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-Title: The Woman Movement
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-Author: Ellen Key
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- _By Ellen Key_
-
-
- The Century of the Child
- The Education of the Child
- Love and Marriage
- The Woman Movement
-
-
-
-
- The Woman Movement
-
-
- By
- Ellen Key
-
- Author of
- “The Century of the Child,” “Love and Marriage,” etc.
-
- Translated by
- Mamah Bouton Borthwick, A.M.
-
- With an Introduction by
- Havelock Ellis
-
-
- G. P. Putnam’s Sons
- New York and London
- The Knickerbocker Press
- 1912
-
-
-
-
- COPYRIGHT, 1912
- BY
- G. P. PUTNAM’S SONS
-
-
- The Knickerbocker Press, New York
-
-
-
-
- Es gibt kein Vergangenes das man zurücksehnen dürfte; es gibt nur
- ein ewig Neues, das sich aus den erweiterten Elementen des
- Vergangenen gestaltet, und die echte Sehnsucht muss stets productiv
- sein, ein neues, besseres Erschaffen.—GOETHE.
-
-“_There is no past that we need long to return to, there is only the
-eternally new which is formed out of enlarged elements of the past; and
-our genuine longing must always be productive, for a new and better
-creation._”
-
-
-
-
- PREFACE
-
-
-The literature upon the right and the worth of woman, beginning as early
-as the 15th century, has in recent times increased so enormously that a
-complete collection would require a whole library building. In these
-writings are represented all classes, from tables of statistics to comic
-papers. Not only both sexes but almost all stages of life have
-contributed to it. By immersing oneself in this literature, especially
-in its belletristic and polemic portions, one could find rich material
-for the illumination of that sphere to which the publisher limited my
-work: the indication of the new spiritual conditions, transformations,
-and reciprocal results which the woman movement has effected. Historic,
-scientific, political, economic, juridical, sociological, and
-theological points of view must, therefore, be practically set aside.
-But even for my task, limited to the psychological sphere, time,
-strength, and inclination are wanting to bury myself in this literature.
-I must, therefore, confine myself to giving chiefly my own observations.
-
-It is more than fifty years ago that I read _Hertha_, Sweden’s first
-“feministic” (dealing with the woman question) novel, and listened to
-the numerous contentions concerning it. With ever keener personal
-interest I have since followed the operations of the woman
-movement—above all, the new psychic conditions, types, and forms of
-activities which the woman movement has evoked; I have also given
-consideration to the new possibilities and new difficulties resulting
-therefrom for individuals and for society.
-
-The limited compass of this little book prevents me from substantiating
-my assertions by means of parallels with earlier times, comparisons
-which might illuminate certain spiritual transformations and new
-formations. My comparisons of the present with the past do not go
-farther back than my own memory reaches. And these touch, moreover, in
-what concerns the past, principally upon Swedish conditions; while my
-impressions of the present were gathered throughout Europe. I have
-considered, however, that I could summarise both in a comprehensive
-picture. For although the women of Sweden a generation ago possessed
-rights for which the women in many countries are still struggling
-to-day, yet the woman movement in the last decade has advanced so
-rapidly that the conditions have in great measure been equalised.
-Indeed, some of the grey-haired champions of the woman movement have
-seen one after another of their demands fulfilled in this new
-century—demands which in the fifties and sixties, in many countries even
-in the seventies and eighties, were publicly and privately derided even
-in the very person of these champions. And among peoples who even ten
-years ago were unaffected by the emancipation of women, for example the
-Chinese and the Turks, it is already progressing. It amounts to this,
-that even if national peculiarities in character and in laws occasion
-differences in the curve which the woman movement describes in the
-different countries, yet everywhere the movement has had the same
-causes, must follow the same main direction, and—sooner or later—must
-have the same effects.
-
- * * * * *
-
-In _Hertha_, the book containing the tenets of the Swedish woman
-movement, the demand is made for woman’s “freedom and future, and a home
-for her spiritual life”; the desire is expressed that women should
-“preserve the character of their own nature, and not be uniformly
-moulded, not be led by a string as if they had not a soul of their own
-to show them the way.” There must be “vital air for woman’s soul and a
-share in life’s riches.” It is to be lamented that “woman’s spiritual
-talent must be a field that lies fallow,” that the law “denies her free
-agency in seeking happiness.” The prerogative is demanded that “woman in
-noble self-conscious joy shall succeed in feeling what she is able to do
-now and what she is capable of attaining”; that she shall be free to
-“aspire to the heights her youthful strength and consciousness point out
-to her”; that she may “be fully herself and be able to exercise an
-uplifting, ennobling influence upon the man” to whom she says: “All that
-is mine shall be thine and thereby the portion of each shall be
-doubled.”
-
-Even if all fields are made accessible to them, “God’s law in their
-nature will always lead the majority of women to the home, to the
-intimacy of the family life, to motherhood and the duties of rearing
-children—but with a higher consciousness.” That women shall be citizens
-signifies that they shall become “human beings in whom the life of the
-heart predominates.”
-
-This picture of the future, which has already become a reality in many
-respects, was sketched at a time when innumerable women were still
-compelled to experience that “there is no heavier burden than life’s
-emptiness,” and when it was true of every woman, “dark is her way,
-gloomy her future, narrow her lot.”
-
-But because that _which is_, is always considered by the masses as that
-which _ought to be_, “whatever is, is right,” so the writer who painted
-the picture was called “dangerous,” “a disintegrator of society,” “mad,”
-“ridiculous”! “Mademoiselle Bremer’s” name possessed then quite a
-different intonation from that of Fredrika Bremer now; it caused strife
-between the sexes; it was hated by some and derided by others.
-
-I should like to advise young women of the present time to read
-_Hertha_; they will thus obtain a criterion for the progress which has
-taken place during the last half century and also a clear view of the
-character of the opposition which the present desire for progress
-encounters.
-
- ELLEN KEY.
-
- October 1, 1909.
-
-
-
-
- INTRODUCTION
-
-
-There can be little doubt that at the present moment what is called the
-“Woman’s Movement” is entering a critical period of its development. A
-discussion of its present problems and its present difficulties by one
-of the most advanced leaders in that movement thus appears at the right
-time and deserves our most serious attention.
-
-The early promulgators of the Woman’s Movement, a century or more ago,
-rightly regarded it as an extremely large and comprehensive movement
-affecting the whole of life. They were anxious to secure for women
-adequate opportunities for free human development, to the same extent
-that men possess such opportunities, but they laid no special stress on
-the abolition of any single disability or group of disabilities, whether
-as regards education, occupation, marriage, property, or political
-enfranchisement. They were people of wide and sound intelligence; they
-never imagined that any single isolated reform would prove a cheap
-panacea for all the evils they wished to correct; they looked for a slow
-reform along the whole line. They held that such reform would enrich and
-enlarge the entire field of human life, not for women only, but for the
-human race generally. Such, indeed, is the spirit which still inspires
-the wisest and most far-seeing champions of that Movement. It is only
-necessary to mention Olive Schreiner’s _Woman and Labour_.
-
-When, however, the era of actual practical reform began, it was obvious
-that a certain amount of concentration became necessary. Education was,
-reasonably enough, usually the first point for concentration, and
-gradually, without any undue friction, the education of girls was, so
-far as possible, raised to a level not so very different from that of
-boys. This first great stage in the Woman’s Movement inevitably led on
-to the second stage, which lay in a struggle, not this time always
-without a certain amount of friction, to secure the entry of these now
-educated women to avocations and professions previously monopolised by
-the men who had alone been trained to fill them. This second stage is
-now largely completed, and at the present time there are very few
-vocations and professions in civilised lands, even in so conservative
-and slowly moving a land as England, which women are not entitled to
-exercise equally with men. Concomitantly with this movement,
-however,—and beginning indeed, very much earlier, and altogether apart
-from any conscious “movement” at all,—there was a tendency to change the
-laws in a direction more favourable to women and their personal rights,
-especially as regards marriage and property. These legal reforms were
-effected by Parliaments of men, elected exclusively by men, and for the
-most part they were effected without any very strong pressure from
-women. It had, however, long been claimed that women themselves ought to
-have some part in making the laws by which they are governed, and at
-this stage, towards the middle of the last century, the demand for
-women’s parliamentary suffrage began to be urgently raised. Here,
-however, the difficulties naturally proved very much greater than they
-were in the introduction of a higher level of education for women, or
-even in the opening up to them of hitherto monopolised occupations. In
-new countries, and sometimes in small old countries, these difficulties
-could be overcome. But in large and old countries, of stable and complex
-constitution, it was very far from easy to readjust the ancient
-machinery in accordance with the new demands. The difficulty by no means
-lay in any unwillingness on the part of the masculine politicians in
-possession; on the contrary, it is a notable fact, often overlooked,
-that, in England especially, there have for at least half a century been
-a considerable proportion of eminent statesmen as well as of the
-ordinary rank and file of members of Parliament who are in favour of
-granting the suffrage to women, a much larger proportion, probably, than
-would be found favourable to this claim in any other section of the
-community. That, indeed,—apart from the delay involved by ancient
-constitutional methods,—has been the main difficulty. Neither among the
-masculine electors nor among their womenfolk has there been any
-consuming desire to achieve women’s suffrage.
-
-The result has been a certain tendency in the Woman’s Movement to
-diverge in two different directions. On the one hand, are those who,
-recognising that all evolution is slow, are content to await patiently
-the inevitable moment when the political enfranchisement of women will
-become possible, in the meanwhile working towards women’s causes in
-other fields equally essential and sometimes more important. On the
-other hand, a small but energetic, sometimes even violent, section of
-the women engaged in this movement concentrated altogether on the
-suffrage. The germs of this divergence may be noted even thirty years
-back when we find Miss Cobbe declaring that woman’s suffrage is “the
-crown and completion of all progress in woman’s movements,” while Mrs.
-Cady Stanton, perhaps more wisely, stated that it was merely a vestibule
-to progress. In recent years the difference has become accentuated,
-sometimes even into an acute opposition, between those who maintain that
-the one and only thing essential, and that immediately and at all costs,
-even at the cost of arresting and putting back the progress of women in
-all other directions, is the parliamentary suffrage, and on the other
-hand, those who hold that the suffrage, however necessary, is still only
-a single point, and that the woman’s movement is far wider and, above
-all, far deeper than any mere political reform.
-
-It is at this stage that Ellen Key comes before us with her book on _The
-Woman’s Movement_, first published in Swedish in 1909, and now presented
-to the reader in English. As Ellen Key views the Woman’s Movement, it
-certainly includes all that those who struggle for votes for women are
-fighting for; she is unable to see, as she puts it, why a woman’s hands
-need be more soiled by a ballot paper than by a cooking recipe. But she
-is far indeed from the well-intentioned but ignorant fanatics who fancy
-that the vote is the alpha and the omega of Feminism; and still less is
-she in sympathy with those who consider that its importance is so
-supreme as to justify violence and robbery, a sort of sex war on mankind
-generally, and the casting in the mud of all those things which it has
-been the gradual task of civilisation to achieve, not for men only but
-for women. The Woman’s Movement, as Ellen Key sees it, includes the
-demand for the vote, but it looks upon the vote merely as a reasonable
-condition for attaining far wider and more fundamental ends. She is of
-opinion that the Woman’s Movement will progress less by an increased
-aptitude to claim rights than by an increased power of self-development,
-that it is not by what they can seize, but by what they are, that women,
-or for the matter of that men, finally count. She regards the task of
-women as constructive rather than destructive; they are the architects
-of the future humanity, and she holds that this is a task that can only
-be carried out side by side with men, not because man’s work and woman’s
-work is, or should be, identical, but because each supplements and aids
-the other, and whatever gives greater strength and freedom to one sex
-equally fortifies and liberates the other sex.
-
-Certainly we may not all agree with Ellen Key at every point, nor always
-accept her interpretation of the great movement of which she is so
-notable a pioneer. The breadth of her sympathies may sometimes seem to
-lead to an impracticable eclecticism, and, in the rejection of narrow
-and trivial aims, she may too sanguinely demand an impossible harmony of
-opposing ideals. But if this is an error it is surely an error on the
-right side. She has not put forward this book as a manifesto of the
-advanced guard of the Woman’s Movement, but merely as the reflections of
-an individual woman who, for nearly half a century, has pondered, felt,
-studied, observed this movement in many parts of the world. But it would
-not be easy to find a book in which the claims of Feminism—in the
-largest modern sense—are more reasonably and temperately set forth.
-
-[Signature: _Havelock Ellis._]
-
-LONDON, May 1, 1912.
-
-
-
-
- CONTENTS
-
-
- PAGE
-
- INTRODUCTION 1
-
- CHAPTER
-
- I THE EXTERNAL RESULTS OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT 23
-
- II THE INNER RESULTS OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT 58
-
- III THE INFLUENCE OF THE WOMAN QUESTION UPON SINGLE WOMEN 71
-
- IV THE INFLUENCE OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT UPON THE DAUGHTERS 89
-
- V THE INFLUENCE OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT UPON MEN AND WOMEN IN 111
- GENERAL
-
- VI THE INFLUENCE OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT UPON MARRIAGE 139
-
- VII THE INFLUENCE OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT UPON MOTHERHOOD 169
-
-
-
-
- The Woman Movement
-
-
-
-
- INTRODUCTION
-
-
-The first “woman movement” was Eve’s gesture when she reached for the
-fruit of the Tree of Knowledge—a movement symbolic of the entire
-subsequent woman’s movement of the world. For the will to pass beyond
-established bounds has constantly been the motive of her conscious as
-well as of her subconscious quest. Every generation has called this
-transgression, this passing beyond the bounds, a “fall of man,” the
-“original sin,” a crime against God’s express command, a crime against
-the nature of woman as prescribed for her for all time.
-
-And yet from the beginning women have appeared who have passed far
-beyond the established boundaries set for their sex by their era and
-upheld by their own people. They have demonstrated that limitations thus
-prescribed do not always coincide with what is considered by the
-majority to be the “nature” of woman. At one time a woman has manifested
-the “masculine” characteristics of a ruler or has performed a
-“masculine” deed; at another time she has distinguished herself in
-“masculine” learning or art, or again has dared to love without the
-permission of law and custom. In a word the individual woman, when her
-head or her heart was strong enough, has always shown the possibilities
-of the development of personal power. But she has had in that effort
-only her own strength and her own will upon which to rely; she has
-neither been urged on by the spirit of her time (_Zeitgeist_) nor been
-emulated by the masses. Exceptional women have sometimes been glorified
-by their contemporaries and by posterity as “wonders of nature”;
-sometimes been cited as “warning examples.” Seen in connection with the
-world’s woman movement all these instances, where a bond was broken by
-woman’s power of mind or creative gift, by a heart or a conscience, are
-parts of what can be called the “prehistoric” woman movement. This
-movement for personal freedom formed no step in that phase of the
-development which possesses a conscious purpose, but was merely
-sporadic. Even so the participation was long nameless which women took
-in the great struggles for freedom where, without consideration for the
-“nature” of woman, they dared bleed upon the arena and scaffold, ascend
-the pyre, and be raised upon the gibbet. Very rarely did these women
-martyrs alter immediately men’s—or even women’s—conception of woman’s
-“being.” But just as many perfumes are dissipated only after centuries,
-so there are also deeds whose indirect results persist through
-centuries.
-
-Most significant, however, upon the whole in the “prehistoric” woman
-movement, are innumerable women whose souls found expression only in the
-strong, quiet acts of every day life but yet remained living and
-growing. As a reason for the “enslavement” of woman by man, the
-primitive division of labour is still occasionally cited. This division
-of labour made war and the chase man’s task and so developed in him
-courage, energy, and daring, while the woman remained the “beast of
-burden.” But we forget that, in this labour arrangement, the handicraft
-and husbandry which woman practised at that time made her, to perhaps a
-higher degree than man, the conservator of civilisation and probably
-developed her psychic power in more comprehensive manner than his.
-
-Even after this division of labour ceased there remained—and remain
-still in innumerable country households—in and through many of the
-important and difficult tasks of the mother of the house, numerous
-possibilities for spiritual development. And exactly in this respect
-industrial work robs the woman of much.
-
-By the side of these innumerable nameless women who, century after
-century, in and through the material work of culture which they
-performed, increased their psychic power, we must remember all the
-unnamed women who with flower-like quiet mien turned their souls to the
-light.
-
-Antique sepulchres and Tanagra figures tell us more about the
-harmonious, refined corporeality of the Hellenic woman than the famous
-statues of Aphrodite or Athena. In like manner it is not the illustrious
-but the nameless women who most clearly reveal the will of the woman
-soul, in antiquity, for light and life.
-
-Numbers of Greek women were disciples of the philosophers, some even
-were their inspiration. Generally courtesans, these women represented
-the “emancipation” of that time from the servile condition of the
-legitimate married women and also showed that women already longed to
-share in the interests of men and to acquire their culture. History has
-preserved also words and deeds of wives and mothers of the past which
-show that these also at times attained “masculine” greatness of soul and
-civic virtue. Pythias and Sibyls, Vestals and Valas, are other witnesses
-that the power of woman’s soul was active and recognised long before
-Christianity. Even among the purely primitive races there were found—and
-are found—cases in which woman in power and rights was placed, not only
-on an equality with man, but even above him. And if, on the one hand,
-the rigid exactions which men from the earliest time have fixed upon the
-wife’s fidelity—while they themselves had full freedom for
-promiscuity—show that the wife was considered as the property of the
-husband, so, on the other hand, this very conception was a means of
-elevating and refining the soul life of woman. For the self-control
-which she had to impose upon herself deepened her feeling for a devotion
-which embraced only one, the man to whom she belonged. Nothing would be
-more superficial than to estimate the real position of woman, among any
-special people, only by what we know of their laws. It is as if one, in
-a few centuries from now, should judge the actual position of the modern
-European wife by referring it to the wretched marriage laws which now
-obtain. They forget the deep gulf between law and custom who declare
-that marriage devotion, veneration for the sanctity of the home, esteem
-for the spiritual being of the wife first arose as a result of
-Christianity.
-
-It is significant enough for the freeing of woman that Jesus raised the
-personal worth of _all_ mankind through His teaching that—whoever or
-whatever the person in outer respects may be—every soul possesses an
-eternal value comprised, as it were, in God’s love; significant enough
-that Jesus Himself, because of this point of view, treated every woman,
-even the sinner, with kindness and respect. Because of the increasing
-uncertainty concerning the real ideals of Jesus, one is compelled to
-assume that—just as Veronica’s handkerchief preserved the imprint of
-Jesus’ outer image—the manner of life of the oldest Christian
-communities has preserved the imprint of His teaching. It is significant
-of their doctrines that in these communities women and men stood side by
-side in the same faith, in the same hope, in the same exercise of love,
-and in the same martyrdom. Here was “neither man nor woman,” but all
-were one in the hope of the speedy second coming of Jesus to establish
-God’s Kingdom.
-
-But the more this hope faded, the more the Pagan-Jewish conception of
-woman again made itself felt. It is true the Church sought to place man
-and woman on an equality in regard to certain marriage duties and
-rights; to uphold on both sides the sanctity of marriage; to protect
-women and children against despotism. It is true the Church strove to
-counteract crude sensuality, utilising, among other things, an emphasis
-of celibacy as the expression of the highest spirituality.
-
-But, on the other hand, the doctrine of this Church became the greatest
-obstacle to the elevation of woman, because it lessened the reverence
-for her mission as a being of sex. Marriage, the only recognised ends of
-which were the prevention of unchastity and the propagation of the race,
-was looked upon as an inferior condition in comparison with pure
-virginity. And the more this ideal of chastity was extolled, the more
-woman was degraded and considered the most grievous temptation of man in
-his striving after higher sanctity. Before God, so man taught, man and
-woman were truly equal; but not in human relationships or qualities;
-yes, and man has gone in this direction even to the point of debating
-the question in church councils, as to whether woman really had a soul
-or not!
-
-But when the Church revered pure virginity in the person of the Mother
-of Jesus, it was woman in highest form—as happy or suffering mother—that
-the Church unconsciously glorified. In the statues and altar pieces of
-the cathedral man worships, in the likeness of Mary, the purest and
-noblest womanhood. The virtues especially extolled by the Church were
-also those in which Mary in particular and woman in general had
-pre-eminence. By all these impressions a soul condition was created in
-which the heart penetrated by religious ecstasy, must, of psychological
-necessity, devote itself to the earthly manifestations of this same pure
-womanhood. Generally this devotion was only an ecstatic cult, an
-adoration from afar of an ideal, inspiring deeds or poetry. Sometimes
-this ecstasy fused the being of man and woman in the sensuous-soulful
-unity of great love. But when neither was the case, yet the adoration of
-knights and minnesingers increased the esteem of man for woman and the
-esteem of woman for herself. It also contributed to the esteem of man
-for woman that, as the men were always obliged to stand in arms, they
-could rarely acquire the learning which the priests—and through them the
-wives and daughters of the castles—acquired. The superiority of woman in
-this respect had a refining influence upon manners and customs and upon
-the general culture of the time. Often through a number of women
-auditors the poem of a minnesinger first became famous. When in Mainz
-one sees Heinrich Frauenlob’s tombstone, one comprehends, through the
-soulful noble lines, how mourning women bore him to the grave, as the
-little bas-relief at the base of the stone represents. Their sympathy
-made him their singer and his sympathy revealed, to their time and to
-themselves, their own being. Woman’s ideal of love became through poetry
-and courts of love the ideal also of the most cultured men. We see here
-a movement of the time which women already half consciously effected by
-their life of feeling and their culture. The authority which the wife
-exercised as lady of the manor during the absence, often of many years’
-duration, of her husband gave her increased power to disseminate about
-her that finer culture which she herself had gained. But when the lords
-of the manor returned and again assumed power, then indeed at times
-strange thoughts might have come to their wives, while they fixed their
-glance, under the great arched eyelids, upon the missal or the romance
-of chivalry or, with long tapering fingers, moved the chessmen or played
-the harp, or while they bent the slender white neck over the embroidery
-frame or the lace-pillow upon which they wrought veritable marvels of
-handicraft. Perhaps even then there stirred under many a brow the
-presentiment of a time in which the relationship between man and woman
-would be different. Such thoughts must have arisen also in the
-manor-houses when the men began to arrogate to themselves one handicraft
-after another, occupations which in earlier times the daughters once
-learned from their fathers, at whose side they sometimes even entered
-the guild. Could even the nun’s veil prevent such thoughts from rising
-between the white temples of some of the women who—suffering or
-superfluous outside in the world—had found refuge in the cloister? Here
-was accomplished most peacefully the “emancipation,” of that time, of
-the intellectual and artistic gifts of woman, for whom religion and the
-life of the cloister had always employment. And if the soul of a nun was
-greater and richer than usual, then might it indeed have happened that
-she devoted herself to meditation, in a quandary as to whether all of
-God’s purposes for the gifts of her soul were truly fulfilled. And this
-the more intently since even then many women outside the cloister—women
-whose religious inspiration directed their genius to great ends—outside
-in the world, exercised a powerful influence upon the thought as upon
-the events of their time and, after death as saints, retained power over
-souls. Our Birgitta, for example, possessed herself of a great part of
-“woman’s rights.”
-
-So significant had the psychic power of woman shown itself to be in the
-Middle Ages that already in the early Renaissance it brought forth a
-number of “feminist” writers, both women and men. And in the height of
-the Renaissance there was quite an “emancipation” literature, about
-women and by women. This literature increased during the following
-centuries. Famous men emphasised the importance of a higher education of
-woman; some, as early as the beginning of the 16th century, claimed the
-absolute superiority of woman in all things. Greater freedom, education,
-and rights, in one or another respect, were demanded by men as well as
-women “feminists.” This literature purposed less, however, to alter some
-given conditions than, by means of examples of famous women of
-antiquity, to demonstrate the personal right and the social gain of what
-already obtained without hindrance, although with the disapproval of
-many:—that numbers of women had appeared who in classic culture, in the
-practice of learned professions, in political or religious, intellectual
-or æsthetic interests, stood beside the men of Humanism, the
-Renaissance, and the Reformation.
-
-The ideal of the time, the fully developed human personality of marked
-individuality, determined the conduct of life of women exactly as that
-of men. Both sexes cherished the life value which the original,
-isolated, individual personality signified for other such personalities.
-Both sexes appropriated to themselves the right to choose that which was
-harmonious with their own natures, that which soul or sense, thought or
-feeling, desired. It followed from this conception that women sought to
-attain the highest degree of the beauty and grace of their own sex and
-at the same time to cultivate what “manly” courage or genius nature had
-given them—attributes which men valued in them next to their purely
-womanly qualities.
-
-But at this time it was not the _work_ of woman which had the great
-cultural significance, but the human essence of her being reflected in
-_the works of men_. In antiquity woman exhibited the manly qualities of
-greatness of soul and civic virtue; in the Middle Ages she revealed the
-same faculty as man for saintliness and exercise of love; in the
-Renaissance she manifested the same ability as man to mould her own
-personality into a living work of art. If the spirit of equality between
-the sexes, which prevailed in the Renaissance, had further directed the
-progress of development, a “woman movement” would never have arisen,
-because its ends, which are to-day still contended for, would have been
-attained one after another, at the appointed time, as natural fruits of
-the florescence of the Renaissance.
-
-As it is, this florescence acquired only very slight _immediate_
-influence upon the emancipation of woman—and the farther North one goes
-the slighter it becomes. The periods of the Counter-Reformation, of the
-Religious Wars and of the new Orthodoxy, on the contrary, had as result
-an enormous retrogression in the position of woman.
-
-The “Deliverance of the Flesh,” which was accomplished by the verdict of
-Protestantism upon the life of the cloister, and by its support of
-marriage, had little in common with the deep feeling for the right and
-beauty of corporeality by which the Renaissance, intoxicated with life,
-became the era of the great renascence of art. Luther’s conception of
-the sex life, as “sanctified” by marriage, was so crassly utilitarian
-that it again dragged woman down from that high level upon which the
-finest life of feeling and culture of the Middle Ages and of the
-Renaissance had placed her.
-
-As matron of the household, woman retained her authority. The rational,
-common-sense marriage was the one most conformable to this literal
-doctrine of Luther, and the most usual. To the man who had chosen her,
-the wife bore children by the dozen and threescore. The Church gave her
-soul nourishment. If a woman occasionally sought to exercise her
-spiritual gifts in a “worldly” direction, she needed powerful
-protection, else she ran the danger of being burned as a witch!
-
-Yet in spite of all, even this period produced not a few women who
-procured for themselves the learning after which they thirsted, who
-succeeded in keeping their souls alive, in finding springs in the midst
-of the stony wastes of the desert. The more, however, the different
-branches of learning developed, and especially as Latin became the
-language of the learned, the more difficult it became for women to force
-their way to these springs, sealed for the majority of their sex. For a
-classical education became more and more infrequently extended to the
-daughter, for whom even the ability to read and write was considered a
-temptation to deviation from the path of virtue.[1]
-
-That women in time of persecution adhered to the new doctrine with warm
-belief and suffered for it with the whole strength of their souls, that
-in time of war they managed house and estate with power and
-understanding, altered in no respect, at the time, woman’s social or
-marriage position. Man was woman’s sovereign master and therefore a good
-bit nearer God than she. In marriage woman was considered, according to
-the bishop’s word, “man’s chattel,” outside of marriage as a tool of the
-devil. But however deeply the soul of woman was oppressed at this time,
-yet it still lived and endowed sons, in whom the strong but unexercised
-endowments of the mother became genius; it endowed daughters, who
-secretly procured sustenance for their souls and who in turn transmitted
-their rebellious spirit to a daughter or granddaughter.
-
-When at the end of the period of Orthodoxy and Absolutism, the great
-fundamental principle of Protestantism, the principle of personality,
-once more made headway, one of the most characteristic expressions of
-this reaction is that, in England, Milton wrote upon the right of
-divorce and Defoe upon the right of woman to the development and
-exercise of her mental powers. Among others who demanded greater
-education for women were Comenius in Germany and Fénelon in France. It
-was not in the former country that woman, so long oppressed, first won
-her great cultural influence. That happened in the land where women had
-never wholly lost it. In France, in the age of enlightenment, it was the
-salons created by women that determined the European spirit of the time.
-Letters and memoirs indicate sufficiently the influence of woman—in good
-as well as in bad sense—in politics and literature, manners, customs,
-and taste. Women transform indirectly the political, philosophic, and
-scientific style. For they demand that every subject be treated in a
-manner easily comprehensible and agreeable to them. A number of writings
-appeared which aimed to make it easy for “women folk” also “to be freed
-through the reason.”
-
-Since it was the approval of women which determined fame, men were only
-too eager to fulfil their expressed demands. Women disseminated the
-ideas of men in wide circles, partly by buying their writings in great
-numbers and distributing them, partly also by social life. Never has
-woman more perfectly accomplished the important task of adjusting
-culture values. The art of conversation, developed to the highest
-perfection, was, it is true, often only a game of battledore and
-shuttlecock with ideas. But it performed at the same time, and in more
-elegant and more effective manner, a great part of the office of
-to-day’s Press. The political leader, art and literary criticism, gossip
-(_causerie_), the “portrait gallery” of contemporaries—all this was
-gathered from clever discourse. Through their art of conversation the
-women became—next to the philosophers and statesmen who in this or that
-salon were the leading spirits—the intellectual leaders of the time;
-they created “enlightened opinion,” they co-operated finally in the
-Revolution. The mistresses of these salons scarcely felt the need of an
-emancipation of woman; for they had for themselves as many possibilities
-of culture, of development of their powers, of the exercise of their
-faculties, as even they themselves could wish. The intellectual
-curiosity, which coveted learning, and the cultural interest of these
-women penetrated in wider circles, and a result of this general
-awakening was the Woman’s Lyceum founded in Paris in 1786, among the
-students of which were found, some years later, enthusiastic supporters
-of the Revolution.
-
-Also among the German peoples there appeared, in the age of
-enlightenment, women with literary and scientific interest; some with
-extraordinary gifts which they also exercised. But for the most part
-women and men under more clumsy social forms, so-called “Academies” and
-“Societies,” engaged in their “learned pastime”; and nowhere, except in
-the person of some ruler, did woman attain in Europe, in the age of
-enlightenment, an influence which can be compared to that of the French
-women.
-
-In the midst of the period of rococo elegance and gallantry, of reason
-and esprit, came the great regeneration, the second Renaissance—the
-Revival of Feeling. This occurred first in the field of religion,
-through the pietistic movement of the time. Later it was Rousseau who,
-in connection with religion, nature, love, motherhood, became the
-liberator of feeling, and together with him were the English
-“sentimental” poets and the German poetry, which reached its culminating
-point in Goethe. Literature, the Theatre, and Art came more and more to
-the front and, by that means, women acquired greater possibilities of
-becoming acquainted with, understanding, and loving the richest culture
-of the time.
-
-And with this Revival of Feeling, personal freedom, individual
-character, became again the great life value. Women who wish to give
-expression to their feeling in their life now become more numerous:
-women who are conscious that their being buries many unsatisfied
-demands, not only in connection with the right of culture of their
-natural character, but also in connection with the right, in private
-life and in society, to give expression to this natural character. Men
-are continually in intellectual interchange with women, giving as well
-as receiving; woman nature is esteemed with ever finer comprehension.
-
-Since feelings determine thoughts—for the thought always goes in the
-direction in which the feeling says happiness is to be found—so it is
-natural that, in the second half of the 18th century, the idea of
-freedom is the ideal which kindles the soul of increasing numbers of
-women. _The emancipation of the individual_ is the tale within the tale,
-from the Renaissance up to the struggles of the Reformation for freedom
-of conscience, freedom of learning, freedom of investigation, and
-freedom of thought. Then finally came the struggle for constitutionally
-protected civic freedom. In America as early as 1776 the demand for the
-enfranchisement of women was raised, because they had taken part in the
-struggle for freedom with such great enthusiasm and constancy. With the
-same passion they threw themselves into the struggle in France for the
-“Rights of Man.” But both times they had to learn to their sorrow that
-“fellow-citizen” and “man” were terms which as yet referred only to men.
-That a woman during the French Revolution proclaimed “Women’s Rights,”
-that women discussed these questions as well as questions of education
-and other vital questions, with ardour, had as little immediate effect
-as the attempt at that time to enforce the right of the fourth estate.
-These sorely oppressed movements, of women and of working men, dominate
-the 19th century and now at the beginning of the 20th have every reason
-for assurance of victory.
-
-In the 17th and 18th centuries men and women writers appeared in
-different countries to demonstrate and establish the worth and right of
-woman as “man.” Indirectly inspired by the great women of the earlier
-centuries, they were immediately influenced by woman’s political and
-cultural exercise of power in the 18th century. Especially notable are
-the arguments which were advanced in the 90’s of the 18th century by
-writers manifestly uninfluenced by one another—the Swede, Thorild, in
-_The Natural Nobility of Womankind_; the German, Hippel; the Frenchman,
-Condorcet; the English woman, Mary Wollstonecraft. All insist that
-difference in sex can form no obstacle to placing woman on an equality
-with man in the family and in society; that she shall have the same
-right as man to education and free agency. The men writers emphasised
-more her individual human right, as “man,” and the advantage to society;
-the women writers more the mother’s need of culture and her right to it,
-in order to be able to rear and protect her children better. But all
-four ideas are, at heart, determined by the same point of view which the
-great philosopher of evolution thus formulated later: _the fundamental
-condition for social equilibrium is the same as for human happiness and
-lies in the law of equal freedom_. And this means that every one—without
-regard to difference between sex and sex, man and man—must have the
-right and the opportunity to develop and exercise his own capacities.
-For no one to-day can undertake so certain a valuation of talents that
-this valuation could justify society in restricting, a priori, the right
-of a single one of its members _to develop_ his capacities, even though
-these capacities might take such a direction, later, that society would
-be compelled to limit their _exercise_.
-
-Spencer arrived by the deductive method at the same demand Romanticism
-reached earlier by the intuitive method. Romanticism recognised that in
-the measure in which the individual is unusual he must be also
-unintelligible, for he shows to the majority only his surface; his
-innermost soul only to those in harmony with him. Even in the family
-circle the individual often remains therefore undiscovered. How much
-more then must society, composed for the most part of Philistines,
-outrage the individual if it concedes rights to one category, to one
-sex, to one class, and not to the other!
-
-And from this point of view the Romanticists drew for women also the
-logical conclusion of individualism. They pointed out that the sex
-character, carried _to the extreme_, furnished neither the highest
-masculine nor the highest feminine type; that each sex must develop in
-itself both noble human _universality_ and individual _peculiarity_. And
-this the great woman personalities did who shared the destiny of the
-Romanticists. They were thereby fully and wholly able to share also the
-intellectual life of their husbands. Love became thus a unity of souls.
-The romantic ideal of love was expressed in _La Nouvelle Héloise_, in
-Goethe’s letters to Charlotte von Stein, in Rahel, in Mme. de Staël. It
-was found in the first half of the 19th century in many great women; for
-example, George Sand, Elizabeth Barrett Browning, Camilla Collett. It
-appeared in Shelley and in the Swedish poet Almquist, in Stuart Mill and
-Robert Browning, also in certain French and German poets and thinkers.
-This ideal has now been for some centuries the ideal of most women and
-of not a few men of feeling.
-
-But since a truly psychic unity is possible only between two beings who
-are, in outer as in inner sense, _free_, exactly for this reason,
-“romantic love” has as consequence the demand for the emancipation of
-woman.
-
-The love of Romanticism, which has been caricatured to the extent that
-it signified only moonshine, ecstasy, sonnets, and wife barter, had its
-real essence in the desire for completeness of soul in love. This was,
-in a new form, the ideal of the courts of love. But since completeness
-of soul means that all the powers of the soul can freely and fully
-penetrate and elevate one another, so the first requisite for that
-soulful love was that _woman’s_ thinking as well as her feeling, her
-imagination as well as her will, her desire for power, as well as her
-conscience, be freed from the shackles imposed upon them from without,
-in order to be strengthened and purified. The second stipulation was
-that _man’s_ inner, spiritual life be freed from the deteriorating
-results of the prerogatives and prejudices accorded to and maintained by
-his sex.
-
-A new ideal in the relationship between husband and wife, between mother
-and child; the demand of the feminine individuality for the right to
-free cultivation of her powers and to self-direction; the need of new
-fields for this exercise of her power after industrialism began to usurp
-one branch of domestic work after another—these are the fundamental
-reasons for what is called the middle-class woman movement. The
-middle-class woman—because of the increasing surplus of women, because
-of the continually greater variety of economic conditions and the
-decrease in marriage for this and other reasons—was to an ever greater
-extent constrained to self-maintenance. Thus the _economic_ reason for
-the woman movement, not only in the labouring class but also in the
-middle class, became the most effective influence operating in the
-_widest_ circles, although the reasons mentioned previously were the
-first and deepest causes.
-
-And herewith we stand at the beginning of the woman movement, become
-_conscious of its purpose_.
-
-But this movement would be a stream without sources if the “anonymous”
-movements indicated here with the greatest brevity had not preceded, if
-in the grey morning of time the endless procession had not begun in
-which women now nameless for us walked at the head, each with an amphoræ
-upon her shoulder—amphoræ which they filled at any fountain of life.
-Before these nameless women vanished on the horizon, each, like a water
-nymph of antiquity, lowered the brim of her urn to the earth, which thus
-was traversed by innumerable interlacing rills. And all these—even if by
-the most circuitous route—have augmented by some drops the mighty stream
-now called the woman movement.
-
-
-
-
- CHAPTER I
- THE EXTERNAL RESULTS OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT
-
-
-The history of the woman movement, conscious of its purpose, does not
-fall within the compass of this book. But as foundation for later
-judgments, it is necessary to take a short retrospective glance over the
-essential results which the woman movement has attained in the struggle
-for woman’s equality with man in the right to general culture,
-professional education, and work, as well as in the sphere of family and
-of civil status. These several demands for equality were voiced, as
-early as 1848, in a powerful and man-indicting plea by the American
-women in their “Declaration of Sentiments.” But in 1905 the program for
-Germany’s “Allgemein Frauenverein,” as well as many both conservative
-and radical resolutions for women congresses in different countries,
-show how far removed Europe and, in many respects, America also, still
-are from the desires expressed in the year 1848.
-
-If the humble utterance of women, “We can with justice demand nothing of
-life except a work and a duty,” be conclusive, then life has already
-conceded to the demands of woman in rich measure. The woman movement and
-the self-interest of the employers have made accessible to her a number
-of new fields of labour, without mentioning those which fifty years ago
-were the only ones “proper” for women of the middle class—those of
-teacher, lady companion, and “lady’s help.” The woman movement and man’s
-increasing recognition of woman’s need of general education and
-professional qualification have created a large number of educational
-institutions. But in regard to the right of work, the acquisitions are
-but insignificant if this right be defined as _the opportunity for that
-work which one prefers and for which one is best fitted_. Women have
-now, for example, in many countries the right to pass the same
-examinations as men, but in many cases not the right to the offices
-which these examinations open to men. The profession to which women have
-found a comparatively easy entrance, that of physician, is widely
-extended among women in Europe as well as in America. That a dwelling
-was denied to the first woman physician because her profession was
-considered “improper” for a woman, sounds now like a fable. Everywhere
-now are women nurses, teachers of gymnastics, dentists, apothecaries,
-and midwives. In America there are even many women ministers and it
-sounds likewise wholly fabulous to say that the first of these was
-literally stoned. Women judges also have been appointed in America. In
-Europe there are none to my knowledge and no women preachers. And yet
-the woman pastor would often be, especially for women and children, a
-better minister than the clergyman; for them also the woman judge might
-often surpass the man in penetration and understanding. The profession
-of law, open to women in many countries, is as yet little practised by
-them in Europe. And yet as advocate, police officer, and prison
-attendant, the female official would be of special service for her own
-sex as well as for children and young people of both sexes. But in every
-field where the living reality of flesh and blood has to be compressed
-into legal paragraphs, mankind must be more or less mistreated. And
-since even masculine jurists of feeling suffer under this conviction,
-the reason for the fact that this career, in which woman could be of
-infinitely great service to humanity, has thus far attracted her little,
-may be sought in feminine sensitiveness.
-
-All the more numerous are the women who have devoted themselves to the
-task most akin to motherhood, the profession of teacher. Unfortunately
-not always the inner call but the prestige of the position has
-determined the choice. Millions of women are now employed as teachers in
-all possible types of schools, from kindergartens to training schools,
-from infant schools to boys’ colleges. Even in universities, although in
-Europe very rarely it is true, women occupy chairs of learning. In the
-field of popular education, women are zealously active as lecturers,
-librarians, leaders of evening classes, and in similar work.
-
-With every decade, woman’s powers have attained their right more fully
-and in fields where it now seems incredible that men could, and still
-partly do, insist upon getting along without them. I refer to the
-associations and institutions connected with prison supervision and
-reformatories; with schools and children’s homes; care of the poor and
-the sick; health and factory inspection. Slowly but surely the woman
-movement has prepared a place here for the mother of society beside the
-father of society who in these domains is often very awkward or quite
-helpless. Alone, or together with men, women have organised milk
-distribution and crèches, housekeeping schools, school food-kitchens,
-people’s food-kitchens, people’s polyclinics, sanitariums and
-rest-homes, vacation colonies, homes for sick and neglected children,
-etc. Many kinds of homes for working women, old people’s homes, rescue
-homes, institutions for the protection of mothers and children,
-employment bureaus, legal redress, and other forms of social relief are
-connected, indirectly if not directly, with the woman movement. Great
-women agitators on their part set thousands of women into action, as for
-example, Harriet Beecher Stowe, agitating against negro slavery,
-Josephine Butler against prostitution, Frances Willard against
-intemperance, and Bertha von Suttner against war.
-
-And yet in spite of the fabulous amount of time, strength, and money
-which the associations and organisations thus created have cost in
-donations of time and money, this social relief work is only the oil and
-wine of the Samaritan for the wounds of society. As long as brigand
-hands drag mothers and children into factories; as long as armies cost
-much more than schools; as long as dwelling conditions in the cities are
-for many people worse than those for domestic animals in the country; as
-long as alcohol and syphilis brand the new generation—so long woman’s
-devotion remains powerless.
-
-And this conviction has urged women to transform their social work from
-an often injudicious “Christian” compassion into an organised charity in
-order to anticipate and prevent need and to facilitate self-help. But
-also in this new phase of their philanthropic work many women of the
-middle class are arriving at an understanding of the necessity of a
-social reform in accordance with socialistic demands. A larger number of
-women join the suffragist movement, less owing to individual demands for
-rights than out of despair over the hopeless social work to which their
-feeling of solidarity still impels them. For without suffrage (this they
-experience every day) their work of relief is like seed sown in a
-morass.
-
-A by-product of the social relief work is that many single women have
-found, in voluntary social work, an occupation and often also, in
-remunerative social work, a livelihood; in both cases through service in
-which certain feminine qualities can be of value.
-
-Yes, exactly in the above mentioned fields of work, which so often bring
-the modern woman in contact with the finest and most delicate as well as
-with the coarsest and hardest sides of life; which place her before
-conflicts of the most exceptional as well as of the most universally
-human kind—there woman has nothing _new_ to give except her
-motherliness. That means protecting tenderness, gentle patience, glad
-readiness to help, the interest embracing each one in particular, the
-fine and quick vibration in contact with the feelings of others which
-we, in a word, call “tact.” If, however, a woman has not been endowed
-with motherliness, or has none remaining, then she reverts to impersonal
-devotion to duty, hard formalism, dry routine; then all the talk about
-the _social_ significance of woman’s entrance into the field of medicine
-or jurisprudence or the ministry or social work remains only empty
-phrases. In all these spheres a good man is much more valuable than a
-hard woman. And that woman’s hands can be rough, woman’s eyes cold,
-woman’s soul base or cruel—this many suffering and crushed, sorrowing
-and sinful, small and defenceless have already experienced. If woman is
-to keep her superiority as the alleviator of the suffering of others,
-the protector of others, solicitous for the welfare of others, then she
-must not only acquire certain universal human qualities in which man is
-often superior to her; she must also carefully guard and cultivate the
-best capacities which her sex gained in and through the hundred thousand
-years’ activity as that half of mankind which created the home and
-reared the children.
-
-Although the woman movement has multiplied and extended the social
-relief work of woman in innumerable directions, still it has not yet
-opened to her the field in which formerly deaconesses, and much earlier
-still nuns, were engaged. But what is new as result of the woman
-movement is that more and more single _cultured_ women now devote
-themselves to the occupations of governess, nurse, midwife, and kindred
-callings; as well as that more special training is demanded for these
-vocations to which women turned earlier with downright criminal
-carelessness.
-
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-
-Simultaneously with the need of the middle-class woman for new fields of
-work, came the extraordinarily rapid development of commerce and
-business, which occasioned the need of new working forces. Feminine
-honesty, orderliness, and devotion to duty—alas, also her modest demands
-of compensation—made the state as well as private employers favourably
-disposed to employ women in increasingly greater numbers in the
-different branches of commerce: in the post-office, railroads,
-telegraph, telephone, as also in banks, counting houses, agencies or
-stores, as secretaries, stenographers, and clerks. In cases where the
-wife or daughter was the husband’s or father’s assistant such work then
-received a personal interest, and what woman’s labour in this form can
-signify for national wealth can be seen in France especially. But as a
-rule no real joy in work could illuminate the days and years of the
-generation of women who in all these vocations have grown gray and at
-best have been pensioned. Nevertheless, in these offices one always sees
-fresh faces bending over the desk to fade away in their turn.
-
-Lack of courage or means often deters the European woman from more
-independent business activity, and this in spite of increasing freedom
-to choose her occupation, in spite of brilliant examples of successful
-undertakings of women, in photography, hotel or boarding-house
-management, dress-making, etc. In America, on the contrary, there is no
-masculine occupation, from that of butcher and executioner to real
-estate speculator and stock-exchange gambler that women have not
-practised.
-
-But while the women of the older generation were thankful if only they
-succeeded in obtaining “a work and a duty,” however monotonous and
-wearing it might be, the will of the younger generation for a
-_pleasurable_ labour has fortunately increased. Partly alone, partly
-co-operatively, women began to venture into the applied arts, handwork,
-farming, or kindred work. And since corresponding special training
-schools quickly arise to meet the awakening of the desire for a
-vocation, we can hope for good results for these, as yet rare,
-enterprising spirits. For special education is, in our time, the
-essential condition of success, especially in agriculture, where the
-women often succeeded without other help than their personal efficiency
-and the “farmer’s customary practice.”
-
-Since I know America only at second hand I have no claim to a final
-judgment regarding the influence of business life and modern methods of
-production upon the soul life of woman. In the women who have succeeded
-in securing affluence through commercial life one finds probably the
-same antichristian effects of this life as among men. Recently in
-America a number of men and women endeavoured to live for fourteen days,
-as Christ would have lived. The decision of most of those who were
-engaged in business life was that either they must cease to follow in
-the footsteps of Christ—or must resign their positions. And since, with
-due consideration for the number of woman employers in America, many of
-these experiences must surely have been made under feminine supervision,
-the experiment does not lack a certain significance for the forming of a
-judgment in the direction referred to.
-
-The zeal of women’s rights advocates to open to women all of man’s
-fields of labour, and not only this but to prove that these fields are
-_as well adapted_ to woman as man—this zeal has unfortunately had as
-result that the woman movement has turned the aptitude of many women in
-a wrong direction and has fettered a great amount of woman’s misused
-working power to thankless or galling tasks. But, on the other hand, how
-the woman movement has elevated woman’s work, since it has raised the
-standard of qualification in many fields and increased the feeling of
-responsibility in all! How it has increased the honour of work and the
-capacity for organisation, developed the judgment, stimulated the will
-power, strengthened the courage! It has awakened innumerable slumbering
-talents, given freedom of action to innumerable shackled powers. And
-thus it has transformed hosts of women of the upper class, formerly the
-most useless burden of earth, into productive members of society,
-instead of mere consumers; made them self-supporting instead of
-dependent, joyful instead of weary of life.
-
- * * * * *
-
-The woman movement of the lower classes is socialistic. It has increased
-in extent and significance in the same measure in which the working
-woman has given up farming, housework, and domestic service for
-industry.
-
-This woman movement also worked in two directions. The older program
-reads: “Full equality of woman with man.” In the “state of the future”
-both sexes shall have the same duty of work and the same protection of
-work, while the children are reared in state institutions.
-
-The movement in the other direction purposes to win back the wife to the
-husband, the mother to the children, and, thereby, the home to all. The
-old or right wing of the middle-class woman movement, as well as the
-older direction of socialism just mentioned, still uphold, with
-arguments of the old liberalism, the “individual freedom” of the working
-woman against all protecting “exceptional laws.” Increasing numbers of
-the more radical—that means in this connection more social—feminists of
-the upper class, however, stand side by side with the less dogmatic
-trend of socialism in its supreme struggle for the protection of the
-mother.
-
-In the socialistic woman movement, both efforts for freedom were
-interwoven—that of the working men and that of women—checked during the
-French Revolution but soon after revived as the two great forces of the
-new century. In this intertwining of the woman question with the labour
-question is found the explanation of the fact that socialists
-characterise the woman question as an _economic_ question solely; while
-in reality the woman question, _historically_, manifestly began as an
-advocacy of the human right and worth of woman; and that too before any
-great industry appeared on the horizon. As long as the man was the one
-who, outside the home, was producer and provider, and the woman the one
-who, within the home, managed and perfected the raw material, no
-_economic_ woman question could arise, but on the other hand exactly a
-question of _woman’s rights_. For, as some writers demonstrated, as
-early as the 18th century it was absurd, if woman’s work in the home was
-so valuable and so faithfully performed, that it should not secure in
-consequence corresponding rights. And exactly because the middle-class
-woman movement tried to uphold and defend the right and the freedom of
-women in the compass of the old society, this movement became, and must
-still often be, a struggle of women against men. The socialistic woman
-movement is on the other hand merely a factor in a _joint struggle of
-men and women against the old society and for a new condition_. The
-struggle here cannot be sex against sex, but class against class. Each
-of these woman movements has been partly right, each has partly
-misunderstood the other. Only in recent times has a convergence between
-the middle class and the socialistic woman movements been accomplished
-for the attainment of a number of common ends; for example, the
-protection of the mother, mentioned above, and especially the franchise.
-This convergence has dissolved the prejudice on both sides. In both
-quarters they begin to understand the power and aim of the other
-movement.
-
-Socialism and the woman movement are two mighty streams which drag along
-with them great parts of the firm formations which they touch. But if
-one wishes to be just toward both, one must not forget that in this way
-new lands are created.
-
-The socialistic women on their part, as speakers, agitators,
-journalists, members of special associations, have stood in rank and
-file beside the men as true comrades, and the middle-class women have
-much to learn from the feeling of solidarity of the women socialists.
-The masculine comrades have not always _in practice_ substantiated the
-principle of equality, for even the socialist is first man and then
-comrade; but _in theory_ he has generally supported it.
-
-Through socialism, feminism has penetrated to the masses. What the
-middle-class woman movement would have needed another century to effect,
-socialism has accomplished in a few decades. Nothing shows better than
-its fear of socialists how blindly prejudiced was the right wing of
-middle-class feminism. And nothing so clearly elucidates in what stage
-of feminism the upper-class movement was than its obstinate adherence to
-“the principle of personal freedom” in face of the atrocious actual
-conditions which resulted from the “freedom of work” of the women
-factory hands.
-
-I will here recall only in brief the progress of the economic woman
-movement in the class of factory workers. When machines transformed the
-whole method of production and a host of women no longer found
-sufficient occupation in the home, while at the same time the
-possibilities of marriage decreased because of the surplus of women and
-also for other reasons, the middle-class women looked about them for new
-fields of labour. The great industries in return looked about them for
-more “hands.” And since, with the machine, female hands were quite as
-serviceable as male—with a new machine it was possible to replace thirty
-men with one woman—and since in addition they were cheaper, then began
-that exodus of women from the home into the factory, the results of
-which we are now experiencing.
-
-When the mother is absent from the home, then there is lacking the
-cohering, supervising, warming force, and the home deteriorates and
-falls to pieces; the children are neglected, the husband suffers; the
-street takes possession of the children, the alehouse of the men.
-Moreover, the women work often for starvation wages, whereby less comes
-into the home than is lost by the absence and incapacity of the mother.
-In the middle classes daughters and wives, entirely or partly supported
-in the home, could be satisfied with smaller wages and have thus become
-the competitors of men and women wholly self-supporting. For the same
-reason wives working in these industries have often become the
-competitors of men, children again the competitors of women, and married
-women the competitors of unmarried.
-
-In woman, so long secluded in the sphere of the family, the social
-feeling of solidarity has been very slowly awakened. Therefore,
-organisation which could prevent the competition just mentioned has only
-in the last decade made great progress everywhere among working women.
-In the middle-class vocations this is almost entirely lacking. Among the
-working women slowness of organisation is natural, for the more wretched
-their position was, the more difficult was it for them to organise. But
-among middle-class women the reason was partly their individualism,
-partly their anti-socialism, partly the lack of feeling of solidarity
-just referred to.
-
-Home work for profit and pleasure in one’s own family or in service of
-the applied arts has become a means for the “sweat system,” the facts of
-which belong to the darkest side of modern working life. These facts
-alone would be sufficient to prove that _working women_ have little to
-gain from the luxury of the rich, an assertion with which luxury often
-vindicates itself. There is still for the women working at home as well
-as for the women working in the factory, beside their professional work,
-also the duty of caring for the children and managing the home. However
-insufficient this may be yet it still claims a great part of their
-already meagre leisure; and the more tender and conscientious the
-mothers are, the more they wear themselves out, and the sooner must
-society, after night-watching, lack of light and hunger have ruined
-them, maintain them as infirm or paupers. The life of these women passed
-in the factory often from childhood has made them moreover, generation
-after generation, more unfitted for household work. What does it profit
-to attempt to remedy the evil by housekeeping schools and instruction in
-the care of children? For where time and strength are lacking the home
-has lost its right.
-
-What can be expected of women who three or four days after confinement
-must again stand at the machine, who are compelled to leave their
-children behind them, shut in at home, exposed to all conceivable
-accidents? What can be expected of mothers, who have become mothers
-against their will,—mothers of children, who because of the conditions
-of their parents’ work have become scrofulous, rickety, idiotic—children
-who contract degeneration of the liver because the harassed, ignorant
-mother quieted them with brandy, ill-treated them,—herself a physical
-and psychic ruin who spreads destruction about her!
-
-The feminists are accustomed to rage over the custom which formerly
-condemned the Indian widows to be burned upon the funeral pyre—a custom
-which is only an innocent sport in comparison with the woman slavery
-which Europe has even brought to a system and which the woman movement
-long ignored.
-
-To these general facts, which apply also to women employed in hard
-agricultural labour, there is also added an entirely new series of evils
-associated with occupations dangerous to health—for example those in
-which lead, quicksilver, phosphorus or tobacco poison the workers,[2] or
-those branches of work where inhaling dust at the weaving loom or in
-spinning, breathing gas and coal smoke, exposed to heat, smoke and damp,
-they contract tuberculosis and other diseases; to say nothing of the
-physical and moral misery in which miners and stevedores live. But the
-worst begins only when the women are to become mothers. Either the
-embryo is killed by an abortion, intentional or caused by the
-occupation; or it comes into the world dead or sick or crippled; or it
-dies in the first weeks or wastes away under artificial nourishment—in
-England for example only one out of eight children is nursed. The
-mothers either cannot or will not. Next to the labour conditions,
-alcohol plays the greatest part in this indirect massacre of infants.
-
-If one turns from the women engaged in industrial work to the servant
-class, then female drudgery reaches perhaps its height among the girls
-employed in bars, cafés, and similar establishments. What physical and
-psychic results this work entails can be divined from the fact that, in
-England, half of all women suicides are such waitresses under 30 years
-of age. That family servant girls are allowed to sleep in closets and to
-work far beyond the present customary factory time; that in the class of
-saleswomen, especially in cigar shops, the longest working hours
-together with the most paltry starvation wages are found—all this, as
-every one knows, is the fundamental reason why the path is so short from
-all these occupations to the lowest—to prostitution. The servant girl
-corrupted by the master of the house, the half-starved, overworked shop
-girl, the night-watching cigar worker, and many, many others are found
-here as sacrifices of a shameless exploitation. Herewith we stand before
-that “woman question” in which both elementary instincts have united for
-that captivity of woman from which the woman movement has found no means
-of emancipation; against which the means sought in these and other
-quarters prove fruitless. For only a radical transformation of society
-and sexual ethics can here provide a remedy.
-
- * * * * *
-
-Every one in face of these facts, touched upon thus superficially, must
-be astounded that women could oppose laws for the protection of women.
-Fortunately these progress-impeding emancipation women had no influence
-when, in England and other countries, certain night work began to be
-prohibited to women, their working hours limited, certain employments
-barred out, and a time of rest assured to the woman recently confined.
-Still very small steps only, but in the right direction. At the same
-time the organisation of working women advances so that by labour unions
-and strikes here and there they have succeeded in enforcing better
-wages, shorter working hours, and better labour conditions. And so long
-as the woman movement of the upper classes has no solidarity with that
-of the lower, the female factory inspector can accomplish very little,
-as a result of the fear of the working women to give facts and the
-adroitness of the employers in veiling these. But if women of the upper
-class begin to compete with the slave-driving, sweat-system employers
-through _well-organised co-operative enterprises_, especially for the
-revival of artistic handwork, whereby a profitable work is made for
-mothers at home under good working conditions; and if they boycott all
-shops where the working hours of the women exceed the due measure, while
-their wages are below the standard; then the woman movement would be
-able to hasten certain reforms in the field of industry, just as so many
-mistresses of girls’ private schools have hastened the reform of public
-schools: they simply availed themselves of the improvements arising from
-feminine initiative.
-
- * * * * *
-
-The married woman as family provider beside the man, often also in place
-of the man, but always however _subservient to the man’s dominion_—this
-is the worst form of woman slavery our time has created. The woman
-movement purposes indeed to make the wife “of age,” in every respect,
-and free from the husband’s guardianship. But within the woman movement
-all are not yet entirely agreed that _the work of the mother outside the
-home_ in and for itself is an evil. Attempts are indeed being made to
-alter the conditions which are most to blame for the deterioration of
-mothers and children. But a large faction in the woman movement wishes
-still, as was said, to cling to the _immediately_ remunerative work of
-the mother and remedy the resulting lack of home by social institutions
-for care of children, housekeeping, etc.
-
-On this side, the following arguments are heard: woman becomes free only
-when she can wholly support herself and can devote herself to her work
-unhampered by duties toward husband and children; only through the
-reciprocal social obligation of work and the complete individual freedom
-of both sexes can the present conflicts between the labour of man and
-woman, between individual happiness and the common weal, finally cease.
-
-Like every canalisation or drainage of the mighty river system of the
-life of human feeling, this program is direct and conclusive. One may
-easily understand that masculine brains, dominated by a passion for
-logic, could devise it; but if we hear it advocated by multitudes of
-women, then we recognise how harassed by the fourfold burden of family
-provider, child bearer, child educator, and housekeeper the poor women
-must be who can smilingly assent to the foregoing picture of the future.
-
-And yet there is another possible ideal of the future which can be
-realised as soon as production is determined, no longer by private
-capitalistic interests, but by social-political interests. Women will
-then be employed in industrial fields of work where their powers are _as
-productive as possible_ with the least possible loss in time and
-strength; above all in those fields where the work requires no _long_
-preparation and the dexterity does not suffer by _interruptions_. Before
-the years in which the _occupation is motherhood_, and after these
-years, woman can still be always remunerated by an economic wage; during
-the years on the contrary in which motherhood is the vocation, she can
-be remunerated _by the state_. It is only necessary that women and men
-_will_ a new order whereby in the future we attain the following
-conditions:
-
-A _Society_, in which the welfare of the new generation is the centre to
-which all social-political plans, at heart, are aiming.
-
-_Children_ born of parents whose souls and bodies are qualified and
-prepared for a worthy parenthood and who can thus create for their
-children sound and beautiful conditions of life.
-
-_Mothers_ won back to the husbands, the children, the homes, but under
-such circumstances that _as free human personalities they perform the
-most important work of society_: the bearing and rearing of children.
-
-_Fathers_ with time and leisure to share with the mothers the task of
-education and to share with them and the children the joys of the home
-life, as well as of the remainder of existence.
-
-This ideal of the future state takes in my imagination the form of a
-varied Italian garden with a wide outlook upon the great sea. The other
-ideal of the future, on the contrary, is to me like a coal mine wherein
-all spiritual and social vegetation is petrified so that it now serves
-only as motive-power for machines.
-
- * * * * *
-
-Nothing more effectively proves how rife with reactions—and for that
-reason how hidden—is the power of development, than to realise that the
-unorganized, inorganic socialistic ideal of the future, just mentioned,
-is the logical sequence of the woman movement if one draws the extreme
-conclusion from its fundamental idea—the right of woman to individual,
-free development of her powers. It is consistent historically that in
-America, where the movement for the right and freedom of woman has been
-most widely successful, many middle-class women have resolutely drawn
-these extreme conclusions of emancipation. Quite as psychologically
-logical is it, that at a time when the uncomplicated soul life and life
-demands of the masses still form the most important factors in the
-shaping of the ideal of the future, the socialistic women, from their
-different point of view, have arrived at like ideals. But fortunately
-there are in women, as in the masses, still great tracts of “new ground”
-where new soul conditions will germinate, and in due time, new ideals
-will flower. Groups of men can at times forget mankind in dwelling upon
-themselves. But mankind in its entirety has never yet lost the instinct
-for the conditions of self-preservation and the higher development of
-the race. I will come back later to the psychological phase of the
-question. I touch upon it here only as the social program of the future.
-
- * * * * *
-
-A new field which the woman movement has opened up to woman is the
-scientific field. For the fact that as early as the Renaissance some
-Italian women occupied chairs of academic instruction, that in the 17th
-and 18th centuries some women devoted themselves seriously to classic
-studies or the exact sciences—all that was only exceptional. And the
-women who since the beginning of the woman movement have distinguished
-themselves by great services in science are still exceptional. But in
-many places, sometimes as assistants of their husbands or of other men,
-women now perform good scientific work in different lines. Many women
-are also active in the sphere of invention, without a single woman’s
-name having been thus far connected with an _epoch-making_ invention.
-
-Especially where constructive ability is necessary, women have as yet
-not been eminent; they have created neither a philosophical system nor a
-new religion, neither a great musical work nor a monumental building,
-neither a classic drama nor an epic. On the other hand, the exact
-sciences, which would be considered a priori as little adapted to women,
-for example mathematics, astronomy, and physics, are exactly those in
-which thus far they have most distinguished themselves. This contains a
-warning against too precipitate conclusions about the intellectual life
-of woman. Not until several generations of women—with the same
-privileges of education as man, with the same encouragement from home
-and society—have exercised their faculty for discovery and their
-inventive and creative faculties can we really know whether the present
-inferiority of woman in this respect is a provision of nature or not;
-whether her genius was only hampered in its expression or whether, as I
-believe, it is ordinarily of a different kind from that of man.
-
-In art there are several fields which the woman movement did not need to
-open for the first time to woman: dramatic art, music, and the dance.
-Indirectly, however, the woman movement has transformed the position of
-women occupied in these lines by increasing the respect for all good
-work of woman and raising the requirements for woman’s education in
-general. The woman movement has also exercised an immediate influence
-upon certain artists of the present time. Thus Eleanora Duse said to me
-that her most cherished desire has been to represent and interpret the
-new types of women, although the dramatists of to-day have rarely given
-her the material she desired wherewith to create characters by which she
-could reveal the soul of the new woman and elevate man’s, as well as
-woman’s own, ideal of woman.
-
-In the dance, women have been, especially in America, creative in
-connection with its forms and have been thereby also revelations of the
-new spiritual life of woman which has found expression in these forms.
-Great women singers, through Wagner’s operas and ballad-singing, have
-given voice to the primeval yearning of the woman soul, as that yearning
-now assumes form in the new woman. And in interpretations at the hands
-of great pianists or violinists, not one classic musical work failed to
-furnish similar revelations.
-
-The very finest effects of the woman movement—mere shades of feeling
-which cannot be enumerated nor discussed—have reached our present time
-through lines, movement, rhythm, cadence, through the timbre of a voice,
-the gesture of a hand, the glance of an eye, the tone of a violin. And
-these effects have been secured without any disturbance of the
-receptivity by strife over the precedence of woman or of man. In other
-spheres, susceptibility to the effects of art creations by woman is
-still often dulled by this strife. In the above named fields, long
-before the beginning of the woman movement, conscious of its purpose,
-women without arguments have convinced the world of the complete
-equality of woman with man. And all these women, conquering through
-beauty in one form or another, have done more for the woman movement
-than it has done for them. Certainly the woman movement both directly
-and indirectly has had its share in opening to women musical as well as
-other art academies and schools of applied arts, but academies have a
-doubtful value and the smaller the value, the more gifted the student.
-The new right has thus become dangerous to the independence of real
-gifts and, with all possibilities of education thus opened wide, there
-comes a temptation for fancied talents to pass beyond their bounds. This
-danger, as far as the plastic arts are concerned, has found more and
-more its counterpoise in the schools of applied art, by which many women
-have been directed to the decorative professions, from house and garden
-architecture to fashion designing and holiday decorations.
-
-But in the field of the applied arts, as well as of the plastic arts and
-of music, the facility afforded by the modern conditions of training and
-of public careers has instigated many women, who before had exercised
-their little talent only for the pleasure of the home or society
-circles, to exhibit and appear publicly to the detriment both of the
-home circles and, alas, also of art!
-
-The works of art by women, which humanity could not lose without really
-becoming poorer, have been created, thus far, neither in the sphere of
-music nor of plastic art; they all belong to literature. And this sphere
-the woman movement has not opened to woman; ever since the days of
-Sappho and of Corinna, women have attained fame as writers.
-
-In letters and memoirs not originally designed for publication, next to
-that in the field of romance and the novel, occasionally also in the
-lyric, the feminine character has found thus far its fullest and finest
-expression. In all these fields women have produced works which have
-been placed by men, not it is true beside the _greatest_ works of
-masculine genius in the same domain, yet beside eminent works of men. As
-intermediary of the works of others, woman has not in our time, as in
-the period of enlightenment or in the circle of Goethe, her greatest
-significance through conversations and letters but through the
-printing-press. The modern woman, however, as essayist and biographer,
-as translator and collector, is a valuable intermediary of culture. She
-is also unfortunately a menace to culture, not so much because of the
-inferior works which she produces, for these, like the similar works of
-men, soon sink into oblivion. The real danger lies in the fact that
-women in great multitudes increase the number of those journalists who
-lack intellectual as well as ethical culture, which should be an
-imperative condition in that field of work. But this profession is now,
-on the contrary, the one into which the amateur may most easily force an
-entrance without special training and without professional reputation.
-The result is that men and women who lack both can pull down, in their
-journals, the real work and essential character of serious people,
-without the remotest conception or the faintest comprehension of either.
-On the other hand these cliques of coffee-house people crown one another
-as kings and queens—for a day! The press-breed carries on in leaflets
-its flirtation as well as its vengeance. The knife which the child of
-nature thrusts into a rival’s breast is now transformed into the pen
-with which the reviewer stabs a competitor’s latest work. In a word
-women now furnish to the Press work, occasionally excellent, frequently
-mediocre, all too often worthless. Their womanly characteristics make it
-feasible more frequently for them than for men to adopt more completely
-the rituals of the temple service of the deity of the Press—the Public.
-This “womanliness” evinces itself, especially, in the ability “to grip
-the fleeting moment by its fluttering locks” and also to anticipate when
-that moment’s locks are false and so the grasp prove profitless.
-
-While hosts of women have turned to journalism, they are seldom found in
-the fields to which the woman movement should have directed them: in the
-field of sociological and psychological research. Nearly all significant
-works upon the normal, the abnormal, the criminal psychic life of
-children, young people and women have been written by men. They have
-unfortunately treated the feminine spiritual life in “scientific” works
-also, in which the author dares speak of “woman” even though he knows
-nothing of her except what his own happy or unhappy experiences in a
-mother or sister, wife or sweetheart, have taught him.
-
-The slight title of men to their “scientific method” when they venture
-upon the terra incognita which the soul of woman still is for them,
-explains why they extol, as “scientific,” works of women about women
-which are quite as superficial as those of men themselves. With a few
-exceptions, it is not the physiological-psychological books written by
-women about women which have really taught the present something new
-about womankind in general and the new woman in particular. No, in the
-form of romances, of lyrics or in voluntary confessions, woman has
-contributed the most valuable documents about her sex: on the one hand
-those which indicate the transformations which the woman movement has
-occasioned in woman’s nature, on the other hand those which demonstrate
-the extent to which her fundamental nature has remained unchanged, even
-though this elementary material exhibits many more facets in the modern
-woman than in the woman of any previous time; facets resulting from the
-manifold contacts and frictions with life to which woman now exposes
-herself or is exposed.
-
-From a literary point of view, these books of confession have seldom
-a value which could be compared with that of the, in outer sense,
-objective, classic works which talented women writers of the present
-have produced. Often, however, one of these confessions, in which
-the writer has candidly given her own history, has been of real
-literary value. But even when the works contain mendacities and
-self-extenuations, crass injustice toward men or toward other women,
-as revelations of the modern woman soul they are more valuable for
-the future than the clarified, artistically perfect works of women,
-mentioned above. For the truth about woman in the century of the
-woman is found only in the impassioned books in which the hard
-struggles for freedom, work, right, or fame are recited; or in those
-works impassioned in another way, in which the soul or the blood or
-both cry out their yearning, ever unappeased, in spite of freedom
-and work, right and fame. What we may _to-day_ rightly protest
-against in these books is their recklessness which may _in the
-future_ be regarded as their greatest value.
-
-Because, up to the present time, the most exquisite as well as the most
-horrifying women characters in literature have been created by men, many
-men think that they understand women better than women do themselves.
