? It shuts a trap-door down on the
-whole matter. There is a hush; a grim silence. Legitimate curiosity soon
-becomes illegitimate of its kind; and a furtive desire creeps in, where
-there was no desire before. The method of the gutter prevails. In the
-absence of any recognition of schoolboy needs, contraband information is
-smuggled from one to another; chaff and ‘smut’ take the place of sensible
-and decent explanations; unhealthy practices follow; the sacredness
-of sex goes its way, never to return, and the school is filled with
-premature and morbid talk and thought about a subject which should, by
-rights, only just be rising over the mental horizon.
-
-The meeting of these two currents, of ideal attachment and sexual desire,
-constitutes a rather critical period, even when it takes place in the
-normal way--_i.e._, later on, and at the matrimonial age. Under the most
-favorable conditions a certain conflict occurs in the mind at their
-first encounter. But in the modern school this conflict, precipitated
-far too soon, and accompanied by an artificial suppression of the nobler
-current and a premature hastening of the baser one, ends in simple
-disaster to the former. Masters wage war against incontinence, and are
-right to do so. But how do they wage it? As said, by grim silence and
-fury, by driving the abscess deeper, by covering the drain over, _and_ by
-confusing when it comes before them--both in their own minds and those of
-the boys--a real attachment with that which they condemn.
-
-Not long ago the headmaster of a large public school coming suddenly out
-of his study chanced upon two boys embracing each other in the corridor.
-Possibly, and even probably, it was the simple and natural expression of
-an unsophisticated attachment. Certainly, it was nothing that in itself
-could be said to be either right or wrong. What did he do? He haled the
-two boys into his study, gave them a long lecture on the nefariousness of
-their conduct, with copious hints that he knew _what such things meant_,
-and _what they led to_, and ended by punishing both condignly. Could
-anything be more foolish? If their friendship was clean and natural,
-the master was only trying to make them feel that it was unclean and
-unnatural, and that a lovely and honorable thing was disgraceful; if the
-act was--which at least is improbable--a mere signal of lust--even then
-the best thing would have been to assume that it was honorable, and by
-talking to the boys, either together or separately, to try and inspire
-them with a better ideal; while if, between these positions, the master
-really thought the affection though honorable would lead to things
-undesirable, then, plainly, to punish the two was only to cement their
-love for each other, to give them a strong reason for concealing it, and
-to hasten its onward course. Yet every one knows that this is the _kind_
-of way in which the subject is treated in schools. It is the method of
-despair. And masters (perhaps not unnaturally) finding that they have
-not the time which would be needed for personal dealing with each boy,
-nor the forces at their command by which they might hope to introduce
-new ideals of life and conduct into their little community, and feeling
-thus utterly unable to cope with the situation, allow themselves to drift
-into a policy of mere silence with regard to it, tempered by outbreaks of
-ungoverned and unreasoning severity.
-
-I venture to think that school-masters will never successfully solve the
-difficulty until they boldly recognize the two needs in question, and
-proceed candidly to give them their proper satisfaction.
-
-The need of information--the legitimate curiosity--of boys (and girls)
-must be met, (1) partly by classes on physiology, (2) partly by private
-talks and confidences between elder and younger, based on friendship.
-With regard to (1) classes of this kind are already, happily, being
-carried on at a few advanced schools, and with good results. And though
-such classes can only go rather generally into the facts of motherhood
-and generation they cannot fail, if well managed, to impress the young
-minds, and give them a far grander and more reverent conception of the
-matter than they usually gain.
-
-But (2) although some rudimentary teaching on sex and lessons in
-physiology may be given in classes, it is obvious that further
-instruction and indeed any real help in the conduct of life and morals
-can only come through very close and tender confidences between the
-elder and the younger, such as exist where there is a strong friendship
-to begin with. It is obvious that effective help _can_ only come in
-this way, and that this is the only way in which it is desirable that
-it should come. The elder friend in this case would, one might say,
-naturally be, and in many instances may be, the parent, mother or
-father--who ought certainly to be able to impress on the clinging child
-the sacredness of the relation. And it is much to be hoped that parents
-will see their way to take this part more freely in the future. But
-for some unexplained reason there is certainly often a gulf of reserve
-between the (British) parent and child; and the boy who is much at school
-comes more under the influence of his elder companions than his parents.
-If, therefore, boys and youths cannot be trusted and encouraged to form
-decent and loving friendships with each other, and with their elders
-or juniors--in which many delicate questions could be discussed and
-the tradition of sensible and manly conduct with regard to sex handed
-down--we are indeed in a bad plight and involved in a vicious circle from
-which escape seems difficult.
-
-And so (we think) the need of attachment must also be met by full
-recognition of it, and the granting of it expression within all
-reasonable limits; by the dissemination of a good ideal of friendship
-and the enlistment of it on the side of manliness and temperance. Is it
-too much to hope that schools will in time recognise comradeship as a
-regular institution--considerably more important, say, than “fagging”--an
-institution having its definite place in the school life, in the games
-and in the studies, with its own duties, responsibilities, privileges,
-etc., and serving to ramify through the little community, hold it
-together, and inspire its members with the two qualities of heroism and
-tenderness, which together form the basis of all great character?
-
-But here it must be said that if we are hoping for any great change in
-the conduct of our large boys’ schools, the so-called public schools are
-not the places in which to look for it--or at any rate for its inception.
-In the first place these institutions are hampered by powerful traditions
-which naturally make them conservative; and in the second place their
-mere size and the number of boys make them difficult to deal with or
-to modify. The masters are overwhelmed with work; and the (necessary)
-division of so many boys into separate ‘houses’ has this effect that a
-master who introduces a better tradition into his own house has always
-the prospect before him that his work will be effaced by the continual
-and perhaps contaminating contact with the boys from the other houses.
-No, it will be in smaller schools, say of from 50 to 100 boys, where
-the personal influence of the headmaster will be a real force reaching
-each boy, and where he will be really able to mould the tradition of the
-school, that we shall alone be able to look for an improved state of
-affairs.[57]
-
-No doubt the first steps in any reform of this kind are difficult; but
-masters are greatly hampered by the confusion in the public mind, to
-which we have already alluded--which so often persists in setting down
-any attachment between two boys, or between a boy and his teacher, to
-nothing but sensuality. Many masters quite understand the situation,
-but feel themselves helpless in the face of public opinion. Who so fit
-(they sometimes feel) to enlighten a young boy and guide his growing mind
-as one of themselves, when the bond of attachment exists between the
-two? Like the writer of a letter quoted in the early part of this paper
-they believe that “a personal affection, almost indescribable, grows
-up between pupil and teacher, through which thoughts are shared and an
-influence created that could exist in no other way.” Yet when the pupil
-comes along of whom all this might be true, who shows by his pleading
-looks the sentiment which animates him, and the profound impression which
-he is longing, as it were, to receive from his teacher, the latter belies
-himself, denies his own instinct and the boy’s great need, and treats
-him distantly and with coldness. And why? Simply because he dreads,
-even while he desires it, the boy’s confidence. He fears the ingenuous
-and perfectly natural expression of the boy’s affection in caress or
-embrace, because he knows how a bastard public opinion will interpret,
-or misinterpret it; and rather than run such a risk as this he seals the
-fountains of the heart, withholds the help which love alone can give, and
-deliberately nips the tender bud which is turning to him for light and
-warmth.[58]
-
-The panic terror which prevails in England with regard to the expression
-of affection of this kind has its comic aspect. The affection exists,
-and is known to exist, on all sides; but we must bury our heads in the
-sand and pretend not to see it. And if by any chance we are compelled
-to recognize it, we must show our vast discernment by _suspecting_ it.
-And thus we fling on the dust-heap one of the noblest and most precious
-elements in human nature. Certainly, if the denial and suspicion of
-all natural affection were beneficial, we should find this out in our
-schools; but seeing how complete is its failure there to clarify their
-tone it is sufficiently evident that the method itself is wrong.
-
- * * * * *
-
-The remarks in this paper have chiefly had reference to boys’ schools;
-but they apply in the main to girls’ schools, where much the same
-troubles prevail--with this difference, that in girls’ schools
-friendships instead of being repressed are rather encouraged by public
-opinion; only unfortunately they are for the most part friendships of
-a weak and sentimental turn, and not very healthy either in themselves
-or in the habits they lead to. Here too, in girls’ schools, the whole
-subject wants facing out; friendship wants setting on a more solid
-and less sentimental basis; and on the subject of sex, so infinitely
-important to women, there needs to be sensible and consistent teaching,
-both public and private. Possibly the co-education of boys and girls may
-be of use in making boys less ashamed of their feelings, and girls more
-healthy in the expression of them.
-
-At any rate the more the matter is thought of, the clearer I believe
-will it appear that a healthy affection must in the end be the basis of
-education, and that the recognition of this will form the only way out
-of the modern school-difficulty. It is true that such a change would
-revolutionise our school-life; but it will have to come, all the same,
-and no doubt will come _pari passu_ with other changes that are taking
-place in society at large.
-
-
-
-
-V
-
-The Place of the Uranian in Society
-
-
-Whatever differing views there may be on the many problems which the
-Intermediate sexes present--and however difficult of solution some of the
-questions involved--there is one thing which appears to me incontestable:
-namely that a vast number of intermediates do actually perform most
-valuable social work, and that they do so partly on account and by reason
-of their special temperament.
-
-This fact is not generally recognised as it ought to be, for the simple
-reason that the Uranian himself is not recognised, and indeed (as we have
-already said) tends to conceal his temperament from the public. There is
-no doubt that if it became widely known _who are_ the Uranians, the world
-would be astonished to find so many of its great or leading men among
-them.
-
-I have thought it might be useful to indicate some of the lines along
-which valuable work is being performed, or has been performed, by people
-of this disposition; and in doing this I do not of course mean to
-disguise or conceal the fact that there are numbers of merely frivolous,
-or feeble or even vicious homosexuals, who practically do no useful work
-for society at all--_just as there are of normal people_. The existence
-of those who do no valuable work does not alter the fact of the existence
-of others whose work is of great importance. And I wish also to make
-it clearly understood that I use the word Uranians to indicate simply
-those whose lives and activities are inspired by a genuine friendship or
-love for their own sex, without venturing to specify their individual
-and particular habits or relations towards those whom they love (which
-relations in most cases we have no means of knowing). Some Intermediates
-of light and leading--doubtless not a few--are physically very reserved
-and continent; others are sensual in some degree or other. The point
-is that they are all men, or women, whose most powerful motive comes
-from the dedication to their own kind, and is bound up with it in some
-way. And if it seems strange and anomalous that in such cases work
-of considerable importance to society is being done by people whose
-affections and dispositions society itself would blame, this is after all
-no more than has happened a thousand times before in the history of the
-world.
-
-As I have already hinted, the Uranian temperament (probably from the
-very fact of its dual nature and the swift and constant interaction
-between its masculine and feminine elements) is exceedingly sensitive and
-emotional; and there is no doubt that, going with this, a large number
-of the artist class, musical, literary or pictorial, belong to this
-description. That delicate and subtle sympathy with every wave and phase
-of feeling which makes the artist possible is also very characteristic of
-the Uranian (the male type), and makes it easy or natural for the Uranian
-man to become an artist. In the ‘confessions’ and ‘cases’ collected by
-Krafft-Ebing, Havelock Ellis and others, it is remarkable what a large
-percentage of men of this temperament belong to the artist class. In his
-volume on “Sexual Inversion,”[59] speaking of the cases collected by
-himself, Ellis says:--“An examination of my cases reveals the interesting
-fact that thirty-two of them, or sixty-eight per cent., possess artistic
-aptitude in varying degree. Galton found, from the investigation of
-nearly one thousand persons, that the general average showing artistic
-taste in England is only about thirty per cent. It must also be said that
-my figures are probably below the truth, as no special point was made of
-investigating the matter, and also that in many of my cases the artistic
-aptitudes are of high order. With regard to the special avocations of
-my cases, it must of course be said that no occupation furnishes a
-safeguard against inversion. There are, however, certain occupations to
-which inverts are specially attracted. Acting is certainly one of the
-chief of these. Three of my cases belong to the dramatic profession,
-and others have marked dramatic ability. Art, again, in its various
-forms, and music, exercise much attraction. In my experience, however,
-literature is the avocation to which inverts seem to feel chiefly called,
-and that moreover in which they may find the highest degree of success
-and reputation. At least half-a-dozen of my cases are successful men of
-letters.”
-
-Of Literature in this connection, and of the great writers of the world
-whose work has been partly inspired by the Uranian love, I have myself
-already spoken.[60] It may further be said that those of the modern
-artist-writers and poets who have done the greatest service in the way
-of interpreting and reconstructing _Greek_ life and ideals--men like
-Winckelmann, Goethe, Addington Symonds, Walter Pater--have had a marked
-strain of this temperament in them. And this has been a service of great
-value, and one which the world could ill have afforded to lose.
-
-The painters and sculptors, especially of the renaissance period in
-Italy, yield not a few examples of men whose work has been similarly
-inspired--as in the cases of Michel Angelo, Lionardo, Bazzi, Cellini,
-and others. As to music, this is certainly the art which in its subtlety
-and tenderness--and perhaps in a certain inclination to _indulge_ in
-emotion--lies nearest to the Urning nature. There are few in fact of this
-nature who have not some gift in the direction of music--though, unless
-we cite Tschaikowsky, it does not appear that any thorough-going Uranian
-has attained to the highest eminence in this art.
-
-Another direction along which the temperament very naturally finds an
-outlet is the important social work of Education. The capacity that a
-man has, in cases, of devoting himself to the welfare of boys or youths,
-is clearly a thing which ought not to go wasted--and which may be most
-precious and valuable. It is incontestable that a great number of men
-(and women) are drawn into the teaching profession by this sentiment--and
-the work they do is, in many cases, beyond estimation. Fortunate the boy
-who meets with such a helper in early life! I know a man--a rising and
-vigorous thinker and writer--who tells me that he owes almost everything
-mentally to such a friend of his boyhood, who took the greatest interest
-in him, saw him almost every day for many years, and indeed cleared up
-for him not only things mental but things moral, giving him the affection
-and guidance his young heart needed. And I have myself known and watched
-not a few such teachers, in public schools and in private schools, and
-seen something of the work and of the real inspiration they have been to
-boys under them. Hampered as they have been by the readiness of the world
-to misinterpret, they still have been able to do most precious service.
-Of course here and there a case occurs in which privilege is abused; but
-even then the judgment of the world is often unreasonably severe. A poor
-boy once told me with tears in his eyes of the work a man had done for
-him. This man had saved the boy from drunken parents, taken him from the
-slums, and by means of a club helped him out into the world. Many other
-boys he had rescued, it appeared, in the same way--scores and scores of
-them. But on some occasion or other he got into trouble, and was accused
-of improper familiarities. No excuse, or record of a useful life, was of
-the least avail. Every trumpery slander was believed, every mean motive
-imputed, and he had to throw up his position and settle elsewhere, his
-life-work shattered, never to be resumed.
-
-The capacity for sincere affection which causes an elder man to care so
-deeply for the welfare of a youth or boy, is met and responded to by a
-similar capacity in the young thing of devotion to an elder man. This
-fact is not always recognised; but I have known cases of boys and even
-young men who would feel the most romantic attachments to quite mature
-men, sometimes as much as forty or fifty years of age, and only for
-them--passing by their own contemporaries of either sex, and caring only
-to win a return affection from these others. This may seem strange, but
-it is true. And the fact not only makes one understand what riddles there
-are slumbering in the breasts of our children, but how greatly important
-it is that we should try to read them--since here, in such cases as
-these, the finding of an answering heart in an elder man would probably
-be the younger one’s salvation.
-
-How much of the enormous amount of philanthropic work done in the
-present day--by women among needy or destitute girls of all sorts, or
-by men among like classes of boys--is inspired by the same feeling, it
-would be hard to say; but it must be a very considerable proportion.
-I think myself that the best philanthropic work--just because it is
-the most personal, the most loving, and the least merely formal and
-self-righteous--has a strong fibre of the Uranian heart running through
-it; and if it should be said that work of this very personal kind is more
-liable to dangers and difficulties on that account, it is only what is
-true of the best in almost all departments.
-
-Eros is a great leveler. Perhaps the true Democracy rests, more firmly
-than anywhere else, on a sentiment which easily passes the bounds
-of class and caste, and unites in the closest affection the most
-estranged ranks of society. It is noticeable how often Uranians of good
-position and breeding are drawn to rougher types, as of manual workers,
-and frequently very permanent alliances grow up in this way, which
-although not publicly acknowledged have a decided influence on social
-institutions, customs and political tendencies--and which would have a
-good deal more influence could they be given a little more scope and
-recognition. There are cases that I have known (although the ordinary
-commercial world might hardly believe it) of employers who have managed
-to attach their workmen, or many of them, very personally to themselves,
-and whose object in running their businesses was at least as much to
-provide their employees with a living as themselves; while the latter,
-feeling this, have responded with their best output. It is possible that
-something like the guilds and fraternities of the middle ages might thus
-be reconstructed, but on a more intimate and personal basis than in those
-days; and indeed there are not wanting signs that such a reconstruction
-is actually taking place.
-
-The “Letters of Love and Labour” written by Samuel M. Jones of
-Toledo, Ohio, to his workmen in the engineering firm of which he was
-master, are very interesting in this connection. They breathe a spirit
-of extraordinary personal affection towards, and confidence in, the
-employees, which was heartily responded to by the latter; and the whole
-business was carried on, with considerable success, on the principle of a
-close and friendly co-operation all round.[61]
-
-These things indeed suggest to one that it is possible that the Uranian
-spirit may lead to something like a general enthusiasm of Humanity,
-and that the Uranian people may be destined to form the advance guard
-of that great movement which will one day transform the common life
-by substituting the bond of personal affection and compassion for the
-monetary, legal and other external ties which now control and confine
-society. Such a part of course we cannot expect the Uranians to play
-unless the capacity for their kind of attachment also exists--though in
-a germinal and undeveloped state--in the breast of mankind at large.
-And modern thought and investigation are clearly tending that way--to
-confirm that it does so exist.
-
-Dr. E. Bertz in his late study of Whitman as a person of strongly
-homogenic temperament[62] brings forward the objection that Whitman’s
-gospel of Comradeship as a means of social regeneration is founded on
-a false basis--because (so Dr. Bertz says) the gospel derives from an
-abnormality in himself, and therefore cannot possibly have a universal
-application or create a general enthusiasm. But this is rather a case of
-assuming the point which has to be proved. Whitman constantly maintains
-that his own disposition at any rate is normal, and that he represents
-the average man. And it _may_ be true, even as far as his Uranian
-temperament is concerned, that while this was specially developed in him
-the germs of it _are_ almost, if not quite, universal. If so, then the
-Comradeship on which Whitman founds a large portion of his message may
-in course of time become a general enthusiasm, and the nobler Uranians
-of to-day may be destined, as suggested, to be its pioneers and advance
-guard. As one of them himself has sung:--
-
- These things shall be! A loftier race,
- Than e’er the world hath known, shall rise
- With flame of freedom in their souls,
- And light of science in their eyes.
- Nation with nation, land with land,
- In-armed shall live as comrades free;
- In every heart and brain shall throb
- The pulse of one fraternity.[63]
-
-To proceed. The Uranian, though generally high-strung and sensitive,
-is by no means always dreamy. He is sometimes extraordinarily
-and unexpectedly practical; and such a man may, and often does,
-command a positive enthusiasm among his subordinates in a business
-organisation. The same is true of military organisation. As a rule
-the Uranian temperament (in the male) is not militant. War with its
-horrors and savagery is somewhat alien to the type. But here again
-there are exceptions; and in all times there have been great generals
-(like Alexander, Cæsar, Charles XII. of Sweden, or Frederick II. of
-Prussia--not to speak of more modern examples) with a powerful strain in
-them of the homogenic nature, and a wonderful capacity for organisation
-and command, which combined with their personal interest in, or
-attachment to, their troops, and the answering enthusiasm so elicited,
-have made their armies well-nigh invincible.
-
-The existence of this great practical ability in some Uranians cannot be
-denied; and it points to the important work they may some day have to do
-in social reconstruction. At the same time I think it is noticeable that
-_politics_ (at any rate in the modern sense of the word, as concerned
-mainly with party questions and party government) is not as a rule
-congenial to them. The personal and affectional element is perhaps too
-remote or absent. Mere ‘views’ and ‘questions’ and party strife are alien
-to the Uranian man, as they are on the whole to the ordinary woman.
-
-If politics, however, are not particularly congenial, it is yet
-remarkable how many royal personages have been decidedly homogenic in
-temperament. Taking the Kings of England from the Norman Conquest to
-the present day, we may count about thirty. And three of these, namely,
-William Rufus, Edward II., and James I. were homosexual in a marked
-degree--might fairly be classed as Urnings--while some others, like
-William III., had a strong admixture of the same temperament. Three
-out of thirty yields a high ratio--ten per cent--and considering that
-sovereigns do not generally choose themselves, but come into their
-position by accident of birth, the ratio is certainly remarkable. Does
-it suggest that the general percentage in the world at large is equally
-high, but that it remains unnoticed, except in the fierce light that
-beats upon thrones? or is there some other explanation with regard to
-the special liability of royalty to inversion? Hereditary degeneracy
-has sometimes been suggested. But it is difficult to explain the matter
-even on this theory; for though the epithet ‘degenerate’ might possibly
-apply to James I., it would certainly not be applicable to William Rufus
-and William III., who, in their different ways, were both men of great
-courage and personal force--while Edward II. was by no means wanting in
-ability.
-
-But while the Uranian temperament has, in cases, specially fitted
-its possessors to become distinguished in art or education or war or
-administration, and enabled them to do valuable work in these fields; it
-remains perhaps true that above all it has fitted them, and fits them,
-for distinction and service in affairs of the heart.
-
-It is hard to imagine human beings more skilled in these matters than
-are the Intermediates. For indeed no one else can possibly respond to
-and understand, as they do, all the fluctuations and interactions of
-the masculine and feminine in human life. The pretensive coyness and
-passivity of women, the rude invasiveness of men; lust, brutality, secret
-tears, the bleeding heart; renunciation, motherhood, finesse, romance,
-angelic devotion--all these things lie slumbering in the Uranian soul,
-ready on occasion for expression; and if they are not always expressed
-are always there for purposes of divination or interpretation. There
-are few situations, in fact, in courtship or marriage which the Uranian
-does not instinctively understand; and it is strange to see how even an
-unlettered person of this type will often read Love’s manuscript easily
-in cases where the normal man or woman is groping over it like a child
-in the dark. [Not of course that this means to imply any superiority of
-_character_ in the former; but merely that with his double outlook he
-necessarily discerns things which the other misses.]
-
-That the Uranians do stand out as helpers and guides, not only in matters
-of Education, but in affairs of love and marriage, is tolerably patent to
-all who know them. It is a common experience for them to be consulted
-now by the man, now by the woman, whose matrimonial conditions are
-uncongenial or disastrous--not generally because the consultants in the
-least perceive the Uranian nature, but because they instinctively feel
-that here is a strong sympathy with and understanding of their side of
-the question. In this way it is often the fate of the Uranian, himself
-unrecognised, to bring about happier times and a better comprehension
-of each other among those with whom he may have to deal. Also he often
-becomes the confidant of young things of either sex, who are caught in
-the tangles of love or passion, and know not where to turn for assistance.
-
-I say that I think perhaps of all the services the Uranian may render to
-society it will be found some day that in this direction of solving the
-problems of affection and of the heart he will do the greatest service.
-If the day is coming as we have suggested--when Love is at last to take
-its rightful place as the binding and directing force of society (instead
-of the Cash-nexus), and society is to be transmuted in consequence to a
-higher form, then undoubtedly the superior types of Uranians--prepared
-for this service by long experience and devotion, as well as by much
-suffering--will have an important part to play in the transformation.