-And to this extent men are right—that women attain their most sublime
-heights and reach their deepest degradation in and through love. But
-aside from that, women have a much clearer insight and, for that reason,
-a much more intelligent idea of one another than man has of woman. When
-accordingly a woman speaks not only of herself but also of another
-woman—sometimes also of children—we feel already that “the eternal
-feminine” (_das Ewig-Weibliche_) in literature can create a feminine
-art, in the best meaning of the word. For the present we hope, and with
-good reason, that art as well as science will not appear as either
-masculine or feminine but reveal a complete human personality. But this
-does not mean that this personality has fused the masculine and feminine
-qualities into a common humanity and thus enervated it. No, it means
-that, in such a being, masculine and feminine traits exist side by side
-and assert themselves alternately or harmoniously in all their strength.
-In the rank of talent, one may find feminine men and masculine women; in
-that of genius, never. There each one guards fully and completely the
-character of his own sex in addition to the finest attributes of the
-other sex. The distinctively masculine or distinctively feminine
-attributes characterising an _earlier_ culture epoch are on the contrary
-often lacking in these greatest men and women of their time. In other
-words they lack exactly those attributes, hyper-masculine or
-hyper-feminine, by which men and women, not abreast of the times in
-their development, please each other and the masses, in literature as
-well as in life.
-
-In the woman-literature, directly evoked by the woman movement, we can
-read the whole gamut of the feminine nature, from the feminine in the
-highest sense to the feminine in the worst sense. This literature shows
-how unthinkingly and defenceless certain women have plunged into the
-struggle, how rationally and well equipped other women have fought it
-out. The impartiality of this judgment can be proven by the admission
-that in the first-named class I have not infrequently found adherents;
-in the latter class, opponents.
-
-The woman movement itself, partly in lectures and in literary activity,
-partly by means of office-routine and work of organisation, has become a
-new _field of labour_ for women. Even in this field it is found that
-many are called but few are chosen. But when—except after defeat—was an
-army ever seen without baggage?
-
- * * * * *
-
-In the field of _family right_, the woman movement has achieved,
-directly and indirectly, great improvements in the legal position of the
-_unmarried_ woman. The nearest proof is my own country. This has, within
-a period of from seventy to eighty years, granted to the sister the same
-right of inheritance as to the brother; declared the unmarried woman at
-her majority at the same age as man, a majority which was also expanded
-later through the suspension of the right of guardianship on the part of
-the husband, existing for married women. The marriageable age of woman
-was postponed to 17 years. Gradually woman has been placed on an
-equality with man to carry on trade and industry; she has acquired the
-right to hold certain public offices, although many still remain closed
-to her. The married woman on the contrary is still always a minor; if no
-marriage settlement is made the husband has the right to dispose of the
-wife’s property; he has control of their common possessions; he can
-restrict her freedom of work; he has authority over the children. A few
-small progressive steps may nevertheless be pointed out: certain
-reinforcements of the effectiveness of the marriage contract; the right
-to her wages accorded to the wife; certain reforms in regard to the
-division of property and divorce; some improvements in the position of
-children born out of wedlock. In other countries also like reforms have
-been accomplished, directly, through masculine initiative; indirectly,
-through the influence of the woman movement. But everywhere family right
-is still founded upon the principles of paternal right, supremacy of the
-husband over the wife, indissolubility of marriage or solubility under
-greater or less difficulties.
-
-In regard to citizenship I draw my examples also from the land I know
-best. In Sweden, women have long since participated in the choice of
-pastor; for about fifty years they have possessed municipal franchise;
-later in certain cases they have attained also municipal eligibility,
-for example, to the school board, board of charities, and now finally to
-the town council. Still others could be cited. In other countries women
-have sometimes more sometimes less civic right; only in a few countries
-have they won _political_ franchise; in a single one, Finland, also
-political eligibility.
-
-In the sphere of family right, as well as civic right, the woman
-movement has then much more remaining to conquer than it has thus far
-won. But I am convinced that the little girls I see down below in the
-garden playing “mother and child” will possess all the rights due the
-wife, the mother, and the citizen.
-
-The woman movement, in its present form, has accomplished its task if it
-has procured for every woman the _legal_ right to develop and practise
-her individual characteristics unhindered because of her sex. But after
-this emancipation of the woman as a _human being_ and a citizen, there
-remains her emancipation as a _woman_. And here no transformation of
-forms of thought and feeling, of manners and customs, attainable by any
-legal provisions or paragraphs, avail. The present woman movement has
-created and still continues to create the social _conditions_ for this
-last emancipation. But it will not approve such far extending results of
-its own work. It desires the same _rights_ but also the same duties for
-all women. If a single woman uses the freedom, which the woman movement
-has procured for her as a member of society, to fashion her individual
-life according to the deepest demands of her being, then the old guard
-trembles before the outcome of the battle for freedom in which it fought
-so valiantly.
-
-But nothing is more certain than that the feminine personality, whether
-her innermost desire be spiritual creative instinct, erotic happiness,
-maternal bliss, or universal human goodness, will acquire ever new forms
-of expression: forms of expression which the once liberal, now more
-conservative feminists and the modern socialistic feminists partly do
-not divine and partly—divining—deplore! For the present even the
-“emancipated” woman follows as a rule the paths which social custom has
-marked out for her sex, as well as the cultural ideas which have been,
-thus far, those of man. But if, in the coming thousand years, a
-_feminine_ culture shall really supplement the masculine, then this will
-be exactly in the measure in which women have the courage to create and
-to act as most feminists now do not even dare think. Then it will be
-evident that _all_ social movements of the present time, especially the
-woman movement and socialism, are only the work of the path finder for
-the masculine and feminine superman or, if you prefer the older
-expression, _complete man_.
-
-Like other “old guards,” the veterans of feminism will not surrender
-but will fall upon the field of battle. The little girls there below
-will one day celebrate their memory. For through their struggles the
-way became free for youth, the way which leads out to the wide sea
-where perhaps shipwreck awaits the one who ventures out into the
-darkness with her fragile skiff. But many will brave the voyage and
-bide their fate, strong, proud, and composed as the maiden in
-Schwind’s _Wasserfahrt_—that splendid symbol of the woman of the
-future.
-
-
-
-
- CHAPTER II
- THE INNER RESULTS OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT
-
-
-If I now start out to consider the woman soul as it has developed itself
-under the influence of all the circumstances mentioned above, perhaps
-many will expect a theory about the character of the feminine soul life.
-But, at present, when the greatest problems of psychology are in
-revolution and undecided, such a theory would be as scientifically
-impossible as aphorisms are unanswerable. Likewise, conclusions, based
-upon experience, concerning the psychic peculiarity of woman would be in
-this chaotic transition period, superficial, if they attempted to be
-absolute. Only _one_ decided opinion about the spiritual life of woman I
-cannot—in consequence of my monistic-evolutionary conception of the
-spiritual and physical life—refrain from expressing. This opinion is
-that, in the one hundred thousand years at least in which woman has
-practised the physical maternal functions, the spiritual attributes
-_essential_ for motherhood must have been so strongly developed by her
-that this development has had, and still has always, as a result a
-pronounced difference between the feminine and masculine soul—that is to
-say, everywhere where the soul, as well as the body of a woman, is
-adapted and desirous of motherhood—a fitness and readiness which can
-still be called the _normal_ condition. The spiritual qualities which
-maternity required have become the attributes of “womanliness,” the
-qualities which paternity required, have become the attributes of
-“manliness.” This difference has become quite as significant for the
-functional fitness of both sexes for the perpetuation and development of
-the race, as for the wealth of life of each new generation. The
-obliteration or retention of this difference is therefore a vital
-question for mankind.
-
-Figuratively expressed, this seems to me the process: from a common root
-of universal human spiritual life issue two stems which can again unite
-in their blossoming. The ramification has necessarily involved a
-division of labour in two equally important spheres. From this point of
-view I give, in the following, my opinion of the value of the influence
-of the woman movement upon the spiritual life of woman.
-
-We all know that life expresses itself as movement, that movement brings
-with it change, transformation; that this can mean quite as well
-disintegration as higher organisation.
-
-The woman movement is the most significant of all movements for freedom
-in the world’s history. The question whether this movement leads mankind
-in a higher or lower direction is the most serious question of the time.
-Those who assert unconditionally the former or the latter have uttered a
-premature judgment. The question must be formulated thus:
-
-(_a_) Has the woman movement brought to mankind a higher degree of vital
-force, a greater faculty for self-preservation, a more complete
-organisation, by which the more simple forms have become more finely
-complex, the more uniform have become richer, more diverse; the
-incoherent have attained a more perfect unity? Or has the woman movement
-called forth an activity which represses life? degrades, scatters, and
-reduces the powers to uniformity, in society and in mankind?
-
-(_b_) Is woman’s spiritual life now in general above the level at which
-it was in the beginning of the woman movement? Have modern women finer
-perceptions, deeper feelings, clearer ideas, a firmer will, richer
-association of ideas? Do their spiritual faculties so work together that
-they mutually enhance instead of hinder one another? In a word is the
-modern woman more soulful than the woman of any other time?
-
-(_c_) Is the body of the modern woman, at all stages of life, stronger,
-more healthy, and more beautiful than that of the woman of the previous
-century, when the woman movement began in real earnest in Europe?
-
-(_d_) Does the modern woman perform in more perfect manner than the
-woman of that time, the physical and psychic functions of motherhood?
-
-If the question be put thus then the _objective_ investigator must
-answer to all—“_Yes and No_.”
-
-But if this investigator is an evolutionist, then he knows that the
-progress of every social evolution is like that which womankind is now
-experiencing. We see first, how, in any given sphere of society, where
-those engaged therein have attained a pure, instinctive certainty in
-their actions through laws and customs, the individuals oppressed by
-these laws and customs must rebel against the limits, drawn from
-without, for the development and exercise of their powers. This revolt
-occasions at first a stage of anarchy in which everything seems to
-collapse—while in the previous conserving epoch “crystallisation”
-furnished the vital danger! But after such an anarchistic stage there
-comes infallibly the constructive stage, where _a part of the old is
-organised, incorporated, into the new_. But this acts no longer as
-instinctive impulse. No, mankind has become conscious anew of these
-values of law and custom; they have been recognised by the thought,
-encompassed by feeling, sanctioned by the will as still always
-indispensable, in another and higher form it is true than that against
-which the individuals rebelled. But just as the leaves which once grew
-green above in the summer light, gradually become one with the earth, so
-the motives of the new customs sink gradually down into the unknown; man
-acts again with instinctive certainty and uniformity—until the new
-period of stagnation evokes a new rebellion and achievement of
-individualism.
-
-The woman movement finds itself now at a point where it is about to pass
-from the dynamic stage to a static stage. Exactly at this point a survey
-begins to be possible; and it is also necessary for every one who
-believes that the ideal, as well as the practical direction of the woman
-movement, in future, must be influenced by the knowledge gained about
-the effect of the movement, thus far, upon the uplifting of the life of
-mankind.
-
-Every great achievement of individualism is as inconsiderate as the
-spring tide and must be, in order to have strength for its task. The
-woman movement was so also. But it encountered two other great ideas of
-the time, Socialism and Evolutionism, and in consequence the woman
-movement was obliged to modify gradually its conception of the feminine
-individual and of her position in existence.
-
-On the one hand, as has been already shown, man has had to understand
-that “open competition” and “individual initiative” are not absolute
-political-economic truths. On the other hand, the defender of women’s
-rights has been forced to understand more and more that woman’s soul is
-no unchangeable value which must remain the same however much the
-spheres have changed toward which this spiritual life directed itself
-and from which it received its impression. While feminists fifty years
-ago scorned the objection that “womanliness” would be lost in business
-life or in politics, now the evolutionist mind in thinking women
-understands that all human soul life is subject to the law of change;
-that just as indisputably as the soul life of man is changed by
-different vocations and surroundings, so that of woman also must be
-changed. The feminists founded their dogma that the woman movement can
-_only benefit_ woman, man, the child, the family, society, mankind upon
-the conviction of the _stability_ of “true womanliness.”
-
-And if the woman movement had not had this religious certainty of
-belief, how could it have withstood the mass of prejudice and stupidity
-which it encountered in its own, as well as in the other sex? The woman
-movement has conquered because it was self-intoxicated.
-
-And quite naturally! After a stability of centuries, during which the
-position of woman was altered only in and with the general progress of
-culture, women finally recognised that they could accelerate their own
-progress and with it also the somewhat snail-like course of universal
-human culture. And so woman asserted herself and increased her motion.
-The faster this movement became, the more was she seized by the
-intoxication which always accompanies every vigorous physical or psychic
-movement. And when has a movement of the time advanced more rapidly?
-
-Folk-migrations, crusades, slave rebellions, revolutions have led a
-race, a class, a group, beyond certain geographical or social
-boundaries. The emancipation of women has shifted and extended the
-limits of the freedom of movement of _half mankind_. No wonder that the
-extent of the movement _in and for itself_ was advanced as proof of the
-infallibility of its direction. All points of departure, the natural
-right of man, individual freedom, social necessity—all led out into the
-sun, which, in society as in nature, should radiate over woman as well
-as over man; they led up onto the summit where man and woman both should
-breathe the air of the heights. All obstacles which were raised with the
-help of arguments such as, “the nature of woman,” “the welfare of the
-family,” “the idea of society,” “the purpose of God”—all proved
-temporary. And of necessity—for the innermost law of life, the law of
-development, of life enhancement, carried the movement forward. When it
-began, the Biblical expression about the wind was quoted, “Man knows not
-whence it comes nor whither it goes.” Now all know it. Now the spirit of
-the time speaks with “feminist” voice. The ideas of emancipation “are in
-the air,” like bacilli, by which only savages are thus far wholly
-untouched.
-
-There are now no great movements of the time whose path does not run
-parallel with or cut across the woman movement. Every new generation is
-involuntarily and unconsciously drawn along with it. The ends already
-attained seem to the present age obvious; the ends, for which man is
-still struggling to-day, will appear equally obvious to the future. The
-woman movement is now a power with which even its most bitter
-adversaries must reckon. And this force has so quickly attained
-prominence exactly as a result of fanaticism. Just as the White and the
-Blue Nile mingle their waters in the main stream, so in every great
-current of time enthusiasm is mingled with fanaticism. And it is the
-latter which bears the most fruit, for it gives power of growth to the
-passions of the majority, good as well as bad.
-
-Every great idea begins with great promulgators. The promulgator who has
-the spirit does not hold to the letter. And the woman movement which was
-spirit began also with women and men who did not follow the call of the
-spirit of the time; no, who from lonely heights sent out their awakening
-call _to_ the time. Men who give their age new ideals have always
-religious natures. This means, according to a good definition, that they
-are “individualists in their being, social in their action.”
-
-Such natures burn, above all, with the passion to find themselves. Then
-they burn with the passion to sacrifice themselves in order to help
-others, whose suffering or wrongs they feel as deeply as if they were
-their own. No one who passively endures an injustice against himself has
-the material in him to struggle for the rights of others. The one who
-patiently forbears becomes an accessory to the injustice done to others.
-He who resists the injustice which he himself meets can open up the way
-to a higher right for others. Such path-finders were the first apostles
-of the emancipation of women. They consecrated to this task a faith
-which required no proof, a faith which saw visions and heard melodies of
-the glorious future that their victory would prepare for mankind. They
-emanated neither from scientific investigations, nor from systems of
-political economy, nor from philosophic evidence, nor theories of
-political science. They flung themselves into the struggle with
-inadequate weapons, without plan of campaign, just as do all impelled by
-the spirit. But such a method always evokes later dissension among the
-disciples. Sects are formed, gradually a church is crystallised, an
-orthodoxy, a papacy, and an inquisition. This course is physically
-necessary as long as mankind is still in greatest part a mass. A Paul
-more “Christian” than Christ and a Luther more “Paulist” than Paul are
-met also in the woman movement.
-
-This has now, among most people of culture, passed beyond the stage of
-the great apostles and martyrs and heralds. The movement has reached the
-point where certain typical manifestations, certain conventional forms
-testify that the masses—which stoned the prophets—have now, since the
-ideas of the woman movement have become truisms, banalities, the
-fashion, appropriated them to themselves and endeavour to transform them
-to their image and adapt them to their needs.
-
-Again and again the old tale repeats itself: the trolls steal the
-weapons of the gods but they cannot use them. Again and again there is
-occasion to deplore the fact that the autocrat of genius, whether he
-rule over a people or a kingdom of ideas, has heirs, heirs who diminish
-his work. Again and again it must be recognised that no spiritual
-formation vanishes at one blow. The servile mind, intrigue, pettiness,
-delusion—all that, from which the great spirits of the woman movement
-hoped to “emancipate” woman—could not suddenly vanish out of the world.
-And since all this must go somewhere it finally finds room in the woman
-movement itself!
-
-But on the other side—since after all everything has another side—it
-must be admitted that the levelling and conserving tendency of the
-average person is of real value at the stage _when an idea begins to be
-transformed into law and custom_.
-
-Those who can work only in crowds receive their significance _exactly
-because of their collective work_. They push aside the “individual
-emancipation” which they do not need for their own part, since they have
-no individuality to emancipate. But by diligent and efficient work they
-succeed in securing certain results, which are the common cause of all.
-So the Philistines make for themselves a footstool of that which was a
-stumbling-block for their congenial souls in the previous generation.
-From this height they look down upon the new truth of _their_ time. And
-those who perceive and uphold this new truth turn aside from the great
-uniformed army which now advances safely where the little vanguard has
-previously and laboriously opened up the way. Those who turn aside will
-form the new vanguard when it comes to achieving, in the spirit of the
-first apostle, the emancipation not only of _women in the mass_, but of
-_each individual woman_. When the present work of the woman movement for
-joint, common ends shall no longer be necessary, because one end after
-another has been attained, then comes the task of the present “radical”
-feminism: the accomplishment of “emancipation” by leading it up to those
-free heights which already the path-finders are endeavouring to attain,
-the heights where every feminine individuality can choose her own path
-of life, perhaps at variance with all others; can choose it in freedom,
-answerable only to her own conscience. Although this summary grouping
-historically as well as psychologically corresponds approximately to the
-past, present, and future of the woman movement, yet there are so many
-ramifications of the three groups into one another, that the woman
-movement now exhibits a tangled confusion in which every exact
-demarcation is impossible.
-
-Whoever lives to witness it will see the course of progress just
-described—for which the modern labour movement offers quite as good
-material for observation as the woman movement—repeat itself in the next
-great emancipation movement. I mean the movement for the right and
-freedom of the _child_, which will be the unconditional result of the
-victory of the woman and labour movements. This idea is still in the
-morning-clear hour of inspiration. But from the cry, “Away with the
-child destroying home training,” we can hear that the troop of
-Philistines will appear by afternoon upon the scene, to adopt the idea
-into their midst!
-
-By means of the comparison with socialism, I have endeavoured to
-emphasise that the woman movement’s formation of dogmas and its
-doctrinary fanaticism are not effects of the peculiarity of the
-_feminine_ mind. These phenomena are typical of every movement of the
-time thus far observed. They are essential above all because a new
-belief without dogma and without ritual is for the masses a sword
-without a hilt: it offers nothing tangible, nothing whereby the masses
-can come into relation with the idea.
-
-That certain feminists still believe that the woman movement has
-advanced just as the exodus of the Children of Israel out of the land of
-bondage, that is to say, under God’s special protection against
-wandering astray; that they stigmatise as “treason” and “defection” the
-assertion that this movement was determined by the same psychological
-and sociological laws as every other movement for freedom—this shows to
-how high a degree many leaders of the woman movement lack elementary
-psychological and sociological conceptions. This deficiency is, however,
-being continually remedied. And in the generation which now advances,
-dogmatic fanaticism has well nigh vanished, but pure enthusiasm is
-preserved.
-
-We can thus expect from this generation a clearer understanding of the
-necessary _social_ repressions which the woman movement has now
-sufficient strength to impose upon itself without forfeiting thereby its
-character of a _movement for freedom_. As such it cannot and dare not
-cease until it has attained _all_ its ends. As long as the law treats
-women as one race, men as another, _there is a woman question_. Not
-until man and woman, equal and united, work together for mankind will
-the woman movement belong to the past.
-
-
-
-
- CHAPTER III
- THE INFLUENCE OF THE WOMAN QUESTION UPON SINGLE WOMEN
-
-
-The following comparisons between the life of women, especially their
-spiritual life of about fifty years ago and their life as it has shaped
-itself under the influence of the woman movement, have been arranged in
-_descending_ scale. They begin with that phase of women’s life in which
-this influence was most favourable from the point of view of life
-enhancement, namely with the life of _unmarried_ women.
-
-You will find to-day, among women seventy or eighty years of age, one or
-another type of that fine culture which the gifted single woman, in
-comfortable circumstances, could attain in the previous century. Her
-home, especially if it was an estate in the country, became a cultural
-fireside which radiated light and heat for relatives and friends. The
-lesser gifted disseminated, each according to her nature, comfort or
-discomfort, yet could in extremity at least be sure of the homage of
-their future heirs. Toward those dependent upon them, these women were
-sometimes kind, sometimes indifferent, sometimes hard: the feeling of
-social responsibility was an unknown idea to them. The _penniless_
-single women, on the contrary, were found either in one of the
-“respectable” positions which, however, brought with them a multitude of
-humiliations: as governess, companion, housekeeper—in Germany also as
-maid of honour at one of the numerous small courts—or in some charitable
-institution for gentle folks, an asylum for _pauvres honteuses_; but
-most frequently in the corner of the home of a relative. This corner was
-at times the warmest and most confidential in the whole house, that
-corner which the children sought for stories and sweetmeats; the youth,
-to find an embrace in which he could pour forth his grief, an ear which
-listened to his most beautiful dreams. But it happened more frequently
-that the “aunt” looked upon as a “necessary evil” was in reality that
-very thing. Humiliated and embittered, she became ingenious in making
-those about her suffer for her afflictions. Before they became
-hopelessly old, the “aunts” were the laughing stock of the young through
-their efforts, in the eleventh hour, to reach the “peaceful haven of
-matrimony”; and they themselves looked with envious eyes upon the good
-fortune of the young. We meet the unmarried woman of that time at her
-best as trusty servant who shared the cares, the joys, and the sorrows
-of the family and, in her garret chamber, of which she could be certain
-to the day of her death, she looked back upon a rich life lived
-vicariously. Not infrequently, she rejected a marriage proposal in order
-to stay with her beloved master and mistress to whom she knew she was
-indispensable. The superfluous women previously mentioned would have
-thrown themselves into the arms of Beelzebub had he come as suitor. When
-the years passed, when neither their desire for activity nor the thirst
-of the heart nor of the senses was quenched, then not infrequently
-insanity conjured up for these lonely women a life-content for which
-they had longed in vain. To-day, however, we have for the position which
-the expression, “a forsaken old maid,” betokens an entirely new type:
-“the glorified spinster,” as the joyous, active, independent unmarried
-woman is called by the people among whom she first became a reality.
-Among these women, independent through their work, useful to society,
-that older type is still occasionally found perhaps, a survival of the
-time when emancipation was rather generally interpreted as freedom for
-masculinity. The “man-woman” in masculine attire, with weapons of
-defence against man in one hand and a cigarette in the other, her soul
-filled with mad ambition for her own sex and, as representative of her
-entire sex, with hatred toward the other, was however always rare. Now,
-she has almost entirely vanished, except alas, the cigarette. But she
-smokes it now often with—masculine friends! She follows in her mode of
-life, as in her dress, the law of good taste—not to offend; she
-endeavours, if only with a flower or two, to give a glimmer of cosy
-comfort to her place of work. This comfort, which often comes into the
-public life with woman is perhaps the reason why many men, who first
-looked with indignation upon feminine fellow-workmen, would now miss
-them. The more personal the culture of these women becomes, the more
-they endeavour, according to their time and means, to express their
-personality in the lines and colours of their dress and in the
-arrangement of their room. Those best situated often succeed, toward the
-end of their working days, in winning their own little home which they
-perhaps share with a friend, or they join a co-operative enterprise and
-can thus raise their standard of living. The same women who, at
-twenty-five, scornfully declared that they “would never bury their head
-in a sauce-pan,” are now, at fifty, consciously aware of the
-significance of the table for the activity of the brain; indeed they are
-now quite as proud if they have prepared a good dish as they were in
-their youth when they passed a fine examination!
-
-It is not to be wondered at that the emancipated women, exactly as all
-recently emancipated masculine classes and races, at first groped
-insecurely after a new form. The astonishing thing, on the contrary, is
-that women adapted themselves so quickly to the new circumstances; that
-the transition period furnished so few grotesque types; that the present
-shows so many harmonious types, each in her own way. This harmony of
-single women is no mere form. It has its inner counterpart in the
-satisfaction with their existence, an existence in accord with their
-desires. The psychology was not exhaustive which saw in feminism only a
-“spinster question,” a question of the unmarried woman, springing from
-the surplus of women and the increasing difficulty or disinclination of
-men to contract marriage—a question therefore for the ugly, not for the
-beautiful; for the unmarried, not for the married; for the poor, not for
-the rich. For a great number of beautiful women prefer to remain
-unmarried; a great number of rich desire to work; a great number of
-married women are zealous suffragists. Fifty years ago, we saw the most
-clever women idealise an ape into a god; now, the modern, intelligent
-working girl, when she looks about her for her ideal, exercises a lively
-criticism. She often flirts with one who exhibits some phase of the
-ideal, but she has too clear an understanding and too much to do to
-_imagine_ a great feeling for one who is unworthy. So it often happens
-that youth has passed without such a feeling having stirred her. And she
-enters without deep regret the age when ambition and desire for power
-become her life stimulants. From these women of predominating mind and
-will is formed more and more what Ferrero calls “The third sex,”
-Maudsley, “The sexless ant”: energetic, clever, happy in their work,
-cool, but sound; in private life, in the zeal of everyday work, often
-egoistic but willing to make sacrifices in face of social exigencies.
-
-So a great part of the fifty-year-old women form an exception since they
-with true instinct have remained unmarried. For in the same degree that
-their metallic being is well adapted to the machinery of society, it is
-little qualified to make a home for husband and children. They do not
-depreciate however the value of this task, unless they be fanatic
-feminists. In that event they reproach the women who wish to marry with
-“betraying the woman cause”; they demand at times, as imperative loyalty
-toward this cause, that their friends shall protest against the present
-marriage laws at least by the form of their marriage alliance if not
-even by not marrying at all. Their theory of equality has at times been
-carried so far that—as recently happened in France—they advocate women’s
-performing also masculine military service.
-
-But in spite of their aridity and inflexibility of principle how much
-more human are even these feminists than the “ill-natured” aunts of
-earlier times who became ill-natured exactly because their temperament
-was of the kind mentioned above, but who could find no sphere of
-operation for their passionate longing for activity. One or another was
-perhaps burning with ambition. For there are women as well as men who
-can live only as pagan gods, in the blaze and perfume of sacrificial
-fires. In their youth these ambitious natures could be satisfied by
-triumphs in social life. But later the passion became a fire in a powder
-cask and occasioned incessant explosions. Now it is the electric motive
-power for an activity of general utility. The “aunts” of the earlier
-time who felt themselves always overlooked and injured are most easily
-recognised again in the literary and artistic field to which daily bread
-or ambition now urges many women, who endeavour to compensate by
-energetic work for the talent which nature denied them. Since these
-women are ordinarily not people of understanding but of feeling, they
-must in a double sense be dissatisfied with a life which in addition is,
-in most cases, still filled with economic cares and the humiliations
-arising therefrom. And yet in spite of all, how much richer is their
-life to-day than it would have been fifty years ago when they would have
-been obliged to sit and draw their needles through interminable pieces
-of handwork, after ugly patterns and for unnecessary uses, or to compose
-sentimental birthday verses for persons whom they abominated.
-
-Yet there are always those women natures who, in the past, had the
-qualifications for a real “dear aunt,” who gently calmed the conflicts
-and filled the gaps in the home of which they had become members. The
-most tender and sensitive of these modern women, who, rain or shine,
-year in year out, hasten to and from a work indifferent to them at
-heart, not infrequently breathe a sigh of longing for those times when,
-as “aunts,” they could have received and imparted warmth in a home. But
-then again there come moments when they know how to value the
-independence which puts them in a position to give help where otherwise
-there would be none; when for example they can send a nephew to college,
-or a friend to a sanatarium, or provide their mother with a nurse, which
-they themselves can not be.
-
-This kind of single woman fulfills more or less the office of family
-provider just as she also is always ready with word and deed in circles
-of friends and comrades. These women are so engrossed that the time of
-love, sometimes love itself, passes them by without their observing it.
-Their youth flees and they feel with sadness that their woman’s life is
-unlived. But they persuade themselves that they have had enough in their
-work, that many little joys can take the place of great happiness. And
-they believe this as truly as the infant believes he is satisfied when
-he sucks his own thumb. But some of these women acknowledge perhaps,
-when they have passed the fifties, that they were often tempted to call
-out to the first best man, “Give me a child.” Sometimes it happens that
-in their last youth they appease their mother longing by adopting a
-foster child; sometimes they still this longing by a child of their own,
-from a love relation or a marriage. This late and uncertain happiness is
-often made possible exactly through their work. And then, if not
-earlier, they bless this work which gives them the economic possibility,
-and thereby also the courage, for this hazardous adventure.
-
-More frequent than these are the cases however where single women, who
-have passed their first youth, find in friendship for another woman a
-valve for their, in great part, unused feelings. In some natures this
-friendship will be jealous and exacting, in others true and devoted. I
-wish to emphasise that I speak here of entirely _natural spiritual
-conditions_. There is to-day much talk about “Sapphic” women; and it is
-even possible that they exist in that impure form which men imagine. I
-have never met them, presumably because we rarely meet in life those
-with whom no fibre of our being has any affinity. But I have often
-observed that the spiritually refined women of our time, just as
-formerly the spiritually refined men of Hellas, find most easily in
-their own sex the qualities which set their spiritual life in the finest
-vibration of admiration, inspiration, sympathy and adoration.
-
- * * * * *
-
-The fundamental types of single women depicted here—the person of
-intellect and the person of feeling—are found everywhere. The former
-according to current opinion already predominate in America; in Europe,
-it seems to me, the latter still prevail. That the main classes include
-innumerable varieties, it is needless to say. There are for example the
-numerous, quite ordinary, family girls who would be happy if they could
-give up their independence in order to enjoy the protection of their
-parents’ or their own home. And the same obtains also with the quite as
-ancient type of woman, Undine, who—soulless and cold—enslaves all men.
-If she is in any civic vocation, she knows how to get the smallest
-amount of work for herself and, in case she is engaged in the artistic
-field, the best possible criticism. Conscience is an acquaintance which
-she has never made and she is also of the opinion that everything
-agreeable is permitted to her; she simply slides past anything
-disagreeable. Although work belongs to these disagreeable things, she
-continues it until she has found means to place her “qualities” in the
-most advantageous manner upon the matrimonial market.
-
-The diametrical antithesis of this curvilinear type is the rectilinear.
-It has, just as the preceding type, existed at all times. It is the
-woman who really never demanded anything of life but “a work and a duty”
-and finds both in abundance in all positions of life. She is found year
-in year out at her desk, in appropriate working garb, free from all
-æsthetics; proud “if she never has needed to miss a day”; proud that she
-never has come late. On the contrary she never _goes_ on time. For she
-has so grown into the business or the office that she takes everything
-upon herself that is required without murmuring, as a well-disciplined
-soldier in the ranks of the grey working army; thankful, in addition, if
-her long working cares yield her a little life annuity or pension for
-her old age. This type is found principally among women over
-fifty—fortunately. For this class of women which the pre-feministic
-circumstances created, have, by their “frugality” carried almost to the
-verge of criminality, by their humble, conscientious servitude, lowered
-the wages of their colleagues who are more full of life. These latter
-have begun work in the hope that it finally will “free” them; that is,
-will give them something of that for which their innermost being longs,
-not only their daily bread—a bread which sickness or a turn of affairs
-moreover can take from them at any time. And perhaps they never succeed
-even in having their own room where they at least could have repose!
-Underpaid, overworked, tired to death, who can wonder if these women
-have lost, if they ever possessed them, the essential characteristics of
-“womanhood”—active kindness, repose even in movement, charming
-gentleness? The Icelandic poet of yore already knew that “Few become
-fair through wounds.” These women must put all their strength into their
-work and into the effort to conceal their underpayment by “respectable”
-clothing, or else lose their positions. In everything else they must
-economise to the utmost and perhaps in addition be laughed at because of
-their economy. They succeed, often admirably, in maintaining themselves
-in proud fair struggle, in rejecting “erotic” perquisites to add to
-their income and in fulfilling conscientiously the requirements of their
-work. Yet to do this with lively interest, with preserved spiritual
-elasticity, with quiet amiability—for this their strength does not
-suffice, exhausted by insufficient nourishment, insufficient sleep,
-still more insufficient recreation, and strained daily to the utmost.
-Their nervousness finds vent in either hard or hysterical expression and
-the public, annoyed by their ill-humour, divines little of the tragedies
-enacted in offices, business houses, cafés or similar places. If a
-suicide concludes the tragedy, the public shudders for a moment and—all
-goes on as before.
-
-Thus “emancipation” presents itself in reality for millions of women. To
-what extent the middle-class woman movement is indirectly to blame for
-this fact has already been emphasised.
-
-The essential reason is however the prevailing economic condition of
-society. By the uninterrupted fever of competition and the accumulation
-of riches, it dries up the soul and robs it of goodness as well as of
-joy. When the great, beautiful, eternal sources of joy are exhausted,
-the life stimulus is sought in exclusively physical pleasures, which are
-always made more exciting in order to be able to arouse still, in the
-languid nervous system, feelings of desire. Moreover, there is the
-neurosis and weariness of life of the overworked, of those continually
-quaking about their material safety, of those who _could_ be revived by
-the noble and simple joys of life, to which those jaded with riches are
-already not susceptible; but for all these millions and millions such
-joys are not accessible because hunger for profit depresses wages. If in
-addition to that we take into account the increasing suffering of the
-best because of the ever developing feeling of solidarity; and if
-finally we consider that women, who through the protection of the home
-could preserve something of warmth-irradiating energy, are now in
-increasing numbers driven out of the home, then we have some of the
-reasons which—in higher degree than the religious and philosophic
-reasons which _also_ exist—contribute to the joylessness of our time.
-
- * * * * *
-
-A contribution to the meagre stock of good fortune of the present time
-is furnished however by the joy of life among young girls working under
-favourable conditions. Among them we meet a new soul condition, which
-could be designated, as briefly as possible, as _covetousness_ of
-everything which can promote their personal development and a beautiful
-_liberality_ with what is thus won. They can gratify their energetic
-desire for self-development by sport, travel, books, art and other means
-of culture; their freedom of action between working hours is not
-restricted by private duties. They can utilise their leisure time and
-their income as they please: for recreation, pleasure, social
-intercourse, social work or private, charitable activity. No father nor
-husband encroaches upon their free agency. And so dear does this liberty
-become to them through the manifold joys which it furnishes, that these
-young girls, in constantly increasing numbers, refuse to relinquish
-their individual independence for the sake of a marriage which, even
-presupposing the happiest love, always means a restriction of the
-freedom of movement that they enjoyed while single. And since the modern
-woman knows that, in the sphere of spiritual values, nothing can be
-attained without sacrifice, she prefers to keep free agency and to
-sacrifice love. If she chooses in the opposite direction, the task of
-adaptation will be the more difficult, the longer and the more intensely
-she has enjoyed freedom. The modern young girl, if she deigns to bestow
-her hand upon a man, not infrequently has her pretty head so crammed
-full of principles of equality that she sometimes (frequently in
-America), by written contract establishes her independence to the
-smallest detail, which sometimes includes separate apartments and the
-prohibition that either of the contracting parties shall have the key to
-the apartment of the other.
-
-There are many varieties of the new type of woman. There is for instance
-the tom-boy, the “gamin,” who for her life cannot give up the right to
-mad pranks and mischievous jokes. There is the girl consumed with
-ambition, who sacrifices all other values in order to attain the goal of
-her ambition in art or science. There is the fanatically altruistic
-girl, who considers the work for mankind so important that she feels she
-has not the right to an “egoistic” love happiness. There is the ascetic
-ethereal girl, who looks upon marriage and child-bearing as animal
-functions, unworthy of a spiritual being, but above all as
-_unbeautiful_. And for many of these modern, æsthetically refined,
-nervously sensitive young girls the æsthetic point of view is decisive.
-All love the work which permits them to live according to their ideals.
-Still it often happens that Ovidian metamorphoses take place: that the
-young girl sees the cloud or the swan transformed into a god, upon whose
-altar she sacrifices, with joy, her free agency and everything else
-which only a few weeks earlier she cherished as her holy of holies. The
-men who view this process with a smile, think that the anti-erotic
-ideals were only a new weapon of defence in the eternal war between the
-sexes. But these men often learn how mistaken they were when they
-themselves become participators in the war. They meet women so proud, so
-sensitive regarding their independence, so merciless in their strength,
-so easily wounded in their instincts, so zealous to devote themselves to
-their personal task, so determined to preserve their freedom, that
-erotic harmony seldom can be realised. Yes, these women often repudiate
-love only because it becomes a bond to their freedom, a hindrance to
-their work, a force for the bending of their will to another’s will.
-
-The women, womanly in their innermost depths, who really feel free only
-when they give themselves wholly, are becoming continually more rare.
-But where such a wholly devoted woman still exists, she is the highest
-type of woman which any period has produced. Especially if she springs
-from a family of old culture. She has then, combined in her personality,
-the best of tradition and the best of the revolution evoked by the woman
-movement. The fibres of her being absorb their nourishment with
-instinctive certainty out of the fruitful soil which pride, devotion to
-duty, family love, requirements of culture and refinement of form, for
-many generations, have created. But her conscious soul-life flowers in
-the sun of the present; she thinks new thoughts and has new aims. Just
-as little as she disavows her desire for love, so little does she desire
-love under other conditions than those of spiritual unity and human
-equality. If she meets the man who can give her this and if she loves
-him, then he can be more certain than the man of any other time that he
-is really loved, that no ulterior motive obscures the devotion of this
-free woman. He has seen her susceptible to all the riches of life; has
-seen her assist in social tasks, perform the duty of every day joyful in
-her work, proud of her independence attained through her work. He knows
-that just as she is she would have continued to be if he had not entered
-into her life. How different is this girl from the one of earlier times,
-who was driven by the emptiness of her life into continual love affairs,
-which could not lead to a marriage nor exist in a marriage that
-possessed nothing of love!
-
-This most beautiful new type of woman approaches spiritually the
-aforementioned type of single, aged women, who because of their economic
-independence found time for a fine personal culture. These followed not
-infrequently in their youth, from a distance it is true, but with joyous
-sympathy, the progress of the woman movement. They shook their heads
-later over its extremes. With new joy they regard the young girls just
-described, in whom they find a more universal development than in
-themselves, because these young girls have been developed through active
-consumption of power which was spared to the older women, although they
-must have summoned much _passive_ energy in order to maintain their
-personality against convention. The young girls find often in these
-older women a fine understanding, which they richly reciprocate. Such
-terms of friendship are the most beautiful which the present has to
-offer: they resemble the meeting of the morning and evening red in the
-bright midsummer nights of the North.
-
-No time could have been so rich in exquisite feminine personalities, at
-all ages and in all stages of life, as ours. We must not draw our
-conclusions regarding the abundance of such women, in the older culture
-epochs, from the illustrious names of women which incessantly recur in
-the pictures of the earlier times—like stage soldiers—until they give
-the illusion of a great host.
-
-But exquisite women are even to-day exceptional. The Martha type rather
-than the Mary type predominates. This is due on one hand to decreasing
-piety, on the other hand to the kind of working and society life. Fifty
-years ago single women were often spiritually petrified, now more often
-they cannot succeed in settling into any form. Their existence, turned
-outwardly, widens their sphere of interest but makes their soul-life
-shallow. Restlessness is most unfavourable to the “development of the
-personality,” which was however the goal of the emancipation of woman.
-This development is delayed most of all perhaps by the lack of personal
-contact with other personalities, of immediate, intimate human
-connections. This can, from no point of view, be supplied by the society
-or club life in which single women are to-day absorbed.
-
-
-
-
- CHAPTER IV
- THE INFLUENCE OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT UPON THE DAUGHTERS
-
-
-As late as sixty or seventy years ago, the daughters of good families
-had still few points of contact with life outside the four walls of the
-home. From the hands of nurse-maids they went into those of the
-governess, and after confirmation, studies were at an end. If it was a
-cultured home then reading aloud or music was often practised, whereby
-it is true no “specific education” qualifying them for examinations was
-attained, but frequently a fine universal human culture. There was
-always employment in the house for the zeal for work. The great presses
-were filled with linen which was not infrequently spun and woven by the
-daughters; in the autumn they assembled for sausage-making and candle
-dipping; later, for Christmas baking and roasting; in summer endless
-rows of glasses of preserves were set in the store-room. Before
-Christmas, night after night, Christmas presents were made; after
-Christmas, night after night, they danced. At these balls those in outer
-respects uncomely, received a foretaste of that waiting which must fill
-their life for many long years: would the invitation to the dance—or the
-wooing respectively—come or not? Every man whose shadow merely fell upon
-the scene, was immediately considered from the point of view of a
-suitor. As the years went by the girl, who before twenty-five years of
-age was considered an “old maid,” saw how the glance of the father and
-the brothers became gloomy, yes, she could even hear how “unfortunate”
-she was. If such a daughter lived in a home poor in books—and most of
-them were—then she could not even procure a book she wished. For the
-daughters worked year in year out without wages, in case they did not
-receive meagrely doled out pin-money which only through great ingenuity
-sufficed for their toilette. All year long there were christenings and
-birthday celebrations; in summer games were played, where it was
-possible riding parties arranged, in winter sleighing parties were
-organised. Other physical exercise was considered superfluous. The young
-girls were averse to going to a neighbouring estate if it lay a mile
-away; and during the week to take a long walk for pleasure or sit down
-with a book, which had been borrowed, would be considered simply as
-idling away one’s time. In summer a cold bath was permissible—a warm
-bath was used only in cases of sickness—but swimming was considered so
-unwomanly, that whoever had learned it must keep it secret. Rowing,
-tobogganing and skating were, even if permitted in the country, yet half
-in discredit as “masculine.”
-
-When grandfather related an heroic deed of some ancestress whose proud
-countenance shone out among the family portraits, then the daughter of
-such a family must have asked herself why this deed was lauded while
-everything “manly” was forbidden her.
-
-The days and years went by at the embroidery frame or netting needles,
-amid continuous chatter about the family and neighbours, amid eternal
-friction and in disputing back and forth over mere trifles. The confined
-nervous force sought an outlet, and in an existence where each
-one—according to the first paragraph of family rights—interfered in the
-greatest as in the smallest concerns of all the others, there was always
-plenty of material about which to become irritated and excited.
-
-In the country, life was, however, fuller and fresher than in the city
-where the young girl had less to do and never dared go out alone; yes,
-where a walk was considered so superfluous, that the mother of the great
-Swedish feminist Fredrika Bremer advised her daughters to jump up and
-down behind a chair when they insisted that they needed exercise!
-
- * * * * *
-
-The relation to the parents, even if the principle of unswerving and
-mute obedience was not wholly carried out, was ordinarily a reverential
-alienation. Neither side knew the inner life of the other. The
-temperament of the mother determined the everyday domestic comforts, the
-will of the father the external occurrences of life, from the trip to
-the ball to marriage. The daughter whose inclination corresponded with
-the will of the father considered herself fortunate. The one married
-against her will wept, but obeyed. As an almost fabulous occurrence it
-was related of one or another girl that she dared to say “No” before the
-marriage altar; cases were not unusual in which daughters received a box
-on the ear and were confined to their room until they accepted the
-bridegroom whom the father had chosen. Even if a mother, moved by the
-recollections of her own youth, attempted to support a daughter it
-rarely succeeded. For the power of the father rested quite as heavily
-upon the wife. But the worst however was to water myrtle year after
-year, without ever being able to cut it for a bridal wreath. Even she,
-who in her heart loved another, found it therefore often wisest to give
-her consent to an acceptable suitor. Only the one whose dowry was valued
-at a “ton of gold”—or who also was a celebrated beauty—could run the
-risk of declining a courtship; yes, she could permit herself to occasion
-it only to decline it. The more suitors she could recount, the prouder
-she was; such a beauty even embroidered around her bridal gown the
-monograms of all her earlier wooers.
-
-The unmarried remained behind in an environment where the idea prevailed
-that “woman’s politics are her toilettes, her republic is her household
-and literature belongs to her trinkets.” The talented daughter sewed the
-fine starched shirts in which her stupid brother went to the academy and
-sighed therewith: “Ah, if one only were a man.”
-
-When the income of the house was small, she increased it perhaps by
-embroidery, sold in deepest secrecy; for it was a disgrace for a girl of
-good family to work for money. For her rebellious thoughts she had
-perhaps a girl friend to whom she could pour out her heart—or a sister.
-But it often fared with sisters growing old together, just as it must
-fare with North-pole explorers wintering together, that those holding
-together of necessity finally loathe one another from the bottom of
-their hearts. And yet the sisters were most fortunate who could grow old
-and die in their childhood home and were not compelled to become old
-household fixtures in the home of relatives.
-
-Not infrequently this last fate was their portion because a father, a
-brother or a guardian out of personal, economical self-interest
-prevented their marriage, or a brother through debt or studies had
-defrauded them of their inheritance.
-
-It was not the woman movement but the religious movement, beginning
-among the Northern peoples almost simultaneously with it, called in
-Sweden “Läseri” (“Reading”) that was the first spiritual emancipation
-for the old or young unmarried girls—likewise for wives who longed for a
-deeper content. Because they took seriously the Bible doctrine that one
-should disregard the commands of the family in order to follow Christ,
-the home gradually became accustomed to one of the feminine members’
-going her own way. Often amid great struggles. For the “Reader” was more
-or less considered as insane; the father was ashamed of her, the mother
-mourned over her, the brothers laughed at her. But nothing could hinder
-those strong in their faith from following the inner voice. And so these
-women, without knowing it themselves, were a bridge to that emancipation
-of women to which they themselves later—Bible in hand—were often an
-obstacle.
-
- * * * * *
-
-The movement _could_ not however be prevented. And now—how is it now in
-the family? Already the ten-year-old talks about what she is sometime
-going to be. Now, the sisters go with the brothers to school or to the
-academy and share their intellectual interests as well as their life of
-sport. Now, the fathers and mothers sit at home often alone, for the
-daughters belong to that host of self-supporting girls who can gratify
-the parents by short visits only. Alas, these visits are not always an
-unclouded joy. There are collisions between the old and the young often
-over seeming bagatelles. But a feather shows which way the wind blows
-and the parents observe that, in the spiritual being of the daughter,
-the wind blows from an entirely different direction from theirs. The
-daughter, on the other hand, thinks that perfect calm prevails in the
-being of her parents; she wishes to raise the dust. The mother pleads
-her cause in dry and offended manner, the daughter in superior and
-impetuous words. Accustomed to her freedom, she encounters again at home
-control over her commissions and omissions, attempts upon her privacy
-from which she had been freed by leaving home. And they separate again
-each with a sigh that they “have had so little of one another.” In other
-cases—when the parents have followed the times and the daughters
-understand that not only children but also parents must be educated with
-tenderness—then the visits to the parents’ home become on both sides
-elevating episodes in their lives. The daughters repose in the parental
-tenderness, which they have only now learned to value when they compare
-it with their customary loneliness. The parents confide to the daughter
-their cares which she sometimes can effectively lighten, and they revive
-with her spiritual interests which they themselves had to lay aside.
-Through her own working life the daughter has gained an entirely new
-respect for her parents. Through her independence of parental authority
-she has now gained a frankness, which makes a real interchange of ideas
-possible. They discover that they can have something reciprocal for one
-another. The father, who perhaps at first sighed when the young faces
-vanished out of the home, now admits that it would have been foolish if
-the whole troop of girls had continued here at home and so had stood
-there at his demise, empty-handed, without professional training. The
-mother, who had helped them persuade the father, smiles, when he insists
-that he “would not exchange his capable girls for boys.” And he is not
-at all afraid that the daughters could not marry if they would; he
-remembered indeed how his contemporaries declared that they “would never
-look at a girl student, a Blue stocking,” and yet so many of these were
-now happily married to—girl students.
-
-Beside these results of the independence of the daughters which elevate
-life for all sides, there are opposite cases; when, for example, a
-single daughter _without_ outer economic compulsion or inner personal
-necessity, impelled only by the current of the time, leaves a home where
-her contribution of work could be significant, in order to follow a
-vocation outside. The results are often of doubtful value, not only from
-a social point of view but also from that of the family and herself,
-when the daughter remains at home but carries on a work outside. This
-comes partly because they are contented with less pay and thus lower the
-wages of those who support themselves entirely; partly because they
-over-exert themselves. In those cases where several daughters can share
-with one another the domestic duties, no over-exertion results perhaps.
-But when a single daughter combines an exacting professional work with
-quite as exacting household duties, then she is exhausted by her double
-task; then she feels the burden, not the joy, of work. For all
-professional working girls who remain at home, have moreover in
-addition, even under the most favorable circumstances, the spiritual
-strain of turning from work back again to the gregarious demands of the
-home, as well as to the many different attractions and repulsions,
-antipathies and sympathies which determine the deviations in temperature
-of the home; the strain of respecting the sensibilities which must be
-spared or of paying attention to the domestic demands which must be
-refused, if the work is not to suffer from lack of rest and time for
-preparation. All this can be so nerve racking that the young girl is
-seized with an irresistible longing for a little home of her own, where
-she would be mistress of her leisure time, and could see her own
-friends—not alone those of her family,—where she could join those who
-held the same views, where she, in a word, would live her life according
-to the dictates of her personal demands. If she can, she often does
-this. For to-day young girls _live to apply_ the principle of the woman
-movement—individualism. The older women’s rights advocates desired, it
-is true, that woman should be allowed to “develop her gifts,” but she
-should “administer” them for the benefit of others; they desired that
-she should receive _new rights_ from law and custom, but that she should
-seek always in _law and custom support and security for her action_. The
-young women’s rights advocates, on the other hand, believe that their
-own growth, just as that of animals and trees, is intended above all for
-self-development, that in their own character the direction for their
-growth is specified, and that they have not the right to confine
-themselves by circumstances or subject themselves to influences by which
-they know they hinder the development of their powers, according to
-their individual natures. The more refined the feeling of personality
-becomes, the more exactly these young people understand how to choose
-what is essential for them and to repudiate what is a hindrance. But
-before they attain this certainty they evince often an unnecessary lack
-of consideration, and the family is often right when it speaks of the
-egoism of youth. They find no opportunity for helping father or mother
-nor for participation in the elders’ interests. The whole family is
-rarely assembled even at meal-time; the daughters as well as the sons
-rush off to lectures, work, sport, clubs. The mother who sees how
-occupied the daughters are has not the heart to add to their work or to
-thwart them in their pleasures; thus she allows the selfishness of the
-young creatures to increase to the point where she herself in
-indignation begins—seasonably and unseasonably—to react against it. The
-young girl answers her mother’s reproof then with the complaint that,
-“Mamma does not understand” her and that she is “behind her time.”
-Especially the young examination-champions distinguish themselves by
-their arrogance in the family as in the club, where they look down upon
-the older ladies who have not passed examinations just as they do upon
-their own mother.
-
-It fares best in the families, and they are even now numerous, where the
-mother herself has studied or worked outside the home and therefore
-knows what domestic services she may or may not require; where she
-herself personally understands the intellectual occupation of the young
-people and has preserved her own youthfulness, so that she becomes not
-infrequently the real friend of her daughters and sons. If the mother,
-on the contrary, was one of the many who, at the beginning of the woman
-movement, sacrificed her own talent to the wishes of her family or the
-demands of the home, in spite of the possibilities for its development
-made accessible to her at that time, then she has often absolutely no
-comprehension of the egoism of her daughter. She herself had acted so
-entirely differently! Or she understands fully that in her daughters as
-well as in her sons she views the attainment of a new conception of
-life, with all its Storm and Stress, which the spring-times in the life
-of mankind bring with them—an attainment in which, to her sorrow, she
-could not take part in her youth.
-
-At such spring-times youth is not, as the parents hoped, sunlight and
-the twittering of birds in the home; but March storms and April clouds.
-The parents feel themselves at first swept out, superfluous,
-disillusioned. They are angered but rejuvenated, thanks to all the new
-points of view that youth makes valid. Yes, father and mother sometimes
-could live through a second youth if their own contemporaries did not
-depress their buoyancy by their disapproving astonishment and the
-children by their cool rejection of the comradeship of their parents.
-But in spite of this twofold opposition, there are now fathers and
-mothers who are able to enjoy the riches of life quite as youthfully as
-and more deeply than their children; while the parents of earlier times,
-especially the mother, forever stagnated as early as forty. More and
-more frequently we find mothers who, like their daughters, lead a
-spiritually rich and emotional life, who have so preserved their
-physical youthfulness and who possess moreover through experience and
-self-culture so refined a soul-life, that, in regard to the impression
-they make, they are not infrequently the rivals of their daughters. They
-are already revelations of that type of woman which, in token of
-emancipation, has found the equilibrium between the old devoted ideal
-and the new self-assertive ideal. They view life from a height which
-gives them a survey also over the essential, in questions concerning
-their own children. Even if these become something other than the
-mothers wish, these mothers are so penetrated with the idea of
-individualism that they let the children follow their own course.
-
-Modern fathers rarely find so happy a home as it once could be with a
-bevy of daughters always at hand. But they find the home richer in
-content, often also freer from petty dissensions. For in the measure in
-which _each_ member of the family desires his right and his freedom, do
-all gradually learn to respect those of others. If the parents consider
-with dignity _their_ right and _their_ freedom, then a reciprocal
-consideration results after the boldness which youth evinces under the
-first influence of the intoxication of freedom. Youth, at first so proud
-and strong in their assurance of bringing new ideal values to life,
-begin themselves to experience how the world treats these; and what they
-once called their parents’ prejudice appears to them now often in a new
-light. Their self-assertion becomes a product of culture, out of a raw
-material. The manifestations of their individualism become continually
-more discreet, more controlled, but at the same time more essential and
-more effective. When then the young people have found _their_ way and
-the parents endeavour to turn them aside to the main road—which they
-call the way of wisdom or of duty—then certainly and with right the
-young people put themselves on the defensive.
-
-Even a devoted daughter cannot bring to the home to-day as undivided a
-heart as formerly. But this gift was earlier a matter of course, so to
-speak, a natural result of the conditions. But if to-day a girl
-sacrifices a talent to filial duty, then it is an infinitely greater
-personal sacrifice; a real choice. And if she does not make the
-sacrifice, it is not in the least always on the ground of egoism. It
-happens often in conviction that the unconditional demand of
-Christianity that the strong must have consideration for the weak, makes
-these latter often egoists and tyrants; that the strong, who are more
-significant for the whole, are thus rendered inefficient.
-
-If a troop of athletic boys continually conformed to the level of the
-weakest, then all would remain upon a lower plane, and the weak find no
-incentive to seek _their_ triumphs in another sphere.
-
-On the other hand it is fine and eminently sane and in harmony with the
-laws of spiritual growth, when the strong shall help the weak to reach a
-goal which is thus, in his own peculiar direction, really attainable by
-him. Neither paganism nor Christianity has created the most _beautiful_
-strength; it is a union of both. It has found its most perfect
-expression in art in Donatello’s St. George, in Michelangelo’s David:
-youths, whose victorious power conceals compassion and whose compassion
-embraces even the conquered: symbols of strength which has become kind,
-of kindness which has become strong. If a mother has seen this
-expression upon the face of her son or her daughter then she can address
-to life the words of Simeon: “Now let thy servant depart in peace for
-mine eyes have seen thy glory.” For the glory of life is the harmony
-between its two fundamental powers—conquest and devotion: self-assertion
-and self-sacrifice. In every new phase of the ethical development of
-mankind the cultural problem is this harmony and the cultural profit is
-not the per-dominance of one of the two but the perfected synthesis of
-both.
-
-This problem has now become actual, through the woman movement, for the
-feminine half of mankind, after the _unconditional_ spirit of sacrifice
-has obtained for centuries as the indispensable attribute of
-womanliness. In the first stage of the woman movement the majority of
-the “emancipated” were still determined by their spirit of sacrifice,
-which they aspired to combine with their outside professional work. This
-generation lived _beyond its strength_. The younger generation of to-day
-does not believe that God gives unlimited strength. For they have seen
-that those who live unceasingly beyond their strength finally have no
-strength left, either for others or for themselves. And they know that
-in the long run one can live only upon his own resources and these must
-be conserved and renewed in order to suffice. But this knowledge makes
-the problem, which in the course of days and years appears in manifold
-different forms, only more difficult of solution: the problem to find
-the right choice in the collision between family duties, duties toward
-oneself and duties toward society; the choice which shall bring with it
-the essential enhancement of life.
-
-The conflict is thus solved by some feminists: everything called family
-ties and family feeling is referred to the “impersonal” instinctive
-life, while our “personality” expresses itself in intellectual activity,
-in study, in creation, in universally human ends, in social activity,
-etc. And since the principle of emancipation is certainly the freeing of
-the “personality,” it follows from this idea, in connection with _this
-definition of the personality_, that the liberated personality must
-place the obligations of the intellectual life absolutely above those of
-the family life; the outside professional work above the work in the
-home. In a word, the earlier definition of _womanliness_ ignored the
-_universal human_ element, the present definition of _personality_
-ignores the _womanly_ element in woman’s being. The last solution of the
-problem is quite as one-sided as the first.
-
-The “principle of personality,” as it has just been described is
-entertained especially in America. In Europe there are still women who
-reflect deeply upon their own being and—who have a depth over which they
-may meditate! These women have not yet succeeded in simplifying the
-problem which is the central one of their life. They know that not only
-do instincts, impulses of the will, feelings, form the strongest part of
-the individual character which nature has given them, but also that this
-part determines their thinking and creating power—their whole conscious
-existence. They know that their character receives its peculiarities
-through the development which they themselves accord to one or another
-side of their individual temperament. In one personality the
-intellectual life will predominate, in another the emotional: in one the
-ethical, in another the æsthetic motive. The personality becomes
-harmonious only when no essential motive is lacking, when all attain a
-certain degree of development, a harmony which is as yet only so won
-that no motive receives its _greatest possible development_. Such a
-harmony has long been the especial characteristic of the most beautiful
-womanhood, while the most significant men have ordinarily achieved their
-superior strength in _one_ direction, at the cost of harmony in the
-whole. If now women believe that they can achieve the strength of men
-without, for that reason, being obliged to sacrifice something of their
-harmony, then they believe their sex capable of possibilities which thus
-far have been granted rarely and then only to the exceptional in both
-sexes. What experience shows is: the greater harmony of single women in
-a _limited_ existence as compared with the lack of harmony in the lives
-of daughters, owing to the irreconcilable problems which their _richer_
-existence brings with it. For these problems must be solved, at one
-time, by sacrifice of intellectual, at another, by sacrifice of
-emotional values. In every case, the sacrifice leaves behind it, not the
-joyful peace of fulfilled duty, but the gnawing unrest of a duty still
-ever unfulfilled. Every woman who has a heart knows it is at least quite
-as important a part of her personality as her passion for science
-perhaps. If for example she is obliged to surrender to another the
-loving service of a sick father in order to pursue scientific
-researches, then her heart is quite as certainly in the sick-room as, in
-case of the opposite choice, her thoughts would have been in the
-laboratory. By calling one factor “instinct” and the other
-“personality,” nothing is in reality gained. Theorising ladies can
-easily write—the paper is forbearing. But human nature is of flesh and
-blood. And therefore thousands of women grapple to-day with tormenting
-questions:—When we women shall belong entirely to industrial work and to
-the social life, who then is left for the work of love? Only paid hands.
-What becomes then of the warmth in human life when such a division of
-labour is established that kindness becomes a profession, and the rest
-of us shall be exempt from its practice because our “Personality” has
-more important fields for the exercise of its strength? What does it
-signify to live for society when we come to the service of society with
-chilled hearts? If the warmth is to be preserved then we must have
-leisure for love in private life, a right to love, peace and means for
-love. Only thus can our hearts remain warm for the social life. Can the
-whole really profit if we sacrifice unconditionally that part of the
-whole which is nearest us? Can our feeling of solidarity increase toward
-mankind when we pass by exactly those people to whom we could, by our
-deeds, really show our sympathetic fellow-feeling?
-
-The woman whose instinct life is still strong and sound, whose
-personality has its roots deep in life—which means not social life
-alone—she also understands how to determine what life in its deepest
-import purposes with her; she knows how she serves it best, whether by
-remaining in a position where she fulfils her personal obligations as
-part of a family or by seeking another position where she fulfils this
-obligation as a member of society.
-
-It is true the erroneous idea still prevails in many homes that the
-daughter must willingly sacrifice her social task for the family, a
-sacrifice which the family would never even wish on the part of a son.
-But the assurance that the daughter _could_ have made another choice
-instils in the family, unconsciously, a new conception of her sacrifice,
-and gives to herself the courage to assume a position in the home other
-than that she held at the time when no choice remained to her. If the
-total of efficacious daughterly love of to-day and earlier times be
-estimated, this total would not prove less now. But it is now given
-rather in a great sum; earlier, on the contrary, in many small coins.
-Because of the professional work of the daughter, there are now often
-lacking in the home the ready obliging young hands whose help father and
-brother so willingly engrossed; the cheerful comforter, the admiring
-listener. But in a great hour the daughter or sister gives now often a
-hundred times more in deep, personal understanding. One draws a false
-conclusion when one thinks that the more closely a family holds together
-the more it signifies a corresponding unity and devotion. The young act
-in submission because they permit themselves to be cowed by the family
-authority which like a steam-roller passed over their wills and their
-hearts. But the indignation that they experienced in their innermost
-hearts, the criticism which they exercised among one another, were not
-less bitter than that which they to-day openly utter.
-
-The home life of fifty years ago was a school of diplomacy; it
-especially served to oppose cunning to the father’s authority, and the
-mother often taught the children to use this weapon of weakness. Now the
-father does not wish to make himself ridiculous by saying: “I forbid
-you,” for the daughter answers: “Well, then, I will wait until I am
-twenty-one.” The threat, “I disinherit you,” recoils from the
-determination of the daughter, “I can work.” Only in a distant province,
-in a little town, or among the “upper ten thousand” of a large city,
-where the daughters still often receive a “general education,” which
-does not fit them to earn their living, are they occupied all day
-without the feeling of having worked. They serve at five o’clock teas,
-embroider for charity bazaars, etc. But they also experience the power
-of the spirit of the time strongly enough to know that they lead a
-selfish life but not a life of self. The lower the scale of riches the
-more housework do the daughters have to perform. But as a result of the
-patriarchal organisation of labour they still perform this without their
-own responsibility, without the joy of independence, without regular
-unoccupied time and without one penny at their disposal!
-
-Even in these circles however the spirit of the time is active; such a
-daughter leads now in every case a life of much richer content than some
-decades ago, when even though middle-aged she was still treated as
-ignorant innocence and must allow herself to be extolled to every
-possible marriage candidate. She suffers when she sees her mother as the
-submissive wife, whose continual according smile has graven lines of
-humility about her mouth, whose continually pacifying tone has made her
-voice whining. She suffers when the father cuts short a diversity of
-opinion with the words, “You have heard what I said—That will do.” She
-suffers when her brothers find her “insufferably important” or declare
-her new ideas “crazy.” But exactly these new ideas about the right and
-freedom of woman, which she encounters everywhere, have given a dignity
-to her own being which has its influence even without words. On the
-other hand, the fact that the fathers lose one legal right after another
-over the feminine members of the family has its effect, so that they
-gradually change their tone, the clenched fist falls less and less
-frequently upon the table, the disdain is silenced, and even in the
-provinces the family life is changing more and more from the despotic
-political constitution to the democratic, where each one maintains his
-position by virtue of his own personality. There are still men it is
-true, who wish to confine “woman’s sphere” to the four “C’s”—“Cooking,
-clothing, children, church.” But there is no one who now insists that “a
-girl _cannot_ learn Mathematics,” or that it is “unwomanly to pore over
-books”—sayings which were still often heard fifty years ago. Certainly
-there are still men who accept the cherishing thoughtful care on the
-part of the women members of the family as obvious homage. But the men
-are becoming more and more numerous who receive these womanly acts of
-tenderness with waking joy. Daughters and sisters of earlier times have
-pardoned the vices of their fathers and brothers seven and seventy
-times; those of the present throw away the fragments of trust and love
-which have been irrevocably shattered. The assurance that the daughters
-and sisters could do nothing else except pardon, since they were
-dependent upon their tormentors, often made the fathers and brothers of
-earlier times grossly inconsiderate. The men of to-day will be refined
-by the necessity of showing consideration and justice to their daughters
-and sisters if they wish to enjoy their presence in the home. Fathers
-and brothers have, in a word, gained quite as much spiritually through
-the loss of their power to oppress as the daughters and sisters have
-gained in being no longer oppressed. And this experience will be
-repeated in marriage when man and wife shall be absolutely free and
-equal.
-
-
-
-
- CHAPTER V
- THE INFLUENCE OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT UPON MEN AND WOMEN IN GENERAL
-
-
-In their struggle for freedom for the same opportunities of study, for
-the same fields of work, the same citizenship as man, women have
-encountered all possible opposition, from that of the Pope, who recently
-pronounced the most positive condemnation of the whole movement for the
-emancipation of woman, and that of Parliament, to the rough pranks of
-students. Man’s attempt to define the boundaries of “woman’s natural
-sphere” continues always. The woman physician, for example, had to
-struggle, in her student years, against prejudice in the dissecting
-room, and, in her practice, against the professional jealousy of men.
-The history of emancipation has much shameful conduct on the part of man
-toward woman to record. Great reluctance to recognise the results of
-woman’s work is still common. When this work, in literature and art for
-instance, is compared with man’s, the comparison is made not for the
-purpose of getting a finer understanding of woman’s peculiar
-characteristics, but only to disparage it. The energy which men of the
-present time not infrequently lack they cannot endure to recognise in
-women, who often possess it in high degree. In the Romance countries,
-self-supporting working women are always looked upon as a special
-caste—a caste into which a man does not marry however high respect he
-pays, theoretically, to “les vierges fortes.”
-
-And yet how different—and more beautiful—are the present relations
-between men and women in general, especially among the Germanic peoples.
-A friendly comradeship prevails among the young men and women studying
-at the university, in art academies, music schools, business colleges,
-etc. In the North, this comradeship often continues from the primary
-schools, through the grades to the university, with results advantageous
-to both sexes. Especially in the years under twenty, this comradeship
-has a significance which cannot be overestimated. Girls, who were,
-earlier, confined to a narrow, uninteresting, joyless family circle, now
-often find in the circle of masculine and feminine comrades their share
-of the joy of youth without which life has no springtime. Youths who
-formerly had known no other young women than those with whom they should
-never have come in contact, now learn to know soulful, pure-minded
-girls, and this gives them a new conception of woman. Both sexes now
-experience together the joys of youth in such fresh and significant
-forms as folk-dancing, sport, etc. They have opportunity for stimulating
-interchange of ideas in a great circle, and quiet discussion with a few
-congenial friends. During the last twenty or thirty years, young men and
-young women have again begun to discover one another spiritually,
-discoveries which since the days of romanticism have been made only
-through the stained glass of literature. In the romantic period, men and
-women exercised reciprocally upon one another a humanising influence. A
-like influence again obtains at the present time, but upon a much
-broader basis. The men and women of romanticism formed a group bound
-together only by spiritual relationship, in which the women aspired to
-the culture of the men and shared their intellectual interests, while
-the men promoted the women’s “desire for men’s culture, art, knowledge,
-and distinction” (_Geluste nach der Männer Bildung, Kunst, Weisheit und
-Ehre._—Schleiermacher). Now, young people studying in different fields
-exert a mutual humanising influence and thereby learn to know one
-another from the side of intelligence as well as from that of character
-and disposition. Thus are dispelled certain illusions and conceptions
-almost forced upon them through which both sexes in the years of
-adolescence once regarded each other. Men as well as women obtain a
-finer criterion for the conception of “womanliness” and of “manliness”;
-both discover the innumerable shadings which these conceptions conceal;
-both recognise that the sexes can meet not only upon the erotic plane,
-but upon a plane that is universally human; finally, both learn that the
-more perfect and complete human beings they become, the more they have
-to thank one another for it.
-
-Comprehension in erotic relations is most difficult because, there,
-women are far in advance of men. Woman’s ideal of love, however, is
-becoming more and more the ideal of young men. Young girls, on their
-side, are beginning to understand better the sexual nature of men. The
-whole world in which man received his culture, won his victories,
-suffered his defeats, is no longer _terra incognita_ to women; they have
-lost the blind reverence or the blind hostility with which they formerly
-regarded the doings and dealings of men. Men, on the other hand, are
-learning that the domestic labours for the comfort of the family, which
-they have thus far regarded as the sole duty of woman, cannot engross
-her whole soul, that domesticity leaves many wishes unfulfilled. So both
-sexes have begun, each on its own side, to build a bridge across the
-chasm which law and custom had dug between them. The young still ponder
-over the enigmatical antitheses in their natures, yet they find they
-have very much that is human in common with one another. In comradeship,
-however, that “chivalry” vanishes, which among other things consisted in
-the ideal that the young men had always to bear all the burdens and
-duties. Now as a rule, the girl carries her own knapsack on excursions
-and pays her share of the expenses. But if she really needs help, the
-youth is quite as ready as before to grant it to her, just as she also
-on her part is ready to assist according to her strength: honest
-friendship has replaced rapturous chivalry. This friendly comradeship
-often satisfies the young man’s need of feminine kindness and enjoyment
-in those dangerous years when, as a young man said, “Three fourths of
-the life of a youth, conscious and unconscious, is sex life.” And
-nothing can more effectually prevent him from degrading himself than
-access to a circle where in quiet and freedom he meets young girls,
-without an indelicate, intruding family surveillance, interfering and
-asking him about his “intentions.” If between two such comrades an
-erotic feeling finally develops, even if the wooing takes place in a
-laboratory instead of a romantic arbour, the possibilities always exist,
-in the golden haze of love, of making mistakes. But both have, however,
-had opportunities of seeing each other in many character-illuminating
-situations; they have observed each other, not only with their own eyes,
-but also through the more critical glasses of the comrade circle. On the
-other hand, it often happens that discussions and interchange of letters
-conjure up a congeniality which exists only in opinions and temperament,
-not in nature. It is fortunate when this is discovered in time.