-For that the Urnings in their own lives put Love before everything
-else--postponing to it the other motives like money-making, business
-success, fame, which occupy so much space in most people’s careers--is
-a fact which is patent to everyone who knows them. This may be saying
-little or nothing in favor of those of this class whose conception of
-love is only of a poor and frivolous sort; but in the case of those
-others who see the god in his true light, the fact that they serve him
-in singleness of heart and so unremittingly raises them at once into the
-position of the natural leaders of mankind.
-
-From this fact--_i.e._, that these folk think so much of affairs of the
-heart--and from the fact that their alliances and friendships are formed
-and carried on beneath the surface of society, as it were, and therefore
-to some extent beyond the inquisitions and supervisions of Mrs. Grundy,
-some interesting conclusions flow.
-
-For one thing, the question is constantly arising as to how Society would
-shape itself if _free_: what form, in matters of Love and Marriage, it
-would take, if the present restrictions and sanctions were removed or
-greatly altered. At present in these matters, the Law, the Church, and
-a strong pressure of public opinion interfere, compelling the observance
-of certain forms; and it becomes difficult to say how much of the
-existing order is due to the spontaneous instinct and common sense of
-human nature, and how much to mere outside compulsion and interference:
-how far, for instance, Monogamy is natural or artificial; to what degree
-marriages would be permanent if the Law did not make them so; what is the
-rational view of Divorce; whether jealousy is a necessary accompaniment
-of Love; and so forth. These are questions which are being constantly
-discussed, without finality; or not infrequently with quite pessimistic
-conclusions.
-
-Now in the Urning societies a certain freedom (though not complete,
-of course) exists. Underneath the surface of general Society, and
-consequently unaffected to any great degree by its laws and customs,
-alliances are formed and maintained, or modified or broken, more in
-accord with inner need than with outer pressure. Thus it happens that in
-these societies there are such opportunities to note and observe human
-grouping under conditions of freedom, as do not occur in the ordinary
-world. And the results are both interesting and encouraging. As a rule I
-think it may be said that the alliances are remarkably permanent. Instead
-of the wild “general post” which so many good people seem to expect in
-the event of law being relaxed, one finds (except of course in a few
-individual cases) that common sense and fidelity and a strong tendency to
-permanence prevail. In the ordinary world so far has doubt gone that many
-to-day disbelieve in a life-long free marriage. Yet among the Uranians
-such a thing is, one may almost say, common and well known; and there are
-certainly few among them who do not believe in its possibility.
-
-Great have been the debates, in all times and places, concerning
-Jealousy; and as to how far jealousy is natural and instinctive and
-universal, and how far it is the product of social opinion and the
-property sense, and so on. In ordinary marriage what may be called social
-and proprietary jealousy is undoubtedly a very great factor. But this
-kind of jealousy hardly appears or operates in the Urning societies. Thus
-we have an opportunity in these latter of observing conditions where only
-the natural and instinctive jealousy exists. This of course is present
-among the Urnings--sometimes rampant and violent, sometimes quiescent
-and vanishing almost to _nil_. It seems to depend almost entirely upon
-the individual; and we certainly learn that jealousy though frequent and
-widespread, is not an absolutely necessary accompaniment of love. There
-are cases of Uranians (whether men or women) who, though permanently
-allied, do not object to lesser friendships on either side--and there
-are cases of very decided objection. And we may conclude that something
-the same would be true (is true) of the ordinary Marriage, the property
-considerations and the property jealousy being once removed. The tendency
-anyhow to establish a dual relation more or less fixed, is seen to be
-very strong among the Intermediates, and may be concluded to be equally
-strong among the more normal folk.
-
-Again with regard to Prostitution. That there are a few natural-born
-prostitutes is seen in the Urning-societies; but prostitution in that
-world does not take the important place which it does in the normal
-world, partly because the law-bound compulsory marriage does not exist
-there, and partly because prostitution naturally has little chance and
-cannot compete in a world where alliances are free and there is an open
-field for friendship. Hence we may see that freedom of alliance and of
-marriage in the ordinary world will probably lead to the great diminution
-or even disappearance of Prostitution.
-
-In these and other ways the experience of the Uranian world forming
-itself freely and not subject to outside laws and institutions comes as
-a guide--and really a hopeful guide--towards the future. I would say
-however that in making these remarks about certain conclusions which we
-are able to gather from some spontaneous and comparatively unrestricted
-associations, I do not at all mean to argue _against_ institutions and
-forms. I think that the Uranian love undoubtedly suffers from want of a
-recognition and a standard. And though it may at present be better off
-than if subject to a foolish and meddlesome regulation; yet in the future
-it will have its more or less fixed standards and ideals, like the normal
-love. If one considers for a moment how the ordinary relations of the
-sexes would suffer were there no generally acknowledged codes of honor
-and conduct with regard to them, one then indeed sees that reasonable
-forms and institutions are a help, and one may almost wonder that the
-Urning circles are so well-conducted on the whole as they are.
-
-I have said that the Urning men in their own lives put love before
-money-making, business success, fame, and other motives which rule the
-normal man. I am sure that it is also true of them as a whole that
-they put love before lust. I do not feel _sure_ that this can be said
-of the normal man, at any rate in the present stage of evolution. It
-is doubtful whether on the whole the merely physical attraction is not
-the stronger motive with the latter type. Unwilling as the world at
-large is to credit what I am about to say, and great as are the current
-misunderstandings on the subject, I believe it is true that the Uranian
-men are superior to the normal men in this respect--in respect of their
-love-feeling--which is gentler, more sympathetic, more considerate, more
-a matter of the heart and less one of mere physical satisfaction than
-that of ordinary men.[64] All this flows naturally from the presence of
-the feminine element in them, and its blending with the rest of their
-nature. It should be expected _a priori_, and it can be noticed at once
-by those who have any acquaintance with the Urning world. Much of the
-current misunderstanding with regard to the character and habits of the
-Urning arises from his confusion with the ordinary _roué_ who, though
-of normal temperament, contracts homosexual habits out of curiosity
-and so forth--but this is a point which I have touched on before, and
-which ought now to be sufficiently clear. If it be once allowed that
-the love-nature of the Uranian is of a sincere and essentially humane
-and kindly type then the importance of the Uranian’s place in Society,
-and of the social work he may be able to do, must certainly also be
-acknowledged.
-
-
-
-
-FOOTNOTES
-
-
-[1] For the derivation of these terms see ch. ii., p. 20, _infra_.
-
-[2] See Appendix, pp. 139 and 140.
-
-[3] From _Uranos_, heaven; his idea being that the Uranian love was of a
-higher order than the ordinary attachment. For further about Ulrichs and
-his theories see Appendix, pp. 157-159.
-
-[4] Charles G. Leland (“Hans Breitmann”) in his book “The Alternate
-Sex” (Wellby, 1904), insists much on the frequent combination of the
-characteristics of both sexes in remarkable men and women, and has a
-chapter on “The Female Mind in Man,” and another on “The Male Intellect
-in Woman.”
-
-[5] Some late statistical inquiries (see “Statistische Untersuchungen,”
-von Dr. M. Hirschfeld, Leipzig, 1904) yield 1.5 to 2.0 per cent. as a
-probable ratio. See also Appendix, pp. 134-136.
-
-[6] For instances, see Appendix, pp. 149-153.
-
-[7] See De Joux, “Die Enterbten des Liebesglückes” (Leipzig, 1893), p. 21.
-
-[8] “Psychopathia Sexualis,” 7th ed., p. 276.
-
-[9] See Appendix, pp. 153-156.
-
-[10] A good deal in this description may remind readers of history of the
-habits and character of Henry III. of France.
-
-[11] Perhaps, like Queen Christine of Sweden, who rode across Europe, on
-her visit to Italy, in jack-boots and sitting astride of her horse. It is
-said that she shook the Pope’s hand, on seeing him, so heartily that the
-doctor had to attend to it afterwards!
-
-[12] “Homosexual,” generally used in scientific works, is of course a
-bastard word. “Homogenic” has been suggested, as being from two roots,
-both Greek, _i.e._, “homos,” same, and “genos,” sex.
-
-[13] “Athenæus” xiii., ch. 78.
-
-[14] See Plutarch’s “Eroticus,” §xvii.
-
-[15] See “Natural History of Man,” by J. G. Wood. Vol: “Africa,” p. 419.
-
-[16] See also Livingstone’s “Expedition to the Zambesi” (Murray, 1865) p.
-148.
-
-[17] Though these two plays, except for some quotations, are lost.
-
-[18] Mantegazza and Lombroso. See Albert Moll, “Conträre
-Sexualempfindung,” 2nd ed., p. 36.
-
-[19] Though in translation this fact is often by pious fraudulence
-disguised.
-
-[20] W. Pater’s “Renaissance,” pp. 8-16.
-
-[21] Among _prose_ writers of this period, Montaigne, whose treatment of
-the subject is enthusiastic and unequivocal, should not be overlooked.
-See Hazlitt’s “Montaigne,” ch. xxvii.
-
-[22] I may be excused for quoting here the sonnet No. 54, from J. A.
-Symonds’ translation of the sonnets of Michel Angelo:--
-
- “From thy fair face I learn, O my loved lord,
- That which no mortal tongue can rightly say:
- The soul, imprisoned in her house of clay,
- Holpen by thee to God hath often soared:
- And though the vulgar, vain, malignant horde
- Attribute what their grosser wills obey,
- Yet shall this fervent homage that I pay,
- This love, this faith, pure joys for us afford,
- Lo, all the lovely things we find on earth,
- Resemble for the soul that rightly sees,
- That source of bliss divine which gave us birth:
- Nor have we first-fruits or remembrances
- Of heaven elsewhere. Thus, loving loyally,
- I rise to God, and make death sweet by thee.”
-
-The labours of von Scheffler, followed by J. A. Symonds, have now pretty
-conclusively established the pious frauds of the nephew, and the fact
-that the love-poems of the elder Michel Angelo were, for the most part,
-written to male friends.
-
-[23] See an interesting paper in W. Pater’s “Renaissance.”
-
-[24] For a fuller collection of instances of this Friendship-love in the
-history of the world, see “Ioläus: an Anthology,” by E. Carpenter (George
-Allen, London. 3/- net). Also “Liebling-minne und Freundesliebe in der
-Welt-literatur,” von Elisar von Kupffer (Adolf Brand, Berlin, 1900).
-
-[25] As in the case, for instance, of Tennyson’s “In Memoriam,” for which
-the poet was soundly rated by the _Times_ at the time of its publication.
-
-[26] Jowett’s “Plato,” 2nd ed., vol. ii., p. 30.
-
-[27] Jowett, vol. ii., p. 130.
-
-[28] One ought also to mention some later writers, like Dr. Magnus
-Hirschfeld and Dr. von Römer, whose work though avowedly favourable to
-the Urning-movement, is in a high degree scientific and reliable in
-character.
-
-[29] From _Uranos_--see, for derivation, p. 20, _supra_--also Plato’s
-“Symposium,” speech of Pausanias.
-
-[30] See, for estimates, Appendix, pp. 134-136.
-
-[31] Though there is no doubt a general _tendency_ towards femininity of
-type in the male Urning, and towards masculinity in the female.
-
-[32] “Gli amori degli uomini.”
-
-[33] “Psychopathia Sexualis,” 7th ed., p. 227.
-
-[34] _Ibid_, pp. 229 and 258. See Appendix, p. 160.
-
-[35] “How deep congenital sex-inversion roots may be gathered from the
-fact that the pleasure-dream of the male Urning has to do with male
-persons, and of the female with females.”--Krafft-Ebing, “P.S.,” 7th ed.,
-p. 228.
-
-[36] “Conträre Sexualempfindung,” 2nd ed., p. 269.
-
-[37] See “Love’s Coming-of-Age,” p. 22.
-
-[38] Pub.: F. A. Davis, Philadelphia, 1901.
-
-[39] Otto Weininger even goes further, and regards the temperament as
-a natural intermediate form (“Sex and Character,” ch. iv.) See also
-Appendix, _infra_, p. 169.
-
-[40] “Though then before my own conscience I cannot reproach myself, and
-though I must certainly reject the judgment of the world about us, yet I
-suffer greatly. In very truth I have injured no one, and I hold my love
-in its nobler activity for just as holy as that of normally disposed
-men, but under the unhappy fate that allows us neither sufferance nor
-recognition I suffer often more than my life can bear.”--Extract from a
-letter given by Krafft-Ebing.
-
-[41] See “In the Key of Blue,” by J. A. Symonds (Elkin Mathews, 1893).
-
-[42] See Appendix, pp. 162 and 163.
-
-[43] See also “Love’s Coming-of-Age,” 5th ed., pp. 173, 174.
-
-[44] See “Das Conträre Geschlechtsgefühl,” von Havelock Ellis und J. A.
-Symonds (Leipzig, 1896).
-
-[45] “Symposium,” Speech of Socrates.
-
-[46] It is interesting in this connection to notice the extreme fervour,
-almost of romance, of the bond which often unites lovers of like sex
-over a long period of years, in an unfailing tenderness of treatment
-and consideration towards each other, equal to that shown in the most
-successful marriages. The love of many such men, says Moll (p. 119),
-“developed in youth lasts at times the whole life through. I know of
-such men, who had not seen their first love for years, even decades, and
-who yet on meeting showed the old fire of their first passion. In other
-cases, a close love-intimacy will last unbroken for many years.”
-
-[47] Though, inconsistently enough, making no mention of females.
-
-[48] Dr. Moll maintains (2nd ed., pp. 314, 315) that if familiarities
-between those of the same sex are made illegal, as immoral, self-abuse
-ought much more to be so made.
-
-[49] Though it is doubtful whether the marriage-laws even do this.
-
-[50] In France, since the adoption of the Code Napoleon, sexual inversion
-is tolerated under the same restrictions as normal sexuality; and
-according to Carlier, formerly Chief of the French Police, Paris is not
-more depraved in this matter than London. Italy in 1889 also adopted the
-principles of the Code Napoleon on this point. For further considerations
-with regard to the Law, see Appendix, pp. 164 and 165.
-
-[51] For further instances, see Appendix, pp. 143-148.
-
-[52] See Müller’s “History and Antiquities of the Doric Race.”
-
-[53] Müller.
-
-[54] Cf. the incident at the end of Plato’s “Lysis,” when the tutors of
-Lysis and Menexenus come in and send the youths home.
-
-[55] For a useful little manual on this subject, see “How We are Born,”
-by Mrs. N. J. (Daniel, London, price 2/-). For a general argument in
-favour of sex-teaching see “The Training of the Young in Laws of Sex,” by
-Canon Lyttelton, Headmaster of Eton College (Longmans, 2/6).
-
-[56] See J. G. Wood’s “Natural History of Man,” vol. “Africa,” p. 324
-(the Bechuanas); also vol. “Australia,” p. 75.
-
-[57] With the rapid rise which is taking place, in scope and social
-status, of the state day-schools, it is probable that some change of
-opinion will take place with regard to the wisdom of sending young
-boys of ten to fourteen to upper-class boarding-schools. For a boy of
-fifteen or sixteen and upwards the boarding-school system may have
-its advantages. By that time a boy is old enough to understand some
-questions; he is old enough to have some rational ideal of conduct, and
-to hold his own in the pursuit of it; and he may learn in the life away
-from home a lot in the way of discipline, organization, self-reliance,
-etc. But to send a young thing, ignorant of life, and quite unformed of
-character, to take his chance by day and night in the public school as it
-at present exists, is--to say the least--a rash thing to do.
-
-[58] It should be also said, in fairness, that the fear of showing undue
-partiality, often comes in as a paralysing influence.
-
-[59] “Studies in the Psychology of Sex,” vol. ii., p. 173.
-
-[60] See ch. ii. _supra_, also _Ioläus_, an Anthology of Friendship, by
-E. Carpenter.
-
-[61] Mr. Jones became Mayor of Toledo; but died at the early age of 53.
-See also “Workshop Reconstruction,” by C. R. Ashbee, Appendix, _infra_,
-p. 146.
-
-[62] “Whitman: ein Charakterbild,” by Edward Bertz (Leipzig, Max Spohr).
-
-[63] John Addington Symonds.
-
-[64] See Appendix, pp. 172-174.
-
-
-
-
-APPENDIX
-
-
-“In this country [Britain] we have too long, from a sense of mock
-modesty, neglected the science relating to sex. In Germany this is not
-so. There we find workers who have elaborated for themselves a new
-science, and who have given to the world knowledge which is of the very
-utmost importance. We now know that there are females with strong male
-characteristics, and _vice-versa_. Anatomically and mentally we find all
-shades existing from the pure genus man to the pure genus woman. Thus
-there has been constituted what is well named by an illustrious exponent
-of the science ‘The Third Sex’.”--Dr. JAMES BURNET, _The Medical Times
-and Hospital Gazette_, vol. xxxiv., No. 1497, 10th November, 1906. London.
-
-“Every citizen of age to fulfil his duties as a citizen, whether he be
-a father or husband, teacher or pupil, master or servant, official or
-subordinate, has the right, and owes it as a duty, to know the facts of
-sexual inversion, to combat and to prevent debauchery, crime and vice,
-to learn and to teach others the place of inversion in Society, and its
-morals, the duties of the invert towards himself, and towards other
-inverts, towards the normal man, and towards women and children. And
-the duties of the normal man towards the invert are no less--no less
-difficult, no less indispensable.”--M. A. RAFFALOVICH, “Uranisme et
-Unisexualité.” Paris, 1896.
-
-“That sex inversion is not a chance phenomenon … appears from the
-fact that it has been observed at all times and in all places, and
-among peoples quite separate from each other.”--A. MOLL, “Die Conträre
-Sexualempfindung,” 2nd Edition, p. 15. Berlin, 1893.
-
-“Concerning the wide prevalence of sexual inversion, and of homosexual
-phenomena generally, there can be no manner of doubt. In Berlin, Moll
-states that he has himself seen between six hundred and seven hundred
-homosexual persons, and heard of some two hundred and fifty to three
-hundred others. I have much evidence as to its frequency both in England
-and the United States. In England, concerning which I can naturally speak
-with most assurance, its manifestations are well-marked for those whose
-eyes have been opened.… Among the professional and most cultured element
-of the middle class in England there must be a distinct percentage of
-inverts, which may sometimes be as much as five per cent., though such
-estimates must always be hazardous. Among women of the same class the
-percentage seems to be at least double--though here the phenomena are
-less definite and deepseated.”--HAVELOCK ELLIS, “Psychology of Sex,”
-vol. _Sexual Inversion_, pp. 29, 30. Philadelphia, 1901.
-
-“According to the information of De Joux in ‘The Disinherited of Love,’
-the number of Urnings in all Europe is about five millions; about 4.5
-per cent. of all males in Europe are Urnings, while only 0.1 per cent.
-of females are Urningins. A malady therefore--if malady it should be
-called--which is so widespread certainly demands our deepest interest;
-and it is strange that it is only since the ’70’s that this subject has
-been discussed in scientific literature.
-
-“It is owing to this ignorance that the public mind has been
-dominated, and still is dominated, by the prejudice, that psychical
-hermaphroditism and sex-inversion are nothing but crimes, wilful crimes,
-whereas they proceed necessarily out of the inborn nature of such
-individuals.”--NORBERT GRABOWSKY, “Die verkehrte Geschlechtsempfindung,”
-p. 16. Leipzig, 1894.
-
-Dr. HIRSCHFELD, in his “Statistischen Untersuchunge über den
-Prozentensatz der Homosexuellen,” gives the result of various statistical
-investigations on this subject; and their remarkable agreement enables
-him to speak with some confidence. He says (p. 41), “Now we _know_
-that we must reckon the numbers of those who vary from the normal,
-not by fractions of thousands but by fractions of hundreds. The fact
-that, as a result of these circular enquiries and commissions about the
-same figure has emerged (for the proportion of exclusively homosexual
-persons), namely, a figure in the neighbourhood of 1½ per cent.--this
-extraordinary agreement cannot possibly be a chance, but must rest on a
-law--a law of nature--namely, that only 90 to 95 per cent. of mankind
-are normally sexual by birth; that about 1½ to 2 per cent. are born pure
-homosexuals (say about 1,000,000 in Germany); and that between the two
-classes there remain some 4 per cent. who are bisexual by nature.”
-
-And again (p. 60), “But what do these figures show? They show that of
-100,000 inhabitants on the average only 94,600 are sexually normal,
-while 5,400 vary from the normal. Of these latter 1,500 are exclusively
-homosexual, and 3,900 bisexual. While of these last again 700 are
-_predominantly_ homosexual; so that of 100,000 Germans, 2,200 (or 2.2
-per cent.) are either exclusively or predominantly homosexual--making
-1,200,000 for the whole German Fatherland.”
-
-“Sexual inversion has usually been regarded as psycho-pathological, as a
-symptom of degeneration; and those who exhibit it have been considered
-as physically unfit. This view, however, is falling into disrepute,
-especially as Krafft-Ebing, its principal champion, abandoned it in the
-later editions of his work. None the less, it is not generally recognised
-that sexual inverts may be otherwise perfectly healthy, and with regard
-to other social matters quite normal. When they have been asked if they
-would have wished matters to be different with them in this respect,
-they almost invariably answer in the negative.”--O. WEININGER, “Sex and
-Character,” ch. iv. Heinemann, London, 1906.
-
-“It is a common belief that a male who experiences love for his own
-sex must be despicable, degraded, depraved, vicious, and incapable of
-humane or generous sentiments. If Greek history did not contradict this
-supposition, a little patient enquiry into contemporary manners would
-suffice to remove it.”--J. ADDINGTON SYMONDS, “A Problem in Modern
-Ethics,” p. 10.
-
-“Mantegazza rightly insists that Urnings are found by no means only among
-the dregs of the people, but that they are rather to be noted in circles
-which in respect of culture, wealth, and social position rank among
-the first. Thus, among the aristocracy without doubt a great number of
-Urnings are to be found.”--A. MOLL, _op. cit._ p. 76.
-
-“In no rank are there so many Urnings as among servants. One may say that
-every third male domestic is an Urning.”--DE JOUX, “Die Enterbten des
-Liebesglückes,” p. 193. Leipzig, 1893.
-
-“It is therefore certain, as we have seen, that many Urnings come from
-nervous or pathologically disposed families.… All the same, I must say
-that there is no proof to hand in _all_ cases of sex-inversion among
-men, that the individuals concerned are thus hereditarily weighted. And
-besides, there is the consideration that the extension, according to some
-authors, of hereditary trouble is at present so great that one may prove
-a tendency to nervous or mental maladies in almost everybody.”--A. MOLL,
-_op. cit._, p. 221.
-
-“The truth is that we can no more explain the inverted sex-feeling than
-we can the normal impulse; all the attempts at explanation of these
-things, and of Love, are defective.”--_Ibid_, p. 253.
-
-“Among the _penchants_ of Urnings one finds not infrequently a great
-partiality for Art and Music--and indeed, for active interest in the
-same as well as passive enjoyment … the Actor’s talent is especially
-noticeable among some.… But it must not be thought that Urnings are only
-capable of a special activity of the imagination. On the contrary, there
-are undoubted cases in which they contribute something in the scientific
-direction.… Also in Poetry do Urnings occasionally show exceptional
-talent; especially in love-verses addressed to men.”--_Ibid_, p. 80.
-
-“An examination of my cases [of Inverts] reveals the interesting fact
-that 68 per cent. possess artistic aptitude in varying degree. Galton
-found, from the investigation of nearly 1,000 persons that the average
-showing artistic tastes in England is only about 30 per cent.”--HAVELOCK
-ELLIS, “Sexual Inversion,” p. 173.
-
-“In Antiquity, especially among the Greeks, there seem to have been
-numbers of men who in their emotional natures were hermaphrodites. I
-think that the study of psychical hermaphrodisy is most important,
-and will throw yet greater light on the psychology of Love itself.
-Observation so far already shows that the same individual at differing
-times can experience quite different sexual feelings.”--A. MOLL, _op.