-Otherwise bitter conflicts may be the result, should a strong individual
-nature wish to mould the other after himself or after his ideal of man
-or woman. For that anyone loves the individuality of another without
-illusions is still very rarely the case. It now happens somewhat more
-frequently, since young people in comradeship learn to know mutually
-their ideals and dreams, as well in erotic as in universally human
-aspects. But if these ideals and dreams do give a hint of character,
-comradeship brings a true knowledge of character only when it also
-offers an opportunity of seeing others _act_; not only of _hearing_ them
-speak of themselves. Such analyses of one’s own soul or the soul of
-others in the atmosphere of tea and cigarettes, music and poetry, give
-the “interesting” masculine or feminine parasites opportunity to ensnare
-a victim, who is then intellectually or erotically, often even
-economically, sucked dry.
-
-But even if such an interchange of ideas really enriched all, it can be
-carried to excess and become deleterious to energy for work, directness,
-and idealism. However beneficial may be the honesty of to-day in sexual
-questions, the discussion of the instincts of life which has now become
-a commonplace is also dangerous. These discussions are fraught with the
-same danger to the roots of human life as is a continual digging up of
-the roots of a plant to see how it is growing.
-
-The earlier a marriage can be consummated, the less is the danger of
-freshness being lost in this way; the greater the prospect that man and
-wife will grow close together, just as do the man and wife of the
-people, through the difficulty of the common struggle for existence. But
-if this struggle becomes easier before youth has entirely passed, then
-there enters often into the life of the man a crisis which the practised
-French call “La maladie de quarante ans”: the need of the man for a new
-erotic experience. While those on a lower erotic plane, to-day as at all
-times, seek this in transient secret alliances, it leads those on a
-higher level in our time to the most tragic of all separations, where
-the man—after decades of the most intimate life together, of the most
-faithful work together, of mutual understanding—drives the wife out of
-the home in order to bring in a young wife who has never been to him,
-perhaps never can be to him, a fellow fighter and helper, as the
-repudiated wife was, but who has for him the charm of the mystery which
-the maiden had for the man before the days of coëducation, sexual
-discussions, comradeship, and dress-reform!
-
-Women students now escape the earlier danger of the daughter of the
-family, falling in love out of lack of occupation. They have not the
-time, often also not the means to permit themselves erotic dreams. There
-are among them many poor girls who dare lose no single semester, for
-they must hasten to earn their livelihood. Moreover, such a girl knows
-that if she should yield to the need for tenderness, for support, that
-is so strong in her, the same fate could happen to her as to this or
-that fellow student who after a short happiness was left alone when the
-lover found a good match. And she was left behind not only in her sorrow
-but also in her work. And the more a yearning girl buries herself in her
-studies, the more science or art unlock their riches to her, the
-happier, more full of life she feels herself in spite of loneliness,
-scanty means, and shabby dress.
-
-Among women students there are also many of the cerebral type, mentioned
-above, women who need tenderness neither in the form of friendship nor
-of love; yes, who fear in both a bond for their “free individuality.”
-These take part in sports, discuss, jest, with their fellow men
-students, openhearted and unconcerned, without thinking whether they
-please or not. All these young girls now go about with perfect freedom;
-even in the Romance countries, a young woman can now go alone with her
-bag of books or her racquet. For in circles where study has not yet
-exercised its freeing influence, sport has brought this about.
-
-In America, student life, because of the early entrance of the men into
-the professions, becomes more a one-sided, feminine comrade life. There,
-the women have to develop their arts of the toilet for each other, whom
-they find more interesting, more worthy of pleasing than the masculine
-sex. Even in Europe, feminine comradeship in the student years is at
-times most intimate. For a friendship between a young girl and a young
-man often ends with love—on one side. Or in an intimate circle A has
-fallen in love with B, but B with C, etc. Such eventualities the wise
-girl will avoid for they can bring both suffering and obstruction to her
-work. With women comrades, she has, without this risk, an interchange of
-ideas which promotes study, deepens culture, opens up new views, and
-gives to all new impulses. There exists, at least at the present time, a
-difference between the masculine and feminine method of inquiry, of
-solving problems, of apprehending ideas, which results in the fact that
-comradeship between women cannot take the place of comradeship between
-men and women. It is, however, for deep and beautiful natures often
-impossible at the beginning of life to be capable, in a spiritual sense,
-of more than a single friendship with their own sex; for each new
-spiritual contact becomes a new and difficult problem. For such men or
-women a friendship with a comrade of their own sex is often the richest
-advantage of their student time. Often a student in good circumstances
-finds her joy in taking care of some lonely comrades. They find at her
-apartments, in a friendly welcome, a few flowers and pictures, a
-teakettle, a fireplace, that feeling of homely warmth for which the
-shivering students have longed,—a longing which has often driven a
-lonely, impressionable youth from the dreary students’ room to “rough
-pleasures.” Now when he leaves the little comrade circle, his sweetest
-memories of home, his finest dreams, vibrate in him. And the timid girl
-goes in the certainty that there is another girl who is concerned about
-her wretched fate.
-
-In such a quiet as also in a more lively comrade life both sexes learn
-to know not only each other but also different classes and, in certain
-European universities, the several nations. It is not unusual for nine
-or ten races to be found represented in one small group of comrades.
-Life thus becomes everywhere enriched by strong manifestations or fine
-shades of congeniality; spiritual attractions and repulsions cross one
-another; inspiring or restraining impressions radiate in all directions.
-It would be quite as impossible to estimate the fructifying influence of
-such a friendly intercourse as to measure the life which comes into
-existence on a spring day filled with the sigh of the wind, the
-fluttering of butterflies, and humming of bees.
-
-In such a circle of comrades, devotion and capacity for sacrifice are
-past belief, especially in the nation where “the girls wear short hair
-and the young men long hair,” as a wag characterised the young Russians
-studying abroad. That a couple of Russian girls, for a whole winter,
-possessed together but a single pair of shoes and so could never go out
-at the same time, is one of the innumerable small and great expressions
-of the feeling of solidarity among the poorest students of the
-university.
-
-When the comrade life assumed the form exclusively of coffee-house
-visits, then the women had to revolt against it. But they often, alas,
-allowed themselves to be carried with the stream. Because the
-coffee-house life at first really gave a certain polish to the
-intelligence, it could for a short time have its justification. But when
-a blade is worn out, the artist of life should cease grinding; if on the
-contrary he allows the grindstone to go on continually, then at last he
-has only the haft in his hand. Formerly, it was only the young men but
-now even the girls wear out thus their weapons or tools before they ever
-use them seriously.
-
- * * * * *
-
-The darkest side of coëducational life has been that women could
-demonstrate their equal capability with men in no other way than by the
-same courses and examinations as those of the men. The eagerness of
-women to prove their like proficiency with men in study and in sport has
-often had disastrous physical results. These are continually becoming
-more infrequent, thanks to the decreasing prudery in regard to the
-sexual functions and to the increasing hygienic conscience. The
-intellectual results, however, continue to exist and are disastrous
-alike for both sexes; but because of the ambition and conscientiousness
-of girls, perhaps still more disastrous for them. The examinations which
-they pass are often dearly bought. This was not noticed in the
-beginning, when a woman doctor was still looked at with wonder as a
-noteworthy product of culture, and regarded herself also with wonder.
-Truly she had sacrificed to grinding and cramming for examinations a
-multitude of youthful joys, but she had, as was thought, won in this way
-much greater values. This, however, is not always really the case.
-Ethically, the conscientious girl is certainly above the boy who, not
-infrequently in the unconscious instinct of self-preservation, idles
-away his time. But the mental strength of the latter may frequently be
-better preserved in any determined direction. Girls, conscientious and
-zealous in their work, have filled their heads full of lessons to which
-the coming examination and not their own choice has urged them. What is
-thus crammed in is not assimilated and consequently has not promoted
-spiritual or mental growth. But it has taken up room and has thereby
-impaired the intellectual freedom of motion and compelled the natural
-individuality to compress itself so that it is long before the space
-conditions in the brain permit it to extend again—in case it is not
-simply choked by all the chaotic mass that has been absorbed. How many
-young girls have come to the university or to the art academy full of
-thirst for knowledge and energy for work! But after a few years they
-feel the disgust of surfeit, unless they have found a teacher who has
-been to them a leader to the essentials in science or in art. Then their
-joy in study could really be as rich as they had once dreamed it—yes, as
-perhaps even their grandmothers had dreamed it when they had to content
-themselves with their little text-books written for “girls.” Many young
-girls maintain to-day, through some teacher or some masculine comrade,
-that spiritual development which only an exceptional relationship
-between a father and daughter, a brother and sister, could give in
-earlier times.
-
- * * * * *
-
-When men and women can study together, then the relationship later
-between masculine and feminine fellow-workmen will, as a rule, be better
-than when the sexes work independently in the student days. It is true
-masculine competitors still have recourse to the weapon of spreading
-reports of the incapacity of their feminine competitors—at times
-honestly convinced of it themselves. The same weapon is of course turned
-also against masculine competitors. Yet there it is a question of the
-_individual_, while in regard to women, the _sex_ is often the only
-proof the man thinks he need assign for the inferiority of their work.
-It can be said, however, upon the whole, that the relationship between
-men and women professional colleagues exhibits the same good side as the
-common student life, although naturally to a lesser degree. The joint
-work does not often leave much time for significant interchange of
-ideas, and after working hours each usually longs for new faces. The
-influence of joint labour is often limited to the refining effect that
-the presence of one sex exercises upon the other. Small services are
-mutually rendered and each worker learns also to respect the
-achievements of the other; or one is provoked because the work which
-should have been dispatched by the other now falls to his share!
-
-If the woman performs the same work as the man, then she is often
-indignant because she must do it for smaller compensation than he. All
-too easily, the feminists forget that this injustice is equalised if a
-man who wishes to establish a family cannot obtain a post which he seeks
-because a woman retains it who can be satisfied with a smaller wage
-since she remains in her parents’ home. For this disparity, raising
-bitterness on both sides, there is no remedy under the present economic
-system. Feminists can _demand_ the same compensation, but working women
-will not obtain it so long as the supply of workers is to the demand as
-one hundred to one in the professional occupations to which women flock.
-In vain underpaid women will call to the agitators of the woman
-movement, “Help us to obtain endurable conditions of life.” The only
-honest answer is, “Help one another, just as the working men have helped
-one another, by union and solidarity!”
-
-The competition of the sexes in the labour field is only indirectly
-connected with the woman movement; it is a part of the social question
-and will therefore only be touched upon here.
-
-The hostility which the competition between the sexes has evoked
-is a factor in the social war; and if—_by reason of this
-competition_—marriage decreases, then such competition is a form
-of social danger. If the cause is sought in the woman movement,
-then the question is begged completely, because the women with
-sufficient income _to be able_ to live at home without industrial
-work, after the loss of a husband or a father, are constantly
-becoming more rare. There is the additional fact that in many
-positions where man and woman have equal salary, the woman is
-preferred because of her greater honesty and faithfulness to duty.
-Further it must be emphasised that, even in middle-class
-vocations, women with increasing frequency earn their _whole_
-livelihood, not merely a supplementary remuneration, when if they
-did not thus work they would be a burden to some man and so
-perhaps prevent him from marrying. Many of these women would wish
-nothing better than to enjoy the warmth of “the domestic hearth”
-to which men in theory relegate them; but since no man offers this
-warmth, they must at least be allowed to procure fuel for their
-lonely hearth fire.
-
-When men declare that “the only duty which has life value for a woman is
-to be man’s helpmeet,” then they ought not to forget that this task is
-more and more rarely assigned to a woman, because men prefer to do
-without her aid, and even find a richer life in bachelorhood than in
-marriage. They should not dare to forget also that a great number of men
-disinclined or disqualified for work compel their sisters, daughters,
-wives, to undertake the task of family provider, and these women also
-must forego being, “in the quiet of the home, man’s helpmeet.”
-
-However weak the feminist logic often may be, it is not so weak as the
-anti-feminist logic of man. Masculine vacuity has found there an arena
-where it performs the most incredible gymnastics. The hysteria of
-literary fanatics, the crude lordly instincts of the mediocre man, the
-irritation of the masculine good-for-nothing at the increasing ability
-of women, the rage, confounding cause and effect, over the competition
-of women—these are some of the reasons for the present antagonism
-between men and women. The deepest reason is this: the more woman is
-compelled to maintain the struggle for existence under the same social
-conditions as those under which men have been thus far compelled to
-struggle, the more she loses that character by which she gives happiness
-to man and receives it from him. A diminished erotic attraction is
-frequently the result, not of the work of women, but of their work under
-such conditions that the drudging, worn-out women comrades finally
-appear to their masculine colleagues only as “sexless ants.” Sometimes
-they really exhibit that obliteration of all characteristic marks of sex
-which Meunier has indicated to us in his _Woman Miner_, a great
-thought-inspiring work of art.
-
-Many a woman of the present time, deeply feminine, suffers under this
-compulsory neutralising of her womanly being. Others again consider this
-a path to complete humanity.
-
-But the complete personality is only that man or woman who has
-cultivated and exercised the strength which he or she as a human being
-possessed without having neutralised thereby the characteristic of sex.
-It is tragic when nature herself creates deviations from normal
-sexuality, but criminal when the ideas of the time weaken sound
-instincts and inculcate unsound ones. It is not woman nature but the
-denatured woman who is beginning to grow through the ultra-feminism
-which looks down upon woman’s normal sexual duty as only a low, animal
-function.
-
-That sound men abominate this tendency is justifiable. On the other
-hand, it is unwarrantable to confuse a variation of feminism with the
-woman movement in its entirety, a movement which includes in itself a
-great earnest desire to work for the welfare of both mothers and
-children. As a manifestation of womanliness in its most complete,
-perfect form, many men still elect the woman whose entire life-content
-consists in the cult of her own beauty, a cult whose attendant
-phenomenon is the æsthetic culture which raises the temple about the
-altar. Under this perfect and apparently inspired form there is,
-however, rarely anything to be found of that which the man seeks: the
-longing and the power of true womanhood to give happiness by erotic and
-motherly devotion. Such women, like those cerebral women engrossed by
-their studies and their work, allow a real love to pass them by; men are
-only sacrificial servants of the cult, and the high priest is chosen not
-upon the ground of motives of feeling. This type is said to be more
-common in America than in Europe. But it existed thousands of years ago
-on the Tiber as well as on the Nile. That Cleopatra in the language of
-feminism now speaks of the “right of the personality,” and means thereby
-her right to represent no other value in life than that of the white
-peacock and the black orchid—the value of rarity—that does not make her
-a “product of the woman movement.”
-
-But certain men characterise a woman thus, if they have been deceived in
-her: a psychology which equals in value that of the feminist when she
-speaks of man as the “oppressor,” the “corrupter,”—without noting that
-the world is full of poor men corrupted or tormented by women! Amid such
-mutual accusations, just or unjust—whereby _gifted_ men maintain
-generalisations about “woman’s” being which are quite as ingenuous as
-those which _silly_ women propose about “man’s” being—the sexes, in the
-days of the woman movement, have been almost as much alienated from each
-other as drawn together. The estrangement has taken place in the erotic
-field and through labour competition; the reconciliation has been
-effected—leaving out coëducation—by common industry and the social
-activity of both sexes.
-
-The middle-class women of Europe have still so little share in the
-control of production that one cannot determine whether or not they have
-even awakened to the understanding that the fundamental condition of a
-universal life-enhancing issue of the woman movement must be new social
-conditions. One cannot yet predicate anything at all in regard to their
-desires to promote more humane labour conditions and a more just
-distribution of profit. Under the system now prevailing they must, like
-men, either conform to it or be destroyed economically. It is even so in
-public offices and similar fields of labour. Just as so many young men
-do, at the beginning of their career, a great number of women attempt to
-abolish the abuses and mitigate the formalism. But they meet such
-obstacles that, like the young men, they are obliged to abandon the
-effort; or they are compelled to give up the position whereby they win
-their scanty bread.
-
-In this way, principally, the work of women in the sphere of charitable
-activity has given to men the opportunity for a correct valuation of the
-social working power of woman. Men have then in a wider sphere than that
-of the family circle, so often overlooked by them, learned to appreciate
-feminine enthusiasm and capacity for organisation, energy and devotion,
-initiative and endurance. Innumerable men—from the soldiers up, who in
-the hospitals of the Crimea literally kissed Florence Nightingale’s
-shadow on the floor of the hospital ward—have learned in the last half
-century that life has become more kindly for them since social
-motherliness has obtained for itself a certain elbow-room. The more
-women lose their present fear of appearing, in coöperation with men,
-“womanly” impulsive, savage in face of injustice and cruelty, the more
-will they signify in that joint work where, at least to-day, they still
-have a more fortunate hand—the hand of the mother.
-
-And since a single fact is more convincing than a thousand words, so the
-facts gained in the social activity of woman have won, in later years,
-many men supporters of woman suffrage. The arguments derived from
-abstract right—however obvious they may be for every tax-paying,
-law-abiding woman—go to the rear to make way for the argument of “social
-utility.”
-
-Not only women themselves but men also refer now to what women have
-accomplished when they are allowed to work in the service of society;
-they point to the reforms which were retarded or bungled because women
-had no immediate influence there where appropriations were granted and
-laws were enacted.
-
-Especially significant for the reconciliation of the sexes is the joint
-social work of young people. The temperance cause or the education of
-the masses or socialism now brings together a host of young men and
-girls, who learn thereby that the social as well as the private life of
-labour gains in strength and wealth if men and women participate in it
-together.
-
- * * * * *
-
-The men who fear political life for woman are, however, right. Just as
-this life has injured the best qualities in the manhood of many men, so
-will it impair the womanhood of many women. Neither the spiritual
-personality of woman nor of man, nor even their secondary physical sex
-characteristics can withstand the influences of their private _milieu_,
-of their private labour conditions. Why should women better resist the
-influences of the public life? When the man is compelled, in political
-work for the state, to neglect in the highest degree the foundation of
-the state—the home—how should women be able to do otherwise than the
-same thing? The political work of both can benefit the home _in general_
-but _their own_ home must always suffer for it, for a time at least.
-Women will learn, as so many men have already learned, that the fresh
-enthusiasm, the unexhausted optimism with which they entered the
-political life soon vanish before party pressure, general prejudice,
-opportunism, and the demands of compromise. And just as now so many men
-for these reasons withdraw from Parliament, many women will do likewise
-when they learn that what they can accomplish there with the
-characteristics peculiar to them, is so insignificant that it does not
-compensate for the injury which ensues because these characteristics are
-missing in the home.
-
-If the eligibility of woman is really to benefit society, then the right
-of resignation must be unconditioned for mothers, and they themselves
-must understand that the parliamentary mandate is incompatible with
-motherhood so long as the children are still in the home; in like manner
-during the same period, the franchise of the mother of a family must not
-result in rushing into electioneering. The ballot in and of itself does
-not injure the fineness of a woman’s hand any more than a cooking
-receipt.
-
- * * * * *
-
-Because woman’s motherhood must be preserved, if she is to bring to the
-social organism a really _new_ factor, so she must always continue to be
-found and to work in private life, in order to be, meanwhile, useful in
-public life. The genius of social reform which women will develop can
-complement that of man only if this genius is of a new order; if it
-originates thoughts which bring new points of view to the social
-problems, wills which seek new means, souls which aspire to new ends.
-Women could, if they received their full civic right before they lost
-their intuitive and instinctive power through masculinisation, effect
-the progress of culture as, for example, the entrance of the Germans
-influenced the antique world.
-
-The sooner woman receives her political franchise, the more, on the
-whole, can be expected from it. The generation which has now fought the
-fight for suffrage is wholly conscious of the reforms that await woman
-for their final realisation. And this generation of women would
-introduce into the political life a new, fresh current. In any event, we
-can hope to secure from women new impulses and better organisation in
-political life, as has already been the case in social life. But every
-new generation of parliamentary women, who together with the men have
-been “politically trained,” would have—as long as the present economic
-conditions obtain—continually greater economic interests to advocate
-“parliamentarily,” and would also for other reasons evince the same
-parliamentary maladies as the men evince now. And as little as evil men
-lose their evil characteristics because of the franchise, quite as
-little will bad women lose theirs. The entrance of women into politics
-cannot therefore—as certain feminists maintain—signify the victory of
-the noble over the ignoble. But it signifies a great increase in noble
-as well as ignoble powers hitherto inactive in political life, which in
-the wider sphere that they there maintain oppose one another, now
-conquering, now yielding. Men and women _together_, however, will be
-able to enact more humane laws than men alone can enact. Questions
-concerning women and children can be treated with deeper seriousness by
-men and women _together_ than is now the case. Men and women _together_
-will consider the social life from more significant points of view than
-can one sex alone. Government consisting of men and women _together_
-will be more profound than heretofore. No one who has observed the
-effects of masculine and feminine coöperation in fields already
-mentioned can doubt this. Who can deny that with the civic right of
-woman her feeling of social responsibility will increase and that her
-horizon will widen? And therewith her value as wife and mother of men
-will also increase? But she will increase in value for the men closely
-connected with her as well as in social respects. The woman of earlier
-times, for all of whom society might go to pieces if only _her_ home and
-family prospered, was only in a restricted sense man’s help. In certain
-great crises she usually betrayed him simply because she wholly lacked
-the social feeling.
-
-Obviously, the female member of Parliament cannot confine herself solely
-to questions which concern the protection of the weaker and the
-education of the new race. The more women concentrate upon the cause of
-justice against power, and of public spirit against self-interest, the
-more advantageous it will be for her herself and for the public life.
-But concentration is, unfortunately, exactly what modern parliamentarism
-does not promote; what it does promote is disintegration.
-
-Woman has, however, where she has entered into parliamentary life as
-elector and eligible, shown thus far exactly this tendency toward
-concentration. She has worked for moral, temperance, and hygienic
-questions; for questions concerning schools and education of the masses;
-for mother and child protection; reform of marriage laws, and kindred
-subjects. What thinking man can maintain that all this does not belong
-to “woman’s sphere” or can say that these and similar social interests
-have been sufficiently attended to by an exclusively masculine
-government? Already the opposite danger appears in certain social
-spheres: an exclusively “feminine government.”
-
-In the present forms of public life, however, much feminine power will
-without doubt be wasted. Only when man, upon a higher plane, has created
-a new kind of representation “of the people,” where professional
-interests in every sphere are represented, can the highest vocation of
-woman—motherhood—come into its rights.
-
-It belongs to the necessary course of historical development that women
-also go through the stage of party-power politics in order together with
-man to reach the stage of social politics and finally that of culture
-politics.
-
-But women cannot wait until this development has been attained; they
-must accomplish it together with man. Just as the best masculine powers
-sooner or later must be concentrated to transform increasingly untenable
-parliamentary conditions, so the best feminine powers will also work in
-the same direction, especially if the will becomes intense in mothers
-not only to awaken in their children the social spirit, but also to
-create for them better social conditions.
-
-In later years, the movement for the suffrage of woman has not only
-filled the world with suffrage societies but the agitation has even
-achieved popular representation in eighteen European countries, in the
-legislative assemblies of a number of American States, in Australasia,
-in legislative assemblies in Canada and in the Philippines. In Iceland
-as well as in Italy, in Japan as in South Africa, the movement is in
-progress, and whoever thinks it will not attain its goal is politically
-blind.
-
-When anti-feminist men prophesy that men will love their mothers,
-sisters, wives, and daughters less when pitted against them as political
-opponents or competitors, they prophesy certainly in many cases the
-truth. Politics have already estranged fathers from sons, brothers from
-brothers. But this demonstrates only either that the personal feelings
-were weaker than the political passions or that these latter have
-destroyed the attributes which made the personality lovable. But if men
-are really able to love and women remain lovable, even as political
-personalities, then a man will not cease to love a woman, even if she
-votes for a different congressional candidate! Such prophecies have not
-been verified in other spheres from which men sought to intimidate women
-by similar warnings. For woman retains her power over man. if she
-retains her womanly charm, created out of peace, harmony, and kindness.
-Not that _of which_ a woman speaks, not that _for which_ she works,
-determines man’s feeling and conduct; but _how_ she does it. A woman may
-charm a man by a political speech, and drive him away by her table talk.
-A poor working woman can, without a word, induce the same man to give
-her his seat in a street car who the next minute can be brutal to an
-assuming and incapable fellow workwoman. In a word, what a woman makes
-of her rights and what they make of her—that alone determines the
-measure of veneration, sympathy, love, which she may expect from a man.
-
-That women have lost their equilibrium cannot be denied. How could it be
-otherwise? Not only have they in the last half century experienced,
-together with man, Naturalism and the New Romantic movement,
-Neo-Kantianism, the Higher Criticism, Bismarck and Bebel, Darwin and
-Spencer, Wagner and Nietzsche, Ibsen and Tolstoi, Haeckel and von
-Hartmann, and still many, many more, but they themselves in dizzy haste
-have been hurled out of their position in society, protected by the
-family, which they had occupied for centuries. It is obvious that at the
-present moment the spiritual mobility of women must be greater than
-their harmony; that the raw culture material which they possess must be
-richer than that which they can utilise; their life experiences more
-significant than their art of life. The modern woman must appear for the
-present less symmetrical, more uncertain, than man’s ideal woman in
-earlier times. But enduring cultural progress cannot be measured by
-comparison with the ideal figures of the poetry or of the life of
-earlier times. It must be estimated according to the _average type_ in a
-certain period. And the average woman of our time is, in the fullest
-significance of the word, more full of vitality and adaptability, more
-individually developed, more beneficial socially, than the average woman
-of fifty years ago. With the freedom of movement the social feeling has
-increased; with the participation in universal human culture, the
-richness of content: the spiritual life has become more complex, and the
-possibilities of expression of this new soul-life, more numerous.
-
-But since the average man, in the meantime, has undergone no comparable
-development, he is estranged, has lost his bearings, and consequently
-repudiates a movement which, directly and indirectly, makes such great
-demands for the development of his own higher spiritual qualities.
-Heretofore men could force women to endure undue interference, and so
-have deprived them of the education wherein the possible consequences of
-action are considered at the same time with the thought of the action.
-But the woman movement has now raised a partition between the sexes such
-as is found in the aquarium where it becomes necessary to teach the pike
-to allow the carp, also, to live: every time the pike makes a dash at
-the carp he strikes his head against the obstruction, until the motive
-of repression becomes so strong that the glass wall can be taken away
-and both carp and pike live together in peace.
-
-
-
-
- CHAPTER VI
- THE INFLUENCE OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT UPON MARRIAGE
-
-
-Certain feminists believe that the woman movement has accomplished such
-meagre results in regard to the reorganisation of family right for the
-sole reason that men, who once created the right for their own
-advantage, still cling to the injustice out of egoism. These feminists
-forget that the family is the social form of life in which tradition has
-the greatest power. It speaks here with the voice of the blood; it works
-through our deepest instincts, our strongest needs of life, our
-innermost feelings, as these have developed through many thousands of
-years under the influences which were exercised in and through the
-family. To accomplish in this sphere not only reforms upon paper but
-also vigorous modifications—that is, new laws and customs which are
-rooted in new spiritual conditions of the people as a whole—is more
-necessary than that man grant women a share in legislation. Innumerable
-individual human vicissitudes must be experienced and repeated in new
-forms, entering finally into the universal consciousness, before such
-spiritual soil can be formed. The man became and remained the head of
-the family because all experiences and social factors once made this
-arrangement most advantageous for father, mother, and children. Woman
-will be able to realise her new ideas in regard to love-life and
-mother-right to the degree in which she demonstrates, not only in speech
-and writing but also in vigorous daily living, that these ideals surpass
-in vital effect those which now obtain.
-
- * * * * *
-
-In the last half century, among the Germanic peoples, however, the
-family life has already undergone essential transformations, while the
-Romantic world still continues to exhibit features which in the first
-half of the 19th century were typical even among these peoples.
-Marriages are arranged by the father, divorce is considered either a sin
-or a shame, the paternal power is still absolute, the homogeneous
-relationship among all the members of the family—in joy and sorrow—is
-inviolable. The feeling of the son for the mother, bordering almost upon
-Madonna worship, and the passion of the father for their little
-children, must, however, always have been more characteristic of the
-Romance peoples than of the Germans.
-
-Among the latter the attainment of individualism, first in the sphere of
-legislation, still more in that of customs, most of all in that of mode
-of thought and feeling, has altered the position of the individual in
-the family. While the family exhibited fifty years ago a tightly closed
-unity, in which women had only slight significance, now the wife as well
-as the husband, mother as well as father, daughter as well as son,
-assert their personality, not only _in_ the family, but often even
-_against_ the family. Wives draw the arguments for their self assertion
-most frequently from the principles of the woman movement.
-
-Truly, in the course of the century, many married women have succeeded
-in finding expression for their significant universal human or feminine
-attributes in marriage, and thus have ennobled it. But the
-self-conscious effort to elevate the position of the wife began
-simultaneously with the demand that no human right could be denied to a
-woman upon the ground of her sex, whether within or without marriage.
-
-Individualism has already made personal love, instead of family
-interest, decisive for the consummation of a marriage. In the name of
-her personality as of her work, woman desires with ever greater right
-full majority and legal equality with man in marriage. Against
-individualism, the doctrine of evolution now advocates certain
-limitations of the personal erotic freedom to consummate marriage, but
-advocates at the same time, contrary to the Christian sexual ethics, new
-freedom for the sake of the higher development of the race. Here comes
-into effect, the new conception of life by which the possibilities of
-development and of happiness in the earthly life have acquired a new
-value and force.
-
-The ultimate heights of the modern conception of sex life are indicated
-by erotic idealism, which since “La Nouvelle Héloise” has by poets and
-dreamers been continually elevated, while world-renowned lovers showed
-the possibility of this wonderful love. In addition to all these
-influences of the spirit of the time upon the transformation of
-marriage, come the _indirect_ effects of the woman movement. Thanks to
-the vibrations in which this movement has set the “spirit of the time,”
-many an ordinary man now accords to his wife that power and authority in
-the family which the law still denies her; yes, many commonplace people
-of both sexes now desire from their marriage things of which their
-equals fifty years ago did not even dream. If one adds also the decisive
-influences which the political-economic conditions of the present
-exercise upon the family life, one has found some of the threads which
-form the woof of the unalterable warp, a woof which makes the marriage
-of the present a variegated and unquiet fabric, whose pattern exhibits
-primeval oriental motives beside those in newest “modern style.”
-
-Here it is of the greatest importance to indicate the zigzag line which
-denotes the alternate repulsion and attraction that under the influence
-of the woman movement marriage has had for woman.
-
-First came the little crowd of “masculine women” with their hatred of
-marriage and man. Then the great working army that forgot, over the
-human rights of woman, that to these also must belong the right to
-fulfil her duty as a being of sex, and not alone the right to be
-“independent of marriage” through her work. Then came the reaction
-against this incompleteness. At this time, the nature of woman was
-called an “empty capsule,” which received its content only from man: a
-“cry of the blood,” which finds its answer in the child. There was no
-other “woman question” than the possibility of living erotically a
-complete life. One woman wished this in love without marriage, another
-in love without children, a third in children without marriage, a fourth
-in children without love—“A work and a child” was the life cry—a fifth
-woman wished the man only for the sake of the child, a sixth the child
-only for the sake of the man, and the seventh wished both only for her
-own sake!
-
-The conviction of some women that the common erotic life of man and
-woman must have also a spiritual life value for two human souls, filling
-out and developing each other, was called “Ibsenism.” And after the
-ideal demands which Ibsen pressed upon the consciousness of the time,
-many men—and not a few women—found relaxation after their spiritual
-over-exertion, if they desired nothing more from one another than “the
-sound happiness of the senses.” Woman’s “personality,” “equality,” and
-“human right” were old playthings, relegated to the rubbish heap.
-
-The reaction against this reaction is now in progress. Just now—and
-equally one-sided as will be shown later—woman’s universal humanity is
-emphasised at the expense of the instinct life; her social labour-duty,
-at the expense of the domestic life; her personality, at the expense of
-the family.
-
-Among all these zigzag movements, more deeply thoughtful women
-continually sought to recall that neither the universal human nor the
-sexual being of woman must be over-developed at the expense of the other
-qualities of her being; that perfect humanity signifies for neither sex
-that the spiritual life has suppressed the sex life or sex, the
-soul-life, but that both find in a third higher condition their full
-redemption and harmony. Through great love, exceptional natures already
-create this condition; but what to-day only exceptional natures attain,
-culture can gradually make attainable for many.
-
-This great love demands fidelity. But often only one—ordinarily the
-woman—experiences this great feeling. And then not even the deepest
-devotion on her part suffices to preserve the community of life. To
-preserve the form for the purpose of guarding the inner emptiness, as
-was done earlier, is repugnant to the erotic consciousness of the modern
-woman. This is the deepest reason why the modern woman—even also the
-modern developed man—becomes continually more undecided about
-contracting marriage. They both know that the passion which attracts two
-beings is not synonymous with a sympathy which arises through the
-harmony of their natures, which must not be so complete that nothing
-remains of the unexpected and mysterious that is so essential an element
-of love. The modern woman asks herself, “What can prove to me that an
-erotic sympathy is profound, real, decreed by nature, life-long?” And
-she asks with good reason. If two lovers who know that they make each
-other happy with all the senses, constrained themselves, each in a
-corner of a room fettered to a stool, blindfolded, to entertain each
-other three hours daily for three months, this test would probably
-prevent a great number of marriages void of sympathy. But it would
-furnish no guaranty that those who consummated the marriage after such a
-concentrated soul interchange, would hold out. For souls which in a
-certain stage of development seem inexhaustible can be so transformed
-that they experience only satiety for each other. The young wife of
-to-day is deeply conscious of what a new problem for each newly married
-woman marriage is. She knows how impossible it is to foresee what
-difficulties will be encountered and whether good intentions and tactful
-adaptation will succeed in overcoming these difficulties. She knows
-that, even if the written law made her wholly equal to man, even if she
-made herself that equal by entering only into a marriage of the higher,
-newer conscience, yet all the inner, most difficult, deepest problems
-still remain. This certainly induces many women to become only the
-beloved, the mistress, of the man who wishes no community of life, but
-only happy hours. Many more women still strike the possibilities of
-erotic happiness out of their plan of life, because they have not
-experienced the ideal love of which they dreamed, or else could not
-realise it.[3]
-
-Sometimes their doubt, in regard to the duration of love and the unity
-of souls, decides them, another time the longing for a personal
-life-work is the reason for their determination—a life-work for which
-these women have suffered so keenly, been deprived of so much, and have
-so struggled, that it has become passionately dear to them, and they
-feel that a complete renunciation of the erotic life is easier than the
-torment of being “drawn and quartered,” as the death penalty of the
-Middle Ages was called—a quartering between profession, husband, home,
-and children. And the result usually demonstrates that celibacy is wiser
-than the compromise. It is most frequently the case,—in Europe at
-least,—if the work of the unmarried woman had no personal character, and
-if the home is not dependent upon the earnings of the wife, that she
-gives up her professional work after her marriage.
-
-Against this sacrifice, however, the higher erotic idealism has begun to
-rebel and has, thereby, come into conflict with the conservative
-direction of feminism, which while planning to make the wife equal to
-the husband, adheres firmly to the present marriage as protection for
-wife and children.
-
-It is this point of view that is condemned by the new idealism. For it
-“protection” signifies, in its innermost meaning, that the man buys love
-and the woman sells it, which is considered “moral,” while it is
-considered immoral for a man to sell love and for a woman to buy it. The
-“protection” in this relationship has as result that the “virtue” of the
-maid is synonymous with untouched sexual nature, and that of the wife,
-with physical fidelity; while the “virtue” of the youth and the man is
-judged from an entirely different point of view.
-
-The relationship affording “protection” has also brought with it the
-idea that a woman could not show her love as openly as a man, except
-when he was proud and poor and she was rich. Only when the duty of
-support on the part of the man ceases, will woman be able to demand the
-same chastity and fidelity from him as he demands from her; she will
-then be able, quite as proudly and naturally as he, to show the
-flowering of her being—her love—instead of as now increasing her demand
-in the marriage market by artful dissimulation. As long as maintenance,
-within or outside of marriage, is the price for “possession” of the
-woman, the man will consider the woman as “his,” and the more submissive
-she is the more fully she satisfies his feeling of ownership. Now
-marriage has become only an affair of custom, a common death or comatose
-condition, because neither party needs trouble himself to keep the love
-of the other. Only when woman, through her work, can lead an existence
-worthy of a human being, when no woman will sell her love but every
-woman can freely give it, will man experience what perfect womanly
-devotion is. And when no man can “possess” love but must remain worthy
-of love in order to be loved then only will women, on their side,
-experience what tenderness and fine feeling masculine devotion can
-attain.
-
-This, the purest and warmest erotic idealism, is the morality of the
-future. But the way to its realisation is not, as many women believe
-to-day, that mothers, even, should continue their work of earning a
-livelihood, but that way whose direction I have elsewhere pointed
-out.[4]
-
-Here we have to do, however, only with the spiritual conditions which
-arise in the marriage of to-day, whether the wife has retained her work
-or has given it up.
-
- * * * * *
-
-Even the cultivated modern man, who brings to the human personality of
-his wife admiration and sympathy, seeks in her always that “womanliness”
-to which Goethe has given the classic expression: the finely reserved,
-quiet, strong, self-contained woman, reposing harmoniously in the
-fulness of her own nature, a maternally lovely being, wholly “natural,”
-a “beautiful soul,” observing, creative, but using these gifts only to
-create a home. These creative offices the modern man who loves desires
-to assure, when he wishes to “maintain” his wife, and begs her to
-abandon the outside commercial work in which he foresees a danger to the
-beautiful life together of which both dream. The woman who along with
-her new self-conscious individuality and her profound culture has
-guarded the “old” devotion, understands ordinarily this desire of the
-man. She chooses, in spite of her idealism, as he wishes, in cases where
-her work has not been very personal. If she has worked in the same field
-as the man, then she converts her gifts into comprehension of him, into
-personal interest for all his interests; and these marriages in which
-the wife has enjoyed the same education as the man, but later has
-devoted herself entirely to the home, are, as a rule, the happiest
-marriages of the present time. But in the proportion in which her work
-was creative, is the difficulty of the choice. In the case where the
-productive power has the strength of genius, the modern man will
-scarcely utter such a wish and in those circumstances the modern woman
-will not grant it. And because the woman of genius is generally a
-complete human being, with strong erotic as well as universal human
-demands, she chooses often compromise. She finds in love, in motherhood,
-new revelations; and in the mysterious depths of her nature, the
-productive element of the maternal function has an elevating influence
-upon her gift of creative power. Thus the energy temporarily diminished
-by motherhood is restored. And her uneasy conscience, because she must
-entrust to others much of the care and education of the children, is
-appeased by the consciousness that she has often given to mankind richer
-natures, and so more significant children, than more devoted mothers,
-and that her own nature, because of the double creative activity, has
-attained a ripeness and richness which make her personality more
-significant for husband and children than if she had given up her
-calling to please them. These thoughts cannot, however, prevent the
-daily conflict between her feelings of love and the impossibility, in
-times of strong spiritual production, of giving expression to it. The
-very proximity of the children consumes at such times too much nervous
-energy. And since all creation requires selfishness—in the sense of
-concentration upon one’s _own needs_ in order to be able to work
-creatively and to sink oneself in the work—while all love’s solicitude
-requires active _attention_ to the _needs of the loved ones_, the
-conflict must remain permanent and _insoluble_.
-
-In this conviction, many women of genius choose the lesser conflict:
-marriage without children. Such a relationship occurs not infrequently
-in our time in this way: a man of feeling through the work of a woman is
-first moved by her being. The man is in that case often the younger or
-the less developed. At first, marriage brings both a rich happiness. But
-later comes a time when the power of the personality of the woman of
-genius becomes too strong for the man; when he feels himself exhausted
-by all the sensitiveness and impatience which charge the air about a
-creative personality with electricity. He has now had enough of the rich
-spiritual exchange and longs for a woman who is only fresh richness,
-sunny quiet, easy docility; the now vanished “ingénue” would be the type
-of woman who most of all could entrance him.
-
-In another case, it is the wife who becomes wearied, when the man can no
-longer keep pace with her development nor afford her new inspiration.
-The erotic life of the woman as well as of the man of genius exhibits
-two phases: in one they are attracted by their opposite, in the other by
-a congeniality of souls; in one phase they have sought sentiment,
-intimacy, nature; in the other, soul, passion, culture. The order
-changes in different cases, but the phenomenon repeats itself. What both
-consciously or unconsciously desire of love is not another individuality
-to love but only a means of inspiration.
-
-Yet one thing may be emphasised: the richer the nature of a woman is and
-the greater her talents, the more life-determining love will be for her;
-at one time making her existence desolate, at another time making it
-fruitful. For the woman of genius is less able than the man to renounce
-her own fate. This the man is capable of doing, in the midst of passion,
-without his work suffering thereby in vigour and strength; the woman on
-the contrary—even the genius—loses more easily her creative impulse in
-happiness, her creative power in unhappiness.
-
-In this connection it may be recalled that many of the most gifted, most
-highly developed woman personalities of to-day have produced nothing,
-but have been what a Frenchman has called “les grandes inspiratrices.”
-These have not, indeed, like the “Ladies” of the Middle Ages, been
-worshipped at a distance by knights and poets; but they have had an
-influence similar to that of Beatrice, through the power of
-communication of their rich personality in a relationship which had now
-the character of an “amitié amoureuse,” now that of a love imbued with
-sympathy, which in some cases, infrequently however, led to marriage. I
-need only mention the name Richard Wagner for the forms of two such
-women to appear, one of whom, who was his wife, surpassed in personal
-greatness all independently creative women of her time. But there have
-always been less unusual women who had significance as propagandists of
-the ideas of a great man through their specifically feminine gifts of
-convincing, of diffusing ideas, of modifying views, etc. If the future,
-because of the wife’s zeal for production on her own part, should lose
-this element of culture, it would be deplorable.
-
-One of the favourite arguments of the woman movement has been that two
-married people working in the same profession had the best opportunities
-for understanding each other and consequently also for being happy. And
-truly they can best talk shop with each other. But that is what the
-working man needs least of all in his home; there he seeks rather
-relaxation from his calling, or at least a quite disinterested,
-immediate sympathy with its annoyances or joys. When one of the married
-fellow-workmen needs exactly this sympathy, the other is perhaps busy or
-too tired to be capable of such lively interest as the other expects. Or
-one has experienced disappointments, the other joys, and then a real
-sympathy is still more difficult. To these crossings of mood is added
-also the unintentional, involuntary competition, which the similarity of
-vocation brings with it. The wife gains patients, the husband does not;
-his picture is praised, hers is pulled to pieces; she comes home from
-the theatre victorious, he after a defeat. During work, the criticism of
-one often disturbs the other; after the work, the criticism of the press
-disturbs the harmony of both. Love wishes to fuse them into one being,
-the outer world compels them always to feel themselves separate. In the
-beginning they think: “Nothing can come between us.” But if both do not
-possess a rare tenderness as well as rare fineness of soul, soon needles
-of ice fly through the air between them. Only when the wife, as is the
-case so often in France, puts her ability into her husband’s affairs
-does this common interest prevent rivalry.
-
-Whether the province of the husband and wife is the same or not,
-difficulty always results from the wife’s commercial or professional
-work in that she rarely finds a good substitute for the domestic and
-maternal duties. And when the husband sees the house badly managed and
-the children ill-bred, he tries according to his strength to render
-assistance or, as more frequently happens, seeks his comfort outside the
-home. But even if these stumbling-blocks may be cleared away by other
-feminine hands, the fact still remains that the wife because of her work
-must demand sacrifices on the part of the man such as his work has
-required at all times from the wife. She is often compelled to forego
-much of the society of her husband, of his solicitude and tenderness
-because he has no available time. Now each of the married people has
-consideration for the leisure of the other and for all other severe
-conditions of the work. But beside these favourable results stands also
-the detrimental fact that each suppresses his claims upon the sympathy
-of the other, as well as the wish to express his own, whenever this
-receiving and giving would interfere with the work. If this has become
-for one or for both a real passion, then the passion blinds him to
-everything that does not concern the work, and causes alternately joy or
-suffering. Each of the married couple then disturbs the other by moods,
-and each needs to be cherished by the other. The tenderness which
-neither can give to the other, they find perhaps in a third.
-
-But in those cases where the work is not passionately absorbing or where
-both husband and wife are persons of understanding, rather than of
-feeling, marriages of colleagues turn out well. Each has in the other an
-intelligent, appreciative friend; the common work together is rich, and
-neither gives nor requires more than the other is able to reciprocate.
-The education of the wife makes her a good organiser in the home, which
-is comfortable without the work’s suffering thereby. When this is not
-too strenuous for either, but after the close of a reasonable working
-time, the two meet spiritually free in the home, the duties of which
-they often share—then the domestic life is happy and the work progresses
-easily, as long as there are no children. When children arrive, then
-there begins for the wife, even in such marriages, a life beyond her
-strength.
-
-But since nature, in the interest of the race, often makes opposites
-attractive to each other, one may find a husband, full of feeling, who
-loves children, united to a wife for whom science is the greatest value
-of life, while she relegates feeling to a lower plane and considers
-motherhood an animal function. In place of the tenderness and of the
-children for which the husband longed, he has to participate in the
-victories and defeats of a woman of science. Or we see a wife who
-dreamed of an intimate life with her husband and who sacrificed her work
-to it; but the life together was wrecked upon the husband’s artist
-concentration, and the wife had to suffer under a twofold emptiness: the
-lack of her work and the lack of happiness. Then one sees instances
-where the wife retained her work because it was economically necessary
-and because she hoped out of the richness of her young strength to be
-able to fulfil all duties. And all this she was able to do except one
-thing—to preserve under the excessive strain her beauty, her power of
-charm, the elasticity of her nature. Perhaps she belonged to the very
-highest among the new women who are so undivided, so proud, who think so
-highly of themselves, of man, of love, that they are beyond a wholly
-justified coquetry and rest blindly upon the uniting power of spiritual
-congeniality. But the day comes perhaps when these strong and, in all
-other respects, wise women have nothing other than freedom to give to
-the man whose senses, whose fancy, need that charm which the wife no
-longer possesses. In case, however, the man’s nature is not of those for
-whom the silken threads of daily domestic comfort form the strong band,
-but on the contrary is of the sort which needs renewal, then the very
-absence of the wife, occasioned temporarily by the work, can keep the
-relationship long fresh. This is upon the assumption that she
-understands what some of these women do not understand: to give, but in
-such a way that the man always longs for more; to remain sweetheart, not
-only friend; to be able to jest, not only to talk seriously. The modern
-wife of to-day, tested upon so many subjects, is often deeply mistaken
-in regard to the _kind_ of “ministry” the man needs. The simple wisdom
-of their grandmothers consisted in this: to give much and to require
-nothing, always to subordinate themselves to the man with gentleness and
-humility, never to assert themselves before him as a free,
-self-determining personality. The wives of to-day, sacredly convinced of
-the right and freedom of women, succeed better in asserting their
-personality than in pleasing their husbands, and the quantity of their
-demands is often more noteworthy than the quality of their gifts. That
-many modern marriages turn out well shows that the adaptability of the
-modern husband is beginning to be even as great as that of the wife in
-former times!
-
-The marriage is absolutely wrecked when the wife brings to it all the
-new demands of woman, but the husband all the primeval instincts of his
-sex. What in each sex relationship most intimately unites or most deeply
-sunders is and remains the erotic depth of nature in each. And the
-difference in this respect between the men and women of the present ever
-more widely separates them, and this division becomes fatal to
-innumerable individual lovers of to-day, as well as for the attitude of
-the sexes toward marriage in general. The erotically symmetrical woman
-views with hostility the dualism in the erotic nature of the modern man.
-This dualism evinces itself, with innumerable nuances it is true, in
-three typical ways: infinite erotic discussion, but inability to be
-stirred by it either with the soul or with the senses; ability to love
-only with the senses, not with the soul; and finally looking down upon
-the senses and desiring “spiritual love” only. For the modern completely
-developed woman the chattering vacuity, the animal instinct, the ascetic
-spirituality, are equally repellent. And yet it happens that the rosy
-mist of love can bring such a woman to a point where she creates for
-herself an illusion out of one of the above mentioned types. Most
-frequently this occurs in the case of the vigorous man who divines
-nothing of the spiritual content of the woman whose outer appearance has
-charmed him. The tragedy of the modern woman is then like that which
-Hebbel has revealed in _Judith_, that the sex being in her is attracted
-by the muscular masculinity, which her human personality hates as her
-mortal enemy. For as a personality she admires in man only the spiritual
-strength of the man. The man on his part regrets his mistake that he did
-not choose a pretty amiable girl “of the old sort,” who would punctually
-lay his table and willingly share his bed; a woman “into whose head
-Ibsen had put no fancies,” who “had not allowed herself to be talked
-into some folly by feminism.”
-
- * * * * *
-
-Among such “follies,” similar men, and many others as well, include the
-demand advanced by the woman movement for the married woman’s property
-right, as well as a specified income for the wife working in the home,
-who however has to contribute from her property or her “remuneration” as
-housekeeper to the common household—a corollary which is always
-forgotten by the anti-feminist writers who assert that “the man becomes
-a slave when he has to work for the whole, but the wife may retain
-everything of hers.” (_Strindberg._)
-
-The modern woman who before her marriage was independent, owing to her
-work, abhors the thought of a request for money—this most painful moment
-even in the happiest marriages—to so great a degree that this aversion
-determines the wife in some cases to keep up her own work. If on the
-contrary she has given this up, the consciousness of her earlier
-independence makes her often so sensitive that she feels herself injured
-by a protest however delicate in regard to the expenditure of money.
-More than one man has regretted, in consequence of the unreasonable
-demands of his wife, that he ever begged her to give up her own work.
-There are women, on the other hand, who continue their work and thereby
-only increase the incapability of a good-for-nothing man. In such cases,
-it avails little that in many countries the law now allows the wife free
-disposal of the income from her labour. Notwithstanding this, the
-assertion is ridiculous that “if the man drinks up the money of his wife
-it is with her consent,” and “it is therefore of no avail to alter the
-law.” For it makes a significant difference in the relative position of
-the man and wife whether the law gives him the _right_ to it, or whether
-he takes it by force. But in this as in other cases, the woman movement
-obviously cannot free women so long as they are impelled by unconscious
-forces from within to actions and sacrifices at variance with their
-conscious personality. The one thing which the woman movement has
-already achieved and can continue to achieve, is that the undue
-encroachment of the men ceases to have legal protection.
-
-It is undeniable, on the other hand, that the unmarried woman’s personal
-and economic independence fashions wives who in marriage show themselves
-in a high degree egotistic, but who yet incessantly scold about man’s
-egotism, wives who themselves exhibit very little devotion and fine
-feeling, but place very great importance upon consideration. These wives
-were the ones whom fifty years ago men called “graters.” But the lack of
-amiability, which in certain women was usually due to childbirth, has
-nevertheless in modern woman, at least during the freedom of her
-girlhood, been unrestrained habit. Her firm—and just—decision not to be
-“subservient” to her husband has resulted in, first, an armed peace,
-later, a war, in which the wife’s work is one of the projectiles. “I
-have my work, why should I stay here to be used up and tormented?” she
-asks herself. And when such questions begin, there is usually but one
-answer.
-
-There is one decided advantage in giving to the woman the opportunity to
-earn her living: she has again acquired thereby significance in the
-home, while the generation of women, who neither co-operated
-_productively_ in the home nor assumed all the duties of the mother,
-were regarded by man with less respect than, on the one side, their
-grandmothers who _produced_ all of the household requisites, on the
-other side, their now independent self-supporting granddaughters. Only
-when society _recompenses the vocation of mother_, can woman find in
-this a full equivalent for self-supporting labour.
-
-Another typical group of our time is formed by the numerous women for
-whom no choice remains in regard to their work, since it is of a kind
-that they must give up because of the removal to another place, or more
-frequently because they find so much work in the new home that every
-thought of anything further outside must cease. Those who think that
-industry has made the work of the wife in the home to-day superfluous,
-speak only of the _great cities_, and usually only of _opulent families
-in the great cities_, where they are in a position to buy cheaper
-everything that the labour of the wife could produce. But in the
-country, among all classes, the mother must be the director of the work;
-and in all country homes in moderate circumstances—as in countless poor
-or not very well-to-do city families—the work of the mother is still
-frequently indispensable, and in addition is more economical than her
-earnings out of the house could be, especially since the developed
-modern woman is usually capable of a more rational housekeeping than the
-woman of earlier times.
-
-But while the mothers of that time knew nothing except housework, those
-of to-day have often, as unmarried and self-supporting women, enjoyed a
-freedom of movement and opportunities of development which, now that
-they are over-burdened with household cares, they may seriously miss.
-The work of the mother is now still further increased by the difficulty
-of getting servants—at least capable ones—and also by the demands of
-luxury. The result of this again is that hospitality in the home
-decreases, that the watchword of the time, “the windows of the house
-wide open to the world, fresh air in the home, no creeping into the
-chimney corner,” is so interpreted that warmth and intimacy vanish. Yes,
-the overworked mother often herself insists that the family leave the
-house and seek some place of recreation for the annual festivals, which
-were once the children’s happiest and brightest recollections of home.
-
-The fact that most modern women of culture devote themselves to some
-branch of social work, often to several, contributes still further to
-the over-exertion of the mother. Even when this occurs from pure
-altruism, the motive cannot prevent such altruism from becoming
-sometimes a disease of which one may die quite as surely as of other
-diseases. This death is quite as immoral as any other resulting from
-neglected hygiene. No one has the right to perish from altruism, except
-when destruction is the _condition_ of his fulfilling his duty. But in
-many cases the occasion is the widely ramified social activity of the
-woman for whom the home now often falls short; not a result of altruism,
-but a manifestation of that desire for power which once was satisfied in
-the family. Or it may be a form of the hysteria characteristic of the
-present time. In the sixteenth century, the hysterical were burned as
-witches; now they “sacrifice” themselves to an activity which offers
-them in reality the variety, the intoxication of publicity—in a word,
-the life stimulus they need. But even sound, sincere, and conscientious
-women are driven by the woman movement and by social work to assume
-pseudo duties, for which the real duties are pushed aside. If instead of
-instituting official inquiries among wives and mothers as to what they
-can accomplish, one should direct the same questions to their husbands
-and children, these would, if they dared be honest, testify that _they_
-must pay the price for the altruistic activity.
-
-Since the work of married women outside the home, the woman movement,
-and the social work began, one seldom finds a wholly sound, joyous,
-harmonious wife and mother. The constant complaint of the modern woman
-is that she “never has time.” The minority who live a life of luxury,
-wholly free from work, while the husband works feverishly to provide the
-luxury which neither will forego, telephone away a quarter of the day
-making appointments concerning the toilette, visits, and amusements,
-which take up the remaining three quarters of the day. And others,
-loaded down with household work or divided between this and work for
-their livelihood, how shall they find time!
-
-Least of all have they the time necessary for the countless little
-tokens of tenderness which intensify all relationships between people. A
-French mother who became a widow and brought up her children by means of
-her own work received from her son, grown to a youth, the judgment:
-“Thou hast never loved us.” Too late, it became clear to her that “it
-requires time to love,” that it is not enough to feel love, and, looked
-at as a whole, to act with love—no, love must be expressed. And for this
-the harassed mother of to-day lacks time and quiet.
-
-Formerly, it was only the husband and father who had no time; the wife
-and mother had it and could thus preserve the warmth of the home. But
-now?
-
-There are now, it is true, many women with so few claims that they think
-they have fulfilled the fourfold task. In reality, they have fulfilled
-all their duties imperfectly, or eliminated one task for a time in order
-to be able to accomplish the others. _No woman has ever been at the same
-time all_ that a wife can be to her husband, a mother to her children, a
-housewife to her house, a working woman to her work. In the last
-capacity the difficulty of the married woman is still further increased
-by the present competition, as also by the fact that the better a person
-works the more work falls to her, so that an exact and reasonable
-division of time between work and home is often rendered quite
-impossible.
-
-In addition to all these difficulties arising through actualities, there
-are finally also those evoked by the “spirit of the time.” A wife has,
-for example, decided to give up a vocation which she saw was not
-compatible with her home. But she stills finds no rest. She is harassed
-by the demand of the “spirit of the time” that a married woman should be
-able to take care of the house as well as to accomplish outside personal
-work. The husband, also influenced by the “spirit of the time,” thinks
-the same or feels painfully the fact that his wife, for love of him, has
-sacrificed the exercise of a talent, in which he perhaps has felt a
-personal interest; the longing for the vocation awakens in her, and she
-resumes her work, with the result that, if she has energetically
-resisted the lassitude that comes with beginning motherhood, she and the
-child must suffer later. Or she lives in a permanent state of
-over-exertion which finally culminates in nervous conditions under which
-the whole family must share her suffering. Had she been able to follow
-in peace her instinct to strike deep root in the home soil and to
-enlarge and enrich her being by the annual growth of ring after ring of
-her production of love, then the essential values would have been
-increased for all. Now, she is led astray by a biased opinion of the
-time, which owes its effectiveness to the single fact that the
-opinionated resolutely turn their back upon all facts.
-
-Thanks to these ideas of the time propagated by certain feminists, we
-see increasing numbers of women who perform their “social duty” as the
-telegraph poles perform their function; while such duty could have been
-fulfilled as the tree grows in a garden: blooming, fruit-bearing,
-joyful, joy-bringing.
-
-
-
-
- CHAPTER VII
- THE INFLUENCE OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT UPON MOTHERHOOD
-
-
-Because it has increased the culture of woman and her feeling of
-personal responsibility, the woman movement has had its influence, both
-directly and indirectly, upon the postponement of the legal and
-customary marriage age. Since young girls have exercised their brains as
-much as the boys have, they are no longer so far in advance of the boys
-in physical development. But when modern girls finish their studies they
-are physically as well as psychically more universally developed than
-their grandmothers were. They know much more of the difficulties and
-realities of life, not least of the sexual life. And this knowledge has
-instilled in them a reluctance to undertake too early the serious and
-difficult task of motherhood. They have greater need of truth and
-culture, and less tendency to erotic visionary dreaming than girls of
-their age in the middle of the previous century; their desire for work
-and their social feeling fix goals, and they work with all their might
-to attain them. And because, as already explained, both sexes have for
-each other a more many-sided attraction than the merely erotic, young
-people are more careful, more choice, in their erotic decisions. The
-finest young girls of to-day are penetrated by the Nietzschean idea,
-that marriage is the combined will of two people to create a new being
-greater than themselves. But their joy does _not_ consist in the fact
-“that the man wills”; they are themselves “will,” and above all they
-have the will to choose the right father for their children, not only
-for their own sake but for the sake of the children.
-
-If it be true that immediate, “blind,” erotic attraction is most
-instinctively correct in choice, then the present comrade life of young
-people and the increased clear-sightedness which it gives, as well as
-the increasing erotic idealism of young girls, are not unconditionally
-advantageous to the new race. The question is, however, still undecided.
-Here it may only be emphasised that the young girl of to-day, in spite
-of all intellectual development, is still won always by powerful
-spiritual-sensual love, which the woman movement has too long considered
-as a negligible quantity. Under the influence of the doctrine of
-evolution, young girls begin to understand that their value as members
-of society depends essentially upon their value for the propagation of
-mankind; all the more they realise the duty of physical culture which
-will enable them to fulfil this function better; they no longer consider
-their erotic longing as impure and ugly but as pure and beautiful. It is
-out of this soul condition that the different movements for the
-protection of mothers and children, theoretically considered, have
-proceeded. These are at present the most important “woman movements,”
-although unrecognised by the older woman movement. And this older
-movement has not yet recognised the fact that, because of present
-marriage conditions, the degenerate, uneducated, decrepit, have greater
-opportunity for propagating the race, both within and outside of
-marriage, than the young, sound, pure-minded, and loving; that it can
-therefore _be no sin_, from the point of view of the race, if the latter
-become parents without marriage, nor should it be a subject of shame
-from the social point of view. All women’s rights have little value,
-until this one thing is attained: that a woman who through her
-illegitimate motherhood has lost nothing of her personal worth, but on
-the contrary has proved it, does not forfeit social esteem.
-
-Our time can point to women who have been typical of the reform
-tendencies of the century in this respect. Some of these women, if they
-really accomplished the unprecedented task of “a child and a work,” have
-drawn their strength for the task out of precisely the commonplace,
-homely qualities and sterling virtues, contrary to which they believed
-they were acting when they became mothers, driven by a power greater
-than their _conscious_ personality. Others again became mothers with the
-consent of their whole personality. They were clear that they thus made
-use of the masculine rights and freedom which feminism first brought
-home to women. And although many advocates of women’s rights refrain
-from such consequences of their ideas, the women who in other respects
-determine their conduct of life by their own free personal choice
-recognise that this, their _real_ “emancipation,” is a fruit of the
-woman movement.
-
-In Europe, however, most women under thirty still dare to dream of
-motherhood in a love marriage as the greatest happiness and the highest
-duty of life.[5]
-
-But, as direct and indirect result of the woman movement, the fact none
-the less remains that there is found _among women an increasing
-disinclination for maternity_, a reluctance which deprives mankind of
-many superior mothers, while at the same time woman’s commercial work
-for self-support in all classes increases her sterility or makes her
-incapable of the suckling so vitally important for the children.
-
-That the modern woman, because of individual fate or her own choice,
-often remains unmarried is no danger in and for itself. This fact, as I
-have emphasised above, is connected with a number of cultural and
-material conditions, which sometime will be altered, and then woman’s
-desire for marriage will again increase. The real danger has appeared
-only since women have begun to strengthen the tendency to celibacy by
-the amaternal theory, which now confuses the feminine brain and leads
-the feminine instinct astray.
-
-The woman movement in and with this influence upon maternity sinks to
-the lowest point of the scale according to the criterion of worth
-employed here: the elevation of the life of the individual and of the
-race. In this we stand in our time before a twofold mystery, which lies
-in the circumstance that not only women—women “with breasts made right
-to suckle babes”—emphasise this stultifying influence, but that there
-are men, each the son of a mother, who also propagate it. These men have
-allowed themselves to be blinded by the false logic concerning women,
-which declares that since rich mothers do not wish to fulfil the duties
-of a mother and the poor cannot fulfil them, superior social
-organisations must be created for that purpose; in other words,
-instigated by a mere temporary unpleasant discrepancy, we will create a
-new, a different order of things. But, if this obtained universally, it
-would inflict incomparably greater injury upon mankind than do present
-unhappy conditions.
-
-Upon the whole, however, it is precisely as a result of this tendency
-that the deepest hostility of men against feminism has developed. The
-fact that the idea of evolution is now beginning to enter into the flesh
-and blood of man also contributes its share to this feeling. Just as
-formerly a man wished heirs for his personal and real estate and for his
-name, he now desires inheritors of his being; he desires an eternal
-life, which becomes a certainty only by means of parenthood, whereby the
-individual as father or mother lives on physically and spiritually, in
-body and soul, in his children and grandchildren down to the last of his
-descendants. This conception has made the sex instinct again holy, as it
-was for the pagans. This new reverence for their duty as beings of sex
-now induces many young men to guard their sexual health and strength by
-an asceticism the motive of which is the exact opposite of that which
-determined the asceticism called forth by Christianity, the asceticism
-which was fear of the sex instinct as impure and as a temptation to sin.
-Now the innermost aim of young men’s creative desire is the higher
-development of mankind. Love becomes for them the condition by which
-they can most perfectly redeem their religious certainty of being part
-of a great design, their religious longing for harmony with life’s
-creative desire, with the infinite.
-
-There are now men who work most zealously for the ennoblement of the
-race—“eugenics,” as this effort is called in England—as well as for the
-protection of mother and child—“puericulture,” as this endeavour is
-called in France. There are men who write excellent works upon the
-psychology of the child, and upon sexual instruction; men, who, in art
-and poetry, give expression to the new veneration for the sanctity of
-generation, for motherhood, for the child. The finest thing written
-about the child as a cultural power is written by an American.[6]
-Painting has now new devotional pictures of the Mother with her Child,
-especially those conceived by a Frenchman and an Italian.[7] The most
-beautiful representation of youth’s new desire for love is by a German
-sculptor.[8] Likewise a German, Nietzsche, has the most profound
-conception of parenthood and education as the means whereby humanity
-will cross over the bridge of the men of to-day to the superman.
-
-Only when all this is realised can one conceive what the feelings of
-these new men must be when they meet those new women “who are no longer
-willing to be slaves of the instinct for the propagation of the race;”
-who see in motherhood “a loss of time from their work;” “an attack upon
-their beauty;” an obstacle to the refined conduct of life;—a conduct of
-life certain to debase woman’s worth as a child-bearing being, but to
-elevate her to that exquisite, perfect product of culture, a “woman of
-the world;” an obstacle also for woman as creator of other objective
-cultural values. If a man with a father’s desires finds himself united
-with such a woman, he finds himself in marriage quite as much a
-prostitute as innumerable wives have felt themselves to be when they
-were mere tools of a man’s desire. On the contrary the desire for the
-elevation of mankind on the part of the new woman and the new man, is
-evinced in the idea that not the quantity but the quality of the
-children they give to humanity is most significant; that a land of fewer
-but more perfect men is a higher culture ideal than the principle still
-always maintained from the point of view of national competition, that
-the inhabitants of a country must only be numerous however inferior they
-may be.
-
-To this wholly new evolutionary conception of life the amaternal women
-oppose the following train of thought which greatly influences the
-feeling and desire of women to-day[9]:
-
-Culture now sets new duties for woman, more significant than exclusively
-natural ones. The more the individual life increases in value, the more
-the interest for the mere functions of sex declines, and with it also
-the value of woman _as woman_ for a society where, because of
-motherhood, she has become a being of secondary rank. It evinces lack of
-ideality if one censures this tendency of the modern woman to renounce
-maternity for the sake of more spiritual interests. While the mother
-concentrates herself upon her own child only, the woman who renounces
-motherhood can extend her being to embrace children as children in
-general. As a mother, woman is only a being of nature. But the
-personality, with its multiplicity of feelings and endeavours, demands
-an independent activity as well as maternity.
-
-To put her entire personality into the education of her children is a
-twofold error. First and foremost, most mothers are _bad_ educators and
-serve their children better if they entrust them to a born teacher; in
-the second place, _gifted_ children educate themselves best and should
-be spared all educational arts. The mediocre child, who is more
-susceptible to education, has ordinarily also only mediocre parents, who
-likewise benefit the children most if they put them in the care of
-excellent teachers. Children who are _below_ mediocrity can also be best
-educated by specialists. So there remains for the mother, after the
-first years’ care and training, no especial task as educator, at least
-none in which she can really put her personality. To talk to a mother
-about the possibilities of a richer office of mother, as educator of her
-children, she calls lulling her into an illusion under which she must
-labour only to suffer. A woman who can exercise her personality in
-another way should not therefore put it into the education of her
-children.
-
-The amaternal advocates deny that motherliness is the criterion of
-womanliness; they find this criterion in the form, the external being of
-woman, in her manner and physical appearance—in a word, in the _outer_
-expression of the inner disposition, which they deny as typical of
-womanliness! “Womanliness” is thus reduced to an “æsthetic principle,”
-while woman’s spiritual attributes are considered as “universally
-human”; and the right is granted to the feminine sex to emancipate
-herself from the result of the heresy that _motherliness_ should be the
-ethical norm for the “being” or “essence” of womanhood. The suitability
-of woman’s _psychic_ constitution for her work as mother is not
-acknowledged as proof that motherliness is the distinguishing
-characteristic of womanliness. For this constitution is less conspicuous
-in the higher stages of differentiation. Its suitability was then a
-phenomenon of adaptation and changed with the conditions of life. Thus
-this constitution cannot be cited as a reason for limiting woman’s
-personal exercise of her powers. Motherliness is no social instinct. How
-can motherliness, which we have in common with beasts and savages, be
-considered as higher than, for example, justice, truth, and other
-gradually won spiritual values, which woman can promote by her personal
-activity? The higher the forms of life woman attains, the less will her
-personality be determined by motherliness. Why then should women bring
-to the domestic life the sacrifice of their personality, while no one
-demands this of men? Why shall not woman, just as man, satisfy her
-demands as a sex being in marriage and, as for the rest, follow her
-profession, attend to her spiritual development, her social tasks? Why
-condemn woman to remain a half-being—that is, with unexercised
-brain—only because certain of her instincts attract her to man, while he
-is not constrained to suppress his personality because he in like manner
-felt himself attracted to woman? It is the old superstition of the
-family life as “woman’s sphere,” which still confuses the conception. By
-the present form of family life woman is “oversexed.” Her higher
-development, as well as that of her husband and children, will be
-promoted if woman guards her independence by earning her own living, in
-commercial work conducted beyond the portal of the home; if housekeeping
-becomes co-operative; if the education of the children is carried on
-outside the home, in which now the motherly tenderness emasculates the
-children and fosters in them family sentiment of an egoistic nature and
-not social feelings. Thus are solved the difficulties which are entailed
-when the wife’s work is carried on outside the home; equipoise between
-her intellectual and emotional, her sexual and social nature follows,
-and her worth, as that of a man, will be measured by her human
-personality, not by her womanliness, her efficacy in the family, for the
-exercise of which she is now constrained to renounce her personality.
-
-So runs in brief the programme of the amaternals.
-
- * * * * *
-
-It has already been indicated that the woman movement, in its
-_inception_, could gather strength only by combating with all its power
-the prejudice that _woman is incapable of the same kind of activity as
-man_. But now the whole woman movement has for a long time been
-emphasising the fact that woman is entitled, not only on her own behalf
-but more especially in her capacity as home-keeper, wife, and mother, to
-the full development of her powers and to equality with man in the
-family and in society. In the amaternal programme sketched above,
-however, the fanaticism, which characterised the entire woman movement a
-generation ago, now evinces itself in the error that _equal rights_ for
-the sexes must mean also _equal functions_; that the development of
-women’s powers involves also their application in the same spheres of
-activity in which man is engaged; that _equality_ of the sexes implies
-_sameness_ of the sexes. While moderate feminism begins to see that, if
-man and wife compete, this rivalry can benefit[10] neither the woman,
-the man, nor the children, amaternal feminism urges the keenest
-competition. And if this is once accepted as advantageous to woman’s
-personality and to society, then it is obvious that she must, with all
-the energy of the attacked, defend herself from the duties of maternity,
-because of which she would obviously come off second-best in the
-competition.