-cit._, p. 200.
-
-“The Urning is capable, through the force of his love, of making the
-greatest sacrifices for his beloved, and on that account the love of the
-Urning has been often compared with Woman’s love. Just as the Woman’s
-love is stronger and more devoted than that of the normal man, just
-as it exceeds that of the Man in inwardness, so, according to Ulrichs
-should the Urning’s love in this respect stand higher than that of the
-woman-loving Man.”--_Ibid_, p. 118.
-
-“Womanish men often know how to treat women better than manly men do.
-Manly men, except in most rare cases, learn how to deal with women only
-after long experience, and even then most imperfectly.”--O. WEININGER,
-“Sex and Character,” ch. v.
-
-“Is it really the case that all women and men are marked off sharply from
-each other, the women on the one hand alike in all points, the men on the
-other?… There are transitional forms between the metals and non-metals,
-between chemical combinations and simple mixtures, between animals and
-plants, between phanerogams and cryptogams, and between mammals and
-birds.… The improbability may henceforth be taken for granted of finding
-in Nature a sharp cleavage between all that is masculine on the one side
-and all that is feminine on the other; or that any living being is so
-simple in this respect that it can be put wholly on one side, or wholly
-on the other, of the line.”--WEININGER, _Ibid_, introduction, p. 2.
-
-“Upon this, Chéron made a rather strange observation. ‘We have,’ she
-said, ‘with regard to sexual distinctions, notions that were not dreamed
-of by the primitive simplicity of the people of the age now gone by. From
-the fact that there are two sexes, and only two, they for a long time
-drew false inferences. They concluded that a woman is simply a woman,
-and a man simply a man. In reality this is not so; there are women who
-are very much women, and women who are very little so. Such differences,
-concealed in former times by costume and mode of life, and masked by
-prejudice, stand out clearly in our society. And not only so, but they
-become more accentuated and apparent in each generation.’”--ANATOLE
-FRANCE, “Sur la Pierre Blanche,” p. 301.
-
-“In _every_ human being there are present both male and female elements,
-only in normal persons (according to their sex) the one set of elements
-is more greatly developed than the other. The chief difference in the
-case of homosexual persons is that in them the male and female elements
-are more equalized; so that when, in addition, the general development
-is of a high grade, we find among this class the most perfect types of
-humanity.”--Dr. ARDUIN, “Die Frauenfrage,” in _Jahrbuch der Sexuellen
-Zwischenstufen_, vol. ii., p. 217. Leipzig, 1900.
-
-“The notion that human beings were originally hermaphroditic is both
-ancient and widespread. We find it in the book of Genesis, unless indeed
-there be a confusion here between two separate theories of creation. God
-is said to have first made man in His image, male and female in one body,
-and to have bidden them multiply. Later on He created the woman out of
-part of this primitive man.” (See also the myth related by Aristophanes
-in Plato’s Symposium.)--HAVELOCK ELLIS, “Sexual Inversion,” p. 229.
-
-“When the sexual instinct first appears in early youth, it seems to be
-much less specialised than normally it becomes later. Not only is it, at
-the outset, less definitely directed to a specific sexual end, but even
-the sex of its object is sometimes uncertain.”--_Ibid_, p. 44.
-
-“In me the homosexual nature is singularly complete, and is undoubtedly
-congenital. The most intense delight of my childhood (even when a tiny
-boy in my nurse’s charge) was to watch acrobats and riders at the circus.
-This was not so much for the skilful feats as on account of the beauty of
-their persons. Even then I cared chiefly for the more lithe and graceful
-fellows. People told me that circus actors were wicked and would steal
-little boys, and so I came to look on my favorites as half-devil and
-half-angel. When I was older and could go about alone, I would often
-hang around the tents of travelling shows in hope of catching a glimpse
-of the actors. I longed to see them naked, without their tights, and used
-to lie awake at night, thinking of them and longing to be embraced and
-loved by them.”--_Ibid_, “case” ix., p. 62.
-
-“I was fifteen years and ten-and-a-half months old when the first erotic
-dream announced the arrival of puberty. I had had no previous experience
-of sex-satisfaction, either in the Urning direction or in any other.
-This occurrence therefore came about quite normally. From a much earlier
-time, however, I had been subject partly to tender yearnings and partly
-to sensual longing without definite form and purpose--the two emotions
-being always separate from each other and never experienced for one and
-the same young man. These aimless sensual longings plagued me often in
-hours of solitude; and I could not overcome them. They showed themselves
-first, during my fifteenth year, when I was at school at Detmold, in the
-following two ways:--First, they were awakened by a drawing in Normand’s
-“Saülen-ordnungen,” of the figure of a Greek god or hero, standing there
-in naked beauty. This image, a hundred times put away, came again a
-hundred times before my mind. (I need not say it did not _cause_ the
-Urning temperament in me; it merely awoke what was slumbering there
-already--a thing that any other circumstance might have done.) Secondly,
-when studying in my little room, or when I lay upon my bed before going
-to sleep, the thought used suddenly and irresistibly to rise up in my
-mind--“If only a soldier would clamber through the window and come into
-my room!” Then my imagination painted me a splendid soldier-figure of
-twenty to twenty-two years old; and I was, as it were, all on fire.
-And yet my thoughts were quite vague, and undirected to any definite
-satisfaction; nor had I ever spoken a word with a real soldier.”--K. H.
-ULRICHS, “Memnon,” §77. Leipzig, 1898. See also “A Problem in Modern
-Ethics,” p. 73.
-
-“The friendships of this kind which I formed at School were two in
-number--I shall never forget the absorbing depth and intensity of them.
-I never talked about them to anyone else, they were much too sacred and
-serious for that, nor--strange as it may seem--did I ever speak of them
-to the boys themselves, or indeed, show any signs of affection towards
-them. If they had been told that I was devoted to their welfare, and
-willing to sacrifice myself and all I had to it (which was indeed the
-fact) they would have been simply astonished; more especially as they
-were both young boys not yet arrived at puberty.
-
-“I am at present somewhat bitterly conscious that in these cases one
-of the strongest influences for good that ever came into my life was
-nine-tenths wasted. How much better it all might have been under more
-favourable surroundings it is impossible to imagine. Still, it was
-not without its good influence on me, though (owing to their complete
-ignorance of my feelings) it could have had none whatever on the boys.
-I was conscious of a bracing and inspiring effect on my whole nature,
-a confirmed health of body, and most of all, of a greatly increased
-capacity for work. And doubtless all this might have been intensified
-a thousand fold if I had been ever so little guided and encouraged by
-public opinion sanctioning these friendships.
-
-“The Public School boy has after all strong feelings of honour and
-fairness: and I am sure much might be done by cultivating the Public
-Opinion of the school: making devoted and disinterested friendships
-highly thought of and praised, and condemning as base and mean the least
-attempt to befoul a young boy’s purity through a gross and selfish desire
-for personal gratification. School public opinion would, I am sure, tend
-quite readily to flow in such channels. But this would demand an openness
-of treatment of the whole question such as does not at present exist.
-That the greatest force the schoolmaster has at his command should be so
-ignored (and so needlessly) is more than absurd: it is monstrous. And it
-concerns him as a teacher quite as much as the boys themselves in their
-relations with each other. I believe that gaining a boy’s affection is
-the necessary preliminary to really _teaching_ him anything. Otherwise
-you do not really teach him at all.”--_Private letter._
-
-“I could tell you a good deal of another equally strong friendship I
-formed (myself twenty-five, boy fourteen) which was one of the happiest
-events of my life. It was acknowledged on both sides, but perfectly
-restrained and pure: and we saw a great deal of each other during most
-of the school holidays for about a year. I could have done anything with
-that boy, my influence over him was for the time being I should say
-unlimited: and undoubtedly _immense_ good accrued to us both.”--_Ibid_.
-
-“In my own school-life--as a day scholar--I had two such friendships,
-though of course in a day school there was not the same possibility of
-their development. One was with an elder boy some five years my senior,
-and the other with a master some twelve years older than myself. I was
-a shy, timid youngster, and not having a robust physique did not enter
-much into the ordinary athletics of the school. My elder friend was a
-very delicate, gentle, refined boy with a purity and loftiness of mind in
-striking contrast to the filthy moral atmosphere of the school at that
-time, but he was never censorious or self-righteous. I feel that this
-friendship was the most powerful influence in my early life in keeping a
-high ideal of conduct before me--much more powerful than the influence of
-home, which I do not think I was at all conscious of.
-
-“After he left school, for Cambridge, we used to write regularly to one
-another--long letters, hardly ever less than three sheets in length. I
-remember I used to think him the most handsome man I knew, but looking
-now at his photo, taken about that time and comparing it with others, I
-see that his features were inferior to many others of my school-fellows.
-At the end of his second year he died of consumption. It was during the
-Long Vacation, and I was abroad at the time. I remember I used to sit
-up late into the night writing very long letters to him about all I had
-seen, to interest him during his illness. I did not know how ill he
-really was, but I had a terrible fear that I should not see him again.
-When I got back and found he had just died the shock was awful. For weeks
-I felt as if I had not a friend in the whole world. I have never felt any
-loss so keenly either before or since.…
-
-“The other friendship with my mathematical master, though not so
-intimate, was still of a very affectionate character. I feel I owe a
-great deal to it--he laid the foundation of my ideal of a teacher’s duty
-to his pupils.”--_Private letter._
-
-“It is not new in itself; this, the feeling that drew Jesus to John, or
-Shakespeare to the youth of the sonnets, or that inspired the friendships
-of Greece, has been with us before, and in the new citizenship we shall
-need it again. The Whitmanic love of comrades is its modern expression;
-Democracy--as socially, not politically conceived--its basis. The thought
-as to how much of the solidarity of labour and the modern Trade-Union
-movement may be due to an unconscious faith in this principle of
-comradeship, is no idle one. The freer, more direct, and more genuine
-relationship between men, which is implied by it, must be the ultimate
-basis of the reconstructed Workshop.”--C. R. ASHBEE, “Workshop
-Reconstruction and Citizenship,” p. 160.
-
-A case of passionate attachment between two Indian boys was told to
-the author of the present book by a master at a school in India. The
-boys--who were about sixteen years of age--were both at the same school,
-and were devoted friends; but the day came when they had to part. One was
-taken away by his parents to go to a distant part of the country. The
-other was inconsolable at the prospect. When the day arrived, and his
-companion was removed, he soon after went quietly to a well in the school
-precincts, jumped in, and was drowned. The news, sent on by wire, reached
-the departing friend while still on his journey. He said little, but at
-one of the stations left the train and disappeared. The train went on,
-but at a little distance out, the boy ran out of the bushes by the line,
-threw himself on the rails, and was killed.
-
-The following is taken from one of the “cases” recorded by Havelock
-Ellis in his “Sexual Inversion”; “The earliest sex-impression that I am
-conscious of is at the age of nine or ten falling in love with a handsome
-boy who must have been about two years my senior. I do not recollect ever
-having spoken to him, but my desire, as far as I can recall, was that
-he should seize hold of and handle me. I have a distinct impression yet
-of how pleasurable even physical pain or cruelty would have been at his
-hands.”--HAVELOCK ELLIS, _op. cit._, “case” xiii., p. 71.
-
-“When I was about sixteen-and-a-half years old, there came into the house
-a boy about two years younger than myself, who became the absorbing
-thought of my school-days. I do not remember a moment, from the time I
-first saw him to the time I left school, that I was not in love with him,
-and the affection was reciprocated, if somewhat reservedly. He was always
-a little ahead of me in books and scholarship, but as our affection
-ripened we spent most of our spare time together, and he received my
-advances much as a girl who is being wooed, a little mockingly perhaps,
-but with real pleasure. He allowed me to fondle and caress him, but our
-intimacy never went further than a kiss, and about that even was the slur
-of shame; there was always a barrier between us, and we never so much as
-whispered to one another concerning those things of which all the school
-obscenely talked.”--_Same case_, p. 73.