-
-From the point of view of individualism it is obvious that the _law_
-must set no limitations to woman’s practice of a vocation, unless
-evident hygienic dangers menace either her or the coming generation.
-Women must, for their own sake as well as for that of society, have free
-_choice of work_, for life and nature possess innumerable unforeseen
-possibilities. Nevertheless, it does happen that a woman who gives
-superior children to humanity may, nevertheless, feel herself incapable
-of educating them; likewise it sometimes happens that a husband and wife
-who have exceptional children, cannot endure to live together. In
-neither case has law or custom a right to force upon a mother or a
-father a yoke that is intolerable or to demand of a mother or a father
-unreasonable sacrifices.
-
-But the right to limit the choice of work, the law does not possess;
-nature assumes that right herself: first of all from the axiom that no
-one can be in two places at the same time, and in the second place
-because no one can respond simultaneously and with full energy to two
-different spiritual activities. One cannot, for example, count even to
-one hundred and at a certain number give a simple grasp of the hand
-without suspending the counting momentarily. Although no one has ever
-been denied the privilege of solving a mathematical problem and of
-following carefully at the same time a piece of music, yet it is certain
-that the effectiveness of both intellectual activities would be thereby
-diminished. These extremely simple observations can be continued until
-the most complex are reached. If the observation be directed to the
-sphere of domestic life, every wife and mother who _is willing to
-institute impartial observations of self_, will affirm the difficulty of
-working with a divided mind.
-
-If a mother carries on her work at home and must put it away in order to
-be beside the sick-bed of her child, or to make those arrangements which
-assure domestic comfort, or to help her husband, then she feels that her
-book or her picture suffers, that the activity which binds her more
-intimately to the home relaxes for a time the intimacy of her connection
-with her work. One can by day carry on a dull industrial task, and by
-night produce an achievement of the soul; but one cannot let one’s soul
-radiate in one direction without impairing its energy in another. A work
-needs exclusive devotion. And this is, viewed externally, difficult to
-attain in joint action; viewed from within, it requires a renunciation
-that in the case of a loving soul evokes a continual inner struggle. For
-that reason, also, literature with woman as its subject has for some
-decades been filled with the great conflict of modern woman’s life: the
-conflict between vocation and parents, between vocation and husband,
-between vocation and child. Certainly the family has often been a
-torture chamber for individuality, as a consequence of laws and customs,
-which the future will regard as we now do the rack and the thumbscrew.
-But nature is more severe than law and custom when she confronts us with
-a choice which, however it may turn out, tears a piece from our heart.
-
-And now neither custom nor man demands of woman the “sacrifice of the
-personality.” This sacrifice is required only by the law of limitations
-which rules over us all.
-
-The creative man or the man working objectively must often condemn the
-emotional side of his personality to a partial development; he must for
-the sake of his work renounce many family values important for this
-emotional side of his being. Even if shorter working hours could
-partially diminish this cultural offering, the _inner_ conflict, for the
-man or the woman, is not settled thereby.
-
-Even if a man, in the consciousness of his wife’s endowment of talent,
-assumed a number of domestic duties, especially those pertaining to the
-children, the inner conflict would still continue. And this conflict is
-in no way solved by the amaternal theory that the personal life must be
-placed above the instinct life. For, as has been emphasised, the choice
-is not between the personal and the instinct life, but between the
-intellectual and the emotional side of woman’s personality. And the
-solution of this choice has not been discovered by the amaternals, who
-would combine commercial work with marriage and maternity. Women who
-remain unmarried or who give up commercial activity which they cannot
-carry on in the home, have not _settled the conflict_ either, but have
-only reduced its difficulties.
-
-The fundamental error of the amaternal solution of the problem is that
-it characterises motherliness as a _non-social_ instinct, but, on the
-other hand, defines the “personal” activity of woman as an expression of
-the social instinct. _For all social instincts have been developed by
-culture out of primitive instincts._ All cultural development lies
-between the sex impulse of the Australian negress and the erotic
-sentiment of Elizabeth Barrett Browning’s sonnets. And when the
-amaternals assert that motherliness, which “we have in common with
-beasts and savages,” cannot be an expression of the personality, their
-argument has the same validity as that which would deny to the Sistine
-Chapel the quality of an expression of personality because beasts and
-savages also exhibit the decorative instinct.
-
-The development of the mother instinct into motherliness is one of the
-greatest achievements in the progress of culture, a development by which
-the maternal functions have continually become more complex and
-differentiated. Already in the case of the higher animals maternity
-involves much more than the mere act of giving birth; an animal not only
-faces death for her young, she gives them also a training which often
-indicates power of judgment. A cat, for instance, which sought in vain
-to prevent her kitten from entering the water and which finally threw
-the kitten in and then pulled it out, thus obtaining the desired result
-of her pedagogy, had not, as have so many modern mothers, read Spencer,
-but could, nevertheless, put many of these mothers to shame. Even the
-initial maternal functions, nursing and physical care, involve a culture
-of the spiritual life of the mother, not only through an increase in
-tenderness, but also in observation, discrimination, judgment,
-self-control; a woman’s character often develops more in a month during
-which she is occupied with the care of children, than in years of
-professional work. Mother love and the reciprocal love which it awakens
-in the child, not only exercise the first deep influence upon the
-individual’s life of feeling, but this love is _the first form of the
-law of mutual help—it is the root of altruism, the cotyledon_ of a now
-widely ramified tree of “social instincts.”
-
-Although woman through the mere _physical_ functions of motherhood makes
-a great social contribution, the importance of her contribution is
-greatly enhanced if one also takes into consideration her _spiritual_
-nature. And notwithstanding the fact that fatherhood has also, to a
-certain degree, developed in man the qualities of tenderness,
-watchfulness, patience, yet the enormous predominance of woman’s
-_physical_ share in parenthood, in comparison with man’s, is in itself
-enough to create, in course of time, the intimate connection which still
-exists to-day between mother and child, as well as the difference
-between the personality of woman and man. The physical functions of
-motherhood were the fundamental reasons for the earliest division of
-labour. And this division of labour, the aim of which, next to
-self-preservation, was for both sexes the protection of posterity,
-augmented and strengthened the qualities which each sex employed for its
-special functions. All human qualities lie latent in each. But they have
-been so specialised by this division of labour, or, on the other hand,
-suppressed by it, that they now appear in varying proportions: in woman,
-a careful, managing, supervising, lifeguarding, inward-directed sense of
-love; in man, courage, desire for action, force of will, power of
-thought, an activity subduing nature and life, became the distinguishing
-characteristics; and fatherhood became psychologically, as it is
-physiologically, something different from motherhood. Even if culture
-continues to efface the sharp lines of demarcation, so that it becomes
-more and more impossible to generalise about “woman” and “man,” and
-increasingly more necessary for each and every woman to solve the “woman
-question” individually, yet from the point of view of the race, the
-_division of labour must on the whole remain the same as that which
-hitherto existed_, if the higher development of mankind shall continue
-in uninterrupted advance to more perfect forms. It is necessary for
-_these higher ends of culture_ that woman _in an ever more perfect
-manner shall fulfil what has hitherto been her most exalted task_: the
-bearing and rearing of the new generation.
-
-The amaternal assertion, that motherliness can be no higher than justice
-and truth, is an infuriating antithesis. It is as if one should assert
-that “air is better than water, or both better than bread.” Both
-assertions place the fundamental condition of life counter to other
-needs of life! Who shall exercise justice and truth when no new men are
-born? And, moreover, how shall justice and truth increase in mankind if
-children are not trained to a greater reverence for justice and a deeper
-love of truth? In order to fulfil this one office _of education_ well,
-mothers need their _universal human culture in its entirety_. But even
-if this were not so, if motherhood did not require the concentration of
-woman’s personality; even if motherliness remained only “primitive
-instinct,” yet this instinct, in the women who have guarded it, is more
-valuable for mankind than the universal human development of power of
-the women who have lost this instinct. No social nor individual activity
-of women could compensate for the extinction of this “instinct,” which
-only recently in Messina drove hundreds of mothers to shield their
-children with their own bodies; this “instinct,” which recently impelled
-a mother, who learned before she gave birth to her child that her own
-life must be the price for the saving of that of the child, to cry: “I
-have lived, but the life of my child belongs now to mankind—save the
-child!” So the mother died without even having seen the beautiful being
-for whom she gave her life. In the world of “personally” developed
-women, however, after a new Messina catastrophe the mothers would be
-found with their manuscripts and their pictures in their arms. And
-confronted with a choice like that related above, the mother would
-answer: “Let the child die, I will live my personal life to the end.”
-
-The amaternal type must persist for the present. There are in reality in
-our time many women who with unresponsive eyes can pass by a lovely
-child, among them even mothers who do not feel the pure sensuousness,
-the wise madness, the intoxicating delight which such a child awakens in
-every motherly woman; mothers who have no conception what a fascinating
-subject for study the soul of a child can offer. Jean Paul, who scourged
-worthless mothers and tried to awaken the repressed maternal instinct of
-his time with the charge that a woman who is bored when she has
-children, is a contemptible creature, would find to-day many mothers who
-are bored only if they have their children about them.
-
-And these cerebral, amaternal women must obviously be accorded the
-freedom of finding the domestic life, with its limited but intensive
-exercise of power meagre, beside the feeling of power which they enjoy
-as public personalities, as consummate women of the world, as talented
-professionals. But they have not the right to _falsify life values_ in
-their own favour so that they themselves shall represent the highest
-form of life, the “human personality” in comparison with which the
-“instinctively feminine” signifies a lower stage of development, a
-poorer type of life.
-
-Women who have produced books and works of art, to be compared, as
-respects permanence of value, to confetti at a carnival, have, according
-to this viewpoint, proved themselves human individualities, while a
-mother who has contributed an endless amount of clear thought, rich
-understanding, warm feeling, and strong will to the education of a fine
-group of children, requires a public office in order to prove herself a
-“human personality”! The brain work which a woman employs in a
-commercial concern bears witness to her individuality, but the brain
-work which a large, well-managed household demands, does not. The woman
-physician who delivers a mother expresses her “personality,” but the
-mother has put no “personality” into the feelings with which she has
-borne the child, the dreams with which she has consecrated it, the ideas
-in accordance with which she has educated it! The girl who has passed
-her examinations has proved herself a developed human being; but her
-grandmother, who is now filled with the kindness and wisdom which she
-has won in a life dedicated to domestic duties, a life in which the
-restricted sphere of her duties did not prevent the comprehensiveness of
-her cultural interests, nor her all-embracing sympathy with
-humanity—such a woman is not a personality!
-
-When men advance as an argument against women’s rights the fear that
-women will lose their womanliness in public life, the older feminists
-answer that womanliness, especially motherliness, is rooted too firmly
-in nature to make it possible for this danger to exist. Nothing has,
-however, become more clear in this amaternalistic time than that
-motherliness is _not_ an indestructible instinct. Just as our time
-produces in increasing numbers sterile women and women incapable of
-nursing their children, so it produces more and more psychically
-amaternal women. We can pass in silence the cases of children martyred
-in families or in children’s homes, for sexual perversity and religious
-fanaticism often play a rôle in such connections; we can also pass by
-the millions of mothers who bring about the abortion of their offspring,
-for the poor are driven to such practices largely by necessity, the rich
-mostly by love of pleasure. There still remain a sufficient number of
-women in whom the mother instinct has faded away because of a course of
-thought like that just described. Our time furnishes manifold proofs of
-the fact that the mother instinct can easily be weakened, or even
-entirely disappear, although the erotic impulse continues to live; that
-motherliness is not a spontaneous natural instinct, but the product of
-thousands of years not merely of _child-bearing_, but also of
-_child-rearing_; and that it must be strengthened in each new generation
-by the personal care which mothers bestow upon their children. A woman
-learns to love the strange child whom she nurses as if it were her own;
-a father who can devote himself to the care of his little children is
-possessed by an almost “motherly tenderness” for them, as are also older
-brothers and sisters for the little ones whom they care for. But while
-those who advocate the cause of the amaternal women draw from such facts
-the conclusion that motherliness cannot be used as a criterion of
-womanliness, yet an entirely different conclusion forces itself upon
-everyone who sees in the united uplift of the individual and of mankind
-the criterion of the life-enhancing effect of the woman movement, the
-conclusion that the amaternal soul not only confirms the worst
-apprehensions of men in regard to the results of the woman movement, but
-also constitutes the greatest danger to the woman movement itself. For
-the amaternal ideas will evoke a violent reaction _on the part of men_,
-in case such a reaction does not appear at an early stage on the part of
-women.
-
-This latter reaction might also include a rebellion against the methods
-of industrial production, which exhaust the strength of mothers and
-children. For the objection of industrialism, that “it cannot exist
-without women,” falls to the ground in face of the fact that a race
-cannot exist without sound and moral mothers. And “moral” means, here,
-mothers capable and willing to bear sound children and to train children
-along moral lines. If, on the contrary, Europe and America adhere to the
-economic and ethical principles which prevent a number of able and
-willing women of this type from becoming mothers, and if numbers of
-other women who could be mothers continue unwilling to assume the burden
-of motherhood, then this problem will finally become the problem of _a
-future for the European-American people_.
-
-The woman movement must now with resolute determination abandon the
-narrow, biased attitude, psychologically natural a generation ago when
-the zealots of feminism had no other standard of value for an idea, an
-investigation, or a book, than whether they _advanced or did not
-advance_ the cause of woman; whether they _proved or did not prove_
-woman’s equality with man. For woman’s work, studies, and other
-accomplishments, no other standard was applied than that of equality
-with man’s work, man’s studies, and the accomplishments of man. In a
-word, the proposition was that woman should be enabled to perform at the
-same time the life-work of a woman and of a man!
-
-It is through these hybrids that the feminine sex transgresses against
-the masculine. And this is one reason why our time is so filled with the
-tragic vicissitudes of women. Truly, every progressive person must agree
-with Goethe’s aphorism, “I love him whom the impossible lures.” For,
-thus allured, man has elevated his particular generation above the
-generation preceding. But _in action_ every one must go down who is not
-imbued with the consciousness that whoever exceeds his limits is liable
-to tragic consequences, in the modern psychological view of the guilt
-attaching to one who undertakes more than his strength will allow.
-
- * * * * *
-
-But our time exhibits also other less convulsively strained conditions
-of the feminine soul and therefore also brighter fates for woman. It
-shows not infrequently wives united with their husbands, not only by the
-sympathy which the human personality of each inspires, but also by the
-erotic attraction which the sex character of each exercises. And they
-have both won thereby that unity through which all the best and highest
-powers of their being are liberated and elevated as by religion. And
-their parenthood will then be the highest expression of this religion.
-
-Only religious natures are—in the deepest meaning of the word—loving or
-faithful or creative. It is the same soul which in one person reveals
-itself in ecstasy of belief, in a second in ardour of creation, in a
-third in a great erotic passion, in the fourth as parental love, in
-others again as love of country, as enthusiasm for freedom, desire for
-reform. At times one and the same soul, a woman’s or a man’s, is kindled
-by all these passions. But never has the same soul been able _at the
-same time_ to feed all these passions in their highest potency. Whether
-it be God, a work, or a human being that the soul embraces with its
-entire devotion, the religious character of this devotion always evinces
-itself in increasing longing, an endless susceptibility, a more
-persistent search after means of expression, a continual service, an
-inexhaustible patience in waiting for reciprocal activity from the
-object of love. The religious strength of a feeling consists in this,
-that the soul in every work, every sorrow, every joy,—in a word, in
-every spiritual condition, every experience,—is, consciously as well as
-unconsciously, more closely united with God, with the work, with the
-beloved, until every finest fibre of one’s being reaches down to the
-profound depths which the object of love represents for the lover.
-
-In this necessary condition of concentration of the spiritual life is
-found the truth of woman’s complaint that the man, absorbed by his work,
-“no longer loves her”; the truth of the experience that earthly love
-indisputably detracts from the love of God; the truth of the frequent
-experience of husband and wife that with children the wealth of their
-spiritual life together is in certain respects inevitably diminished;
-the truth of man’s fear that woman’s absorption in a life-work
-personally dear to her must to a certain degree detract from her
-devotion to the home; the truth of the experience that the office of
-mother often interferes with the development of woman’s intellectual
-power.
-
-Only persons who distinguish themselves by what Heine called “exuberance
-of mental poverty,” or what I might call analogously an “abyss of
-superficiality,” have not experienced the severe and beautiful psychic
-truth of Jesus’ glorification of _simplicity_. The quiet harkening to
-the voice of God or to the inspiration of work or to the delicate
-vibrations of another soul, which daily, hourly, momentarily, are the
-conditions that enable the soul to live wholly in its belief, its work,
-its love, so that these feelings may grow stronger and the soul grow
-greater through these feelings—all this has “simplicity” as a condition;
-in a word, symmetrical unity, longing for completeness, inner poise, the
-swift emotion. Fidelity—to a belief, a work, a love—is no product of
-duty. It is a process of growth.
-
-These are the conditions to which many modern women, womanly at heart
-but divided, restless, groping, attempting much, will not submit. They
-could even learn to reverence these conditions in the child for whom
-play is such sacred seriousness; but instead they transform the most
-sacred earnest into play.
-
-Other women, on the contrary, are beginning to understand these
-conditions of growth and to comprehend that it was exactly the protected
-position of woman in the home, which has made it possible for her family
-feeling to acquire that depth which is to be attained only by
-concentration. But if this is no longer possible, then woman will love
-those that belong to her with less religious warmth. Nothing can better
-illustrate the difference still existing between man and woman in this
-respect, than the fact that most men would consider themselves
-unfortunate if their entire exercise of power were concentrated upon the
-family, while most women still feel themselves fortunate when they have
-been given the opportunity to exercise to the uttermost the tendency
-inherent in them. For most women love best _personally_ and _in
-propinquity_, while the potency of love in man often seeks distant
-goals. Woman is happy in the degree to which she can bestow her love
-upon a person closely connected with her; if she cannot do that, then
-she may be useful, resigned, content, but never happy.[11] The very fact
-that woman’s strongest _primitive instinct_ coincided with her
-_greatest_ cultural _office_ has been an essential factor in the harmony
-of her being.
-
-The modern developed mother feels with every breath a grateful joy in
-that she lives the most perfect life when she can contribute her
-developed human powers, her liberated human personality, to the
-establishment of a home and to the vocation of motherhood. These
-functions conceived and understood as social, in the embracing sense in
-which the word is now used, give the new mother a richer opportunity to
-exercise her entire personality than she could find in modern commercial
-work. In one such occupation she must suppress either the intellectual
-or the emotional side of her nature; in another, the life either of the
-imagination or of the will. In domestic duties, on the contrary, these
-powers of the soul can work in unison. This is undoubtedly the deepest
-reason why, taken as a whole, women have become more harmonious, and men
-stronger in any special crisis, women more soulful, men more gifted. On
-this account men offer their great sacrifice more readily for an idea,
-or for the accomplishment of a work; women, for persons closely
-connected with them. And yet this co-operation of woman’s spiritual
-powers was in earlier times partly repressed by man’s demand for
-passivity on the part of woman as a thinking and willing personality,
-but for her unceasing activity as promoter of his comfort and that of
-the entire home. The mother of to-day can, on the contrary, exercise, as
-distributer, her culture, her thought, her supervision, her judgment,
-and her criticism, in order to make fully effective the faculty of her
-sex for foresight and organisation. She applies a great amount of
-spiritual energy to the selection of the essentials and the
-subordination of secondary things, to the creation of such facilities in
-the material work that time and means are left for the spiritual values,
-which, alas, are still neglected in the domestic economy of small,
-private households, as well as in national housekeeping. And as mother,
-modern woman is offered the first fitting opportunity to assert herself
-as a thinking and willing personality.
-
-The significance of the vocation of mother has been underrated in its
-significance even by moderate feminists. But these were right when they
-demonstrated that the “sanctity” of this office had become a mere
-phrase, so badly or amateurishly was this vocation fulfilled—an
-indictment in which Nietzsche and feminism for one rare moment are on
-common ground. Mothers needed the spur of this contempt; it was
-necessary that their feeling of responsibility, their universal human
-culture, their personal self-reliance, should be aroused by the woman
-movement. Only so could the new generation acquire the new type of women
-who for the present seek to qualify themselves by self-culture for the
-office of mother, in the expectation that for all women an obligatory
-education for motherhood will be realised. So long as this vocation
-_can_ be practised without any training, nothing can be known of the
-possibilities whereby ordinary mothers may become good educators—unless
-they place the mother love and the intuitive understanding of the nature
-of the child that it affords above even the best outside teachers. Just
-as a glorious voice makes a country girl a “natural singer,” so nature
-has at all times made certain mothers—and not least the women of the
-people—natural educators of children.
-
-The biography of nearly every great man shows the place the mother
-through her personality occupied in the life of her son, the atmosphere
-which she diffused about her in the home, her direct and indirect
-influence. But only the culture of their natural gifts with conscious
-purpose will make of mothers artists.
-
-When Nietzsche wrote: “_There will come a time when we shall have no
-other thought than education_,” and when he placed this education
-specifically in the hands of mothers, least of all did he mean those
-“arts of education,” from which amaternals believe they “guard” children
-by rejecting an “artistically creative” home training by the mother, as
-a violence to the peculiar characteristic of the child!
-
-The _new mother_, as the doctrine of evolution and the true woman
-movement have created her, stands with deep veneration before the mystic
-depths she calls her child, a being in whom the whole life of mankind is
-garnered. The richer the nature of the child is, the more zealously she
-endeavours to preserve for him that simplicity which he needs, and at
-the same time to provide for him the material that will enable him to
-work for himself. She insures to the child the pleasures adapted to his
-age, pleasures which at no later time can be enjoyed so intensely. The
-effect upon him of his playfellows and books, of nature, art, music,
-conversation, of the entire home _milieu_ which the child receives,
-above all the influence of the personality and interests of the father
-and mother—all these the mother who is an artist in education observes
-in order to learn the natural proclivity of the child and then _directly
-to strengthen and encourage_ it. At the same time she endeavours to find
-out what _restraints_ are necessary _in order that the natural bent be
-not impeded in its growth by secondary qualities_. But the new type of
-mother does not seek to _eradicate_; she recognises the likeness between
-wheat and tares. The Christian education, which has thus far prevailed,
-has exercised a restraining oppression or has done violence to the
-“sinful nature,” which must be broken and bent; this education was
-dermatological, not psychological, in method.
-
-The new mother is especially characterised by the fact that she has
-rejected this earlier method. She allows her child, within certain
-bounds, full freedom, and demands, beyond those bounds, unconditional
-obedience. She helps the child to find for himself ever nobler motives
-for repression. This she can do because from the very beginning she has
-taken care of him; year by year she has persevered in the effort to
-establish good habits; she has tried to enlist as aids, food, bath, bed,
-dress, air, and play in the effort to keep him strong, sound, sexually
-pure—conditions fundamental to the whole later conduct of life. Such a
-methodical physical care _can_ be performed by the mother herself,
-while, on the other hand, in the first years of childhood paid hands
-might, through carelessness, stupidity, cruelty, laxity, or
-over-indulgence, destroy the glorious possibilities. If the prevention
-of _the possibilities of nature being warped or destroyed_ constituted
-all that a mother could give, this one task would, nevertheless, be more
-important than any social relief work.
-
-What characterises the new mother is that she understands the enormous
-significance of the _first years_, when the indispensable “training”
-takes place, in which the future life of the child is determined by the
-methods employed—whether they be those of torture or of culture,
-irrational or rational. Then the great problem must be solved of
-establishing willing obedience from within in place of the hitherto
-_enforced_ obedience from without; of maintaining self-control, won by
-self, in place of self-control _imposed_ from without; of evoking
-voluntary renunciation in place of enforcing renunciation. For the
-capacity for obedience, for self-control, for renunciation, is one of
-the qualities fundamental to the whole later conduct of life. The new
-mother knows this as well as the mother of former times. But she
-endeavours to create this capacity by slow and sure means. The same
-thing obtains in regard to physical and psychical courage, which in the
-early years can often be so demoralised by fright that it can never
-emerge again. The training which hitherto was customary—based on
-_compelling_ and _forbidding_—had its effect only upon the surface and
-_prevented_ the child from experiencing _the results of his own choice_.
-
-It is this _indirect_ education by results which is the new mother’s
-method. Her unceasing vigilance and consistency are required in order
-that the child shall actually bear the results of his actions. What she
-needs for this is first and foremost, _time, time_, and again _time_.
-Apparently good effects can be obtained much quicker by intervening,
-preventing, punishing, but thus are turned aside the _real_ results. By
-this method the child is deprived of the _inner_ growth, which only the
-fully experienced reality with its components of bitter and sweet can
-give; and this growth the new mother endeavours to advance. Much more
-time still is necessary to play the psychological game of chess, which
-consists in the checkmating of black by white; in other words, the
-conquest of negative characteristics by positive, through the child’s
-own activity—a task in which the child at first must be guided, just as
-in the assimilation of the elements of every other accomplishment, but
-in which he can later perfect himself. Modern investigation in the realm
-of the soul enables us to see the dangers which sometime will demand
-quite as new methods in spiritual hygiene as bacteriology has created in
-the hygiene of the body. But we still leave unexercised powers of the
-soul, still misunderstand spiritual laws which sometime will radically
-transform the means of education. At some future day the new mothers
-will institute legal protection for children to an extent
-incomprehensible to us and therefore provocative only of smiles. For
-example, legal prohibition of corporal punishment by parents as well as
-teachers; legal prohibition of child labour, of certain tenement
-conditions, certain “amusements,” certain improper uses of the press.
-For the present every individual educator must _set these laws over
-himself_; must sedulously create counter influences to cope with the
-destructive influences which great cities, especially, exert upon
-children.[12] The new mothers lead children out into nature and
-endeavour to satisfy their zeal for activity by appropriate tasks as
-well as to encourage by suitable means their love of invention and their
-impulse for play. In the country children provide much for themselves.
-But what both city and country children need is a mother familiar with
-nature, who can answer the questions which the child is by his own
-observations prompted to ask; and the number of such mothers is
-continually increasing. Both city and country children need also a
-mother who can tell stories. Just as the settlement gardens most clearly
-demonstrate how sundered the working people of the great cities are from
-nature, so the “story evenings,” which are now established for children,
-show how far children have been permitted to stray from the mother, who
-formerly gathered them about her for the hour of story, play, and song.
-What, finally, children need is the mother’s delicate revelation of the
-sexual “mystery,” which often early exercises the thoughts of the child
-and in which he should be initiated quietly and gradually by the mother.
-
-All the educational influences here outlined emanate not only from the
-enlightened, exceptional mother; they are exercised by the average
-mother of to-day to better advantage than by the spiritually significant
-mother of fifty years ago. And they are _quite as essential_, in order
-that the highest possibility within the reach of each may be attained,
-in the education of the genius as in that of the ordinary child. Such
-influences in like degree strengthen the innate bent of the genius and
-raise the average, from generation to generation, to a level where man
-can live according to higher standards than those of the present time.
-The new mothers understand that for the utilisation of all these
-opportunities that make their appearance in the first seven years of the
-child’s life, their motherly tenderness, gentleness, and patience do not
-suffice; that they need in addition all the intelligence, imagination,
-fine feeling, scientific methods of observation, ethical and æsthetic
-culture and other spiritual acquisitions they possess, as direct and
-indirect fruits of the woman movement.
-
-When student and comrade life begin to claim the children, when the
-influence of the mother—that is of the new mother who has respect for
-the peculiar characteristic, the human worth, and the right of the child
-to live his own life—becomes more indirect, she nevertheless bears in
-mind that it is of the utmost importance that the son and the daughter
-should _find the mother_, when they return to the parental roof; that
-they should be able to breathe there an atmosphere of peace and warmth;
-that they should find the attentive eye, the listening ear, the helpful
-hand; that the mother should have the repose, the fine feeling, the
-observation requisite for following, without interfering with, the
-conflicts of youth; that she should not demand confidences but be always
-at hand to receive them; that she should show vital sympathy for the
-plans of work, the disappointments, the joys, of the young people; that
-she should always have time for caresses, tears, smiles, comfort, and
-care; that she should divine their moods, and anticipate their desires.
-By all these means the mother perpetuates in the soul of the child,
-unknown to him and to herself, her own personality. The talent which she
-has not redeemed by a productive work of her own, perhaps often for that
-very reason, benefits mankind in a son or a daughter, in whose soul the
-mother has implanted the social ideas, the dreams, the rebellion, which
-later become in them social deeds or works of art. Above all, in the
-restless, sensitive, life-deciding years when the boy is becoming a
-youth and the little girl a maiden, the mother needs quiet and leisure
-to be able to give the ineffably needy children “the hoarded, secret
-treasure of her heart,” as the beautiful saying of Dürer runs.
-
-When such a mother is found, and such mothers are already found, she is
-the most splendid fruit of the woman movement’s sowing upon the field of
-woman’s nature.
-
-Because the new mother created for herself an open space about her own
-personality, she understands her son or her daughter when they in their
-turn push her aside in order to create that same open space about
-themselves. For in every generation the young renounce the ideals and
-the aims of their parents. The knowledge of this does not prevent the
-new mother, any more than it did the mother of earlier times, from
-feeling the pain incident to being set aside. But the former looks
-forward to a day when the son and daughter will freely choose her as a
-friend, having discovered what a significant pleasure the mother’s
-personality can afford them.
-
-As the bird’s nest is made of nothing but bits of straw and down, so the
-feeling of home is fashioned out of soft, simple things; out of little
-activities that are neither ponderable nor measurable as political or as
-economic factors. When Segantini painted the two nuns looking wistfully
-into the bird’s nest, he gave expression to the deepest pain that many
-modern women experience, the pain resulting from the consciousness that
-their life, notwithstanding its freedom, is lonely, because it has
-denied them the privilege of making a home and as a consequence has
-failed to afford them the joy of creation, which nature intended they
-should have, and of continuity of life in children to whom they gave
-birth.
-
-Here we stand at a point where the woman movement parallels the other
-social revolutions, undeviatingly as the rails of a track, and leads to
-the same objective. Modern men and women, and especially women, have
-forfeited an opportunity for happiness in the loss of the feeling of
-homogeneity and security. Just as formerly the property-holding family
-felt a secure sense of proprietorship in the ancestral estate, so every
-member of the home group felt himself safe in the family. Now the
-children cannot depend with certainty upon the parents, nor the parents
-upon the children; the wife upon the husband, nor the husband upon the
-wife. Each in extremity relies only upon himself. The character of man
-is thus altered quite as much as trees are changed when they are left
-standing alone in the denuded forest of which they once formed a part.
-If they can withstand the storms, they have produced more “character”
-than they had when they stood close together, under a mutual protection
-that nevertheless enforced uniformity.
-
-From their earliest youth innumerable women must now care for
-themselves, as well as decide for themselves. Thus the feeling of
-independence of modern woman has increased through the sacrifice of her
-peace; her individual characteristics, at the expense of her harmony.
-Her feeling of loneliness is mitigated to a certain degree by the
-growing feeling of community with the whole. But this feeling cannot
-compensate certain natures for the forfeiture of the advantages which
-women of earlier times possessed, when they sat secure and protected
-within the four walls of the home, sucked the juice from family
-chronicles, guarded family traditions, maintained the old holiday
-customs, lived at the same time in the past and in the present.
-
-The new woman lives in the present, sometimes even in the future—her
-land of romance! The enthusiasm of the old romanticism about a “hut and
-a heart” has little charm for her. For she knows reality and that
-prevents her from giving credence to the feminine illusion that twice
-two can be five. What she does know, on the contrary, is that out of
-fours she can gradually work out sixteen. While the women of former
-times could only save, the new woman can acquire. Woman’s beautiful,
-foolish superstition regarding life has vanished, but her eagerness to
-achieve can still remove mountains, her daring has still often the
-splendour of a dream. Intellectual values are for her no longer pastimes
-but necessities of life; with her culture has developed her feeling for
-truth and justice. This does not secure the new woman immunity at all
-times from new illusions and errors of feeling, nor does it prevent her
-developing passions whose value, to say the least, is questionable. But
-in and through her determination “to be some one,” to have a
-characteristic personality, she has acquired a love of life, in its
-diverse manifestations, both good and evil; a new capacity to enjoy her
-own and others’ individuality, as well as a new joy—sometimes an
-unblushing, insolent joy—in expressing her own being. In place of the
-earlier resignation toward society, the expression of rebellion is found
-even in the sparkling eye of the school-girl, with red cap upon her
-curly hair.
-
-The young women of to-day, married or single, mothers as well as those
-who are childless, are still more vigorous in soul, more courageous,
-more eager for life than are men. Because all that which for men has so
-long been a matter of course, is for women new, rich, enchanting,
-comprising, as it does, free life in nature, scientific studies, serious
-artistic work economic independence. Even in a fine and soulful woman
-there is found something of the inevitable hardness toward herself and
-others of which an observer is instinctively conscious when he speaks of
-some woman as one who “will go far” upon the course she has chosen. The
-modern young woman desires above all else the elevation of her own
-personality. She experiences the same feeling of joy a man is conscious
-of when she realises that her strength of will is augmented, her ability
-becoming more certain, her depth of thought greater, her association of
-ideas richer. She stands ready to choose _her_ work and follow _her_
-fate; in sorrow as in joy she experiences the blessedness of growth, and
-she loves her view of life and the work to which she has dedicated
-herself, often as devotedly as man loves his.
-
-If we compare the seventeen-year-old girl of to-day with her progenitor
-living in the middle of the foregoing century, we find that the girl of
-earlier times was to a larger extent swayed by feeling, and that the
-modern girl is to a larger extent determined by ideas. The former was
-directed more to the centre of life, the latter remains often nearer the
-periphery; the former was warmer, the latter is more intelligent; the
-former was better balanced, the latter is more interesting.
-
-The restlessness, the uncertainty, the feeling of emptiness, the
-suffering, that is sometimes experienced by the young woman of to-day,
-is primarily traceable to the disintegration of religious belief, which
-gave to the older generation of emancipated women an inner stability,
-resignation, and self-discipline. Scientific study has deprived many
-modern women of their belief and those who can create a new one, suited
-to their needs, are still very few. Thus to the outer homelessness an
-inner estrangement is added. The woman movement has, it is true,
-contributed indirectly to this spiritual distress by making the road to
-man’s culture accessible to woman. For men also suffer in like manner,
-and suffer above all perhaps because our culture is unstable, aimless,
-and lacks style, owing to the very fact that it is at present without a
-religious centre. And even the future can give to mankind no such new
-centre as the Middle Ages had, for example, in Catholicism. The
-attainment of individualism has shut out that possibility forever.
-
-But _one_ factor in the religion of the past, the adoration of
-motherhood as divine mystery; _one_ factor in the religion of the Middle
-Ages, the worship of the Madonna, has meanwhile been given back to the
-present by the doctrine of evolution, with that universal validity which
-the thought must possess which seeks to give again to culture a centre.
-Great, solitary individuals—prophets more often than sibyls—have
-proclaimed the religion of this generation. But the word will become
-flesh only when fathers and mothers instil into the blood and soul of
-children their devout hope for a higher humanity. When women are
-permeated by this hope, this new devout feeling, then they will recover
-the piety, the peace, and the harmony which for the present, and partly
-owing to feminism, have been lost.
-
-The innumerable new relations which the woman movement has established
-between woman and the home, between woman and society, and all of the
-interchanges of new spiritual forces which have been put in operation
-because of these relations, cannot possibly take fixed form, at least
-not so long as the woman movement remains “a movement”; in other words,
-as long as everything is in a condition of flux, in a state of becoming,
-all spiritual relationships between individuals must change their form.
-Continual new, fine shades of feeling, not to be expressed in words,
-determine every woman’s soul and every woman’s fate. And even ancient
-feelings receive continually different nuances, different intonations. I
-am, therefore, laying down no laws but merely recapitulating certain
-suggestions based on what has previously been said in regard to the soul
-of the modern woman, as seen in that portion of the present generation
-whose age ranges between twenty and thirty years—that is to say, that
-part of the generation which is decisive for the immediate future.
-
-Since co-education is becoming more and more general, each sex is
-beginning to have more esteem for the other, and woman, as well as man,
-is beginning to found self-respect upon work. When all women by culture
-and capacity for work have finally become strong-willed, self-supporting
-co-workers in society, then no woman will give or receive love for any
-extraneous benefit whatsoever. No outward tie and no outward gain
-through love—this is the ultimate aim of the new sex morale as the most
-highly developed modern young woman sees it.
-
-The new woman is deeply convinced that the relation between the sexes
-attains its true beauty and sanctity only when every external privilege
-disappears on both sides, when man and woman stand wholly equal in what
-concerns their legal right and their personal freedom.
-
-She demands that the contrasts between legal and illegal, rich and poor,
-boy and girl, shall disappear, and that society shall show the same
-interest in the complete human development of all children. She knows
-that when both sexes awake to a feeling of responsibility toward the
-future generation, then the real concern of sexual morale becomes the
-endeavor to give the race an ever more perfect progeny. And in order to
-feel in its fulness this command, maidens as well as youths must
-henceforth demand scientific instruction in sexual duties toward
-themselves and their possible children.
-
-The new woman is also deeply convinced that only when she feels
-happy—and happiness signifies the development of the powers inherent in
-the personality—can she properly fulfil her duties as daughter, wife,
-and mother. She can consciously sacrifice a part of her personality, for
-example forego the development of a talent, but she can never subjugate
-nor surrender her whole personality and at the same time remain a
-strong-willed member of the family or of society, in the broadest
-meaning of the word. She must assert her conception of life, her feeling
-of right, her ideals. And no social considerations for children,
-husband, or family life are, for her, above the consideration which, in
-this respect, she owes to her own personality. When conflicts arise, she
-seeks, wherever possible, a solution that will permit her to fulfil her
-duty without annihilating herself. But if this is not possible, then she
-feels that it is her first duty not to fall below her ideal, either
-physically or spiritually. For this would prevent her from fulfilling
-precisely those duties for which she has so sacrificed herself; duties
-which she can perhaps perform later under other conditions, provided she
-has saved herself from being extinguished by brutality or despotism.
-
-But along with this individualism there exists in the new woman a
-feeling for the unity of existence, the unity in which all things are
-parts and in which nothing is lost. She does not, then, look upon
-husband and children as continually demanding sacrifice and upon herself
-as being always sacrificed; she sees herself and them, as in the
-antiquity of the race, always existing _by means of one another_. She is
-not consumed by her love, for she knows that under such circumstances
-she would deprive her loved ones of the wealth of her personality. But
-although she will not, like the women of earlier times, abandon her ego
-_absolutely_, she will not, on the other hand, like certain modern
-feminists, keep it _unreservedly_. She will preserve upon a higher plane
-the old division of labour which made man the one who felled the game,
-fought the battles, made conquests, achieved advancement through
-victories; and which made woman the one who rendered the new domains
-habitable, who utilised the booty for herself and hers, who transmitted
-what was won to the new generation—all that of which woman’s ancient
-tasks as guardian of the fire and cultivator of the fields are beautiful
-symbols. She feels that when each sex pursues its course for the
-happiness of the individual and of mankind, but at the same time and as
-an equal helps the other in the different tasks, then each is most
-capable, then society is most benefited.
-
-The fact that there is still so much masculine brutality and despotism,
-and that there are so many legal means at man’s disposal whereby he may
-put into practice with impunity this brutality and despotism, is the
-reason why the new woman is still always a “feminist,” why she still
-maintains the fundamental tenets of the woman movement. But she is not a
-feminist in the sense that she turns _against_ man. Her solution is
-always that of Mary Wollstonecraft: “We do not desire to rule over men
-but to rule over ourselves.” She often exhibits now in deliberation and
-in determination the characteristics which were formerly called
-“masculine”: practical knowledge, love of truth, courage of conviction;
-she desists more and more from unjust imputations and empty words; she
-proposes a greater number of well-considered suggestions for
-improvements. The woman movement has now in a word a more universally
-human, a less one-sidedly feminine character. It emphasises more and
-more the fact that the right of woman is a necessity in order that she
-may fulfil her duties in the small, individual family, and exercise her
-powers in the great, universal human family for the general good. The
-new woman does not wish to displace man nor to abolish society. She
-wishes to be able to exercise _everywhere_ her most beautiful
-prerogative to help, to support, to comfort. But this she cannot do so
-long as she is not free as a citizen and has not fully developed as a
-human personality. She knows that this is the condition not only of her
-own happiness, but also, in quite as high a degree, of the happiness of
-man. For every man who works, struggles, and suffers there is a mother,
-a wife, a sister, a daughter, who suffers with him. For every woman who
-in her way works and struggles, there is a father, a husband, a brother,
-or a son for whom her contribution directly or indirectly has
-significance. Above all, the modern woman understands that in every
-marriage wherein a wife still suffers under man’s misuse of his legal
-authority, it is in the last analysis _the man who sustains the greatest
-injury_, for under present conditions he needs exercise neither kindness
-nor justice nor intelligence to be ruler in the family. These humane
-characteristics he must, therefore, begin to develop when the wife is
-legally his equal.
-
-The sacred conviction of the new woman is that man and woman _rise
-together_, just as they _sink together_.
-
-The antique sepulchres, on which man and wife stand hand in hand before
-the eternal farewell, could quite as well be the symbol of the entrance
-of modern man and modern woman into the new life, where they work
-together in order that the highest ideals of both—the ideals of justice
-and of human kindness—may assume form in reality. The motherly qualities
-of women are applied for the good of children as well as of the weak and
-the suffering. The arrival of the day when woman shall be given
-opportunity to exercise social motherliness in its full and popularly
-representative extent, can be only a question of time. In a century they
-will smile at our time, in which it was still the practice to debate
-about such obvious matters. And those who to-day ridicule the woman
-movement will be ridiculed most of all.
-
- * * * * *
-
-Then we shall attain such an outlook on the great forces of the
-time,—the emancipation movements of labouring men and of women,—that we
-shall see how necessary both were in order that society should come to
-understand that not the mass of material production, but the higher
-cultivation of the race is the social-political end, and that for this
-end the _service of mother_ must receive the honour and oblation that
-the state now gives to _military service_.
-
-And women themselves, whom nature has made creators and protectors of
-the tender life—the task for which nature even in the plant world has
-made such wonderful provision—will no longer resist being more
-intimately associated with nature, nearer to earth, more like plants,
-more restrained in outer sense and therefore, in inner respects, less
-active than man, who always had more of the freedom of movement of the
-forest animal. The woman of the future will not, as do many women of the
-present time, _wish to be freed from her sex_; but she will be freed
-from sexual hypertrophy, freed to _complete humanity_. For the
-universal, human characteristics, forced to _remain latent_ in the
-primitive division of labour, because the father was obliged to exert
-all his strength in one direction and the mother in another, can now,
-through the facilities for culture in the struggle for existence, be
-developed on both sides: woman can develop the latent quality which
-became active in man as “manliness”; man can develop the latent quality
-which became active in woman as “womanliness.” But the _proportional
-ratio_ of these characteristics, which development has already
-strengthened, will _on the whole_ remain fixed—the proportional ratio
-which, in the progress of evolution, gave to woman the ascendency in
-regard to inward creative powers, and to man the ascendency in regard to
-outward creative powers—a proportional ratio which for the present has
-made woman more gifted in the sphere of feeling, man more potent in the
-sphere of ideas; which has made her the listener and yearner in the
-sphere of the spiritual life, and him the pioneer investigator and
-founder of systems, that has given her more of the Christian, and him
-more of the pagan virtues. The improvement of the universal, human
-characteristics of both sexes elevates also the plane upon which they
-exercise their especial functions, valuable alike for culture. With
-increasing frequency the one sex may, when so desired, assume the
-culture function of the other.
-
-A perfect fusion of the two spiritual sex-characters would, on the
-contrary, have the same result as physical hermaphroditism—sterility.
-Genius—and in using the term we limit its meaning to poetic genius, for
-real feminine genius has thus far appeared only in that domain—embraces,
-as emphasised above, both man and woman, but not harmoniously blended.
-For such a genius would be unproductive, as we imagine those celestial
-forms to be which are neither “man nor woman.” The masculine and the
-feminine characteristics, which exist side by side in the poet soul,
-produce work in co-operation. Alternately, however, they seek to usurp
-the entire power, whereby is occasioned the disharmony which enters into
-the life of those who endeavour to fulfil at one and the same time the
-universal, human duties as well as those of sex. Indeed it may be that
-one of the reasons why great poetic geniuses, masculine as well as
-feminine, have often had no progeny at all, and in other cases one of
-little significance, is that their nature was not capable of a double
-production, that poetic creation received the richest part of their
-physical and psychical power.
-
-Whether the opinion of genius expressed here is correct or not, does
-not, however, affect the general situation. For the genius will always
-go his own way, which is never that of the average man. From the point
-of view of the ordinary individual an effacement of the spiritual sex
-character would be in still higher degree a misfortune for culture and
-nature. For it is the difference in the spiritual as well as in the
-physical sex-characteristics that makes love a fusion of two beings in a
-higher unity, where each finds the full deliverance and harmony of his
-being. With the elimination of the _spiritual_ difference _psychical_
-love would vanish. There would be left, then, upon the one side, only
-the mating instinct, in which the same points of view as in animal
-breeding must obtain; on the other, only the same kind of sympathy which
-is expressed in the friendship between persons of the same sex, the
-sympathy in which the human, individual difference instead of sexual
-difference forms the attraction. In love, on the other hand, sympathy
-grows in intensity, the more universally human and at the same time
-sexually attractive the individual is: the “manly” in man is charmed by
-the “womanly” in woman, while the “womanly” in man is likewise
-captivated by the “manly” in woman, and _vice versa_. But when neither
-needs the _spiritual sex_ of the other as his complement, then man, in
-erotic respects, returns to the antique conception of the sex
-relationship, of which Plato has drawn the final logical conclusion.
-
-The “humanity” in the soul of man was strengthened when he felt himself
-necessary to mother and child. When woman by sweetness and tenderness
-taught man to love, not only to desire, then his humanity increased
-immeasurably.
-
-In our time the average man is beginning to learn that woman does not
-desire him as man, that she looks down upon him as a lower kind of
-being, that she does not need him as supporter. He does not at all grasp
-what it is the woman of highest culture seeks, demands, and awaits from
-his sex. But he learns that even the mediocre woman rejects the best he
-has to give her erotically; that imbued as she is with ideals of
-“universal humanity,” she no longer needs him as the supplement to her
-sexual being. Then brutality awakes in him anew; then his erotic life
-loses what humanity it had won; then he begins to hate woman. And not
-with the imaginative, theoretical hatred of thinkers and poets; but with
-the blind rage which the contempt of the weaker for the stronger arouses
-in him. And here we encounter what is, perhaps, the deepest reason for
-the present war between the sexes, appearing already in the literary
-world as well as in the labour market.
-
-Here the extreme feminists play unconsciously about an abyss,—the
-depths in the nature of man out of which the elementary,
-hundred-thousand-year-old impulses arise, the impulses which all
-cultural acquisitions and influences cannot eradicate, so long as the
-human race continues to subsist and multiply under present conditions.
-
-The feminism which has driven individualism to the point where the
-individual asserts her personality in opposition to, instead of within,
-the race; the individualism which becomes self-concentration,
-anti-social egoism, although the watchword inscribed upon its banner is
-“Society instead of the family,”—this feminism will bear the blame
-should the hatred referred to lead to war.
-
- * * * * *
-
-It would be a pity to conclude a survey of the influence of the woman
-movement with an expression of fear lest this extreme feminism should be
-victorious. I believe not; no more than I believe that the sun will for
-the present be extinguished or streams flow back to their sources.
-
-No “culture” can annul the great fundamental laws of nature; it can only
-ennoble them; and motherhood is one of these fundamental laws. I hope
-that the future will furnish a new and a more secure protection for
-motherhood than the present family and social organisation affords. I
-place my trust in a new society, with a new morality, which will be a
-synthesis of the being of man and that of woman, of the demands of the
-individual and those of society, of the pagan and Christian conceptions
-of life, of the will of the future and reverence for the past.
-
-When the earth blooms with this beautiful and vigorous flower of
-morality, there will no longer be a woman movement. But there will
-always be a woman question, not put by women to society but by society
-to women: the question whether they will continue in a higher degree to
-prove themselves worthy of the great privilege of being the mothers of
-the new generation.
-
-In the degree in which this new ethics permeates mankind, women will
-answer this question in life-affirmation. And the result of their
-life-affirmation will be an enormous enhancement of life, not only for
-women themselves but for all mankind.
-
-
- THE END
-
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-
-Footnote 1:
-
- In the summer of 1909 I sat in a Swedish home where the grandmother,
- for this reason, had never learned to write but where the
- granddaughter read aloud the thesis for her bachelor’s examination.
- One hears even to-day of customs and points of view in certain farms
- and manses which faithfully imitate those of the time of the
- Reformation.
-
-Footnote 2:
-
- Next to the textile industry, the tobacco industry employs the most
- women.
-
-Footnote 3:
-
- This idealism has naturally part also in the fact that, for example,
- two-thirds of the women who have gone through college in America do
- not marry, and find in club life a compensation for domestic life. But
- other motives also must often play a part here, from the desire to
- devote herself entirely to one of the lifeworks serviceable to
- mankind, to the egoism of spiritually barren young girls with its
- distaste for burdens and restraint.
-
- A keen-sighted observer who recently spent a half year in North
- America corroborated what many have already stated: that the student
- and working young American girls devote themselves with true passion
- to the cultivation of their beauty, their toilette, their flirtations.
- All this belongs for her to the “Fine Arts” and as such is an end
- sufficient in itself, while for European women these arts, as a rule,
- are still means for alluring men to marriage. While study or work
- often makes European women in outer sense less “womanly,” although her
- soul always guards its full power to love, in America the reverse is
- the case: the outer appearance is bewitchingly womanly, but the soul
- no longer vibrates for love. The sexual sterility which Maudsley
- already prophesied thirty years ago, when he spoke about the “sexless
- ants,” has been partly realised, partly chosen voluntarily. In Europe
- it still frequently happens that a young woman who has put love aside
- for the sake of study or work is suddenly seized by an irresistible
- passion; in America, on the contrary, this is extremely rare. Women
- students look down upon the less cultured men, who ordinarily finish
- their studies earlier in order to earn a livelihood. The sympathy
- which they need, women find more easily in their own sex. The
- unmarried have quite the same social position as the married and do
- not desire children. If they finally marry, it is ordinarily because a
- more brilliant position is offered them than the one which they could
- create themselves, and the man is then considered and treated as a
- money-getter.
-
- My authority emphasises also that the young students or working girls
- are ordinarily less original, of less personal significance, less
- individually developed, than the older women, especially women’s
- rights women, who often have not studied but have grown grey in
- marriage and motherhood, in self-development and in social work. The
- interesting significant American feminists were women between the ages
- of fifty and ninety; the woman of the present generation, however,
- which now enjoys the fruits of the work of the older generation, is,
- in spite of excellent scholarship and great working proficiency, less
- a woman and less a human being, less a personality.
-
- These wholly fresh observations, which were communicated to me during
- the printing of my book, seem to me to confirm so strongly my point of
- view that I wish to repeat them here.
-
- But in France and elsewhere mothers tell us how clear, intelligent,
- and universally interested their daughters are, and at the same time
- how critical, how free from ardour and enthusiasm. It is not the hasty
- love marriage that many mothers now fear for their daughters, but a
- worldly-wise marriage without love.
-
-Footnote 4:
-
- See _Love and Ethics_, Ralph Fletcher Seymour, Chicago, and also
- _Mutter und Kind_, published in Germany only, Pan-Verlag. My plan is a
- paternity assessment upon society as a contribution to the maintenance
- of children and a compensation of motherhood by the state.
-
- Society has already shown by a series of institutions, maternity
- assurance, infants’ milk distribution, clothing and feeding of
- children, and many kindred social efforts, that the maintenance
- afforded by the father is not sufficient for the young generation;
- quite as little is the mother’s care, which is supplemented by other
- means, crèches, etc. But when the _child_ finally becomes the
- unconscious “head of the family,” then it will be the affair of
- society to requite maternity. Marriage will then signify only the
- living together of two people upon the ground of love and the common
- parenthood of children. _Maternal right_ will _in law_ take the place
- of _paternal right_, but _in reality_ the father will continue to
- retain all the influence upon the children which he _personally_ is
- able to exert, just as has been hitherto the case with the mother.
-
- In such circumstances there will be no more illegitimate children; no
- mothers driven out from the care of tender children to earn their
- daily bread; no fathers who avoid their economic duties toward their
- children, and who cannot be compelled by society to perform at least
- that paternal duty which animals perform now better than men: that of
- contributing their part to the maintenance of their progeny. There
- will be no mothers who for the sake of their own and their children’s
- maintenance need to stay with a brutal man; no mothers who, in case of
- a separation, can be deprived of their children on any ground except
- that of their own unworthiness. In a word, society must—upon a higher
- plane—restore the arrangement which is already found in the lower
- stages of civilisation, the arrangement which nature herself created:
- that mother and child are most closely bound together, that they
- together, above all, form the family, in which the father enters
- through the mother’s or his own free will.
-
-Footnote 5:
-
- An inquiry instituted among English women as to whether they would
- prefer to be men or women gave as a result the fact that, out of about
- 7000 who answered, two-thirds wished to remain women and this above
- all in order to be mothers, while a third wished to be men. This
- indicated probably the highest figure of the disinclination for
- maternity which such a _European_ inquiry could elicit. But even these
- women who wish to marry and to become mothers feel the pressure of the
- idea created by the zealots of the woman movement which finds
- expression often in the following conversation between two former
- schoolmates about a third: “And A—— what is she doing
- now?”—“Nothing—she is married and has children.”
-
- The old folk legend about the girl who trampled on the bread she was
- carrying to her mother because she wished to go dry-shod, can serve as
- symbol of many modern women zealots: life’s great, sound values are
- offered for the meal; vanity sits down alone to partake of them.
-
-Footnote 6:
-
- Bret Harte, _The Luck of Roaring Camp_.
-
-Footnote 7:
-
- E. Carrière and Segantini.
-
-Footnote 8:
-
- Max Kruse, _Liebesgruppe_.
-
-Footnote 9:
-
- This amaternal idea is advanced with great ability in some works of
- Charlotte Perkins Stetson and Rosa Mayreder. The word amaternal coined
- by me is used to characterise the theory subsequently advanced,
- because the word unmaternal (unmotherly) signifies a _spiritual
- condition_, the antithesis to “motherliness.” The maternal as opposed
- to the amaternal theory is this: that a woman’s life is lived most
- intensively and most extensively, most individually and most socially;
- she is for her own part most free, and for others most fruitful, most
- egoistic and most altruistic, most receptive and most generous, in and
- with the _physical and psychic exercise of the function of maternity,
- because of the conscious desire, by means of this function, to uplift
- the life of the race as well as her own life_.
-
-Footnote 10:
-
- It can even be shown that, if man invades the so-called woman’s
- spheres (for example the art of cooking or of dress-making), it is
- most frequently he who makes new discoveries and attains great
- success!
-
-Footnote 11:
-
- The best proof of this is that many women who, in a life free from
- care in an outward sense, were comparable only to geese or peacocks,
- nevertheless, when hard times came and gave them opportunity to
- develop their power of love, not only proved themselves heroines, but
- asserted that their “happy” years were those in which they had so
- “sacrificed” themselves.
-
-Footnote 12:
-
- How many children have had their idea of right debased by the manner
- in which the “Captain of Köpernick” was received at his liberation—to
- cite only one example.
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-
-<div class='section ph2'>
-
-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
-<div class='nf-center c001'>
- <div><em>By Ellen Key</em></div>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-</div>
-
-<div class='lg-container-b c002'>
- <div class='linegroup'>
- <div class='group'>
- <div class='line'>The Century of the Child</div>
- <div class='line'>The Education of the Child</div>
- <div class='line'>Love and Marriage</div>
- <div class='line'>The Woman Movement</div>
- </div>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-<div class='titlepage'>
-
-<div>
- <h1 class='c003'>The Woman Movement</h1>
-</div>
-
-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
-<div class='nf-center c002'>
- <div>By</div>
- <div><span class='xlarge'>Ellen Key</span></div>
- <div class='c004'><span class='small'>Author of</span></div>
- <div><span class='small'>“The Century of the Child,” “Love and Marriage,” etc.</span></div>
- <div class='c004'>Translated by</div>
- <div><span class='large'>Mamah Bouton Borthwick, A.M.</span></div>
- <div class='c004'>With an Introduction by</div>
- <div><span class='large'>Havelock Ellis</span></div>
- <div class='c002'>G. P. Putnam’s Sons</div>
- <div>New York and London</div>
- <div>The Knickerbocker Press</div>
- <div>1912</div>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-</div>
-
-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
-<div class='nf-center c001'>
- <div><span class='sc'>Copyright</span>, 1912</div>
- <div>BY</div>
- <div>G. P. PUTNAM’S SONS</div>
- <div class='c002'>The Knickerbocker Press, New York</div>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-<div><span class='pageno' id='Page_iii'>iii</span></div>
-<div class='c001'></div>
-<blockquote>
-<p class='c005'><span lang="de" xml:lang="de">Es gibt kein Vergangenes das man zurücksehnen dürfte; es
-gibt nur ein ewig Neues, das sich aus den erweiterten Elementen
-des Vergangenen gestaltet, und die echte Sehnsucht muss stets
-productiv sein, ein neues, besseres Erschaffen.—<span class='sc'>Goethe.</span></span></p>
-</blockquote>
-
-<p class='c005'>“<em>There is no past that we need long to return to,
-there is only the eternally new which is formed out
-of enlarged elements of the past; and our genuine
-longing must always be productive, for a new and
-better creation.</em>”</p>
-
-<div class='chapter'>
- <span class='pageno' id='Page_v'>v</span>
- <h2 class='c006'>PREFACE</h2>
-</div>
-
-<p class='c007'>The literature upon the right and the worth
-of woman, beginning as early as the 15th century,
-has in recent times increased so enormously that
-a complete collection would require a whole library
-building. In these writings are represented all
-classes, from tables of statistics to comic papers.
-Not only both sexes but almost all stages of life
-have contributed to it. By immersing oneself in
-this literature, especially in its belletristic and
-polemic portions, one could find rich material for
-the illumination of that sphere to which the publisher
-limited my work: the indication of the new
-spiritual conditions, transformations, and reciprocal
-results which the woman movement has effected.
-Historic, scientific, political, economic, juridical,
-sociological, and theological points of view must,
-therefore, be practically set aside. But even for
-my task, limited to the psychological sphere, time,
-strength, and inclination are wanting to bury myself
-in this literature. I must, therefore, confine
-myself to giving chiefly my own observations.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>It is more than fifty years ago that I read
-<cite>Hertha</cite>, Sweden’s first “feministic” (dealing with
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_vi'>vi</span>the woman question) novel, and listened to
-the numerous contentions concerning it. With
-ever keener personal interest I have since followed
-the operations of the woman movement—above all,
-the new psychic conditions, types, and forms of
-activities which the woman movement has evoked;
-I have also given consideration to the new possibilities
-and new difficulties resulting therefrom for
-individuals and for society.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The limited compass of this little book prevents
-me from substantiating my assertions by means of
-parallels with earlier times, comparisons which
-might illuminate certain spiritual transformations
-and new formations. My comparisons of the
-present with the past do not go farther back than
-my own memory reaches. And these touch, moreover,
-in what concerns the past, principally upon
-Swedish conditions; while my impressions of
-the present were gathered throughout Europe. I
-have considered, however, that I could summarise
-both in a comprehensive picture. For although
-the women of Sweden a generation ago possessed
-rights for which the women in many countries are
-still struggling to-day, yet the woman movement
-in the last decade has advanced so rapidly that
-the conditions have in great measure been equalised.
-Indeed, some of the grey-haired champions
-of the woman movement have seen one after
-another of their demands fulfilled in this new century—demands
-which in the fifties and sixties, in
-many countries even in the seventies and eighties,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_vii'>vii</span>were publicly and privately derided even in the
-very person of these champions. And among
-peoples who even ten years ago were unaffected
-by the emancipation of women, for example the
-Chinese and the Turks, it is already progressing.
-It amounts to this, that even if national peculiarities
-in character and in laws occasion differences
-in the curve which the woman movement describes
-in the different countries, yet everywhere the
-movement has had the same causes, must follow
-the same main direction, and—sooner or later—must
-have the same effects.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>In <cite>Hertha</cite>, the book containing the tenets of the
-Swedish woman movement, the demand is made
-for woman’s “freedom and future, and a home for
-her spiritual life”; the desire is expressed that
-women should “preserve the character of their
-own nature, and not be uniformly moulded, not
-be led by a string as if they had not a soul of their
-own to show them the way.” There must be
-“vital air for woman’s soul and a share in life’s
-riches.” It is to be lamented that “woman’s
-spiritual talent must be a field that lies fallow,”
-that the law “denies her free agency in seeking
-happiness.” The prerogative is demanded that
-“woman in noble self-conscious joy shall succeed
-in feeling what she is able to do now and what she
-is capable of attaining”; that she shall be free to
-“aspire to the heights her youthful strength and
-consciousness point out to her”; that she may
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_viii'>viii</span>“be fully herself and be able to exercise an uplifting,
-ennobling influence upon the man” to whom
-she says: “All that is mine shall be thine and
-thereby the portion of each shall be doubled.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Even if all fields are made accessible to them,
-“God’s law in their nature will always lead the
-majority of women to the home, to the intimacy
-of the family life, to motherhood and the duties
-of rearing children—but with a higher consciousness.”
-That women shall be citizens signifies that
-they shall become “human beings in whom the
-life of the heart predominates.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>This picture of the future, which has already
-become a reality in many respects, was sketched
-at a time when innumerable women were still compelled
-to experience that “there is no heavier burden
-than life’s emptiness,” and when it was true of
-every woman, “dark is her way, gloomy her future,
-narrow her lot.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But because that <em>which is</em>, is always considered
-by the masses as that which <em>ought to be</em>, “whatever
-is, is right,” so the writer who painted the picture
-was called “dangerous,” “a disintegrator of
-society,” “mad,” “ridiculous”! “Mademoiselle
-Bremer’s” name possessed then quite a different
-intonation from that of Fredrika Bremer now;
-it caused strife between the sexes; it was hated by
-some and derided by others.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>I should like to advise young women of the
-present time to read <cite>Hertha</cite>; they will thus obtain
-a criterion for the progress which has taken place
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_ix'>ix</span>during the last half century and also a clear view
-of the character of the opposition which the present
-desire for progress encounters.</p>
-
-<div class='lg-container-r'>
- <div class='linegroup'>
- <div class='group'>
- <div class='line'><span class='sc'>Ellen Key.</span></div>
- </div>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-<div class='lg-container-l'>
- <div class='linegroup'>
- <div class='group'>
- <div class='line'>October 1, 1909.</div>
- </div>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-<div class='chapter'>
- <span class='pageno' id='Page_xi'>xi</span>
- <h2 class='c006'>INTRODUCTION</h2>
-</div>
-
-<p class='c007'>There can be little doubt that at the present
-moment what is called the “Woman’s Movement”
-is entering a critical period of its development.
-A discussion of its present problems and its present
-difficulties by one of the most advanced leaders
-in that movement thus appears at the right time
-and deserves our most serious attention.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The early promulgators of the Woman’s Movement,
-a century or more ago, rightly regarded it
-as an extremely large and comprehensive movement
-affecting the whole of life. They were anxious
-to secure for women adequate opportunities
-for free human development, to the same extent
-that men possess such opportunities, but they laid
-no special stress on the abolition of any single disability
-or group of disabilities, whether as regards
-education, occupation, marriage, property, or
-political enfranchisement. They were people of
-wide and sound intelligence; they never imagined
-that any single isolated reform would prove a cheap
-panacea for all the evils they wished to correct;
-they looked for a slow reform along the whole line.
-They held that such reform would enrich and enlarge
-the entire field of human life, not for women
-only, but for the human race generally. Such,
-indeed, is the spirit which still inspires the wisest
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_xii'>xii</span>and most far-seeing champions of that Movement.
-It is only necessary to mention Olive Schreiner’s
-<cite>Woman and Labour</cite>.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>When, however, the era of actual practical reform
-began, it was obvious that a certain amount
-of concentration became necessary. Education
-was, reasonably enough, usually the first point
-for concentration, and gradually, without any
-undue friction, the education of girls was, so far
-as possible, raised to a level not so very different
-from that of boys. This first great stage in the
-Woman’s Movement inevitably led on to the
-second stage, which lay in a struggle, not this time
-always without a certain amount of friction, to
-secure the entry of these now educated women to
-avocations and professions previously monopolised
-by the men who had alone been trained to fill them.
-This second stage is now largely completed, and
-at the present time there are very few vocations
-and professions in civilised lands, even in so conservative
-and slowly moving a land as England,
-which women are not entitled to exercise equally
-with men. Concomitantly with this movement,
-however,—and beginning indeed, very much
-earlier, and altogether apart from any conscious
-“movement” at all,—there was a tendency to
-change the laws in a direction more favourable
-to women and their personal rights, especially as
-regards marriage and property. These legal reforms
-were effected by Parliaments of men, elected
-exclusively by men, and for the most part they
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_xiii'>xiii</span>were effected without any very strong pressure
-from women. It had, however, long been claimed
-that women themselves ought to have some part
-in making the laws by which they are governed,
-and at this stage, towards the middle of the last
-century, the demand for women’s parliamentary
-suffrage began to be urgently raised. Here, however,
-the difficulties naturally proved very much
-greater than they were in the introduction of a
-higher level of education for women, or even in
-the opening up to them of hitherto monopolised
-occupations. In new countries, and sometimes
-in small old countries, these difficulties could be
-overcome. But in large and old countries, of
-stable and complex constitution, it was very far
-from easy to readjust the ancient machinery in
-accordance with the new demands. The difficulty
-by no means lay in any unwillingness on the part
-of the masculine politicians in possession; on the
-contrary, it is a notable fact, often overlooked,
-that, in England especially, there have for at least
-half a century been a considerable proportion of
-eminent statesmen as well as of the ordinary rank
-and file of members of Parliament who are in
-favour of granting the suffrage to women, a much
-larger proportion, probably, than would be found
-favourable to this claim in any other section of
-the community. That, indeed,—apart from the
-delay involved by ancient constitutional methods,—has
-been the main difficulty. Neither among
-the masculine electors nor among their womenfolk
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_xiv'>xiv</span>has there been any consuming desire to achieve
-women’s suffrage.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The result has been a certain tendency in the
-Woman’s Movement to diverge in two different
-directions. On the one hand, are those who, recognising
-that all evolution is slow, are content
-to await patiently the inevitable moment when
-the political enfranchisement of women will become
-possible, in the meanwhile working towards
-women’s causes in other fields equally essential
-and sometimes more important. On the other
-hand, a small but energetic, sometimes even
-violent, section of the women engaged in this
-movement concentrated altogether on the suffrage.
-The germs of this divergence may be noted even
-thirty years back when we find Miss Cobbe declaring
-that woman’s suffrage is “the crown and
-completion of all progress in woman’s movements,”
-while Mrs. Cady Stanton, perhaps more wisely,
-stated that it was merely a vestibule to progress.
-In recent years the difference has become accentuated,
-sometimes even into an acute opposition,
-between those who maintain that the one and only
-thing essential, and that immediately and at all
-costs, even at the cost of arresting and putting
-back the progress of women in all other directions,
-is the parliamentary suffrage, and on the other
-hand, those who hold that the suffrage, however
-necessary, is still only a single point, and that the
-woman’s movement is far wider and, above all,
-far deeper than any mere political reform.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_xv'>xv</span>It is at this stage that Ellen Key comes before
-us with her book on <cite>The Woman’s Movement</cite>, first
-published in Swedish in 1909, and now presented
-to the reader in English. As Ellen Key views the
-Woman’s Movement, it certainly includes all that
-those who struggle for votes for women are fighting
-for; she is unable to see, as she puts it, why a
-woman’s hands need be more soiled by a ballot
-paper than by a cooking recipe. But she is far
-indeed from the well-intentioned but ignorant
-fanatics who fancy that the vote is the alpha and
-the omega of Feminism; and still less is she in
-sympathy with those who consider that its importance
-is so supreme as to justify violence and robbery,
-a sort of sex war on mankind generally, and
-the casting in the mud of all those things which
-it has been the gradual task of civilisation to
-achieve, not for men only but for women. The
-Woman’s Movement, as Ellen Key sees it, includes
-the demand for the vote, but it looks upon
-the vote merely as a reasonable condition for
-attaining far wider and more fundamental ends.