-
-“At the age of twenty-one I began gradually to remark that I was not
-somehow like my comrades, that I had no pleasure in male occupations,
-that smoking, drinking, and card-playing gave me little satisfaction, and
-that I had a real death-horror of a brothel. And, as a matter of fact, I
-had never been in one, as on every occasion under some pretext or other
-I have succeeded in stealing off. I now began to think about myself; I
-felt myself frightfully desolate, miserable and unfortunate, and longed
-for a friend of the same nature as myself--yet without dreaming that
-there could be other such men. At the age of twenty-two I came to know a
-young man who at last cleared up my mind about sexual inversion and those
-affected with it, since he--an Urning, like myself--had fallen in love
-with me. The scales fell from my eyes, and I bless the day which brought
-light to me.… Towards woman in her sexual relation I feel a real horror,
-which the exercise of all my strongest powers of imagination would not
-avail to overcome; and indeed, I have never attempted to overcome it,
-since I am quite persuaded of the fruitlessness of such an attempt,
-which to me appears sinful and unnatural.”--KRAFFT-EBING, “Psychopathia
-Sexualis,” 7th edition, “case” No. 122, p. 291. Stuttgart, 1892.
-
-“I can no longer exist without men’s love; without such I must ever
-remain at strife with myself.… If marriage between men existed I believe
-I should not be afraid of a life-long union--a thing which with a woman
-seems to be something impossible.… Since, however, this kind of love is
-reckoned criminal, by its satisfaction I can be at harmony with myself
-but never with the world, and necessarily in consequence must ever be
-somewhat out of tune; and all the more so because my character is open,
-and I hate lies of all kinds. This torment, to have always to conceal
-everything, has forced me to confess my anomaly to a few friends,
-of whose understanding and reticence I am sure. Although oftentimes
-my condition seems to me sad enough, by reason of the difficulty of
-satisfaction and the general contempt of manly love, yet I am often just
-a little proud on account of having these anomalous feelings. Naturally,
-I shall never marry--but this seems to me by no means a misfortune,
-although I am fond of family life, and up to now have passed my time only
-among my own relations. I live in the hope that later I shall have a
-permanent loved one; such indeed I must have, else would the future seem
-gray and drear, and every object which folk usually pursue--honour, high
-position, etc.--only vain and unattractive.
-
-“Should this hope not be fulfilled, I know that I should be unable,
-permanently and with pleasure, to give myself to my calling, and that I
-should be capable of setting aside everything in order to gain the love
-of a man. I feel no longer any moral scruples on account of my anomalous
-leaning, and generally have never been troubled because I felt myself
-drawn to youths.… Up to now it has only seemed to me bad and immoral to
-do that which is injurious to another, or which I would not wish done to
-myself, and in this respect I can say that I try as much as possible not
-to infringe on the rights of others, and am capable of being violently
-roused by any injustice done to others.”--_Ibid_, p. 249, “case” No. 110
-(official in a factory, age 31).
-
-“My thoughts are by no means exclusively of the body or morbidly sensual.
-How often at the sight of a handsome youth does a deeply enthusiastic
-mood come upon me, and I offer a prayer, so to speak, in the glorious
-words of Heine--”Du bist wie eine Blume, so hold, so schön, so rein“.…
-Never has a young man yet guessed my love for him, I have never corrupted
-or damaged the morals of one, but for many have I here and there smoothed
-their pathway; and then I stick at no trouble and make sacrifices such as
-I can only make for them.
-
-“When thus I have a chance to have a loved friend near me, to teach, to
-support and help, when my unconfest love finds a loving response (though
-naturally not sexual), then all the unclean images fade more and more
-from my mind. Then does my love become almost platonic, and lifts itself
-up--only to sink again in the mire, when it is deprived of its proper
-activity.
-
-“For the rest, I am--and I can say it without boasting--not one of the
-worst of men. Mentally more sensitive than most average folk, I take
-interest in everything that moves mankind. I am kindly-disposed, tender,
-and easily moved to pity, can do no injury to any animal, certainly not
-to a human being, but on the contrary am active in a human-friendly way,
-where and however I can.
-
-“Though then before my own conscience I cannot reproach myself, and
-though I must certainly reject the judgment of the world about us, yet I
-suffer greatly. In very truth I have injured no one; and I hold my love
-in its nobler activity for just as holy as that of normally disposed
-men, but under the unhappy fate that allows us neither sufferance nor
-recognition, I suffer often more than my life can bear.”--_Ibid_, p. 268,
-“case” No. 114.
-
-“To depict all the misery, all the unfortunate situations, the constant
-dread of being found out in one’s peculiarity and of becoming impossible
-in society--to give an idea of all this is truly more than pen or words
-can compass. The very thought, so soon as it arises, of losing one’s
-social existence and of being rejected by everybody is more torment
-than can be imagined. In such a case, everything, everything would be
-forgotten that one had ever done in the way of good; in the consciousness
-of his lofty morality every normally disposed man would puff himself up,
-however frivolously he might really have acted in the matter of his love.
-I know many such normal folk whose unworthy conception of their love is
-indeed hard for me to understand.”--_Ibid_, p. 269.
-
-“The torturing images of betrayed love prevent my sleeping, so that I
-am forced, now and again, to have recourse to chloral. My dreams are
-only a continuation of actual life, and just as painful. How all this
-will end I really know not; but I suppose these root-emotions must take
-their own course.… The only reasonable end of the struggle is Death.”--A.
-MOLL, “Conträre Sexualempfindung,” 2nd edition, p. 123 (quotation from a
-letter).
-
-“Weary and worn, I have passed through every tempest of anguish and
-despair. Years of the most racking mental agony have gone over my head
-without killing me. Through the long night watches I have heard the
-unceasing hours toll. Sleep has never been thought of by me, but I have
-lain on my bed trying to read some book, or have knelt by my bedside
-and endeavoured to raise my heart and spirit in prayer for succour
-or forgiveness. At last, unable to hold out any longer, with mouth
-tight-closed and knitted brow the Charmer has deadened my senses for one
-or two brief hours; but only that I may wake to a stronger and clearer
-perception of my hopeless condition.
-
-“How the days have got on I know not. How I can have lived so long
-through such misery I know not. But torture like this is cruelly slow,
-whilst it is sure. It is the nature of youth to be long-enduring where
-Love is put to the test and a kind of occasional flicker--a kind of
-mocking semblance of hope, as like to hope as the rushing meteor is to
-the enduring sun--helps to support the load of misery, and so to prolong
-it. I am hundreds of years old in this my wretchedness of every moment.
-I cannot battle against Love and crush it out--never! God has implanted
-the necessity of the sentiment in my heart; it is scarce possible not to
-ask oneself why has He implanted so divine an element in my nature, which
-is doomed to die unsatisfied, which is destined in the end to be my very
-death?”--_From a manuscript left to the Author by an Urning._
-
-H. ELLIS, in Appendix D. of his book on “Sexual Inversion,” speaks at
-some length on the School-friendships of girls: what they call “Flames”
-and “Raves”; of love at first sight; romance; courtship; meetings despite
-all obstacles; long letters; jealousy; the writing the beloved’s name
-everywhere, etc. These alliances are sometimes sexual, but oftener not
-so--though full of “psychic erethism.”
-
-In the same Appendix he quotes a woman of thirty-three, who writes, “At
-fourteen I had my first case of love, but it was with a girl. It was
-insane, intense love, but had the same quality and sensations as my first
-love with a man at eighteen. In neither case was the object idealized:
-I was perfectly aware of their faults; nevertheless, my whole being was
-lost, immersed, in their existence. The first lasted two years, the
-second seven years. No love has since been so intense, but now these two
-persons, though living, are no more to me than the veriest stranger.”
-
-Another woman of thirty-five writes, “Girls between the ages of fourteen
-and eighteen at college or girls’ schools often fall in love with the
-same sex. This is not friendship. The loved one is older, more advanced,
-more charming or beautiful. When I was a freshman in college I knew
-at least thirty girls who were in love with a senior. Some sought her
-because it was the fashion, but I knew that my own homage and that of
-many others was sincere and passionate. I loved her because she was
-brilliant and utterly indifferent to the love shown her. She was not
-pretty, though at the time we thought her beautiful. One of her adorers,
-on being slighted, was ill for two weeks. On her return she was speaking
-to me when the object of our admiration came into the room. The shock was
-too great, and she fainted. When I reached the senior year I was the
-recipient of languishing glances, original verses, roses, and passionate
-letters written at midnight and three in the morning.”
-
-“Passionate friendships among girls, from the most innocent to the most
-elaborate excursions in the direction of Lesbos, are extremely common
-in theatres, both among actresses, and even more among chorus and
-ballet-girls.”--HAVELOCK ELLIS, “Sexual Inversion,” p. 130.
-
-“The love of homosexual women is often very passionate, as is that of
-Urnings. Just like these, the former often feel themselves blessed when
-they love happily. Nevertheless, to many of them, as to the Urning, is
-the circumstance very painful that in consequence of their antipathy to
-the touch of the male they are not in the position to found a family.
-Sometimes, when the love of a homosexual woman is not responded to,
-serious disturbances of the nerve-system may ensue, leading even to
-paroxysms of fury.”--A. MOLL, _op. cit._, p. 338.
-
-“It is noteworthy how many inverted women have, with more or less fraud,
-been married to the woman of their choice, the couple living happily
-together for long periods. I know of one case, probably unique, in
-which the ceremony was gone through without any deception on any side;
-a congenitally inverted English woman of distinguished intellectual
-ability, now dead, was attached to the wife of a clergyman, who, in full
-cognisance of all the facts of the case, privately married the two ladies
-in his own church.”--HAVELOCK ELLIS, _op. cit._, p. 146, footnote.
-
-“Seven or eight girls, we are told (in Montaigne’s ‘Journal du Voyage
-en Italie,’ 1350), belonging to Chaumont, resolved to dress and to work
-as men; one of these came to Vitry to work as a weaver, and was looked
-upon as a well-conditioned young man, and liked by everyone. At Vitry
-she became betrothed to a woman, but, a quarrel arising, no marriage
-took place. Afterwards, ‘she fell in love with a woman whom she married,
-and with whom she lived for four or five months, to the wife’s great
-contentment, it is said; but having been recognised by some one from
-Chaumont, and brought to justice, she was condemned to be hanged. She
-said she would even prefer this to living again as a girl, and was hanged
-for using illicit inventions to supply the defects of her sex’.”--_Ibid_,
-p. 119.
-
-“It is evident that there must be some radical causes for the frequency
-of homosexuality among prostitutes. One such cause doubtless lies in
-the character of the prostitute’s relations with men; these relations
-are of a professional character, and, as the business element becomes
-emphasized, the possibility of sexual satisfaction diminishes; at
-the best also there lacks the sense of social equality, the feeling
-of possession, and scope for the exercise of feminine affection and
-devotion.”--_Ibid_, p. 149.
-
-“Among the inscribed prostitutes of Berlin there are without doubt a
-great number who honour the love of women. I am told from well-informed
-sources, that about twenty-five per cent. of the prostitutes of Berlin
-have relations with other women.”--A. MOLL, _op. cit._, p. 331.
-
-“Karl Heinrich Ulrichs (born in 1825 near Aurich), who for many years
-expounded and defended homosexual love, and whose views are said to have
-had some influence in drawing Westphal’s attention to the matter, was a
-Hanoverian legal official (Amts-assessor), himself sexually inverted.
-From 1864 onward, at first under the name of ‘Numa Numantius,’ and
-subsequently under his own name, Ulrichs published in various parts of
-Germany a long series of works dealing with this question, and made
-various attempts to obtain a revision of the legal position of the sexual
-invert in Germany.
-
-“Although not a writer whose psychological views can carry much
-scientific weight, Ulrichs appears to have been a man of most brilliant
-ability, and his knowledge is said to have been of almost universal
-extent; he was not only well-versed in his own special subjects of
-jurisprudence and theology, but in many branches of natural science,
-as well as in archæology; he was also regarded by many as the best
-Latinist of his time. In 1880 he left Germany and settled in Naples, and
-afterwards at Aquila in the Abruzzi, whence he issued a Latin periodical.
-He died in 1895.”--HAVELOCK ELLIS, _op. cit._, p. 33.
-
-Ulrichs enters into an elaborate classification of human types, with a
-corresponding nomenclature, which, though somewhat ponderous, has been of
-use. Among males, for instance, he distinguishes the quite normal man,
-whom he calls “Dioning,” from the invert, whom he calls “Urning.” Among
-Urnings, again, he distinguishes (1) those who are thoroughly manly in
-appearance and in mental habit and character (“Mannlings”), and who tend
-to love softer and younger specimens of their own sex; (2) those who are
-effeminate in appearance and cast of mind (“Weiblings”), and who love
-rougher and older men; and (3) those who are of a medium type (“Zwischen
-Urnings”) and love young men. Then again there is the “Urano-dioning,”
-who is born with a capacity of love in both directions, _i.e._, for
-women and for men. He is generally of the manly type. And besides these,
-some sub-species, like the “Uraniaster,” who is a normal man who has
-contracted the Urning habit, and the “Virilised Urning,” who is an Urning
-who has contracted the normal habit, though this is not really natural to
-him! The whole may be set out in a table as follows:--
-
- { (_a_) Normal Man or Dioning--called Uraniaster when
- { he acquires Urning tendencies.
- {
- The { {1. Mannling.
- Human { {2. Zwischen-Urning.
- Male { (_b_) Urning {3. Weibling.
- { {4. Also called Virilised Urning when he
- { { acquires the normal habit.
- {
- { (_c_) Urano-dioning.
-
-If we add to this a corresponding table for the female we shall have an
-idea of the complication of Ulrichs’ system! Yet, complex as it is, and
-whatever criticisms we may make upon it, we must allow that it does not
-exceed the complexity of the real facts of Nature. (See K. H. ULRICHS’
-“Memnon,” ch. iii.-v.)
-
-Krafft-Ebing’s analysis of the subject is fully as elaborate as that
-of Ulrichs. It is given by J. A. SYMONDS in the form of a table, as
-follows:--
-
- { { Persistent.
- { Acquired { Episodical.
- {
- Sexual { { Psychic Hermaphrodites.
- Inversion { {
- { { { Male Habitus (Mannlings).
- { Congenital { Urnings { Female Habitus (Weiblings).
- { {
- { { Androgyni.
-
-And Symonds continues:--“What is the rational explanation of the facts
-presented to us by the analysis which I have formulated in this table,
-cannot as yet be thoroughly determined. We do not know enough about the
-law of sex in human beings to advance a theory. Krafft-Ebing and writers
-of his school are at present inclined to refer them all to diseases of
-the nervous centres, inherited, congenital, excited by early habits of
-self-abuse. The inadequacy of this method I have already attempted to
-set forth; and I have also called attention to the fact that it does not
-sufficiently account for the phenomena known to us through history and
-through every-day experience.” [It should be noted that in later editions
-of his book Krafft-Ebing considerably modifies the view that these
-sex-variations all indicate disease.]--“A Problem in Modern Ethics,” p.
-46.
-
-Moll, speaking of the act so commonly credited to Urnings (sodomy),
-says:--“The common assumption is that the intercourse of Urnings consists
-in this. But it is a great error to suppose that this act is so frequent
-among them.”--A. MOLL, _op. cit._, p. 139.
-
-And Krafft-Ebing also speaks of it as rare among true Urnings,
-though not uncommon among old roués and debauchees of more normal
-temperament.--“Psychopathia Sexualis,” 7th edition, p. 258.
-
-“The Urning denies not only the ‘unnaturalness’ of his leanings, but also
-their pathological character; he protests against comparison with the
-lame and the deaf. The occasional coincidence of sexual inversion with
-other really morbid conditions settles nothing, nor is the reminder that
-it is antagonistic to the purpose of race-propagation a proof; for who
-can assure us that Nature has intended all people for race-propagation?
-Even to the worker-bee Nature has not granted this function, although in
-her stunted female sex-organs there exists an undeniable indication or
-suggestion of sex-feeling.”--A. MOLL, _op. cit._, p. 271. (From a letter
-by a sixty year old Urning.)
-
-“Homosexuality, therefore, might be described as an abnormal variety
-of the sex-impulse, but hardly as a morbid variety. If you like, it
-might be termed an arrest of development or a kind of reversion. And
-this is quite in accord with the fact that the best experts in the
-subject have so far not discovered more psychic abnormalities among
-homosexuals than among heterosexuals--nor more degeneracy or signs of
-degeneracy.”--Consulting-Physician Dr. PAUL NAECKE, in _Der Tag_, 26th
-Oct., 1907.
-
-“As a result of these considerations Ulrichs concludes that there is no
-real ground for the persecution of Urnings except such as may be found in
-the repugnance felt by the vast numerical majority for an insignificant
-minority. The majority encourages matrimony, condones seduction,
-sanctions prostitution, legalises divorce, in the interest of its own
-sexual proclivities. It makes temporary or permanent unions illegal for
-the minority whose inversion of instinct it abhors. And this persecution,
-in the popular mind at any rate, is justified, like many other
-inequitable acts of prejudice or ignorance, by theological assumptions
-and the so-called mandates of revelation.”--“A Problem in Modern Ethics,”
-p. 83.
-
-“We understand by ‘homosexual’ a person who feels himself drawn to
-individuals of the same sex by feelings of real love. Whether or not he
-acts in accordance with this homosexual feeling is, from the scientific
-standpoint, beside the question. Just as there are normal folk who live
-chastely, so there are homosexual persons whose love bears a distinctly
-psychic, ideal and ‘platonic’ character.…
-
-“The feminine impress, in the case of homosexual men, is in general best
-indicated by the presence of greater sensitiveness and receptivity,
-also by the dominance of the emotional life, by a strong artistic
-sense, especially in the direction of music, often too by a tendency to
-mysticism, and by various inclinations and habits feminine in the good or
-less good sense of the word. This blending of temperament, however, does
-not make the homosexual as such a less worthy person. He is indeed not of
-the same nature as the heterosexual, but he is of equal worth.”--Dr M.
-HIRSCHFELD’S evidence as medical specialist in the Moltké-Harden trial.
-
-“One serious objection to recognising and tolerating sexual inversion
-has always been that it tends to check the population. This was a sound
-political and social argument in the time of Moses, when a small militant
-tribe needed to multiply to the full extent of its procreative capacity.
-It is by no means so valid in our age, when the habitable portions of
-the globe are rapidly becoming overcrowded. Moreover, we must bear in
-mind that society under the existing order sanctions female prostitution,
-whereby men and women, though normally procreative, are sterilized to an
-indefinite extent.”--J. A. SYMONDS, “A Problem in Modern Ethics,” p. 82.
-
-“Before Justinian, both Constantine and Theodosius passed laws against
-sexual inversion, committing the offenders to ‘avenging flames.’ But
-these statutes were not rigidly enforced, and modern opinion on the
-subject may be said to flow from Justinian’s legislation. Opinion, in
-matters of custom and manners, always follows law. Though Imperial
-edicts could not eradicate a passion which is inherent in human
-nature, they had the effect of stereotyping extreme punishments in all
-the codes of Christian nations, and of creating a permanent social
-antipathy.”--_Ibid_, p. 13.
-
-“Our modern attitude is sometimes traced back to the Jewish Law and
-its survival in St. Paul’s opinion on this matter. But the Jewish Law
-itself had a foundation. Wherever the enlargement of the population
-becomes a strongly-felt social need--as it was among the Jews in their
-exaltation of family life, and as it was when the European populations
-were constituted--there homosexuality has been regarded as a crime, even
-punishable with death.… It was in the fourth century at Rome that the
-strong modern opposition to it was formulated in law. The Roman race
-had long been decaying; sexual perversions of all kinds flourished;
-the population was dwindling. At the same time Christianity with its
-Judaic-Pauline antagonism to homosexuality was rapidly spreading. The
-statesmen of the day, anxious to quicken the failing pulses of national
-life, utilised this powerful Christian feeling. Constantine, Theodosius,
-Valentinian, all passed laws against homosexuality--the last, at all
-events, ordaining as a penalty the _vindices flammæ_.” HAVELOCK ELLIS,
-_op. cit._, p. 206.
-
-“At the present time, shoemakers, who make shoes to measure, deal more
-rationally with individuals than our teachers and school-masters do, in
-their application to moral principles. The sexually intermediate forms
-of individuals are treated exactly as if they were good examples of the
-ideal male or female types. There is wanted an ‘orthopædic’ treatment of
-the soul, instead of the torture caused by the application of ready-made
-conventional shapes. The present system stamps out much that is original,
-uproots much that is truly natural, and distorts much into artificial and
-unnatural forms.”--O. WEININGER, “Sex and Character,” ch. v.
-
-“What is new in my view is that according to it homosexuality cannot be
-regarded as an atavism or as due to arrested embryonic development, or to
-incomplete differentiation of sex; it cannot be regarded as an anomaly
-of rare occurrence interpolating itself in customary complete separation
-of the sexes. Homosexuality is merely the sexual condition of those
-intermediate sexual forms that stretch from one ideal sexual condition
-to the other ideal sexual condition. In my view, all actual organisms
-have both homosexuality and heterosexuality.”--O. WEININGER, “Sex and
-Character,” ch. iv.
-
-“How is it then that in our age reputed so philanthropic, whole classes
-of men, on account of inborn mental abnormalities, are marked down and
-banned, frantically persecuted, publicly branded, and threatened with the
-severest legal penalties? Any one would hardly believe what gross cases
-of justiciary murder, morally speaking, still take place in this matter
-even at the end of the nineteenth century. To the pitiful ignorance of
-the judges, to the thousand inherited prejudices of public opinion, as
-well as to the mental slavery of legislative bodies, must it be ascribed
-that the penal code of most civilised states is still in great measure
-formulated in the gloomy spirit of the Middle Ages.”--O. de JOUX, “Die
-Enterbten des Liebesglückes,” p. 16.
-
-“Up till now homosexual humanity has found itself in a peculiar
-position. Its mouth was closed, it could not speak. It was bound hand
-and foot and could not move. But now there has come an important change.
-Science has taken the part of these folk and defended their honour …
-I protest therefore earnestly that these men, whether by means of the
-Law or any other means, should no longer be branded in the name of
-Christianity.”--From a letter written by a Catholic priest in reply to a
-circular sent by the Humane-Science Committee of Berlin. (See “Jahrbuch
-der Sexuellen Zwischenstufen,” vol. ii., p. 177.)
-
-“Thus the very basest of all trades, that of _chantage_ [blackmailing]
-is encouraged by the law.… The miserable persecuted wretch, placed
-between the alternative of paying money down or of becoming socially
-impossible, losing a valued position, and seeing dishonour burst upon
-himself and family, pays; and still the more he pays the greedier becomes
-the vampire who sucks his life-blood, until at last there lies nothing
-else before him except total financial ruin or disgrace. Who will be
-astonished if the nerves of an individual in this position are not equal
-to the horrid strain? In some cases the nerves give way altogether.…
-Alter the law and instead of increasing vice you will diminish it. The
-temptation to ply a disgraceful profession with the object of extorting
-money would be removed.”--“A Problem in Modern Ethics,” pp. 56 and 86.
-
-“You will rightly infer that it is difficult for me to say exactly how
-I regard (morally) the homosexual tendency. Of this much, however,
-I am certain that even if it were possible I would not exchange my
-inverted nature for a normal one. I suspect that the sexual emotions
-and even inverted ones have a more subtle significance than is
-generally attributed to them; but modern moralists either fight shy of
-transcendental interpretations or see none, and I am ignorant and unable
-to solve the mystery these feelings seem to imply.”--HAVELOCK ELLIS, _op.
-cit._, p. 65, “case” ix.