-She is of opinion that the Woman’s Movement will
-progress less by an increased aptitude to claim
-rights than by an increased power of self-development,
-that it is not by what they can seize, but by
-what they are, that women, or for the matter of
-that men, finally count. She regards the task of
-women as constructive rather than destructive;
-they are the architects of the future humanity,
-and she holds that this is a task that can only be
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_xvi'>xvi</span>carried out side by side with men, not because
-man’s work and woman’s work is, or should be,
-identical, but because each supplements and aids
-the other, and whatever gives greater strength
-and freedom to one sex equally fortifies and
-liberates the other sex.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Certainly we may not all agree with Ellen Key
-at every point, nor always accept her interpretation
-of the great movement of which she is so
-notable a pioneer. The breadth of her sympathies
-may sometimes seem to lead to an impracticable
-eclecticism, and, in the rejection of narrow and
-trivial aims, she may too sanguinely demand an
-impossible harmony of opposing ideals. But if
-this is an error it is surely an error on the right
-side. She has not put forward this book as a manifesto
-of the advanced guard of the Woman’s Movement,
-but merely as the reflections of an individual
-woman who, for nearly half a century, has pondered,
-felt, studied, observed this movement in
-many parts of the world. But it would not be
-easy to find a book in which the claims of Feminism—in
-the largest modern sense—are more reasonably
-and temperately set forth.</p>
-
-<div class='figright id001'>
-<img src='images/i_xvi.jpg' alt='_Havelock Ellis._' class='ig001' />
-</div>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='sc'>London</span>, May 1, 1912.</p>
-
-<div class='chapter'>
- <span class='pageno' id='Page_xvii'>xvii</span>
- <h2 class='c006'>CONTENTS</h2>
-</div>
-
-<table class='table0' summary='CONTENTS'>
- <tr>
- <th class='c009'></th>
- <th class='c010'>&nbsp;</th>
- <th class='c011'><span class='small'>PAGE</span></th>
- </tr>
- <tr><td>&nbsp;</td></tr>
- <tr>
- <td class='c012' colspan='2'><span class='sc'>Introduction</span></td>
- <td class='c011'><a href='#Page_1'>1</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr><td>&nbsp;</td></tr>
- <tr>
- <th class='c009'><span class='small'>CHAPTER</span></th>
- <th class='c010'>&nbsp;</th>
- <th class='c011'>&nbsp;</th>
- </tr>
- <tr><td>&nbsp;</td></tr>
- <tr>
- <td class='c009'>I</td>
- <td class='c010'><span class='sc'>The External Results of the Woman Movement</span></td>
- <td class='c011'><a href='#Page_23'>23</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr><td>&nbsp;</td></tr>
- <tr>
- <td class='c009'>II</td>
- <td class='c010'><span class='sc'>The Inner Results of the Woman Movement</span></td>
- <td class='c011'><a href='#Page_58'>58</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr><td>&nbsp;</td></tr>
- <tr>
- <td class='c009'>III</td>
- <td class='c010'><span class='sc'>The Influence of the Woman Question upon Single Women</span></td>
- <td class='c011'><a href='#Page_71'>71</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr><td>&nbsp;</td></tr>
- <tr>
- <td class='c009'>IV</td>
- <td class='c010'><span class='sc'>The Influence of the Woman Movement upon the Daughters</span></td>
- <td class='c011'><a href='#Page_89'>89</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr><td>&nbsp;</td></tr>
- <tr>
- <td class='c009'>V</td>
- <td class='c010'><span class='sc'>The Influence of the Woman Movement upon Men and Women in General</span></td>
- <td class='c011'><a href='#Page_111'>111</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr><td>&nbsp;</td></tr>
- <tr>
- <td class='c009'>VI</td>
- <td class='c010'><span class='sc'>The Influence of the Woman Movement upon Marriage</span></td>
- <td class='c011'><a href='#Page_139'>139</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr><td>&nbsp;</td></tr>
- <tr>
- <td class='c009'>VII</td>
- <td class='c010'><span class='sc'>The Influence of the Woman Movement upon Motherhood</span></td>
- <td class='c011'><a href='#Page_169'>169</a></td>
- </tr>
-</table>
-
-<div class='section ph1'>
-
-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
-<div class='nf-center c001'>
- <div>The Woman Movement</div>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-</div>
-
-<div class='chapter'>
- <span class='pageno' id='Page_1'>1</span>
- <h2 class='c006'>INTRODUCTION</h2>
-</div>
-
-<p class='c007'>The first “woman movement” was Eve’s gesture
-when she reached for the fruit of the Tree of
-Knowledge—a movement symbolic of the entire
-subsequent woman’s movement of the world. For
-the will to pass beyond established bounds has
-constantly been the motive of her conscious as
-well as of her subconscious quest. Every generation
-has called this transgression, this passing
-beyond the bounds, a “fall of man,” the “original
-sin,” a crime against God’s express command, a
-crime against the nature of woman as prescribed
-for her for all time.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>And yet from the beginning women have
-appeared who have passed far beyond the established
-boundaries set for their sex by their era and
-upheld by their own people. They have demonstrated
-that limitations thus prescribed do not
-always coincide with what is considered by the
-majority to be the “nature” of woman. At one
-time a woman has manifested the “masculine”
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_2'>2</span>characteristics of a ruler or has performed a “masculine”
-deed; at another time she has distinguished
-herself in “masculine” learning or art, or again
-has dared to love without the permission of
-law and custom. In a word the individual woman,
-when her head or her heart was strong enough, has
-always shown the possibilities of the development
-of personal power. But she has had in that effort
-only her own strength and her own will upon which
-to rely; she has neither been urged on by the spirit
-of her time (<em>Zeitgeist</em>) nor been emulated by the
-masses. Exceptional women have sometimes been
-glorified by their contemporaries and by posterity
-as “wonders of nature”; sometimes been cited as
-“warning examples.” Seen in connection with
-the world’s woman movement all these instances,
-where a bond was broken by woman’s power of
-mind or creative gift, by a heart or a conscience,
-are parts of what can be called the “prehistoric”
-woman movement. This movement for personal
-freedom formed no step in that phase of the development
-which possesses a conscious purpose,
-but was merely sporadic. Even so the participation
-was long nameless which women took in the great
-struggles for freedom where, without consideration
-for the “nature” of woman, they dared bleed upon
-the arena and scaffold, ascend the pyre, and be
-raised upon the gibbet. Very rarely did these
-women martyrs alter immediately men’s—or even
-women’s—conception of woman’s “being.” But
-just as many perfumes are dissipated only after
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_3'>3</span>centuries, so there are also deeds whose indirect
-results persist through centuries.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Most significant, however, upon the whole in
-the “prehistoric” woman movement, are innumerable
-women whose souls found expression only
-in the strong, quiet acts of every day life but yet
-remained living and growing. As a reason for the
-“enslavement” of woman by man, the primitive
-division of labour is still occasionally cited. This
-division of labour made war and the chase man’s
-task and so developed in him courage, energy, and
-daring, while the woman remained the “beast of
-burden.” But we forget that, in this labour
-arrangement, the handicraft and husbandry which
-woman practised at that time made her, to perhaps
-a higher degree than man, the conservator of civilisation
-and probably developed her psychic power
-in more comprehensive manner than his.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Even after this division of labour ceased there
-remained—and remain still in innumerable country
-households—in and through many of the important
-and difficult tasks of the mother of the house,
-numerous possibilities for spiritual development.
-And exactly in this respect industrial work robs
-the woman of much.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>By the side of these innumerable nameless
-women who, century after century, in and through
-the material work of culture which they performed,
-increased their psychic power, we must remember
-all the unnamed women who with flower-like
-quiet mien turned their souls to the light.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_4'>4</span>Antique sepulchres and Tanagra figures tell us
-more about the harmonious, refined corporeality
-of the Hellenic woman than the famous statues
-of Aphrodite or Athena. In like manner it is not
-the illustrious but the nameless women who most
-clearly reveal the will of the woman soul, in
-antiquity, for light and life.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Numbers of Greek women were disciples of the
-philosophers, some even were their inspiration.
-Generally courtesans, these women represented
-the “emancipation” of that time from the servile
-condition of the legitimate married women and
-also showed that women already longed to share
-in the interests of men and to acquire their culture.
-History has preserved also words and deeds of
-wives and mothers of the past which show that
-these also at times attained “masculine” greatness
-of soul and civic virtue. Pythias and Sibyls,
-Vestals and Valas, are other witnesses that the
-power of woman’s soul was active and recognised
-long before Christianity. Even among the purely
-primitive races there were found—and are found—cases
-in which woman in power and rights was
-placed, not only on an equality with man, but even
-above him. And if, on the one hand, the rigid
-exactions which men from the earliest time have
-fixed upon the wife’s fidelity—while they themselves
-had full freedom for promiscuity—show that
-the wife was considered as the property of the husband,
-so, on the other hand, this very conception
-was a means of elevating and refining the soul life
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_5'>5</span>of woman. For the self-control which she had to
-impose upon herself deepened her feeling for a
-devotion which embraced only one, the man to
-whom she belonged. Nothing would be more
-superficial than to estimate the real position of
-woman, among any special people, only by what
-we know of their laws. It is as if one, in a few
-centuries from now, should judge the actual position
-of the modern European wife by referring it
-to the wretched marriage laws which now obtain.
-They forget the deep gulf between law and
-custom who declare that marriage devotion, veneration
-for the sanctity of the home, esteem for the
-spiritual being of the wife first arose as a result
-of Christianity.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>It is significant enough for the freeing of woman
-that Jesus raised the personal worth of <em>all</em> mankind
-through His teaching that—whoever or whatever
-the person in outer respects may be—every soul
-possesses an eternal value comprised, as it were, in
-God’s love; significant enough that Jesus Himself,
-because of this point of view, treated every woman,
-even the sinner, with kindness and respect.
-Because of the increasing uncertainty concerning
-the real ideals of Jesus, one is compelled to assume
-that—just as Veronica’s handkerchief preserved
-the imprint of Jesus’ outer image—the manner of
-life of the oldest Christian communities has preserved
-the imprint of His teaching. It is significant
-of their doctrines that in these communities
-women and men stood side by side in the same
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_6'>6</span>faith, in the same hope, in the same exercise of love,
-and in the same martyrdom. Here was “neither
-man nor woman,” but all were one in the hope
-of the speedy second coming of Jesus to establish
-God’s Kingdom.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But the more this hope faded, the more the
-Pagan-Jewish conception of woman again made
-itself felt. It is true the Church sought to place
-man and woman on an equality in regard to certain
-marriage duties and rights; to uphold on both sides
-the sanctity of marriage; to protect women and
-children against despotism. It is true the Church
-strove to counteract crude sensuality, utilising,
-among other things, an emphasis of celibacy as the
-expression of the highest spirituality.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But, on the other hand, the doctrine of this
-Church became the greatest obstacle to the elevation
-of woman, because it lessened the reverence
-for her mission as a being of sex. Marriage, the
-only recognised ends of which were the prevention
-of unchastity and the propagation of the race, was
-looked upon as an inferior condition in comparison
-with pure virginity. And the more this ideal of
-chastity was extolled, the more woman was degraded
-and considered the most grievous temptation
-of man in his striving after higher sanctity.
-Before God, so man taught, man and woman were
-truly equal; but not in human relationships or qualities;
-yes, and man has gone in this direction even to
-the point of debating the question in church councils,
-as to whether woman really had a soul or not!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_7'>7</span>But when the Church revered pure virginity in
-the person of the Mother of Jesus, it was woman
-in highest form—as happy or suffering mother—that
-the Church unconsciously glorified. In the
-statues and altar pieces of the cathedral man worships,
-in the likeness of Mary, the purest and
-noblest womanhood. The virtues especially extolled
-by the Church were also those in which Mary
-in particular and woman in general had pre-eminence.
-By all these impressions a soul condition
-was created in which the heart penetrated by
-religious ecstasy, must, of psychological necessity,
-devote itself to the earthly manifestations of this
-same pure womanhood. Generally this devotion
-was only an ecstatic cult, an adoration from afar
-of an ideal, inspiring deeds or poetry. Sometimes
-this ecstasy fused the being of man and woman
-in the sensuous-soulful unity of great love. But
-when neither was the case, yet the adoration of
-knights and minnesingers increased the esteem of
-man for woman and the esteem of woman for herself.
-It also contributed to the esteem of man for
-woman that, as the men were always obliged to
-stand in arms, they could rarely acquire the learning
-which the priests—and through them the
-wives and daughters of the castles—acquired. The
-superiority of woman in this respect had a refining
-influence upon manners and customs and upon the
-general culture of the time. Often through a
-number of women auditors the poem of a minnesinger
-first became famous. When in Mainz one
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_8'>8</span>sees Heinrich Frauenlob’s tombstone, one comprehends,
-through the soulful noble lines, how mourning
-women bore him to the grave, as the little
-bas-relief at the base of the stone represents. Their
-sympathy made him their singer and his sympathy
-revealed, to their time and to themselves, their
-own being. Woman’s ideal of love became
-through poetry and courts of love the ideal also
-of the most cultured men. We see here a movement
-of the time which women already half consciously
-effected by their life of feeling and their
-culture. The authority which the wife exercised
-as lady of the manor during the absence, often of
-many years’ duration, of her husband gave her
-increased power to disseminate about her that
-finer culture which she herself had gained. But
-when the lords of the manor returned and again
-assumed power, then indeed at times strange
-thoughts might have come to their wives, while
-they fixed their glance, under the great arched
-eyelids, upon the missal or the romance of chivalry
-or, with long tapering fingers, moved the chessmen
-or played the harp, or while they bent the slender
-white neck over the embroidery frame or the lace-pillow
-upon which they wrought veritable marvels
-of handicraft. Perhaps even then there stirred
-under many a brow the presentiment of a time in
-which the relationship between man and woman
-would be different. Such thoughts must have
-arisen also in the manor-houses when the men began
-to arrogate to themselves one handicraft after
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_9'>9</span>another, occupations which in earlier times the
-daughters once learned from their fathers, at whose
-side they sometimes even entered the guild. Could
-even the nun’s veil prevent such thoughts from
-rising between the white temples of some of the
-women who—suffering or superfluous outside in
-the world—had found refuge in the cloister? Here
-was accomplished most peacefully the “emancipation,”
-of that time, of the intellectual and artistic
-gifts of woman, for whom religion and the life of
-the cloister had always employment. And if the
-soul of a nun was greater and richer than usual,
-then might it indeed have happened that she
-devoted herself to meditation, in a quandary as
-to whether all of God’s purposes for the gifts of
-her soul were truly fulfilled. And this the more
-intently since even then many women outside the
-cloister—women whose religious inspiration directed
-their genius to great ends—outside in the
-world, exercised a powerful influence upon the
-thought as upon the events of their time and, after
-death as saints, retained power over souls.
-Our Birgitta, for example, possessed herself of
-a great part of “woman’s rights.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>So significant had the psychic power of woman
-shown itself to be in the Middle Ages that already
-in the early Renaissance it brought forth a number
-of “feminist” writers, both women and men.
-And in the height of the Renaissance there was
-quite an “emancipation” literature, about women
-and by women. This literature increased during
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_10'>10</span>the following centuries. Famous men emphasised
-the importance of a higher education of woman;
-some, as early as the beginning of the 16th century,
-claimed the absolute superiority of woman in all
-things. Greater freedom, education, and rights,
-in one or another respect, were demanded by men
-as well as women “feminists.” This literature
-purposed less, however, to alter some given conditions
-than, by means of examples of famous women
-of antiquity, to demonstrate the personal right
-and the social gain of what already obtained without
-hindrance, although with the disapproval of
-many:—that numbers of women had appeared
-who in classic culture, in the practice of learned
-professions, in political or religious, intellectual
-or æsthetic interests, stood beside the men of Humanism,
-the Renaissance, and the Reformation.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The ideal of the time, the fully developed human
-personality of marked individuality, determined
-the conduct of life of women exactly as that of men.
-Both sexes cherished the life value which the
-original, isolated, individual personality signified
-for other such personalities. Both sexes appropriated
-to themselves the right to choose that
-which was harmonious with their own natures,
-that which soul or sense, thought or feeling,
-desired. It followed from this conception that
-women sought to attain the highest degree of the
-beauty and grace of their own sex and at the same
-time to cultivate what “manly” courage or genius
-nature had given them—attributes which men
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_11'>11</span>valued in them next to their purely womanly
-qualities.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But at this time it was not the <em>work</em> of woman
-which had the great cultural significance, but the
-human essence of her being reflected in <em>the works of
-men</em>. In antiquity woman exhibited the manly
-qualities of greatness of soul and civic virtue; in
-the Middle Ages she revealed the same faculty as
-man for saintliness and exercise of love; in the
-Renaissance she manifested the same ability as
-man to mould her own personality into a living
-work of art. If the spirit of equality between the
-sexes, which prevailed in the Renaissance, had
-further directed the progress of development, a
-“woman movement” would never have arisen,
-because its ends, which are to-day still contended
-for, would have been attained one after another,
-at the appointed time, as natural fruits of the
-florescence of the Renaissance.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>As it is, this florescence acquired only very slight
-<em>immediate</em> influence upon the emancipation of
-woman—and the farther North one goes the
-slighter it becomes. The periods of the Counter-Reformation,
-of the Religious Wars and of
-the new Orthodoxy, on the contrary, had as result
-an enormous retrogression in the position of
-woman.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The “Deliverance of the Flesh,” which was
-accomplished by the verdict of Protestantism upon
-the life of the cloister, and by its support of marriage,
-had little in common with the deep feeling
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_12'>12</span>for the right and beauty of corporeality by which
-the Renaissance, intoxicated with life, became the
-era of the great renascence of art. Luther’s conception
-of the sex life, as “sanctified” by marriage,
-was so crassly utilitarian that it again dragged
-woman down from that high level upon which the
-finest life of feeling and culture of the Middle Ages
-and of the Renaissance had placed her.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>As matron of the household, woman retained her
-authority. The rational, common-sense marriage
-was the one most conformable to this literal doctrine
-of Luther, and the most usual. To the man
-who had chosen her, the wife bore children by the
-dozen and threescore. The Church gave her soul
-nourishment. If a woman occasionally sought to
-exercise her spiritual gifts in a “worldly” direction,
-she needed powerful protection, else she ran the
-danger of being burned as a witch!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Yet in spite of all, even this period produced not
-a few women who procured for themselves the
-learning after which they thirsted, who succeeded
-in keeping their souls alive, in finding springs in
-the midst of the stony wastes of the desert. The
-more, however, the different branches of learning
-developed, and especially as Latin became the
-language of the learned, the more difficult it
-became for women to force their way to these
-springs, sealed for the majority of their sex. For
-a classical education became more and more infrequently
-extended to the daughter, for whom
-even the ability to read and write was considered
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_13'>13</span>a temptation to deviation from the path
-of virtue.<a id='r1' /><a href='#f1' class='c013'><sup>[1]</sup></a></p>
-
-<p class='c005'>That women in time of persecution adhered to
-the new doctrine with warm belief and suffered
-for it with the whole strength of their souls, that
-in time of war they managed house and estate
-with power and understanding, altered in no respect,
-at the time, woman’s social or marriage
-position. Man was woman’s sovereign master and
-therefore a good bit nearer God than she. In
-marriage woman was considered, according to
-the bishop’s word, “man’s chattel,” outside of
-marriage as a tool of the devil. But however
-deeply the soul of woman was oppressed at this
-time, yet it still lived and endowed sons, in whom
-the strong but unexercised endowments of the
-mother became genius; it endowed daughters, who
-secretly procured sustenance for their souls and
-who in turn transmitted their rebellious spirit
-to a daughter or granddaughter.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>When at the end of the period of Orthodoxy and
-Absolutism, the great fundamental principle of
-Protestantism, the principle of personality, once
-more made headway, one of the most characteristic
-expressions of this reaction is that, in England,
-Milton wrote upon the right of divorce and Defoe
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_14'>14</span>upon the right of woman to the development and
-exercise of her mental powers. Among others
-who demanded greater education for women were
-Comenius in Germany and Fénelon in France. It
-was not in the former country that woman, so long
-oppressed, first won her great cultural influence.
-That happened in the land where women had never
-wholly lost it. In France, in the age of enlightenment,
-it was the salons created by women that
-determined the European spirit of the time. Letters
-and memoirs indicate sufficiently the influence
-of woman—in good as well as in bad sense—in
-politics and literature, manners, customs, and
-taste. Women transform indirectly the political,
-philosophic, and scientific style. For they demand
-that every subject be treated in a manner easily
-comprehensible and agreeable to them. A number
-of writings appeared which aimed to make it
-easy for “women folk” also “to be freed through
-the reason.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Since it was the approval of women which determined
-fame, men were only too eager to fulfil their
-expressed demands. Women disseminated the
-ideas of men in wide circles, partly by buying their
-writings in great numbers and distributing them,
-partly also by social life. Never has woman more
-perfectly accomplished the important task of adjusting
-culture values. The art of conversation,
-developed to the highest perfection, was, it is true,
-often only a game of battledore and shuttlecock
-with ideas. But it performed at the same time,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_15'>15</span>and in more elegant and more effective manner, a
-great part of the office of to-day’s Press. The
-political leader, art and literary criticism, gossip
-(<em>causerie</em>), the “portrait gallery” of contemporaries—all
-this was gathered from clever discourse.
-Through their art of conversation the
-women became—next to the philosophers and
-statesmen who in this or that salon were the leading
-spirits—the intellectual leaders of the time;
-they created “enlightened opinion,” they co-operated
-finally in the Revolution. The mistresses of
-these salons scarcely felt the need of an emancipation
-of woman; for they had for themselves as
-many possibilities of culture, of development of
-their powers, of the exercise of their faculties, as
-even they themselves could wish. The intellectual
-curiosity, which coveted learning, and the cultural
-interest of these women penetrated in wider circles,
-and a result of this general awakening was the
-Woman’s Lyceum founded in Paris in 1786, among
-the students of which were found, some years later,
-enthusiastic supporters of the Revolution.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Also among the German peoples there appeared,
-in the age of enlightenment, women with literary
-and scientific interest; some with extraordinary
-gifts which they also exercised. But for the most
-part women and men under more clumsy social
-forms, so-called “Academies” and “Societies,”
-engaged in their “learned pastime”; and nowhere,
-except in the person of some ruler, did woman
-attain in Europe, in the age of enlightenment, an
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_16'>16</span>influence which can be compared to that of the
-French women.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In the midst of the period of rococo elegance
-and gallantry, of reason and esprit, came the great
-regeneration, the second Renaissance—the Revival
-of Feeling. This occurred first in the field
-of religion, through the pietistic movement of the
-time. Later it was Rousseau who, in connection
-with religion, nature, love, motherhood, became
-the liberator of feeling, and together with him
-were the English “sentimental” poets and the
-German poetry, which reached its culminating
-point in Goethe. Literature, the Theatre, and
-Art came more and more to the front and, by that
-means, women acquired greater possibilities of
-becoming acquainted with, understanding, and
-loving the richest culture of the time.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>And with this Revival of Feeling, personal freedom,
-individual character, became again the great
-life value. Women who wish to give expression
-to their feeling in their life now become more numerous:
-women who are conscious that their being
-buries many unsatisfied demands, not only in connection
-with the right of culture of their natural
-character, but also in connection with the right,
-in private life and in society, to give expression to
-this natural character. Men are continually in
-intellectual interchange with women, giving as
-well as receiving; woman nature is esteemed with
-ever finer comprehension.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Since feelings determine thoughts—for the
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_17'>17</span>thought always goes in the direction in which
-the feeling says happiness is to be found—so it is
-natural that, in the second half of the 18th century,
-the idea of freedom is the ideal which kindles the
-soul of increasing numbers of women. <em>The emancipation
-of the individual</em> is the tale within the
-tale, from the Renaissance up to the struggles of
-the Reformation for freedom of conscience, freedom
-of learning, freedom of investigation, and
-freedom of thought. Then finally came the struggle
-for constitutionally protected civic freedom.
-In America as early as 1776 the demand for the
-enfranchisement of women was raised, because
-they had taken part in the struggle for freedom
-with such great enthusiasm and constancy. With
-the same passion they threw themselves into the
-struggle in France for the “Rights of Man.” But
-both times they had to learn to their sorrow that
-“fellow-citizen” and “man” were terms which as
-yet referred only to men. That a woman during
-the French Revolution proclaimed “Women’s
-Rights,” that women discussed these questions
-as well as questions of education and other vital
-questions, with ardour, had as little immediate
-effect as the attempt at that time to enforce the
-right of the fourth estate. These sorely oppressed
-movements, of women and of working men, dominate
-the 19th century and now at the beginning
-of the 20th have every reason for assurance of
-victory.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In the 17th and 18th centuries men and women
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_18'>18</span>writers appeared in different countries to demonstrate
-and establish the worth and right of woman
-as “man.” Indirectly inspired by the great women
-of the earlier centuries, they were immediately
-influenced by woman’s political and cultural exercise
-of power in the 18th century. Especially
-notable are the arguments which were advanced
-in the 90’s of the 18th century by writers manifestly
-uninfluenced by one another—the Swede,
-Thorild, in <cite>The Natural Nobility of Womankind</cite>;
-the German, Hippel; the Frenchman, Condorcet;
-the English woman, Mary Wollstonecraft. All insist
-that difference in sex can form no obstacle
-to placing woman on an equality with man in the
-family and in society; that she shall have the same
-right as man to education and free agency. The
-men writers emphasised more her individual
-human right, as “man,” and the advantage to
-society; the women writers more the mother’s
-need of culture and her right to it, in order to be
-able to rear and protect her children better. But
-all four ideas are, at heart, determined by the same
-point of view which the great philosopher of evolution
-thus formulated later: <em>the fundamental condition
-for social equilibrium is the same as for human
-happiness and lies in the law of equal freedom</em>. And
-this means that every one—without regard to difference
-between sex and sex, man and man—must
-have the right and the opportunity to develop and
-exercise his own capacities. For no one to-day
-can undertake so certain a valuation of talents
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_19'>19</span>that this valuation could justify society in restricting,
-a priori, the right of a single one of its members
-<em>to develop</em> his capacities, even though these
-capacities might take such a direction, later, that
-society would be compelled to limit their <em>exercise</em>.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Spencer arrived by the deductive method at the
-same demand Romanticism reached earlier by the
-intuitive method. Romanticism recognised that
-in the measure in which the individual is unusual
-he must be also unintelligible, for he shows to the
-majority only his surface; his innermost soul only
-to those in harmony with him. Even in the family
-circle the individual often remains therefore undiscovered.
-How much more then must society,
-composed for the most part of Philistines, outrage
-the individual if it concedes rights to one category,
-to one sex, to one class, and not to the other!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>And from this point of view the Romanticists
-drew for women also the logical conclusion of individualism.
-They pointed out that the sex character,
-carried <em>to the extreme</em>, furnished neither the
-highest masculine nor the highest feminine type;
-that each sex must develop in itself both noble
-human <em>universality</em> and individual <em>peculiarity</em>.
-And this the great woman personalities did who
-shared the destiny of the Romanticists. They
-were thereby fully and wholly able to share also
-the intellectual life of their husbands. Love
-became thus a unity of souls. The romantic ideal
-of love was expressed in <cite><span lang="fr" xml:lang="fr">La Nouvelle Héloise</span></cite>, in
-Goethe’s letters to Charlotte von Stein, in Rahel,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_20'>20</span>in Mme. de Staël. It was found in the first half
-of the 19th century in many great women; for
-example, George Sand, Elizabeth Barrett Browning,
-Camilla Collett. It appeared in Shelley and
-in the Swedish poet Almquist, in Stuart Mill and
-Robert Browning, also in certain French and German
-poets and thinkers. This ideal has now been
-for some centuries the ideal of most women and
-of not a few men of feeling.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But since a truly psychic unity is possible only
-between two beings who are, in outer as in inner
-sense, <em>free</em>, exactly for this reason, “romantic love”
-has as consequence the demand for the emancipation
-of woman.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The love of Romanticism, which has been caricatured
-to the extent that it signified only moonshine,
-ecstasy, sonnets, and wife barter, had its
-real essence in the desire for completeness of soul
-in love. This was, in a new form, the ideal of the
-courts of love. But since completeness of soul
-means that all the powers of the soul can freely and
-fully penetrate and elevate one another, so the first
-requisite for that soulful love was that <em>woman’s</em>
-thinking as well as her feeling, her imagination as
-well as her will, her desire for power, as well as her
-conscience, be freed from the shackles imposed
-upon them from without, in order to be strengthened
-and purified. The second stipulation was
-that <em>man’s</em> inner, spiritual life be freed from the
-deteriorating results of the prerogatives and prejudices
-accorded to and maintained by his sex.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_21'>21</span>A new ideal in the relationship between husband
-and wife, between mother and child; the demand
-of the feminine individuality for the right to free
-cultivation of her powers and to self-direction;
-the need of new fields for this exercise of her power
-after industrialism began to usurp one branch of
-domestic work after another—these are the fundamental
-reasons for what is called the middle-class
-woman movement. The middle-class woman—because
-of the increasing surplus of women,
-because of the continually greater variety of economic
-conditions and the decrease in marriage for
-this and other reasons—was to an ever greater
-extent constrained to self-maintenance. Thus the
-<em>economic</em> reason for the woman movement, not
-only in the labouring class but also in the middle
-class, became the most effective influence operating
-in the <em>widest</em> circles, although the reasons mentioned
-previously were the first and deepest causes.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>And herewith we stand at the beginning of the
-woman movement, become <em>conscious of its purpose</em>.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But this movement would be a stream without
-sources if the “anonymous” movements indicated
-here with the greatest brevity had not preceded,
-if in the grey morning of time the endless procession
-had not begun in which women now nameless
-for us walked at the head, each with an amphoræ
-upon her shoulder—amphoræ which they filled
-at any fountain of life. Before these nameless
-women vanished on the horizon, each, like a water
-nymph of antiquity, lowered the brim of her urn
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_22'>22</span>to the earth, which thus was traversed by innumerable
-interlacing rills. And all these—even if
-by the most circuitous route—have augmented
-by some drops the mighty stream now called the
-woman movement.</p>
-
-<div class='chapter'>
- <span class='pageno' id='Page_23'>23</span>
- <h2 class='c006'>CHAPTER I<br /> <span class='large'>THE EXTERNAL RESULTS OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT</span></h2>
-</div>
-
-<p class='c007'>The history of the woman movement, conscious
-of its purpose, does not fall within the compass
-of this book. But as foundation for later
-judgments, it is necessary to take a short retrospective
-glance over the essential results which
-the woman movement has attained in the struggle
-for woman’s equality with man in the right to
-general culture, professional education, and work,
-as well as in the sphere of family and of civil status.
-These several demands for equality were voiced, as
-early as 1848, in a powerful and man-indicting
-plea by the American women in their “Declaration
-of Sentiments.” But in 1905 the program for
-Germany’s “<span lang="de" xml:lang="de">Allgemein Frauenverein</span>,” as well as
-many both conservative and radical resolutions
-for women congresses in different countries, show
-how far removed Europe and, in many respects,
-America also, still are from the desires expressed
-in the year 1848.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>If the humble utterance of women, “We can
-with justice demand nothing of life except a work
-and a duty,” be conclusive, then life has already
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_24'>24</span>conceded to the demands of woman in rich measure.
-The woman movement and the self-interest
-of the employers have made accessible to her a
-number of new fields of labour, without mentioning
-those which fifty years ago were the only ones
-“proper” for women of the middle class—those of
-teacher, lady companion, and “lady’s help.” The
-woman movement and man’s increasing recognition
-of woman’s need of general education and professional
-qualification have created a large number
-of educational institutions. But in regard to the
-right of work, the acquisitions are but insignificant
-if this right be defined as <em>the opportunity for that
-work which one prefers and for which one is best fitted</em>.
-Women have now, for example, in many countries
-the right to pass the same examinations as men,
-but in many cases not the right to the offices which
-these examinations open to men. The profession
-to which women have found a comparatively easy
-entrance, that of physician, is widely extended
-among women in Europe as well as in America.
-That a dwelling was denied to the first woman
-physician because her profession was considered
-“improper” for a woman, sounds now like a fable.
-Everywhere now are women nurses, teachers of
-gymnastics, dentists, apothecaries, and midwives.
-In America there are even many women ministers
-and it sounds likewise wholly fabulous to say that
-the first of these was literally stoned. Women
-judges also have been appointed in America. In
-Europe there are none to my knowledge and no
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_25'>25</span>women preachers. And yet the woman pastor
-would often be, especially for women and children,
-a better minister than the clergyman; for them also
-the woman judge might often surpass the man in
-penetration and understanding. The profession
-of law, open to women in many countries, is as yet
-little practised by them in Europe. And yet as
-advocate, police officer, and prison attendant, the
-female official would be of special service for her own
-sex as well as for children and young people of both
-sexes. But in every field where the living reality of
-flesh and blood has to be compressed into legal paragraphs,
-mankind must be more or less mistreated.
-And since even masculine jurists of feeling suffer
-under this conviction, the reason for the fact that
-this career, in which woman could be of infinitely
-great service to humanity, has thus far attracted
-her little, may be sought in feminine sensitiveness.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>All the more numerous are the women who have
-devoted themselves to the task most akin to
-motherhood, the profession of teacher. Unfortunately
-not always the inner call but the prestige
-of the position has determined the choice. Millions
-of women are now employed as teachers in
-all possible types of schools, from kindergartens
-to training schools, from infant schools to boys’
-colleges. Even in universities, although in Europe
-very rarely it is true, women occupy chairs of
-learning. In the field of popular education, women
-are zealously active as lecturers, librarians, leaders
-of evening classes, and in similar work.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_26'>26</span>With every decade, woman’s powers have
-attained their right more fully and in fields where
-it now seems incredible that men could, and still
-partly do, insist upon getting along without them.
-I refer to the associations and institutions connected
-with prison supervision and reformatories;
-with schools and children’s homes; care of the
-poor and the sick; health and factory inspection.
-Slowly but surely the woman movement has prepared
-a place here for the mother of society beside
-the father of society who in these domains is often
-very awkward or quite helpless. Alone, or together
-with men, women have organised milk distribution
-and crèches, housekeeping schools, school
-food-kitchens, people’s food-kitchens, people’s
-polyclinics, sanitariums and rest-homes, vacation
-colonies, homes for sick and neglected children,
-etc. Many kinds of homes for working women,
-old people’s homes, rescue homes, institutions for
-the protection of mothers and children, employment
-bureaus, legal redress, and other forms of
-social relief are connected, indirectly if not directly,
-with the woman movement. Great women agitators
-on their part set thousands of women into
-action, as for example, Harriet Beecher Stowe,
-agitating against negro slavery, Josephine Butler
-against prostitution, Frances Willard against intemperance,
-and Bertha von Suttner against war.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>And yet in spite of the fabulous amount of time,
-strength, and money which the associations and
-organisations thus created have cost in donations
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_27'>27</span>of time and money, this social relief work is only
-the oil and wine of the Samaritan for the wounds
-of society. As long as brigand hands drag mothers
-and children into factories; as long as armies cost
-much more than schools; as long as dwelling conditions
-in the cities are for many people worse
-than those for domestic animals in the country; as
-long as alcohol and syphilis brand the new generation—so
-long woman’s devotion remains powerless.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>And this conviction has urged women to transform
-their social work from an often injudicious
-“Christian” compassion into an organised charity
-in order to anticipate and prevent need and to
-facilitate self-help. But also in this new phase
-of their philanthropic work many women of the
-middle class are arriving at an understanding of
-the necessity of a social reform in accordance with
-socialistic demands. A larger number of women
-join the suffragist movement, less owing to individual
-demands for rights than out of despair over
-the hopeless social work to which their feeling of
-solidarity still impels them. For without suffrage
-(this they experience every day) their work of
-relief is like seed sown in a morass.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>A by-product of the social relief work is that
-many single women have found, in voluntary
-social work, an occupation and often also, in
-remunerative social work, a livelihood; in both
-cases through service in which certain feminine
-qualities can be of value.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Yes, exactly in the above mentioned fields of
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_28'>28</span>work, which so often bring the modern woman in
-contact with the finest and most delicate as well
-as with the coarsest and hardest sides of life; which
-place her before conflicts of the most exceptional
-as well as of the most universally human kind—there
-woman has nothing <em>new</em> to give except her
-motherliness. That means protecting tenderness,
-gentle patience, glad readiness to help, the interest
-embracing each one in particular, the fine and
-quick vibration in contact with the feelings of
-others which we, in a word, call “tact.” If, however,
-a woman has not been endowed with motherliness,
-or has none remaining, then she reverts to
-impersonal devotion to duty, hard formalism, dry
-routine; then all the talk about the <em>social</em> significance
-of woman’s entrance into the field of medicine
-or jurisprudence or the ministry or social work
-remains only empty phrases. In all these spheres
-a good man is much more valuable than a hard
-woman. And that woman’s hands can be rough,
-woman’s eyes cold, woman’s soul base or cruel—this
-many suffering and crushed, sorrowing and
-sinful, small and defenceless have already experienced.
-If woman is to keep her superiority as
-the alleviator of the suffering of others, the protector
-of others, solicitous for the welfare of others,
-then she must not only acquire certain universal
-human qualities in which man is often superior to
-her; she must also carefully guard and cultivate
-the best capacities which her sex gained in and
-through the hundred thousand years’ activity as
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_29'>29</span>that half of mankind which created the home and
-reared the children.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Although the woman movement has multiplied
-and extended the social relief work of woman in
-innumerable directions, still it has not yet opened
-to her the field in which formerly deaconesses, and
-much earlier still nuns, were engaged. But what
-is new as result of the woman movement is that
-more and more single <em>cultured</em> women now devote
-themselves to the occupations of governess, nurse,
-midwife, and kindred callings; as well as that more
-special training is demanded for these vocations
-to which women turned earlier with downright
-criminal carelessness.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>Simultaneously with the need of the middle-class
-woman for new fields of work, came the
-extraordinarily rapid development of commerce
-and business, which occasioned the need of new
-working forces. Feminine honesty, orderliness,
-and devotion to duty—alas, also her modest demands
-of compensation—made the state as well as
-private employers favourably disposed to employ
-women in increasingly greater numbers in the
-different branches of commerce: in the post-office,
-railroads, telegraph, telephone, as also in
-banks, counting houses, agencies or stores, as secretaries,
-stenographers, and clerks. In cases where
-the wife or daughter was the husband’s or father’s
-assistant such work then received a personal interest,
-and what woman’s labour in this form can
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_30'>30</span>signify for national wealth can be seen in France
-especially. But as a rule no real joy in work could
-illuminate the days and years of the generation of
-women who in all these vocations have grown gray
-and at best have been pensioned. Nevertheless,
-in these offices one always sees fresh faces bending
-over the desk to fade away in their turn.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Lack of courage or means often deters the European
-woman from more independent business
-activity, and this in spite of increasing freedom to
-choose her occupation, in spite of brilliant examples
-of successful undertakings of women, in photography,
-hotel or boarding-house management,
-dress-making, etc. In America, on the contrary,
-there is no masculine occupation, from that of
-butcher and executioner to real estate speculator
-and stock-exchange gambler that women have not
-practised.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But while the women of the older generation
-were thankful if only they succeeded in obtaining
-“a work and a duty,” however monotonous and
-wearing it might be, the will of the younger generation
-for a <em>pleasurable</em> labour has fortunately
-increased. Partly alone, partly co-operatively,
-women began to venture into the applied arts,
-handwork, farming, or kindred work. And since
-corresponding special training schools quickly
-arise to meet the awakening of the desire for a
-vocation, we can hope for good results for these,
-as yet rare, enterprising spirits. For special education
-is, in our time, the essential condition of
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_31'>31</span>success, especially in agriculture, where the women
-often succeeded without other help than their
-personal efficiency and the “farmer’s customary
-practice.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Since I know America only at second hand I
-have no claim to a final judgment regarding the
-influence of business life and modern methods of
-production upon the soul life of woman. In the
-women who have succeeded in securing affluence
-through commercial life one finds probably the
-same antichristian effects of this life as among men.
-Recently in America a number of men and women
-endeavoured to live for fourteen days, as Christ
-would have lived. The decision of most of those
-who were engaged in business life was that either
-they must cease to follow in the footsteps of
-Christ—or must resign their positions. And since,
-with due consideration for the number of woman
-employers in America, many of these experiences
-must surely have been made under feminine supervision,
-the experiment does not lack a certain
-significance for the forming of a judgment in
-the direction referred to.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The zeal of women’s rights advocates to open to
-women all of man’s fields of labour, and not only
-this but to prove that these fields are <em>as well adapted</em>
-to woman as man—this zeal has unfortunately
-had as result that the woman movement has
-turned the aptitude of many women in a wrong
-direction and has fettered a great amount of
-woman’s misused working power to thankless or
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_32'>32</span>galling tasks. But, on the other hand, how the
-woman movement has elevated woman’s work,
-since it has raised the standard of qualification in
-many fields and increased the feeling of responsibility
-in all! How it has increased the honour of
-work and the capacity for organisation, developed
-the judgment, stimulated the will power, strengthened
-the courage! It has awakened innumerable
-slumbering talents, given freedom of action to innumerable
-shackled powers. And thus it has transformed
-hosts of women of the upper class, formerly
-the most useless burden of earth, into productive
-members of society, instead of mere consumers;
-made them self-supporting instead of dependent,
-joyful instead of weary of life.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>The woman movement of the lower classes is
-socialistic. It has increased in extent and significance
-in the same measure in which the working
-woman has given up farming, housework, and
-domestic service for industry.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>This woman movement also worked in two directions.
-The older program reads: “Full equality
-of woman with man.” In the “state of the future”
-both sexes shall have the same duty of
-work and the same protection of work, while the
-children are reared in state institutions.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The movement in the other direction purposes
-to win back the wife to the husband, the mother
-to the children, and, thereby, the home to all.
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_33'>33</span>The old or right wing of the middle-class woman
-movement, as well as the older direction of socialism
-just mentioned, still uphold, with arguments
-of the old liberalism, the “individual freedom” of
-the working woman against all protecting “exceptional
-laws.” Increasing numbers of the more
-radical—that means in this connection more social—feminists
-of the upper class, however, stand side
-by side with the less dogmatic trend of socialism
-in its supreme struggle for the protection of the
-mother.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In the socialistic woman movement, both efforts
-for freedom were interwoven—that of the
-working men and that of women—checked during
-the French Revolution but soon after revived as
-the two great forces of the new century. In this
-intertwining of the woman question with the
-labour question is found the explanation of the
-fact that socialists characterise the woman question
-as an <em>economic</em> question solely; while in reality
-the woman question, <em>historically</em>, manifestly began
-as an advocacy of the human right and worth of
-woman; and that too before any great industry
-appeared on the horizon. As long as the man was
-the one who, outside the home, was producer and
-provider, and the woman the one who, within the
-home, managed and perfected the raw material,
-no <em>economic</em> woman question could arise, but on
-the other hand exactly a question of <em>woman’s
-rights</em>. For, as some writers demonstrated, as
-early as the 18th century it was absurd, if woman’s
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_34'>34</span>work in the home was so valuable and so faithfully
-performed, that it should not secure in consequence
-corresponding rights. And exactly because the
-middle-class woman movement tried to uphold
-and defend the right and the freedom of women in
-the compass of the old society, this movement
-became, and must still often be, a struggle of
-women against men. The socialistic woman
-movement is on the other hand merely a factor in
-a <em>joint struggle of men and women against the old
-society and for a new condition</em>. The struggle here
-cannot be sex against sex, but class against class.
-Each of these woman movements has been partly
-right, each has partly misunderstood the other.
-Only in recent times has a convergence between
-the middle class and the socialistic woman movements
-been accomplished for the attainment of
-a number of common ends; for example, the
-protection of the mother, mentioned above, and
-especially the franchise. This convergence has
-dissolved the prejudice on both sides. In both
-quarters they begin to understand the power and
-aim of the other movement.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Socialism and the woman movement are two
-mighty streams which drag along with them great
-parts of the firm formations which they touch.
-But if one wishes to be just toward both, one
-must not forget that in this way new lands are
-created.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The socialistic women on their part, as speakers,
-agitators, journalists, members of special associations,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_35'>35</span>have stood in rank and file beside the men
-as true comrades, and the middle-class women have
-much to learn from the feeling of solidarity of the
-women socialists. The masculine comrades have
-not always <em>in practice</em> substantiated the principle
-of equality, for even the socialist is first man and
-then comrade; but <em>in theory</em> he has generally supported
-it.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Through socialism, feminism has penetrated
-to the masses. What the middle-class woman
-movement would have needed another century to
-effect, socialism has accomplished in a few decades.
-Nothing shows better than its fear of socialists
-how blindly prejudiced was the right wing of
-middle-class feminism. And nothing so clearly
-elucidates in what stage of feminism the upper-class
-movement was than its obstinate adherence to
-“the principle of personal freedom” in face of the
-atrocious actual conditions which resulted from the
-“freedom of work” of the women factory hands.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>I will here recall only in brief the progress of the
-economic woman movement in the class of factory
-workers. When machines transformed the whole
-method of production and a host of women no
-longer found sufficient occupation in the home,
-while at the same time the possibilities of marriage
-decreased because of the surplus of women and
-also for other reasons, the middle-class women
-looked about them for new fields of labour. The
-great industries in return looked about them for
-more “hands.” And since, with the machine,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_36'>36</span>female hands were quite as serviceable as male—with
-a new machine it was possible to replace thirty
-men with one woman—and since in addition they
-were cheaper, then began that exodus of women
-from the home into the factory, the results of
-which we are now experiencing.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>When the mother is absent from the home, then
-there is lacking the cohering, supervising, warming
-force, and the home deteriorates and falls to pieces;
-the children are neglected, the husband suffers;
-the street takes possession of the children, the
-alehouse of the men. Moreover, the women work
-often for starvation wages, whereby less comes into
-the home than is lost by the absence and incapacity
-of the mother. In the middle classes daughters and
-wives, entirely or partly supported in the home,
-could be satisfied with smaller wages and have
-thus become the competitors of men and women
-wholly self-supporting. For the same reason
-wives working in these industries have often
-become the competitors of men, children again
-the competitors of women, and married women
-the competitors of unmarried.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In woman, so long secluded in the sphere of the
-family, the social feeling of solidarity has been
-very slowly awakened. Therefore, organisation
-which could prevent the competition just mentioned
-has only in the last decade made great
-progress everywhere among working women. In
-the middle-class vocations this is almost entirely
-lacking. Among the working women slowness of
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_37'>37</span>organisation is natural, for the more wretched
-their position was, the more difficult was it for
-them to organise. But among middle-class
-women the reason was partly their individualism,
-partly their anti-socialism, partly the lack of feeling
-of solidarity just referred to.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Home work for profit and pleasure in one’s own
-family or in service of the applied arts has become
-a means for the “sweat system,” the facts of which
-belong to the darkest side of modern working life.
-These facts alone would be sufficient to prove that
-<em>working women</em> have little to gain from the luxury
-of the rich, an assertion with which luxury often
-vindicates itself. There is still for the women
-working at home as well as for the women working
-in the factory, beside their professional work, also
-the duty of caring for the children and managing
-the home. However insufficient this may be yet
-it still claims a great part of their already meagre
-leisure; and the more tender and conscientious the
-mothers are, the more they wear themselves out,
-and the sooner must society, after night-watching,
-lack of light and hunger have ruined them, maintain
-them as infirm or paupers. The life of these
-women passed in the factory often from childhood
-has made them moreover, generation after generation,
-more unfitted for household work. What
-does it profit to attempt to remedy the evil by
-housekeeping schools and instruction in the care of
-children? For where time and strength are lacking
-the home has lost its right.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_38'>38</span>What can be expected of women who three or
-four days after confinement must again stand at
-the machine, who are compelled to leave their
-children behind them, shut in at home, exposed to
-all conceivable accidents? What can be expected
-of mothers, who have become mothers against their
-will,—mothers of children, who because of the
-conditions of their parents’ work have become
-scrofulous, rickety, idiotic—children who contract
-degeneration of the liver because the harassed,
-ignorant mother quieted them with brandy, ill-treated
-them,—herself a physical and psychic ruin
-who spreads destruction about her!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The feminists are accustomed to rage over the
-custom which formerly condemned the Indian
-widows to be burned upon the funeral pyre—a
-custom which is only an innocent sport in comparison
-with the woman slavery which Europe
-has even brought to a system and which the woman
-movement long ignored.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>To these general facts, which apply also to
-women employed in hard agricultural labour,
-there is also added an entirely new series of evils
-associated with occupations dangerous to health—for
-example those in which lead, quicksilver, phosphorus
-or tobacco poison the workers,<a id='r2' /><a href='#f2' class='c013'><sup>[2]</sup></a> or those
-branches of work where inhaling dust at the weaving
-loom or in spinning, breathing gas and coal
-smoke, exposed to heat, smoke and damp, they
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_39'>39</span>contract tuberculosis and other diseases; to say
-nothing of the physical and moral misery in which
-miners and stevedores live. But the worst begins
-only when the women are to become mothers.
-Either the embryo is killed by an abortion, intentional
-or caused by the occupation; or it comes into
-the world dead or sick or crippled; or it dies in the
-first weeks or wastes away under artificial nourishment—in
-England for example only one out of
-eight children is nursed. The mothers either cannot
-or will not. Next to the labour conditions,
-alcohol plays the greatest part in this indirect
-massacre of infants.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>If one turns from the women engaged in industrial
-work to the servant class, then female drudgery
-reaches perhaps its height among the girls
-employed in bars, cafés, and similar establishments.
-What physical and psychic results this work
-entails can be divined from the fact that, in England,
-half of all women suicides are such waitresses
-under 30 years of age. That family servant girls
-are allowed to sleep in closets and to work far
-beyond the present customary factory time; that
-in the class of saleswomen, especially in cigar
-shops, the longest working hours together with
-the most paltry starvation wages are found—all
-this, as every one knows, is the fundamental reason
-why the path is so short from all these occupations
-to the lowest—to prostitution. The servant girl
-corrupted by the master of the house, the half-starved,
-overworked shop girl, the night-watching
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_40'>40</span>cigar worker, and many, many others are found here
-as sacrifices of a shameless exploitation. Herewith
-we stand before that “woman question” in which
-both elementary instincts have united for that
-captivity of woman from which the woman movement
-has found no means of emancipation; against
-which the means sought in these and other quarters
-prove fruitless. For only a radical transformation
-of society and sexual ethics can here provide a
-remedy.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>Every one in face of these facts, touched upon
-thus superficially, must be astounded that women
-could oppose laws for the protection of women.
-Fortunately these progress-impeding emancipation
-women had no influence when, in England and
-other countries, certain night work began to be
-prohibited to women, their working hours limited,
-certain employments barred out, and a time of rest
-assured to the woman recently confined. Still
-very small steps only, but in the right direction.
-At the same time the organisation of working
-women advances so that by labour unions and
-strikes here and there they have succeeded in enforcing
-better wages, shorter working hours, and
-better labour conditions. And so long as the
-woman movement of the upper classes has no
-solidarity with that of the lower, the female factory
-inspector can accomplish very little, as a result of
-the fear of the working women to give facts and
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_41'>41</span>the adroitness of the employers in veiling these.
-But if women of the upper class begin to compete
-with the slave-driving, sweat-system employers
-through <em>well-organised co-operative enterprises</em>,
-especially for the revival of artistic handwork,
-whereby a profitable work is made for mothers
-at home under good working conditions; and if
-they boycott all shops where the working hours
-of the women exceed the due measure, while their
-wages are below the standard; then the woman
-movement would be able to hasten certain reforms
-in the field of industry, just as so many
-mistresses of girls’ private schools have hastened
-the reform of public schools: they simply availed
-themselves of the improvements arising from
-feminine initiative.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>The married woman as family provider beside
-the man, often also in place of the man, but always
-however <em>subservient to the man’s dominion</em>—this is
-the worst form of woman slavery our time has
-created. The woman movement purposes indeed
-to make the wife “of age,” in every respect, and
-free from the husband’s guardianship. But within
-the woman movement all are not yet entirely
-agreed that <em>the work of the mother outside the home</em>
-in and for itself is an evil. Attempts are indeed
-being made to alter the conditions which are most
-to blame for the deterioration of mothers and
-children. But a large faction in the woman movement
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_42'>42</span>wishes still, as was said, to cling to the
-<em>immediately</em> remunerative work of the mother and
-remedy the resulting lack of home by social institutions
-for care of children, housekeeping, etc.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>On this side, the following arguments are heard:
-woman becomes free only when she can wholly support
-herself and can devote herself to her work
-unhampered by duties toward husband and children;
-only through the reciprocal social obligation
-of work and the complete individual freedom of
-both sexes can the present conflicts between the
-labour of man and woman, between individual
-happiness and the common weal, finally cease.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Like every canalisation or drainage of the
-mighty river system of the life of human feeling,
-this program is direct and conclusive. One may
-easily understand that masculine brains, dominated
-by a passion for logic, could devise it; but if
-we hear it advocated by multitudes of women,
-then we recognise how harassed by the fourfold
-burden of family provider, child bearer, child educator,
-and housekeeper the poor women must
-be who can smilingly assent to the foregoing
-picture of the future.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>And yet there is another possible ideal of the
-future which can be realised as soon as production
-is determined, no longer by private capitalistic
-interests, but by social-political interests. Women
-will then be employed in industrial fields of work
-where their powers are <em>as productive as possible</em>
-with the least possible loss in time and strength;
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_43'>43</span>above all in those fields where the work requires
-no <em>long</em> preparation and the dexterity does not
-suffer by <em>interruptions</em>. Before the years in which
-the <em>occupation is motherhood</em>, and after these years,
-woman can still be always remunerated by an
-economic wage; during the years on the contrary
-in which motherhood is the vocation, she can be
-remunerated <em>by the state</em>. It is only necessary that
-women and men <em>will</em> a new order whereby in the
-future we attain the following conditions:</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>A <em>Society</em>, in which the welfare of the new generation
-is the centre to which all social-political
-plans, at heart, are aiming.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><em>Children</em> born of parents whose souls and bodies
-are qualified and prepared for a worthy parenthood
-and who can thus create for their children sound
-and beautiful conditions of life.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><em>Mothers</em> won back to the husbands, the children,
-the homes, but under such circumstances that <em>as
-free human personalities they perform the most
-important work of society</em>: the bearing and rearing
-of children.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><em>Fathers</em> with time and leisure to share with the
-mothers the task of education and to share with
-them and the children the joys of the home life, as
-well as of the remainder of existence.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>This ideal of the future state takes in my imagination
-the form of a varied Italian garden with
-a wide outlook upon the great sea. The other
-ideal of the future, on the contrary, is to me like
-a coal mine wherein all spiritual and social
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_44'>44</span>vegetation is petrified so that it now serves only
-as motive-power for machines.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>Nothing more effectively proves how rife with
-reactions—and for that reason how hidden—is
-the power of development, than to realise that the
-unorganized, inorganic socialistic ideal of the
-future, just mentioned, is the logical sequence of
-the woman movement if one draws the extreme
-conclusion from its fundamental idea—the right
-of woman to individual, free development of her
-powers. It is consistent historically that in
-America, where the movement for the right and
-freedom of woman has been most widely successful,
-many middle-class women have resolutely drawn
-these extreme conclusions of emancipation. Quite
-as psychologically logical is it, that at a time when
-the uncomplicated soul life and life demands of the
-masses still form the most important factors in
-the shaping of the ideal of the future, the socialistic
-women, from their different point of view,
-have arrived at like ideals. But fortunately there
-are in women, as in the masses, still great tracts
-of “new ground” where new soul conditions will
-germinate, and in due time, new ideals will flower.
-Groups of men can at times forget mankind in
-dwelling upon themselves. But mankind in its
-entirety has never yet lost the instinct for the conditions
-of self-preservation and the higher development
-of the race. I will come back later to the
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_45'>45</span>psychological phase of the question. I touch upon
-it here only as the social program of the future.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>A new field which the woman movement has
-opened up to woman is the scientific field. For
-the fact that as early as the Renaissance some
-Italian women occupied chairs of academic instruction,
-that in the 17th and 18th centuries some
-women devoted themselves seriously to classic
-studies or the exact sciences—all that was only
-exceptional. And the women who since the beginning
-of the woman movement have distinguished
-themselves by great services in science are still
-exceptional. But in many places, sometimes as
-assistants of their husbands or of other men,
-women now perform good scientific work in different
-lines. Many women are also active in the
-sphere of invention, without a single woman’s
-name having been thus far connected with an
-<em>epoch-making</em> invention.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Especially where constructive ability is necessary,
-women have as yet not been eminent; they
-have created neither a philosophical system nor a
-new religion, neither a great musical work nor a
-monumental building, neither a classic drama nor
-an epic. On the other hand, the exact sciences,
-which would be considered a priori as little
-adapted to women, for example mathematics,
-astronomy, and physics, are exactly those in
-which thus far they have most distinguished
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_46'>46</span>themselves. This contains a warning against
-too precipitate conclusions about the intellectual
-life of woman. Not until several generations of
-women—with the same privileges of education
-as man, with the same encouragement from home
-and society—have exercised their faculty for discovery
-and their inventive and creative faculties
-can we really know whether the present inferiority
-of woman in this respect is a provision of nature
-or not; whether her genius was only hampered in
-its expression or whether, as I believe, it is ordinarily
-of a different kind from that of man.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In art there are several fields which the woman
-movement did not need to open for the first time
-to woman: dramatic art, music, and the dance.
-Indirectly, however, the woman movement has
-transformed the position of women occupied in
-these lines by increasing the respect for all good
-work of woman and raising the requirements
-for woman’s education in general. The woman
-movement has also exercised an immediate influence
-upon certain artists of the present time.
-Thus Eleanora Duse said to me that her most
-cherished desire has been to represent and interpret
-the new types of women, although the dramatists
-of to-day have rarely given her the material
-she desired wherewith to create characters by which
-she could reveal the soul of the new woman and
-elevate man’s, as well as woman’s own, ideal of
-woman.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In the dance, women have been, especially in
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_47'>47</span>America, creative in connection with its forms and
-have been thereby also revelations of the new
-spiritual life of woman which has found expression
-in these forms. Great women singers, through
-Wagner’s operas and ballad-singing, have given
-voice to the primeval yearning of the woman soul,
-as that yearning now assumes form in the new
-woman. And in interpretations at the hands of
-great pianists or violinists, not one classic musical
-work failed to furnish similar revelations.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The very finest effects of the woman movement—mere
-shades of feeling which cannot be
-enumerated nor discussed—have reached our
-present time through lines, movement, rhythm,
-cadence, through the timbre of a voice, the gesture
-of a hand, the glance of an eye, the tone of
-a violin. And these effects have been secured
-without any disturbance of the receptivity by
-strife over the precedence of woman or of man.
-In other spheres, susceptibility to the effects of art
-creations by woman is still often dulled by this
-strife. In the above named fields, long before the
-beginning of the woman movement, conscious of
-its purpose, women without arguments have convinced
-the world of the complete equality of
-woman with man. And all these women, conquering
-through beauty in one form or another,
-have done more for the woman movement than it
-has done for them. Certainly the woman movement
-both directly and indirectly has had its share
-in opening to women musical as well as other art
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_48'>48</span>academies and schools of applied arts, but
-academies have a doubtful value and the smaller
-the value, the more gifted the student. The new
-right has thus become dangerous to the independence
-of real gifts and, with all possibilities
-of education thus opened wide, there comes a
-temptation for fancied talents to pass beyond
-their bounds. This danger, as far as the plastic
-arts are concerned, has found more and more its
-counterpoise in the schools of applied art, by
-which many women have been directed to the
-decorative professions, from house and garden
-architecture to fashion designing and holiday
-decorations.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But in the field of the applied arts, as well as of
-the plastic arts and of music, the facility afforded
-by the modern conditions of training and of public
-careers has instigated many women, who before
-had exercised their little talent only for the pleasure
-of the home or society circles, to exhibit and
-appear publicly to the detriment both of the home
-circles and, alas, also of art!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The works of art by women, which humanity
-could not lose without really becoming poorer,
-have been created, thus far, neither in the sphere
-of music nor of plastic art; they all belong to literature.
-And this sphere the woman movement
-has not opened to woman; ever since the days of
-Sappho and of Corinna, women have attained fame
-as writers.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In letters and memoirs not originally designed
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_49'>49</span>for publication, next to that in the field of romance
-and the novel, occasionally also in the lyric, the
-feminine character has found thus far its fullest
-and finest expression. In all these fields women
-have produced works which have been placed by
-men, not it is true beside the <em>greatest</em> works of
-masculine genius in the same domain, yet beside
-eminent works of men. As intermediary of the
-works of others, woman has not in our time, as in the
-period of enlightenment or in the circle of Goethe,
-her greatest significance through conversations and
-letters but through the printing-press. The modern
-woman, however, as essayist and biographer, as
-translator and collector, is a valuable intermediary
-of culture. She is also unfortunately a menace to
-culture, not so much because of the inferior works
-which she produces, for these, like the similar works
-of men, soon sink into oblivion. The real danger
-lies in the fact that women in great multitudes
-increase the number of those journalists who lack
-intellectual as well as ethical culture, which should
-be an imperative condition in that field of work.
-But this profession is now, on the contrary, the one
-into which the amateur may most easily force
-an entrance without special training and without
-professional reputation. The result is that men
-and women who lack both can pull down, in their
-journals, the real work and essential character of
-serious people, without the remotest conception
-or the faintest comprehension of either. On the
-other hand these cliques of coffee-house people
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_50'>50</span>crown one another as kings and queens—for a day!
-The press-breed carries on in leaflets its flirtation as
-well as its vengeance. The knife which the child
-of nature thrusts into a rival’s breast is now transformed
-into the pen with which the reviewer stabs
-a competitor’s latest work. In a word women
-now furnish to the Press work, occasionally excellent,
-frequently mediocre, all too often worthless.
-Their womanly characteristics make it feasible
-more frequently for them than for men to adopt
-more completely the rituals of the temple service
-of the deity of the Press—the Public. This
-“womanliness” evinces itself, especially, in the
-ability “to grip the fleeting moment by its fluttering
-locks” and also to anticipate when that
-moment’s locks are false and so the grasp prove
-profitless.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>While hosts of women have turned to journalism,
-they are seldom found in the fields to which
-the woman movement should have directed them:
-in the field of sociological and psychological
-research. Nearly all significant works upon the
-normal, the abnormal, the criminal psychic life
-of children, young people and women have been
-written by men. They have unfortunately treated
-the feminine spiritual life in “scientific” works
-also, in which the author dares speak of “woman”
-even though he knows nothing of her except what
-his own happy or unhappy experiences in a mother
-or sister, wife or sweetheart, have taught him.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The slight title of men to their “scientific
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_51'>51</span>method” when they venture upon the terra incognita
-which the soul of woman still is for them,
-explains why they extol, as “scientific,” works of
-women about women which are quite as superficial
-as those of men themselves. With a few exceptions,
-it is not the physiological-psychological
-books written by women about women which have
-really taught the present something new about
-womankind in general and the new woman in
-particular. No, in the form of romances, of lyrics
-or in voluntary confessions, woman has contributed
-the most valuable documents about her sex:
-on the one hand those which indicate the transformations
-which the woman movement has occasioned
-in woman’s nature, on the other hand those
-which demonstrate the extent to which her fundamental
-nature has remained unchanged, even
-though this elementary material exhibits many
-more facets in the modern woman than in the
-woman of any previous time; facets resulting from
-the manifold contacts and frictions with life to
-which woman now exposes herself or is exposed.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>From a literary point of view, these books of
-confession have seldom a value which could be
-compared with that of the, in outer sense, objective,
-classic works which talented women writers
-of the present have produced. Often, however, one
-of these confessions, in which the writer has candidly
-given her own history, has been of real literary
-value. But even when the works contain
-mendacities and self-extenuations, crass injustice
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_52'>52</span>toward men or toward other women, as revelations
-of the modern woman soul they are more valuable
-for the future than the clarified, artistically perfect
-works of women, mentioned above. For the truth
-about woman in the century of the woman is found
-only in the impassioned books in which the hard
-struggles for freedom, work, right, or fame are
-recited; or in those works impassioned in another
-way, in which the soul or the blood or both cry out
-their yearning, ever unappeased, in spite of freedom
-and work, right and fame. What we may
-<em>to-day</em> rightly protest against in these books is
-their recklessness which may <em>in the future</em> be regarded
-as their greatest value.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Because, up to the present time, the most exquisite
-as well as the most horrifying women characters
-in literature have been created by men, many
-men think that they understand women better
-than women do themselves. And to this extent
-men are right—that women attain their most sublime
-heights and reach their deepest degradation
-in and through love. But aside from that, women
-have a much clearer insight and, for that reason,
-a much more intelligent idea of one another than
-man has of woman. When accordingly a woman
-speaks not only of herself but also of another woman—sometimes
-also of children—we feel already
-that “the eternal feminine” (<i><span lang="de" xml:lang="de">das Ewig-Weibliche</span></i>)
-in literature can create a feminine art, in
-the best meaning of the word. For the present
-we hope, and with good reason, that art as well as
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_53'>53</span>science will not appear as either masculine or feminine
-but reveal a complete human personality.
-But this does not mean that this personality has
-fused the masculine and feminine qualities into a
-common humanity and thus enervated it. No, it
-means that, in such a being, masculine and feminine
-traits exist side by side and assert themselves
-alternately or harmoniously in all their strength.
-In the rank of talent, one may find feminine men
-and masculine women; in that of genius, never.
-There each one guards fully and completely the
-character of his own sex in addition to the finest
-attributes of the other sex. The distinctively
-masculine or distinctively feminine attributes
-characterising an <em>earlier</em> culture epoch are on the
-contrary often lacking in these greatest men and
-women of their time. In other words they lack
-exactly those attributes, hyper-masculine or hyper-feminine,
-by which men and women, not abreast
-of the times in their development, please each
-other and the masses, in literature as well as in
-life.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In the woman-literature, directly evoked by the
-woman movement, we can read the whole gamut
-of the feminine nature, from the feminine in the
-highest sense to the feminine in the worst sense.
-This literature shows how unthinkingly and defenceless
-certain women have plunged into the
-struggle, how rationally and well equipped other
-women have fought it out. The impartiality
-of this judgment can be proven by the admission
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_54'>54</span>that in the first-named class I have not infrequently
-found adherents; in the latter class, opponents.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The woman movement itself, partly in lectures
-and in literary activity, partly by means of office-routine
-and work of organisation, has become a
-new <em>field of labour</em> for women. Even in this field
-it is found that many are called but few are chosen.
-But when—except after defeat—was an army
-ever seen without baggage?</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>In the field of <em>family right</em>, the woman movement
-has achieved, directly and indirectly, great improvements
-in the legal position of the <em>unmarried</em>
-woman. The nearest proof is my own country.
-This has, within a period of from seventy to
-eighty years, granted to the sister the same right of
-inheritance as to the brother; declared the unmarried
-woman at her majority at the same age as
-man, a majority which was also expanded later
-through the suspension of the right of guardianship
-on the part of the husband, existing for
-married women. The marriageable age of woman
-was postponed to 17 years. Gradually woman
-has been placed on an equality with man to carry
-on trade and industry; she has acquired the right
-to hold certain public offices, although many still
-remain closed to her. The married woman on the
-contrary is still always a minor; if no marriage
-settlement is made the husband has the right to
-dispose of the wife’s property; he has control of
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_55'>55</span>their common possessions; he can restrict her
-freedom of work; he has authority over the children.
-A few small progressive steps may nevertheless
-be pointed out: certain reinforcements of
-the effectiveness of the marriage contract; the
-right to her wages accorded to the wife; certain
-reforms in regard to the division of property and
-divorce; some improvements in the position of
-children born out of wedlock. In other countries
-also like reforms have been accomplished, directly,
-through masculine initiative; indirectly, through
-the influence of the woman movement. But
-everywhere family right is still founded upon the
-principles of paternal right, supremacy of the
-husband over the wife, indissolubility of marriage
-or solubility under greater or less difficulties.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In regard to citizenship I draw my examples also
-from the land I know best. In Sweden, women
-have long since participated in the choice of pastor;
-for about fifty years they have possessed municipal
-franchise; later in certain cases they have attained
-also municipal eligibility, for example, to the
-school board, board of charities, and now finally
-to the town council. Still others could be cited.
-In other countries women have sometimes more
-sometimes less civic right; only in a few countries
-have they won <em>political</em> franchise; in a single one,
-Finland, also political eligibility.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In the sphere of family right, as well as civic
-right, the woman movement has then much more
-remaining to conquer than it has thus far won.
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_56'>56</span>But I am convinced that the little girls I see down
-below in the garden playing “mother and child”
-will possess all the rights due the wife, the mother,
-and the citizen.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The woman movement, in its present form, has
-accomplished its task if it has procured for every
-woman the <em>legal</em> right to develop and practise her
-individual characteristics unhindered because of
-her sex. But after this emancipation of the
-woman as a <em>human being</em> and a citizen, there
-remains her emancipation as a <em>woman</em>. And here
-no transformation of forms of thought and feeling,
-of manners and customs, attainable by any legal
-provisions or paragraphs, avail. The present
-woman movement has created and still continues
-to create the social <em>conditions</em> for this last emancipation.
-But it will not approve such far extending
-results of its own work. It desires the same
-<em>rights</em> but also the same duties for all women. If a
-single woman uses the freedom, which the woman
-movement has procured for her as a member of
-society, to fashion her individual life according to
-the deepest demands of her being, then the old
-guard trembles before the outcome of the battle
-for freedom in which it fought so valiantly.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But nothing is more certain than that the feminine
-personality, whether her innermost desire be
-spiritual creative instinct, erotic happiness, maternal
-bliss, or universal human goodness, will acquire
-ever new forms of expression: forms of expression
-which the once liberal, now more conservative feminists
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_57'>57</span>and the modern socialistic feminists partly
-do not divine and partly—divining—deplore! For
-the present even the “emancipated” woman follows
-as a rule the paths which social custom has
-marked out for her sex, as well as the cultural ideas
-which have been, thus far, those of man. But if,
-in the coming thousand years, a <em>feminine</em> culture
-shall really supplement the masculine, then this
-will be exactly in the measure in which women
-have the courage to create and to act as most
-feminists now do not even dare think. Then it
-will be evident that <em>all</em> social movements of the
-present time, especially the woman movement and
-socialism, are only the work of the path finder for
-the masculine and feminine superman or, if you
-prefer the older expression, <em>complete man</em>.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Like other “old guards,” the veterans of feminism
-will not surrender but will fall upon the field
-of battle. The little girls there below will one day
-celebrate their memory. For through their struggles
-the way became free for youth, the way which
-leads out to the wide sea where perhaps shipwreck
-awaits the one who ventures out into the darkness
-with her fragile skiff. But many will brave the
-voyage and bide their fate, strong, proud, and
-composed as the maiden in Schwind’s <cite><span lang="de" xml:lang="de">Wasserfahrt</span></cite>—that
-splendid symbol of the woman of the future.</p>
-
-<div class='chapter'>
- <span class='pageno' id='Page_58'>58</span>
- <h2 class='c006'>CHAPTER II<br /> <span class='large'>THE INNER RESULTS OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT</span></h2>
-</div>
-
-<p class='c007'>If I now start out to consider the woman soul
-as it has developed itself under the influence of all
-the circumstances mentioned above, perhaps many
-will expect a theory about the character of the
-feminine soul life. But, at present, when the
-greatest problems of psychology are in revolution
-and undecided, such a theory would be as scientifically
-impossible as aphorisms are unanswerable.
-Likewise, conclusions, based upon experience,
-concerning the psychic peculiarity of woman would
-be in this chaotic transition period, superficial, if
-they attempted to be absolute. Only <em>one</em> decided
-opinion about the spiritual life of woman I cannot—in
-consequence of my monistic-evolutionary
-conception of the spiritual and physical life—refrain
-from expressing. This opinion is that, in
-the one hundred thousand years at least in which
-woman has practised the physical maternal functions,
-the spiritual attributes <em>essential</em> for motherhood
-must have been so strongly developed by
-her that this development has had, and still has
-always, as a result a pronounced difference between
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_59'>59</span>the feminine and masculine soul—that
-is to say, everywhere where the soul, as well as
-the body of a woman, is adapted and desirous of
-motherhood—a fitness and readiness which can
-still be called the <em>normal</em> condition. The spiritual
-qualities which maternity required have become
-the attributes of “womanliness,” the qualities
-which paternity required, have become the attributes
-of “manliness.” This difference has become
-quite as significant for the functional fitness of
-both sexes for the perpetuation and development
-of the race, as for the wealth of life of each new
-generation. The obliteration or retention of this
-difference is therefore a vital question for mankind.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Figuratively expressed, this seems to me the
-process: from a common root of universal human
-spiritual life issue two stems which can again unite
-in their blossoming. The ramification has necessarily
-involved a division of labour in two equally
-important spheres. From this point of view I
-give, in the following, my opinion of the value of
-the influence of the woman movement upon the
-spiritual life of woman.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>We all know that life expresses itself as movement,
-that movement brings with it change,
-transformation; that this can mean quite as well
-disintegration as higher organisation.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The woman movement is the most significant of
-all movements for freedom in the world’s history.
-The question whether this movement leads mankind
-in a higher or lower direction is the most
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_60'>60</span>serious question of the time. Those who assert
-unconditionally the former or the latter have
-uttered a premature judgment. The question
-must be formulated thus:</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>(<em>a</em>) Has the woman movement brought to mankind
-a higher degree of vital force, a greater faculty
-for self-preservation, a more complete organisation,
-by which the more simple forms have become
-more finely complex, the more uniform have
-become richer, more diverse; the incoherent have
-attained a more perfect unity? Or has the woman
-movement called forth an activity which represses
-life? degrades, scatters, and reduces the powers to
-uniformity, in society and in mankind?</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>(<em>b</em>) Is woman’s spiritual life now in general above
-the level at which it was in the beginning of the
-woman movement? Have modern women finer
-perceptions, deeper feelings, clearer ideas, a firmer
-will, richer association of ideas? Do their spiritual
-faculties so work together that they mutually
-enhance instead of hinder one another? In a
-word is the modern woman more soulful than the
-woman of any other time?</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>(<em>c</em>) Is the body of the modern woman, at all
-stages of life, stronger, more healthy, and more
-beautiful than that of the woman of the previous
-century, when the woman movement began in
-real earnest in Europe?</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>(<em>d</em>) Does the modern woman perform in more
-perfect manner than the woman of that time, the
-physical and psychic functions of motherhood?</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_61'>61</span>If the question be put thus then the <em>objective</em>
-investigator must answer to all—“<em>Yes and
-No</em>.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But if this investigator is an evolutionist, then
-he knows that the progress of every social evolution
-is like that which womankind is now experiencing.
-We see first, how, in any given sphere of society,
-where those engaged therein have attained a pure,
-instinctive certainty in their actions through laws
-and customs, the individuals oppressed by these
-laws and customs must rebel against the limits,
-drawn from without, for the development and
-exercise of their powers. This revolt occasions at
-first a stage of anarchy in which everything seems
-to collapse—while in the previous conserving epoch
-“crystallisation” furnished the vital danger! But
-after such an anarchistic stage there comes infallibly
-the constructive stage, where <em>a part of the old
-is organised, incorporated, into the new</em>. But this
-acts no longer as instinctive impulse. No, mankind
-has become conscious anew of these values
-of law and custom; they have been recognised by
-the thought, encompassed by feeling, sanctioned
-by the will as still always indispensable, in another
-and higher form it is true than that against which
-the individuals rebelled. But just as the leaves
-which once grew green above in the summer light,
-gradually become one with the earth, so the motives
-of the new customs sink gradually down into the
-unknown; man acts again with instinctive certainty
-and uniformity—until the new period of
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_62'>62</span>stagnation evokes a new rebellion and achievement
-of individualism.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The woman movement finds itself now at a
-point where it is about to pass from the dynamic
-stage to a static stage. Exactly at this point a
-survey begins to be possible; and it is also necessary
-for every one who believes that the ideal, as well as
-the practical direction of the woman movement,
-in future, must be influenced by the knowledge
-gained about the effect of the movement, thus far,
-upon the uplifting of the life of mankind.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Every great achievement of individualism is as
-inconsiderate as the spring tide and must be, in
-order to have strength for its task. The woman
-movement was so also. But it encountered two
-other great ideas of the time, Socialism and Evolutionism,
-and in consequence the woman movement
-was obliged to modify gradually its conception of
-the feminine individual and of her position in
-existence.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>On the one hand, as has been already shown,
-man has had to understand that “open competition”
-and “individual initiative” are not absolute
-political-economic truths. On the other
-hand, the defender of women’s rights has been
-forced to understand more and more that woman’s
-soul is no unchangeable value which must remain
-the same however much the spheres have changed
-toward which this spiritual life directed itself and
-from which it received its impression. While
-feminists fifty years ago scorned the objection
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_63'>63</span>that “womanliness” would be lost in business life
-or in politics, now the evolutionist mind in thinking
-women understands that all human soul life
-is subject to the law of change; that just as indisputably
-as the soul life of man is changed by
-different vocations and surroundings, so that of
-woman also must be changed. The feminists
-founded their dogma that the woman movement
-can <em>only benefit</em> woman, man, the child, the family,
-society, mankind upon the conviction of the
-<em>stability</em> of “true womanliness.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>And if the woman movement had not had this
-religious certainty of belief, how could it have
-withstood the mass of prejudice and stupidity
-which it encountered in its own, as well as in the
-other sex? The woman movement has conquered
-because it was self-intoxicated.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>And quite naturally! After a stability of centuries,
-during which the position of woman was
-altered only in and with the general progress of
-culture, women finally recognised that they could
-accelerate their own progress and with it also the
-somewhat snail-like course of universal human
-culture. And so woman asserted herself and
-increased her motion. The faster this movement
-became, the more was she seized by the
-intoxication which always accompanies every
-vigorous physical or psychic movement. And
-when has a movement of the time advanced more
-rapidly?</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Folk-migrations, crusades, slave rebellions, revolutions
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_64'>64</span>have led a race, a class, a group, beyond
-certain geographical or social boundaries. The
-emancipation of women has shifted and extended
-the limits of the freedom of movement of <em>half
-mankind</em>. No wonder that the extent of the movement
-<em>in and for itself</em> was advanced as proof of the
-infallibility of its direction. All points of departure,
-the natural right of man, individual freedom,
-social necessity—all led out into the sun, which,
-in society as in nature, should radiate over woman
-as well as over man; they led up onto the summit
-where man and woman both should breathe the
-air of the heights. All obstacles which were raised
-with the help of arguments such as, “the nature
-of woman,” “the welfare of the family,” “the idea
-of society,” “the purpose of God”—all proved
-temporary. And of necessity—for the innermost
-law of life, the law of development, of life enhancement,
-carried the movement forward. When it
-began, the Biblical expression about the wind was
-quoted, “Man knows not whence it comes nor
-whither it goes.” Now all know it. Now the
-spirit of the time speaks with “feminist” voice.
-The ideas of emancipation “are in the air,” like
-bacilli, by which only savages are thus far wholly
-untouched.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>There are now no great movements of the time
-whose path does not run parallel with or cut across
-the woman movement. Every new generation is
-involuntarily and unconsciously drawn along with
-it. The ends already attained seem to the present
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_65'>65</span>age obvious; the ends, for which man is still struggling
-to-day, will appear equally obvious to the
-future. The woman movement is now a power
-with which even its most bitter adversaries must
-reckon. And this force has so quickly attained
-prominence exactly as a result of fanaticism. Just
-as the White and the Blue Nile mingle their waters
-in the main stream, so in every great current of
-time enthusiasm is mingled with fanaticism. And
-it is the latter which bears the most fruit, for
-it gives power of growth to the passions of the
-majority, good as well as bad.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Every great idea begins with great promulgators.
-The promulgator who has the spirit does not hold
-to the letter. And the woman movement which
-was spirit began also with women and men who did
-not follow the call of the spirit of the time; no, who
-from lonely heights sent out their awakening call
-<em>to</em> the time. Men who give their age new ideals
-have always religious natures. This means, according
-to a good definition, that they are “individualists
-in their being, social in their action.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Such natures burn, above all, with the passion
-to find themselves. Then they burn with the
-passion to sacrifice themselves in order to help
-others, whose suffering or wrongs they feel as
-deeply as if they were their own. No one who
-passively endures an injustice against himself has
-the material in him to struggle for the rights of
-others. The one who patiently forbears becomes
-an accessory to the injustice done to others. He
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_66'>66</span>who resists the injustice which he himself meets
-can open up the way to a higher right for others.
-Such path-finders were the first apostles of the
-emancipation of women. They consecrated to
-this task a faith which required no proof, a faith
-which saw visions and heard melodies of the glorious
-future that their victory would prepare for
-mankind. They emanated neither from scientific
-investigations, nor from systems of political economy,
-nor from philosophic evidence, nor theories
-of political science. They flung themselves into
-the struggle with inadequate weapons, without
-plan of campaign, just as do all impelled by the
-spirit. But such a method always evokes later
-dissension among the disciples. Sects are formed,
-gradually a church is crystallised, an orthodoxy, a
-papacy, and an inquisition. This course is physically
-necessary as long as mankind is still in
-greatest part a mass. A Paul more “Christian”
-than Christ and a Luther more “Paulist” than
-Paul are met also in the woman movement.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>This has now, among most people of culture,
-passed beyond the stage of the great apostles and
-martyrs and heralds. The movement has reached
-the point where certain typical manifestations,
-certain conventional forms testify that the masses—which
-stoned the prophets—have now, since the
-ideas of the woman movement have become
-truisms, banalities, the fashion, appropriated them
-to themselves and endeavour to transform them to
-their image and adapt them to their needs.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_67'>67</span>Again and again the old tale repeats itself: the
-trolls steal the weapons of the gods but they cannot
-use them. Again and again there is occasion
-to deplore the fact that the autocrat of genius,
-whether he rule over a people or a kingdom of
-ideas, has heirs, heirs who diminish his work.
-Again and again it must be recognised that no
-spiritual formation vanishes at one blow. The
-servile mind, intrigue, pettiness, delusion—all
-that, from which the great spirits of the woman
-movement hoped to “emancipate” woman—could
-not suddenly vanish out of the world. And since
-all this must go somewhere it finally finds room
-in the woman movement itself!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But on the other side—since after all everything
-has another side—it must be admitted that the
-levelling and conserving tendency of the average
-person is of real value at the stage <em>when an idea
-begins to be transformed into law and custom</em>.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Those who can work only in crowds receive
-their significance <em>exactly because of their collective
-work</em>. They push aside the “individual emancipation”
-which they do not need for their own part,
-since they have no individuality to emancipate.
-But by diligent and efficient work they succeed in
-securing certain results, which are the common
-cause of all. So the Philistines make for themselves
-a footstool of that which was a stumbling-block
-for their congenial souls in the previous
-generation. From this height they look down
-upon the new truth of <em>their</em> time. And those who
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_68'>68</span>perceive and uphold this new truth turn aside from
-the great uniformed army which now advances
-safely where the little vanguard has previously
-and laboriously opened up the way. Those who
-turn aside will form the new vanguard when it
-comes to achieving, in the spirit of the first apostle,
-the emancipation not only of <em>women in the mass</em>,
-but of <em>each individual woman</em>. When the present
-work of the woman movement for joint, common
-ends shall no longer be necessary, because one end
-after another has been attained, then comes the
-task of the present “radical” feminism: the accomplishment
-of “emancipation” by leading it up to
-those free heights which already the path-finders
-are endeavouring to attain, the heights where every
-feminine individuality can choose her own path of
-life, perhaps at variance with all others; can choose
-it in freedom, answerable only to her own conscience.
-Although this summary grouping historically
-as well as psychologically corresponds
-approximately to the past, present, and future of
-the woman movement, yet there are so many
-ramifications of the three groups into one another,
-that the woman movement now exhibits a tangled
-confusion in which every exact demarcation is
-impossible.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Whoever lives to witness it will see the course
-of progress just described—for which the modern
-labour movement offers quite as good material
-for observation as the woman movement—repeat
-itself in the next great emancipation movement.
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_69'>69</span>I mean the movement for the right and freedom of
-the <em>child</em>, which will be the unconditional result
-of the victory of the woman and labour movements.
-This idea is still in the morning-clear
-hour of inspiration. But from the cry, “Away
-with the child destroying home training,” we can
-hear that the troop of Philistines will appear by
-afternoon upon the scene, to adopt the idea into
-their midst!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>By means of the comparison with socialism, I
-have endeavoured to emphasise that the woman
-movement’s formation of dogmas and its doctrinary
-fanaticism are not effects of the peculiarity of
-the <em>feminine</em> mind. These phenomena are typical
-of every movement of the time thus far observed.
-They are essential above all because a new belief
-without dogma and without ritual is for the masses
-a sword without a hilt: it offers nothing tangible,
-nothing whereby the masses can come into relation
-with the idea.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>That certain feminists still believe that the
-woman movement has advanced just as the exodus
-of the Children of Israel out of the land of bondage,
-that is to say, under God’s special protection
-against wandering astray; that they stigmatise as
-“treason” and “defection” the assertion that this
-movement was determined by the same psychological
-and sociological laws as every other movement
-for freedom—this shows to how high a degree
-many leaders of the woman movement lack
-elementary psychological and sociological conceptions.
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_70'>70</span>This deficiency is, however, being continually
-remedied. And in the generation which
-now advances, dogmatic fanaticism has well nigh
-vanished, but pure enthusiasm is preserved.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>We can thus expect from this generation a
-clearer understanding of the necessary <em>social</em>
-repressions which the woman movement has now
-sufficient strength to impose upon itself without
-forfeiting thereby its character of a <em>movement for
-freedom</em>. As such it cannot and dare not cease
-until it has attained <em>all</em> its ends. As long as the
-law treats women as one race, men as another,
-<em>there is a woman question</em>. Not until man and
-woman, equal and united, work together for
-mankind will the woman movement belong to
-the past.</p>
-
-<div class='chapter'>
- <span class='pageno' id='Page_71'>71</span>
- <h2 class='c006'>CHAPTER III<br /> <span class='large'>THE INFLUENCE OF THE WOMAN QUESTION UPON SINGLE WOMEN</span></h2>
-</div>
-
-<p class='c007'>The following comparisons between the life of
-women, especially their spiritual life of about
-fifty years ago and their life as it has shaped itself
-under the influence of the woman movement, have
-been arranged in <em>descending</em> scale. They begin
-with that phase of women’s life in which this
-influence was most favourable from the point of
-view of life enhancement, namely with the life
-of <em>unmarried</em> women.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>You will find to-day, among women seventy
-or eighty years of age, one or another type of
-that fine culture which the gifted single woman,
-in comfortable circumstances, could attain in the
-previous century. Her home, especially if it was
-an estate in the country, became a cultural fireside
-which radiated light and heat for relatives and
-friends. The lesser gifted disseminated, each
-according to her nature, comfort or discomfort,
-yet could in extremity at least be sure of the
-homage of their future heirs. Toward those
-dependent upon them, these women were sometimes
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_72'>72</span>kind, sometimes indifferent, sometimes hard:
-the feeling of social responsibility was an unknown
-idea to them. The <em>penniless</em> single women, on the
-contrary, were found either in one of the “respectable”
-positions which, however, brought with
-them a multitude of humiliations: as governess,
-companion, housekeeper—in Germany also as
-maid of honour at one of the numerous small
-courts—or in some charitable institution for gentle
-folks, an asylum for <em>pauvres honteuses</em>; but
-most frequently in the corner of the home of a
-relative. This corner was at times the warmest
-and most confidential in the whole house, that
-corner which the children sought for stories and
-sweetmeats; the youth, to find an embrace in
-which he could pour forth his grief, an ear which
-listened to his most beautiful dreams. But it
-happened more frequently that the “aunt” looked
-upon as a “necessary evil” was in reality that very
-thing. Humiliated and embittered, she became
-ingenious in making those about her suffer for her
-afflictions. Before they became hopelessly old,
-the “aunts” were the laughing stock of the young
-through their efforts, in the eleventh hour, to
-reach the “peaceful haven of matrimony”; and
-they themselves looked with envious eyes upon
-the good fortune of the young. We meet the
-unmarried woman of that time at her best as
-trusty servant who shared the cares, the joys, and
-the sorrows of the family and, in her garret chamber,
-of which she could be certain to the day of
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_73'>73</span>her death, she looked back upon a rich life lived
-vicariously. Not infrequently, she rejected a
-marriage proposal in order to stay with her beloved
-master and mistress to whom she knew she was
-indispensable. The superfluous women previously
-mentioned would have thrown themselves into
-the arms of Beelzebub had he come as suitor.
-When the years passed, when neither their desire
-for activity nor the thirst of the heart nor of the
-senses was quenched, then not infrequently insanity
-conjured up for these lonely women a life-content
-for which they had longed in vain. To-day,
-however, we have for the position which the
-expression, “a forsaken old maid,” betokens an
-entirely new type: “the glorified spinster,” as the
-joyous, active, independent unmarried woman is
-called by the people among whom she first became
-a reality. Among these women, independent
-through their work, useful to society, that older
-type is still occasionally found perhaps, a survival
-of the time when emancipation was rather generally
-interpreted as freedom for masculinity.
-The “man-woman” in masculine attire, with
-weapons of defence against man in one hand and
-a cigarette in the other, her soul filled with mad
-ambition for her own sex and, as representative of
-her entire sex, with hatred toward the other, was
-however always rare. Now, she has almost
-entirely vanished, except alas, the cigarette.
-But she smokes it now often with—masculine
-friends! She follows in her mode of life, as in her
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_74'>74</span>dress, the law of good taste—not to offend; she
-endeavours, if only with a flower or two, to give a
-glimmer of cosy comfort to her place of work.
-This comfort, which often comes into the public
-life with woman is perhaps the reason why many
-men, who first looked with indignation upon feminine
-fellow-workmen, would now miss them. The
-more personal the culture of these women becomes,
-the more they endeavour, according to their time
-and means, to express their personality in the
-lines and colours of their dress and in the arrangement
-of their room. Those best situated often
-succeed, toward the end of their working days,
-in winning their own little home which they perhaps
-share with a friend, or they join a co-operative
-enterprise and can thus raise their standard of
-living. The same women who, at twenty-five,
-scornfully declared that they “would never bury
-their head in a sauce-pan,” are now, at fifty, consciously
-aware of the significance of the table for
-the activity of the brain; indeed they are now
-quite as proud if they have prepared a good dish
-as they were in their youth when they passed a
-fine examination!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>It is not to be wondered at that the emancipated
-women, exactly as all recently emancipated
-masculine classes and races, at first groped insecurely
-after a new form. The astonishing thing,
-on the contrary, is that women adapted themselves
-so quickly to the new circumstances; that the
-transition period furnished so few grotesque types;
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_75'>75</span>that the present shows so many harmonious types,
-each in her own way. This harmony of single
-women is no mere form. It has its inner counterpart
-in the satisfaction with their existence, an
-existence in accord with their desires. The psychology
-was not exhaustive which saw in feminism
-only a “spinster question,” a question of the
-unmarried woman, springing from the surplus of
-women and the increasing difficulty or disinclination
-of men to contract marriage—a question
-therefore for the ugly, not for the beautiful; for
-the unmarried, not for the married; for the poor,
-not for the rich. For a great number of beautiful
-women prefer to remain unmarried; a great number
-of rich desire to work; a great number of
-married women are zealous suffragists. Fifty
-years ago, we saw the most clever women idealise
-an ape into a god; now, the modern, intelligent
-working girl, when she looks about her for her
-ideal, exercises a lively criticism. She often flirts
-with one who exhibits some phase of the ideal,
-but she has too clear an understanding and too
-much to do to <em>imagine</em> a great feeling for one who
-is unworthy. So it often happens that youth has
-passed without such a feeling having stirred her.
-And she enters without deep regret the age when
-ambition and desire for power become her life
-stimulants. From these women of predominating
-mind and will is formed more and more what
-Ferrero calls “The third sex,” Maudsley, “The
-sexless ant”: energetic, clever, happy in their
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_76'>76</span>work, cool, but sound; in private life, in the zeal
-of everyday work, often egoistic but willing to
-make sacrifices in face of social exigencies.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>So a great part of the fifty-year-old women form
-an exception since they with true instinct have
-remained unmarried. For in the same degree
-that their metallic being is well adapted to the
-machinery of society, it is little qualified to make
-a home for husband and children. They do not
-depreciate however the value of this task, unless
-they be fanatic feminists. In that event they
-reproach the women who wish to marry with
-“betraying the woman cause”; they demand at
-times, as imperative loyalty toward this cause,
-that their friends shall protest against the present
-marriage laws at least by the form of their marriage
-alliance if not even by not marrying at all. Their
-theory of equality has at times been carried so far
-that—as recently happened in France—they advocate
-women’s performing also masculine military
-service.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But in spite of their aridity and inflexibility of
-principle how much more human are even these
-feminists than the “ill-natured” aunts of earlier
-times who became ill-natured exactly because their
-temperament was of the kind mentioned above,
-but who could find no sphere of operation for their
-passionate longing for activity. One or another
-was perhaps burning with ambition. For there
-are women as well as men who can live only as
-pagan gods, in the blaze and perfume of sacrificial
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_77'>77</span>fires. In their youth these ambitious natures
-could be satisfied by triumphs in social life. But
-later the passion became a fire in a powder cask and
-occasioned incessant explosions. Now it is the
-electric motive power for an activity of general
-utility. The “aunts” of the earlier time who felt
-themselves always overlooked and injured are most
-easily recognised again in the literary and artistic
-field to which daily bread or ambition now urges
-many women, who endeavour to compensate by
-energetic work for the talent which nature denied
-them. Since these women are ordinarily not
-people of understanding but of feeling, they must
-in a double sense be dissatisfied with a life which in
-addition is, in most cases, still filled with economic
-cares and the humiliations arising therefrom. And
-yet in spite of all, how much richer is their life
-to-day than it would have been fifty years ago
-when they would have been obliged to sit and
-draw their needles through interminable pieces
-of handwork, after ugly patterns and for unnecessary
-uses, or to compose sentimental birthday
-verses for persons whom they abominated.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Yet there are always those women natures who,
-in the past, had the qualifications for a real “dear
-aunt,” who gently calmed the conflicts and filled
-the gaps in the home of which they had become
-members. The most tender and sensitive of these
-modern women, who, rain or shine, year in year
-out, hasten to and from a work indifferent to them
-at heart, not infrequently breathe a sigh of longing
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_78'>78</span>for those times when, as “aunts,” they could have
-received and imparted warmth in a home. But
-then again there come moments when they know
-how to value the independence which puts them
-in a position to give help where otherwise there
-would be none; when for example they can send
-a nephew to college, or a friend to a sanatarium, or
-provide their mother with a nurse, which they
-themselves can not be.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>This kind of single woman fulfills more or less
-the office of family provider just as she also is
-always ready with word and deed in circles of
-friends and comrades. These women are so
-engrossed that the time of love, sometimes love
-itself, passes them by without their observing it.
-Their youth flees and they feel with sadness that
-their woman’s life is unlived. But they persuade
-themselves that they have had enough in their
-work, that many little joys can take the place of
-great happiness. And they believe this as truly
-as the infant believes he is satisfied when he sucks
-his own thumb. But some of these women
-acknowledge perhaps, when they have passed the
-fifties, that they were often tempted to call out
-to the first best man, “Give me a child.” Sometimes
-it happens that in their last youth they
-appease their mother longing by adopting a foster
-child; sometimes they still this longing by a child
-of their own, from a love relation or a marriage.
-This late and uncertain happiness is often made
-possible exactly through their work. And then,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_79'>79</span>if not earlier, they bless this work which gives
-them the economic possibility, and thereby also
-the courage, for this hazardous adventure.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>More frequent than these are the cases however
-where single women, who have passed their first
-youth, find in friendship for another woman a
-valve for their, in great part, unused feelings. In
-some natures this friendship will be jealous and
-exacting, in others true and devoted. I wish to
-emphasise that I speak here of entirely <em>natural
-spiritual conditions</em>. There is to-day much talk
-about “Sapphic” women; and it is even possible
-that they exist in that impure form which men
-imagine. I have never met them, presumably
-because we rarely meet in life those with whom no
-fibre of our being has any affinity. But I have
-often observed that the spiritually refined women
-of our time, just as formerly the spiritually refined
-men of Hellas, find most easily in their own sex
-the qualities which set their spiritual life in the
-finest vibration of admiration, inspiration, sympathy
-and adoration.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>The fundamental types of single women depicted
-here—the person of intellect and the person of
-feeling—are found everywhere. The former
-according to current opinion already predominate
-in America; in Europe, it seems to me, the latter
-still prevail. That the main classes include innumerable
-varieties, it is needless to say. There
-are for example the numerous, quite ordinary,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_80'>80</span>family girls who would be happy if they could give
-up their independence in order to enjoy the protection
-of their parents’ or their own home. And
-the same obtains also with the quite as ancient
-type of woman, Undine, who—soulless and cold—enslaves
-all men. If she is in any civic vocation,
-she knows how to get the smallest amount of work
-for herself and, in case she is engaged in the artistic
-field, the best possible criticism. Conscience is
-an acquaintance which she has never made and she
-is also of the opinion that everything agreeable is
-permitted to her; she simply slides past anything
-disagreeable. Although work belongs to these
-disagreeable things, she continues it until she has
-found means to place her “qualities” in the most
-advantageous manner upon the matrimonial
-market.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The diametrical antithesis of this curvilinear
-type is the rectilinear. It has, just as the preceding
-type, existed at all times. It is the woman
-who really never demanded anything of life but
-“a work and a duty” and finds both in abundance
-in all positions of life. She is found year in year
-out at her desk, in appropriate working garb, free
-from all æsthetics; proud “if she never has
-needed to miss a day”; proud that she never has
-come late. On the contrary she never <em>goes</em> on
-time. For she has so grown into the business or
-the office that she takes everything upon herself
-that is required without murmuring, as a well-disciplined
-soldier in the ranks of the grey working
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_81'>81</span>army; thankful, in addition, if her long working
-cares yield her a little life annuity or pension for
-her old age. This type is found principally among
-women over fifty—fortunately. For this class of
-women which the pre-feministic circumstances
-created, have, by their “frugality” carried almost
-to the verge of criminality, by their humble, conscientious
-servitude, lowered the wages of their
-colleagues who are more full of life. These latter
-have begun work in the hope that it finally will
-“free” them; that is, will give them something of
-that for which their innermost being longs, not
-only their daily bread—a bread which sickness or
-a turn of affairs moreover can take from them at
-any time. And perhaps they never succeed even
-in having their own room where they at least could
-have repose! Underpaid, overworked, tired to
-death, who can wonder if these women have lost,
-if they ever possessed them, the essential characteristics
-of “womanhood”—active kindness, repose
-even in movement, charming gentleness? The
-Icelandic poet of yore already knew that “Few
-become fair through wounds.” These women
-must put all their strength into their work and into
-the effort to conceal their underpayment by
-“respectable” clothing, or else lose their positions.
-In everything else they must economise to the
-utmost and perhaps in addition be laughed at
-because of their economy. They succeed, often
-admirably, in maintaining themselves in proud
-fair struggle, in rejecting “erotic” perquisites to
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_82'>82</span>add to their income and in fulfilling conscientiously
-the requirements of their work. Yet to do this
-with lively interest, with preserved spiritual elasticity,
-with quiet amiability—for this their strength
-does not suffice, exhausted by insufficient nourishment,
-insufficient sleep, still more insufficient recreation,
-and strained daily to the utmost. Their
-nervousness finds vent in either hard or hysterical
-expression and the public, annoyed by their ill-humour,
-divines little of the tragedies enacted in
-offices, business houses, cafés or similar places.
-If a suicide concludes the tragedy, the public
-shudders for a moment and—all goes on as before.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Thus “emancipation” presents itself in reality
-for millions of women. To what extent the middle-class
-woman movement is indirectly to blame for
-this fact has already been emphasised.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The essential reason is however the prevailing
-economic condition of society. By the uninterrupted
-fever of competition and the accumulation
-of riches, it dries up the soul and robs it of goodness
-as well as of joy. When the great, beautiful,
-eternal sources of joy are exhausted, the life
-stimulus is sought in exclusively physical pleasures,
-which are always made more exciting in order to
-be able to arouse still, in the languid nervous system,
-feelings of desire. Moreover, there is the
-neurosis and weariness of life of the overworked,
-of those continually quaking about their material
-safety, of those who <em>could</em> be revived by the noble
-and simple joys of life, to which those jaded with
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_83'>83</span>riches are already not susceptible; but for all these
-millions and millions such joys are not accessible
-because hunger for profit depresses wages. If in
-addition to that we take into account the increasing
-suffering of the best because of the ever developing
-feeling of solidarity; and if finally we consider
-that women, who through the protection of
-the home could preserve something of warmth-irradiating
-energy, are now in increasing numbers
-driven out of the home, then we have some of the
-reasons which—in higher degree than the religious
-and philosophic reasons which <em>also</em> exist—contribute
-to the joylessness of our time.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>A contribution to the meagre stock of good fortune
-of the present time is furnished however by
-the joy of life among young girls working under
-favourable conditions. Among them we meet a
-new soul condition, which could be designated, as
-briefly as possible, as <em>covetousness</em> of everything
-which can promote their personal development and
-a beautiful <em>liberality</em> with what is thus won.
-They can gratify their energetic desire for
-self-development by sport, travel, books, art and
-other means of culture; their freedom of action
-between working hours is not restricted by private
-duties. They can utilise their leisure time and
-their income as they please: for recreation, pleasure,
-social intercourse, social work or private,
-charitable activity. No father nor husband
-encroaches upon their free agency. And so dear
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_84'>84</span>does this liberty become to them through the manifold
-joys which it furnishes, that these young girls,
-in constantly increasing numbers, refuse to relinquish
-their individual independence for the sake
-of a marriage which, even presupposing the happiest
-love, always means a restriction of the freedom
-of movement that they enjoyed while single.
-And since the modern woman knows that, in the
-sphere of spiritual values, nothing can be attained
-without sacrifice, she prefers to keep free agency
-and to sacrifice love. If she chooses in the opposite
-direction, the task of adaptation will be the
-more difficult, the longer and the more intensely
-she has enjoyed freedom. The modern young
-girl, if she deigns to bestow her hand upon a man,
-not infrequently has her pretty head so crammed
-full of principles of equality that she sometimes
-(frequently in America), by written contract establishes
-her independence to the smallest detail,
-which sometimes includes separate apartments
-and the prohibition that either of the contracting
-parties shall have the key to the apartment of the
-other.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>There are many varieties of the new type of
-woman. There is for instance the tom-boy, the
-“gamin,” who for her life cannot give up the
-right to mad pranks and mischievous jokes. There
-is the girl consumed with ambition, who sacrifices
-all other values in order to attain the goal of her
-ambition in art or science. There is the fanatically
-altruistic girl, who considers the work for
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_85'>85</span>mankind so important that she feels she has not the
-right to an “egoistic” love happiness. There is
-the ascetic ethereal girl, who looks upon marriage
-and child-bearing as animal functions, unworthy
-of a spiritual being, but above all as <em>unbeautiful</em>.
-And for many of these modern, æsthetically
-refined, nervously sensitive young girls the æsthetic
-point of view is decisive. All love the work
-which permits them to live according to their
-ideals. Still it often happens that Ovidian metamorphoses
-take place: that the young girl sees the
-cloud or the swan transformed into a god, upon
-whose altar she sacrifices, with joy, her free agency
-and everything else which only a few weeks
-earlier she cherished as her holy of holies. The men
-who view this process with a smile, think that the
-anti-erotic ideals were only a new weapon of
-defence in the eternal war between the sexes. But
-these men often learn how mistaken they were
-when they themselves become participators in the
-war. They meet women so proud, so sensitive
-regarding their independence, so merciless in their
-strength, so easily wounded in their instincts, so
-zealous to devote themselves to their personal
-task, so determined to preserve their freedom, that
-erotic harmony seldom can be realised. Yes, these
-women often repudiate love only because it
-becomes a bond to their freedom, a hindrance to
-their work, a force for the bending of their will to
-another’s will.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The women, womanly in their innermost depths,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_86'>86</span>who really feel free only when they give themselves
-wholly, are becoming continually more rare. But
-where such a wholly devoted woman still exists,
-she is the highest type of woman which any period
-has produced. Especially if she springs from a
-family of old culture. She has then, combined in
-her personality, the best of tradition and the best of
-the revolution evoked by the woman movement.
-The fibres of her being absorb their nourishment
-with instinctive certainty out of the fruitful soil
-which pride, devotion to duty, family love, requirements
-of culture and refinement of form, for many
-generations, have created. But her conscious soul-life
-flowers in the sun of the present; she thinks
-new thoughts and has new aims. Just as little as
-she disavows her desire for love, so little does she
-desire love under other conditions than those of
-spiritual unity and human equality. If she meets
-the man who can give her this and if she loves him,
-then he can be more certain than the man of any
-other time that he is really loved, that no ulterior
-motive obscures the devotion of this free woman.
-He has seen her susceptible to all the riches of life;
-has seen her assist in social tasks, perform the duty
-of every day joyful in her work, proud of her
-independence attained through her work. He
-knows that just as she is she would have continued
-to be if he had not entered into her life. How
-different is this girl from the one of earlier times,
-who was driven by the emptiness of her life into
-continual love affairs, which could not lead to a
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_87'>87</span>marriage nor exist in a marriage that possessed
-nothing of love!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>This most beautiful new type of woman approaches
-spiritually the aforementioned type of
-single, aged women, who because of their economic
-independence found time for a fine personal
-culture. These followed not infrequently in
-their youth, from a distance it is true, but with
-joyous sympathy, the progress of the woman
-movement. They shook their heads later over
-its extremes. With new joy they regard the
-young girls just described, in whom they find a
-more universal development than in themselves,
-because these young girls have been developed
-through active consumption of power which was
-spared to the older women, although they must
-have summoned much <em>passive</em> energy in order
-to maintain their personality against convention.
-The young girls find often in these older
-women a fine understanding, which they richly
-reciprocate. Such terms of friendship are the
-most beautiful which the present has to offer:
-they resemble the meeting of the morning and
-evening red in the bright midsummer nights of
-the North.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>No time could have been so rich in exquisite feminine
-personalities, at all ages and in all stages of
-life, as ours. We must not draw our conclusions
-regarding the abundance of such women, in the
-older culture epochs, from the illustrious names of
-women which incessantly recur in the pictures of
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_88'>88</span>the earlier times—like stage soldiers—until they
-give the illusion of a great host.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But exquisite women are even to-day exceptional.
-The Martha type rather than the Mary
-type predominates. This is due on one hand to
-decreasing piety, on the other hand to the kind of
-working and society life. Fifty years ago single
-women were often spiritually petrified, now more
-often they cannot succeed in settling into any
-form. Their existence, turned outwardly, widens
-their sphere of interest but makes their soul-life
-shallow. Restlessness is most unfavourable to
-the “development of the personality,” which was
-however the goal of the emancipation of woman.
-This development is delayed most of all perhaps by
-the lack of personal contact with other personalities,
-of immediate, intimate human connections.
-This can, from no point of view, be supplied by
-the society or club life in which single women are
-to-day absorbed.</p>
-
-<div class='chapter'>
- <span class='pageno' id='Page_89'>89</span>
- <h2 class='c006'>CHAPTER IV<br /> <span class='large'>THE INFLUENCE OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT UPON THE DAUGHTERS</span></h2>
-</div>
-
-<p class='c007'>As late as sixty or seventy years ago, the daughters
-of good families had still few points of contact
-with life outside the four walls of the home. From
-the hands of nurse-maids they went into those of
-the governess, and after confirmation, studies were
-at an end. If it was a cultured home then reading
-aloud or music was often practised, whereby it is
-true no “specific education” qualifying them for
-examinations was attained, but frequently a fine
-universal human culture. There was always
-employment in the house for the zeal for work.
-The great presses were filled with linen which was
-not infrequently spun and woven by the daughters;
-in the autumn they assembled for sausage-making
-and candle dipping; later, for Christmas baking
-and roasting; in summer endless rows of glasses of
-preserves were set in the store-room. Before
-Christmas, night after night, Christmas presents
-were made; after Christmas, night after night, they
-danced. At these balls those in outer respects
-uncomely, received a foretaste of that waiting
-which must fill their life for many long years:
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_90'>90</span>would the invitation to the dance—or the wooing
-respectively—come or not? Every man whose
-shadow merely fell upon the scene, was immediately
-considered from the point of view of a suitor.
-As the years went by the girl, who before twenty-five
-years of age was considered an “old maid,”
-saw how the glance of the father and the brothers
-became gloomy, yes, she could even hear how
-“unfortunate” she was. If such a daughter lived
-in a home poor in books—and most of them were—then
-she could not even procure a book she wished.
-For the daughters worked year in year out without
-wages, in case they did not receive meagrely doled
-out pin-money which only through great ingenuity
-sufficed for their toilette. All year long there were
-christenings and birthday celebrations; in summer
-games were played, where it was possible riding
-parties arranged, in winter sleighing parties were
-organised. Other physical exercise was considered
-superfluous. The young girls were averse to going
-to a neighbouring estate if it lay a mile away; and
-during the week to take a long walk for pleasure
-or sit down with a book, which had been borrowed,
-would be considered simply as idling away one’s
-time. In summer a cold bath was permissible—a
-warm bath was used only in cases of sickness—but
-swimming was considered so unwomanly, that
-whoever had learned it must keep it secret. Rowing,
-tobogganing and skating were, even if permitted
-in the country, yet half in discredit as
-“masculine.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_91'>91</span>When grandfather related an heroic deed of some
-ancestress whose proud countenance shone out
-among the family portraits, then the daughter of
-such a family must have asked herself why this
-deed was lauded while everything “manly” was
-forbidden her.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The days and years went by at the embroidery
-frame or netting needles, amid continuous chatter
-about the family and neighbours, amid eternal
-friction and in disputing back and forth over mere
-trifles. The confined nervous force sought an
-outlet, and in an existence where each one—according
-to the first paragraph of family rights—interfered
-in the greatest as in the smallest concerns
-of all the others, there was always plenty of
-material about which to become irritated and
-excited.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In the country, life was, however, fuller and
-fresher than in the city where the young girl had
-less to do and never dared go out alone; yes, where
-a walk was considered so superfluous, that the
-mother of the great Swedish feminist Fredrika
-Bremer advised her daughters to jump up and
-down behind a chair when they insisted that they
-needed exercise!</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>The relation to the parents, even if the principle
-of unswerving and mute obedience was not wholly
-carried out, was ordinarily a reverential alienation.
-Neither side knew the inner life of the other. The
-temperament of the mother determined the everyday
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_92'>92</span>domestic comforts, the will of the father the
-external occurrences of life, from the trip to the ball
-to marriage. The daughter whose inclination corresponded
-with the will of the father considered
-herself fortunate. The one married against her
-will wept, but obeyed. As an almost fabulous
-occurrence it was related of one or another girl
-that she dared to say “No” before the marriage
-altar; cases were not unusual in which daughters
-received a box on the ear and were confined to their
-room until they accepted the bridegroom whom
-the father had chosen. Even if a mother, moved
-by the recollections of her own youth, attempted
-to support a daughter it rarely succeeded. For the
-power of the father rested quite as heavily upon
-the wife. But the worst however was to water
-myrtle year after year, without ever being able to
-cut it for a bridal wreath. Even she, who in her
-heart loved another, found it therefore often wisest
-to give her consent to an acceptable suitor. Only
-the one whose dowry was valued at a “ton of gold”—or
-who also was a celebrated beauty—could run
-the risk of declining a courtship; yes, she could permit
-herself to occasion it only to decline it. The
-more suitors she could recount, the prouder she
-was; such a beauty even embroidered around her
-bridal gown the monograms of all her earlier wooers.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The unmarried remained behind in an environment
-where the idea prevailed that “woman’s
-politics are her toilettes, her republic is her household
-and literature belongs to her trinkets.” The
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_93'>93</span>talented daughter sewed the fine starched shirts in
-which her stupid brother went to the academy and
-sighed therewith: “Ah, if one only were a man.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>When the income of the house was small, she
-increased it perhaps by embroidery, sold in deepest
-secrecy; for it was a disgrace for a girl of good
-family to work for money. For her rebellious
-thoughts she had perhaps a girl friend to whom
-she could pour out her heart—or a sister. But it
-often fared with sisters growing old together, just
-as it must fare with North-pole explorers wintering
-together, that those holding together of necessity
-finally loathe one another from the bottom of their
-hearts. And yet the sisters were most fortunate
-who could grow old and die in their childhood
-home and were not compelled to become old household
-fixtures in the home of relatives.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Not infrequently this last fate was their portion
-because a father, a brother or a guardian out of
-personal, economical self-interest prevented their
-marriage, or a brother through debt or studies had
-defrauded them of their inheritance.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>It was not the woman movement but the religious
-movement, beginning among the Northern
-peoples almost simultaneously with it, called in
-Sweden “<span lang="sv" xml:lang="sv">Läseri</span>” (“Reading”) that was the first
-spiritual emancipation for the old or young unmarried
-girls—likewise for wives who longed for a
-deeper content. Because they took seriously the
-Bible doctrine that one should disregard the commands
-of the family in order to follow Christ, the
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_94'>94</span>home gradually became accustomed to one of the
-feminine members’ going her own way. Often
-amid great struggles. For the “Reader” was
-more or less considered as insane; the father was
-ashamed of her, the mother mourned over her,
-the brothers laughed at her. But nothing could
-hinder those strong in their faith from following
-the inner voice. And so these women, without
-knowing it themselves, were a bridge to that emancipation
-of women to which they themselves later—Bible
-in hand—were often an obstacle.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>The movement <em>could</em> not however be prevented.
-And now—how is it now in the family? Already
-the ten-year-old talks about what she is sometime
-going to be. Now, the sisters go with the brothers
-to school or to the academy and share their intellectual
-interests as well as their life of sport. Now,
-the fathers and mothers sit at home often alone,
-for the daughters belong to that host of self-supporting
-girls who can gratify the parents by short
-visits only. Alas, these visits are not always an
-unclouded joy. There are collisions between the
-old and the young often over seeming bagatelles.
-But a feather shows which way the wind blows
-and the parents observe that, in the spiritual being
-of the daughter, the wind blows from an entirely
-different direction from theirs. The daughter, on
-the other hand, thinks that perfect calm prevails
-in the being of her parents; she wishes to raise the
-dust. The mother pleads her cause in dry and
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_95'>95</span>offended manner, the daughter in superior and
-impetuous words. Accustomed to her freedom,
-she encounters again at home control over her
-commissions and omissions, attempts upon her
-privacy from which she had been freed by leaving
-home. And they separate again each with a sigh
-that they “have had so little of one another.” In
-other cases—when the parents have followed the
-times and the daughters understand that not only
-children but also parents must be educated with
-tenderness—then the visits to the parents’ home
-become on both sides elevating episodes in their
-lives. The daughters repose in the parental tenderness,
-which they have only now learned to value
-when they compare it with their customary loneliness.
-The parents confide to the daughter their
-cares which she sometimes can effectively lighten,
-and they revive with her spiritual interests which
-they themselves had to lay aside. Through her
-own working life the daughter has gained an
-entirely new respect for her parents. Through
-her independence of parental authority she has
-now gained a frankness, which makes a real interchange
-of ideas possible. They discover that they
-can have something reciprocal for one another.
-The father, who perhaps at first sighed when the
-young faces vanished out of the home, now admits
-that it would have been foolish if the whole troop
-of girls had continued here at home and so had
-stood there at his demise, empty-handed, without
-professional training. The mother, who had
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_96'>96</span>helped them persuade the father, smiles, when he
-insists that he “would not exchange his capable
-girls for boys.” And he is not at all afraid that
-the daughters could not marry if they would; he
-remembered indeed how his contemporaries declared
-that they “would never look at a girl student,
-a Blue stocking,” and yet so many of these were
-now happily married to—girl students.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Beside these results of the independence of the
-daughters which elevate life for all sides, there are
-opposite cases; when, for example, a single daughter
-<em>without</em> outer economic compulsion or inner
-personal necessity, impelled only by the current of
-the time, leaves a home where her contribution of
-work could be significant, in order to follow a vocation
-outside. The results are often of doubtful
-value, not only from a social point of view but also
-from that of the family and herself, when the
-daughter remains at home but carries on a work
-outside. This comes partly because they are contented
-with less pay and thus lower the wages of
-those who support themselves entirely; partly
-because they over-exert themselves. In those
-cases where several daughters can share with one
-another the domestic duties, no over-exertion
-results perhaps. But when a single daughter combines
-an exacting professional work with quite as
-exacting household duties, then she is exhausted
-by her double task; then she feels the burden, not
-the joy, of work. For all professional working
-girls who remain at home, have moreover in addition,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_97'>97</span>even under the most favorable circumstances,
-the spiritual strain of turning from work back again
-to the gregarious demands of the home, as well as
-to the many different attractions and repulsions,
-antipathies and sympathies which determine the
-deviations in temperature of the home; the strain
-of respecting the sensibilities which must be spared
-or of paying attention to the domestic demands
-which must be refused, if the work is not to suffer
-from lack of rest and time for preparation. All
-this can be so nerve racking that the young girl is
-seized with an irresistible longing for a little home
-of her own, where she would be mistress of her
-leisure time, and could see her own friends—not
-alone those of her family,—where she could join
-those who held the same views, where she, in a
-word, would live her life according to the dictates
-of her personal demands. If she can, she often
-does this. For to-day young girls <em>live to apply</em> the
-principle of the woman movement—individualism.
-The older women’s rights advocates desired, it is
-true, that woman should be allowed to “develop
-her gifts,” but she should “administer” them for
-the benefit of others; they desired that she should
-receive <em>new rights</em> from law and custom, but that
-she should seek always in <em>law and custom support and
-security for her action</em>. The young women’s rights
-advocates, on the other hand, believe that their own
-growth, just as that of animals and trees, is intended
-above all for self-development, that in their
-own character the direction for their growth is
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_98'>98</span>specified, and that they have not the right to confine
-themselves by circumstances or subject themselves
-to influences by which they know they
-hinder the development of their powers, according
-to their individual natures. The more refined the
-feeling of personality becomes, the more exactly
-these young people understand how to choose
-what is essential for them and to repudiate what
-is a hindrance. But before they attain this certainty
-they evince often an unnecessary lack of
-consideration, and the family is often right when
-it speaks of the egoism of youth. They find no
-opportunity for helping father or mother nor for
-participation in the elders’ interests. The whole
-family is rarely assembled even at meal-time; the
-daughters as well as the sons rush off to lectures,
-work, sport, clubs. The mother who sees how
-occupied the daughters are has not the heart to add
-to their work or to thwart them in their pleasures;
-thus she allows the selfishness of the young creatures
-to increase to the point where she herself
-in indignation begins—seasonably and unseasonably—to
-react against it. The young girl answers
-her mother’s reproof then with the complaint that,
-“Mamma does not understand” her and that
-she is “behind her time.” Especially the young
-examination-champions distinguish themselves by
-their arrogance in the family as in the club,
-where they look down upon the older ladies who
-have not passed examinations just as they do upon
-their own mother.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_99'>99</span>It fares best in the families, and they are even
-now numerous, where the mother herself has
-studied or worked outside the home and therefore
-knows what domestic services she may or may not
-require; where she herself personally understands
-the intellectual occupation of the young people
-and has preserved her own youthfulness, so that
-she becomes not infrequently the real friend of her
-daughters and sons. If the mother, on the contrary,
-was one of the many who, at the beginning
-of the woman movement, sacrificed her own talent
-to the wishes of her family or the demands of the
-home, in spite of the possibilities for its development
-made accessible to her at that time, then
-she has often absolutely no comprehension of the
-egoism of her daughter. She herself had acted
-so entirely differently! Or she understands fully
-that in her daughters as well as in her sons she
-views the attainment of a new conception of life,
-with all its Storm and Stress, which the spring-times
-in the life of mankind bring with them—an
-attainment in which, to her sorrow, she could not
-take part in her youth.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>At such spring-times youth is not, as the parents
-hoped, sunlight and the twittering of birds in the
-home; but March storms and April clouds. The
-parents feel themselves at first swept out, superfluous,
-disillusioned. They are angered but rejuvenated,
-thanks to all the new points of view that
-youth makes valid. Yes, father and mother sometimes
-could live through a second youth if their
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_100'>100</span>own contemporaries did not depress their buoyancy
-by their disapproving astonishment and the
-children by their cool rejection of the comradeship
-of their parents. But in spite of this twofold
-opposition, there are now fathers and mothers
-who are able to enjoy the riches of life quite as
-youthfully as and more deeply than their children;
-while the parents of earlier times, especially the
-mother, forever stagnated as early as forty. More
-and more frequently we find mothers who, like
-their daughters, lead a spiritually rich and emotional
-life, who have so preserved their physical
-youthfulness and who possess moreover through
-experience and self-culture so refined a soul-life,
-that, in regard to the impression they make, they
-are not infrequently the rivals of their daughters.
-They are already revelations of that type of woman
-which, in token of emancipation, has found the
-equilibrium between the old devoted ideal and the
-new self-assertive ideal. They view life from a
-height which gives them a survey also over the
-essential, in questions concerning their own children.
-Even if these become something other than
-the mothers wish, these mothers are so penetrated
-with the idea of individualism that they let the
-children follow their own course.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Modern fathers rarely find so happy a home as
-it once could be with a bevy of daughters always
-at hand. But they find the home richer in content,
-often also freer from petty dissensions. For
-in the measure in which <em>each</em> member of the family
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_101'>101</span>desires his right and his freedom, do all gradually
-learn to respect those of others. If the parents
-consider with dignity <em>their</em> right and <em>their</em> freedom,
-then a reciprocal consideration results after the
-boldness which youth evinces under the first
-influence of the intoxication of freedom. Youth,
-at first so proud and strong in their assurance of
-bringing new ideal values to life, begin themselves
-to experience how the world treats these; and
-what they once called their parents’ prejudice
-appears to them now often in a new light. Their
-self-assertion becomes a product of culture, out of
-a raw material. The manifestations of their individualism
-become continually more discreet, more
-controlled, but at the same time more essential
-and more effective. When then the young people
-have found <em>their</em> way and the parents endeavour
-to turn them aside to the main road—which they
-call the way of wisdom or of duty—then certainly
-and with right the young people put themselves
-on the defensive.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Even a devoted daughter cannot bring to the
-home to-day as undivided a heart as formerly.
-But this gift was earlier a matter of course, so to
-speak, a natural result of the conditions. But if
-to-day a girl sacrifices a talent to filial duty, then
-it is an infinitely greater personal sacrifice; a real
-choice. And if she does not make the sacrifice,
-it is not in the least always on the ground of egoism.
-It happens often in conviction that the unconditional
-demand of Christianity that the strong must
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_102'>102</span>have consideration for the weak, makes these
-latter often egoists and tyrants; that the strong,
-who are more significant for the whole, are thus
-rendered inefficient.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>If a troop of athletic boys continually conformed
-to the level of the weakest, then all
-would remain upon a lower plane, and the weak
-find no incentive to seek <em>their</em> triumphs in another
-sphere.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>On the other hand it is fine and eminently sane
-and in harmony with the laws of spiritual growth,
-when the strong shall help the weak to reach a goal
-which is thus, in his own peculiar direction, really
-attainable by him. Neither paganism nor Christianity
-has created the most <em>beautiful</em> strength; it
-is a union of both. It has found its most perfect
-expression in art in Donatello’s St. George, in
-Michelangelo’s David: youths, whose victorious
-power conceals compassion and whose compassion
-embraces even the conquered: symbols of strength
-which has become kind, of kindness which has
-become strong. If a mother has seen this expression
-upon the face of her son or her daughter then
-she can address to life the words of Simeon: “Now
-let thy servant depart in peace for mine eyes have
-seen thy glory.” For the glory of life is the harmony
-between its two fundamental powers—conquest
-and devotion: self-assertion and self-sacrifice.
-In every new phase of the ethical development
-of mankind the cultural problem is this
-harmony and the cultural profit is not the per-dominance
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_103'>103</span>of one of the two but the perfected
-synthesis of both.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>This problem has now become actual, through
-the woman movement, for the feminine half of
-mankind, after the <em>unconditional</em> spirit of sacrifice
-has obtained for centuries as the indispensable
-attribute of womanliness. In the first stage of the
-woman movement the majority of the “emancipated”
-were still determined by their spirit of
-sacrifice, which they aspired to combine with their
-outside professional work. This generation lived
-<em>beyond its strength</em>. The younger generation of
-to-day does not believe that God gives unlimited
-strength. For they have seen that those who live
-unceasingly beyond their strength finally have
-no strength left, either for others or for themselves.
-And they know that in the long run one can live
-only upon his own resources and these must be
-conserved and renewed in order to suffice. But
-this knowledge makes the problem, which in the
-course of days and years appears in manifold different
-forms, only more difficult of solution: the
-problem to find the right choice in the collision
-between family duties, duties toward oneself and
-duties toward society; the choice which shall bring
-with it the essential enhancement of life.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The conflict is thus solved by some feminists:
-everything called family ties and family feeling is
-referred to the “impersonal” instinctive life, while
-our “personality” expresses itself in intellectual
-activity, in study, in creation, in universally
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_104'>104</span>human ends, in social activity, etc. And since the
-principle of emancipation is certainly the freeing of
-the “personality,” it follows from this idea, in
-connection with <em>this definition of the personality</em>,
-that the liberated personality must place the
-obligations of the intellectual life absolutely above
-those of the family life; the outside professional
-work above the work in the home. In a word,
-the earlier definition of <em>womanliness</em> ignored the
-<em>universal human</em> element, the present definition
-of <em>personality</em> ignores the <em>womanly</em> element in
-woman’s being. The last solution of the problem
-is quite as one-sided as the first.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The “principle of personality,” as it has just
-been described is entertained especially in America.
-In Europe there are still women who reflect deeply
-upon their own being and—who have a depth over
-which they may meditate! These women have
-not yet succeeded in simplifying the problem which
-is the central one of their life. They know that not
-only do instincts, impulses of the will, feelings,
-form the strongest part of the individual character
-which nature has given them, but also that this
-part determines their thinking and creating power—their
-whole conscious existence. They know
-that their character receives its peculiarities
-through the development which they themselves
-accord to one or another side of their individual
-temperament. In one personality the intellectual
-life will predominate, in another the emotional:
-in one the ethical, in another the æsthetic motive.
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_105'>105</span>The personality becomes harmonious only when
-no essential motive is lacking, when all attain a
-certain degree of development, a harmony which
-is as yet only so won that no motive receives its
-<em>greatest possible development</em>. Such a harmony has
-long been the especial characteristic of the most
-beautiful womanhood, while the most significant
-men have ordinarily achieved their superior
-strength in <em>one</em> direction, at the cost of harmony in
-the whole. If now women believe that they can
-achieve the strength of men without, for that reason,
-being obliged to sacrifice something of their
-harmony, then they believe their sex capable of
-possibilities which thus far have been granted
-rarely and then only to the exceptional in both
-sexes. What experience shows is: the greater harmony
-of single women in a <em>limited</em> existence as compared
-with the lack of harmony in the lives of
-daughters, owing to the irreconcilable problems
-which their <em>richer</em> existence brings with it. For
-these problems must be solved, at one time, by
-sacrifice of intellectual, at another, by sacrifice
-of emotional values. In every case, the sacrifice
-leaves behind it, not the joyful peace of fulfilled
-duty, but the gnawing unrest of a duty still ever unfulfilled.
-Every woman who has a heart knows
-it is at least quite as important a part of her personality
-as her passion for science perhaps. If
-for example she is obliged to surrender to another
-the loving service of a sick father in order to pursue
-scientific researches, then her heart is quite as
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_106'>106</span>certainly in the sick-room as, in case of the opposite
-choice, her thoughts would have been in the laboratory.
-By calling one factor “instinct” and the
-other “personality,” nothing is in reality gained.
-Theorising ladies can easily write—the paper is
-forbearing. But human nature is of flesh and
-blood. And therefore thousands of women grapple
-to-day with tormenting questions:—When we
-women shall belong entirely to industrial work and
-to the social life, who then is left for the work of
-love? Only paid hands. What becomes then of
-the warmth in human life when such a division of
-labour is established that kindness becomes a profession,
-and the rest of us shall be exempt from its
-practice because our “Personality” has more
-important fields for the exercise of its strength?
-What does it signify to live for society when we
-come to the service of society with chilled hearts?
-If the warmth is to be preserved then we must
-have leisure for love in private life, a right to love,
-peace and means for love. Only thus can our
-hearts remain warm for the social life. Can the
-whole really profit if we sacrifice unconditionally
-that part of the whole which is nearest us? Can
-our feeling of solidarity increase toward mankind
-when we pass by exactly those people to whom we
-could, by our deeds, really show our sympathetic
-fellow-feeling?</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The woman whose instinct life is still strong
-and sound, whose personality has its roots deep in
-life—which means not social life alone—she also
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_107'>107</span>understands how to determine what life in its
-deepest import purposes with her; she knows how
-she serves it best, whether by remaining in a position
-where she fulfils her personal obligations as
-part of a family or by seeking another position
-where she fulfils this obligation as a member of
-society.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>It is true the erroneous idea still prevails in
-many homes that the daughter must willingly sacrifice
-her social task for the family, a sacrifice which
-the family would never even wish on the part of
-a son. But the assurance that the daughter <em>could</em>
-have made another choice instils in the family,
-unconsciously, a new conception of her sacrifice,
-and gives to herself the courage to assume a position
-in the home other than that she held at the
-time when no choice remained to her. If the total
-of efficacious daughterly love of to-day and earlier
-times be estimated, this total would not prove less
-now. But it is now given rather in a great sum;
-earlier, on the contrary, in many small coins.
-Because of the professional work of the daughter,
-there are now often lacking in the home the ready
-obliging young hands whose help father and
-brother so willingly engrossed; the cheerful comforter,
-the admiring listener. But in a great hour
-the daughter or sister gives now often a hundred
-times more in deep, personal understanding. One
-draws a false conclusion when one thinks that the
-more closely a family holds together the more
-it signifies a corresponding unity and devotion.
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_108'>108</span>The young act in submission because they permit
-themselves to be cowed by the family authority
-which like a steam-roller passed over their wills
-and their hearts. But the indignation that they
-experienced in their innermost hearts, the criticism
-which they exercised among one another, were not
-less bitter than that which they to-day openly
-utter.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The home life of fifty years ago was a school of
-diplomacy; it especially served to oppose cunning
-to the father’s authority, and the mother often
-taught the children to use this weapon of weakness.
-Now the father does not wish to make himself
-ridiculous by saying: “I forbid you,” for the
-daughter answers: “Well, then, I will wait until
-I am twenty-one.” The threat, “I disinherit you,”
-recoils from the determination of the daughter, “I
-can work.” Only in a distant province, in a little
-town, or among the “upper ten thousand” of a
-large city, where the daughters still often receive
-a “general education,” which does not fit them to
-earn their living, are they occupied all day without
-the feeling of having worked. They serve at five
-o’clock teas, embroider for charity bazaars, etc.
-But they also experience the power of the spirit of
-the time strongly enough to know that they lead
-a selfish life but not a life of self. The lower the
-scale of riches the more housework do the daughters
-have to perform. But as a result of the patriarchal
-organisation of labour they still perform
-this without their own responsibility, without the
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_109'>109</span>joy of independence, without regular unoccupied
-time and without one penny at their disposal!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Even in these circles however the spirit of the
-time is active; such a daughter leads now in every
-case a life of much richer content than some
-decades ago, when even though middle-aged she
-was still treated as ignorant innocence and must
-allow herself to be extolled to every possible
-marriage candidate. She suffers when she sees her
-mother as the submissive wife, whose continual
-according smile has graven lines of humility about
-her mouth, whose continually pacifying tone has
-made her voice whining. She suffers when the
-father cuts short a diversity of opinion with the
-words, “You have heard what I said—That will
-do.” She suffers when her brothers find her
-“insufferably important” or declare her new ideas
-“crazy.” But exactly these new ideas about the
-right and freedom of woman, which she encounters
-everywhere, have given a dignity to her
-own being which has its influence even without
-words. On the other hand, the fact that the
-fathers lose one legal right after another over the
-feminine members of the family has its effect,
-so that they gradually change their tone, the
-clenched fist falls less and less frequently upon the
-table, the disdain is silenced, and even in the
-provinces the family life is changing more and
-more from the despotic political constitution to
-the democratic, where each one maintains his
-position by virtue of his own personality. There
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_110'>110</span>are still men it is true, who wish to confine “woman’s
-sphere” to the four “C’s”—“Cooking, clothing,
-children, church.” But there is no one who
-now insists that “a girl <em>cannot</em> learn Mathematics,”
-or that it is “unwomanly to pore over books”—sayings
-which were still often heard fifty years
-ago. Certainly there are still men who accept
-the cherishing thoughtful care on the part of the
-women members of the family as obvious homage.
-But the men are becoming more and more numerous
-who receive these womanly acts of tenderness
-with waking joy. Daughters and sisters of
-earlier times have pardoned the vices of their
-fathers and brothers seven and seventy times;
-those of the present throw away the fragments
-of trust and love which have been irrevocably
-shattered. The assurance that the daughters
-and sisters could do nothing else except pardon,
-since they were dependent upon their tormentors,
-often made the fathers and brothers of earlier
-times grossly inconsiderate. The men of to-day
-will be refined by the necessity of showing consideration
-and justice to their daughters and sisters
-if they wish to enjoy their presence in the home.
-Fathers and brothers have, in a word, gained quite
-as much spiritually through the loss of their power
-to oppress as the daughters and sisters have gained
-in being no longer oppressed. And this experience
-will be repeated in marriage when man and wife
-shall be absolutely free and equal.</p>
-
-<div class='chapter'>
- <span class='pageno' id='Page_111'>111</span>
- <h2 class='c006'>CHAPTER V<br /> <span class='large'>THE INFLUENCE OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT UPON MEN AND WOMEN IN GENERAL</span></h2>
-</div>
-
-<p class='c007'>In their struggle for freedom for the same opportunities
-of study, for the same fields of work, the
-same citizenship as man, women have encountered
-all possible opposition, from that of the Pope, who
-recently pronounced the most positive condemnation
-of the whole movement for the emancipation
-of woman, and that of Parliament, to the rough
-pranks of students. Man’s attempt to define the
-boundaries of “woman’s natural sphere” continues
-always. The woman physician, for example, had
-to struggle, in her student years, against prejudice
-in the dissecting room, and, in her practice, against
-the professional jealousy of men. The history of
-emancipation has much shameful conduct on the
-part of man toward woman to record. Great
-reluctance to recognise the results of woman’s
-work is still common. When this work, in literature
-and art for instance, is compared with man’s,
-the comparison is made not for the purpose of
-getting a finer understanding of woman’s peculiar
-characteristics, but only to disparage it. The
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_112'>112</span>energy which men of the present time not infrequently
-lack they cannot endure to recognise in
-women, who often possess it in high degree. In
-the Romance countries, self-supporting working
-women are always looked upon as a special caste—a
-caste into which a man does not marry however
-high respect he pays, theoretically, to “<span lang="fr" xml:lang="fr">les vierges
-fortes</span>.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>And yet how different—and more beautiful—are
-the present relations between men and women
-in general, especially among the Germanic peoples.
-A friendly comradeship prevails among the young
-men and women studying at the university, in
-art academies, music schools, business colleges, etc.
-In the North, this comradeship often continues
-from the primary schools, through the grades to
-the university, with results advantageous to both
-sexes. Especially in the years under twenty, this
-comradeship has a significance which cannot be
-overestimated. Girls, who were, earlier, confined
-to a narrow, uninteresting, joyless family circle,
-now often find in the circle of masculine and feminine
-comrades their share of the joy of youth without
-which life has no springtime. Youths who
-formerly had known no other young women than
-those with whom they should never have come in
-contact, now learn to know soulful, pure-minded
-girls, and this gives them a new conception of
-woman. Both sexes now experience together the
-joys of youth in such fresh and significant forms
-as folk-dancing, sport, etc. They have opportunity
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_113'>113</span>for stimulating interchange of ideas in a great
-circle, and quiet discussion with a few congenial
-friends. During the last twenty or thirty years,
-young men and young women have again begun to
-discover one another spiritually, discoveries which
-since the days of romanticism have been made
-only through the stained glass of literature. In the
-romantic period, men and women exercised reciprocally
-upon one another a humanising influence.
-A like influence again obtains at the present time,
-but upon a much broader basis. The men and
-women of romanticism formed a group bound
-together only by spiritual relationship, in which
-the women aspired to the culture of the men and
-shared their intellectual interests, while the men
-promoted the women’s “desire for men’s culture,
-art, knowledge, and distinction” (<cite><span lang="de" xml:lang="de">Geluste nach der
-Männer Bildung, Kunst, Weisheit und Ehre.</span></cite>—Schleiermacher).
-Now, young people studying
-in different fields exert a mutual humanising influence
-and thereby learn to know one another
-from the side of intelligence as well as from
-that of character and disposition. Thus are
-dispelled certain illusions and conceptions almost
-forced upon them through which both sexes in the
-years of adolescence once regarded each other.
-Men as well as women obtain a finer criterion for
-the conception of “womanliness” and of “manliness”;
-both discover the innumerable shadings
-which these conceptions conceal; both recognise
-that the sexes can meet not only upon the erotic
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_114'>114</span>plane, but upon a plane that is universally human;
-finally, both learn that the more perfect and complete
-human beings they become, the more they
-have to thank one another for it.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Comprehension in erotic relations is most difficult
-because, there, women are far in advance of
-men. Woman’s ideal of love, however, is becoming
-more and more the ideal of young men. Young
-girls, on their side, are beginning to understand
-better the sexual nature of men. The whole
-world in which man received his culture, won his
-victories, suffered his defeats, is no longer <em>terra
-incognita</em> to women; they have lost the blind
-reverence or the blind hostility with which they
-formerly regarded the doings and dealings of men.
-Men, on the other hand, are learning that the domestic
-labours for the comfort of the family, which
-they have thus far regarded as the sole duty of
-woman, cannot engross her whole soul, that domesticity
-leaves many wishes unfulfilled. So both
-sexes have begun, each on its own side, to build
-a bridge across the chasm which law and custom
-had dug between them. The young still ponder
-over the enigmatical antitheses in their natures,
-yet they find they have very much that is human
-in common with one another. In comradeship,
-however, that “chivalry” vanishes, which among
-other things consisted in the ideal that the young
-men had always to bear all the burdens and duties.
-Now as a rule, the girl carries her own knapsack
-on excursions and pays her share of the expenses.
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_115'>115</span>But if she really needs help, the youth is quite as
-ready as before to grant it to her, just as she also
-on her part is ready to assist according to her
-strength: honest friendship has replaced rapturous
-chivalry. This friendly comradeship often
-satisfies the young man’s need of feminine kindness
-and enjoyment in those dangerous years when,
-as a young man said, “Three fourths of the life
-of a youth, conscious and unconscious, is sex life.”
-And nothing can more effectually prevent him
-from degrading himself than access to a circle
-where in quiet and freedom he meets young girls,
-without an indelicate, intruding family surveillance,
-interfering and asking him about his “intentions.”
-If between two such comrades an erotic
-feeling finally develops, even if the wooing takes
-place in a laboratory instead of a romantic arbour,
-the possibilities always exist, in the golden haze
-of love, of making mistakes. But both have,
-however, had opportunities of seeing each other
-in many character-illuminating situations; they
-have observed each other, not only with their own
-eyes, but also through the more critical glasses of
-the comrade circle. On the other hand, it often
-happens that discussions and interchange of letters
-conjure up a congeniality which exists only in
-opinions and temperament, not in nature. It is
-fortunate when this is discovered in time. Otherwise
-bitter conflicts may be the result, should a
-strong individual nature wish to mould the other
-after himself or after his ideal of man or woman.
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_116'>116</span>For that anyone loves the individuality of another
-without illusions is still very rarely the case. It
-now happens somewhat more frequently, since
-young people in comradeship learn to know mutually
-their ideals and dreams, as well in erotic as in
-universally human aspects. But if these ideals
-and dreams do give a hint of character, comradeship
-brings a true knowledge of character only
-when it also offers an opportunity of seeing others
-<em>act</em>; not only of <em>hearing</em> them speak of themselves.