-
-“I cannot regard my sexual feelings as unnatural or abnormal, since
-they have disclosed themselves so perfectly naturally and spontaneously
-within me. All that I have read in books or heard spoken about the
-ordinary sexual love, its intensity and passion, life-long devotion,
-love at first sight, etc., seems to me to be easily matched by my own
-experiences in homosexual form; and with regard to the morality of this
-complex subject, my feeling is that it is the same as should prevail in
-love between man and woman, namely: that no bodily satisfaction should
-be sought at the cost of another person’s distress or degradation. I am
-sure that this kind of love is, notwithstanding the physical difficulties
-that attend it, as deeply stirring and ennobling as the other kind, if
-not more so; and I think that for a perfect relationship the actual
-sex-gratifications (whatever they may be) probably hold a less important
-place in this love than in the other.”--_Ibid_, “case” vii., p. 58.
-
-“I grew older, I entered my professional studies, and I was very diligent
-with them. I lived in a great capital, I moved much in general society.
-I had a large and lively group of friends. But always, over and over,
-I realised that, in the kernel, at the very root and fibre of myself,
-there was the throb and glow, the ebb and the surge, the seeking as in
-a vain dream to realise again that passion of friendship which could so
-far transcend the cold modern idea of the tie; the Over-Friendship, the
-Love-Friendship of Hellas, which meant that between man and man could
-exist--the sexual-psychic love. That was still possible! I knew that
-now. I had read it in the verses or the prose of the Greek or Latin
-or Oriental authors who have written out every shade of its beauty or
-unloveliness, its worth or debasement--from Theokritos to Martial, or
-Abu-Nuwas, to Platen, Michel-Angelo, Shakespeare. I had learned it from
-the statues of sculptors--in those lines so often vivid with a merely
-physical male beauty--works which beget, which sprang from, the sense
-of it in a race. I had half-divined it in the music of a Beethoven and
-a Tschaikowsky before knowing facts in the life-stories of either of
-them--or of an hundred other tone-autobiographists. And I had recognised
-what it all meant to most people to-day--from the disgust, scorn, and
-laughter of my fellow-men when such an emotion was hinted at.”--_Imre: a
-memorandum_, by XAVIER MAYNE, p. 110. Naples, R. Rispoli, 1906.
-
-“Presently, during that same winter, accident opened my eyes wider to
-myself. Since then, I have needed no further knowledge from the Tree of
-my Good and Evil. I met with a mass of serious studies, German, Italian,
-French, English, from the chief European specialists and theorists on the
-similisexual topic; many of them with quite other views than those of my
-well-meaning but far too conclusive Yankee doctor (who had recommended
-marriage as a cure). I learned of the much-discussed theories of
-‘secondary sexes’ and ‘intersexes.’ I learned of the theories and facts
-of homosexualism, of the Uranian Love, of the Uranian race, of the ‘Sex
-within a Sex.’ … I came to know their enormous distribution all over the
-world to-day; and of the grave attention that European scientists and
-jurists have been devoting to problems concerned with homosexualism. I
-could pursue intelligently the growing efforts to set right the public
-mind as to so ineradicable and misunderstood a phase of humanity. I
-realised that I had always been a member of that hidden brotherhood
-and Sub-Sex, or Super-Sex. In wonder too I informed myself of its deep
-instinctive freemasonries--even to organised ones--in every social class,
-every land, and every civilisation.”--_Ibid_, pp. 134, 135.
-
-“Thus in sexual inversion we have what may be fairly called a ‘sport’
-or variation, one of those organic aberrations which we see throughout
-living nature, in plants and in animals.”… “All these organic variations
-which I have here mentioned to illustrate sexual inversion, are
-abnormalities. It is important that we should have a clear idea as
-to what abnormality is. Many people imagine that what is abnormal is
-necessarily diseased. That is not the case, unless we give the word
-disease an inconveniently and illegitimately wide extension. It is both
-inconvenient and inexact to speak of colour-blindness, criminality and
-genius as diseases in the same sense as we speak of scarlet fever,
-tuberculosis, or general paralysis as diseases.”--HAVELOCK ELLIS, _op.
-cit._, p. 186.
-
-“I have had for some time past a theory about this ‘Homogenic’
-business--I do not suppose it is new--but it is that when man reaches a
-certain stage of development and approaches the totality of Human Nature,
-there gets to exist in him, though subordinately at first, a female
-element as well as a male. That is to say that as he passes the various
-barriers, he passes the barrier of sex too, on his way to become the
-complete Human--the Universal.”--_From a private letter._
-
-“Great geniuses, men like Goethe, Shakespeare, Shelley, Byron, Darwin,
-all had the feminine soul very strongly developed in them.… As we are
-continually meeting in cities women who are one-quarter, or one-eighth,
-or so on, _male_ … so there are in the Inner Self similar half-breeds,
-all adapting themselves to circumstances with perfect ease. The Greeks
-recognised that such a being could exist even in harmony with Nature,
-and so beautified and idealised it as Sappho.”--CHARLES G. LELAND, “The
-Alternate Sex,” pp. 41, and 57. London, 1904.
-
-“I have considered and inquired into this question for many years; and
-it has long been my settled conviction that no breach of morality is
-involved in homosexual love; that, like every other passion, it tends,
-when duly understood and controlled by spiritual feeling, to the physical
-and moral health of the individual and the race, and that it is only its
-brutal perversions which are immoral. I have known many persons more or
-less the subjects of this passion, and I have found them a particularly
-high-minded, upright, refined, and (I must add) pure-minded class of
-men.”--_Communicated by Professor ---- in Appendix to_ HAVELOCK ELLIS’S
-“Sexual Inversion,” p. 240.
-
-“What from the beginning struck me most, but now appears perfectly
-clear and indeed necessary is that among the homosexuals there is
-found the _most_ remarkable class of men, namely, those whom I call
-_supervirile_. These men stand by virtue of the special variation of
-their soul-material, just as much above Man, as the normal sex man does
-above Woman. Such an individual is able to bewitch men by his soul-aroma,
-as they--though passively--bewitch him. But as he always lives in men’s
-society, and men, so to speak, sit at his feet, it comes about that such
-a supervirile often climbs the very highest steps of spiritual evolution,
-of social position, and of manly capacity. Hence it arises that the
-most famous names of the world and the history of culture stand rightly
-or wrongly on the list of homosexuals. Names like Alexander the Great,
-Socrates, Plato, Julius Cæsar, Michel Angelo, Charles XII. of Sweden,
-William of Orange, and so forth. Not only is this so, but it must be so.
-As certainly as a woman’s hero remains a spiritually inferior man, must a
-man’s hero--well _be_ a man’s hero, if in any way he has the stuff for it.
-
-“Consequently the German penal code, in stamping homosexuality as
-a crime, puts the highest blossoms of humanity on the proscription
-list.”--Professor Dr. JAEGER, “Die Entdeckung der Seele,” pp. 268, 269.
-
-“The licentious or garrulous or morbid types of inverts have been so
-honoured with publicity that the other types are even yet little known.
-The latter, in the maturity of their intellectual and moral nature,
-cease to look upon sex as the pivot of the universe. They cease to repine
-about their lot. They have their mission to fulfil here below, and they
-try to fulfil it as best they can. In the same way we find there are
-heterosexual (or normal) folk who at a certain stage of their growth
-free themselves from the sexual life.--M. A. RAFFALOVICH, “Uranisme et
-Unisexualité,” p. 74.
-
-“The well-bred, highly-cultured Urning is a complete Idealist;
-matter is for him only a symbol of thought, and the actual only the
-living expression of the Invisible.”--DE JOUX, “Die Enterbten des
-Liebesglückes,” p. 46.
-
-“As nature and social law are so cruel as to impose a severe celibacy on
-him his whole being is consequently of astonishing freshness and superb
-purity, and his manners of life modest as those of a saint--a thing
-which, in the case of a man in blooming health and moving about in the
-world, is certainly very unusual.”--_Ibid_, p. 41.
-
-“If the soul of woman in its usual form represents a secret closed with
-seven seals, it is--when prisoned in the sturdy body of a man and fused
-with some of the motives of manhood, a far more enigmatic scripture of
-whose sibylline meaning one can never be really sure. Only the Urning can
-understand the Urning.”--_Ibid_, p. 63.
-
-“Because they (Urnings) themselves are of a very complex nature and put
-together of opposing elements, they seek out and love the simple, plain,
-and straightforward natures. Because they continually suffer from the
-rebellion of their desires against good taste and morals, they often long
-for a barbaric freedom. And because their every emotion is cut short,
-distracted, and worn out by the thousand doubts and suspicions of their
-Urning-minds, they gather to themselves men who are wont to live straight
-from feeling to action, and who work from untamed masterly instincts, as
-sure as the animals.”--_Ibid_, p. 97.
-
-“It is true that we are often inferior to normal men in force of will,
-worldly wisdom, and sense of duty; but on the other hand, in depth and
-delicacy of feeling and every virtue of the heart, we are far superior.
-We cannot _love_ women, but we lament with them, and help them on the
-hearth and by the cradle, in need and loneliness, as their most unselfish
-friends.… We do not despise women because they are weak, for we are
-much clearer-sighted, much less prejudiced than the so-called lords
-of creation, much nobler, more helpful, and just-minded than they.…
-Anyhow, if either of the sexes has cause to withhold its respect in
-any degree from the other--which has the most cause? Say what you will
-of them, the second and third sexes--women and Urnings--are ever so
-much better than the brutal egotistical Men, who to-day are plunged in
-grossest materialism; for, with whatever corruption, both the former
-are still of purer heart, easier kindled towards whatever is good, and
-more capable of genuine enthusiasm and love of their fellows, than the
-latter.”--_Ibid_, p. 204.
-
-“Embodying as he does Love, Patience, Renunciation, Humility and
-Mildness, the Urning should seek to soothe with his gentle hand all
-hurts, and to heal all wounds, which are the results of weak Man’s
-original sinfulness. The tender emotions in his breast, his all too soft
-and easily troubled heart, his delicate sensitiveness and receptiveness
-of all that is lofty and pure, his mildness, goodness and inexhaustible
-patience--all these divine gifts of his soul point clearly to the
-conclusion that the great framer of the world meant to create in Urnings
-a noble priesthood, a race of Samaritans, a severely pure order of men,
-in order to offer a strong counterpoise to the immoral tendencies of the
-human race, which increase with its increasing culture.”--_Ibid_, p. 253.
-
-“When I review the cases I have brought forward and the mental history
-of the inverted I have known, I am inclined to say that if we can enable
-an invert to be healthy, self-restrained and self-respecting, we have
-often done better than to convert him to the mere feeble simulacrum of
-a normal man. An appeal to the _paiderastia_ of the best Greek days,
-and the dignity, temperance, even chastity, which it involved, will
-sometimes find a ready response in the emotional enthusiastic nature
-of the congenital invert. The ‘manly’ love celebrated by Walt Whitman
-in ‘Leaves of Grass,’ although it may be of more doubtful value for
-general use, furnishes a wholesome and robust ideal to the invert who is
-insensitive to normal ideals. It is by some such method of self-treatment
-as this that most of the more highly intelligent men and women whose
-histories I have already briefly recorded have at last slowly and
-instinctively reached a condition of relative health and peace, physical
-and moral.”--HAVELOCK ELLIS, “Sexual Inversion,” p. 202.
-
-“From America a lady writes:--‘Inverts should have the courage and
-independence to be themselves, and to demand an investigation. If one
-strives to live honourably, and considers the greatest good to the
-greatest number, it is not a crime nor a disgrace to be an invert.
-I do not need the law to defend me, neither do I desire to have any
-concessions made for me, nor do I ask my friends to sacrifice their
-ideals for me. I too have ideals which I shall always hold. All that
-I desire--and I claim it as my right--is the freedom to exercise this
-divine gift of loving, which is not a menace to society nor a disgrace
-to me. Let it once be understood that the average invert is not a moral
-degenerate nor a mental degenerate, but simply a man or a woman who is
-less highly specialised, less completely differentiated, than other men
-and women, and I believe the prejudice against them will disappear, and
-if they live uprightly they will surely win the esteem and consideration
-of all thoughtful people. I know what it is to be an invert--who feels
-himself set apart from the rest of mankind--to find one human heart who
-trusts him and understands him, and I know how almost impossible this is,
-and will be, until the world is made aware of these facts.”--_Ibid_, p.
-213.
-
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