-Such analyses of one’s own soul or the soul of
-others in the atmosphere of tea and cigarettes,
-music and poetry, give the “interesting” masculine
-or feminine parasites opportunity to ensnare
-a victim, who is then intellectually or erotically,
-often even economically, sucked dry.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But even if such an interchange of ideas really
-enriched all, it can be carried to excess and become
-deleterious to energy for work, directness, and
-idealism. However beneficial may be the honesty
-of to-day in sexual questions, the discussion of
-the instincts of life which has now become a commonplace
-is also dangerous. These discussions
-are fraught with the same danger to the roots of
-human life as is a continual digging up of the roots
-of a plant to see how it is growing.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The earlier a marriage can be consummated,
-the less is the danger of freshness being lost in this
-way; the greater the prospect that man and wife
-will grow close together, just as do the man and
-wife of the people, through the difficulty of the
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_117'>117</span>common struggle for existence. But if this
-struggle becomes easier before youth has entirely
-passed, then there enters often into the life of the
-man a crisis which the practised French call “<span lang="fr" xml:lang="fr">La
-maladie de quarante ans</span>”: the need of the man for
-a new erotic experience. While those on a lower
-erotic plane, to-day as at all times, seek this in
-transient secret alliances, it leads those on a higher
-level in our time to the most tragic of all separations,
-where the man—after decades of the most
-intimate life together, of the most faithful work
-together, of mutual understanding—drives the
-wife out of the home in order to bring in a young
-wife who has never been to him, perhaps never
-can be to him, a fellow fighter and helper, as the
-repudiated wife was, but who has for him the
-charm of the mystery which the maiden had for
-the man before the days of coëducation, sexual
-discussions, comradeship, and dress-reform!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Women students now escape the earlier danger
-of the daughter of the family, falling in love out
-of lack of occupation. They have not the time,
-often also not the means to permit themselves
-erotic dreams. There are among them many
-poor girls who dare lose no single semester, for
-they must hasten to earn their livelihood. Moreover,
-such a girl knows that if she should yield to
-the need for tenderness, for support, that is so
-strong in her, the same fate could happen to her
-as to this or that fellow student who after a short
-happiness was left alone when the lover found a
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_118'>118</span>good match. And she was left behind not only in
-her sorrow but also in her work. And the more a
-yearning girl buries herself in her studies, the more
-science or art unlock their riches to her, the happier,
-more full of life she feels herself in spite of loneliness,
-scanty means, and shabby dress.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Among women students there are also many of
-the cerebral type, mentioned above, women who
-need tenderness neither in the form of friendship
-nor of love; yes, who fear in both a bond for their
-“free individuality.” These take part in sports,
-discuss, jest, with their fellow men students, openhearted
-and unconcerned, without thinking whether
-they please or not. All these young girls now go
-about with perfect freedom; even in the Romance
-countries, a young woman can now go alone with
-her bag of books or her racquet. For in circles
-where study has not yet exercised its freeing influence,
-sport has brought this about.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In America, student life, because of the early
-entrance of the men into the professions, becomes
-more a one-sided, feminine comrade life. There,
-the women have to develop their arts of the toilet
-for each other, whom they find more interesting,
-more worthy of pleasing than the masculine sex.
-Even in Europe, feminine comradeship in the
-student years is at times most intimate. For a
-friendship between a young girl and a young man
-often ends with love—on one side. Or in an intimate
-circle A has fallen in love with B, but B with
-C, etc. Such eventualities the wise girl will avoid
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_119'>119</span>for they can bring both suffering and obstruction
-to her work. With women comrades, she has, without
-this risk, an interchange of ideas which promotes
-study, deepens culture, opens up new views,
-and gives to all new impulses. There exists, at
-least at the present time, a difference between the
-masculine and feminine method of inquiry, of
-solving problems, of apprehending ideas, which
-results in the fact that comradeship between women
-cannot take the place of comradeship between
-men and women. It is, however, for deep and
-beautiful natures often impossible at the beginning
-of life to be capable, in a spiritual sense, of
-more than a single friendship with their own sex;
-for each new spiritual contact becomes a new and
-difficult problem. For such men or women a
-friendship with a comrade of their own sex is often
-the richest advantage of their student time. Often
-a student in good circumstances finds her joy in
-taking care of some lonely comrades. They find
-at her apartments, in a friendly welcome, a few
-flowers and pictures, a teakettle, a fireplace, that
-feeling of homely warmth for which the shivering
-students have longed,—a longing which has often
-driven a lonely, impressionable youth from the
-dreary students’ room to “rough pleasures.”
-Now when he leaves the little comrade circle, his
-sweetest memories of home, his finest dreams,
-vibrate in him. And the timid girl goes in the
-certainty that there is another girl who is concerned
-about her wretched fate.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_120'>120</span>In such a quiet as also in a more lively comrade life
-both sexes learn to know not only each other
-but also different classes and, in certain European
-universities, the several nations. It is not unusual
-for nine or ten races to be found represented
-in one small group of comrades. Life thus becomes
-everywhere enriched by strong manifestations or
-fine shades of congeniality; spiritual attractions
-and repulsions cross one another; inspiring or
-restraining impressions radiate in all directions.
-It would be quite as impossible to estimate the
-fructifying influence of such a friendly intercourse
-as to measure the life which comes into existence
-on a spring day filled with the sigh of the wind,
-the fluttering of butterflies, and humming of bees.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In such a circle of comrades, devotion and capacity
-for sacrifice are past belief, especially in
-the nation where “the girls wear short hair and the
-young men long hair,” as a wag characterised the
-young Russians studying abroad. That a couple
-of Russian girls, for a whole winter, possessed together
-but a single pair of shoes and so could never
-go out at the same time, is one of the innumerable
-small and great expressions of the feeling of solidarity
-among the poorest students of the university.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>When the comrade life assumed the form exclusively
-of coffee-house visits, then the women had
-to revolt against it. But they often, alas, allowed
-themselves to be carried with the stream. Because
-the coffee-house life at first really gave a
-certain polish to the intelligence, it could for a short
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_121'>121</span>time have its justification. But when a blade is
-worn out, the artist of life should cease grinding;
-if on the contrary he allows the grindstone to go
-on continually, then at last he has only the haft
-in his hand. Formerly, it was only the young men
-but now even the girls wear out thus their weapons
-or tools before they ever use them seriously.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>The darkest side of coëducational life has been
-that women could demonstrate their equal capability
-with men in no other way than by the same
-courses and examinations as those of the men.
-The eagerness of women to prove their like proficiency
-with men in study and in sport has often
-had disastrous physical results. These are continually
-becoming more infrequent, thanks to
-the decreasing prudery in regard to the sexual
-functions and to the increasing hygienic conscience.
-The intellectual results, however, continue to
-exist and are disastrous alike for both sexes; but
-because of the ambition and conscientiousness of
-girls, perhaps still more disastrous for them. The
-examinations which they pass are often dearly
-bought. This was not noticed in the beginning,
-when a woman doctor was still looked at with
-wonder as a noteworthy product of culture, and
-regarded herself also with wonder. Truly she had
-sacrificed to grinding and cramming for examinations
-a multitude of youthful joys, but she had, as
-was thought, won in this way much greater values.
-This, however, is not always really the case.
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_122'>122</span>Ethically, the conscientious girl is certainly above
-the boy who, not infrequently in the unconscious
-instinct of self-preservation, idles away his time.
-But the mental strength of the latter may frequently
-be better preserved in any determined
-direction. Girls, conscientious and zealous in
-their work, have filled their heads full of lessons to
-which the coming examination and not their own
-choice has urged them. What is thus crammed in
-is not assimilated and consequently has not promoted
-spiritual or mental growth. But it has
-taken up room and has thereby impaired the
-intellectual freedom of motion and compelled the
-natural individuality to compress itself so that
-it is long before the space conditions in the brain
-permit it to extend again—in case it is not simply
-choked by all the chaotic mass that has been absorbed.
-How many young girls have come to the
-university or to the art academy full of thirst for
-knowledge and energy for work! But after a few
-years they feel the disgust of surfeit, unless they
-have found a teacher who has been to them a
-leader to the essentials in science or in art. Then
-their joy in study could really be as rich as they
-had once dreamed it—yes, as perhaps even their
-grandmothers had dreamed it when they had to
-content themselves with their little text-books
-written for “girls.” Many young girls maintain
-to-day, through some teacher or some masculine
-comrade, that spiritual development which only
-an exceptional relationship between a father and
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_123'>123</span>daughter, a brother and sister, could give in earlier
-times.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>When men and women can study together,
-then the relationship later between masculine and
-feminine fellow-workmen will, as a rule, be better
-than when the sexes work independently in the
-student days. It is true masculine competitors still
-have recourse to the weapon of spreading reports
-of the incapacity of their feminine competitors—at
-times honestly convinced of it themselves.
-The same weapon is of course turned also against
-masculine competitors. Yet there it is a question
-of the <em>individual</em>, while in regard to women, the
-<em>sex</em> is often the only proof the man thinks he need
-assign for the inferiority of their work. It can
-be said, however, upon the whole, that the relationship
-between men and women professional
-colleagues exhibits the same good side as the common
-student life, although naturally to a lesser
-degree. The joint work does not often leave much
-time for significant interchange of ideas, and after
-working hours each usually longs for new faces.
-The influence of joint labour is often limited to
-the refining effect that the presence of one sex
-exercises upon the other. Small services are
-mutually rendered and each worker learns also
-to respect the achievements of the other; or one
-is provoked because the work which should have
-been dispatched by the other now falls to his share!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>If the woman performs the same work as the
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_124'>124</span>man, then she is often indignant because she must
-do it for smaller compensation than he. All too
-easily, the feminists forget that this injustice is
-equalised if a man who wishes to establish a family
-cannot obtain a post which he seeks because a
-woman retains it who can be satisfied with a smaller
-wage since she remains in her parents’ home.
-For this disparity, raising bitterness on both sides,
-there is no remedy under the present economic
-system. Feminists can <em>demand</em> the same compensation,
-but working women will not obtain it so
-long as the supply of workers is to the demand as
-one hundred to one in the professional occupations
-to which women flock. In vain underpaid women
-will call to the agitators of the woman movement,
-“Help us to obtain endurable conditions of life.”
-The only honest answer is, “Help one another,
-just as the working men have helped one another,
-by union and solidarity!”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The competition of the sexes in the labour field
-is only indirectly connected with the woman movement;
-it is a part of the social question and will
-therefore only be touched upon here.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The hostility which the competition between
-the sexes has evoked is a factor in the social war;
-and if—<em>by reason of this competition</em>—marriage
-decreases, then such competition is a form of social
-danger. If the cause is sought in the woman
-movement, then the question is begged completely,
-because the women with sufficient income <em>to be
-able</em> to live at home without industrial work, after
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_125'>125</span>the loss of a husband or a father, are constantly
-becoming more rare. There is the additional fact
-that in many positions where man and woman have
-equal salary, the woman is preferred because of
-her greater honesty and faithfulness to duty.
-Further it must be emphasised that, even in
-middle-class vocations, women with increasing
-frequency earn their <em>whole</em> livelihood, not merely
-a supplementary remuneration, when if they did
-not thus work they would be a burden to some
-man and so perhaps prevent him from marrying.
-Many of these women would wish nothing better
-than to enjoy the warmth of “the domestic hearth”
-to which men in theory relegate them; but since
-no man offers this warmth, they must at least be
-allowed to procure fuel for their lonely hearth fire.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>When men declare that “the only duty which
-has life value for a woman is to be man’s helpmeet,”
-then they ought not to forget that this task is more
-and more rarely assigned to a woman, because men
-prefer to do without her aid, and even find a richer
-life in bachelorhood than in marriage. They should
-not dare to forget also that a great number of men
-disinclined or disqualified for work compel their
-sisters, daughters, wives, to undertake the task of
-family provider, and these women also must forego
-being, “in the quiet of the home, man’s helpmeet.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>However weak the feminist logic often may be,
-it is not so weak as the anti-feminist logic of man.
-Masculine vacuity has found there an arena where
-it performs the most incredible gymnastics. The
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_126'>126</span>hysteria of literary fanatics, the crude lordly instincts
-of the mediocre man, the irritation of the
-masculine good-for-nothing at the increasing
-ability of women, the rage, confounding cause and
-effect, over the competition of women—these are
-some of the reasons for the present antagonism
-between men and women. The deepest reason is
-this: the more woman is compelled to maintain
-the struggle for existence under the same social
-conditions as those under which men have been
-thus far compelled to struggle, the more she loses
-that character by which she gives happiness to
-man and receives it from him. A diminished
-erotic attraction is frequently the result, not of
-the work of women, but of their work under such
-conditions that the drudging, worn-out women
-comrades finally appear to their masculine colleagues
-only as “sexless ants.” Sometimes they
-really exhibit that obliteration of all characteristic
-marks of sex which Meunier has indicated to us
-in his <cite>Woman Miner</cite>, a great thought-inspiring
-work of art.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Many a woman of the present time, deeply
-feminine, suffers under this compulsory neutralising
-of her womanly being. Others again consider
-this a path to complete humanity.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But the complete personality is only that man
-or woman who has cultivated and exercised the
-strength which he or she as a human being possessed
-without having neutralised thereby the
-characteristic of sex. It is tragic when nature
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_127'>127</span>herself creates deviations from normal sexuality,
-but criminal when the ideas of the time weaken
-sound instincts and inculcate unsound ones. It
-is not woman nature but the denatured woman
-who is beginning to grow through the ultra-feminism
-which looks down upon woman’s normal
-sexual duty as only a low, animal function.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>That sound men abominate this tendency is
-justifiable. On the other hand, it is unwarrantable
-to confuse a variation of feminism with the
-woman movement in its entirety, a movement
-which includes in itself a great earnest desire to
-work for the welfare of both mothers and children.
-As a manifestation of womanliness in its most
-complete, perfect form, many men still elect the
-woman whose entire life-content consists in the
-cult of her own beauty, a cult whose attendant
-phenomenon is the æsthetic culture which raises
-the temple about the altar. Under this perfect
-and apparently inspired form there is, however,
-rarely anything to be found of that which the man
-seeks: the longing and the power of true womanhood
-to give happiness by erotic and motherly
-devotion. Such women, like those cerebral women
-engrossed by their studies and their work, allow
-a real love to pass them by; men are only sacrificial
-servants of the cult, and the high priest is chosen
-not upon the ground of motives of feeling. This
-type is said to be more common in America than
-in Europe. But it existed thousands of years
-ago on the Tiber as well as on the Nile. That
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_128'>128</span>Cleopatra in the language of feminism now speaks
-of the “right of the personality,” and means
-thereby her right to represent no other value in
-life than that of the white peacock and the black
-orchid—the value of rarity—that does not make
-her a “product of the woman movement.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But certain men characterise a woman thus,
-if they have been deceived in her: a psychology
-which equals in value that of the feminist when
-she speaks of man as the “oppressor,” the “corrupter,”—without
-noting that the world is full
-of poor men corrupted or tormented by women!
-Amid such mutual accusations, just or unjust—whereby
-<em>gifted</em> men maintain generalisations about
-“woman’s” being which are quite as ingenuous
-as those which <em>silly</em> women propose about “man’s”
-being—the sexes, in the days of the woman movement,
-have been almost as much alienated from
-each other as drawn together. The estrangement
-has taken place in the erotic field and through
-labour competition; the reconciliation has been
-effected—leaving out coëducation—by common
-industry and the social activity of both sexes.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The middle-class women of Europe have still
-so little share in the control of production that
-one cannot determine whether or not they have
-even awakened to the understanding that the
-fundamental condition of a universal life-enhancing
-issue of the woman movement must be new
-social conditions. One cannot yet predicate
-anything at all in regard to their desires to promote
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_129'>129</span>more humane labour conditions and a more
-just distribution of profit. Under the system
-now prevailing they must, like men, either conform
-to it or be destroyed economically. It is even so
-in public offices and similar fields of labour. Just
-as so many young men do, at the beginning of
-their career, a great number of women attempt
-to abolish the abuses and mitigate the formalism.
-But they meet such obstacles that, like the young
-men, they are obliged to abandon the effort; or
-they are compelled to give up the position whereby
-they win their scanty bread.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In this way, principally, the work of women in
-the sphere of charitable activity has given to men
-the opportunity for a correct valuation of the social
-working power of woman. Men have then in a
-wider sphere than that of the family circle, so
-often overlooked by them, learned to appreciate
-feminine enthusiasm and capacity for organisation,
-energy and devotion, initiative and endurance.
-Innumerable men—from the soldiers up,
-who in the hospitals of the Crimea literally kissed
-Florence Nightingale’s shadow on the floor of the
-hospital ward—have learned in the last half
-century that life has become more kindly for them
-since social motherliness has obtained for itself a
-certain elbow-room. The more women lose their
-present fear of appearing, in coöperation with
-men, “womanly” impulsive, savage in face of injustice
-and cruelty, the more will they signify in
-that joint work where, at least to-day, they still
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_130'>130</span>have a more fortunate hand—the hand of the
-mother.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>And since a single fact is more convincing than
-a thousand words, so the facts gained in the social
-activity of woman have won, in later years,
-many men supporters of woman suffrage. The
-arguments derived from abstract right—however
-obvious they may be for every tax-paying, law-abiding
-woman—go to the rear to make way for
-the argument of “social utility.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Not only women themselves but men also refer
-now to what women have accomplished when they
-are allowed to work in the service of society;
-they point to the reforms which were retarded or
-bungled because women had no immediate influence
-there where appropriations were granted and
-laws were enacted.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Especially significant for the reconciliation of
-the sexes is the joint social work of young people.
-The temperance cause or the education of the
-masses or socialism now brings together a host of
-young men and girls, who learn thereby that the
-social as well as the private life of labour gains in
-strength and wealth if men and women participate
-in it together.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>The men who fear political life for woman are,
-however, right. Just as this life has injured the
-best qualities in the manhood of many men, so
-will it impair the womanhood of many women.
-Neither the spiritual personality of woman nor
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_131'>131</span>of man, nor even their secondary physical sex
-characteristics can withstand the influences of
-their private <em>milieu</em>, of their private labour conditions.
-Why should women better resist the
-influences of the public life? When the man is
-compelled, in political work for the state, to neglect
-in the highest degree the foundation of the state—the
-home—how should women be able to do
-otherwise than the same thing? The political
-work of both can benefit the home <em>in general</em> but
-<em>their own</em> home must always suffer for it, for a time
-at least. Women will learn, as so many men have
-already learned, that the fresh enthusiasm, the
-unexhausted optimism with which they entered
-the political life soon vanish before party pressure,
-general prejudice, opportunism, and the demands
-of compromise. And just as now so many
-men for these reasons withdraw from Parliament,
-many women will do likewise when they learn
-that what they can accomplish there with the
-characteristics peculiar to them, is so insignificant
-that it does not compensate for the injury which
-ensues because these characteristics are missing
-in the home.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>If the eligibility of woman is really to benefit
-society, then the right of resignation must be unconditioned
-for mothers, and they themselves must
-understand that the parliamentary mandate is incompatible
-with motherhood so long as the children
-are still in the home; in like manner during
-the same period, the franchise of the mother of a
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_132'>132</span>family must not result in rushing into electioneering.
-The ballot in and of itself does not injure
-the fineness of a woman’s hand any more than a
-cooking receipt.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>Because woman’s motherhood must be preserved,
-if she is to bring to the social organism
-a really <em>new</em> factor, so she must always continue
-to be found and to work in private life, in
-order to be, meanwhile, useful in public life.
-The genius of social reform which women will
-develop can complement that of man only if this
-genius is of a new order; if it originates thoughts
-which bring new points of view to the social
-problems, wills which seek new means, souls which
-aspire to new ends. Women could, if they received
-their full civic right before they lost their
-intuitive and instinctive power through masculinisation,
-effect the progress of culture as, for
-example, the entrance of the Germans influenced
-the antique world.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The sooner woman receives her political franchise,
-the more, on the whole, can be expected
-from it. The generation which has now fought
-the fight for suffrage is wholly conscious of the
-reforms that await woman for their final realisation.
-And this generation of women would introduce
-into the political life a new, fresh current.
-In any event, we can hope to secure from women
-new impulses and better organisation in political
-life, as has already been the case in social life.
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_133'>133</span>But every new generation of parliamentary women,
-who together with the men have been “politically
-trained,” would have—as long as the present
-economic conditions obtain—continually greater
-economic interests to advocate “parliamentarily,”
-and would also for other reasons evince the same
-parliamentary maladies as the men evince now.
-And as little as evil men lose their evil characteristics
-because of the franchise, quite as little will
-bad women lose theirs. The entrance of women
-into politics cannot therefore—as certain feminists
-maintain—signify the victory of the noble
-over the ignoble. But it signifies a great increase
-in noble as well as ignoble powers hitherto inactive
-in political life, which in the wider sphere that they
-there maintain oppose one another, now conquering,
-now yielding. Men and women <em>together</em>,
-however, will be able to enact more humane laws
-than men alone can enact. Questions concerning
-women and children can be treated with deeper
-seriousness by men and women <em>together</em> than is
-now the case. Men and women <em>together</em> will
-consider the social life from more significant
-points of view than can one sex alone. Government
-consisting of men and women <em>together</em> will
-be more profound than heretofore. No one who
-has observed the effects of masculine and feminine
-coöperation in fields already mentioned can doubt
-this. Who can deny that with the civic right of
-woman her feeling of social responsibility will
-increase and that her horizon will widen? And
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_134'>134</span>therewith her value as wife and mother of men will
-also increase? But she will increase in value for
-the men closely connected with her as well as in
-social respects. The woman of earlier times, for
-all of whom society might go to pieces if only <em>her</em>
-home and family prospered, was only in a restricted
-sense man’s help. In certain great crises she
-usually betrayed him simply because she wholly
-lacked the social feeling.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Obviously, the female member of Parliament
-cannot confine herself solely to questions which
-concern the protection of the weaker and the education
-of the new race. The more women concentrate
-upon the cause of justice against power,
-and of public spirit against self-interest, the more
-advantageous it will be for her herself and for the
-public life. But concentration is, unfortunately,
-exactly what modern parliamentarism does not
-promote; what it does promote is disintegration.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Woman has, however, where she has entered
-into parliamentary life as elector and eligible,
-shown thus far exactly this tendency toward concentration.
-She has worked for moral, temperance,
-and hygienic questions; for questions
-concerning schools and education of the masses;
-for mother and child protection; reform of marriage
-laws, and kindred subjects. What thinking man
-can maintain that all this does not belong to
-“woman’s sphere” or can say that these and
-similar social interests have been sufficiently
-attended to by an exclusively masculine government?
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_135'>135</span>Already the opposite danger appears in
-certain social spheres: an exclusively “feminine
-government.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In the present forms of public life, however,
-much feminine power will without doubt be
-wasted. Only when man, upon a higher plane, has
-created a new kind of representation “of the
-people,” where professional interests in every
-sphere are represented, can the highest vocation of
-woman—motherhood—come into its rights.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>It belongs to the necessary course of historical
-development that women also go through the
-stage of party-power politics in order together
-with man to reach the stage of social politics and
-finally that of culture politics.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But women cannot wait until this development
-has been attained; they must accomplish it together
-with man. Just as the best masculine
-powers sooner or later must be concentrated to
-transform increasingly untenable parliamentary
-conditions, so the best feminine powers will also
-work in the same direction, especially if the will
-becomes intense in mothers not only to awaken
-in their children the social spirit, but also to create
-for them better social conditions.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In later years, the movement for the suffrage
-of woman has not only filled the world with suffrage
-societies but the agitation has even achieved
-popular representation in eighteen European
-countries, in the legislative assemblies of a
-number of American States, in Australasia, in
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_136'>136</span>legislative assemblies in Canada and in the Philippines.
-In Iceland as well as in Italy, in Japan as
-in South Africa, the movement is in progress, and
-whoever thinks it will not attain its goal is politically
-blind.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>When anti-feminist men prophesy that men will
-love their mothers, sisters, wives, and daughters less
-when pitted against them as political opponents
-or competitors, they prophesy certainly in many
-cases the truth. Politics have already estranged
-fathers from sons, brothers from brothers. But
-this demonstrates only either that the personal
-feelings were weaker than the political passions
-or that these latter have destroyed the attributes
-which made the personality lovable. But if men
-are really able to love and women remain lovable,
-even as political personalities, then a man will not
-cease to love a woman, even if she votes for a
-different congressional candidate! Such prophecies
-have not been verified in other spheres from
-which men sought to intimidate women by similar
-warnings. For woman retains her power over
-man. if she retains her womanly charm, created
-out of peace, harmony, and kindness. Not that
-<em>of which</em> a woman speaks, not that <em>for which</em> she
-works, determines man’s feeling and conduct;
-but <em>how</em> she does it. A woman may charm a man
-by a political speech, and drive him away by her
-table talk. A poor working woman can, without
-a word, induce the same man to give her his seat
-in a street car who the next minute can be brutal
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_137'>137</span>to an assuming and incapable fellow workwoman.
-In a word, what a woman makes of her rights and
-what they make of her—that alone determines
-the measure of veneration, sympathy, love, which
-she may expect from a man.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>That women have lost their equilibrium cannot
-be denied. How could it be otherwise? Not
-only have they in the last half century experienced,
-together with man, Naturalism and the
-New Romantic movement, Neo-Kantianism, the
-Higher Criticism, Bismarck and Bebel, Darwin
-and Spencer, Wagner and Nietzsche, Ibsen and
-Tolstoi, Haeckel and von Hartmann, and still
-many, many more, but they themselves in dizzy
-haste have been hurled out of their position in society,
-protected by the family, which they had occupied
-for centuries. It is obvious that at the present
-moment the spiritual mobility of women must be
-greater than their harmony; that the raw culture
-material which they possess must be richer than
-that which they can utilise; their life experiences
-more significant than their art of life. The modern
-woman must appear for the present less symmetrical,
-more uncertain, than man’s ideal woman
-in earlier times. But enduring cultural progress
-cannot be measured by comparison with the ideal
-figures of the poetry or of the life of earlier times.
-It must be estimated according to the <em>average
-type</em> in a certain period. And the average woman
-of our time is, in the fullest significance of the word,
-more full of vitality and adaptability, more individually
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_138'>138</span>developed, more beneficial socially, than
-the average woman of fifty years ago. With the
-freedom of movement the social feeling has increased;
-with the participation in universal human
-culture, the richness of content: the spiritual life
-has become more complex, and the possibilities
-of expression of this new soul-life, more numerous.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But since the average man, in the meantime,
-has undergone no comparable development, he is
-estranged, has lost his bearings, and consequently
-repudiates a movement which, directly and indirectly,
-makes such great demands for the development
-of his own higher spiritual qualities.
-Heretofore men could force women to endure undue
-interference, and so have deprived them of the
-education wherein the possible consequences of
-action are considered at the same time with the
-thought of the action. But the woman movement
-has now raised a partition between the sexes such
-as is found in the aquarium where it becomes
-necessary to teach the pike to allow the carp, also,
-to live: every time the pike makes a dash at the
-carp he strikes his head against the obstruction,
-until the motive of repression becomes so strong
-that the glass wall can be taken away and both
-carp and pike live together in peace.</p>
-
-<div class='chapter'>
- <span class='pageno' id='Page_139'>139</span>
- <h2 class='c006'>CHAPTER VI<br /> <span class='large'>THE INFLUENCE OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT UPON MARRIAGE</span></h2>
-</div>
-
-<p class='c007'>Certain feminists believe that the woman movement
-has accomplished such meagre results in
-regard to the reorganisation of family right for
-the sole reason that men, who once created the
-right for their own advantage, still cling to the
-injustice out of egoism. These feminists forget
-that the family is the social form of life in which
-tradition has the greatest power. It speaks here
-with the voice of the blood; it works through our
-deepest instincts, our strongest needs of life, our
-innermost feelings, as these have developed
-through many thousands of years under the influences
-which were exercised in and through the
-family. To accomplish in this sphere not only
-reforms upon paper but also vigorous modifications—that
-is, new laws and customs which are
-rooted in new spiritual conditions of the people
-as a whole—is more necessary than that man grant
-women a share in legislation. Innumerable individual
-human vicissitudes must be experienced and
-repeated in new forms, entering finally into the
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_140'>140</span>universal consciousness, before such spiritual soil
-can be formed. The man became and remained
-the head of the family because all experiences and
-social factors once made this arrangement most
-advantageous for father, mother, and children.
-Woman will be able to realise her new ideas in regard
-to love-life and mother-right to the degree
-in which she demonstrates, not only in speech
-and writing but also in vigorous daily living, that
-these ideals surpass in vital effect those which
-now obtain.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>In the last half century, among the Germanic
-peoples, however, the family life has already undergone
-essential transformations, while the Romantic
-world still continues to exhibit features which in
-the first half of the 19th century were typical even
-among these peoples. Marriages are arranged by
-the father, divorce is considered either a sin or a
-shame, the paternal power is still absolute, the
-homogeneous relationship among all the members
-of the family—in joy and sorrow—is inviolable.
-The feeling of the son for the mother, bordering
-almost upon Madonna worship, and the passion
-of the father for their little children, must, however,
-always have been more characteristic of the
-Romance peoples than of the Germans.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Among the latter the attainment of individualism,
-first in the sphere of legislation, still more in
-that of customs, most of all in that of mode of
-thought and feeling, has altered the position of
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_141'>141</span>the individual in the family. While the family
-exhibited fifty years ago a tightly closed unity,
-in which women had only slight significance, now
-the wife as well as the husband, mother as well as
-father, daughter as well as son, assert their personality,
-not only <em>in</em> the family, but often even
-<em>against</em> the family. Wives draw the arguments
-for their self assertion most frequently from the
-principles of the woman movement.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Truly, in the course of the century, many married
-women have succeeded in finding expression
-for their significant universal human or feminine
-attributes in marriage, and thus have ennobled it.
-But the self-conscious effort to elevate the position
-of the wife began simultaneously with the
-demand that no human right could be denied to a
-woman upon the ground of her sex, whether within
-or without marriage.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Individualism has already made personal love,
-instead of family interest, decisive for the consummation
-of a marriage. In the name of her personality
-as of her work, woman desires with ever
-greater right full majority and legal equality with
-man in marriage. Against individualism, the
-doctrine of evolution now advocates certain
-limitations of the personal erotic freedom to consummate
-marriage, but advocates at the same time,
-contrary to the Christian sexual ethics, new freedom
-for the sake of the higher development of the
-race. Here comes into effect, the new conception
-of life by which the possibilities of development
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_142'>142</span>and of happiness in the earthly life have acquired
-a new value and force.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The ultimate heights of the modern conception
-of sex life are indicated by erotic idealism, which
-since “La Nouvelle Héloise” has by poets and
-dreamers been continually elevated, while world-renowned
-lovers showed the possibility of this
-wonderful love. In addition to all these influences
-of the spirit of the time upon the transformation
-of marriage, come the <em>indirect</em> effects of the woman
-movement. Thanks to the vibrations in which
-this movement has set the “spirit of the time,”
-many an ordinary man now accords to his wife
-that power and authority in the family which the
-law still denies her; yes, many commonplace
-people of both sexes now desire from their marriage
-things of which their equals fifty years ago did not
-even dream. If one adds also the decisive influences
-which the political-economic conditions
-of the present exercise upon the family life, one
-has found some of the threads which form the woof
-of the unalterable warp, a woof which makes the
-marriage of the present a variegated and unquiet
-fabric, whose pattern exhibits primeval oriental
-motives beside those in newest “modern style.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Here it is of the greatest importance to indicate
-the zigzag line which denotes the alternate repulsion
-and attraction that under the influence of
-the woman movement marriage has had for woman.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>First came the little crowd of “masculine women”
-with their hatred of marriage and man.
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_143'>143</span>Then the great working army that forgot, over
-the human rights of woman, that to these also
-must belong the right to fulfil her duty as a being
-of sex, and not alone the right to be “independent
-of marriage” through her work. Then came the
-reaction against this incompleteness. At this
-time, the nature of woman was called an “empty
-capsule,” which received its content only from man:
-a “cry of the blood,” which finds its answer in the
-child. There was no other “woman question”
-than the possibility of living erotically a complete
-life. One woman wished this in love without
-marriage, another in love without children, a third
-in children without marriage, a fourth in children
-without love—“A work and a child” was the life
-cry—a fifth woman wished the man only for the
-sake of the child, a sixth the child only for the sake
-of the man, and the seventh wished both only for
-her own sake!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The conviction of some women that the common
-erotic life of man and woman must have also a
-spiritual life value for two human souls, filling
-out and developing each other, was called “Ibsenism.”
-And after the ideal demands which Ibsen
-pressed upon the consciousness of the time, many
-men—and not a few women—found relaxation
-after their spiritual over-exertion, if they desired
-nothing more from one another than “the sound
-happiness of the senses.” Woman’s “personality,”
-“equality,” and “human right” were old playthings,
-relegated to the rubbish heap.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_144'>144</span>The reaction against this reaction is now in
-progress. Just now—and equally one-sided as
-will be shown later—woman’s universal humanity
-is emphasised at the expense of the instinct life;
-her social labour-duty, at the expense of the
-domestic life; her personality, at the expense of
-the family.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Among all these zigzag movements, more deeply
-thoughtful women continually sought to recall
-that neither the universal human nor the sexual
-being of woman must be over-developed at the
-expense of the other qualities of her being; that
-perfect humanity signifies for neither sex that the
-spiritual life has suppressed the sex life or sex,
-the soul-life, but that both find in a third higher
-condition their full redemption and harmony.
-Through great love, exceptional natures already
-create this condition; but what to-day only exceptional
-natures attain, culture can gradually
-make attainable for many.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>This great love demands fidelity. But often
-only one—ordinarily the woman—experiences this
-great feeling. And then not even the deepest
-devotion on her part suffices to preserve the community
-of life. To preserve the form for the purpose
-of guarding the inner emptiness, as was done
-earlier, is repugnant to the erotic consciousness
-of the modern woman. This is the deepest reason
-why the modern woman—even also the modern
-developed man—becomes continually more undecided
-about contracting marriage. They both
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_145'>145</span>know that the passion which attracts two beings
-is not synonymous with a sympathy which arises
-through the harmony of their natures, which must
-not be so complete that nothing remains of the
-unexpected and mysterious that is so essential
-an element of love. The modern woman asks
-herself, “What can prove to me that an erotic
-sympathy is profound, real, decreed by nature,
-life-long?” And she asks with good reason. If
-two lovers who know that they make each other
-happy with all the senses, constrained themselves,
-each in a corner of a room fettered to a stool,
-blindfolded, to entertain each other three hours
-daily for three months, this test would probably
-prevent a great number of marriages void of
-sympathy. But it would furnish no guaranty
-that those who consummated the marriage after
-such a concentrated soul interchange, would hold
-out. For souls which in a certain stage of development
-seem inexhaustible can be so transformed
-that they experience only satiety for each other.
-The young wife of to-day is deeply conscious of
-what a new problem for each newly married woman
-marriage is. She knows how impossible it is to
-foresee what difficulties will be encountered and
-whether good intentions and tactful adaptation
-will succeed in overcoming these difficulties. She
-knows that, even if the written law made her
-wholly equal to man, even if she made herself
-that equal by entering only into a marriage of
-the higher, newer conscience, yet all the inner,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_146'>146</span>most difficult, deepest problems still remain.
-This certainly induces many women to become
-only the beloved, the mistress, of the man who
-wishes no community of life, but only happy
-hours. Many more women still strike the possibilities
-of erotic happiness out of their plan of
-life, because they have not experienced the ideal
-love of which they dreamed, or else could not
-realise it.<a id='r3' /><a href='#f3' class='c013'><sup>[3]</sup></a></p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_147'>147</span>Sometimes their doubt, in regard to the duration
-of love and the unity of souls, decides them, another
-time the longing for a personal life-work is
-the reason for their determination—a life-work
-for which these women have suffered so keenly,
-been deprived of so much, and have so struggled,
-that it has become passionately dear to them, and
-they feel that a complete renunciation of the erotic
-life is easier than the torment of being “drawn and
-quartered,” as the death penalty of the Middle
-Ages was called—a quartering between profession,
-husband, home, and children. And the result
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_148'>148</span>usually demonstrates that celibacy is wiser than
-the compromise. It is most frequently the case,—in
-Europe at least,—if the work of the unmarried
-woman had no personal character, and if
-the home is not dependent upon the earnings of
-the wife, that she gives up her professional work
-after her marriage.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Against this sacrifice, however, the higher erotic
-idealism has begun to rebel and has, thereby, come
-into conflict with the conservative direction of
-feminism, which while planning to make the wife
-equal to the husband, adheres firmly to the present
-marriage as protection for wife and children.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>It is this point of view that is condemned by the
-new idealism. For it “protection” signifies, in its
-innermost meaning, that the man buys love and
-the woman sells it, which is considered “moral,”
-while it is considered immoral for a man to sell
-love and for a woman to buy it. The “protection”
-in this relationship has as result that
-the “virtue” of the maid is synonymous with
-untouched sexual nature, and that of the wife,
-with physical fidelity; while the “virtue” of the
-youth and the man is judged from an entirely
-different point of view.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The relationship affording “protection” has
-also brought with it the idea that a woman could
-not show her love as openly as a man, except when
-he was proud and poor and she was rich. Only
-when the duty of support on the part of the man
-ceases, will woman be able to demand the same
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_149'>149</span>chastity and fidelity from him as he demands
-from her; she will then be able, quite as proudly
-and naturally as he, to show the flowering of her
-being—her love—instead of as now increasing
-her demand in the marriage market by artful
-dissimulation. As long as maintenance, within
-or outside of marriage, is the price for “possession”
-of the woman, the man will consider the woman
-as “his,” and the more submissive she is the more
-fully she satisfies his feeling of ownership. Now
-marriage has become only an affair of custom, a
-common death or comatose condition, because
-neither party needs trouble himself to keep the
-love of the other. Only when woman, through her
-work, can lead an existence worthy of a human
-being, when no woman will sell her love but every
-woman can freely give it, will man experience
-what perfect womanly devotion is. And when no
-man can “possess” love but must remain worthy
-of love in order to be loved then only will women,
-on their side, experience what tenderness and fine
-feeling masculine devotion can attain.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>This, the purest and warmest erotic idealism,
-is the morality of the future. But the way to its
-realisation is not, as many women believe to-day,
-that mothers, even, should continue their work of
-earning a livelihood, but that way whose direction
-I have elsewhere pointed out.<a id='r4' /><a href='#f4' class='c013'><sup>[4]</sup></a></p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_150'>150</span>Here we have to do, however, only with the
-spiritual conditions which arise in the marriage of
-to-day, whether the wife has retained her work
-or has given it up.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>Even the cultivated modern man, who brings
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_151'>151</span>to the human personality of his wife admiration
-and sympathy, seeks in her always that “womanliness”
-to which Goethe has given the classic
-expression: the finely reserved, quiet, strong, self-contained
-woman, reposing harmoniously in the
-fulness of her own nature, a maternally lovely
-being, wholly “natural,” a “beautiful soul,”
-observing, creative, but using these gifts only to
-create a home. These creative offices the modern
-man who loves desires to assure, when he wishes
-to “maintain” his wife, and begs her to abandon
-the outside commercial work in which he foresees
-a danger to the beautiful life together of which
-both dream. The woman who along with her
-new self-conscious individuality and her profound
-culture has guarded the “old” devotion, understands
-ordinarily this desire of the man. She
-chooses, in spite of her idealism, as he wishes, in
-cases where her work has not been very personal.
-If she has worked in the same field as the man,
-then she converts her gifts into comprehension of
-him, into personal interest for all his interests;
-and these marriages in which the wife has enjoyed
-the same education as the man, but later has devoted
-herself entirely to the home, are, as a rule,
-the happiest marriages of the present time. But
-in the proportion in which her work was creative,
-is the difficulty of the choice. In the case where
-the productive power has the strength of genius,
-the modern man will scarcely utter such a wish and
-in those circumstances the modern woman will
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_152'>152</span>not grant it. And because the woman of genius
-is generally a complete human being, with strong
-erotic as well as universal human demands, she
-chooses often compromise. She finds in love,
-in motherhood, new revelations; and in the mysterious
-depths of her nature, the productive element
-of the maternal function has an elevating influence
-upon her gift of creative power. Thus the energy
-temporarily diminished by motherhood is restored.
-And her uneasy conscience, because she must entrust
-to others much of the care and education
-of the children, is appeased by the consciousness
-that she has often given to mankind richer natures,
-and so more significant children, than more devoted
-mothers, and that her own nature, because of the
-double creative activity, has attained a ripeness
-and richness which make her personality more
-significant for husband and children than if she
-had given up her calling to please them. These
-thoughts cannot, however, prevent the daily conflict
-between her feelings of love and the impossibility,
-in times of strong spiritual production,
-of giving expression to it. The very proximity
-of the children consumes at such times too much
-nervous energy. And since all creation requires
-selfishness—in the sense of concentration upon
-one’s <em>own needs</em> in order to be able to work creatively
-and to sink oneself in the work—while all
-love’s solicitude requires active <em>attention</em> to the
-<em>needs of the loved ones</em>, the conflict must remain
-permanent and <em>insoluble</em>.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_153'>153</span>In this conviction, many women of genius choose
-the lesser conflict: marriage without children.
-Such a relationship occurs not infrequently in
-our time in this way: a man of feeling through the
-work of a woman is first moved by her being.
-The man is in that case often the younger or the
-less developed. At first, marriage brings both a
-rich happiness. But later comes a time when the
-power of the personality of the woman of genius
-becomes too strong for the man; when he feels
-himself exhausted by all the sensitiveness and
-impatience which charge the air about a creative
-personality with electricity. He has now had
-enough of the rich spiritual exchange and longs
-for a woman who is only fresh richness, sunny
-quiet, easy docility; the now vanished “ingénue”
-would be the type of woman who most of all
-could entrance him.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In another case, it is the wife who becomes
-wearied, when the man can no longer keep pace
-with her development nor afford her new inspiration.
-The erotic life of the woman as well as of
-the man of genius exhibits two phases: in one
-they are attracted by their opposite, in the other
-by a congeniality of souls; in one phase they have
-sought sentiment, intimacy, nature; in the other,
-soul, passion, culture. The order changes in
-different cases, but the phenomenon repeats
-itself. What both consciously or unconsciously
-desire of love is not another individuality to love
-but only a means of inspiration.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_154'>154</span>Yet one thing may be emphasised: the richer
-the nature of a woman is and the greater her talents,
-the more life-determining love will be for her; at
-one time making her existence desolate, at another
-time making it fruitful. For the woman of genius
-is less able than the man to renounce her own fate.
-This the man is capable of doing, in the midst of
-passion, without his work suffering thereby in
-vigour and strength; the woman on the contrary—even
-the genius—loses more easily her creative
-impulse in happiness, her creative power in unhappiness.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In this connection it may be recalled that many
-of the most gifted, most highly developed woman
-personalities of to-day have produced nothing,
-but have been what a Frenchman has called “<span lang="fr" xml:lang="fr">les
-grandes inspiratrices</span>.” These have not, indeed,
-like the “Ladies” of the Middle Ages, been worshipped
-at a distance by knights and poets; but
-they have had an influence similar to that of
-Beatrice, through the power of communication
-of their rich personality in a relationship which
-had now the character of an “<span lang="fr" xml:lang="fr">amitié amoureuse</span>,”
-now that of a love imbued with sympathy, which
-in some cases, infrequently however, led to marriage.
-I need only mention the name Richard
-Wagner for the forms of two such women to appear,
-one of whom, who was his wife, surpassed
-in personal greatness all independently creative
-women of her time. But there have always been
-less unusual women who had significance as propagandists
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_155'>155</span>of the ideas of a great man through
-their specifically feminine gifts of convincing, of
-diffusing ideas, of modifying views, etc. If the
-future, because of the wife’s zeal for production
-on her own part, should lose this element of culture,
-it would be deplorable.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>One of the favourite arguments of the woman
-movement has been that two married people
-working in the same profession had the best opportunities
-for understanding each other and
-consequently also for being happy. And truly
-they can best talk shop with each other. But
-that is what the working man needs least of all
-in his home; there he seeks rather relaxation from
-his calling, or at least a quite disinterested, immediate
-sympathy with its annoyances or joys.
-When one of the married fellow-workmen needs
-exactly this sympathy, the other is perhaps busy
-or too tired to be capable of such lively interest
-as the other expects. Or one has experienced
-disappointments, the other joys, and then a real
-sympathy is still more difficult. To these crossings
-of mood is added also the unintentional, involuntary
-competition, which the similarity of
-vocation brings with it. The wife gains patients,
-the husband does not; his picture is praised, hers
-is pulled to pieces; she comes home from the
-theatre victorious, he after a defeat. During
-work, the criticism of one often disturbs the other;
-after the work, the criticism of the press disturbs
-the harmony of both. Love wishes to fuse them
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_156'>156</span>into one being, the outer world compels them
-always to feel themselves separate. In the beginning
-they think: “Nothing can come between
-us.” But if both do not possess a rare tenderness
-as well as rare fineness of soul, soon needles of ice
-fly through the air between them. Only when the
-wife, as is the case so often in France, puts her
-ability into her husband’s affairs does this common
-interest prevent rivalry.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Whether the province of the husband and wife
-is the same or not, difficulty always results from
-the wife’s commercial or professional work in that
-she rarely finds a good substitute for the domestic
-and maternal duties. And when the husband
-sees the house badly managed and the children
-ill-bred, he tries according to his strength to
-render assistance or, as more frequently happens,
-seeks his comfort outside the home. But even
-if these stumbling-blocks may be cleared away by
-other feminine hands, the fact still remains that
-the wife because of her work must demand sacrifices
-on the part of the man such as his work has
-required at all times from the wife. She is often
-compelled to forego much of the society of her
-husband, of his solicitude and tenderness because
-he has no available time. Now each of the married
-people has consideration for the leisure of the
-other and for all other severe conditions of the
-work. But beside these favourable results stands
-also the detrimental fact that each suppresses his
-claims upon the sympathy of the other, as well
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_157'>157</span>as the wish to express his own, whenever this
-receiving and giving would interfere with the
-work. If this has become for one or for both a
-real passion, then the passion blinds him to everything
-that does not concern the work, and causes
-alternately joy or suffering. Each of the married
-couple then disturbs the other by moods, and
-each needs to be cherished by the other. The
-tenderness which neither can give to the other,
-they find perhaps in a third.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But in those cases where the work is not passionately
-absorbing or where both husband and wife
-are persons of understanding, rather than of feeling,
-marriages of colleagues turn out well. Each has
-in the other an intelligent, appreciative friend;
-the common work together is rich, and neither
-gives nor requires more than the other is able to
-reciprocate. The education of the wife makes her
-a good organiser in the home, which is comfortable
-without the work’s suffering thereby. When
-this is not too strenuous for either, but after the
-close of a reasonable working time, the two meet
-spiritually free in the home, the duties of which
-they often share—then the domestic life is happy
-and the work progresses easily, as long as there
-are no children. When children arrive, then there
-begins for the wife, even in such marriages, a life
-beyond her strength.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But since nature, in the interest of the race,
-often makes opposites attractive to each other,
-one may find a husband, full of feeling, who loves
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_158'>158</span>children, united to a wife for whom science is the
-greatest value of life, while she relegates feeling
-to a lower plane and considers motherhood an
-animal function. In place of the tenderness and
-of the children for which the husband longed, he
-has to participate in the victories and defeats of
-a woman of science. Or we see a wife who dreamed
-of an intimate life with her husband and who
-sacrificed her work to it; but the life together
-was wrecked upon the husband’s artist concentration,
-and the wife had to suffer under a twofold
-emptiness: the lack of her work and the lack of
-happiness. Then one sees instances where the
-wife retained her work because it was economically
-necessary and because she hoped out of the richness
-of her young strength to be able to fulfil all
-duties. And all this she was able to do except
-one thing—to preserve under the excessive strain
-her beauty, her power of charm, the elasticity of
-her nature. Perhaps she belonged to the very
-highest among the new women who are so undivided,
-so proud, who think so highly of themselves,
-of man, of love, that they are beyond a wholly
-justified coquetry and rest blindly upon the uniting
-power of spiritual congeniality. But the day
-comes perhaps when these strong and, in all other
-respects, wise women have nothing other than
-freedom to give to the man whose senses, whose
-fancy, need that charm which the wife no longer
-possesses. In case, however, the man’s nature is
-not of those for whom the silken threads of daily
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_159'>159</span>domestic comfort form the strong band, but on
-the contrary is of the sort which needs renewal,
-then the very absence of the wife, occasioned temporarily
-by the work, can keep the relationship
-long fresh. This is upon the assumption that she
-understands what some of these women do not
-understand: to give, but in such a way that the
-man always longs for more; to remain sweetheart,
-not only friend; to be able to jest, not only to
-talk seriously. The modern wife of to-day,
-tested upon so many subjects, is often deeply
-mistaken in regard to the <em>kind</em> of “ministry” the
-man needs. The simple wisdom of their grandmothers
-consisted in this: to give much and to
-require nothing, always to subordinate themselves
-to the man with gentleness and humility, never
-to assert themselves before him as a free, self-determining
-personality. The wives of to-day,
-sacredly convinced of the right and freedom of
-women, succeed better in asserting their personality
-than in pleasing their husbands, and the
-quantity of their demands is often more noteworthy
-than the quality of their gifts. That many
-modern marriages turn out well shows that the
-adaptability of the modern husband is beginning
-to be even as great as that of the wife in former
-times!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The marriage is absolutely wrecked when the
-wife brings to it all the new demands of woman,
-but the husband all the primeval instincts of his
-sex. What in each sex relationship most intimately
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_160'>160</span>unites or most deeply sunders is and remains
-the erotic depth of nature in each. And the
-difference in this respect between the men and
-women of the present ever more widely separates
-them, and this division becomes fatal to innumerable
-individual lovers of to-day, as well as for the
-attitude of the sexes toward marriage in general.
-The erotically symmetrical woman views with
-hostility the dualism in the erotic nature of the
-modern man. This dualism evinces itself, with
-innumerable nuances it is true, in three typical
-ways: infinite erotic discussion, but inability to be
-stirred by it either with the soul or with the senses;
-ability to love only with the senses, not with the
-soul; and finally looking down upon the senses
-and desiring “spiritual love” only. For the
-modern completely developed woman the chattering
-vacuity, the animal instinct, the ascetic
-spirituality, are equally repellent. And yet it
-happens that the rosy mist of love can bring such
-a woman to a point where she creates for herself
-an illusion out of one of the above mentioned types.
-Most frequently this occurs in the case of the
-vigorous man who divines nothing of the spiritual
-content of the woman whose outer appearance
-has charmed him. The tragedy of the modern
-woman is then like that which Hebbel has revealed
-in <cite>Judith</cite>, that the sex being in her is attracted
-by the muscular masculinity, which her human
-personality hates as her mortal enemy. For as a
-personality she admires in man only the spiritual
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_161'>161</span>strength of the man. The man on his part regrets
-his mistake that he did not choose a pretty amiable
-girl “of the old sort,” who would punctually lay
-his table and willingly share his bed; a woman
-“into whose head Ibsen had put no fancies,” who
-“had not allowed herself to be talked into some
-folly by feminism.”</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>Among such “follies,” similar men, and many
-others as well, include the demand advanced by
-the woman movement for the married woman’s
-property right, as well as a specified income for
-the wife working in the home, who however has
-to contribute from her property or her “remuneration”
-as housekeeper to the common household—a
-corollary which is always forgotten by the
-anti-feminist writers who assert that “the man
-becomes a slave when he has to work for the whole,
-but the wife may retain everything of hers.”
-(<em>Strindberg.</em>)</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The modern woman who before her marriage
-was independent, owing to her work, abhors the
-thought of a request for money—this most painful
-moment even in the happiest marriages—to so
-great a degree that this aversion determines the
-wife in some cases to keep up her own work. If
-on the contrary she has given this up, the consciousness
-of her earlier independence makes her
-often so sensitive that she feels herself injured by
-a protest however delicate in regard to the expenditure
-of money. More than one man has
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_162'>162</span>regretted, in consequence of the unreasonable
-demands of his wife, that he ever begged her to
-give up her own work. There are women, on the
-other hand, who continue their work and thereby
-only increase the incapability of a good-for-nothing
-man. In such cases, it avails little that
-in many countries the law now allows the wife
-free disposal of the income from her labour. Notwithstanding
-this, the assertion is ridiculous that
-“if the man drinks up the money of his wife it
-is with her consent,” and “it is therefore of no
-avail to alter the law.” For it makes a significant
-difference in the relative position of the man and
-wife whether the law gives him the <em>right</em> to it, or
-whether he takes it by force. But in this as in
-other cases, the woman movement obviously
-cannot free women so long as they are impelled
-by unconscious forces from within to actions and
-sacrifices at variance with their conscious personality.
-The one thing which the woman movement
-has already achieved and can continue to achieve,
-is that the undue encroachment of the men ceases
-to have legal protection.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>It is undeniable, on the other hand, that the
-unmarried woman’s personal and economic independence
-fashions wives who in marriage show
-themselves in a high degree egotistic, but who yet
-incessantly scold about man’s egotism, wives who
-themselves exhibit very little devotion and fine
-feeling, but place very great importance upon
-consideration. These wives were the ones whom
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_163'>163</span>fifty years ago men called “graters.” But the
-lack of amiability, which in certain women was
-usually due to childbirth, has nevertheless in
-modern woman, at least during the freedom of her
-girlhood, been unrestrained habit. Her firm—and
-just—decision not to be “subservient” to
-her husband has resulted in, first, an armed peace,
-later, a war, in which the wife’s work is one of the
-projectiles. “I have my work, why should I stay
-here to be used up and tormented?” she asks
-herself. And when such questions begin, there
-is usually but one answer.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>There is one decided advantage in giving to the
-woman the opportunity to earn her living: she has
-again acquired thereby significance in the home,
-while the generation of women, who neither co-operated
-<em>productively</em> in the home nor assumed all
-the duties of the mother, were regarded by man
-with less respect than, on the one side, their
-grandmothers who <em>produced</em> all of the household
-requisites, on the other side, their now independent
-self-supporting granddaughters. Only when society
-<em>recompenses the vocation of mother</em>, can woman
-find in this a full equivalent for self-supporting
-labour.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Another typical group of our time is formed by
-the numerous women for whom no choice remains
-in regard to their work, since it is of a kind that
-they must give up because of the removal to another
-place, or more frequently because they
-find so much work in the new home that every
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_164'>164</span>thought of anything further outside must cease.
-Those who think that industry has made the work
-of the wife in the home to-day superfluous, speak
-only of the <em>great cities</em>, and usually only of <em>opulent
-families in the great cities</em>, where they are in a position
-to buy cheaper everything that the labour of
-the wife could produce. But in the country,
-among all classes, the mother must be the director
-of the work; and in all country homes in moderate
-circumstances—as in countless poor or not very
-well-to-do city families—the work of the mother is
-still frequently indispensable, and in addition is
-more economical than her earnings out of the
-house could be, especially since the developed
-modern woman is usually capable of a more
-rational housekeeping than the woman of earlier
-times.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But while the mothers of that time knew nothing
-except housework, those of to-day have often, as
-unmarried and self-supporting women, enjoyed a
-freedom of movement and opportunities of development
-which, now that they are over-burdened
-with household cares, they may seriously miss.
-The work of the mother is now still further increased
-by the difficulty of getting servants—at
-least capable ones—and also by the demands of
-luxury. The result of this again is that hospitality
-in the home decreases, that the watchword of the
-time, “the windows of the house wide open to
-the world, fresh air in the home, no creeping into
-the chimney corner,” is so interpreted that warmth
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_165'>165</span>and intimacy vanish. Yes, the overworked
-mother often herself insists that the family leave
-the house and seek some place of recreation for
-the annual festivals, which were once the children’s
-happiest and brightest recollections of home.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The fact that most modern women of culture
-devote themselves to some branch of social work,
-often to several, contributes still further to the
-over-exertion of the mother. Even when this
-occurs from pure altruism, the motive cannot
-prevent such altruism from becoming sometimes
-a disease of which one may die quite as surely
-as of other diseases. This death is quite as
-immoral as any other resulting from neglected
-hygiene. No one has the right to perish from
-altruism, except when destruction is the <em>condition</em>
-of his fulfilling his duty. But in many cases
-the occasion is the widely ramified social activity
-of the woman for whom the home now often falls
-short; not a result of altruism, but a manifestation
-of that desire for power which once
-was satisfied in the family. Or it may be a
-form of the hysteria characteristic of the present
-time. In the sixteenth century, the hysterical
-were burned as witches; now they “sacrifice”
-themselves to an activity which offers them in
-reality the variety, the intoxication of publicity—in
-a word, the life stimulus they need. But
-even sound, sincere, and conscientious women are
-driven by the woman movement and by social
-work to assume pseudo duties, for which the real
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_166'>166</span>duties are pushed aside. If instead of instituting
-official inquiries among wives and mothers as to
-what they can accomplish, one should direct the
-same questions to their husbands and children,
-these would, if they dared be honest, testify that
-<em>they</em> must pay the price for the altruistic activity.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Since the work of married women outside the
-home, the woman movement, and the social work
-began, one seldom finds a wholly sound, joyous,
-harmonious wife and mother. The constant
-complaint of the modern woman is that she
-“never has time.” The minority who live a
-life of luxury, wholly free from work, while the
-husband works feverishly to provide the luxury
-which neither will forego, telephone away a quarter
-of the day making appointments concerning the
-toilette, visits, and amusements, which take up
-the remaining three quarters of the day. And
-others, loaded down with household work or
-divided between this and work for their livelihood,
-how shall they find time!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Least of all have they the time necessary for
-the countless little tokens of tenderness which
-intensify all relationships between people. A
-French mother who became a widow and brought
-up her children by means of her own work received
-from her son, grown to a youth, the judgment:
-“Thou hast never loved us.” Too late, it became
-clear to her that “it requires time to love,” that
-it is not enough to feel love, and, looked at as a
-whole, to act with love—no, love must be expressed.
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_167'>167</span>And for this the harassed mother of
-to-day lacks time and quiet.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Formerly, it was only the husband and father
-who had no time; the wife and mother had it and
-could thus preserve the warmth of the home.
-But now?</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>There are now, it is true, many women with so
-few claims that they think they have fulfilled
-the fourfold task. In reality, they have fulfilled
-all their duties imperfectly, or eliminated one task
-for a time in order to be able to accomplish the
-others. <em>No woman has ever been at the same time
-all</em> that a wife can be to her husband, a mother to
-her children, a housewife to her house, a working
-woman to her work. In the last capacity the
-difficulty of the married woman is still further
-increased by the present competition, as also by
-the fact that the better a person works the more
-work falls to her, so that an exact and reasonable
-division of time between work and home is often
-rendered quite impossible.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In addition to all these difficulties arising
-through actualities, there are finally also those
-evoked by the “spirit of the time.” A wife has,
-for example, decided to give up a vocation which
-she saw was not compatible with her home. But
-she stills finds no rest. She is harassed by the
-demand of the “spirit of the time” that a married
-woman should be able to take care of the house
-as well as to accomplish outside personal work.
-The husband, also influenced by the “spirit of
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_168'>168</span>the time,” thinks the same or feels painfully the
-fact that his wife, for love of him, has sacrificed
-the exercise of a talent, in which he perhaps has
-felt a personal interest; the longing for the vocation
-awakens in her, and she resumes her work,
-with the result that, if she has energetically resisted
-the lassitude that comes with beginning motherhood,
-she and the child must suffer later. Or
-she lives in a permanent state of over-exertion
-which finally culminates in nervous conditions
-under which the whole family must share her
-suffering. Had she been able to follow in peace
-her instinct to strike deep root in the home soil
-and to enlarge and enrich her being by the annual
-growth of ring after ring of her production of love,
-then the essential values would have been increased
-for all. Now, she is led astray by a biased
-opinion of the time, which owes its effectiveness
-to the single fact that the opinionated resolutely
-turn their back upon all facts.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Thanks to these ideas of the time propagated
-by certain feminists, we see increasing numbers
-of women who perform their “social duty” as the
-telegraph poles perform their function; while
-such duty could have been fulfilled as the tree
-grows in a garden: blooming, fruit-bearing, joyful,
-joy-bringing.</p>
-
-<div class='chapter'>
- <span class='pageno' id='Page_169'>169</span>
- <h2 class='c006'>CHAPTER VII<br /> <span class='large'>THE INFLUENCE OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT UPON MOTHERHOOD</span></h2>
-</div>
-
-<p class='c007'>Because it has increased the culture of woman
-and her feeling of personal responsibility, the
-woman movement has had its influence, both
-directly and indirectly, upon the postponement
-of the legal and customary marriage age. Since
-young girls have exercised their brains as much
-as the boys have, they are no longer so far in
-advance of the boys in physical development.
-But when modern girls finish their studies they
-are physically as well as psychically more universally
-developed than their grandmothers were.
-They know much more of the difficulties and
-realities of life, not least of the sexual life. And
-this knowledge has instilled in them a reluctance
-to undertake too early the serious and difficult
-task of motherhood. They have greater need of
-truth and culture, and less tendency to erotic
-visionary dreaming than girls of their age in the
-middle of the previous century; their desire for
-work and their social feeling fix goals, and they
-work with all their might to attain them. And
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_170'>170</span>because, as already explained, both sexes have for
-each other a more many-sided attraction than the
-merely erotic, young people are more careful, more
-choice, in their erotic decisions. The finest young
-girls of to-day are penetrated by the Nietzschean
-idea, that marriage is the combined will of two
-people to create a new being greater than themselves.
-But their joy does <em>not</em> consist in the fact
-“that the man wills”; they are themselves “will,”
-and above all they have the will to choose the right
-father for their children, not only for their own
-sake but for the sake of the children.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>If it be true that immediate, “blind,” erotic
-attraction is most instinctively correct in choice,
-then the present comrade life of young people and
-the increased clear-sightedness which it gives, as
-well as the increasing erotic idealism of young
-girls, are not unconditionally advantageous to the
-new race. The question is, however, still undecided.
-Here it may only be emphasised that the young
-girl of to-day, in spite of all intellectual development,
-is still won always by powerful spiritual-sensual
-love, which the woman movement has too
-long considered as a negligible quantity. Under
-the influence of the doctrine of evolution, young
-girls begin to understand that their value as members
-of society depends essentially upon their value
-for the propagation of mankind; all the more they
-realise the duty of physical culture which will
-enable them to fulfil this function better; they no
-longer consider their erotic longing as impure and
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_171'>171</span>ugly but as pure and beautiful. It is out of this
-soul condition that the different movements for
-the protection of mothers and children, theoretically
-considered, have proceeded. These are
-at present the most important “woman movements,”
-although unrecognised by the older woman
-movement. And this older movement has not yet
-recognised the fact that, because of present marriage
-conditions, the degenerate, uneducated, decrepit,
-have greater opportunity for propagating
-the race, both within and outside of marriage, than
-the young, sound, pure-minded, and loving; that
-it can therefore <em>be no sin</em>, from the point of view of
-the race, if the latter become parents without
-marriage, nor should it be a subject of shame from
-the social point of view. All women’s rights have
-little value, until this one thing is attained: that
-a woman who through her illegitimate motherhood
-has lost nothing of her personal worth, but on the
-contrary has proved it, does not forfeit social
-esteem.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Our time can point to women who have been
-typical of the reform tendencies of the century
-in this respect. Some of these women, if they
-really accomplished the unprecedented task of “a
-child and a work,” have drawn their strength
-for the task out of precisely the commonplace,
-homely qualities and sterling virtues, contrary
-to which they believed they were acting when
-they became mothers, driven by a power greater
-than their <em>conscious</em> personality. Others again
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_172'>172</span>became mothers with the consent of their whole
-personality. They were clear that they thus
-made use of the masculine rights and freedom
-which feminism first brought home to women.
-And although many advocates of women’s rights
-refrain from such consequences of their ideas, the
-women who in other respects determine their
-conduct of life by their own free personal choice
-recognise that this, their <em>real</em> “emancipation,” is
-a fruit of the woman movement.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In Europe, however, most women under thirty
-still dare to dream of motherhood in a love marriage
-as the greatest happiness and the highest
-duty of life.<a id='r5' /><a href='#f5' class='c013'><sup>[5]</sup></a></p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But, as direct and indirect result of the woman
-movement, the fact none the less remains that
-there is found <em>among women an increasing disinclination
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_173'>173</span>for maternity</em>, a reluctance which deprives
-mankind of many superior mothers, while
-at the same time woman’s commercial work for
-self-support in all classes increases her sterility or
-makes her incapable of the suckling so vitally
-important for the children.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>That the modern woman, because of individual
-fate or her own choice, often remains unmarried is
-no danger in and for itself. This fact, as I have
-emphasised above, is connected with a number of
-cultural and material conditions, which sometime
-will be altered, and then woman’s desire for marriage
-will again increase. The real danger has appeared
-only since women have begun to strengthen
-the tendency to celibacy by the amaternal theory,
-which now confuses the feminine brain and leads
-the feminine instinct astray.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The woman movement in and with this influence
-upon maternity sinks to the lowest point of the
-scale according to the criterion of worth employed
-here: the elevation of the life of the individual and
-of the race. In this we stand in our time before
-a twofold mystery, which lies in the circumstance
-that not only women—women “with breasts made
-right to suckle babes”—emphasise this stultifying
-influence, but that there are men, each the son
-of a mother, who also propagate it. These men
-have allowed themselves to be blinded by the false
-logic concerning women, which declares that since
-rich mothers do not wish to fulfil the duties of a
-mother and the poor cannot fulfil them, superior
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_174'>174</span>social organisations must be created for that purpose;
-in other words, instigated by a mere temporary
-unpleasant discrepancy, we will create a
-new, a different order of things. But, if this
-obtained universally, it would inflict incomparably
-greater injury upon mankind than do present
-unhappy conditions.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Upon the whole, however, it is precisely as a
-result of this tendency that the deepest hostility
-of men against feminism has developed. The fact
-that the idea of evolution is now beginning to enter
-into the flesh and blood of man also contributes
-its share to this feeling. Just as formerly a man
-wished heirs for his personal and real estate and
-for his name, he now desires inheritors of his
-being; he desires an eternal life, which becomes a
-certainty only by means of parenthood, whereby
-the individual as father or mother lives on physically
-and spiritually, in body and soul, in his children
-and grandchildren down to the last of his
-descendants. This conception has made the sex
-instinct again holy, as it was for the pagans. This
-new reverence for their duty as beings of sex now
-induces many young men to guard their sexual
-health and strength by an asceticism the motive of
-which is the exact opposite of that which determined
-the asceticism called forth by Christianity,
-the asceticism which was fear of the sex instinct
-as impure and as a temptation to sin. Now the
-innermost aim of young men’s creative desire is
-the higher development of mankind. Love becomes
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_175'>175</span>for them the condition by which they can
-most perfectly redeem their religious certainty of
-being part of a great design, their religious longing
-for harmony with life’s creative desire, with the
-infinite.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>There are now men who work most zealously
-for the ennoblement of the race—“eugenics,” as
-this effort is called in England—as well as for the
-protection of mother and child—“puericulture,”
-as this endeavour is called in France. There are
-men who write excellent works upon the psychology
-of the child, and upon sexual instruction; men,
-who, in art and poetry, give expression to the
-new veneration for the sanctity of generation, for
-motherhood, for the child. The finest thing written
-about the child as a cultural power is written
-by an American.<a id='r6' /><a href='#f6' class='c013'><sup>[6]</sup></a> Painting has now new devotional
-pictures of the Mother with her Child,
-especially those conceived by a Frenchman and an
-Italian.<a id='r7' /><a href='#f7' class='c013'><sup>[7]</sup></a> The most beautiful representation of
-youth’s new desire for love is by a German sculptor.<a id='r8' /><a href='#f8' class='c013'><sup>[8]</sup></a>
-Likewise a German, Nietzsche, has the
-most profound conception of parenthood and
-education as the means whereby humanity will
-cross over the bridge of the men of to-day to the
-superman.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Only when all this is realised can one conceive
-what the feelings of these new men must be when
-they meet those new women “who are no longer
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_176'>176</span>willing to be slaves of the instinct for the propagation
-of the race;” who see in motherhood “a loss
-of time from their work;” “an attack upon their
-beauty;” an obstacle to the refined conduct of
-life;—a conduct of life certain to debase woman’s
-worth as a child-bearing being, but to elevate her
-to that exquisite, perfect product of culture, a
-“woman of the world;” an obstacle also for
-woman as creator of other objective cultural
-values. If a man with a father’s desires finds
-himself united with such a woman, he finds himself
-in marriage quite as much a prostitute as
-innumerable wives have felt themselves to be
-when they were mere tools of a man’s desire. On
-the contrary the desire for the elevation of mankind
-on the part of the new woman and the new
-man, is evinced in the idea that not the quantity
-but the quality of the children they give to humanity
-is most significant; that a land of fewer but
-more perfect men is a higher culture ideal than the
-principle still always maintained from the point of
-view of national competition, that the inhabitants
-of a country must only be numerous however
-inferior they may be.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>To this wholly new evolutionary conception of
-life the amaternal women oppose the following
-train of thought which greatly influences the feeling
-and desire of women to-day<a id='r9' /><a href='#f9' class='c013'><sup>[9]</sup></a>:</p>
-
-<p class='c005'><span class='pageno' id='Page_177'>177</span>Culture now sets new duties for woman, more
-significant than exclusively natural ones. The
-more the individual life increases in value, the
-more the interest for the mere functions of sex
-declines, and with it also the value of woman <em>as
-woman</em> for a society where, because of motherhood,
-she has become a being of secondary rank. It
-evinces lack of ideality if one censures this tendency
-of the modern woman to renounce maternity
-for the sake of more spiritual interests. While
-the mother concentrates herself upon her own
-child only, the woman who renounces motherhood
-can extend her being to embrace children as
-children in general. As a mother, woman is only
-a being of nature. But the personality, with its
-multiplicity of feelings and endeavours, demands
-an independent activity as well as maternity.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>To put her entire personality into the education
-of her children is a twofold error. First and foremost,
-most mothers are <em>bad</em> educators and serve
-their children better if they entrust them to a born
-teacher; in the second place, <em>gifted</em> children educate
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_178'>178</span>themselves best and should be spared all educational
-arts. The mediocre child, who is more susceptible
-to education, has ordinarily also only
-mediocre parents, who likewise benefit the children
-most if they put them in the care of excellent
-teachers. Children who are <em>below</em> mediocrity can
-also be best educated by specialists. So there
-remains for the mother, after the first years’ care
-and training, no especial task as educator, at least
-none in which she can really put her personality.
-To talk to a mother about the possibilities of a
-richer office of mother, as educator of her children,
-she calls lulling her into an illusion under which
-she must labour only to suffer. A woman who can
-exercise her personality in another way should
-not therefore put it into the education of her
-children.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The amaternal advocates deny that motherliness
-is the criterion of womanliness; they find this
-criterion in the form, the external being of woman,
-in her manner and physical appearance—in a word,
-in the <em>outer</em> expression of the inner disposition,
-which they deny as typical of womanliness!
-“Womanliness” is thus reduced to an “æsthetic
-principle,” while woman’s spiritual attributes are
-considered as “universally human”; and the right
-is granted to the feminine sex to emancipate herself
-from the result of the heresy that <em>motherliness</em>
-should be the ethical norm for the “being” or
-“essence” of womanhood. The suitability of
-woman’s <em>psychic</em> constitution for her work as
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_179'>179</span>mother is not acknowledged as proof that motherliness
-is the distinguishing characteristic of womanliness.
-For this constitution is less conspicuous
-in the higher stages of differentiation. Its suitability
-was then a phenomenon of adaptation and
-changed with the conditions of life. Thus this
-constitution cannot be cited as a reason for limiting
-woman’s personal exercise of her powers.
-Motherliness is no social instinct. How can
-motherliness, which we have in common with
-beasts and savages, be considered as higher than,
-for example, justice, truth, and other gradually
-won spiritual values, which woman can promote
-by her personal activity? The higher the forms
-of life woman attains, the less will her personality
-be determined by motherliness. Why then should
-women bring to the domestic life the sacrifice of
-their personality, while no one demands this of
-men? Why shall not woman, just as man, satisfy
-her demands as a sex being in marriage and, as for
-the rest, follow her profession, attend to her
-spiritual development, her social tasks? Why condemn
-woman to remain a half-being—that is, with
-unexercised brain—only because certain of her
-instincts attract her to man, while he is not constrained
-to suppress his personality because he
-in like manner felt himself attracted to woman?
-It is the old superstition of the family life as
-“woman’s sphere,” which still confuses the conception.
-By the present form of family life
-woman is “oversexed.” Her higher development,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_180'>180</span>as well as that of her husband and children, will
-be promoted if woman guards her independence
-by earning her own living, in commercial work
-conducted beyond the portal of the home; if
-housekeeping becomes co-operative; if the education
-of the children is carried on outside the home,
-in which now the motherly tenderness emasculates
-the children and fosters in them family sentiment
-of an egoistic nature and not social feelings. Thus
-are solved the difficulties which are entailed when
-the wife’s work is carried on outside the home;
-equipoise between her intellectual and emotional,
-her sexual and social nature follows, and her worth,
-as that of a man, will be measured by her human
-personality, not by her womanliness, her efficacy
-in the family, for the exercise of which she is now
-constrained to renounce her personality.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>So runs in brief the programme of the amaternals.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>It has already been indicated that the woman
-movement, in its <em>inception</em>, could gather strength
-only by combating with all its power the prejudice
-that <em>woman is incapable of the same kind of activity
-as man</em>. But now the whole woman movement
-has for a long time been emphasising the fact that
-woman is entitled, not only on her own behalf but
-more especially in her capacity as home-keeper,
-wife, and mother, to the full development of her
-powers and to equality with man in the family and
-in society. In the amaternal programme sketched
-above, however, the fanaticism, which characterised
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_181'>181</span>the entire woman movement a generation ago,
-now evinces itself in the error that <em>equal rights</em> for
-the sexes must mean also <em>equal functions</em>; that the
-development of women’s powers involves also their
-application in the same spheres of activity in
-which man is engaged; that <em>equality</em> of the sexes
-implies <em>sameness</em> of the sexes. While moderate
-feminism begins to see that, if man and wife compete,
-this rivalry can benefit<a id='r10' /><a href='#f10' class='c013'><sup>[10]</sup></a> neither the woman,
-the man, nor the children, amaternal feminism
-urges the keenest competition. And if this is
-once accepted as advantageous to woman’s personality
-and to society, then it is obvious that she
-must, with all the energy of the attacked, defend
-herself from the duties of maternity, because of
-which she would obviously come off second-best
-in the competition.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>From the point of view of individualism it is
-obvious that the <em>law</em> must set no limitations to
-woman’s practice of a vocation, unless evident
-hygienic dangers menace either her or the coming
-generation. Women must, for their own sake as
-well as for that of society, have free <em>choice of work</em>,
-for life and nature possess innumerable unforeseen
-possibilities. Nevertheless, it does happen that
-a woman who gives superior children to humanity
-may, nevertheless, feel herself incapable of educating
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_182'>182</span>them; likewise it sometimes happens that a
-husband and wife who have exceptional children,
-cannot endure to live together. In neither case
-has law or custom a right to force upon a mother
-or a father a yoke that is intolerable or to demand
-of a mother or a father unreasonable sacrifices.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But the right to limit the choice of work, the
-law does not possess; nature assumes that right
-herself: first of all from the axiom that no one can
-be in two places at the same time, and in the second
-place because no one can respond simultaneously
-and with full energy to two different spiritual
-activities. One cannot, for example, count even
-to one hundred and at a certain number give a
-simple grasp of the hand without suspending the
-counting momentarily. Although no one has
-ever been denied the privilege of solving a mathematical
-problem and of following carefully at the
-same time a piece of music, yet it is certain that
-the effectiveness of both intellectual activities
-would be thereby diminished. These extremely
-simple observations can be continued until the
-most complex are reached. If the observation be
-directed to the sphere of domestic life, every wife
-and mother who <em>is willing to institute impartial
-observations of self</em>, will affirm the difficulty of
-working with a divided mind.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>If a mother carries on her work at home and
-must put it away in order to be beside the sick-bed
-of her child, or to make those arrangements which
-assure domestic comfort, or to help her husband,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_183'>183</span>then she feels that her book or her picture suffers,
-that the activity which binds her more intimately
-to the home relaxes for a time the intimacy of her
-connection with her work. One can by day carry
-on a dull industrial task, and by night produce an
-achievement of the soul; but one cannot let one’s
-soul radiate in one direction without impairing
-its energy in another. A work needs exclusive
-devotion. And this is, viewed externally, difficult
-to attain in joint action; viewed from within, it
-requires a renunciation that in the case of a loving
-soul evokes a continual inner struggle. For that
-reason, also, literature with woman as its subject
-has for some decades been filled with the great
-conflict of modern woman’s life: the conflict between
-vocation and parents, between vocation
-and husband, between vocation and child. Certainly
-the family has often been a torture chamber
-for individuality, as a consequence of laws and
-customs, which the future will regard as we now
-do the rack and the thumbscrew. But nature is
-more severe than law and custom when she confronts
-us with a choice which, however it may
-turn out, tears a piece from our heart.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>And now neither custom nor man demands of
-woman the “sacrifice of the personality.” This
-sacrifice is required only by the law of limitations
-which rules over us all.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The creative man or the man working objectively
-must often condemn the emotional side of his personality
-to a partial development; he must for the
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_184'>184</span>sake of his work renounce many family values important
-for this emotional side of his being. Even
-if shorter working hours could partially diminish
-this cultural offering, the <em>inner</em> conflict, for the
-man or the woman, is not settled thereby.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Even if a man, in the consciousness of his wife’s
-endowment of talent, assumed a number of domestic
-duties, especially those pertaining to the
-children, the inner conflict would still continue.
-And this conflict is in no way solved by the amaternal
-theory that the personal life must be placed
-above the instinct life. For, as has been emphasised,
-the choice is not between the personal and the
-instinct life, but between the intellectual and
-the emotional side of woman’s personality. And
-the solution of this choice has not been discovered
-by the amaternals, who would combine commercial
-work with marriage and maternity. Women who
-remain unmarried or who give up commercial activity
-which they cannot carry on in the home,
-have not <em>settled the conflict</em> either, but have only
-reduced its difficulties.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The fundamental error of the amaternal solution
-of the problem is that it characterises motherliness
-as a <em>non-social</em> instinct, but, on the other hand,
-defines the “personal” activity of woman as an
-expression of the social instinct. <em>For all social
-instincts have been developed by culture out of
-primitive instincts.</em> All cultural development lies
-between the sex impulse of the Australian negress
-and the erotic sentiment of Elizabeth Barrett
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_185'>185</span>Browning’s sonnets. And when the amaternals
-assert that motherliness, which “we have in common
-with beasts and savages,” cannot be an
-expression of the personality, their argument has
-the same validity as that which would deny to the
-Sistine Chapel the quality of an expression of
-personality because beasts and savages also exhibit
-the decorative instinct.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The development of the mother instinct into
-motherliness is one of the greatest achievements
-in the progress of culture, a development by which
-the maternal functions have continually become
-more complex and differentiated. Already in the
-case of the higher animals maternity involves much
-more than the mere act of giving birth; an animal
-not only faces death for her young, she gives them
-also a training which often indicates power of
-judgment. A cat, for instance, which sought in
-vain to prevent her kitten from entering the water
-and which finally threw the kitten in and then
-pulled it out, thus obtaining the desired result of
-her pedagogy, had not, as have so many modern
-mothers, read Spencer, but could, nevertheless,
-put many of these mothers to shame. Even the
-initial maternal functions, nursing and physical
-care, involve a culture of the spiritual life of the
-mother, not only through an increase in tenderness,
-but also in observation, discrimination, judgment,
-self-control; a woman’s character often develops
-more in a month during which she is occupied with
-the care of children, than in years of professional
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_186'>186</span>work. Mother love and the reciprocal love which
-it awakens in the child, not only exercise the first
-deep influence upon the individual’s life of feeling,
-but this love is <em>the first form of the law of mutual
-help—it is the root of altruism, the cotyledon</em> of a now
-widely ramified tree of “social instincts.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Although woman through the mere <em>physical</em>
-functions of motherhood makes a great social
-contribution, the importance of her contribution
-is greatly enhanced if one also takes into consideration
-her <em>spiritual</em> nature. And notwithstanding
-the fact that fatherhood has also, to a certain
-degree, developed in man the qualities of tenderness,
-watchfulness, patience, yet the enormous
-predominance of woman’s <em>physical</em> share in parenthood,
-in comparison with man’s, is in itself enough
-to create, in course of time, the intimate connection
-which still exists to-day between mother
-and child, as well as the difference between the
-personality of woman and man. The physical
-functions of motherhood were the fundamental
-reasons for the earliest division of labour. And
-this division of labour, the aim of which, next to
-self-preservation, was for both sexes the protection
-of posterity, augmented and strengthened the
-qualities which each sex employed for its special
-functions. All human qualities lie latent in each.
-But they have been so specialised by this division
-of labour, or, on the other hand, suppressed by it,
-that they now appear in varying proportions: in
-woman, a careful, managing, supervising, lifeguarding,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_187'>187</span>inward-directed sense of love; in man,
-courage, desire for action, force of will, power of
-thought, an activity subduing nature and life,
-became the distinguishing characteristics; and
-fatherhood became psychologically, as it is physiologically,
-something different from motherhood.
-Even if culture continues to efface the sharp lines
-of demarcation, so that it becomes more and more
-impossible to generalise about “woman” and
-“man,” and increasingly more necessary for each
-and every woman to solve the “woman question”
-individually, yet from the point of view of the race,
-the <em>division of labour must on the whole remain the
-same as that which hitherto existed</em>, if the higher
-development of mankind shall continue in uninterrupted
-advance to more perfect forms. It is
-necessary for <em>these higher ends of culture</em> that woman
-<em>in an ever more perfect manner shall fulfil what has
-hitherto been her most exalted task</em>: the bearing and
-rearing of the new generation.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The amaternal assertion, that motherliness can
-be no higher than justice and truth, is an infuriating
-antithesis. It is as if one should assert that “air
-is better than water, or both better than bread.”
-Both assertions place the fundamental condition
-of life counter to other needs of life! Who shall
-exercise justice and truth when no new men are
-born? And, moreover, how shall justice and truth
-increase in mankind if children are not trained to
-a greater reverence for justice and a deeper love
-of truth? In order to fulfil this one office <em>of
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_188'>188</span>education</em> well, mothers need their <em>universal human
-culture in its entirety</em>. But even if this were not
-so, if motherhood did not require the concentration
-of woman’s personality; even if motherliness
-remained only “primitive instinct,” yet this
-instinct, in the women who have guarded it, is
-more valuable for mankind than the universal
-human development of power of the women who
-have lost this instinct. No social nor individual
-activity of women could compensate for the extinction
-of this “instinct,” which only recently in
-Messina drove hundreds of mothers to shield their
-children with their own bodies; this “instinct,”
-which recently impelled a mother, who learned
-before she gave birth to her child that her own
-life must be the price for the saving of that of the
-child, to cry: “I have lived, but the life of my
-child belongs now to mankind—save the child!”
-So the mother died without even having seen the
-beautiful being for whom she gave her life. In
-the world of “personally” developed women,
-however, after a new Messina catastrophe the
-mothers would be found with their manuscripts
-and their pictures in their arms. And confronted
-with a choice like that related above, the mother
-would answer: “Let the child die, I will live my
-personal life to the end.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The amaternal type must persist for the present.
-There are in reality in our time many women who
-with unresponsive eyes can pass by a lovely child,
-among them even mothers who do not feel the
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_189'>189</span>pure sensuousness, the wise madness, the intoxicating
-delight which such a child awakens in every
-motherly woman; mothers who have no conception
-what a fascinating subject for study the soul of a
-child can offer. Jean Paul, who scourged worthless
-mothers and tried to awaken the repressed
-maternal instinct of his time with the charge that
-a woman who is bored when she has children, is a
-contemptible creature, would find to-day many
-mothers who are bored only if they have their
-children about them.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>And these cerebral, amaternal women must
-obviously be accorded the freedom of finding the
-domestic life, with its limited but intensive exercise
-of power meagre, beside the feeling of power which
-they enjoy as public personalities, as consummate
-women of the world, as talented professionals.
-But they have not the right to <em>falsify life values</em>
-in their own favour so that they themselves shall
-represent the highest form of life, the “human
-personality” in comparison with which the “instinctively
-feminine” signifies a lower stage of
-development, a poorer type of life.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Women who have produced books and works
-of art, to be compared, as respects permanence of
-value, to confetti at a carnival, have, according
-to this viewpoint, proved themselves human
-individualities, while a mother who has contributed
-an endless amount of clear thought, rich
-understanding, warm feeling, and strong will to
-the education of a fine group of children, requires
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_190'>190</span>a public office in order to prove herself a “human
-personality”! The brain work which a woman
-employs in a commercial concern bears witness
-to her individuality, but the brain work which a
-large, well-managed household demands, does not.
-The woman physician who delivers a mother
-expresses her “personality,” but the mother has
-put no “personality” into the feelings with which
-she has borne the child, the dreams with which she
-has consecrated it, the ideas in accordance with
-which she has educated it! The girl who has
-passed her examinations has proved herself a
-developed human being; but her grandmother,
-who is now filled with the kindness and wisdom
-which she has won in a life dedicated to domestic
-duties, a life in which the restricted sphere of her
-duties did not prevent the comprehensiveness of
-her cultural interests, nor her all-embracing sympathy
-with humanity—such a woman is not a
-personality!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>When men advance as an argument against
-women’s rights the fear that women will lose their
-womanliness in public life, the older feminists
-answer that womanliness, especially motherliness,
-is rooted too firmly in nature to make it possible
-for this danger to exist. Nothing has, however,
-become more clear in this amaternalistic time than
-that motherliness is <em>not</em> an indestructible instinct.
-Just as our time produces in increasing numbers
-sterile women and women incapable of nursing
-their children, so it produces more and more
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_191'>191</span>psychically amaternal women. We can pass in
-silence the cases of children martyred in families
-or in children’s homes, for sexual perversity and
-religious fanaticism often play a rôle in such
-connections; we can also pass by the millions of
-mothers who bring about the abortion of their
-offspring, for the poor are driven to such practices
-largely by necessity, the rich mostly by love of
-pleasure. There still remain a sufficient number
-of women in whom the mother instinct has faded
-away because of a course of thought like that just
-described. Our time furnishes manifold proofs
-of the fact that the mother instinct can easily be
-weakened, or even entirely disappear, although
-the erotic impulse continues to live; that motherliness
-is not a spontaneous natural instinct, but
-the product of thousands of years not merely of
-<em>child-bearing</em>, but also of <em>child-rearing</em>; and that it
-must be strengthened in each new generation by
-the personal care which mothers bestow upon their
-children. A woman learns to love the strange
-child whom she nurses as if it were her own; a
-father who can devote himself to the care of his
-little children is possessed by an almost “motherly
-tenderness” for them, as are also older brothers
-and sisters for the little ones whom they care for.
-But while those who advocate the cause of the
-amaternal women draw from such facts the conclusion
-that motherliness cannot be used as a
-criterion of womanliness, yet an entirely different
-conclusion forces itself upon everyone who sees
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_192'>192</span>in the united uplift of the individual and of mankind
-the criterion of the life-enhancing effect of
-the woman movement, the conclusion that the
-amaternal soul not only confirms the worst apprehensions
-of men in regard to the results of the
-woman movement, but also constitutes the greatest
-danger to the woman movement itself. For the
-amaternal ideas will evoke a violent reaction <em>on the
-part of men</em>, in case such a reaction does not appear
-at an early stage on the part of women.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>This latter reaction might also include a rebellion
-against the methods of industrial production,
-which exhaust the strength of mothers and children.
-For the objection of industrialism, that “it cannot
-exist without women,” falls to the ground in face
-of the fact that a race cannot exist without sound
-and moral mothers. And “moral” means, here,
-mothers capable and willing to bear sound children
-and to train children along moral lines. If, on
-the contrary, Europe and America adhere to the
-economic and ethical principles which prevent a
-number of able and willing women of this type from
-becoming mothers, and if numbers of other women
-who could be mothers continue unwilling to assume
-the burden of motherhood, then this problem
-will finally become the problem of <em>a future for the
-European-American people</em>.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The woman movement must now with resolute
-determination abandon the narrow, biased attitude,
-psychologically natural a generation ago when
-the zealots of feminism had no other standard of
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_193'>193</span>value for an idea, an investigation, or a book, than
-whether they <em>advanced or did not advance</em> the cause
-of woman; whether they <em>proved or did not prove</em>
-woman’s equality with man. For woman’s work,
-studies, and other accomplishments, no other
-standard was applied than that of equality with
-man’s work, man’s studies, and the accomplishments
-of man. In a word, the proposition was
-that woman should be enabled to perform at the
-same time the life-work of a woman and of a man!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>It is through these hybrids that the feminine sex
-transgresses against the masculine. And this is
-one reason why our time is so filled with the tragic
-vicissitudes of women. Truly, every progressive
-person must agree with Goethe’s aphorism, “I
-love him whom the impossible lures.” For, thus
-allured, man has elevated his particular generation
-above the generation preceding. But <em>in action</em>
-every one must go down who is not imbued with
-the consciousness that whoever exceeds his limits
-is liable to tragic consequences, in the modern
-psychological view of the guilt attaching to one
-who undertakes more than his strength will
-allow.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>But our time exhibits also other less convulsively
-strained conditions of the feminine soul and therefore
-also brighter fates for woman. It shows not
-infrequently wives united with their husbands,
-not only by the sympathy which the human personality
-of each inspires, but also by the erotic
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_194'>194</span>attraction which the sex character of each exercises.
-And they have both won thereby that unity
-through which all the best and highest powers of
-their being are liberated and elevated as by
-religion. And their parenthood will then be the
-highest expression of this religion.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Only religious natures are—in the deepest
-meaning of the word—loving or faithful or creative.
-It is the same soul which in one person
-reveals itself in ecstasy of belief, in a second
-in ardour of creation, in a third in a great erotic
-passion, in the fourth as parental love, in others
-again as love of country, as enthusiasm for freedom,
-desire for reform. At times one and the same soul,
-a woman’s or a man’s, is kindled by all these
-passions. But never has the same soul been able
-<em>at the same time</em> to feed all these passions in their
-highest potency. Whether it be God, a work, or
-a human being that the soul embraces with its
-entire devotion, the religious character of this
-devotion always evinces itself in increasing longing,
-an endless susceptibility, a more persistent search
-after means of expression, a continual service, an
-inexhaustible patience in waiting for reciprocal
-activity from the object of love. The religious
-strength of a feeling consists in this, that the soul
-in every work, every sorrow, every joy,—in a word,
-in every spiritual condition, every experience,—is,
-consciously as well as unconsciously, more closely
-united with God, with the work, with the beloved,
-until every finest fibre of one’s being reaches down
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_195'>195</span>to the profound depths which the object of love
-represents for the lover.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In this necessary condition of concentration of
-the spiritual life is found the truth of woman’s
-complaint that the man, absorbed by his work,
-“no longer loves her”; the truth of the experience
-that earthly love indisputably detracts from the
-love of God; the truth of the frequent experience
-of husband and wife that with children the wealth
-of their spiritual life together is in certain respects
-inevitably diminished; the truth of man’s fear
-that woman’s absorption in a life-work personally
-dear to her must to a certain degree detract from
-her devotion to the home; the truth of the experience
-that the office of mother often interferes with
-the development of woman’s intellectual power.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Only persons who distinguish themselves by
-what Heine called “exuberance of mental poverty,”
-or what I might call analogously an “abyss of
-superficiality,” have not experienced the severe
-and beautiful psychic truth of Jesus’ glorification
-of <em>simplicity</em>. The quiet harkening to the voice of
-God or to the inspiration of work or to the delicate
-vibrations of another soul, which daily, hourly,
-momentarily, are the conditions that enable the
-soul to live wholly in its belief, its work, its love,
-so that these feelings may grow stronger and the
-soul grow greater through these feelings—all this
-has “simplicity” as a condition; in a word, symmetrical
-unity, longing for completeness, inner
-poise, the swift emotion. Fidelity—to a belief,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_196'>196</span>a work, a love—is no product of duty. It is a
-process of growth.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>These are the conditions to which many modern
-women, womanly at heart but divided, restless,
-groping, attempting much, will not submit. They
-could even learn to reverence these conditions in
-the child for whom play is such sacred seriousness;
-but instead they transform the most sacred earnest
-into play.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Other women, on the contrary, are beginning
-to understand these conditions of growth and to
-comprehend that it was exactly the protected
-position of woman in the home, which has made it
-possible for her family feeling to acquire that depth
-which is to be attained only by concentration.
-But if this is no longer possible, then woman will
-love those that belong to her with less religious
-warmth. Nothing can better illustrate the difference
-still existing between man and woman in this
-respect, than the fact that most men would consider
-themselves unfortunate if their entire exercise
-of power were concentrated upon the family, while
-most women still feel themselves fortunate when
-they have been given the opportunity to exercise
-to the uttermost the tendency inherent in them.
-For most women love best <em>personally</em> and <em>in propinquity</em>,
-while the potency of love in man often seeks
-distant goals. Woman is happy in the degree to
-which she can bestow her love upon a person
-closely connected with her; if she cannot do that,
-then she may be useful, resigned, content, but
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_197'>197</span>never happy.<a id='r11' /><a href='#f11' class='c013'><sup>[11]</sup></a> The very fact that woman’s
-strongest <em>primitive instinct</em> coincided with her
-<em>greatest</em> cultural <em>office</em> has been an essential factor
-in the harmony of her being.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The modern developed mother feels with every
-breath a grateful joy in that she lives the most
-perfect life when she can contribute her developed
-human powers, her liberated human personality,
-to the establishment of a home and to the vocation
-of motherhood. These functions conceived and
-understood as social, in the embracing sense in
-which the word is now used, give the new mother
-a richer opportunity to exercise her entire personality
-than she could find in modern commercial
-work. In one such occupation she must suppress
-either the intellectual or the emotional side of her
-nature; in another, the life either of the imagination
-or of the will. In domestic duties, on the
-contrary, these powers of the soul can work in
-unison. This is undoubtedly the deepest reason
-why, taken as a whole, women have become more
-harmonious, and men stronger in any special
-crisis, women more soulful, men more gifted. On
-this account men offer their great sacrifice more
-readily for an idea, or for the accomplishment of
-a work; women, for persons closely connected
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_198'>198</span>with them. And yet this co-operation of woman’s
-spiritual powers was in earlier times partly repressed
-by man’s demand for passivity on the part
-of woman as a thinking and willing personality,
-but for her unceasing activity as promoter of his
-comfort and that of the entire home. The mother
-of to-day can, on the contrary, exercise, as distributer,
-her culture, her thought, her supervision,
-her judgment, and her criticism, in order to make
-fully effective the faculty of her sex for foresight
-and organisation. She applies a great amount of
-spiritual energy to the selection of the essentials
-and the subordination of secondary things, to the
-creation of such facilities in the material work
-that time and means are left for the spiritual
-values, which, alas, are still neglected in the
-domestic economy of small, private households,
-as well as in national housekeeping. And as
-mother, modern woman is offered the first fitting
-opportunity to assert herself as a thinking and
-willing personality.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The significance of the vocation of mother has
-been underrated in its significance even by
-moderate feminists. But these were right when
-they demonstrated that the “sanctity” of this
-office had become a mere phrase, so badly or
-amateurishly was this vocation fulfilled—an indictment
-in which Nietzsche and feminism for
-one rare moment are on common ground. Mothers
-needed the spur of this contempt; it was necessary
-that their feeling of responsibility, their universal
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_199'>199</span>human culture, their personal self-reliance, should
-be aroused by the woman movement. Only so
-could the new generation acquire the new type of
-women who for the present seek to qualify themselves
-by self-culture for the office of mother, in
-the expectation that for all women an obligatory
-education for motherhood will be realised. So
-long as this vocation <em>can</em> be practised without any
-training, nothing can be known of the possibilities
-whereby ordinary mothers may become good
-educators—unless they place the mother love and
-the intuitive understanding of the nature of the
-child that it affords above even the best outside
-teachers. Just as a glorious voice makes a country
-girl a “natural singer,” so nature has at all
-times made certain mothers—and not least the
-women of the people—natural educators of
-children.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The biography of nearly every great man shows
-the place the mother through her personality
-occupied in the life of her son, the atmosphere
-which she diffused about her in the home, her
-direct and indirect influence. But only the
-culture of their natural gifts with conscious purpose
-will make of mothers artists.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>When Nietzsche wrote: “<em>There will come a time
-when we shall have no other thought than education</em>,”
-and when he placed this education specifically in
-the hands of mothers, least of all did he mean
-those “arts of education,” from which amaternals
-believe they “guard” children by rejecting an
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_200'>200</span>“artistically creative” home training by the
-mother, as a violence to the peculiar characteristic
-of the child!</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The <em>new mother</em>, as the doctrine of evolution and
-the true woman movement have created her,
-stands with deep veneration before the mystic
-depths she calls her child, a being in whom the
-whole life of mankind is garnered. The richer
-the nature of the child is, the more zealously she
-endeavours to preserve for him that simplicity
-which he needs, and at the same time to provide
-for him the material that will enable him to work
-for himself. She insures to the child the pleasures
-adapted to his age, pleasures which at no later
-time can be enjoyed so intensely. The effect upon
-him of his playfellows and books, of nature, art,
-music, conversation, of the entire home <em>milieu</em>
-which the child receives, above all the influence
-of the personality and interests of the father and
-mother—all these the mother who is an artist in
-education observes in order to learn the natural
-proclivity of the child and then <em>directly to strengthen
-and encourage</em> it. At the same time she endeavours
-to find out what <em>restraints</em> are necessary <em>in order
-that the natural bent be not impeded in its growth by
-secondary qualities</em>. But the new type of mother
-does not seek to <em>eradicate</em>; she recognises the likeness
-between wheat and tares. The Christian
-education, which has thus far prevailed, has
-exercised a restraining oppression or has done
-violence to the “sinful nature,” which must be
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_201'>201</span>broken and bent; this education was dermatological,
-not psychological, in method.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The new mother is especially characterised by
-the fact that she has rejected this earlier method.
-She allows her child, within certain bounds, full
-freedom, and demands, beyond those bounds,
-unconditional obedience. She helps the child to
-find for himself ever nobler motives for repression.
-This she can do because from the very beginning
-she has taken care of him; year by year she has
-persevered in the effort to establish good habits;
-she has tried to enlist as aids, food, bath, bed,
-dress, air, and play in the effort to keep him strong,
-sound, sexually pure—conditions fundamental to
-the whole later conduct of life. Such a methodical
-physical care <em>can</em> be performed by the mother
-herself, while, on the other hand, in the first years
-of childhood paid hands might, through carelessness,
-stupidity, cruelty, laxity, or over-indulgence,
-destroy the glorious possibilities. If the prevention
-of <em>the possibilities of nature being warped or
-destroyed</em> constituted all that a mother could give,
-this one task would, nevertheless, be more important
-than any social relief work.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>What characterises the new mother is that she
-understands the enormous significance of the <em>first
-years</em>, when the indispensable “training” takes
-place, in which the future life of the child is
-determined by the methods employed—whether
-they be those of torture or of culture, irrational or
-rational. Then the great problem must be solved
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_202'>202</span>of establishing willing obedience from within in
-place of the hitherto <em>enforced</em> obedience from
-without; of maintaining self-control, won by self,
-in place of self-control <em>imposed</em> from without;
-of evoking voluntary renunciation in place of
-enforcing renunciation. For the capacity for
-obedience, for self-control, for renunciation, is
-one of the qualities fundamental to the whole
-later conduct of life. The new mother knows this
-as well as the mother of former times. But she
-endeavours to create this capacity by slow and
-sure means. The same thing obtains in regard to
-physical and psychical courage, which in the early
-years can often be so demoralised by fright that
-it can never emerge again. The training which
-hitherto was customary—based on <em>compelling</em> and
-<em>forbidding</em>—had its effect only upon the surface
-and <em>prevented</em> the child from experiencing <em>the
-results of his own choice</em>.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>It is this <em>indirect</em> education by results which is
-the new mother’s method. Her unceasing vigilance
-and consistency are required in order that
-the child shall actually bear the results of his
-actions. What she needs for this is first and foremost,
-<em>time, time</em>, and again <em>time</em>. Apparently
-good effects can be obtained much quicker by
-intervening, preventing, punishing, but thus are
-turned aside the <em>real</em> results. By this method the
-child is deprived of the <em>inner</em> growth, which only
-the fully experienced reality with its components
-of bitter and sweet can give; and this growth the
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_203'>203</span>new mother endeavours to advance. Much more
-time still is necessary to play the psychological
-game of chess, which consists in the checkmating
-of black by white; in other words, the conquest of
-negative characteristics by positive, through the
-child’s own activity—a task in which the child at
-first must be guided, just as in the assimilation of
-the elements of every other accomplishment, but
-in which he can later perfect himself. Modern investigation
-in the realm of the soul enables us to
-see the dangers which sometime will demand quite
-as new methods in spiritual hygiene as bacteriology
-has created in the hygiene of the body. But
-we still leave unexercised powers of the soul, still
-misunderstand spiritual laws which sometime will
-radically transform the means of education. At
-some future day the new mothers will institute
-legal protection for children to an extent incomprehensible
-to us and therefore provocative only of
-smiles. For example, legal prohibition of corporal
-punishment by parents as well as teachers; legal
-prohibition of child labour, of certain tenement
-conditions, certain “amusements,” certain improper
-uses of the press. For the present every
-individual educator must <em>set these laws over himself</em>;
-must sedulously create counter influences to
-cope with the destructive influences which great
-cities, especially, exert upon children.<a id='r12' /><a href='#f12' class='c013'><sup>[12]</sup></a> The new
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_204'>204</span>mothers lead children out into nature and endeavour
-to satisfy their zeal for activity by
-appropriate tasks as well as to encourage by suitable
-means their love of invention and their impulse
-for play. In the country children provide
-much for themselves. But what both city and
-country children need is a mother familiar with
-nature, who can answer the questions which the
-child is by his own observations prompted to ask;
-and the number of such mothers is continually
-increasing. Both city and country children need
-also a mother who can tell stories. Just as the
-settlement gardens most clearly demonstrate how
-sundered the working people of the great cities
-are from nature, so the “story evenings,” which
-are now established for children, show how far
-children have been permitted to stray from the
-mother, who formerly gathered them about her
-for the hour of story, play, and song. What,
-finally, children need is the mother’s delicate
-revelation of the sexual “mystery,” which often
-early exercises the thoughts of the child and in
-which he should be initiated quietly and gradually
-by the mother.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>All the educational influences here outlined
-emanate not only from the enlightened, exceptional
-mother; they are exercised by the average
-mother of to-day to better advantage than by the
-spiritually significant mother of fifty years ago.
-And they are <em>quite as essential</em>, in order that the
-highest possibility within the reach of each may
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_205'>205</span>be attained, in the education of the genius as in
-that of the ordinary child. Such influences in
-like degree strengthen the innate bent of the
-genius and raise the average, from generation to
-generation, to a level where man can live according
-to higher standards than those of the present
-time. The new mothers understand that for the
-utilisation of all these opportunities that make
-their appearance in the first seven years of the
-child’s life, their motherly tenderness, gentleness,
-and patience do not suffice; that they need in
-addition all the intelligence, imagination, fine
-feeling, scientific methods of observation, ethical
-and æsthetic culture and other spiritual acquisitions
-they possess, as direct and indirect fruits of
-the woman movement.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>When student and comrade life begin to claim
-the children, when the influence of the mother—that
-is of the new mother who has respect for the
-peculiar characteristic, the human worth, and the
-right of the child to live his own life—becomes
-more indirect, she nevertheless bears in mind that
-it is of the utmost importance that the son and
-the daughter should <em>find the mother</em>, when they
-return to the parental roof; that they should be
-able to breathe there an atmosphere of peace and
-warmth; that they should find the attentive eye,
-the listening ear, the helpful hand; that the mother
-should have the repose, the fine feeling, the observation
-requisite for following, without interfering
-with, the conflicts of youth; that she should not
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_206'>206</span>demand confidences but be always at hand to
-receive them; that she should show vital sympathy
-for the plans of work, the disappointments, the
-joys, of the young people; that she should always
-have time for caresses, tears, smiles, comfort, and
-care; that she should divine their moods, and
-anticipate their desires. By all these means the
-mother perpetuates in the soul of the child,
-unknown to him and to herself, her own personality.
-The talent which she has not redeemed by
-a productive work of her own, perhaps often for
-that very reason, benefits mankind in a son or a
-daughter, in whose soul the mother has implanted
-the social ideas, the dreams, the rebellion, which
-later become in them social deeds or works of art.
-Above all, in the restless, sensitive, life-deciding
-years when the boy is becoming a youth and the
-little girl a maiden, the mother needs quiet and
-leisure to be able to give the ineffably needy
-children “the hoarded, secret treasure of her
-heart,” as the beautiful saying of Dürer runs.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>When such a mother is found, and such mothers
-are already found, she is the most splendid fruit of
-the woman movement’s sowing upon the field of
-woman’s nature.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Because the new mother created for herself an
-open space about her own personality, she understands
-her son or her daughter when they in their
-turn push her aside in order to create that same
-open space about themselves. For in every generation
-the young renounce the ideals and the aims
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_207'>207</span>of their parents. The knowledge of this does not
-prevent the new mother, any more than it did the
-mother of earlier times, from feeling the pain
-incident to being set aside. But the former looks
-forward to a day when the son and daughter will
-freely choose her as a friend, having discovered
-what a significant pleasure the mother’s personality
-can afford them.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>As the bird’s nest is made of nothing but bits of
-straw and down, so the feeling of home is fashioned
-out of soft, simple things; out of little activities that
-are neither ponderable nor measurable as political
-or as economic factors. When Segantini painted
-the two nuns looking wistfully into the bird’s
-nest, he gave expression to the deepest pain that
-many modern women experience, the pain resulting
-from the consciousness that their life, notwithstanding
-its freedom, is lonely, because it has
-denied them the privilege of making a home and
-as a consequence has failed to afford them the
-joy of creation, which nature intended they should
-have, and of continuity of life in children to whom
-they gave birth.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Here we stand at a point where the woman
-movement parallels the other social revolutions,
-undeviatingly as the rails of a track, and leads to
-the same objective. Modern men and women, and
-especially women, have forfeited an opportunity for
-happiness in the loss of the feeling of homogeneity
-and security. Just as formerly the property-holding
-family felt a secure sense of proprietorship in
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_208'>208</span>the ancestral estate, so every member of the home
-group felt himself safe in the family. Now the
-children cannot depend with certainty upon the
-parents, nor the parents upon the children; the
-wife upon the husband, nor the husband upon the
-wife. Each in extremity relies only upon himself.
-The character of man is thus altered quite
-as much as trees are changed when they are left
-standing alone in the denuded forest of which
-they once formed a part. If they can withstand
-the storms, they have produced more “character”
-than they had when they stood close together, under
-a mutual protection that nevertheless enforced
-uniformity.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>From their earliest youth innumerable women
-must now care for themselves, as well as decide
-for themselves. Thus the feeling of independence
-of modern woman has increased through the sacrifice
-of her peace; her individual characteristics, at
-the expense of her harmony. Her feeling of loneliness
-is mitigated to a certain degree by the growing
-feeling of community with the whole. But this
-feeling cannot compensate certain natures for the
-forfeiture of the advantages which women of
-earlier times possessed, when they sat secure and
-protected within the four walls of the home,
-sucked the juice from family chronicles, guarded
-family traditions, maintained the old holiday
-customs, lived at the same time in the past and
-in the present.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The new woman lives in the present, sometimes
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_209'>209</span>even in the future—her land of romance! The
-enthusiasm of the old romanticism about a “hut
-and a heart” has little charm for her. For she
-knows reality and that prevents her from giving
-credence to the feminine illusion that twice
-two can be five. What she does know, on the
-contrary, is that out of fours she can gradually
-work out sixteen. While the women of former
-times could only save, the new woman can acquire.
-Woman’s beautiful, foolish superstition regarding
-life has vanished, but her eagerness to achieve can
-still remove mountains, her daring has still often
-the splendour of a dream. Intellectual values are
-for her no longer pastimes but necessities of life;
-with her culture has developed her feeling for
-truth and justice. This does not secure the new
-woman immunity at all times from new illusions
-and errors of feeling, nor does it prevent her
-developing passions whose value, to say the least,
-is questionable. But in and through her determination
-“to be some one,” to have a characteristic
-personality, she has acquired a love of life, in
-its diverse manifestations, both good and evil; a
-new capacity to enjoy her own and others’ individuality,
-as well as a new joy—sometimes an
-unblushing, insolent joy—in expressing her own
-being. In place of the earlier resignation toward
-society, the expression of rebellion is found even
-in the sparkling eye of the school-girl, with red
-cap upon her curly hair.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The young women of to-day, married or single,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_210'>210</span>mothers as well as those who are childless, are
-still more vigorous in soul, more courageous, more
-eager for life than are men. Because all that which
-for men has so long been a matter of course, is for
-women new, rich, enchanting, comprising, as it does,
-free life in nature, scientific studies, serious artistic
-work economic independence. Even in a fine and
-soulful woman there is found something of the
-inevitable hardness toward herself and others of
-which an observer is instinctively conscious when
-he speaks of some woman as one who “will go far”
-upon the course she has chosen. The modern
-young woman desires above all else the elevation
-of her own personality. She experiences the same
-feeling of joy a man is conscious of when she realises
-that her strength of will is augmented, her
-ability becoming more certain, her depth of
-thought greater, her association of ideas richer.
-She stands ready to choose <em>her</em> work and follow
-<em>her</em> fate; in sorrow as in joy she experiences the
-blessedness of growth, and she loves her view of
-life and the work to which she has dedicated
-herself, often as devotedly as man loves his.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>If we compare the seventeen-year-old girl of
-to-day with her progenitor living in the middle
-of the foregoing century, we find that the girl of
-earlier times was to a larger extent swayed by
-feeling, and that the modern girl is to a larger
-extent determined by ideas. The former was
-directed more to the centre of life, the latter remains
-often nearer the periphery; the former was warmer,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_211'>211</span>the latter is more intelligent; the former was
-better balanced, the latter is more interesting.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The restlessness, the uncertainty, the feeling of
-emptiness, the suffering, that is sometimes experienced
-by the young woman of to-day, is primarily
-traceable to the disintegration of religious belief,
-which gave to the older generation of emancipated
-women an inner stability, resignation, and self-discipline.
-Scientific study has deprived many
-modern women of their belief and those who can
-create a new one, suited to their needs, are still
-very few. Thus to the outer homelessness an
-inner estrangement is added. The woman movement
-has, it is true, contributed indirectly to this
-spiritual distress by making the road to man’s
-culture accessible to woman. For men also
-suffer in like manner, and suffer above all perhaps
-because our culture is unstable, aimless, and lacks
-style, owing to the very fact that it is at present
-without a religious centre. And even the future
-can give to mankind no such new centre as the
-Middle Ages had, for example, in Catholicism.
-The attainment of individualism has shut out
-that possibility forever.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But <em>one</em> factor in the religion of the past, the
-adoration of motherhood as divine mystery; <em>one</em>
-factor in the religion of the Middle Ages, the worship
-of the Madonna, has meanwhile been given
-back to the present by the doctrine of evolution,
-with that universal validity which the thought
-must possess which seeks to give again to culture
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_212'>212</span>a centre. Great, solitary individuals—prophets
-more often than sibyls—have proclaimed the
-religion of this generation. But the word will
-become flesh only when fathers and mothers instil
-into the blood and soul of children their devout
-hope for a higher humanity. When women are
-permeated by this hope, this new devout feeling,
-then they will recover the piety, the peace, and
-the harmony which for the present, and partly
-owing to feminism, have been lost.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The innumerable new relations which the
-woman movement has established between woman
-and the home, between woman and society, and
-all of the interchanges of new spiritual forces
-which have been put in operation because of these
-relations, cannot possibly take fixed form, at
-least not so long as the woman movement remains
-“a movement”; in other words, as long as everything
-is in a condition of flux, in a state of becoming,
-all spiritual relationships between individuals
-must change their form. Continual new, fine
-shades of feeling, not to be expressed in words,
-determine every woman’s soul and every woman’s
-fate. And even ancient feelings receive continually
-different nuances, different intonations. I am,
-therefore, laying down no laws but merely recapitulating
-certain suggestions based on what has
-previously been said in regard to the soul of the
-modern woman, as seen in that portion of the
-present generation whose age ranges between
-twenty and thirty years—that is to say, that
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_213'>213</span>part of the generation which is decisive for the
-immediate future.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Since co-education is becoming more and
-more general, each sex is beginning to have more
-esteem for the other, and woman, as well as man,
-is beginning to found self-respect upon work.
-When all women by culture and capacity for work
-have finally become strong-willed, self-supporting
-co-workers in society, then no woman will give
-or receive love for any extraneous benefit whatsoever.
-No outward tie and no outward gain
-through love—this is the ultimate aim of the new
-sex morale as the most highly developed modern
-young woman sees it.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The new woman is deeply convinced that the
-relation between the sexes attains its true beauty
-and sanctity only when every external privilege
-disappears on both sides, when man and woman
-stand wholly equal in what concerns their legal
-right and their personal freedom.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>She demands that the contrasts between legal
-and illegal, rich and poor, boy and girl, shall disappear,
-and that society shall show the same
-interest in the complete human development of
-all children. She knows that when both sexes
-awake to a feeling of responsibility toward the
-future generation, then the real concern of sexual
-morale becomes the endeavor to give the race an
-ever more perfect progeny. And in order to
-feel in its fulness this command, maidens as well
-as youths must henceforth demand scientific
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_214'>214</span>instruction in sexual duties toward themselves and
-their possible children.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The new woman is also deeply convinced that
-only when she feels happy—and happiness signifies
-the development of the powers inherent in the
-personality—can she properly fulfil her duties
-as daughter, wife, and mother. She can consciously
-sacrifice a part of her personality, for example
-forego the development of a talent, but she
-can never subjugate nor surrender her whole personality
-and at the same time remain a strong-willed
-member of the family or of society, in the
-broadest meaning of the word. She must assert
-her conception of life, her feeling of right, her
-ideals. And no social considerations for children,
-husband, or family life are, for her, above the consideration
-which, in this respect, she owes to her
-own personality. When conflicts arise, she seeks,
-wherever possible, a solution that will permit her
-to fulfil her duty without annihilating herself.
-But if this is not possible, then she feels that it is
-her first duty not to fall below her ideal, either
-physically or spiritually. For this would prevent
-her from fulfilling precisely those duties for which
-she has so sacrificed herself; duties which she can
-perhaps perform later under other conditions,
-provided she has saved herself from being extinguished
-by brutality or despotism.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But along with this individualism there exists
-in the new woman a feeling for the unity of existence,
-the unity in which all things are parts and
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_215'>215</span>in which nothing is lost. She does not, then,
-look upon husband and children as continually
-demanding sacrifice and upon herself as being
-always sacrificed; she sees herself and them, as in
-the antiquity of the race, always existing <em>by means
-of one another</em>. She is not consumed by her love,
-for she knows that under such circumstances
-she would deprive her loved ones of the wealth
-of her personality. But although she will not,
-like the women of earlier times, abandon her ego
-<em>absolutely</em>, she will not, on the other hand, like
-certain modern feminists, keep it <em>unreservedly</em>.
-She will preserve upon a higher plane the old
-division of labour which made man the one who
-felled the game, fought the battles, made conquests,
-achieved advancement through victories;
-and which made woman the one who rendered
-the new domains habitable, who utilised the booty
-for herself and hers, who transmitted what was
-won to the new generation—all that of which
-woman’s ancient tasks as guardian of the fire and
-cultivator of the fields are beautiful symbols.
-She feels that when each sex pursues its course for
-the happiness of the individual and of mankind,
-but at the same time and as an equal helps the
-other in the different tasks, then each is most
-capable, then society is most benefited.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The fact that there is still so much masculine
-brutality and despotism, and that there are so
-many legal means at man’s disposal whereby he
-may put into practice with impunity this brutality
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_216'>216</span>and despotism, is the reason why the new woman
-is still always a “feminist,” why she still maintains
-the fundamental tenets of the woman movement.
-But she is not a feminist in the sense that she
-turns <em>against</em> man. Her solution is always that
-of Mary Wollstonecraft: “We do not desire to
-rule over men but to rule over ourselves.” She
-often exhibits now in deliberation and in determination
-the characteristics which were formerly
-called “masculine”: practical knowledge, love of
-truth, courage of conviction; she desists more and
-more from unjust imputations and empty words;
-she proposes a greater number of well-considered
-suggestions for improvements. The woman movement
-has now in a word a more universally
-human, a less one-sidedly feminine character. It
-emphasises more and more the fact that the right
-of woman is a necessity in order that she may fulfil
-her duties in the small, individual family, and
-exercise her powers in the great, universal human
-family for the general good. The new woman
-does not wish to displace man nor to abolish
-society. She wishes to be able to exercise <em>everywhere</em>
-her most beautiful prerogative to help, to
-support, to comfort. But this she cannot do so
-long as she is not free as a citizen and has not
-fully developed as a human personality. She
-knows that this is the condition not only of her
-own happiness, but also, in quite as high a degree,
-of the happiness of man. For every man who
-works, struggles, and suffers there is a mother, a
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_217'>217</span>wife, a sister, a daughter, who suffers with him.
-For every woman who in her way works and struggles,
-there is a father, a husband, a brother, or a
-son for whom her contribution directly or indirectly
-has significance. Above all, the modern woman
-understands that in every marriage wherein a
-wife still suffers under man’s misuse of his legal
-authority, it is in the last analysis <em>the man who
-sustains the greatest injury</em>, for under present
-conditions he needs exercise neither kindness nor
-justice nor intelligence to be ruler in the family.
-These humane characteristics he must, therefore,
-begin to develop when the wife is legally his equal.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The sacred conviction of the new woman is
-that man and woman <em>rise together</em>, just as they
-<em>sink together</em>.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The antique sepulchres, on which man and wife
-stand hand in hand before the eternal farewell,
-could quite as well be the symbol of the entrance
-of modern man and modern woman into the new
-life, where they work together in order that the
-highest ideals of both—the ideals of justice and of
-human kindness—may assume form in reality.
-The motherly qualities of women are applied
-for the good of children as well as of the weak and
-the suffering. The arrival of the day when woman
-shall be given opportunity to exercise social
-motherliness in its full and popularly representative
-extent, can be only a question of time. In a
-century they will smile at our time, in which it
-was still the practice to debate about such obvious
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_218'>218</span>matters. And those who to-day ridicule the
-woman movement will be ridiculed most of all.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>Then we shall attain such an outlook on the great
-forces of the time,—the emancipation movements
-of labouring men and of women,—that we shall
-see how necessary both were in order that society
-should come to understand that not the mass of
-material production, but the higher cultivation of
-the race is the social-political end, and that for
-this end the <em>service of mother</em> must receive the
-honour and oblation that the state now gives to
-<em>military service</em>.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>And women themselves, whom nature has
-made creators and protectors of the tender life—the
-task for which nature even in the plant
-world has made such wonderful provision—will
-no longer resist being more intimately associated
-with nature, nearer to earth, more like plants,
-more restrained in outer sense and therefore, in
-inner respects, less active than man, who always
-had more of the freedom of movement of the forest
-animal. The woman of the future will not, as do
-many women of the present time, <em>wish to be freed
-from her sex</em>; but she will be freed from sexual
-hypertrophy, freed to <em>complete humanity</em>. For
-the universal, human characteristics, forced to
-<em>remain latent</em> in the primitive division of labour,
-because the father was obliged to exert all his
-strength in one direction and the mother in another,
-can now, through the facilities for culture in the
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_219'>219</span>struggle for existence, be developed on both sides:
-woman can develop the latent quality which
-became active in man as “manliness”; man can
-develop the latent quality which became active
-in woman as “womanliness.” But the <em>proportional
-ratio</em> of these characteristics, which development
-has already strengthened, will <em>on the whole</em>
-remain fixed—the proportional ratio which, in
-the progress of evolution, gave to woman the
-ascendency in regard to inward creative powers,
-and to man the ascendency in regard to outward
-creative powers—a proportional ratio which for
-the present has made woman more gifted in the
-sphere of feeling, man more potent in the sphere
-of ideas; which has made her the listener and
-yearner in the sphere of the spiritual life, and him
-the pioneer investigator and founder of systems,
-that has given her more of the Christian, and him
-more of the pagan virtues. The improvement of
-the universal, human characteristics of both sexes
-elevates also the plane upon which they exercise
-their especial functions, valuable alike for culture.
-With increasing frequency the one sex may, when
-so desired, assume the culture function of the
-other.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>A perfect fusion of the two spiritual sex-characters
-would, on the contrary, have the same
-result as physical hermaphroditism—sterility.
-Genius—and in using the term we limit its meaning
-to poetic genius, for real feminine genius has
-thus far appeared only in that domain—embraces,
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_220'>220</span>as emphasised above, both man and woman, but
-not harmoniously blended. For such a genius
-would be unproductive, as we imagine those
-celestial forms to be which are neither “man
-nor woman.” The masculine and the feminine
-characteristics, which exist side by side in the
-poet soul, produce work in co-operation. Alternately,
-however, they seek to usurp the entire
-power, whereby is occasioned the disharmony
-which enters into the life of those who endeavour
-to fulfil at one and the same time the universal,
-human duties as well as those of sex. Indeed it
-may be that one of the reasons why great poetic
-geniuses, masculine as well as feminine, have often
-had no progeny at all, and in other cases one of
-little significance, is that their nature was not
-capable of a double production, that poetic
-creation received the richest part of their physical
-and psychical power.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Whether the opinion of genius expressed here
-is correct or not, does not, however, affect the
-general situation. For the genius will always go
-his own way, which is never that of the average
-man. From the point of view of the ordinary
-individual an effacement of the spiritual sex character
-would be in still higher degree a misfortune
-for culture and nature. For it is the
-difference in the spiritual as well as in the physical
-sex-characteristics that makes love a fusion of two
-beings in a higher unity, where each finds the full
-deliverance and harmony of his being. With the
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_221'>221</span>elimination of the <em>spiritual</em> difference <em>psychical</em>
-love would vanish. There would be left, then,
-upon the one side, only the mating instinct, in
-which the same points of view as in animal breeding
-must obtain; on the other, only the same kind
-of sympathy which is expressed in the friendship
-between persons of the same sex, the sympathy
-in which the human, individual difference instead
-of sexual difference forms the attraction. In love,
-on the other hand, sympathy grows in intensity,
-the more universally human and at the same time
-sexually attractive the individual is: the “manly”
-in man is charmed by the “womanly” in woman,
-while the “womanly” in man is likewise captivated
-by the “manly” in woman, and <em>vice versa</em>. But
-when neither needs the <em>spiritual sex</em> of the other
-as his complement, then man, in erotic respects,
-returns to the antique conception of the sex
-relationship, of which Plato has drawn the final
-logical conclusion.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The “humanity” in the soul of man was strengthened
-when he felt himself necessary to mother
-and child. When woman by sweetness and
-tenderness taught man to love, not only to
-desire, then his humanity increased immeasurably.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In our time the average man is beginning to
-learn that woman does not desire him as man,
-that she looks down upon him as a lower kind of
-being, that she does not need him as supporter.
-He does not at all grasp what it is the woman of
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_222'>222</span>highest culture seeks, demands, and awaits from
-his sex. But he learns that even the mediocre
-woman rejects the best he has to give her erotically;
-that imbued as she is with ideals of “universal
-humanity,” she no longer needs him as the supplement
-to her sexual being. Then brutality awakes
-in him anew; then his erotic life loses what humanity
-it had won; then he begins to hate woman. And
-not with the imaginative, theoretical hatred of
-thinkers and poets; but with the blind rage which
-the contempt of the weaker for the stronger
-arouses in him. And here we encounter what
-is, perhaps, the deepest reason for the present
-war between the sexes, appearing already in
-the literary world as well as in the labour
-market.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Here the extreme feminists play unconsciously
-about an abyss,—the depths in the nature of man
-out of which the elementary, hundred-thousand-year-old
-impulses arise, the impulses which all
-cultural acquisitions and influences cannot eradicate,
-so long as the human race continues
-to subsist and multiply under present conditions.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The feminism which has driven individualism to
-the point where the individual asserts her personality
-in opposition to, instead of within, the
-race; the individualism which becomes self-concentration,
-anti-social egoism, although the
-watchword inscribed upon its banner is “Society
-instead of the family,”—this feminism will bear
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_223'>223</span>the blame should the hatred referred to lead to
-war.</p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<p class='c005'>It would be a pity to conclude a survey of
-the influence of the woman movement with an
-expression of fear lest this extreme feminism
-should be victorious. I believe not; no more than
-I believe that the sun will for the present be
-extinguished or streams flow back to their sources.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>No “culture” can annul the great fundamental
-laws of nature; it can only ennoble them; and
-motherhood is one of these fundamental laws.
-I hope that the future will furnish a new and a
-more secure protection for motherhood than the
-present family and social organisation affords.
-I place my trust in a new society, with a new
-morality, which will be a synthesis of the being of
-man and that of woman, of the demands of the
-individual and those of society, of the pagan and
-Christian conceptions of life, of the will of the
-future and reverence for the past.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>When the earth blooms with this beautiful and
-vigorous flower of morality, there will no longer
-be a woman movement. But there will always
-be a woman question, not put by women to society
-but by society to women: the question whether
-they will continue in a higher degree to prove
-themselves worthy of the great privilege of being
-the mothers of the new generation.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In the degree in which this new ethics permeates
-mankind, women will answer this question in
-<span class='pageno' id='Page_224'>224</span>life-affirmation. And the result of their life-affirmation
-will be an enormous enhancement of
-life, not only for women themselves but for all
-mankind.</p>
-
-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
-<div class='nf-center c002'>
- <div>THE END</div>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-<hr class='c014' />
-<div class='footnote' id='f1'>
-<p class='c005'><a href='#r1'>1</a>. In the summer of 1909 I sat in a Swedish home where the
-grandmother, for this reason, had never learned to write but
-where the granddaughter read aloud the thesis for her bachelor’s
-examination. One hears even to-day of customs and points of
-view in certain farms and manses which faithfully imitate those
-of the time of the Reformation.</p>
-</div>
-<div class='footnote' id='f2'>
-<p class='c005'><a href='#r2'>2</a>. Next to the textile industry, the tobacco industry employs
-the most women.</p>
-</div>
-<div class='footnote' id='f3'>
-<p class='c005'><a href='#r3'>3</a>. This idealism has naturally part also in the fact that, for
-example, two-thirds of the women who have gone through college
-in America do not marry, and find in club life a compensation
-for domestic life. But other motives also must often play a part
-here, from the desire to devote herself entirely to one of the lifeworks
-serviceable to mankind, to the egoism of spiritually barren
-young girls with its distaste for burdens and restraint.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>A keen-sighted observer who recently spent a half year in
-North America corroborated what many have already stated:
-that the student and working young American girls devote
-themselves with true passion to the cultivation of their beauty,
-their toilette, their flirtations. All this belongs for her to the
-“Fine Arts” and as such is an end sufficient in itself, while for
-European women these arts, as a rule, are still means for alluring
-men to marriage. While study or work often makes European
-women in outer sense less “womanly,” although her soul always
-guards its full power to love, in America the reverse is the case:
-the outer appearance is bewitchingly womanly, but the soul no
-longer vibrates for love. The sexual sterility which Maudsley
-already prophesied thirty years ago, when he spoke about the
-“sexless ants,” has been partly realised, partly chosen voluntarily.
-In Europe it still frequently happens that a young woman who
-has put love aside for the sake of study or work is suddenly seized
-by an irresistible passion; in America, on the contrary, this
-is extremely rare. Women students look down upon the less
-cultured men, who ordinarily finish their studies earlier in order
-to earn a livelihood. The sympathy which they need, women
-find more easily in their own sex. The unmarried have quite
-the same social position as the married and do not desire children.
-If they finally marry, it is ordinarily because a more brilliant
-position is offered them than the one which they could create
-themselves, and the man is then considered and treated as a
-money-getter.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>My authority emphasises also that the young students or
-working girls are ordinarily less original, of less personal significance,
-less individually developed, than the older women, especially
-women’s rights women, who often have not studied but
-have grown grey in marriage and motherhood, in self-development
-and in social work. The interesting significant American
-feminists were women between the ages of fifty and ninety; the
-woman of the present generation, however, which now enjoys the
-fruits of the work of the older generation, is, in spite of excellent
-scholarship and great working proficiency, less a woman and
-less a human being, less a personality.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>These wholly fresh observations, which were communicated
-to me during the printing of my book, seem to me to confirm
-so strongly my point of view that I wish to repeat them here.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>But in France and elsewhere mothers tell us how clear, intelligent,
-and universally interested their daughters are, and at the
-same time how critical, how free from ardour and enthusiasm.
-It is not the hasty love marriage that many mothers now fear for
-their daughters, but a worldly-wise marriage without love.</p>
-</div>
-<div class='footnote' id='f4'>
-<p class='c005'><a href='#r4'>4</a>. See <cite>Love and Ethics</cite>, Ralph Fletcher Seymour, Chicago, and
-also <cite><span lang="de" xml:lang="de">Mutter und Kind</span></cite>, published in Germany only, Pan-Verlag.
-My plan is a paternity assessment upon society as a contribution
-to the maintenance of children and a compensation of motherhood
-by the state.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>Society has already shown by a series of institutions, maternity
-assurance, infants’ milk distribution, clothing and feeding
-of children, and many kindred social efforts, that the maintenance
-afforded by the father is not sufficient for the young generation;
-quite as little is the mother’s care, which is supplemented
-by other means, crèches, etc. But when the <em>child</em> finally becomes
-the unconscious “head of the family,” then it will be the affair of
-society to requite maternity. Marriage will then signify only
-the living together of two people upon the ground of love and
-the common parenthood of children. <em>Maternal right</em> will <em>in law</em>
-take the place of <em>paternal right</em>, but <em>in reality</em> the father will continue
-to retain all the influence upon the children which he <em>personally</em>
-is able to exert, just as has been hitherto the case with
-the mother.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>In such circumstances there will be no more illegitimate children;
-no mothers driven out from the care of tender children to
-earn their daily bread; no fathers who avoid their economic duties
-toward their children, and who cannot be compelled by society
-to perform at least that paternal duty which animals perform
-now better than men: that of contributing their part to the maintenance
-of their progeny. There will be no mothers who for
-the sake of their own and their children’s maintenance need to
-stay with a brutal man; no mothers who, in case of a separation,
-can be deprived of their children on any ground except that of
-their own unworthiness. In a word, society must—upon a higher
-plane—restore the arrangement which is already found in the
-lower stages of civilisation, the arrangement which nature herself
-created: that mother and child are most closely bound together,
-that they together, above all, form the family, in which the
-father enters through the mother’s or his own free will.</p>
-</div>
-<div class='footnote' id='f5'>
-<p class='c005'><a href='#r5'>5</a>. An inquiry instituted among English women as to whether
-they would prefer to be men or women gave as a result the fact
-that, out of about 7000 who answered, two-thirds wished to
-remain women and this above all in order to be mothers, while a
-third wished to be men. This indicated probably the highest
-figure of the disinclination for maternity which such a <em>European</em>
-inquiry could elicit. But even these women who wish to marry
-and to become mothers feel the pressure of the idea created by
-the zealots of the woman movement which finds expression often
-in the following conversation between two former schoolmates
-about a third: “And A—— what is she doing now?”—“Nothing—she
-is married and has children.”</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The old folk legend about the girl who trampled on the bread
-she was carrying to her mother because she wished to go dry-shod,
-can serve as symbol of many modern women zealots: life’s great,
-sound values are offered for the meal; vanity sits down alone to
-partake of them.</p>
-</div>
-<div class='footnote' id='f6'>
-<p class='c005'><a href='#r6'>6</a>. Bret Harte, <cite>The Luck of Roaring Camp</cite>.</p>
-</div>
-<div class='footnote' id='f7'>
-<p class='c005'><a href='#r7'>7</a>. E. Carrière and Segantini.</p>
-</div>
-<div class='footnote' id='f8'>
-<p class='c005'><a href='#r8'>8</a>. Max Kruse, <cite><span lang="de" xml:lang="de">Liebesgruppe</span></cite>.</p>
-</div>
-<div class='footnote' id='f9'>
-<p class='c005'><a href='#r9'>9</a>. This amaternal idea is advanced with great ability in some
-works of Charlotte Perkins Stetson and Rosa Mayreder. The
-word amaternal coined by me is used to characterise the theory
-subsequently advanced, because the word unmaternal (unmotherly)
-signifies a <em>spiritual condition</em>, the antithesis to “motherliness.”
-The maternal as opposed to the amaternal theory is
-this: that a woman’s life is lived most intensively and most
-extensively, most individually and most socially; she is for her
-own part most free, and for others most fruitful, most egoistic
-and most altruistic, most receptive and most generous, in and
-with the <em>physical and psychic exercise of the function of maternity,
-because of the conscious desire, by means of this function, to uplift
-the life of the race as well as her own life</em>.</p>
-</div>
-<div class='footnote' id='f10'>
-<p class='c005'><a href='#r10'>10</a>. It can even be shown that, if man invades the so-called
-woman’s spheres (for example the art of cooking or of dress-making),
-it is most frequently he who makes new discoveries and
-attains great success!</p>
-</div>
-<div class='footnote' id='f11'>
-<p class='c005'><a href='#r11'>11</a>. The best proof of this is that many women who, in a life free
-from care in an outward sense, were comparable only to geese or
-peacocks, nevertheless, when hard times came and gave them
-opportunity to develop their power of love, not only proved themselves
-heroines, but asserted that their “happy” years were
-those in which they had so “sacrificed” themselves.</p>
-</div>
-<div class='footnote' id='f12'>
-<p class='c005'><a href='#r12'>12</a>. How many children have had their idea of right debased by
-the manner in which the “Captain of Köpernick” was received
-at his liberation—to cite only one example.</p>
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-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
-<div class='nf-center c001'>
- <div><span class='xlarge'><em>By Ellen Key</em></span></div>
- </div>
-</div>
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-</div>
-
-<div class='section ph3'>
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-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
-<div class='nf-center c002'>
- <div><span class='large'>The Century of the Child</span></div>
- <div class='c004'><em>Cr. 8vo. With Frontispiece. Net, $1.50. By mail, $1.65</em></div>
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-<p class='c005'><span class='sc'>Contents</span>: The Right of the Child to Choose His Parents,
-The Unborn Race and Woman’s Work, Education,
-Homelessness, Soul Murder in the Schools, The School of
-the Future, Religious Instruction, Child Labor and the
-Crimes of Children. This book has gone through more than
-twenty German Editions and has been published in several
-European countries.</p>
-
-<blockquote>
-<p class='c005'>“A powerful book.”—<cite>N. Y. Times.</cite></p>
-</blockquote>
-
-<div class='section ph3'>
-
-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
-<div class='nf-center c002'>
- <div>The Education of the Child</div>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-</div>
-
-<p class='c005'>Reprinted from the Authorized American Edition of
-“The Century of the Child.” With Introductory Note by
-<span class='sc'>Edward Bok</span>.</p>
-
-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
- <div class='nf-center'>
- <div><em>Cr. 8vo. Net, 75 cents. By mail, 85 cents</em></div>
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-<p class='c005'>“Nothing finer on the wise education of the child has
-ever been brought into print. To me this chapter is a perfect
-classic; it points the way straight for every parent, and it
-should find a place in every home in America where there
-is a child.”—<span class='sc'>Edward Bok</span>, Editor of the <cite>Ladies’ Home
-Journal</cite>.</p>
-
-<div class='section ph3'>
-
-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
-<div class='nf-center c002'>
- <div>Love and Marriage</div>
- </div>
-</div>
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- <div class='nf-center'>
- <div><em>Cr. 8vo. Net, $1.50. By mail, $1.65</em></div>
- </div>
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-
-<p class='c005'>Ellen Key is gradually taking a hold upon the reading
-public of this country commensurate with the enlightenment of
-her views. In Europe and particularly in her own native
-Sweden her name holds an honored place as a representative
-of progressive thought.</p>
-<hr class='c008' />
-<div class='section ph2'>
-
-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
-<div class='nf-center c001'>
- <div>Ellen Key</div>
- <div>Her Life and Her Work</div>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-</div>
-
-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
-<div class='nf-center c002'>
- <div>A Critical Study</div>
- <div class='c004'><span class='large'>By Louise Nystrom Hamilton</span></div>
- <div class='c004'>Translated by Anna E. B. Fries</div>
- <div class='c004'>12º. <em>With Portrait</em></div>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-<p class='c007'>The name of Ellen Key has for years been
-a target for attacks of various kinds. Friends
-have in connection with the issues that have
-arisen in regard to the influence of her work
-become enemies and friction has been caused
-in many homes. Her ideals and her purposes
-have been misquoted and misinterpreted until
-the very convictions for which she stood have
-been twisted so as to appear to be the evils that
-she was attempting to combat. Her critics, not
-content with decrying and distorting the message
-that she had to give to the world, have
-even attacked her personal character; and as
-the majority of these had no direct knowledge
-in the matter, strange rumors and fancies have
-been spread abroad about her life. The
-readers of her books, who are now to be
-counted throughout the world by the hundreds
-of thousands, who desire to know the truth
-about this much discussed Swedish author,
-will be interested in this critical study by
-Louise Hamilton. The author is one who has
-been intimate with Ellen Key since her youth.
-She is herself the wife of the founder of the
-People’s Hospital in Stockholm, where for over
-twenty years Ellen Key taught and lectured.</p>
-
-<p class='c005'>The volume gives an admirable survey of
-the purpose and character of Ellen Key’s
-teachings and of her books.</p>
-<div class='pbb'>
- <hr class='pb c004' />
-</div>
-<p class='c015'>“Packed with information about actual
-present-day business conditions and methods.”—<span class='sc'>Review
-of Reviews.</span></p>
-<hr class='c008' />
-<div class='section ph2'>
-
-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
-<div class='nf-center c001'>
- <div>The American Business Woman</div>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-</div>
-
-<p class='c016'>A Guide for the Investment, Preservation
-and Accumulation of Property,
-Containing Full Explanations and Illustrations
-of all Necessary Methods
-of Business</p>
-
-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
- <div class='nf-center'>
- <div>By</div>
- <div><span class='large'>John Howard Cromwell, Ph.B., LL.B.</span></div>
- <div>Counsellor-at-Law</div>
- <div class='c004'><em>Second Revised Edition. Octavo. 392 pages.</em></div>
- <div><em>$2.00 net. By mail, $2.20</em></div>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-<p class='c005'>“Mr. Cromwell’s book is without doubt one of the
-valuable publications of the year&nbsp;... thoroughly
-well written and carefully thought out.... Fascinating
-as is the subject of mortgages, it is necessarily but
-one phase of the book.... The book, as before
-stated, is extremely valuable, and will be found a good
-investment, not only for women for whom it was primarily
-intended, but for many men.”—<cite>New York Times.</cite></p>
-<div class='pbb'>
- <hr class='pb c004' />
-</div>
-<p class='c015'>“The most complete and compact study that
-Has yet been made of the evolution of women’s
-rights.”—<cite>N. Y. Evening Globe.</cite></p>
-
-<hr class='c008' />
-
-<div class='section ph2'>
-
-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
-<div class='nf-center c001'>
- <div>A Short History of Women’s Rights</div>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-</div>
-
-<div class='section ph3'>
-
-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
-<div class='nf-center c002'>
- <div>From the days of Augustus to the Present Time</div>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-</div>
-
-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
- <div class='nf-center'>
- <div>With Special Reference to England and the United States</div>
- <div class='c004'><span class='large'>By Eugene A. Hecker</span></div>
- <div class='c004'>Master in the Roxbury Latin School, Author of “The Teaching of Latin in Secondary Schools”</div>
- <div class='c004'><em>Crown 8vo. $1.50 net. (By mail, $1.65)</em></div>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-<p class='c005'>Mr. Hecker, an authoritative scholar, has set himself
-the task of telling the story of women’s progress, and
-has done it with much painstaking and thoroughness,
-and with a manifestation of a high order of talent for
-discriminating as to materials and presenting them
-convincingly and interestingly.... One feels the
-studiousness of the author in every page. The matter
-presented is not only carefully arranged, but it is in a
-manner digested too; and thus the work becomes
-literature in a true sense, and not an unenlightened
-assembly of details and facts from the pages of the past.</p>
-
-<div class='lg-container-r'>
- <div class='linegroup'>
- <div class='group'>
- <div class='line'><cite>St. Louis Times.</cite></div>
- </div>
- </div>
-</div>
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-<div class='nf-center-c0'>
- <div class='nf-center'>
- <div>G. P. Putnam’s Sons</div>
- <div>New York &#8196; &#8196; &#8196; London</div>
- </div>
-</div>
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- <hr class='pb c004' />
-</div>
-<div class='tnotes'>
-
-<div class='chapter'>
- <h2 class='c006'>TRANSCRIBER’S NOTES</h2>
-</div>
- <ol class='ol_1 c002'>
- <li>P. <a href='#r8'>175</a>, added an anchor for the third footnote.
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- </li>
- <li>Silently corrected typographical errors and variations in spelling.
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- <li>Anachronistic, non-standard, and uncertain spellings retained as printed.
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- <li>Footnotes have been re-indexed using numbers and collected together at the end of the
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